We're living in a era where social media seems to dictate our mental health. We've become influencers and thus, also influenced. It's a double edge sword. What's happening in S. Korea isn't any different from any other country, just more pronounced and magnified. The obsessions on plastic surgery, wearing designer labels, making lots of money, having a title, being thin...etc. seems to be the main focus. It's such a sad picture.
Yes the social media craze coupled with the insane pecking order we have in Korea unlike the west, where as a celeb you can be forgiven or ignored for many things unless its insanely serious/criminal. But here? NOPE people will harraass and hate on you for the smallest things, turn everything and nothing into a controversy. Go back and try to dig up your past or the past of your family and friends in an attempt to cancel you, have crazy as stalkers aka saseangs constantly bothering you, some may even assault you ( this just happened to a member of the boyz) Then you add on mental health being a joke in Korea and not taken seriously ontop of the already anti social behavior thats "typical" in east asian countries so adding this isolation/lonliness no friends etc then the double whammy of being a celebrtity on top of it. You have less than 5% of this shit to deal with as a celeb in say the usa or another western country. So its no suprise that many of these Korean stars are dying 24/7 yet the same issue is nonexisent in the west. obviously we need some serious change as a society and culturally but unfortunately this shit will take generations to change in Korea and by that time it might be too damn late.
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITA first time I’m seeing a Korean admitting the mindset and behaviour of the people need to change. Cos any time I come across these issues, Koreans always give the excuse of “that’s just how it is” and “every country has its bad side” blah blah blah. And my reaction is, can’t you see how this is literally taking away your own citizens? aren’t there social groups and advocates that fight to stop these crazy social behaviours that leads to people unaliving themselves? Korea for sure has to rise up and citizens shouldn’t wait for government to do something. Social change actually starts from the grass roots, tackle the problem amongst yourselves and maybe change will happen even faster. How can your own people be unaliving themselves like chickens and you still havent risen up to fight this horror? Nah, Korea definitely has to also enact laws to handle these crazy antis and advocate for change fast, the survival of the country depends on how active it is to correct these harmful mindsets
Maybe it's best to use old fashion phone so you don't look at social media so much. I also felt that it's the entertainment companies that are giving them a lot of pressure too.
100% agree about the haters and jealousy in the Korean community. My family in the US doesn’t keep in contact with some of our relatives in Korea bc they feel either monetarily superior or monetarily inferior. even amongst the Korean community in the US, there is a lot of hating and jealousy- it’s really sad to see.
Fr tho I’m like a 17 year old Korean American dude who is middle class and some Koreans here in States refuse to associate themselves with me simply because I’m not as interesting, popular, or as rich as they are.
I’m pretty sure jealousy and hatred are everywhere it’s in our fundamental as human beings the problem is how to deal with that will make the difference,belief and principles are the key here .
The biggest issue I see is loneliness. Actors and Idols are shamed for dating and falling in love, they can lose their jobs. Then you got no friends or people you can trust when famous. Being at the top is very lonely. Yes, Korea has the most viscous haters and until the government puts a stop to it, it will stay out of control. Celebrities need to start suing the shit out of these people. I know some Idol entertainment companies do this and now others must. Haters are mentally ill people who feel they are untouchable, and they need to be held accountable. If you have trouble with people becoming famous or successful to the point you want to lash out, you need to seek therapy, that is not normal or healthy. It's like no one taught them how to get off their own behinds and work for what they want. If you wanted to be a famous Idol and you are at home online complaining it is your fault, you do not have the actual passion for it or drive. So shut up and go do something else.
Yes, this made news here in UK, I didn't know about the stalker though, poor man 😢 The pressure on these celebrities must be horrendous, it's almost like they are the property of the fans. Thanks for your perspective on this AKM
I also live in the uk and I had not heard of this person until I watched Moon embracing the sun that is the only thing I have watched him in and acted his part well but what has happened is so sad I feel for his family may he rest in peace
I heard about his, and it’s truly sad. There’s another saying, “Comparison is the death of joy.” I agree, live your lives and be the best you can be! Pursue your passions and do everything in love!
Every time I read about another Korean celebrity committing suicide my heart breaks. Of course we really don’t know why Song Jae Rim decided to leave this world. However, I wonder if it is worthwhile to be a famous person these days. With social media, the celebrity can be stalked and bullied in such a cruel way. Rest in Peace, Song Jae Rim. I will always remember you as the bodyguard in Moon Embracing the Sun 😢
I am now interested in K-Pop for about 3 years, and so I get interested for SK as a whole. There were times when a celeb committed suicide every month, I was really shocked ! I read about it, that it is often because the high expectations from the SK society. Dating no way, the celeb belongs to his/her fans, smoking oh no, drinking, everyone but not the celeb! Being a bit lazy, oh no forbidden, just in the COVID time accepted! And now the reasons you mentioned, are we really talking about humans or robots?
I’m so angry that these stalkers never seem to be held accountable and probably just look for a new victim. Imagine how jealous and envious you’d have to be to hound a celebrity to this point. It’s beyond tragic and my heart breaks not only for him but his family and friends.
I wish every person could be so level headed like you! It is so sad when the world loses wonderful people. I wish there was more help for them before these things happen
Chasing wealth never leads to true happiness. I know because the richest people in the world continue to seek wealth. More money will never satisfy them, much in the same way another drink will never satisfy an alcoholic.
You're right. I noticed that many Koreans (not all) are not happy when someone is happier or richer especially getting richer. It's sad. In Germany, there is a word, schadenfreude, the emotional experience of pleasure in response to another's misfortune.
Toxic society at its best,,, if people just learned. How to respect,, humanity exist and hate is not a disease this world have ,, this kind of choices won't exist in the first place ,, it's just so sad , and my heart is aching for those who choose to end the unbearable pain they have 😢😢😢😢😢
I did see it on u tube yesterday. I just couldn’t believe. I watched this young man in a few dramas. My condolences go out to his family. I know how his parents is feeling right now, because I want through this three years ago. I pray that God will give the family his peace in this time of grief. I know that these actors and actresses in entertainment industry goes through a lot. People pretend to be their fans and say how much they love them. But as soon as the actors make a mistake they bring them down. That is not love. Love have forgiveness. Because no human being is perfect we all sin. And what u said about people in Korea being jealous of others achieving and having more than them that is something that in alot of humans all over the world jealousy of talent material success it bad. That people behave did way. I would say to these actors please around urself with people genuinely love u. No what u have but u. God is really needed there life. He brings love peace and enjoy.
Very interesting video. Korean seems to have a really big problem, and it’s permeating society in a very negative and dangerous way. These incidents are heartbreaking; suicides, hate messages, banners and buses, funeral wreaths, trying to ruin celebrities careers, it’s all an indication of a very immature and mentally disturbed element in society. It maybe fueled by social media, but nonetheless a red flag for the future well being of the young people of the Korea.
Thanks for the insight. I've watched a few K dramas with my daughter but the one that stuck me the most was the first one - 'Doona' which I hinted at some of what you were saying. In fact, we were talking about this the high rates of suicide when I dropped her off at school this morning. I'm so sad for these people. I think extreme poverty may make some people more competitive. My dad's family were like this too and he emigrated to the UK from Mauritius in the late 60's and worked really hard for everything he achieved. He would hear his brothers talk bad about him and even rip him off. That must have made him sad as he was a very kind gentle soul and would help anyone out. Now I realise they were just jealous.This is a very low vibrational emotion and when that energy is thought of, it gets sent to you through the ether so you must always protect yourself from energy vampires. TY.
I feel sorry for them, especially the younger ones who feel this is the only solution to their pain. As the saying goes, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I don't know about Korea but here in the US we have a suicide hotline to call 24/7 to receive guidance and help. May this young actor find the peace this world could not give him.
Its horrible ! This was wonderful. Thank you. You missed alters pick their favorites. No one is any better that who they picked. So they hate on, lie about and spread rumors and others accept them as truth with nothing other than some unknown persons lie. They can destroy a persons career, destroy them income options, disrupt their complete life and at some point it’s over. That’s enough to drive a few people straight to the edge I can’t stand hearing that another Korean actor or singer (including those from other countries that are here working ) has taken their life. There are no laws to stop it and no plans to fix it and I have yet to hear it spoken at a higher level. If it was, I missed it.
I think, everywhere you find such people. If you get to success, you loose a lot of friends or you find jealous persons around you who try to control or harm you. 😢
Those jealous and envious people need to find God and believe in Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Never covet what others have, love your neighbors as yourself, treat others as you want to be treated. Pray and be kind to everyone. Pray for your enemies and those that try to hurt you. I'm not perfect. Life is difficult. But life is also precious and can be beautiful if you look for the beauty. Many people believe in reincarnation and think they have four lives to live. No, you have ONE LIFE, ONE CHANCE, ONE OPPORTUNITY to live correctly. Although we cannot be perfect, we can be kind. I'm so sad he's Song Jae Lim is gone. He was so beautiful and deserved to be alive and happy. I hope South Korean learns to stop hatefull comments and protect their people. I hope they get a suicide phone number for people to call. Song probably needed a hug or a kind word to save him. I'm sad I wasn't able to help him but in his honor I will try to be even kinder and watchful of other's pain in case I can be of help. If anyone reading this is having a difficult time, please 🙏 make it to tomorrow. Always, make it to tomorrow. Reach out to as many people as you have to without shame. Ask for help. Tell people how you feel and what thoughts you are having. Remember that thoughts can be good or bad. Feelings and thoughts are not the same. Try to separate your feelings from your thoughts and try to make a rational decision and understand that even if you think no one cares--we do. You matter and you are needed in this world. The pain you feel may ve the same pain another is feeling. You can use your pain and your experiences to help others and kindness heals. In your most difficult time, show kindness and don't give up. Don't leave. We need you here. Otherwise, the world will be too dark. Be the light in this world.
Thank you for speaking out about this! One of my newest favorite K-pop group has been severely impacted by haters. The group is RIIZE and because of haters, member Seunghan was placed on an indefinite hiatus for over 10 months. Then once SM announced he would return to active status, the haters lashed out with a vengeance even sending 100's of condolence funeral wreaths to SM demanding his permanent removal. Less than 48 hours later, SM announced that due to the backlash (and against the members and SM's decision that the group should continue with all 7 members), Seunghan would actually be leaving RIIZE and RIIZE would continue as 6 members now. It so sad since this young man didn't do anything criminal, nor anything which hurt or potentially hurt others. Right now, I thank every day that there is no announcement of his departure from this world. I hope that the OT7 boycott against SM becomes successful and he gets a chance to return to the group. Haters just can't be allowed to win, let alone have a big company like SM condone unwarranted hateful and irrational behavior by them and make business decisions based on it. I also know there is a disconnect between my family here in the US (from Korea) and our family in Korea, because of what each values. Materialism is a serious issue in both countries, but it's the level at which people compare and judge each other because of it that is the difference. Really, it's a problem in the Korean community, domestic and abroad, but domestic does seem quite worse.
It’s tragic. It’s time for the entertainment companies to start talking better care of their actors and singers. The celebrities make their money but there doesn’t seem to be any help when they struggle emotionally. Is there a stigma about seeking therapy, like the agencies fear scandal etc?
Despair, utter hopeless, can be so overwhelming that it can swallow a person whole, as it did with this young man who passed. I cannot judge people who feel this way, but I wish I could tell everyone who is contemplating such a final act that there is always hope, sometimes hidden, sometimes only a slim sliver of hope, but enough to carry you through the darkness.
Every time I hear about a suicide like this, my heart hurts. I think celebrity can come with a lot of loneliness which is very painful. It’s beyond sad that this young and successful actor felt he had to end his life.
This is incredibly sad! How many more do they have to lose? I don't understand fans in Korea who exhibit online harassment, aggression, and obsession. Their main goal is to take these artists down. Mental health is also taboo, making it difficult for these celebrities to seek help. I think the worst fan behavior is seen in the K-pop industry. It's unbelievably Toxic! When SHINee's Kim Jong Hyun took his life, I walked away from it. Talented, young, and precious souls are gone forever due to the actions of other human beings (if we can call them that).
When we observed the frequency of commit suicide cases of celebraties happens mainly in south korea compared to other countries. Something needs to be done.
Hi,I just start to follow your chanel,cause I love,I adore your country,I wish so much to come there 🙏It's so sad to hear how Korean celebrities commit suicide in every year You have a ill society and this seems that never stop,on contrary...it's so inimaginabile how it's possible to happen something like that.Sad,sad,sad😢😢😢
It is so sad this happened. I truly enjoyed his dramas. He was very talented. I hate when these things happen to these wonderful people. It happens too often & I hate that people can be so mean & judgmental. They deal with so many harsh situations & horrible people in the industry. They need to be protected & not abused like this!! Shame on those who do this!
May Song Jae Rim rest in peace 🙏 That is so sad😢😢 He was a nice guy and great actor! I cannot imagine what his friends and family are going through! ❤❤
Unfortunately I have seen this happen several times in the kpop industry. You never really know what a person may be going thru behind a beautiful smile in any walk of life. Thank you for speaking on such a serious subject and giving the average korean man perspective. *I don't think you're average* I think SK has the highest suicide rate in the world and the lowest birth rate in the world (please correct if wrong). Many prayers for those that are hurting. 🙏
Good afternoonnn!! Yeah! It´s very sad! But actually Reaching this point often stems from numerous social pressures, especially for Korean idols. Constant pressures-financial demands, the strict control of managers dictating what they can and cannot do-alienate idols from reality and their surroundings. These relentless expectations distance them from genuine relationships, leading to depression. For Korean society, suicide has thus become a more critical issue than any other illness. 사회로부터 소외된 관계의 단절이 결국 죽음으로 내몬 것 같기도 하고, 사회적 관계보다 자신의 우울증이 빚은 심리·문화적 공황 상태가 원인이기도 하기 때문이다. 그만큼 자살은 그 어떤 질병보다도 심각한 한국사회의 문제가 된 것이다.
It sounds like there is a lot of JEALOUSY in your country. I wrote it in capital letters because it is a very big problem in the world, but many people don't realized they are jealous of others. They justify their hatred toward another person or group of people by blaming them for one thing or another and villainizing them. A word of advice, you always have to be on your guard against JEALOUSY because it is an easy trap to fall into and a very deceptive one!!!
I’m a very big fan of Song Jaerim and am in the middle of rewatching “I wanna hear your song” when I heard the new, and I thought it had to be fake news. It doesn’t seem real. It is very sad. He’s always so alluring in every role he portrays. His smile was so bright and genuine. He brought a lot of light to not just his family, friends and coworkers, but also a lot to us fans. He will be deeply missed by many. May he rest in peace 😔 🙏🏻 🕊️ 🤍
May his soul rest in peace. It's so sad that such things happen. I've read that such suicides often do happen because of people being harrassed by haters (and that also in this case it could have been like this). I think that how actors, singers or other celebrities are treated in the SK much differs from how it is in many other countries. Even if everywhere there are some gossip portals or magazines, which some do read just for fun, no one is obsessed with private lives of these people so much to pay much attention to it, not so much to hunt someone down with hate, to dictate them how they should live. We separate someone as an actor or singer from their private lives. And everyone has the right to do with their lives what they want - unless they commit crimes or other really harmful acts, for which they are sentenced and punished legally, not just by haters. It's hard to imagine that for instance a bunch of some Internet trolls or haters may destroy someone's life just like that, and that it's not so rare, and that no one really tries to do sth about it. It wouldn't be possible however if the rest of the society would oppose to such hate and truly condemn it. We don't really have such things as celebrities being dictated so much how they should live their private life or for instance having to announce publicly that they intend to officially meet or live with someone, we don't have something like "going public with a relationship" (that I've read that celebrities in SK do), we don't idolize celebrities like it probably is in SK. And for sure everyone deserves to have appropriate, effectively enforced, protection against harrassment in Internet, protection of privacy, of private data, of reputation and good name and against defamation.
In one of your recent videos you displayed what was most important to countries around the world...South Korea values material good- money. No wonder people in South Korea hate others who are successful and famous. They are lacking love in their hearts, not loving one another. As a Christian, I celebrate someone elses accomplishments and successes! I want the best for my friends and family! Love destroys hatred!
cool. you don't have to be a christian to have good qualities and be a decent human. sad that you have to push your personal agenda everywhere under the guise of love.............
Korea counts as a Christian nation. Whoever is not, is some type of Buddhist, which is even better. The world's been witnessing what Christians have been and still are doing, and it has NOTHING to do with Jesus. 😧😧
@@btd389 Actually I read 20% but how accurate can these stats be. ? In any case preaching that Christians hold the moral high ground in this sad post seems somehow inappropriate
Why can’t celebrities just quit the industry instead of suicide. They are either being blackmailed or worried about tarnished reputation. Some netizen have no sympathy toward their celebrities. The ones that are gone have suffered before committing. Hope he finds peace.
Not quit, they should move out or find work abroad and spend less time in Korea. But I think the biggest issue they have with that is the lack of fluency in English and they’re insecure about that. Because if I was a celeb in Korea, I see nothing that will stop me from leaving that country. If I was an idol, I’d look for how a company abroad will sign me, same way if I was an actor too. Enrolling in classes to learn English is easy, plus one doesn’t have to be fluent in English before they move to the west for opportunities.
On the heels of this, there are some news reports that are coming out that female stalker fans are harassing male Korean celebrities (actors, singers, ETC). Why is that? I think there should be a discussion on this as well. What is happening to Korean women that they do this? Something needs to change here.
I think the pressure on actors and idols is beyond belief in Korea. Grown men and women can’t date otherwise it becomes a “scandal” which can affect their job and earnings. Even when they go out there are people watching them and taking photos so everything they eat/drink/ say/ becomes a “scandal” . People come out of the woodwork and accuse them of terrible things, and even if there’s no proof they can lose their jobs. Even when they try to do something good they haters accuse them of terrible things. Like when Jimin from BTS was accused of encouraging gambling because he lent money to someone.
I’ve also been wondering about that and I came to the same conclusion as you: jealousy is a factor. I’m shocked by the enthusiasm with which Koreans attack successful other Koreans when they get a chance, some seem more keen on hating than on celebrating their success.
To me, and no offence, South Korea is a country with a lot of cultural contradictions. They want to be westernized, but they are so glued and tied to their conservative cultural roots that they are actually suffocating them. They want to mimic the openness of western civilizations, but they are not willing to be open to their ideologies and values. I am not saying either one is right or wrong, but being so indecisive and wavering of their identity is a mental health killer. I don't live in Korea, but I have a Korean neighbor who avoided me like a plague, giving me a disgusted look when she was aware that I was dealing with mental health struggles. They are not willing to be truthful and accepting to and of themselves, and that destroys them.
I have so much respect for 이승기 . He must have had a really hard time when everyone seemed to have an opinion about his in-laws and on top of that he was being gaslighted and abused for most of his career by people he trusted. You have to be very strong to go for the love of your life and keep going in life. Could have gone differently with him.
Once you compare your life to others, you can't be happy or content. Celebrities should also think that they should not only live for the people around them, like their fans but also prioritize themselves. There is no point in striving for success and fame if you let people around you control how you live your life. Mental and physical health are vital when working in a competitive and complex world.
It's more likely that this poor actor was a victim of sexual assault and abuse. This equals chronic mental torturing. On the outside everything looks fine, but mentally it's a vulcano. The entertainment industry is an unhealthy toxic environment full of predators of all kinds. For instance Harvey Weinstein in the US who's now in prison. Johnny Kitagawa in Japan, who was a founder of talent agency for boy bands who 'allegedly' assaulted and abused several hundred teenagers for decades. It wouldn't surprise me if the Korean authorities will do everything in their power to silence the unfortunate suicide. Don't stick with rumors. Who started it? A crazy fan is just a scapegoat. The entertainment industry is worth billions. A sex scandal would ruin many things. Take care. (sen/15-11-2024/Belgium/Europe).
It's the same outpouring every time this tragedy happens !! we need to protect them , we need to do more etc !! But nothing is ever done about it !! It will always stay the same !! Celebrities living under the thumb of a judgemental and toxic society dictating how they look , their love lives, and their private lives !!
"Friends and Family wish you well, just not better than them" - a very common reflection of asian societies. I have a feeling this is caused from inequality?
You said there are some people who don't want to see other people become successful? Well, that's what we call "crab mentality" in the Philippines. We have a bunch of people like that here, too. They will do anything to pull you down so they can go up. Just like crabs right?
это печально. надеюсь его письмо обнародуют и можно будет понять что произошло. очень грустно, что он попал в какую то ситуацию с которой сам не мог справиться и ни к кому не обратился за помощью. Мудр был царь Соломон, у которого было кольцо с надписью "Все проходит, и это тоже пройдет". Но если перейти к сухой статистике - то проблема суицидов имеется во всех странах. И была эта проблема всегда. По сравнению с 16-м - 17-м веками сейчас даже менее страшно, т.к. в то время был раскол церкви, старообрядцев притесняли и были случаи когда они сжигались домами и даже деревнями.
And for the actors and idols, it’s the whole system in the industry that makes them become victims. The Korean entertianment industry is so controlling that they give fans the power to dictate to the stars how to act inorder to fulfil the fantasies of the fans. It’s like the stars are forced to cape for the fans continuous love and support so they have to act how the fans want or else….. Give these celebs autonomy and change the system. Let them date and live normal lives and take away the power to dictate from the fans. If they can’t support an idol or actor until they feel like they have to project their fantasies onto them then they should stop being fans. Artists&Actors will never lack supporters for their work and the fans don’t have to have control over them for them to succeed.
Very sad, very sad...it should not be like this. Very wrong, there should be livht and laughter. How come there are so many haters? Why is this so imbedded in the culture? Because Korea looks so nice. And there are many very nice and intelligent Korean people. Very sad.
I love following you and knowing about your life and about your country who, I feel, resembles in a way my country, Canada. But I do not not understand at all the idea of giving money to a person following you.What could be the reason to do that ? Will some people try to convince you that they like you and appreciate you in order to be the one rewarded ? It does not seem to me a very healthy relationship.
Being from Canada myself I do agree. Especially now with social media that puts pressure on the actors and singers. I went on vacation last year and found Koreans who visited places where I was dressed in fashionable clothing. You could tell that they had a lot of money. There is a saying that when you die, you are not bringing your 🧰 with you.
Hi from US. I am a fan of the actor who left us the other day. As an American and an older person I don't really understand how someone can let the sick people online control lives. Not only the loss of him but recently a k-pop singer was kicked out of a group for really doing nothing wrong cause he had girlfriend? I had always way to go to Korea because I know Korean Americans. Seeing all the hate, I guess I'm better staying put here in the US.
I heard about the loss of this actor and was very sad. There is a mental health crisis in my part of the world and many people need help. The problem is there isn’t enough Mental Health facilities/doctors to handle it. To take your own life away means they need help to handle these negative thoughts. Do you have any help for this in SK?
Yes, there are psychiatric clinics and mental health counseling services in Korea, but many people don’t want to leave a record of having visited one and consider going to a psychiatrist as a negative action. This is because some people view those who have been to a psychiatric clinic as unusual, and it could potentially cause issues when seeking employment
I think you know the true answer of why, these people are connected to the bureaucracy in Korea, they signed their name on the dotted line, so it’s modern day slavery. These “famous” people are also hybrid agents for Korea. At the same time the working class public is working long hours trying to make ends meet, some people get really emotional, envious, jealous, which puts more pressure on the celebrity. The beauty standards are high, women don’t want a single blemish. Then social media can be extremely toxic on a global spectrum.
Your point is very interesting, can you please elaborate on the connection to bureaucracy thing. Are you saying they allow them to be famous only to bring attention to the country hence they can’t change the way things are and seek help since they’ve agreed to be enslaved to the system for fame? I need further clarification please. I admire a Kpop idol there and his entire being is scrutinized and I keep wondering why he just can’t leave. Sometimes I feel like he’s being blackmailed, so pls elaborate so I can see if there’s a connection. Thank you
Please stop assuming that he committed suicide because he had a stalker. We have no idea what caused it. If so, the police would be investigating and it is stupid to spread false information. I saw a TV show a few years ago where he went on and showed how he spends a day at home. He said that he has had to pay off a lot of his family's debts and take responsibility for them. It seemed to me that he had been through a lot at a young age. It could be that it was a combination of things that he had been dragging around for a long time and badly treated depressions, but we don't know so we shouldn't speculate. The number of suicides is high in Korean society, celebrities are part of this society and are not exempt, what happens is that since they are public figures we notice it and feed the victimist narrative towards the celebrities that bring so much income to this vile industry, created by this industry
We're living in a era where social media seems to dictate our mental health. We've become influencers and thus, also influenced. It's a double edge sword. What's happening in S. Korea isn't any different from any other country, just more pronounced and magnified. The obsessions on plastic surgery, wearing designer labels, making lots of money, having a title, being thin...etc. seems to be the main focus. It's such a sad picture.
Just bravo to these wise words!
Yes the social media craze coupled with the insane pecking order we have in Korea unlike the west, where as a celeb you can be forgiven or ignored for many things unless its insanely serious/criminal. But here? NOPE people will harraass and hate on you for the smallest things, turn everything and nothing into a controversy. Go back and try to dig up your past or the past of your family and friends in an attempt to cancel you, have crazy as stalkers aka saseangs constantly bothering you, some may even assault you ( this just happened to a member of the boyz) Then you add on mental health being a joke in Korea and not taken seriously ontop of the already anti social behavior thats "typical" in east asian countries so adding this isolation/lonliness no friends etc then the double whammy of being a celebrtity on top of it. You have less than 5% of this shit to deal with as a celeb in say the usa or another western country. So its no suprise that many of these Korean stars are dying 24/7 yet the same issue is nonexisent in the west. obviously we need some serious change as a society and culturally but unfortunately this shit will take generations to change in Korea and by that time it might be too damn late.
Yes, I think it is very sad, double edge sword.
@@TAKIZAWAYAMASHITA first time I’m seeing a Korean admitting the mindset and behaviour of the people need to change. Cos any time I come across these issues, Koreans always give the excuse of “that’s just how it is” and “every country has its bad side” blah blah blah.
And my reaction is, can’t you see how this is literally taking away your own citizens? aren’t there social groups and advocates that fight to stop these crazy social behaviours that leads to people unaliving themselves? Korea for sure has to rise up and citizens shouldn’t wait for government to do something. Social change actually starts from the grass roots, tackle the problem amongst yourselves and maybe change will happen even faster.
How can your own people be unaliving themselves like chickens and you still havent risen up to fight this horror? Nah, Korea definitely has to also enact laws to handle these crazy antis and advocate for change fast, the survival of the country depends on how active it is to correct these harmful mindsets
Maybe it's best to use old fashion phone so you don't look at social media so much.
I also felt that it's the entertainment companies that are giving them a lot of pressure too.
100% agree about the haters and jealousy in the Korean community. My family in the US doesn’t keep in contact with some of our relatives in Korea bc they feel either monetarily superior or monetarily inferior. even amongst the Korean community in the US, there is a lot of hating and jealousy- it’s really sad to see.
Fr tho I’m like a 17 year old Korean American dude who is middle class and some Koreans here in States refuse to associate themselves with me simply because I’m not as interesting, popular, or as rich as they are.
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I’m pretty sure jealousy and hatred are everywhere it’s in our fundamental as human beings the problem is how to deal with that will make the difference,belief and principles are the key here .
Rest In Peace Song Jae Rim.
The biggest issue I see is loneliness. Actors and Idols are shamed for dating and falling in love, they can lose their jobs. Then you got no friends or people you can trust when famous. Being at the top is very lonely. Yes, Korea has the most viscous haters and until the government puts a stop to it, it will stay out of control. Celebrities need to start suing the shit out of these people. I know some Idol entertainment companies do this and now others must. Haters are mentally ill people who feel they are untouchable, and they need to be held accountable. If you have trouble with people becoming famous or successful to the point you want to lash out, you need to seek therapy, that is not normal or healthy. It's like no one taught them how to get off their own behinds and work for what they want. If you wanted to be a famous Idol and you are at home online complaining it is your fault, you do not have the actual passion for it or drive. So shut up and go do something else.
Korean society is very harsh and unforgiving
Yes, this made news here in UK, I didn't know about the stalker though, poor man 😢 The pressure on these celebrities must be horrendous, it's almost like they are the property of the fans. Thanks for your perspective on this AKM
I also live in the uk and I had not heard of this person until I watched Moon embracing the sun that is the only thing I have watched him in and acted his part well but what has happened is so sad I feel for his family may he rest in peace
@@heatherwilson9485 Yes I have seen that. I’m also in UK.
Very sad
I heard about his, and it’s truly sad. There’s another saying, “Comparison is the death of joy.” I agree, live your lives and be the best you can be! Pursue your passions and do everything in love!
Every time I read about another Korean celebrity committing suicide my heart breaks. Of course we really don’t know why Song Jae Rim decided to leave this world. However, I wonder if it is worthwhile to be a famous person these days. With social media, the celebrity can be stalked and bullied in such a cruel way. Rest in Peace, Song Jae Rim. I will always remember you as the bodyguard in Moon Embracing the Sun 😢
May rest him in peace...
Me too.... it leaves me shattered 😢
Korean society is competitive, and the opportunities are limited. life is tough. i've heard many koreans saying living in korea is like hell.
Jealousy is like poison. Very sad. Feel sorry for him.
Great perspective.. So sad to hear about his death. It's unfortunate that bullies and haters affect so many amazing people. 😢
Beautifully spoken young man. Thank you for explaining the reasoning why this happens so often in SK. This is so, so sad. 🇨🇦
I am now interested in K-Pop for about 3 years, and so I get interested for SK as a whole. There were times when a celeb committed suicide every month, I was really shocked ! I read about it, that it is often because the high expectations from the SK society. Dating no way, the celeb belongs to his/her fans, smoking oh no, drinking, everyone but not the celeb! Being a bit lazy, oh no forbidden, just in the COVID time accepted! And now the reasons you mentioned, are we really talking about humans or robots?
So sad
I’m so angry that these stalkers never seem to be held accountable and probably just look for a new victim. Imagine how jealous and envious you’d have to be to hound a celebrity to this point. It’s beyond tragic and my heart breaks not only for him but his family and friends.
I wish every person could be so level headed like you! It is so sad when the world loses wonderful people. I wish there was more help for them before these things happen
I agree. It's very sad. Hope celebrities get more protection and support in the future.
So sad this is happening so often 😢
Thank you for this. I hate that idols are treated. The media should be held accountable for allowing bullying
Chasing wealth never leads to true happiness. I know because the richest people in the world continue to seek wealth. More money will never satisfy them, much in the same way another drink will never satisfy an alcoholic.
You're right. I noticed that many Koreans (not all) are not happy when someone is happier or richer especially getting richer. It's sad. In Germany, there is a word, schadenfreude, the emotional experience of pleasure in response to another's misfortune.
Toxic society at its best,,, if people just learned. How to respect,, humanity exist and hate is not a disease this world have ,, this kind of choices won't exist in the first place ,, it's just so sad , and my heart is aching for those who choose to end the unbearable pain they have 😢😢😢😢😢
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I did see it on u tube yesterday. I just couldn’t believe. I watched this young man in a few dramas. My condolences go out to his family. I know how his parents is feeling right now, because I want through this three years ago. I pray that God will give the family his peace in this time of grief. I know that these actors and actresses in entertainment industry goes through a lot. People pretend to be their fans and say how much they love them. But as soon as the actors make a mistake they bring them down. That is not love. Love have forgiveness. Because no human being is perfect we all sin. And what u said about people in Korea being jealous of others achieving and having more than them that is something that in alot of humans all over the world jealousy of talent material success it bad. That people behave did way. I would say to these actors please around urself with people genuinely love u. No what u have but u. God is really needed there life. He brings love peace and enjoy.
Very interesting information about the sayings that is so deeply rooted in Korean culture. Thanks.
Thank you for addressing this difficult subject, AKG.
Very interesting video. Korean seems to have a really big problem, and it’s permeating society in a very negative and dangerous way. These incidents are heartbreaking; suicides, hate messages, banners and buses, funeral wreaths, trying to ruin celebrities careers, it’s all an indication of a very immature and mentally disturbed element in society. It maybe fueled by social media, but nonetheless a red flag for the future well being of the young people of the Korea.
😢 I still am in shock. Human life is so hard at times. Because of other humans usually.
I’ve been wondering about this. So much mental illness and pressure to appear happy
Thanks for the insight. I've watched a few K dramas with my daughter but the one that stuck me the most was the first one - 'Doona' which I hinted at some of what you were saying. In fact, we were talking about this the high rates of suicide when I dropped her off at school this morning. I'm so sad for these people. I think extreme poverty may make some people more competitive. My dad's family were like this too and he emigrated to the UK from Mauritius in the late 60's and worked really hard for everything he achieved. He would hear his brothers talk bad about him and even rip him off. That must have made him sad as he was a very kind gentle soul and would help anyone out. Now I realise they were just jealous.This is a very low vibrational emotion and when that energy is thought of, it gets sent to you through the ether so you must always protect yourself from energy vampires. TY.
I feel sorry for them, especially the younger ones who feel this is the only solution to their pain. As the saying goes, suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I don't know about Korea but here in the US we have a suicide hotline to call 24/7 to receive guidance and help. May this young actor find the peace this world could not give him.
Thank you for sharing your point of view. I enjoy listening to you 😊
Its horrible ! This was wonderful. Thank you. You missed alters pick their favorites. No one is any better that who they picked. So they hate on, lie about and spread rumors and others accept them as truth with nothing other than some unknown persons lie. They can destroy a persons career, destroy them income options, disrupt their complete life and at some point it’s over. That’s enough to drive a few people straight to the edge
I can’t stand hearing that another Korean actor or singer (including those from other countries that are here working ) has taken their life.
There are no laws to stop it and no plans to fix it and I have yet to hear it spoken at a higher level. If it was, I missed it.
RIP to that young man....Shame that a Stalker would make someone kill them self......Thanks for the Information...😊😊
Very insightful. Thank you.
I think, everywhere you find such people. If you get to success, you loose a lot of friends or you find jealous persons around you who try to control or harm you. 😢
Those jealous and envious people need to find God and believe in Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Never covet what others have, love your neighbors as yourself, treat others as you want to be treated. Pray and be kind to everyone. Pray for your enemies and those that try to hurt you. I'm not perfect. Life is difficult. But life is also precious and can be beautiful if you look for the beauty. Many people believe in reincarnation and think they have four lives to live. No, you have ONE LIFE, ONE CHANCE, ONE OPPORTUNITY to live correctly. Although we cannot be perfect, we can be kind. I'm so sad he's Song Jae Lim is gone. He was so beautiful and deserved to be alive and happy. I hope South Korean learns to stop hatefull comments and protect their people. I hope they get a suicide phone number for people to call. Song probably needed a hug or a kind word to save him. I'm sad I wasn't able to help him but in his honor I will try to be even kinder and watchful of other's pain in case I can be of help. If anyone reading this is having a difficult time, please 🙏 make it to tomorrow. Always, make it to tomorrow. Reach out to as many people as you have to without shame. Ask for help. Tell people how you feel and what thoughts you are having. Remember that thoughts can be good or bad. Feelings and thoughts are not the same. Try to separate your feelings from your thoughts and try to make a rational decision and understand that even if you think no one cares--we do. You matter and you are needed in this world. The pain you feel may ve the same pain another is feeling. You can use your pain and your experiences to help others and kindness heals. In your most difficult time, show kindness and don't give up. Don't leave. We need you here. Otherwise, the world will be too dark. Be the light in this world.
Thank you for speaking out about this! One of my newest favorite K-pop group has been severely impacted by haters.
The group is RIIZE and because of haters, member Seunghan was placed on an indefinite hiatus for over 10 months. Then once SM announced he would return to active status, the haters lashed out with a vengeance even sending 100's of condolence funeral wreaths to SM demanding his permanent removal. Less than 48 hours later, SM announced that due to the backlash (and against the members and SM's decision that the group should continue with all 7 members), Seunghan would actually be leaving RIIZE and RIIZE would continue as 6 members now. It so sad since this young man didn't do anything criminal, nor anything which hurt or potentially hurt others. Right now, I thank every day that there is no announcement of his departure from this world. I hope that the OT7 boycott against SM becomes successful and he gets a chance to return to the group. Haters just can't be allowed to win, let alone have a big company like SM condone unwarranted hateful and irrational behavior by them and make business decisions based on it.
I also know there is a disconnect between my family here in the US (from Korea) and our family in Korea, because of what each values. Materialism is a serious issue in both countries, but it's the level at which people compare and judge each other because of it that is the difference. Really, it's a problem in the Korean community, domestic and abroad, but domestic does seem quite worse.
It’s tragic. It’s time for the entertainment companies to start talking better care of their actors and singers. The celebrities make their money but there doesn’t seem to be any help when they struggle emotionally. Is there a stigma about seeking therapy, like the agencies fear scandal etc?
4:24 That's called "Crab Mentality". The culture and mindset is unfortunately the same here in the Philippines.
You probably mean 'Crap' Mentality because that's what it is...
Despair, utter hopeless, can be so overwhelming that it can swallow a person whole, as it did with this young man who passed. I cannot judge people who feel this way, but I wish I could tell everyone who is contemplating such a final act that there is always hope, sometimes hidden, sometimes only a slim sliver of hope, but enough to carry you through the darkness.
Every time I hear about a suicide like this, my heart hurts. I think celebrity can come with a lot of loneliness which is very painful. It’s beyond sad that this young and successful actor felt he had to end his life.
This is incredibly sad! How many more do they have to lose? I don't understand fans in Korea who exhibit online harassment, aggression, and obsession. Their main goal is to take these artists down. Mental health is also taboo, making it difficult for these celebrities to seek help. I think the worst fan behavior is seen in the K-pop industry. It's unbelievably Toxic! When SHINee's Kim Jong Hyun took his life, I walked away from it. Talented, young, and precious souls are gone forever due to the actions of other human beings (if we can call them that).
When we observed the frequency of commit suicide cases of celebraties happens mainly in south korea compared to other countries. Something needs to be done.
He was a good actor and it was so sad to hear of his passing. I agree the haters need to stop and just focus on their own life.
Hi,I just start to follow your chanel,cause I love,I adore your country,I wish so much to come there 🙏It's so sad to hear how Korean celebrities commit suicide in every year You have a ill society and this seems that never stop,on contrary...it's so inimaginabile how it's possible to happen something like that.Sad,sad,sad😢😢😢
It is so sad this happened. I truly enjoyed his dramas. He was very talented. I hate when these things happen to these wonderful people. It happens too often & I hate that people can be so mean & judgmental. They deal with so many harsh situations & horrible people in the industry. They need to be protected & not abused like this!! Shame on those who do this!
In loving memory of Song Jae Rim, may he rest in peace.
May Song Jae Rim rest in peace 🙏
That is so sad😢😢
He was a nice guy and great actor!
I cannot imagine what his friends and family are going through!
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Unfortunately I have seen this happen several times in the kpop industry. You never really know what a person may be going thru behind a beautiful smile in any walk of life. Thank you for speaking on such a serious subject and giving the average korean man perspective. *I don't think you're average* I think SK has the highest suicide rate in the world and the lowest birth rate in the world (please correct if wrong). Many prayers for those that are hurting. 🙏
Lowest birth rate is correct but not the highest suicide rate. But it's one of the highest countries.
Good afternoonnn!! Yeah! It´s very sad! But actually Reaching this point often stems from numerous social pressures, especially for Korean idols. Constant pressures-financial demands, the strict control of managers dictating what they can and cannot do-alienate idols from reality and their surroundings. These relentless expectations distance them from genuine relationships, leading to depression. For Korean society, suicide has thus become a more critical issue than any other illness. 사회로부터 소외된 관계의 단절이 결국 죽음으로 내몬 것 같기도 하고, 사회적 관계보다 자신의 우울증이 빚은 심리·문화적 공황 상태가 원인이기도 하기 때문이다. 그만큼 자살은 그 어떤 질병보다도 심각한 한국사회의 문제가 된 것이다.
It sounds like there is a lot of JEALOUSY in your country. I wrote it in capital letters because it is a very big problem in the world, but many people don't realized they are jealous of others. They justify their hatred toward another person or group of people by blaming them for one thing or another and villainizing them. A word of advice, you always have to be on your guard against JEALOUSY because it is an easy trap to fall into and a very deceptive one!!!
I’m a very big fan of Song Jaerim and am in the middle of rewatching “I wanna hear your song” when I heard the new, and I thought it had to be fake news. It doesn’t seem real. It is very sad. He’s always so alluring in every role he portrays. His smile was so bright and genuine. He brought a lot of light to not just his family, friends and coworkers, but also a lot to us fans. He will be deeply missed by many. May he rest in peace 😔 🙏🏻 🕊️ 🤍
This is such a sad situation.
has anyone in S.Korea felt that kind of jealousy themselves? I mean in a more normal citizen level from other individuals.
May his soul rest in peace. It's so sad that such things happen. I've read that such suicides often do happen because of people being harrassed by haters (and that also in this case it could have been like this). I think that how actors, singers or other celebrities are treated in the SK much differs from how it is in many other countries. Even if everywhere there are some gossip portals or magazines, which some do read just for fun, no one is obsessed with private lives of these people so much to pay much attention to it, not so much to hunt someone down with hate, to dictate them how they should live. We separate someone as an actor or singer from their private lives. And everyone has the right to do with their lives what they want - unless they commit crimes or other really harmful acts, for which they are sentenced and punished legally, not just by haters. It's hard to imagine that for instance a bunch of some Internet trolls or haters may destroy someone's life just like that, and that it's not so rare, and that no one really tries to do sth about it. It wouldn't be possible however if the rest of the society would oppose to such hate and truly condemn it. We don't really have such things as celebrities being dictated so much how they should live their private life or for instance having to announce publicly that they intend to officially meet or live with someone, we don't have something like "going public with a relationship" (that I've read that celebrities in SK do), we don't idolize celebrities like it probably is in SK. And for sure everyone deserves to have appropriate, effectively enforced, protection against harrassment in Internet, protection of privacy, of private data, of reputation and good name and against defamation.
So sad,thank you for this video so importan
In one of your recent videos you displayed what was most important to countries around the world...South Korea values material good- money. No wonder people in South Korea hate others who are successful and famous. They are lacking love in their hearts, not loving one another. As a Christian, I celebrate someone elses accomplishments and successes! I want the best for my friends and family! Love destroys hatred!
cool. you don't have to be a christian to have good qualities and be a decent human. sad that you have to push your personal agenda everywhere under the guise of love.............
@@theTopCat-1. Agreed. Plus Christianity not really a thing in Korea which is a largely Athiest society
@@SongRim23 26% of Koreans are Christian/Catholic
Korea counts as a Christian nation. Whoever is not, is some type of Buddhist, which is even better. The world's been witnessing what Christians have been and still are doing, and it has NOTHING to do with Jesus. 😧😧
@@btd389 Actually I read 20% but how accurate can these stats be. ? In any case preaching that Christians hold the moral high ground in this sad post seems somehow inappropriate
Why can’t celebrities just quit the industry instead of suicide. They are either being blackmailed or worried about tarnished reputation. Some netizen have no sympathy toward their celebrities. The ones that are gone have suffered before committing. Hope he finds peace.
Not quit, they should move out or find work abroad and spend less time in Korea. But I think the biggest issue they have with that is the lack of fluency in English and they’re insecure about that. Because if I was a celeb in Korea, I see nothing that will stop me from leaving that country. If I was an idol, I’d look for how a company abroad will sign me, same way if I was an actor too. Enrolling in classes to learn English is easy, plus one doesn’t have to be fluent in English before they move to the west for opportunities.
Terribly sad,😢 he was a really good actor and so young.his poor family and friends.
Sad to hear about this guy's passing.
The people who are jealous could take all that energy and make their lives better
On the heels of this, there are some news reports that are coming out that female stalker fans are harassing male Korean celebrities (actors, singers, ETC). Why is that?
I think there should be a discussion on this as well. What is happening to Korean women that they do this? Something needs to change here.
I think the pressure on actors and idols is beyond belief in Korea. Grown men and women can’t date otherwise it becomes a “scandal” which can affect their job and earnings. Even when they go out there are people watching them and taking photos so everything they eat/drink/ say/ becomes a “scandal” . People come out of the woodwork and accuse them of terrible things, and even if there’s no proof they can lose their jobs. Even when they try to do something good they haters accuse them of terrible things. Like when Jimin from BTS was accused of encouraging gambling because he lent money to someone.
I’ve also been wondering about that and I came to the same conclusion as you: jealousy is a factor. I’m shocked by the enthusiasm with which Koreans attack successful other Koreans when they get a chance, some seem more keen on hating than on celebrating their success.
So sad..Song Jae Rim was such a good actor. RIP.
To me, and no offence, South Korea is a country with a lot of cultural contradictions. They want to be westernized, but they are so glued and tied to their conservative cultural roots that they are actually suffocating them. They want to mimic the openness of western civilizations, but they are not willing to be open to their ideologies and values. I am not saying either one is right or wrong, but being so indecisive and wavering of their identity is a mental health killer. I don't live in Korea, but I have a Korean neighbor who avoided me like a plague, giving me a disgusted look when she was aware that I was dealing with mental health struggles. They are not willing to be truthful and accepting to and of themselves, and that destroys them.
I watch a lot of k dramas in the Uk I saw him on shows it is so sad that he died
I have so much respect for
이승기 . He must have had a really hard time when everyone seemed to have an opinion about his in-laws and on top of that he was being gaslighted and abused for most of his career by people he trusted. You have to be very strong to go for the love of your life and keep going in life. Could have gone differently with him.
Once you compare your life to others, you can't be happy or content. Celebrities should also think that they should not only live for the people around them, like their fans but also prioritize themselves. There is no point in striving for success and fame if you let people around you control how you live your life. Mental and physical health are vital when working in a competitive and complex world.
Rest in peace,Song Jae Rim
When there life there is always hope..
It's more likely that this poor actor was a victim of sexual assault and abuse. This equals chronic mental torturing. On the outside everything looks fine, but mentally it's a vulcano. The entertainment industry is an unhealthy toxic environment full of predators of all kinds. For instance Harvey Weinstein in the US who's now in prison. Johnny Kitagawa in Japan, who was a founder of talent agency for boy bands who 'allegedly' assaulted and abused several hundred teenagers for decades. It wouldn't surprise me if the Korean authorities will do everything in their power to silence the unfortunate suicide. Don't stick with rumors. Who started it? A crazy fan is just a scapegoat. The entertainment industry is worth billions. A sex scandal would ruin many things. Take care. (sen/15-11-2024/Belgium/Europe).
In the US we call it “crab bucket mentality”
It's the same outpouring every time this tragedy happens !! we need to protect them , we need to do more etc !! But nothing is ever done about it !! It will always stay the same !! Celebrities living under the thumb of a judgemental and toxic society dictating how they look , their love lives, and their private lives !!
you look a bit like Ji Sung, my favourite Korean actor.... :)
Society is quite trash or toxic. Would these people even choose to go this route in life if they could!?
"Friends and Family wish you well, just not better than them" - a very common reflection of asian societies. I have a feeling this is caused from inequality?
You said there are some people who don't want to see other people become successful? Well, that's what we call "crab mentality" in the Philippines. We have a bunch of people like that here, too. They will do anything to pull you down so they can go up. Just like crabs right?
Wow, that's a very interesting phrase you have in the Philippines
RIP Song Jae-Rim😪🙏🏽💔🌹
It's not suicide. Choi Jin-sil, not suicide, .......Kim Kwang-suk, not suicide, ........these recent deaths also, ......not suicide.
Why one will end one’s life just because some unknown person hate them ?
It's not just about that. I'm sure celebrities have to go through a lot more. It's just one of the reasons.
I was very sad to hear of his death.
это печально. надеюсь его письмо обнародуют и можно будет понять что произошло. очень грустно, что он попал в какую то ситуацию с которой сам не мог справиться и ни к кому не обратился за помощью. Мудр был царь Соломон, у которого было кольцо с надписью "Все проходит, и это тоже пройдет". Но если перейти к сухой статистике - то проблема суицидов имеется во всех странах. И была эта проблема всегда. По сравнению с 16-м - 17-м веками сейчас даже менее страшно, т.к. в то время был раскол церкви, старообрядцев притесняли и были случаи когда они сжигались домами и даже деревнями.
Stems from a very competitive environment, where people are just aiming to win over others. This is in all developed cities I guess.
I loved Song Jae Rim! He was so talented and seemed like a wonderful person. May he RIP.
And for the actors and idols, it’s the whole system in the industry that makes them become victims.
The Korean entertianment industry is so controlling that they give fans the power to dictate to the stars how to act inorder to fulfil the fantasies of the fans. It’s like the stars are forced to cape for the fans continuous love and support so they have to act how the fans want or else…..
Give these celebs autonomy and change the system. Let them date and live normal lives and take away the power to dictate from the fans. If they can’t support an idol or actor until they feel like they have to project their fantasies onto them then they should stop being fans. Artists&Actors will never lack supporters for their work and the fans don’t have to have control over them for them to succeed.
So sad beyound words😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Very sad, very sad...it should not be like this. Very wrong, there should be livht and laughter.
How come there are so many haters? Why is this so imbedded in the culture? Because Korea looks so nice. And there are many very nice and intelligent Korean people.
Very sad.
Well...every country has pros and cons. We have good things but also many bad things 😕
@average_korean_man 🥲
Thanks!
Wow, thank you very much for your support! This means a lot to me. Thank you again
I love following you and knowing about your life and about your country who, I feel, resembles in a way my country, Canada.
But I do not not understand at all the idea of giving money to a person following you.What could be the reason to do that ?
Will some people try to convince you that they like you and appreciate you in order to be the one rewarded ?
It does not seem to me a very healthy relationship.
Being from Canada myself I do agree. Especially now with social media that puts pressure on the actors and singers.
I went on vacation last year and found Koreans who visited places where I was dressed in fashionable clothing. You could tell that they had a lot of money. There is a saying that when you die, you are not bringing your 🧰 with you.
Thank you very much for your opinion. I'll talk about this in the future. Thanks again for telling me your thoughts
So sad.
Hi from US. I am a fan of the actor who left us the other day. As an American and an older person I don't really understand how someone can let the sick people online control lives. Not only the loss of him but recently a k-pop singer was kicked out of a group for really doing nothing wrong cause he had girlfriend? I had always way to go to Korea because I know Korean Americans. Seeing all the hate, I guess I'm better staying put here in the US.
You mean Taeil from NCT127, but that was not true with the girlfriend, but we only get to know little glimpse of it…
@@beatebender No not Taeil, Seunghan from Riize
You are gonna like it if you visit Korea but living here in Korea can be quite harsh
I heard about the loss of this actor and was very sad. There is a mental health crisis in my part of the world and many people need help. The problem is there isn’t enough Mental Health facilities/doctors to handle it. To take your own life away means they need help to handle these negative thoughts. Do you have any help for this in SK?
Yes, there are psychiatric clinics and mental health counseling services in Korea, but many people don’t want to leave a record of having visited one and consider going to a psychiatrist as a negative action. This is because some people view those who have been to a psychiatric clinic as unusual, and it could potentially cause issues when seeking employment
Burning is a pretty cool movie.
this is so sad
I think you know the true answer of why, these people are connected to the bureaucracy in Korea, they signed their name on the dotted line, so it’s modern day slavery. These “famous” people are also hybrid agents for Korea. At the same time the working class public is working long hours trying to make ends meet, some people get really emotional, envious, jealous, which puts more pressure on the celebrity. The beauty standards are high, women don’t want a single blemish. Then social media can be extremely toxic on a global spectrum.
Your point is very interesting, can you please elaborate on the connection to bureaucracy thing. Are you saying they allow them to be famous only to bring attention to the country hence they can’t change the way things are and seek help since they’ve agreed to be enslaved to the system for fame?
I need further clarification please. I admire a Kpop idol there and his entire being is scrutinized and I keep wondering why he just can’t leave. Sometimes I feel like he’s being blackmailed, so pls elaborate so I can see if there’s a connection. Thank you
Please stop assuming that he committed suicide because he had a stalker. We have no idea what caused it. If so, the police would be investigating and it is stupid to spread false information.
I saw a TV show a few years ago where he went on and showed how he spends a day at home. He said that he has had to pay off a lot of his family's debts and take responsibility for them. It seemed to me that he had been through a lot at a young age. It could be that it was a combination of things that he had been dragging around for a long time and badly treated depressions, but we don't know so we shouldn't speculate.
The number of suicides is high in Korean society, celebrities are part of this society and are not exempt, what happens is that since they are public figures we notice it and feed the victimist narrative towards the celebrities that bring so much income to this vile industry, created by this industry
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I agree. Stay in your own lane.
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I read the stalker is Japanese.