"Dark Romance" on TikTok
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Hi Emily ily so much
ur so pretty
plz what is that song you use at 1:28?
I love how you look like your trying not to laugh when you talk about your sponser lol
You're my favorite squid game person emily
"Dark romance". You can only give them black flowers, dark chocolate, obsessive love poems, and you have to drive them places in the bat mobile
Scared me at _obsessive love poems_ but brought me back with the bat mobile✨
yeah alcohol is cool but have u ever been taken on a date via bat mobile? me neither pass the bottle
All while looking like you’re a member of the Addams family, of course. 😂
I would love to be driven around in the bat mobile
Yes please, hahaha.
Dark romance is just an “I can fix him” fetish.
The 'I can fix him' challenge but with an insufferable man with a hideous personality who just happens to be rich and lucky with the genes
I tried fixing so many damn men i might as well change my name to Bob
@@Meleedroitbob the couldn’t build him/her.
@@charjohn2468 ah yes, bob the couldnt build him/her
Fr like idk if I can called my OC ship enemies to lovers cause it’s mostly protagonist x antagonist cause they are not enemies
the one about the girl getting kissed without consent while she was having a panic attack gave me severe flashbacks to the HBO Max VELMA series where pretty much that exact thing happens 💀💀💀
VELMA has ONE good thing going for it - it was so horrifically awful that it united everyone in a hyper polarized society into agreeing on something, and it was that VELMA sucked.
a lot of these "dark romance" scenarios cross into being borderline abuse
“A lot” and “borderline” lmao 90% of it is centered and built on severe abuse. He’s hot and/or rich, fucked up in a major way and extremely abusive. That summarizes pretty much all of women’s romance, the rest of it is borderline bestiality.
As a dark romance reader these are terrible. It can be hard to find good ones but the main draw for me is that both of the people have some levels of caring and consent. The darker parts are the trauma the characters go through outside the relationship and the power dynamic. Like obviously they aren't healthy relationships but the passion and strong emotions make for something interesting. It's also nice when the usually female lead has character depth and agency. It's mostly for funsies though.
i really want a dark romance where both of the people in the relationship are fucked up and they're trying to make it work together in their psycho world while they fuck other people over if that makes sense??
Do you have any good recs?
15:10 I thought mafias had bosses, not kings, but go on 😂
Im so grateful that you make different content from the mainstream🙏
11:24-11:27 🎶Someone in a rush next to someone looking pretty 🎶
- Aaron Burr
I'm Italian and that "mio dolce" means was so unnecessary and we don't even say that, I rolled laughing. It was as out of the pocket as when Lana Del Rey threw in the cauldron some random Italian words in the song "Salvatore" 😂
NotEvenEmily is soooo underrated like she legit can not flop 😭💗
16:35 "I'm sharting" is my new favorite threat.
Him: Everytime you walk into this school I will make your life a living heck, I will take your lunches, make all your friends hate you, and eventually get you kicked out
Her: Aww, i love you too!
“Ever heard of knitting perhaps” I’m knitting while watching this video lmao
I wish tiktok would learn how to use "dark" genres properly. Dark humor also takes a 180 in tiktok's interpretation of the subject.
oh my god i had been wondering if anyone was getting these weird tiktoks!! the comments were always positive and i felt like i was going crazy
Im italian and i stated laughing in mio dolce part, cause this type of thing, dark romance, tryies to romanticise the “mafia” that is a real shit, but u know, it’s like when we romanticise college thing like bullying the introvert guy and shit like that ig LOL
Ok
what are all these 'school psychos' what kind of school are we supposed to being go to here
Some of these be reading like a 2013 Wattpad fic 😂
5:09 italian here and i've never heard someone say "mio dolce" in general, and in this context just sounds grammatically incorrect
seriously who would ask 'who are you' when someone transfers them money? I would go with 'do i have to pay back?'
The fact many of the readers still protest and complain against toxic masculinity and abuse while fantasizing it is crazzzzy😂
You know, I read this interesting analysis once that a lot of straight women like ~dark romance~ as kind of a power fantasy? Like oooh this man is so scary but he'd do anything for ME. I guess I get it
Why are so many of these literally just classism 💀
I have the same tie has the guy in ur thumbnail 😭
12:30 I’m crying 😭
girl i'm italian and i can guarantee NO ONE says mio dolce💀
"King of the Mafia" I might like dark romance but dayum I'd like it a little accurate please 😂
"mio dolce" is not really a common pet name, we don't call anyone "dessert".
Bro when you said “Nothing like summer in the city” my mind immediately went “someone in a rush meets someone looking pretty, excuse me miss I know it sounds funny but your perfume smells like your daddy’s got money”
LMAO the ad was so smooth
This reminds me of The Tearsmith.
is it part of the genre that every school seems to have a 'psycho' or is this an actual belief held by these writers? what do they think 'psycho' means?
It doesn't matter what 'psycho' means, it sounds dark and edgy, so young people think they are all dark and edgy reading about it and will hand over their money and then highlight their reading it on booktok in hopes of looking 'cool' to their internet 'friends'.
@@bluebyyoufu huh
Dark romance is what happens when you give a Wattpad obsessed 11 year old unlimited internet access
I started reading wattpad at 11 and am now a big dark romance fan☠️
But I have to say that the ones in the video are absolutely shit
Look I was 16 making fanfiction but I don't condone abuse
Right lol, most of these seemed to written by some teens! Which in itself ain’t bad expression is fun but yea these just scream wattpad.
Basically twilight...
Exactly
Emily: I don't want to disturb you.
Emily less than a minute later: I will be crawling on the walls of your room tonight
I mean if Emily is the one who will be crawling on my walls I don’t even mind
also Emily: I'll hack into your iCloud :)
"crawling IN your walls" *
@@mrtvyanjeltrue
do you know the song she used during that?
A dark romance starts with an abusive relationship, a bad romance starts with _rah rah-ah-ah-ah roma roma-ma_
I want to roll with him a heartbreak we will be,
A little gamble'n is fun when you're with me,
Russian roulette is not the same without a gun,
@@xoxablade8345dude that’s poker face 😭
@@raineatscheeseLMAO
@@raineatscheeseI thought so but I wasn't sure 💀😭
absolute genius
So, TikTok's not only found out the Dark!Fic genre but promptly made the worst parts of it into a Trend. Lovely. Dark Romance could've been an awesome band name or an acceptable perfume name but nope. It had to be this.
At least Bad Romance is a good song
the horror of tiktok in your 20s is seeing teenagers find the stuff you did as a teenager and somehow making it worse
SOMEONE NEEDS TO MAKE A BAND AND NAME IT DARK ROMANCE.
@@GoldenPurplleno, chemistry is more fun
The cringiest part of this is they decided to start this community on a platform that actively prohibits any of the edgy "morally grey" themes, so it feels like you're reading 133t speak from a 2005 AOL chatroom
what a sane person would imagine dark romance is: a somewhat neutrally healthy couple facing traumatic pasts or presents, maybe some drama about hiding who they really are or something, lots of drama in general
what young impressionable people think dark romance is: male love interest is literally the worst person imaginable but hes kinda hot so its fine
its like when people think dark fantasy is just extremely traumatic things happening constantly but its fine because look! theres magic and dragons if you squint!
I know the internet way to well to know what it was going to be.
it's fine because he's kinda hot
A bit random but the first part is exactly what Flower of Evil is, and its so good. It's one of my favorite k-dramas.
dark romance should always be written to be psychological horror, not actual romance. huge difference in framing
random guy: slaps her across the face and tells her that she's worthless
her: MARRY ME
Let’s not kinkshame /j
@@fedyainthefleshthere's a thin line between abuse and kink
@@fedyainthefleshidgaf i will shame all day
Reminds me of anime 'I'm in love with the villainess'
Claire: "I'll keep bullying you until the day I break you and leave you in tears"!
Rae: "MARRY ME" 😍
Claire: 🤨 "Why is THAT your reaction"?!
@@fedyaintheflesh shame on thou 🍅🍅🍅🍅
I love when people romanticise abusive relationships 😍🥰
real!!! #lanadelreycoded #darkromance #coquettecore
omg collen hoover core!
Soooo romantic 😍😍😍🥰
So hot 😻
eh i'd say the difference is that people go into dark romance being very aware of the problamatic elements.The people i know who read it know fantasy vs reality and would never actually like it in real life.I think it is problematic if the relationship is not explicitly marketed as a dark romance and a normal romance is toxic
So dark romance is straight up just about romanticising the most abusive relationships and unstable/violent people?
We're back in the Twilight era
bro my vision of dark romance is what the Addams couple do.
Basically. They're basically noncon fantasies, which are common in like 50% of the population. Think of it like erotic thrillers with a forced happy ending that makes zero sense.
It’s fantasy so it doesn’t really matter. It’s the same thing when people obsess over fictional murders
@@krungkronch1947 so a healthy view of it huh thats one way to put it
Nobody in italy ever used "mio dolce" (unless it's some kind of inside-joke of a specific couple I guess). It's clearly a made-up couple nickname, probably made-up by somebody that does not speak Italian. When you use a possessive adjective ("mio" = my), you need a noun after it (most of the time). "Dolce" is another adjective. It's like calling somebody "My sweet lover" but without "lover", just "my sweet". My sweet what? What?! Unless "dolce" is intended as a noun, which in that case means dessert... But it's still wrong because when calling somebody "your something", you move the possessive adjective after the noun (eg. amore mio, vita mia, figlio mio, cara mia, etc.). So, the correct version would be "dolce mio", but it still sounds horrible and I doubt any actually Italian couple si calling each other this nickname. At least, I have never heard this and it really sounds horrible to my subjective Italian ears.
couldnt have said it better! It just sounds wrong, almost parodistic lol even if I know it's not on purpose. The pronunciation was fine honestly (a lot of people confuse that "c" sound) but the expression in itself wasn't 😂
Could I ask why sometimes people say "mi amore" vs the "amore mia"? Is just a bastardized version of the sentence structure?
@@rizgriz3956i think mi amor is spanish, amore mia is italian
Isn't amore mia wrong tho? Because amore is a male noun (yk what I mean)
This is really interesting! But um- I hate to say it, ur sometimes in English someone will say just “my sweet”. Although I feel like that’s more Shakespeare English, not modern/everyday English. But yeah, you learn something new everyday, I find sentence structure in other languages really interesting! ( probably cuz it’s difficult for me lmao)
These don’t sound like romances. They sound like the beginning of a revenge story.
That would be way more cool
Lol as a yandere fan, ive always loved revenge stories. Pity ppl dont write them much.
@@killme5630 I can sometimes enjoy revenge stories (artificer supremacy) but I personally can’t stand yandere characters unless they’re actually receiving a comeuppance.
true love and crime moment
People who liked these Tiktoks: AWWWW HOW CUTE HE WALKED OVER HER AND LEFT HER THERE TO DIE
So Adorbs!!!
"Omg he pointed a gun at her while she was shivering on the sidewalk telling her to 'get the f*k up'"
#Goals 🥰🥰
I have to say, as an italian, it's kinda tiring to see stuff like mafia etc being romanticized in this? Like, they killed people. Like the arranged marriage one was terrible.
i cooka the pizza
@@kysell 🗨️👨🍳
!!!!!! Thank you!!! Also hate how, when we say this, we always get threated as stupid, like, people are not funny for saying pizza pasta mandolino to us like ??? can you not treat us as joke now??? There's time and place and tone
@@mrsdummydumdum YEA LIKE our country has problems too and lots of them at that
Im honestly surprised it hasn't yet really gone beyond the romanticization of just organised crime: where are my badly written dark romance fanfics featuring terrorists, extremists or corrupt politicians? I like my 'bad boys' characters not just abusive, toxic and manipulative but also placed on several government watchlists thank you very much.
i almost choked on the apple i was eating when she said "me giving birth while my husband is in his bullet proof vest like "yeah you know she's pushing pretty hard you never now how fast that thing's gonna shoot out" IM NOT CHOKING I ALMOST CHOKED
I choked too except it was because I was literally born that way, I shot out of my mother's vajayjay so fast my dad had to catch me 😭
@@catdownthestreet WHY DID I NEVER SEE THIS COMMENT ALSO ARE YOU OKAY???
@@tenebae1999 no. guess who just got an autism diagnosis 💀
@@catdownthestreet 💀💀 what the hell we gon do now...
LMAO THIS SO WILD 😭
Italian speaker watching! Don't worry about the pronounciation at all, our "c" are so different you must have known some italian to get it! :)
What I take issue with is the fact the op uses it as a pet name: unless you add "amore" (love) at the end we don't use it like that. Also even if you add amore, it's still something you wouldn't commonly use in public. Mio dolce by itself it's like calling your so my dessert or my cake.
Better pet names would be: "tesoro" (tresure), "amore" (love), "luce mia" (my light) or "vita mia" (my life)
Adding: PLEASE AMERICANS STOP ROMANTICIZING THE MAFIA. Imagine if any other culture romanticized the terrorists of 9/11... then imagine those terrorists were so pervasive in your country to have still people in the goverment. That's the mafia for us.
Also the mafia has no kings
luce mia has me kicking my legs n giggling that sounds so sweet
You think people don't romanticize terrorists already? 😭 I agree though, people should make up their own evil organization based in fiction instead of using the mafia.
grazie mille di averlo detto, mi sono cringiata fortissimo quando ho letto “mio dolce” anche perché, purtroppo, ho immediatamente capito il motivo dell’averlo scritto
@@angelicart.6 Ahahahah non ho potuto fare altrimenti: il livello di cringe era troppo alto
@@Alice-ru6lb che poi il fatto del “re della mafia” mi ha ricordato un sacco JoJo e sono scoppiata a ridere
see, these tiktoks aren't even what dark romance is SUPPOSED TO BE. the reason the "bad boy" archetype was always appealing was because there is fundamentally a soft gooey center to him. it's fun because in that fantasy you have the privilege of seeing parts of him that nobody else does. and the privilege of that relationship not turning into one that's severely abusive lmao. there is NOTHING appealing about a guy who's just fucking cruel to you. they've ruined the genre entirely. i'm about to enter my joker era i swear to god.
PREACH
Love me the bad-boy-who-is-secretly-a-teddy-bear trope. Almost ALWAYS pair that character up with the flirtatious-comic-relief-who-is-actually-more-sensitive-than-they-let-on guy…..
….
Y’know what, I just say it. Klance, I ship Klance 😂 Still stanning those two idiots years later. Those two got me through a really rough point in life and helped me get out of an extremely toxic (my family claims it was abusive, but I’m not sure) friendship. Without a silly ship with two FICTIONAL characters, I very well could be still under the thumb of a very nasty woman.
THISSS
Exactly
Thank you so much for this comment. Tiktok has really ruined the essence of dark romance.
Idk why but how emily just saved all those tik toks without liking them is just killing me 💀💀💀
she's so right for that
"Chilvary is not dead but i might be" such real words
Honestly, I read some dark romances but the key word is 'dark'. What TikTok girlies recommend are abusive not just toxic but the whole vat of industrial grade acid. Like whenever they hype books up it is mainly based on the tropes and certain specific scenes of the book not because the writing or the plot is good. People can read what they want but I can also judge how I want. One of the most heinous books that got hyped up was 'Haunting Adeline' which is a prime example of crossing the line from dark to straight-up criminal. Spoilers and SA TW.
The main guy stalks and r-pes the main girl while ironically taking down sex trafficking rings (I guess it was the author's way of softening the blow). I saw one of the comments under a video criticising the book saying 'but she liked it'. The author and the fans of this book need to be studied. Idc if it's through vivisection
I actually had a small argument with one of them online. Let me tell you, they are absolutely disgusting and ignorant. The one I had argued with literally claimed Zade was innocent because Adeline's body "took a liking to it" and kept going on about Stockholm syndrome while knowing nothing about it. The fact that it was a female too would never fail to upset me
@@slutforaaron Frrrr, I hate the 'its just a book argument' because if it's making you think assault is okay because the victim "enjoyed it" then you're already too far gone. Like I get liking dark romance and Stockholm syndrome but stockholm syndrome mainly applies to kidnapping not SA. Istg all the smut is rotting people's brains.
My whole mantra has always been, you can have whatever kink you want....but don't be fricking delusional. I get that people out there have an SA kink but lets not be delulu and act like that shit is morally ok.
@@slutforaaronit such a dangerous way of thinking. If consent is striped frome someone it doesn’t matter how their body reacts. It puts the blame on the victim, framing it like they eventually started liking it. Like no sexual relationship should be built on that, of eventually not suffering. Its horryfying.
@@hadrianhexe9603 And let's be real right now, if people out there are getting a "kink" out of somebody literally being assaulted then they are clearly the problem and need to reboot their brain or something because they are anything BUT okay
"lopsided skank" is my new favorite insult
OMG 💀😭
literally so convinced to write some “dark romance” that subverts all these tropes and is actually a good story that doesn’t blur the lines between love and abuse
Go ahead. Just link it here for the curious ones
please i just want a romance between two characters that are just fucked up but are into each other because they're on that same psycho page you know? I'm thinking like that couple in baby driver (what i want) vs joker and harleyquinn (what i don't want)
@@katierasburn9571 YOU (grabs you) YOU GET IT. "We are so horrible but also the only people who understand each other". THEY'RE AWFUL. THEY'RE IN LOVE. THEY SHOULD BE TOGETHER IF ONLY AS A QUARANTINE MEASURE
Dark romance irritates me but the fans are even worse (not all of them, some are pretty chill and understanding that it’s not for everyone). They gets so offended when you call out that the the story is straight abusive and be like ‘Oh but it’s supposed to be like that it’s DARK romance!’ Like babe, it’s also a ROMANCE! I shouldn’t be struggling through some girlie getting assaulted and bullied but it’s ‘okay they’re in love’.
Especialy if the dude is hot like a red flag is a red flag even if it's pretty
hello, im kinda late to this but i think as long as they know that it's fiction and should not be followed in REAL life then i think it's fine. these troupes make the stories interesting for some readers because sunshines and rainbows are good i know, but in terms of immersing readers to the plot, or giving character depth, making them likeable/hateable (if intended by the author hence the abuse or whatever they want) are plausible. though i agree the overdramaticness of the characters make me cringe LOL
Dark romance? Nah. My chemical romance? Hell yeah 🏳️🌈
HOMOSEXUALITY 💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥
WOOOO
YESSS
@@MeleedroitMore like I WANT YOUR LOVE AND I WANT YOUR REVENGE YOU AND ME COULD WRITE A BAAAAAAD ROMAAAAAAAANCE wOaHoAhoHoohOHhoOh CAUGHT IN A BAAAAD ROMMAAAANCE🏳️🌈
@@therandomname69420lady gaga? More like,, silly :3
I still don't know how she segways so well into all of her sponsors- it's an art form at this point
typing this to save you future embarrassment- when you mean a smooth transition between topics, you mean 'segue' (pronounced segway) and when you mean automated scooter, you mean 'segway' (pronounced, you guessed it, segway)
bless up
my love-hate relationship with the english language grows
@@cleanomean449 you are very welcome my guy, have a lovely day
@@cleanomean449so... A dark romance with the English language? 😉
That said, I've also been spelling it Segway all these years. Geez.
@@assas1nscreedwhy it look loek that thoughg
trauma and violence is so cute 🥰
Fr🤭
Tehehehehehehe 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Protagonists in those stories: "Omg it's so sweet that your boyfriend got you flowers when you met but mine threw me across a cliff and implemented an unborn alien inside my unconscious body that possessed my body and committed genocide as my sense of morality and individuality faded away eventually, he's so sweet 😊"
😂😂😂
*He's just been through a lot. You don't understand him. He LOVES ME*
@@chelseaxoxo784 LMAOOO 'he just needs someone to fix him🤩'
But did you know that his grandma literally died when he was young? He’s got trauma, okay? Plus, he’s hot. He should be forgiven.
the whole ‘you can’t escape me ‘ thing is creepy and unhinged but my mind first went to the thought of someone being with me 24/7 and thought “ oh no my social battery could never”
Okay, hear me out. As an avid reader, the enemies-to-lovers trope can actually be fantastic when it's done right. Usually, both are good or at least decent people who could use some character development. They might get off on the wrong foot because of a misunderstanding or one or both of them had a bad day causing them to act differently than they usually do thus causing them to hate each other's guts from day one. We get some interesting but keyword HARMLESS banter and they eventually get closer and figure out that they misjudged them and they're not a total asshole (Cue Beauty and the Beast "There may be something there that wasn't there before") They become friends and some plot device nearly keeps them from being together but in the end, they end up a couple, happily ever after, and that's the standard for that trope. However, there is a special subset of writers who do it wrong. Special of course is a euphemism for crazy sickos who romanticize bullying, harassment, or even violence and abuse. It usually places the guy as the "bad boy" and the girl as the victim- I mean the good girl. But the roles can be reversed just like real-life domestic violence which is exactly what these types of books encourage. The guy usually gets away with murder (like sometimes he actually kills people) just because he's described as "6'3 and devilishly handsome" while the girl ends up falling head over heals (Can anyone spell Stockholm Syndrome?) and forgives him completely because "He loves me, he's changed." So yeah, the trope can be done right or very VERY wrong and I guess you just have to read the reviews to weed out the bad ones.
i mean yes i agree, and there are good dark romances/enemies to lovers stories out there, but my god these tiktoks sound AWFUL lmfao. I wouldn't be caught dead reading this fr. The problem with this genre is for every good book theres like 20 awful ones, and you can't even trust people to recommend you the good ones because tiktok girlies will genuinely recommend haunting adeline for you to read....
@@katierasburn9571 Yeah these tiktokers are out here swooning over Colleen Hoover's books and I'm like "Please get help. Seek therapy. You can recover."
yeaaaahhh this trope has such a great slaying potential. Like you know that "Howl's moving castle" by Hayao Miyadzaki has a book origin and in this book the dynamics between Howl and Sophie is just like this trope (maybe it's a bit slighter than usual like at the beginning Howl kinda behaves like an arrogant child and Sophie grumps and hisses at him, but eventually they develop feelings for each other)
Thats not "Enemies to lovers" though, its literally "Inconveniences to lovers"
True Enemies to lovers is really hard to pull off
@@AthmosSounddesignAgree, the balance between giving the leads reasons to hate each while not making the audience also hate them is very, very difficult.
it’s giving “enemies to lovers” without the “lovers”
"Poverty?
She's on the line, bitch!"
I love this so much 😂😂
Time stamp?
@@brittneybrat8911 13:33
@@brittneybrat891113:37
Emily trying not to smile is my favorite ad segue trope. Like, we both know it's happening, so more power to ya, girlie.
The thing i hate the most in BULLY ROMANCE is when the boy justifies his actions by saying that I BULLIED YOU TO GET YOUR ATTENTION , I WANT YOU TO NOTICE ME...
like what the hell...
“No one wakes her up and she misses the SAT” How did you know that I took the SAT today and was almost late because I was sleeping?
omfg I took the SAT today too LMAO
@@candacew2437 it was fine and then I hit section four and that was brutal ngl
@@bookwyrm8181 for me it was the no calculator math part tbh
I find it funny how 90% of the scenarios that Emily reads is from the same book (The Darkest Note) 😂😂😂😂
It is SO BAD.
I’ve read this book, and it’s just pure flaming garbage. Like, the male lead is just a massive prick who mistreats the protagonist constantly, and his name is Dutch. DUTCH. No, his name isn’t Dutch as in Dutch in origin, it is literally the word Dutch.
i’ve GOT A PLAN ARRRTHUURRR i’m gonna BULLY her until she DROPS OUT of SCHOOOL AARTHURRR
just ONE MORE ROAST ARTHUR
duuuuutch yew ain never gon have the privilege of controllin her as long as there’s breath in er body duuuuuutch
@@iCookCrystalMeth this is the greatest reply of all time
@@skoshxx preciate it
8:30 I’d like to think that he starts wearing the bulletproof vest because he thinks the child has it out for him, like it will come out the womb ready to shoot him
I read a comment that said smth along the lines of "the child shot out during child birth and the dad had to literally catch the baby" sooo 🤡💀💀😂😂 I can see that fictional man getting scared of a baby who shots out of the vagina and shoots towards his dad trying to kill him (hang him??)with his umbilical cord 😂😂😂
Nah, it sounds like a modern retelling of Oedipus Rex
"Chivalry is not dead but I am" GIRL I ALMOST SWALLOWED MY CHEWING GUM RELAX!!!
Hot take:
Dark relationships, IF you do them right, are actually very narratively compelling. What makes the difference is how deeply the author and characters engage with the ‘I can make them worse’ or ‘I can fix them’ trope. It’s quite realistic actually that someone in a relationship feels compelled to ‘save’ the other; however the writer and characters should be fully aware of this saviour-complex and make it another psychological tool to drag the character further into the line of fire. The writers, characters OR readers should hold NO illusion of this being an ’ideal’ relationship: nor can it be made so by one party’s sole effort.
This is like. The complete opposite of a feel-good work, so it is definitely an acquired taste. But I enjoy this as a very precise dissection of human psychology and relationships, and makes it all the more rewarding when the people in the relationship MUTUALLY decide to change for the better. Or not. Whatever. It’s fun to see what happens.
Also, dark relationships aren’t innately romantic; some of the most well-written dark relationships I’ve seen have actually been between siblings
TL;DR don’t avoid all dark relationships, just those not self-aware
Like revy and rock from black lagoon?
@@alchemistofsteel8099 not super familiar with their relationship, so can't say for certain. But what they give off to me is moreso "super damaged people have issues that prevent their relationship", while the kind I'm talking about is when one or both people unhealthily value their relationship above anything else, and become incredibly codependent as a result. Denji and Makima might be a closer example, but what I'm really looking at are the titular characters from 'The Coffin of Andy & Leyley' typa stuff
I like fked up romance when it actually dwells into the psychology of the characters. But most of it is just smut and character assassinations.
Take haunting adeline. Zade meadows hates rapists, and pedos and kills them amd saves kids from rings. He is insanely devoted to his cause. Now why would any dude mindlessly have a rape kink and call his lover "little girl" there is literally no explanation.
11:25
Emily: Nothing like summer in the city! (Talking about the heat)
Me, for literally no reason at all whatsoever: SOMEONE IN A RUSH NEXT TO SOMEONE LOOKING PRETTY EXCUSE ME MISS I KNOW IT'S NOT FUNNY BUT YOUR PERFUME SMELLS LIKE YOUR DADDY'S GOT MONEY WHY YOU SLUMMING IN THE CITY IN YOUR FANCY HEELS YOU SEARCHIN' FOR AN URCHIN WHO CAN GIVE YOU IDEALS
Or-
“-Someone under stress meets someone looking pretty. There's trouble in the air, you can smell it
And Alexander's by himself, I'll let him tell it-“
@@xodollyangelox as bad as it is, I really do love say no to this. Her vocals are awesome
YESS HAMILTON
Yes
Mfs after sexualizing abuse:😘😍💅
HELP WHEN SHE SAID “mio dol-say” MY ITALIAN-SPEAKING ASS WAS CRYING 😭
LOVE YOU GIRLY
Same😭😭😭
I feel like enemies to lovers and a little bit of dark romance can be understandable if it's in a fantasy book or dystopian novels but not in like a highschool romance or if it's too realistic..💀
I despise when kink or fetish things hit a larger audience because it immediately twists away from what it originally was and is misunderstood. I’m someone who enjoys genuine dark romance stories, but not because it’s romantic or something. It’s because sadomasochism is a kink. Suddenly 12 year olds (probably the people making these TikToks) are seeing this and thinking it’s cute when no, this is very unhealthy and we all know it.
Self-awareness is vital to issues such as this.
I like dark romance as long as the love- intrests aren't abusive towards eachother (or extremely toxic), I'm writing a dark romance with a male love intrest that is very sweet, he's just also a hitman😊
hopefully with no sa or abuse towards the female lead either🤞🏼
Is that a pillow behind you? That's so cute! But yeah, when Lydia kissed Stiles during his panic attack on Teen Wolf, I was like... wouldn't that just make him panic more?
I always try to remind myself of the cringey things I did when I was 14. Thank god it wasn’t as public as this mess. But also thank god the internet is in a place rn where we can immortalize this cringe to make fun of as adults and someday those kids will be adults and appreciate the shrine of their cringe too.
Dark romance is so weird because why would anyone want to subject themselves to humiliation and possibly getting killed by a psychopathic person when you could just have a sweet and caring relationship?
i love how this dark romance bs is just another buzzword for young adult books 💀
Dark romance BOILS MY BLOOD I hate it so much because the guys in it are disgusting
God bless you 😂❤
If Emily saying “is this a joke?!?!” in /that/ tone triggered a buried memory from 10 years ago, you’re entitled to compensation
Harmful intent rizz lmaoo. can we all agree that Joe and love represent the American dark romance ?😭 but tbh any of these people could write a better script to 365 days than the actual writers did
Hey that painting of tiger behind you reminded me of a beautiful poem! It's about a women who can't achive her dreams due to patriarchal society so to express her desires she used to stich on curtains and one of her works were two tigers in the forest which she made in final moments of her life. (Sorry it's off topic.)
What's the name?
It sounds interesting
@@chelseaxoxo784 I think "Aunt Jennifer's tiger" by Adrienne rich.
most of the time people just need to slapped hard with reality, i can't believe they can make something out of "dark" cute
Also, as an italian, i gotta say romanticizing mafia is really fucked up cause it's still a serious and dangerous matter in our country and believe me, you wouldn't want to get into that in any possible way, no matter how romantic it might sound. I personally am lucky enough to leave in a part of italy where it's not very common, and i still get the ick seeing how mafia is used as some sort of fetish, i can't even imagine how someone who's closer to the issue might feel
This aside, very nice video as always, i found your channel pretty recently but i gotta say i already love it
"Hey um...the line was actually, "I'm right here, " not, "Turn around and face me with your lazy eye, you lopsided skank...so..."
Oh my goodness😂😂😂😂 7:32
Love your videos so much Emily!! you entertain me and make me happy on my bad days, thank you! :)
hyunjin😍
The Hamilton reference!!! “ hehe there’s nothing like summer in the city “ I love Emily
YES BRO
Can we all agree that Emily makes amazing videos and always puts a smile on our faces?
Edit: I understand how cliché I made that sound, but I’m not a bot. 😭 I swear on my mother’s grave.
Edit: Y’all are playing mind games with me, I’m beginning to question my reality. 💀 I know you all must be joking, there’s no way none of you haven’t looked at my profile and seen that I’m not a bot yet. (Also I stubbed my toe earlier today and I screamed like a little girl so I guess that makes me human right?)
Spotted the bot comment
dont start this.
i know you're a bot but like i agree
Sounds like something a bot would say🤨
Your mother just died
I had a stomach ache throughout the entire video cause you made me laugh so hard, literally no one does humor like you do istg
Embarrassed to say my ex wore a bullet proof vest a lot for no reason 💀
Love your sense of humour emily always love your videos
Fr
@@quiqui6178 emily is awesome
dark romance? sorry, i only know "My sweet and lovely kidnapper, serial killer, tax evader and mafia boss Harry Styles"
Whoever wrote the panic attack thing... either has never had one, or has panic attacks that are very very different from mine and what I've heard. Like DON'T FUCKING TOUCH ME when i'm having a panic attack
When Emily posts my day gets better INSTANTLY.
No fr. When I saw her upload I actually squealed out loud☠️ embarrassing 😭😭
@@damplamp3259 Relatable
@@damplamp3259your pfp so real slurp
as an italian speaker you are 100% forgiven cause you're hilarious
💀lol
I am going to speak on the behalf of every italian:
1. Mafia love stories are not cute. They are literally people who are not afraid to use violence against innocents who have to suffer under them.
2. "Mio dolce" doesn't make sense in italian. Typically you would add another word like "Amore" so that the sentence would be "Mio dolce amore" (my sweet love) but just "Mio dolce" doesn't make sense and no italian speaker would say it.
9:05 THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IN A WHILE I HAVE GENUINELY LAUGHED SO HARD LMAOOO
6:37 how about some personal space 🌌😮???
These are all cursed, but the one with the love interest named Alessandro is so funny to me personally because I have a friend with that name and he's like the biggest babygirl ever. I'm sorry but I can never take the name seriously as a Bad Boy Name™ again when my first association is a guy who's at least 50% spoiled princess 😭