I saw my dad eating my mom out on the couch when I was 11 after they thought we had gone to bed. I got over it after the 2nd day. But now at 22, I'm a prude
I don't get why the group is acting like Adrienne is going to tell her kids about her favorite positions. LOL. Like chill out. The fact that more adults aren't having candid talks with their kids about sex is why so many young people end up in unhealthy sexual relationships.
It's important for children to know what a healthy example of a sexual relationship is. That's Adrienne's point. I think people are taking this to another level. She's not going to talk about positions and whatnot. But she wants her kids to see affection between her and her husband and understand what healthy affection is. I see absolutely no issue with that.
I don't see where the issue lies as I don't believe Adrienne intends on bringing up graphic details. She specifically said she wants to show her kids what healthy affection looks like because she never saw that growing up and she wants to have conversations with them so they know what a healthy sex life should look like. So I will agree to disagree. We need better sex education and it should be coming from parents. So many young people are walking around with no clue, but they're sexually active. Anyway, thanks and have a good day.
I agree with Adrienne you should tell them but not go into details ! If the child asks starts asking then that's when u tell them ! You don't want the, to learn form the outside world or the Internet ! The parents need to inform the child first !
Exactly. I knew so many kids growing up who learned everything about sex from friends on the playground and by looking at porn. I look back on it and smh. That's not how it should be.
+Jazzy One and I'm in high school myself and that's all I hear from freshmen & sophomore ( my current grade ) even looking back on middle school that's all you heard your classmates talk about especially in this generation now !
This segment wasn't about the importance of educating your kids about sex. This is about volunteering the information that YOU are having sex to your kids. You can tell your kids everything that they need to know to protect themselves without saying "your dad and I had sex last night," like what Adrienne is aspiring to do. She's doing the most for no reason.
+Missy R. she did say that she was going to tell them every time she had sexy. Seriously you've said that on like 5 different comments now God Damn. Her point is that she'll set an example of a healthy sexual relationship. It maybe awkard at first but it will also make it easier for her kids to come to her if they have questions about sex.
I don't think Adrienne is choosing the right words. She makes it sound like she's going to address it at the breakfast table before the kids go to school.
As someone who grew up in exactly the same situation as Adrienne, I wholeheartedly agree with her on this subject, and I RARELY agree with her on stuff.
Yes, I totally agree! my mom was so open to me about sex and I was a very curious/inquisitive teenager, so I'd ask her questions about some of the conversations my friends and I discussed about sex (intercourse/oral/etc.) And her truthful response is what curbed me from wanting to experiment and "learn about sex from personal experience". I believe it's healthy to talk to your parents... Particularly moms (for young women) because it helps to put everything into perspective. As a result I was not a gullible desperate fool when it came to guys. Instead I was the wise friend who gave relationship advice and sex advice because they were all too scared to talk to their mom and they'd revert to asking other inexperienced/promiscuous teens or they'd watch adult films. Which ended up distorting their perspective of a health relationship.
Nastasia Phipps Exactly. Especially since, because my grandmother never talked to my mom about sex, my mom ended up pregnant at 17. She made sure not to make the same mistake with me and my sister.
Has anyone ever subtracted nine months from their birthday and pinpoint when exactly you were conceived then come to realize that particular day your parents were getting it on and get grossed out like why did I just calculate that?
VONiiE8 About? I was born in late January, therefore I should have been conceived some time in April the year prior, obviously the exact day is gonna vary
I like Jeannie's imagination though. I actually wouldn't be surprised if someone actually made that happen, like in the movie. Sure as hell wouldn't be anywhere near as easy or happen as fast.
Dee Jay well my parents hate each other and haven't slept in the same bed in 18 years and they have been married for 20 years. i can't believe they ever had sex
Jeannie never gets to finish saying what she wants to but Tamar's NOT the only one that cuts her off so all the Tamar haters need to back up a little. In this episode alone she was cut off by Tamar Adrienne and Loni!
I'm all about Boundaries. I'm the Parent and my daughter is the child. No matter how old she is. I love what Tamera said. You want to see your parents loving each other, but not know the rest. Of course, I've talked to my daughter about sex, but I'll never share my intimate life with her. No blurred lines here! lol I knew my parents loved each other, but that was it. As Phoebe has said, "MY EYES! MY EYES!"
I agree! My mom always made it VERY clear to me that she is my mother and NOT my friend. She's here to raise me, educate me, mold me as a good human but she is not here to be my bestie and encourage certain things in life. I love my mom and I know her marriage is a healthy one and she's happy and that's enough. She knows my relationship and she knows I'm happy and it's healthy and that's enough! For us, sex is not a taboo because we both know it happens and whenever I have any concerns I ask her and she'll honestly and openly tell me because she wants to educate me HOWEVER we do not openly talk about our sex lives. I don't wanna know my mamma gets down and dirty! 😂
If your child would be visibly uncomfortable with it, you definitely should set and respect boundaries. But if you're like Adrienne, I can see how the relationship might allow for more openness in that kind of conversation between parent and child. It really just depends.
my parents didn't have to tell us in words they just told us that when they closed the door don't bother them and we put it together so wen we were like ew my dad used to say "would you rather I was beating her or she was beating me?" and we realize that it was a good thing they had that love because life could be a whole different story based on what happens behind those closed doors...still don't think about it unless you wanna puke
RoyalMasterpiece Regardless of who is parent and who is the child, I don't think EITHER want to tell or ask the other details of their sexual intimate life. To come for questions is a different story and is important. But seriously, what kind of parent or child or sibling share details of their sex life with each other???
So if you've explained to your daughter what sex is and that two people who love each other do it, if she asks you "do you and *insert your spouse* have sex?" What are you gonna say? No? I feel like it's not a taboo subject. For me it'd be a simple "yes we do, because we love eachother very much."
I love Adrienne's relationship with her mum! It reminds of my relationship with my mum! It should be exactly this way, you won't ever have a friend who would care more about you than your mum!
Not every mom cares about you if my mom did she wouldn’t sell me for men to do things to me between 6&9 and she wouldn't rape me and sexaully and verbal and physical abuse me give me death threats and whole bunch more but I don't feel like typing for hours mentioning every single thing she did or I'll be here all day If someone says their not in a relationship with their parents or family member it probably a good reason for it and people need to accept that my grandma is a narcissistic and I told my bf if we have a baby in the future I want he/her nowhere near her just because their family doesn't mean they need to be in your life I'm sorry but if your toxic or a asshole I don't want you in my life rather if your family or not and anyone with amazing parents always thinks well my parents are great so all parents are great and that not true and actually a lot of people with PTSD it because of a family member so just stop saying that not every mom is a good parent and if someone doesn't want to have a relationship with their mom is fine and you and everyone else should expect it 😒😌
I 100% agree with Ad. My parents never kissed, hugged, or held hands. It made me have issues in relationships for a while. I won't tell my kids details but it's important to have intimacy, not just sex but just being affectionate in general
That was so weird of Adrienne to say.. why tf would you wanna be aware of the fact that your parents are having sex? Whether theyre in a healthy marriage or not, dont nobody want that image in their head.
I'm sorry but Tamera is SO childish sometimes, I usually like her, but come on, Adrienne was just saying that she never saw real love or affection growing up and she feels that it's important for her kids to see that when she has them. She never said she was going to do it infront of them, or go into details!!! They need to grow up!
I am sad to see these grown women talk about sex like it's disgusting. Your parents have sex. Yes, it's uncomfortable to think about it and EVEN MORE to walk in on them, but calling it disgusting can be very damaging language for your kids. Sex is not a disgusting thing. It is not a scary thing. It is not a shameful thing. I am thankful that my parents were open to me about sex, what it means, how it works and what the dangers associated with unprotected sex are. They made sure that I would never be scared to tell them if I ended up with an STD, or if I needed an appointment at the gynaecologist. Kids don't need sexy details, because that is intimate, and that boundary should also be taught. But sex shouldn't be a subject that makes people barf or squirm anymore. It's no the 1950s y'all...
I don't see them talking about sex like it's disgusting. I see them talking about the very real feeling that talking to your parents about their sex life is disgusting. The hosts had different perspectives.
You can tell before she even said it (1:57) that adrienne's parents did not set an example for her that's why she doesn't want to make that same mistake with her kids. If so, good for her BUT she doing too much.
She keeps trying to formulate how a relationship btween kids and a parent should be based off of her own experiences. She should just let it happen naturally.
+Leah Brown But that's what 90% of parents do though. Either they raise their kids the same way they were resided because they think it's right, or they try to raise them better than they were raised because they thought it was wrong. That's how most people work. No body goes into being a parent without SOME influence from their own childhood. It's normal.
FuzzyBlueLights OK I know all of that already. What I'm really trying to say is that she wants too much of a fairytale marriage and life. I was that way too bc I had a hard upbringing. She wants to do all these things for her husband and kids and once she gets married and has kids things can go totally different from what she envisioned.
+Leah Brown Well that's not what you said in your first comment so excuse me for actually thinking you MEANT what you SAID lol I don't have time to decode comments 😂😂😂
No she's not doing too much. Being open with your parents is completely okay. I even ask my mom out of curiosity if she's ever been with a girl before or a threesome and even though she never gives me an answer it's still fun and we laugh and talk about the subject.
I understand having "the talk", but i'd get up mid-conversation if my mom ever decided to talk about her sex life with me. Why is it any of business? I don't need to know that lol, just like she doesn't NEED to know mine. Talk to your bff's about that stuff, not your kids. Btw, you can take a nice stroll through any high school and will see the results of parents not parenting and acting life their child's best friend (not saying it's bad to be close to your child. that's very important!)
I think people are missing the point here. I highly doubt they're talking to their kids about sex in the same way they'd be talking about it to their friends. And I don't think is going to do that either. No where in this segment did they say that's what the parents were doing lol
There is also a difference in WHEN you talk to your kids about each other's sex lives. To me having "the talk" is at a different stage in life than what they are saying. Adrienne is in her 30's yeah she will talk to her mom about getting some lingerie. I'm 27 my mom has been making jokes about mine and my husband's sex life for the last 6 years. Her and my dad joke about theirs in front of me and I joke back. We don't go into details, but we don't view each other the way we did when I was younger. I had a boyfriend my parents didn't like at 19 my dad told me he wouldn't be surprised if he took my virginity. I was like sorry daddy but he didn't. My dad pictured his little princess as a pure soul when I was a mouthy teenager that had had several boyfriends. Did I go into detail and tell him which guy it was? NO!!! But he needed to realize that, while I'll always be his little girl, I was growing up. Nobody needs to know the details of your bedroom, but a joke doesn't hurt. My husband doesn't like seafood. When he was telling my parents this he said "I don't eat anything that comes out of water." My mother without skipping a beat looked at me and said "Well guess you better never shower again." Again the difference in the story with my dad and the story with her is age. I was 19 when having the conversation with him. I was 21 and in a serious relationship when having the conversation with her.
My momma always tells me first and foremost...."I'm not your friend. I am your mom, so you better not treat me like I'm your friend." And I respect her for saying that because there is a line drawn there that I know not to cross.
"You been nagging and whining about wanting a little baby brother WELL LET MOMMY & DADDY DO OUR THANG AND WE'LL GET ON IT, chile!" O ok mom shoot for twins if you can. "Chile I aint no miracle worker" ???
Exactly, i'm so confused. For what Adrienne is saying, I don't see an issue with your kids eventually learning that mommy and daddy have sex, but why do you need to specifically tell your kids that that's what you're doing? That didn't make any sense. Maybe they're young and innocent, hear the word and ask about it, or they wanna know where babies come from, or your having that talk with them then I can see why a parent would mention it, but why would you need to just tell your kids you have sex, for no reason? "Hey kids, just letting you know daddy and I do this at night when you're asleep, k bye" Like what???
I guess cause that's why her moms marriage didn't work, so she wants to teach her kids it's important to be intimate or something.. but I think it's kinda stupid cause if you don't feel like it then you just don't, and you shouldn't encourage it if it isn't even wanted.
I actually appreciated Adrienne's view point. I do think everyone deals with this differently and if you're in a space with your mom to talk about stuff like that once you're mature I think that's GREAT.
Not going into detail but telling your kids i don't see a problem. Me and my mom can talk about absolutely anything and it's really not that weird it's a mom/friend. It's actually really helpful having someone to talk to who yours closest too. I guess it depends on how close your are with your mom
I agree with Adrienne! I love that she's actually prepare and educate her children on what apart of their adult life it going to be. Unlike others who just see sex as "gross"
Having a conversation with your mother about sex doesn't mean going into details or saying anything inappropriate or sharing TOO much information. People that have grown up in homes where relationships and sex were never discussed very often grow up to have bad relationships. When I was younger my mother gave me similar advice to what Jeannie's mother gave her which was 'If you're ever in a relationship where you're not having sex very often or you're not enjoying the sex then something is wrong' She also always told me that the best sex you''ll ever have in your life is with someone you truly love and have a spark with and someone that loves you, cares for you and respects you. That advice definitely helped me when I was waiting for the right person and it made me never just settle for less :)
I love my mum, we're very close and I can talk to her about a lot of things, but we have this unspoken agreement about a line in terms of what we talk about. There are some things I don't want my mum to know, there are some things she doesn't want me to know. It's just a line you don't cross. Yes, it is important to make kids aware about the birds and the bees, but no kid wants to know about their parents' sex lives. It's as Jeannie said, "Once it's seen, it cannot be unseen."
it scarred me for life! In my opinion, children are curious beings and once you tell them you're having sex, they try to find out. I just happened to stumble across my parents doing it and it scarred me for life
Tamar point of view is correct.I don’t wanna know nothing about my parents marital business.Then when things go sour you feel like you gotta take sides.
There's a problem when people talk high and mighty (sometimes vulgar) about sex over the internet, but then aren't even mature enough to talk about it openly like an adult.
Haha I had to replay that part to hear it.. Girl all that kpop is making ur hearing sense sharp as heck.. We gotta focus extra hard to hear what they say in their songs lol
and i dont need my parents to tell me that having sex is apart of a marriage, i found that out on my own. they didnt have to be like "mommy and daddy have sex." like thats clearly self explanatory, how else did i get here?
just depends on the type of relationship with ur parents I guess. I mean my mom and I are very opened about it (no details) but we do talk about it. :) I'm glad we trust each other enough to do so
It depends if the child is mature and can handle it, if not wait until they are at the right age. However, with my mom and I, we are open and close with eachother. Not only that , the re lationship between the parents and child is crucial in deciding whether to involve your kids or not.
I agree 100% with Adrienne on this.. Me and my mum just have that close relationship were we can talk about anything. I mean I wouldn't ask her about positions because......nah.... but i would totally talk to her about it.
My mom never had "the talk" with me and I hated that tbh. I feel like not talking to your children about it makes them even more tempted to just risk it all which could lead to stds & pregnancy. Luckily I wasn't a fast girl so I don't have those issues lol & I learned everything from the Internet.
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
i’m super close with my mother, but i know the line between her being my mother and my friend. we can talk about anything, it doesn’t mean we are going on lunch dates talking about sex. i don’t see why your kids need to know that. if they see their parents in a happy relationship, that’s proof enough you don’t need to validate it with “we have a healthy sexual relationship”. i think people confuse being very close with a parent and being their friend.
being a single woman now, I am just starting to grasp my mom met my dad and the rest was not planned. you think your parents are soulmates and they never had to struggle with love cause it worked out in the end, but when I found out my mom had other boyfriends(I know a smidge about my dad's girlfriend but it was never confirmed if that was really his girlfriend or someone he liked) I was like oh wow so my mom also didn't know if she was going to get married and have a child for quite a few years, so it makes me feel like I'm not some weirdo who just isn't meant to be with anyone, that everyone had to navigate through life and date people who were off, to find who their parent of their child is, despite if it doesn't work out, you know a love that ends with a child is never like a phase, when they slept together, they felt this trust with their bodies and souls to risk that this experience and their relationship could produce a family. I believe that
My parents were super loving and we've heard them and even walked in...and they stopped. The problem is when the kids walk in and they keep going...or they're not intimate at all.
Vonda Miller I walked in already and they stopped. I just told them to carry on because I already knew that they were having sex how else would I have gotten here😶😶😏😏😏I went to my room and they continued 😉idk
absolutely ridiculous lol. I'm sure my parents kept going after. We later moved to a 2-story home and they use to just send us downstairs and outside...like all day. Lol
Idk. I can't really say what I will and will not talk about when my kids get grown. Idk. Just depends on the people I guess. However, I do respect Adrienne choice because her and her mom has that kind of relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. And I respect the other ladies choices as well. Too all their own.
Adrienne lives in LALA LAND. I swear! Your child doesn't want to know you're having sex adrienne. You can show that you and your husband are happy without having to sit your child down and let them know that. like wtf. lead by example! Lol i swear she has a LONG way to go.
If you can't have that conversation with your parents or children about that subject in an honest and open way...there is some issues there. I'm not saying that you need to go into GRAPHICS about it, but letting your mother know that you're being safe and sensible will put her mind at ease.
Look, the pint is everyone is different and that's fine. Some of us have close relationships with our parent/parents and some of us don't. If you don't want to have that kind of relationship with your kid then okay that's your choice. But stop making it seem like those of us who do have a open relationship with our parents is weird. Because going by these comments, I'd say pretty much every comment I read of someone saying that they grew up being very close and open with their parent is happy that they had that. They aren't scarred or traumatized by talking about sex with their parents. We are living proof that it's okay and it's not weird. Especially if your parent has been that way with you from when you were young. Most of you who think it's weird is because your parents were never open with you, therefore now you think it's odd. So at the end of the day, you do you with your kids but there's nothing wrong with being open either.
And you need to give these parents a little more credit. Obviously if talking about this sort of thing with their kid is making them super uncomfortable, you really think they would just keep talking & not even care... Common now. No ones objective is to force it on their kids and make them feel weird. It's not even like that.
I think both points of view are valid. If you have that boundary with your parent, then just dont talk about it. But if you’re open, and there’s no awkwarness then go ahead.
I agree that I don't want to know anything about my parents' sex life, but it is important for them to talk to their kids about what sex is. I come from a country where people think 'sex' is a taboo. I am a part time counselor for high school kids and sometimes their problems stem from sexual frustration. We have been prescribed to tell those kids that they should control their urges and concentrate on studies and play sports to release tension. I think parents should talk to their children about sex. Not the details. But at least tell them what it is. Educate them the right way. Don't feed them lies please. It is harder for them when they learn the truth.
Tamera girl just say what you got to say 😅😅 you are the one to talk less or to get cutoff 🙋🏽♀️😶🤷🏽♀️😊 I like what Loni said no one is right and “no one is wrong , every one is different and it depends on the type of relationship you may have”
Ah hell nah. I'd just rather pretend like my parents don't have sex. I was delivered by a stork lol.
lmao ! dead af 😭😭
IM HOWLING
lmao stork
wtheck just happen to The Real comments HAHAHAHAHAHA you made my day
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I don't care how close I am to my parents... I do not want to know about their sex lives point, blank , period and exclamation point.
Same
SAMMMEEEEE!!!!!!!
hi
The Goddess my parents don't have one💁🏽
Pros to having my parents being in their 50's and 60's.
Ilovesimsfreeplay16 how do you know that?
I walked in on my parents once at age 5. I still go to therapy.
😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭 this is what I want to see after a long day
I saw my dad eating my mom out on the couch when I was 11 after they thought we had gone to bed. I got over it after the 2nd day. But now at 22, I'm a prude
+nairobi1234 Oh my 😩😩
+nairobi1234 I would have been scarred for life smh
Lord have mercy. My prayers are with you. Lol
I don't get why the group is acting like Adrienne is going to tell her kids about her favorite positions. LOL. Like chill out. The fact that more adults aren't having candid talks with their kids about sex is why so many young people end up in unhealthy sexual relationships.
taking about sex and talking about the sex you have with your husband are two different things.
It's important for children to know what a healthy example of a sexual relationship is. That's Adrienne's point. I think people are taking this to another level. She's not going to talk about positions and whatnot. But she wants her kids to see affection between her and her husband and understand what healthy affection is. I see absolutely no issue with that.
+HoneyBear I 100% agree with you
+Jazzy One Again then you do what Tamara said. You kiss and hold hands ect. You don't need to bring your sex life up.
I don't see where the issue lies as I don't believe Adrienne intends on bringing up graphic details. She specifically said she wants to show her kids what healthy affection looks like because she never saw that growing up and she wants to have conversations with them so they know what a healthy sex life should look like. So I will agree to disagree. We need better sex education and it should be coming from parents. So many young people are walking around with no clue, but they're sexually active. Anyway, thanks and have a good day.
Loni 4:36 "Adrienne would know" LOOL I'm dying
Loni is a savage LOL
that was disrespectful bruh she lowkey judgin her for what she likes, but yes it was funny yadiyadiyada
😂😂😂😭😭😭 Adrienne completely ignored her though !
and they say Tamar is shady 🤔
Adrienne didn't even acknowledge
I agree with Adrienne you should tell them but not go into details ! If the child asks starts asking then that's when u tell them ! You don't want the, to learn form the outside world or the Internet ! The parents need to inform the child first !
Exactly. I knew so many kids growing up who learned everything about sex from friends on the playground and by looking at porn. I look back on it and smh. That's not how it should be.
+Jazzy One and I'm in high school myself and that's all I hear from freshmen & sophomore ( my current grade ) even looking back on middle school that's all you heard your classmates talk about especially in this generation now !
This segment wasn't about the importance of educating your kids about sex. This is about volunteering the information that YOU are having sex to your kids. You can tell your kids everything that they need to know to protect themselves without saying "your dad and I had sex last night," like what Adrienne is aspiring to do. She's doing the most for no reason.
+Missy R. thank you, well said!
+Missy R. she did say that she was going to tell them every time she had sexy. Seriously you've said that on like 5 different comments now God Damn. Her point is that she'll set an example of a healthy sexual relationship. It maybe awkard at first but it will also make it easier for her kids to come to her if they have questions about sex.
I don't think Adrienne is choosing the right words. She makes it sound like she's going to address it at the breakfast table before the kids go to school.
Righttttt😂😂
She probably would
As someone who grew up in exactly the same situation as Adrienne, I wholeheartedly agree with her on this subject, and I RARELY agree with her on stuff.
Yes, I totally agree! my mom was so open to me about sex and I was a very curious/inquisitive teenager, so I'd ask her questions about some of the conversations my friends and I discussed about sex (intercourse/oral/etc.) And her truthful response is what curbed me from wanting to experiment and "learn about sex from personal experience". I believe it's healthy to talk to your parents... Particularly moms (for young women) because it helps to put everything into perspective. As a result I was not a gullible desperate fool when it came to guys. Instead I was the wise friend who gave relationship advice and sex advice because they were all too scared to talk to their mom and they'd revert to asking other inexperienced/promiscuous teens or they'd watch adult films. Which ended up distorting their perspective of a health relationship.
Nastasia Phipps Exactly. Especially since, because my grandmother never talked to my mom about sex, my mom ended up pregnant at 17. She made sure not to make the same mistake with me and my sister.
Emphasis on the RARELY haha
Has anyone ever subtracted nine months from their birthday and pinpoint when exactly you were conceived then come to realize that particular day your parents were getting it on and get grossed out like why did I just calculate that?
you're probably incorrect tho
VONiiE8 About? I was born in late January, therefore I should have been conceived some time in April the year prior, obviously the exact day is gonna vary
+MyidolGwen ah, an Aquarius. well, when you use words like "pinpoint" and "exactly", I wasn't sure you understood that.
Halloween ;)
Lol, I've done that before 😂😂😂
I can be 7 months pregnant with twins and I can tell my mama Ima virgin. She gonna want to believe me😂😂
Lmao right !
Umbuu
Right? Immaculate conception 😂
"It's a movie Jeanie"
😂😂😂Tamar is to real
LMAOOO yessss caught it 😉😉
I like Jeannie's imagination though. I actually wouldn't be surprised if someone actually made that happen, like in the movie. Sure as hell wouldn't be anywhere near as easy or happen as fast.
SEX IS NOT A TABOO SUBJECT
Exactly
it's apart of life. ITS WHY WE ARE HERE
Exactly. Someone really commented that they view their mom as a virgin. Like what???
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Dee Jay well my parents hate each other and haven't slept in the same bed in 18 years and they have been married for 20 years. i can't believe they ever had sex
Jeannie never gets to finish saying what she wants to but Tamar's NOT the only one that cuts her off so all the Tamar haters need to back up a little. In this episode alone she was cut off by Tamar Adrienne and Loni!
yes !! i completely agree. i think people are starting to look for the bad in Tamar now that shes fired
Facts plus not a hater but a lot of the one Jeannie stutters and has A LOT to say in one sentence. No hate tho, I like all of them
I'm all about Boundaries. I'm the Parent and my daughter is the child. No matter how old she is. I love what Tamera said. You want to see your parents loving each other, but not know the rest. Of course, I've talked to my daughter about sex, but I'll never share my intimate life with her. No blurred lines here! lol I knew my parents loved each other, but that was it. As Phoebe has said, "MY EYES! MY EYES!"
I agree! My mom always made it VERY clear to me that she is my mother and NOT my friend. She's here to raise me, educate me, mold me as a good human but she is not here to be my bestie and encourage certain things in life.
I love my mom and I know her marriage is a healthy one and she's happy and that's enough. She knows my relationship and she knows I'm happy and it's healthy and that's enough! For us, sex is not a taboo because we both know it happens and whenever I have any concerns I ask her and she'll honestly and openly tell me because she wants to educate me HOWEVER we do not openly talk about our sex lives.
I don't wanna know my mamma gets down and dirty! 😂
If your child would be visibly uncomfortable with it, you definitely should set and respect boundaries. But if you're like Adrienne, I can see how the relationship might allow for more openness in that kind of conversation between parent and child. It really just depends.
my parents didn't have to tell us in words they just told us that when they closed the door don't bother them and we put it together so wen we were like ew my dad used to say "would you rather I was beating her or she was beating me?" and we realize that it was a good thing they had that love because life could be a whole different story based on what happens behind those closed doors...still don't think about it unless you wanna puke
RoyalMasterpiece Regardless of who is parent and who is the child, I don't think EITHER want to tell or ask the other details of their sexual intimate life. To come for questions is a different story and is important. But seriously, what kind of parent or child or sibling share details of their sex life with each other???
So if you've explained to your daughter what sex is and that two people who love each other do it, if she asks you "do you and *insert your spouse* have sex?" What are you gonna say? No? I feel like it's not a taboo subject. For me it'd be a simple "yes we do, because we love eachother very much."
Tamar's face at 05:30 😭😂😭😂😭😂
I love Adrienne's relationship with her mum! It reminds of my relationship with my mum! It should be exactly this way, you won't ever have a friend who would care more about you than your mum!
Not every mom cares about you if my mom did she wouldn’t sell me for men to do things to me between 6&9 and she wouldn't rape me and sexaully and verbal and physical abuse me give me death threats and whole bunch more but I don't feel like typing for hours mentioning every single thing she did or I'll be here all day If someone says their not in a relationship with their parents or family member it probably a good reason for it and people need to accept that my grandma is a narcissistic and I told my bf if we have a baby in the future I want he/her nowhere near her just because their family doesn't mean they need to be in your life I'm sorry but if your toxic or a asshole I don't want you in my life rather if your family or not and anyone with amazing parents always thinks well my parents are great so all parents are great and that not true and actually a lot of people with PTSD it because of a family member so just stop saying that not every mom is a good parent and if someone doesn't want to have a relationship with their mom is fine and you and everyone else should expect it 😒😌
I 100% agree with Ad. My parents never kissed, hugged, or held hands. It made me have issues in relationships for a while. I won't tell my kids details but it's important to have intimacy, not just sex but just being affectionate in general
That was so weird of Adrienne to say.. why tf would you wanna be aware of the fact that your parents are having sex? Whether theyre in a healthy marriage or not, dont nobody want that image in their head.
I'm sorry but Tamera is SO childish sometimes, I usually like her, but come on, Adrienne was just saying that she never saw real love or affection growing up and she feels that it's important for her kids to see that when she has them. She never said she was going to do it infront of them, or go into details!!! They need to grow up!
true
I agree. They just couldn't understand
Show affection and telling your kids yes mommy and daddy have sex is unnecessary and traumatizing
CreativelyKia exactly.
mariyaa111 nobody has to grow up so stfu
I am sad to see these grown women talk about sex like it's disgusting. Your parents have sex. Yes, it's uncomfortable to think about it and EVEN MORE to walk in on them, but calling it disgusting can be very damaging language for your kids. Sex is not a disgusting thing. It is not a scary thing. It is not a shameful thing. I am thankful that my parents were open to me about sex, what it means, how it works and what the dangers associated with unprotected sex are. They made sure that I would never be scared to tell them if I ended up with an STD, or if I needed an appointment at the gynaecologist. Kids don't need sexy details, because that is intimate, and that boundary should also be taught. But sex shouldn't be a subject that makes people barf or squirm anymore. It's no the 1950s y'all...
I don't see them talking about sex like it's disgusting. I see them talking about the very real feeling that talking to your parents about their sex life is disgusting. The hosts had different perspectives.
+badgalriri yes
YESSSSSSSS
Not all women have that type of relationship with their mother. I don't!
unless you're Adrienne. Everyone has different parenting styles. It's not a big deal.
You can tell before she even said it (1:57) that adrienne's parents did not set an example for her that's why she doesn't want to make that same mistake with her kids. If so, good for her BUT she doing too much.
She keeps trying to formulate how a relationship btween kids and a parent should be based off of her own experiences. She should just let it happen naturally.
+Leah Brown But that's what 90% of parents do though. Either they raise their kids the same way they were resided because they think it's right, or they try to raise them better than they were raised because they thought it was wrong. That's how most people work. No body goes into being a parent without SOME influence from their own childhood. It's normal.
FuzzyBlueLights OK I know all of that already. What I'm really trying to say is that she wants too much of a fairytale marriage and life. I was that way too bc I had a hard upbringing. She wants to do all these things for her husband and kids and once she gets married and has kids things can go totally different from what she envisioned.
+Leah Brown Well that's not what you said in your first comment so excuse me for actually thinking you MEANT what you SAID lol I don't have time to decode comments 😂😂😂
No she's not doing too much. Being open with your parents is completely okay. I even ask my mom out of curiosity if she's ever been with a girl before or a threesome and even though she never gives me an answer it's still fun and we laugh and talk about the subject.
I understand having "the talk", but i'd get up mid-conversation if my mom ever decided to talk about her sex life with me. Why is it any of business? I don't need to know that lol, just like she doesn't NEED to know mine. Talk to your bff's about that stuff, not your kids. Btw, you can take a nice stroll through any high school and will see the results of parents not parenting and acting life their child's best friend
(not saying it's bad to be close to your child. that's very important!)
I think people are missing the point here. I highly doubt they're talking to their kids about sex in the same way they'd be talking about it to their friends. And I don't think is going to do that either. No where in this segment did they say that's what the parents were doing lol
+FuzzyBlueLights Either way, it would be awkward for my mom to somehow bring up her sex life o.o 💀💀💀💀 I'd be so embarrassed, honestly LOL
There is also a difference in WHEN you talk to your kids about each other's sex lives. To me having "the talk" is at a different stage in life than what they are saying. Adrienne is in her 30's yeah she will talk to her mom about getting some lingerie.
I'm 27 my mom has been making jokes about mine and my husband's sex life for the last 6 years. Her and my dad joke about theirs in front of me and I joke back. We don't go into details, but we don't view each other the way we did when I was younger.
I had a boyfriend my parents didn't like at 19 my dad told me he wouldn't be surprised if he took my virginity. I was like sorry daddy but he didn't. My dad pictured his little princess as a pure soul when I was a mouthy teenager that had had several boyfriends. Did I go into detail and tell him which guy it was? NO!!! But he needed to realize that, while I'll always be his little girl, I was growing up.
Nobody needs to know the details of your bedroom, but a joke doesn't hurt. My husband doesn't like seafood. When he was telling my parents this he said "I don't eat anything that comes out of water." My mother without skipping a beat looked at me and said "Well guess you better never shower again."
Again the difference in the story with my dad and the story with her is age. I was 19 when having the conversation with him. I was 21 and in a serious relationship when having the conversation with her.
+Kali Hensley wow lol your parents seem cool
Art Poet lol they just know that as a married woman I'm not sitting around with my legs closed and telling my husband "nope, sorry, virgin for life"
My momma always tells me first and foremost...."I'm not your friend. I am your mom, so you better not treat me like I'm your friend."
And I respect her for saying that because there is a line drawn there that I know not to cross.
I mean, common sense has always told me that my mom isn't a virgin let alone celibate. I don't need to know about her sex life.
Adrienne is so real in this clip. She doesn't let the other girls' opinion get to her
Gotta admire Adriennes honesty
"Adrienne can help" 😩😂😂 ssssshhhhhhaaaaaaadeeeeee 🌴🌲🌴🌲🌱🌲🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🌳🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄🎄
Why do your children need to know their parents are having sex????
Exactly!
"You been nagging and whining about wanting a little baby brother WELL LET MOMMY & DADDY DO OUR THANG AND WE'LL GET ON IT, chile!" O ok mom shoot for twins if you can. "Chile I aint no miracle worker" ???
exactly!
Exactly, i'm so confused. For what Adrienne is saying, I don't see an issue with your kids eventually learning that mommy and daddy have sex, but why do you need to specifically tell your kids that that's what you're doing? That didn't make any sense. Maybe they're young and innocent, hear the word and ask about it, or they wanna know where babies come from, or your having that talk with them then I can see why a parent would mention it, but why would you need to just tell your kids you have sex, for no reason? "Hey kids, just letting you know daddy and I do this at night when you're asleep, k bye" Like what???
I guess cause that's why her moms marriage didn't work, so she wants to teach her kids it's important to be intimate or something.. but I think it's kinda stupid cause if you don't feel like it then you just don't, and you shouldn't encourage it if it isn't even wanted.
I actually appreciated Adrienne's view point. I do think everyone deals with this differently and if you're in a space with your mom to talk about stuff like that once you're mature I think that's GREAT.
i feel tamar dosent know when to agree to diagree.
yup agree. She doesn't seem to respect other people's point of view or way of life
shes annoying
right. and it comes off as rude
yeah, she never has. it's sad.
"I helped my mom buy lingerie", says Adrienne. Tamars face....priceless lol
Not going into detail but telling your kids i don't see a problem. Me and my mom can talk about absolutely anything and it's really not that weird it's a mom/friend. It's actually really helpful having someone to talk to who yours closest too. I guess it depends on how close your are with your mom
I agree with Adrienne! I love that she's actually prepare and educate her children on what apart of their adult life it going to be.
Unlike others who just see sex as "gross"
Having a conversation with your mother about sex doesn't mean going into details or saying anything inappropriate or sharing TOO much information. People that have grown up in homes where relationships and sex were never discussed very often grow up to have bad relationships. When I was younger my mother gave me similar advice to what Jeannie's mother gave her which was 'If you're ever in a relationship where you're not having sex very often or you're not enjoying the sex then something is wrong' She also always told me that the best sex you''ll ever have in your life is with someone you truly love and have a spark with and someone that loves you, cares for you and respects you. That advice definitely helped me when I was waiting for the right person and it made me never just settle for less :)
YOOO TAMARS FACE @ 5:31 IM SCREAMINGGGG
I can relate with Adrienne. Having a mom as a friend, is the best thing ever. Because many other friends ain't loyal to talk about these topics...
Tamar's face at 5:31 is me whole- heartedly. My parents are like Mary and Joseph anyways
Lonnie with the LOW BLOW at 4:35 , and then the award silence lol. The "old men" jokes are getting old....
So weak lmao
Good evening?
I love my mum, we're very close and I can talk to her about a lot of things, but we have this unspoken agreement about a line in terms of what we talk about. There are some things I don't want my mum to know, there are some things she doesn't want me to know. It's just a line you don't cross. Yes, it is important to make kids aware about the birds and the bees, but no kid wants to know about their parents' sex lives. It's as Jeannie said, "Once it's seen, it cannot be unseen."
I love how Adrienne keeps it so real
it scarred me for life! In my opinion, children are curious beings and once you tell them you're having sex, they try to find out. I just happened to stumble across my parents doing it and it scarred me for life
Tamar point of view is correct.I don’t wanna know nothing about my parents marital business.Then when things go sour you feel like you gotta take sides.
This hair style really suits Loni, super cute
I’ve been binge watching these little youtube segments for the past week.. I’M TRAPPED HLP
OMFG HAHAHAHAH LONI'S SHADE AT 4:34 HAHAHAHAHA I CANT
There's a problem when people talk high and mighty (sometimes vulgar) about sex over the internet, but then aren't even mature enough to talk about it openly like an adult.
I think we should know about sex from the right source (parents and school).But don't tell me about everything y'all do. Grossss
My mother used herself, as a way to teach "girl talk" no matter what the life lessons was. She never just told it ALL but she did use herself.
DID NO ONE CATCH THE SHADE LONI THREW AT ADRIENNE?? omfg 😂
No where?? I missed it
what? about dating the older men lol?
How many damn episodes did they film before they fired Tamar?
Some of these episodes are from like last year. They showed a new episode last week but it was filmed in December/Jan lmao idk why they do that
I agree with Tamar. Kids don't need to know too much.
Lmao why did I hear a moan at 6:15 😂😂😂😂
That was Adrienne 😂😂😂😂
+Zikki RoxMyWorld Lmao😂
***** Nah I'm just using good earphones
Haha I had to replay that part to hear it.. Girl all that kpop is making ur hearing sense sharp as heck.. We gotta focus extra hard to hear what they say in their songs lol
Sosmcs See Lmao that might be true😅
Tamar's face after Adrienne said about buying her mum lingerie! LOOOOOOOL
and i dont need my parents to tell me that having sex is apart of a marriage, i found that out on my own. they didnt have to be like "mommy and daddy have sex." like thats clearly self explanatory, how else did i get here?
so true
Tamar: That's a movie Jeannie😂😂
Adrienne I love your point of view on this topic. :-)
"That's a movie Jeanie"😂
just depends on the type of relationship with ur parents I guess. I mean my mom and I are very opened about it (no details) but we do talk about it. :) I'm glad we trust each other enough to do so
It depends if the child is mature and can handle it, if not wait until they are at the right age. However, with my mom and I, we are open and close with eachother. Not only that , the re lationship between the parents and child is crucial in deciding whether to involve your kids or not.
I have that same friendship with my mom too Adrienne. We talk about anything.
My mom has always talked to us about it. And told us the thing she's done and I respect it :)
Loni lol
“U know what your daddy ain’t down” 😂😂😂
A person: would you let your man fart, on your face?
Adrienne: absolutely!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I support Adrienne & Jeannie's points☺️
Loni 1:00 "Your daddy ain't putting it down" 🤣🤣🤣
I agree 100% with Adrienne on this.. Me and my mum just have that close relationship were we can talk about anything. I mean I wouldn't ask her about positions because......nah.... but i would totally talk to her about it.
I am so here for Adrienne! She's like, "I don't have to ask her ANYTHING...I know what's going on!" Lol
My mom never had "the talk" with me and I hated that tbh. I feel like not talking to your children about it makes them even more tempted to just risk it all which could lead to stds & pregnancy. Luckily I wasn't a fast girl so I don't have those issues lol & I learned everything from the Internet.
+badgalriri why? 🤔
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
I'm 17 and my mum is strict she be like " you ain't allowed to have sex you here" and in all honesty We have a large age gap . I'm so sneaky outside the house I do everything I ain't allowed to do , Cus everything is a taboo I do wish she wouldn't impose her beliefs on me and just spoke about it
i’m super close with my mother, but i know the line between her being my mother and my friend. we can talk about anything, it doesn’t mean we are going on lunch dates talking about sex. i don’t see why your kids need to know that. if they see their parents in a happy relationship, that’s proof enough you don’t need to validate it with “we have a healthy sexual relationship”. i think people confuse being very close with a parent and being their friend.
I agree with Adrienne. That's how my parents did it. Didn't give any details but sex is part of marriage.
being a single woman now, I am just starting to grasp my mom met my dad and the rest was not planned. you think your parents are soulmates and they never had to struggle with love cause it worked out in the end, but when I found out my mom had other boyfriends(I know a smidge about my dad's girlfriend but it was never confirmed if that was really his girlfriend or someone he liked) I was like oh wow so my mom also didn't know if she was going to get married and have a child for quite a few years, so it makes me feel like I'm not some weirdo who just isn't meant to be with anyone, that everyone had to navigate through life and date people who were off, to find who their parent of their child is, despite if it doesn't work out, you know a love that ends with a child is never like a phase, when they slept together, they felt this trust with their bodies and souls to risk that this experience and their relationship could produce a family. I believe that
5:31 Tamar's face tho when Adrienne said she helped her mom buy lingerie LOL
"you gon need that gasoline right by your bed" 😭
My parents were super loving and we've heard them and even walked in...and they stopped. The problem is when the kids walk in and they keep going...or they're not intimate at all.
Vonda Miller I walked in already and they stopped. I just told them to carry on because I already knew that they were having sex how else would I have gotten here😶😶😏😏😏I went to my room and they continued 😉idk
absolutely ridiculous lol. I'm sure my parents kept going after. We later moved to a 2-story home and they use to just send us downstairs and outside...like all day. Lol
Boom Ol lol. Yes I do get fucked regularly. 😂😂😂
This Tamar is always a mood❤️😊
As parents we ought to guide our kids in good way to see their future lifetime to be good for them.
I agree with Adrian lol 😂 IG it just depends on how close you are with your mother and me and my mom are like best friend's
I’m with Adrienne on this one I’m definitely that close with my mom!! But we not doing details though lol😂😂 but I’ll help out with the spice you know
Completely with Tamar on this one. Adrienne just loves to talk about sex whenever wherever
Loni said Adrienne can help LMAOOOOOO THE SHADE
I think its a good thing for parents to show the kids they desire each other without going into inappropriate details.
I can’t breathe at the people in the comments saying their parents are virgins AHAHAHAHAHA 😂😂😭😭😭
Tamar’s face at 5:32 had me DEAD
Idk. I can't really say what I will and will not talk about when my kids get grown. Idk. Just depends on the people I guess. However, I do respect Adrienne choice because her and her mom has that kind of relationship and there is nothing wrong with that. And I respect the other ladies choices as well. Too all their own.
Adrienne lives in LALA LAND. I swear! Your child doesn't want to know you're having sex adrienne. You can show that you and your husband are happy without having to sit your child down and let them know that. like wtf. lead by example! Lol i swear she has a LONG way to go.
If you can't have that conversation with your parents or children about that subject in an honest and open way...there is some issues there. I'm not saying that you need to go into GRAPHICS about it, but letting your mother know that you're being safe and sensible will put her mind at ease.
Loni funny as hell 😭😭😭"Adrian should know" 😅
Adrienne makes sense. I totally understand that.
Look, the pint is everyone is different and that's fine. Some of us have close relationships with our parent/parents and some of us don't. If you don't want to have that kind of relationship with your kid then okay that's your choice. But stop making it seem like those of us who do have a open relationship with our parents is weird. Because going by these comments, I'd say pretty much every comment I read of someone saying that they grew up being very close and open with their parent is happy that they had that. They aren't scarred or traumatized by talking about sex with their parents. We are living proof that it's okay and it's not weird. Especially if your parent has been that way with you from when you were young. Most of you who think it's weird is because your parents were never open with you, therefore now you think it's odd. So at the end of the day, you do you with your kids but there's nothing wrong with being open either.
And you need to give these parents a little more credit. Obviously if talking about this sort of thing with their kid is making them super uncomfortable, you really think they would just keep talking & not even care... Common now. No ones objective is to force it on their kids and make them feel weird. It's not even like that.
+FuzzyBlueLights 👍👏👏👏
Thank you!
I think Adrienne has a great relationship with her mother!
Loni tried Adrienne with the old guys joke LOL
My parents talk about it like its a regular conversation!! 😂😂
I think both points of view are valid. If you have that boundary with your parent, then just dont talk about it. But if you’re open, and there’s no awkwarness then go ahead.
I agree that I don't want to know anything about my parents' sex life, but it is important for them to talk to their kids about what sex is. I come from a country where people think 'sex' is a taboo. I am a part time counselor for high school kids and sometimes their problems stem from sexual frustration. We have been prescribed to tell those kids that they should control their urges and concentrate on studies and play sports to release tension. I think parents should talk to their children about sex. Not the details. But at least tell them what it is. Educate them the right way. Don't feed them lies please. It is harder for them when they learn the truth.
my mom just reads her bible and sing a couple hymns. she's saved and ama keep it that way
Tamera girl just say what you got to say 😅😅 you are the one to talk less or to get cutoff 🙋🏽♀️😶🤷🏽♀️😊 I like what Loni said no one is right and “no one is wrong , every one is different and it depends on the type of relationship you may have”
0:20 - 0:22
Tamera and Tamar face was a mood
I agree w/ Tamar
I'm with you Adrienne. I agree with everything you said.
Did no one see Adrienne stick her tongue out when Tamar asked well what you gone ask your momma 😂😂