"Find someone who supports you making yourself happy", what a strong one. I already have this treasure in my life and I was obsessing over limiting beliefs about being "infatuated and happy around my partner all the time" (we've been dating for 4 amazing years), and when this didn't happen whether because I was just having a calm day or feeling irritated some time, this was considered "bad". Thank you so much for sharing, I've learnt from all of your lessons today, and it made me feel so much better. Have a nice day 💖
This is what I needed. So much. Just beginning to watch the videos on your channel. I'm experiencing such draining anxiety, guilt and doubts right now and have a very beautiful, loving, kind partner who I've recently started to be engulfed with doubts, unhappiness and crushing early morning doubts even though I dont want to and don't think I could be without him. It just feels draining, soo confusing and tiring trying to work this out. I experienced extreme insecurity during our first holiday a month ago and since then, I've felt walls, distance in me and feeling like I can't spend time with him despite wanting to be with him. So I suspect unprocessed trauma, fuelling this depression, lonely feeling and lack of hope. Its complex but I don't think I'm being guided away from him. But if that is tge case, I will listen as I know the pain of not listening. Please help.
Thank you so much Nathalie! I started listening to your podcast just yesterday and I’m really grateful I found you. It helped me a lot and I can understand my relationship better now because of you.
Does your partner also have other crushes and fantasies? It is probably normal, but it triggers me so badly. My partner told me he doesn't have any desire for any other woman or fantasize over other women. That is just how he is. Now I don't know what to think or believe..
My partner is the same and I don’t want to think my partner has crushes but I guess that’s my own insecurity to get over. I understand how it’s a trigger for you cause same.
Please never stop sharing your wisdom on TH-cam or podcasts it’s so appreciated
"Find someone who supports you making yourself happy", what a strong one. I already have this treasure in my life and I was obsessing over limiting beliefs about being "infatuated and happy around my partner all the time" (we've been dating for 4 amazing years), and when this didn't happen whether because I was just having a calm day or feeling irritated some time, this was considered "bad".
Thank you so much for sharing, I've learnt from all of your lessons today, and it made me feel so much better. Have a nice day
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So its ok if i am not happy everytime i am with my partner ?
This is what I needed. So much. Just beginning to watch the videos on your channel. I'm experiencing such draining anxiety, guilt and doubts right now and have a very beautiful, loving, kind partner who I've recently started to be engulfed with doubts, unhappiness and crushing early morning doubts even though I dont want to and don't think I could be without him. It just feels draining, soo confusing and tiring trying to work this out. I experienced extreme insecurity during our first holiday a month ago and since then, I've felt walls, distance in me and feeling like I can't spend time with him despite wanting to be with him. So I suspect unprocessed trauma, fuelling this depression, lonely feeling and lack of hope. Its complex but I don't think I'm being guided away from him. But if that is tge case, I will listen as I know the pain of not listening. Please help.
hey, i m sorry to hear that. just know that you re not alone! how are u doing now?
Can’t thank you enough for these videos and wisdom! It’s like your in my head and it instantly gave me hope and also tools!
You are literally the best advisor ever!!
I’m so glad I found your podcast and channel.
Thank you!! I've been thinking a lot about obligation in relationships lately.
Absolutely loved this information
Thank you so much Nathalie! I started listening to your podcast just yesterday and I’m really grateful I found you. It helped me a lot and I can understand my relationship better now because of you.
I love that she curses. makes it feels authentic
So helpful and powerful!
I’m obsessed with your channel and your podcast! Thank you so much for everything 🖤
You are so welcome!
thank you for this !
You're so welcome!
Ty ❤
You’re awesome
Wow you are gorgeous!
Someone come and get your dad
Does your partner also have other crushes and fantasies?
It is probably normal, but it triggers me so badly. My partner told me he doesn't have any desire for any other woman or fantasize over other women. That is just how he is. Now I don't know what to think or believe..
My partner is the same and I don’t want to think my partner has crushes but I guess that’s my own insecurity to get over. I understand how it’s a trigger for you cause same.
Could I sent this to my girlfriend? Or it’s just selfish if she hasn’t noticed this problems with in herself?