#76 We Misunderstood Marriage BIG TIME! || Chai With My Bhai

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  • @RighteousnRich
    @RighteousnRich  ปีที่แล้ว +8

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  • @ninajowkar3871
    @ninajowkar3871 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was a very beneficial and beautiful podcast, Allahummah baarik.
    Baarak Allahu feekum.

  • @thevisitorreinforced5717
    @thevisitorreinforced5717 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I really like the setup, really a treat for the eyes. Some setups feel cold or warm. Your setup makes my eyes want to fall on the screen. You guys did a good job. Allahumma Barik.

  • @miesahsufien9928
    @miesahsufien9928 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I have saved this for my 16year old son who cant wait to marry but as he said she has to be Salafi sister so your advice is wonderful Allahumma Barak akhwan

    • @anwar8712
      @anwar8712 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      May Allah bless your son 😂

    • @har00nsaeed93
      @har00nsaeed93 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      16 and like a loose horse@@anwar8712

  • @prettygurl2
    @prettygurl2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    SubhanAllah love the videos recently, chai with my bhai and the topics and the studio MashAllah everything so prefect, keep up the good work brothers ✨

  • @elitezafficobra2288
    @elitezafficobra2288 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Your wife is the mother of your children. No other women would take care of your children better than the biological mother. Your children are your future and the greatest gift on earth from Allah.

    • @osman.s1405
      @osman.s1405 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The greatest gift from Allah is Islam but i get your point

    • @Marwadear512
      @Marwadear512 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Often true but definitely not always. Some women are very toxic and are awful mothers and are truly narcissists who don’t actually care about their kids, or have too many mental health issues to be able to raise them well. Some women have poor morals which can mess up their kids’ moral reasoning.

    • @user-ve4zw6jp9i
      @user-ve4zw6jp9i ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Marwadear512yes sister but the hate of biological mother is still better than the love of a step mother let that sink in

    • @Marwadear512
      @Marwadear512 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@user-ve4zw6jp9i Mmm actually it’s not. Let that sink in.

    • @user-ve4zw6jp9i
      @user-ve4zw6jp9i ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Marwadear512 if you're a step mother im not speaking to you personally.

  • @zahraabdullahi1601
    @zahraabdullahi1601 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a Relationship Coach for Muslim Women. If we made widespread the advice in this podcast, I would happily be out of a job.
    May Allah Subhaana Wa Ta'Alaa Guide us all, Ameen.

  • @User-ld7yb
    @User-ld7yb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The story of Prophet (S.A.W) listening to Aisha (RAA) touched me. As a man, I also thought it’d be trivial to listen to such stories but Alhamdulillah it’s a duty of a loving husband. Partners.

  • @DigitalWaqf
    @DigitalWaqf ปีที่แล้ว +45

    No disrespect and with all love, it doesn’t take a student of knowledge to know the Prophet spent time and valued his wives. Kinda crazy that it took so long ya ustadh

    • @malikibnmehdi4846
      @malikibnmehdi4846 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Allah guides who he wills

    • @shahee6579
      @shahee6579 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

    • @Idkkk555
      @Idkkk555 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      At least he now knows. Everyone makes mistakes but Alhamdulilah Allah guided him.

    • @DigitalWaqf
      @DigitalWaqf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Idkkk555 I get that, but maybe it was an extreme reaction to the duaat he’s talking about that he thought were going too extreme in service to their wives. Surely when he was listening to them before he would’ve heard these ahadith being used by them? I don’t even say this in a malicious way, as Allah knows my shortcomings are worse. I’m just genuinely surprised.

    • @Idkkk555
      @Idkkk555 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@DigitalWaqfI get what you mean, but as he said he was so consumed with wanting to seek knowledge that he just abandoned everything else in his life. Also maybe at the time when he read those Hadith he didn’t ponder over them like he did later on. Like when you read something just for the sake of reading then you don’t really get anything out of it. Also no hate, just giving my opinion. May Allah bless you brother.

  • @AK-ot4yb
    @AK-ot4yb ปีที่แล้ว +24

    May Allah bless your wife

    • @shesanti
      @shesanti ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She sounds really patient

  • @UnwaveringLion
    @UnwaveringLion ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think its best to always think "What would the Prophet (SAW) do in this situation?" and in this works for most if not all issues. And if you don't know what the Prophet (SAW) would do then find a knowledgable source and find out and how to apply it to yourself. Wallahi life becomes more simple this way, was this not the whole point of having the Prophet (SAW)? He is our instruction manual to all parts of life, its just sad that most people don't take some time to learn about his life.

  • @ahmedmoosewarsame6864
    @ahmedmoosewarsame6864 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I miss this guy, the real Dawah Man

  • @MrBurgaBoii
    @MrBurgaBoii ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Can you do a video on a major issues and often underestimated problem which is RIBA but it’s one of the gravest when you understand how it affects you and those around you who consume it

    • @fadimaaa
      @fadimaaa ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Subhan'Allah, true!

    • @RighteousnRich
      @RighteousnRich  ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Already recorded and will be released in September inshallah!
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    • @MrBurgaBoii
      @MrBurgaBoii ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RighteousnRich Jzk for that insight and Eagerly awaiting the Riba one ! ☝️

    • @SlimeBrow
      @SlimeBrow ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RighteousnRich 🔥🔥🔥 MashaAllah!

    • @imranxalamin
      @imranxalamin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @NaseehaSessions i can't wait for the gheerah and dayooths episode, it is a major issue these days. jazakallah, brothers ❤

  • @S.HaynieCosain
    @S.HaynieCosain ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this. I just hope that there are English subtitles for those who have English language as their second language😢. We can't really understand this well because you guys talk fast and have a very strong accent. Hoping that you put subtitles too please brothers

    • @S.HaynieCosain
      @S.HaynieCosain 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@3bdurrahmaan it's not accurate

  • @wilddon5363
    @wilddon5363 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alhamdulilah we have this podcast as an ummah cuz there's a lot of fitnah in the west, also the approach the brother's take when discussing subjects relating to relationship is very much appreciated and needed for ummah in the west because the fitnah out there like red pill environment or podcasts where women are constantly belittling and stating men ain't this or that just condescending causes division there's no balance whereas, on this podcast the brothers are talking from a Islamic pov so it will be no doubt more beneficial for the audience cuz at the end of the day our prophets advice cannot be beaten in terms of value it is far more effective for providing resolutions to issues.

  • @NightWarrior972
    @NightWarrior972 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So happy you continued chai with my bhai i missed u guys ❤

  • @bloompublishinguk
    @bloompublishinguk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    JazakAllahkhair this was really insightful

  • @Sarah-pw9bb
    @Sarah-pw9bb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A really great session.

  • @haah4789
    @haah4789 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There should be these kind of lectures in arabic for those who don’t speak English.

  • @Friluftsbaba
    @Friluftsbaba 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is really sad. Imran had to get grey hairs in his beard to understand that you need to invest in a relationship, not just thinking about rights. We need to learn the young men this straight away, not beeing mentally young boys when they get married. This is truly sad. May Allah reward you for your efforts brothers, you are just not in a position to talk about theese topics when you dont understand the absolute basics behind being in a marriage.

  • @legoinventions4679
    @legoinventions4679 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please can you make the volume higher in the future

  • @Ganimemaster123
    @Ganimemaster123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Which book did you use to study the prophet S.A.W's life?

  • @E.Cerulean
    @E.Cerulean ปีที่แล้ว

    Was amazing. Barak Allahu fikum

  • @sharissharee-pm2kq
    @sharissharee-pm2kq ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am used to abandonedment and it makes me an independent young lady am not married i dont know if i will am not a fermisnist am different and unique and that for me is what like about me.

    • @Aalaofficial
      @Aalaofficial ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dear sister follow the path that allah has layed out for all of us and then allah willing you will have a better life and maybe allah has bigger plans than you have thought out for your self

    • @Aalaofficial
      @Aalaofficial ปีที่แล้ว

      We plan and allah is the best of planners

    • @E.Cerulean
      @E.Cerulean ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have a trauma and you are reacting to it. It's actually natural but you need to heal. Learn about yourself, the triggers, learn to trust but also to be careful (balance). Also may Allah grant you a pious, loving, patient and understanding husband.

  • @berry292
    @berry292 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Finally akhi, I missed you guys.

  • @issaabdullahi6006
    @issaabdullahi6006 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is hilarious but also where is the common sense 😂😂😂 spending your wife is also a priority and your children. It took years to figure that out, manshallah that the wife is wise but becareful brothers. This something to watch out for 😂😂😂

  • @theikhwa
    @theikhwa ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wallahi, amazing video

  • @sulekha3771
    @sulekha3771 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please do an episode of Gheerah.

  • @sobkh2649
    @sobkh2649 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Assalam Alaikum my dear brothers. I have been meaning to post a comment for a while but hesitated as I usually don't comment in public. But I feel I really need to here as this topic is very important. Firstly, I appreciate all that you do and you have opened my eyes to the reality of the Jinn and made me realize that I am afflicted and are really helping me to get through this. So when Br Imran does a video on this topic, I feel so encouraged that I can fight this with the help of Allah (swt). So please continue to the great work and I pray for all you brothers that may Allah (swt) grant you and your families Jannah tul firdaus...Ameen. I will split this into 2 posts as it will get long :)

  • @sr4-44
    @sr4-44 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pleas do Hijra episode next. Jazakullahu Khairan

  • @deadpoolstrikesagain3914
    @deadpoolstrikesagain3914 ปีที่แล้ว

    Terrible sound system cannot hear anything. Not everyone wears headphones

  • @muammar1353
    @muammar1353 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Should've been relationship goals no?🤔

  • @bmedic7162
    @bmedic7162 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Imran is the king of funny clips. 6:30-6:34 is hilarious

    • @peterfile4242
      @peterfile4242 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahah jumpscare akh

    • @shahee6579
      @shahee6579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gonna be a meme soon

    • @Ibn267
      @Ibn267 ปีที่แล้ว

      Got me off guard lol

  • @tamim-abdullah
    @tamim-abdullah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you guys for the sake of Allah. May Allah bless us and unite us in jannatul ferdous.

  • @SlimeBrow
    @SlimeBrow ปีที่แล้ว +8

    MashaAllah, I love these videos may Allah bless you guys!
    Could you guys do an episode on different business models and their permissibility, for example dropshipping, copywriting, freelancing, etc? It would be pretty interesting I think, and it may cause some brothers to get their business going.

  • @AM-bm9rs
    @AM-bm9rs ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats the point in marriage if you just want to focus on seeking knowledge and nothing else

  • @raisulislam7543
    @raisulislam7543 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please produce more.

  • @mufid.asshiddiq
    @mufid.asshiddiq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Allaahumma baarik fiikum.

  • @milakunis1837
    @milakunis1837 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is one the best episodes you guys have done.🙏

    • @sadiqdelil5189
      @sadiqdelil5189 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is a Christian or a Hindu emoji brother🙏. It symbolizes prayer in Christianity and gratitude in Hinduism and Buddhism.

  • @fatimadamishq
    @fatimadamishq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We loveee chai with my bhai ❤

  • @abirahmed8643
    @abirahmed8643 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alsalam alaikom
    As others have pointed out i think it was unneccary and even dhulm to mufti menk to just backbite him like that, you should ask his forgivenis so he doesnt take your good deed yawmul qiyamah!
    may Allah guide us all

  • @rafphoreign5686
    @rafphoreign5686 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What happened to the other bhai who used to be drinking the chai 2 yrs ago

    • @shahee6579
      @shahee6579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stridez?

    • @rafphoreign5686
      @rafphoreign5686 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shahee6579 naam and the single one I dont remember his name

    • @fatimadamishq
      @fatimadamishq ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@shahee6579I think abbas

    • @Ibn267
      @Ibn267 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@fatimadamishqhe will be on the next couple episodes inshallah

  • @yellowmellow4753
    @yellowmellow4753 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry bro you are wrong by saying “Dawah is more important”. Absolutely Allah is more important and that means wife and family are more important. Dawah is not an obligation but your wife has rights upon you.

  • @A-K.Osman23
    @A-K.Osman23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good episode Mashallah but you lot need to finish off the jinn topics from last episode, too many cliff hangers 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @King_semirase
    @King_semirase 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish either of you would marry my daughter as 2nd or 3rd wife!! She would be treated as Mohammed (S.A.W) treated his wives.

  • @muammar1353
    @muammar1353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oi the first ad/promo in this vid🤣🤣🤣

  • @mistermaykul
    @mistermaykul ปีที่แล้ว

    They still got that Badr club?

  • @Junaydkk
    @Junaydkk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Asalamu alaikom, im sorry to say this sidi but how have you been giving da’wah for so many years and (again, so sorry to say this) you didn’t even know these basic things of the life of the Prophet ﷺ? It kinda shocks me to be honest. Ghayr Insha’Allah. May Allah grant you knowledge sidi. Im happy that you now at least know

    • @Friluftsbaba
      @Friluftsbaba 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its really sad, I agree.

  • @hkislam7297
    @hkislam7297 ปีที่แล้ว

    The volume is so low😢

  • @usermqlwkejrhr
    @usermqlwkejrhr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brothers i love you for the sake of Allah. We shouldn't use vocals in the bg.

  • @adeels97
    @adeels97 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why's my man giving salaams in the bathroom 😂

  • @hopenomatterwhat9728
    @hopenomatterwhat9728 ปีที่แล้ว

    NO MORE MERCH?

  • @tajmirabadroon8883
    @tajmirabadroon8883 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First bit of this video is so terrible when his talking about his wife 😡

  • @mufid.asshiddiq
    @mufid.asshiddiq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    babies having babies. true

  • @An86115
    @An86115 ปีที่แล้ว

    As Salaam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakathu
    Brothers please don’t wear them ballerina socks them socks who doesn’t cover your ankle … it’s very feminine thing to do … I saw Muslim men wearing it and this is huge put off how would Omar Radhi Allahu anh react seeing You Ya Miskeen in that ridiculous socks

  • @mianatwood
    @mianatwood ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Talking smack about mufti menk is a new low, but again that’s all you guys do, backbit! A lot of times he is joking, y’all always mis quote him and others!