If you feel the pain, then you are able to exhume it. No matter how slowly it goes, it will end up being completely out of breath. take care of you my dear
This did make me cry, because of how bad I miss being younger. How of all the times I said I wanted out of my family’s house... and now it just... hurts.
I´m a highschool teacher. When I heard this song I loved the melancholy that made me feel, I thought about romantic feelings. Then, a sad event ocurred with one of my former students. He took his own life. He was a boy with a beautiful smile, he sparkled joy all the time, I never saw him sad or down, or maybe I never realized, we have over a thousand students in the school, it´s difficult to realize they have emotional problems and even more difficult when they seem to be happy. Now, I hear this song and remember him, it always make me cry. Somebody said mental health is one of the most important things we have to take care of, and that is so true. I have dealt with depression my whole life but my dreams have kept me on track. I send you all my best wishes to you all.
im an 18 year old mama to a 2 year old little girl and i have never finished school. I have struggled with depression and anxiety for half of my life, Id like to tell you though, there are teachers in my life that i do miss and have kept me going in times i never wanted to. the right Teachers definitely can make a difference and impact a student, even several.
Your comment made me start crying. That is truly devastating. You sound like such a caring teacher who is here for your students. It's true that we can't always tell if someone is struggling with depression. They may seem happy and like they have their life together. I am glad that you remember how beautiful the student was as a person. It's good if you remind your students that mental health comes first. I think the song really communicates the worry you have about your students. It also conveys how it is to see someone looking like themself, while they don't feel true to themself on the inside. In highschool I struggled with anorexia. When I went through refeeding in twelfth grade, without mental help, and Covid hit, I got worn down to a point in isolation where I really got close to taking my life. I remember my teachers so well. They kept my grades up to help me feel more at peace with focusing on eating to get well. My environmental science teacher let me write POETRY for my final project. It's people like you who make us want to stay.
This song perfectly depicts living with mental illness. My depression makes me unable to recognise who I am sometimes. Sometimes I see somebody else when I look at myself.
Borderline personality disorder 😢 they say it's one of the hardest mental illnesses to live with. This song is me. My brain tries to protect me but it doesn't know what's best. Makes me someone my soul is not. 😢
My little brother committed suicide in October 2019. He was my best friend, the first love of my life, and a beautiful person. I don't want to miss him anymore. I don't want to cry for him anymore. I'm ready to be better, but it's not going to happen anytime soon. I found this song during a random TH-cam rabbit hole session, and it made me think of him. Made me miss him. I found out that Cole Randall is from the same town as my little brother and I (Park Rapids), and that he was only a month younger than my brother. It made the world feel a little smaller. This song puts to words how I feel now. Chris looked like Chris. But Chris lost his battle. He left me behind. I'll miss him for the rest of my life. I'll tell his story for the rest of my life. I love you, Chris.
I have 2 brothers and I could never imagine the pain you're feeling. Just know that you're not alone. Your brother will be alive as long as the memory of him is alive in you. Stay strong man.
Everyone is talking about not having love...but what I hear in this song is someone changing to an addiction, depression, something life changing. Maybe even someone hiding their sadness to make others happy :(
Literally all I hear in this is meth addiction, as it's the only drug I've seen besides alcohol that's so apt at completely changing someone's personality. But unlike alcohol, it doesn't leave them sick and stumbling and it's quite possible they'll be able to convince that somehow their thought process is rational. It isn't.
EXACTLY. like i was a really happy kid and i didn't care what anyone thought of me, now im so insecure about myself that it's hard to find things to love about myself.
This really hits different when the person who looks different is your father who u haven’t seen for 7 years but youre worried when he comes back this song will describe him...
Never in my life has a song displayed such a deep feeling that I hate exploring. For me, the idea of someone I loved and cared for became who I'd consider an enemy is absolutely insane to me and I can't believe I've had to deal with that. This song displays that struggle so unbelievably well. Bravo.
Recently everytime I see someone who is battling depression or anything else I friend them and I send them paragraphs everyday giving them reasons why they're important and why they should live and that I'm here for you. The one person I tried my best to help might be dead now and I have no way to know for sure. This was the song in her goodbye video so this is what I listen too until I know she's alive or dead. I don't want people to suffer through the pain I do so I want to help as many people as I can no matter how much it mentally hurts me if I fail.
@@saphsink6011 thank you for being such a wonderfull person, im so sorry for your loss... hope that with time you will find the answer. Stay strong urself, u are awsome!
Kitty Angel omg is this really you? I don’t know if I have the right person but I saw you on another video a year or two ago? It was a sad edits video and we started having a convo through the comments. If this isn’t you then dw but if it is then this has gotta be fate. Please reply either way. x 🤍
I heard this song 2 weeks after it came out, as well as 3 days after a terrible break up with a girl I thought I would spend my life with. It brought me alot of pain then. But listening now. Makes me feel really happy for some reason. Maybe because I discovered who she really was? and I'm happy it ended when it did if that's who she was. Idk.
When you imagine this beautiful music has fallen through the cracks of the “popular” music that we’re hand fed through any random radio station, I can honestly say I’m glad I stumbled across them by accident. I’ve devoured every second of their music that they’ve shared with us on TH-cam. Thank you…
From what I’ve heard my ex still bothers to hate me, she broke me but I rebuilt, now having no feeling towards her, pushing out the memories, moving on, tho I won’t be loving or trusting as easily, but that’s a lesson learned which is more progress, having a heart of titanium is really the best solution for life
LYRICS - I saw the part of you That only when you're older you will see too You will see too I held the better cards But every stroke of luck has got a bleed through It's got a bleed through You held the balance of the time That only blindly I could read you But I could read you It's like you told me Go forward slowly It's not a race to the end Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous You were the better part Of every bit of beating heart that I had Whatever I had I finally sat alone Pitch black flesh and bone Couldn't believe that you were gone Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous I saw the part of you that only when you're older You will see too, you will see too
The worst part of life is when the one person you trusted the most and talked to practically everyday just suddenly leaves you. He breaks that trust and completely blocks you from everything and just leaves an empty space where he used to be.
I found the song She by Dodie right in the strongest point of my first soul destroying crush on my best friend and I still cry to it. Dodie hits me right in my little gay heart.
reading through the comments while the song plays in the background is really getting me teared up. people suffering in silence, through sickness, depression, loss of loved ones and just going through the bad side of life... hugs to everyone, you are not alone guys
Since the beginning of this new stage in my life I don't know who the fuck I am anymore. And every time I wake up and look in the mirror I just wish to rip my face off, I hate it. Every part of it. I know many people go through this too and worse, I am so sorry for being a cry baby.
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scared from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting there reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day. :)
That was well said. I enjoyed reading it. This is a hard time but I send to you and everyone else who reads this, hope & love for a better world 🌎 we can all share Love, Scotty
"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we are not alone." - Orson Welles
Depends upon perspective. What is considered as "alone"? Why should the situation described on top be an illusion? If alone is naming the consciousness, that you are the only one in your head, then maybe. Since others distract you from that space and make you feel like you are not alone in it. But that is very specific. I wouldn't say that it is an illusion if you take the usual definition of alone, which is without social contacts or feeling lonely. I'd say that one is not alone. The moment you enter the world, there (hopefully) is your mother. Family and friends accompany you until death. Thus you may be lonely in your head, but never in the world or in your life, if you have the opportunities and take them.
LYRICS: I saw the part of you That only when you're older you will see too You will see too I held the better cards But every stroke of luck has got a bleed through It's got a bleed through You held the balance of the time That only blindly I could read you But I could read you It's like you told me Go forward slowly It's not a race to the end Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous You were the better part Of every bit of beating heart that I had Whatever I had I finally sat alone Pitch black flesh and bone Couldn't believe that you were gone Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous Well you look like yourself But you're somebody else Only it ain't on the surface Well you talk like yourself No, I hear someone else though Now you're making me nervous I saw the part of you that only when you're older You will see too, you will see too
Summer Bennett well, for people who are unfamiliar with the song and would still like to sing along, the lyrics in the video go a bit fast and when it’s going to the next line of the verse, the first word doesn’t pop up fast enough. I prefer to have the lyrics right in front of me instead of it popping up. If you don’t like it, sorry🙃
I’m 23 and being silently suffering from depression. I have childhood trauma and always been cheated on or left on by people whom I cared and loved the most. This song was introduced to me by a person who played me emotionally. He is now happily married and I hope he is happy with his wife now. My ex who left me after 5 years is now getting married. Everyone is happy. And genuinely I’m also happy for them. All I wish is peace and happiness in my life and others who are going through tough times. Hold yourself. Your time will come. Till then enjoy this bittersweet melancholy. ❤
I hope you're well. Trauma isn't what happens to you, it's how you internalize it. Whatever happened, it's over. We attract people who hurt us exactly how we subconsciously think we deserve to be hurt. It's what happens with trauma. I hope you're in a great space now. Be well. Take care of yourself.
You sound like you've gone through a lot. So have I. You sound smart enough to know, not everyone is toxic and means to hurt. That doesn't mean give everyone a chance. Stay weary but keep trying. As often as you are comfortable. Best of luck to you.
losing a friend you loved so much and seeing them become someone else right in front of your face is the most heartbreaking thing i had to experience by far
Fernanda peña I’ve been through similar situation but here it was a girl I loved with one of my frnd and everyday I watched them meet talk etc... and hurt me so badly cuz he interrupted me when I was talkin with her and they became in relationship and cuz of tht I was never able to tell her hw I felt abt her
@@melodypond1003 it really hurts, but you will get better. it might take a lot of time but i assure you that you will find better people that will love you
This song resonates with everyone: Whether it be a breakup, losing someone you love. Or the death of a loved one, or the drifting apart of a family member, or you've changed, everyone interprets it I think with whatever's most relevant to them. For me, I have a little brother that I've been watching grow up and it's making me nervous for who he's growing up into. Some days, I don't recognize him. Deep inside something's changed in him and I can't put my finger on the why or how.
I hope all goes well for you there stranger, ik what your feeling, i myself got a brother whos changed, idk whats gonna happen nxt, idk if the old him ever will come back, i miss him, .. Heads up stranger, may all go well for ya
For me it was my little brother when I lost him part of me died too I haven't been the same since and I don't know if I'll ever be able to be truly happy again it's been 8 years and it's gotten worse not better
Does anybody else feel this song actually talks about looking at yourself? It's like looking in the mirror, and not recognizing the person staring back at you, or thinking back at your current life and it seems like you're watching a video of someone else's life. The song is really about looking at your personal growth, for good or bad, and still feeling bewildered about how you ended up where you are currently.
Oliwia i actually am in a much better place than i ever was, but while im on the path to finally living the dream, it doesnt feel quite real. I wake up next to an amazing woman, have friends that genuinely care about me, am back in school and doing excellent, and my suicidal depression and physical fitness are back under control... yet this life doesnt seem to be mine. Its like im watching a movie and theres somebody else at the controls. You read all the time about the somebody who turned their life around in a year or two, but they never mention how disconcerting it is. Im still waiting to wake back up in the hole i rotted in for 10 years, just waiting to die. As happy as i am now, i keep getting flashes where i dont know how i got to this point in my life where everything seems so perfect, and just want to hang myself because it doesnt seem real.
@@emperorcatfish2919 opposite story here. Depression is digging its claws deeper and deeper and I feel like I'm losing friends, family, and my will to live
@Oliwia Believe me when I say i know what thats like. The two single things that I did that helped the most was to begin putting distance between myself and the toxic people in my life, and taking up meditative hobbies (namely gardening and cooking). The former allows you to stop the bleeding, and the latter builds your confidence and serenity, promoting healing. Hang in there, and focus on yourself as much as you can. We only get the one life, so might as well try to make it enjoyable, or at least tolerable, until our time here is up.
I’m not depressed, I’m just sad on the inside and I don’t know why. But it’s gonna be okay, we’re all gonna be okay. The fact that so many people have liked this comment and can relate is saddening. But at least we all know we aren’t in this alone.💛💛
Youre sad because humanity is plagued by darkness and you may have a spirit to which devils are incompatible , hence, making it an uncomfortable experience on a planet currently ruled by dark forces. "Good" People are too weak to unite against the elite. MAYBE one day thatll change. But until then, may the force be with you ;)
Isn't that what all people say, sometimes you just have to exept it. Sometimes you just have to exept where you are and trying to make the most out of everyday
it is so strange to me how a song can affect people is so many ways like this one. I have never been able to keep friends that stuck around even when I was a little kid. I recently had my best friend leave me for other people and now I do not have friends and this song helps me get through the darker times. when all I feel is sadness or darkness creeping back in, I find a place or walk while listening to this song. this song helps me realize that I am not alone and there are other people that feel that darkness to and if I work hard as many have before me then I will get through this and find the happiness. (for some context I am I high school)
Does anyone else just randomly feel like crying and then makes a whole playlist of sad songs and remembers this song but can’t remember the name so searched it up on TH-cam and then cry and then add it to ur sad playlist? Edit: OMG TYSM FOR ALL THE LIKED THIS IS THE MOST IV EVER GOT and also I thought it was just me who did that-
If anyone is listening to this and going through addiction or in the process of recovery, you got this! I am 10 years clean and I'm getting the person I used to be back. I'm reclaiming my life and I know you can too. It gets easier!!!
It makes sense that this song isn't about another person, but oneself indefinitely. The visuals, the lyrics and the subtle tone shifts are what gives me this feeling. Very well done to the artist, they've managed to capture the perspective of their new self; Glimpsing at the person they used to be. Beautiful artistry was achieved when this was written.
I have been changing, but for the better. 2 years ago I was in the worst relationship ever. After that I started to chisel out a new person of myself. I didn't want to let others step on me or to be likey ex. I heard this song for the first time then and now I listen to it today and I'm happy to see myself like how I want to be versus before. Some people are angry or sad because of the changes that they have made to themselves. They must put on a mind set and focus on improving themselves. I garuntee that they will be much happier who ever they may be. One thing I had to do though was completely abandon how I used to dress and what music I listened to because it all reminded me of how I used to feel every day. Now I stead of pop I listen to country which I like much more now than I liked pop them. My style of clothes has gotten a little more muted. Colors like brown, black, khaki, and army green are what I wear now instead of sporty clothing. I am so much happier with myself now. The only people who notice are people that were fake friends then who didn't really have my back like the said they did. Now I have made the friend of a lifetime. I'm starting to get back into the dating ring carefully. I feel so much better now that I have changed
I’m sorry that this is so unrelated but I hate when people say stuff like “Oh if you know these songs you have TikTok it doesn’t mean you need a hug,” Knowing a song is different than hearing it. Relating to a song more than you ever had is knowing the song. 💛
RandomEntertainment Same my favorite song I’ve found on TikTok so far it Overwhelmed by Royal & the Serpent. It’s so good. If you haven’t heard it yet you should really check it out!
I used to play this for my grandmother all the time as her dementia steadily got worse. She didn't understand the lyrics just the melody, but with me they resonated. From my grandma looking normal but seeing her true self slip away. Her memory, her strength. In the end she was just a mask that resembled my grandmother. But she was never alone or uncared for. She knew we loved her even if she couldn't remember our names.
I feel terrible I know what it's like to lose someone it's so unfair I lost my father when I was six and this song reminds me of the things we could've done but can't anymore cause he is gone. I am so sorry you had to go through this, I understand how much it hurts
I know exactly wat that is like. I never got to know my grandma before she got dementia so I wasn’t able to have those memories. I wonder wat kind of bond we might’ve had if things had been different. Image can’t help it but I feel a little sad when she can’t remember who I am
I feel for you. My condolences. My mother died 10 years ago of complications of dementia so I know how you feel. Though she was 83 this thing took her from me. It was so hard to hear this different person emerging. God took my mom quickly though. From diagnoses to death was 4 yrs. Dementia not only attacked her mind but her body. She forgot how to swallow. Many tears I cried and still do but I will see her again when I die. I know I will. 😢
This is the most powerful song I've heard in a long time. The lyrics are beautiful but have a sorrow, pain filled vibe. The chorus is, once again, powerful, it's perfect in the feel and the tones are awesome. This is already my favorite song that I've heard this year. Its damn near perfect. I am a fan.
P90andCtrl their is no suffering in the after life, please fight to stay here tho🥺stay alive, the ones who get it hard will always be happy in the end❤️
To anyone who's hearing this song and feeling hopeless; it gets better. You are being put through something in life that will make you stronger on the other side. You are worth it. You are an amazing human, who's allowed to feel vulnerable and weak at times, but then comes back with the strength of a lion, who's ready to take on whatever is next. There will be a tomorrow. And your only goal should be just to get through life one day at a time. I promise you'll start to feel okay soon. It just takes time and patience, and changes to put your heart and mind in a better state. You've got this. I believe in you.
Thank you. Going through a lot have been the since half year after course of events have happened. When you said lion, it made me think of a time where my mother bought me a tiger's eye bracelet. It gave me strength You speak with experience, whether it was one more many, thanks for writing on behalf.
Who knew a stranger's words on the internet could make my eyes leak a bit? Your words are beautiful and I needed to hear that right now, I'm sure many reading it will need the encouragement and reminder. Thank you. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am in a dark place in my life right now, where nothing makes me really happy and I do feel hopeless. I hope that you are right.
All the comments talk about other people changing and leaving. I hear this about myself... when you've changed in ways you didn't want to, when you're someone you don't recognize, when you've become someone you hate. It hits different when you try to change to fit your ideal image of yourself but you have just got to accept that life has changed you in so many ways and you just have to move on from the past you.
dealing w the same shit rn big changes . someone I thought I knew I really didn’t at all☹️either I did and they changed so much or I really didn’t know them
My son was with me while I was singing this song... I was nervous it might be too close to his perception of me... he said *do you think of me with this song* it hit me how vulnerable we all feel with this one.
In my friend group im the strongest I never cared about what people said but then sometimes i feel weak and cry then other people go like look at you your so weak like so is crying illegal
“ The most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even touched- they must be felt with the heart.” -Hellen Keller This song hits me right in the heart, creating a feeling inside me too powerful for words.
My heart lied to me and made me go through a lot...I love myself ...But now I can't have feeling for anyone...She changed so suddenly n left me damaged, disheartened...But not anymore...Only thing I can now do is move on... I am moving on
Stephen Kosar If it inspires you then do something with those feelings. Actions are stronger than words so apply it in your life and try to make a difference.
Arpan Nandy Good for you. Only, you say that you feel incapable of love... That may be on her. I don’t know what happened in your relationship, however if you can’t grow and change your perspective to feel deserving of love then that’s on you.
Came here to say i use to hear this song and think only of myself and the phases of me that have come and gone... times of dilated pupils staring at my reflection in the mirror at 3am... admitting to my self silently, "Lauren, look at you, youve changed..how did we let it get this far?" .... this song helped bring me back to myself quite often.... ***** But now, fast forward 10 years, im a mother now...and when i hear this song i cant help but understand it from my 10 year old sons perspective.. i feel when i start to lose myself or get off track... he would choose to use this song to express what that feels like to him... to witness his mom deal with mental illness and a life of grief, and have to be there in alll those moments, ups and downs and be able to notice when she starts to get bad again..... I know this song once showed me when i was changing, or needed to change ....i can only imagine it would be the same for my son.
Everyone's saying they miss their old friends but I can't stop imagining a conversation with my younger self and how disappointed they'd be in me. I'm so sorry for what I've done to you...
And that’s the universal magic of music. Everyone interprets it through their own lens, yet somehow certain songs touch the same inner chord. A song can have the same importance to one person for a totally different reason than it does for someone else.
This is for Sam. Lonely, misunderstood, taken advantage of. For all the Sams inside us who find someone to tell us that we're special, and for all the unfortunate ones who don't.
I feel like it’s when you watch someone you know so well change so much, so it’s like you don’t know them anymore. And it’s like you can’t get them back they’re just not the same anymore and they never will be
This song changed my life. I had been struggling with (maybe) severe alcohol addiction since I was 15, as a trauma coping mechanism. When I was 25, I used to go to this beautiful park near my home in Bucharest, contemplate, stargaze, listen to music and drink. Here was the place when I first listened to this song. While intoxicated, the lyrics hit me so hard that I realized I had a problem and I promised myself I would someday overcome drinking and be proud of the man I will have become. 4 years straight I went sober, never touched alcohol, while also suffering from crippling depression, desperation and anxiety. I listened to it many times and it became one of my anthems. Now I am clean, and drink moderately, sometimes I get inebriated, but never get wasted and can live without alcohol. The lyrics hit me different now, it seems I have finally got the message. Please help others who deserve it, if you can, and try to share your gifts to the world. It will come around to you as you never imagined. May you be blessed and happy. Stay strong.
Im so grateful i didnt discover this song until after a heart break. I cried enough nights that i didnt need this gem to exacerbate that pain. On to the next one now.
I first heard this song laying in a hospital bed with cancer and the possibility of death looming. It hit because I looked like myself, however, I was weak and not in the fast lane anymore. I went from independent to completely dependent and helpless. This song reminds me of what I have conquered. Once again, I am somebody else, and better for it, living my dream and striving toward my goals while hoping to be an inspiration. All, no matter how dark of a place you are in, whatever you are going through, you will be better for having overcome it.
"you never know the meaning of a moment until it becomes a memory" - Dr. Suess Edit: thanks everyone for the likes holy, wish I could get this much on my channel 😂
My Dad is an alcoholic. When I was younger and he still lived with us, he used to be so violent and angry and it always scared me. But when he was sober he was the nicest person ever. I always cry when I hear this song, because it reminds me of everything. I know I shouldn't keep listening to it, but I really can't help it. I'm writing this for someone who could be in the same situation. Don't worry. It gets better. I promise. edit: My dad passed away about 3 months ago from cancer. i am not really sure why im back here again, but we eventually made up. im going to miss him, even if he did cause me a lot of trauma.
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I am obsessed with this song..& i can't get rid of it..
Same
same
@@nevaehduran7698 yah
@@lsjaowhwbkwhwksha5926 yepp
I’m hurting , hurting bad and I can physically feel my heart break in my chest when I listen to this song
Same here. Still loving her 2 years before.
Perfectly described
I just shed a tear for you because I know exactly how that feels. You're gonna recover... Slowly, very slowly but you will.
If you feel the pain, then you are able to exhume it. No matter how slowly it goes, it will end up being completely out of breath. take care of you my dear
Same here. Hopefully everything gets better for you. Sending all my love.
The saddest part of life is when the person who gave you the most memories becomes a memory..
This statement hit so hard 😭 I lost My Love in 2012 to suicide 💔
Time to give someone else some memories
eugene collins that’s a really positive spin which is brilliant
Sometimes they become a total stranger
@@eugenecollins3702 Time To Step outside And Give Yourself First Good Memories
I spent all last year trying to remember the title of the song and just now the lyrics came to mind. I can finally enjoy it again.
I’m crying right now because this song has made me realise I’m nothing like the person I used to be.
It's okay to change, maybe one day you'll find your way back to the person you used to be.
A se# offender
Da Random Redemption
what about a s3x offender
Da Random Redemption what the feck r u talking about
Bruh that actually hurt when I read it
I’m here just cus I like the song 😳
Cran fr
It doesnt matter how you found the song, eveyone like it. And yes, it hirs hard (i dont speak english, sorry if i write wrong)
Me too
ikr lol
hey same
"How many times can one thing break your heart?
As long as you love it."
- unknown
One of the best comments here!! 💖💙
Thank you for this.
@@marcorosas8575 np;) ive been heartbroken before so i relate to this quote very much so, felt like sharing
@@joshualaird6167 🤜🤛
damn bro
This sound is so wonderful. The person who is reading this comment, I wish you great success, health, love and happiness!
Gracias desde Costa Rica... no pasandola tan puravida como decimos acá¡
You too
Same to you ❤
@@Angie-ub8oe mantén la cabeza en alto, hombre. solo busca la luz dentro de la oscuridad
Thanks so much you too
Hurts the most when you look back and realise that you’re the one who changed.
Fuck dude
gamer let me guess you someone changed you?
Every day I think about that..
Or boyfriend. Why did you do this? How could you? Who are u?
But you are supposed to change.
Am I the only one who feels like I can’t breath when I listen to this song:(
no thats me too x your not alone! ♡
Your Not alone
Dw me to ur not alone🤍
thats the feeling of being broken and sad...thats life 🥺💖
I can’t.. my chest physically hurts
"We didn't know we were creating memories, we were just having fun" - whinne the pooh
It really made me cry I don't even know why
This did make me cry, because of how bad I miss being younger. How of all the times I said I wanted out of my family’s house... and now it just... hurts.
Hey Jordan, would you like to have a listen at my original music? th-cam.com/video/kmI9dchQr9c/w-d-xo.html that would mean so much :)
True
Not me about to finally break down bc of a whinne the Pooh quote 🙂✌️
I´m a highschool teacher. When I heard this song I loved the melancholy that made me feel, I thought about romantic feelings. Then, a sad event ocurred with one of my former students. He took his own life. He was a boy with a beautiful smile, he sparkled joy all the time, I never saw him sad or down, or maybe I never realized, we have over a thousand students in the school, it´s difficult to realize they have emotional problems and even more difficult when they seem to be happy. Now, I hear this song and remember him, it always make me cry. Somebody said mental health is one of the most important things we have to take care of, and that is so true. I have dealt with depression my whole life but my dreams have kept me on track. I send you all my best wishes to you all.
😥
im an 18 year old mama to a 2 year old little girl and i have never finished school. I have struggled with depression and anxiety for half of my life, Id like to tell you though, there are teachers in my life that i do miss and have kept me going in times i never wanted to. the right Teachers definitely can make a difference and impact a student, even several.
Your comment made me start crying. That is truly devastating. You sound like such a caring teacher who is here for your students. It's true that we can't always tell if someone is struggling with depression. They may seem happy and like they have their life together. I am glad that you remember how beautiful the student was as a person. It's good if you remind your students that mental health comes first.
I think the song really communicates the worry you have about your students. It also conveys how it is to see someone looking like themself, while they don't feel true to themself on the inside.
In highschool I struggled with anorexia. When I went through refeeding in twelfth grade, without mental help, and Covid hit, I got worn down to a point in isolation where I really got close to taking my life.
I remember my teachers so well. They kept my grades up to help me feel more at peace with focusing on eating to get well. My environmental science teacher let me write POETRY for my final project. It's people like you who make us want to stay.
It's so sad💔 I hope you feel better, its not your fault ❤️
Thanks for your sharing us this story, appreciate it ! Take care.
everyone talking about how they miss someone they once loved but i’m listening to the song because i can no longer recognize myself...
Same... I'm here for you keep going sweetie ❤️
see ive been listening to it as if its about myself too, forgetting it could be the other way around. were on the other level of sad 😞
Same 😔 It reminds me of myself currently and an ex I watched get addicted to drugs and they changed him
This made me cry I hope you’re ok 🥺🥺
Same here ..
song hits different when you realize its describing you in the eyes of others
Shook
Damn you're right
Same
*Fuck that hit hard*
Same
Imagine how many people are listening at the same time.
Ye
@@desuu_ne9423 Yee
Oof all in diffrent situations
@@Natalie-ig1vc Yeee
Yeah
This song perfectly depicts living with mental illness. My depression makes me unable to recognise who I am sometimes. Sometimes I see somebody else when I look at myself.
I know what you mean. One day at a time.
Borderline personality disorder 😢 they say it's one of the hardest mental illnesses to live with. This song is me. My brain tries to protect me but it doesn't know what's best. Makes me someone my soul is not. 😢
Un jour tout ira mieux ❤
My little brother committed suicide in October 2019. He was my best friend, the first love of my life, and a beautiful person.
I don't want to miss him anymore.
I don't want to cry for him anymore.
I'm ready to be better, but it's not going to happen anytime soon.
I found this song during a random TH-cam rabbit hole session, and it made me think of him. Made me miss him.
I found out that Cole Randall is from the same town as my little brother and I (Park Rapids), and that he was only a month younger than my brother.
It made the world feel a little smaller.
This song puts to words how I feel now. Chris looked like Chris. But Chris lost his battle. He left me behind.
I'll miss him for the rest of my life.
I'll tell his story for the rest of my life.
I love you, Chris.
Sending love and hugs..be strong..everything eventually be alright❤
May his soul rest in peace
:(
I have 2 brothers and I could never imagine the pain you're feeling. Just know that you're not alone. Your brother will be alive as long as the memory of him is alive in you. Stay strong man.
I know how it feels like❤❤
I think I would die if someone I loved passed away and I am truly sorry I hope you get through this and maybe the hurt will ease up eventually
Dedicated to that one best friend who changed drastically and will never be the same to you.
*_fuck_*
Deep
Kinda sad that I’m the one who changed
I'm that friend. Sorry
Really hits different when you can actually relate
It’s sad that the person that can make you the most happy may eventually make u the saddest
I feel you
wow :(
Damn that hit different
Holy shit this hits different, happened to me recently.
yeah...
It's crazy how strangers words can bring me so much hope. Thank you.
Everyone is talking about not having love...but what I hear in this song is someone changing to an addiction, depression, something life changing. Maybe even someone hiding their sadness to make others happy :(
Absolutely. I can’t hear it as anything else but watching someone you love become someone else due to addiction.
Literally all I hear in this is meth addiction, as it's the only drug I've seen besides alcohol that's so apt at completely changing someone's personality. But unlike alcohol, it doesn't leave them sick and stumbling and it's quite possible they'll be able to convince that somehow their thought process is rational. It isn't.
that's how i hear since i can relate 😔
@@leeannwilcox6861😢
@@caitstella7190*"You know, you're a real 'up' person,"*
Hey there, stranger.
You got this.
I believe in you.
Thank you i needed that...
Thank you
thanks man, u too, u got this
Thanks it really helps
You saved me today.
this songs hits different when the person that looks different is yourself
EXACTLY.
like i was a really happy kid and i didn't care what anyone thought of me, now im so insecure about myself that it's hard to find things to love about myself.
This really hits different when the person who looks different is your father who u haven’t seen for 7 years but youre worried when he comes back this song will describe him...
@@josslynandrews3449 thank u for sharing, my thoughts are with you
This song also hits different when your drunk crying. Not a really beautiful storry here but whatever. Sorry
@@saskialeipold3039 i feel u, it will be better i promise💖
Never in my life has a song displayed such a deep feeling that I hate exploring. For me, the idea of someone I loved and cared for became who I'd consider an enemy is absolutely insane to me and I can't believe I've had to deal with that. This song displays that struggle so unbelievably well. Bravo.
“People cry, not because they’re weak, because they’ve been strong for too long.”
Fucking underrated x.x
what this has to do with the song?
This needs mor elikes
Don't understand
@@Nina-oo8eo it doesn’t have anything to do with the song.
It's just ‘funny’ how we desperately tell other people they have reasons to live when we can’t even find one for ourselves.
Story of my life ...
Recently everytime I see someone who is battling depression or anything else I friend them and I send them paragraphs everyday giving them reasons why they're important and why they should live and that I'm here for you. The one person I tried my best to help might be dead now and I have no way to know for sure. This was the song in her goodbye video so this is what I listen too until I know she's alive or dead. I don't want people to suffer through the pain I do so I want to help as many people as I can no matter how much it mentally hurts me if I fail.
@@saphsink6011 thank you for being such a wonderfull person, im so sorry for your loss... hope that with time you will find the answer. Stay strong urself, u are awsome!
@@saphsink6011 literally same
Kitty Angel omg is this really you? I don’t know if I have the right person but I saw you on another video a year or two ago? It was a sad edits video and we started having a convo through the comments. If this isn’t you then dw but if it is then this has gotta be fate. Please reply either way. x 🤍
This song hits you deeply wen you yourself don’t even know who you are anymore
this
@@sophiecollett8639…
Anyone reading this, YOU ARE MORE THEN ENOUGH, DONT GIVE UP 💪
This song really hits different when it just happened to you recently
Among us😢
RnBass cringe
I heard this song 2 weeks after it came out, as well as 3 days after a terrible break up with a girl I thought I would spend my life with. It brought me alot of pain then. But listening now. Makes me feel really happy for some reason. Maybe because I discovered who she really was? and I'm happy it ended when it did if that's who she was. Idk.
@@yodogyz yeah I was really good to my friend then he killed me in among us😢😢😢
@@yodogyz yea when I get a girl I’m breaking up on the first day
isn't it crazy how so many of us relate...
well its just the people relating that write comments, the others are just quite, but yeah, there are too many of us who relate
Yeah it's actually a driving factor to not kill myself because people can relate and help
ich bin GERMAN deswegen verstehe ich sie nicht reden sie deutsch wie leben in Germany
@@veronikaschmidt3057 zuerst bitte schreiben lernen
@@veronikaschmidt3057 ah ja wirklich
This song just...hits deep. Whoever is listening to this or reading this right now and has this song affect them in anyway, I wish you a good day.
Thank you ❤️
Your special. Thank you
When you imagine this beautiful music has fallen through the cracks of the “popular” music that we’re hand fed through any random radio station, I can honestly say I’m glad I stumbled across them by accident.
I’ve devoured every second of their music that they’ve shared with us on TH-cam.
Thank you…
"Not friends, not enemies, just strangers with memories."
Gosh that hit hard.
And you can tell they’re trying so hard to move on and fill up with newer and better memories. And I’m over here like -_-
From what I’ve heard my ex still bothers to hate me, she broke me but I rebuilt, now having no feeling towards her, pushing out the memories, moving on, tho I won’t be loving or trusting as easily, but that’s a lesson learned which is more progress, having a heart of titanium is really the best solution for life
@@tigerbaskins just do the same, the world is cruel like that
This...
I don't know, this song just kept appearing in my recommended and I am so glad it did.
Can't get enough of it! :))
Same dude
Snap!
same here, gave it a try and loving it
Can I ask you which songs were you hearing to?
E
Use me as a “I don’t give af how you came across this song, let’s all vibe out cuz it’s amazing” button
Lmao
Damn that's true, but fr idk what tf they where talkin about with Netflix
[Presses button] “Now what...”
If you could check out my music I’d really appreciate it❤️ (th-cam.com/users/jaydopluto)
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I changed the 999 to 1k
LYRICS -
I saw the part of you
That only when you're older you will see too
You will see too
I held the better cards
But every stroke of luck has got a bleed through
It's got a bleed through
You held the balance of the time
That only blindly I could read you
But I could read you
It's like you told me
Go forward slowly
It's not a race to the end
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
You were the better part
Of every bit of beating heart that I had
Whatever I had
I finally sat alone
Pitch black flesh and bone
Couldn't believe that you were gone
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
I saw the part of you that only when you're older
You will see too, you will see too
Thanks for the lyrics !!
¡Gracias por la letra! 😊
Viel Dank!
The worst part of life is when the one person you trusted the most and talked to practically everyday just suddenly leaves you. He breaks that trust and completely blocks you from everything and just leaves an empty space where he used to be.
that’s so true.
Mhm its y I'm here -^-
Same friend, have faith hope and love, you will make it!
This happened ti me Yesterday 🥺😭😭😭
Yeah you hit the nail on the head there... It's truly awful...
Music hits different when you're actually going through what they're singing about
I feel you my dude. Same
I found the song She by Dodie right in the strongest point of my first soul destroying crush on my best friend and I still cry to it. Dodie hits me right in my little gay heart.
👌
What if the song makes you think of you?
Bro!
If you’re ever feeling like life is too much or too hard just remember “god gave it’s toughest battles to its strongest warriors” -Coach
Deutscher
🥺
if they r strong warriors why did the somehow fail..
Cindy Vu never
gabriella dalint adjinata u ok ?
This song just reminds me of love. People see what they want to see. Not no one really ever knows what people keep private.
reading through the comments while the song plays in the background is really getting me teared up. people suffering in silence, through sickness, depression, loss of loved ones and just going through the bad side of life... hugs to everyone, you are not alone guys
❤❤
You Make Me Tear Up! Thanks For Letting Me Know Im Not Alone (=
welcome to life man. its tough
I'm here, too.
Sending love, to you who needs it ❤
Same I’m scrolling and listening hits a little different
everyone here miss someone while hearing this song..... I miss myself
Awww bby🥺💓
Myself as well. Things will get better for you. This is your sign that things will get better soon.
Since the beginning of this new stage in my life I don't know who the fuck I am anymore. And every time I wake up and look in the mirror I just wish to rip my face off, I hate it. Every part of it. I know many people go through this too and worse, I am so sorry for being a cry baby.
Man I felt that in another level
I got chills cause of how much i relate..
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scared from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting there reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you don't feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day. :)
Thank you
Thanks
Wow.
That was well said. I enjoyed reading it. This is a hard time but I send to you and everyone else who reads this, hope & love for a better world 🌎 we can all share
Love,
Scotty
Aww this made me cry
Its amazing how a song connects us all in this life
"We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we are not alone." - Orson Welles
So I guess twins don't exist now🤔
@@alexanderaIeV well technically, cuz u come out one at a time :)
@@jjbawls2306 well technically, there are cases where a child with two heads can appear and both have different conchenses
Stupid quote
Depends upon perspective.
What is considered as "alone"? Why should the situation described on top be an illusion?
If alone is naming the consciousness, that you are the only one in your head, then maybe. Since others distract you from that space and make you feel like you are not alone in it.
But that is very specific.
I wouldn't say that it is an illusion if you take the usual definition of alone, which is without social contacts or feeling lonely.
I'd say that one is not alone. The moment you enter the world, there (hopefully) is your mother. Family and friends accompany you until death. Thus you may be lonely in your head, but never in the world or in your life, if you have the opportunities and take them.
LYRICS:
I saw the part of you
That only when you're older you will see too
You will see too
I held the better cards
But every stroke of luck has got a bleed through
It's got a bleed through
You held the balance of the time
That only blindly I could read you
But I could read you
It's like you told me
Go forward slowly
It's not a race to the end
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
You were the better part
Of every bit of beating heart that I had
Whatever I had
I finally sat alone
Pitch black flesh and bone
Couldn't believe that you were gone
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
Well you look like yourself
But you're somebody else
Only it ain't on the surface
Well you talk like yourself
No, I hear someone else though
Now you're making me nervous
I saw the part of you that only when you're older
You will see too, you will see too
Thank u ❤
It’s literally a lyric video, there was no point
Summer Bennett well, for people who are unfamiliar with the song and would still like to sing along, the lyrics in the video go a bit fast and when it’s going to the next line of the verse, the first word doesn’t pop up fast enough. I prefer to have the lyrics right in front of me instead of it popping up. If you don’t like it, sorry🙃
Karen Martínez you’re welcome 🥺💞
Mary Adindu oh sorry, didn’t realize it was a problem for people.
Whoever wrote this song - you're one heck of a songwriter!
thanks
Lmao this is one of the most repetitive songs I've ever heard
@@alexishpdeskjet6919 Repeating something well written is completely fine as I see it.
@@Ty-mu7gl Epstein didn't kill himself
Alexis HPDeskjet69 sounds like you have never heard of a typical song structure before lol
I’m 23 and being silently suffering from depression. I have childhood trauma and always been cheated on or left on by people whom I cared and loved the most. This song was introduced to me by a person who played me emotionally. He is now happily married and I hope he is happy with his wife now. My ex who left me after 5 years is now getting married. Everyone is happy. And genuinely I’m also happy for them. All I wish is peace and happiness in my life and others who are going through tough times. Hold yourself. Your time will come. Till then enjoy this bittersweet melancholy. ❤
im right there with you. but how are you doing?
were here for you
talk to someone. it can be your family or friends. girls souls are not built like men so ..
I hope you're well. Trauma isn't what happens to you, it's how you internalize it.
Whatever happened, it's over. We attract people who hurt us exactly how we subconsciously think we deserve to be hurt. It's what happens with trauma.
I hope you're in a great space now. Be well. Take care of yourself.
You sound like you've gone through a lot. So have I. You sound smart enough to know, not everyone is toxic and means to hurt. That doesn't mean give everyone a chance. Stay weary but keep trying. As often as you are comfortable. Best of luck to you.
The dislikes are people who couldn't see through their tears. This is officially my favorite song. 2020 anyone else?
2020 YES
Upvoting for most emo comment.
me
I got inspired from the Locke & Key series and when I came to this, it opened to one of my broken heart story as well.
Same
This song is as if 7 year old me and current me had a current conversation.
Fiona Everline yeah that’s a great way to describe the song
this song is as if me and inner me had a conversation
Exactly
It’s also like what I show for others to be satisfied and someone els seeing past what I hide if that makes sence
Yea...
losing a friend you loved so much and seeing them become someone else right in front of your face is the most heartbreaking thing i had to experience by far
Fernanda peña I’ve been through similar situation but here it was a girl I loved with one of my frnd and everyday I watched them meet talk etc... and hurt me so badly cuz he interrupted me when I was talkin with her and they became in relationship and cuz of tht I was never able to tell her hw I felt abt her
Fernanda peña ; I’m going through that now with someone. It hurts.
Melody Pond you will pull through this for sure I mean I survived so can you
I was the reason why I lost my best friend . And i changed a lot . But she didnt . But a the memories we had are still hurting so fucking much
@@melodypond1003 it really hurts, but you will get better. it might take a lot of time but i assure you that you will find better people that will love you
This song resonates with everyone:
Whether it be a breakup, losing someone you love.
Or the death of a loved one, or the drifting apart of a family member,
or you've changed, everyone interprets it I think with whatever's most relevant to them.
For me, I have a little brother that I've been watching grow up and it's making me nervous for who he's growing up into. Some days, I don't recognize him. Deep inside something's changed in him and I can't put my finger on the why or how.
I hope all goes well for you there stranger, ik what your feeling, i myself got a brother whos changed, idk whats gonna happen nxt, idk if the old him ever will come back, i miss him, ..
Heads up stranger, may all go well for ya
For me it was my little brother when I lost him part of me died too I haven't been the same since and I don't know if I'll ever be able to be truly happy again it's been 8 years and it's gotten worse not better
Anyone talking to themselves while crying bc u have nobody else to talk too?...
Currently me
yep. I talk to myself when I'm too sad or anxious and need someone..
Damn you got me there......hehe.
Do you want to talk about it?
you can talk to me
Does anybody else feel this song actually talks about looking at yourself? It's like looking in the mirror, and not recognizing the person staring back at you, or thinking back at your current life and it seems like you're watching a video of someone else's life.
The song is really about looking at your personal growth, for good or bad, and still feeling bewildered about how you ended up where you are currently.
Not recognising the person you became is the worst heartbreak in the world. There's only an empty shell left in its place
Oliwia i actually am in a much better place than i ever was, but while im on the path to finally living the dream, it doesnt feel quite real.
I wake up next to an amazing woman, have friends that genuinely care about me, am back in school and doing excellent, and my suicidal depression and physical fitness are back under control... yet this life doesnt seem to be mine. Its like im watching a movie and theres somebody else at the controls.
You read all the time about the somebody who turned their life around in a year or two, but they never mention how disconcerting it is. Im still waiting to wake back up in the hole i rotted in for 10 years, just waiting to die.
As happy as i am now, i keep getting flashes where i dont know how i got to this point in my life where everything seems so perfect, and just want to hang myself because it doesnt seem real.
@@emperorcatfish2919 opposite story here. Depression is digging its claws deeper and deeper and I feel like I'm losing friends, family, and my will to live
@Oliwia
Believe me when I say i know what thats like. The two single things that I did that helped the most was to begin putting distance between myself and the toxic people in my life, and taking up meditative hobbies (namely gardening and cooking).
The former allows you to stop the bleeding, and the latter builds your confidence and serenity, promoting healing.
Hang in there, and focus on yourself as much as you can. We only get the one life, so might as well try to make it enjoyable, or at least tolerable, until our time here is up.
OMG sameee
I’m not depressed, I’m just sad on the inside and I don’t know why. But it’s gonna be okay, we’re all gonna be okay.
The fact that so many people have liked this comment and can relate is saddening. But at least we all know we aren’t in this alone.💛💛
Honestly I feel the same way, as much as it sucks we just gotta keep pushing forward and just think its a bad time not a bad life
Youre sad because humanity is plagued by darkness and you may have a spirit to which devils are incompatible , hence, making it an uncomfortable experience on a planet currently ruled by dark forces. "Good" People are too weak to unite against the elite. MAYBE one day thatll change. But until then, may the force be with you ;)
Isn't that what all people say, sometimes you just have to exept it. Sometimes you just have to exept where you are and trying to make the most out of everyday
sending love your way ❤
@Aidan Cliff don’t worry it wasn’t a suicide I’m still alive. And I wouldn’t know what to say to anyone about it.
it is so strange to me how a song can affect people is so many ways like this one. I have never been able to keep friends that stuck around even when I was a little kid. I recently had my best friend leave me for other people and now I do not have friends and this song helps me get through the darker times. when all I feel is sadness or darkness creeping back in, I find a place or walk while listening to this song. this song helps me realize that I am not alone and there are other people that feel that darkness to and if I work hard as many have before me then I will get through this and find the happiness.
(for some context I am I high school)
i don’t know why but this song makes my heart drop to my stomach
maybe the drugs you took haha
Fer Cortez hahaha😂
Same
babe relate!
ExoticZapps it’d technically not drop but go diagonal 😁
This song literally describes how it feels to not know who you are anymore
I don't know who I am anymore. I've changed so much, for others. I've lost myself. I miss her
I look into the mirror and who I see is not myself anymore. Hang in there guys 💔
Dude same
def a self reflection of my simulation/reality/my past being
Akansha Singh me too.
Does anyone else just randomly feel like crying and then makes a whole playlist of sad songs and remembers this song but can’t remember the name so searched it up on TH-cam and then cry and then add it to ur sad playlist? Edit: OMG TYSM FOR ALL THE LIKED THIS IS THE MOST IV EVER GOT and also I thought it was just me who did that-
How do I make a playlist?
Gersmann Aguilar go onto library
@@iciclearray837 Thank you, I just realized. Now I can listen to depressing songs whilst I shower.
Gersmann Aguilar no problem
Im trying but I haven't been able to cry in 3 years
If anyone is listening to this and going through addiction or in the process of recovery, you got this! I am 10 years clean and I'm getting the person I used to be back. I'm reclaiming my life and I know you can too. It gets easier!!!
You are a badass!! Congrats man. Keep it up. ❤
@@MilLeAy Thank you.🖤🖤 I do the best I can. Day to day basis.
It makes sense that this song isn't about another person, but oneself indefinitely. The visuals, the lyrics and the subtle tone shifts are what gives me this feeling. Very well done to the artist, they've managed to capture the perspective of their new self; Glimpsing at the person they used to be.
Beautiful artistry was achieved when this was written.
I have been changing, but for the better. 2 years ago I was in the worst relationship ever. After that I started to chisel out a new person of myself. I didn't want to let others step on me or to be likey ex. I heard this song for the first time then and now I listen to it today and I'm happy to see myself like how I want to be versus before. Some people are angry or sad because of the changes that they have made to themselves. They must put on a mind set and focus on improving themselves. I garuntee that they will be much happier who ever they may be. One thing I had to do though was completely abandon how I used to dress and what music I listened to because it all reminded me of how I used to feel every day. Now I stead of pop I listen to country which I like much more now than I liked pop them. My style of clothes has gotten a little more muted. Colors like brown, black, khaki, and army green are what I wear now instead of sporty clothing. I am so much happier with myself now. The only people who notice are people that were fake friends then who didn't really have my back like the said they did. Now I have made the friend of a lifetime. I'm starting to get back into the dating ring carefully. I feel so much better now that I have changed
I don’t think that was the intention, but if that’s what you want to think go ahead.
This song is about the suicide of a loved one. I believe it.
It fits to well.
I’m sorry that this is so unrelated but I hate when people say stuff like “Oh if you know these songs you have TikTok it doesn’t mean you need a hug,” Knowing a song is different than hearing it. Relating to a song more than you ever had is knowing the song. 💛
Right, tiktok has showed me the best songs tbh
RandomEntertainment Same my favorite song I’ve found on TikTok so far it Overwhelmed by Royal & the Serpent. It’s so good. If you haven’t heard it yet you should really check it out!
I used to play this for my grandmother all the time as her dementia steadily got worse. She didn't understand the lyrics just the melody, but with me they resonated. From my grandma looking normal but seeing her true self slip away. Her memory, her strength. In the end she was just a mask that resembled my grandmother. But she was never alone or uncared for. She knew we loved her even if she couldn't remember our names.
Thats deep...
I feel terrible I know what it's like to lose someone it's so unfair I lost my father when I was six and this song reminds me of the things we could've done but can't anymore cause he is gone. I am so sorry you had to go through this, I understand how much it hurts
@@Your_Homie_Logan I'm soo sorry for your loss as well. Sometimes dwelling on the past can drive you crazy.
@@firstclassatlast5352 I agree have a good life.
I know exactly wat that is like. I never got to know my grandma before she got dementia so I wasn’t able to have those memories. I wonder wat kind of bond we might’ve had if things had been different. Image can’t help it but I feel a little sad when she can’t remember who I am
This is really, really deep. Amazing
This song found me when I was lost. Hope it finds you too.
RahimMRyan same
It did :')
Me too ❤
🥰
Forever lost.
the sad thing is that i’m not thinking of a friend or an ex, i’m thinking of the happy person i used to be
I really hope you're happy now ❤️
Same
Stop
You can be a happy person again. x
We need to accept what we’re becoming instead of challenging it
whoever reading this: u have very good taste in music ♡
Delicious
thank you
U TOO
Wow this comment made me so happy ☺
no i'm just sad
My granny had dementia and when she died I heard this song and on the days I miss my granny the most and need a cry I listen to this……💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
I feel for you. My condolences. My mother died 10 years ago of complications of dementia so I know how you feel. Though she was 83 this thing took her from me. It was so hard to hear this different person emerging. God took my mom quickly though. From diagnoses to death was 4 yrs. Dementia not only attacked her mind but her body. She forgot how to swallow. Many tears I cried and still do but I will see her again when I die. I know I will. 😢
Hugs for you my dear 🤗💔🫶 and your right we will defo all meet again xxx
“You never realise how important some people are until you lose them” miss you dad ❤️
I lost my dad three years ago man, it gets better trust me. It hurts a lot still but he's next to you through everything.
@@haydongreer7881 I’m sorry for your loss thank you for caring 💙
@Lena thank you 💙
Retweet miss my dad every sec
Sorry for your lose bro my prayers go to you
This song really hits the hardest when you’re depressed and looking at yourself in the mirror
Chin up bro 💙
Yeah
I love you. I’m with you. It’s hard.
yes *bawling my eyes out*
Ay, you're perfect. I love you, stay strong.
This is the most powerful song I've heard in a long time. The lyrics are beautiful but have a sorrow, pain filled vibe. The chorus is, once again, powerful, it's perfect in the feel and the tones are awesome. This is already my favorite song that I've heard this year. Its damn near perfect. I am a fan.
“I saw the part of you that only when you’re older you will see too “ … it says everything
I’m sorry for u babe if u feel the same way as the lyrics say, may u find some peace :3
thank you :)
thank you , you too♡
thank youu🥺
I hope afterlife doesnt exist or else i might suffer there aswell.
P90andCtrl their is no suffering in the after life, please fight to stay here tho🥺stay alive, the ones who get it hard will always be happy in the end❤️
To anyone who's hearing this song and feeling hopeless; it gets better. You are being put through something in life that will make you stronger on the other side. You are worth it. You are an amazing human, who's allowed to feel vulnerable and weak at times, but then comes back with the strength of a lion, who's ready to take on whatever is next. There will be a tomorrow. And your only goal should be just to get through life one day at a time. I promise you'll start to feel okay soon. It just takes time and patience, and changes to put your heart and mind in a better state. You've got this. I believe in you.
Thank you. Going through a lot have been the since half year after course of events have happened. When you said lion, it made me think of a time where my mother bought me a tiger's eye bracelet. It gave me strength
You speak with experience, whether it was one more many, thanks for writing on behalf.
Thank you. Really need that 💗
Who knew a stranger's words on the internet could make my eyes leak a bit? Your words are beautiful and I needed to hear that right now, I'm sure many reading it will need the encouragement and reminder. Thank you. ❤️
Thank u so much
Thank you so much for sharing this. I am in a dark place in my life right now, where nothing makes me really happy and I do feel hopeless. I hope that you are right.
All the comments talk about other people changing and leaving. I hear this about myself... when you've changed in ways you didn't want to, when you're someone you don't recognize, when you've become someone you hate. It hits different when you try to change to fit your ideal image of yourself but you have just got to accept that life has changed you in so many ways and you just have to move on from the past you.
Actually crying Rn lmao so fucking true
dealing with big changes rn and trying to save myself this hits
Very true! Imagine not having anyone but yourself to blame for the change. I was not even aware I was changing.
this.
dealing w the same shit rn big changes . someone I thought I knew I really didn’t at all☹️either I did and they changed so much or I really didn’t know them
My son was with me while I was singing this song... I was nervous it might be too close to his perception of me... he said *do you think of me with this song* it hit me how vulnerable we all feel with this one.
I’m so sorry, you’re a great and stronger woman and mother❤️🩹
No one notices when the strong one is tired of being strong
stay strong xx
@@Ellaaa12345 lmaooooo
In my friend group im the strongest I never cared about what people said but then sometimes i feel weak and cry then other people go like look at you your so weak like so is crying illegal
@@Ellaaa12345 nice
I’m that strong person
Anyone else listening at night because of an identity crisis and knowing that no matter who you are you can't accept yourself?-
Just me? Oof..
Me too
I like to think it means you are growing or morphing into someone different...whether that's a good thing or a bad thing is still up to you.
Accept*
@@davidqueen3115 oh yeah, thank you^^
@@Löweundju This is so nice I can't even.. thank you! this really cheered me up!! ^^
"We are all born strangers..its amazing we die with friends"
I think ama die alone inside my room
@@mavelah1666 same 👍
Actually I don't have any soo..
@@mavelah1666 this is so true lol
well...i dont have this...i only have family
Best send off song ever made 🙏🏼
💕🌟🔥
“ The most beautiful things in life cannot be seen or even touched- they must be felt with the heart.”
-Hellen Keller
This song hits me right in the heart, creating a feeling inside me too powerful for words.
My heart lied to me and made me go through a lot...I love myself ...But now I can't have feeling for anyone...She changed so suddenly n left me damaged, disheartened...But not anymore...Only thing I can now do is move on...
I am moving on
hellen keller never said anything like that
Stephen Kosar
If it inspires you then do something with those feelings. Actions are stronger than words so apply it in your life and try to make a difference.
Arpan Nandy
Good for you. Only, you say that you feel incapable of love... That may be on her. I don’t know what happened in your relationship, however if you can’t grow and change your perspective to feel deserving of love then that’s on you.
Dragonbourne121 HollyUndead She did...if you look up "Helen Keller quotes", it's literally the first thing that pops up 🤦🏻♀️
I can’t. Stop. Listening. To. This. Song.
Missing someone is hard. But missing someone who doesn’t miss you back hurts more😔🥺
even harder mission someone who cant miss you back anymore
Thats why games existe
@@satan6832 hey head up king (me still depressed after telling someone to keep there head up)
It will be ok, things will get better eventually it just takes time. At least that’s what People keep telling me.
Book Goes On Chapter Goes End
Came here to say i use to hear this song and think only of myself and the phases of me that have come and gone... times of dilated pupils staring at my reflection in the mirror at 3am... admitting to my self silently, "Lauren, look at you, youve changed..how did we let it get this far?" .... this song helped bring me back to myself quite often....
*****
But now, fast forward 10 years, im a mother now...and when i hear this song i cant help but understand it from my 10 year old sons perspective.. i feel when i start to lose myself or get off track... he would choose to use this song to express what that feels like to him... to witness his mom deal with mental illness and a life of grief, and have to be there in alll those moments, ups and downs and be able to notice when she starts to get bad again.....
I know this song once showed me when i was changing, or needed to change ....i can only imagine it would be the same for my son.
Everyone's saying they miss their old friends but I can't stop imagining a conversation with my younger self and how disappointed they'd be in me. I'm so sorry for what I've done to you...
Me too😞
Reading this comment made me realize im a teriible person and im not who i wanted to be
It’s never too late to change
Same 😢
@@sammhenge3814 u ain’t a terrible person ur a great person u just haven’t found urself yet
Welcome to the beautiful side of TH-cam.
❤❤❤
I starts to listenin 21 pilots, and now i like every music that's recomended
@@dwzenix7954 wow I guess you know all of those people personally
💖💗💞
The best thing in hearing a sad song is sharing your pains with people who are feeling like you it is like my second home
I feel you man
And that is the comment section ;-;
And that’s the universal magic of music. Everyone interprets it through their own lens, yet somehow certain songs touch the same inner chord. A song can have the same importance to one person for a totally different reason than it does for someone else.
I came back to this 5 years later and realize I healed. Thank you!
Congrats!
This is for Sam. Lonely, misunderstood, taken advantage of. For all the Sams inside us who find someone to tell us that we're special, and for all the unfortunate ones who don't.
Who's Sam?
@@lawmsiamahlawndo4651 watch locke and keys
@@ezinneijomanta1226 will do, thanks.
sam deserve better :((((
@@salsa3411 aw what about his Sister
I'm guessing this song is about someone who became depressed, and changed into a whole different person on the inside
i feel like it’s about someone who chose drugs and or suicide over someone else. thats how i relate to it anyway
yea I agree
I feel like I can relate to this song so much
I feel like it’s when you watch someone you know so well change so much, so it’s like you don’t know them anymore. And it’s like you can’t get them back they’re just not the same anymore and they never will be
333 999 completely agree D:
This song changed my life. I had been struggling with (maybe) severe alcohol addiction since I was 15, as a trauma coping mechanism. When I was 25, I used to go to this beautiful park near my home in Bucharest, contemplate, stargaze, listen to music and drink. Here was the place when I first listened to this song. While intoxicated, the lyrics hit me so hard that I realized I had a problem and I promised myself I would someday overcome drinking and be proud of the man I will have become. 4 years straight I went sober, never touched alcohol, while also suffering from crippling depression, desperation and anxiety. I listened to it many times and it became one of my anthems. Now I am clean, and drink moderately, sometimes I get inebriated, but never get wasted and can live without alcohol. The lyrics hit me different now, it seems I have finally got the message. Please help others who deserve it, if you can, and try to share your gifts to the world. It will come around to you as you never imagined. May you be blessed and happy. Stay strong.
I'm happy for you bro. Never go back there.
alcoholics cant drink in moderation be careful
Best wishes. You stay strong too.
I'm 16 days sober, I pray I can make it 4 years. 1 year would be good
@@vaspia19 you got this brother.
_we believe in you_
Im so grateful i didnt discover this song until after a heart break.
I cried enough nights that i didnt need this gem to exacerbate that pain.
On to the next one now.
Same man, same...
I first heard this song laying in a hospital bed with cancer and the possibility of death looming. It hit because I looked like myself, however, I was weak and not in the fast lane anymore. I went from independent to completely dependent and helpless. This song reminds me of what I have conquered. Once again, I am somebody else, and better for it, living my dream and striving toward my goals while hoping to be an inspiration.
All, no matter how dark of a place you are in, whatever you are going through, you will be better for having overcome it.
You're really strong, friend. I'm glad you overcame those things.
You are legend ❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hope you thanked Jesus for that. You were saved by the grace of The Most High. To whom much is given much is required.
God bless your soul 🙏🏼🤍
"you never know the meaning of a moment until it becomes a memory" - Dr. Suess
Edit: thanks everyone for the likes holy, wish I could get this much on my channel 😂
Seuss
That’s.. deep.
“I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days before you’ve actually left them” Andy Bernard
That hit home. Oh how I wish you were here to see me now. You would be so proud. 😪
This is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo true
Are you'll okay?, these comments made me cry more than the video
No
@@jackcollier4262 do you want to talk about it?
@@cloedominichini7439 no thank you
I’m fine what are u talking about...I’m not okay
@@Xcxgyy it actually gets better, hang in there, good luck
A very special young lady introduced me to this band, and I listen to them often.
Thanks MC 👍
My Dad is an alcoholic. When I was younger and he still lived with us, he used to be so violent and angry and it always scared me. But when he was sober he was the nicest person ever. I always cry when I hear this song, because it reminds me of everything. I know I shouldn't keep listening to it, but I really can't help it. I'm writing this for someone who could be in the same situation. Don't worry. It gets better. I promise.
edit: My dad passed away about 3 months ago from cancer. i am not really sure why im back here again, but we eventually made up. im going to miss him, even if he did cause me a lot of trauma.
Squashed Alien. Thank u. My das also was an alcoholic. He died last year cuz of cancer.
@@梦-o2e so sorry for you loss
@@梦-o2e I am so sorry...
I feel you❤
I absolutely agree with you,cause my story with my dad was so similar ,he was alcoholic too and he died this year from heart attack!
Pov: u watch this and feel like crying but you can't...
*Thank you for the likes it will get better..
2021:
*it's getting better :)
Damn same but it’ll be all right. I hope so
I shed a single tear like a second ago
Pov: is not a POV for me
that reality dude
why would i cry over sime evolved ape making sounds lmao
"You were the better part of every bit of beating heart that i had. Whatever i had." 💗💗
That part hit me hard
Coleen Vlogs Hit me so hard
I read this just as it played. It was the most amazing coincidence I've ever been in!
@@emmaformanova9808 Same...ditto..
Elami Walker Same Same
Great song. Always liked it. Good Doctor 😊