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i make only 50-55k a year in job income, and can buy most new cars in cash. My lifestyle from 25-29 was the opposite of hers. She could be in an incredible position by her late twenties by delaying gratification now, and investing versus frivolous spending. These lessons are usually learned later on.
@@dbased1915 100%. Im fortunate for my income now at 26 years old and still live below my means so my wife and kids will never have to “want” for anything in the future
I make well over 200k/year and don't even live a lifestyle like hers.. she's ridiculous. I have a decade on her, but I have a hard time recognizing people of that age. They think "having money" means you go blow it on "fancy" "bougie" objects. It's what they see in the flashy instagram influencer crap.
@@stillsober19moreso that Gen Z have zero sense of accountability and can’t afford it. Any other generation also lacks accountability but weren’t financially devastated by it
@@stillsober19 this is about a person not having self accountability. She said her father has a lot of credit card debt too. it comes down to the individual
1) loves expensive shitty cars but can’t drive 2) owes 3 college debts 3) is financially taken advantage of by boyfriend 4) doesn’t see $73k as a high income I was stupid at 20, but not this stupid
I frankly don’t give a crap about how much money you make,it’s what you do with it that counts…and clearly she has not learned a damn thing yet.she needs a reality check and learn from that,like I don’t know STOP BUYING JAGUARS and possibly don’t date a guy taking advantage of you
at 20 I knew Jaguars were shit and debt was not smart(so I never got any), but I thought it would be good to stop working and start selling drugs so idk if I was more or less dumb
Me: I want to lose weight and feel less awful. Anyone with a brain: Stop eating Panda and go to the gym Me: Nah, fam... I was looking for a magic bean or something. 😂
You really should teach an elective class on managing money. Actually it should be a required class and you have to pass it with a 78% score or retake it.
@@Gibb591 You're so right! That's what I did too. I'm now 40 and having a nice paid off house, paid off cars, a family and no financial concerns. All that with an income that is just a little more than the average.
Hi Caleb! I am a houseplant enthusiast. The palm that is behind the guest doesn't look too hot - might be spider mites or lack of natural light. I would recommend a snake plant, a peace lily, or an agleonaema for your low light office - they do really well with some plant lights on them and they'll grow beautifully! you also could get a long pothos to hang from the ceiling behind the guest if you want something as a nice backdrop.
To add to this, majesty palms are notoriously hard to keep indoors without access to full sun, a cat or bamboo palm would be a much better palm option, though a little more expensive up front.
semi-related. i have two plants in my office - a rubber tree and a golden pothos vine. both see inside light only. every three months i have to rotate the rubber tree because it keeps growing to cover my desk (despite the fact that the tree directly under the lights). i also have to rewrap the pothos as it keeps growing out the door one plant is trying to shelter me, the other one is trying to GTFO. What do they know about my office that i don’t?
So within the next year she expects to: 1) pay off $61k debt 2) buy a newer Jaguar 3) buy the house from her cousin 4) buy a flipper house 5) and double her income Wow... Maybe she'll look back on this when she is older and realize how insane that actually sounds
Don’t forget also buy a second car to basically have just in case she hits another elk so she has something to drive before she buys yet another jaguar
How is she so stupid she just needs an accord or even a fucking Tesla if she wants to be boujee and at least it’ll have autopilot, with the amount of money she makes how tf is she in debt and then the school hopping how does she actually justify that it has to be more of a hassle to start at a new place than just stick it through
Yeah eventually it catches up, I used up almost my 20s chasing materialistic things… just ended up surrounded by items I barely used but at the moment I needed it… now it’s just a reminder of many hours of work and years of my life gone when it could have gone into investments instead
@@Kbru829 Stay off the roads buddy... if you hydroplane at 35 ITS TOO FAST, good thing your car can do speeds between 0-35 right? What are you even saying "No" to?
@@Kbru829if you hydro plane, it means you were going too fast for the conditions. If there's a lot of water and your car is light and your tires are slick, then you have to go slower, therefore, she was going too fast.
Nothing wrong with aspiring to that - the bit they forget is there's a long process to get there. They want the lifestyle that a 300K salary brings but not interested in doing the work that represents £300K a year. Wanting a 300K job or 300k lifestyle are two subtly different things.
Whats the point of 300k a year she has shown she can't manage 75k a year, she is just going to spend all that too. And thats the point. You have to manage your money no matter what you make because nothing will be enough.
@@hirrorstories Not necessarily - a £300K life style doesn't mean spending £300K a year. It also means making the investments/savings appropriate to that lifestyle. A 'lifestyle' isn't just spending money.
As a nurse, the number of doctors and nurses I know who live WAY beyond their means is INSANE. Some of the smartest people I know and make the dumbest financial decision
my brother inlaw who's doing residency right now is literally spending hIS FUTURE SALARY MONEY NOW! He spends all his paycheck because he doesn't believe his current money is "real" till he starts getting his doctor salary lmao saves 0 to 401k. so hes having all this debt because he will make a lot anyway... crazy
It seems to run rampant in healthcare. My university was a major pipeline into healthcare so many of my friends were either premed/nursing/etc. and the amount of idiotic spending habits I saw was insane. A few stood out to me that were going into nursing who were always talking about how they loved how they only had to pay "$30" on their credit card each month but they weren't sure why their balance wasn't going down. I'm really interested in seeing how these people start living in a few years once they've been full-time nurses for a while. I'm already speculating $60k+ Mercede's and $3000/mo. rent lol.
@@Tunechi65he should save an emergency fund, but aside from that I agree with him. It doesn't make sense to suffer now, when he'll easily be able to make up for lost time in the near future. I started saving in my mid 30s, and 7 years later, I'm almost ready to retire. Some of it wasn't by choice - I was disabled for a while - but it's possible to delay savings if you can project your income curve.
@@safye4 I'm a nurse practitioner, can confirm. Several of my classmates from undergrad bought themselves a new BMW or Mercedes with their sign-on bonus from the local hospital. The sign-on bonus was only $2k after taxes, and the starting pay was $24.50/hr lol. Just absolute dumbassery. Meanwhile, I bought a cheap Mazda 6 and paid it off in 2 years, went back to school, and now make $140k yearly, with no student loan debt.
I have a friend like this.... he was jobless until 31, and I literally got him a job with my company where he now makes $70k... Guess what? He still acts broke as hell, bought a $70k Truck that his Mom made him return, and then bought a $10k motorcycle that he literally does not use, and complains about bills. He's single and has no debt!! Some people are undeserving and will be poor and complain no matter how much money they make.
Your boyfriend went six months without a job because you pay for everything and give him the ability to not do it. Don't let him take advantage of you.
It’s the main thing that makes her terrible. She’s 20 they do stupid stuff. Most smoke too much weed and fail college, she is better. But she is a terrible driver and doesn’t seem to know what good driving means. I hope she is a better nurse than that. In paying attention, reacting.
"We're here to talk about finances, you don't have to tell me if I'm a good driver or not" She may have an adult paycheck, but she's definitely still a child.
@@kailaleebabineau3962 Except being a bad driver and getting in wrecks will cause her insurance cost to increase. She also will have to pay for repairs, or at least the deductible.
He should have kicked her out right then. She’s here to learn about what to do and the first bunch of things he recommends she flatly says “no.” Should have done right there.
She (and honestly many of these ppl on this show) is the reason why even if we turned in to a country that gives a basic income to all citizens the majority would still be living paycheck to paycheck. She’s making more than bad choices. She’s an idiot who just wants shit.
@freshhannahshae how much did your insurance increase after all your wrecks compared to when you had no insurance? Are you on your own insurance or on your parents' insurance plan?
I’m 25 almost 26 and am just starting my career, it infuriates me that she scoffed at your remarks about people in their 50s wishing they made her salary
Took me 20 years in the workforce to make what she makes. Mostly because of location as we lived in a seasonal state and town, in addition to my wife's health. Once we moved to a good city in a normal state that is not stupid expensive it took me less than two years to double my income. I was wondering the other day where I would be now had we made this choice 10 years earlier.
SOMEONE ...maybe it's just social media...is teaching young people that they have to have it all right now, that they should expect $100k right out of college and be living in a $600k house with a $60k car 2 years out of college. That's not real life. I didn't buy a house till age 40. I STILL haven't gotten anywhere close to $75K a year.
This is a demonstrated lack of cognitive function, risk assessment, and understanding of cause and effect that would make someone a liability to employ. I would fire her.
Impossible to know for sure without actually seeing it, but I did wonder the same thing. Sometimes a person can be an expert at one particular skill and a dunce at everything else, but I have doubts.
Well, that’s the nature of health care jobs …. They are ridiculously well paid…and she does not even come across as very qualified… just imagine you are seriously sick and this air head is tending to you at the hospital….😱
Let her be broke. You tried to give her sound advice, she doesn't want it. You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. Immaturity runs deep in this one.
The worst part is her lack of empathy and she is in the medical field. We might end up seeing her in the news someday for killing someone. Or embezzling its just so obvious
Well she also admits she doesn't know anything about money. So she really can't judge what is ok money and what isn't. $70k does not feel like OK money to be making when you owe $70k to a dozen other companies.
The Tik tok generation has a very strange view on money. Probably because they constantly watch all of these multi millionaire influencers. They’re completely unrealistic.
@@hayvenb exactly this. My parents failed miserably and barely made it by when us kids were in the home. I took it upon myself to learn and not fall in the same traps and have my kids setup for the future.
@@L3x4Pr0nedepends on when you were born. My siblings and I were born in the late 50’s and through the mid 60’s. I do feel that things are different now.
Also, it's not "just the roads". I live in Oklahoma and probably put around 2,000 miles on my car a month for work. The roads are bad, BUT there are always 2 lane highways and speeding and the inability to merge is pretty bad. 5 accidents in under 2 years is 100% her fault.
My last car accident was in 2010 and I've driven about 250,000 miles since then. There's no reason someone should be getting in accidents that frequently.
@@TheAphtar Especially considering that, at 75k p. a., there are so many better options than ''flipping houses'' in terms of return on investment, taking into account the amount of time and effort she would inveitably have to put into it. I know someone who did that somewhat successfully teaming up with a friend, but the friend was a tiler and he was a plumber who also had years of experience in construction. It is not ''easy money'' nor ''quick money'', at all!
How is she spending over $1500 per month on food. Over $700 at the grocery store, and over $700 at the vending machine and to eat out? My family of 4 doesn’t spend $700 in a month on food.
$800 per month for me and my son. But that includes everything... food, toilet paper, shampoo, etc. We rarely eat out. But this is too much for 2 ppl. I eat a lot of salads and plant based foods.. It'd be cheaper to eat crap.
The fact that she’s trying to be an RN but has such a lack of self awareness, accountability, and in total disillusion is frightening. RIP her patients.
22:50 What could be cheaper than a Jaguar? - Ford Fusion - Toyota Corolla - Subaru Impreza (you know, for her hydroplaning issues) - Honda Civic - Volkswagen Jetta - Kia Rio I can go on , and, on
As an insurance agent I died when she said she's a good driver while also admitting to totaling multiple cars in a two year span. Hydroplaning and even hitting elk are usually preventable accidents. It's mindblowing she won't give up her Jaguar (that doesn't even look that cool) when she's probably going to wreck that too
So please tell me how she gets to have low insurance rates (unless she’s lying) while others like us who have super clean records, no claims, pay double what she pays. Doesn’t make sense
If you're gonna be dumb and get a loan on a Jag way outside of what you should be driving, at least get an F-Type or something. An F-Pace just makes you look like a suburban mom in middle management with 2.5 kids who whines about the pink Stanley cup shortage.
This girl doesn't understand what working towards something means. Instant gratification is the only reason why she is where she's at. Lifestyle addiction is a real thing.
It’s even more basic, she doesn’t even understand how to choose between two things. I wish Caleb had at least tried to ask “when you eat at a restaurant, don’t you pick the one thing you want the most rather than order everything?” Or “when you care for a patient or do triage, isn’t there a list of highest priority to least priority actions you need to do?” She can’t even conceive of the concept of needing to choose between multiple options.
Am I the only one who caught her saying she ripped the carpet out of her bedroom in a house that’s not hers “during a manic episode”? If she’s actually bipolar and she’s not medicated, then her behavior, spending, and all the car accidents make SO much sense. If she is bipolar, I hope she’s getting help for it.
The only way possible if she's telling the truth about it is that it's on bare minimum insurance which ONLY covers other people if she does get in an accident. If any damages at all happens to her car nothing is covered on it
I was 22 making 70K a year delivering furniture, i saved up and started a landscape business. Most people don't understand that when you have a cash cow you milk it and leverage yourself out by starting a side gig that developed into a full blown business. Now i haven't worked for anybody in over 10 years. I net close to 500K a year.
@@KingCzar29Oklahoma is the 2nd cheapest state to live in with the median income being around $28,000 and the median household income being around $58,000.
Cost of living is bigger than income. Someone who makes 200k in california can be closer to poverty than a 90k income in the south. Adjust cost of living to income in California and there's more poor people than all the other states...
@hspd that's surprising, as the easiest way to get married is to actually act like a wife - a girlfriend is an audition for the role of wife. The only mistake is doing it for the wrong person.
Act like a wife for 3-6 months. If you don’t get the rock by then HE’S WASTING YOUR TIME. Once you get that rock you better get married within the year. Don’t let them “let’s save up” you. Do a cheap wedding. Backyard BBQ it with your friends and family within you CASH means. You aren’t royalty (nobody truly cares about your wedding enough to think about it on their deathbed) and if saving really matters to him then he’d prefer those savings to go towards a house ANYWAY. I told my man at 18 that if he wants me long term then he better put a ring on it. He did!!! 9 months later we were in a courthouse signing papers. It’s been 11 years now and it feels amazing to know that men didn’t get to waste my fertile years. All that to say, don’t let a man waste 1-2 years of your life. If they love you and are having s£x with you… what’s the hold up? ALSO, make sure he’s auditioning to be a husband! Make sure he’s not wanting a mother wife. Make sure he’s ready to be a man and a father if that’s the course y’all want to go. Make sure he’s a responsible with his choices.💕 The way he acts, talks, spends, etc…
It's so sad to see someone this young being so blinded by unhinged consumerism. It is also beyond frustrating seeing someone be so flippant towards their own good salary and how they waste their money when so many other people struggle.
Especially since she said she drives 700 miles a week. The jag is gonna fall apart and get horrible gas mileage the whole way. Even at 20 i knew to buy a hybrid or at least a fuel efficient ICE if I'm going to need to drive a lot
Let’s not pretend 99% of 20 year olds aren’t immature. She’s going to be doing better than a vast majority of people on here once she tightens up her spending.
@@mcdonalduck Yeah, plugin hybrid is definitely the way to go. I used to have a 2 hour, 120 mile round trip commute and even with how gas around me is cheaper than most of the country it was a major expense.
Literally! I just paid of my car and two lines of credit last year and now I actually have a little left over every month. Its been life changing since I was in shitty debts since 18 and I'm 26 now. People don't realize how even cutting the smallest monthly payment makes a huge difference.
Watching this with my young teens and for the first time I think it really clicked for them why we limit social media and push financial literacy. This girl is hard to watch.
I can't even imagine thinking about buying a new car every couple years because they "made upgrades" to it. Doing that with phones is ridiculous enough.
Yeah. It’s going to cut majorly into the rest of your lifestyle. If you /can/ afford that, though, that’s what leases are for. If you’re not keeping a car long enough to pay it off, just get a lease for a lower payment
For real. I normally buy 0-3 year old luxury vehicles, then pay them off in 3-4 years and keep them for another 6-7 years with no payments. I also keep phones for like 5-6 years. Vehicles and phones are just money pits.
And for those who don't live in OKLAHOMA $78k in OK IS LIKE 200K in California. Property, house and car insurance is easily half the price, housing is cheap and no entertainment to spend money
I make like $46,000-ish dollars a year pre-taxes, or $22.35/hour at 25 years old. It's decent relative to what other jobs pay in my area. I can easily save half of my income each month due to my low cost of living. I would live like an absolute KING on what this child makes.
When I was getting ready to leave the warmth of my parents home and head out into the great unknown, I remember my friends dad saying something so profound… “a mental trap for the younger generation is that when they head out on their own, they think that they are entitled to everything that their parents currently have. They forget that their parents worked hard for the past 20 years to have everything That they currently possess and their kids will start out on their own thinking that it should automatically be given to them. Some will even try to one up their parents and go out and get something newer and nicer, and then they find themselves chained to debt for the rest of their lives.
I was about to buy a new vehicle(keyword WAS), watched this and about a handful of other videos of your channel. Scared the ever living shit out of me, think im gonna drive my Hyundai until the wheels fall off. Thanks Caleb!
I live where it's common to hydroplane on our freeways. It's easy to drive through if you don't panic and keep going, don't brake. It's stupid to get in a wreck over it. It's very avoidable.
She wants people to be impressed that she's only 20 years old and owns a ✨Jaguar✨ It's the same reason she wants to buy her cousin's house, flip a house, have a second car, etc., and will keep going for more and more until she either wizens up or reality punches her in the gut. She wants to be told she's killing it, she wants peoples' envy. Heaven help her if she should ever lose her job or the ability to do her job.
nah im actually pissed. im out here fighting for my life trying to make 50,000 a year, and shes sitting here so smug that 75, 000 is nothing. the whole car situation is CRAZY. this is the most livid ive been watching this show
She an LPN, so she is wiping asses and changing bedsheets. They are paid well not because it’s a complicated job, but because there is a shortage of them. Doesn’t take much, so why not do it yourself? If you are fighting for 50k, swallow your pride, wipe some asses and you can make a 50% raise
Like sometimes I watch the show and I'm like Jesus H Christopher this person is dumb. But this episode is just truly so full of entitlement it blows my fackin mind.
It's hilarious when people buy a Mercedes S class that costs >$100K brand new , maintenence service and insurance costs are high and after 10 years scratch their heads and wonder while their Benz is worth 20K as opposed to a Toyota that retains it's value after long period of time.
@@TheIronChainMasterAt least the S-class is a good car and way better than a crappy Toyota so you enjoy it for 10 years but a Jaguar is a shitty car, probably the same league as a Toyota or Kia
As a RN, this episode makes me more infuriated than the others. She made even more money than me (I’m part-time and definitely didn’t work as many hours as she did)! She truly has no excuse for all the debt she’s in. She has the income but her age, lack of maturity, and financial illiteracy are definitely showing. She is in the best position of all the people audited recently to get out of the hole she’s dug herself in.
She is legitimately going to be broke for life and never get to the goal she thinks she’s worth with her way of living, thinking, and attitude. She is doomed.
@@mclovinlife4018 she’s doomed because she is showing signs that showing off is worth more then wealth which means as she makes more she will show more.
She definitely grew up wealthy and/or spoiled so she can’t comprehend the idea of not having a luxury car while not being able to afford it because she feels like she deserves a nice car. She probably knows her parents will financially bail her out hence why she’s not worried about her debts or planning to sacrifice to pay the debts down or off. Eyeroll.
@@Ok20002 I’m just saying you’re cute, what’s creepy about that? I’m not saying damn girl you fine as hell, lemme get in them jeans. So think about what you call me before you say it.
She definitely is influenced heavily by social media/IG/Fomo. People spend when they're barely middle class. A lot of us at 100k plus can barely afford to do half of what she is doing.
She definitely had an issue with entitlement and instant gratification. The school hopping shows that. She thinks she should have everything she wants right now.
The one thing that triggers me in this one is the five car wrecks and pretending it isn't her fault. Hydroplaning, hitting a deer, multiple wrecks on the same road, all avoidable by going 45 mph when you know you're in a condition that's dangerous to drive
@@cereal76 her mind probably went to “oh I’ve had wrecks here before I should drive faster to get out of this area. Oh it’s raining. I should drive faster to get out the rain.”
I work in insurance, and can promise you she is the same person that will call and argue for an hour when her insurance gets raised, or eventually is dropped by her carrier. Like she said, "She's a good driver", and the accidents ALL "were not her fault".
Imagine getting the new version of a car every year like someone gets the new iphone every year. That's a new level of stupidity and finanancial irresponsibility...
@laurencrawford1173 I get the current flagship model of Samsung phone every 4-6 years. I don't notice any significant changes that happen faster than that. And it's never anything I can't live without. It's mostly and issue of the phone breaking down from wear on buttons or the sensors going out.
The problem is a lot of young people compare their income and lifestyle to what a lot of influencers have. There isn’t anything wrong with aspiring to do better but it’s sad to see how it is seen as being behind in life when you don’t have your life “together” so young. Also, a lot of the people we look up to can be in a worst financial situation than we are.
If I was her dad, I'd be pissed. Owes him like 1800.00...but supports her loser boyfriend, buys a status car to show off a lifestyle she doesn't have, etc. And she says "watch me"? Do what? She isn't going to change.
I wasn't genuinely pissed until the very end with the new car. She seems like she barely knows the difference between manual and automatic. "Everything" is better? Her dad failed her on the topic of finances and basic automotive knowledge. My mans does not have the right to be mad. 😂
@@waldo-ot6ulBruh, do you genuinely believe that she’ll give up that car? That’s the first step. I hope she changes but some of those habits won’t go away.
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She looks like Matt Rifes' little sister!!
Love the Adam Sandler impersonation! “I don’t make enough money!”
This girl spends more on groceries and going out to eat by herself than I do for my family of 5.
She is so out of touch. $73k at 19 is absolutely incredible.
Especially in fucking Oklahoma...oklahoma!!!!!
73k in OKLAHOMA she’s a millionaire in many parts of the country
And that's in Oklahoma! $ goes a long way out there. If you live in LA or NYC, pretend she's making $150k
To a 19 year old whose grown up in the social media age she feels broke by comparison to her "peers"
It just proves being completely comfortable doesn't exist when you account for greed. She doesn't understand how good she truly has it.
She thinks 75k/year isn’t enough because she lives a 200k/year lifestyle
i make only 50-55k a year in job income, and can buy most new cars in cash. My lifestyle from 25-29 was the opposite of hers. She could be in an incredible position by her late twenties by delaying gratification now, and investing versus frivolous spending. These lessons are usually learned later on.
@@dbased1915 100%. Im fortunate for my income now at 26 years old and still live below my means so my wife and kids will never have to “want” for anything in the future
And she’s taking care of a grown man! SMH
I make well over 200k/year and don't even live a lifestyle like hers.. she's ridiculous. I have a decade on her, but I have a hard time recognizing people of that age. They think "having money" means you go blow it on "fancy" "bougie" objects. It's what they see in the flashy instagram influencer crap.
@@wolfymaster what do you do for a living?
shes 20, has totaled 5 cars, and doesn't realize the problem is her.
Gen z has absolutely zero sense of personal responsibility
@@stillsober19moreso that Gen Z have zero sense of accountability and can’t afford it. Any other generation also lacks accountability but weren’t financially devastated by it
@@stillsober19 this is about a person not having self accountability. She said her father has a lot of credit card debt too. it comes down to the individual
Also, not a great driver lol “wasn’t going too fast but hydroplaned, not my fault tho” cmon lol
sadly i hear this quite a lot from women.
A nurse that doesn't understand the concept of a top priority is terrifying
she's 20. she's actually doing crazy good besides stupid financial decisions which schools don't teach she's a baby
HE'S FLATLINING DO SOMETHING
Hang on, I need to clean his fingernails first.
Not a full nurse. More like wanna be nurse
@@wattsontshe's not qualified to be a nurse imo.
Doctor: Nurse, what's the patient blood pressure?
Her: Somewhere between 36 and 72.
@@wattsont No doubt she must save all her good decisions for saving lives, so there are none left for outside the hospital.
1) loves expensive shitty cars but can’t drive
2) owes 3 college debts
3) is financially taken advantage of by boyfriend
4) doesn’t see $73k as a high income
I was stupid at 20, but not this stupid
Jaguars are pieces of shit
I frankly don’t give a crap about how much money you make,it’s what you do with it that counts…and clearly she has not learned a damn thing yet.she needs a reality check and learn from that,like I don’t know STOP BUYING JAGUARS and possibly don’t date a guy taking advantage of you
Yes, I was dumb, never this dumb. She's going to ruin her life.
To be fair, she is blonde.
at 20 I knew Jaguars were shit and debt was not smart(so I never got any), but I thought it would be good to stop working and start selling drugs so idk if I was more or less dumb
Person: Hello, I would like to receive financial advice on your financial advice show.
Caleb: *gives financial advice*
Person: No, not like that.
Trueeeeee haha
Client: Help me! How do I fix this?
Caleb: do xyz
Client: NO! I'M NOT DOING THAT!!
This is the one
Me: I want to lose weight and feel less awful.
Anyone with a brain: Stop eating Panda and go to the gym
Me: Nah, fam... I was looking for a magic bean or something. 😂
I think people come on here thinking they'll "own" Caleb or something and him approve of their lifestyle.
I'm a high school teacher and I play your videos for my lunch detention kids!! LOVE IT!
Awesome!!
Oh.... my.... god..... 😂
That is genius
Hahahahaha. Thanks for the laugh today
Roflmao.
You really should teach an elective class on managing money.
Actually it should be a required class and you have to pass it with a 78% score or retake it.
At 22 in nursing school driving a 2015 car that’s paid off and the only thing I buy is gas and groceries and this hurt my soul to watch
You are setting the foundation of a great future family, keep it up
@@Gibb591 You're so right! That's what I did too. I'm now 40 and having a nice paid off house, paid off cars, a family and no financial concerns. All that with an income that is just a little more than the average.
I’m 24 still driving
M my pos 2016 (the year doesn’t make it a pos the brand does) and same…yeah this was hard
Yeeeh😮
Lucky for her she can leverage her looks to get a man who will take care of her. Beautiful woman have the luxury of not living in reality
Hi Caleb! I am a houseplant enthusiast. The palm that is behind the guest doesn't look too hot - might be spider mites or lack of natural light. I would recommend a snake plant, a peace lily, or an agleonaema for your low light office - they do really well with some plant lights on them and they'll grow beautifully! you also could get a long pothos to hang from the ceiling behind the guest if you want something as a nice backdrop.
The hero we didn't know we needed. I just want to acknowledge how awesome you are for taking time out of your day to post this advice.
@@mithicash1444 aw thanks! I love spreading the plant knowledge! 🌿
To add to this, majesty palms are notoriously hard to keep indoors without access to full sun, a cat or bamboo palm would be a much better palm option, though a little more expensive up front.
semi-related. i have two plants in my office - a rubber tree and a golden pothos vine. both see inside light only.
every three months i have to rotate the rubber tree because it keeps growing to cover my desk (despite the fact that the tree directly under the lights).
i also have to rewrap the pothos as it keeps growing out the door
one plant is trying to shelter me, the other one is trying to GTFO. What do they know about my office that i don’t?
Try switching their placement? @@visioneerone
So within the next year she expects to:
1) pay off $61k debt
2) buy a newer Jaguar
3) buy the house from her cousin
4) buy a flipper house
5) and double her income
Wow... Maybe she'll look back on this when she is older and realize how insane that actually sounds
You missed cash flow/borrow for RN school
Don’t forget also buy a second car to basically have just in case she hits another elk so she has something to drive before she buys yet another jaguar
How is she so stupid she just needs an accord or even a fucking Tesla if she wants to be boujee and at least it’ll have autopilot, with the amount of money she makes how tf is she in debt and then the school hopping how does she actually justify that it has to be more of a hassle to start at a new place than just stick it through
And all this with a bad credit score getting screwed by interest all the way to the poorhouse.
I don't think she gets smart enough to ever realize.
She's going to live beyond her means no matter how much she earns. This was painful to watch.
Run, man😮
She drives, like, alot. Lol
That goes for most Americans.
I know many high earners like this
Yeah eventually it catches up, I used up almost my 20s chasing materialistic things… just ended up surrounded by items I barely used but at the moment I needed it… now it’s just a reminder of many hours of work and years of my life gone when it could have gone into investments instead
“I wasn’t going too fast”… by definition if you hydroplane you’re going too fast
@@Kbru829so then 35 would be driving too fast for those conditions.
@@Kbru829then drive slower than 35mph
Drive according to the conditions
@@Kbru829 Stay off the roads buddy... if you hydroplane at 35 ITS TOO FAST, good thing your car can do speeds between 0-35 right? What are you even saying "No" to?
@@Kbru829if you hydro plane, it means you were going too fast for the conditions. If there's a lot of water and your car is light and your tires are slick, then you have to go slower, therefore, she was going too fast.
And/or your tires aren't in good condition. Performance tires with wide profiles and shallow tread are also much more susceptible to hydroplaning.
Tik Tok has ruined her perception of a good annual salary.. wow
Tick tock says the average man makes 500,000 lol
90% of the people on there lie about their income too.
Must have 3 revenue streams, all passive mind you, at 100k a month each……
@@ryanferguson4117 minimum and you better be working toward more broke boy 😂
@@ryanferguson4117revenue streams have side hussles
Social media has this girl thinking anything under $300k annual is failing.
Nothing wrong with aspiring to that - the bit they forget is there's a long process to get there.
They want the lifestyle that a 300K salary brings but not interested in doing the work that represents £300K a year.
Wanting a 300K job or 300k lifestyle are two subtly different things.
Whats the point of 300k a year she has shown she can't manage 75k a year, she is just going to spend all that too. And thats the point.
You have to manage your money no matter what you make because nothing will be enough.
@@deezelfairyalso one has to be a dummy to earn 300k a year and live with 300k lifestyle
@@hirrorstories Not necessarily - a £300K life style doesn't mean spending £300K a year. It also means making the investments/savings appropriate to that lifestyle.
A 'lifestyle' isn't just spending money.
Cause most gen z is delusional and barely functions
As a nurse, the number of doctors and nurses I know who live WAY beyond their means is INSANE. Some of the smartest people I know and make the dumbest financial decision
Just because they are smart in one area doesn't mean it carries over to finances. 😀
my brother inlaw who's doing residency right now is literally spending hIS FUTURE SALARY MONEY NOW! He spends all his paycheck because he doesn't believe his current money is "real" till he starts getting his doctor salary lmao saves 0 to 401k. so hes having all this debt because he will make a lot anyway... crazy
It seems to run rampant in healthcare. My university was a major pipeline into healthcare so many of my friends were either premed/nursing/etc. and the amount of idiotic spending habits I saw was insane. A few stood out to me that were going into nursing who were always talking about how they loved how they only had to pay "$30" on their credit card each month but they weren't sure why their balance wasn't going down. I'm really interested in seeing how these people start living in a few years once they've been full-time nurses for a while. I'm already speculating $60k+ Mercede's and $3000/mo. rent lol.
@@Tunechi65he should save an emergency fund, but aside from that I agree with him. It doesn't make sense to suffer now, when he'll easily be able to make up for lost time in the near future. I started saving in my mid 30s, and 7 years later, I'm almost ready to retire. Some of it wasn't by choice - I was disabled for a while - but it's possible to delay savings if you can project your income curve.
@@safye4 I'm a nurse practitioner, can confirm. Several of my classmates from undergrad bought themselves a new BMW or Mercedes with their sign-on bonus from the local hospital. The sign-on bonus was only $2k after taxes, and the starting pay was $24.50/hr lol. Just absolute dumbassery. Meanwhile, I bought a cheap Mazda 6 and paid it off in 2 years, went back to school, and now make $140k yearly, with no student loan debt.
I'm actually angry that her car insurance is only 122$ when she got into 5 car wrecks. Mine is literally more than hers with no record
ya wtf
Yeah I'm calling bs. I have the best insurance ussa full coverage and my truck is 140. There's no way and I'm married and 33
her rate is lower cuz women are better drivers /s
@@robertthomas7176 yeah she really must be a better driver with those 5 totalled cars
@@robertthomas7176 that's also false. They crash more just not at higher speeds
This was insufferable. The whole episode was her saying “awwwww I’m soooo brokeeee 🥺🥺🥺” but then refusing to give up her jaguar
Jaguar is such a trash brand too lmao
I have a friend like this.... he was jobless until 31, and I literally got him a job with my company where he now makes $70k... Guess what? He still acts broke as hell, bought a $70k Truck that his Mom made him return, and then bought a $10k motorcycle that he literally does not use, and complains about bills. He's single and has no debt!! Some people are undeserving and will be poor and complain no matter how much money they make.
@@GamingTayloryeah but capitalism loves people like that
except their XJ ftype @@tylerstanton494
@@tylerstanton494 I get lots of compliments on my F-type R. It's fun to drive, sounds really good, and hasn't had any issues.
Caleb v Girl Math is the greatest rivalry of our time
This is beyond girl math, girl math at least makes some sense. This is delusional
😂
@@BSaggyblonde girl math?
@@andrewferguson8032 low key this seems like fake blonde rich girl math
@@BSaggy no it doesn’t make sense😂 for you to even think that tells me you might be in a bad money situation 😂
Man baby, Jaguars, school-hopping, wanting to house flip, Lazer hair removal loan, and financing groceries. The Friday episode we all needed.
Not worse than 61k in plastic surgery at 20yo
I haven’t finished the video yet but I had to laugh at the laser hair removal loan, like what? Lol ain’t no way
Not a care in the world.
@@dennisaraujovski Her face is full of botox and she has perfect teeth lol, she's probably not very far off.
@@dennisaraujovski what episode is that in??
This is the first episode that i might not be able to finish, this girl is so infuriating. Caleb has so much patience, i just couldnt you blessed man
Perfect example of how it’s not an income problem (most of the time) it’s a behaviour problem
So true.
Agreed!
Facts
Credit is like a carrot on a a stick for some people
Finances are 20 percent knowledge 80 percent behavior
Your boyfriend went six months without a job because you pay for everything and give him the ability to not do it. Don't let him take advantage of you.
He’s already taking advantage of her 😕
I guess I meant don't let him continue to take advantage of you because yes you're correct
Well she's the man and he's the women.
Equality. I don't see the problem.
@@rell660what part of that is equality?
I swear, the collabs with Graham have brought some of the most toxic men to this comment section.
@@JKRBW
Whoa whoa whoa now, are you saying women can't be the leader in a relationship. But you're calling me toxic???
Girl took it way more personal to be called a bad driver than any of the yelling
The truth hurts, but it's easy to sweep the responsibility of her debt under the rug if she blames everything else except herself.
Because it was true
It’s the main thing that makes her terrible. She’s 20 they do stupid stuff. Most smoke too much weed and fail college, she is better. But she is a terrible driver and doesn’t seem to know what good driving means. I hope she is a better nurse than that. In paying attention, reacting.
she also pre plans her car crashes. never heard of that before now
@imdva yeah, brand new car she doesn't need the "backup" for break downs.
This is a great example of how social media gives the younger generation an unrealistic outlook on how life really is.
"We're here to talk about finances, you don't have to tell me if I'm a good driver or not" She may have an adult paycheck, but she's definitely still a child.
@@kailaleebabineau3962 Poor driving is a financial consideration when you need to replace a totaled car.
@@Jane_1994 AND pay more for auto insurance. Her poor driving is costing her a lot of money.
@@kailaleebabineau3962if you suck at driving, you can buy an entire car for $500. No need to invest in a car you can’t maintain.
@@kailaleebabineau3962 Nope, being a shit driver costs more money. Insurance, registration, and car payments.
@@kailaleebabineau3962 Except being a bad driver and getting in wrecks will cause her insurance cost to increase. She also will have to pay for repairs, or at least the deductible.
“I will have a jaguar until the day I die”, is one of the best lines in the history of this show 😂 for all the wrong reasons
My brain almost exploded when that sentence came out of her mouth.
Yeah crazy that she is so in love with an Indian car company with horrible QC and reliability.
With her driving record, that day might come sooner than she hopes.
She literally will die in one 🤣😂 car so unreliable and she a sht driver who has the f you attitude
He should have kicked her out right then. She’s here to learn about what to do and the first bunch of things he recommends she flatly says “no.” Should have done right there.
This woman makes being rich seem so much worse than being poor.
Mo money mo problems rings true with this one lol
She could literally be a millionaire in her 30s by making smart decisions, but she's intent on keeping herself poor with short-term indulgences.
She (and honestly many of these ppl on this show) is the reason why even if we turned in to a country that gives a basic income to all citizens the majority would still be living paycheck to paycheck. She’s making more than bad choices. She’s an idiot who just wants shit.
People like this dont get rich, they complain about making a lot of money
You just gotta be poor for a little bit, then you understand the value of money. Sometimes that means making mistakes that make you poor
This woman shouldn't be allowed to have a driver's license.
I agree
2 jags by 20 with a sub 100k income is wild. Also 5 wrecks, and multiple totalled vehicles, definitely distracted driving.
Her insurance is probably a car payment 😵💫
You can totally tell that she is detached from reality
my insurance ain’t bad
@freshhannahshae how much did your insurance increase after all your wrecks compared to when you had no insurance? Are you on your own insurance or on your parents' insurance plan?
@@freshhannahshae400-600 a month?
I’m 25 almost 26 and am just starting my career, it infuriates me that she scoffed at your remarks about people in their 50s wishing they made her salary
Took me 20 years in the workforce to make what she makes. Mostly because of location as we lived in a seasonal state and town, in addition to my wife's health. Once we moved to a good city in a normal state that is not stupid expensive it took me less than two years to double my income. I was wondering the other day where I would be now had we made this choice 10 years earlier.
Same here. My goal is that salary lol
SOMEONE ...maybe it's just social media...is teaching young people that they have to have it all right now, that they should expect $100k right out of college and be living in a $600k house with a $60k car 2 years out of college. That's not real life. I didn't buy a house till age 40. I STILL haven't gotten anywhere close to $75K a year.
If she thinks it’s not good pay I’ll switch with less then 50 of mine 🤣
@@wildmustangart1577 social medias depiction of success is asinine, teaching kids that if they’re not making millions that they’re losers
I hope she's a better nurse than she is at making life decisions 😬
This is a demonstrated lack of cognitive function, risk assessment, and understanding of cause and effect that would make someone a liability to employ. I would fire her.
I'd never want her handling me is all I know lol
Impossible to know for sure without actually seeing it, but I did wonder the same thing. Sometimes a person can be an expert at one particular skill and a dunce at everything else, but I have doubts.
Omg seriously! 😂
You’re cute.
Infuriating. I made good choices financially and worked a welding job for 7 years and never made anywhere close to what she makes at 20. Wtf?!
Well, that’s the nature of health care jobs …. They are ridiculously well paid…and she does not even come across as very qualified… just imagine you are seriously sick and this air head is tending to you at the hospital….😱
How are you not making at least 80k as a welder?
Let her be broke. You tried to give her sound advice, she doesn't want it. You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. Immaturity runs deep in this one.
You can’t fix stupid
The worst part is her lack of empathy and she is in the medical field. We might end up seeing her in the news someday for killing someone. Or embezzling its just so obvious
We can see her father feeds into that problem as well
@@jacobpierce2880you must not know any nurses 😂
This girl trying to say $70k+ is “okay money” at 19 years old is delusional. She makes GREAT money, she just has horrible discipline.
Well she also admits she doesn't know anything about money. So she really can't judge what is ok money and what isn't. $70k does not feel like OK money to be making when you owe $70k to a dozen other companies.
I wonder what her parents are like
Hard truth but her horrible discipline really represents itself through her choice of a partner.
The Tik tok generation has a very strange view on money. Probably because they constantly watch all of these multi millionaire influencers. They’re completely unrealistic.
@@MFS45 Correction: They watch all these broke people on tiktok pretending to be millionaires.
I don’t understand how she can be a nurse. Her lack of common sense is alarming.
Alarming airhead.
Literally was thinking thank God I don't live anywhere near her. Doesn't have any common sense whatsoever
Airhead alert!😅
I’ve known many many really stupid nurses.
I just can’t wrap my head around her making 75K as LPN unless working a lot of OT
I wish some one would have yelled at me like this when i was 20 lol
That’s what parents are for :(
@L3x4Pr0ne not all parents know about finances, poverty can be a cycle that needs to be broken.
@@hayvenb exactly this. My parents failed miserably and barely made it by when us kids were in the home.
I took it upon myself to learn and not fall in the same traps and have my kids setup for the future.
Right
@@L3x4Pr0nedepends on when you were born. My siblings and I were born in the late 50’s and through the mid 60’s. I do feel that things are different now.
$70,000 in Oklahoma goes pretty damn far. Insane how she's broke.
especially that she only pays 800 a month. she makes almost double the income of the avg amereican
You ain’t kidding. I looked it up you can get a pretty nice house for 200k 😅 gtfoh…:
Southwestern OK is a wasteland.
Not that insane when you see what she is doing
Trying to live a lifestyle you can't afford will do that.
Gets in multiple crashes but wants to own 3 cars. LOL girl you are not a good driver. Just admit it.
Also, it's not "just the roads". I live in Oklahoma and probably put around 2,000 miles on my car a month for work. The roads are bad, BUT there are always 2 lane highways and speeding and the inability to merge is pretty bad. 5 accidents in under 2 years is 100% her fault.
You’re cute
@@DeadLkeMe Blaming the roads was wild! Like what else do you drive on 🤣
Surprised she didn't die in one of them... Jags had at one point one of the worst safety ratings.
My last car accident was in 2010 and I've driven about 250,000 miles since then. There's no reason someone should be getting in accidents that frequently.
This girl needs to get off social media. She is so out of touch with how much real people make and what a realistic lifestyle is.
Tik tak melted her brain
painfully obvious after she brought up buying and flipping houses. you're 20, you have zero of the skills to be able to remotely pull that off
@@TheAphtar Especially considering that, at 75k p. a., there are so many better options than ''flipping houses'' in terms of return on investment, taking into account the amount of time and effort she would inveitably have to put into it.
I know someone who did that somewhat successfully teaming up with a friend, but the friend was a tiler and he was a plumber who also had years of experience in construction. It is not ''easy money'' nor ''quick money'', at all!
Social media is a blight to young, impressionable minds
How is she spending over $1500 per month on food. Over $700 at the grocery store, and over $700 at the vending machine and to eat out? My family of 4 doesn’t spend $700 in a month on food.
Honestly I spend $2500 a MONTH just at the grocery store 🫣🫣🫣. That’s the worse bill I have to get under control
@@kail32966damn how
@@kail32966$83 per day? Y’all eating ribeyes every night?
@@kail32966you fill up your cart with prime rib every time you go or something?
$800 per month for me and my son. But that includes everything... food, toilet paper, shampoo, etc.
We rarely eat out. But this is too much for 2 ppl. I eat a lot of salads and plant based foods.. It'd be cheaper to eat crap.
She’s more worried about appearance than her own debt, she doesn’t want to sell the jag cause she thinks a 10k car is beneath her
The fact that she’s trying to be an RN but has such a lack of self awareness, accountability, and in total disillusion is frightening. RIP her patients.
I've met so many RNs that I wouldn't trust to tie their shoes
Imagine how she will pay off her RN STUDENT LOAN 🤓 it’s like 20-40k
@@midwestmack785 A lot of RNs are like this, sadly
@@SycaShow she could have cashflowed school but she thought a jag would have been better
I work in the medical field and I’ve had plenty of RN coworkers that were great nurses, but terrible at managing their finances.
Anybody who insists that speed didn't contribute to their hydroplaning should not be licensed to drive a motor vehicle.
In Oklahoma 100%. In mountainous places, if you're trying to go uphill while the water is rushing downhill, it can happen.
@@frozenheart7133brake pedal and park brake exist just FYI
@@frozenheart7133 You mean a flood? That's entirely different from hydroplaning.
too fast or using tires that don’t have any safe tread left. Either way still means the driver is the problem.
@F3udF1st no, it's kind of hard to explain if you haven't seen it but it's not that relevant anyway.
22:50 What could be cheaper than a Jaguar?
- Ford Fusion
- Toyota Corolla
- Subaru Impreza (you know, for her hydroplaning issues)
- Honda Civic
- Volkswagen Jetta
- Kia Rio
I can go on , and, on
Isn't a front wheel drive better in case of hydroplaning because either the engine is reving up or you get a traction warning?
As an insurance agent I died when she said she's a good driver while also admitting to totaling multiple cars in a two year span. Hydroplaning and even hitting elk are usually preventable accidents. It's mindblowing she won't give up her Jaguar (that doesn't even look that cool) when she's probably going to wreck that too
So please tell me how she gets to have low insurance rates (unless she’s lying) while others like us who have super clean records, no claims, pay double what she pays. Doesn’t make sense
@@FransceneJK98 My only guess is insurance is dirt cheap in OK since traffic is less congested. Rates vary heavily from state to state
If you're gonna be dumb and get a loan on a Jag way outside of what you should be driving, at least get an F-Type or something.
An F-Pace just makes you look like a suburban mom in middle management with 2.5 kids who whines about the pink Stanley cup shortage.
@@FransceneJK98it’s because of the state! My father-in-law was paying $400 in car insurance in Miami, FL. Now he lives in Alabama and pays $180 😓
Imagine having a dream car so bland 😭
This girl doesn't understand what working towards something means. Instant gratification is the only reason why she is where she's at. Lifestyle addiction is a real thing.
It’s even more basic, she doesn’t even understand how to choose between two things. I wish Caleb had at least tried to ask “when you eat at a restaurant, don’t you pick the one thing you want the most rather than order everything?” Or “when you care for a patient or do triage, isn’t there a list of highest priority to least priority actions you need to do?” She can’t even conceive of the concept of needing to choose between multiple options.
"I should be making more at 20." That statement shredded my ears.
I’m an RN and I don’t make that much 🙄
@@linz2200 Gotta move to the middle of nowhere and do agency I guess?
@@linz2200dude right! How on earth is she making this much without being an rn? Im sooo confused lol
@gracephillippe I made this as a CNA. All you need is to work 70+ hrs a week at $20/hr. Then never take vacations. 😂
@@linz2200exactly! Who's overpaying this girl and WHY?? I found it hard to believe an LPN would earn this much. RN...yes/maybe. LPN...No.
Most of these episodes have two big issues: unaffordable cars and eating out every meal of everyday
There is no way she is sticking to this plan. I bet she walks out that door and carries on with her life, the same way she came in.
Oh, absolutely not. She got no praise from him, so there's no way she's going to listen to him.
I bet she'll own a new Jaguar before she'll have her next meal!
Bingo
Probably wreck the car again on the way home
Yeah the mental leaps she makes to justify her habits and decisions is not a good sign.
Am I the only one who caught her saying she ripped the carpet out of her bedroom in a house that’s not hers “during a manic episode”? If she’s actually bipolar and she’s not medicated, then her behavior, spending, and all the car accidents make SO much sense. If she is bipolar, I hope she’s getting help for it.
Yeah I caught that too. She really shouldn’t be a nurse until she gets herself together
No that is so true all her actions really align
Im actually scared knowing she wants to be a RN
RIGHT? Get this woman some mood stabilizers!
The other purchase decisions suggest that's what's up, including the school jumping
Anyone else wondering how her car insurance is only $122 a month with 5 insurance claims at the age of 20?
My daughter is 20 and she never had any accidents. I pay $180/month with GEICO now. Her insurance cannot be $122/months with that many accidents.
She lives in Outer Dip Shit, Oklahoma !
The only way possible if she's telling the truth about it is that it's on bare minimum insurance which ONLY covers other people if she does get in an accident. If any damages at all happens to her car nothing is covered on it
@ChachoTrades yep this! She either has liability only her insurance and car are both only in her dad's name and she's not even listed as a driver.
Probably on the family plan still
I was 22 making 70K a year delivering furniture, i saved up and started a landscape business. Most people don't understand that when you have a cash cow you milk it and leverage yourself out by starting a side gig that developed into a full blown business. Now i haven't worked for anybody in over 10 years. I net close to 500K a year.
No one thinks you sounded like a jerk Caleb. We all had the same reaction. It’s always the high earners that piss me off the most
20 years old, 35 dollars an hour. She SHOULD be doing just fine in life. Recover from the stupidity and she should excel.
In Oklahoma too, mind you.
@@grantzolldanI don’t know what the cost of living is in Oklahoma, but I understand 73k is livable in the majority of the US.
@@KingCzar29I'm accentuating the fact that she lives in a relatively cheap area, so she should be even better off.
@@KingCzar29Oklahoma is the 2nd cheapest state to live in with the median income being around $28,000 and the median household income being around $58,000.
Cost of living is bigger than income. Someone who makes 200k in california can be closer to poverty than a 90k income in the south. Adjust cost of living to income in California and there's more poor people than all the other states...
“How the fuck did she squander a 75k salary?”
*pays no bills, has 2 jaguars, thinks there’s no issue*
“Oh yeah that’ll do it”
Kissing butts gets you far
She should sleep with a brain surgeon and try and get a free transplant
Whenever I feel b ad about my spending I pop over to this channel and realize I'm doing fine
Girl - word of advice from me: Do not act like a wife when you're just a girlfriend. It never ends well.
She not even acting like a wife she a full blown sugar mama 😭 but true
Are you married?
@@lyndonbauer1703 Yup!
@hspd that's surprising, as the easiest way to get married is to actually act like a wife - a girlfriend is an audition for the role of wife.
The only mistake is doing it for the wrong person.
Act like a wife for 3-6 months. If you don’t get the rock by then HE’S WASTING YOUR TIME. Once you get that rock you better get married within the year. Don’t let them “let’s save up” you. Do a cheap wedding. Backyard BBQ it with your friends and family within you CASH means. You aren’t royalty (nobody truly cares about your wedding enough to think about it on their deathbed) and if saving really matters to him then he’d prefer those savings to go towards a house ANYWAY.
I told my man at 18 that if he wants me long term then he better put a ring on it. He did!!! 9 months later we were in a courthouse signing papers. It’s been 11 years now and it feels amazing to know that men didn’t get to waste my fertile years.
All that to say, don’t let a man waste 1-2 years of your life. If they love you and are having s£x with you… what’s the hold up?
ALSO, make sure he’s auditioning to be a husband! Make sure he’s not wanting a mother wife. Make sure he’s ready to be a man and a father if that’s the course y’all want to go. Make sure he’s a responsible with his choices.💕
The way he acts, talks, spends, etc…
It's so sad to see someone this young being so blinded by unhinged consumerism. It is also beyond frustrating seeing someone be so flippant towards their own good salary and how they waste their money when so many other people struggle.
There are people in this life who will NEVER make 6 grand a month, and shes sitting here saying shes not making enough. Its absolutely insane
It’s her money, she can do whatever she wants with it.
"you can't chase two rabbits: you will catch neither" - a proverb which comes to mind hearing this young lady!
you meant : "you can't chase two jaguars" right?
Good saying, but doesn't match my experience as a rabbit owner. Just gotta like corral them in the same direction
@@GuapoG0tGuapTake them outside and try to chase them
@@saacuul I feel like that's kinda the equivalent of what she did with her finances and I will not be doing that
love it!
"I dont want to sell the car." I would have ended the discussion there. She's hopeless.
Yikes. I know she's 20 but holy immature. The Jaguar thing is insane.
Especially since she said she drives 700 miles a week. The jag is gonna fall apart and get horrible gas mileage the whole way. Even at 20 i knew to buy a hybrid or at least a fuel efficient ICE if I'm going to need to drive a lot
Let’s not pretend 99% of 20 year olds aren’t immature. She’s going to be doing better than a vast majority of people on here once she tightens up her spending.
Worst part is Jaguars are literally hot garbage, horrible reliability and amongst the worst resale value and depreciation in the market.
@@mcdonalduck Yeah, plugin hybrid is definitely the way to go. I used to have a 2 hour, 120 mile round trip commute and even with how gas around me is cheaper than most of the country it was a major expense.
Id definitely say it is a bad debt, jaguars are not meant to be used the way shes using it and she certainly does not need a brand new one
The economy needs people like her. Thank you for your service
😂😂
Keeping the economy strong, I respect the hell out of that
@@dookiepostGordon flowers fan?
@@dookiepost
It’s honest people like you that support this country
and sacrifice
I only make 50k a year and just having no debt makes a huge difference. If I made what she made I’d be a millionaire before 50.
Same, if I made what she makes I'd have my house fully paid off by now
50k a year is pretty decent. High living costs?
Average salary here in the UK is about £26k
Literally! I just paid of my car and two lines of credit last year and now I actually have a little left over every month. Its been life changing since I was in shitty debts since 18 and I'm 26 now. People don't realize how even cutting the smallest monthly payment makes a huge difference.
As a man with a bicycle I just watch the car loan part of all your vids. It validates me so much.
Watching this with my young teens and for the first time I think it really clicked for them why we limit social media and push financial literacy. This girl is hard to watch.
I can't even imagine thinking about buying a new car every couple years because they "made upgrades" to it. Doing that with phones is ridiculous enough.
I’m sure car salesmen love her
Yeah. It’s going to cut majorly into the rest of your lifestyle. If you /can/ afford that, though, that’s what leases are for. If you’re not keeping a car long enough to pay it off, just get a lease for a lower payment
For real. I normally buy 0-3 year old luxury vehicles, then pay them off in 3-4 years and keep them for another 6-7 years with no payments. I also keep phones for like 5-6 years. Vehicles and phones are just money pits.
She’s out of her mind. I’ve never paid more then 5k for a car my entire life and I’m 40.
@@jenniturtleburger3708yeah somewhere someone convinced her Jaguars were the best cars, they scammed her.
She'll lock her dad in jail through debt and she still preffers her car
What a horrible human
And for those who don't live in OKLAHOMA $78k in OK IS LIKE 200K in California. Property, house and car insurance is easily half the price, housing is cheap and no entertainment to spend money
78k would be about 120k in California. Definitely cheaper in OK but not nearly that dramatic.
I make like $46,000-ish dollars a year pre-taxes, or $22.35/hour at 25 years old. It's decent relative to what other jobs pay in my area. I can easily save half of my income each month due to my low cost of living. I would live like an absolute KING on what this child makes.
This post def dramatic… it’s not that extreme
So she's definitely smoking crack
Plenty of “entertainment” those casinos will take aaaaall your money🤣
Her: What would be cheaper than a Jaguar?
Me: 95% of cars on the road 😂😂
This is not applicable to her but most cars depreciate in value but other, certain name cars, like jaguars can maintain their resale value
@@M_SC Who cares? How much is it retaining when she totals one every year?
@@M_SC They absolutely do not. I have no idea why you think that. Something "you were told"?
@@M_SC yo lemme get your dealer's number, I want what you're smoking
@@M_SCjaguars depreciate horribly
3 uploads a week are so clutch never miss an episode
you should see the other uploads this week. 😅
When I was getting ready to leave the warmth of my parents home and head out into the great unknown, I remember my friends dad saying something so profound… “a mental trap for the younger generation is that when they head out on their own, they think that they are entitled to everything that their parents currently have. They forget that their parents worked hard for the past 20 years to have everything That they currently possess and their kids will start out on their own thinking that it should automatically be given to them. Some will even try to one up their parents and go out and get something newer and nicer, and then they find themselves chained to debt for the rest of their lives.
When everything is a priority, nothing is a priority.
Well said! 👍
I'll be stealing that one.
63% interest?! Who is she borrowing money from, Tony Soprano?!
😂
AYYYYY TAKE IT EASY 🤌🤌🤌
My brain fell out of my skull when I heard that.
Loan sharks will survive
Ayyy wadda you a wise guy? Don’t make me call my cousin Nicky!
I was about to buy a new vehicle(keyword WAS), watched this and about a handful of other videos of your channel.
Scared the ever living shit out of me, think im gonna drive my Hyundai until the wheels fall off.
Thanks Caleb!
“I wasn’t going too fast” you hydroplaned! By definition you were going too fast for the conditions! My god this girl is ridiculous.
Or she had bald tires
@@kayabe856 true, although that’s just stupidity in a different way.
@@kayabe856there’s no way she had bald tires if she’s had 5 cars in two years. she just can’t drive 😂
I live where it's common to hydroplane on our freeways. It's easy to drive through if you don't panic and keep going, don't brake. It's stupid to get in a wreck over it. It's very avoidable.
I don’t think she wants the help, she wants you to agree with her decisions.
THIS! This is it
She wants people to be impressed that she's only 20 years old and owns a ✨Jaguar✨
It's the same reason she wants to buy her cousin's house, flip a house, have a second car, etc., and will keep going for more and more until she either wizens up or reality punches her in the gut. She wants to be told she's killing it, she wants peoples' envy.
Heaven help her if she should ever lose her job or the ability to do her job.
Firshir! 😂
Wow. I thought I was dumb at 20. Turns out I'm a genius!
I am no longer scared of the upperclassmen at my college. At least they didn’t get withdrawn from multiple others, though
Her mindset will continue to ruin her financial life. She WILL NOT succeed.
nah im actually pissed. im out here fighting for my life trying to make 50,000 a year, and shes sitting here so smug that 75, 000 is nothing. the whole car situation is CRAZY. this is the most livid ive been watching this show
She's actually awful
Every time she said she didn't make that much I wanted to rip my hair out lol...
She an LPN, so she is wiping asses and changing bedsheets. They are paid well not because it’s a complicated job, but because there is a shortage of them. Doesn’t take much, so why not do it yourself? If you are fighting for 50k, swallow your pride, wipe some asses and you can make a 50% raise
maybe you need better jobs. Many people who came on this show make more than that. it's feasible so nothing wrong with wanting more
Like sometimes I watch the show and I'm like Jesus H Christopher this person is dumb. But this episode is just truly so full of entitlement it blows my fackin mind.
When she said "what could be cheaper than a Jaguar?" I thought Calebs head was gonna explode hahah🤣
It's hilarious when people buy a Mercedes S class that costs >$100K brand new , maintenence service and insurance costs are high and after 10 years scratch their heads and wonder while their Benz is worth 20K as opposed to a Toyota that retains it's value after long period of time.
it was getting there :D I thought smoke was gonna come out of his ears 😁
@@TheIronChainMasterAt least the S-class is a good car and way better than a crappy Toyota so you enjoy it for 10 years but a Jaguar is a shitty car, probably the same league as a Toyota or Kia
"You might as well have a three-way with that vending machine & your Jaguar" 😂
I wanna see Caleb do an audit like this together with Dave Ramsey. I will watch the shit out of that episode.
Ive never seen someone so committed at living a materialistic life to the fullest while being so oblivious to what the problem is
You should've seen my ex-wife
"For sure" explains it all. She's thick asffff 😂
caleb, no one will hate you , shes just infuriating. you had the right reaction
The mhm hmm responses were hard for me personally to listen to. It just feels so childish when people communicate like that.
As a RN, this episode makes me more infuriated than the others. She made even more money than me (I’m part-time and definitely didn’t work as many hours as she did)! She truly has no excuse for all the debt she’s in. She has the income but her age, lack of maturity, and financial illiteracy are definitely showing.
She is in the best position of all the people audited recently to get out of the hole she’s dug herself in.
She’s 20, she doing fine
73k a year is insane. Im 21 in England and 73k is absolutely insane, most people never get even half
She is legitimately going to be broke for life and never get to the goal she thinks she’s worth with her way of living, thinking, and attitude. She is doomed.
@@Jake38nine agree
Spending habits are important to get under control.
I don’t think she’s doomed. She could change her actions and thought process, but she probably won’t and will most likely be doomed.
No chance of any cure. She is not serious and needs more pain or has to hit the bottom. Reminds me of an alcoholic! Not close to the cure
@@mclovinlife4018 she’s doomed because she is showing signs that showing off is worth more then wealth which means as she makes more she will show more.
She definitely grew up wealthy and/or spoiled so she can’t comprehend the idea of not having a luxury car while not being able to afford it because she feels like she deserves a nice car. She probably knows her parents will financially bail her out hence why she’s not worried about her debts or planning to sacrifice to pay the debts down or off. Eyeroll.
@@Junevalentinoyou’re a creep bro
@@Ok20002 I’m just saying you’re cute, what’s creepy about that? I’m not saying damn girl you fine as hell, lemme get in them jeans. So think about what you call me before you say it.
She definitely is influenced heavily by social media/IG/Fomo.
People spend when they're barely middle class. A lot of us at 100k plus can barely afford to do half of what she is doing.
Pretty privilege
She definitely had an issue with entitlement and instant gratification. The school hopping shows that. She thinks she should have everything she wants right now.
The one thing that triggers me in this one is the five car wrecks and pretending it isn't her fault. Hydroplaning, hitting a deer, multiple wrecks on the same road, all avoidable by going 45 mph when you know you're in a condition that's dangerous to drive
This should be a basic survival instinct. "I got in wreck here, I should probably slow down. It's raining really hard, I should probably slow down."
@@cereal76 her mind probably went to “oh I’ve had wrecks here before I should drive faster to get out of this area. Oh it’s raining. I should drive faster to get out the rain.”
I work in insurance, and can promise you she is the same person that will call and argue for an hour when her insurance gets raised, or eventually is dropped by her carrier. Like she said, "She's a good driver", and the accidents ALL "were not her fault".
@@carmelle4everSO funny 😂
Imagine thinking that crashing is inevitable just because it's raining.
This is the kind of girl I don't feel bad for when she gets taken advantage of , she thinks ppl are beneath her and looks down on"poor" ppl
Shes gonna be rubbing shoulders with’em soon enough.
She is the reason my car insurance is so high. This girl is the worst!
An airhead getting paid that much as a nurse is also why your health insurance is so high.
No she’s not. You are the reason. 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️ you can’t be that dumb.
And also why there is such a high death rate on medical mishaps.
@@nitehawk86Fr, I bet if she makes a mistake and kills somebody she’d just be like “oops, my bad, that’s on me for sure”
But hers is only 122
Imagine getting the new version of a car every year like someone gets the new iphone every year. That's a new level of stupidity and finanancial irresponsibility...
And I’m over here with an iPhone 8…😂 can’t even relate to getting a new iPhone let alone new car every year.
@laurencrawford1173 I get the current flagship model of Samsung phone every 4-6 years. I don't notice any significant changes that happen faster than that. And it's never anything I can't live without. It's mostly and issue of the phone breaking down from wear on buttons or the sensors going out.
I have a family member who does this.. it blows my mind
@@sophiapeters8206 new car or phone every year?
Who gets a phone every year?! Lol I keep mine for at least 3 years😅
damn, she was literally told that in 14 months her debt would be gone with the planned budget and STILL says she would buy a new car in a year's time
I'm done at that point. There's no hope for them.
@@TheIronChainMasterher.
And a house.
@@eegernades it’s not like the called them it or something. unnecessary correction fr
@@cc24681 i dont really remember and don't give a f. So have a good day.
The problem is a lot of young people compare their income and lifestyle to what a lot of influencers have. There isn’t anything wrong with aspiring to do better but it’s sad to see how it is seen as being behind in life when you don’t have your life “together” so young. Also, a lot of the people we look up to can be in a worst financial situation than we are.
Why do u guys no longer put the full amount of debt adding up in the bottom right corner anymore??? That was very helpful
An actual and perfect example of the fact that you can not make enough money to overcome financial illiteracy and undisciplined spending.
& just complete stupidity, even if 20 this is dumb for a 13 year old.
Lottery winners also prove this. It hurts my soul.
If I was her dad, I'd be pissed. Owes him like 1800.00...but supports her loser boyfriend, buys a status car to show off a lifestyle she doesn't have, etc. And she says "watch me"? Do what? She isn't going to change.
I wasn't genuinely pissed until the very end with the new car. She seems like she barely knows the difference between manual and automatic. "Everything" is better? Her dad failed her on the topic of finances and basic automotive knowledge. My mans does not have the right to be mad. 😂
She's young it's good shes coming here for help she'll learn
@@waldo-ot6ulnot with her attitude she won’t
@@waldo-ot6ulBruh, do you genuinely believe that she’ll give up that car? That’s the first step. I hope she changes but some of those habits won’t go away.
@@ShivPatel-hy6vu not right away but eventually
29:26 the jaguar comment to top it off omggg that was gold
"back up car" was the worst thing she justified. Its hard to pick, but that killed me
Yeah that killed me @chelsa 😂💀