I had a boyfriend that would call me pumpkin. I believe he thought it was cute but I spiralled and lost 10kg 😂 we then broke up because he didn't like skinny.... so was he calling me cute chubby or? 😂
Why do I even go to work when I could just email random desperate women and get free money? 🧐 Sheeesh! I wouldn’t even give money to a guy I’m dating in person!
😂 You go to work because you’re a DECENT PERSON! And it’s most likely that you believe in a Divine Power that would Not Approve of your defrauding unsuspecting Lonely Women.
Some people just have no morals. It's so sad. I'm right there with you; I wouldn't give my money to the guy I'm dating either. Lord, help this lady see the truth!
Did you eat today my King? WHere can I send you my life savings and the deed to my home? Sigh......you're SO handsome!!!! Do you have a hairy....chest?!?!??!
I can’t believe how many women fall for the Queen line. I mean.. my empathy has run out and I think they’re willing participants in a fantasy to get hits of attention of being needed. Just like gambling. Pathetic
I have been in relationship with a man 30 years younger than me. We have been inseparable for eight years. I am sixty seven, in great shape, not fat, and highly educated. He works hard and brings so much to our relationship. I don't expect it to last forever, but I will love him until the day that I die
If she's truly a woman of faith then she'd know her true self worth as a daughter of God in the Kingdom of Light. She is heavenly royalty. But not queen. That role is taken.
I'm English and years ago my 20 year old friend met a man on holiday while she was in Tunisia. I tried to talk sense to her and she fell out with me. She sent him money for crazy reasons , brought him to the UK, married him and when he got his paperwork through brought his Tunisian wife and children over.
They were married and are now widowed/divorced and got the money from that. Or they worked hard their whole life, have a nest egg, but are lonely and want to'help' people they care about.
that's the part that always gets me. Alot of Americans never left this country let alone their own state I swear! Ignorance is bliss so these people might be the most blissful on the plant!
How do you meet someone online & fall in love!!!! Why in the world would you mail someone tons of money without ever meeting them face to face. I’ll never understand how you fall in love with a picture or a voice on the phone and without ever knowing a real person. Entirely to many keyboard warriors out there to know if they are legit.
As long as he is Nigerian and you are asking, yes, he is scamming you. If it was just him being Nigerian, maybe not. If it was just you asking, maybe not. But the both together, definitely a yes. 💯
to be honest. He actually never changed it. His English did not allow him to identify and explain properly from what Dr Phil was asking. As much this looks like a scam, end of the day of course want to go USA. He might be genuine to be with her as she is older he would still have a lot of life if anything god forbid happened. It is definitely a better position then he is living in Nigeria. So he really was not forth coming at all. He was honest and his Whatsapp was clean. I actually believe him over all the other scams i have seen on this show and others.
I agree with you. Dr Phil and his Team didn’t find what they wanted to find. So why call him a liar. The guy clearly wants to move to the USA through her. But it was uncalled for to call him a liar.
Ugh... I hate pathetic people, especially needy ones who can't be alone. I am over 65, disabled and single for over 25 years by choice. I admit I did try online dating a few times but the few I greed to meet were just predators or men looking for free room and board AKA a mommy to take care of them Losers! I enjoy being alone and not having to take care of somebody else. I just don't understand women like this and have no compassion for them for them having a problem that they created by themselves.
How can anyone be so gullible? I know we all want love, but the level of naïveté is unbelievable. Where do they get the money they’re sending? Wasting someone poor man’s hard-earned money I bet.
Why are these middle aged women so " Hard Up" for a relationship? Especial a relationship that isn't a real person standing in front of them. Maybe they really want a relationship?
That's the question I still can't answer except for trite quips. I'm 62 & would love to get married, but the man has to provide. I'm not marrying an international or American bum!
It's perplexing😮 when people compliment me on line I 'm like😅😅😅😅😅. I want to know why these women won't help friends/family but believe these catfish monsters.
The son got it in one go. We're raised about the dangers of taking sweets from strangers (except on Halloween apparently, Lol) and yet grown women are taking sweet talk from strangers! in exchange for money. These men have no shame or qualms about taking your hard-earned money or life savings whilst calling you their "Queen" and telling how much they love you! You're getting used and abused from the other side of the world ladies! I really don't get women often go on and on about being strong and independent women and being alone is just too much for them!?
Wow, I rather have a man shower me with money and jewelry than giving a guy money that I will never meet. Reverse the roll, ask him for money, see what happens.
I understand these women, they just want to be loved and don’t want to be alone, however God gave us a brain , and maybe asking God for His wisdom I believe is something we should do and He will give it to you. He will open your eyes to the truth.
When women are older and know they have past time why do they believe these people and then send major money. Every scammer thinks their victims are beautiful when the money is flowing.
26:12 I like how he casually says that "if she goes to the Nigerian village she most likely will be kidnapped (or worse) because that's a very common occurrence". Let that sink in people.
My sister got scammed. She kept telling me about this amazing guy in the military, but he kept asking her for money because he kept claiming that he had no way to access his money because of some bs fake military protocol. She was stressed out, because he needed help and she had to help him. I googled everything he said to her, and it all fit right into the checklist of military scams 😂 I'm like...girl...the moment they start asking for money, you HAVE to be skeptical...
My aunt's mother-in-law was scammed as well, and I wish she'd watch and listen to Dr. Phil a lot more. She "entered a raffle through email" and "accidently put the prize email in her spam folder" and now "needs to pay for updated tickets to win bigger than she already has because she's already a winner but could get more." No one can get through to her that it's all a lie. 😥
This is one of my favorite episodes because it’s one of the rare times a lady does find true love on the internet. Her family is so mean to her, “What man gonna love YOU?!” Excuse me! No wonder your daughter went looking for love online - especially a relationship that removes her physical body from the forefront of their interactions. They both have pasts. But they’re connecting across continents and oceans. Good for them, dude. Haters gonna hate.
It’s usually false advertisement. Most of the times their pictures are fake and their voices are distorted. Have you ever watched the the show catfish? There are lots of desperate, crazy people out there. Sometimes they’re trying to hide their gender as well… It’s pretty scary out there.
I agree,he didn't have a bunch of woman names in phone. Invited Dr. Phil crew inside and showed his place,neighbors had good things to say.... I think he DOES LOVE HER. And Dr. Phil can't stand to be WRONG about this one
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 The woman told Dr. Phil that he (the boyfriend) told her he had scammed women! They have recorded everything that everyone said and I believe the people (Dr. Phil) they have the receipts.
@@SkinnyGuruinaMumu And yeah, maybe he was indoctrinated into scamming, but then didnt do it and "saw the light" and said, "What if I just am REAL and I really find an American woman that I can love and can love me, and yeah, she has resources. But isnt having resources and the ability to take care of someone the reason some women hook up even here in the US?
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Dr. Phil is a scammer himself. Nothing comes from him with “love”, honey. He doesn’t even have a license to practice Psychology, and he married the other woman he cheated on his first wife with. Get a grip!
I agree, but in life, a small criminal percentage of any population can taint the reputation of the whole nation/religion which is completely illogical but they stand out and remain in many people’s memories. There are however many others who take individuals as they find them. I know a fabulous Nigerian man who is married to a very good friend, he is the most upright, genuine and loviest of people and a fantastic ambassador of his country.
Some of these women give me the impression that they have the mind of a 5 year old. My queen, my fat fish, have you eaten!! If someone spoke to me like that I'd feel ridiculous .
These people just need a mirror. I am older and would never think someone fell in love with me on sight. And until you meet someone you can't 'love' them. p.s I know it's what Nigerians say but does she think he needs to ask if she has eaten.
In all the programmes Dr Phil has done on this topic there has been ZERO insight to the psychology of women who fall for these ruses. It's of no help whatsoever to keep showcasing these stories without insight into the delusional mindset. It's not simply 'vulnerability'. Most of these women would not be smitten by a broke guy half their age, who lived in the next town, that they 'met' on the internet..
I've seen dozens of episodes like this and 100% of the time, the women are past middle aged, DESPERATE and not desired elsewhere. The men know what to say to keep the long con going to get money out of these women, knowing that he won't have to meet the woman in person (unless if SHE is desperate enough to get on a plane to travel to him). Broke guys half their age in the next town do not have any incentive to run a con like this
@@HTAnderson76 None of that answers the question WHY these women fall for it? Ditto for the pale, stale, male, persona that gets duped by women half their age.
When the money stops, the scam stops. She should stop sending Victor money and see how long he keeps to talking to her. They should have asked the ScamHaters United or Catfish organization to be on that episode. They would explain to those women how scammers work and why Victor is showing his real face to her. .
😂 There’s a popular saying that “Common sense ain’t so Common”. ALso, I’ve done some research, and evidently the brain 🧠 is Negatively effected when people suffer from **Loneliness*.
@AfricansaintBlack no, I'm not manipulated into believing every accusation of racism out of fear of being called a racist. Just bc someone says it's racism doesn't make it true, and bc I don't believe their accusations doesn't make me support racism. Try that on someone else.
Dr Phil wants to prove a point, so it doesn't matter what Victor says, dr Phil will twist it around to fit his narrative of Victor being a scammer. Very unprofesional.
I work with someone who has been in a "relationship" over the phone. They've been "together" for over a year now. It's been like 8 times that she's supposedly was supposed to come here. But everytime, something would always happen. He claims she hasn't asked for money, but he has sent her some, on his own. The stuff he tells me doesn't add up. She lives states away. He doesn't think he's getting scammed. I just think he's a dumb a** for even waiting around on her. He's showed me pics of her, and I personally think he's sticking it out, cause of the way she looks. She's alot younger than him too. I know they say age doesn't matter, but in this case, I think it does. Anyone have any opinions on this?
Yo no creo que sean naive, creo que son muy narcisistas. Probablemente siempre hayan hecho lo que les ha dado la gana y siempre sintiéndose con la razón. And now ...
For goodness sake, I’m retired now but I was definitely in the wrong business😂 seriously though, my heart breaks for both lonely and kind hearted men and women who are lured by these heartless scammers. They fall in love with a fantasy. Shame on the scumbag scammers, it’s the worst kind of theft 😢😡🇬🇧 they are absolutely disgusting. Even worse than the gold scammers in Ghana☹️
“He calls me his Tomato or Fat Fish 😁🥰” you can’t make this up 😂 he is literally roasting her and she takes it as an affectionate nickname
😂😂😂😂😂 I know right shocking
I had a boyfriend that would call me pumpkin. I believe he thought it was cute but I spiralled and lost 10kg 😂 we then broke up because he didn't like skinny.... so was he calling me cute chubby or? 😂
Pumkin is an endearment, fat fish is not.@@breakfastattiffanys741
Probably 😅 Same thing with my ex but he called me baby cakes LOL@@breakfastattiffanys741
@@breakfastattiffanys741 He had fat fetish it seems. Lucky u got away.
Have you eaten today my queen? "No, I sent you my pension."
🤣😂🤣♥️💙
"We have a lot in common: he cooks and I cook."
This make me roll 😂. Like… don’t most of the people on earth cook?
@loganAFC exactly! 🤣🤣🤣
He breathes air... I breathe air!
We both drink fluids, we were meant to be together
😂😂😂 I know Right!!
Why do I even go to work when I could just email random desperate women and get free money? 🧐
Sheeesh! I wouldn’t even give money to a guy I’m dating in person!
😂 You go to work because you’re a DECENT PERSON! And it’s most likely that you believe in a Divine Power that would Not Approve of your defrauding unsuspecting Lonely Women.
Cant unless you arnt white and beg for money!!!!!
Desperate aka lonely - a very sad place to be for some people 😢
Amen
Some people just have no morals. It's so sad. I'm right there with you; I wouldn't give my money to the guy I'm dating either. Lord, help this lady see the truth!
We all need a Carmen in our lives.
I don’t think it was Victors fault they flopped on America’s got talent lol 😂
That “HA, give me a break” took me OUT!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why i come to the comments at they exact moment and see yo comment 😂😂
Oh he never asks for money. No because you keep giving it to him he doesn't have to ask😂😂. The cognitive dissonance is astounding.
Any older women want to send me some money? No scam here, I just want some 🤷🏾♂️😂💯
Just if you REALLY love me, do you?
@@alessandraferrara240 Lol!!!
Did you eat today my King? WHere can I send you my life savings and the deed to my home? Sigh......you're SO handsome!!!! Do you have a hairy....chest?!?!??!
Try in France. Women 830 000 euro to photoshoot Brad Pitt 😂
@@GalinaDimitrinova Hands off! He is mine.
No words. Except total desperation. These women are unreal. What a waste of money and time.
I can’t believe how many women fall for the Queen line. I mean.. my empathy has run out and I think they’re willing participants in a fantasy to get hits of attention of being needed. Just like gambling. Pathetic
I have been in relationship with a man 30 years younger than me.
We have been inseparable for eight years.
I am sixty seven, in great shape, not fat, and highly educated. He works hard and brings so much to our relationship.
I don't expect it to last forever, but I will love him until the day that I die
If she's truly a woman of faith then she'd know her true self worth as a daughter of God in the Kingdom of Light. She is heavenly royalty. But not queen. That role is taken.
And have you eaten
@@SSheezCrafty 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@moniqueengleman873Dumb sugar momma.
I'm English and years ago my 20 year old friend met a man on holiday while she was in Tunisia. I tried to talk sense to her and she fell out with me. She sent him money for crazy reasons , brought him to the UK, married him and when he got his paperwork through brought his Tunisian wife and children over.
yes watch on you tube HOLLIDAY RATTS
He was already married?? How on earth did that work out??
I’d like to go out for a couple drinks with Carmen so she talk some sense into me about life. 😂
Lol...😄
Where do these women get all of that money to send to these scammers????
I wonder that too
My question exactly!
They were married and are now widowed/divorced and got the money from that. Or they worked hard their whole life, have a nest egg, but are lonely and want to'help' people they care about.
Smart enough to make a small fortune, too dumb to hang onto it.
Nigerians are just getting reparations at this point 😂😂
women need to learn to be ok being alone. you do not need a man. you are better off.
I agree 100%!!!
"Dr. phil, can i ask him a question? I dont believe you at all." Hahahah carmen
This woman is so naive. He’s a scammer woman 😳😲🙄!!!
Is this the original ”Max Moose Advisor”?!
😂😭💀
Good one. I remember good old Max Moose Advisor.
Why do these women refer to Nigerian accents as French, German or whatever?
Lack of looking up actual accents? Delusion? Loneliness does a number on some people.
that's the part that always gets me. Alot of Americans never left this country let alone their own state I swear! Ignorance is bliss so these people might be the most blissful on the plant!
Ignorance
They probably know it's a Nigerian accent, but they don't want to admit it to themselves...
@@kijanailisAmerican 😅😅😅
Greetings kings & queens! Have you eaten today? 😂😂
Yes Sir, thank you for asking 😂😂😂
Common hobbies? Well, they both like her money. And they both breathe air.
Fat fish? Tomato?
If anyone called me these things I'd be insulted and not smiling. Sad.
It would end when he called me "Fat Fish".. or asks for money.. 😂😂😂
I know, fat fish would be seen as an insult by me. I am not fat, but fat fish? That is an insult
I would not be ok with anyone calling me "fat fish" 😂
he reminds her to eat? lady. you ain't forgetting to eat believe you me
Rude
@@breezeh1127 it's called have a sense of humor. lol like she does... she's his fat fish tomato haha try laughing some time ms karen
😂😂😂😂😂😂………💀 Lord forgive me for laughing, but that was funny 😆
@@breezeh1127Go buy a sense of humor
😂😂😂
How do you meet someone online & fall in love!!!! Why in the world would you mail someone tons of money without ever meeting them face to face. I’ll never understand how you fall in love with a picture or a voice on the phone and without ever knowing a real person. Entirely to many keyboard warriors out there to know if they are legit.
😂😂 @ “HOW do you meet someone Online and faLL in Love”. I believe that’s caLLed **DATING Apps** re which I wouldn’t be caught de*d using.
As long as he is Nigerian and you are asking, yes, he is scamming you. If it was just him being Nigerian, maybe not. If it was just you asking, maybe not. But the both together, definitely a yes. 💯
😂😂😂
to be honest. He actually never changed it. His English did not allow him to identify and explain properly from what Dr Phil was asking. As much this looks like a scam, end of the day of course want to go USA. He might be genuine to be with her as she is older he would still have a lot of life if anything god forbid happened. It is definitely a better position then he is living in Nigeria. So he really was not forth coming at all. He was honest and his Whatsapp was clean. I actually believe him over all the other scams i have seen on this show and others.
I agree with you.
Dr Phil and his Team didn’t find what they wanted to find. So why call him a liar. The guy clearly wants to move to the USA through her. But it was uncalled for to call him a liar.
@@shelm-b8p Oh please...... HE IS A USER. The end.
It is sad and shocking how loneliness can cloud a person’s judgement and good common sense.
Victor asks if I eaten yet
Well well does she look like she is starving lmfao 😂😂😂
The way she said yes i have eaten like its a flex 😂😂😂😂 its all cultural we dont ask that here bc food is not hard to come by.
This poor lady. I hate this for her. I hate that in this world there are people who take genuine kindness and extort it.
Ugh...
I hate pathetic people, especially needy ones who can't be alone.
I am over 65, disabled and single for over 25 years by choice. I admit I did try online dating a few times but the few I greed to meet were just predators or men looking for free room and board AKA a mommy to take care of them Losers!
I enjoy being alone and not having to take care of somebody else.
I just don't understand women like this and have no compassion for them for them having a problem that they created by themselves.
How can anyone be so gullible? I know we all want love, but the level of naïveté is unbelievable. Where do they get the money they’re sending? Wasting someone poor man’s hard-earned money I bet.
Why are these middle aged women so " Hard Up" for a relationship? Especial a relationship that isn't a real person standing in front of them. Maybe they really want a relationship?
These old ladies need to look in the mirror
That's the question I still can't answer except for trite quips. I'm 62 & would love to get married, but the man has to provide. I'm not marrying an international or American bum!
It's perplexing😮 when people compliment me on line I 'm like😅😅😅😅😅. I want to know why these women won't help friends/family but believe these catfish monsters.
Loneliness ? Get a dog or cat. It’s really very sad
@@sheilamadonia-maberry9701 same, i say flattery don't charge these batteries, like in wreck it ralph lol
The son got it in one go. We're raised about the dangers of taking sweets from strangers (except on Halloween apparently, Lol) and yet grown women are taking sweet talk from strangers! in exchange for money. These men have no shame or qualms about taking your hard-earned money or life savings whilst calling you their "Queen" and telling how much they love you! You're getting used and abused from the other side of the world ladies! I really don't get women often go on and on about being strong and independent women and being alone is just too much for them!?
Nigeria is laughing at America
If Victor loved her he would do everything possible to acquire a working visa to be with her...
Exactly 💯
He just want to come over to the states, he doesn’t love her..she’s being a fool
I don’t have to see the episode to say Absolutely! 💯
Just what I came to say!
Why?
Wow, I rather have a man shower me with money and jewelry than giving a guy money that I will never meet. Reverse the roll, ask him for money, see what happens.
Nobody has to remind here to eat. I guarantee it
I love her sister. She's hilarious and smart!❤
You've been dating him for 2 years online? No, you haven't been dating anybody. That's not a date 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Exactly! It's like when they say they've "met" someone. You haven't met ANYONE! You meet people in PERSON!
I understand these women, they just want to be loved and don’t want to be alone, however God gave us a brain , and maybe asking God for His wisdom I believe is something we should do and He will give it to you. He will open your eyes to the truth.
Have you eaten today?
Someone call me a Fat Fish 🐟 i would call 📞 him things i better not say words on Dr. Phil ,oh gosh
When women are older and know they have past time why do they believe these people and then send major money. Every scammer thinks their victims are beautiful when the money is flowing.
26:12 I like how he casually says that "if she goes to the Nigerian village she most likely will be kidnapped (or worse) because that's a very common occurrence". Let that sink in people.
" but if he WAFFLES..." 😅😂 Please tell me what does a waffle do for ppl to use it as an analogy lol! "Ugh he WAFFLED me!!!" 😂
It means to talk on and on and on. Example: Elon Musk was waffling.
My sister got scammed.
She kept telling me about this amazing guy in the military, but he kept asking her for money because he kept claiming that he had no way to access his money because of some bs fake military protocol. She was stressed out, because he needed help and she had to help him.
I googled everything he said to her, and it all fit right into the checklist of military scams 😂
I'm like...girl...the moment they start asking for money, you HAVE to be skeptical...
Did she believe you?
Without even watching I can tell you the answer is YES. Stop sending "Any Man" money. A real man will not ask for money let alone take it from you.
I love Dr. Phil. He seems like a genuine dude.
Bots are so dumb
@@miramuchachito296 I actually think the good "doctor" needs his family to look into assisted living facilities. He's lost his friggin marbles
My aunt's mother-in-law was scammed as well, and I wish she'd watch and listen to Dr. Phil a lot more. She "entered a raffle through email" and "accidently put the prize email in her spam folder" and now "needs to pay for updated tickets to win bigger than she already has because she's already a winner but could get more." No one can get through to her that it's all a lie. 😥
The AGT bit had me creased 😂
I don’t even think the guy that Dr. Phil hired was honest
Nothing Dr. Phil does is honest. Even Oprah is disgusted with him now.
@@TheKindDoc she sets the standards of scamming and dishonesty. She is a disgusting creature.
@@TheKindDocOprah is not one to trust. Ask Epstein..or anyone in Maui
@TheKindDoc set is a master at deception, appearing to be something she's not.
@@TheKindDocIs she? Why?
This is one of my favorite episodes because it’s one of the rare times a lady does find true love
on the internet. Her family is so mean to her, “What man gonna love YOU?!” Excuse me! No wonder your daughter went looking for love online - especially a relationship that removes her physical body from the forefront of their interactions. They both have pasts. But they’re connecting across continents and oceans. Good for them, dude. Haters gonna hate.
It’s usually false advertisement. Most of the times their pictures are fake and their voices are distorted. Have you ever watched the the show catfish? There are lots of desperate, crazy people out there. Sometimes they’re trying to hide their gender as well… It’s pretty scary out there.
he's a scammer, like those jamaican young men who pretend to love old f@t white women then get to the uk, get the green card and yeet
I agree,he didn't have a bunch of woman names in phone. Invited Dr. Phil crew inside and showed his place,neighbors had good things to say.... I think he DOES LOVE HER. And Dr. Phil can't stand to be WRONG about this one
"Anyone can walk into a McDonald's and call themselves a cheeseburger" 😂😂😂😂 That one took me me offguard 💀💀💀💀
Maybe in the first case, he is not looking for money but wanted a move to the USA. It is still a huge improvement from the guy's current situation.
HE NEVER SAID HE HAD SCAMMED WOMEN! He said he was exposed to it from others recruiting him. Phil is so dishonest.
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 The woman told Dr. Phil that he (the boyfriend) told her he had scammed women! They have recorded everything that everyone said and I believe the people (Dr. Phil) they have the receipts.
What about those mail order bride advertisements, how is that different?
If he was “exposed” to it, he scammed them.
@@SkinnyGuruinaMumu And yeah, maybe he was indoctrinated into scamming, but then didnt do it and "saw the light" and said, "What if I just am REAL and I really find an American woman that I can love and can love me, and yeah, she has resources. But isnt having resources and the ability to take care of someone the reason some women hook up even here in the US?
@ Are you on the pipe?
The unforgettable Carmen !
"my fat fish" lordyyyy
😂😂😂 Right!!
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He didn't want to live with scammers so I flew him to Nigeria 😂 3:16
I just love Dr Phil. He says it like it is but always from a loving place
Dr. Phil is a scammer himself. Nothing comes from him with “love”, honey. He doesn’t even have a license to practice Psychology, and he married the other woman he cheated on his first wife with. Get a grip!
Queen….did it for me ….Nigerians use this name always
My sons male roommate has fallen for this for years.
Dont these women look in the mirror? 😮 Im sorry ive heard it all wheni was young. Now im in my 60's. No guy wants us at this age! What fools!
Im a little disturbed by the way they were talking about Nigeria. Nigeria is a huge country with so much beauty and culture. And so much to offer.
Absolutely agree...We are not all scammers in Nigeria
I agree, but in life, a small criminal percentage of any population can taint the reputation of the whole nation/religion which is completely illogical but they stand out and remain in many people’s memories. There are however many others who take individuals as they find them. I know a fabulous Nigerian man who is married to a very good friend, he is the most upright, genuine and loviest of people and a fantastic ambassador of his country.
@@shabbysuzannah3702On point.
But soooo many scammers come from there 😭😭
But it’s known for scammers for a reason.
You want to throw away money throw it my way. 😂😂
If he's Nigerian and he loves you, then he's a scammer! End of 🤦♀️
Some of these women give me the impression that they have the mind of a 5 year old. My queen, my fat fish, have you eaten!! If someone spoke to me like that I'd feel ridiculous .
Awe, Victor actually seemed so nice
These people just need a mirror. I am older and would never think someone fell in love with me on sight. And until you meet someone you can't 'love' them. p.s I know it's what Nigerians say but does she think he needs to ask if she has eaten.
I don't like Dr. Phil but I do like watching him shake these people back to reality.
In all the programmes Dr Phil has done on this topic there has been ZERO insight to the psychology of women who fall for these ruses. It's of no help whatsoever to keep showcasing these stories without insight into the delusional mindset. It's not simply 'vulnerability'. Most of these women would not be smitten by a broke guy half their age, who lived in the next town, that they 'met' on the internet..
They pay to play. 🤷♀️
I've seen dozens of episodes like this and 100% of the time, the women are past middle aged, DESPERATE and not desired elsewhere. The men know what to say to keep the long con going to get money out of these women, knowing that he won't have to meet the woman in person (unless if SHE is desperate enough to get on a plane to travel to him).
Broke guys half their age in the next town do not have any incentive to run a con like this
@@HTAnderson76 None of that answers the question WHY these women fall for it? Ditto for the pale, stale, male, persona that gets duped by women half their age.
Carmen is my new spirit ani..person! 😂😂😂❤
I wish I had the money they sent, I could use it, to get my plumbing fixed
When the money stops, the scam stops. She should stop sending Victor money and see how long he keeps to talking to her. They should have asked the ScamHaters United or Catfish organization to be on that episode. They would explain to those women how scammers work and why Victor is showing his real face to her. .
I am amazed at how stupid people are in this country...what is wrong with people? These women have common sense or intuition.
Hella men falling for it too. It's like God gave you a brain please use it!
😂 There’s a popular saying that “Common sense ain’t so Common”. ALso, I’ve done some research, and evidently the brain 🧠 is Negatively effected when people suffer from **Loneliness*.
They will say what ever you want to hear. You love what they say. You dont know them. To sad for words....
Maybe Dr Phil can buy these ladies some mirrors 😊
You know what's funny? Phil is super rich and super famous but not a single scammer pretends to be him... hmmmm
What did i just watch😭
Yes... He is not a Nigerian Prince.
12:55 needs to be a TikTok sound HOOOHHHHMAHGAH
Big sister is hilarious😂😂
What % of these women earned the money they have sent? ... A divorce settelement doesn't count as earned ...
Isolation is a part of scam their criminology, a cj major at SAC.
I breath air ! He breathes air ! We're meant to be !!
Yeah! He misses her money not her. How can you send money to a total stranger? Scary!
Is Victor looking to get out of Nigeria? Most definitely, yes. But Dr. Phil was giving off racist vibes bc most of Victor’s story checked out.
Racist?? 🙄🙄 so played out...
@ yes, being racist is played out, thanks for confirming.
@@AfricansaintBlack accusing everyone of racism for everything is so annoying 🙄
@ retaliating against folks mentioning possible racism instead of advocating to cease racism is wild. Be blessed.
@AfricansaintBlack no, I'm not manipulated into believing every accusation of racism out of fear of being called a racist. Just bc someone says it's racism doesn't make it true, and bc I don't believe their accusations doesn't make me support racism. Try that on someone else.
Not the scammers in the comments 😂
Carmen is so funny 😂😂,
Dr Phil wants to prove a point, so it doesn't matter what Victor says, dr Phil will twist it around to fit his narrative of Victor being a scammer. Very unprofesional.
I work with someone who has been in a "relationship" over the phone. They've been "together" for over a year now. It's been like 8 times that she's supposedly was supposed to come here. But everytime, something would always happen. He claims she hasn't asked for money, but he has sent her some, on his own. The stuff he tells me doesn't add up. She lives states away. He doesn't think he's getting scammed. I just think he's a dumb a** for even waiting around on her. He's showed me pics of her, and I personally think he's sticking it out, cause of the way she looks. She's alot younger than him too. I know they say age doesn't matter, but in this case, I think it does. Anyone have any opinions on this?
Yo no creo que sean naive, creo que son muy narcisistas. Probablemente siempre hayan hecho lo que les ha dado la gana y siempre sintiéndose con la razón. And now ...
For goodness sake, I’m retired now but I was definitely in the wrong business😂 seriously though, my heart breaks for both lonely and kind hearted men and women who are lured by these heartless scammers. They fall in love with a fantasy. Shame on the scumbag scammers, it’s the worst kind of theft 😢😡🇬🇧 they are absolutely disgusting. Even worse than the gold scammers in Ghana☹️
Loneliness is real 😢
Whats worse loneliness or loneliness without your money?? Most have families
I love Carmen so much😂🩷