When she said ➡️ This is a tricky one.. "Social Media can often serve as a reflection of what basically is important to people, When you go through their posts.. you can almost tell who they are"... This is pure psychological thinking👏.. Thanks Jes🙏🏾
@briar35981, Hypergamy is 100% CORRECT when it comes to women, but it's not always about money, it can be about Racial background and Culture, For example a Latino women in the U.S. only dating White Anglo Saxon Men, with a possiblity of having " Whiter" Kids, that's Hypergamy as well
CLASSIC...She's dating you but simultaneously texting a squad of assorted exes, friend-zoners, bar buddies, work hubbies, gym pals, former flames, old crushes, & past booty calls -- And you're supposed to be OK with it. But then if you address or question it, then you are immediately framed as insecure, jealous, not man enough to let her have friends GTFOH
It genuinely depends brother. All I can say is, it can happen perhaps depending on her beliefs , background and friend groups , or even religious conviction. But it really happens more often than you think
Jessica helped me catch my cheating gf, once your instincts tell you she is cheating, she is actually cheating . Thanks so much, would have been in the dark
Your videos are really helpful. It now have me deleting the number of women who can't seem to make up their mind if they want me or not. You making great impact
men, make sure its not your ego (and the fear of pain) that lets you ignore all signs. i did and paid. Never NEVER NEVER shed tears infront of her. She will shame (or just leave) you for it sooner or later. Go to a friend.
Thank you 😊 i didn't needed at all this advice cause i can recognise when someone is really interested in me or not. And the fact that im still alone and everyone got everything, yeah, this make me think about the reality. The reality is that she never actually cared or loved me, but, she has me just for have a laugh with her friends.
It feels like your head keeps telling you she never cared, and your heart is still stuck in it. I mean, if you were over it, you wouldn't have typed right? If you're ever stuck onto emotions and feel terrible- trust me I'm there right now. Hit the gym, It feels so good to put your emotions into something, and you'll be way more confident! Much love
Jess i don't know how you do it, how you get inspirations for the right topics to discuss,🤔 trust me they are always spot on 👌.. I've not even watched the video yet, but the moment i saw the thumbnail i jumped right on it, cuz it just happens to relate with the current dilemma I'm faces with.... God bless you always 🙏
Sometimes I feel like when u watch a lot of this videos is either u will lose ur woman or men stay calm u use ur brain every woman and men are deferent
I had to subscribed to you because this was so true I found out that all this was true in my year long distance connection I use to be in last year I walked away with my dignity and self worth
@@JessicaOSyou’re so welcome when I tell you I woke up out my sleep just to subscribe to you I stumbled upon your Channel I’m happy for me to I was wearing rose colored glasses You’re amazing at what you do Queen
Thank you Jessica!! I don't know what time it is wherever you are, but here is past 1am (already wed). Ive woken up in the middle of night after a stressful night. I was heading to block the girl ive been dating. There are so many things shes been doing which really make me feel she doesnt neither value nor respect our relationship😭😭. Ive been giving her second chances but i think its high time to create the NO CONTACT ZONE!! I basically want to block her. Ok?
For instance, we agreed I pick her one morning to work. She asked me give her a few mins to get ready and she could then let me know when ready. Trust me, I waited for some hours till midday when she contacted me without explaining why she failed to let me pick her. I basically need peace of my mind... I need to block this lady...a lady I loved and cherished. I want to follow your advice of NO CONTACT ZONE.
Same mistakes lots of men make..Stop loving! just like & appreciate her for being your gf or mother to your kids so you can easily move on when things start going south You are clearly not her priority You are hurting yourself loving her I advise you to expand your circle and have more female friends
Thank you for your great video with such great hints and guidance to determine how real a relationship between the parties can become or level where they are! Cosmic blessings and a happy New Year 2024 to you and your loved ones!❤
Yup. My husband's married mistress stopped posting about her husband, their house, their common activities. And my husband never posted ANY mention if me or our family.
Hi Jessica, thank you for the good content. I have a question though: What does it say about a girl if she's in another relationship within 2 months of a breakup? We've been "happily" together for 3 years and she cheated on me with the same guy that she's with right now. Meanwhile, I took all the time I needed to bring back my self and reflect on the intense relationship/breakup. Now a better man than ever. But, does a woman like that (a sensitive type) have any moral sense or regrets? A 'church girl' stabbing backs like that? I am not looking for closure or anything. I'm waaay past that already. But I'm still curious about the psychology behind actions like that in order to learn even more.
I am not able to give any significant insight about the psychology of such a person. I am only interested in this because you said she is a church girl. I am a full-time follower of Jesus Christ now, but I used to only be fan of Jesus. I have been in the church for a long time now to know that many people who claim to be Christians are not really Christians. They are Christians in name only (CINO). But I also know that the church is a place for broken imperfect people. So, I expect to see some broken people in the church. But the difference between a broken person who is truly a Christian and a CINO is that over a long period of time, there'd be significant growth in the genuine Christian. This will be seen in their hatred of sin and love for that which pleases God demonstrated in their actions not only when they are in church.
I have always been an unlovable socially awkward and often times dumb undesirable nerdy guy. As an artist, this helps me rationalize my already sneaking suspicions to stop seeking love, I don't blame her though, she is out of my league lol.
She wasn't out of your league other guys are making her more interested in them but don't worry they're going to soon realize that she is more interested in you now that you're out of the picture and trust me they always crawl back even when they get into their relationships they'll still send you pics even when you know you've started another one when they know you're worth it trust me it lingers in their minds forever
Jess you are the only one on here that convinces me you are an expert in the subjects you talk about,every time you talk of how our partners behave it is spot on for me at least,my distant avoidant “friend” always made texting brief yet she was on WhatsApp every 15 mins thru the night,then dureing our few phone calls she started calling me by another’s name,then I heard a notification alert on her laptop and it was obvious she was multi tasking,I called her out on it and we ended a 10 year cold fruitless friendship ,anyone reading this take it from me run from distant avoidant they will drain you dry and put in nothing
@1 is funny to me, as my gf would at some point become the main initiator of text convos, but it always took her long time to work up the courage to text AND she is a terrible texter.
An immediate red flag, for me personally, is the females that only text. Even when they are at home. I’m not about to have a 2-3 hour text conversation. Yea we not doing that. So once I see that that’s what it’s hitting for, I fall back. But the weird part is when they get mad because I don’t want to partake in that high school stuff. We are adults, pick up the phone smh
@@karenmeacham798 Now that you’ve edited your comment: “on a need to know basis?” Sounds like he’s hiding something. If you’re initiating sex and he’s refusing, he’s certainly hiding something. Time will tell. Don’t be naïve, watch him.
@@shedparker replying to your comment about he's hiding something, he has a secret file with another woman's name on it and I can't open it as he has a 2 step verification process also found a website for a chat from a pornsite, he also talks about an office member who smiles at him sweetly and looks at me with disgust, I've questioned it and I have been treated with rage and I was almost hit, every fibre of my being says he's definitely cheating or cheated, just not sure where to turn to as he has been my lifeforms 30 years
Hey Sis, my woman never engage in long conversation on WA and her replies are very late at times. She do invite me to meet whenever I ask, but there's no physical intimacy. She avoids getting close. She's 10 years older than me and I am madly in love with her. Shall I ask her about my feelings or wait. On one occasion she wanted to get physical with me, but I delayed cuz there was no emotional connection in this. We are building on it
Pls I need an advice, I'm in a relationship where sometimes she makes me feel happy and caring but sometimes hmmm it looks like it is the worst relationship im in. Regretting in it.
men should never bring up commitment or ask "what are we." If she doesn't directly ask you, you can be guaranteed that there are other options in her life she is still interested in.
My girl has some photos of her almost nude. She won’t share them or talk about it with me.shes alYs on her phone. Otherwise she 100% loyal and acts like my wife. She’s 58 and says she’ll do what she wants.
Or, a delayed response could be the result of every single content creator is preaching "delay your response." This is referred tonasnanself-fulfilling prophecy.
Jessica- I am a working class guy and I am trying to set up a date with a girl still in the university so we meet and eat at a restaurant (not my house oh). But she is asking for transportation fair to and fro to attend the date). I will still pay all the food bills. Should I proceed?
@@michaelwesten6513😁 lollzz..! Is she worth it? Man you gotta evaluate the time, resources, and energy you give out to women because if you failed in life while chasing women trust me Bro nobody is going to rescue you , idk your age but if you're still in twenties of course your X drive is gonna be high so get yourself a mistress you gotta be having one or two with once in a while then focus on your career creating wealth and making money etc...🫶
When she said ➡️ This is a tricky one.. "Social Media can often serve as a reflection of what basically is important to people, When you go through their posts.. you can almost tell who they are"... This is pure psychological thinking👏.. Thanks Jes🙏🏾
Put everything perspective
Hypergamy is real. Women always have a exit plan and someone in their past they would love to be with.
Technically that's Monkey Branching. Had she paid attention to Hypergamy she'd of dated up & more likely to stay
@briar35981, Hypergamy is 100% CORRECT when it comes to women, but it's not always about money, it can be about Racial background and Culture, For example a Latino women in the U.S. only dating White Anglo Saxon Men, with a possiblity of having " Whiter" Kids, that's Hypergamy as well
Trueee been thru dat w my old lady long story
Yessir you are right
CLASSIC...She's dating you but simultaneously texting a squad of assorted exes, friend-zoners, bar buddies, work hubbies, gym pals, former flames, old crushes, & past booty calls -- And you're supposed to be OK with it. But then if you address or question it, then you are immediately framed as insecure, jealous, not man enough to let her have friends GTFOH
You’re never the only guy she’s talking to. Ever
Now that's for true
sad!Us guys seem to cut everything off for relationships smh
It genuinely depends brother. All I can say is, it can happen perhaps depending on her beliefs , background and friend groups , or even religious conviction. But it really happens more often than you think
STRAIGHT LIKE THAT...FACTS
@@readymadeit5746faxxx huge sacrifices making good $$ just to lose it all and back in square 1
Jessica helped me catch my cheating gf, once your instincts tell you she is cheating, she is actually cheating . Thanks so much, would have been in the dark
Your videos are really helpful. It now have me deleting the number of women who can't seem to make up their mind if they want me or not. You making great impact
Good move bro!,time wasted is never gained 😂
Your views on this subjects are spot on!
Mine just happened today….. it surprised me though but I took it cool . Thanks for this video
men, make sure its not your ego (and the fear of pain) that lets you ignore all signs. i did and paid. Never NEVER NEVER shed tears infront of her. She will shame (or just leave) you for it sooner or later. Go to a friend.
Very trusted friend or independent person who can keep things confidential
That'l conclusion part hit me profound, much respect Jess🎉🎉
Happy new year Jessica. May this year bring you blessings in multiples🙏
Happy new year!!
Thank you 😊 i didn't needed at all this advice cause i can recognise when someone is really interested in me or not.
And the fact that im still alone and everyone got everything, yeah, this make me think about the reality.
The reality is that she never actually cared or loved me, but, she has me just for have a laugh with her friends.
It feels like your head keeps telling you she never cared, and your heart is still stuck in it. I mean, if you were over it, you wouldn't have typed right? If you're ever stuck onto emotions and feel terrible- trust me I'm there right now. Hit the gym, It feels so good to put your emotions into something, and you'll be way more confident! Much love
Jess i don't know how you do it, how you get inspirations for the right topics to discuss,🤔 trust me they are always spot on 👌.. I've not even watched the video yet, but the moment i saw the thumbnail i jumped right on it, cuz it just happens to relate with the current dilemma I'm faces with.... God bless you always 🙏
the tone at the end is cool , keep it
This is about her but this is perfectly how he treats our relationship and I don't know what do or how to handle things😢
Keep up the great work!
Thanks, will do!
Love the advice and insight I pray 🤲🏿 your day is going great
Thanks for this Jessica ❤
No problem 😊
Sometimes I feel like when u watch a lot of this videos is either u will lose ur woman or men stay calm u use ur brain every woman and men are deferent
@@chiefgarban1349 good point
Always on point❤
Jess this 2024 glowe is unmatched ❤
Great advice excellent point , I was in situation just like this before
PIAWWWWW Jessica
God bless you ...this message is really mine ✌✌✌
If she's have other options then we have to get our options too
Always , that's a must but they hate that for us lol
I had to subscribed to you because this was so true I found out that all this was true in my year long distance connection I use to be in last year I walked away with my dignity and self worth
Happy for you. Thanks for the sub
@@JessicaOSyou’re so welcome when I tell you I woke up out my sleep just to subscribe to you I stumbled upon your Channel I’m happy for me to I was wearing rose colored glasses
You’re amazing at what you do Queen
Thank you Jessica!! I don't know what time it is wherever you are, but here is past 1am (already wed). Ive woken up in the middle of night after a stressful night. I was heading to block the girl ive been dating. There are so many things shes been doing which really make me feel she doesnt neither value nor respect our relationship😭😭. Ive been giving her second chances but i think its high time to create the NO CONTACT ZONE!! I basically want to block her. Ok?
For instance, we agreed I pick her one morning to work. She asked me give her a few mins to get ready and she could then let me know when ready. Trust me, I waited for some hours till midday when she contacted me without explaining why she failed to let me pick her. I basically need peace of my mind... I need to block this lady...a lady I loved and cherished. I want to follow your advice of NO CONTACT ZONE.
Same mistakes lots of men make..Stop loving! just like & appreciate her for being your gf or mother to your kids so you can easily move on when things start going south
You are clearly not her priority You are hurting yourself loving her
I advise you to expand your circle and have more female friends
Thanks alot Jessie, you're always delivering, love you and GOD Bless you. ❤
Thank you for your great video with such great hints and guidance to determine how real a relationship between the parties can become or level where they are!
Cosmic blessings and a happy New Year 2024 to you and your loved ones!❤
Happy new year Brian
@@JessicaOS 🌹🌹🙏❤️
this was super helpfull… thx jessie she was all this.
Jessica this is absolutely amazing you said all ❤..!
Great content thank you Jessica 😊 🙏
Thank you jessica so much, your videos are golden. Wish u best.
Watching from Jamaica Loving your channel jeep up the good work please
Yup. My husband's married mistress stopped posting about her husband, their house, their common activities. And my husband never posted ANY mention if me or our family.
Happy new year coach .. Thank you
My crush always force herself to at masculine around me instead of feminine
Hi Jessica, thank you for the good content. I have a question though: What does it say about a girl if she's in another relationship within 2 months of a breakup? We've been "happily" together for 3 years and she cheated on me with the same guy that she's with right now. Meanwhile, I took all the time I needed to bring back my self and reflect on the intense relationship/breakup. Now a better man than ever. But, does a woman like that (a sensitive type) have any moral sense or regrets? A 'church girl' stabbing backs like that? I am not looking for closure or anything. I'm waaay past that already. But I'm still curious about the psychology behind actions like that in order to learn even more.
I am not able to give any significant insight about the psychology of such a person. I am only interested in this because you said she is a church girl. I am a full-time follower of Jesus Christ now, but I used to only be fan of Jesus. I have been in the church for a long time now to know that many people who claim to be Christians are not really Christians. They are Christians in name only (CINO). But I also know that the church is a place for broken imperfect people. So, I expect to see some broken people in the church. But the difference between a broken person who is truly a Christian and a CINO is that over a long period of time, there'd be significant growth in the genuine Christian. This will be seen in their hatred of sin and love for that which pleases God demonstrated in their actions not only when they are in church.
Thanks for the grt advice dear Jessica. I like yr intellect over insights on concerns.
I'm here first, thanks Jess 🌹
Just started watching your videos thank you
I have always been an unlovable socially awkward and often times dumb undesirable nerdy guy. As an artist, this helps me rationalize my already sneaking suspicions to stop seeking love, I don't blame her though, she is out of my league lol.
She wasn't out of your league other guys are making her more interested in them but don't worry they're going to soon realize that she is more interested in you now that you're out of the picture and trust me they always crawl back even when they get into their relationships they'll still send you pics even when you know you've started another one when they know you're worth it trust me it lingers in their minds forever
I broke up with my ex cause of you 😂🎉
Good, you probably dodged a bullet
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@IGBOisraelite nahh Fr I did 💯💯
@@justody1 😂😂😂 nahh fr
😂😂😂😂
I love this woman
Point 4 though....spot on
Happy New Year Coach 😊
Happy new year!!
This also applies to men. What you are describing here is very true to the guy I am talking too. You should do some videos from a woman's perspective.
U are 100% right the Indikatoren are the 7 rules. 😂 .Greetings to my home guys from Deutschland
Beautiful insight and well appreciated ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Social media destroys relationships. I believe if you truly love somebody, you should delete all social media's.
Jess you are the only one on here that convinces me you are an expert in the subjects you talk about,every time you talk of how our partners behave it is spot on for me at least,my distant avoidant “friend” always made texting brief yet she was on WhatsApp every 15 mins thru the night,then dureing our few phone calls she started calling me by another’s name,then I heard a notification alert on her laptop and it was obvious she was multi tasking,I called her out on it and we ended a 10 year cold fruitless friendship ,anyone reading this take it from me run from distant avoidant they will drain you dry and put in nothing
@1 is funny to me, as my gf would at some point become the main initiator of text convos, but it always took her long time to work up the courage to text AND she is a terrible texter.
Thanks Jessica,ive found this vid very beneficial on a decision i need to make,look forward to next one💯 x
Excellent information
Drop a like before leaving 😊
True story indeed....am beginning to agree wth you jessy
So in conclusion I'm about to be single again, damn..
Also, if you’re talking to someone and all of their responses are yes no and OK then they are not interested
If she asks for money 💵 and keeps distance
An immediate red flag, for me personally, is the females that only text. Even when they are at home. I’m not about to have a 2-3 hour text conversation. Yea we not doing that. So once I see that that’s what it’s hitting for, I fall back. But the weird part is when they get mad because I don’t want to partake in that high school stuff. We are adults, pick up the phone smh
Thank Jess you are the best
So Amina you're cheating on me 😢
Pack your things before I come home
Take it easy bro
😂
Hi, my husband has said that my wife of 30 years is on a need to know basis, he's a lot more secretive he never was like this
Please edit your comment.
On a need to know basis? What does that mean?
@@darkest_magnum hi not sure, but he doesn't love me in the same way he loves me as a friend
@@karenmeacham798 Now that you’ve edited your comment: “on a need to know basis?” Sounds like he’s hiding something. If you’re initiating sex and he’s refusing, he’s certainly hiding something. Time will tell. Don’t be naïve, watch him.
@@shedparker replying to your comment about he's hiding something, he has a secret file with another woman's name on it and I can't open it as he has a 2 step verification process also found a website for a chat from a pornsite, he also talks about an office member who smiles at him sweetly and looks at me with disgust, I've questioned it and I have been treated with rage and I was almost hit, every fibre of my being says he's definitely cheating or cheated, just not sure where to turn to as he has been my lifeforms 30 years
Damn. This stuff sure sounds accurate.
My ex would initiate all the conversations,took announced visit to her campus,....she's fucking a lecturer 😢
Well said.
Thank you
Thank you..... Jes
Wish I seen your vids sooner smh glad I’m hear now tho 👍🏾💯
Je je I like you doing I like you teaching and I love you too
OK maybe
I am breaking up with this girl
My count it is one
Out count forever more
Your abouzetly right
Hey Sis, my woman never engage in long conversation on WA and her replies are very late at times.
She do invite me to meet whenever I ask, but there's no physical intimacy. She avoids getting close. She's 10 years older than me and I am madly in love with her. Shall I ask her about my feelings or wait.
On one occasion she wanted to get physical with me, but I delayed cuz there was no emotional connection in this. We are building on it
Dam sounds similar
Pls I need an advice, I'm in a relationship where sometimes she makes me feel happy and caring but sometimes hmmm it looks like it is the worst relationship im in. Regretting in it.
Everything in my relationship seems to be going well but when commitment or direction comes up she says “she has no expectations” it is very confusing
men should never bring up commitment or ask "what are we." If she doesn't directly ask you, you can be guaranteed that there are other options in her life she is still interested in.
My ex never commented or likes or mentioned us on Facebook especially my page
what if she she's, I'm bad at texting and don't be on my phone like that?
Good tips
Jessica if l the one always talking , if l tell her to talk she no
This is so on time with the borgars leaving town😅😅
Thank you......
Female that goes both ways. She's not the only female men talk to.
praise God
Your gists are 💯 conc. 👍
Hi Jessica my ex partner has dumped me 4 times now and she has hurt me and broken my heart and yet she still wants to be friends but i don't
Get space and time away, you will heal and be stronger for it and be immune to the emotional push pull
My girl has some photos of her almost nude. She won’t share them or talk about it with me.shes alYs on her phone. Otherwise she 100% loyal and acts like my wife. She’s 58 and says she’ll do what she wants.
That reminds me good topic 😅
Or, a delayed response could be the result of every single content creator is preaching "delay your response." This is referred tonasnanself-fulfilling prophecy.
❤❤
Just write a book - the modern version of the Manipulated Man ---- ....
If you’re thinking it getting those vibes then most likely she is. So move on.
What if I'm interested in YOU Jessica.
If she is Narcaasist all these will or can happen
Jessica- I am a working class guy and I am trying to set up a date with a girl still in the university so we meet and eat at a restaurant (not my house oh). But she is asking for transportation fair to and fro to attend the date). I will still pay all the food bills. Should I proceed?
I guess your number 6 is in the bin ?😂
@@Ebubedike_001 is that a yes? Or no?
I just need help/answers to eliminate ignorance
@@michaelwesten6513not ready for commitment but too early to tell do go ahead but be watchful dude
@@michaelwesten6513😁 lollzz..! Is she worth it? Man you gotta evaluate the time, resources, and energy you give out to women because if you failed in life while chasing women trust me Bro nobody is going to rescue you , idk your age but if you're still in twenties of course your X drive is gonna be high so get yourself a mistress you gotta be having one or two with once in a while then focus on your career creating wealth and making money etc...🫶
She can not hide her feelings on social media comments her comments can reveal that we are romantically involved.
What if she does 3 of these 7 things?
Let her go
@@abassolalekan2440 right.
Leave her alone bro, go find another girl who appreciates you.
🫶
What if shes a single mom
👏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯😘💯✅