Traditional Japanese Kids Ceremony | Shichi-Go-San

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  • This is the day of Shichi-Go-San, a traditional kids ceremony in Japan. We started early in the morning for preparations and tried to get her to wear a kimono, but she didn't want to, so we went to the shrine in her regular clothes and had a prayer. We’re gonna spend the day celebrating her growth with our family.
    Shichi-Go-San is a Traditional Japanese ceremony that celebrate the growth of children when they're 3, 5, 7 years old. Most people go to a hair salon to have their hair done and dressed kimono, take pictures at a photo studio, visit a shrine, and have a celebratory meal with their family.
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  • @KimonoMom
    @KimonoMom  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1605

    Thank you all so much for always being there to watch her grow with us🌏💕🥰

    • @michelleonuorah7142
      @michelleonuorah7142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We'll be here to watch and enjoy her growth as long as you let us. Thank you for sharing your beautiful little girl with the rest of us. God bless you!

    • @patriciasaez9980
      @patriciasaez9980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Veo otros youtuber japoneses pero excelentes como criadores de sus hijos....Uds no valen nada😕😕

    • @heba6890
      @heba6890 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm sorry she didn't wear the Kimono this time but like you said, she can wear it next year or another occasion. I look forward to seeing her in it. Hugs, from Florida. x

    • @donavanjohnson409
      @donavanjohnson409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Welcome

    • @2Click-My-iCON
      @2Click-My-iCON 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      主演女優スータンが演出してるのかと思いましたが、最後まで着物を着ることはなかった。残念ですが、これもいい思い出になると思います。
      モトさんとモエさんの3歳の七五三の時の写真も見たかったですね。
      外国人視聴者に七五三の歴史を感じてもらえたと思う。もしかするとお父さんお母さんの七五三の写真を見ればスータンも着替えたかも…無理か…。
      今後も一筋縄ではいかない可愛いスータンに期待しています。

  • @yuliuswillibardguta5314
    @yuliuswillibardguta5314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1612

    11:38 "it's important not to put our expectations on her". Guys, you are one the best parents that Sutan has.
    Someday,we will see Sutan wearing a kimono, surely Sutan will be beautiful.

    • @insane911g
      @insane911g 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 it’s heartwarming to see parenting done right. It’s very important to treat children as individuals and not carbon copies of their parents. I got tears in my eyes when I heard this statement about not pushing their expectations onto their child. This should be a PSA to all parents, new and old! Praying Sutan will continue to grow up happy & healthy! ❤️❤️❤️ (Your kimono was so beautiful Moe!)

    • @atleyvlog9630
      @atleyvlog9630 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      They are so patient with her. 🥰I, as the mother of a little daughter, understand how difficult it is. 🙂☀

    • @zhamiladamn2975
      @zhamiladamn2975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Show us Buddhist temple and worshiping.

    • @Musketeer009
      @Musketeer009 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sutan is always beautiful. She takes after her Mum and Dad.

  • @sunblock8717
    @sunblock8717 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2094

    Children are really a test of patience aren't they? You and Moto were saints! It's admirable that you stuck to your parenting principles and didn't force Sutan before she was ready. You and Moto seem to have a healthy and realistic view about being parents. Wishing you better luck at Sutan's Shichi ceremony!

    • @amany247
      @amany247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No god but Allah
      Islam way for peace and the real monotheism
      Search for the truth and right way with honest heart And ask him for the right way for his mercy.

    • @agaw2623
      @agaw2623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@amany247 nikt nie udowodnił istnienia żadnego Boga, a już twierdzenie że któryś jest jedyny i prawdziwy to dopiero nieporozumienie. NATURA jest tym co wszystko stworzyła.

    • @wendywalsh-pardey9439
      @wendywalsh-pardey9439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@amany247 What does your faith have to do with this beautiful tradition. Nothing. You have missed the point entirely. Keep your comments to yourself. Nobody wants or needs to hear them here.

    • @felixkuo5445
      @felixkuo5445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ur daughter is soo cute!

    • @felixkuo5445
      @felixkuo5445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ur daughter is soo cute!

  • @pinkdagger
    @pinkdagger 2 ปีที่แล้ว +656

    I can think of so many parents who would shove their kids into things and force them into tantrums just to get them to take pictures the parents would enjoy. It is SO refreshing that the entire time you have been on TH-cam, as long as Sutan has been old enough to make decisions, you have let her exercise that autonomy. She will grow up strong, confident, recognize when she is being respected, and she will be assured that her parents trust her and will always support her decisions. Today it was just a decision of whether she wanted to wear a kimono, and she had the freedom to change her mind at any time. Little actions like this will make big differences. She is a very lucky girl. Moe and Moto, you are phenomenal parents.

    • @DrJustininJapan
      @DrJustininJapan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      i was thinking the exact same thing!!

    • @naimairfan5738
      @naimairfan5738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true. They are amazing parents.

    • @Jasmine-ks2ii
      @Jasmine-ks2ii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      T_T My parents always only think about themselves, they always impose their ideas on me(cry...)It would be great if my mother could be patient like Moe,even if I'm an adult, they won't think about it from my standpointTT

  • @dagmara.dorota
    @dagmara.dorota 2 ปีที่แล้ว +847

    Sutan's behavior is completely understandable. She's only 2 years old, and today was her great day. The grandparents had arrived so she felt excited and knew something important was going on. That's why she didn't get enough sleep. And that's why she was nervous and had tantrums. Your attitude deserves a medal! You are wonderful parents! ❤️

  • @velvetp5754
    @velvetp5754 2 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I love how you guys treat Sutan with so much thought and care. Not only is she your child but she’s also your equal. It’s so sweet how even at age 2, you both recognize that she is her own person. Not a lot of parents see their children like that. Thank you Moe-san & Moto-san for showing me a side of parenthood I never knew about.

  • @fainahc4995
    @fainahc4995 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Sutan's parents are so respectful of her feeling and didn't force her to follow the tradition, it is heartwarming.🥰

  • @karmagal1796
    @karmagal1796 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She responded like a typical 2 year old. We, as adults, get SO excited about our children’s milestones that they get overwhelmed. But we don’t want to act like we aren’t excited for them either. All very normal first time parent stepping stones. The most important thing is you all had a long, tiring , but lovely day celebrating as a family. A beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your joy! 💝

  • @Jekyll08
    @Jekyll08 2 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    That message at the end was making me teary eyed. A sweet message while having all these experiences together. Then when she's older she can look back at all these videos. Some experiences she'll remember and some she won't, but she can experience them again nonetheless with you and Moto-san.

  • @jj2071
    @jj2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    Oh my! I’m so glad Sutan changed her mind. She is adorable and you all did a great job to try to make her feel comfortable

    • @jj2071
      @jj2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I commented too soon. Nonetheless, Sutan still looks adorable in her red dress and hair. Great job Moe! Happy birthday Sutan!

    • @DrJustininJapan
      @DrJustininJapan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      yeah, i got worried there for a bit 😂

    • @wzukr
      @wzukr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jj2071 it seems you missed that they didn´t celebrate her birthday.

  • @With_Me_JAPAN
    @With_Me_JAPAN 2 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Love the ending talk of Moto san and Moe san! There are so many family vlogs on TH-cam but it is quite rare that parents talk about their kid in such depth. They have just reminded of my dad saying to me “I am the happiest when you are smiling.” 🥺💓Thank you for the beautiful vlog!😊💕

  • @Borteujin2
    @Borteujin2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    It's wonderful seeing Moe and Moto have moments together even if exhausted! I'm happy that everyone is working together as a family so well! Happy Shichi-Go-San, Sutan!

  • @adrianagonia2265
    @adrianagonia2265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Actually this is the first time I heard this kind of tradition for kids
    Thank you Moe for showing us this kind of tradition..☺️

  • @skl184
    @skl184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You two are amazing parents! With a very healthy 2 year old! She is blessed to have you, and you her. Thank you for sharing!

  • @chrisegbertky
    @chrisegbertky 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Moto is a wise man who verbalized the bittersweet nature of time passing. Chrrish the good times. These are precious days. Thank you for sharing your lives with us!

  • @snopdong197
    @snopdong197 2 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Even though Sutan didn't wear a kimono it still looks like she had a special day. Happy Shichi-Go-San Sutan and congratulations to your health!

  • @rinardman
    @rinardman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Dear Sutan,
    Thank you for being healthy.
    Thank you for always making us smile.
    We are so happy to have you in our lives. Signed by: over a million subscribers!!! 🥰

  • @richyuen1
    @richyuen1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    With or without wearing a kimono, I'm sure I can speak for all of us viewers Sutan is our Jewel in our hearts. Thank you for sharing this truly wonderful events.

  • @cruisematt8585
    @cruisematt8585 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I know important it was for you for her to wear her kimono but I’m really proud of your parenting by not forcing her to. You put her wants and needs ahead of your own and that is not easy but the right thing to do

  • @natasaperun3242
    @natasaperun3242 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    She is lucky little girl having you as her parents! You showed her so much love and understanding! It was very nice to see family celebration, thank you! Greetings from Serbia, Europe ❤🌹

  • @levhaiba5987
    @levhaiba5987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love how you said “We can’t put out expectations on her.” That’s the best way to raise a child. Putting expectations on a kid is very stressful to them. You guys are amazing parents. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @SephoraBelle
    @SephoraBelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Your daughter is a sweetie baby. Both Mom and daughter are two beauties. What a lovely family day you all had. Peace and Love.

  • @f.1395
    @f.1395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Sutan is so lucky to have you as parents and Moe is so lucky to have such a husband. He have empathy for his child and wife.

  • @imsunnybaby
    @imsunnybaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    i love how you gave her the choice and honored her decision, and let her change her mind. she will grow into a mentally strong and healthy girl and an intelligent young woman.

  • @mitalisawant5337
    @mitalisawant5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    14:12 felt that!💜this channel ain't only about cooking but full of moral values and transparency of what happens in real life and how affirmative we should be. Thank you Kimono Mom and Dad💜

  • @pranurishzone4584
    @pranurishzone4584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As the idioms says, “We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves”.
    A parent's love appears to be unconditional, and it can change people for the better. Loving your child means being patient with them. In the end, it's not the years in your life that count, but the sweet memories you cherish, Moto, Moe and Sutan have a blessed life. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful day.

  • @shanti888
    @shanti888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I love how you respected her wishes. She will likewise learn to respect the wishes of others due to your kindness. 💟

  • @jj2071
    @jj2071 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Moe and Moto you both did your best making Sutan feel comfortable. Great job to both of you.

  • @nucciinjapannewvideosevery9251
    @nucciinjapannewvideosevery9251 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    An event like this, where they’re the center of attention, can be very tough on three year olds. Sutan did so well and is lucky to have such caring and patient parents! 😊 Our daughter is the same age as Sutan and we just did Shichigosan too. It’s a lovely tradition and the best part is that girls get to do it again at seven years old 🥰

  • @matthewcritchfield6997
    @matthewcritchfield6997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    It’s natural for children to be shy, a little Sutan is will be fine, She’s a lovely young child 😊❤️👍

  • @jasminenhz
    @jasminenhz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    you're such an amazing mom, and so does moto he's such an amazing dad. how glad to see sutan having you both as her parents. respecting her decision & did not force her to wear the kimono even it's kind of important for the event. i hope your family will always filled with happiness, love, and health. always. thanks for inspiring so many people to be as patient as you. ❤️

  • @milla1443
    @milla1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You both are so wholesome parents! Respecting your daughter choice to not wear a kimono even when you wanted so much is such a heartwarming way to express how much you love her! With your parenting she is definitely growing to be a great adult. I admire that so much, you're awesome 🥰😘

  • @elysium4094
    @elysium4094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You’re such an amazing ambassador for your culture, Moe ! 🥰 Thanks for taking the time to share all of these precious moments with us 🙏 Greetings from Paris 👋🇫🇷

  • @jarinchu9595
    @jarinchu9595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Moe & Moto, you are both such understanding, accommodating, supportive parents! I admire how sensitive and kind you are to Sutan's preferences! What are your secrets for such patience and open-mindedness? Would love to learn your secrets to parenting!

  • @AP-qt4mt
    @AP-qt4mt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Also wishing Sutan good health from my side of the world.

  • @bernadetterobertson9957
    @bernadetterobertson9957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The letter at the end to Sutan did bring tears to my eyes .
    Sutan has grown so much. And when she reads that letter she will see how much love you both have for her.
    And giving her the choice whether or not to wear her kimono was loving. Yes she might be going through the terrible twos but that will soon be gone and then this beautiful little lotus flower will bloom.
    I ask God to bless your beautiful family.

  • @aylinak5470
    @aylinak5470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    You look so gorgeous Moe! And so does Sutan even without the kimono!

  • @aureliatolentino9395
    @aureliatolentino9395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Such patience from you and Moto. Yes, beyond all this celebration what is more important, I agree, is Sutan is healthy and a happy child with such wonderful parents like you and Moto.

  • @rilakbuta5919
    @rilakbuta5919 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Moe handles her disappointment so gracefully.... lots of us (actually, me) understand in the head that not forcing our expectations on the child is important, but can't digest the (repetitive) disappointment so quickly and patiently the way Moe did.
    七五三おめでとうございます。

  • @petitexjoan
    @petitexjoan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    The way you guys respect Suchan's feeling and decision, is such a wonderful parenting moment. Wish Suchan to grow up well and know you guys do your best for her 🥰

  • @levhaiba5987
    @levhaiba5987 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Happy Shichi-Go-San Sutan!!! Wishing her a healthy, stress-free life. Especially all the illness going around, Im so glad all of your family are staying safe.

  • @cymw3643
    @cymw3643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i love love love how flexible they are with Sutan

  • @garycody1929
    @garycody1929 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you Sutan for all the happiness you have given me. Greetings from New Zealand

  • @melodyr7512
    @melodyr7512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Nothing but love ❤️ to this family!!! So much respect to you both for being so patient with Sutan!
    Love lots from Chicago, 🇺🇸

  • @RainC00L
    @RainC00L 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most gentle parents ever!

  • @vilmatownley
    @vilmatownley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The relationship between you as a family is so lovely! 💕 I admire how you both dealt with the whole situation, never pushing her to do something she didn't want. I'm sure there will soon be other occasions for Sutan to wear her beautiful kimono. May she grow happy and healthy and the bond between you grows stronger.

  • @peko7446
    @peko7446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I think seeing all the other little girls wearing kimonos helped changed Sutan's mind at first. This is not the first time I've observed this celebration in Japan during my November visits, but I always forget about it until I happen to see the kids in their kimonos when visiting a shrine on that day. They are really adorable and I was always tempted to take pictures, but never did.

    • @suzannes5888
      @suzannes5888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's also nice that Sutan is so comfortable with herself that she didn't feel the to change just to look like the other girls.

  • @_PM__
    @_PM__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    That was a great video. I really enjoyed Moto and Moe relaxing and talking to each other about the day. It really shows us the type of people they are. That said, in a perfect universe, Sutan would have come out, from her bath, wearing her kimono because she insisted her grandparents dress her in it.
    Just wanted to say that I'm an old guy who decided, last year, that he wanted to learn Japanese, Not only do I love these videos for their content, but they really help me practice listening to the language. I'm still not very good at the language, but every video I'm able to pick out more and more words, so I really appreciate Moe, Moto, and Sutan for that. ありがとうございます

  • @brucefelter1335
    @brucefelter1335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mama's and Papa's love and nurturing are clearly evident in the face and behavior of 👸 Sutan-chan! Just keep going and growing!💯

  • @judyykau
    @judyykau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    U’re really a patient, loving & kind mother. I like your parenthood concept that u pay respect to Sutan & follow the way she prefers. U’re such a wonderful mother ❤️

  • @gaoip1778
    @gaoip1778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for sharing this lovely day with us. Congratulations to Sutan and wishing you all a blissful weekend.💓💞🎊🎉💐

  • @80sgirl93
    @80sgirl93 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lovely. When children are given choices sometimes it's up to you, her parent to advise when she has a choice and when something is necessary.

  • @karolinetavares2625
    @karolinetavares2625 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I love how you guys take care of her, and how gentle and funny Sutan's

  • @RohanSingh-nu7sd
    @RohanSingh-nu7sd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how moe understood the demand of the audience and started to include her personal life vlogs too along with her main cooking videos.. and seeing our little sutan grow, day to day life in japan and also the traditional festivities...this is the best combination🙌🙌

  • @novilestariw
    @novilestariw 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for setting an ideal example for all of us.

  • @jd5506
    @jd5506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    私は満3歳での七五三でお着物姿の写真も残っていますが全く記憶にありません笑
    7歳の時は母がシングルマザーになっていて経済的事情から行いませんでした。でも成人式のお着物は立派なお着物を用意してくれ感動しました。着物って本当に特別ですよね。
    すーたんは7歳の時には自分から注文つけるくらい張り切って着てくれますよ!記憶にも残りますしね。
    とりあえず次の着物チャレンジはお正月なんてどうでしょう⁉️

  • @Lala-jk4bz
    @Lala-jk4bz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It's so wonderful to see this! Thank you very much for sharing this memory with us, Moe-san, Moto-san and Sutan! ☺

    • @DrJustininJapan
      @DrJustininJapan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they are such a wonderful family 😊

  • @EmmaAppleBerry
    @EmmaAppleBerry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your laughter in the end is so contagious 😂 i really feel like we experienced all the day with you the ups the downs and got a tste of the exhaustion 💖 you did great!

  • @juliazimermann3240
    @juliazimermann3240 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can see that you and your husband are very proud for Sutan
    Your husband has very much love in his eyes while he is looking at his daughter
    God bless your family

  • @Alexa-tn5st
    @Alexa-tn5st 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m literally crying seeing this beautiful family and loving parents, they hav such a healthy relationship I wish I had this my whole childhood

  • @ayanm1867
    @ayanm1867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The traditional Japanese kid ceremony is amazing . You have such a beautiful family and your daughter is absolutely adorable : ) . ^ I hope your family has everything they always wanted and I’m so happy for you on how much you accomplished 🤍

  • @TheJunsLee
    @TheJunsLee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She has grown beautifully and so lovely to see you all together. Loved this video! ♡

  • @77Dhanush1
    @77Dhanush1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Moe and Moto,
    You are doing a great job raising your child and with good values. By sharing part of your life, we can also see how well you are doing.
    Be proud of your daughter.
    Dear Sutan,
    You are growing up so beautifully. May God bless you always.
    Be proud of your Mum and Dad.
    Hugs and kisses from one of your many impressed viewers... 🥰🥰🥰

  • @wendywalsh-pardey9439
    @wendywalsh-pardey9439 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both have raised a healthy happy child and under your guidance she will blossom...in her time. Thank you for sharing this special day.

  • @viewitte
    @viewitte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When my niece was 2 years old, yes she touched everything, climbed book shelves, and she used her right to say NO pretty well. For parents, enjoy this special period of time.

  • @PandorasFunBox
    @PandorasFunBox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The conversation between you and Moto at the end really put everything into perspective. I know we all really wanted to see Sutan in her kimono for her shichi-go-san but she was perfect the way she was! "We can't force our expectations on her," said more than a thousand words about how great parents you two are to her. She'll look back on this time and appreciate you for letting her be herself. I love your family so much! I pray for more health and happiness in your future. 💕

  • @JustKC26
    @JustKC26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so impressed at Moe san and Moto san patience. You guys are amazing parents. Suchan is lucky.

  • @ruthmoliner2730
    @ruthmoliner2730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    YES COMMUNICATION AND APPRECIATION!💖💖 I just love how much you communicate with each other and express your feelings in such a gooood way. Also the hability you have to listen to Sutan’s feelings is awesome, being conscious about not putting your expectations on her is something really hard to realize. So well done!💖💖

  • @nesswilson3716
    @nesswilson3716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Kimono or no Kimono, you looked beautiful Sutan. Mum and Dad looked so proud. Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿

  • @miyuki4228
    @miyuki4228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Moeさんが一日の出来事を、ご主人と仲良く話し合い、反省も含めて共に共有される事は、とても素晴らしいと感じました。

  • @Im____ltm
    @Im____ltm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Both Moe and Moto holding back tears at the end 🥺 they are such sweet parents, and such great people!

  • @jannelmarieflores5719
    @jannelmarieflores5719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a lovely day 😊 Sutan is really lucky to have you both as her parents. When Moe said, we don’t need to put our expectations on her was everything. More blessings and wishing Sutan will grow healthier and happier.

  • @gracellatamba925
    @gracellatamba925 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you mama moe for not forcing sutan to use her kimono. i felt the pressure when on a special day, i always forced by my parents to do or use something that uncomfortable for me. but the way you accept her decision to not use her kimono makes me crying. thank you for your hard work, mama moe and papa moto. may healthy and blessings given upon you and your family ❤

  • @irinafms
    @irinafms 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sutan was simply overwhelmed bc she understood all the fuss was about her so it's a normal response for a 3 year old, she is lucky to have such a patient and understanding mother who didn't force her and made it all about the kimono

  • @miakachan32
    @miakachan32 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are amazing parents ,本当に..

  • @BlackRaven0211
    @BlackRaven0211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Another amazing video Miss Moe and again congrats for this milestone for the little lady Sutan.
    And i'm adding myself to the many who thank, for her good health
    11:40 My favorite TH-cam couple being parent goals as always

  • @chizukoingraham7550
    @chizukoingraham7550 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is a strong willed little girl. You guys are very patient, understanding and loving parents.

  • @QuadraWithLove
    @QuadraWithLove 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, that message at the end almost made me cry. It's nice to get another perspective on kids and their behaviors.

  • @scorpleeon
    @scorpleeon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What lovely thoughts shared toward the end. These are the things we are grateful for and think often about as our children grow from babies into childhood and adulthood.

  • @busapassion
    @busapassion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your wisdom and patience in parenting is teaching us who didn’t have patient parents a lot. Love your tender loving care of Sutan and each other.

  • @nuzhatelham1189
    @nuzhatelham1189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The sheer amount of joy this channel and Sutan, Moe-san and Moto-san have brought be is beyond words !! May you have a life full of happiness, Sutan !!

  • @neqproa
    @neqproa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how every vlog is a love letter for Sutan!
    Thank you for being an example of a wonderful parents, Moto and Moe. Have a great life!

  • @carlapyron559
    @carlapyron559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I feel your pain over the Kimono! She would be so beautiful all dressed up! I travelled 8!hours by car to Memphis Tennessee to buy a special hand made Southern Bonnet for my daughter. She absolutely refused to wear it on Easter. I tied it on our black Labrador after church… determined SOMEONE would wear it! I managed to get some pictures taken with it hanging off her back later.

  • @PlayermakerBlue
    @PlayermakerBlue 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    First channel I watch every Saturday morning. Gotta start the weekend on a high note 😄

  • @sanugiwickramasinghe5543
    @sanugiwickramasinghe5543 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of credits to the patience you showed with Sutan. It' s really touching to see that you respect her dicision of not wearing a kimono & don't try to persuade her. You two are really wonderful parents. Sutan is very lucky to have u. Lots of love to your family❤️

  • @wpl8275
    @wpl8275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    There is an English saying that "the clothes make the man". I've never believed that at all. Nor do I think a dress makes a woman. Sutan is Sutan no matter what she wears or doesn't wear. And that is just fine with me. I want to wish Moe, Sutan and Moto a very Happy Thanksgiving. As Shichi-Go-San celebrates the health and well being of children, Thanksgiving is a day in the USA and some other countries where we take a moment and give thanks for our own health and well being and for that of all our loved ones. It's a moment to reflect on our good fortune and to remember those that can no longer be with us. To celebrate with good food and high spirits. To relax with family. ㊗

    • @poeticbeauty1654
      @poeticbeauty1654 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She's literally 2 years old.

    • @SarahLynn__
      @SarahLynn__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She's 2, haha, obviously it's fine for everybody.

    • @valentinag1229
      @valentinag1229 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In Russia we say the opposite in meaning - "It is not a place that decorates a person, but a person is a place," this also applies to things)) I agree with you

    • @SarahLynn__
      @SarahLynn__ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@valentinag1229 Literally it's the same meaning.

    • @KiraHunter2310
      @KiraHunter2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanksgiving is a celebration of murder …

  • @jmt2192
    @jmt2192 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so heartwarming to watch! Thank you for sharing this lovely Japanese tradition & Sutan growing up so well.

  • @georgiamanu6353
    @georgiamanu6353 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As someone who works in children advocacy we always preach how allowing your children to set their boundaries is so important allowing them to utilize their voices on what they may or may not like. It's beautiful to see her parents respect her boundaries.

    • @Roastpeef
      @Roastpeef 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so nice

  • @lbazemore585
    @lbazemore585 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    20 years from now, you will look back and see how sweet and precious this entire event has been!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @andreeahosman4035
    @andreeahosman4035 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sutan is very lucky to have you two as her parents. You are the best parents for Sutan and you two are wonderful and make a great team. おめでとうございます!

  • @ballistic350
    @ballistic350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Paolo inspired you..how awesome i came here after watching his video of your daily life as a mom.. beautiful

  • @angi1479
    @angi1479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She looked so adorable in her kimono 👘😍

  • @ancientpeople3861
    @ancientpeople3861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    おめでとうございます🎊
    これからも、健やかなご成長を願っております。

  • @tokmol6007
    @tokmol6007 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is the most wholesome, family oriented,ive ever watched on youtube

  • @sillotube
    @sillotube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are a wonderful family, Sutan is lucky to have you, I'm glad she is growing up so well and healthy. A hug from Italy 🤗

  • @dieterpressolda1791
    @dieterpressolda1791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please, never stop that support for Sutan. It is everything.

  • @warffxfreak
    @warffxfreak 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I swear to god this channel is nurturing my heart!

  • @soboronatto
    @soboronatto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    すーちゃんの意思を尊重してあげる姿にうるっと🥺感動しました✨🥰自分自身の七五三の思い出に、正に最後に話されていた様なプレッシャーを感じ、無理やり着せられた👘の様な記憶。子供ながらにものすごく嫌な思いをしたのを覚えているので、小さくても確かなすーちゃんの意思をしっかり思ってあげるマムさん、パパさんは本当に素晴らしいご両親だと思います✨👏🏻またの機会に可愛い👘姿が見れる日を楽しみにしています💓

  • @theus5387
    @theus5387 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seeing your happiness makes my heart warm. I hope Sutan continues to grow healthy and happy, I wish your family many blessings💙

  • @cyndig2205
    @cyndig2205 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was so lovely. Thank you, Moe for sharing Sutan’s special day with us! 💜✨👍🏼👏🏻🤍