You're really the only person I've seen cover this so comprehensively and sincerely, and I think anyone totally disregarding this aspect of things is being ingenuine. If people were more aware of this aspect of the transgender subculture, I think everyone would be better able to co-exist in the end, as there would be far less confusion on both sides. I have experienced gender dysphoria to some degree from a very young age, and it has worsened over time, but unfortunately exposure to fetish content online throughout puberty has complicated my experiences with my identity as I've grown up. In a repressive environment, kink became a strange escape where I could feel something that distracted me from the void of my everyday discomfort, but at great cost to how I perceive myself in the long term. I do not like the fact that young people can access an underbelly of perverted content and people that everyone else seems totally oblivious to, it's genuinely a very scary way to grow up. In the case that it functions as an escape, you feel stuck making sense of these things all on your own even as doing so leaves a strong imprint on your psyche. It's not like you can really tell your parents or friends about it, as most wouldn't really understand even the sanitized narrative thats thrown around today, let alone all of the messier details. I have been working on understanding and disintegrating these sexual proclivities. I think I do genuinely identify as transgender at heart, Ive never seen myself as a man and cannot see a future for myself as one, but I dont want to commit to anything with this perverted dynamic present in my life, as I feel it to be an extension of the violation I experienced being exposed and conditioned by that environment at such a young age, and feel that allowing it to continue to develop alongside making life-changing decisions wouldn't end well. I wish there was more open-discussion about this topic, because finding people who relate to my experience that arent lying to themselves and/or poisoned by ideology would be really helpful in sorting ourselves out.
thank you for covering this topic! I'm an AGP transitioner, having this sexuality is extremely distressing and often leads to dysphoric feelings as it did for me. I dont consider myself a woman or female but i do live my life more like one. Transition was beneficial for my mental health and improving the quality of life for myself. I've found it hard to talk about this subject openly with anyone and have had to resort to niche parts of the internet to commiserate with others who are also self aware of this experience. Also just to point out but the analogous experience for females is called Autoandrophilia and it does exist for some FtMs, there's a few interviews of them talking about their experiences on Phil Illy's channel if you are ever interested in learning more (:
@@user-gw8gx4uw5e thank you, I’ll check it. Autoandrophilia is something I can understand and imagine actually. I guess it’s just rare in comparison to agp. And thanks for sharing 🖤
Oh I totally have that! I've definitely rubbed a few out to AI pics of myself as a woman. It's not my main thing, but it randomly comes up now and then. I'm definitely not trans, though, even though I don't buy into gender norms. Similarly, I wouldn't want to live a 24/7 bdsm relationship in either role (I'm a switch and I was in a long relationship where I was pushed into a 24/7 top mode more than I wanted to be - it was hell). Both are sexy to me, but not my whole life.
im trans i thought that a lot about this video seemed feminist, but i think that those parts were overshadowed by the depiction of mtf trans people as autogynophilic in bulk. i mean you did make the distinction between people with genuine gender dysphoria and mtf with autogynophilia but you seemed to suggest that it was a driving factor for a lot of men to transition. the problem with that is that it shifts peoples perceptions to view mtf trans people as most likely being that way if you encounter one in the world. the trans movement isn't about protecting people with fetishes its about protecting trans people, the people with the fetish are not actually trans. also i never met a person with agp but i also dont really talk to other trans people often so i wouldnt know.
@@songoku8627but like is it though? because I’ve never really seen one and i identified as trans even in childhood. The idea of changing your body so much because of a sexual fetish just seems a little out there to me that’s why it seems farfetched, I’m not saying it’s impossible but it seems unlikely & really really unlikely to be a significant portion or a majority
@@alwaysmiss12 yeah I definitely have autogynephilia (it's not my main thing, but it's one thing). But I know I don't have any kind of deep drive core to my identity where I feel like a woman (I don't identify that strongly with masculine gender norms either, but I get on fine just ignoring the ones I don't care about). It's purely a sexual/excitement thing for me. I don't have, for example, a dream of what it would be like to have babies (I've heard a lot of trans women speak of how they wish for that).
I find the idea that clothes are a dysfunction stupid. The idea of what is and is not OK for a man or woman to wear is a social construct as is that what a person wears denotes their sexual orientation. In Ireland men wear kilts so are all men in Ireland who wear a skirt or kilt crossdressing (and gay) no because men wearing kilts is part of their society and it means nothing. In parts of Africa, men wear a thobe which is the long white gown they wear it is normal, it is not crossdressing. To say that only women wear skirts and if a man does that is a dysfunction, that they are crossdressing and or gay is a societal social dysfunction, not an individual dysfunction. all of this is nothing more than an attempt at forced conformity through shaming, a piece of cloth you put on your body does not determine anything. During the Renaissance, it was not socially accepted and in some places illegal for a woman to wear pants (other than when riding, as in horses in some areas) but now women wear pants, jeans all the time so why is that not crossdressing, it is not crossdressing because women started wearing pants and society changed and it became normal and men wearing skirts can and should go that same route. All clothing should be unisex it is a piece of cloth nothing more.
I'm an autogynephile I have gender dysphoria but would never transition because I would not be able to pass and I want to be a woman I don't want to be trans. Unpassing trans people make me feel disgust because I don't want to have male features. Most AGPs who you see transition don't actually want to be women they want to be trans like they want to have a penis and are fine with not passing even enjoying it they lack proper gender dysphoria. I think a good simple system for most people when viewing trans could look like. No pass = Man, Passable pre op = Trans, Pass and post op = Woman.
I would question your reasoning, because you might have been gaslighted by a theory that is not accepted by most specialists in the field. Are you aware how this theory is criticized? Have you read publications by dr Julia Serano? According to the dominant theory, feminization fetish is a cooccurring factor to gender incongruency, not its cause. Are you sure you have gender dysphoria BECAUSE of your feminization fetish, or you developed that fetish as a coping mechanism to your gender dysphoria, and your gender dysphoria is caused by congenital neurodivergence? Many transwomen who had an autoerotic phase will describe the story that they had dysphoria before that phase, then they practiced the fetish, then they got bored with the fetish, but found out the dysphoria is still there. (and their coping mechanism has ran out of steam I would add) www.academia.edu/12400497/The_Case_Against_Autogynephilia Most kinks for most people are temporary fascinations that wear off once the novelty factor is gone. Gender incongruency however begins at childhood, latest around puberty and stays with you regardless of any arousal or sexual habits, though I would add a theory of my own, that people who get it before age 7, are more lucky, because they just start acting their gender before they understand that they are not supposed to according to social standards, but people who develop it between 7-14 will go into heavy repression and this may breed kinks associated with what they are repressing.
Alla, I've enjoyed listening to your thoughts and perspectives. You have a sharp mind. I hope you will consider continuing to share your thoughts. You have a unique lived experience, and you articulate your perspectives with clarity and intricacy. I've watched many of your TH-cam videos, and i appreciate your sharing. May we continue to cultivate our strengths. 😌🙏🌱
Over the past few years I realized that I think little bit different about women than all other guys since when others saw a pretty girl most of their desires would be to fuck her but for some reason for me it was for some reason rather imagining as if I was that girl and that turned me on. Obviously that was very confusing to me and for a bit I was even asking myself if am not a trans but then i found out about autogenophylia and that kinda helped me figure things out since my desire to be women was only purely sexuál otherwise in real life I didnt feel like oné. Otherwiwe I am a straight man, I like only women I like to have sex with them but also have the fetish to be them. Currently i am with a girlfriend who I really love and everything is working out great even with her knowing that I have this kind of fetish and she doesnt mind. On some occasions it might be even more beneficial since I am more interested into her girl activities like makeup or nails into which other guys maybe wouldnt be because of their masculanity not allowing it. Also obviously I like to crossdress
Should society accept this or try to understand why it is increasing in our society. When you have a society with little hardship, people don’t need to focus survival, but rather their kinks. You sort of mentioned this. You see the “woke” community who is focused on their beliefs instead of food and housing. I am not talking about gay or bisexual people who go about their lives, but rather this “extreme woke” who try to force their ideas into others and try to make people accept them
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You're really the only person I've seen cover this so comprehensively and sincerely, and I think anyone totally disregarding this aspect of things is being ingenuine. If people were more aware of this aspect of the transgender subculture, I think everyone would be better able to co-exist in the end, as there would be far less confusion on both sides.
I have experienced gender dysphoria to some degree from a very young age, and it has worsened over time, but unfortunately exposure to fetish content online throughout puberty has complicated my experiences with my identity as I've grown up. In a repressive environment, kink became a strange escape where I could feel something that distracted me from the void of my everyday discomfort, but at great cost to how I perceive myself in the long term. I do not like the fact that young people can access an underbelly of perverted content and people that everyone else seems totally oblivious to, it's genuinely a very scary way to grow up. In the case that it functions as an escape, you feel stuck making sense of these things all on your own even as doing so leaves a strong imprint on your psyche. It's not like you can really tell your parents or friends about it, as most wouldn't really understand even the sanitized narrative thats thrown around today, let alone all of the messier details.
I have been working on understanding and disintegrating these sexual proclivities. I think I do genuinely identify as transgender at heart, Ive never seen myself as a man and cannot see a future for myself as one, but I dont want to commit to anything with this perverted dynamic present in my life, as I feel it to be an extension of the violation I experienced being exposed and conditioned by that environment at such a young age, and feel that allowing it to continue to develop alongside making life-changing decisions wouldn't end well.
I wish there was more open-discussion about this topic, because finding people who relate to my experience that arent lying to themselves and/or poisoned by ideology would be really helpful in sorting ourselves out.
@@_kitnat07 thank you for sharing 🖤 I wish people like you could find each other and chat and support without getting delusional
thank you for covering this topic! I'm an AGP transitioner, having this sexuality is extremely distressing and often leads to dysphoric feelings as it did for me. I dont consider myself a woman or female but i do live my life more like one. Transition was beneficial for my mental health and improving the quality of life for myself. I've found it hard to talk about this subject openly with anyone and have had to resort to niche parts of the internet to commiserate with others who are also self aware of this experience.
Also just to point out but the analogous experience for females is called Autoandrophilia and it does exist for some FtMs, there's a few interviews of them talking about their experiences on Phil Illy's channel if you are ever interested in learning more (:
@@user-gw8gx4uw5e thank you, I’ll check it. Autoandrophilia is something I can understand and imagine actually. I guess it’s just rare in comparison to agp.
And thanks for sharing 🖤
Oh I totally have that! I've definitely rubbed a few out to AI pics of myself as a woman. It's not my main thing, but it randomly comes up now and then.
I'm definitely not trans, though, even though I don't buy into gender norms. Similarly, I wouldn't want to live a 24/7 bdsm relationship in either role (I'm a switch and I was in a long relationship where I was pushed into a 24/7 top mode more than I wanted to be - it was hell). Both are sexy to me, but not my whole life.
I adore strong, smart women! Thank You Alla!
im trans i thought that a lot about this video seemed feminist, but i think that those parts were overshadowed by the depiction of mtf trans people as autogynophilic in bulk. i mean you did make the distinction between people with genuine gender dysphoria and mtf with autogynophilia but you seemed to suggest that it was a driving factor for a lot of men to transition. the problem with that is that it shifts peoples perceptions to view mtf trans people as most likely being that way if you encounter one in the world. the trans movement isn't about protecting people with fetishes its about protecting trans people, the people with the fetish are not actually trans. also i never met a person with agp but i also dont really talk to other trans people often so i wouldnt know.
It’s a thing and I don’t think people should discount it.
@@songoku8627but like is it though? because I’ve never really seen one and i identified as trans even in childhood. The idea of changing your body so much because of a sexual fetish just seems a little out there to me that’s why it seems farfetched, I’m not saying it’s impossible but it seems unlikely & really really unlikely to be a significant portion or a majority
@@alwaysmiss12 yeah I definitely have autogynephilia (it's not my main thing, but it's one thing). But I know I don't have any kind of deep drive core to my identity where I feel like a woman (I don't identify that strongly with masculine gender norms either, but I get on fine just ignoring the ones I don't care about).
It's purely a sexual/excitement thing for me. I don't have, for example, a dream of what it would be like to have babies (I've heard a lot of trans women speak of how they wish for that).
Thank You Alla!
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I find the idea that clothes are a dysfunction stupid. The idea of what is and is not OK for a man or woman to wear is a social construct as is that what a person wears denotes their sexual orientation. In Ireland men wear kilts so are all men in Ireland who wear a skirt or kilt crossdressing (and gay) no because men wearing kilts is part of their society and it means nothing. In parts of Africa, men wear a thobe which is the long white gown they wear it is normal, it is not crossdressing.
To say that only women wear skirts and if a man does that is a dysfunction, that they are crossdressing and or gay is a societal social dysfunction, not an individual dysfunction. all of this is nothing more than an attempt at forced conformity through shaming, a piece of cloth you put on your body does not determine anything. During the Renaissance, it was not socially accepted and in some places illegal for a woman to wear pants (other than when riding, as in horses in some areas) but now women wear pants, jeans all the time so why is that not crossdressing, it is not crossdressing because women started wearing pants and society changed and it became normal and men wearing skirts can and should go that same route.
All clothing should be unisex it is a piece of cloth nothing more.
I'm an autogynephile I have gender dysphoria but would never transition because I would not be able to pass and I want to be a woman I don't want to be trans. Unpassing trans people make me feel disgust because I don't want to have male features. Most AGPs who you see transition don't actually want to be women they want to be trans like they want to have a penis and are fine with not passing even enjoying it they lack proper gender dysphoria.
I think a good simple system for most people when viewing trans could look like. No pass = Man, Passable pre op = Trans, Pass and post op = Woman.
@@eugene8700 that depends on the spaces but overall, just social circumstances - I agree.
Thank you for sharing, it’s very interesting 🖤
I would question your reasoning, because you might have been gaslighted by a theory that is not accepted by most specialists in the field. Are you aware how this theory is criticized? Have you read publications by dr Julia Serano? According to the dominant theory, feminization fetish is a cooccurring factor to gender incongruency, not its cause. Are you sure you have gender dysphoria BECAUSE of your feminization fetish, or you developed that fetish as a coping mechanism to your gender dysphoria, and your gender dysphoria is caused by congenital neurodivergence?
Many transwomen who had an autoerotic phase will describe the story that they had dysphoria before that phase, then they practiced the fetish, then they got bored with the fetish, but found out the dysphoria is still there. (and their coping mechanism has ran out of steam I would add)
www.academia.edu/12400497/The_Case_Against_Autogynephilia
Most kinks for most people are temporary fascinations that wear off once the novelty factor is gone. Gender incongruency however begins at childhood, latest around puberty and stays with you regardless of any arousal or sexual habits, though I would add a theory of my own, that people who get it before age 7, are more lucky, because they just start acting their gender before they understand that they are not supposed to according to social standards, but people who develop it between 7-14 will go into heavy repression and this may breed kinks associated with what they are repressing.
Alla, I've enjoyed listening to your thoughts and perspectives. You have a sharp mind. I hope you will consider continuing to share your thoughts. You have a unique lived experience, and you articulate your perspectives with clarity and intricacy. I've watched many of your TH-cam videos, and i appreciate your sharing. May we continue to cultivate our strengths. 😌🙏🌱
Thank you ☺️
@@alla_mephistophelesyou are a psycho 🔪 insane dangerous
Next video topic: phrenology
Then I would like to hear your thoughts on genderdysforia :)
Over the past few years I realized that I think little bit different about women than all other guys since when others saw a pretty girl most of their desires would be to fuck her but for some reason for me it was for some reason rather imagining as if I was that girl and that turned me on. Obviously that was very confusing to me and for a bit I was even asking myself if am not a trans but then i found out about autogenophylia and that kinda helped me figure things out since my desire to be women was only purely sexuál otherwise in real life I didnt feel like oné.
Otherwiwe I am a straight man, I like only women I like to have sex with them but also have the fetish to be them.
Currently i am with a girlfriend who I really love and everything is working out great even with her knowing that I have this kind of fetish and she doesnt mind. On some occasions it might be even more beneficial since I am more interested into her girl activities like makeup or nails into which other guys maybe wouldnt be because of their masculanity not allowing it.
Also obviously I like to crossdress
Tnx for info 🤘⚘️
Ps; you have amazing mind 🤘
Very thought provoking. Thanks for sharing 👍 😊 ❤
I can learn a lot from you empress
Should society accept this or try to understand why it is increasing in our society. When you have a society with little hardship, people don’t need to focus survival, but rather their kinks. You sort of mentioned this. You see the “woke” community who is focused on their beliefs instead of food and housing. I am not talking about gay or bisexual people who go about their lives, but rather this “extreme woke” who try to force their ideas into others and try to make people accept them
accept them you fascist prick!