I had an aunt like your mil. She canned everything. She had bottles and jars of every size everywhere. I actually really like how she did everything. I think it's very resourceful.
This mother-in-law is ahead of the game 😂. She knew about food-prep long before it Meskas people started the trend. It is practical; it saves time and money.
Being conservative is good, but this old lady here is really a greedy person,,yeah savings money, having alot of money is good, but remember you don't live forever to enjoy this money,,..this old lady reminds me so much of my aunt, she spends 4 of toilet paper and it has to last for 6 months or longer...having so much money, and you don't enjoy life, because you're to worry that you don't have enough money,, at the end of your last breath, is it worth it,,
I came from a generous, big heart family and spend kind of like you but as I grew older, I learned and understand how to be like your mother in law in a way. Seeing all the food and vegetables being throwaway for not finish eating it, I realize how much money I wasted. I think your mother in law is not super glue but a conservative person and knows how to save money. Money is power. You both have some disagreement that is out of line so you both need to learn to get along and accommodate. Your MIL is smart about saving money. Don’t be over generous, you can still give but know your limit and keep it minimum.
To the sister of this story, I can relate to your story, and I know exactly how complicated it is. Many can relate as well. Kuv los ntawm ib tse neeg loj, siab loj thiab coj dav so I understand exactly what you’ve been through. Tus neeg qia dub ces yeej qia qub. Nws tsis pom nws qhov qia dub li. Nws tsuas pom qhov neeg tsis ua rau nws xwb tiam sis nws tsis kam lees hais tias ua cas lawv ho tsis ua rau nws. Kuv pom tej tug neeg es qia dub npaum ntawv los tsis muaj nyiaj li thiab.
Cov Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko mas qia dub tshaj plaws li os, yus siv yus nyiaj xwb los NWS mas ua cuag li yog yus muab NWS nyiaj siv os kuv mas dhuav cov Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko kawg li , kuv ntsib Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko kiag thiab os 😊
There's a time to give in return to receive and share in return to save. By sharing and loving abundantly you will receive and be blessed so much more in return. It all comes down to family and friends you can truly trust. Besides, your mnl worried too much of what she will receive from others in exchange of her time helping them. The food situation. If your mnl don't want to waste food then eat it for leftovers. I always cook more than enough for my family and we love leftovers. Yes save money and enjoy life with your love ones. Life is too short! At the end of the day, live your life the way you want with your own expectations and limitations, and learn from your own mistakes. You do you girl! Good luck!
My husband is so nice and gives away everything! And forgets himself and gets upset that no one helps him in return! Sometimes you just gotta learn to love yourself first and stop being peoples doormat!
Your mother in law is not super glued. She’s making things easy for you. Just say thank you to her. I would take her advice and just make enough for you and your husband as your mother in law has requested.
Oh sh*t!! I'm a giver, I would never get along with that family. My husband will have to choose me or his super glue family if that was me. I'm just so lucky to be married into a wonderful, kind hearted, and generous family. I can sleep soundly at night, and my heart is happy because I'm a giver.
I swear old people forget that life isnt like how it was back in the old days back in Laos. Use some & save some. All they wanna do it save save save then die. They need to change their ways.
Kuv ntsib cov nplaum2 li ko lawm thiab. Tseem ntsib cov uas twb tsis kam ua noj, tseem mus noj haus kwv tij es nqa los ntim cia tom lawv lub freezer mam noj qub. Ua neeg nyob, siab zoo dhau los tsis zoo ib zaug, siab nqaim dhau los tsis muaj tus xav hlub/pab yus thaum yus txom nyem nawb.
Koj tus niam pog, hais txog kev noj haus hauv lub Vaj lub tsev. Nws yeej tsis qia dub ua luaj twg. Peb cov laus ces yeej nyiam hlab zaub tso rau freezer, yeej nyiam noj nqaij tsaws thiab tej yam koom uas cov hluas tsis kam noj. Yog li no txhob muab lub txim tag2 rau nws thiab. Hais txog kev tawm rooj this pab kwv tij neej tsa. Nws yeej siab me thiab coj tau nqaim tab sis qhov no yog nws li teeb meem. Koj tus kheej yeej meem ua raws koj txoj kev xav thiab pab kwv tij neej tsa li koj pab tau nawb mog. Peb ua neeg nyob ces nyias muaj nyias txoj kev xav thiab coj siab loj siab me los yus yeej cheem tsis tau.
I say..let people do what they do bc it's hard to get someone to change their ways unless they see it for themselves. You do you and let your mil do her. That way, everyone will be happy.
Consider yourself lucky. Some couples aren't as fortunate as you. They don't start out their lives living with their in-laws and being able to save up, then move out. I'm not saying you dont have bills, but living with your in-laws helped you save $. Having more money and less bills take a alot of burden off your shoulder. Meaning you'd be able to give away gifts/money w/o having to worry as much. I used to be nice like you and borrow my stuff out until they were returned in non working condition. Then, when i called and asked what happened. They'd reply, "oh it was working when they were using it." Or they would borrow it to someone else without asking me. By the time it gets back to me who knows how many people have borrowed it. Lol You'd be a GREAT niam pathan!!! Lol
Regarding the food part yes she is right just try to cook what is needed so won’t go to waste as food these days are expensive now.The rest of stuff yes some ppl are super glue but if you don’t like them just have to move out.
I don't understand why u need to expose your inlaws like this. You r not very mature urself either. Considering the fact that u still married to their son, you need to respect ur husband. Exposing them is exposing ur husband too.
I am also me nyuam hmoob mekas and also a daughter in-law as well, but I have to admitted though. We are more critical on someone else' parents than our own. If your own parents were your in-laws, I am sure you find a way to accept their behavior better than your in-laws and would not talk about them on air. I do have a mother in-law who is very similar to your in-law as well. She canned everything even fruits that she picked from our back yard and keep stuff that have been expired for months. Of course, it's frustrating, but we have to understand that our in-laws, our parents are from a different generation, they grew up with nothing to eat or to give and for some reasons their minds still set on their experiences. We need to find a better way to explain to them why we do what we do and they do what they do. In my opinion and the best way to solve this complication is moving out as soon as you get married since we are me nyuam hmoob mekas we have to do like mekas to avoid all issues like this. I understand that Hmoob parents are expecting their son/daughter in-law to live with them for few years because most of these parents paid for their sons' weddings. So, if that's your case, you need to accept the good with the bad.
Sometimes I wonder if people was stingy or they don’t have a lot of people and they just eat watever or the economy is bad and they buy what they can?! Even my relationships isn’t consist of super glue but you never know; I hardly stay with anyone long enough & nobody don’t show that side! I have so much freedom all my life & would go nuts if I have a “SUPER GLUE” family! 😢❤😮🎉 I remember I bought some veggies from the farmers market and my ex sis in law complain why I buy so much; duh, so I don’t have to go back to the farmers market & it’s so so hard to find parking & it was very mean of her to ask me; why!? Would he nice if someone bought me veggies or fruits and put it in my fridge! These people SMFDH! 😢❤😮🎉
Can I borrow your car for work? I promise to return it. 😅😅 don't be super da glue. You: I would borrow you my car but I don't know you. I'm not super da glue. 😅😅
Sounds like your in-laws are both super glue and frugal. I have nothing against frugality and you shouldn't either because it saves money. For sure they are super glue on the gift giving and lending things out to other relatives. You shouldn't complain too much since YOU blindly made the decision to marry into this family. Only an idiot will marry a guy without getting to know what his family is like in this day and age; heck, when I got married to my husband 22 years ago, I made sure to get to know his family (just like he got to know mine) for several years before I decided they were a family I could marry into----one of the best decisions I ever made since my hubby's family is really great!
Cov niag neeg super glue li ntawd tsis txhob yuav khoom pub li es cia seb puas muaj hnub nws yuav mus qiv luag los pob. Tseem pheej yuav khoom plig rau nws ua dabtsi.
Me Nyab aw!! Koj yuav tau lawm Koj niam pog lub maib ua zaub ua mov cia freezer nawb. Es tsis txhob tias noj ib pluag tag ib hnab txhuv os. Koj niam pog lub maib no…tsis yog tus neeg nquag tiag tiag twb ua tsis tau hos!! Txhob cem2 ces hos mus xyaum nawb mog. Kuv ntseeg tias lwm hnub laus koj los yeej yuav try ua ib yam thiab…😁😁
No she's not super glue. You need to buy only what you need to cook. If you keep throwing away the food or vegetables then that is wasteful. She's teaching you to be responsible. You already know it's just you four so don't cook so much especially if you don't eat leftovers. She's not saying you can't buy she's teaching you just to buy only what you will use.
The issue here is that you're a high income and your mil is a low income. Thus, you would spend more than what she would. You both just needed to understand each other.
I agree with the mother in law to certain degrees. Can't cook so much and throw it away. It's very wasteful. Buy and cook just enough for the day. I don't like leftover food much, so I cook little.
Tsis yog niam pog qia dub os. Nws ntsuas khoom noj xwb os. Mloog mas koj los lam tau lam yuav khoom noj es noj tsis tag ces lwj tag lis thiab os. Koj yuav tsum paub hais tias cov lau lawv noj tsis taud qab qab lawm os.
Txuag thiab tab sis tsis txuag npaum ntawm thiab tsam yus cia li tuag lawm ces lwm yuav los siv lawm os. Vim twb muaj cov neeg coob coob zoo li ntawm lawm os thaub.
Muaj ib txia tib neeg lawv uas noj ob tais sib nraus muaj ib ces yog mov ob ces yog tib tais zaub xwb os vivnaus aw...Peb noj tsi taus cov kws nyob qhov txias txias ntev ntev li os sister because nws tsw tsw phem rau kuv os.
I don't see nothing wrong with bringing a case of drinks to a party. But borrowing stuff I would but if you return my stuff back broken then I won't ever borrow it again.
Sorry, but not everyone can afford to buy a case of beer every wknd,sometimes 2 cases a wknd. There's no reason for Hmong ppl to drink this much beer. And trust me, my husband likes to bring a case everywhere, even to a kids birthday Also, a couple wks ago, he was going to go help his friend with his wife's uncles funeral as the friends kis. I'm all for going to go help his friend, but my hub wanted money for sunshine donation. And I'm like no, you can go help your friend, but there's no need to donate, you don't even know the uncle's name. We argued, but I guess I'm super glue like your mil.
Koj niam pog yog greedy xwb os... kuv kuj have greedy mind thiab tabsis yam yuav noj ces kim los kawg yuav xwb os......KOJ YOG NEEG TSIS GREEDY XWB OS. Yeejmeem ua zoo li yus ua tau os mog
Yeah the in law just helped u safe money. Og think different then young people..don’t expect others do like u… u can’t do like then either.. hais kom haum nyias ua nyias noj xwb …😅
Perhaps you were too judgmental of your MIL, you don't know what shit she went thru, perhaps food was scarce when she grew up, money was hard to come by, you should STOP complaining about her and learn to understand her.
You hmong young meka Dil complain too much. She's trying to help teach you because ask yourself do you eat everything you buy. I don't think so. Yes there's no problem being nice but you have to know your limits because people will take advantage of you.
I had an aunt like your mil. She canned everything. She had bottles and jars of every size everywhere. I actually really like how she did everything. I think it's very resourceful.
This mother-in-law is ahead of the game 😂. She knew about food-prep long before it Meskas people started the trend. It is practical; it saves time and money.
I’m barely starting to learn how to save. I think this mother-in-law is not “super glue”. I actually admire her discipline to be resourceful.
She’s SUPER STINGY! Don’t turn into her. I can’t stand people like this!
Ua nyab ua niam poj is not easy. Because we all come from different walks of life and living situations. I think she is just being conservative.
Kv tshawg ib tu nyab siab zoo siab loj li kj xwb o me ntxhsig aw kv ma nyiaj yuav ntxhij yuav ntxhuag ua ntau ko txau sawv daw noj ua li kj ua zoo hee
Being conservative is good, but this old lady here is really a greedy person,,yeah savings money, having alot of money is good, but remember you don't live forever to enjoy this money,,..this old lady reminds me so much of my aunt, she spends 4 of toilet paper and it has to last for 6 months or longer...having so much money, and you don't enjoy life, because you're to worry that you don't have enough money,, at the end of your last breath, is it worth it,,
I came from a generous, big heart family and spend kind of like you but as I grew older, I learned and understand how to be like your mother in law in a way. Seeing all the food and vegetables being throwaway for not finish eating it, I realize how much money I wasted. I think your mother in law is not super glue but a conservative person and knows how to save money. Money is power. You both have some disagreement that is out of line so you both need to learn to get along and accommodate. Your MIL is smart about saving money. Don’t be over generous, you can still give but know your limit and keep it minimum.
"To taub, to dib lawm os" 🤣🤣 I've never heard of that one before. Im going to start using it now LOL!!
To the sister of this story, I can relate to your story, and I know exactly how complicated it is. Many can relate as well. Kuv los ntawm ib tse neeg loj, siab loj thiab coj dav so I understand exactly what you’ve been through. Tus neeg qia dub ces yeej qia qub. Nws tsis pom nws qhov qia dub li. Nws tsuas pom qhov neeg tsis ua rau nws xwb tiam sis nws tsis kam lees hais tias ua cas lawv ho tsis ua rau nws. Kuv pom tej tug neeg es qia dub npaum ntawv los tsis muaj nyiaj li thiab.
Wow, she's amazing. When the world falls apart, I'm living with her!
Ua tsaug ntau2 os. Raug ib co pob kub kawg li os vim lam nyob lub teb chaws vam meej xwb os. 😁😁😁
Cov Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko mas qia dub tshaj plaws li os, yus siv yus nyiaj xwb los NWS mas ua cuag li yog yus muab NWS nyiaj siv os kuv mas dhuav cov Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko kawg li , kuv ntsib Niag Niam Pog zoo li ko kiag thiab os 😊
There's a time to give in return to receive and share in return to save. By sharing and loving abundantly you will receive and be blessed so much more in return. It all comes down to family and friends you can truly trust.
Besides, your mnl worried too much of what she will receive from others in exchange of her time helping them.
The food situation. If your mnl don't want to waste food then eat it for leftovers. I always cook more than enough for my family and we love leftovers.
Yes save money and enjoy life with your love ones. Life is too short!
At the end of the day, live your life the way you want with your own expectations and limitations, and learn from your own mistakes. You do you girl! Good luck!
My husband is so nice and gives away everything! And forgets himself and gets upset that no one helps him in return! Sometimes you just gotta learn to love yourself first and stop being peoples doormat!
You can always tell someone is super by looking at their dining food setting.
Your mother in law is not super glued. She’s making things easy for you. Just say thank you to her. I would take her advice and just make enough for you and your husband as your mother in law has requested.
Niam luag Jeune kj ma loj zuj zu kj dug txeb no kv nyob Canada o
Zaj no mas zoo zoo rau cov neeg qia dub tig neej lub pob ntseeg los mloog thiab los kawm nawb
Oh sh*t!! I'm a giver, I would never get along with that family. My husband will have to choose me or his super glue family if that was me. I'm just so lucky to be married into a wonderful, kind hearted, and generous family. I can sleep soundly at night, and my heart is happy because I'm a giver.
Remember, people who are stingy with their money is also stingy with their love.
I swear old people forget that life isnt like how it was back in the old days back in Laos. Use some & save some. All they wanna do it save save save then die. They need to change their ways.
😃😄😇😇Good commemt
I never know how to save. I like your mother in law's idea.
Kuv ntsib cov nplaum2 li ko lawm thiab. Tseem ntsib cov uas twb tsis kam ua noj, tseem mus noj haus kwv tij es nqa los ntim cia tom lawv lub freezer mam noj qub. Ua neeg nyob, siab zoo dhau los tsis zoo ib zaug, siab nqaim dhau los tsis muaj tus xav hlub/pab yus thaum yus txom nyem nawb.
Niam pog kuj tsis phem thiab thaum nej mloog tas ces Nyab thiab niam pog zoo tsis Txawj’s deb . Lwm hnub txog yus thib ua niam pog lawm yus yeej zoo ib yam thiab mas
This is why there can't be two niam tsev in one family. This niam pog and I will not get along.
Right
Most definitely! I won’t even be in the kitchen when my husband/ kids are in there!
Koj tus niam pog, hais txog kev noj haus hauv lub Vaj lub tsev. Nws yeej tsis qia dub ua luaj twg. Peb cov laus ces yeej nyiam hlab zaub tso rau freezer, yeej nyiam noj nqaij tsaws thiab tej yam koom uas cov hluas tsis kam noj. Yog li no txhob muab lub txim tag2 rau nws thiab.
Hais txog kev tawm rooj this pab kwv tij neej tsa. Nws yeej siab me thiab coj tau nqaim tab sis qhov no yog nws li teeb meem. Koj tus kheej yeej meem ua raws koj txoj kev xav thiab pab kwv tij neej tsa li koj pab tau nawb mog. Peb ua neeg nyob ces nyias muaj nyias txoj kev xav thiab coj siab loj siab me los yus yeej cheem tsis tau.
You reap what you sowed. Hais tau zoo kawg
You should be appreciated, they just try to save you money. Lawv qia lawv tug xwb mas.
Agree, why buy too much and waste money 💰 🤑
I say..let people do what they do bc it's hard to get someone to change their ways unless they see it for themselves. You do you and let your mil do her. That way, everyone will be happy.
Yes !!! It is super Glue !!! She is !!!!
Yuav tsum tau txuag nyiaj li niam pog hais thiab os. Nyiaj txiag nyob tsiv kev yog tsis txawj tswj ces thawm niaj thawm xyoo yeej tsis pom ib dua li. Mekas luag lwm haiv neeg los luag yeej yuav thiab ua txaus noj xwb tsis luam thuam pov tseg. Ho hais txog yuav dej yuav cawv, muab dua puav mus pab luag ces yeej yuav tsum tau yuav thiab muab me ntsi nyiaj mus pab ho.
I like your mother in_law idea. Once I hear someone say, "If you don't know how to use money, then you be money slave or money will use you.😅
Your mother in-law just care about your spending, its better then asked you to spent for
Cas yuav nplaum ua luaj li os....tsam lwm hnub tuag tsis muaj neeg tuaj nrog yus zov ces tsis tau luag nawb.
Ua zoo xav ces kuj tsis yog nplaum, but just cook a little enough for you.😅
Consider yourself lucky. Some couples aren't as fortunate as you. They don't start out their lives living with their in-laws and being able to save up, then move out. I'm not saying you dont have bills, but living with your in-laws helped you save $. Having more money and less bills take a alot of burden off your shoulder. Meaning you'd be able to give away gifts/money w/o having to worry as much. I used to be nice like you and borrow my stuff out until they were returned in non working condition. Then, when i called and asked what happened. They'd reply, "oh it was working when they were using it." Or they would borrow it to someone else without asking me. By the time it gets back to me who knows how many people have borrowed it. Lol
You'd be a GREAT niam pathan!!! Lol
Lawv nyob lub state twg ne? Cas lawv ho siv tau night vision.
I like your niam pog's idea. She's not super glue.
She saving money for your future. You should appreciate her. When she passed, everythig she saved is yours
Regarding the food part yes she is right just try to cook what is needed so won’t go to waste as food these days are expensive now.The rest of stuff yes some ppl are super glue but if you don’t like them just have to move out.
I don't understand why u need to expose your inlaws like this. You r not very mature urself either. Considering the fact that u still married to their son, you need to respect ur husband. Exposing them is exposing ur husband too.
I am also me nyuam hmoob mekas and also a daughter in-law as well, but I have to admitted though. We are more critical on someone else' parents than our own. If your own parents were your in-laws, I am sure you find a way to accept their behavior better than your in-laws and would not talk about them on air. I do have a mother in-law who is very similar to your in-law as well. She canned everything even fruits that she picked from our back yard and keep stuff that have been expired for months. Of course, it's frustrating, but we have to understand that our in-laws, our parents are from a different generation, they grew up with nothing to eat or to give and for some reasons their minds still set on their experiences. We need to find a better way to explain to them why we do what we do and they do what they do. In my opinion and the best way to solve this complication is moving out as soon as you get married since we are me nyuam hmoob mekas we have to do like mekas to avoid all issues like this. I understand that Hmoob parents are expecting their son/daughter in-law to live with them for few years because most of these parents paid for their sons' weddings. So, if that's your case, you need to accept the good with the bad.
Dang! I need to save like your mil but it’s a hard thing to do. If only I can be like her, I’d have more money saved.
Kuv tsis qhuas cov neeg txuag nyiaj li os. Txhob txuag txuag nyiaj li no thiab txog thaum tuag ces twb nqa tsis tau nyiaj nrog yus mus nawb.
Sometimes I wonder if people was stingy or they don’t have a lot of people and they just eat watever or the economy is bad and they buy what they can?! Even my relationships isn’t consist of super glue but you never know; I hardly stay with anyone long enough & nobody don’t show that side! I have so much freedom all my life & would go nuts if I have a “SUPER GLUE” family! 😢❤😮🎉
I remember I bought some veggies from the farmers market and my ex sis in law complain why I buy so much; duh, so I don’t have to go back to the farmers market & it’s so so hard to find parking & it was very mean of her to ask me; why!? Would he nice if someone bought me veggies or fruits and put it in my fridge! These people SMFDH! 😢❤😮🎉
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Your MIL is not super glue. She's just living frugally. Learn to save from her. You'll thank her later in life.
Read some comments & dang there's a bunch of super da glue people on here. 😂
Can I borrow your car for work? I promise to return it. 😅😅 don't be super da glue.
You: I would borrow you my car but I don't know you. I'm not super da glue. 😅😅
Sounds like your in-laws are both super glue and frugal. I have nothing against frugality and you shouldn't either because it saves money. For sure they are super glue on the gift giving and lending things out to other relatives. You shouldn't complain too much since YOU blindly made the decision to marry into this family. Only an idiot will marry a guy without getting to know what his family is like in this day and age; heck, when I got married to my husband 22 years ago, I made sure to get to know his family (just like he got to know mine) for several years before I decided they were a family I could marry into----one of the best decisions I ever made since my hubby's family is really great!
Cov niag neeg super glue li ntawd tsis txhob yuav khoom pub li es cia seb puas muaj hnub nws yuav mus qiv luag los pob. Tseem pheej yuav khoom plig rau nws ua dabtsi.
Cov neeg super glue ces nws tuag yeej tsis tsim nyob li vim twb tsis tau noj ib qho qab thiab twb tsis tau hnav ib daim zoo li
Me Nyab aw!! Koj yuav tau lawm Koj niam pog lub maib ua zaub ua mov cia freezer nawb.
Es tsis txhob tias noj ib pluag tag ib hnab txhuv os.
Koj niam pog lub maib no…tsis yog tus neeg nquag tiag tiag twb ua tsis tau hos!!
Txhob cem2 ces hos mus xyaum nawb mog. Kuv ntseeg tias lwm hnub laus koj los yeej yuav try ua ib yam thiab…😁😁
Your mil are rich!!! They know how to save money for a raining days, do you?😊
No she's not super glue. You need to buy only what you need to cook. If you keep throwing away the food or vegetables then that is wasteful. She's teaching you to be responsible. You already know it's just you four so don't cook so much especially if you don't eat leftovers. She's not saying you can't buy she's teaching you just to buy only what you will use.
Koj niam pog lawv qias qias dub es lawv tuag es lawv yuav qev lawv cov nyiaj mus nes. Super glue es thiaj li muaj muaj npluas npluas nuj los mas. Vim peb sib luam thuam noj npluag mias siv npluas mias nev.
The issue here is that you're a high income and your mil is a low income. Thus, you would spend more than what she would. You both just needed to understand each other.
Wow I have in laws like that too!!! It’s hella annoying
I need a Motherinlaw like this, maybe I will be rich. 🤑 I’m glad my mom and Motherinlaw are both siab dawj and siab loj. ❤️
I agree with the mother in law to certain degrees. Can't cook so much and throw it away. It's very wasteful.
Buy and cook just enough for the day. I don't like leftover food much, so I cook little.
Mloog mas zoo li koj tus niam pog yeej qia dub dhau lawm tiag thiab. Ua neeg nyob nyias yuav tau ntsuas nyias lub neej qhov tsim nyog qia dub kuj yuav tau qia thiab, tab sis tej yam tsim nyog pab yuav tau pab tsim nyog pub yuav tau pub thiaj nyob taus nrog luag zej zog
Tsis yog niam pog qia dub os. Nws ntsuas khoom noj xwb os. Mloog mas koj los lam tau lam yuav khoom noj es noj tsis tag ces lwj tag lis thiab os. Koj yuav tsum paub hais tias cov lau lawv noj tsis taud qab qab lawm os.
Luag pab yus txuag nyiaj rau yus xwb os twb yog Luag zoo kawg Luag xav kom yus muaj xwb es tseem yuav rhuav Luag thiab naw ntshai tsam yus tsis muaj Li Luag tej naw,
Txuag thiab tab sis tsis txuag npaum ntawm thiab tsam yus cia li tuag lawm ces lwm yuav los siv lawm os. Vim twb muaj cov neeg coob coob zoo li ntawm lawm os thaub.
She just being conservative otherwise she wouldn’t care
Hahaha i see people like that.
ntuj aw tsev niag hmoob kom tuag tseem coj mug noj tau thiab cas yuav qiab dub npaum kom os yom
Koj Yog ib tug Nyab yoog tsis tau lawv tsev neeg xwb. Khoom Yog koj tug Koj mam qiv. Tsis Yog koj tug txhob ua ua niam. Peb sawvdaws yeej txawj ua Nyab ib yam li os. Peb twb tsis coj li koj.
Muaj ib txia tib neeg lawv uas noj ob tais sib nraus muaj ib ces yog mov ob ces yog tib tais zaub xwb os vivnaus aw...Peb noj tsi taus cov kws nyob qhov txias txias ntev ntev li os sister because nws tsw tsw phem rau kuv os.
I don't really like to eat frozen veggies. It's not tast as good as fresh.
We younger generation we don't carry can of soda or beer to hmong party. Lol they themselves should provide all.
Lol lots of comments thinking the mil is doing the right thing 😅 one lives with me and im telling you that you're so wrong lol 😆
Move out so you can live the way you want. Let her alone ok sister. Don’t spend foolishly.
I don't see nothing wrong with bringing a case of drinks to a party. But borrowing stuff I would but if you return my stuff back broken then I won't ever borrow it again.
Spending your own money on food it okay better then be a drug addicted n a gambler😂😂😂🤣
Cov neeg Super glue ko mas nws xav kaus luag tug xwb...nws li khoom nws tsis xav pub rau luag....hom neeg ko nws pom luag qia dub tab sis nws tsis lees tias nws qia dub nawb.
Sorry, but not everyone can afford to buy a case of beer every wknd,sometimes 2 cases a wknd. There's no reason for Hmong ppl to drink this much beer. And trust me, my husband likes to bring a case everywhere, even to a kids birthday
Also, a couple wks ago, he was going to go help his friend with his wife's uncles funeral as the friends kis. I'm all for going to go help his friend, but my hub wanted money for sunshine donation. And I'm like no, you can go help your friend, but there's no need to donate, you don't even know the uncle's name. We argued, but I guess I'm super glue like your mil.
Koj niam pog yog greedy xwb os... kuv kuj have greedy mind thiab tabsis yam yuav noj ces kim los kawg yuav xwb os......KOJ YOG NEEG TSIS GREEDY XWB OS. Yeejmeem ua zoo li yus ua tau os mog
Yeah the in law just helped u safe money. Og think different then young people..don’t expect others do like u… u can’t do like then either.. hais kom haum nyias ua nyias noj xwb …😅
Hmm, doesn’t sound like your mother-in-law is super-glue. She’s just conservative. Learn from her, don’t over buy to waste.
Perhaps you were too judgmental of your MIL, you don't know what shit she went thru, perhaps food was scarce when she grew up, money was hard to come by, you should STOP complaining about her and learn to understand her.
You hmong young meka Dil complain too much. She's trying to help teach you because ask yourself do you eat everything you buy. I don't think so. Yes there's no problem being nice but you have to know your limits because people will take advantage of you.