What is true love? | Buddhism in English

What is true love? | Buddhism in English #lifeanddharma #motivation #buddhism
our great teacher Supreme
but they gave a wonderful explanation for the love
Supreme Buddha said
as a mother who loves her only child
you should spread that same love to the
to every person in this world
so when we talk about mother's love parents
they does not expect anything from us instead
they love them love us now when we were small right
we were doing so many terrible things to our parents
right have you seen that
the the babies do so many terrible things to the
their parents right
they drag from their hair they pinch them
they cry they yell
but yet the parents still love their children
so when someone is truly loving someone
it's like it's they're
they're holding them firmly
and they're nurturing them
right
but if you are attached to a person
you always expect the things from others
right
you always expect the things that fulfill your desires
right when someone is attached
and when someone is being lustful for someone
that means he's always expecting
to fulfill every fulfillment and desire
from that person
you're not trying to give something always
you're trying to get something from that person
right it's like you're holding onto something tightly
right suppose you are drawing a cow or a bull
you're holding that cow or a bull from a rope
so when that animal tries to escape
what you're doing is you're holding it tightly right
the more you hold it tightly
you are the one who is getting hurt
right you are the one who is getting hurt
if you can let go what will happen
you're not getting hurt anymore
so when you are being attached to a person
you will always get hurt
and you will never fulfill your desires
because desires and sensual desires
they never get fulfilled there
we cannot make ourselves satisfied from those things
okay so that is what do you call the attachment
in attachment you hold on to uh things tightly
there's a great quote that describes about love
if you like a flower
right if you like a flower you will pluck that flower
but if you love a flower
you will water the plant that flower flower plant
so if you love someone what you have to do
you have to say that I need you to be happy with me
right I always wish the happiness of your life
if that happiness in includes me that is better
but if it is not in that case
also I need you to be happy
that is how you love truly
and that is the difference between the true love
and attachment right
in true love you don't expect anything from the person
but still you try to give the happiness to them
in attachment you always expect the things from people
and still you will never be satisfied from them
so choose to love the people correctly
if you choose to love people correctly
then you will be a peaceful person throughout your life
Namo Buddhaya!

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Another excellent video

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Nammobudyha ❤️😊🙏

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I start to understand about the true love now. What i have so far is just the attachment.

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That ´s why even Osho spoke that Buddhism was ahead of its time. We are speaking about free people, that recognize "I can never be yours" and "you can never be mine". Consequently, a new brotherhood can be implemented. Of course media, nations, family, religions depend heavily on attachment, they came from the past, and when you spoke about love, it is eternal, it is born now. Thanks for the video, excellent !

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I really appreciate your thoughtful comment! It's wonderful to see how deeply you've engaged with the concepts in the video. Thank you for being a part of this discussion!

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Really inspiring... Motivating... Thinking... Loving.... Words.... Thank you.... May God bless you..... ❤❤❤

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WHAT A BEAUTIFUL TOPIC!!!ALL YOU SAY IS💯%RIGHT AND ACCURATE..YOUR WORDS ARE ADORABLE❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

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