Post Retirement and Turning 60 Closet Clean Out! Not What I Expected!
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- In this video I share a recent closet clean out, tips on making decisions on what to keep and what to give away, and how different this clean out turned out to be. I just turned 60 and have been retired for almost a year. It was time to cleanup the closet and make space for clothes that fit my new life. However, I was in for a surprise, this closet clean out was like no other. It was actually cathartic! I expected to make decisions logically but it turned out to be all about how the clothes made me feel. If you are feeling stale and like you could use some inspiration and something new, this video might be for you! As always leave me a comment below if you have something to share.
Finally an influencer that matchs my time of life. I cleaned out closet after retirement also. It's a huge transition of life.
Oh good! I got the idea for the channel because, although I enjoy younger influencers too, I wanted something that related to my time in life. Let me know if there is anything you would like to see. And yes, it is a huge transition and very exciting :)
Retirement includes retiring those work clothes! New clothes for a new chapter of life feels right.
Definitely how I felt/feel :)
I am 70. I just had major surgery to my right shoulder, and I am binge you-tube watching as I am immobile,. I am typing this left handed, so that indicates my sincerity! I found and love this video. Recently, I have struggled with getting rid of things that I don't need any more and trying to make decisions, and I cannot tell you how much your video has helped me more than the other 30+ I've watched. The comment especially, about how it makes you feel, because I have lots of clothes that I think I love: example - I love this black jacket but it doesn't quite fit so I can't wear it now, but one day I might ... LET IT GO! I love giving the expensive items to charity so that someone can give them another life! You rock!!! hugs!
Thank you so much! Wow I really appreciate that you commented at all let alone left handed! Your words are so encouraging it really means a lot to me! Truly. Shoulder surgery is a tough surgery. My husband is just recovering from that too and had a good result but it's been a few months ago. It does get better, I hope your recovery goes really well and flys by.
Thank you again 🙂
You should go through your closet and take out your 30 favorite items. Box up the rest and see if you miss anything. Worked for me 😊
Ohh that is a good idea! Thanks for sharing!
I did something similar earlier this year though I didn't count them. Just separated out the items I absolutely loved and felt good in every time I wore them, which was maybe 1/4 of my clothes, and put them aside. I then tried on every single article of clothing and every pr of shoes that I own ...outside of underwear and socks ...and asked myself do I love this as much as the items in my _love pile_ . I was suprised at how many things I had that I didn't even want to bother trying on. I brought those to the thrift store immediately before I could start 2nd guessing myself. Within a month my wardrobe was reduced by more than half, everything fits and I love getting dressed because every single item makes me feel good about myself. It also made it easier to really see what it was that I loved about each item and everything pops because nothing is crowded.
@@milomilo55 Wow what a great story and good idea. I want to love my clothes now. When I was working I kept things because they were good work outfits, some I loved but many were utility. Now I want to dress for me. I really like the idea of having the love pile to refer to. It does seem like it would help make the other decisions easier.
@@lifeandflowers245 Thanks for responding so quickly and positively.
I don't know if my love pile would work for everyone but it helped me see some commonalities in my love pile that I missed when my closet was crammed - like almost every love item having pockets and certain types of waist treatments, e.g., high and a little loose. I also bought new hangers so I get that clothing store feel when I open up my closet but that's just me being "extra" lol
I did this kind of cleanout after leaving the office. Some things that were really quite gorgeous and that I wore frequently and "couldn't do without" went immediately into the pile: "some working person will love this." But not me. I'm out of those constrains and now finding my legitimate style that must combine: Comfort + Beauty + Freedom.
I love this and understand that feeling.
I watched a utube video that said to take out your 10 favorite outfits. I did and was stunned to see I had a capsule wardrobe. They all seemed to be white, tan and cream. Then I kept things that fit and I liked that I could fit in to add color. I retired at 58 and now at 65, it seems I have done this a few times over the years. This video was still very good for me in validating decisions about what I got rid of which was a ton of stuff. It feels so good now. It just seems easier when you know whatever you grab out of your closet will fit and go with pretty much everything else. Loved this video because watching how she made great decisions and even allowed herself to change her mind.
@@AyaSmith-rb2hp I think I will try that! What a great way to actually see what you like! Seems obvious but I have never thought of it that way. Thank you for sharing!
I retired at 62 and am 80 now. I have gone through many closet clean outs but still have 4 suits that I still love, though have not worn in years. I love them and they remind me of myself back in the day. Don’t care if I ever wear them, I will keep them. I also have a few beautiful vintage things I have had since the early 70s and am keeping forever. I have given away so much but have always had way too much. If I just kept what I wear all the time I wouldn’t need much but I have more fun this way. Loved your video a lot
Oh thank you I am so glad you liked it! I can relate to your comment. I also have things that I keep just because and I love them and for similar reasons. They remind me of another time or are a vintage piece that I inherited and that reminds me of someone. I totally understand and won't be giving mine away anytime soon either. Hmmm that gives me an idea for a video 😊
Retirement brings so many new opportunities - including sorting through your clothes and starting with a fresh wardrobe. I wasn’t sorry to say goodbye to my suits and other office wear. But the important thing is to find the colour pallet that suits your and build a clothing collection in a mindful way.😊
Yes, and it is a collection! That is a great way to look at it, for some reason it has taken me awhile to realize it 😊
3:27 yelled out good on you when you put out the light brown cardigan with the chocolate one!
Thanks!
Yes, I could not stand to keep items I wore all the time when I worked.
My lifestyle now is totally different! Great video!
I understand! And thank you!
So enjoyed this. Have gone through this myself in last 12 months following retirement in my early 60s! Still love alot of items but now wearing more relaxed versions eg softer shirts, wider leg pants, more colour! Donated my workwear to charity supporting women return to work. Feeling frumpy and not like me are great criteria.
Thank you so much and congratulations! It's an exciting time of life :)
You can take apart a suit and wear the trousers with a casual top and casual shoes; and wear the jacket with jeans! My one biggest purge when I retired was all my "prissy" blouses. Who needs all those office blouses with pearl buttons or bow tie necklines? Freedom!! Yay!!
Great thoughts on the suit! I kind of want to get another one that fits me better and do just that. And yes Freedom Yay!
Yeeeeess. Gen Z calls it "editing" clothing.
This was so much fun, thank you for recording it. Yes, I just turned 74 and for the past 4 or 5 years I have been donating a bunch of clothes that don't fit me and just aren't me! You have a few funky things in your closet--most of my closet is funky things and I love it!
I do love my funky things! I went through a stage where I thought I didn't want them anymore but its just not true :) I love them and can wear them more often now!
Here's a good one. I had a stylish mother who knew what looked good on her. But her style wasn't my style. It took me until I turned 60 and retired to discover my own style! I guess I'm a late bloomer. Lol.
@@sheilapatros2735 I know what you mean or something similar! It has taken me a long time to sort out what I actually like versus what is really someone else’s influence! I am still figuring it out 😄
I’m 73 and even tho Im fully aware I’m no longer young, I still want to be fresh and modern . Those pants with the little bird are you. We should always be true to ourselves and who we are ……that’s what makes us unique . That’s your style!
I love your comment and I couldn't agree more! Thank you :)
Loved the trousers with the bird on it and the suede 70s jacket. I'm in my late 50s and went through a similar fase after being declared unfit to work after a serious illness. I had a closet of clothes that didn't fit my lifestyle anymore, I stopped colouring my hair and menopause happened; I totally lost my way in dressing myself. Slowly I found my new 'me' style and it's a lot more fun, quirky and bold than my previous style. And I'm feeling so much more myself now. I'd love to see your journey in finding your own style post retirement. Thanks for sharing this video!
Thank you! I’m sorry to hear about your illness but glad to hear you are finding your way! I am still finding mine too and it is more fun. We should have fun at this time in our lives!
Hey, this will be a good time for you to get your colours done. Then when you replace your wardrobe with more casual fun, free lifestyle stuff, you will get them in the colours that suit, your skin, tone , hair, color, and eyes.
Great idea! I have been thinking about it and need to find someone in my area. It would make a good video too.
Best statement ever-“YOU are the best influencer of your life!” I’m gonna use that as my mantra
Thank you! I think it is true 😊
OMG! I'm 56 & am working my LAST shift today & retiring! Such a timely video becuz I have to do this too 😂 . I have my black office sweater on the back of my chair & before I leave here today, I'm happily DUMPING it in the garbage. Lol 😅 Great video thanks! 😊
Oh my gosh congratulations!!! 🎉 Thank you for watching!
Loved your video! These decisions are always so hard, but so rewarding in the end! I’ve recently finished updating my wardrobe. I’ve gone to all skirts and dresses, because I love them and am more comfortable in them. My implanted Spinal Cord Stimulator was placed right at where my jeans waistband was. I’ve put up with it for years, then a few months ago it dawned on me, hey , you don’t HAVE to wear pants and jeans! lol! I’m 61 years old, and I have finally decided to do what I’ve always wanted to, wear modest dresses.
I'm so glad you loved the video! I love dresses too! So comfortable and feminine. I looked up Spinal Cord Stimulator and I hope it is giving you some relief! Shame they put it right where your waistband sits (sigh) but dresses are a lovely alternative. I am 61 too! Thanks for tuning in!
@@lifeandflowers245 thank you for the reply! Yes, I’m getting wonderful relief with my SCS! I’ve been binging watching your videos, trying to get caught up, lol!
Nailed it, "maybe clothes are just a metaphor for this."
Thank you and I very much think that is true!
I have no idea why this came up on my TH-cam now when I actually retired two years ago but I'm so happy it did. I went through this process and there are so many similarities to the decisions you make. I was a little too conservative when I did it and over the last two years (having stepped down from a leadership position but fortunately exercising the option to continue to work part time with no obligation to go into the office) I've realized what I really do like now and what I should let go of. This video has motivated me to do one more sweep of my wardrobe and get rid of the things that no longer feel good or represent who I am. The great part is that I love clothes and enjoy evolving my style and it is clear you do too! Thanks for the guidelines they are spot on.
Im so glad it came up on your TH-cam! It is so fun to hear other womans journeys, and it is a journey at least for me. I think it's fine to go through clothes in stages because we evolve over time. Thank you for watching and for your comment!
OMG, I am so glad I found you! Thanks for a great video!
@@msjones8873 Oh good I’m so glad you liked it!!
I like the way you reason.
8 months into my retirement, clothes I haven’t worn in this time are going. I have lost thirty pounds from taking better care of myself, and it is fun to try on new clothes in styles that are more colorful, relaxed, versatile and comfortable. Most of my black is gone, I stopped coloring my hair and have beautiful silver locks, and black washes me out. Plus how many black slacks and sweaters does a woman need. 😆 I want to look pulled together and fresh, so I wear my jewelry, scarfs and hats to amp up my casual style. Just do it, you will feel fresh and fun.
I’m adding one more tip, no more clothes that need a lot of ironing or dry cleaning! Easy care all the way.
Oh my gosh that all sounds amazing! I have also found that I am moving away from so much black. I still have some but I am loving lighter colors 😊
Bird pants are adorable, keep them. This is my first time watching your show. I could see that you were learning so much about yourself as you declutter your closet. It was very healthy to watch. You are ready for your new chapter. It's okay to wait until you are ready to make decisions. My husband always tries to rush me to make decisions, especially when it comes to getting rid of things. I've learned to just wait until I'm ready. You are clearly ready. Are you married?
Oh now I see your question :) It was an interesting exercise! I am ready for this new chapter. I often regret getting rid of things when I am not ready or when someone else is pressuring me. You sound centered and strong :)
This is very relatable. Retired about 9 months ago but still haven't done the clear out but planning to do in a couple of months. I think i needed to be really really sure there was no going back.
I think that is smart! I love the flexibility of this time in life, it's hard to know what you might want to do without some time to let it sink in!
I turned 60 last year and retired. I've done one round of getting rid of things. But I think you've inspired me to go back a few more times!
Oh good! I plan to go back again too especially for things like accessories etc. It's kind of addicting once you get going.
I really enjoyed your techniques of how to select items to donate. I retired 12 months ago and now is the time to go through my clothes. You are a genuine person and very likeable. Greetings from Adelaide , Australia.
Aw thank you! So fun to hear from people from other parts of the world!
You did great! You had very good reasons for everything you donated. You have inspired me to take another look at my closet with more meaningful questions.
Oh thank you! I'm so glad it was helpful. I need to do it again honestly! I am still adjusting believe it or not :)
Going through the same thing right now. Had to start wardrobe completely over due to menopause 😮 ….it was hard for me to let go.
It is a time of change and unfortunately it doesn't get celebrated like it should. We celebrate other times of change in our lives, womanhood, marriage, but the celebration tends to drop off as we age and that is a shame. This is a new beginning! How do you like your new wardrobe?
I did this when I retired and found it was still a lot so I took it to another level by trying to pair things up into like capsule wardrobes and discovered a number of pieces that...while I liked and liked to wear didn't really pair very well so donated them as well
That is a great idea! I am about to do a phase two and I think you put words to what I am experiencing. I have stuff but really only wear a few things. Thanks for the tip!
Stale, that's a good way to put it
Hi. I came across your channel and just had to stop and watch. I retired at age 60 also and found myself feeling the same way. I have to laugh because 5 years later I find myself " still purging " after giving away tons of clothes. 🤷🏽♀️ I am still at times living my " fantasy " life because I rarely get out for events or travel. Happy Retirement! 😃🎉
Wonderfull! So glad to hear from you! That is funny, I think I need to do another pass too! Happy retirement to you too :)
Good call on the tan skirt. I'm also a bit of a blazer addict! Love the tan suede jacket! Also, thanks so much for being aware of avoiding the "youthful" expression and finding another way to describe the style. fresh is a great way to describe it! I'm in the process of my own closet purge. Also 60. ❤
This video was awesome!! I am needing to do this, I've been holding onto clothing that suited a different time in my life and have had a really hard time letting go. This gave me the motivation- very encouraging!
Oh that is great! It is hard to let go but it can be rewarding and make room for the next chapter :)
This was such a fun video to watch! I've been retired for a while and turned 60 this year. I've found myself feeling like the clothes I have don't match the way I feel, so I've purged a lot. Instead of saying you want to look youthful, you could say modern or fresh instead. This is the first video of yours I've seen so maybe I missed something, but if you want to further decrease your wardrobe you might want to determine your best color palette. Love that shorter white blazer on you! Matched your energy. I could see your bird pants looking so cute with some sneakers and a top in one of the bird colors. Enjoy your retirement!
Wow what great thoughts! Sounds like you know something about this :) I agree, modern or fresh is a better way to express it. I really don't want to look "young" just not obsolete, not sure that's the right word but something to that effect. I have never felt better or more viable and I want my clothes to reflect that. Yes, I have been exploring my best colors more for sure! Love the bird pants idea too. Thank you so much for your comments :)
Loved hearing your thought process. I feel you and I are a lot alike. Will remedy your advice when it’s my turn to do this, hopefully in the next year or so. Btw, I love the 70’s too! Thanks for making this video.
I have thought that too :) I'm glad you liked the video. I have to say retirement is more of a journey that I thought it was going to be. A good one, but a journey not so much a finite thing.
@@lifeandflowers245 Never really thought of retirement as a journey but that makes total sense! You’re the first person who’s told me that. Thanks for the heads-up. I’m sure that’ll help me when my turn comes. Thanks again!
Good job. Even after 12 yrs of retirement, I’m still working on my style as it reflects my lifestyle 😊
I think it's a journey, have fun!
I had to clear all my closets for asbestos abatement when I did renos in my house. When I put things back I realized I didn't need 5 of 1 colour of any thing. Great job
Thank you and it is eye opening to pull everything out!
The only time in my life I was good at decluttering clothes was when I stopped work. I got rid of all my work clothes. I rationed that if I kept them, they would go out of style and no one would want them. Best decision ever. Now, if only I could clear out my current clothes….lol
I like that work clothes rational! Now we just need one for the current clothes haha. For me lately it's how I feel in them.
In my 60's and still work but I always go by how I "feel" in my clothing. Life's too short.
I love this comment! It was a revelation to me to consider how I "feel" in my clothes and yes, life is too short!
I turn 60 this year and I am embracing comfort and color and my style is palazzo pants in fun fabrics with comfortable coordinated tops. I haven’t tossed my button up blouses yet, mostly because the fabrics are so pretty but I should, because they aren’t me anymore. Thanks for the inspiration.
I have been on the lookout for beautiful palazzo pants! They can be very feminine as well as comfortable. It sounds like you have a knack for finding beautiful fabrics.
@@lifeandflowers245 I'm a sewist. There are some beautiful fabrics out there! Palazzo pants sew up with quilting calico and batik fabric beautifully. I get compliments on them almost every time wear them in public. It is a real ego boost! I'm getting rid of all of my jeans and working on a pair of gardening overalls to replace them.
You know what is easier than doing going through each item? Just turn all the hangers (with clothes on them) around in the closet. Have them face backwards. When you wear an item put it back in the closet the normal way. Over time you can see what you wear and don't wear. Then it is easy to give away the item you don't wear. You don't have to decide on anything now and go down memory lane with each item. Over time you will see what you actually wear.
That is such a good idea and some thing I think I might do in a second phase. Because I think I need it.
I think a cull when you transition into another phase of life is cleansing.
@sherrybendall5817 oh, yes! I'm freshly retired, it was unplanned, still coming to grips with it. But I have been looking at things I have had for years and really questioning myself about why I am keeping them. Especially things I haven't worn for years, if indeed, EVER!
I have done this for years, but this year I've actually decluttered some things!
That takes way too long! I want my closet cleaned NOW!
Love this. Finally someone closer to my age (69). I agree with your thoughtful reasoning!
So glad to hear from you! The idea for this channel was to do something for ladies our age. I like my younger ladies I follow but also wanted to make content for later in life which I am really enjoying!
i needed this video today. thank you so much. i was in the middle of reorganizing/purging my closet(s) having a difficult time letting go of old faves esp. some tread-bare! now i know its about fresh and how the fabric makes me feel! this video was a big help! thanks again. ~ Deborah
I'm so glad you liked it! If you love it keep it but when they get thread bare...maybe time to let go :) I finally let go of an old tee shirt I slept in. It had holes in it but was so thin and soft!
Great content, well delivered! TH-cam algorithm popped this up because of its focus, it's so well done I will check out your channel. 🎉
Oh great! I hope you like it, it is not all about clothes but I hope it is relevant to you.
Yes, I am feeling this now - looking at clothes I've loved in winters past and thinking "really?" I'm just few years younger than you are, and wanting to look "fresh" and not frumpy is definitely relatable! How you are loving retirement and your newest chapter! 🤍
*Hope not how 😊
Yes I am loving it!
It’s always better to have a sister or friend there with you to tell you honestly if it looks good on you. And, I know, I know, I’m a neat freak, but you having so many different kind of hangers its driving me crazy. (And I didn’t have far to go!😂)
Haha you are about the fourth person to mention the hangers, I do plan to upgrade!
This was so helpful. I appreciate your honest assessment especially about what you want now. Different… for this time around in life. ❤
Glad it was helpful! It is different, a nice change :)
@@lifeandflowers245 yes it is!!
I am 60 , also recently retired. I kept some of my versatile clothes that I can now wear with sweaters etc. I got rid of anything that felt dated, too structured. I am much more into elegant, casual look now
I figured out fairly recently at 65 years old, that cool colors work better with my olive skin tone. Maybe you should try that too.😊
You have to feel happy! I just turned 60. I have to do the same with my closet. I LOVE colors. I love fashion and just cuz I turned 60, I am not wearing clothes that are going to make me feel older . I love that you want to keep your funky clothes!!! Have fun, do not anyone DIM YOUR LIGHT
Great advise and I love that saying, do not let anyone dim your light :)
Love this so much.
@@jeanettekays1954 I am so glad! 😀
I’ve struggled with cleanouts over the last several years. Mostly, I would just remove things that didn’t fit me well any longer. I felt like I had so many things in my closet, but nothing too really put together for an outfit. Now I have retired fully, and moved to a new home I recently watched an influencer, a mature woman, who suggested getting rid of everything that was a large print, keeping primarily only neutrals and smallish prints that read like solids. It totally worked for me, because I realize that those prints were the things that were staying on the hangers day after day, week after week, year after year! I removed the visual chaos that those printed items created. Now with my neutral palette in my closet, I tend to shop for additional neutral items, or for colors that I love that work for me as an addition to the neutral items. Thanks for sharing this video in this new and exciting time for you!!
That is an interesting concept "visual chaos" that could go for a lot of things that are just distracting and never worn! I'm short so don't have very many things that have big print, I get lost in them! But the thought to try to find prints that read like solids is a great insight! Thank you!
I agree -- I got rid of all clothing with a "print" on it. I'm in my late 50's and will now only buy solid colored clothes. Every time I see someone in a printed top, I think "nope", doesn't look good. Solid colors are so much more flattering.
I still prints that I think are lovely……. On another body!!!! 😂
@@reneegagnier3226 Print is tricky, a little goes a long way!
Fresh is a great word.
Thank you for this video! I have enjoyed it more than any other video about decluttering your wardrobe! Probably because I'm newly retired and will be 60 before the year ends. But especially thanks for the heads up about the menopause thing. I've been dithering about punting a whole bunch of stuff l thought was too hot to wear anymore. Now, I will hang onto what I like, but store it. Thanks again!
Oh thank you! I am so glad you found it enjoyable and helpful 😊and congratulations on retiring and turning 60 soon! And dithering...what a great word :)
I feel so much better watching your video because I thought I had way too much in my closet, but now I know I don't!
@@gloriawoods9848 Oh good! I don’t think it’s too much, it’s a small closet. In fact I could use a few things across the seasons.
I just found your channel and found this so relevant to my life. I love the idea of making choices on how an item makes me feel. Thank you for being so honest.
Oh wonderful I am so glad you found my channel and that you enjoy it. That makes my day :)
Black is ageing. Complexion colour changes with age and soft colours are more flattering on you.
I have been enjoying softer colors these days and I do feel good in them! Thank you for watching :)
No way! Love black and think most look great in it!
This helped a lot. Thanks!
Hi I retired a few years ago and did exactly what you have just gone through. I did£ keep my one navy suit which has been useful but for funerals only nothing else formal! I enjoy dressmaking so have made some dresses which I hardly ever wore to work. I have made pretty blouses. It is difficult when you have been so formal for so many years. Looking forward to your next instalment😊
Thank you for your insights! How fun to make your own clothes, what a wonderful way to express yourself!
@@lifeandflowers245 yes I find it very therapeutic. Also I went on a flower arranging course to advanced level the best thing ever it’s rekindling my creative juices!
@@wendyware9738 I love flower arranging too! The possibilities are endless and I think flowers enhance our lives. They just make me happy :)
Totally agree and its lovely to be able to give a hand tied to friends and family brings so much pleasure and going into a flower wholesaler is like a sweetie shop for a child!
I am 60 1/2 years old. Still working, but looking forward to retirement changes. Thank you for sharing your point of view. I am beginning to shift to purge my work office style and start wearing clothing that is truly me. Listening to your words made me feel like we're sisters.. lol. Thank you
Aw that is so nice! I’m so glad the video is relatable to you. It’s an exciting time and should be celebrated! Have fun 🤩
Thank you! This is exactly what I needed! I plan on going through my closet, trying things on and donating items I did not wear each season.
Oh great! Have fun it was a refreshing task :)
I gave up all my business clothes when I retired. Try those Joy Mangano velvet covered hangers…all sorts of colors and very inexpensive Md take up so little space in your closet…I have them and love them. I retired and learned how to ride a Harley. I’ve ridden to the West Coast 2 times
Oh my gosh I think that is the coolest retirement story I have heard! I do have some velvet covered hangers and I lover them. I also like some with a little more slip for some things.
Great video!! Now I feel better letting go of good items that just don’t feel like me anymore!!
It really made a difference when I used how things made me feel as a criteria. Thank you for watching and commenting!
Yes, we want fresh and funky💚
I love that! Fresh and funky 😊
Just seeing your video that popped up. Really enjoyed it! Now I will go through my closet and hope to get rid so much! Thanks. 🌻
I'm so glad you enjoyed it!
I'm going through my wardrobe also and I totally relate to this experience. I don't follow trends specifically but rely on what I like and feel good in more. Dead sure quality items are timeless even if out of style. But hey, who says some trends are out of style? Those who want us to buy their so called new trend items! Let's not be trapped!
I agree! And at my age I have already lived through some version of these new trends anyway haha!
I am a straight female, born female (ignore my moniker!): bra straps showing do not matter. Just make sure the bra is in good condition and not old. Biggest note for you: be aware of quality. Quality, quality, quality. No cheapish clothing. Only expensive stuff.
I do love this idea. I follow another influencer who says something similar for women of any age. You just look more put together in quality clothing. I just need more money! Haha
Retired from a suit job, only every dressed professionally at work, Im a boho dresser at heart, so easy clear out,my work wear was good quality and up to date , donate to womens shelter
Hurray for your boho self! Such a great time in life :) We finally get to be our true selves.
Thank you for sharing. I need to only shop top quality. A cheapish made bargain looks like a bargain on me now. My face and body is sagging and I need structured good quality clothing that retain their structure.
Hmmm that is a good point. Beautifully made clothes do make a difference, I was noticing that some of my softer non-structured dresses are sagging in the armpit all of a sudden and look quite sloppy. That is probably why.
Just found your channel. Really enjoyed this video! I had a color consult done a year or so ago and it’s one of the best things I’ve ever spent money on! It helps with wardrobe like you wouldn’t believe!
I want to do that! I need to find a good person in my area. I recently had a great makeup artist pick a foundation for me and I can't believe the difference it made!
I just invested in a new pair of strait leg jeans that can be worn rolled cuff or straight, I spent more on these then ever before, and had a sales lady help me with the right cut and fit for my body. So worth it, I feel great in them, and can dress up or down with different footwear and different tops and jackets. These will be a core for many outfits. A dark wash was my choice.
A great pair of jeans is such a good investment! I need to do the same!
it's a shame you don't have floral long dresses. The English Laura Ashley flowers in particular would look so beautiful on you.
You know, I love long floral dresses. I think I will check the Laura Ashley flowers and others too. Thank you for the encouragement!
I think keep what you want and add new tops casual to what you have each yr gets easy footwear flats loafers great leggings great in winter with boots
Sure, I sort of want to make a video about it. Right now I have Kaiser, not sure where you are from but it is a middle of the road but decent health insurance. It is not my favorite but my medical is a drain on our budget so I went with a lower cost. I got taken in by a bad deal before that and honestly I still don't know what I got into except that I ended up paying out of pocket for a lot! Changed as soon as I could. From now on I will only use insurance I am familiar with.
Thank you for being real and sharing. I’ve been on a similar journey for more than a month.
It takes courage! And the results are so worth it! Glad to know I’m not alone. ❤
No you are definitely not alone 😊 We got this!
So proud of you finding your true authentic self and letting your clothes speak to you!
Aw thank you. It sounds so much cooler when you say it 😊
It is so liberating to let go of stuff. Found that out a couple of years ago and now so enjoy my wardrobe which was always stuffed with so many unworn items. X
I am getting there too! I finally feel a glimmer of myself coming through! ✨
Omg, so glad I found this channel. I retired in 2021 at 59 and I just started a TH-cam channel 😂😂. So great to find a channel that vibes with where I am at!
Oh cool! I love working on my channel! I love the creative aspect and I have learned a lot about myself surprisingly enough. I found you and just subscribed!
Basic crochet is really simple. A couple of hours on TH-cam and you’re on it!
Thank you that sounds like a good project!
I just retired and want to do this type of clean out. However, I may go back to work part time at some point, so I'm afraid to get rid of the work clothes. I think I may have to postpone that decision until I know for sure whether I will be going back to work. Thanks for sharing. I do like the idea of shedding those items that make you think of work!
I waited about a year before I went through my clothes. It takes time for your mind to catch up and especially if you may be going back to work. It is a journey and when you are ready, it feels great!
Just what I've been going through. Retired 2 years. Looking forward to more from you.
It is a journey for sure 😊
Love you're advice love how kind but honest you are about every peice of clothing x never mind how much things cost xxx teaching me a good life lesson x thank you
Aw thank you that means a lot to me. Thank you for taking the time to comment ☺
Oh gosh thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. I'm exactly in the same spot as you are. What do I do with my old "costumes"? Can't wait to watch this...
Wow "costumes" good word. Thank you for your comments 🌸
Love brown cardigan with flimsy camisole in the summer put aside
Good video and loved your reasoning for letting some items go. I know this is over a year old. New subscriber here and I have some catching up to do! I can only do a small section of closet at a time when cleaning out. It gets too overwhelming.
Thank you for subscribing! I think a section at a time is a great way to go through your closet, cupboards or any kind of cleaning out! I have an attic and storage to go through and maybe if I thought of it in sections I would stop procrastinating haha.
I am cleaning out my closet because we are snowbirds & flying 1st time. I need to pack for 6 months!. Have clothes at the house in Az. Trying to take only 6-8 jeans
1 white & 2 other colors. 10 tops. It means so much to me to Not pack too much. Shoes are hard...4-5. Then after that I want to see what I need to get rid of. Come back to a cleaned out closet!!❤
Wow that is exciting! I have never thought about having to manage two wardrobes! Good luck and I hope its wonderful 🎉
You've inspired me to go through my closet again. I know that there are clothes in it that I literally haven't worn in years because they just don't fit this phase of life.
I didn't realize at first that I needed to "think" about my post retirement wardrobe. It's actually fun, I hope you find fun in it too 😊
Honey, you are the same as me and we now can't carry cheaper made clothing. If it's not quality, out it goes. Only top qualify for ladies over 40.
Hi, I thought I replied but in case I didn't, good quality sure does make a difference. I but it when I can.
I’m inspired!
Oh good! I actually enjoy going through my closet 😊 Thank you for your comment.
Interestingly, I'm not in the exact same season of life, but I found this helpful. I'm mid 40's and spent my entire adult life in corporate America, working in professional office settings. 3 years ago I changed to a 100% remote job. The few Zoom meetings I have are always casual. We used to have quarterly in-person meetings (which involved travel) but even that has been cut down to like once a year. So...I'm left with a wardrobe of "office work clothes" that are virtually unused. Over the last 3 years I've slowly dwindled down and edited out A LOT of stuff! But it's an ongoing thing I think about. I appreciated your decision categories!
Welcome! Ahhh that is another circumstance to rethink a wardrobe!
Love this video, so inspiring. I turned 60 last year but still have clothes from when I was 15! I was taught to buy once, buy quality, so getting rid of expensive clothes - even if they don’t fit/suit me, is really difficult. I don’t work so can choose what I want to wear which is mostly Coastal Grandma these days. Time to use your inspired reasoning and get the wardrobes (I’m UK) cleared. Thank you and happy retirement.
Wow I'd bet some of those clothes from when you were 15 are back in style and pretty cool! It is hard to get rid of expensive clothes. I looked up coastal grandma and I love it!
Don’t get rid of everything. I regret blazers and trousers that I could wear separately for funerals, etc. Blaxerx work with everything.
Great point! Rethinking some of those clothes is a great idea if you still like them and feel good in them.
Love this! Definitely going to look through my closet.
I will be doing this very thing in 2 weeks' time when I retire. I cannot wait to bin all the old work clothes and start the next stage in my life.
Oh congratulations!!! It is liberating! 🎉
I just found your channel, and really enjoyed this video! I'm into clothes, just did a closet purge and in the midst of big life changes too, so had to sub!
Oh great! Oh I see you have a channel too, I will have to check it out!
I believe jackets wear casual with trousers also tops wear round the home only for cleaning up in also if not like anymore get rid of them
This was really helpful!!
Oh great! 👍
Love camel sweater goes with anything