dear Coach Nat I am so happy & proud of you posting today I just want to tell you about my enlightening today it finally clicked for me what it means: unstoppable manifestor effortless manifesting self-love becomes not waiting thanks a lot 4 ur commitment ❤❤❤❤🎉 from Rome (IT)
This topic is very synchronistic for me right now but I feel very conflicted about all of it... So my SP reached out yesterday after almost 3 months of no message. I wasn't really surprised to be honest because I was pretty sure he would contact me around Christmas and I was also manifesting it because part of me really wanted to see him on Christmas or at least before New Years. The thing is though that I felt ZERO joy when he wrote and I literally had to force myself to answer after a day or so. I felt, like you said, that I shouldn't ignore it or be too eager either and I replied rather short and when he asked further questions I responded in a light-hearted, sort of jokey way but tbh I was just going through the emotions and on the inside I didn't feel fun at all but rather cynical and I had this profound feeling of utter disappointment in him as a person because I felt that after all this time his message (like "Merry Christmas, how are you, I hope you had nice days, how's your father, blablabla) was so utterly CHEAP and cowardish. No explanation why he never replied to me to my last messages, no apology, no expression whatsoever of missing me, no addressing anything between us whatsoever. And this time I didn't show any of my disappointment and just gave little energy back but it's the first time that I actually feel something like DESPISE for him. He's making it so easy for himself, after all this time (it's been years of this pattern) he doesn't even have the guts to at least show the slightest bit of vulnerability and at least tell me he's thinking of me or missing me... and of course, the way he spent Christmas is getting drvnk and smpking w33d with his friends, escapism at its finest instead of maybe for once turning inside and reflecting on himself. Maybe I shouldn't discard it but I can't help but feel that his message is absolutely worthless and means absolutely nothing and I feel huge resistance at the thought of him, like you said, testing the waters with me to see if I'm at a place where I'm attractive to him again, in a good place and successful... Because first of all, that has nothing to do with love for me when he always only wants me at my happy-go-lucky moments and abandons me everytime that I'm struggling with something in my life, like my career, health and my father's illness... and why the heck should it again be ON ME to prove to him that I'm worth it and keep it interesting for him instead of him finally doing HIS part and stepping up the game and showing me that HE worked on some issues too and could be a better partner?! I'm so sick of him coming back uncomformed! I so wanted to manifest him back for Christmas but when I saw his message and it was the same half4assed low effort sh7t as always it made me feel s7ck to my stomach... I don't want to be the one trying to be perfect for him anymore and prove my freaking value to him, find the right words to reply, not too eager, not too cold... why do I have to micromanage everything?? What does HE do??!
Awesome Natalie ! Your Badd, Way Badd! I been in a rough relationship break up and been no contact for a year now a week ago, and it's has been a journey of self discovery, truly enriching Thank You Natalie for your insight and sharing, to the brothers and sisters, you all have got this, move on and continue to grow.........Self Love is the greatest gift anyone can give to themselves! Loves Up to You All!!!!
This video was exactly what I needed to hear today, I believe strong in my heart ❤️ my SP and I , are coming into union soon, and thank you so much for recommending don’t rush in, obviously I want him back, but I won’t jump in reply as soon as I receive, do you think hours later, the next day lol 😂 or maybe a couple days?
Natalie, I shall not rush into anything with my SP, I will continue enjoying our friendship and see what develops. Now get ready for New Years celebrations. I appreciate you being there for all of us. ❤ Thank you, Natalie sending you “ Love & Light “ ❤❤
I feel like sending a happy new year message to him nothing sentimental just a standard message but at the same time think it’s best to stay in no contact. I mean he also has a phone and fingers to text 😔
I’ve been in NC with my ex for 14 days. We work together and on our last day of work 7 days ago he was staring incessantly and trying to get my attention badly. He hasn’t contacted me but my NC was bothering him.
I did 3 months of no contact amd it was a total zero, I didn't even check hos socials. But now I feel I screw it up, I came back to my country for the Christmas and met his brother in the pub, I told him to say hi from me. I feel bad, especially that he did literally nothing to chase me or stop me and it looks like i chase again. Or is it not that bad? I just couldn't resist, I live in different country and when I'm here my heart beats much stronger and I miss him so much. I think I will preted this never happened and forget about it. I'm not going to lie.. I'm losing my hope..
Wwll she did...protending to be another woman interested in me then asked me why i went no contact after she revealed herself then got angry when i got angry and now we dont talk...👍
Has anyone had any luck with manifesting an sp? I had a horrible break up with my ex and she jumped into a rebound relationship, I’ve been lightly manifesting but mostly working on my inner healing and self concept, I’ve also been in no contact for about a month. I’m definitely feeling better, but I’m just wondering how’s everyone’s experience with this.
Is this also true (relevant) in case of an SP or a crush who is in relationship with other person? The feelings have always been one-sided from my side. We were never in relationship
What if I know I am the best option. I know who I am, I know I am the best, no offense to anyone in here, seriously, but what if she watches that podcast “You deserve better”. It’s been a year and change, is that podcast bc she thinks she deserves better than me? Or deserves better from the people she’s been with after me? I know I am great, my friend just got off the phone with me and told me that I am the whole package. And told me that all the woman at work are asking who is that? He’s so hot, he have a girlfriend? Bc I want a piece of that!” lol but seriously, I know my worth, but maybe her ego is so inflated that she thinks she’s the winner here? Idk
Might as well. It might be that she feels like a victim of your behaviour and watches self healing videos and thinks that you will come crawling back. It all depends on if they can put their ego aside, if they know that they said/did something bad etc. It is what it is. Do you know deep inside yourself that she is the only person for you and you are going to be together? Or are you just hoping? If you know, rest assured you will be together no matter what.
dear Coach Nat
I am so happy & proud of you
posting today
I just want to tell you
about my enlightening today
it finally clicked for me
what it means:
unstoppable manifestor
effortless manifesting
self-love becomes not waiting
thanks a lot 4 ur commitment
❤❤❤❤🎉 from Rome (IT)
I am so pleased for you beautiful! Xxxx
Exactly what I needed to hear. Was going to reach out to my sp
the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real
This topic is very synchronistic for me right now but I feel very conflicted about all of it... So my SP reached out yesterday after almost 3 months of no message. I wasn't really surprised to be honest because I was pretty sure he would contact me around Christmas and I was also manifesting it because part of me really wanted to see him on Christmas or at least before New Years. The thing is though that I felt ZERO joy when he wrote and I literally had to force myself to answer after a day or so. I felt, like you said, that I shouldn't ignore it or be too eager either and I replied rather short and when he asked further questions I responded in a light-hearted, sort of jokey way but tbh I was just going through the emotions and on the inside I didn't feel fun at all but rather cynical and I had this profound feeling of utter disappointment in him as a person because I felt that after all this time his message (like "Merry Christmas, how are you, I hope you had nice days, how's your father, blablabla) was so utterly CHEAP and cowardish. No explanation why he never replied to me to my last messages, no apology, no expression whatsoever of missing me, no addressing anything between us whatsoever. And this time I didn't show any of my disappointment and just gave little energy back but it's the first time that I actually feel something like DESPISE for him. He's making it so easy for himself, after all this time (it's been years of this pattern) he doesn't even have the guts to at least show the slightest bit of vulnerability and at least tell me he's thinking of me or missing me... and of course, the way he spent Christmas is getting drvnk and smpking w33d with his friends, escapism at its finest instead of maybe for once turning inside and reflecting on himself. Maybe I shouldn't discard it but I can't help but feel that his message is absolutely worthless and means absolutely nothing and I feel huge resistance at the thought of him, like you said, testing the waters with me to see if I'm at a place where I'm attractive to him again, in a good place and successful... Because first of all, that has nothing to do with love for me when he always only wants me at my happy-go-lucky moments and abandons me everytime that I'm struggling with something in my life, like my career, health and my father's illness... and why the heck should it again be ON ME to prove to him that I'm worth it and keep it interesting for him instead of him finally doing HIS part and stepping up the game and showing me that HE worked on some issues too and could be a better partner?! I'm so sick of him coming back uncomformed! I so wanted to manifest him back for Christmas but when I saw his message and it was the same half4assed low effort sh7t as always it made me feel s7ck to my stomach... I don't want to be the one trying to be perfect for him anymore and prove my freaking value to him, find the right words to reply, not too eager, not too cold... why do I have to micromanage everything?? What does HE do??!
Awesome Natalie ! Your Badd, Way Badd! I been in a rough relationship break up and been no contact for a year now a week ago, and it's has been a journey of self discovery, truly enriching Thank You Natalie for your insight and sharing, to the brothers and sisters, you all have got this, move on and continue to grow.........Self Love is the greatest gift anyone can give to themselves!
Loves Up to You All!!!!
💯❤️🎄
This video was exactly what I needed to hear today, I believe strong in my heart ❤️ my SP and I , are coming into union soon, and thank you so much for recommending don’t rush in, obviously I want him back, but I won’t jump in reply as soon as I receive, do you think hours later, the next day lol 😂 or maybe a couple days?
Thank you
Natalie, I shall not rush into anything with my SP, I will continue enjoying our friendship and see what develops. Now get ready for New Years celebrations. I appreciate you being there for all of us. ❤
Thank you, Natalie sending you “ Love & Light “ ❤❤
Good morning 🌞
I feel like sending a happy new year message to him nothing sentimental just a standard message but at the same time think it’s best to stay in no contact. I mean he also has a phone and fingers to text 😔
Please don’t do that or you will regret as I did
Happy Holidays Natalie!! 🎁💫Appreciate you and all of your expertise and caring✨
I’ve been in NC with my ex for 14 days. We work together and on our last day of work 7 days ago he was staring incessantly and trying to get my attention badly. He hasn’t contacted me but my NC was bothering him.
I've been in no contact with my person for..almost 3 months.
My first day today but we have kids together 😢
I did 3 months of no contact amd it was a total zero, I didn't even check hos socials. But now I feel I screw it up, I came back to my country for the Christmas and met his brother in the pub, I told him to say hi from me. I feel bad, especially that he did literally nothing to chase me or stop me and it looks like i chase again. Or is it not that bad? I just couldn't resist, I live in different country and when I'm here my heart beats much stronger and I miss him so much. I think I will preted this never happened and forget about it. I'm not going to lie.. I'm losing my hope..
Wwll she did...protending to be another woman interested in me then asked me why i went no contact after she revealed herself then got angry when i got angry and now we dont talk...👍
❤
Has anyone had any luck with manifesting an sp?
I had a horrible break up with my ex and she jumped into a rebound relationship, I’ve been lightly manifesting but mostly working on my inner healing and self concept, I’ve also been in no contact for about a month.
I’m definitely feeling better, but I’m just wondering how’s everyone’s experience with this.
dont wonder let it flow let it go
I won’t lie … no luck. And reading all these comments- it’s seems to be very similar results or lack thereof 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Manifesting isn’t a real thing. Don’t believe in all that shit
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
Is this also true (relevant) in case of an SP or a crush who is in relationship with other person?
The feelings have always been one-sided from my side. We were never in relationship
the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored
Would your SP come back even if he/she was not in a romantic relationship with you?
What if it is 3 years of no contact?😅
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
What does it says?
What if I know I am the best option. I know who I am, I know I am the best, no offense to anyone in here, seriously, but what if she watches that podcast “You deserve better”. It’s been a year and change, is that podcast bc she thinks she deserves better than me? Or deserves better from the people she’s been with after me? I know I am great, my friend just got off the phone with me and told me that I am the whole package. And told me that all the woman at work are asking who is that? He’s so hot, he have a girlfriend? Bc I want a piece of that!” lol but seriously, I know my worth, but maybe her ego is so inflated that she thinks she’s the winner here? Idk
Might as well. It might be that she feels like a victim of your behaviour and watches self healing videos and thinks that you will come crawling back. It all depends on if they can put their ego aside, if they know that they said/did something bad etc. It is what it is. Do you know deep inside yourself that she is the only person for you and you are going to be together? Or are you just hoping? If you know, rest assured you will be together no matter what.