They're only about money and whatever they can get from you! They'll tell you anything you want to hear, but their actions never lines up with what they say! Venemous lies!
"constant business" is the biggest red flag when it comes to lack of interest/attraction. If you ask her out twice and shes busy and she doesn't try to reschedule, just move on bro. You don't even have to say anything, just leave her in the dust.
I will never trust a woman again no matter what she said , no matter how innocent or good she is , anytime she could leave , and I'll be prepared....I lost women I thought would never leave me...promises which seems sooo deep yet breaks in seconds...I lose my hope in dating now, I'll never ever gona trust that a girl will marry me...ever again...its just my turn
Exactly! I wish I could start a channel and teach men that love is not real. The romantic love you saw in movies growing up, is fantasy. You have the right mindset! You got it bro hit that gym and just have fun with these women until it’s not fun anymore!😅
@@masharion good job. You’re only 4 years older than my son. Proud of you bruh! Hit that gym, stack your money and save , travel and take care of your mind and body. Just have fun with women. When it’s not fun any longer and any headaches come, leave and onto the next. Simple!
I've been through this, and I'm still caught in that rabbit hole. Your insights have truly opened my eyes, and now I know what steps I need to take. Thank you.
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust 2. Ambivalence 3. Commitment Phobia 4. Surface Level Conversations 5. No Intro to Friends and Family 6. Lack of Curiosity about You
I like your head tie @sister Jessica of God😆, it really fits you and thank you ALWAYS for being concerned about us and our affairs especially on relationship. You're the best, much❤💞💓💕 from me to you and God will continue to bless you ma'am 🙏.
God I wish I had seen your channel way sooner. Would have saved me 2 years of mental pain and 6 months of counselling. I have recovered/recovering now, and I really wish I saw your vids about Narcissism before. Took me time to realize I was in a trauma bond and all that gaslighting. Thank the universe for giving me your channel and I sincerely everything goes right in your life for you Jessica. For this immense support you are doing to people like us. Thank you so much!
@@yousifteedonmoye619 Well aka Satan can slso throw women your way...😂😂... I'm the type of Man that really doesn't counterracts that much...with women I keep it short sweet and snap as far as a conversation never been talkative 😂
Hi Jessie, sorry for delay I went out for the day on Saturday but yes this is so 💯relevant to some ladies in my life, the 'busy' one is a firm favourite yet when I back off and don't contact them,all of a sudden they're interested🤔 it's as though they 'get off' on blokes pursuing them and seek validation or something to reassure themselves they are still fanciable and attractive but sadly it takes a long while for me to realise I'm pissing in the wind, (sorry to use uncouth language) but it's apt,thanks for this and reminding us guys of stuff,btw you look marvellous in the headband/scarf in your hair x
God Bless You Jess!!! I already predicted the last point before even watching and voila! it was among I kept waiting to see IF you would mention it, glad you did This particular topic just blessed my heart & spoke to me Thank you!
Her exact words :It's rare for me to like a person not to talk of loving that person. If I ever say that i love a person, i am learning to love that person. It's interesting. Jess, can you believe years of being with someone, and they say that in a conversation, it leaves you guessing why they are inconsistent
how i wish i saw this video in march, now i have made the biggest blunder a man can do; spending money to assist a woman who does not even consider you at all and always has excuses about going out with you and finally she said bye bye because i confronted her about her non challant attitude. i feel very empty now
This is why it's a good idea to *date more than one person* at a time. Three is a good number for me. At least one of the three is bound to be more present. Three keeps the dating program moving efficiently👍 Additionally, and more importantly... It's also a super solid idea to have some things going for yourself, as well as to maintain a fit, well-kept appearance. This will help to boost your self-image. The very idea that you should have to chase someone should be completely beneath you‼️💯
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust - Means motivatees to seek out the person that they're attracted to. - Make effort to find you 2. Ambivelence - consestent cancle plans 3. Commitment Phobia
Yeah, my wife is doing this type of maneuvering. Just, can't get her to move towards divorce but gets highly upset on talking divorce...but she does absolutely nothing here @home...and I mean nothing from cleaning to cooking. Comes & goes as she please...I think she has a mental health issue...?? She won't leave...I run a business here...she wants to be married with no involvement.?? I have given up on literally trying to understand or figure her out...I just have to big of an investment here to break camp.
I hear you man. Too much of an investment here to break camp, love the analogy. This my partner of 6-7 years. Gave up tryna figure it out. I did move into my own place and ring her twice a week now. She answers we talk for a while but she never includes me and now it's vice versa
same thing am having with this lady have been with for the past few months, no sign of interest and when i bring up the topic she will say am insecure, i just deleted her number today before listening to your podcast, and i was laughing all thru listening to it because this are all the sign that is exhibited in the relationship. thanks once again jess i just doge a bullet 😇🥰😛😂😂
Wonderful content. What would you say about someone who feels irritated whenever you ask her about how her day went or who's oftentimes using monosyllabic answers when chatting with you.
I personal;ly experienced Sign number 1 and 2 with a girl I was dating some 4 months ago, after having dated her for 2 years. Eventually I had to cut the ties/conversation and any relatioonship with her. Because she didnt tell me that her love for me had vanished, but action do speak alot . Because at the end of the day she just stayed only because of my frequent gifts and some money that I gave her once in a while. But right now all my concentration is in just building my online business and my health. And if love crosses my way, then maybe I will go in that direction if it's going to be a 2 way traffic. Anyway Great Video Jessica ❤
So funny thing I was working 1 job and this girl was always busy however as soon as I started to work 2 jobs all of a suddenly she available she has time lime ..lol know worth kings 💯
Almost no one is too busy… Most people are just too busy for you. And that’s OK. You don’t have to be everybody’s cup of tea. But don’t be fooled. They are not too busy. They are doing stuff with their friends. They are responding fairly quickly. Maybe some other guy that she likes she’s responding to quicker. She’s not too busy. She’s just too busy for you.
I had her. I had it all I had the woman And I blew it....I didn't cheat....I ran because I didn't want to screw it up... she still reaches out to me. I want to win her back.
Quick question, please. Would you recommend or suggest a long-distance relationship to anyone? I asked this on the back of what my cousin got going on. From observation, he is the one doing most of the reach out and communicating. If he doesn't, nothing comes from her end until he does, and then the excuses flows.
So what if a lady talks to you over how certain real women should behave whilst you don’t date,meaning you still friends what’s the signal she’s sending
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Took me two years but finally walked away and healing and being goal oriented
✅✅✅
Ayeeee W that’s what I’m planning on doing
2 years long overdue bro
2 years its too long to be chasing a girl
I'm planning that also
They're only about money and whatever they can get from you! They'll tell you anything you want to hear, but their actions never lines up with what they say! Venemous lies!
Lets protect this sister❤
Lack of curiosity is the ultimate test of interest. No curiosity, no more discussion.
Yupp
Yes I agree
Just broke up with someone that display all of these on the list.
Broke up with her yesterday
that's bold man 💯🫱🏻🫲🏾
congrats man!! she was using you! that evil mantises know exactly what they're doing!
It really hurts especially when you crazily love her!!
I have this situation atm.
@@pawelczerniakowskifootball375master some strength, with time you will forget them..
"constant business" is the biggest red flag when it comes to lack of interest/attraction. If you ask her out twice and shes busy and she doesn't try to reschedule, just move on bro. You don't even have to say anything, just leave her in the dust.
I will never trust a woman again no matter what she said , no matter how innocent or good she is , anytime she could leave , and I'll be prepared....I lost women I thought would never leave me...promises which seems sooo deep yet breaks in seconds...I lose my hope in dating now, I'll never ever gona trust that a girl will marry me...ever again...its just my turn
Exactly! I wish I could start a channel and teach men that love is not real. The romantic love you saw in movies growing up, is fantasy. You have the right mindset! You got it bro hit that gym and just have fun with these women until it’s not fun anymore!😅
Love for a man is hard
@@idenjames7717 for real?
Yea realized they all lie and all have multiple dudes and I’m only 18 knowin dis and feelin dis way
@@masharion good job. You’re only 4 years older than my son. Proud of you bruh! Hit that gym, stack your money and save , travel and take care of your mind and body. Just have fun with women. When it’s not fun any longer and any headaches come, leave and onto the next. Simple!
It's cool how you blend psychological principles to explain this topic, kudos
Underrated video!!!!!!! Thank you for this!!!! I wish I saw this 10 years ago.
Glad it was helpful!
You dressed like a church sister today ❤️😂 Thank you so much, OS!
@@YalaMan01 I no understand OS😂
Thank you ,this video made me realising alot of things about my relationship.
I've been through this, and I'm still caught in that rabbit hole. Your insights have truly opened my eyes, and now I know what steps I need to take. Thank you.
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
2. Ambivalence
3. Commitment Phobia
4. Surface Level Conversations
5. No Intro to Friends and Family
6. Lack of Curiosity about You
I like your head tie @sister Jessica of God😆, it really fits you and thank you ALWAYS for being concerned about us and our affairs especially on relationship.
You're the best, much❤💞💓💕 from me to you and God will continue to bless you ma'am 🙏.
I am learning from Jack- my Jess ~you bringing balance to these women dramas and how to outsmart them for sure ❤🎉
Watching from Jamaica🇯🇲🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Big up yuh self!!! 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
God I wish I had seen your channel way sooner. Would have saved me 2 years of mental pain and 6 months of counselling. I have recovered/recovering now, and I really wish I saw your vids about Narcissism before. Took me time to realize I was in a trauma bond and all that gaslighting. Thank the universe for giving me your channel and I sincerely everything goes right in your life for you Jessica. For this immense support you are doing to people like us. Thank you so much!
awww! Thank you. I'm glad you're getting value from my videos. You're my reason.
Thank you Jess. These days the games are very crazy😢. It's hard to tell if she's flowing with you or not
No matter the game bro, based on what Jessica OS said. Here if she doesn't show effort. She's not the one fam.
@@yousifteedonmoye619 thanks g🔥🔥
@@yousifteedonmoye619 Well aka Satan can slso throw women your way...😂😂...
I'm the type of Man that really doesn't counterracts that much...with women I keep it short sweet and snap as far as a conversation never been talkative 😂
Thanks Jess I appreciate those great tips. I've had too slowly let go and rebuild myself back to where I first started
Hi Jessie, sorry for delay I went out for the day on Saturday but yes this is so 💯relevant to some ladies in my life, the 'busy' one is a firm favourite yet when I back off and don't contact them,all of a sudden they're interested🤔 it's as though they 'get off' on blokes pursuing them and seek validation or something to reassure themselves they are still fanciable and attractive but sadly it takes a long while for me to realise I'm pissing in the wind, (sorry to use uncouth language) but it's apt,thanks for this and reminding us guys of stuff,btw you look marvellous in the headband/scarf in your hair x
Time well invested in this video. Thank you Jess.
God Bless You Jess!!!
I already predicted the last point before even watching and voila! it was among
I kept waiting to see IF you would mention it, glad you did
This particular topic just blessed my heart & spoke to me
Thank you!
You really provide authentic and accurate information. To the point always.
Her exact words :It's rare for me to like a person not to talk of loving that person.
If I ever say that i love a person, i am learning to love that person.
It's interesting.
Jess, can you believe years of being with someone, and they say that in a conversation, it leaves you guessing why they are inconsistent
Thanks for your great information! It's very much appreciated! 🤩👍💯
Jasse ❤❤ you are really give us the important keys of relationships ❤ much love and thanks for your advice ❤ love sending from 🇸🇸
I'm always eager to watch her videos.. very educative and i also get to learn new word, like today: ambivalence..
Watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲 🎉❤
Jess ,my personal opinion is that these signs are applicable to both males and females...
Jessy, you speak so well & this makes you expressly & effortlessly pass your message.
#Don'tChase
Thanks, right on time before a date. ;)
how i wish i saw this video in march, now i have made the biggest blunder a man can do; spending money to assist a woman who does not even consider you at all and always has excuses about going out with you and finally she said bye bye because i confronted her about her non challant attitude. i feel very empty now
i can relate .... its not easy
Haha bro you needed to go through that before you'll value this video. Am glad I just watched and am on a journey... Am blessed
@@ubakpan1843 she turns hot today and next week cold. i could not even say which direction we were headed after 3 months. until i had enough.
@@chuk4292 gym, simplify life, live life, we live we learn, the next one will be better 😎
another lesson along the way, stay to the light brother ❤
This is why it's a good idea to *date more than one person* at a time. Three is a good number for me. At least one of the three is bound to be more present. Three keeps the dating program moving efficiently👍 Additionally, and more importantly...
It's also a super solid idea to have some things going for yourself, as well as to maintain a fit, well-kept appearance. This will help to boost your self-image. The very idea that you should have to chase someone should be completely beneath you‼️💯
You’re so beautiful I love your advice. He’s so smart.
you're always on point like a decimal 🔗♥️
Sounds like the girl I just left I feel so free guys it's crazy 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 thanks so much Jessica
1. Lack of Dopamine Bust
- Means motivatees to seek out the person that they're attracted to.
- Make effort to find you
2. Ambivelence
- consestent cancle plans
3. Commitment Phobia
In my former relationship l was experiencing that and l left because l felt under valued
Pure facts 💯
Yeah, my wife is doing this type of maneuvering. Just, can't get her to move towards divorce but gets highly upset on talking divorce...but she does absolutely nothing here @home...and I mean nothing from cleaning to cooking. Comes & goes as she please...I think she has a mental health issue...?? She won't leave...I run a business here...she wants to be married with no involvement.?? I have given up on literally trying to understand or figure her out...I just have to big of an investment here to break camp.
I hear you man. Too much of an investment here to break camp, love the analogy. This my partner of 6-7 years. Gave up tryna figure it out. I did move into my own place and ring her twice a week now. She answers we talk for a while but she never includes me and now it's vice versa
@KDrip7812 put everything in your parents' name that you can and divorce her. Booom.your out.
Took me four years but eventually had to take a walk.
It can happen anytime.
same thing am having with this lady have been with for the past few months, no sign of interest and when i bring up the topic she will say am insecure, i just deleted her number today before listening to your podcast, and i was laughing all thru listening to it because this are all the sign that is exhibited in the relationship. thanks once again jess i just doge a bullet 😇🥰😛😂😂
Brilliant. I dating online for two years with a girl. She still gives excuse to meet up. Iafter watching this video. I realized
Wonderful content. What would you say about someone who feels irritated whenever you ask her about how her day went or who's oftentimes using monosyllabic answers when chatting with you.
Jessica is very intelligent
Great Video 👍
Great content Jessie. I love this ❤
Thank you Jessica Os. From your favorite color to...
I have being experiencing all this Six signs lately..which wasn't there before.and as for me.i told myself it's done and am out.
This is spot on! Thanks for sharing💯
Following From Kenya 🇰🇪
Points 5 and 6 are very relatable, Jessica
EXCELLENT PRESENTATION AND FACTLY
Thanks for the advice ma'am
My pleasure 😊
I personal;ly experienced Sign number 1 and 2 with a girl I was dating some 4 months ago, after having dated her for 2 years.
Eventually I had to cut the ties/conversation and any relatioonship with her. Because she didnt tell me that her love for me had vanished, but action do speak alot . Because at the end of the day she just stayed only because of my frequent gifts and some money that I gave her once in a while.
But right now all my concentration is in just building my online business and my health. And if love crosses my way, then maybe I will go in that direction if it's going to be a 2 way traffic.
Anyway Great Video Jessica
❤
Thanks Auntie Jess, Blessings.
Love from Naija 🇳🇬
She is awesome..
Thank you so much
So funny thing I was working 1 job and this girl was always busy however as soon as I started to work 2 jobs all of a suddenly she available she has time lime ..lol know worth kings 💯
Thanks Jessica
You're the best Jessie 🌹💖
Thank you so much for your content
Almost no one is too busy… Most people are just too busy for you. And that’s OK. You don’t have to be everybody’s cup of tea. But don’t be fooled. They are not too busy. They are doing stuff with their friends. They are responding fairly quickly. Maybe some other guy that she likes she’s responding to quicker. She’s not too busy. She’s just too busy for you.
Thanks girl!!!😅😊
Facts. Thanks for this video and reminder.
Awesome.. very and factually true
These signs are likewise to men
Very helping Jesse
Thanks for sharing 💯
No kid pool anymore
Thanks coach nice advice
Perfect 👌. Cheers
Wow 👌 I hear you
Good tip
I am going to try it
Xcellent Somtin💯
Sister Jessica😂
Happy Sunday
😉😉
We really need more people like you in this world😌❤️🩹
If is not Jessica am not listening to anybody else 😂
Very good stuff.. but honestly "sitting with a woman and telling her how important emotional connection is to you" is hogwash
Also love is like a drug. If you take it too much you will get used to it
Thanks!
Thank you too Cliff! 🫡
Iam fallen for this toomuch times women wants my things but not me so they use whatever means to get it
I know what to do now
Jessica please can We av xpliment together?!!!?all flights tickets possible
Exactly what am getting from her 😮😮
The woman dated for almost 2 years fits all 6 signs! How could I be so blind!
How do I handle this situation, constantly being ignored, especially on socials and even when she's active she still ignores
Ignore her back.
There are many fishes in the ocean so why stick to one.
@@kusimoomotayo7217 unfollow her bro
She not interested bro, just move on to someone who is interested.
Hello Jessica, really love your videos, you’re so inspiring and and fun to listen to.
Thank you so much!
Had such experience with a gal,but I overcame these probes due to some tips from books I've read.
What books 📚 bro 😢
Professor Jessy 🫡
Been missing you.
I'm right here. 😊
I had her. I had it all
I had the woman
And I blew it....I didn't cheat....I ran because I didn't want to screw it up... she still reaches out to me. I want to win her back.
Get her or get on.
Quick question, please.
Would you recommend or suggest a long-distance relationship to anyone?
I asked this on the back of what my cousin got going on.
From observation, he is the one doing most of the reach out and communicating.
If he doesn't, nothing comes from her end until he does, and then the excuses flows.
Nice
Am learning something great here but i got one question for you,
are you psychic?
So what if a lady talks to you over how certain real women should behave whilst you don’t date,meaning you still friends what’s the signal she’s sending
Oh God!