@@Justbeyou-y4w if he reached out last week, 8 months after he dumped me so coldly, saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? I can't gauge his intention, what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too.
I went through two bad relationships back to back that were very toxic. The last one ended a few weeks ago. A few days ago we had a final talk, which was very polite and I said sorry for all the mistakes I made. She then said the same and blocked me. I'm not gonna lie. After the block I went crazy, even though I knew the relationship was bad and doomed I felt horrible. It was my toxic brain all over again, longing for what I could not have. It was my dad abandoning me all over again. At first I started watching these videos to try to do something. Now I realize. I need to work on myself. Let go of that relationship and identify what I can do to be better, a better partner, a better human.
For the last few days I've been in a really depressed and sad state of mind, my SP told me there moving to another state. I've decided Let Go, and focus on me and my end experience; However, my biggest challenge right now is being triggered by the 3D and things reminding me of the fact they're moving.. But, I keep telling myself its already Done and not dwell on it.
Please more success stories 🎉😊❤ This video is my life. No contact , he has moved on to another relationship. No conversation. He just stopped calling & texting. Done. Sad because we were friends. I wasn't loving myself either! I was not being entirely nice to him at times - insecure me. I am following this video closely! Thank you 😊
Natalie I’ve watched so many videos by you. But this one made my heart feel very fuzzy. Thank you for sharing your personal stories with us. I’m SO close. I manifested my love back and we’ve been seeing each other and talking and IT IS DONE. Of course he wants to get back together. I’m amazing. Thank you. 😊
Wow, that hit home…How you explained that anxiety, those panic attacks and sleepless nights with „not loving myself“ - because that’s exactly what I go through after almost every breakup. So, how do we get to this point where we love ourselves enough to no more feel this way? :) ❤
Self love practice and healing from the trauma you experienced as a child. Go to the links below my video and have a look at the solutions I provide ❤️ I feel you and really hope whatever you decide you choose to fall in love with you xxx
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Going through this right now. After being cheated on numeru Times by my ex gf. And now she found new guy and shes giving him everything i wanted to get with her. It hurts sooo much, i cant sleep cant eat. I Just love her...
When i hear you going through the same states as me. Panicking, sleeples nights anxiety. I Just got badly cheated on and dumped. My love becaame something i woud never even dream, a monster and i feel in love. I cant think straight and thinking of letting her go makes me wanna end myself. She found someone else and replacesd me giving him everything that i couldn't have.
I'm loving this Natalie - I've commented on another video but just wanted to say how helpful your words are. I've recently come out of a 5 month relationship not that long after a 16 year one finished, and in hindsight I wasn't ready, and even though (again in hindsight) I cared deeply for her. I ended up pushing her away because I was cagey, nervous and uncertain as to whether I was ready to get involved (I wasn't) and what I wanted (I didn't know). These words really hit home today - "Everyone you pushed out can only reflect back to you who you are". I was uncertain so she reflected that back to me, and left. I'm not beating myself up too much because that's where I was mentally and emotionally at that time, and if I knew what the outcome would be I wouldn't have said what I said and acted like I did. Thanks again x
32yo female here i got dumped by my ex bcs i was being honest his best friend trying to sleep with me, i was so scared and insecure bcs of his social circle is so toxic, now i get stuck in our beautiful memories i want him back with the best version of him..
Oh my gosh! Wow, you explained this so well! I listened to so many manifestation videos that I couldn’t understand how it actually worked and would become frustrated. Your video made so much sense! You were very clear with how to manifest the right way. Self love first! Thank you for explaining this!
Thank you for this video 🙏. He is so quiet right now and in no contact due to his own personal issues however l am carrying on with my life, and looking after me and my intuition is just saying trust in the process. Everything will work.out it always does. Thanks again you are an inspiration 😊❤
Well I am new to your channel and really enjoy the honesty and they way you are so vulnerable. The self love story is a lesson we all need it is so important, the basis for all life. This was easily the hardest lesson I ever had to learn, and have to work on it constantly. The next thought was the forgiveness of yourself and the other person, very powerful and freeing. You are doing wonderful things in terms of teaching, so being rewarded is just a natural result. Happy for you and all you are doing to help others.
Thank you so much for getting real with us and sharing your experience! I am new to your channel but by far you are my favorite person to listen to on this subject.
@Natalie Dance | As the Pennies Drop thank you! I was literally getting frustrated and was giving up because there are not many who break it down and explain what it is.
Great video and great insperation. Whats funny all people want love but want it the way they want it. All you did was bombarded him with love and persistance where he eventually got that love but not the way he wanted it but the way he needed it. The ego is always the blocker of all things and it needs to be worn down to see truth.
I manifested my ex away. I started the morning thinking hard about the end result and "knew" that she'd respond before the end of the day. She did respond...by blocking me on facebook and instagram. And it was weird because I never interacted with her social media. She must have felt my vibrations. This was also after several months of no contact. I only reached out to her a couple of times earlier this year.
Hey, and thank you! Stumbled across your feed today, trying to untangle a knot in life, relationship wise.. Been doing my best to keep my energy levels high, this one’s got me a bit stumped though, even though I know it will all come right! Watching your video made me smile, and reminded me to lighten up🙂✨♥️
I’ve been seeing someone, he texts all the time & when we are together I feel that he likes me, he opens up to me and is affectionate But then we’ll go weeks without seeing each other. I love him but it’s hard to let go when there’s constant contact I took ‘inspired action’ on Monday by texting him saying ‘I’m coming to see you’ and the result was positive - we talked a lot and had a massive cuddle while doing so - he was so relaxed with me he fell asleep in my arms. This is my problem the mixed signals
I’m not going to lie Ms. Natalie sometimes even right now it’s hard for me to manifest her and us being together and taking my current reality as final and my mind just playing tricks on me and I don’t want to ever feel like that anymore and know that my reality is flexible and I can shape it to however I want including my sp!
Idk if I want to manifest him back because I still want a chance to make it work OR IF ITS JUST MY EGO KNOWING I DIDNT DESERVE THE WAY HE LEFT ! I honestly think I’d say thanks but no thanks
When my ex broke up with me, it hurt both of us however, it hurt her more then me. Yes I did have to work through the hurt and the pain however, i moved past it. Ive been working on myself and im seeing great results. Im starting to think of the great situations that we both had and its filling me up with happiness. Its been almost a year and ive been changing for the better, ive been working out etc. Ive been giving myself pep talks and ive been blocking ALL negative emotions and thoughts. Im all about the positive emotions and thoughts because positivity is the best
Natalie, off subject but not. I took your latest SP videos and used the content to manifest my dream job. I did onboarding and drug testing yesterday 🥰 Self concept is important in so many ways. Thank you 🔥✨♥️ My heart just loves and appreciates you. Truly.
Thank you for sharing your personal story Natalie. You made me realize that i'm the prize. My ex gf walked away without warning 15 months ago. For the longest time I felt like I was the bad one. But when I reflect back now, I realize that I am the prize because I was always there for her, and treated her so very well. She came from a past of abusive partners. Thank god the pain is gone now. I remain in no contact and not waiting for her to return, even so i'm not dating anyone new at the moment. Years ago I would have jumped into a rebound relationship. I'm enjoying my space. If I ever hear from her again, I'll cross that bridge if and when happens. I love the information you share! Thank You Natalie!! :)
I’m going through this. I would normally jump into a rebound relationship but this time I’m going to heal so I don’t take the pain into another relationship.
Good for you to ride through the storm!! I know it's not easy but you will get through. In early December it will be 2 years for me and I feel so much better. And you will too!!! @@katemoore2660
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Similar to me, just a few months with long distance as well, he was so into it at the beginning and over time changed…then I messed up a bit at the end, he got super mad and now it’s over and I’m heartbroken but I think we would be great…is it possible??
Beautiful Video and Lots to think about. I really relate to what you was saying about the 10 negative thoughts coming. I was fighting with myself in this, not just with a man but also with business and my self image. My fear is that I will keep trying to manifest and it won't work and I would have wasted my time. I'm guessing your suggestion would be to get really clear on your intentions, stay focused and detach?
Thank you so much Natalie you are amazing 💕❤🎉 Thank you for teaching me to love myself enough and give attention to myself, that's what I'm doing lately it works wonders You really saved me from heart break 💓❤️ Thank you thank you thank you 💗💜💜💜💜
They said they have no interest after 5 months. I kinda over stepped boundaries & I think I triggered trauma! But apologized and have been ignored. Day 12 NC
Oh that’s not great! Why don’t you join my free Facebook group lovely? The links are below the video. I have a beautiful community of people there that are so supportive and all support each other or there are lots of coaching solutions I provide also in the links below the video xxx!
You can assume what you wish it will be what you dominantly believe. I believe it was my karmic lesson and thankfully I’ve learned it and i love myself
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you for your answer Natalie ! Keep up with the amazing information you are sharing. Love to all and all to love 🙌♥️🙌
And what if your ex really dont want you back ? He really dont love you anymore ? Work this technique also? I think he must love you a little if he want me back
What if I'm friendly with my ex girl friend, but I want her back so we can be a couple again ? I have told her that I'm not sure If I can continue to be friends because it's emotionally painful. I told her this 5 days ago. She has texted or called me every day since & been more sweeter, kinder & attentive. I will continue to say my intentions a loud to manifest her back as my gf. Is there anything else I should do ? Thank you, Natalie
Hey Natalie, I am really sad right now as my girlfriend told me she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore and wanted a break up 😢 I have been trying to convince her to give us another chance have some faith in us but she just wanted to give up on us 😢 I really need your advice on how to get her back when she has already given up on us? 😢
The part of you’d started having fun and met someone else really stood out as this is what happened with my sp last time We weren’t in any real contact and she reached out for help which I couldn’t really do but I didn’t get hung up on it and then a few weeks later a bridge of incidents lead to use seeing each other and with that we started seeing each other again
Hi Natalie, my ex boyfriend broke up with me.. even if it's my fault we broke up ( I overreact over small things and he couldn't handle it anymore). I really want him back, I have also spent time thinking about the things I have done, and I have changed. But I still don't know what to do to get him back..
Today has been amazing! Last night, I listened to your video concerning manifestation through living in the energy of the desire (if desiring financial freedom/stability, then energetically release stress/anxiety as a wealthy person understands they have resources/abundances) and something clicked inside me. I got it! This morning just seemed different. The synchronicities/signes I have received all focus on a "1" or a "0" (both a dropped penny and a dime plus seeing 1010 twice) or on magnetic pull (at dawn as I worked my farm, a male fox began calling his mate. Foxes also work off the Earth's magnetic lines to set hunting/mating territories). I have been laughing all day and sitting in a place of abundance and love. And as for the dropped penny, I didn't know the name of your TH-cam channel until just now. More love, laughter and joy! Thank you for All You Are!
My problem is that when i manifest somebody getting intrested i kind of do it with this positivity but once i notice a setback in form of him maybe pulling back or somehow rejecting me then i dont even feel like continuing trying to manifest cuz it feels like it goes against my pride or even sanity to try make somebody love me that apparently doesnt want to. Thats a tricky one and then i end up not caring. Also if he does show up later*(HAS HAPEned before with others)then i feel like im.not even intrested anymore cuz it seems like its a game for them. Like how long will it be good this time . This person is not trust worthy. Hope you get what i mean. Also while detaching should i not think of him in the morning or night at all. CuZ it feels like i could detach totally and love myself and that would make not only him but other things coming my way. Just dont know how to deal with the rejection and still keep going. I get the urge to manifest another person that actually wants me from the get go. Dont know. Im confused. Hahaha. But loving yourself is always good so i guiess it a win win. Jä
I would learn to focus on loving you number 1. Then get clear on what you want and make a decision to stick to it. When you know what you really want from a place of love you can then more effortlessly discard any unwanted thoughts that pull you away from your desire by (watch my video about the universe testing you it’s very recent so check my video library) and then keep to the desired outcome within your mind. Change any unwanted story and catch any unwanted thought. If you need more guidance go to the link below as I have a sale on xxx
And if I have good feelings for my ex (he left), I love him, I don't have bad thoughts, only great memories but I miss him, do I have a chance to manifest him? It's very easy for me to drift off into visualization when we're together. But after the visualization, I feel that I miss him very badly. How can you love and not miss at the same time?
What if you did something to them that was so heartbreaking to them, that they don't think they could ever take you back? I'm really struggling with what I did to him and hope more than ever that our love was enough for him to accept me back
Love u Natalie. You are a ⭐️ Thanks for sharing ❤. Ps I hv to say I had coaching with Connie several times and she is a gem . I recommend anyone to have coaching from you both. I just look forward to your sales which help people like myself to get affordable coaching. Thanks
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop hes being mean to me again but at least i got him to call me from his new number. I have to try to manifest him to forgive me it just happened back to back this week so maybe i have to give him time to forgive me ?
What if he was always loving and it was me who was hurting him? Now all the thoughts come logically that he now UNDERSTANDS that dont want me, because it wasnt good for him… is it possible to have him back?
You're doing amazing things for many of us. Thank you. But, why would you continually want to manifest a sp in your like where the on, off again dynamic is a common theme? It seems stressful and counterintuitive to want someone that brings patterns that cause instability. Is it true love and the things we supposedly do for love...even if that sp causes much ebb and flow? Might there be someone more compatible for you, but all you want is the one sp? I'm in a similar situation where I'm fancying a woman where we've been close for 5 years in numerous ways, but she says that she's still in love with her ex. The dynamic between her and I is lots of push/pull too. It's a lot, but I care about her. But I'm getting tired of the push/pull and being her surrogate fill in, lol.
ps, I'm her emotional rock,, and she comes to me with her needs, vulnerability and secrets. But if her ex says to her jump, i think she willingly would do so with a smile and butterflies.
I manifested my SP back after more than a month of no contact. However, not the way I wanted him to be. I wanted commitment but he refused abt having a relationship with me. I realised that even though I was manifesting him yet I had a few thoughts such as if he was good enough for me or whether our future paths match and stuff. So on our last conversation, he said exactly those same things and now we are in no contact zone again. This time I want him to conform to the changes in his behaviour that are needed too much. But rn I don't feel like manifesting him anymore. There are other things in my mind and life that need attention too. I am in a fix.
if he reached out 8 months later saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too.
@@CC-br9qg it all depends if you had manifested him in the past. Ask yourself genuinely whether him coming back will make you very happy or anxious, tensed, nervous? Trust your gut instincts. And yes, things do hurt a lot. But nothing can beat good communication. Unless the other person is ready for communication..... don't tell them abt your hurt or anything coz they won't be bothered.
@@moudasgupta3239 I kept on affirming the end moment that I wanted. Like I wanted a relationship with him so I affirmed for that and now I have my desire. It takes time but it is all worth it.
@@vincentross-vh2tl SP loves me. He changed into a better person. He knows that he needs me because of the stability and confidence that I have about myself and about us.
I’ve lost so much weight I miss him terribly and I listen to your videos and believe in hope but still my heart is hurting he’s been gone 4 months after 19 years 29 years friends and I wonder how do I carry on . I think of happy times but then I’ll get sad too . 😢 our friends only keep in touch with him not me so I’m completely alone .
Put all that energy and focus on YOU. Decide to reinvent yourself. What new hobbies or skills would you like to learn? Focus on the things you absolutely love and use that to make new friends and allow yourself to be happy just as you are. It's possible. The win win effect is that you will be happier, have more self love and will probably attract him back.
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My boyfriend broke up with it was my fault i reacted on some thing and i said something like relationship is like a business in front of him i said that in a good way like we need to put equal efforts but he took it in a wrong way and now he is not forgiving me i love him a lot
I always wonder why is that they all come back but in my case after im genuinely not interested anymore. . How do you manifest an SP back while you still want them too?
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop what i mean is, through my whole life i experienced men coming back but it always took ages. I had always moved on with my life either single or meeting someone new but this only accumulates sps which is not my desire.. Its not about time urgency like if i dont have my sp right now my life is not whole, but how do i manifest him back without waiting for years eventually feeling like moving on is the best for my sanity?
My sp 2 weeks ago warned me he was going to be busy he texted me communicated with me up until May 8th 2023. I have not heard from him since. He's done this before but still came back. It's May 15th and I have not heard from him yet.
Think about it this way….Why is he too busy to prioritise the love of his life? The one he adores and doesn’t want to lose? For even a simple text message? If you allow this what does that say? Xxx❤️
It's been almost 2 years since she went back to her ex and I can't help my inner convo being "that 🤬 took all I ever wanted and cared about in the world, and you (SP) 🤬ed me over and left me for dead.." I can't help but be pissed at the 3d.. But still affirming occasionally but seeing zero progress.
I am so sorry to read this 🫠 You have to change your within first. You need to work on your healing journey and that ain’t no easy road but it’s so important and worth it. You have to let go of the old story. I know how it feels to play certain scenes over and over again in your mind. It bloody sucks! Do your research about healing the within and how to lay the old story to rest and to focus on the now and end feeling/ results of your desire. Stay strong man ✨🙏🏾
@@chelsea_sharks I've followed all the instructions the best I can.. And affirmed my ass off everytime I drove anywhere.. And sleep tapes.. Still at a loss. I stopped affirming for SP all together and just gave it up and accepted it's not for me.
@@roblotomy alright buddy. Time to let it go. You don’t manifest your desires when you assume to already have them. Trust God and know that he knows best. It’s all going to make sense. Give yourself the love and attention you actually desire. It’s easier said than done I know… but I wish you nothing but healing, peace and happiness
I spent 3 years moving mountains, getting a masters, got a job as a model, a new career, working with a charity and dating others. Nothing is enough. He never came back. Has a new gf for 6 months now
Hi Natalie I was with my partner, father of my child for 12 years who left suddenly, I have given him space for the past 2 years, done all the manifesting, scripting, keeping faith, self love work, tried to date other people, have fun, focus on my career etc. He now has told me he is finally seeing someone new so to me surely this means all my manifesting didnt work because he's not meant for me?
Focussing on you more will help massively. Why not get a session with me and we can look at what’s happening and create a plan for you to get the life you do deserve beautiful xxxx
@@mishthidhankher7036 Thankyou darling. I have let him go but have to have some contact as we share children, when I hear his voice or see him the pain just comes right back no matter how much I try to let go and think it's for the best. They don't always come back, unless it's meant to be or if I deserve something better x
I was wondering if it is ok to block your SP on socials (but not their number or other routes of contact) in order to ignore undesirable circumstances that are being posted. Will it interfere with the manifestation? I know that many people are concerned with getting unblocked, but I’m wondering if it would be the best course of action on my part to block SP to avoid triggers?
Hi Natalie i m in a relationship for 5 years and he said yday that he doesnt have feelings for me as i moved to uk from india for masters. he did break up a year ago, i was able to manifest him back, but considering the situation now i feel like killing myself. i totally saw my life with this person. would i be able to manifest him back twice? could you advise me. i feel its done and he aint coming back looking at his words.
Circumstances don’t matter! It’s what you desire that does. If you need more guidance go to the link below the video for all of my coaching solutions and options lovely xxx
I understand all of this … but we don’t love ourselves 100%. Of the time so because we step out of the line that’s it?!?! Obviously… of course self- love. But dang … one time I’m out of character (for a lack of a better word) I risk losing him?!?! what am I missing here.
I want love but when it comes i feel id be suffocated, i feel im gonna be trapped, lots of fears and i just want to runaway. I dont understand why im this way. What do i do to manifest the love i want?
Even if you had a big fight and used really bad put down language as they lied blocked 3 months and happened while he was overseas on phone and never goes back and stubborn?
If you don’t want that to be your story then change it but I would be looking at a self love healing practice as to why you reacted that way. Self love healing is so powerful you wouldn’t react that way again xxx
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I’m at my breaking point ! I am choosing me and me 1st . I no longer will force anything because I know I’m the only option.
Ik but like then what :|
Same here I have been begging looking so weak she ket blocking and unblocking me I’m done giving her power!
Same here 😔
@@Justbeyou-y4w if he reached out last week, 8 months after he dumped me so coldly, saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? I can't gauge his intention, what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too.
@@CC-br9qg fuck that! 8 months is way too long! You are his plan B trust me I’m a fuckboy!
I went through two bad relationships back to back that were very toxic. The last one ended a few weeks ago. A few days ago we had a final talk, which was very polite and I said sorry for all the mistakes I made. She then said the same and blocked me. I'm not gonna lie. After the block I went crazy, even though I knew the relationship was bad and doomed I felt horrible. It was my toxic brain all over again, longing for what I could not have. It was my dad abandoning me all over again. At first I started watching these videos to try to do something. Now I realize. I need to work on myself. Let go of that relationship and identify what I can do to be better, a better partner, a better human.
For the last few days I've been in a really depressed and sad state of mind, my SP told me there moving to another state. I've decided Let Go, and focus on me and my end experience; However, my biggest challenge right now is being triggered by the 3D and things reminding me of the fact they're moving.. But, I keep telling myself its already Done and not dwell on it.
Circumstances don’t matter. Just persist.
Please more success stories
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This video is my life. No contact , he has moved on to another relationship.
No conversation. He just stopped calling & texting. Done.
Sad because we were friends.
I wasn't loving myself either!
I was not being entirely nice to him at times - insecure me.
I am following this video closely!
Thank you 😊
Natalie is the best coach, another very open & honest talk to help many others Manifest.
Wow thank you! Ha ha ha I was thinking about you commenting about n a video of mine again and look at that! Must meet soon xx❤️
Natalie I’ve watched so many videos by you. But this one made my heart feel very fuzzy. Thank you for sharing your personal stories with us. I’m SO close. I manifested my love back and we’ve been seeing each other and talking and IT IS DONE. Of course he wants to get back together. I’m amazing. Thank you. 😊
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How long?
Wow, that hit home…How you explained that anxiety, those panic attacks and sleepless nights with „not loving myself“ - because that’s exactly what I go through after almost every breakup.
So, how do we get to this point where we love ourselves enough to no more feel this way? :)
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Self love practice and healing from the trauma you experienced as a child. Go to the links below my video and have a look at the solutions I provide ❤️ I feel you and really hope whatever you decide you choose to fall in love with you xxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you so much Natalie! ❤️
Amada primero pare de tener citas...allí no encontrarás lo que anhelas... convierte el toda una reina sabía entendía mansa poderosa virtuosa alegre buena administradora agradecida recta elegante aprender a conversar aprende a callar aprende a escuchar y da todo esto porque estés tu...a los hombres nos tienen sin cuidados sus títulos carreras salarios y otras vanalidades...mujer virtuosa quien la hallará, es mas valiosa que todas las joyas preciosas de la tierra...
Going through this right now. After being cheated on numeru Times by my ex gf.
And now she found new guy and shes giving him everything i wanted to get with her. It hurts sooo much, i cant sleep cant eat. I Just love her...
When i hear you going through the same states as me. Panicking, sleeples nights anxiety. I Just got badly cheated on and dumped. My love becaame something i woud never even dream, a monster and i feel in love. I cant think straight and thinking of letting her go makes me wanna end myself. She found someone else and replacesd me giving him everything that i couldn't have.
Its so hard , but you make me strong
I'm loving this Natalie - I've commented on another video but just wanted to say how helpful your words are. I've recently come out of a 5 month relationship not that long after a 16 year one finished, and in hindsight I wasn't ready, and even though (again in hindsight) I cared deeply for her. I ended up pushing her away because I was cagey, nervous and uncertain as to whether I was ready to get involved (I wasn't) and what I wanted (I didn't know).
These words really hit home today - "Everyone you pushed out can only reflect back to you who you are". I was uncertain so she reflected that back to me, and left. I'm not beating myself up too much because that's where I was mentally and emotionally at that time, and if I knew what the outcome would be I wouldn't have said what I said and acted like I did.
Thanks again x
just came across this video. Thank you so much for this!
32yo female here i got dumped by my ex bcs i was being honest his best friend trying to sleep with me, i was so scared and insecure bcs of his social circle is so toxic, now i get stuck in our beautiful memories i want him back with the best version of him..
Thank you being so honest and vulnerable 🥺
You’re welcome lovely xxx
Oh my gosh! Wow, you explained this so well! I listened to so many manifestation videos that I couldn’t understand how it actually worked and would become frustrated. Your video made so much sense! You were very clear with how to manifest the right way. Self love first! Thank you for explaining this!
Thank you for this video 🙏. He is so quiet right now and in no contact due to his own personal issues however l am carrying on with my life, and looking after me and my intuition is just saying trust in the process. Everything will work.out it always does. Thanks again you are an inspiration 😊❤
This sums up every ex attraction manifestation affirmation assumption video ever made 🎉
This was brilliant, everything you said has discribed me to the letter.
You’re so unintentionally funny 😂
This sounds exactly like me... I still get panic attacks... It(s still been a month. I am going to follow in your footsteps
Can you do a video deep diving on how to detach and focus on yourself while manifesting them back?
I do those a lot! Take a look in my library
Well I am new to your channel and really enjoy the honesty and they way you are so vulnerable. The self love story is a lesson we all need it is so important, the basis for all life. This was easily the hardest lesson I ever had to learn, and have to work on it constantly. The next thought was the forgiveness of yourself and the other person, very powerful and freeing. You are doing wonderful things in terms of teaching, so being rewarded is just a natural result. Happy for you and all you are doing to help others.
Thank you xxx
Thank you so much for getting real with us and sharing your experience! I am new to your channel but by far you are my favorite person to listen to on this subject.
Thank you 🙏
Natalie, I live in Colorado in the USA. I want to tell you I just think you’re wonderful and thank you for trying to help so many people.
Hello! Wow lovely to get your message! Always wanted to visit Colorado especially for skiing hopefully one day! Thank you for your very kind words xx
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You are welcome, Natalie
Finally, someone who can explain how actual manifestations work. Thank you ❤
Wow! Thanks 🙏
@Natalie Dance | As the Pennies Drop thank you! I was literally getting frustrated and was giving up because there are not many who break it down and explain what it is.
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Great video and great insperation. Whats funny all people want love but want it the way they want it. All you did was bombarded him with love and persistance where he eventually got that love but not the way he wanted it but the way he needed it. The ego is always the blocker of all things and it needs to be worn down to see truth.
I manifested my ex away. I started the morning thinking hard about the end result and "knew" that she'd respond before the end of the day. She did respond...by blocking me on facebook and instagram. And it was weird because I never interacted with her social media. She must have felt my vibrations. This was also after several months of no contact. I only reached out to her a couple of times earlier this year.
I will always choose me first, no matter how much I miss sp.
Hey, and thank you! Stumbled across your feed today, trying to untangle a knot in life, relationship wise.. Been doing my best to keep my energy levels high, this one’s got me a bit stumped though, even though I know it will all come right! Watching your video made me smile, and reminded me to lighten up🙂✨♥️
I’ve been seeing someone, he texts all the time & when we are together I feel that he likes me, he opens up to me and is affectionate
But then we’ll go weeks without seeing each other. I love him but it’s hard to let go when there’s constant contact
I took ‘inspired action’ on Monday by texting him saying ‘I’m coming to see you’ and the result was positive - we talked a lot and had a massive cuddle while doing so - he was so relaxed with me he fell asleep in my arms. This is my problem the mixed signals
I’m not going to lie Ms. Natalie sometimes even right now it’s hard for me to manifest her and us being together and taking my current reality as final and my mind just playing tricks on me and I don’t want to ever feel like that anymore and know that my reality is flexible and I can shape it to however I want including my sp!
Idk if I want to manifest him back because I still want a chance to make it work OR IF ITS JUST MY EGO KNOWING I DIDNT DESERVE THE WAY HE LEFT ! I honestly think I’d say thanks but no thanks
When my ex broke up with me, it hurt both of us however, it hurt her more then me. Yes I did have to work through the hurt and the pain however, i moved past it. Ive been working on myself and im seeing great results. Im starting to think of the great situations that we both had and its filling me up with happiness. Its been almost a year and ive been changing for the better, ive been working out etc. Ive been giving myself pep talks and ive been blocking ALL negative emotions and thoughts. Im all about the positive emotions and thoughts because positivity is the best
Natalie, off subject but not. I took your latest SP videos and used the content to manifest my dream job. I did onboarding and drug testing yesterday 🥰 Self concept is important in so many ways. Thank you 🔥✨♥️ My heart just loves and appreciates you. Truly.
Thank you and well done xxxxx
Thank you for sharing your personal story Natalie. You made me realize that i'm the prize. My ex gf walked away without warning 15 months ago. For the longest time I felt like I was the bad one. But when I reflect back now, I realize that I am the prize because I was always there for her, and treated her so very well. She came from a past of abusive partners. Thank god the pain is gone now. I remain in no contact and not waiting for her to return, even so i'm not dating anyone new at the moment. Years ago I would have jumped into a rebound relationship. I'm enjoying my space. If I ever hear from her again, I'll cross that bridge if and when happens. I love the information you share! Thank You Natalie!! :)
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I’m going through this. I would normally jump into a rebound relationship but this time I’m going to heal so I don’t take the pain into another relationship.
Good for you to ride through the storm!! I know it's not easy but you will get through. In early December it will be 2 years for me and I feel so much better. And you will too!!! @@katemoore2660
I’ve seen almost all your guided videos but do you have one about intentions to listen before sleep. I don’t know how to.
Hey I don’t currently. You can purchase through my website a personalised subliminal video designed specifically for you. Links below the video. Or
Listen to this th-cam.com/video/dWJ8dzOI5Oc/w-d-xo.html
Then this th-cam.com/video/b_d-jHqaPzg/w-d-xo.html
Is it possible to manifest him even though he is my first love and we were together only for 2 months?
Suggest some of the best self concept affirmations page on TH-cam also for specific desires like health appearance etc etc
Is it possible after year and half ?
Similar to me, just a few months with long distance as well, he was so into it at the beginning and over time changed…then I messed up a bit at the end, he got super mad and now it’s over and I’m heartbroken but I think we would be great…is it possible??
Just wondering if you have subliminal tracks for manifestation?
Check my playlist x
Been there. Chain smoking, etc. I stopped. I had two daughters, there was no way I was going to continue down that road
Beautiful Video and Lots to think about. I really relate to what you was saying about the 10 negative thoughts coming. I was fighting with myself in this, not just with a man but also with business and my self image. My fear is that I will keep trying to manifest and it won't work and I would have wasted my time. I'm guessing your suggestion would be to get really clear on your intentions, stay focused and detach?
Self love ❤️ check out my workshop become chosen or self love! Links below ⬇️ video xxx
Loved it and certainly gonna try this thank❤
He found someone else and we don’t even live anymore in the same country. I just want to stop feeling pain
Thank you for sharing your story and advise. You’re greatly appreciated! 🙏🏼
Thank you so much Natalie you are amazing 💕❤🎉
Thank you for teaching me to love myself enough and give attention to myself, that's what I'm doing lately it works wonders
You really saved me from heart break 💓❤️
Thank you thank you thank you 💗💜💜💜💜
They said they have no interest after 5 months. I kinda over stepped boundaries & I think I triggered trauma! But apologized and have been ignored. Day 12 NC
Oh that’s not great! Why don’t you join my free Facebook group lovely? The links are below the video. I have a beautiful community of people there that are so supportive and all support each other or there are lots of coaching solutions I provide also in the links below the video xxx!
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ok will join. I do need the support! Thank you
Hi Natalie, question: do you believe that maybe, in past lives that you were possibly lovers ? And each lifetime you're trying to get it right....
You can assume what you wish it will be what you dominantly believe. I believe it was my karmic lesson and thankfully I’ve learned it and i love myself
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you for your answer Natalie ! Keep up with the amazing information you are sharing. Love to all and all to love 🙌♥️🙌
I don’t have sp, I have myself, I love me I choose me ✨☺️🥰
Thank you again Natalie, you are a great coach, I learned so much from you x
Thank you Marion xxx
I needed this tonoght❤❤❤
And what if your ex really dont want you back ? He really dont love you anymore ? Work this technique also? I think he must love you a little if he want me back
Focus only on what you want
What if I'm friendly with my ex girl friend, but I want her back so we can be a couple again ? I have told her that I'm not sure If I can continue to be friends because it's emotionally painful. I told her this 5 days ago. She has texted or called me every day since & been more sweeter, kinder & attentive. I will continue to say my intentions a loud to manifest her back as my gf.
Is there anything else I should do ? Thank you, Natalie
If you want her back as a partner I can do it for
I would rather have him to find someone who can make him happy, and I am willing to let him go. I agreed to love yourself first and foremost
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Your the first person that sho s us HOW thank U
Hey Natalie, I am really sad right now as my girlfriend told me she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore and wanted a break up 😢 I have been trying to convince her to give us another chance have some faith in us but she just wanted to give up on us 😢 I really need your advice on how to get her back when she has already given up on us? 😢
The part of you’d started having fun and met someone else really stood out as this is what happened with my sp last time
We weren’t in any real contact and she reached out for help which I couldn’t really do but I didn’t get hung up on it and then a few weeks later a bridge of incidents lead to use seeing each other and with that we started seeing each other again
I looked up this video after our call. I had already watch it, multiple times :)
Bless you! Sending you big hugs! You know where I am beautiful xxxx
Hi Natalie, my ex boyfriend broke up with me.. even if it's my fault we broke up ( I overreact over small things and he couldn't handle it anymore). I really want him back, I have also spent time thinking about the things I have done, and I have changed. But I still don't know what to do to get him back..
Have a look at my coaching solutions self love is key here xxx links below the video xxx
hi! any update?
Any updates?
Any update?
Today has been amazing! Last night, I listened to your video concerning manifestation through living in the energy of the desire (if desiring financial freedom/stability, then energetically release stress/anxiety as a wealthy person understands they have resources/abundances) and something clicked inside me. I got it! This morning just seemed different. The synchronicities/signes I have received all focus on a "1" or a "0" (both a dropped penny and a dime plus seeing 1010 twice) or on magnetic pull (at dawn as I worked my farm, a male fox began calling his mate. Foxes also work off the Earth's magnetic lines to set hunting/mating territories). I have been laughing all day and sitting in a place of abundance and love. And as for the dropped penny, I didn't know the name of your TH-cam channel until just now. More love, laughter and joy! Thank you for All You Are!
Thank you and i am so pleased for you xxx
My problem is that when i manifest somebody getting intrested i kind of do it with this positivity but once i notice a setback in form of him maybe pulling back or somehow rejecting me then i dont even feel like continuing trying to manifest cuz it feels like it goes against my pride or even sanity to try make somebody love me that apparently doesnt want to. Thats a tricky one and then i end up not caring. Also if he does show up later*(HAS HAPEned before with others)then i feel like im.not even intrested anymore cuz it seems like its a game for them. Like how long will it be good this time . This person is not trust worthy. Hope you get what i mean. Also while detaching should i not think of him in the morning or night at all. CuZ it feels like i could detach totally and love myself and that would make not only him but other things coming my way. Just dont know how to deal with the rejection and still keep going. I get the urge to manifest another person that actually wants me from the get go. Dont know. Im confused. Hahaha. But loving yourself is always good so i guiess it a win win. Jä
I would learn to focus on loving you number 1. Then get clear on what you want and make a decision to stick to it. When you know what you really want from a place of love you can then more effortlessly discard any unwanted thoughts that pull you away from your desire by (watch my video about the universe testing you it’s very recent so check my video library) and then keep to the desired outcome within your mind. Change any unwanted story and catch any unwanted thought. If you need more guidance go to the link below as I have a sale on xxx
What Chanel was you a success story, can you link the video as I’d like to see that
I don’t have the video I’m afraid it was so long ago xx
What if the circumstances are all od that. He said we are not compatable, he moved away and there is someon else and he never wants a commitment.
You have to make a decision on what you want. Then focus on the outcome you want not the circumstance
Natalie you are very beautiful and look like you’re aging in a healthy way
And if I have good feelings for my ex (he left), I love him, I don't have bad thoughts, only great memories but I miss him, do I have a chance to manifest him? It's very easy for me to drift off into visualization when we're together. But after the visualization, I feel that I miss him very badly.
How can you love and not miss at the same time?
By falling in love with you
Really appreciated this
What if you did something to them that was so heartbreaking to them, that they don't think they could ever take you back? I'm really struggling with what I did to him and hope more than ever that our love was enough for him to accept me back
I feel exactly the same way
You revise the events into something different - look up revision for manifestation
I feel the same way!!!😞😞
Love u Natalie. You are a ⭐️ Thanks for sharing ❤. Ps I hv to say I had coaching with Connie several times and she is a gem . I recommend anyone to have coaching from you both. I just look forward to your sales which help people like myself to get affordable coaching. Thanks
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I did this and he called me immediately !
Amazing xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop hes being mean to me again but at least i got him to call me from his new number. I have to try to manifest him to forgive me it just happened back to back this week so maybe i have to give him time to forgive me ?
What if he was always loving and it was me who was hurting him? Now all the thoughts come logically that he now UNDERSTANDS that dont want me, because it wasnt good for him… is it possible to have him back?
You're doing amazing things for many of us. Thank you.
But, why would you continually want to manifest a sp in your like where the on, off again dynamic is a common theme?
It seems stressful and counterintuitive to want someone that brings patterns that cause instability.
Is it true love and the things we supposedly do for love...even if that sp causes much ebb and flow?
Might there be someone more compatible for you, but all you want is the one sp?
I'm in a similar situation where I'm fancying a woman where we've been close for 5 years in numerous ways, but she says that she's still in love with her ex.
The dynamic between her and I is lots of push/pull too.
It's a lot, but I care about her. But I'm getting tired of the push/pull and being her surrogate fill in, lol.
ps, I'm her emotional rock,, and she comes to me with her needs, vulnerability and secrets. But if her ex says to her jump, i think she willingly would do so with a smile and butterflies.
I know this is a weird question, but why did you decide to let them go rather than revise them to be how you wanted? So curious!
Maybe watch my recent video Becoming Natalie Dance. Then you’ll understand xx
I manifested my SP back after more than a month of no contact. However, not the way I wanted him to be. I wanted commitment but he refused abt having a relationship with me. I realised that even though I was manifesting him yet I had a few thoughts such as if he was good enough for me or whether our future paths match and stuff. So on our last conversation, he said exactly those same things and now we are in no contact zone again. This time I want him to conform to the changes in his behaviour that are needed too much. But rn I don't feel like manifesting him anymore. There are other things in my mind and life that need attention too. I am in a fix.
if he reached out 8 months later saying "hey *pet name*, how are you? how's life been?" do i ignore? Do i respond? what do i do, it's not enough to just say how are you after what happened and i've also seen him w/ a rebound. now his brother is back to liking my social media too.
@@CC-br9qg it all depends if you had manifested him in the past. Ask yourself genuinely whether him coming back will make you very happy or anxious, tensed, nervous? Trust your gut instincts. And yes, things do hurt a lot. But nothing can beat good communication. Unless the other person is ready for communication..... don't tell them abt your hurt or anything coz they won't be bothered.
hello how did you manifest your SP???? can u share ur experience
@@moudasgupta3239 I kept on affirming the end moment that I wanted. Like I wanted a relationship with him so I affirmed for that and now I have my desire. It takes time but it is all worth it.
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SP loves me. He changed into a better person. He knows that he needs me because of the stability and confidence that I have about myself and about us.
I’ve lost so much weight I miss him terribly and I listen to your videos and believe in hope but still my heart is hurting he’s been gone 4 months after 19 years 29 years friends and I wonder how do I carry on . I think of happy times but then I’ll get sad too . 😢 our friends only keep in touch with him not me so I’m completely alone .
You are not alone I'm going through the same
@@AK-gn6nn it’s tearing me apart I just want him back 😢
Put all that energy and focus on YOU. Decide to reinvent yourself. What new hobbies or skills would you like to learn? Focus on the things you absolutely love and use that to make new friends and allow yourself to be happy just as you are. It's possible. The win win effect is that you will be happier, have more self love and will probably attract him back.
@@MissBluebirddays thannk you I’m trying to do just that .
Does this work where the ex is confused because of family relationship trauma?
Yes if you need more support about this join the Fb group or the badass manifester community by clicking the join button lovely or I have wonderful coaching solutions too all links below xx
My boyfriend broke up with it was my fault i reacted on some thing and i said something like relationship is like a business in front of him i said that in a good way like we need to put equal efforts but he took it in a wrong way and now he is not forgiving me i love him a lot
Turn the focus on you xx
How long did it take him to come back please? X😊
It’s dependent on energy
What do you do if you run into them and they do have someone else?
Is a choice! What story do you want
I always wonder why is that they all come back but in my case after im genuinely not interested anymore. . How do you manifest an SP back while you still want them too?
?????) huh 🤔
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop what i mean is, through my whole life i experienced men coming back but it always took ages. I had always moved on with my life either single or meeting someone new but this only accumulates sps which is not my desire.. Its not about time urgency like if i dont have my sp right now my life is not whole, but how do i manifest him back without waiting for years eventually feeling like moving on is the best for my sanity?
My sp 2 weeks ago warned me he was going to be busy he texted me communicated with me up until May 8th 2023. I have not heard from him since. He's done this before but still came back. It's May 15th and I have not heard from him yet.
Think about it this way….Why is he too busy to prioritise the love of his life? The one he adores and doesn’t want to lose? For even a simple text message? If you allow this what does that say? Xxx❤️
We've talked about it and he's trying to do better
Hi! So detaching from the person is quite important and shifting the focus to yourself? xx
Yes
Great video 😊
Thank you
If you are thinking of an ex having lovely times together, isn't that prolonging the grief???
I was not grieving I was detached so no
All details are on my website lovely! Go to the link below the video xxxx
Absolutely. Detaching is so important.
i feel this. im in the midst of trying to detatch from someone who has ghosted me and has some issues of her own going on. its soooo hard and painful.
One day at a time lovely xxxxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop your videos are really helpn me feel better. thanks so much for all u do.
If a family member sees SP ( but dosent talk to them) would this be classed as movement?.
What you assume xx
It's been almost 2 years since she went back to her ex and I can't help my inner convo being "that 🤬 took all I ever wanted and cared about in the world, and you (SP) 🤬ed me over and left me for dead.." I can't help but be pissed at the 3d.. But still affirming occasionally but seeing zero progress.
I am so sorry to read this 🫠
You have to change your within first. You need to work on your healing journey and that ain’t no easy road but it’s so important and worth it. You have to let go of the old story. I know how it feels to play certain scenes over and over again in your mind. It bloody sucks! Do your research about healing the within and how to lay the old story to rest and to focus on the now and end feeling/ results of your desire. Stay strong man ✨🙏🏾
@@chelsea_sharks I've followed all the instructions the best I can.. And affirmed my ass off everytime I drove anywhere.. And sleep tapes.. Still at a loss. I stopped affirming for SP all together and just gave it up and accepted it's not for me.
@@roblotomy alright buddy. Time to let it go. You don’t manifest your desires when you assume to already have them. Trust God and know that he knows best. It’s all going to make sense. Give yourself the love and attention you actually desire. It’s easier said than done I know… but I wish you nothing but healing, peace and happiness
You look like Celine dion ❤
Thank You so very much for this video. It inspires ALOT!❤
You are so welcome! Xx
Thank you so much!!!
Did toxic try to come back to you? What did you say to him?
I spent 3 years moving mountains, getting a masters, got a job as a model, a new career, working with a charity and dating others. Nothing is enough. He never came back. Has a new gf for 6 months now
I think nowadays we think we can put everything to our own hand. I tried this as well but she left me last Saturday....
Natalie I'm In MODESTO .
vibrational work, curious to know more
❤I am manifesting him now
Hi Natalie I was with my partner, father of my child for 12 years who left suddenly, I have given him space for the past 2 years, done all the manifesting, scripting, keeping faith, self love work, tried to date other people, have fun, focus on my career etc. He now has told me he is finally seeing someone new so to me surely this means all my manifesting didnt work because he's not meant for me?
Let him go darling, you’re blocking your future blessings plus MEN ALWAYS COME BACK.
Focussing on you more will help massively. Why not get a session with me and we can look at what’s happening and create a plan for you to get the life you do deserve beautiful xxxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop I would like that Natalie thankyou, can you tell me how to do that? X
@@mishthidhankher7036 Thankyou darling. I have let him go but have to have some contact as we share children, when I hear his voice or see him the pain just comes right back no matter how much I try to let go and think it's for the best. They don't always come back, unless it's meant to be or if I deserve something better x
Email me natalie@asthepenniesdrop.com xx
Are you sure mam ? It will work ? I just need to think that I already have her , she definitely misses me and she will come back by this ?
Hi don't worry I can get he back to with much love like never before
@@MoriBoy-j2v are you sure ? All I need to do is just think positively
@@sky-eg7eh am going to refer you to a powerful spell cater who help me get my partner back to me he can also help you as well
@@sky-eg7eh am going to refer you to a powerful spell cater who help me get my partner back to m he can also help you get back your partner
I was wondering if it is ok to block your SP on socials (but not their number or other routes of contact) in order to ignore undesirable circumstances that are being posted. Will it interfere with the manifestation? I know that many people are concerned with getting unblocked, but I’m wondering if it would be the best course of action on my part to block SP to avoid triggers?
It is not advised to block anyone because you'll be blocking the flowing energy and new opportunities, so it is definitely counterproductive.
I had to deactivate my ig for a bit because i needed to work on my anxiety and felt social media was making it worse.
can we do this even if my ex told me she never fell in love w me ?
Yea
Hi Natalie i m in a relationship for 5 years and he said yday that he doesnt have feelings for me as i moved to uk from india for masters. he did break up a year ago, i was able to manifest him back, but considering the situation now i feel like killing myself. i totally saw my life with this person. would i be able to manifest him back twice? could you advise me. i feel its done and he aint coming back looking at his words.
Circumstances don’t matter! It’s what you desire that does. If you need more guidance go to the link below the video for all of my coaching solutions and options lovely xxx
I understand all of this … but we don’t love ourselves 100%. Of the time so because we step out of the line that’s it?!?! Obviously… of course self- love. But dang … one time I’m out of character (for a lack of a better word) I risk losing him?!?! what am I missing here.
Not at all. It’s about what you dominantly believe to be true for you and that relationship
I want love but when it comes i feel id be suffocated, i feel im gonna be trapped, lots of fears and i just want to runaway. I dont understand why im this way. What do i do to manifest the love i want?
It’s about releasing traumas and limiting beliefs which is a part of the self love ❤️ practice xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop thank ypu ❤️
Read the book attached. Sounds like attachment style wounds
Even if you had a big fight and used really bad put down language as they lied blocked 3 months and happened while he was overseas on phone and never goes back and stubborn?
If you don’t want that to be your story then change it but I would be looking at a self love healing practice as to why you reacted that way. Self love healing is so powerful you wouldn’t react that way again xxx