Gwen Stefani - Used To Love You

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  • @thehauntedmansionfan
    @thehauntedmansionfan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +647

    I read an article where Gwen stated the video was not planned to be this. Camera on, playback started rolling and the lyrics hit her. And the camera stayed on. No redo or second take. Such raw emotions full of truths. Anyone whose heart has been crushed knows exactly what her eyes are saying.

    • @dennyjones6921
      @dennyjones6921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That’s amazing

    • @graceosteen4763
      @graceosteen4763 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I understand

    • @shawn1320
      @shawn1320 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      her emotions in this video really fits the lyrics

    • @purplementhol3388
      @purplementhol3388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She also had her hard time during this. She had it for years. I wish people Know. Articles are everywhere you can search~ this video is art, but what deeper is her psychology here that make this art although it's sad reality. I'm not even her fans but I did research.

    • @loading...948
      @loading...948 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I guess this is really what the truth feels like

  • @cindyholloway7441
    @cindyholloway7441 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I feel her pain. After 27 years of marriage and two great kids, my ex husband left me for a younger, married coworker. You could have knocked me over with a feather. Never imagined that he would betray me and his kids like he did. Before I hated him, I used to love him. Nothing hurts like infidelity.

    • @bobbyleglocks1992
      @bobbyleglocks1992 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sorry to hear that. I was just reading the comments. 27 years is a long time. I know it's cliché but you'll be better off without him.. He probably maybe find someone that is your twin flame.. Never too late.

    • @venturelover1378
      @venturelover1378 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel you, Cindy. 27 years and 5 children. My husband left me for a younger married coworker too. Absolutely devastating unexplainable pain.

    • @cindyholloway7441
      @cindyholloway7441 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@venturelover1378 Agree! The pain doesn’t just go away either. You’re now in a club, you didn’t sign up to be in. I pray for you.

    • @jarrodbyrd7631
      @jarrodbyrd7631 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was married 22 years with 4 children. You are not alone.

    • @jarrodbyrd7631
      @jarrodbyrd7631 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nothing hurts like being betrayed. I hope you’re doing better.

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +773

    And Blake came along and put ointment on the wounds of her heart. Such a happy ending........

    • @multixellee7685
      @multixellee7685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bella Grace yess

    • @andreaames141
      @andreaames141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      🤢🤮🤮🤢

    • @Sareybeary
      @Sareybeary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      But is it really?

    • @bradleysquire1672
      @bradleysquire1672 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true x

    • @cutepiku
      @cutepiku 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I will break him in half if he hurts her. She's been through so much heartbreak.

  • @lucaspalettagonzalez7262
    @lucaspalettagonzalez7262 2 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    If you notice closely, her facial expressions are exactly what the words are saying. She's singing to Gavin without actually saying the words. So powerful and incredible artistry.

    • @rocksteadyrein6516
      @rocksteadyrein6516 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      G turned out to be a real POS. No Doubt helped make Bush popular in the USA.

    • @Lyndseynhill
      @Lyndseynhill 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not about Gavin

    • @ozpilotgirl
      @ozpilotgirl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Lyndseynhill Who is it meant to be about (if anyone?)

  • @gabriellacabral9689
    @gabriellacabral9689 5 ปีที่แล้ว +848

    This song got me through the worst time of my life getting over the heartbreak of an abusive narcissist

    • @moustacheandnisi
      @moustacheandnisi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I know that feel sis💜💜

    • @agnesgoldberg7341
      @agnesgoldberg7341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Gabriella Cabral I literally know what that feels like. One of the worst type of a significant other to get over. I hope you find everlasting happiness. Stay strong. It take lots and lots of courage to even just talk about it or share openly what you went through. It’s a huge deal. You should be very proud of yourself.
      You helped me a lot just by reading your comment. Thank you.

    • @dianemickelson4384
      @dianemickelson4384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gabriella Cabral I know the feeling.

    • @emmznemmz5897
      @emmznemmz5897 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gabriella same

    • @wendybone8104
      @wendybone8104 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Going through this now under quarantine. Pure hell.

  • @mokacello5594
    @mokacello5594 8 ปีที่แล้ว +487

    First time I watched the video I was like "WTF Gwen, your expressions are really making me uncomfortable"... Yet the video is actually REALLY GROWING ON ME. And the song is ABSOLUTE DOPE
    .

    • @Gonzalezreview
      @Gonzalezreview 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have that same thing going on hm we are weird we hate it then we like ok ok I think I like this :-)

    • @VelSurvivals
      @VelSurvivals 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      mlllkkloo[okoop

    • @DxModel219
      @DxModel219 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Mokacello LOL it's fake

    • @jln195399
      @jln195399 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      sad

    • @DxModel219
      @DxModel219 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** LOL i know i was just trolling.

  • @mrsnathalielim
    @mrsnathalielim 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    2024 and this song still makes the tears roll down endlessly. Thank you Gwen for your poetry, your raw emotion, your beauty. You are a true artist.

  • @keenanrobinson9558
    @keenanrobinson9558 4 ปีที่แล้ว +363

    I think this video is pure art. One scene, one setting, one lighting .. and letting her body language speak for itself. And not to mention she looks great!

    • @lasvegashula
      @lasvegashula 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      agree!

    • @ionelaciortan4504
      @ionelaciortan4504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Freaky

    • @notkimpine
      @notkimpine ปีที่แล้ว

      looks like she's depressed buying an expensive ps5 to your dad buying an dvd watching fun with dick and jane.

    • @DaisyAnnabelle65
      @DaisyAnnabelle65 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s Beautiful and she reminds me of a beautiful blonde Geisha Doll! ❤️

  • @Samantha05291
    @Samantha05291 8 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    In order to understand this song or video you have to experience this horror.
    Don't be so quick to judge. That's SHALLOW!!!
    The song, the lyrics, the video is absolutely genius... I have experienced every inch of this song...
    Gwen...respect...respect...respect. You nailed it! And now the new life ahead is pure bliss...

    • @echoustic2712
      @echoustic2712 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Spay Argyris
      Amen to that!

    • @sueg949
      @sueg949 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Echoustic Exactly right...love the video love the song. I get it and absolutely love Gwen!!! Thanks for sharing your vulnerability with the world.

    • @CATVANE
      @CATVANE 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True!

    • @tsukemaru1
      @tsukemaru1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Spay Argyris in order to understand..... i dont fucking care about understanding this fucking song. What is up with you gushy people. stop fucking crying about that shit. he cheated on you. who fucking cares. sob to your friends. this song sucks. its generic and sounds like the rest of the fucking songs popular with you sheep these days. gwens songs were better a decade ago. now they are trash.

    • @echoustic2712
      @echoustic2712 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +tsukemaru1 Well, that's your problem right there isn't it? If your mind is closed to 'understanding', that's surely going to be a barrier to any kind of enjoyment, because to me, you sound like a right miserable git. :p I'm left wondering -- did affirming your 'elitist' status in your own mind make you feel any less miserable?

  • @mattlewis2872
    @mattlewis2872 8 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    I seriously can't stop watching this video. It's heartbreaking but incredibly moving. We love you Gwen.

    • @Fenhiwi4
      @Fenhiwi4 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      exactly!

    • @angelinamejia4515
      @angelinamejia4515 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I love the meaning to this song.

    • @5op2v
      @5op2v 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Matt Lewis ♟♞♝♜♛♚
      David Cortese - Manga Chess
      ♙♘♗♖♕♔

    • @yeahiagree1070
      @yeahiagree1070 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Matt Lewis Ironic you find Gwen's face "incredibly moving."
      She's had such a incredible amount of botox she can barely MOVE it.

    • @angieanaya4316
      @angieanaya4316 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Harry B hate much..?

  • @bonnie3232
    @bonnie3232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    She is gorgeous, so talented and the mother of his 3 children. To have your third baby and find out he has been sleeping with the Nanny would be devastating. So glad she found love again with Blake.
    .

  • @RoxasLov3r4Ev3r
    @RoxasLov3r4Ev3r ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I used to think the video was ridiculous and low budget, but I grew to see how sad and poignant it actually is. And years later, now that I can REALLY relate to the song and the music video, it hurts even more. You can see and feel so many different emotions crossing her face, and none of it is an act. She moves through waves of despair, anger, raw grief, disbelief, helplessness, pleading, bursting into tears. She is desperate, she is withdrawn, she is distraught, she is resolute. She wants to go towards him, but she also wants to retreat into isolation. She wavers between trying to stay strong and breaking down from the pressure. It's the 5 stages of grief in motion. And it ends with her expression looking reserved, disappointed. It really asks him, "Why???" I relate to each expression she emotes so much, because I understand each feeling.
    I cried watching this today. But I'm glad Gwen is healing

  • @Kylenredx
    @Kylenredx 7 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I honestly can see the feeling in her face the whole video

    • @erikac8612
      @erikac8612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      You can see her emotions in her face very well. She chokes up singing back the lyrics. I think it's a perfect expression of telling him he is an idiot & wtf were you thinking. We love you Gwen :,(

    • @happystance10able
      @happystance10able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TALENT!!!
      100% Cacibot-approved.

    • @juristen8767
      @juristen8767 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No ... She is a great singer, impressiv person but NOT a good actor 😂

    • @Crystalgrace144
      @Crystalgrace144 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Minus the filler I love gwen but I can tell there would be more frown lines this song hurts her and I know the expression would be more obvious in a respectful way ❤

  • @helio2922
    @helio2922 8 ปีที่แล้ว +734

    gwen's expressions represent me trying to understand my final grades

    • @AjiruChanWorld
      @AjiruChanWorld 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +harry potter hahahahaha this made my day xD

    • @davidthebest1997
      @davidthebest1997 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +harry potter SAME ahahahahah

    • @LoveToSingTV
      @LoveToSingTV 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +harry potter
      you made me laugh through he WHOLE video LOL

    • @RichTake
      @RichTake 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LMAO, imagine that. Such a melodramatic way to look at your grades. Very funny comment

    • @layladylay265
      @layladylay265 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +harry potter HILARIOUS....audio phone recording for getting my college grades way back when said....F...FAILURE. hahaha - it's not funny, but it is.

  • @sydney9920
    @sydney9920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +786

    Gwen isn’t acting here. This is real pain.

    • @rmilkyswife
      @rmilkyswife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      Yes I followed her since No Doubt first came out and she loves with her whole heart. I'm so happy she the happiest I've ever seen her with Blake . Gavin has cheated on her so much because it's in a lot of her songs she's so happy now thank God

    • @mcnasty4207
      @mcnasty4207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Imagine if she didn't have the botox, we's see some real emotions

    • @KC__1997
      @KC__1997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Many of us, have been there at one point or another.

    • @kristymarie6065
      @kristymarie6065 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!!!

    • @JJ-yu6og
      @JJ-yu6og 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where is the real ugly cry????

  • @iboopyournose7307
    @iboopyournose7307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Her pain is so evident in the beginning yet as the song progresses her strength is so amazing. Faith can move mountains and it all happens for a reason. Now she is loved. I love you Gwen! ♡

  • @Roman-ez4hq
    @Roman-ez4hq 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8579

    This video reminds me when a sad song comes on while your in the car and you stare out the window to make it look like a music video😂😂😂

    • @Tragedymartinez
      @Tragedymartinez 8 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      yessss

    • @tessadub
      @tessadub 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      omg 😂

    • @chelseaataman4227
      @chelseaataman4227 8 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Omg I do that all the time

    • @StayBeautiful87xoxo
      @StayBeautiful87xoxo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      HAHAHA YES
      it's so expressive and Gwen is so talented
      And as much as I admire the video...i laugh and Cant agree more

    • @darealdes3767
      @darealdes3767 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sammmmemeeee

  • @lauravalle2090
    @lauravalle2090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +570

    She was the best thing that ever happened to him.

    • @greenpainter
      @greenpainter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      what a fool, he didn't appreciate the love he got 😁

    • @PollyGammy
      @PollyGammy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      She wasn’t really. Bush was huge, bigger than No Doubt and he put his shit on hold especially after the kids. I don’t think people get how big Gavin was. He is kinda dumb for cheating on her. They were so beautiful together.

    • @EricBinder7Corners
      @EricBinder7Corners 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      @@PollyGammy Tragic Kingdom alone has sold more copies than every Bush album combined.

    • @TheBooshBabe
      @TheBooshBabe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Now look at what he lost

    • @lailafallon573
      @lailafallon573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      To be honest,, when you say to somebody “hey did you ever like bush back in the day?” I think most of the time you’d get a negative answer. That man killed his own career. If you asked anybody about Gwen stefani; they know.

  • @getz1861
    @getz1861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This song and video is actually a really telling song and emotion. You think everything is hunky-dory, going to spend the rest of your life with somebody and this happens 19 years or so into a relationship what a waste of time.

    • @BatALash
      @BatALash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It’s not a waste of time if you learn and grow from it. Plus, she got three beautiful children from it.

    • @getz1861
      @getz1861 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@BatALash correct

    • @jenniferbobennifer6164
      @jenniferbobennifer6164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its never a waste....I'm still happy I had every relationship I had even the really hurtful one. I wouldn't trade those years for anything.

  • @zara-ly2927
    @zara-ly2927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I relate to this in so many ways.. I just love Gwen. Her music seems to resonate my own life. This song has me crying because she really gets it, or I get her about it. I don’t know why I cry, but I think it’s cause I remember for the first time since I hated you, that I used to love you. Betrayal is the hardest trial to overcome. Love you Gwen and thank you for this song.

  • @ShackledDreamz
    @ShackledDreamz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    Listen to the words of the song, and those are the emotions she is portraying regardless of how awkward it looks. It's how you would act, when you are trying to get over someone, or if you hear a song that boosts your confidence. Look in the mirror and your expression.

    • @luisserna9393
      @luisserna9393 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +ShackledDreamz Exactly what I was thinking.

    • @iamlabyrinthh
      @iamlabyrinthh 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      тrυe , ι agree

    • @charlivanderwal6636
      @charlivanderwal6636 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ya that is so rite

    • @rmilkyswife
      @rmilkyswife 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes well said it's raw and emotional

    • @alexgoldring3826
      @alexgoldring3826 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +ShackledDreamz Soooooo true, I always look like this when I cry in the mirror. I recently had a bad break up and I know how she feels. Heartbroken. Distraught. Distressed. Crestfallen. Dejected. Ugly. Forlorn. Reptilian.

  • @davisfontanes
    @davisfontanes 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1163

    After 14 years together married for 4 of those years, I was left for a younger person. Endured our ups and down. I was blinded sided. This song is a page from my book

    • @swisschoklate736
      @swisschoklate736 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Davis Fountain so sorry

    • @88jessicalong
      @88jessicalong 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Davis Fountain how did you deal with it and how did you find out. Worst punch in the stomach. Sorry.

    • @artystifan3253
      @artystifan3253 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      So sorry u deserve better

    • @aubrey310
      @aubrey310 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm right there with you...

    • @thenativenraven
      @thenativenraven 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Crystal Chandelier amen girl

  • @haylisargent3015
    @haylisargent3015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I literally felt her, this is probably one of my favorite things I’ve seen from an artist. She’s showing her break down start to end, the reason for her words, the pain she feels with them. And the fact that people are judging? Are you scared that you don’t have the courage to do that so you have to put it down? Just leave it where it sits and scroll don’t even put your negativity out there. I love this

  • @saltyo1484
    @saltyo1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    I read that it took a really long time to film this because she couldn’t stop crying

    • @woots96
      @woots96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      this was the 4th take. she cried the first 2 takes then sophie told her she's not supposed to cry.

    • @Whatdocowsdrink
      @Whatdocowsdrink 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      One of true worst pains..heart sadness, betrayal, make you feel destroyed

  • @dark-vigilant
    @dark-vigilant 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    You can see the pain in her eyes. Like she's in shock and having a breakdown. Such a sad beautiful song.

    • @nayrtnartsipacify
      @nayrtnartsipacify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I know... so authentic. I bet if she stubs her toe there is a camera to capture it.

    • @babygirlmmm2819
      @babygirlmmm2819 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know that feelings am hurtin right now its a terrible experience i cry sometimes

    • @karrinaalvarez536
      @karrinaalvarez536 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are the tears

    • @WowwowLulu
      @WowwowLulu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karrinaalvarez536 people can show pain in eyes without tears

    • @beatrizfernandes7354
      @beatrizfernandes7354 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A dor está nos olhos, porque a face está paralisada 💉

  • @Raidoven
    @Raidoven 8 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    i love this video. i look nothing like Gwen, but it's like looking at my reflection. i'm going through the repercussions of a breakup now, and sometimes i do that thing Dane Cook was talking about where you just stare at the mirror and cry and look at your facial expressions and think this was what my ex lover used to stare at for hours on end. and you're just staring at yourself hoping he/she will end up beside you but they wont. and sometimes you're able to be strong and pull off a brave face, but sometimes you succumb and feel like you're breaking down. knowing that these are real emotions. breakups feel horrible but at least by sharing her pain she's letting us know that we're not alone.

    • @echoustic2712
      @echoustic2712 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Faizal Ali Bravo, Faizal. I commend your post. Facing up to hurt and pain, rejection and loss, is scary stuff, so much so that many of us wall off all or part of our feelings and emotions as a coping mechanism. If your walls are up (and you may not even be aware they are), I very much doubt you'll ever fully "get" either this song and/or the video (hence, all the superficial comments, all the false bravado, more often than not manifest in the form of snide or crass humor).
      When Gwen sings: "Nobody taught you how to love" (a key line in the song, and not coincidentally, one of two moments in the video where she actually mouths the lyrics), this is in line with the concept of tabula rasa. My own notion is that we are all born with a certain innate capacity to love, but certain experiences, e.g. growing up in a broken home or perhaps failed relationships later in life (in my case, probably a combo of both), can cause us to lose part of that capacity. In my twenties, I had great difficulty committing to relationships and it took me the longest time, a lot of collateral damage at the expense of others, and blessedly, the infinite patience of a truly beautiful soul (that of my soul mate) to realize I had set up all these walls and that I hid behind a mask of stoicism to bury some very deep-seated personal insecurities and a very real fear of failure. The breakthrough began with becoming self-aware, and with that I was able to begin chipping away, bit by bit, at those walls and slowly rediscover (or rather re-learn) the capacity to truly love. I greatly admire Gwen and others like yourself for the openness and willingness to be vulnerable and authentic. Others may scoff at the notion, but to be self-aware, in touch and in-tune with that part of ourselves which makes us truly human (some call this the human psyche, others the soul, whatever the semantics may be) makes us beautiful beyond the superficial. And in Gwen's case, it enables and empowers her to make beautiful art and music.
      p.s. - I've always thought that this video was conceptual in nature, in that the "mirror" in the footage is the camera -- by extension making us or Gwen, or both ways, the mirror.

    • @Raidoven
      @Raidoven 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you for the response, Echoustic. In my case my walls were built up before I met my ex. She tore them down, and I was truly able to love for the first time and have it reciprocated. Problem was that I loved her too much and didn't love myself enough to think I deserved her, which is why I broke things off and regret it a year later now that she's found someone new. From your post, it seems like you've gone through your fair share of challenges, and I'm glad you've found someone to share your love. It gives me hope that one day I will too. Thank you for sharing.

    • @avid9670
      @avid9670 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I recently felt that today :(

    • @7ijabeeee94
      @7ijabeeee94 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Jenny Ban lol get a diary

    • @trecarper991
      @trecarper991 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Jenny Ban Calm down.

  • @sheilamaemore4211
    @sheilamaemore4211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Gwen Stefani is such an INSPIRATION!! Applause this girl for having a heart of Gold.

  • @sebastianpalau4061
    @sebastianpalau4061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    It really feels as if she is holding tears back during the whole song.

    • @malakiacurtis2553
      @malakiacurtis2553 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She was holding her tears back

    • @Trustfalllllll
      @Trustfalllllll 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She is holding her tears back. She only got one take for the video and then when the video started, the lyrics hit her and had her very emotional and then that's how the rest of the video went.

  • @rshahid145
    @rshahid145 5 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    If you’ve ever truly been in love and betrayed, here expressions reveal everything. She’s amazing ❤️💯

    • @kimandcaffeine5999
      @kimandcaffeine5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      R Shahid betrayed for the last time expressions

  • @Msflowergirl67
    @Msflowergirl67 7 ปีที่แล้ว +522

    I have avoided this song for the longest time because I thought it would just break my heart. And now I realize that it's very empowering. Thank you Gwen.

  • @rehabcoaster
    @rehabcoaster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I was having a perfectly fine and happy day, then I watched this video and now I am bawling my eyes out! The video, the lyrics, Gwen's emotions in her vocals... she channels heartbreak and betrayal so powerfully.

  • @mickallin1225
    @mickallin1225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love this woman for her honesty, which has bravery underneath.

  • @fairybreadarmy
    @fairybreadarmy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3489

    Me in my bathroom looking at myself being extra and dramatic

  • @babyfromiceage2404
    @babyfromiceage2404 8 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    YES GWEN IS BACK THIS IS THE COMEBACK SINGLE WE DESERVED THIS IS AMAZING I LOVE YOU GWEN

    • @KaliGam
      @KaliGam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +jordan ray i think her "comeback" song was baby don't lie

    • @TheBabis1111
      @TheBabis1111 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +khalid saleh that's exactly what he meant by this is what we "deserved"

    • @KanadeLapis
      @KanadeLapis 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +jordan ray But the video could've been much better

    • @brianna84
      @brianna84 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +jordan ray This song is AWESOME!

    • @KaliGam
      @KaliGam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Harry Grands baby don't lie was amazing too

  • @UltimateDorito
    @UltimateDorito 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This song was released when I was going through an exceptionally hard time relationship-wise and in general. Had my dark night of the soul in 2015 where I wasn't sure if I wanted to keep living. This song and video expressed so much of what I was feeling then. Fast forward 5 years. I got engaged this year. So did Gwen. Coming back here reminds me of how far I've come from the worst year of my life. I hope it does for her too. 🥰

    • @Glesga_lassie
      @Glesga_lassie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm so glad to see this, No Doubt got me through some very tough times as a teenager, I was 16 when Tragic Kingdom was released. I have been of a fan of Gwen ever since, I think she's incredible. Her music has helped me through some really shitty times. I hope you and your new fiance are doing well. And I'm glad Gwen is finally got someone who respects and adores her.

    • @augustomoreno9054
      @augustomoreno9054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      WHAT hold up I need to proscess that... 2015 was ur worst year ever I'm like that was the best fucking thing that ever happened to me

    • @bonnie3232
      @bonnie3232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So happy for you. Love happy endings.

  • @Rubyannperez1229
    @Rubyannperez1229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Only a woman who been through the same shit can decode this video, when you love someone for so long and they do the unimaginable you can't sing without tears or feeling the deep emotions. Then the song lyric change and the words become something else! All you can do is feel her pain.

    • @ericavel5889
      @ericavel5889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      110% truth.

    • @cjturner370
      @cjturner370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same as a gay man

    • @Matrice0409
      @Matrice0409 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cjturner370 same as a straight man

  • @tkadromedus9866
    @tkadromedus9866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1460

    I will never forgive the public for letting this flop

    • @farooqkhalid7474
      @farooqkhalid7474 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Truue. The fact that BAD GUY amd TRUTH HURTS trashy songs are hits and this classic is a flop is so sad

    • @RavenSuperstition
      @RavenSuperstition 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      did it flop tho? i remember hearing it everyyywhere🙌 and everyone taking about it and loving it

    • @marmarbama7394
      @marmarbama7394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Her hair distracts me. Beautiful song. Hideous hair.

    • @JessalynLynese
      @JessalynLynese 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This song is part of my jobs playlist, deff not a flop

    • @aidandickson2747
      @aidandickson2747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      sis has 25 MILLION views is it really considered a flop??

  • @k311ydcart3r
    @k311ydcart3r 8 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Hard to imagine a guy who couldn't be happy with Gwen Stefani.

    • @holydukk
      @holydukk 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Super Swole Exactly.

    • @VerdeletVIII
      @VerdeletVIII 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Kelly Carter If he actually cheated on her he's the DUMBEST MAN ALIVE.

    • @krismatl25
      @krismatl25 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Kelly Carter well apparently 13yrs to Gavin can't last as this is not just a song but her pouring her heart out in a intimate way regarding her feelings to her soon to be ex-husband

    • @emills767
      @emills767 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Kelly Carter People just fall out of love. Happens to the best of us.

    • @a.w.1534
      @a.w.1534 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Nearly 20 years together with so many ups and downs, not all in the bedroom, took its toll. What's sad is something happened to tip the feelings from love to hate.
      When she writes from the heart her songs are really beautiful.

  • @essentialadvantages6790
    @essentialadvantages6790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well now she is with someone much better who really does love her!

  • @shawnaelong
    @shawnaelong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    A fact about this video: Gwen Stefani...I did not intend for this to be the music video for the song, we just shot it, and then just decided that it was perfect for the song.

  • @aaronhersey8466
    @aaronhersey8466 8 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    The very beginning of this song makes me think of my late wife. It's been more than 2 years since she died but sometimes I still can't believe she's gone.

    • @amandamoon583
      @amandamoon583 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sry for your loss

    • @aaronhersey8466
      @aaronhersey8466 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      +Amanda Murphy it's not all bad though. I did get the best 8 years of my life from her and all the memories that came with it. Plus I'd do it all again if I had the chance, even if it ended the same. She was totally worth it.

    • @firsttenor76
      @firsttenor76 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Aaron Hersey My condolences.

    • @mekhijohnson8494
      @mekhijohnson8494 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Aaron Hersey Friend, my condolences.

    • @TheSk8boardrichard
      @TheSk8boardrichard 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      aww may she RIP

  • @truehazeleyes
    @truehazeleyes 8 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    It is hard to watch someone I have grown up watching/listening to her music take such a heartbreaking hit with love lost due to betrayal. My heart breaks for her and her children. Also for women/men who also are or have gone through a loved ones betrayal. The video is so powerful and emotional. I at times have tears running down my face listening/watching this video.

    • @echoustic2712
      @echoustic2712 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +truehazeleyes
      #empathyisprecious

    • @AldatraSam
      @AldatraSam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i'm sorry for what happened to you. I also can relate to this song. Yes this song really deep and powerful

    • @tiffnlogan
      @tiffnlogan 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Sem ???? what are you talking about this song is weird

    • @AldatraSam
      @AldatraSam 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +NightMare Gaming 100000 the lyrics i meant. The video is weird.

    • @evagonzales3814
      @evagonzales3814 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +NightMare Gaming 100000 she had a break up with Gavin Rosedale he cheated with the nanny:(

  • @gxlovesblakey1491
    @gxlovesblakey1491 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm just glad she found the right one.
    THANK YOU BLAKE SHELTON!!!💓

  • @fabulousmatty
    @fabulousmatty 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This video has stuck with me after all these years. I feel like it is so artsy that a lot of people wouldn't understand it, or appreciate it. We are so used to fast movement and quick edits. I used this video as an inspiration for my first music video.

  • @lenelle410
    @lenelle410 8 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    I really like this video, it's very simple but you can just see the pain in her eyes while the song is playing. I think this song had something to do with her personal life.

  • @VelMelim1
    @VelMelim1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    I loved this! I liked watching her expressions as she "thought" all of this!

    • @angelinamejia4515
      @angelinamejia4515 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Exactly. That's why she barely sang in the song it's like she's showing what the faces she's making in her brain. While the song is talking about the divorce.

    • @robincrazy
      @robincrazy 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      +Angelina Mejia right! Some people just don't get it. It's raw and full of emotion. Makes me feel her pain.

    • @angelinamejia4515
      @angelinamejia4515 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Robin Voss true.

    • @michaelvanderwal7390
      @michaelvanderwal7390 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Robin Voss How do you get that through the Botox?

    • @VelMelim1
      @VelMelim1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ***** .. Thank you for your service.. But you're still sassy.. lol

  • @nanni5888
    @nanni5888 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    So powerful and moving, makes me cry every time I see it. You are such a talented BEAUTY, Gwen.

  • @nxtlvlzeph
    @nxtlvlzeph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    gwen isn’t acting here. this is real pain.

  • @Vanessaa562
    @Vanessaa562 8 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    unfortunately, some of her best stuff is when she's heart broken. I feel guilty for liking it but it's just so good. Gwen, you will always have us ... ):

    • @goodboy7902
      @goodboy7902 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are right! Her heart-broken period is very productive

    • @brianna84
      @brianna84 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Vanessa a. This song is way better than Spark the Fire! Love her

    • @hi5_centipedes874
      @hi5_centipedes874 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Vanessa a. Art does not come from happiness

    • @yaseikurao236
      @yaseikurao236 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Vanessa a. why is she heart broken? D: what happened?

    • @tkkk92
      @tkkk92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Yasei Kurao omg are u serious???? her and Gavin Rossdale got divorced.

  • @thetriplethreat3
    @thetriplethreat3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +430

    Glad to know I’m not the only one who saw the similarities between this and Selena Gomez’s new song

    • @mariesmith5602
      @mariesmith5602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thetriplethreat3 I feel it too

    • @kifflom4032
      @kifflom4032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dido I'm like hold up I think I've seen this before.

    • @dianan6174
      @dianan6174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thetriplethreat3 omg yes!

    • @Erikammm4497
      @Erikammm4497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      they were both written with the help of julia micheals

    • @nursejessica5439
      @nursejessica5439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Erikammm4497 yup shes badass!

  • @AncientAmbience
    @AncientAmbience 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Heart wrenching sad and beautiful both. She is in strong arms now. They can be each other's shade on sunny days. I pray for them.

  • @Robert-ws3mk
    @Robert-ws3mk ปีที่แล้ว +8

    People forget sometimes, Gwen is an ICON ❤

  • @johncornishlandrut
    @johncornishlandrut 8 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Wow this is a powerful comeback! So much better that 'baby don't lie' and 'spark the fire'. It's just sad to know that Gwen had to go through a divorce in order to write this brilliant piece of music :(

    • @silascipriano5941
      @silascipriano5941 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +John Cornish Totally agree. It's a masterpiece!

    • @The5thelemnt
      @The5thelemnt 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The break up is very sad. I was so excited when I saw this vid up. I can't wait for her album. It's taking way to long. Gwen is an awesome singer.

    • @sheriwhispers
      @sheriwhispers 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +John Cornish Um I got 1:29 seconds into it an oh no, no way am I listening to this crap

    • @StriderReborn
      @StriderReborn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +John Cornish In a Nutshell She pulled a "Taylor Swift" only Gwen doesn't suck. lol

    • @Fickji
      @Fickji 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +StriderReborn Wouldn't that mean than that Taylor Swift did a "No Doubt" as the song "Don't Speak" came out in 1994. That was a ballad of Gwen and Tony Kanal's break up. And one of their most popular.

  • @SamuraiZakk7
    @SamuraiZakk7 7 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    As more of a heavy metal fan, I really dig No Doubt/Stefani. In a sea of so many fakes, she's seems so authentic & real. I appreciate her so much as an artist. I feel her struggles in a lot of songs, especially her break up songs. " Simple Kind of Life" hits home pretty close. She says she's filled with so much love and I can tell. She seems so pure. I hope to find someone like her one day in my life. She's amazing. I know how it is to love someone for years and do your best and then one day it's just over. But she keeps moving forward the best she can, and that's what I try to do as well.

  • @momentsofloveromantic
    @momentsofloveromantic 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This song hit me in such a personal way! Gwen is amazing with her songs she writes. This song helped me put a bad person in my life in the past and leave him there so I could move on. This was my theme song that year!

  • @taliaziviski1283
    @taliaziviski1283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To my mother in law. Mother’s Day 2020. My heart is truly broken. Thank you Gwen, this song gives me words for something I can’t express. Her continuous hurtful comments have removed myself and her grandchildren from her life, at least for the time being. If my mother were alive, her son would have been treated like a beloved son by my mother.

  • @abbierose92
    @abbierose92 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1907

    Anyone here just because they love Gwen?!

  • @GeorgeAustinTay
    @GeorgeAustinTay 8 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    This is far better than the songs she released last year. Gwen is an artist with so much talent and personality and she should be smashing. Been a huge fan since WAYWF in 2004!

    • @laza8675
      @laza8675 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +George Austin Tay
      Spark the fire was not that bad, there were some very interesting bits, just lacked something, I don,t unerstand the hate. Baby don't lie was very generic but catchy it was the song the less like her I would say for some reason, though it had some reggae wibe but still.

    • @fortifarse
      @fortifarse 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +lara iza That's where the dislike comes from. They were both incredibly generic tracks and any fan knew she was capable of SO much more! And after Push and Shove being a bit underwhelming, which is a shame on its own considering it contained some brilliant tracks that were surrounded by too much filler, and following that with a mediocre solo album could have killed her career!

    • @TackyRackyComixNEO
      @TackyRackyComixNEO 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +fortifarse Those tracks are generic, yet this one isn't? You sure about that?

    • @imapisces1
      @imapisces1 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +lara iza Don't forget about Shine. Great song.

    • @laza8675
      @laza8675 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      fortifarse
      all tracks are generic in their own way. You don't need to always be listening to weird progressive rock or random metal.
      The spirit of pop is a lot to build on what was done before, and people shouldnt be so ashamed of that. Yes originality is good but its not always necessary that there be a lot of it, and there are other qualities music can have.
      Baby don't lie was the most generic in the sens I think the sounds used, the production, the echo, was very very much used... and I just didn't like it, which is beyond it being generic. this type of sound is not what I prefer but very used today - its like too full all the time, its like you loose some variety, its hard to explain. Id almost say it a sound that sounds self important or something.
      There was not much depth.
      But I found some interesting things in spark the fire. The intro, the bridge, some of the verses, some sounds, even the chorus were not bad, actually it was good.
      The problem of that song was not it had nothing special, but it lacked something.
      In this song, we can hear gwen stefani like melodic input, so to speak. And the emotion of the melody suits the lyrics very well. Because those emotions are real and expressed in a way that does not sound forced in the song, it does not sound what people would call generic - even if it might not be as original as progressive rock of course.

  • @michelelee9009
    @michelelee9009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love that she’s showing every different emotion we go through during a breakup...we go from sad to furious, then hurt and so on.

  • @Meriem369-
    @Meriem369- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    Who is watching this in 2020 ?

  • @sandormate998
    @sandormate998 8 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    I love this clip. Deep and simple.

  • @shadowfiend4270
    @shadowfiend4270 8 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    SHE NEVER AGES! Damn, I see no wrinkles.

    • @savanamolina6652
      @savanamolina6652 8 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      its makeup and thousands of skin products 😂

    • @lauracordova9606
      @lauracordova9606 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +Savana Molina its not thousands of products wow.. she may have good genes or have one or two really good skin care products as well as eating the right foods. do some research instead of judging her. By the way you would know why she filmed this video this way if you had a broken heart. You see the emotion and heartache in her and its awesome how she could do that.

    • @olskoolnewpaint
      @olskoolnewpaint 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Dave Scott Maclean
      Rich people don't age, haven't you figured that out ? She will be hot until she is in her late 60's. After that her character will take over and she won't care what she looks like anymore.

    • @newyork380
      @newyork380 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Friendship S what your seeing is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products, and a touch of digital editing.

    • @nexusvexusus4096
      @nexusvexusus4096 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      New York I'm laughing my ass off at how you worded that. "[In serious, solemn voice] What you are now witnessing....is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products...and a touch...of digital editing." LOL!!!!!!

  • @emanueladiprima762
    @emanueladiprima762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you only deserve to be loved. I am happy that you have found a great love, you deserve it ❤️

  • @jaimeek4824
    @jaimeek4824 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gwennnnn, omg baby we are so loving you still to this day!! I hope you are so happy now! BUTttttt if not we know we will hear your heart on an album, how can you even thank someone for that!! All my respect and admiration ❤️❤️

  • @martinelifjeld2530
    @martinelifjeld2530 8 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Its unreal that she is 47 years old.... A vampire?

    • @Shon9tilR
      @Shon9tilR 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She could go for 27. So freaking pretty.

    • @lisaisa2301
      @lisaisa2301 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      srsly, look at her mouth shape, her nose and how the skin is stretched.... plastic surgery might be ur answer. no ill on gwen stefani, just saying...

    • @tjheart6910
      @tjheart6910 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +me messon way u hating on a beatiful person I never seen u but the way u are acting you are ugly on the inside so if anyone needs help it is u. you say that u are not trying to be rude but who would like to be told go get your face fixed. think before u text. and ps this whole comment section is about how young and pretty she looks so I guess that you are out numbered

    • @lisaisa2301
      @lisaisa2301 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I didn't say she should go get her face fixed. They were asking how she could look so pretty at her age and I meant she has probably had plastic surgery, which is not something I think anyone needs really. Still no hating on Gwen, just saying I think that is why she looks so young her age

    • @Shon9tilR
      @Shon9tilR 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      me messon If she did the surgeon did an awesome job.

  • @cellyhermosillo14
    @cellyhermosillo14 8 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Wow! She makes me feel her pain through this video.

    • @RachelScottSays
      @RachelScottSays 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      exactly

    • @joshbeadle7330
      @joshbeadle7330 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Painful to watch? That's the only pain I can see here.

    • @cellyhermosillo14
      @cellyhermosillo14 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Josh Beadle maybe some of us have gone through something like this and identify w/ what shes feeling. You dont have to like it ! So gtfo.

    • @lylpresenta
      @lylpresenta 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +celeste hermosillo Yeah, it's so painful to watch.

    • @kingwithoutacrown1
      @kingwithoutacrown1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +celeste hermosillo _No more pain Celeste, she's dating Blake Shelton since a few days ;-)_

  • @rmilkyswife
    @rmilkyswife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    God I love Gwen and I'm so happy she's happy now with blake. She's the happiest I've ever seen her and I followed her since No Doubt first came out. I lived this same story. She got me through I am so grateful I seen her Vegas show last October for my birthday it was amazing

  • @briahnaelisabethdejesusbribunn
    @briahnaelisabethdejesusbribunn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Lyrics:
    Never thought this would happen
    I let it sink in, you're gone
    I don't know, know what I'm feeling
    I must be dreaming, you're gone
    Suitcase, band-aids
    Pulling back out the driveway
    You go, I'll stay
    You can keep all the memories
    I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    I thought you loved me the most
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    Are you gone?
    There were no boundaries
    What, you just pushed me too far
    I guess nobody taught you
    Nobody taught you how to love
    Suitcase, band-aids
    Pulling back out the driveway
    You go, I'll stay
    You can keep all the memories
    I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    I thought you loved me the most
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    Oh, now look at what you lost, oh
    You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    Now look at what you lost, oh
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    Oh, oh, oh, oh
    I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I used to love you
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I cry
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I used to love you
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    Source: LyricFind
    Songwriters: Jonathan Rotem / Teal Douville / Gwen Stefani / Justin Tranter / Julia Michaels
    Used to Love You lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music Inc

  • @shayjones1601
    @shayjones1601 7 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Who hasn't been through something like this? Gwen has put every disappointment that I've had from my past relationships in ONE song. Talent SO underrated.

    • @5TYX-and-5TONES
      @5TYX-and-5TONES 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shay Jones it really isn't that much talent, obviously it took a lot of talent to get here but this song is just what anyone would do if they lived a normal life (breakups and such included) and could vent via a song as oppose to social media where people post things such as "i hate you but I used to love you" and when someone someone bites the bullet and replies to that person's whiney Bullshit with "what's wrong"... If she couldn't vent like this we all know she would be the one to reply "i don't wanna talk about it"

    • @sevcon2
      @sevcon2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      also this song was written by some of the best contamporary songwriters

    • @jehenaravanamerongen5288
      @jehenaravanamerongen5288 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Julia Michaels did❤

  • @christinasalinas8088
    @christinasalinas8088 8 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    love your vulnerability and raw emotions here!

    • @rosatepache446
      @rosatepache446 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Stefka V laaaargoooo

    • @dsua3728
      @dsua3728 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they werentbraw they were too fake for a music video. shrs not at putting enotion in songs via music video.

    • @TheBeverly007
      @TheBeverly007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      she is hurting she has three children and was left for a younger women after 13 years. How would you feel? Did you want her to cry through the whole video?

    • @dsua3728
      @dsua3728 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Beverly Pisano it still dodnt look right. obviously she isnt hurting because she is riding Blake Sheldons pole

    • @xmuzikflr
      @xmuzikflr 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +D Sua The video director didn't want her to cry during the video so she made her redo the video until she didn't cry.

  • @annward4149
    @annward4149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I felt sorry for Gwen and I do cause of the pain she went through. But God has blessed her with Blake. And they are just a perfect match!!!!

  • @chantallediedericks1830
    @chantallediedericks1830 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So sad how someone you love, have the power to destroy every bit of you. Narcissistic abuse is real. It destroys everything you thought you knew about love.

    • @davidcormac
      @davidcormac ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello there 👋 how are you doing today??

  • @gaboper
    @gaboper 8 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    This. This should be the kind of direction Gwen should be heading. Not that "Spark The Fire."

    • @geenothadon_1
      @geenothadon_1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      This. This makes me uncomfortable

    • @zeekrsx836
      @zeekrsx836 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      +Paolo Perez Yeah, she said she already scrapped all the songs she did last year and started new these past few months. To reflet what is going on in her life, to be more involved in the creation and for it to be more personal. I prefer to look at those songs from last year as warm ups.

    • @abrahamrojas8183
      @abrahamrojas8183 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      hater

    • @DarhioVo
      @DarhioVo 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Paolo Perez So you prefer to cry and suffer than have fun and dance. There's enough room for both! Spark The Fire is so cool. This is just fine.

    • @laza8675
      @laza8675 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      +Paolo Perez
      Spark the fire was very close to being good too. It just was a tad bit too repetitive and the production lazy.
      Sometimes lighter songs are good too.
      There were some very cool elements in spark the fire

  • @RizaHariati
    @RizaHariati 8 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    I love how she doesn't blur the wrinkle around her eyes! She's almost 50 but she's still look mid 30!

    • @risingmoon1928
      @risingmoon1928 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      +Riza hariati The most beautiful woman in the world. She melts me.

    • @c7onews893
      @c7onews893 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Rising Moon shhhhhhhhh

    • @paolapalma8980
      @paolapalma8980 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes! she is so beautiful :)

    • @EmmanuKing
      @EmmanuKing 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, that's because she cares her health and her organism. Long life to Gwen!

    • @munkhbayarboldbat2787
      @munkhbayarboldbat2787 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe if you take care for yourself people should look like her at 50

  • @cocoarii
    @cocoarii 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel like this is her realizing how powerful the song is. It’s beautiful

  • @mpimentel3525
    @mpimentel3525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pandemic really made us revisit past life events 🌻🌸

  • @lexyheartsbeauty
    @lexyheartsbeauty 8 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    *some people just NEVER AGE OMG SHE LOOKS AMAZING!*

    • @lexyheartsbeauty
      @lexyheartsbeauty 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    • @lauren8173
      @lauren8173 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +lexyheartsbeauty She does age really well! She is so pretty

    • @robinhood1120
      @robinhood1120 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Plastic surgery honey lol she has Botox and other procedures

    • @alexeyque
      @alexeyque 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Robin Hood she looks amazing nevertheless. Some ppl her age over do it with the botox and stuff

    • @jennyxosweety
      @jennyxosweety 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      makeup! works wonders!

  • @MillyParish
    @MillyParish 8 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Never thought this would happen
    Gonna let it sink in, you're gone
    I don't know, know what I'm feeling
    I must be dreaming, you're gone
    Suitcase, band-aids
    Pulling back out the driveway
    You go, I'll stay
    You can keep all the memories
    I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    I thought you loved me the most
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    You thought
    There were no boundaries
    What, you just pushed me too far
    I guess nobody taught you
    Nobody taught you how to love
    Suitcase, band-aids
    Pulling back out the driveway
    You go, I'll stay
    You can keep all the memories
    I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    I thought you loved me the most
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    Well, now look at what you lost, oh
    You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you
    Now look at what you lost, oh
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time
    Since I hated you
    That I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    Oh oh oh oh
    I used to love you
    I don't know why I cry
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I used to love you
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I cry
    I don't, I don't, I don't
    I don't know why I used to love you
    I don't, I don't, I don't

  • @LilRocker2005
    @LilRocker2005 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man, I felt this one deep! Sad that both Gwen and Blake had to go through heartbreak before finding each other!

  • @nellro1050
    @nellro1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “You thought, there were no boundaries, but you just pushed me, too far........ I guess, nobody taught you how to love ❤️”yup! Best songwriter

  • @LaurenRauh
    @LaurenRauh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    I've always loved simple music videos where the music speaks for it's self like it doesn't need a big ridiculous video just listen and the video compliments it.

    • @LaurenRauh
      @LaurenRauh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carver Pierce ok will do! thanks for the advice

    • @marythompson2967
      @marythompson2967 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye

    • @marythompson2967
      @marythompson2967 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye&^

    • @ActualStellaNation
      @ActualStellaNation 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      you're right tbh.... if i listened to this whilst watching her rollerblade around with more plastic surgery that kardation like in her latest vid - I wouldn't remember , nor like the song. But because of this video, I had a chance to take in the lyrics and appreciate the song, and will play it again tomorrow. Wish she could reverse her plastic facial surgery I really do. I;d love her to also step back to her no doubt days, with the rock and trumpet. Imagine how much of a smash that would be.

    • @bozumoyo3277
      @bozumoyo3277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lauren Rauh

  • @amberbarton195
    @amberbarton195 8 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    Whoever is reading this, I hope you have an amazing day! :)

    • @TheDarkKnight2064
      @TheDarkKnight2064 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you.

    • @yeaman992
      @yeaman992 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love you.

    • @ralph1270
      @ralph1270 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Amber Barton ...you too! Danke schon!

    • @TheDaftpunk95
      @TheDaftpunk95 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Amber Barton Oow girl thanks you change my smile!! :3 You too

    • @devynwalter6888
      @devynwalter6888 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      The smiles spread across the world

  • @luannconsentino1188
    @luannconsentino1188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am happy she found happiness.

  • @mattnyakunhuwa3794
    @mattnyakunhuwa3794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If this song nvr made u cry you've never been really heartbroken😭😭😭

  • @MrHelleborus
    @MrHelleborus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    This video is awkward to watch. But this song knocks.
    Love it.

    • @realaudioreviews
      @realaudioreviews 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's not awkward until you say it's awkward... Dumb comment

    • @MrHelleborus
      @MrHelleborus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's awkward for me cause I think it's awkward. Dumb comment.

    • @SupremeStoops
      @SupremeStoops 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Sidney Taku Stop being so awkward then... weirdo

    • @MrHelleborus
      @MrHelleborus 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why? Freak.

    • @testnamepleaseignore8884
      @testnamepleaseignore8884 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Sidney Taku awkward

  • @sjbl547
    @sjbl547 6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    this song is so underrated omg

    • @TV-ob1if
      @TV-ob1if 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      j u g h e a d ' how exactly is a song underrated

  • @daynasmith4059
    @daynasmith4059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That's right....NOW LOOK AT WHAT YOU LOST! Your loss is Blake's gain. Go Gwen ❤️

  • @stevenvelez1100
    @stevenvelez1100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the best videos I've ever seen. You're not even singing and I can see and feel every emotion you were going through. We've all been through heartache and pain. Thank you Gwen for being vulnerable to the world.

  • @bishpls4648
    @bishpls4648 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1012

    Quick reminder:
    She is Almost 49 still looking 24 ♥️

    • @laine6407
      @laine6407 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Loves Me Not damn she is 500?!
      Edit: I meant 50 xD

    • @Djoodibooti
      @Djoodibooti 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Her eyelids say a different story.

    • @ithaindigo
      @ithaindigo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Djoodibooti still look great lol

    • @tereasadavis1640
      @tereasadavis1640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Quick reminder:
      She is rich & can afford surgery, etc.! Her eyelids & lips tell.

    • @tereasadavis1640
      @tereasadavis1640 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      No doubt, she is pretty

  • @jeancorb7697
    @jeancorb7697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +673

    Needed to listen this after Selena Gomez "Lose you to love me"..

  • @MariahStock
    @MariahStock 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nostalgia is such a beautiful, bitter sweet emotion. Nothing beats being head over heels in love, even when it ends in tears. Would do it all over again.

    • @bubuPlay
      @bubuPlay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      simply true

  • @JustTanya.
    @JustTanya. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She leaves it all there for all to see. And for anyone who has ever been through something similar, you get it, you felt it. So many different stages of emotions in 3 minutes and 47 seconds. And I was just listening to Beyonce's Lemonade album and thinking, wow if anyone would understand that it would be Gwen. Oh my gosh, I wish they'd do a song together. 😲😎👍

    • @hockey321smash
      @hockey321smash ปีที่แล้ว

      Beyoncé is just going through the motions to sell songs. Gwen has been through it She’s the real deal.

  • @talm6175
    @talm6175 8 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    gwen hurt as fuck, on the brink of tears for almost 4 minutes, deep lyrics that allude to her heartbreak with Gavin.....
    meanwhile: "oh, look! hahaha she has an adams apple!"
    humanity ladies and gentlemen

    • @echoustic2712
      @echoustic2712 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Taibah Al-mansour
      Good post. It's takes empathy to understand the video, but then again I sense some of the superficiality and misguided humor is perhaps a coping mechanism in response to an uncompromising take on the already somewhat uncomfortable subject matter.

    • @elizabethbottelberghe8429
      @elizabethbottelberghe8429 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Taibah Al-mansour All women do, lol. Ours just typically don't protrude much like most male Adam's apples.

    • @emoji3439
      @emoji3439 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Taibah Al-mansour At 2:44 you can see her Adams Apple and when she raises her neck

  • @matthewlee4834
    @matthewlee4834 7 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    She arguably looks even more gorgeous than she did in the 90s

    • @willywonka9768
      @willywonka9768 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I dunno if id go that far, but yes.. shes still attractive.. but then again I'm into kinda sporty girls so ;)

    • @rocknitzclrk6634
      @rocknitzclrk6634 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I went to her concert late ninetys.....with my little bro his ex ilkwy and Leah sorry early 2000's....I brought everyone tickets randomly....didn't even likr gwen that much.....just wanted to have a good night in smongst the bullshit that was my life....good concert gwen is tall lol id jumo fence for gwen =)

    • @amandaclarkebouncin4321
      @amandaclarkebouncin4321 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can u b my wonka?? Big willy ??? ;)

    • @tikilove2241
      @tikilove2241 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matthew Lee just no,no.....

    • @thrasherx2k1
      @thrasherx2k1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Matthew Lee makeup can do wonders

  • @miss420mj
    @miss420mj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a bright soul. Heartbreaking seeing such sadness....
    I can relate.

  • @Alissasmith-xw6kq
    @Alissasmith-xw6kq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Imagine fumbling Miss Gwen Stefani. Gavin a fool

  • @hannahcouture3514
    @hannahcouture3514 7 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    She couldn't be any more beautiful...

    • @K.Adamsan
      @K.Adamsan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You like all that Botox that prevents her from showing emotion?

    • @williamtung6659
      @williamtung6659 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hannah Couture it looks like a bird shit in her hair. Everything else is good.

    • @yvngnash8883
      @yvngnash8883 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ik right

    • @Spiderific
      @Spiderific 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      roccotherabbit /\ That's not an Adam's apple you moron. Open up an anatomy book sometime.

    • @Spiderific
      @Spiderific 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your Character Is Flawed Your name fits perfectly.

  • @andreas8303
    @andreas8303 8 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    SHE IS BACK. She surprised us with this masterpiece. I LOVE HER

  • @alexbarrancolopez5255
    @alexbarrancolopez5255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Algún latino más que le guste Gwen Stefani?
    Creas arte con una melodía muy triste,nunca dejas de sorprenderme Gwen.
    #AmohaGwen

    • @je-sus0010
      @je-sus0010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Obvio, es la mejor

    • @sindromedelsalmon
      @sindromedelsalmon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo la amo, soy de chile. Venía al Lollapalooza del 2020 y ya había comprado la entrada para verla, pero la maldita pandemia lo arruinó todo.

  • @dennyjones6921
    @dennyjones6921 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This music video is incredible it shows her true emotions with no flash costumes or anything