Ted Lasso brought me here since the song just sounded so good. I had no idea it was The Lumineers. I've kinda lost track of them but glad to know they are still making great songs.
I wonder if we’ll find out that this song is an allusion to Roy’s origins/damage - alcoholic beating abusive father who caused Roy’s mother to flee early in his life
You know. This song reminds me of the fallout I had with my mother. I havent spoken to her in about 7 years for reasons not associated with the mom drinking to much like the song. But...i do feel the pain that the lumineers display in the song because i went through that hurt. When he says f*** you for what you done to me, thats how I still feel sometimes towards my mother. Its sad that we do not have a relationship but its neccessary because she would have broken me more than what she has already done. I just thank the Lumineers for showing the raw emotions in this song that is so relatable.
Literally my story. Everything even with the mother and all of that, with the drinking and stuff I don't want to mention, all of it. It's a lot, but this song is like gold for me.
my mom ruined my life, and my dads with her alcoholism. it fucked my entire childhood up, me and my dad are living in a hotel saving for a place, its a grim fucked up world. this album has rly been cathartic for me, i love it so much. it really is a monster- addiction. :(
The world isn't fucked up, right now you might be dealing with lots of hardships but soon enough after it's all over you will be able to see how beautiful the world is, i hope you're doing better this year.
@@raiden6583 we got a place january 2021, my dad relapsed on heroin since we’ve been here but i have gotten my GED - I’m working on college and I have been working a job at Starbucks. I’m trying my best I just want to make everyone’s life better.
We all know someone who was toxic to us! If we are the toxic, then we just have to learn to know ourselves and move on from that part of ourselves. Sit down, have a talk, learn to understand who you are. Make a budget, let your money represent you, don't buy random things. Represent your self in everything you consume and give
One of the hardest songs for me to listen to. I grew up with an alcoholic mother who abused me through most of my early childhood. Then hearing these lyrics.... it hits close to home. Great song. I just cant finish listening.
This song has been getting me through what i feel has been the most challenging part of my life, and it’s only because it’s opened my eyes to the wrongs I’ve committed against the ones i loved, helped me accept ownership over my actions that i chose to blind myself too
So the album that this is from is broken up into sections focusing on different generations of a family, where each character blames the previous one for their addiction. In this song, the character Gloria is blamed as the “Leader of the Landslide”.
My mom was an addict my entire life,she even got me addicted at an early age. We were drug buddies. I left home cause of the issues with addiction and she passed unexpectedly to an overdose...she was always in bad health and I used to stay awake at night wondering how we were goin to take care of her. When she died there was a pretty big piece of me that was relieved, never thought I'd find a song that expressed that as beautiful as they have here.....the worlds a hard place and sometimes we feel things we think we shouldn't and that's okay, your okay.
My gf told me to listen to this song cause she knew I would understand more to an she does. And I broke into tears hearing this. Because this is my life. It’s what I’ve been through. All those years all the fighting I heard. It’s cause she was drunk. And I never forgot she dragged me with her. She always brought me pain. I was so young. Way too young. And now I’m going through so much trauma and stuff because of it. I’m depressed and it started with her. It’s so sad because Idk if I even love her anymore or…if I even want to see her. Cause every time she leaves home and makes my step dad watch us. I always wonder if she’s dead other there. But she comes back fine. And it’s scary when she comes back
My mum has been a drug addict for at least 20 years.. Haven't spoken with her for 2 years now after so much pain. This song really speaks with my story. Thank you for that
i feel like i can understand this song personally. i live through this sorta thing yknow? my mom is always drunk (everyday, every night) and sometimes i just can’t take it. i know that may be her way of coping and i mean no disrespect towards her and i love her to the moon and back. and yes, my dad is always there thank goodness. but still it’s difficult and i’ve learned to just be quiet around her when she is drunk. my younger brother (12, i’m 15 almost) on the other hand didn’t yet. any time he gets yelled at it breaks my heart. he’s a sensitive kid and when the situation occurs i’ll have to watch him get yelled at, or i can decide to defend him. either way the house is loud. she forgets things too when she’s drunk. she’ll tend to repeat herself over and over and over again (drank the whole bottle and forgot my name) it’s hard to have people like friends (mine or hers) over at the house. she gets defensive about everything and she scares me too when she yells. we spend a lot of money on wine and i genuinely believe that some day the alcohol situation will get worse. (all i ever wanted was a mother for the first time). any time anyone answers her or responds to her she’ll take it as attitude and yell (don’t answer when she calls). just nod your head and smile. nobody’s going to read this probably but if you did, all my respect goes to you. if you have any advice please tell me as well.
Hey Aliye K, I hear you. Alcoholism is a sad & horrible thing. That you are aware of it, can name it and open up about it is such a helpful thing to be able to do. Do you know about Alateen? It's a 12 step group to support teenagers who are connected, related to an alcoholic. There may be online meetings. I attend ACA (Adult children of Alcoholic & Dysfunctional parents) and previously Alanon as I grew up with my mum's drinking (even just saying 'mum' is so difficult for me, she hasn't been a mum to me for years.) I have detached from her, putting in my boundaries to not have her in my life at the moment while I focus on myself and my own young son. I wish you peace, strength & wellness for your journey ahead. It is not an easy path but keep going and you will find the peace and love that was not given to you by your biological parents. In Fellowship, Melissa
melissa whiteley ive never heard of it, but i’ll be sure to check it out. i’m glad to hear that you’ve been involved with the program and have set boundaries and become more educated on the subject of alcoholism. thank you so much for letting me know about the program and sharing your story, and have a wonderful night (or day). and i know i don’t know you but if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to reply to this comment when needed.
Aliye K hey, you sound like a really mature and responsible kid. I'm 19 and I'm struggling with my girlfriend who is an alcoholic. I can't imagine what it's like having a mother that's an alcoholic, it must be really hard for you. Just remember, you didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it. It's such a tough position to be in but I believe you and your brother can push through. You can reply to this comment if times get tough. You got it! :)
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I know it must be tough you have to grow up faster and it shows in your comment youre really mature I wish I could relate to you and understand what you're going through but I just want to wish you the best of luck and I hope you'll stay safe. Keep staying strong.
this happened with my mom, it's scary, but you can get out of it tough as nails. the stuff she put me through, the horrible, abusive, ugly but persistent torture that she put me through- eventually losing her morality really threw her and my family off of the deep end. you'll be okay, get through this shit alright, you can get through it. I dealt with cops, CPS, i had my dad luckily, but i felt stupid for trying to help her. i loved her, it's complicated, you'll never really deal with it fully, but be careful- stay strong, stay positive. hopefully theres hope for us all on the other side somewhere, for now, try, try your hardest to have a good head. this is NOT your fault, dont blame yourself, only try to be your best self for yourself. i wish u the best :)
My dads an alcoholic and his dad before it's sad it's not just the alcohol it's the demons that hide behind leaves u second guessing ur choices but your choices are great!
Not exactly the same but from 3:57 to the end I can sing it at the top of my lungs and it’s therapeutic for a toxic, manipulative bestfriend of three years that finally left you behind💕🎧
IV phased to another reality this song has differences that minor to a local to me it's a completely different version in dreams do we slide reality and only notion with slight variation cause I'm convinced this song had more when gave his ma the fuck you but this version feels soft 🍦 as fuck
this breaks my heart, sending prayers, because our real Father in Heaven cares, and loves you. Took me a long time to find God, and forgive my father for similar things. Love ya sis
Am I the only one who found it comical that in the video and description, there censoring of the f word was pretty inconsistent? Nothing wrong with not censoring it if you don't want to, just thought it funny that it was so inconsistent.
Ted Lasso brought me here since the song just sounded so good.
I had no idea it was The Lumineers. I've kinda lost track of them but glad to know they are still making great songs.
Twinsies!!!
Ted Lasso brought me here too!
SAME lol great show btw
Lol me too!
I wonder if we’ll find out that this song is an allusion to Roy’s origins/damage - alcoholic beating abusive father who caused Roy’s mother to flee early in his life
You blamed it all on your kids, we were young, we were innocent.....this made me cry a few times tonight
You know. This song reminds me of the fallout I had with my mother. I havent spoken to her in about 7 years for reasons not associated with the mom drinking to much like the song. But...i do feel the pain that the lumineers display in the song because i went through that hurt. When he says f*** you for what you done to me, thats how I still feel sometimes towards my mother. Its sad that we do not have a relationship but its neccessary because she would have broken me more than what she has already done. I just thank the Lumineers for showing the raw emotions in this song that is so relatable.
Literally my story. Everything even with the mother and all of that, with the drinking and stuff I don't want to mention, all of it. It's a lot, but this song is like gold for me.
same here brother, songs speaks to me
If you're here you have an amazing taste in music.
True.
I know xD
best on the album i think...after listening 5 times in the last few days
I love the whole album. This is the most cinematic mvs so far.. I would like it if they make a movie out of it. That would be a tear jerking one.
or cause you don’t know the words to the official video
my mom ruined my life, and my dads with her alcoholism. it fucked my entire childhood up, me and my dad are living in a hotel saving for a place, its a grim fucked up world. this album has rly been cathartic for me, i love it so much. it really is a monster- addiction. :(
I hope things have improved for your family!
i hope things have gotten better for you guys, stay strong !
The world isn't fucked up, right now you might be dealing with lots of hardships but soon enough after it's all over you will be able to see how beautiful the world is, i hope you're doing better this year.
@@raiden6583 we got a place january 2021, my dad relapsed on heroin since we’ve been here but i have gotten my GED - I’m working on college and I have been working a job at Starbucks. I’m trying my best I just want to make everyone’s life better.
@@aidansmith5835 I'm glad to hear that and i hope your dad comes to his senses, take care of yourself 👍❤️
I think this is the most beautiful song I ever heard from the Lumineers
We all know someone who was toxic to us! If we are the toxic, then we just have to learn to know ourselves and move on from that part of ourselves. Sit down, have a talk, learn to understand who you are. Make a budget, let your money represent you, don't buy random things. Represent your self in everything you consume and give
Sleep on the floor is my favorite, but this might actually take second place. Beautifull song!
Same. Plus Life in the city
Michiel Veenstra dont forget Salt and the sea tho
@@lauris7595 yeah i love that one to. But i wrote this comment before the whole album was released ao yea...
Same
same! ophelia is my favorite too
One of the hardest songs for me to listen to. I grew up with an alcoholic mother who abused me through most of my early childhood. Then hearing these lyrics.... it hits close to home. Great song. I just cant finish listening.
Music is contagious, humm, whistle, anything, just pay it forward
I have never heard a more beautiful song that describes exactly how it is to have an addict in your life. Thank you!
This song has been getting me through what i feel has been the most challenging part of my life, and it’s only because it’s opened my eyes to the wrongs I’ve committed against the ones i loved, helped me accept ownership over my actions that i chose to blind myself too
I've been wanting to see them for awhile now. Finally going Thursday. I'll admit it I don't know all their songs but this one is a powerful one.
i love the subtle nods they do to call back to their own songs such as the melody at the end being the same as the one sung in gloria
So the album that this is from is broken up into sections focusing on different generations of a family, where each character blames the previous one for their addiction. In this song, the character Gloria is blamed as the “Leader of the Landslide”.
I don't think I've felt a song more in my soul than this one. And that hurts.
Right!
My mom was an addict my entire life,she even got me addicted at an early age. We were drug buddies. I left home cause of the issues with addiction and she passed unexpectedly to an overdose...she was always in bad health and I used to stay awake at night wondering how we were goin to take care of her. When she died there was a pretty big piece of me that was relieved, never thought I'd find a song that expressed that as beautiful as they have here.....the worlds a hard place and sometimes we feel things we think we shouldn't and that's okay, your okay.
From Ted Lasso 😌 😌 😌
ending of episode 9 is an underrated scene
this song help me through a hard time when I was going through a break up
My gf told me to listen to this song cause she knew I would understand more to an she does.
And I broke into tears hearing this. Because this is my life. It’s what I’ve been through. All those years all the fighting I heard. It’s cause she was drunk. And I never forgot she dragged me with her.
She always brought me pain. I was so young.
Way too young. And now I’m going through so much trauma and stuff because of it.
I’m depressed and it started with her.
It’s so sad because Idk if I even love her anymore or…if I even want to see her.
Cause every time she leaves home and makes my step dad watch us.
I always wonder if she’s dead other there.
But she comes back fine.
And it’s scary when she comes back
My mum has been a drug addict for at least 20 years.. Haven't spoken with her for 2 years now after so much pain. This song really speaks with my story. Thank you for that
This is easily the best song on the album
Totally agree!
On every album you meant
“Is she dead is she fine” I think about that a lot...
Me too :/
My Favourite is definitely everything ;)
Does anyone here the piano in the background playing those 6 or 7 keys they are the same as in Donna but a lower key
Fate dealt me a lonely blow
I said oh
Tried to help
Only hurt
In the the end only made it worse
Yup
How have I not heard this yet? I’ve loved the lumineers for many years and haven’t discovered this one until now?!?!
Thanks god TH-cam suggested this song. It’s amazing!
Erdem Kazan I recommend listening to more of their songs, if you haven’t already 😄
i feel like i can understand this song personally. i live through this sorta thing yknow? my mom is always drunk (everyday, every night) and sometimes i just can’t take it. i know that may be her way of coping and i mean no disrespect towards her and i love her to the moon and back. and yes, my dad is always there thank goodness. but still it’s difficult and i’ve learned to just be quiet around her when she is drunk. my younger brother (12, i’m 15 almost) on the other hand didn’t yet. any time he gets yelled at it breaks my heart. he’s a sensitive kid and when the situation occurs i’ll have to watch him get yelled at, or i can decide to defend him. either way the house is loud. she forgets things too when she’s drunk. she’ll tend to repeat herself over and over and over again (drank the whole bottle and forgot my name) it’s hard to have people like friends (mine or hers) over at the house. she gets defensive about everything and she scares me too when she yells. we spend a lot of money on wine and i genuinely believe that some day the alcohol situation will get worse. (all i ever wanted was a mother for the first time). any time anyone answers her or responds to her she’ll take it as attitude and yell (don’t answer when she calls). just nod your head and smile. nobody’s going to read this probably but if you did, all my respect goes to you. if you have any advice please tell me as well.
Hey Aliye K, I hear you. Alcoholism is a sad & horrible thing. That you are aware of it, can name it and open up about it is such a helpful thing to be able to do. Do you know about Alateen? It's a 12 step group to support teenagers who are connected, related to an alcoholic. There may be online meetings. I attend ACA (Adult children of Alcoholic & Dysfunctional parents) and previously Alanon as I grew up with my mum's drinking (even just saying 'mum' is so difficult for me, she hasn't been a mum to me for years.) I have detached from her, putting in my boundaries to not have her in my life at the moment while I focus on myself and my own young son. I wish you peace, strength & wellness for your journey ahead. It is not an easy path but keep going and you will find the peace and love that was not given to you by your biological parents. In Fellowship, Melissa
melissa whiteley ive never heard of it, but i’ll be sure to check it out. i’m glad to hear that you’ve been involved with the program and have set boundaries and become more educated on the subject of alcoholism. thank you so much for letting me know about the program and sharing your story, and have a wonderful night (or day). and i know i don’t know you but if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to reply to this comment when needed.
Aliye K hey, you sound like a really mature and responsible kid. I'm 19 and I'm struggling with my girlfriend who is an alcoholic. I can't imagine what it's like having a mother that's an alcoholic, it must be really hard for you. Just remember, you didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it. It's such a tough position to be in but I believe you and your brother can push through. You can reply to this comment if times get tough. You got it! :)
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I know it must be tough you have to grow up faster and it shows in your comment youre really mature I wish I could relate to you and understand what you're going through but I just want to wish you the best of luck and I hope you'll stay safe. Keep staying strong.
this happened with my mom, it's scary, but you can get out of it tough as nails. the stuff she put me through, the horrible, abusive, ugly but persistent torture that she put me through- eventually losing her morality really threw her and my family off of the deep end. you'll be okay, get through this shit alright, you can get through it. I dealt with cops, CPS, i had my dad luckily, but i felt stupid for trying to help her. i loved her, it's complicated, you'll never really deal with it fully, but be careful- stay strong, stay positive. hopefully theres hope for us all on the other side somewhere, for now, try, try your hardest to have a good head. this is NOT your fault, dont blame yourself, only try to be your best self for yourself. i wish u the best :)
My dads an alcoholic and his dad before it's sad it's not just the alcohol it's the demons that hide behind leaves u second guessing ur choices but your choices are great!
This song is too much💕
1 tahun berlalu dan aku masih berada dalam lubang,tuhan tolong keluarkan aku
I'm sorry to everyone who relates to this song my best friend sent me this since I'm literally having a meltdown about my mom coming back
Incredible music
It's like every single line, every *word* was personalized just for me
Same
Not exactly the same but from 3:57 to the end I can sing it at the top of my lungs and it’s therapeutic for a toxic, manipulative bestfriend of three years that finally left you behind💕🎧
Too relatable.
I love this song, however it doesn't fit My Momma.. she was My Angel.. However it does put me in mind of my recent X-Fiancee
The best part is at 04:22
IV phased to another reality this song has differences that minor to a local to me it's a completely different version in dreams do we slide reality and only notion with slight variation cause I'm convinced this song had more when gave his ma the fuck you but this version feels soft 🍦 as fuck
I must be crazy Im right which would be more scary a taught 😅
Ted Lasso has a lot of good music
Most definitely 👍
Second team's gonna kick first team's fucking asses today.
This reminds me of my abusive narcissistic religious father
I hope you're ok ❤
damn do we have the same father? but I hope everything will be fine, you're never alone ❤
Same, dude. I hope everything gets better i hope i can run away i hope we can feel and be safe in the end. Stay alive
this breaks my heart, sending prayers, because our real Father in Heaven cares, and loves you. Took me a long time to find God, and forgive my father for similar things. Love ya sis
2:15
when piano starts: means everything to me
Wow I have never related to something so much
Love!!!!!!!
Let’s go greyhounds
All i wanted was a mother for the first time.. im drunk and this is about to make me bawl
Am I the only one who found it comical that in the video and description, there censoring of the f word was pretty inconsistent?
Nothing wrong with not censoring it if you don't want to, just thought it funny that it was so inconsistent.
❤❤❤❤
addiction sucks :(
My names nate. I'm an alcoholic
My names Donna. I’m addicted to cocaine.
Lol
Damn
believe
just, how does he know...
I heard you leave.
Roll Tide!!!!