#91 Why Our "Fat, Hairy, Lazy Wives" Podcast Got Taken Down... || Chai With My Bhai

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  • @RighteousnRich
    @RighteousnRich  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

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    • @taasmr4203
      @taasmr4203 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *Irani Muslim girl met Indian Hindu Radical on instagram, and now she is getting married with him with the approval of her parents. Plus, she goes to Hindu Mandir, where she worships sculptures and commits Shirk.*
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  • @theorphicintellectual
    @theorphicintellectual 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    the title in of itself causes a lot of fitnah and will simply encourage gender wars. this isn’t proper adab at all. the sahaba would not have addressed the topic this way.

    • @Madmarkhor
      @Madmarkhor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Sisters not beautifying themselves for their husbands causes fitnah let's get that straight. If a certain demographic of sisters want to take offence to brothers calling attention to these modern day issues then that's on them. U saying it's not proper adab makes me question wether ud even watched that podcast 🤔 did u?

    • @theorphicintellectual
      @theorphicintellectual 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@Madmarkhor sister, you are me misunderstanding and i don’t have time to argue with a person i don’t even know lol. i never said it was the intent of their speech to cause fitnah. clearly i addressed the title of the video instead of the content of the video. both spouses need to strive for the pleasure of the other, which im sure is common knowledge. assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Madmarkhor facts

    • @justshushmate
      @justshushmate 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏

    • @nasimabegum4128
      @nasimabegum4128 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MadmarkhorTry to sympathise. Just look at how dolled up women are outside. Sisters are having to compete with Kaffir women (some even Muslim) who have all time in the world to dress up and do their hair and makeup. Beauty standards are over the roof as a result.

  • @naima-mh6pp
    @naima-mh6pp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Using those terms “fat, hairy lazy wife” doesn’t sound like the speech of the prophet pbh or how he would address his wives or woman in general so why are we speaking and using these terms? This seems to be a common trend amongst young Muslims nowadays and their speech. Let’s have more adab, respect and haya when speaking on men and woman.

    • @omarsharif4741
      @omarsharif4741 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Imagine shaykh fawzan using thoes terms. YOU CANT.

    • @Zaitoon15
      @Zaitoon15 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree. Vulgar language and insulting a persons appearance was not the way of the Prophet SAW. And definitely not the way he spoke about his wives. I for one am glad the video got pulled down.

  • @missa7777
    @missa7777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    That title was so wrong coming from Imran. I expect that stuff from Fresh and Fit and those kind of poeple.

    • @thehourglassfan3515
      @thehourglassfan3515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Have you seen the video? May Allah guide him and us. He sounded a little emotional. I know he means well but it wasn’t wise in my opinion.

    • @missa7777
      @missa7777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@thehourglassfan3515 I saw the video. The message of the video was directed towards both husbands and wives. He spoke about making effort to please your spouse by looking good and staying in shape. But for some reason the title was only about Fat hairy wives, even tho he addressed both husbands and wives. It was a good video but maybe it was a clickbait tactic. It deffo got alot of poeple attention

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yall are so soft get help

    • @theorphicintellectual
      @theorphicintellectual 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@suhaibsuhaib5947fear ﷲ. it’s not a matter of being soft. he was causing fitnah and it was plainly disrespectful

    • @Madmarkhor
      @Madmarkhor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its disrespectful for sisters to expect their husbands to do their role when they dont do theirs. Coming from a sister​@celeste09372

  • @reem-et1se
    @reem-et1se 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    the podcast name is crazy 😭

    • @sarsurab2778
      @sarsurab2778 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That episode that got taken down was so beneficial man!

    • @Lancer5ive
      @Lancer5ive 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      is there anywhere I can find it?@@sarsurab2778

    • @Maymunah101
      @Maymunah101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know could have named anything lol

    • @MOTHUG786
      @MOTHUG786 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sarsurab2778 I didn't see it unfortunately, can we still see it?

    • @applepie7537
      @applepie7537 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sarsurab2778yeah it was really beneficial. I’m not married yet but it really did give me an insight married life. It is true many sisters don’t maintain themselves after marriage

  • @Maymunah101
    @Maymunah101 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    You can make a point without putting something like that as a title. 🤷🏽‍♀️ you could have named it anything but not in that way. You would think a person with “knowledge” would understand you don’t have to word things in that way.

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This.

    • @playaaA-fp1vo
      @playaaA-fp1vo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not if you are addressing arrogant, unruly, hypocritical misandrist "muslim" women.

  • @hdA7573
    @hdA7573 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I feel like men don’t have haya no more💯.

    • @justshushmate
      @justshushmate 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it’s not a feel like it’s a proven fact

    • @ikrak5599
      @ikrak5599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      elaborate?

    • @hdA7573
      @hdA7573 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ikrak5599 the title👀etc

  • @MAli99923
    @MAli99923 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Well done to Abu Bakr for his maturity, you've come a long way

  • @___sxbr___
    @___sxbr___ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Ibn Qayyim Rahimullah said:
    “One of the tricks of shaytaan: he encourages the abandonment of commanding the good and forbidding the evil with the excuse of being kind to people and bringing them close”
    Shaykh Muqbil Rahimullah said:
    “Ahlul sunnah do not have extremism among them, rather the people have become accustomed to softness”
    Shaykh Al Abany Rahimullah said: “The truth is heavy, so do not make it heavy with your bad manners. I used to believe that the main problem in the ummah is Aqidah but it became clear to me that it is Aqidah and bad manners”

    • @___sxbr___
      @___sxbr___ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A sister shared these advices with me v recently. enjoyed the episode. بارك الله فيك

  • @TheAmirSighted
    @TheAmirSighted 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Title name made me think brother mahdi tijani was gonna be on the podcast 😂

  • @Yousef_7342
    @Yousef_7342 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Laa ilaaha illallaah brothers the title is just mind blowing.

    • @demha8444
      @demha8444 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😭😭😭😭

  • @sistersr123
    @sistersr123 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Brother Imran came to Birmingham to do a talk a long time ago for a charity event, discussing a well known rapper at the time who had passed away in a tragic accident, the talk was firm and brother Imran was quite passionate about the topic, I believe it was about the toxicity of sin and was a angry topic in itself, unfortunately for brother imrans phone it was thrown across the room. Suddenly all the women and people who were chatting became attentive and quiet.
    I didn't know much about his dawah but just of the name dawahman, I was curious and found naseeha sessions or the old channel I think it was but since then my life has changed. Firstly Alhamdulillah all thanks and praise is to Allah, it is he who guides whom he wills.
    But also thank you to brother Imran for waking us up that day May Allah reward him 😅

    • @RighteousnRich
      @RighteousnRich  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      May Allah keep you firm sister ameen

  • @Crotionary
    @Crotionary 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don’t think the public is on the board, I think a better way to understand it is, in a company, there are the board of directors, the opinion of the public who use the goods or services of the company matter but they are not on the board, customers are not on the board so I think I agree with brother imran.

  • @whatagem7077
    @whatagem7077 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    What type of title is this ? Do you really want to fan the already growing divide between men and women? Why post such a disparaging thing? May Allah guide you

    • @whatagem7077
      @whatagem7077 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@thehourglassfan3515 exactly, and I did the same. No one would care if they approached conversations or topics with respect and compassion. This just furthers the gender wars which should be non-existent in Islam. May Allah keep us Muslim sisters steadfast and the coolness of our spouses eyes’.

    • @thehourglassfan3515
      @thehourglassfan3515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@whatagem7077 Amen. I’m a brother though lol. Having said that, I agree with everything you said.

    • @justshushmate
      @justshushmate 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ameen

    • @whatagem7077
      @whatagem7077 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thehourglassfan3515 jazakallah brother may allah grant u goodness

    • @thehourglassfan3515
      @thehourglassfan3515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@whatagem7077 Same to you, sister.

  • @Jeinabou-t4h
    @Jeinabou-t4h 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Barakhallahu feek. We need more people like Brother Imran. Many oppression going on between Muslims, nowadays. They think it's okay to make others' lives torture because of power. We need more Muslims who can talk and ACTUALLY MAKE A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER. Safer environment, especially the masaajid. May Allah bless you all in this life and the next. Ameen.

  • @EXPOSINGNADEEM
    @EXPOSINGNADEEM 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A reminder to all the brothers who bang on about "wanting a wife like the wives of Rasoolallah saw". Aisha RA herself narrated a time when she would race against the prophet when she was slim and beat him. She herself said, “I raced him on foot and I outran him, but when I gained some weight, I raced him again and he outran me. The Prophet said: This is for that race.”
    Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 2578
    Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
    If your wife has put on weight, help her and motivate her to become FIT, not a skeleton. If she's hairy, pay for her laser hair removal sessions they cost about £700 for 6 sessions but most of the Asian brothers are too kanjoos to spend that kind of money so keep your complaints to a minimum

    • @s.adnansami5106
      @s.adnansami5106 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      FYI, unless I'm mistaken, she didn't beat Rasulullaah ﷺ but he ﷺ pretended to have lost, out of kindness and in a lighthearted way.

    • @EXPOSINGNADEEM
      @EXPOSINGNADEEM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @s.adnansami5106 whether he pretended or he didn't is besides the point. The point is she herself admitted that she had put on weight and on account of this weight gain she believed she lost the race. Highlighting that like 99% of women, the wives of Rasoolallah saw also gained weight during marriage. So if you're going to complain about your wife being abit chubby or hairy, then you should pay the expenses of helping her. But men will complain all day long about what their wife looks like and unfortunately most Asian men are misers who don't want to foot the bill for things like laser hair removal. So they should remain quiet. Some women have medical conditions like pcos or hirsutism, look it up. Shaving doesn't help for many women and so laser is the only option. Cough up or shut up.

    • @s.adnansami5106
      @s.adnansami5106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@EXPOSINGNADEEM well, gaining weight is part of life, happens to everyone. They were talking about noticeably overweight women, the kind who are negligent and defiant. Secondly, diseases like pcos and hirsutism are abnormalities and not the norm, it's like using a man who cannot grow any facial hair at all as an example to justify shaving the beard which obviously makes no sense either. I cannot remember the content of the video and what was being said about women with too much body hair or if that was just part of the title to exaggerate it more but you're right that if a woman has this issue, it's not her fault because it's out of her control and the husband needs to deal with it accordingly. But despite this, there are still hair removal creams that do work for quite a few months and also there are so many body hair razors and products for women out there, so what do you say about that?

    • @EXPOSINGNADEEM
      @EXPOSINGNADEEM 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @s.adnansami5106 actually as a former laser hair removal specialist, what you've said is totally incorrect. 70% of women who actually suffer from it remain undiagnosed. It runs in the family and is extremely common amongst Pakistani and Indian women. Hirsutism is a symptom of having pcos. Therefore to simply suggest women "use a razor every few days" does not make the problem better, all it means is that the women will have very sensitive red and possibly itchy skin, not to mention shaving rashes everytime she uses a razor. I'm sure as a man YOU wouldn't like to have to use a razor on the same area of skin every 3 days, so not really sure why you would think this is a reasonable request for women. You should try shaving the same patch of skin 2 or 3 times a week on extremely thick hair and you'll soon change your mind. I think rather than find excuses for men not to spend on their wives you should do research on matters you're not educated on. Or remain silent.

  • @akhis5459
    @akhis5459 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Public perception is necessary.
    Especailly as a Daaee that is trying to call to the correct methodology.
    I'm sure Imran is a good brother and means well bur he has it totally wrong here.

  • @Madmarkhor
    @Madmarkhor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    6:51 Even as a sister ive experinced some wild disrespectful sisters. They talk over the speaker or r distracting with their crunching and munching and leave their rubbish in the corner. They dont even stay for the whole lesson but ruined it for all the other sisters who turned up. Ive attended a lesson where a group of sisters were asked 5 times by different sisters to quiten down and they didnt.

  • @SY-wj4tn
    @SY-wj4tn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Assalamu`alaikum, when are the fiqh lessons coming back? They were very beneficial

  • @yannicksandras8886
    @yannicksandras8886 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Asalaam aleykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
    Let's be honest brothers and sisters, majority of the times it's the public, the viewers that need to take a chill pill and maybe reserve giving an opinion. People get offended very fast without even taking a moment to contemplate and ponder about what has been said, especially when they perceive it to be in a wrong manner, before making up their mind and reacting.

    • @Drheight_687
      @Drheight_687 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed very very true

    • @MarziaQuaid
      @MarziaQuaid 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      imagine if there was a video titled all men are rapists, wife beaters, and drunks?

  • @wm9669
    @wm9669 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The title belongs to Mahdi Tijani. I did not expect that from you .

  • @xyz75355
    @xyz75355 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    59:14 akh you shouldn’t lie as a joke the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said woe to those who lie to make people laugh (or something similar)

    • @s.adnansami5106
      @s.adnansami5106 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know the context cus Im still watching the vid but stuff like sarcasm isn't haram because everyone knows what is intended by that.

  • @roshirants
    @roshirants 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "We didn't stop being a thorn in the neck" 😂 Love Imran for the sake of Allah! May Allah increase him and preserve him Ameen🙏

    • @thestraightpath8236
      @thestraightpath8236 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      اَمِين يَا رَبَّ الْعَالَمِيْن

  • @Drheight_687
    @Drheight_687 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After Allah, naseeha sessions esprcislly ustdh imran helped me soooocmuch walahi i got told to stop listeming to him but wallahi this guy helpsd me soo much

  • @lumenla
    @lumenla 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bro the name astaghfirAllah 💀💀💀

  • @samihakhondoker2456
    @samihakhondoker2456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    everyone is so unhinged this year wallahi haha

  • @ayeshapyesha7301
    @ayeshapyesha7301 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The naming is just unnecessary. And I'd say the same to a group of sisters who are students of knowledge naming their podcast fat lazy stingy husbands for example. Absolutely unnecessary.

  • @reminders123-zv7hp
    @reminders123-zv7hp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can you bluntly call your wife a fat hairy lazy wife? Or your husband a fat smelly lazy husband? Also to their face? Don't answer it if you don't have knowledge but i can imagine where people's minds may go towards their spouses with the title

  • @TheQueen31127
    @TheQueen31127 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks 😄 for the video my brothers ❤️ May Allah bless you and give you what you guys want Ameen 🤲🏻

    • @taimurahmad
      @taimurahmad 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Praise be to Allah.
      Firstly:
      It is permissible for a woman to take part in public chat rooms, if she adheres to the following guidelines:
      She should only participate as much as is necessary, so she should pose a question or state the topic, then leave, and not comment unless there is a need for that, because the basic principle is that she should avoid speaking to men or mixing with them.
      There should be nothing in her words that could provoke fitnah (temptation), such as joking, speaking softly, or laughing, such as writing “hahahahahaha”, as mentioned in the question, or using smiley emojis, because that could lead to coveting on the part of those in whose hearts is disease, as Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning): “O wives of the Prophet, you are not like anyone among women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech” [al-Ahzaab 33:32].
      She should avoid giving out her email address or corresponding via private messages with any man, even if that is for the purpose of seeking help, because of what such correspondence often leads to of attachment and temptation. See the answers to question no. 34841 .
      It is preferable and better for a woman to participate only in all-female chat rooms. This is safer for her. There are many such chat rooms, and that is better and sufficient. But if she needs to participate in public chat rooms, then it is better for her to choose a screen name that does not indicate that she is female.
      And Allah knows best.
      Islamqa info

  • @hirasaleem5378
    @hirasaleem5378 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Listen dude, you can be as controversial as you want but the only thing you do with these videos about women is turn people even more away from religion. You discourage them even further.

  • @MaryumIftikhar08
    @MaryumIftikhar08 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Allahuma barik, loved the episode's content, not so much the title though - not as a criticism, but definitely as a piece of advice. Let's just avoid titles like this, but overall obviously I do acknowledge the other multitude that the channel does! I also have a recommendation for perhaps another episode? Something along the lines of what you hope all the boys out there without fathers were told. I cant relate, but I'm sure there's so many boys listening and watching this channel, so it would be nice to hear what advice you would give to young boys without that father figure in life?

  • @nardo_
    @nardo_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And I'd say it's not necessarily whether the people's opinions matter or whether the effect will have more khair in it or not.

  • @ak144ful
    @ak144ful 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Can you please post pod cast with muhammed andalusi

  • @flyinghorse2739
    @flyinghorse2739 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What's this trend of showing the legs in these podcasts?

    • @AbdulRahmanAlMubaarak
      @AbdulRahmanAlMubaarak 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      not a trend, rather a sunnah to have the thawb between the knee and ankle (the middle of the calf)
      Ibn Umar narrated that, I passed by Allah’s Messenger ﷺ and my waist-wrapper (Izaar) was long. He ﷺ said, ‘Abdullah, raise your waist-wrapper (Izaar).’ So I raised it. Then he ﷺ said, ‘Raise it further.’ So I raised it further and I continued to pay attention to it afterwards. Thereupon some of the people said, To what extent? He replied, To the middle of the shins. (Sahih Muslim, 2086 - 47).

    • @hussainsharmin661
      @hussainsharmin661 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AbdulRahmanAlMubaarak😂😂

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its haram for men to cover their ankles

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@hussainsharmin661whats so funny?its haram cuz the arrogant pagans used to have chlotes below thier ankles all so much that it touches the ground

    • @Amatulghafuur
      @Amatulghafuur 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​​@@suhaibsuhaib5947
      You probably mean the trousers being below the ankle

  • @vost2916
    @vost2916 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Loved the title. Was too funny.

  • @blueflame3531
    @blueflame3531 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hairy whales 😂

  • @therussianemirati
    @therussianemirati 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You should have prolonged the episode. The last topic was new and interesting. Most people do not know the reality of talbees (تلبيس).

  • @TheTrueAbode
    @TheTrueAbode 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yh got the message, but akhi with the adidas cap take that off Insha’Allah for the sake of the boycott.

    • @ikrak5599
      @ikrak5599 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what if he bought it before the boycott & is wearing it?

    • @TheTrueAbode
      @TheTrueAbode 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ikrak5599 that’s fine, just don’t wear it online from now on right?

  • @Sapere_aude_Trottel
    @Sapere_aude_Trottel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it was Omar r.a.!

  • @nardo_
    @nardo_ 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay they're not on the board but the public opinion is a barchart that you bring to the board meeting.
    There's the middle ground for you 😂😂😂

  • @wtsy1117
    @wtsy1117 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do they have all this money

  • @suhaibsuhaib5947
    @suhaibsuhaib5947 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Too manny wives like that nowadays funny title 😂

  • @STAR524
    @STAR524 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Upload them real raw episodes..not all your listeners are sensitive

  • @IbnSaifi
    @IbnSaifi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is the point in Imran's brother being there? Doesn't even speak

  • @sadafahmed9563
    @sadafahmed9563 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamdulillah, brother abu Bakr seems more relaxed in a Muslim country!
    Alhamdulillah, barakah of being in a Muslim country! May Allah azaa wajjal grant us and give us ease health and spouses and wealth for us all to make hijra to a good Muslim country, Ameen.
    Malaysia an UAE Sharjah, Ajman is good option. Nothing like a good Muslim country.
    Things are getting difficult in the west, plus never felt a sense of belonging.
    I think muslims will have to move sooner or later.
    You need to do episodes on how to make hijra to the UAE instead - and explaining the procedure Visa situation, also can you renew your British passport from their when it expires or do we need to come back to the UK to renew it? We need to know the healthcare, education, accommodation /etc over their - and which place is best in the UAE.
    Also can do a episodes on Urdu pls for Pakistani viewers, since your now in a Muslim country. No need in english.

    • @basmaazzi4609
      @basmaazzi4609 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      May allah grante all muslims on thé west hijra inshallah we hear thar uk has a strong muslim community

  • @alekhyabhairi7021
    @alekhyabhairi7021 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you trying to provoke women here 😂

  • @unknownboo8738
    @unknownboo8738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    guy in cap is always giving mad dirty looks to brother Imran

  • @ibrahimm4098
    @ibrahimm4098 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Alhamdulilah.
    S40

  • @bythyself9979
    @bythyself9979 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂 what about you lot.