Beyoncé has always been an icon. She has been graceful and humble throughout her career. In this interview with Oprah, she shares words of wisdom. #Beyoncé #oprah #interview
I was mulling over this and I wonder how long it takes to have your own life and when do you know exactly that you have your own life. I ask because I am over 40 and although I have my own life which means I am now starting out on my 3rd career and does that now mean I have my own life and can have a husband because if I’m honest I never feel ready.
@@blossomuk If you’ll never feel ready then maybe you don’t need marriage. It’s not a necessity. I’m 20 years old but I feel like it can happen at almost any age as long as you are at a point in your life where you feel like you can offer yourself the necessities, that you want from life. Is that a house? Is that a career? A car? Stable mental state? Etc. It doesn’t matter as long as you know, that everything you need isn’t relying on that marriage. Because god forbid, if things go wrong for whatever reason… you need to be sure that you still have what you had before the marriage.
Honestly, it’s not being 40 that makes you ready to be a wife. It’s so many internal factors and honestly it’s if you ever meet the right one! That’s probably the biggest thing. You can be amazing but if you don’t meet someone that embodies that which you seek for marriage then that has more to do with if you’ll get a husband or not.
@@isaidwhatisaid3564 Being only 20 yrs you laid that out perfectly. As I was reading through it, I had comments I wanted to make, but by the time I finished reading it, you had covered it all. Well said.
@@SusanAnnanThat's not true at all! Don't tell that lie! Lemonade is the living embodiment of her having her own life. She knew where her boundaries were and she didn't have a problem with exposing them and exposing the person that hurt her. No matter what their fame was. Yes she stayed with him because that's the human part of her, but that doesn't mean that she lost herself. A lot of us do the same thing with a broke n****a. So there's that.
If you study the person that you're marrying before you marry that person you won't have to worry about losing yourself what is that anyway it doesn't make sense
She’s a con woman, encouraging young women to run around being 304’s and ‘you don’t need no man’ is her entire brand. She leaves you dumb ass women standing around singing ‘all the single ladies’, while she goes home and bakes cup cakes for her husband
If you’re a naturally private person an interview with personal questions is going to be a bit uncomfortable. She did them for her job and that’s respectable. I like that she’s now in a place in her career where she don’t HAVE to do them, that’s a flex not many famous ppl have.
@@NourKLIAlmsot every artist in Hollywood has been sued whether it’s publicized or not. Also Beyonce has been sued in the past and they all were UNSUCCESSFUL. Just like this one will FLOP just like your comment is a FLOP.
After my newborn daughter died i saw her documentary, in which she said that her miscarriage taught her to mother herself first before mothering another person
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 can you father yourself? Or is this just some super power women have where they can mother themselves? Beyoncé has a real mother who has been with her every step of the way she never has or could mother herself. The statement is utterly ridiculous.
@@repentyasharahla7632 nurture yourself, take care of yourself before you do somebody else. It makes sense. If you can't carry yourself you'll carry no one.
@@ruth5538 that I understand but her statement still doesn’t make sense. People will try to find some deep meaning to it because of who she is but children and adults who grow up without a mother know they can’t mother themselves.
@@shogun0810 Forgiving her cheating husband was HER choice to make, in HER life. Just like the MILLIONS of other women that stay with their spouses that have cheated. She is human.
To me it’s more like “ HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE after BECOMING SOMEONES WIFE” cuz women tend to lose themselves in raising children, try to please the husband’, having a career and running a household……
What I really like about this excerpt is exactly that. The respect for her own privacy as should be understood by Oprah herself. She doesn’t like people talking about her intimate relationships either.
This is something that I wish I had heard early on in my life because I had got married young and didn't do anything for me. Everything was about was about my husband and my kids. 10 years later and I'm just starting to live for myself and not feeling guilty about it. Ladies please love yourself first!
You should stayed in your marriage if you had a good husband. You are basically saying your family was not worth it and you should not have had it when you did
@@jessiegoodwin7479 I'm still married to my husband. I was saying that I was broken when we first met and had lost myself in him completely for a while. I literally just learned how to love myself because I couldn't love anyone fully until I learned how to love myself first. Don't put words in my mouth, my family are my everything and in order to be the best wife and mother, you have fix you first. And that is what don't feel guilty about!
@@jessiegoodwin7479 who are you to tell a stranger about their marriage? She didn't even say whether they are still together or not. Maybe the husband wasn't considerate and she left, but maybe they are still together and once the children grew up, she started to prioritise herself.
That's what this New age God of this world talk have you feeling, when you put GOD first and become born again, you can be transformed by the RENEWING of your mind Find out who you are in the body of Christ. You can still be who you are, go for what you want, and have a career. When you get married you become one, your needs can still be met, your husband and kids didn't stop that, we are the builders of our home. As long as he is supportive and you all have God in your union, everything will Work out. Don't let this new age rhetoric make you feel bad for doing what the Bible says is our job to do. You can still have a career and meaningful life, just don't make your career your life. Discernment is key I pray you feel better, seek the kingdom First and everything else will be added. ❤ Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos about these things try him. GOD bless and keep you.
@@kb9457 I wish Will and Jada listened.. I don't mind giving someone pointers when we talk privately or they give me pointers privately but to let loose in public about your private life is tacky.. I see if you giving people something motivational on how to keep their relationship going and that's what's up but keep that sh_t limited..
Beyoncé is just one of a kind. Of course she has had her mishaps in the media but she is a true gem. Regardless of the haters. Keep things that are close to the heart out of the media.
What mishaps? I b-leev it bcuz she hasn't been the best speaker. Some r criticizing her for getting the butt job, to that I say if that's what she wants leave her be.
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People put Beyonce down a lot behind the way she speaks & articulates herself during interviews, but it actually makes her more human and relatable and to be honest, I think she interviews just fine!... 💯💯💯
This isn’t the first time she has said this and I took it to heart the first time I heard it. Growing up around women who made men their lives and constantly kept getting their heartbroken yet everything they did was to be what a man wanted them to be . This was refreshing and life changing. I love this woman for that
You didn't grow up with women making men their lives. None of your experience in a marriage/relationship is first hand. But just remember you took this to heart. Because no man will ever make you his 'life' or Wife either. And if you somehow tricked one into doing so, you'll ruin it. Have a great day! 😇
Been there done that, I know my worth and my network, I will never let another man break me down! #myhusbanwasntit! Only beautiful thing he had in common is our 3 kids! I raised by myself while he was still living like he had no family, grown on high school shit 💯
@@teresabarrett4324 Red flag alert! We have a Homewrecker in our mist 😂😂 You raised them by yourself because you broke your own home and marriage. I'm sure you were the one breaking your husband down with all that Sign Language.
I told my wife a similar thing when we got married, I wanted her to have something in her life that jist hers, something not me or our son or anyone can lay claim to. And now she has her own business. I would tell any my son or any young person the same thing. A relationship only works when two whole people come together.
A relationship doesn’t only work when two whole people come together lmao. My wife and I have been married together for 20 yrs since high school. We had no idea what type of responsibility we were getting ourselves into when we were that young or the hardships would face both coming from broken homes. But we loved Each other, we work hard at communication despite our different styles, we compromise for each other in many ways and we trust God to help us with our imperfections. By no means were we whole but what we have is working and I wouldn’t tell others they need to be whole make it work. We are a constant work in progress and we’ve learned to embrace just that.
@Michael Jurek I’m good bro. It’s called the comments section. I didn’t use any caps or exclamation points. Sounds like you were bothered by my comment though. It’ll be ok….just relax.
@@udochukwuemmanuel5360 Oprah is a billionaire. Who gives a damn about having a man when you're filthy rich. There's nothing a man can do for a rich woman. A man would just be an accessory, not a necessity.
@@udochukwuemmanuel5360single where??? She and Stedman are living it UP all the time hun. The simply don't keep the public all in their business. Which is why u have no clue what u are talking about.
That Lapsus... "Bounderies"hahahaha 😂 she knows Oprah and was on her Guards 😂😂😂😂😂 That "uuuhhhhhfff" when Oprah asked her "how do you find time to get married" says it all ! ❤
She doesn't and it can be proved. If you or someone you know are a member of the Beehive, ask Beyonce: if she could only choose one and Has to give up the other, would she choose her career OR family? Let's be real, she would choose her Family of course. That's because for women, your biggest accomplishment is your family NOT your career. Let's be CLEAR, the women who are so hell bent on their career it's because that's all they got.
@@gzsmiz45 Interesting comment. One thing I’ve always wanted was my own family. Never happened, so career it is. I pray that one day I’ll have both. Until then, I’ve found contentment.
@@gzsmiz45 Beyonce would DEFINITELY choose her career over family if she could start over. She didn't even have her hoe phase Jay came in early && took all lat away lol
@@gzsmiz45 you also have to remember there was a time when Beyonce actually did choose work over Hov before they became really serious, which he shed light on in his song "Lost One"
@@gzsmiz45 she said have ur own life… and u equate that to meaning career… that doesn’t have to mean her career or her family lol. U think she would give up her kids?
“Make sure you have your life before you can be someone’s wife”- that’s a great hint But remember not to spend a lifetime of no substance and value before looking for someone to heal you.
@@redbullgavemewings1553 because they see everything as a gender war and every statement as propaganda against men even when it isn't. So they are always on the defensive.
She’s the first person I’ve seen that got married without tearing down single women. Most women who get married start putting there nose up at single women and assuming everyone is jealous of them. She respects everyone’s life journey and I truly admire that.
Even those of us who did stay home and had babies and loved it needed to have our own lives as well! Our own identity and things that we loved! I speak in past tense because when my kids all grew up and were gone and I found myself again he hated it and we are divorced as well. I am so happy with my own life now even with different stressors, at least I am free to be me now! I don’t regret any of my choices in life and hope everyone can make peace with their self and feel the same.
@@jareesgriffin9686 That is what they are teaching women to be strong and Independent and that they do not need a man. So women who were living in happy homes where the bills were being paid , the kids were being taken care of and there was a roof over their head now feel unhappy because they need to discover themselves. Divorce rewards women for breaking it
if some women don’t want to be stay at home moms then there is everything wrong with a man trying to force that on her when she clearly doesn’t want that. You assume that housewives were happy when in reality most weren’t. The men abused the women financially since they were the sole providers of the women hence why the first wave feminist movement occurred which was to get freedom from male oppression. Males use “strong independent” and “lonely, single” to insult women but we can see the history of male behavior to know that it is never a good idea to rely on men, no longer do women get threatened by singleness or independence because this is what most of us want. If you provider males want your wives to stay at home you should choose better women and then discuss the arrangements prior to marrying them then you wouldn’t have such a high percentage of women divorcing you. Choose better women.
@@BS-rr6uvI don't even think she was 18 yet by '99. And when I met her at a meet and greet in Chicago maybe in 2007ish, she was WONDERFUL and funny. I'll never forget it.
Most women on here hanging on to "Have your own life first" part and missing the whole point... she talks more about "BALANCE"....let's not forget she met Jay at 18 and started dating him at 19!.....thats the main point!
This lady is beautiful! She is such a fantastic example for ALL WOMEN! What she just said is such words of wisdom that I hope EVERY young girl could hear it. GOD BLESS Beyonce! ❤
You can also find someone who hasn’t fully built their “own life” and build it together. I personally like that option better. It makes married life more of a team concept.
She should work for the UN!!!!! That was a very cool diplomatic non-confrontational way to say, “my marriage is none of your business.” All while smiling and looking beautiful. She’s the queen 🐝
JOHN 3:16 FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH, BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.
She met him so young, so I think she is looking back, thinking she wishes she had her own life before she became his girlfriend/fiancé/wife. I think it was more to guide people because she was so young and didn't have that guidance herself.
Beyonce wanted to marry me but I wanted her to give up everything including her wealth so we could live in da hood and keepz itz realz. Needless to say, she declined. To this day i cant understand why. 😶
A lot of people make others their life and forget about their own 👏👏
I did that for most of my life, so far. I wish I had come into my own first.
Wow yes that’s so true!!! We need to not forget ourselves in the process.
Good point, Leah.
I agree with you.
Me 🙋🏾♀️. I had fun and my own life before I got married but then lost myself in the marriage and raising children.
“Make sure you have your own life before you become somebody else’s wife”💖💖 So true!! Thank you B!!
I was mulling over this and I wonder how long it takes to have your own life and when do you know exactly that you have your own life. I ask because I am over 40 and although I have my own life which means I am now starting out on my 3rd career and does that now mean I have my own life and can have a husband because if I’m honest I never feel ready.
@@blossomuk If you’ll never feel ready then maybe you don’t need marriage. It’s not a necessity.
I’m 20 years old but I feel like it can happen at almost any age as long as you are at a point in your life where you feel like you can offer yourself the necessities, that you want from life. Is that a house? Is that a career? A car? Stable mental state? Etc. It doesn’t matter as long as you know, that everything you need isn’t relying on that marriage. Because god forbid, if things go wrong for whatever reason… you need to be sure that you still have what you had before the marriage.
Not really sure what point you are making?@@isaidwhatisaid3564
Honestly, it’s not being 40 that makes you ready to be a wife. It’s so many internal factors and honestly it’s if you ever meet the right one! That’s probably the biggest thing. You can be amazing but if you don’t meet someone that embodies that which you seek for marriage then that has more to do with if you’ll get a husband or not.
@@isaidwhatisaid3564 Being only 20 yrs you laid that out perfectly. As I was reading through it, I had comments I wanted to make, but by the time I finished reading it, you had covered it all. Well said.
“Have your own life before becoming someone else’s wife” this quote must never die. True statements for real for real❤🙌🏽
Yes, but she didn’t follow her own advice 😭
@@SusanAnnanThat's not true at all! Don't tell that lie! Lemonade is the living embodiment of her having her own life. She knew where her boundaries were and she didn't have a problem with exposing them and exposing the person that hurt her. No matter what their fame was. Yes she stayed with him because that's the human part of her, but that doesn't mean that she lost herself. A lot of us do the same thing with a broke n****a. So there's that.
@@SusanAnnanwhat?
@@lana2658 meaning she started dating an old man when she was a kid pretty much & married way too young. It’s sad, but sadly not uncommon.
@@SusanAnnan she was 21 when she started dating jay and 26 when they married! Not that young to me
I agree with B. I told my daughter it's ok to love, but do not lose yourself. Always keep one up.
Absolutely that’s where I messed up
If you study the person that you're marrying before you marry that person you won't have to worry about losing yourself what is that anyway it doesn't make sense
‘Have your own life before becoming someone else’s wife’ absolute gold!!!
Exactly same for men
She’s a con woman, encouraging young women to run around being 304’s and ‘you don’t need no man’ is her entire brand.
She leaves you dumb ass women standing around singing ‘all the single ladies’, while she goes home and bakes cup cakes for her husband
Beyonce did not follow her own advice.
@@kiranholt3296that’s why she said that!!! Duh 🙄
@@user-Mimi622I believe her point is make sure that you accomplish all you want BEFORE attaching to someone else.
I swear Beyonce has such a beautiful smile
Understatement
One can't help but wonder why did Jay cheat on this woman? She's perfect.
@@pas_du_toutyou don’t know that bro. Is there anything or anybody that is perfect ?
When she smiles too wide you see her gums though. She did good here though
Yeah, but heard her mouth stank
It's crazy how nervous B is when doing interviews...but a SAVAGE on stage!
OUT OF BODY MENTALITY, SHE BECOMES SASHA FIERCE
Interviewers are harsh so yeah I'll be there same way.... See me on the screens and on stage but fuckk these interviews
Cuz homeskillet can't think on her feet. She's has to be coached and prepped by her many creative handlers. BeYawnSay is a puppet.
If you’re a naturally private person an interview with personal questions is going to be a bit uncomfortable. She did them for her job and that’s respectable. I like that she’s now in a place in her career where she don’t HAVE to do them, that’s a flex not many famous ppl have.
Big Virgo energy
I love how nervous and vulnerable she is in interviews❤ it’s humbling and authentic.
Lolll Well honey she is sued and exposed now 😂
@@NourKLIAlmsot every artist in Hollywood has been sued whether it’s publicized or not. Also Beyonce has been sued in the past and they all were UNSUCCESSFUL. Just like this one will FLOP just like your comment is a FLOP.
@@NourKLIBy who?
After my newborn daughter died i saw her documentary, in which she said that her miscarriage taught her to mother herself first before mothering another person
that doesn’t make any sense
@@repentyasharahla7632 Makes sense to me.
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 can you father yourself? Or is this just some super power women have where they can mother themselves? Beyoncé has a real mother who has been with her every step of the way she never has or could mother herself. The statement is utterly ridiculous.
@@repentyasharahla7632 nurture yourself, take care of yourself before you do somebody else. It makes sense. If you can't carry yourself you'll carry no one.
@@ruth5538 that I understand but her statement still doesn’t make sense. People will try to find some deep meaning to it because of who she is but children and adults who grow up without a mother know they can’t mother themselves.
“Have your own life, before you’re someone’s wife” - Beyoncé
💯 facts
My next T-shirt!
Yeah when you are rich like her from a very young age you can do that and have access to men of that caliber
Don't forget to take back your husband after he's cheated on you
All the single ladies woohoo 🙈😂
Didn't she meet Jay when she was like 19, what life did she have before she met him?
@@shogun0810 Forgiving her cheating husband was HER choice to make, in HER life. Just like the MILLIONS of other women that stay with their spouses that have cheated. She is human.
This young lady is LONG GONE now....
To me it’s more like “ HAVE YOUR OWN LIFE after BECOMING SOMEONES WIFE” cuz women tend to lose themselves in raising children, try to please the husband’, having a career and running a household……
I still can’t get over how shy Beyoncé is outside of singing and performing. 🥰
Sasha hasn't shown up
she said boundaries, because she was thinking about maintaining her boundaries during interviews. Great Freudian slip.
What I really like about this excerpt is exactly that. The respect for her own privacy as should be understood by Oprah herself. She doesn’t like people talking about her intimate relationships either.
thought so too. And i knew oprah knew too. But that's how she gets all the money... Knows how to push those boundaries with love 😂
Never thought about it that way
Cause it's non existence in Herr marriage
@@sentosaco cause it's a fraud and Oprah knew that
She’s got to be the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen (and heard) in my life
Literally I saw baby pics of her and Solange, Tina made some beautiful babies
This is something that I wish I had heard early on in my life because I had got married young and didn't do anything for me. Everything was about was about my husband and my kids. 10 years later and I'm just starting to live for myself and not feeling guilty about it. Ladies please love yourself first!
You should stayed in your marriage if you had a good husband. You are basically saying your family was not worth it and you should not have had it when you did
Ths is exactly how Beyonce feel👀👏🏾
@@jessiegoodwin7479 I'm still married to my husband. I was saying that I was broken when we first met and had lost myself in him completely for a while. I literally just learned how to love myself because I couldn't love anyone fully until I learned how to love myself first. Don't put words in my mouth, my family are my everything and in order to be the best wife and mother, you have fix you first. And that is what don't feel guilty about!
@@jessiegoodwin7479 who are you to tell a stranger about their marriage? She didn't even say whether they are still together or not. Maybe the husband wasn't considerate and she left, but maybe they are still together and once the children grew up, she started to prioritise herself.
That's what this New age God of this world talk have you feeling, when you put GOD first and become born again, you can be transformed by the RENEWING of your mind
Find out who you are in the body of Christ.
You can still be who you are, go for what you want, and have a career. When you get married you become one, your needs can still be met, your husband and kids didn't stop that, we are the builders of our home.
As long as he is supportive and you all have God in your union, everything will
Work out. Don't let this new age rhetoric make you feel bad for doing what the Bible says is our job to do. You can still have a career and meaningful life, just don't make your career your life. Discernment is key
I pray you feel better, seek the kingdom
First and everything else will be added. ❤
Pastor Kevin la Ewing has videos about these things try him. GOD bless and keep you.
All of Beyoncé’s “ums” makes me feel a lot better about mine. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Same here
@@flourishwithflowers_ 🫂❤️
I like her "umm"-ing than saying "like" as fillers
She is choosing her words carefully..
Umms generally mean the words that are being said are worthless
Oprah slick, she knows Beyonce never talked about her relationship but she did squeeze a gem out of Bey.
That's her job 😊🏆
@@kb9457 I wish Will and Jada listened.. I don't mind giving someone pointers when we talk privately or they give me pointers privately but to let loose in public about your private life is tacky.. I see if you giving people something motivational on how to keep their relationship going and that's what's up but keep that sh_t limited..
The interview is scripted.
Right, she just sing about it😂
@@kenrickeason Yeah im glad Beyoncé kept her relationship private
This woman is insanely beautiful and intelligent!
Beautiful? Maybe.
Intelligent? Nopes!
@@peternagy3942she definitely wouldn’t have been so successful if she wasn’t intelligent when it comes to performing and music.
@@peternagy3942she is beautiful dumbass don’t u hv eyes n yhssss she’s intelligent
@@peternagy3942Why not?
And very compasion. Have you heard how much she pay her employees?...
Beyoncé is just one of a kind. Of course she has had her mishaps in the media but she is a true gem. Regardless of the haters. Keep things that are close to the heart out of the media.
Mishaps? Like what?
What mishaps? I b-leev it bcuz she hasn't been the best speaker. Some r criticizing her for getting the butt job, to that I say if that's what she wants leave her be.
Beyoncé has media mishaps? _Someone’s getting fired_
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Beyonce has never done anything wrong!😂
People put Beyonce down a lot behind the way she speaks & articulates herself during interviews, but it actually makes her more human and relatable and to be honest, I think she interviews just fine!... 💯💯💯
That statement is everything! It's so important so that you know who you are!!
I love her… a beautiful way to say move in silence no matter how excited you are about something keep it to yourself.
Facts!
This is beyond the truth!
I’m a Gemini…I can’t!
@@Ferris-yz8ct I'm a Gemini. I've never moved differently.
I totally agree, because you must love yourself first.
You have to love God Almighty In Heaven First,In the name of Jesus Christ Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
This isn’t the first time she has said this and I took it to heart the first time I heard it. Growing up around women who made men their lives and constantly kept getting their heartbroken yet everything they did was to be what a man wanted them to be . This was refreshing and life changing. I love this woman for that
You didn't grow up with women making men their lives. None of your experience in a marriage/relationship is first hand.
But just remember you took this to heart.
Because no man will ever make you his 'life' or Wife either. And if you somehow tricked one into doing so, you'll ruin it.
Have a great day! 😇
Been there done that, I know my worth and my network, I will never let another man break me down! #myhusbanwasntit! Only beautiful thing he had in common is our 3 kids! I raised by myself while he was still living like he had no family, grown on high school shit 💯
@@teresabarrett4324 Red flag alert! We have a Homewrecker in our mist 😂😂
You raised them by yourself because you broke your own home and marriage.
I'm sure you were the one breaking your husband down with all that Sign Language.
Soooooooo.True. Have your own life first.
@@teresabarrett4324 proud of you for knowing your worth! Good example for women out there.
She's genius for saying that
I told my wife a similar thing when we got married, I wanted her to have something in her life that jist hers, something not me or our son or anyone can lay claim to. And now she has her own business. I would tell any my son or any young person the same thing. A relationship only works when two whole people come together.
Wow 👍
A relationship doesn’t only work when two whole people come together lmao. My wife and I have been married together for 20 yrs since high school. We had no idea what type of responsibility we were getting ourselves into when we were that young or the hardships would face both coming from broken homes. But we loved Each other, we work hard at communication despite our different styles, we compromise for each other in many ways and we trust God to help us with our imperfections. By no means were we whole but what we have is working and I wouldn’t tell others they need to be whole make it work. We are a constant work in progress and we’ve learned to embrace just that.
@@reymysterio7863 God doesn't exist
@Michael Jurek I’m good bro. It’s called the comments section. I didn’t use any caps or exclamation points. Sounds like you were bothered by my comment though. It’ll be ok….just relax.
@@kelliewhyte_85 prove it
I love that Oprah gives her a handshake after the final answer 😂🤝🏿
It deserves a handshake tho what an answer!
Cuz Oprah felt that! Lol Oprah been with Stedmen since '86. She not gonna marry that man. She has "her own life", no attachments 😂🤷🏾♀️
She is single and lonely that's why she wants Beyonce to join her 😂😂
@@udochukwuemmanuel5360 Oprah is a billionaire. Who gives a damn about having a man when you're filthy rich. There's nothing a man can do for a rich woman. A man would just be an accessory, not a necessity.
@@udochukwuemmanuel5360single where???
She and Stedman are living it UP all the time hun. The simply don't keep the public all in their business. Which is why u have no clue what u are talking about.
I never noticed how beautiful Beyoncés eyes are
Bey she so pretty kind smart and talented. 👑
She's so beautiful
She soo elegant. She so wonderful
So y'all just gonna skip over the fact that she didn't actually answer the question at all.
I mean, it’s not like we can go make her answer the question.
Yes she did you just did not get it🙂🙂😁
She did oprea said how did you have time to be a wife??
She answered each question asked.
She basically said she won't answer questions about her personal life, she was there on business so lets talkin about business.
That Lapsus... "Bounderies"hahahaha 😂 she knows Oprah and was on her Guards 😂😂😂😂😂 That "uuuhhhhhfff" when Oprah asked her "how do you find time to get married" says it all ! ❤
She basically said, she doesn't have time for Stedman.
@@arreola891 😂😂😂😂
Most woman won’t have billions to protect themselves from lifelong loneliness.
Beyoncé is so damn BÉAUTIFUL 😩😭😍 Fuck 🤧 I could watch her talk all day lol
They don’t call her Queen Bey for nothing 💀💪🏽🔥♥️
Just like Jennifer Aniston once said I WAS HAPPY BEFORE I MET BRAD HE JUST ADDED ON TO MY HAPPINESS.
Beyonce is so beautiful and wise
She is Naturally Brilliant and elegant she has not changed what a personality ❤BW
She’s such an elegant woman!! I love her poise and grace… go Beyoncé ❤️❤️🥹🥹
And the devil worshiper .
Poise and grace? Except when she's shaking her booty all over the stage for other men 😳
@@almazyassin1829 good for her.
This made me respect Beyoncé on a whole new level😍
Me too
It's True that love is not about age
..."to make sure you have your own life, before you're someone else's wife..."
Smart words...
“And I mean that.” You know she does
She doesn't and it can be proved. If you or someone you know are a member of the Beehive, ask Beyonce: if she could only choose one and Has to give up the other, would she choose her career OR family? Let's be real, she would choose her Family of course. That's because for women, your biggest accomplishment is your family NOT your career. Let's be CLEAR, the women who are so hell bent on their career it's because that's all they got.
@@gzsmiz45 Interesting comment. One thing I’ve always wanted was my own family. Never happened, so career it is. I pray that one day I’ll have both. Until then, I’ve found contentment.
@@gzsmiz45 Beyonce would DEFINITELY choose her career over family if she could start over. She didn't even have her hoe phase Jay came in early && took all lat away lol
@@gzsmiz45 you also have to remember there was a time when Beyonce actually did choose work over Hov before they became really serious, which he shed light on in his song "Lost One"
@@gzsmiz45 she said have ur own life… and u equate that to meaning career… that doesn’t have to mean her career or her family lol. U think she would give up her kids?
“Make sure you have your life before you can be someone’s wife”- that’s a great hint
But remember not to spend a lifetime of no substance and value before looking for someone to heal you.
Heal yourself, never expect a partner to heal you. X
@@jaynepaige5702 So true
That's so on point
@@jaynepaige5702 💯💯💯
I think that's code forJay-Z is very controlling
She is so stunning. Just stunning.
Nothing wrong with getting your education first, always being able to support yourself ( just in case)
Do you feel the same about men getting Prenups?
@@afroslacker7383 this discussion is not about men. Why do men want to make everything about them??
@@redbullgavemewings1553 because they see everything as a gender war and every statement as propaganda against men even when it isn't. So they are always on the defensive.
She's BEAUTIFUL because she understands that having boundaries is important. I WISH MORE WOMEN UNDERSTOOD THIS ❤
She’s the first person I’ve seen that got married without tearing down single women. Most women who get married start putting there nose up at single women and assuming everyone is jealous of them. She respects everyone’s life journey and I truly admire that.
So true
Because she's self made. She doesn't really need him. She's also a feminist
Y would she do that?
She wouldn’t have said that anyway even if that’s how she felt
@@kamariatoure42 true but she’s also old fashioned and was raised right so she’ll never be just a baby mother without being a wife to a man
look at her poise and hand placement. this woman is pure class, work ethic is out of this world.
👍
PURE wisdom. I learned the hard way and that's why I'm divorced..he wanted me to stay home , do nothing and be pregnant. Love your words Beyonce
Even those of us who did stay home and had babies and loved it needed to have our own lives as well! Our own identity and things that we loved! I speak in past tense because when my kids all grew up and were gone and I found myself again he hated it and we are divorced as well. I am so happy with my own life now even with different stressors, at least I am free to be me now! I don’t regret any of my choices in life and hope everyone can make peace with their self and feel the same.
But there is nothing wrong with being a stay at home Mom. You can still find your Identity while being in the home
So you broke up your family cuz you was home bored? Smh
@@jareesgriffin9686 That is what they are teaching women to be strong and Independent and that they do not need a man. So women who were living in happy homes where the bills were being paid , the kids were being taken care of and there was a roof over their head now feel unhappy because they need to discover themselves. Divorce rewards women for breaking it
if some women don’t want to be stay at home moms then there is everything wrong with a man trying to force that on her when she clearly doesn’t want that. You assume that housewives were happy when in reality most weren’t. The men abused the women financially since they were the sole providers of the women hence why the first wave feminist movement occurred which was to get freedom from male oppression. Males use “strong independent” and “lonely, single” to insult women but we can see the history of male behavior to know that it is never a good idea to rely on men, no longer do women get threatened by singleness or independence because this is what most of us want. If you provider males want your wives to stay at home you should choose better women and then discuss the arrangements prior to marrying them then you wouldn’t have such a high percentage of women divorcing you. Choose better women.
And some people would still say Beyonce is not as intelligent as we think.. they even accused her of not writing her own songs
if *Beyonce* said that kind of advice to me I'd shake her hand too like yeah girl I 💯 agree
That is not good advice.
@@ronj7658 care to explain why it isn’t good advice?
It's amazing how ordinary she is...true legend.
Exactly. She’s Amazing, yet simple like a southern girl like me.
@@niseydeniseterry7796 smh
@@niseydeniseterry7796 you must be a catch then..
FROM A BLACK MAN PERSPECTIVE BEYONCE IS AMAZING!!!!!
BEYONCE IS RIGHT THERE WITH ALL THE GREATS IN MUSIC HISTORY!!!!💯💯💯
I swear she hiding angel wings
She almost made her feel bad for getting married. Some old women be helping you make the same mistake they made.
I’m glad that there are women such as yourself out there that are aware of this.
@@uncle_ben_rices_nephew thank you 😊 I am African and we still value marriage and respect our partners.
@@unwindwithlisa Beyonce is married too
@@bluedalia1114 your point?
She sounds like quite a sincere and thoughtful person
Met her in Philly during NBA ALL STAR WEEKEND 99-00 , she was either drunk or a natural airhead ..😂
@@eshowell20sure you did, but anyway, let’s say you did meet her, you saw her at 18-19 years old. In this video, she would be at least 8 years older.
@@BS-rr6uvI don't even think she was 18 yet by '99. And when I met her at a meet and greet in Chicago maybe in 2007ish, she was WONDERFUL and funny. I'll never forget it.
So pretty she really is.
WAS.
@@LeahInAtlantaSTILL IS
My mom always told me to want a man never need a man. So many women lose their self if they happen to break up and think they cant move on.
THAT'S so TRUE.. BEYONCÉ..YOU'RE such a SWEET LADY..I HOPE YOU ARE SO HAPPY! YOU DESERVE IT! MY LOVE 💓 ❤️
So pretty
Beyonce is Beautiful Jayz got a winner!!!
Wauw, that felt like a wordsalad to me.
Chopped word salad
Cause you're not ready for this grown up talk
@@dcdemon5951 nah it was word salad, yall be fake deep as hell lmaooooo
@@purgetheXYs you're immature you can't understand this life lesson yet stop trying to get attention
@Study Time it was tho. she said whole lot of words without saying much in general. could have been much simpler. Stop being fake deep
one of the most beautiful women on the planet.
She's been doing what she's told to do NOTHING has changed
Most women on here hanging on to "Have your own life first" part and missing the whole point... she talks more about "BALANCE"....let's not forget she met Jay at 18 and started dating him at 19!.....thats the main point!
Yea she didn’t have her own adult life! She is trying to warn folks w/o sounding negative 🤣
@@IAmEmber I’m just curious. What do you think her typical adult life that she supposedly didn’t have, would have been like?
@@IAmEmber Right!
@@tundeolaosebikan4643Getting ran through by multiple dudes and having multiple kids by multiple baby daddies!....😂🤣😂
@@tundeolaosebikan4643 Basic decision-making.
This lady is beautiful! She is such a fantastic example for ALL WOMEN! What she just said is such words of wisdom that I hope EVERY young girl could hear it. GOD BLESS Beyonce! ❤
A perfect woman is one who pleases her husband
Just full of grace and wisdom, I love how she thinks and moves.
Have you seen this woman's music videos? And you still say she has grace and wisdom? Those are the last two words I would put next to her name.
Beyonce telling her truth excellent 👌
Amen!!! Have your own life..before your someone else's wife!!! Words to live by ❤🔥🙏👑🙏🔥❤
The force behind the question "do you like being a wife" sounds almost condemnatory
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That was her exact intention. Downplaying marriage. Oprah is the devil
She's right have your life first ❤
You can also find someone who hasn’t fully built their “own life” and build it together. I personally like that option better. It makes married life more of a team concept.
In my next world, I wouldn't ever get myself involved with someone who doesn't have a life of his own. NEVER
Well said Beyonce ❤
Wow she is poised such a beautiful woman
She's so honest and hunble. What a beautyfull woman. Jay is the best choise for her. ❤️👍🏻
I always believed this. My friends kept pushing me to get married to my bf just coming out of college; but i wanted to build something for me first❤
Ok, so what🤔she speaks the truth. And Oprah,?why you’re not married? That’s should’ve been her answered.😳🥺
the more I hear from her. The more I Like her.
She should work for the UN!!!!! That was a very cool diplomatic non-confrontational way to say, “my marriage is none of your business.” All while smiling and looking beautiful. She’s the queen 🐝
THE REALEST THANG BAE HAS EVER SAID‼️👏🏾👏🏾❤️❤️ N SHE'S SPEAKING TRUTH💪🏽‼️
That was an iconic quote.
She tried not to cry saying that last sentence 😢
JOHN 3:16 FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD, THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, THAT WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH, BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.
Beyonce looked absolutely awesome, she's like a beauty queen, I love her!!
She met him so young, so I think she is looking back, thinking she wishes she had her own life before she became his girlfriend/fiancé/wife.
I think it was more to guide people because she was so young and didn't have that guidance herself.
Great advice from one of the most beautiful black women in the world.
And Beyonce' is smoking gorgeous too ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Best answer in life for All Humans. Teach your children to be independent women and men.
Beyond...perfect as always Bee
Women in Latin America need to hear this.
I really do believe Oprah is so negative towards marriage or jealous of married real lovers who are married. Real love ❤️ will make you marry.
Why would Oprah be jealous? Oprah turn down Stedman how many times ⏲️ jealous of a fail marriage beyonce and Jay z 🤔
That's why space is needed
Oprah how did you've time to be born? Blessing's timeless, my dear. Marriage's a blessing too.
I mean it.
You have your own life the moment you are conceived.!
Beyonce wanted to marry me but I wanted her to give up everything including her wealth so we could live in da hood and keepz itz realz.
Needless to say, she declined. To this day i cant understand why. 😶
🤣
Oooohhh maaannne! What cud she have possibly been thinkin! smh....you'll always be the one that got away...😏
Silly LOL
She tremebled on the last sentence. Sounded like she needed strength to say it.
Her makeup is so fresh here 😍
That looked like an initiation hand shake..😆🥱🤔
You caught it as well. I thought i was overthinking.