@@Perry_Neum I wish I could afford it and I wish everything was on film and audio so I could prove the ex parte and the corruption. They are ignoring the obvious lies.
That is true. They don't understand consequences enough. They are the types of people who will lie about a person they were/are abusing, too. When people are so ready and willing to smash someone in court, that should be a potential red flag to them.
That’s why there’s no true justice in family court if anyone can just lie and be more convincing, with no risk of getting in trouble. It’s a hard field you chose, and thank you for sharing your knowledge.
@@coreyanderson1457 And they don't care if they have no empathy, or, as in my case, I believe, in hindsight, they wanted me to continue carefully as I was, not countering anything so they could leave things as they were as far as kids' safety, but I lost so much financially and when I tried to regain some financial ground for myself and my kids I got hammered. It feels almost like they are tossing a coin and going heads or tails, they have no insight, except perhaps a whispered ex parte communication or certain sentences flag a judge to make a certain call, when her mind was wandering a minute earlier.
@Justin A. Gamache, B.S., M.Ed. It's full of corruption everywhere and it's fueled by those with money who want to keep it that way; predators, malignant narcissists and sadistic psychopaths. The decent people are outnumbered in the positions of power.
To me, a parent lying to hurt the other parent harms the child immensely, especially when false charges of abuse are made., and it is MUCH worse than a gang member lying. The whole gang comparison is a weak argument when childrens lives are at risk!
@@bjornofficial4688 yes it does my son I paid all my support to my son but his father abused him for yrs now he is dead at 21 .sad my heart is still broken most days I want to join him in death so sad the injustices in this world .
@@bjornofficial4688 Then again this country has a dark history of human rights abuses , civil rights abuses itself. I quit believing in Justice for all a very long time ago.
@@bjornofficial4688 That is what people don't understand: It starts off more wonderful than anything you can imagine. They mirror their prey and they choose the kindest and most forgiving people, the vulnerable, often choosing someone with health issues they can seem to be willing to overlook, or they act very much like they share exactly the same values and intentions, and then they character assassinate but it looks like you are doing that when you try to tell others the truth, and it can take a very long time before they show their real colours, often waiting until their partner is very pregnant or has a couple of children with them and then they begin threatening the child, but in subtle ways, not easily explained to others so you seem paranoid and wrong about them, they act so wonderful with their children for everyone else to see and you want that for your child because that is good for your child so you keep re-evaluating your own opinions of what is really going on, thinking you must be wrong, or they target the other parent's vulnerabilities, putting them down, even if you were the Queen of Sheba they will find a way to bring you down, and they do it slowly and subtly to begin or suddenly when you are at your most vulnerable, perhaps look your worst or are in no position to fight them and they wait until you have put all your trust in the relationship being solid to pull the rug out, but they threaten the children and your reputation and your relationships, lying about you long before you understand why other people are also treating you poorly, so you are demoralized. In short; they are predators, wolves, and they pretend to be gentle sheep. There is also a trauma bond developed which is intense as everything was so wonderful to begin, we try very hard to get that back and it has a lasting impact on our perceptions, while they have long moved on to destroying us, especially if we ever try to leave or might expose them. It is also very hard for 'normal' people to understand that they destroy us for sport and due to hatred, self hatred they project onto us, in order to avoid self-annihilation. They are content as they are but they know they are not the same, so they hide. They are basically psychopathic but they torture us for a slow kill, destroying our mental and physical health and our spirits, slowly, so they can enjoy it more, gas lighting us, destroying our friendships and our family connections. They are opportunistic. And some of them are very capable of killing, but they are also capable of destroying their children as they grow up and they lose control of them and lose control of the way their children perceive them and may also speak about them. They are predators amongst us who are hiding in plain sight.
I agree. I get what he's trying to get across, though. But, like you stated in the comment, lying to take a child from someone IS serious. It devastates people and destroys lives in some cases. Narcisists and sociopaths are known for false allegations, too. They do it to gain an advantage, and they go unpunished for it.
My ex lied repeatedly in our custody case, making many false allegations of domestic violence. But I had the transcripts of her entire testimony. During my direct testimony, I testified about each one of her lies. I would say, " The mother said ABC. There is what the mother says and then there is reality. in reality XYZ happened." And I would testify with so much detail that I forced the judge to basically live inside our reality, instead of permitting the judge to make a decision based on the standard gender stereotypes against dads. So I proactively prevented the judge from being able to simply believe her vague and false allegations. I usually recommend to other dads to testify with extensive detail to Fight false allegations. Basically try to prove how her allegations are illogical or defy Reality.
@@jbs3144 Sure. On my TH-cam channel I have many videos with lots of information about how to deal with this whole false allegation and child custody scenario. For example, I found that during the custody process during the monthly 10 minute meetings, the judge doesn't care about evidence or facts but still rules in favor of the mother. And only when you have your full trial, and you can testify fully, can you force the judge to pay attention to reality. The system is designed to demoralize you until you quit. You have to stand your ground and fight to the end.
I represented myself (not by choice) I didn't even get a chance at an opening statement. The judge just yelled at me. The children's lawyer made me agree to a trial period cause that was the wish of my child. When my ex failed to meet the agreement of school and maintaining cost of braces he stopped allowing access for almost a year. I just didn't know where to begin. I lost my son. Deciding tomorrow and I'm not at all optimistic to be honest such shady nonsense
We may not feel it's worth it to punish perjury among the common people, but I feel that we should uphold higher standards for those in office who blatantly and clearly commit perjury in court.
It was malicious intent when my ex-husband FALSELY accused me of parental alienation after telling me he was going to take the children and the home from me by accusing me of it. He was determined to destroy me for trying to live. He did not care about our children. He has lied his whole life about everything. He pretended to care about the children. He abused them significantly so that I had to take it seriously and address it. He was determined to take the focus off the finances so he would keep control of them and of his image. If anyone accuses anyone of anything, everything should be investigated, especially the finances, to determine the level of coercive control. I was not even going to bring up the abuse of me other than with a mediator to establish that I had had nothing in years and was trapped by threats and I needed support to leave and to establish myself with my children. He had no interest in them until he faked it in family court and almost won custody. Once he had the money and the sympathy he didn't really want the responsibility. But giving the wrong person that kind of control is dangerous. So many are harmed by this. Truly Terrifying!
This is exactly what is happening to me now. After I told him I am leaving him. He applied for the protection order. My kids are sad upset scared. He doesn’t care. He doesn’t want me to take the kid later and him having to pay the child support. Now he got the house. Not having to pay for the child support. He even negotiated with me on giving me a full custody if I give him this imaginary investment that he thinks I have. This is truly a nightmare. The court doesn’t care about the children. The victims are the kids and the falsely accused.
Fines vs imprisonment may be the start of a good deterrent in family court. That information should also be able to be used as a judge of character for all hearings going forward.
I was lied about. By two people, which is how I lost my first child, my son. It caused a devastating amount of damage. I also ended up, possibly, with some ptsd. I also pay child support to the person who abused me. I am not trying to get too personal. But, I do know that there needs to be some awareness of this issue. There are people out there who will lie due to factors unrelated to whether or not a parent is fit. People can just go up and say whatever they feel like, and it is believed. That is quite literally what happened to me. One of the two people who did this, apologised. The other is in denial about having said many of the things she said, although she does say that she gave testimony because she had a been under the whether, and felt it would be convenient to her (what the heck!). Anyway, I finally figured out the real reasons why they did what they did, but the damage was done. I had a nervous breakdown after losing my son, who I was so close to and he was only one year and seven months old. My son had a hard time coping with not seeing me, I found out, and began acting out. There is a lot that happened, and I won't say here, but it was A LOT of damage. I have suffered tremendously for years. Courts need to also realise that some people are sociopathic that way. My life has not been the same since my son and I stopped seeing each other. I miss him so very much.
I am so sorry. No parent should lose contact with a child like that unless the child needs it and was seriously abused by the parent. They harm the children and are ignorant and callous about it.
Problem is that some lawyers are sociopaths/Narcissists, so the don't care about the truth, and they're only interested in 'winning' an argument and case. They might also defer to the managers who instruct them at the private law firm/ company. It's all about money - Dishonest prosecution teams want money and some have no interest in losing integrity, because they have no integrity to lose. The trials are rigged against the defence team. That's the way the prosecution likes it. Might be historical bias in that defendants were often poor whilst the prosecution are rich ( in money not integrity). BVH from England
You have my deepest sympathy! I’m going up against my abuser along with his lying relatives in a corrupted courtroom his relative has connections with!! Smh
I hear you my friend much of the same happened to me. She filed on me this is the second time now.. my son is now 1 year 6 months and even though she just filed the new order. I feel helpless and even though I know I should look at pictures I still do of boy and I break down everytime. She left bruises and is the type of person who believes she can do anything she wants to a man and he will be at fault. Entitled as it gets. Narssasistic manipulative all of it. She thought I was going to turn her into the cops or courts so she got there first lied her ass off and now I have an order of protection on me. I have to do supervised visits now. I didn't do anything wrong but was punished. I can't imagine how you feel. Hopefully when he gets older he will contact you but at the same time all that time missed when he was young and at the cutest stage.. that's what scares me to death. My son not knowing me or calling me da da anymore. I'm so sorry my friend I can't imagine what your going through. God bless you and if what you say is true karma's hell and God will punish the people who did this to you. The worst part to be honest. Who ever did this to you doesn't care about the child at all. If they did they would use him as a pawn against his father. I pray you find peace and he comes into your life. God speed
I also have been thru this. My own mother and government have gotten together and formed allegations and lies about me which ultimately got my three year old taken from me forever. I don't know how these people can look at themselves in the mirror.
My experience has been that high-priced attorneys know this all too well, and simply show their clients how to lie. It's a win win for them, but never the children.
Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences. I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted.
What to do when the alleged “court” itself is a part of the problem due to conflict of financial interest. Make a video about that. Now that would get lots of ratings
@4:44 I agree. The parent who is lying because they want to have more time with their child is WORSE than the person who is lying to protect a fellow gang member. Why is it worse? Because it helps the liar destroy the life of the honest person, and helps them remove a CHILD from the presence of the more honorable parent in favor of the one who will raise them with corrupted morals. At least the gang member is trying to help another person, whereas the parent is only doing it for themselves, even at the expense of THEIR OWN CHILD.
We've proven multiple times that my husband's ex wife committed perjury and the family court judge refused to address the situation. We went to family Legal Aid Services and they told us that it was the DA was the party that would persecute for perjury, when I contacted the DA's office they said that it was up to the family court judge. The judge seems to not want to be bothered with lies both spoken and court and written and filed sworn documents. This has been going on for years. We're in southern California and had our court cases this past year on zoom. The ex is now claiming to have breast cancer and refused to be seen on video because she's making it up and she didn't lose her hair. Our attorney keeps trying to get the judge to pay attention to the fraud but she still refuses. We're so fed up with the southern California family courts, they should be renamed "we only believe the mothers and all the father's can go pound sand."
Just a thought - has your attorney considered deposing her? This would allow forcing a video appearance. Alternatively, has your attorney considered hiring a private investigator?
@@brianmayer28 Funny you mention that, just this last month he has started this action, including subpoenaing her entire medical record from her medical provider. We've been so disappointed in the past, it's made us wonder if this is going to do anything at all.
Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences. I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted. I’m in Massachusetts. And they’re so “woke” here that now it’s all moms are isht and Dads never lie/alienation behaviors. They’re trying to “make up” for the decades of going straight to Moms. How about you do what you’re designed to do and just take 5m to hear it out, look at the proof and then decide. I’ve known amazing fathers lose time w their kids too. It’s disgusting.
Man, my son's mother and grandmother made me sound so bad in court, I wanted to speak out but I bit my tongue, I'm a student fire fighter, the mom has nothing going for herself n is desperate, a knife situation they lied about me almost getting stabbed at son's mom's side of fam at grandma's in front of son trying to protect him, they lied in court, finale Judgement he let's son go by grandma's where mom lives n incident happened, son comes back with burn/bruise on his leg his 2nd visit, complains it was from there. Verified it with his headstart. I got screen shots to prove the lies. I ask judge to suspend visitation immediately for case review and have proof. Back to court in December. Sad situation I'm in.. Thanks for sharing.
My ex falsely representing continuously about his domestic assault toward me in our trial, had a life altering impact on my life and best interest of my children. Deceit about such an integral component of best interest and against a survivor of domestic violence (strangulation, spitting on my in front of your children, in my case) is absolutely Perjury and deserving of bring treated as such. I learned, unfortunately, that the Family Court system is by and large flawed in their handling of blatant perjury. My life and that of my children as we knew it was obliterated.
In the USA in the beginning of every court case everybody gets sworn in. Here in Germany it's not like this. During the Trial the Judge, the Prosecutor and the defendants lawyer have the possibility to apply for the oath. Then the judge teaches the person the consequences of perjury. This Modus operandi is much more serious.
Hello Councel , let me thank you for your videos they are very instructive and give hopes to people like me. My ex-wife took my two kids out of the house a year ago , then filed a DVRO against me with false allegations and no proof at all , I had to hire a couple of attorneys 2 of them werent the right ones for my case (after charging me thousands of dollars). Honestly all accusations were the opposite since I got a couple of videos showing how she is hitting my little son , My ex wife attorney was pospossing the hearings several times until 9 months after finally the judge found no domestic violence on my case , the videos I provided on the hearing were invalidated according to a california code becase were spoken in a foreign lenguage they wwere translated but not certificated. So the court order gave a none ended orders with a custodial to be adjusted with meet and confer between councils meanwhile the kids (4 - 5 years old) has to be exchanged every other weekend at a police station, after 3 monhs of beign exchanged my kids , i am still no have knowledge of my kids location living, school neither comunication by phone , their mom refuses to provide that info and her attorney ignore my attorney emails , the only response from her was "your client must has no to be asking for my client address or We'll file another DVRO for harrasment " . Also my older kid says his mom hits them and he told to an UCLA doctor one day during my time with them and I had to took him at emergency care , then the doctor made a medical report and took pictures on the places my kid told her. this fathers day I was expecting being with them but suddently her attorney advised to my attorney that it should not be a visit due to be sick, then my attorney asked her for their living location and the oposite council responded "We can not disclose an address since my client still living in a domestic violence battered women shelter" My attorney is going to file for a RFO and says everything will be ok but I would like a second oppinion about this how bad it is when an attorney and a client behive like my ex-wife? It could lead to any kind of sanctions ? how bad is lying and request for assistance under domestic violence without being abused? as the court not find anything? I would appreciate any comments on my case Thnak you so much and God Bless you!!
The new scapegoat now by the courts is “I’m not the judge that heard the case” and then there is an infinite amount of gatekeeping to get to the judges …..so your never heard basically
When I was a child I was facing my mother in court for abuse. Unfortunately, the PERT officer who answered decided to make up a bunch of extra charges I never discussed, muddying the waters quite a bit. This case went on so long I finally told my case worker while we were in the courtroom that it was _all_ a lie, just to have an end to it. The case was immediately dismissed. I will always carry regret for what I had to do, and granting my mother innocence after she hurt me so much. I feel like I committed perjury through my case worker. But I was a child and I lacked the stamina to live months on end going to court, so to my overwhelmed mind it was my only way out. That PERT officer is a terrible person for putting me in that situation.
Lying to attack and lying to defend are the different motives. If the person's lie may cause you to lose custody of your children, then it is no longer an innocent lie.
I could absolutely prove perjury of the most utterly blatant, deliberate repeat nature by my sick ex, but I was never allowed to speak nor represent myself in civil (family) court (unlawful) and the UK police won't touch it. Indeed, her signed sworn statement to the police was not only inconsistent with her sworn statements to court, they were blatantly contradictory - the police won't use that, and even refuse to give me a copy in writing to use in civil court (they had read out some of it)!
I'm dealing with an ex and his attorney, surprisingly and unsurprisingly, who is flat-out line under oath and perjuring himself. And I basically have no remedy and it's going to cost me custody of my children in the end, I see it happening. And the fact that perjury isn't taken seriously I have no way to get relief. And what's crazy is I'm so worried about being so truthful and so factual and being so correct in everything I do regarding my family law case and then my ex goes and his attorney goes a lies blatantly and makes me look like a fool and looking stupid because I could have lied too and gotten away with it just like they are. I think if they really buckle down and executed even the family law participants who perjure themselves then it would act as a deterrent and maybe lawyers wouldn't feel so free to lie
There are a lot of predators in family court positions fed by monied men, and the good ones are trapped by that fact too. Then our evil exes find them. Hopefully your ex steps in his own lies. Call them on absolutely everything in writing. Use any history too of anything you might have stated anywhere or filmed but remember they are always going to be better at this stuff than you so be patient and pretend you are interested in something else and they will want you to be encumbered by the children secretly. I recommend you sock what ever you can away and then live by the adage people and pets before objects and things or opportunities. Let him have the fun and the money (within reason) if you need to protect the kids. Pretend you are unhappy, but remember real predators aren't fools, but if you don't call them on things you can carve out a better life for yourself quietly. Just keep it on the downlow and always be ready to rumble. Don't calm yourself down, psyche yourself up. There are a number of people offering advice on how to deal with a narcissist in family court. If he doesn't abuse the kids let them know you are always thinking of them and let him think you've got something else going on and he might want you to take them. If he tries to upset you by his handling of them that's when things get tough. Document. Often they take kids for a year and then say you can have them back if you don't ask for anything more. One Moms Battle or Anthony Bompiani
@@Perry_Neum Yes, because the judge removes so much from the court record there is NO access to justice for the corruption. I wish I had the means to do so.
If the mother lies in court, then the judge might assume it's true because you didn’t bother to contradict the mother. Always immediately point out when the mother or her lawyer are lying in court. Say something like, "It's not in the best interests of our child to have his future determined based on the lying of the mother and her lawyer. We need to make decisions based on Reality and not Fraud." And you have to be a TRUTH teller yourself.
@@GBIZZLE Lack of proof and evidence can be a problem in all court cases, including criminal, family court, and civil lawsuits. And maybe, or maybe not, you can have some kind of re-trial when new evidence pops up. But I don't know if that happens too often in family court. And I don't know if a re-trial can fix the damage done from false allegations after a decision is made against you...depending on the circumstance. I think the common answer people give to that is "tough luck, if you lose". But I hate that answer. So I always recommend that you present all possible testimony, in detail, to show how the allegations are false. And to show what the true situation was. On top of your testimony, maybe you can bring some evidence like texts or voicemails or witnesses. Or maybe you can show some circumstantial evidence, like how she did not call the police, or she never went to a doctor to address her injuries, like a real victim might do. All of these things might help round out your story of innocence...And give a judge reason to believe you are innocent. But it also may not work, depends on the judge and the facts at hand. I think the key is that you cannot take these false allegations sitting down. You have to do your best to prove your innocence. Present what you do have. It's a flawed system, especially if the judge is going to be prone to assume the mother must be a victim. I think the people who overcome false allegations tend to be the ones who give 200% effort to prove their innocence, because nobody else in the legal system will give you the benefit of the doubt. And it requires some creative thinking. Sorry if this happened to you.... I got caught up in it, too.
BTW, my situation goes beyond perjury.. when I found the malicious texts, I knew the DNA test was fake from the beginning because she admitted another guy was the father. Smh never knew the court would do such a thing.
There were various people who lied in Court under Oath and I was able to prove that they were lying and still the decision of the Court went against me.
Take it to federal courts. Federal Court keeps the State in Check from corruption. All blue states and Texas(red) makes billions a year on destroying father's rights which is unconstitutional. State lawyers has an agreement with the State they're licensed to practice to support the law of that state.
The other problem is when the liar is the provider, so the court doesn't want to prosecute them, so they get away with it. Perjury should be a contempt? I cannot understand why it isn't? They should be held financially accountable. We need some kind of financial support system, low interest, for single parents who cannot afford it, where they can repay it, eventually, but have the opportunity to properly care for their children and afford legal support.
My Daughters Mother Put An Temporary Order Protection To Keep My Girls Away From Me. She Stated That She Noticed I've Been Stalking Her Since August 2021 But Issued The Order On October 2021 And Put My Girls Names On The Order. I Have My Daughters Almost Every Weekend. She Making Me Sound Like Ima Monster 😂🤦🏽 But The Only Reason She Got An TRO On Me Is Cause I Found Out That She Leaves My Daughters At Her House Alone And My Oldest Daughter Told Me That The Last Time I Picked Them Up From Their Bus Stop. Their Mother Said I Have No Rights To Ask My Daughters Who's Picking Them Up From The Bus Stop. Like Really, I Have No Rights To Know Who's Picking My Babies Up From The Bus Stop. That Is So Lame. If She Felt So Threatening By Me Since August, Then Why Would She Issue An TRO In October If She Felt I've Been Stalking Her Since August 2021. Why She Didn't Make A Police Report On It. She Issued The TRO On October 15 2021 And I Spoke To Her On October 16 When She And My Daughters We're Apple Picking. Then She Calls Me On The 18th Of October To Tell Me If I Can Pick Up My Daughters On Saturday Cause They Wanted To Attend To A Halloween Sleep Over Party At Their Cousin's House, That Friday And Then On The 28th Of October 2021 Boom I Was Slapped With A Temporarily Order Protection. I Was Like Wth Jus Happened Here.😩😂😂🤦🏽 Now I Can't See My Daughters Until Next Month.
When an unscrupulous client pays an unscrupulous lawyer, the lawyer guides his client , the lawyer lies to the police they know over time, the repetitive same lie, over & over again, is slander, the police goes with the lie. Bottom line for money you can target, victimize an innocent person, this is wrong the liar should be held accountable monetarily to whom ever is financially damaged, to make it stop. if it happened to you personally you would stop it. Some how the lawyers, judges, police all never get hurt when this happens, only the innocent. That's why it goes on the court and's it's unscrupulous players benefit.
My experience in family court was her attorney would lie, and the Judge would lie and make up findings with out any proof or conclusions from whole cloth. ( I was never accused of it. So there is no defense in the record.) And the reports of proceedings are false and fabricated. Omitting anything favorable to my side, Testimony from Me, her, the expert, Lost evidence, lost TAX RETURNS, We objected to that, Our objections and reasons and arguments about objections are gone from the record.(If you didn't object in the trail court then the error is NOT PRESERVED FOR APPELLATE REVIEW.)
My wife ambush divorced me, where an order of protection is filed first. Ambushed: She and I had been exchanging loving texts. Her sister doesn't like me. My wife went to visit her sister and they wrote the OP. At the hearing, I presented my texts showing love and friendship My wife presented a text showing I called her a bitch and asshole the night before she filed, thus "pusing her over the edge" in the court's eyes. When my wife's attorney displayed her fabricated texts, I said "no, I did not send those." The judge (a female) said, "I don't believe you." and ejected me for 1 year. My questions: 1. If exhibits/evidence are beyond even words because they're hard copies that can be reviewed, how come the judge didn't say "wait a minute, how can these texts contradict each other?" 2. It has been 8 months. What are the exact words/tone I can use in my petition to terminate the order of protection?
It depends on how your state or court handles these matters. From my experience, if she filed an order of protection, there needs to be a full-fact hearing on that matter. it's a civil matter...not criminal. (criminal matter can be separate, if there is one.) she gets a temporary order. at trial, she has to prove your bad behavior that she stated in the petition. you have to prove her allegations are false. you each have to bring testimony, witnesses, and/or evidence. at the end of that trial, the judge will decide if she proved her case. if she did, then she gets an final order of protection, where the temporary order gets extended to 2-4 years. more importantly, if they find you guilty, then they use that in the custody case to minimize time with your kids, or to give her primary custody. so try to prove you are innocent, "beyond a reasonable doubt". it's a civil matter, so the standard is "by the preponderance of the evidence". But we know court is biased against dads...so it's best to assume the judge will do as much as possible to rubberstamp the mother. thus, you have to block the judge from doing that by proving beyond a reasonable doubt.
@@FatherX2022 It's too late. I got ejected for 1 year. My question is: She and her lawyer presented fabricated texts. My former lawyer and I could prove that her lawyer committed an ethics violation by not bringing that to the attention of the court. So, what's next?
Thoughts off the top of my head...hope this helps...without knowing details of your state law. I personally know how hard it is when a judge only believes her statements and ignores yours. You have to move mountains to be considered equal. 1st, maybe you can file a petition for contempt of court showing she lied about the false texts. In that petition, you include screenshots of your phone that do not have the texts. She will say that you deleted the texts. So as part of your petition, you will demand that she demonstrate her phone showing the texts in it, instead of producing something she printed out and could have changed the words. Don't portray the judge as an idiot for believing the mother. Instead, show the judge was deceived by the mother...contempt of court.
2nd, is there a forensic evaluator or a guardian ad litem on the case? Maybe this person can look at your phone and her phone separately to see if the text messages are actually on her phone. And they can report to the judge. I don't think judges look at actual phones...that would be too easy. And these people might see that your alleged texts are illogical based on the flow of conversation that day. 3rd, do you still have a custody trial pending? Bigger picture, in that trial, as part of your direct testimony, you can testify about how she lied regarding the false texts, and bring screenshots of your phone. Use that in your custody case as evidence that she is willing to make false allegations to alienate the child from you. That's one of several reasons a parent can be given primary custody. Also, in the custody trial can you subpoena her phone records...to make her produce screenshots of her text messages instead of written text?
4th, is there a way to appeal this order of protection decision by the judge? 5th, pursuing an ethics violation against her lawyer is a battle in a different arena. You may not want to waste your time because you have to devote your energy to your core custody case. And, yes, that is unfortunate and let's lawyers commit perjury without repercussion.
I can’t recall if I addressed it in this video, but I would like to see perjury prosecutable as a misdemeanor by a party to the family law case, similar to how contempt of court may be prosecuted by parties to the action, but with “loser pays” court costs.
When I got divorced in Southern California the first thing I noticed was everybody was just interested in how deep the financial well was that they could drain and my attorney told me about 5 years in that whoever is the best liar wins after that I ended up winning
Any time the perjury in family courts rises to the level of a false petition for a DVPO or false allegations resulting in the restriction of a parents time with their children it should be prosecuted 100% of the time. First you are essentially stripping that persons constitutional freedoms such as second amendment etc with the DVPO second false allegations to ensure you win custody is child abuse and should be treated as such. just my two cents
My son's Ex wife denied him his court ordered visitation for 2 and a half years. That is contempt of court and was once punishable by jail time. He took her to court to get his visitation back and the Judge asked HER what she wanted! Supervised visitation was what she asked for and she got it for about a year and a half. Contempt of court obviously isn't bad anymore. He finally is able to have their weekends at his place, and I've never seen a happier child! She had been wanting to stay with him in her own bedroom the whole time, and now she can.
When weighing in on family law and "interests of the child," custody award would be justified on the lesser of two evils, wouldnt it? Such as perjury against motive or the correct organization of facts and to illicit a confession, knowingly! Eg. A child can't lie about what he doesn't know. A child can lie about having been abused in fear of worse abuse. A parent can lie to fabricate facts to satisfy a motive ... Head shoulders knees and toes could be altered to something else to fool others into believing facts are not the facts. Those who are easily fooled are either naïve and innocent, or have pains of denial for which the truth should be sought to avoid what is universally agreed upon, which in merit could be the alleviation of suffering for all parties.
I am the Grandparent and my wife and I raised our Granddaughter from birth up until 17 months old when my Son's ex broke up with him and moved into his best friend's house and broke all contact with us. We hired an attorney for a visitation hearing that got moved to her county and in the midst, she filed for a protection order on him. Showing her auto accidents photos as abuse. He got served 2 days prior to the hearing. Our attorneys said they do not do those types of cases, so my Son went solo to have a reset. denied! A final protection order was placed under multiple false allegations, that we have proof of. My Son also asked for an attorney, and the judge denied it as well. The judge asked my Son's ex what she wanted to be done and her response was Life in prison. Really? She had no police reports and no hospital visits because he did not abuse her or his Daughter as she claimed, We have paid our attorney 9,000 and they withdrew after a protection order was placed. The judge put twenty years on the protection order,. Now we're broke and trying to figure this all out. It has been almost 8 months since the last time we saw her. My wife cries every day! My Son is falling into a deep depression and we do not know what to do next. This does not sound right! Something has got to change. Can we go to the county clerk's office where this protection order was placed and show the evidence that we have, proving she has committed perjury?
I was married for 18 years and I was a full time stay at home mom to our 3 children. I sometimes homeschooled them. My soon to be ex-husband had threatened to take our children finances and shelter away and leave me homeless if I divorced him since 2007. During the divorce process, he falsely accused me of domestic violence. He was granted 3 years of sole custody with ever presenting any evidence. I had evidence to prove that he had had made this threat and had been the abuser. But never have been able to present my evidence.
@Mercedes I’m so sorry you are going through this. I am here learning about the legal process. And the little I’ve learned so far, in 2 weeks, is that it has NOT to do with truth and justice. It has to do with DRAMA, WINNING CASE, STRATEGY. If, IF, we are fortunate, blessed, and by the hand of almighty God, end up in the hands of a lawyer who can get ahead of us, because they can see that we know absolutely nothing! Again, by God’s Grace, we may get some results. I am here to learn. I chose to learn by looking up on TH-cam legal issues. I’ve been down this route researching, with the medical field. TH-cam is truly a wealth of information. Keep the faith. Stay the course. Blessings.
I am so sorry and angry this happened to you as happened to me. My children were a little luckier temporarily, but it is all going down the tube again. The family law system is corrupt and has nothing to do with caring about children and honesty.
This is h happening to me right now. Two months post separation and he was so mad he had to exact revenge for me finding my self worth and value after 16 years and currently 4 small children. The kids and I left him one morning back in September after he cut the timing belt in our car. Well on our way back to the main city two hours drive he filed OFP against me claiming I abused him and the kids. Mind you the kids and I was living with my parents happy about a month later after he got clean as much as he could then he came with his OFP and yanked them from under me. I haven't talked or seen the kids since Oct 17th 😔 never got due process and I have years of evidence, they wouldn't let our oldest speak she 11 knows everything. 2 year temp order to the wolf.
I'm still fighting a case since November 17th of 2019 of false allegations for child abuse I have the police reports the CSI reports and pictures of that night that say that I did not do this.. and yet Family Court still will not give me custody or visitation to my son! This Justin system in California sucks and I no longer believe and right is right and wrong is wrong! My ex-wife knows I would never do this and the courts believe her lies even when their own and the proof is sitting in front of their face!!
The lies my ex told in Family Law have led to the violation of my civil rights and HIPAA rights, as well as keep my children in the company of a family member who is most likely molesting them. This Perjury is NOT less than gang Perjury because Kids and Myself have been harmed over it! It's insane. His lies were not small or harmless.
Thank you for making this video! It was quite eye-opening but understandable once you explained it. I agree that there should be a punishment that fits the crime indeed! I do intend to expose the lies or half truths in both himself and his witness. I’m about to represent myself in family court along with my ex-husband who is also representing himself. I have heard him lie several times in previous hearings, but never knew him to be a liar while we were married. I’ve been assuming that maybe he’s going senile, but maybe he’s just lying and doesn’t respect the court. I’m not naïve. We didn’t divorce over lying, and he was always very forthright with me.
Does it matter how big or small they perjured themselves? I have proof with their declaration and declarations from police officers as to why he was DUI . He lied to get the courts symphony
My wife ambushed me with an order of protection, she was at her sisters when she filed. The police came to home and removed me. I submitted evidence showing friendly texts leading up to the date of the OP. My wife and her lawyer had my exhibit well before the hearing. At the hearing held via zoom so not in person, her lawyer held up a printout of texts showing I called her a bitch and an asshole. I said I did not send those texts, but the judge said "I don't believe you" and removed me from my home for 1 year. For 3-4 months, her lawyer ignored my requests for a printout of the texts. What happens when both the plaintiff and her lawyer know the printout of my texts was fabricated?
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”. We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected and "Marriage makes people treat each other as articles of property and no longer as free human beings. Einstein". We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven. Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need. A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance. C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”. If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational. Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it. Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court. Buckminster Fuller said:- “You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”. To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
You lawyer make sure the father is found guilty you let the other side and the judge words it so he would be found guilty the biggest on is child support Fraud all the way
My daughter mom skipped town on a active court order in Nebraska to Denver with out permission from the courts or giving me notice having 50/50 leagal custody. After 4 months the mother was found and served we had court on august 3rd she was found in contempt and has a hearing on august 22nd sentencing purge hearing. Now she trying to file contempt on miscalculated child support which I filed a modification but the judge hasn’t reviewed yet before her sentencing purge hearing. How can I get physical custody of my daughter so she stays here in Nebraska where the order was made ?
A falsied order of protection was put on me 3 years ago restricting my rights immensely to my young child (just turned 3yrs old at that time) and whom I was the primary care giver of..I was working from home to raise him. My husband committed 8 counts of perjury on the stand that I was able to prove thru cross examination and documented proof (Im unable to afford an attorney so I'm having to represent myself) the Judge completely ignored the perjury I had exposed and ruled in favor of the plenary OP. The cost of the transcripts of the hearing are $1160.00 which I cant afford and the judge refuses to release them free of charge even though I have been recognized and approved as an indigent litigant by the same court. I'm just so sick and emotionally traumatized over the unlawful acts that our family court systems are allowed to do our children by doing this to innocent parents. It's pure never ending Hell. 😥
My ex would file erroneous orders of protection against me (all would be thrown out). At one point, 02/18/2011, to be exact, he was in a deposition where the GAL asked him WHY he files erroneous claims against me. My ex answered (and I quote the deposition): "Because I can. Because the St. Louis County Family Court system is inherently dysfunctional." Later, when I would bring this to a judge's attention - NONE of them cared. However, one particular judge did ask my ex if he, indeed, said that (never mind the fact I was holding a copy of the deposition and there were literally zero reasons to ask my ex anything...gotta love misogyny...) Anywho, my ex answered, "Yes, your honor, I did make that statement and it stands true to this very day." Guess what...the judge just kind of chuckled, the GAL (a different one than the one in the depo), looked at me and screamed, "I THINK WE ALL KNOW WHY YOUR DAUGHTERS HAVE MADE THOSE ACCUSATIONS [sex abuse] ABOUT THEIR FATHER, AND THAT'S BECAUSE YOU PUT THOSE THOUGHTS IN THEIR HEADS!" (which was a TOTAL LIE...and the lovely "system" would later learn that my daughters were telling the truth the entire time - and that I had never, ever, not ONE TIME, suggested that they ever tell anyone anything that wasn't true.) That same day, the judge gave my ex "interim custody" and my ex placed our daughters in foster care the following day as "punishment" for talking. It would take me nearly 18 months to get them out. To this very day, my children and I continue to pay the price for the abuse we experienced at the hands of their father AND at the hands of the judicial system. I HAVE ZERO RESPECT for family law. As a matter of fact, anytime I think about 'family law', all I feel is total RAGE.
When I was a kid in the 70's I lived in little Italy in New Yor City, when it was still a working class Italian neighborhood. There was an Italian youth gang called, The Our Lady of Pompei Kids. The leader of the gang shot another member of the gang. The leader immediately pointed to another guy and said, "He shot him!". Everyone in the gang dutifully said that the fall guy had shot the kid. Even the fall guy kid said that he shot the dead boy. He ended up going to jail for 7 years or so.
Atty. Mayer How Can I file to charge my ex husband for perjury? He lied under oath in the courtroom. He presented an evidence(copy of his dentist copays that he just printed from online) that he claimed that he paid, this has affected date of the start of my child support to him. I found out from the dentist that there is 2 insurance in their record instead of 1 that he claimed. He also made up an amount of his income without showing any paystub, and unfortunately the judge believed him and got the full physical custody of our child. How can I have his work paystub subpoena so I can also present that to the court to show how big of a liar he is. Court is in Hawaii
I have a situation that's happened to me I need to know if and what are the chances of charges being brought against my ex 3 years ago we had a bad break up she told me I'd never see the child we were having in text I messaged her lots begging her to allow me to be involved no threats were made I still have all the emails I sent to her she got me in trouble for harrasment under oath on a signed statement the court used she said to the court I was very controlling however I was never violent toward her I got a three year restraining order to stop me asking her to let me be involved It ran out on the 3/3/20 on the 11/03 I sent a message asking to see my child or what her date of birth is etc today I got an email saying she been granted another year on an emergency restraining order because she is feared about what I may do to her but in this statement that's signed it says that throughout our relationship I was physically abusive to her and hit her on numerous occasions and as a result of this the order was granted what can I do about it this is perjury is it not
I have a case this week in which my ex and her current husband are lying through their teeth in the papers submitted to court under oath. I have several witnesses as to what actually happened ....hope there is enough evidence and witnesses to help me.
My tanant put a TRO because she wanted to get me out within days from my studio. She made false statements serious threats supposed i did to her. We have court soon. But she has no proof at all i have proof that most of everything shes stating is false
Can you sue the other party in a civil trial for lieing and always getting away with there lies. If they would have been truthful, the outcome would have been different.
Family law is important to know. Especially with children. It takes two to make one. It is a team effort to make an infant human baby the most innocent form of Human life. It takes two to make one.
But sometimes one raising two is better when you find out your partner is sadistic and unable to love or care about anyone but themselves. There are a lot of predators in family court positions who support predator parents like them. They all like the power to harm and the money.
@@b.boston8529 and the courts often times shield the criminal while innocent suffer.I quit believing in Justice for all a long time ago . sad really when so many no longer believe in Justice. It is only for those with deep pockets in most cases.
Perjury is prosecuted at the sole discretion of the District Attorney’s office (or state equivalent, or by Attorney General’s office if the perjury occurred in federal courts.). There is nothing to file in court. If you believe perjury has been committed, generally, the place to start is by asking your local law enforcement agency to take a report.
What if some one brought pucture from they car accidents and use them in a criminal case 4 years later and added them to the case and the judge accepted them when the injury was different from the discovery to the one's they submitted at trial and you got proof of the accidents
My child's father lied to get custody, the court allowed it and illegally refused my evidence to back facts. Ive been trying to get my child back for 7yrs now. I don't wish this pain on anyone
Today was my hearing court and guys you don't know how much my wife tried to fck me up. She file a false dv against me and thanks god the judge has plead me no guilty. It was the best day in my life 😍
How about if it is not a family member, but one that were told to be a witness? (neighbours, family doctor, church member, co-worker) Putting someone in serious danger.
It's incredibly unfair and happens all the time. The system is designed by attorneys to function that way. It would have been better for me to be able to seek out some wild west justice and makes me wish the courts and administrators/legislators weren't putting such a strangle hold on civilization. I hope it ends badly. I am truly sorry if this happened to you.
Yes unfortunately this did happen to me and now Iam hoping the courts will see things threw my eyes since he has lied by saying that is has no knowledge of my wear abouts and can not have me served so I have had no knowledge that any of this was happening and yet he brings out children to my house every other weekend for the last two years. So that was an out right lie to the court.
Would if CPS mailed you a document that stated that I was found guilty of neglect? Based upon hear say? I appealed and now CPS filed protective order? Am I able to still file a motion order to show cause?
Look up Your states HHS office under fair hearings & appeals..of course you can appeal! We have rights!!!!! Take care, I'll help with what I can! Learn your laws! Hire a attorney! Fight for your rights!!! God Bless🥰@@talycorral1867
Hi Mr. Brian, thank you for your educational videos. I have a question, I have been custodian parent for 7 years. I have the kids . The other parent refused for the weekend. Keeps changing the visition. Asked to see kids once a month for 2 hours. Or sometime only phone call. Kids don't know the other parent because she has 0 involved with them for 7 years.kids don't don't want to go , I have been forcing them to go.n they started to get upset. So in the future, the other parent might ask to have them in the summer. They never been there it's been 5 years. Will the judge ask me, if it's ok with me to send them with her? If I get asked, can I say no I don't want them to go. My kids are 11 n 9 year old. What is my right as a custodian parent. They been with me 7 days a week for seven years. She refused for weekend.
As you, Mr. Bryan saying, the family court holds too much allegations to handle therefore they don't have enough investigating to each case, then the results still there are not few but currently petitioner or defendant tells lie under the perjury... For instance, I work at a bakery, we bake cakes, and too many customer order our cakes and ask more cakes. Ok, there are capacity to offer cakes, in the mean time, there are too many customers who want the cakes, we make cake with paper thin sponge with almost no color of cream but greasy for its existence, and say here you go, it's 22 dollars. If you want candles, 10 cents each. We have, as a honestly running local business, a perspective that if we reached our capacity, we put sign "we are booked for cakes today" so that we can provide fair products for every customers now and future. Local business depends on keep in trust between closely to customers. That is the difference. The court doesn't have a mean of "trust". Thank you, Mr Brian, I accidentally watched your youtube, this is good place to doubt about the necessity of this court itself, and gives me good inspirational aspect that we can change until we keep pointing out this court's grey system.
I am in the middle of a child support case. My ex is claiming his overtime is voluntary and it is not. He works at UPS as a tractor trailer driver/feeder driver. Anything over 8 hrs with ups is overtime and his shift is never just an 8 hour shift. How do I get proof of this!!
My father lied on ex parte..and at the hearings... Blatant..not my word against his..this did happen also..but my father lies were self contradictory...he answered same question at 3 different hearings and gave 3 different answers...and done the same thing with 2 questions asked at 3 different hearings and gave 3 different answers...i was not served a notice of hearing for the hearing following the ex parte.. I had no lawyer bc i couldnt afford one..and i didnt know how to cross examine him or how to go about bringing it to judges attention during hearing..but i appealed and have the transcripts and the self contradictory statements used to get the ex parte order and to keep the order active while waiting for permanent hearing... What can i do...
"It's not the same thing." So when a parent chooses to lie to such a degree that they are able to keep one a parent from their children, and that child grows up to become that gang member, only then does it matter? Ok.
i wish that the law will be respected in PR about this matter, i am now living a life of sadness due to this not being address, and now since Feb 10 2018 i dont see my daughter and dont even know where she lives or her status.
It is all about control to them Jose. Most men know this. Yet the ones that have not gone through our situation are ignorant and think it will not happen to them. Then fall into the same trap. Women forget. Without us there is no kids. That is a power we need to use. The problem is to many men think about the 5 second orgasm and do not realize the life long consequences. I love being a dad more than anything. But she hates I am the child's father. Men could change this in a heart beat but want that sex like idiots. I have an order to see my son yet mom does not let me see him. I tried to hold her in contempt but her lawyer asked me to dismiss my motions if we came up with a new agreement. This was nothing more then a trick to keep her games up. You can help to stop this by educating men about your situation. Same thing happens to innocent men where women falsely accuse men of rape.
@@MP-in4or good chat brother... but may the LORD do justice soon to all, and never forget, they get back what they did, no where to run from that.. for sure i will not play the court, lawyer, or women game! my daughter will grow up and ask and i will have enough time to explain and show her evidence of which i keep very up to date... with the court i am just hoping nothing happens to her cuz this is all there fault and it will be shown there guilt, and that is another story if we put this on the table cuz it will be a boom for sure, i just wait and enjoy my path here on earth.
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I’m learning how a transcript can catch them in a lie and that is perjury. Narcissistic ppl don’t think about their accountability in anything.
That's what I'm seeing too. They think they can do anything and get away with it.
Exactly. From experience, hiring a court reporter helps keep opposing attorneys and even the judges in check.
@@Perry_Neum I wish I could afford it and I wish everything was on film and audio so I could prove the ex parte and the corruption. They are ignoring the obvious lies.
That is true. They don't understand consequences enough. They are the types of people who will lie about a person they were/are abusing, too. When people are so ready and willing to smash someone in court, that should be a potential red flag to them.
Spoken like a true family lawyer. The key phase "the word is out".
That’s why there’s no true justice in family court if anyone can just lie and be more convincing, with no risk of getting in trouble. It’s a hard field you chose, and thank you for sharing your knowledge.
The judges don't even seem to care if they do.
😥 😔 sad
That's exactly it, there's no incentive to not lie, especially for people with no empathy.
@@coreyanderson1457 And they don't care if they have no empathy, or, as in my case, I believe, in hindsight, they wanted me to continue carefully as I was, not countering anything so they could leave things as they were as far as kids' safety, but I lost so much financially and when I tried to regain some financial ground for myself and my kids I got hammered. It feels almost like they are tossing a coin and going heads or tails, they have no insight, except perhaps a whispered ex parte communication or certain sentences flag a judge to make a certain call, when her mind was wandering a minute earlier.
I agree 💯💯 there’s no justice in court
Family court is a joke
THE ENTIRE JUSTICE SYSTEM IS A JOKE.
FACTS
It's a very sad and terrifying truth.
I'm in the cycle now 🤔😬😐
@Justin A. Gamache, B.S., M.Ed. It's full of corruption everywhere and it's fueled by those with money who want to keep it that way; predators, malignant narcissists and sadistic psychopaths. The decent people are outnumbered in the positions of power.
To me, a parent lying to hurt the other parent harms the child immensely, especially when false charges of abuse are made., and it is MUCH worse than a gang member lying. The whole gang comparison is a weak argument when childrens lives are at risk!
@@bjornofficial4688 yes it does my son I paid all my support to my son but his father abused him for yrs now he is dead at 21 .sad my heart is still broken most days I want to join him in death so sad the injustices in this world .
@@bjornofficial4688 They never show they are abusive side in the beginning typical pattern .
@@bjornofficial4688 Then again this country has a dark history of human rights abuses , civil rights abuses itself. I quit believing in Justice for all a very long time ago.
@@bjornofficial4688 That is what people don't understand: It starts off more wonderful than anything you can imagine. They mirror their prey and they choose the kindest and most forgiving people, the vulnerable, often choosing someone with health issues they can seem to be willing to overlook, or they act very much like they share exactly the same values and intentions, and then they character assassinate but it looks like you are doing that when you try to tell others the truth, and it can take a very long time before they show their real colours, often waiting until their partner is very pregnant or has a couple of children with them and then they begin threatening the child, but in subtle ways, not easily explained to others so you seem paranoid and wrong about them, they act so wonderful with their children for everyone else to see and you want that for your child because that is good for your child so you keep re-evaluating your own opinions of what is really going on, thinking you must be wrong, or they target the other parent's vulnerabilities, putting them down, even if you were the Queen of Sheba they will find a way to bring you down, and they do it slowly and subtly to begin or suddenly when you are at your most vulnerable, perhaps look your worst or are in no position to fight them and they wait until you have put all your trust in the relationship being solid to pull the rug out, but they threaten the children and your reputation and your relationships, lying about you long before you understand why other people are also treating you poorly, so you are demoralized. In short; they are predators, wolves, and they pretend to be gentle sheep. There is also a trauma bond developed which is intense as everything was so wonderful to begin, we try very hard to get that back and it has a lasting impact on our perceptions, while they have long moved on to destroying us, especially if we ever try to leave or might expose them. It is also very hard for 'normal' people to understand that they destroy us for sport and due to hatred, self hatred they project onto us, in order to avoid self-annihilation. They are content as they are but they know they are not the same, so they hide. They are basically psychopathic but they torture us for a slow kill, destroying our mental and physical health and our spirits, slowly, so they can enjoy it more, gas lighting us, destroying our friendships and our family connections. They are opportunistic. And some of them are very capable of killing, but they are also capable of destroying their children as they grow up and they lose control of them and lose control of the way their children perceive them and may also speak about them. They are predators amongst us who are hiding in plain sight.
I agree. I get what he's trying to get across, though. But, like you stated in the comment, lying to take a child from someone IS serious. It devastates people and destroys lives in some cases. Narcisists and sociopaths are known for false allegations, too. They do it to gain an advantage, and they go unpunished for it.
My ex lied repeatedly in our custody case, making many false allegations of domestic violence. But I had the transcripts of her entire testimony. During my direct testimony, I testified about each one of her lies. I would say, " The mother said ABC. There is what the mother says and then there is reality. in reality XYZ happened." And I would testify with so much detail that I forced the judge to basically live inside our reality, instead of permitting the judge to make a decision based on the standard gender stereotypes against dads. So I proactively prevented the judge from being able to simply believe her vague and false allegations. I usually recommend to other dads to testify with extensive detail to Fight false allegations. Basically try to prove how her allegations are illogical or defy Reality.
Going through this now. I’m in utter shock with the false allegations. Any other tidbits of info?
@@jbs3144 Sure. On my TH-cam channel I have many videos with lots of information about how to deal with this whole false allegation and child custody scenario. For example, I found that during the custody process during the monthly 10 minute meetings, the judge doesn't care about evidence or facts but still rules in favor of the mother. And only when you have your full trial, and you can testify fully, can you force the judge to pay attention to reality. The system is designed to demoralize you until you quit. You have to stand your ground and fight to the end.
I represented myself (not by choice) I didn't even get a chance at an opening statement. The judge just yelled at me. The children's lawyer made me agree to a trial period cause that was the wish of my child. When my ex failed to meet the agreement of school and maintaining cost of braces he stopped allowing access for almost a year. I just didn't know where to begin. I lost my son. Deciding tomorrow and I'm not at all optimistic to be honest such shady nonsense
@@jbs3144 how is it coming along? Any luck unraveling the false allegations?
It happens to women too though. It should be taken seriously no matter what.
We may not feel it's worth it to punish perjury among the common people, but I feel that we should uphold higher standards for those in office who blatantly and clearly commit perjury in court.
The prosecutor lied in my case and I have absolute proof!! Think anything will be done about it? I highly doubt that.
The stress that false allegations cause can be catastrophic. It needs to be punished every time it's exposed.
Nearly everyone in office would have to be prosecuted.
It was malicious intent when my ex-husband FALSELY accused me of parental alienation after telling me he was going to take the children and the home from me by accusing me of it. He was determined to destroy me for trying to live. He did not care about our children. He has lied his whole life about everything. He pretended to care about the children. He abused them significantly so that I had to take it seriously and address it. He was determined to take the focus off the finances so he would keep control of them and of his image. If anyone accuses anyone of anything, everything should be investigated, especially the finances, to determine the level of coercive control. I was not even going to bring up the abuse of me other than with a mediator to establish that I had had nothing in years and was trapped by threats and I needed support to leave and to establish myself with my children. He had no interest in them until he faked it in family court and almost won custody. Once he had the money and the sympathy he didn't really want the responsibility. But giving the wrong person that kind of control is dangerous. So many are harmed by this. Truly Terrifying!
Being lied about in court, where one's own child or children is involved, is serious. And can be terrifying, yes!
This is exactly what is happening to me now. After I told him I am leaving him. He applied for the protection order. My kids are sad upset scared. He doesn’t care. He doesn’t want me to take the kid later and him having to pay the child support. Now he got the house. Not having to pay for the child support. He even negotiated with me on giving me a full custody if I give him this imaginary investment that he thinks I have. This is truly a nightmare. The court doesn’t care about the children. The victims are the kids and the falsely accused.
Its Bullshit... I don't get why the court lets people get away with perjury. You are correct... There needs to be accountability.
Fines vs imprisonment may be the start of a good deterrent in family court. That information should also be able to be used as a judge of character for all hearings going forward.
I was lied about. By two people, which is how I lost my first child, my son. It caused a devastating amount of damage. I also ended up, possibly, with some ptsd. I also pay child support to the person who abused me. I am not trying to get too personal. But, I do know that there needs to be some awareness of this issue. There are people out there who will lie due to factors unrelated to whether or not a parent is fit. People can just go up and say whatever they feel like, and it is believed. That is quite literally what happened to me. One of the two people who did this, apologised. The other is in denial about having said many of the things she said, although she does say that she gave testimony because she had a been under the whether, and felt it would be convenient to her (what the heck!). Anyway, I finally figured out the real reasons why they did what they did, but the damage was done. I had a nervous breakdown after losing my son, who I was so close to and he was only one year and seven months old. My son had a hard time coping with not seeing me, I found out, and began acting out. There is a lot that happened, and I won't say here, but it was A LOT of damage. I have suffered tremendously for years. Courts need to also realise that some people are sociopathic that way. My life has not been the same since my son and I stopped seeing each other. I miss him so very much.
I am so sorry. No parent should lose contact with a child like that unless the child needs it and was seriously abused by the parent. They harm the children and are ignorant and callous about it.
Problem is that some lawyers are sociopaths/Narcissists, so the don't care about the truth, and they're only interested in 'winning' an argument and case. They might also defer to the managers who instruct them at the private law firm/ company.
It's all about money -
Dishonest prosecution teams want money and some have no interest in losing integrity, because they have no integrity to lose.
The trials are rigged against the defence team. That's the way the prosecution likes it.
Might be historical bias in that defendants were often poor whilst the prosecution are rich ( in money not integrity).
BVH from England
You have my deepest sympathy! I’m going up against my abuser along with his lying relatives in a corrupted courtroom his relative has connections with!! Smh
I hear you my friend much of the same happened to me. She filed on me this is the second time now.. my son is now 1 year 6 months and even though she just filed the new order. I feel helpless and even though I know I should look at pictures I still do of boy and I break down everytime. She left bruises and is the type of person who believes she can do anything she wants to a man and he will be at fault. Entitled as it gets. Narssasistic manipulative all of it. She thought I was going to turn her into the cops or courts so she got there first lied her ass off and now I have an order of protection on me. I have to do supervised visits now. I didn't do anything wrong but was punished. I can't imagine how you feel. Hopefully when he gets older he will contact you but at the same time all that time missed when he was young and at the cutest stage.. that's what scares me to death. My son not knowing me or calling me da da anymore. I'm so sorry my friend I can't imagine what your going through. God bless you and if what you say is true karma's hell and God will punish the people who did this to you. The worst part to be honest. Who ever did this to you doesn't care about the child at all. If they did they would use him as a pawn against his father. I pray you find peace and he comes into your life. God speed
I also have been thru this. My own mother and government have gotten together and formed allegations and lies about me which ultimately got my three year old taken from me forever. I don't know how these people can look at themselves in the mirror.
My experience has been that high-priced attorneys know this all too well, and simply show their clients how to lie. It's a win win for them, but never the children.
Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences.
I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted.
@@87Strong Family law seems to have very little to do with family, law or justice.
What to do when the alleged “court” itself is a part of the problem due to conflict of financial interest. Make a video about that. Now that would get lots of ratings
@4:44 I agree. The parent who is lying because they want to have more time with their child is WORSE than the person who is lying to protect a fellow gang member. Why is it worse? Because it helps the liar destroy the life of the honest person, and helps them remove a CHILD from the presence of the more honorable parent in favor of the one who will raise them with corrupted morals. At least the gang member is trying to help another person, whereas the parent is only doing it for themselves, even at the expense of THEIR OWN CHILD.
We've proven multiple times that my husband's ex wife committed perjury and the family court judge refused to address the situation. We went to family Legal Aid Services and they told us that it was the DA was the party that would persecute for perjury, when I contacted the DA's office they said that it was up to the family court judge. The judge seems to not want to be bothered with lies both spoken and court and written and filed sworn documents. This has been going on for years. We're in southern California and had our court cases this past year on zoom. The ex is now claiming to have breast cancer and refused to be seen on video because she's making it up and she didn't lose her hair. Our attorney keeps trying to get the judge to pay attention to the fraud but she still refuses. We're so fed up with the southern California family courts, they should be renamed "we only believe the mothers and all the father's can go pound sand."
Just a thought - has your attorney considered deposing her? This would allow forcing a video appearance. Alternatively, has your attorney considered hiring a private investigator?
@@brianmayer28 Funny you mention that, just this last month he has started this action, including subpoenaing her entire medical record from her medical provider. We've been so disappointed in the past, it's made us wonder if this is going to do anything at all.
Same. And every time I’ve caught them I’ve filed a motion and I say well I have transcript’s here where they lied your honor and they lie some more. The problem isn’t them doing it…it’s the lack of consequences.
I’m a professional and in my career if you make a mistake that you’ve learned is a risk to make you get in trouble even convicted.
I’m in Massachusetts. And they’re so “woke” here that now it’s all moms are isht and Dads never lie/alienation behaviors. They’re trying to “make up” for the decades of going straight to Moms. How about you do what you’re designed to do and just take 5m to hear it out, look at the proof and then decide. I’ve known amazing fathers lose time w their kids too. It’s disgusting.
Man, my son's mother and grandmother made me sound so bad in court, I wanted to speak out but I bit my tongue, I'm a student fire fighter, the mom has nothing going for herself n is desperate, a knife situation they lied about me almost getting stabbed at son's mom's side of fam at grandma's in front of son trying to protect him, they lied in court, finale Judgement he let's son go by grandma's where mom lives n incident happened, son comes back with burn/bruise on his leg his 2nd visit, complains it was from there. Verified it with his headstart. I got screen shots to prove the lies. I ask judge to suspend visitation immediately for case review and have proof. Back to court in December. Sad situation I'm in.. Thanks for sharing.
My ex falsely representing continuously about his domestic assault toward me in our trial, had a life altering impact on my life and best interest of my children. Deceit about such an integral component of best interest and against a survivor of domestic violence (strangulation, spitting on my in front of your children, in my case) is absolutely Perjury and deserving of bring treated as such. I learned, unfortunately, that the Family Court system is by and large flawed in their handling of blatant perjury. My life and that of my children as we knew it was obliterated.
In the USA in the beginning of every court case everybody gets sworn in. Here in Germany it's not like this. During the Trial the Judge, the Prosecutor and the defendants lawyer have the possibility to apply for the oath. Then the judge teaches the person the consequences of perjury. This Modus operandi is much more serious.
Thank you for your concern sir, this means the whole world!
Hello Councel , let me thank you for your videos they are very instructive and give hopes to people like me.
My ex-wife took my two kids out of the house a year ago , then filed a DVRO against me with false allegations and no proof at all , I had to hire a couple of attorneys 2 of them werent the right ones for my case (after charging me thousands of dollars). Honestly all accusations were the opposite since I got a couple of videos showing how she is hitting my little son , My ex wife attorney was pospossing the hearings several times until 9 months after finally the judge found no domestic violence on my case , the videos I provided on the hearing were invalidated according to a california code becase were spoken in a foreign lenguage they wwere translated but not certificated.
So the court order gave a none ended orders with a custodial to be adjusted with meet and confer between councils meanwhile the kids (4 - 5 years old) has to be exchanged every other weekend at a police station, after 3 monhs of beign exchanged my kids , i am still no have knowledge of my kids location living, school neither comunication by phone , their mom refuses to provide that info and her attorney ignore my attorney emails , the only response from her was "your client must has no to be asking for my client address or We'll file another DVRO for harrasment " .
Also my older kid says his mom hits them and he told to an UCLA doctor one day during my time with them and I had to took him at emergency care , then the doctor made a medical report and took pictures on the places my kid told her.
this fathers day I was expecting being with them but suddently her attorney advised to my attorney that it should not be a visit due to be sick, then my attorney asked her for their living location and the oposite council responded "We can not disclose an address since my client still living in a domestic violence battered women shelter"
My attorney is going to file for a RFO and says everything will be ok but I would like a second oppinion about this how bad it is when an attorney and a client behive like my ex-wife? It could lead to any kind of sanctions ? how bad is lying and request for assistance under domestic violence without being abused? as the court not find anything?
I would appreciate any comments on my case Thnak you so much and God Bless you!!
The new scapegoat now by the courts is “I’m not the judge that heard the case” and then there is an infinite amount of gatekeeping to get to the judges …..so your never heard basically
When I was a child I was facing my mother in court for abuse. Unfortunately, the PERT officer who answered decided to make up a bunch of extra charges I never discussed, muddying the waters quite a bit. This case went on so long I finally told my case worker while we were in the courtroom that it was _all_ a lie, just to have an end to it. The case was immediately dismissed.
I will always carry regret for what I had to do, and granting my mother innocence after she hurt me so much. I feel like I committed perjury through my case worker. But I was a child and I lacked the stamina to live months on end going to court, so to my overwhelmed mind it was my only way out. That PERT officer is a terrible person for putting me in that situation.
Lying to attack and lying to defend are the different motives. If the person's lie may cause you to lose custody of your children, then it is no longer an innocent lie.
What if you can prove someone perjured themselves during a family court hearing? And was the only witness against you? Will they pursue charging them?
I could absolutely prove perjury of the most utterly blatant, deliberate repeat nature by my sick ex, but I was never allowed to speak nor represent myself in civil (family) court (unlawful) and the UK police won't touch it. Indeed, her signed sworn statement to the police was not only inconsistent with her sworn statements to court, they were blatantly contradictory - the police won't use that, and even refuse to give me a copy in writing to use in civil court (they had read out some of it)!
I think my mom has done something like this to me behind my back.
I'm dealing with an ex and his attorney, surprisingly and unsurprisingly, who is flat-out line under oath and perjuring himself. And I basically have no remedy and it's going to cost me custody of my children in the end, I see it happening. And the fact that perjury isn't taken seriously I have no way to get relief. And what's crazy is I'm so worried about being so truthful and so factual and being so correct in everything I do regarding my family law case and then my ex goes and his attorney goes a lies blatantly and makes me look like a fool and looking stupid because I could have lied too and gotten away with it just like they are. I think if they really buckle down and executed even the family law participants who perjure themselves then it would act as a deterrent and maybe lawyers wouldn't feel so free to lie
There are a lot of predators in family court positions fed by monied men, and the good ones are trapped by that fact too. Then our evil exes find them. Hopefully your ex steps in his own lies. Call them on absolutely everything in writing. Use any history too of anything you might have stated anywhere or filmed but remember they are always going to be better at this stuff than you so be patient and pretend you are interested in something else and they will want you to be encumbered by the children secretly. I recommend you sock what ever you can away and then live by the adage people and pets before objects and things or opportunities. Let him have the fun and the money (within reason) if you need to protect the kids. Pretend you are unhappy, but remember real predators aren't fools, but if you don't call them on things you can carve out a better life for yourself quietly. Just keep it on the downlow and always be ready to rumble. Don't calm yourself down, psyche yourself up. There are a number of people offering advice on how to deal with a narcissist in family court. If he doesn't abuse the kids let them know you are always thinking of them and let him think you've got something else going on and he might want you to take them. If he tries to upset you by his handling of them that's when things get tough. Document. Often they take kids for a year and then say you can have them back if you don't ask for anything more. One Moms Battle or Anthony Bompiani
From my experience, hiring a court reporter puts the opposing attorney on alert.
I know you didn't mean this, but I'd love it if they 'executed' them too.
This is EXACTLY how I am in my case and what has happened to me.
@@Perry_Neum Yes, because the judge removes so much from the court record there is NO access to justice for the corruption. I wish I had the means to do so.
and what happens when cps lie under oath ? and the judge was a lawyer against you on previous case on family farm , and refuses to step down?
If the mother lies in court, then the judge might assume it's true because you didn’t bother to contradict the mother. Always immediately point out when the mother or her lawyer are lying in court. Say something like, "It's not in the best interests of our child to have his future determined based on the lying of the mother and her lawyer. We need to make decisions based on Reality and not Fraud." And you have to be a TRUTH teller yourself.
What if you can't immediately catch her? What if the proof comes out years later?
@@GBIZZLE Lack of proof and evidence can be a problem in all court cases, including criminal, family court, and civil lawsuits. And maybe, or maybe not, you can have some kind of re-trial when new evidence pops up. But I don't know if that happens too often in family court. And I don't know if a re-trial can fix the damage done from false allegations after a decision is made against you...depending on the circumstance.
I think the common answer people give to that is "tough luck, if you lose". But I hate that answer. So I always recommend that you present all possible testimony, in detail, to show how the allegations are false. And to show what the true situation was. On top of your testimony, maybe you can bring some evidence like texts or voicemails or witnesses. Or maybe you can show some circumstantial evidence, like how she did not call the police, or she never went to a doctor to address her injuries, like a real victim might do. All of these things might help round out your story of innocence...And give a judge reason to believe you are innocent. But it also may not work, depends on the judge and the facts at hand. I think the key is that you cannot take these false allegations sitting down. You have to do your best to prove your innocence. Present what you do have. It's a flawed system, especially if the judge is going to be prone to assume the mother must be a victim. I think the people who overcome false allegations tend to be the ones who give 200% effort to prove their innocence, because nobody else in the legal system will give you the benefit of the doubt. And it requires some creative thinking.
Sorry if this happened to you.... I got caught up in it, too.
@@FatherX2022 FINALLY SOMEONE WHO KNOWS MY PAIN!!! YO YOU GAVE ME A FULL DOSE OF MOTIVATION!!! AND I APPRECIATE YOOOOOU!!
BTW, my situation goes beyond perjury.. when I found the malicious texts, I knew the DNA test was fake from the beginning because she admitted another guy was the father. Smh never knew the court would do such a thing.
When the judge tells you to shut up and be quiet you really don't have a choice this is how they treat you with no lawyer.
There were various people who lied in Court under Oath and I was able to prove that they were lying and still the decision of the Court went against me.
Spot on. Great video. I agree, the law needs to completely change!
liberty and justice only for those who can afford it
There is no justice in the UK either.
Prosecution is often instructed by and becomes e v i l
Take it to federal courts. Federal Court keeps the State in Check from corruption. All blue states and Texas(red) makes billions a year on destroying father's rights which is unconstitutional. State lawyers has an agreement with the State they're licensed to practice to support the law of that state.
Destroying Fathers rights? Really?
How to report perjury and multiple felonies by state workers? What federal departments and how?
The other problem is when the liar is the provider, so the court doesn't want to prosecute them, so they get away with it. Perjury should be a contempt? I cannot understand why it isn't? They should be held financially accountable. We need some kind of financial support system, low interest, for single parents who cannot afford it, where they can repay it, eventually, but have the opportunity to properly care for their children and afford legal support.
I'm convinced our judicial system was never designed to handle ANY of the laws that have been passed in the last 100 years.
EXACTLY !!!!
My Daughters Mother Put An Temporary Order Protection To Keep My Girls Away From Me. She Stated That She Noticed I've Been Stalking Her Since August 2021 But Issued The Order On October 2021 And Put My Girls Names On The Order. I Have My Daughters Almost Every Weekend. She Making Me Sound Like Ima Monster 😂🤦🏽 But The Only Reason She Got An TRO On Me Is Cause I Found Out That She Leaves My Daughters At Her House Alone And My Oldest Daughter Told Me That The Last Time I Picked Them Up From Their Bus Stop. Their Mother Said I Have No Rights To Ask My Daughters Who's Picking Them Up From The Bus Stop. Like Really, I Have No Rights To Know Who's Picking My Babies Up From The Bus Stop. That Is So Lame. If She Felt So Threatening By Me Since August, Then Why Would She Issue An TRO In October If She Felt I've Been Stalking Her Since August 2021. Why She Didn't Make A Police Report On It. She Issued The TRO On October 15 2021 And I Spoke To Her On October 16 When She And My Daughters We're Apple Picking. Then She Calls Me On The 18th Of October To Tell Me If I Can Pick Up My Daughters On Saturday Cause They Wanted To Attend To A Halloween Sleep Over Party At Their Cousin's House, That Friday And Then On The 28th Of October 2021 Boom I Was Slapped With A Temporarily Order Protection. I Was Like Wth Jus Happened Here.😩😂😂🤦🏽 Now I Can't See My Daughters Until Next Month.
When an unscrupulous client pays an unscrupulous lawyer, the lawyer guides his client , the lawyer lies to the police they know over time, the repetitive same lie, over & over again, is slander, the police goes with the lie. Bottom line for money you can target, victimize an innocent person, this is wrong the liar should be held accountable monetarily to whom ever is financially damaged, to make it stop. if it happened to you personally you would stop it. Some how the lawyers, judges, police all never get hurt when this happens, only the innocent. That's why it goes on the court and's it's unscrupulous players benefit.
Theirs no "technically" it's a crime... Perjury is a fucking crime. Period.
I do appreciate though, that you are thinking about this issue, it's so important, honestly. Thanks. And thanks for the video.
You mean the famous BOGUS ORDER OF PROTECTION???
OH YEA! " THE SILVER BULLET DEFENSE!"
My experience in family court was her attorney would lie, and the Judge would lie and make up findings with out any proof or conclusions from whole cloth. ( I was never accused of it. So there is no defense in the record.) And the reports of proceedings are false and fabricated. Omitting anything favorable to my side, Testimony from Me, her, the expert, Lost evidence, lost TAX RETURNS,
We objected to that, Our objections and reasons and arguments about objections are gone from the record.(If you didn't object in the trail court then the error is NOT PRESERVED FOR APPELLATE REVIEW.)
My wife ambush divorced me, where an order of protection is filed first.
Ambushed:
She and I had been exchanging loving texts.
Her sister doesn't like me.
My wife went to visit her sister and they wrote the OP.
At the hearing, I presented my texts showing love and friendship
My wife presented a text showing I called her a bitch and asshole the night before she filed, thus "pusing her over the edge" in the court's eyes.
When my wife's attorney displayed her fabricated texts, I said "no, I did not send those."
The judge (a female) said, "I don't believe you." and ejected me for 1 year.
My questions:
1. If exhibits/evidence are beyond even words because they're hard copies that can be reviewed, how come the judge didn't say "wait a minute, how can these texts contradict each other?"
2. It has been 8 months. What are the exact words/tone I can use in my petition to terminate the order of protection?
It depends on how your state or court handles these matters. From my experience, if she filed an order of protection, there needs to be a full-fact hearing on that matter. it's a civil matter...not criminal. (criminal matter can be separate, if there is one.) she gets a temporary order. at trial, she has to prove your bad behavior that she stated in the petition. you have to prove her allegations are false. you each have to bring testimony, witnesses, and/or evidence. at the end of that trial, the judge will decide if she proved her case. if she did, then she gets an final order of protection, where the temporary order gets extended to 2-4 years. more importantly, if they find you guilty, then they use that in the custody case to minimize time with your kids, or to give her primary custody. so try to prove you are innocent, "beyond a reasonable doubt". it's a civil matter, so the standard is "by the preponderance of the evidence". But we know court is biased against dads...so it's best to assume the judge will do as much as possible to rubberstamp the mother. thus, you have to block the judge from doing that by proving beyond a reasonable doubt.
@@FatherX2022
It's too late. I got ejected for 1 year.
My question is:
She and her lawyer presented fabricated texts.
My former lawyer and I could prove that her lawyer committed an ethics violation by not bringing that to the attention of the court.
So, what's next?
Thoughts off the top of my head...hope this helps...without knowing details of your state law. I personally know how hard it is when a judge only believes her statements and ignores yours. You have to move mountains to be considered equal.
1st, maybe you can file a petition for contempt of court showing she lied about the false texts. In that petition, you include screenshots of your phone that do not have the texts. She will say that you deleted the texts. So as part of your petition, you will demand that she demonstrate her phone showing the texts in it, instead of producing something she printed out and could have changed the words. Don't portray the judge as an idiot for believing the mother. Instead, show the judge was deceived by the mother...contempt of court.
2nd, is there a forensic evaluator or a guardian ad litem on the case? Maybe this person can look at your phone and her phone separately to see if the text messages are actually on her phone. And they can report to the judge. I don't think judges look at actual phones...that would be too easy. And these people might see that your alleged texts are illogical based on the flow of conversation that day.
3rd, do you still have a custody trial pending? Bigger picture, in that trial, as part of your direct testimony, you can testify about how she lied regarding the false texts, and bring screenshots of your phone. Use that in your custody case as evidence that she is willing to make false allegations to alienate the child from you. That's one of several reasons a parent can be given primary custody. Also, in the custody trial can you subpoena her phone records...to make her produce screenshots of her text messages instead of written text?
4th, is there a way to appeal this order of protection decision by the judge?
5th, pursuing an ethics violation against her lawyer is a battle in a different arena. You may not want to waste your time because you have to devote your energy to your core custody case. And, yes, that is unfortunate and let's lawyers commit perjury without repercussion.
All said and done at the end of the day it starts in family court and lawyers are the first one to protect the mother
Excellent explanation in simple words ,
I’m in Florida and I have family and civil cases I think I do Subpoena for hearing
How about a new law to address perjury in family law? Penal code, evidentiary sanction, monetary sanctions?
I can’t recall if I addressed it in this video, but I would like to see perjury prosecutable as a misdemeanor by a party to the family law case, similar to how contempt of court may be prosecuted by parties to the action, but with “loser pays” court costs.
How about strike off the dishonest lawyers?
That would work...
Fines wouldn't deter them as they have as much money as the d lets them have
@@julietcrowson3503 lawyers don’t testify.
Honesty is the best policy.
Not when it comes to the mother courts say they do no wrong
I take it an individual party can file a motion for an order to show cause why a party or witness should not be held in contempt for perjury?
Correct.
When I got divorced in Southern California the first thing I noticed was everybody was just interested in how deep the financial well was that they could drain and my attorney told me about 5 years in that whoever is the best liar wins after that I ended up winning
I don’t think the consequences should be loss of time with the child, surely that’s against their human right for both the child and the parent.
Any time the perjury in family courts rises to the level of a false petition for a DVPO or false allegations resulting in the restriction of a parents time with their children it should be prosecuted 100% of the time. First you are essentially stripping that persons constitutional freedoms such as second amendment etc with the DVPO second false allegations to ensure you win custody is child abuse and should be treated as such. just my two cents
My son's Ex wife denied him his court ordered visitation for 2 and a half years. That is contempt of court and was once punishable by jail time. He took her to court to get his visitation back and the Judge asked HER what she wanted! Supervised visitation was what she asked for and she got it for about a year and a half. Contempt of court obviously isn't bad anymore. He finally is able to have their weekends at his place, and I've never seen a happier child! She had been wanting to stay with him in her own bedroom the whole time, and now she can.
When weighing in on family law and "interests of the child," custody award would be justified on the lesser of two evils, wouldnt it? Such as perjury against motive or the correct organization of facts and to illicit a confession, knowingly! Eg. A child can't lie about what he doesn't know. A child can lie about having been abused in fear of worse abuse. A parent can lie to fabricate facts to satisfy a motive ... Head shoulders knees and toes could be altered to something else to fool others into believing facts are not the facts. Those who are easily fooled are either naïve and innocent, or have pains of denial for which the truth should be sought to avoid what is universally agreed upon, which in merit could be the alleviation of suffering for all parties.
I am the Grandparent and my wife and I raised our Granddaughter from birth up until 17 months old when my Son's ex broke up with him and moved into his best friend's house and broke all contact with us. We hired an attorney for a visitation hearing that got moved to her county and in the midst, she filed for a protection order on him. Showing her auto accidents photos as abuse. He got served 2 days prior to the hearing. Our attorneys said they do not do those types of cases, so my Son went solo to have a reset. denied! A final protection order was placed under multiple false allegations, that we have proof of. My Son also asked for an attorney, and the judge denied it as well. The judge asked my Son's ex what she wanted to be done and her response was Life in prison. Really? She had no police reports and no hospital visits because he did not abuse her or his Daughter as she claimed, We have paid our attorney 9,000 and they withdrew after a protection order was placed. The judge put twenty years on the protection order,. Now we're broke and trying to figure this all out. It has been almost 8 months since the last time we saw her. My wife cries every day! My Son is falling into a deep depression and we do not know what to do next. This does not sound right! Something has got to change. Can we go to the county clerk's office where this protection order was placed and show the evidence that we have, proving she has committed perjury?
Evidence matters!
I was married for 18 years and I was a full time stay at home mom to our 3 children. I sometimes homeschooled them. My soon to be ex-husband had threatened to take our children finances and shelter away and leave me homeless if I divorced him since 2007.
During the divorce process, he falsely accused me of domestic violence. He was granted 3 years of sole custody with ever presenting any evidence. I had evidence to prove that he had had made this threat and had been the abuser. But never have been able to present my evidence.
Please do your self a favor and file contempt for the threatening abuse towards you
@Mercedes I’m so sorry you are going through this. I am here learning about the legal process. And the little I’ve learned so far, in 2 weeks, is that it has NOT to do with truth and justice.
It has to do with DRAMA, WINNING CASE, STRATEGY. If, IF, we are fortunate, blessed, and by the hand of almighty God, end up in the hands of a lawyer who can get ahead of us, because they can see that we know absolutely nothing! Again, by God’s Grace, we may get some results. I am here to learn. I chose to learn by looking up on TH-cam legal issues.
I’ve been down this route researching, with the medical field. TH-cam is truly a wealth of information. Keep the faith. Stay the course. Blessings.
Family law is such an inexcusable farce,
I am so sorry and angry this happened to you as happened to me. My children were a little luckier temporarily, but it is all going down the tube again. The family law system is corrupt and has nothing to do with caring about children and honesty.
This is h happening to me right now. Two months post separation and he was so mad he had to exact revenge for me finding my self worth and value after 16 years and currently 4 small children. The kids and I left him one morning back in September after he cut the timing belt in our car. Well on our way back to the main city two hours drive he filed OFP against me claiming I abused him and the kids. Mind you the kids and I was living with my parents happy about a month later after he got clean as much as he could then he came with his OFP and yanked them from under me. I haven't talked or seen the kids since Oct 17th 😔 never got due process and I have years of evidence, they wouldn't let our oldest speak she 11 knows everything. 2 year temp order to the wolf.
I'm still fighting a case since November 17th of 2019 of false allegations for child abuse I have the police reports the CSI reports and pictures of that night that say that I did not do this.. and yet Family Court still will not give me custody or visitation to my son! This Justin system in California sucks and I no longer believe and right is right and wrong is wrong! My ex-wife knows I would never do this and the courts believe her lies even when their own and the proof is sitting in front of their face!!
Lawyers lie - their prosecution case is not presented under oath - at least that's the situation in the UK.
I'm Going through the same thing!! Thanks for the heads up!!
The lies my ex told in Family Law have led to the violation of my civil rights and HIPAA rights, as well as keep my children in the company of a family member who is most likely molesting them. This Perjury is NOT less than gang Perjury because Kids and Myself have been harmed over it! It's insane. His lies were not small or harmless.
Moral, stay out of family court
Thank you for making this video! It was quite eye-opening but understandable once you explained it. I agree that there should be a punishment that fits the crime indeed!
I do intend to expose the lies or half truths in both himself and his witness.
I’m about to represent myself in family court along with my ex-husband who is also representing himself. I have heard him lie several times in previous hearings, but never knew him to be a liar while we were married. I’ve been assuming that maybe he’s going senile, but maybe he’s just lying and doesn’t respect the court. I’m not naïve. We didn’t divorce over lying, and he was always very forthright with me.
Does it matter how big or small they perjured themselves? I have proof with their declaration and declarations from police officers as to why he was DUI . He lied to get the courts symphony
My wife ambushed me with an order of protection, she was at her sisters when she filed. The police came to home and removed me.
I submitted evidence showing friendly texts leading up to the date of the OP. My wife and her lawyer had my exhibit well before the hearing.
At the hearing held via zoom so not in person, her lawyer held up a printout of texts showing I called her a bitch and an asshole.
I said I did not send those texts, but the judge said "I don't believe you" and removed me from my home for 1 year.
For 3-4 months, her lawyer ignored my requests for a printout of the texts.
What happens when both the plaintiff and her lawyer know the printout of my texts was fabricated?
kia828... you replied but then deleted your comment.
Could you please repost? It looks like you had something to help me.
What happen when respondent party don’t answer nor reply with discovery and judge dismiss case
There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”.
We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected and "Marriage makes people treat each other as articles of property and no longer as free human beings. Einstein".
We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven.
Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need.
A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”.
If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational.
Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it.
Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court.
Buckminster Fuller said:-
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”.
To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.
You lawyer make sure the father is found guilty you let the other side and the judge words it so he would be found guilty the biggest on is child support Fraud all the way
My daughter mom skipped town on a active court order in Nebraska to Denver with out permission from the courts or giving me notice having 50/50 leagal custody. After 4 months the mother was found and served we had court on august 3rd she was found in contempt and has a hearing on august 22nd sentencing purge hearing. Now she trying to file contempt on miscalculated child support which I filed a modification but the judge hasn’t reviewed yet before her sentencing purge hearing.
How can I get physical custody of my daughter so she stays here in Nebraska where the order was made ?
Here in Ireland our family court sittings are held 'in camera'
This is custom made for perjury
How long can I speak when presenting my case at a case conference?
A falsied order of protection was put on me 3 years ago restricting my rights immensely to my young child (just turned 3yrs old at that time) and whom I was the primary care giver of..I was working from home to raise him. My husband committed 8 counts of perjury on the stand that I was able to prove thru cross examination and documented proof (Im unable to afford an attorney so I'm having to represent myself) the Judge completely ignored the perjury I had exposed and ruled in favor of the plenary OP. The cost of the transcripts of the hearing are $1160.00 which I cant afford and the judge refuses to release them free of charge even though I have been recognized and approved as an indigent litigant by the same court. I'm just so sick and emotionally traumatized over the unlawful acts that our family court systems are allowed to do our children by doing this to innocent parents. It's pure never ending Hell. 😥
I don’t think the DA prosecutes I’m Family court? Don’t they work in criminal court? How does a family case get sent to criminal court? The judge?
I'm confused prosecuting the other party for contempt? How do you go about this in your own?
My ex would file erroneous orders of protection against me (all would be thrown out). At one point, 02/18/2011, to be exact, he was in a deposition where the GAL asked him WHY he files erroneous claims against me. My ex answered (and I quote the deposition): "Because I can. Because the St. Louis County Family Court system is inherently dysfunctional."
Later, when I would bring this to a judge's attention - NONE of them cared. However, one particular judge did ask my ex if he, indeed, said that (never mind the fact I was holding a copy of the deposition and there were literally zero reasons to ask my ex anything...gotta love misogyny...) Anywho, my ex answered, "Yes, your honor, I did make that statement and it stands true to this very day." Guess what...the judge just kind of chuckled, the GAL (a different one than the one in the depo), looked at me and screamed, "I THINK WE ALL KNOW WHY YOUR DAUGHTERS HAVE MADE THOSE ACCUSATIONS [sex abuse] ABOUT THEIR FATHER, AND THAT'S BECAUSE YOU PUT THOSE THOUGHTS IN THEIR HEADS!" (which was a TOTAL LIE...and the lovely "system" would later learn that my daughters were telling the truth the entire time - and that I had never, ever, not ONE TIME, suggested that they ever tell anyone anything that wasn't true.)
That same day, the judge gave my ex "interim custody" and my ex placed our daughters in foster care the following day as "punishment" for talking. It would take me nearly 18 months to get them out. To this very day, my children and I continue to pay the price for the abuse we experienced at the hands of their father AND at the hands of the judicial system. I HAVE ZERO RESPECT for family law. As a matter of fact, anytime I think about 'family law', all I feel is total RAGE.
They put the kids in the hands of the abuser
@DavesQualityAutoService they always do. SMH 😒
When I was a kid in the 70's I lived in little Italy in New Yor City, when it was still a working class Italian neighborhood. There was an Italian youth gang called, The Our Lady of Pompei Kids. The leader of the gang shot another member of the gang. The leader immediately pointed to another guy and said, "He shot him!". Everyone in the gang dutifully said that the fall guy had shot the kid. Even the fall guy kid said that he shot the dead boy. He ended up going to jail for 7 years or so.
Maybe thats why everyone lies cause they know they will not be punished. Maybe if they enforced the law people would stop lying in court
Atty. Mayer How Can I file to charge my ex husband for perjury? He lied under oath in the courtroom. He presented an evidence(copy of his dentist copays that he just printed from online) that he claimed that he paid, this has affected date of the start of my child support to him. I found out from the dentist that there is 2 insurance in their record instead of 1 that he claimed. He also made up an amount of his income without showing any paystub, and unfortunately the judge believed him and got the full physical custody of our child. How can I have his work paystub subpoena so I can also present that to the court to show how big of a liar he is. Court is in Hawaii
I have a situation that's happened to me I need to know if and what are the chances of charges being brought against my ex 3 years ago we had a bad break up she told me I'd never see the child we were having in text I messaged her lots begging her to allow me to be involved no threats were made I still have all the emails I sent to her she got me in trouble for harrasment under oath on a signed statement the court used she said to the court I was very controlling however I was never violent toward her I got a three year restraining order to stop me asking her to let me be involved It ran out on the 3/3/20 on the 11/03 I sent a message asking to see my child or what her date of birth is etc today I got an email saying she been granted another year on an emergency restraining order because she is feared about what I may do to her but in this statement that's signed it says that throughout our relationship I was physically abusive to her and hit her on numerous occasions and as a result of this the order was granted what can I do about it this is perjury is it not
I have a case this week in which my ex and her current husband are lying through their teeth in the papers submitted to court under oath. I have several witnesses as to what actually happened ....hope there is enough evidence and witnesses to help me.
What happened in your case?
@@talycorral1867 ended up settling ...she accomplished nothing and cost us both thousands in court costs
So you won? And they charge you guys for court?
@@talycorral1867 didnt really win...not much changed at all...the lawyers did...about 8k
My tanant put a TRO because she wanted to get me out within days from my studio. She made false statements serious threats supposed i did to her. We have court soon. But she has no proof at all i have proof that most of everything shes stating is false
Can you sue the other party in a civil trial for lieing and always getting away with there lies. If they would have been truthful, the outcome would have been different.
Family law is important to know. Especially with children. It takes two to make one. It is a team effort to make an infant human baby the most innocent form of Human life. It takes two to make one.
But sometimes one raising two is better when you find out your partner is sadistic and unable to love or care about anyone but themselves. There are a lot of predators in family court positions who support predator parents like them. They all like the power to harm and the money.
@@b.boston8529 and the courts often times shield the criminal while innocent suffer.I quit believing in Justice for all a long time ago . sad really when so many no longer believe in Justice. It is only for those with deep pockets in most cases.
Hi. I have endless proof of perjury against my ex in court transcripts. What do I file to get him criminally convicted?
Perjury is prosecuted at the sole discretion of the District Attorney’s office (or state equivalent, or by Attorney General’s office if the perjury occurred in federal courts.). There is nothing to file in court. If you believe perjury has been committed, generally, the place to start is by asking your local law enforcement agency to take a report.
What if some one brought pucture from they car accidents and use them in a criminal case 4 years later and added them to the case and the judge accepted them when the injury was different from the discovery to the one's they submitted at trial and you got proof of the accidents
Hello I have a question what if the other side is lying false reports and you have proof but no one is listening
My child's father lied to get custody, the court allowed it and illegally refused my evidence to back facts. Ive been trying to get my child back for 7yrs now. I don't wish this pain on anyone
Husband after 16 years and 4 small children did this to me after in Sept we left him he got me back with fake OFP
So I can't do anything about the perjury
Criminal court treats people alot better and with more respect
Man no lie SMH
Today was my hearing court and guys you don't know how much my wife tried to fck me up. She file a false dv against me and thanks god the judge has plead me no guilty. It was the best day in my life 😍
How or what did you do to prove innocence?
How about if it is not a family member, but one that were told to be a witness? (neighbours, family doctor, church member, co-worker)
Putting someone in serious danger.
1:23 just like some folks do to protect companies. 2:40 cant lie when the charges are filed.
I live in Virginia and I need major help with a situation
What happened’s if the husband lies in custody and in divorce and gets granted full physical and sole custody as well as all marital assets?
It's incredibly unfair and happens all the time. The system is designed by attorneys to function that way. It would have been better for me to be able to seek out some wild west justice and makes me wish the courts and administrators/legislators weren't putting such a strangle hold on civilization. I hope it ends badly. I am truly sorry if this happened to you.
Yes unfortunately this did happen to me and now Iam hoping the courts will see things threw my eyes since he has lied by saying that is has no knowledge of my wear abouts and can not have me served so I have had no knowledge that any of this was happening and yet he brings out children to my house every other weekend for the last two years. So that was an out right lie to the court.
@@crystalpoole3436 Do you have any dated pictures or video to prove it? Even of outings while you had them? Email or text contact with him or them?
Would if CPS mailed you a document that stated that I was found guilty of neglect? Based upon hear say? I appealed and now CPS filed protective order? Am I able to still file a motion order to show cause?
You can appeal? Can i get your help?
I am so sorry. I hope things are going better for you now.
Look up Your states HHS office under fair hearings & appeals..of course you can appeal! We have rights!!!!! Take care, I'll help with what I can! Learn your laws! Hire a attorney! Fight for your rights!!! God Bless🥰@@talycorral1867
You are a true blessing from the universe ❤️ thank you so much ❤️❤️
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Hi Mr. Brian, thank you for your educational videos. I have a question, I have been custodian parent for 7 years. I have the kids . The other parent refused for the weekend. Keeps changing the visition. Asked to see kids once a month for 2 hours. Or sometime only phone call. Kids don't know the other parent because she has 0 involved with them for 7 years.kids don't don't want to go , I have been forcing them to go.n they started to get upset. So in the future, the other parent might ask to have them in the summer. They never been there it's been 5 years. Will the judge ask me, if it's ok with me to send them with her? If I get asked, can I say no I don't want them to go. My kids are 11 n 9 year old. What is my right as a custodian parent. They been with me 7 days a week for seven years. She refused for weekend.
As you, Mr. Bryan saying, the family court holds too much allegations to handle therefore they don't have enough investigating to each case, then the results still there are not few but currently petitioner or defendant tells lie under the perjury...
For instance, I work at a bakery, we bake cakes, and too many customer order our cakes and ask more cakes. Ok, there are capacity to offer cakes, in the mean time, there are too many customers who want the cakes, we make cake with paper thin sponge with almost no color of cream but greasy for its existence, and say here you go, it's 22 dollars. If you want candles, 10 cents each.
We have, as a honestly running local business, a perspective that if we reached our capacity, we put sign "we are booked for cakes today" so that we can provide fair products for every customers now and future. Local business depends on keep in trust between closely to customers. That is the difference. The court doesn't have a mean of "trust".
Thank you, Mr Brian, I accidentally watched your youtube, this is good place to doubt about the necessity of this court itself, and gives me good inspirational aspect that we can change until we keep pointing out this court's grey system.
I am in the middle of a child support case. My ex is claiming his overtime is voluntary and it is not. He works at UPS as a tractor trailer driver/feeder driver. Anything over 8 hrs with ups is overtime and his shift is never just an 8 hour shift. How do I get proof of this!!
You said “report this to law enforcement “ which department should I contact? Sheriffs department?
My father lied on ex parte..and at the hearings... Blatant..not my word against his..this did happen also..but my father lies were self contradictory...he answered same question at 3 different hearings and gave 3 different answers...and done the same thing with 2 questions asked at 3 different hearings and gave 3 different answers...i was not served a notice of hearing for the hearing following the ex parte.. I had no lawyer bc i couldnt afford one..and i didnt know how to cross examine him or how to go about bringing it to judges attention during hearing..but i appealed and have the transcripts and the self contradictory statements used to get the ex parte order and to keep the order active while waiting for permanent hearing... What can i do...
Great information Brian; thank You for giving of your time and expertise here!
Lies? You mean the Judge, DA, AdLitem, CPS, and even the defense attorney that treats you like the prosecutor?
"It's not the same thing." So when a parent chooses to lie to such a degree that they are able to keep one a parent from their children, and that child grows up to become that gang member, only then does it matter? Ok.
i wish that the law will be respected in PR about this matter, i am now living a life of sadness due to this not being address, and now since Feb 10 2018 i dont see my daughter and dont even know where she lives or her status.
It is all about control to them Jose. Most men know this. Yet the ones that have not gone through our situation are ignorant and think it will not happen to them. Then fall into the same trap. Women forget. Without us there is no kids. That is a power we need to use. The problem is to many men think about the 5 second orgasm and do not realize the life long consequences. I love being a dad more than anything. But she hates I am the child's father. Men could change this in a heart beat but want that sex like idiots. I have an order to see my son yet mom does not let me see him. I tried to hold her in contempt but her lawyer asked me to dismiss my motions if we came up with a new agreement. This was nothing more then a trick to keep her games up. You can help to stop this by educating men about your situation. Same thing happens to innocent men where women falsely accuse men of rape.
@@MP-in4or good chat brother... but may the LORD do justice soon to all, and never forget, they get back what they did, no where to run from that.. for sure i will not play the court, lawyer, or women game! my daughter will grow up and ask and i will have enough time to explain and show her evidence of which i keep very up to date... with the court i am just hoping nothing happens to her cuz this is all there fault and it will be shown there guilt, and that is another story if we put this on the table cuz it will be a boom for sure, i just wait and enjoy my path here on earth.
@@MP-in4or so if the lawyer asks you to dismiss your motion. Do not waiver is what your saying? Push for the contempt?? Could you further elaborate.
If you haven't seen your son, consult a licensed attorney. There is something you can do. You have a right to know where your kid is.
The injustice system is a joke. My family is dealing with a degenerate roommate right now. Who knew how much rights squatters had