For those asking why this was cut, Ari Aster has said that his ultimate goal with the film was there to be no sense of comfort, no sense of familial togetherness, but rather a family that's literally letting it's grief and inner resentments eat them from the inside out (this is why, in the opening scenes, Steve asking Peter how he feels and Annie asking if Charlie feels like crying are respectively met with a shrug and silence). It's like how Peter and Annie try to live life like the paint thinner incident never happened, or Steve just tries to behave like everything is normal after Charlie's death, or how Peter's automatic response to the car incident is to drive home and behave like it never happened. Anything but facing the awful truth. Peter sobbing in his Dad's arms and opening up emotionally, and hearing the mother say "I'm sorry" demonstrates a remorsefulness and expressiveness that goes against the constant suppression of emotions that permeates the film. There is supposed to be no tension release after the family fight, just the family falling deeper and deeper into their pit of despair. Ari has gone on record to say that the final cut of the film is very much in line with his original vision for this story.
As good as it is, I'm glad they left this out. Ari was exactly right, it would have shown levels of empathy and sympathy they don't go with the tone of the movie. Each parent breaking down individually in their cars showed just enough vulnerability without giving the audience a sense of comfort.
@@uNkLeRaRa4 disagree. There were clear signs of empathy and sympathy, especially from the father. He tried taking Peter away and tried the best he could to shield Peter when he was freaking out about his mother becoming possessed by Charlie(Paimon). Even his mother said "I wish I could take the pain away about what happened", (at least something similar)during the dinner fight. This movie was excellent, but this scene would've made the final act even more emotionally horrifying. Obviously these are opinions and I am still satisfied with the final product, but I would like to watch a version with this scene edited in access the emotional impact.
@@jamminbear72 If your reaction to the final scene is to laugh, then no amount of extra scenes would've made you attached. You and your mother are the typical moviegoers, never immersed.
Honestly wish they kept this scene in. It grounds the family after the fight and makes what happens to them all the more tragic. You wonder if it was the cult who caused all the trauma in their life that leads them to be so divided now.
@@membarassingbcus the movie is not about a family coming together and being stronger, its about them becoming vulnerable, broken for the end ritual to work perfectly
Idk why but Peters sobbing hits me the hardest. Don’t get me wrong, Annie’s reaction to finding Charlie’s corpse is cinematic history, but Peter is a teenager and is going through so much… usually teenage boys try to put up a front and here he is showing him being most vulnerable. A boy who wants his sister back.
I think they deleted it because there's too much catharsis and love from family members. The dad is consoling him properly, and the mom is saying sorry, which she never says. As painful and bitter and restless as it is, it's STILL too relieving.
thank you, this is my copied comment I made months ago: "For those asking why this was cut, Ari Aster has said that his ultimate goal with the film was there to be no sense of comfort, no sense of familial togetherness. Peter sobbing in his Dad's arms and opening up emotionally, and hearing the mother say "I'm sorry" shows a remorsefulness that the characters have for one another that unfortunately battled with the tone Ari has described. There is supposed to be no tension release after the family fight, just the family falling deeper and deeper into their pit of despair."
The dad consoled him before and the mom said she was sorry he was in pain in the final cut (she did not, even here, say she was sorry to his face, probably bc it was part of her denial.)
This brought a tear to my eye. Id like to think that in an alternate universe, if everyone just put aside their egos and forgave everyone, they wouldve lived passed this horrible moment in their lives. This scene wouldve redeemed everyone... I get why Ari removed this, it relieved too much of the loneliness and tension that exists in the original film.
The amount of grief in this film is overwhelming, fucking hell like you could only imagine what these people are going through and that hits when you hear how loud Peter is crying from the mother’s room
I wish Steve got more scenes than he did. Although he wasn’t on the same level as Alex or Toni, Gabriel was a phenomenal actor and an amazing “father” to both Peter and Charlie. I hated seeing and hearing Peter cry/have panic attacks, as someone who can heavily relate to the amount of trauma he sustained. Even so, this was still an amazing movie and it’s definitely going to stick with me for the long run.
What's amazing is that Ari Aster actually murdered the actors' families to make them deliver realistic grieving performances. Incredible dedication by the director!
Well , that's technically the reason why they cut it in the first place . Ari aster wanted the family to feel like it was falling apart , avoid of any emotional togetherness . This scene felt too heartfelt and too " oh , this family cares for each other " and that's why it was cut . It was too , err , nice . Sorry , I'm not that good at explaining . Haha .
I understand why Ari Aster deleted this. They performed really well but it really takes out the horror of the movie and makes you feel comfortable, which Ari Aster don't want his audiences to feel at all.
gosh, i felt a lump in my throat watching this. the "I'm sorry dad" and the "its my fault, its all my fault" just really hit me. Ive cried like that before, I've said those words as i just felt so empty. i felt like everyone was angry at me, and i blamed myself. The feeling that you can never apologize enough just hurts so deeply, i just felt this scene way harder than i was expecting
Oh my god the way Alex portrays grief and emotional pain is phonemenal! When he breaksdown sobbing in his fathers arms its almost as if there is an unbearable pain lingering in his body which flawlessly represents the absolute pain inside when losing someone you love, this almost made me want to tear up because the way the emotions are displayed are so perfectly accurate it reflects on to the viewers. This movie was definitely underated and deserved so much more
I can understand why this would've disrupted the flow of the family's descent into animosity if it had been included in the film (especially how it's juxtaposed with the infamous dinner scene), but Wolff's delivery here is as hard hitting as I've ever seen as far as expressing remorse goes in a film (deleted scene or not). You can almost start to feel his pain.
Cause I think Annie felt guilty about what she did aggressively at him. And I think she wasn't only just mad. She was just frustrated for herself not at Peter probably. I think she was just frustrated because no one says anything about what happened which feels like they're lying to her.
wow. This is my first time seeing this, but this was an amazing and emotional scene for the family, they should have kept in. It shows how pain, grief and guilt hits at once when there is a loss in the family, a feeling we’ve all been through. And Annie’s small “I’m sorry” before breaking down herself. I wonder if she’s internally apologizing to Peter from afar for making him feel guilty, or not protecting him from the thought of him feeling like it’s all his fault. You can imagine how painful it is for a parent to to hear their child say they wish they were dead or that they’re nothing simply because of an accident. I wish I could’ve held them all.
@@Korosareta youre completely right. So far Ari Aster has made 2 AMAZING movies. not joking hereditary and midsommar are some of my favorite movies of all time. the acting is always amazing in his films. i cant wait to see more from him!
@@ptralx3122 Without hesitation, I agree that he has made some of the best movies, ever. he has many other shorts/films that I'd like to see, I hear they're all very unnerving
This is just an amazing scene. Even though it wasn’t in the film, it makes me think it happened. The way at the end they’re all grieving and crying. This gives a level of comfort that the movie lacked for good reason, since it’s about how this family is falling into the endless machine that is Paimon. It’s an amazingly put together scene. Annie crying in her bed while they cry in the other room. Everyone is sorry. Everyone is upset. It’s definitely eye opening for me to see Peter feel grief cause in the directors cut it just felt like he was so empty.
I’ve only seen this film a handful of times, but I would have openly sobbed if this scene was in the movie. The emotion in Alex’s voice in his lines and Gabriel’s character comforting him just hits so hard for me because I’ve been in the exact same position Alex’s character was. Feeling guilt over a loss in the family, feeling like it could have been preventable, this scene just opened up so many horrible memories for me again. While my loss was from cancer and this was from supernatural influences, the feelings still resonate.
This scene really shouldn’t have been cut. I get that Aster May have been going for show, don’t tell - but real families do have these discussions when going through hard times.
this is such a complex story and that's what it makes so good.Imagine loosing your child because of an innocent mistake of your another child now,you have both the grief of loosing your one child and seeing your another child dying in regret.What can a mother do in this situation??I hope no parents have to go through this type of traumatic incidents.
that hit me so hard so emotionally i bursted into tears it makes me feel for everyone involved the dad mom and son truly an amazing scene by the actors and i think they should have kept this in the movie
Wow! This is really hard to watch. Poor Peter. He really cares for his family and even though what happened was tragic, you could tell he has been really beating himself up about it. I really wish they had kept this in the film. Alex Wolf is quite good!!
So he did say sorry in the end! This hurts now that I watched the movie. Peter really was so traumatized he couldn't even speak or apologize. He loved his sister so much, he even wished he took her place and mentioned how talented and creative she was. I wish this was kept in. It makes them all seem like they're just victims to some darker force of nature (I don't want to spoil 😩). It also makes Peter seem more likeable and I could relate more to his grief with this scene.
no matter how hard i fucking try, i can’t get better at anything. i fucking suck at everything i want to be good at and it’s so painful watching everyone else be so good at what i want to do and i’m always stuck behind them. it’s so fucking hard to have this “be good at everything” mindset when i fucking cant do it anymore. the only reason i get happiness is when i exceed and excel in whatever it is i’m doing and im not happy anymore because im bad at everything i do. i get comfort and peace from the thought of not being alive anymore and this constant, reoccurring curse that i am forever stuck with can’t affect me anymore and i’ll finally be at peace.
I’m sorry but with how short the human life span is already, it is impossible to “be good at everything” as you say, depending on what your definition of being “good at something” is (for me I’d say it’s being better at most people and I wouldn’t say it’s close to mastery of something, just being better than average.). Seems like your mindset is abysmal asf and along with comparing your self to others will create a recipe for self destruction via self hate.
The dinner scene wouldn’t be near as harsh if this scene had been kept in the movie, but it shows how tragically this family is falling apart and how desperate they are to stay together.
This is the accurate representation of my minds every night and nobody will ever know that I’m like this, I always seem so bright and cheery but in the end this is what I am really like
One of the unfortunate things we lose with this scene is Annie hearing Peter's apology. It's not exactly clear to me when this scene would have taken place, but if it's before Annie's outburst at the dinner table, it changes the whole trajectory of Annie's character: it's not that Peter takes no responsibility, it's that Peter apologized to his dad and not her.
Because the movie is about a family falling apart. In this scene the family is actually coping together in an incredibly healthy way, which doesn’t make sense with how unstable and unhealthy the family actually is. Even just Annie and Peter saying the words “I’m sorry” breaks like 90% of the tension the movie had built up by then.
In other words, each person in the family was traumatized, regretful, and angry at each other and themselves. Because of this, they felt like they couldn’t communicate their feelings to each other, and if they did it was by shifting the blame onto someone else. This led to bottled up resentment and creates a giant rift between everyone. Them being so communicative, so supportive, and so willing to accept their own fault in the situation in this scene solves the ENTIRE emotional conflict of the movie WAY too early on.
They should have kept this in. I found his cries at the end comical sounding, but this genuine grief would have made it less jarring. Hope that makes sense
Man this made me cry. I kinda relate to this because I'm depressed and this is what my mind saying to me all the time. It's really difficult and exhausting.
For those asking why this was cut, Ari Aster has said that his ultimate goal with the film was there to be no sense of comfort, no sense of familial togetherness, but rather a family that's literally letting it's grief and inner resentments eat them from the inside out (this is why, in the opening scenes, Steve asking Peter how he feels and Annie asking if Charlie feels like crying are respectively met with a shrug and silence). It's like how Peter and Annie try to live life like the paint thinner incident never happened, or Steve just tries to behave like everything is normal after Charlie's death, or how Peter's automatic response to the car incident is to drive home and behave like it never happened. Anything but facing the awful truth.
Peter sobbing in his Dad's arms and opening up emotionally, and hearing the mother say "I'm sorry" demonstrates a remorsefulness and expressiveness that goes against the constant suppression of emotions that permeates the film. There is supposed to be no tension release after the family fight, just the family falling deeper and deeper into their pit of despair. Ari has gone on record to say that the final cut of the film is very much in line with his original vision for this story.
As good as it is, I'm glad they left this out. Ari was exactly right, it would have shown levels of empathy and sympathy they don't go with the tone of the movie. Each parent breaking down individually in their cars showed just enough vulnerability without giving the audience a sense of comfort.
@@uNkLeRaRa4 disagree. There were clear signs of empathy and sympathy, especially from the father. He tried taking Peter away and tried the best he could to shield Peter when he was freaking out about his mother becoming possessed by Charlie(Paimon). Even his mother said "I wish I could take the pain away about what happened", (at least something similar)during the dinner fight. This movie was excellent, but this scene would've made the final act even more emotionally horrifying.
Obviously these are opinions and I am still satisfied with the final product, but I would like to watch a version with this scene edited in access the emotional impact.
It’s great that we have it though. The writing and their performances are so raw and heartbreaking.
@@jamminbear72 If your reaction to the final scene is to laugh, then no amount of extra scenes would've made you attached. You and your mother are the typical moviegoers, never immersed.
There was no hope.
The dad was such a good person. He really tried to help his family
Did he die I can’t remember
@@HakrTheAnimator he did
@@ptolomeaz ur telling me that poor man died
@@soupinacup Yes
@@soupinacup he got burnt alive😭
The way grief is presented in this movie will forever fuck me up. It's one of the best portrayels I've ever seen in my life
I highly recommend the hbo series Six Feet Under
it’s horrifyingly realistic. especially annie’s crying and screaming
@@sloop3720it’s way too incredibly realistic😭😭😭
As a person who lives with grief and regret everyday... It's very accurate... My soul is... On its last leg.
That last "Dad, I'm so sorry." God knows where Alex Wolff had to go to get that delivery.
and then it was deleted 😭
1:32 it doesn't even sound like good acting, it sounds like he's not even acting at all. Just 100% real. That's talent right there.
Honestly wish they kept this scene in. It grounds the family after the fight and makes what happens to them all the more tragic. You wonder if it was the cult who caused all the trauma in their life that leads them to be so divided now.
Same but it ruins the point of the movie
@@SirPancakethethird can i ask why you thought so?
@@membarassing the guy who made the video made a comment that explains it better than I could
@@SirPancakethethird oh i see, thx
@@membarassingbcus the movie is not about a family coming together and being stronger, its about them becoming vulnerable, broken for the end ritual to work perfectly
Idk why but Peters sobbing hits me the hardest.
Don’t get me wrong, Annie’s reaction to finding Charlie’s corpse is cinematic history, but Peter is a teenager and is going through so much… usually teenage boys try to put up a front and here he is showing him being most vulnerable. A boy who wants his sister back.
Honestly I don’t think this movie would be the same without his acting
This movie is almost real it feels so real they are all amazing actors. You are right I completely agree with this!!
I think they deleted it because there's too much catharsis and love from family members. The dad is consoling him properly, and the mom is saying sorry, which she never says. As painful and bitter and restless as it is, it's STILL too relieving.
thank you, this is my copied comment I made months ago: "For those asking why this was cut, Ari Aster has said that his ultimate goal with the film was there to be no sense of comfort, no sense of familial togetherness. Peter sobbing in his Dad's arms and opening up emotionally, and hearing the mother say "I'm sorry" shows a remorsefulness that the characters have for one another that unfortunately battled with the tone Ari has described. There is supposed to be no tension release after the family fight, just the family falling deeper and deeper into their pit of despair."
The dad consoled him before and the mom said she was sorry he was in pain in the final cut (she did not, even here, say she was sorry to his face, probably bc it was part of her denial.)
This brought a tear to my eye. Id like to think that in an alternate universe, if everyone just put aside their egos and forgave everyone, they wouldve lived passed this horrible moment in their lives. This scene wouldve redeemed everyone... I get why Ari removed this, it relieved too much of the loneliness and tension that exists in the original film.
The amount of grief in this film is overwhelming, fucking hell like you could only imagine what these people are going through and that hits when you hear how loud Peter is crying from the mother’s room
I wish Steve got more scenes than he did. Although he wasn’t on the same level as Alex or Toni, Gabriel was a phenomenal actor and an amazing “father” to both Peter and Charlie. I hated seeing and hearing Peter cry/have panic attacks, as someone who can heavily relate to the amount of trauma he sustained. Even so, this was still an amazing movie and it’s definitely going to stick with me for the long run.
What's amazing is that Ari Aster actually murdered the actors' families to make them deliver realistic grieving performances. Incredible dedication by the director!
Bro 💀💀💀😅😅😅
It's true. Now Alex Wolff is just The Naked Brother Band.
I swear the director was like "nope, this is too good. Can't have that"
Prolly couldn’t find a good place to fit it in
Well , that's technically the reason why they cut it in the first place .
Ari aster wanted the family to feel like it was falling apart , avoid of any emotional togetherness . This scene felt too heartfelt and too " oh , this family cares for each other " and that's why it was cut . It was too , err , nice . Sorry , I'm not that good at explaining . Haha .
I understand why Ari Aster deleted this. They performed really well but it really takes out the horror of the movie and makes you feel comfortable, which Ari Aster don't want his audiences to feel at all.
This is one of my favorite movies ever and I just discovered this scene. I am sobbing. Holy shit this was powerful.
saaammme especially with anie 😭😭😭
he’s so talented ): i cried over this scene
i havent even watched the actual movie and im over here crying about a deleted screne
real
Did you end up watching it
gosh, i felt a lump in my throat watching this. the "I'm sorry dad" and the "its my fault, its all my fault" just really hit me. Ive cried like that before, I've said those words as i just felt so empty. i felt like everyone was angry at me, and i blamed myself. The feeling that you can never apologize enough just hurts so deeply, i just felt this scene way harder than i was expecting
Oh my god the way Alex portrays grief and emotional pain is phonemenal! When he breaksdown sobbing in his fathers arms its almost as if there is an unbearable pain lingering in his body which flawlessly represents the absolute pain inside when losing someone you love, this almost made me want to tear up because the way the emotions are displayed are so perfectly accurate it reflects on to the viewers. This movie was definitely underated and deserved so much more
I love how Peters dad comforting him and trying to make him not cry..poor Peter
I can understand why this would've disrupted the flow of the family's descent into animosity if it had been included in the film (especially how it's juxtaposed with the infamous dinner scene), but Wolff's delivery here is as hard hitting as I've ever seen as far as expressing remorse goes in a film (deleted scene or not). You can almost start to feel his pain.
The dad’s death HURT :(
I kind of miss crying like this. It lets out so much
holy shit. alex is such an amazing actor
The body count may be a tear count but the crying is so well done. Even Alex Wolff as he goofed up a few parts still was amazing.
1:43 Annie also quietly apologizes for Peter for yelling at him. It could've been domestic violence.
Cause I think Annie felt guilty about what she did aggressively at him. And I think she wasn't only just mad. She was just frustrated for herself not at Peter probably. I think she was just frustrated because no one says anything about what happened which feels like they're lying to her.
Honestly if they kept this scene it would’ve made it harder to watch this movie. How they portray grief and guilt in this scene feels so real.
man that guy was such a good dad
wow. This is my first time seeing this, but this was an amazing and emotional scene for the family, they should have kept in. It shows how pain, grief and guilt hits at once when there is a loss in the family, a feeling we’ve all been through. And Annie’s small “I’m sorry” before breaking down herself. I wonder if she’s internally apologizing to Peter from afar for making him feel guilty, or not protecting him from the thought of him feeling like it’s all his fault. You can imagine how painful it is for a parent to to hear their child say they wish they were dead or that they’re nothing simply because of an accident. I wish I could’ve held them all.
Okay I'm glad they cut this out or I would have been sobbing in front of my friends at the cinema 😭 His delivery breaks me.
I can feel their pain. and i still love peter's crying haha
He's such a great actor. And the only good thing about OLD
It's crazy how good the actors in Ari Asters films are, it's so intense it's like you're really watching someone you care about breaking down
@@Korosareta youre completely right. So far Ari Aster has made 2 AMAZING movies. not joking hereditary and midsommar are some of my favorite movies of all time. the acting is always amazing in his films. i cant wait to see more from him!
@@ptralx3122 Without hesitation, I agree that he has made some of the best movies, ever. he has many other shorts/films that I'd like to see, I hear they're all very unnerving
i wonder why they took this scene out. it's amazing
I just learned the original air time for this movie was 3 hours so they cut an entire hour out. Guess this was part of that hour unfortunately
@@BigNate21659 ahhh makes sense. but this was an insane movie they shoulda kept it at 3 hours, we needed all of this lol
@@QueenMel_ nah facts I would've had no problem sitting through another hour lol
@@QueenMel_ they shoulda made 2 parts
@@BigNate21659 A director's cut with the full three hours would be great. I would buy it
Oh Lord, just when I thought this movie was done wrenching my heart! This is so sad, but also relieving in kind of a painful way. Peter, poor baby!
This is just an amazing scene. Even though it wasn’t in the film, it makes me think it happened. The way at the end they’re all grieving and crying. This gives a level of comfort that the movie lacked for good reason, since it’s about how this family is falling into the endless machine that is Paimon. It’s an amazingly put together scene. Annie crying in her bed while they cry in the other room. Everyone is sorry. Everyone is upset. It’s definitely eye opening for me to see Peter feel grief cause in the directors cut it just felt like he was so empty.
he’s so real for that
They should have kept this scene. Not that the movie really needs any more indescribable grief and agony, but it adds a lot to Peter as a character.
I’ve only seen this film a handful of times, but I would have openly sobbed if this scene was in the movie. The emotion in Alex’s voice in his lines and Gabriel’s character comforting him just hits so hard for me because I’ve been in the exact same position Alex’s character was. Feeling guilt over a loss in the family, feeling like it could have been preventable, this scene just opened up so many horrible memories for me again.
While my loss was from cancer and this was from supernatural influences, the feelings still resonate.
Why does this scene always make me cry
God, this movie must’ve been emotionally exhausting for everyone involved. Imagine having to cry everyday of filming like that.
i wish i had a dad like him
This scene really shouldn’t have been cut. I get that Aster May have been going for show, don’t tell - but real families do have these discussions when going through hard times.
The power of acting
Bad move on the director this scene was so needed. It would have made the dads death hurt so much more. Alex did so good!
this is such a complex story and that's what it makes so good.Imagine loosing your child because of an innocent mistake of your another child now,you have both the grief of loosing your one child and seeing your another child dying in regret.What can a mother do in this situation??I hope no parents have to go through this type of traumatic incidents.
Any time i watch the movie i pause it after the dinner fight scene and come watch this cause it adds so much to the families grief.
that hit me so hard so emotionally i bursted into tears it makes me feel for everyone involved the dad mom and son truly an amazing scene by the actors and i think they should have kept this in the movie
Wow! This is really hard to watch. Poor Peter. He really cares for his family and even though what happened was tragic, you could tell he has been really beating himself up about it. I really wish they had kept this in the film. Alex Wolf is quite good!!
This is absolutely heartbreaking
I wish they kept this in. I fuqin bursted into tears seeing Peter break down and saying he's nothing.
So he did say sorry in the end! This hurts now that I watched the movie. Peter really was so traumatized he couldn't even speak or apologize. He loved his sister so much, he even wished he took her place and mentioned how talented and creative she was. I wish this was kept in. It makes them all seem like they're just victims to some darker force of nature (I don't want to spoil 😩). It also makes Peter seem more likeable and I could relate more to his grief with this scene.
Crying like this is always the worst :(
1:02 I was was waiting for this moment 😭😭
no matter how hard i fucking try, i can’t get better at anything. i fucking suck at everything i want to be good at and it’s so painful watching everyone else be so good at what i want to do and i’m always stuck behind them. it’s so fucking hard to have this “be good at everything” mindset when i fucking cant do it anymore. the only reason i get happiness is when i exceed and excel in whatever it is i’m doing and im not happy anymore because im bad at everything i do. i get comfort and peace from the thought of not being alive anymore and this constant, reoccurring curse that i am forever stuck with can’t affect me anymore and i’ll finally be at peace.
I’m sorry but with how short the human life span is already, it is impossible to “be good at everything” as you say, depending on what your definition of being “good at something” is (for me I’d say it’s being better at most people and I wouldn’t say it’s close to mastery of something, just being better than average.). Seems like your mindset is abysmal asf and along with comparing your self to others will create a recipe for self destruction via self hate.
holy shit you said everything I’m feeling right now
same
Havent even seen this film and this scene made me cry. The acting is amazing
Bro I'm sobbing..they shouldn't have cut this.
Wow. This is such a great scene. Peters emotion and then Annie hearing!! WOW chills
The dinner scene wouldn’t be near as harsh if this scene had been kept in the movie, but it shows how tragically this family is falling apart and how desperate they are to stay together.
oh my fucking god - the catharsis Im feeling from this FIVE years after seing this movie knowing this is what both of them needed
I had the exact same conversation with my dad (except I didn't accidentally lose my sister).
Crying in a parents arms like that is terrifying. I know that, it's happened to me and it hurts like hell.
I kinda wish this scene would have been kept in the original. Alex Wolff performance in this film is excellent in my opinion.
Made me tear up god i love this movie
Currently losing it.
These deleted scenes are great
It breaks my heart every time
What an amazing ensemble of actors
One of the best things in this movie is that everyone is so relatable and this scene just hits so hard
Really wish they kept this in
hes just like me fr
This one scene is so so so heart touching i wonder WHY this isn't in the full film . This part has just literally made me cry...
Fucking cinematic masterpiece
Another great cut.
1:10 The things he says are honestly reletable
This scene needed to be in the movie. Period.
This is the accurate representation of my minds every night and nobody will ever know that I’m like this, I always seem so bright and cheery but in the end this is what I am really like
This is the first time I’ve seen this scene. I understand why it was cut but it definitely would have made feel better about the characters.
Jesus fucking Christ I'm gonna sob
One of the unfortunate things we lose with this scene is Annie hearing Peter's apology. It's not exactly clear to me when this scene would have taken place, but if it's before Annie's outburst at the dinner table, it changes the whole trajectory of Annie's character: it's not that Peter takes no responsibility, it's that Peter apologized to his dad and not her.
This scene is supposed to be right after.
why on earth would they take this out. im almost crying myself and i’ve never cried watching a movie before
Because the movie is about a family falling apart. In this scene the family is actually coping together in an incredibly healthy way, which doesn’t make sense with how unstable and unhealthy the family actually is. Even just Annie and Peter saying the words “I’m sorry” breaks like 90% of the tension the movie had built up by then.
In other words, each person in the family was traumatized, regretful, and angry at each other and themselves. Because of this, they felt like they couldn’t communicate their feelings to each other, and if they did it was by shifting the blame onto someone else. This led to bottled up resentment and creates a giant rift between everyone. Them being so communicative, so supportive, and so willing to accept their own fault in the situation in this scene solves the ENTIRE emotional conflict of the movie WAY too early on.
Dang, even the deleted scenes are brutal 😳
They should have kept this in. I found his cries at the end comical sounding, but this genuine grief would have made it less jarring. Hope that makes sense
I really wish that they would've added this
God damn this film 😢😢😢
This film is absolutely perfect.
Well this is depressing.
Why the fuck did they delete this scene?! It’s so effective just watching it I want to cry.
Made me feel sick. This movie was crazy good
Real.
oh my god i’m sobbjny
felt.
Knowing this scene is here and knowing Ari cut it just makes the film even more sad. There’s never a breath of love and forgiveness.
This was such a good scene 🥺
They should’ve KEPT THIS! What a delivery
I wish I seen this when I was watching the movie
Terrific acting
Man this made me cry. I kinda relate to this because I'm depressed and this is what my mind saying to me all the time. It's really difficult and exhausting.
I've been looking for this quote for so long-
My dad would’ve just beat me
I was watching it in 1.75x without realizing it so when he start crying i was like why they are talking so fast 😭
Best alex wolffs performance