Who Are The ISTPs (The Artificer)? | ISTP Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph
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- CS Joseph discusses who are the ISTPs (The Artificer) and what are the ISTP cognitive functions?
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“They’re kind of a pain in the ass too, but then again so is every other type.” Man just roasted everybody in 1 sentence which I respect
We are XD
honestly i appreciated that, literally every fucking type can be a pain in the ass, and people tend to forget it.
we all know that istp can easily learn a new skilled trade quickly ... but which of these 2 do you think is the most suitable for ISTP ...? electrician or mechanic ... ???
@@antondeannova7016 I think mechanic
You couldn't possibly be an ISTP, no way. Nor an T type, you are a feeler by thinking that way. It didn't even cross my mind that think of that as roast even listening this third time, I just thought "yeah it's true, he is really logical type" and that's it. Who even think about feelings? Thinking types surely don't.
The losing respect part is sooo spot on. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said to someone that respect comes before love. I cannot, for the life of me, love someone if I do not respect them. Respect, absolutely, has to come first.
Straight facts.
ilovesamyo wow facts !
ilovesamyo Absolutely! I lost respect for my first husband and then I felt trapped in the relationship ... and well, we are now divorced.
@@fedup1606 As an ISTP I don't mind lifetime contract. I think it's good. But if you betray the trust it's revoked.
totally!!!! 100%
I don't mind theories... as long as they're plausible and entertaining
I love conspiracy theories that make sense
Same; I enjoy hearing other ppl's theories (until it seems completely flawed in some way, and therefore stupid; but then I don't want to have to tell them it's stupid, because that will make them feel bad and probably also a waste of time). Like discussing my own theories as well and getting feedback, so that I can tweak them into a higher state truth/accuracy.
If they actually fing think it through before they blurt out nonsensical ideas then i also enjoy theories. Unfortunately most people are idiots.
A theory is a researched and proven hypothesis....
You mean like personality types?
I’m an ISTP female and with age I have come to the conclusion that Emotional Intelligence is much more advantageous to logic and book smarts. I wish I was good better with that. 😬
Gonna have to disagree with you there
Emotional intelligence makes you more effective. I see how little effort other people have to use because they have connections. People like them and things come to them very easily. Job offers, help etc.
@@sciencelabvideosl7558 I guess it depends on your lifestyle. The colonel of an infantry regiment isn't going to be thinking about how the Taliban feels if he kills them, is he? But a social worker is going to need to think about how the child feels. So it really depends.
I partially agree. When I use my Fe, I’m more likely to get what I want. But it can be tiresome. Sometimes I just want to rage at the world, all the stupidity drives me crazy. But then, I’m stupid sometimes too, so I can knock myself a notch and acknowledge that I still have much to learn.
Same. I had a weird n traumatic end to a relationship a couple years ago where I got burned bad and didn’t see it coming and it messed me up so much 😂 it absolutely skewed how I view relationships/emotional intelligence and it’s importance in fostering connection to others.
You severely underestimated how lazy I am
lazy or lack of interest ? 😉
@@RevRideReasonI love you haha
Mistyped INTP ?
When i am bored i became lazy af
@@bigpasta8487 saaame i become zombie without stimuli
INTP w/ISTP son. Being ISTP is hard for him. He has the heart and soul of the ISTP, but physical disabilities make his Se wonky. He literally has two non-dominant hands, so everything using fine motor skills is doubly challenging to him. He is currently working towards a welding certificate, and often comes home criticizing himself because he cannot master a weld fast enough. I have always marveled at him. Even when he was a small child he noticed the oddest things, like the hubcaps on all the local cop cars. He could identify which officer we passed just by looking at their hubcaps. Seriously, Who notices that? And he has always had the quirkiest assortment of facts in his head. Even though he has had a rough time socially and physically, he is pretty awesome, and just becoming more awesome as he steps into adulthood.
Your son sounds amazing!!
I'm an INTP too. Your son sounds great!👍 Awesome story about your son being able to identify individual cops by their hub caps (wow). I actually think I would enjoy having an ISTP son. All the strengths of logic and intelligence (while being grounded and aware of the environment) without all the typical weaknesses that come with being an INTP.
You mean hes ambidextrous ? I am ambidextrous i have problems with directions, but you could try an instrument that you need two hand for and max out.
I'm such a loner. Sometimes I wish I could be more outspoken but I really cannot express myself (especially in front of people). Most of the time I just think it's wise not to speak stuff, personal information to others.
This is so true. When being asked how I feel about something or someone, my mind just goes flying, searching for the right words to define how I am feeling. One literally have to wait for a few seconds before I say anything sensible. And I know that's weird especially for a female.
Yeah, I get it
I never tell people my true feelings because I'm never understood, like there's a language barrier. Even now I find it hard to type what I'm actually feeling. I feel comforted that I'm not alone in this.
@Hana600 Yes, quite often. I can make my self feel sick. I try to meditate when I feel that way to help myself.
@Hana600 That doesn't happen to me, but I am always in the background and never noticed by people.
Omg if someone proved me wrong by having lists and backup I would be so happy bc most ppl just approach a conflict by getting all emotional and not having any real logic that they can relay. So ya... that would be refreshing
I had guys blurt out they love me or say they like me..i IMMEDIATLY go into think mode looking at his mental file and process his history. Has he shown interest? Did he take care of me at all? Did he go out of his way for me? ..after about a minute of speed processing i then go ..ok 1. Freak out 2 .think quickly HOW TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS 3. stop being friends 4. Accept him and see how it goes. 5. Walk away cuz hes full of shit. I can pick a number or combo of things.
I think pretty much exactly the same way. I always end up thinking whether they mean it or not
As an ESTP I also relate to this
That really would be so hott
Oh yeh definitely
"To them you're just a canvas open to them with which they write upon in the bedroom". Damn that's hot
I think this one must be me. I can’t tell you how many times people are giving me a bunch of blah blah blah directions, and I just say, “ ok ok ok, I’ll figure it out “
Is that because as they are instructing you you're already questioning the method and end up not actually listening to it ? Because that pretty much is what happens to me and it frustrates the person telling me and myself specially when there's no time for figuring things out for yourself
Most likely because you feel like the advice doesn’t have tangible results that you can see. We need trust ourselves more because we are tactical
Haha. Seriously! Damn your directions, what's the fuckin address, and be quick about it.
I am ISTP but I'm not arrogant. I do think people are stupid. I do have very little trust in people because they do not prove themselves. I do not like stupidity and I find that common sense is not common. however, I hold back a lot because its too much of a hassle to deal with their crap.
TetukraBOA awesome! Thank you for sharing
@@CSJoseph No problem
@@TetukraBOA ISTPs also hate the gov
I want that on a shirt "common sense is not common" 😁
You are not alone. I understand exactly how you feel.
"I feel guilty for harsh thing i said, but i'm right about it" 😀
Okay, Bro! Youuuu read meee.. #ISTP
Nope. More like "sorry that your an idiot that doesnt learn,not sorry im right ..heres a drink now shut up "
Lmao on this. Really well spoted. Right when a person is ready to be really pissed off/upset to the point of crying or something, I just say something _sounding_ apologetic, while thinking on the inside that it is very annoying that I need to calm people all the time just because I am right about things we discuss _together_ . It's like I'm allowed to be logical about things only when I'm not busy with my humanity babysitter "responsibilities". People won't listen to reason unless you lick their asses and make them feel good and smart and smarter than you while they are not.
... lol.
That’s actually the only part of the video which I don’t identify with, rarely I feel sorry about telling the truth.
@@1Skorpia ooof, sounds like me lmao
xD
You make it sound like the vast amount of friends I’ve managed to accumulate is through sheer luck and their graceful forbearance....who am I kidding I have like 3 friends.
Over analytical mind ✔️
Love to mentor loyal/invested ppl✔️
Freedom over everything a relationship/contract can offer✔️
Never plan✔️
If it’s broken I can fix it✔️
I don’t have to be right all the time, an intelligent debate will suffice(feeling may be hurt in pursuit of truth - truth above friends and feelings)✔️
Ego needs recurrent stroking✔️
Nerfs/Aberrations:
1. Love all theories(esp conspiracy theories)
2. Metaphysics, abstractions, philosophy are awesome
3. No potty mouth (you get wall of silence... for a long time)
4. Not easily manipulated, very suspicious of ppl. Trust is earned through trials. Loyalty is highest virtue
5. People are not stupid - just misinformed.
Very well said. Someone get this man a cookie.
Me too
I agree with this. I keep questioning being INTP even though every test says I am. I don't learn things for the sake of learning and new possibilities don't 'excite' me lol. I think my Parent Se is underdeveloped though and my Ni is more developed so I answer positively to more intuitive questions. That's why I think I'm ISTP. I read somewhere that Ti and Fi dominants are most likely to research extensively to find out their type and I've gotten so deep into MBTI at this point after dedicating so many hours over like a month. A lot of function descriptions from different people and sites seem to contradict eachother though and there are many stereotypes which get in the way of making accurate inferences and forming opinions.
@@CSJoseph Here 🍪🍪🍫
I’m a INTP but I was questioning if maybe I was a ISTP. Immediately when you said “they like to finish things” I knew, no doubt that I am a INTP.
I thought the exact same thing,, I'm in intp too as soon as he said that i was like definitely an intp
Lol!!! I was feeling the same. I was like "dang, just became 100% sure I'm INTP but this sounds like me!.....oh wait, nope!" Lol
I'm an ISTP and I have to finish things which are important and something I'm really invested in, however my ADHD can make this ISTP aspect of me a bit off.
"no doubt that I am a INTP"
having no doubts might undermine that conclusion :D
I am like that when it comes to something non related to college,but like college stuff ......... oh last minute person who hates making plans ,so trying to keep calm asap is the way to go bcuz i just cant plan when i know i wont stick to it and it wont work
,i used to think that I might be INTP bcuz of that but when thinking abt it
ISTP like THIS MOMENT , so if you have to do something for the future ,i will probably have no will to do , where as if you tell me OH ITS FOR TODAY i will fight for it.
Actually you are wrong. The reason why we forget about anniversaries and stuff like that is because is not that important to us. Is just a waste of time. So if is not something that doesn't make sense to me or I care about. I just don't think about it. I'm not sentimental with dates. I don't understand why people care so much about these kind of things. To me is just torture.
Exaxtly. Doesn't make sense to me as well.
Insensitive people # sorry not sorry
Exactly..
My partner - you know what day it is?
Me - no what *walking into the chapel
Partner - our wedding day??
Me - oh ok
Or you know a birthday is coming up and all you think about is "how can I avoid going to the lame birthday party." Still love the person, but hell no to those charades.
I'm an ISTP and I'm really good at finding four-leaf clovers.
Coincidence?
I think not.
thats not the luck I am referring to.
More like effing great SE, which is like, almost half of your super powers..
lmao
Lol
love your comments i started laughing because i find so many 4 leaf clovers that its not as special anymore. lol thank you
ISTP answers exam questions, crosscheck answer with answer sheet, ISTP answer does not match with answer sheet. ISTP: "The answer sheet is WRONG". Turns out answer sheet was wrong. Friends: "GODD DAMMM IT!!!"
Omg this is me
I remembered in the module there was this question "What confused you most about the module?"
I answered "The answer keys." Because they were wrong!😂😂😂
I can confirm this 🤣
hahaha, I remember when my bf came from his school and said He proved to his teacher, that his answer was also RIGHT, and he has to check it again.. ofc he got that points back from exam xDD
Happened to me more than once.
Intp here
My Mom was an ISTP. She was "emotionally hostile"....she engaged with her children rarely on an emotional/feeling level. Children are inherently emotional and illogical....they would be constant irritants to the ISTP soul. She expected us to figure out things for ourselves, though she would step in when our adventures threatened true harm. She was a nurse, so I think her Fe (caring for other’s emotional state) was burned out after her 12 hour hospital shift. She did love music and singing, so she communicated her feelings through that and vicariously taught us to do the same! Though I still wish she could have been what I needed, Personality Typing has helped me to heal my hurt about her behavior and replaced it with understanding.
Thanks for sharing your experience :3. As an ISTP male i have already experienced my inability to engage with my nephews and nieces on a child like level. I feel as if i am inhibited by their inability to hold an intellectual conversation and their little understanding of the science of the world. However they still do like me and engage with me when i make physical play (like a fist bump or a strong high five). I do sometimes worry about the future and whether I'll be able to provide healthy emotional interactions to my own children, i pray that I'll find an emotionally intelligent wife :3.
RissaKendall my Mum was the same so unemotional, I actually believed she did not like me, but it’s just her way
im a mom ISTP i try so hard with my kids to identify emotions, express myself with faces and voices, and let them interact with others emotionally. i relate so hard to the singing and dancing
It goes both ways. If you are now a parent and you have a kid who doesn't engage emotionally as much as you like, try to be what the kid needs vs what you are. Coming from the ISTP (maybe INTJ) daughter of 2 feelers.
It took me 2 hours to logically prove need of empathy for society, so now I can "have" Fe)
Every one thinks i am arrogant when i don't listen to them or value their opinions, but the thing is that i think about the subject very well and do simulations in my head, and then people ask me for explanations and its hard to explain my crazy unrefined thoughts to someone who won't connect the dots. So i just don't tell them. Its quiet hard especially when i am a private person who rarely ever, and i mean like rarely ever opens up to anyone.
very well said
I'm right there with you! I honestly think to myself "What's the point? It's not like you'll get it anyway... Let alone even care." . I'm especially like this with people I've given multiple chances to understand. ISTP's already don't like to talk much and even more, we HATE having to say the same thing more than twice.
Stimulations part is very much accurate for me as well. Sometimes there are moments where a topic about which i had already thought over several times is presented and i relax down with little interest in hearing especially if i believe i already have the right answer. :D
Yes I have an istp partner and if I ask to many questions about what he means he can get a little grouchy lmao..I am an infp and being rather sensitive I am trying to not take it personal...not easy but learning about istps minds is really helpful to track the minefield lol. 😊😊 love istps
"you do not have long-term thoughts.. in terms of [stuff] .. that's not even real to you right now." so true. anything beyond two weeks from now doesn't really exist in my mind. how many times have i told people--they want me to make plans 3 months in advance. "what do you want to do next summer?" am i going to be alive next summer? will i still hate sweating? maybe i will have moved to canada by then, so how can i answer
Yep, I force myself to write down a list of long term goals and projects, with deadlines and sub objectives. Only to toss the thing in the drawer and go down into technical rabbit holes and fascinating/obscure stuff that piques my interest. I find routines relaxing but hard to follow whenever something comes along and draws me in...I find this lack of discipline sometimes frustrating and admire ISTJs for sticking to their rules and schedules.
@@azmodanpc i don't see it as a lack of discipline, but rather following a separate type of discipline. in other words, when something draws you in, you are very self-disciplined at studying that thing/working on that thing/focusing on that thing. possibly sacrificing eating and other things you enjoy to focus on this thing that drew you in. and it may not seem like discipline because you are enjoying it so much. i would guess that's how it is for istj--i mean they enjoy so much to have that familiar and predictable schedule etc--that it doesn't feel like discipline to them
When he said that it made me think of Usagi from Sailor Moon lol
Those 5 year plans are a joke.
Exactly the thoughts😂😂
I'm so glad i've been categorized. Really thought i'm the only one like myself but seems like we are millions. Istp female here. I'm blown away that there's some science who can exactly identify me. For the longest time i thought i have memory problem cause i can't really remember far enough but turns out there's an explanation for it. You have no idea how this mbti opened my eyes to deeply know myself.
This all sounds like completely made up BS.
But, it describes me so well.
@@null1534 😂😂🙌
Wrote a comment deleted it cause I thought of a better one:
ENFP here married to an ISTP. We have each other's back. Whatever one is lacking the other comes to fill up the void. People think we're doomed for failure and at times it does feel that way. I'm so social and everywhere while he hates everybody and wants to be nowhere. But, for the most part, there's such strong synergy that failure is nearly impossible.
ENFP AND ISTP UNITE!!!
Together we can build impossibilites.
Yes, check out social compatibility vids for both types.
@@CSJoseph dude I've watched like all of your videos. I don't normally comment but I felt the need to share a romantic ENFP/ISTP relationship. You know for informational purposes and all lol.
Bruna you give me hope (I’m an ENFP)
ENTP female here married to an ISTP. This is both of our “last” marriage (2). 10 years in so far, and going strong. He has my back. He’d take a bullet for me. He is my protector. Talented! Opinionated and Right. He listens while I talk (insert ramble here). When he comments, he is spot on. He is my encyclopedia and name that tune guy. If I’m ever wondering about something, I ask him. He knows everything and at the drop of a hat. And yes, he is the MAN and masculine to my woman feminine. This is the way it is supposed to be. Plus, NO man could handle me and he does it without effort. We may not be perfectly compatible on paper, but this works for us. BTW, we’re both 51- born in 1969. And MUCH more mature than when when we were in our 20’s and 30’s.
Oops, typo for my type. I’m an ENTJ... I hit the wrong button 😊
The demon - Fi description is such a good hit. I've had so many times happening that I put a lot of time and effort into building a nice relationship, closed my eyes to a lot of things, but in return at the slightest mistake I get punished like I killed someone and there's just no forgiveness for me that it made me put some people in that "to avoid zone". I don't know if this is something ISTP specific, but I seem to be really forgiving most of the time, but once the limit is reached, I don't know if the trust can ever be recovered, or at least fully recovered.
I’m just like you brother. The solution is actually hard to implement for us because of Fe inferior. It’s to stop closing your eyes. Gotta be categorical and assertive when it comes to feelings. Good luck with that!
Yes! Exactly!
Same here man.
Same
ISTP here. Guilty of stupid-zoning and categorising people as annoying. Is that really a type thing?
Another ISTP here.
Yes.
ISTP here.
yes. and "annoying" is a very kind word of the category i use for "annoying" people.
I'm here to say YES.
Holy hell, you just described my husband to the letter. He’s an ISTP, and he’s a jeweler and a martial artist. I’m an INFP, and in spite of what some might think, we work well. It’s mostly because-you guessed it-I tell him he he loved and valued. We balance each other’s more stubborn tendencies; he keeps my head from floating too far into the clouds, and I keep his mind open to new experiences (and protect him from shysters! 😂). He also DEFINITELY wears the proverbial pants in our marriage, in most ways (essssspecially the bedroom, whew!), and…I like it. He makes me feel protected and taken care of, and I need that sort of stolid reassurance, because INFPs are babey and smol. 🥺 I love being his wife, even when he’s being a giant pain in the ass. 😂
Golden quadras are great aren't they?
im i the only human being who is watching the video for the sake of learning and not because its my type???
rhetorical question?
I am too because I like ISTPs
Nope. :)
I'm watching because I wanna learn too😂 and im an ISTP so 😐😂
Probably
I actually love ENTPs, love their wit and humor.
ENTPs have the second best humour in the MBTI! Well, obviously we (ISTPs) have the best sense of humour.
I was in the middle of not liking you when you said I wouldn’t like you... istp here 👋🏾
I would like him at a party.. would be a nice distraction from a stinking party. (speaking from past experience, entp's have kept me from leaving parties in the first 20 minutes)
ISTP femme fatale here...
The only thing I can say is....yeah, the kid is kinda wordy and digress to random places at times but at the end of the day, he knows his shit and I give him major props for that. I’m kinda a fan. I’ll admit it
Thank you
Too much sarcasm,he needs to get laid WELL.
Exact same for me. Man
That criticism thing is real. I have an international friend who has asked me to correct any English mistakes I see or hear him make. So of course with my Se I see and hear ALL of them, and with my Ti I point them out immediately. He always thanks me but sometimes it feels like I’m being too harsh.
You are 100% correct on me being more of a tactician than a strategist. I'm also known among my circle for saying "I always get what I want". You know me all too well.
I’m an ISTP who’s had an ENFP personal mentor for the last 5 or so years and we misunderstand each other sometimes, but dude has caused me to grow as a person more than anyone or anything else in my life
im a gentle istp, im not that crass....I do have certain things i will not bend on. Fixing things I LOVE. Thanks for loving us, lol. I think istps like quiet times and when you invade that, its annoying...at least to me.
You know when you’re an ISTP when you read the youtube comments of an ISTP video and go:
“Yep”
“Me too”
“Yepp”
“Damn, got me”
“...there’s oddly not many stupid youtube comments here...weird”
TOTALLY!!!!!!LMFAO!!!!
True
so truue xDD
Yep
Yep
The more I read and see about ISTP’s the more my mind is blown by how accurately the description fits me - except I’m all too aware of my awful memory! Everything else said in this video fits me down to the T. I just hope I can find some way to make all of this analysis benefit me! Bravo on the video man, seems like you know this stuff inside out 👏🏻
Much appreciated.
Istp congintive functions
Timestamps for me
Ti mastery and 4 congintive functions
1:22-12:21
Anoyying zone
12:21-13:28
Idk
13:28-
Stupid zone Critic function (si)🙄
14:32-17:12
Ne trickster
17:13-
Do not talk about theory to istps
19:20-20:15
Fi demon
24:14-28:40
7:20-
As an ISTP thisis probably the most spot breakdown I've ever heard. This video even helped me to understand why I do some of the things I do and helped me see the negative aspects of my personality to try and be more mindful of it.
I’m aware I’m 8 months late but I don’t suppose u as someone who is the type could break down No child and Si critic for me
It's hard to be a istp woman
Own.that.shit. your rare and we are the pioneers that break molds. Stop trying to fit in a mold . Make a new one ..watch as others follow your lead👸
@@1Skorpia your right, still not easy to navigate this world as one, feels really isolating
👍🏼😂
Hard but amazing
YOU CAN DO IT lol
Very accurate. I despise gambling due to the statistics involved in losing but other than that, I agree with every part. My wife has pointed out many times how I unintentionally OR intentionally make someone feel inferior. Keeps me in check, love her to death. Shes ISFP
I understand well. I'm told the same thing often.
Fi demon description was freaky accurate for me. It takes a lot to get me to that point, but when I do, I get in to this total "Fuck'em!!" mode and I quit caring about everything associated with the person(s) who pushed me there. It's not so much vindictive, but more of a malignant apathy. I'm not really going to seek revenge, but I'm sure as hell not going to help them with anything ever again.
Edit: accidentally typed Fe instead of Fi
It's like your speaking about me. I feel exactly the same.
Same. I try to fight it off if the person is super important to me, I’ll keep forgiving until it’s time to press that destruct button… use Ti to burn that shit down, so I can move forward.
Kinda scary how accurately you described me. Hahaha
Oh and very nice videos!
Daelaron awesome, thanks bro, it is appreciated.
My husband is an ISTP. I am an INFJ. This description is so accurate. He fascinates me. I am determined to figure him out. This video helps.
I’m an INFJ dating an ISTP and I’m completely determined to figure him out as well. 😂
Hi can you two infjs help me out by answering this thought experiment: If you were to act exactly like an istp, how would you act, what kinds of phrases would you say a lot, etc?
I want to talk and act more like an istp. (Because I'm an infj married to an estj but the estjs "perfect" pairing would be an istp.) Thank u!!
I love ISTPs as well. I find their authenticity, thoughtful thoroughness, technical artistry and loving acts of service so charming! To me they are the best fit for what I perceive to be masculine.
As for winning them over with stats- the ISTP in my life is the "exception to all statistics". He has to try it for himself before he believes it, and he'll do it if and when he feels like it. As a Te user I'm the one who ends up adopting his thinking :p I love how we got each other's backs as our greatest strength is the other's blind spot.
I’d argue that the present thinking is overrated. I often find that while I value the present, I heavily focus on the future and what could happen. This is mainly because I want to maintain a free state for the future. In other words, the present focus, for me at least, is with respect to the future. It is a forward thought process that isn’t as direct as others. This ‘present think’ sometimes gives us a wrap of being big spenders, but I find the contrary. I am frugal and try and live without debt for the sole reason of having freedom and flexibility.
You are the most informative youtuber on mbti. Im an istp female and i can vouch that most of what you stated is completley true.
Man, my Fi Demon has ruined a LOT of things in my life... And it DID come from that perceived lack of appreciation for going out of my way and not having anything to show for it. Thanks to your video, I've become far more aware of it and try to minimize its presence, but dear God is this Fi Demon strong in me. I do find I've stopped going out of my way or even above and beyond for anyone anymore.
You can learn to deal with it. I mean through normal logical learning proces and skill developement. Been there, done that. I USED to have 4 feelings- hungry, tired, cold and ok. And I thought all people have this spectrum. I learned via reading and exercizes much more. Plus you can cheat. There is a set of these stupid stuff you can say to others in specific situation. Do a list. Like: "congrats for young mom" while you think: "crap, kids suck". Most of stuff can be compensating with T.
Same
I feel naked now lol
Writing to maybe help you further your already decent understanding of ISTP's (points will be sporadic as I remember them, and I wrote this somewhat to work through some thoughts so ignore if you want): Not all ISTP's hate theorizing or thinking about the what-ifs, I do it all the time--to an extent. Also, I'm very cognizant of emotional manipulation but still have to remain aware of the weaknesses you pointed out. Sometimes, however rarely, I can get so focused on getting something done that others’ intentions get overlooked.
Definitely right on the harsh mentor front because I get very frustrated and lose respect for someone if they do not at least attempt to get better when I'm instructing them, and I do get satisfaction when they are successful--however I suspect most people would. Overall though, I try to avoid ultimatums when judging people. If I try to teach someone something and I can tell they're not feeling it and are honest to me about not wanting to do it, I don’t think less of them. On the other side, if they constantly rely on me for things like tech support when I'm not an IT guy for things they should strive to understand because of their frequent need for help in that area, that leaves a lasting negative impression which makes me a little angry when they eventually ask for help again.
The tactics vs strategy point is also right on the mark. Though I could work to become better at strategy like anyone else, quick tactics comes much easier. Over-planning can easily be thwarted by misinterpreting one link in the chain of cause and effect. To me, you might be a bit overplaying the arrogance and insecurity of ISTP's but it's hard to argue with your personal experiences and everyone being different, and I definitely saw similar insecurities when I was younger. Also the memory thing is definitely on point, I can memorize things in academia that have practical application or logical roots, but memorizing other people's thoughts or theories on things sometimes only serves to muddy the clear logical waters I try to maintain of my already erratic thought pattern.
On the thinking that we assume others are stupid... I don’t like that interpretation because it makes us sound super stuck-up and hard to get along with. I actively try to be approachable and benevolent toward the vast majority of people. I plan for when people do things they shouldn't--I account for brain farts and am usually able to predict when they're likely to happen hence my career in law enforcement. Very much try to stay away from harsh judgement because I sometimes make bonehead mistakes and I certainly wouldn't want someone judging my entire person for that one instance. Again, touching on an earlier point, I do not often like to place ultimatums on another human's worth unless they do something that shows a deeper issue that could not be easily fixed and especially not by me. Short-fused know-it-alls (whose personalities that are consumed by that behavior) and even psychopaths have very little to no personal worth to me but must be treated impartially due to my occupation. Honest and genuine people have the most worth to me especially if they're receptive to bettering themselves.
Your video helped me understand myself a little better (not putting TOO much stock in MBTI but just taking what makes sense), so I thought I'd add my personal experience to the pool if it helps you or anyone else. This was therapeutic to think through, but I apologize if it comes out as babbling, just felt like writing for some reason!
PS my best friend happens to be an ISTJ. Thanks for the video.
i get you dont like the interpretation but its the perceptions other simplify in their own minds regardless of your behavior. Otherwise good post :)
@@CSJoseph I understand and I don't really blame anyone, just felt like sharing my take on it. Thanks for taking the time to read my too-long post and have a good one, your videos are certainly wealths of knowledge.
This was a very well written comment.
Having an ISTP father was very good for me as an INTP. It was a struggle for a long time, but it was good.
It is really hard to be an ISTP woman . How can you explain to people that you don’t care if you get dirty you like to work with your hands. I love figuring stuff out . I am weird with certain stuff. It’s just hard sometimes.
ISTP women are just more masculine than other women. It's sexy to Si men.
"I don't care if I get dirty, I like to work with my hands." see that wasn't so hard, was it.
The worst part is that I don't like to spend time with girls or talk to my sisters I get bored but I talk to my brothers for hours without losing interest and I hate relationships I feel that they will put me in a cage and it will be difficult to get out
@@beheshtasiddiqui900 spot on!
@@beheshtasiddiqui900 sometimes I feel like a guy
INFP married to an ISTP. Whenever we’d have a fight my hubby would give me “the silent treatment”. He always said it was his secret weapon. But HA! Once I discovered he was trying to manipulate me it didn’t bother me anymore. Well it did but I wasn’t going to show it! Lol. This was in our early days. He doesn’t do that anymore at least not consciously anyway. We’ve had a tumultuous marriage early on but he “found Jesus” and lost some testosterone (LOL) and we have very good marriage now. Not perfect but I’ve matured and realize now that’s an impossible expectation! Your video is pretty spot on for him and very helpful. I like your points: Always ask him what he thinks, allow him to make you comfortable, give him the freedom to do what he wants, and tell him you appreciate him. This IS what I’ve been doing as I’VE matured and it does indeed work. However. If allowed he’d ONLY do what he wants to do if not reminded that we need to do what I want to do SOMETIMES! Thanks for the video!
He was not giving you the silent treatment to manipulate you. He made a calculation that it was less effort for him to give you the silent treatment then it was to dig into the other areas of his brain to continue the argument. By exposing the silent treatment you just put him back into the default argument mode. So you basically just wore him down.
We ISTPs are awful manipulators because we don't have it in our tool set. But that means we often fall prey to manipulators.
ISTP here. I too adhere to silent treatment. It makes for a solid point with least efforts.
I'm also a female INFP dating a guy ISTP... But we're really young and we don't know each other very well yet tbh.. I'd hate it if he'd give me silent treatment this is the worst thing in the world I hate that
I'm an infp getting to know an istp and he's already said he doesnt have time for my "pettiness" and implied that I'm basically too sensitive. Not sure if it will work. If he's gonna be a dick 😂. Don't know if istps are for me
I was really happy to read your comment, as I am INFP woman also married to an ISTP man. After 15 years of marriage, I feel like we are in a good place now. However, like you, the early part our relationship was very stormy as we would clash quite often. I was very emotionally needy and clingy, which I am sure probably annoyed him. Me being sensitive, and he having not much of a verbal filter, I felt crushed a lot. I know he wasn't intentionally doing it now. He just did not realize how I took it.
I like how you said you matured and changed. I feel like I have too. I really feel like it's all on us (INFPs) to change if these marriages with an ISTP are to work, lol. I did stay by his side when he went through a kind of crisis period in his life, and I think I earned his undying loyalty. Since that time, I can't recall him saying anything majorly insensitive to me, and he increased even more his care for me. I look forward to spending the rest of our days together.
I’m super into this. Listened to this over five times. Always get something new each time.
This accurately explains my thought process so well. Thinking back on previous jobs it's no wonder I found working in a LEAN manufacturing enviroment was the happiest job for me. But being a ISTP woman in any warehouse job you immediately get wrote off even though you've probably already thought of 10 solutions to a problem before the next guy walks up to ask the question.
I'm an istp, but I enjoy theoretical discussions because it's interesting to see what can be applied to other situations
I love your breakdown of the ISTP, much appreciated and I must say, you've nailed it.
I'm still somewhat new to the understanding of the MBTI's but from what I can tell as an ISTP I seem to get along the best with INTP's and INTJ's, I can't actually think if I know any ISTJ's but I'm curious now if I know any or not.
Thanks for the Video.
You are absolutly right and it's hard for me to say this because I'm an ISTP.
We only want to getting better every day and that's why we are on the move and forget loyality.
The Problem is we think every person is good and tries the best. And it's not true true but we need a long time to see it.
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I'm an INFP raised by an ESTJ single parent. And I think that I've been emulating ISTP for my entire life. A lot of the ISTP traits you discuss in this lecture hit home for me. When I work, I'm very movement oriented, it pisses me off when other people are acting or being stupid, etc. If this is true, and I'm emulating ISTP so much, this explains why I'm so mentally drained all the time. And this happens automatically for me, I don't even think about it. What the hell is wrong with me, man...
You're in your superego
probablt istp superego
It is a year late, but do u also move around a bit while standing, listen music that makes you want to get moving, walk fast, want to run a lot, feel like you are doing something wrong if you stay at one place for too long, and it is very hard to just medidtate? cuz I do , and I think I am superego focused as well.
Its like physical movement breathes life in me. I am not burdened by any emotions, just me fast walking all alone in a garden and looking around for hours thinking a little.
Don’t worry I’m a ISTP and I had a ENTP class mate who was really smart but really stupid and annoying at the same time… your one of the better ones.
What you said about memory is so true. I've always been a little confused by it. Certain things I seriously will never forget. Ever. Other things just leave. I think it all depends on what matters to me. It's like I have an incredible cataloguing system and if i want to store it, I do. If not, I don't. But I can memorize things well. My last gf was always amazed how much I remembered from previous conversations. She always told me my memory was incredible. I really do remember specific things said. My mind has a way of linking everything and and as a result I can retrieve it quickly and accurately.
I'm an ENTP and I'm pretty sure my Dad is an ISTP. Im very glad I found all this personality stuff because our relationship has gotten to a tipping point. I'm so sick of being treated like an outsider and all the times I was put down and treated like shit as a kid by him. We get along now, sort of, but I still feel that disappointment constantly and its REALLY starting to piss me off now that I have confidence in my own abilities.
I'm going to confront him this week I think. I need him to understand that I'm not quiet because I'm stupid, and I can finally do that because I'm finally getting my thoughts in order thanks to all this.
I did it and it worked out :D
It's curious, because ENTPs don't like to obey... we really are rogues
I'm an ENTP with an ISTP dad, but I've rebelled when I was like 14 years old... had to conquer my freedom of thought
As for the memory, you're right, we forget loads of shit, each time i leave a house to go somewhere, i always leave a phone or something , i need to go back lol. My best memory comes when memories come with emotional attachment, so like something i really enjoyed with my partner , i remember these moments really vividly.
I have this friend that messages me questions about programming and out of nowhere he sent me a message stating they finally figured out I was an ISTP and were excited about it and have been basically monitoring somewhat here and there my personality since they've been watching your videos a lot (so they've been doing this with everyone they know). He sent me this video to listen more about "my personality" and I told him although the topic was interesting I couldn't continue watching, but I was really intrigued and would probably never really get into this. He said "that's actually what a ISTP would do because this was too out there", so now I feel forced to finish this and feel weird being called out on a lot of things I do. lol
As an ISTP, yes we are pains in the ass, yes we are bad at strategy but great at being tactical. We don’t have concepts of patterns (Ni child) and most things we do are a little based on luck. Yes, we are assholes, and we have a problem being convinced and being wrong.
I disagree with the "We have no concepts of patterns". We do, it's just that we feel patterns with instinct
Thank u so much im an intp married to an istp what you have said it's all ture .
He said show me researche that prove suger is bad for cancer
He always whant evidence and data to believe new ideas or theory
And he can learn any computer program any thing just by himself
He love when i appreciate his support for me. And all his work
I might be an ENFP with an ISTP, and I help her understand how not to get manipulated.
She helps me figure stuff out.
the amount of time i get manipulated is just ,the S is usless when it comes to people you create bounds with .I can stop clear lies aka u contradicted yourself or body language , if not , i am TERRIBLE with knowing people's intuitions.
I got burned once by a scam in college. I wanted the person to like me because he was so likable. Ever since then, I've considered overly friendly people to be like that guy and I never open up especially not my wallet. Give them an opening and they'll manipulate you.
You have help me understand my father immensely. INFJ here. I never felt seen, heard, or understood.
I can relate to all the characteristics except the conspiracy theories part. As an ISTP , i love conspiracy theories 😂
I'm an INFJ, and my two best friends are an ISTP and an ISFP. Thank god for both of them having Se parent for real. I can clearly see now how and why they love me teaching them literally anything as Ni hero with them being Ni childs. And in return they've both taught me so much covering my weaknesses.
I'm not mechanically inclined at all even in the slightest, and my ISTP friend loves tinkering, fixing and actively volunteers to help me and shows me even the simplest repairs without looking down on me, he's crazy patient and calm. My ISFP friend and I bond over making art and hiking in nature, and he constantly keeps my mind stimulated and engages my Se inferior in a way that's at the right pace for me.
I appreciate my ISTP dad so much, although I am INFJ :) Such a great dad.
The comment section of this video is the funniest I've seen from your channel so far(I haven't watched everything yet). :)
I am TERRIBLE with dates and occasions unless I set reminders
That was so true about how ISTP apologize, you made me laugh out loud.
25:25 that part is very true, I ignored someone I was interested for a similar reason for half a year, until she came back and told me what I needed to hear and apologized 😅
*Forgets about bdays and anniversaries* very true
I got INTJ twice last month but I did not feel like one after I watched videos on it. So, retook the rest and twice I got ISTP-T. This type fits me more than INTJ.
Even thought I have my doubts about mbti tests but reading comments from fellow ISTPs gives me a sense of belonging and some comfort to know why I think and act like the way I do.
My husband is an ISTP and he is mechanically inclined adrenaline junky. He loves tinkering. Its so funny how accurate this was.
My life was ruined by an ENFP and I almost died. This is very insightful. I had to develop my J over time. I do believe in conspiracy theories and metaphysics and I do not gamble. I see the tricks now. I understand why you hate us. We can be very shortsighted and stubborn. When I was younger I trusted so many people. I was wrong many times. I am glad for age, that's for sure.
He doesn’t hate you though, he said in the video he likes ISTPs
INTP with an ISTP Dad...OMG How hard was I to raise?!? Poor guy.
Lol thats my dad and my brother. Indeed very hard. Especially when my brother cant get out of his comfort zone and freezes up. My dad loses it
I was raised in an Extraverted household. I understand what you mean
Yes ISTP is so brilliant at fixing things! my dad is one of them! And he trains me to become stronger human begin. This lecture is amazing!
INTP here. I sent this to my ISTP friend, however he has a real strong sensor and does not delve to much in abstract concepts hopefully he focuses more on your words and notes the similarities of what you are saying with aspects of his personality. The white board is going to stress him out.
I have never seen a more accurate representation of my best friend right here. I am a INTP. We often relate in a weird ways and also butt heads. This is because we are TI heroes in FE inferiors but he is completely oblivious to the idea of metaphysics NE. As well as I am completely oblivious of SE. If you could create a video explaining the relationship between the ISTP and the INTP that would be fantastic! I’m a week in on this but I must say your videos are insanely accurate!
Ahhhhhh yup I feel like I remember everything but I actually forget a lot
Abby T I legit don’t know my wedding anniversary. Don’t know the year, month or date. Nada. Thank goodness I married an ISTJ who don’t give a shit about romance
I also have Ni child and when I was a baby I crawled out of my window unharmed and knocked on the door
C.S. Joseph, thank you so much for posting this. This is the most in depth description I've ever heard of myself, and I could identify with everything you said. It was almost like hearing previous conversations I've had haha! Some of those things were left, however, back in my turbulent days. I type as assertive now as Ive managed to improve in many areas. I appreciate very much all of the wisdom you've bestowed upon me in this video!
INTP could work well together with ISTP's imo, we are very similar in how we work with a few differences.
Wow, I'm.sort of dating an ISTP. Saw the Fi once and I dismissed him. We didnt speak for a couple of months. But attentive. Wants validation. His emotional distance doesn't attract me. But when he feels loved and important its special when they open up. We are talking again. Man....makes me nervous. Very helpful video though got a better insight. #enfp here.
I'm an INTJ, and my father is an ISTP. We have no idea how to talk to each other most of the time...
You mean you both are direct and silent or very different and annoy each other ?
@@malakashraf2801 Yes.
It feels like this cat has an ISTP very close to him. I definitely feel the “everyone is stupid” syndrome when it comes to the way people handle politics and social issues. I don’t feel like I distrust or condemn everyone who drives my vehicle or uses my own tools though. Iam quite comfortable and trusting with most. I feel like he stated that as an absolute and as an ISTP I feel a like that isn’t entirely true with all us ISTP’S. Apologies if some of us drive you insane my friend! :D
My dad, I hardly knew due to "slowing down" and then getting Alzheimer's, is an ISTP. This just lets me connect with my father on a much deeper level I never knew before. He was great at fixing things and quick to find workable solutions that's true. He loves trains a lot. Anyhow, don't remind me how I was conceived! -INTJ
Depending on how progressed the alzheimers is..have him work on things that are simple ,like games. Nothing to deep. Its hard to process. But like connect four, that ring water toss game from the 80s that you push a button. Where he can play alone. Or maybe a tablet with games he can tap. I work in a nursing home. I already know i want to be left alone workout and walk or play games. Watch my fav videos like a show where people "build" things im interested in. Or make something.
So true. Especially that INFP demon part. Felling this way about my current employer.
I'm an INFJ and my husband is an ISTP. This is so accurate! he hates it when he gets called out for being wrong, is extremely stubborn, but he thrives in situations where he can build or work on things. I usually let him do his thing, while i do my thing. But my biggest issue is how cold and selfish he can be... i guess the Fi demon!? How can i navigate that the best way without constantly being the one to do everything? i hope that makes sense lol
This is why I no longer want to have a relationship. I (ISTP) think I'm a horrible partner and it sucks to know and feel that the other person is hurting but I couldn't bring myself to make myself better for long because I kept on changing. 😔 I'm sorry for what you're going through.
@Alexa valberg This pretty much sums up my life. Thanks for posting 🙏🏽
@@nicolemarie866 the most important thing is to learn to accept the no, and being able to ask again, if you'll start nagging and complaining, you'll never get things from ISTP because we don't give for those who don't already appreciate what we're doing for them right now. also clear communication such as NVC would be really useful to understand us.
@@seajayetc2100therapy could be helpful in understanding your motivations and such 😊
I am an 19yo ISTP-A. I am not fluent in english but I'll try my best.
I like your channel for being awesome at MBTI studying, with your sense of humour and the deep knowledge you do have in the MBTI topic.
I am a strictly logical and negligent ISTP, living totally in the tactical way. It was always hard for me to get along with people 'cause I have literally zero charisma in group activities. I'm also very naive at some basic things but extremely cunning in deep complex topics.
I am very clumsy but with non-material systems I am very independent, self-teaching, with something like a natural knowledge for it. My Fe inferior is just GIANT. I already know people are not always what they seem to be, they don't want what they seem to want, think what they said, etc. but I always go full negligent and risk myself (not physically) getting close with that person just because I want to. I know some of them could destroy my life in some aspects, but I do it anyway just to see it right in front of me so that I know how to react at it. Of course after that I'll never trust that person again, never care about them at all. But I like immediate rewards so that's it.
I do think a lot of people around me are stupid, and that's why I don't care if I upset them. I do think there are people around me that are way more smart and/or wise than me, and it doesn't upset me 'cause it's the reality. My best friend is an ENFJ and I see him as a very smart person, we disagree at all personal topics, but do agree at half the logical ones. The only reason we can coexist is the fact that we're friends since the kindergarten.
I don't care about how other people feel, even close ones. I care about what is the right thing to do. But if it is a close one, really really close, I'll go to them and offer help to solve the problem. If rejected, I'm out while losing trust with that person. If they don't trust me to ask for help, then I can't do anything good for them.
Sadly I don't have a ISTJ friend, but I feel better around someone like them. The Fi demon part is just so true. When someone makes me go into Fi demon, I absolutely forget everything about logic and just do whatever I want with that person and things related to us. I am in fact totally disloyal, arrogant, selfish, cruel, and the charisma I have when alone with someone will never appear again. I will not do it randomly but if that person purposedly comes near me, talks to me, I will find the most dumb way to start a discussion.
I don't need to have my acts validated by other people, not even close ones. But I do get very angry/disappointed when people INvalidate it. I just won't accept having my efforts undervalued by stupid arguments. I feel disrespected, seen as invisible, and wronged. I am grateful of what others do for me, but as I don't need it myself, I will not talk about it unless I'm asked.
I'm an ISTP that doesn't like fixing things (but I can...shhhhh) except when it comes to working on attack helicopters. I lucked into becoming an aviation technician when I was in the military. I love troubleshooting aircraft issues and I'll do it until the day I die.
That is exactly fixing things.
Thank you for making these videos. For years now I thought I was an ISFJ, like a strange mess of one. But here you just explained me so well it made me cry. Im an ISFP, and proud of it. Turns out the ISFJ was my mom...
This was so accurate, but I don’t know about the ego part because I tend to think that other people know more than I do, and their opinions are more important than mine, but maybe that just from me having a pretty low self-esteem most of the time haha
well said
I'm an ENFJ and my mom is an ISTP, it gets so confusing, but at the same time, we get along really well. Our house is full of post-its though 😂
There's a funny story about how she found out, she actually used to score INFP all the time on tests... one day I bought a DIY miniature room (it was so pretty, all you had to do was assemble it) and I started cutting all the paper stuff (books, paintings, etc...) and organising all the little things to assemble it later. One day she came over and asked what it was, after I told her, she left and came back with glue! 😂 While I was finishing cutting the paper, she had already finished assembling all the furniture and pasted the structure together hahahaha
She has been scoring ISTP ever since 🛠 and I think she has become more confident about herself!
I'm glad I found this video, I feel like I understand her better now ❤️
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This video made me realise that I’m probably pushing the ISTP in my life away with my ENTP weirdness and theorising so thank you for pointing that out! Now I’ve just gotta figure out how to be less weird around him....hmmm....
that's a challenge :)))
This is so spot on is kinda scary...The part about being vulgar and direct with words is very accurate. A well spoken ISTP can literally pick you apart in one carefully delivered sentence. SFs are the likeliest types to crumble after an ISTP put them down. Thanks to TH-cam algorithm you get a sub! Kudos!
You're completely correct on this one, but I don't like the way you-
Huh. You just said I wouldn't like you.
Alright. Take your subscription and Like already.
Haha, welcome aboard.
After listening to the intp videos and reading about intps, it just didn't seem right and I didn't want to be an Intp because I don't see myself as one. After listening to and reading about istps it perfectly fits me.