Don’t Talk to CPS!

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  • Subscribe! The Helpful Family Law Attorney: Southern California Attorney Brian Thomas Mayer explains the single greatest mistake that people make when CPS comes to their door and how people can avoid being swept up in a CPS investigation. mayerlegal.com...

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  • @carolinecutler9080
    @carolinecutler9080 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    If CPS comes to your door say nothing. If they ask to come inside your home or/and asks to speak to your child/children tell CPS to get a warrant. Know your rights because CPS could care less about you or your children’s rights.

    • @suejohnson9645
      @suejohnson9645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      can they get a warrant?

    • @brownsuga487
      @brownsuga487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      No just don't answer the door to them.simple as

    • @robandjesshackney8546
      @robandjesshackney8546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Never let them in. Warrant is the only reason to enter.

    • @robandjesshackney8546
      @robandjesshackney8546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@suejohnson9645 yes they can and they can be dirty and secretive about it. The key is to start out by not allowing them to gather any info (not letting them inside and allowing no interviews. They will go away often if you show them the kids are unharmed but they will manipulate children to their advantage) . They will play their cards roughly. It's almost as if they are kid head hunters.

    • @Lostinspacepup
      @Lostinspacepup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      RULE #1) NEVER OPEN THE DOOR TO ANYONE WHO YOU DO NOT KNOW. PERIOD. CPS WILL LEAVE A CARD AT YOUR DOOR NOW YOULL KNOW WHO THEY LOOK LIKE TO SPOT/AVOID THEM IN FUTURE (45DAYS TILL CLOSED) & ANYONE ELSE WONT MATTER AS YOU DONT KNOW THEM.

  • @mrsglitter8373
    @mrsglitter8373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    My 10 year old son was ruined mentally by cps and my problem at the time was that I did not know my right and I allowed them to come in my home and they took my child from me....... If I would have knew my rights at the time it would have never happened and my son would still be the normal little boy that he used to be...... Please everybody TAKE THIS VERY SERIOUSLY!!!!

    • @sharonlear2097
      @sharonlear2097 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's fucking terrible!! So sad and tragic the damage these dinks do!!!! Shameful!!!!

  • @briaginter4837
    @briaginter4837 4 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    The sad thing is the people CPS targets usually can’t afford a lawyer

    • @jacquelinestar9124
      @jacquelinestar9124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bria Ginter - is that what you believe ? CPS targets ???

    • @danabarfield6902
      @danabarfield6902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Bria Ginter, that is exactly why they do that. It's because they can't afford a lawyer and most don't know their rights. Cps knows this, and so they play on that. Dirty m'fkr's for sure!

    • @jacquelinestar9124
      @jacquelinestar9124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Dana Barfield Interesting point of view. However , you do realize during a court hearing a guardian at litem is appointed to represent the children's best interests. I have actually seen the G.AL go after CPS if they felt an investigation was not valid, along with the states attorney and the judge. It sounds like you had a bad experience.

    • @Lostinspacepup
      @Lostinspacepup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@jacquelinestar9124 ive heard stories like that aswell although the percentage of stories where they all worked together to secure that federal funding far outweighs it to the point of being obscene. There are very few good ppl trying to help & keep innocent families together but they are very few and far between.

    • @CarolDudeck-bl7kz
      @CarolDudeck-bl7kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ME and the useless Legal Aid does nothing in Canada!😡🇨🇦

  • @loriannmurphy4694
    @loriannmurphy4694 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    And I know so many of these parents are young and really don't know their rights! They are scared and usually alone at the time of CPS' initial visit. I'm so glad you made this and I will gladly share because I, for one, am tired of the CPS bullying. That's exactly what they do, they bully people into cooperating with them. I'm going through this with my daughter & grandsons right now, and it's heartbreaking, it's frustrating, and it's wrong.

  • @Lucasntanti
    @Lucasntanti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Thank you for sharing your legal knowledge with the public regarding CPS. I’ve seen families shredded by these people. 😢

    • @puppersissage8640
      @puppersissage8640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How do I get cps to take me away they forced me to stay at home I’m scared 😭

    • @violah
      @violah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They evil 😭

    • @laurap3823
      @laurap3823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@puppersissage8640 call them! Google the number for your county. Or call 211 and they will direct you. Good luck sweetheart...

    • @martindebrois1472
      @martindebrois1472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Completely true.
      - It is still (in about every state) too easy for some mouthy person to use the system, to hurt somebody (People who are parents). - It's called "malicious reporting".

    • @troycullen7087
      @troycullen7087 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Help Brian or Vince IDC my life's on the line and I got 0 support forceing a child now on me isnt good

  • @storiesrus.5114
    @storiesrus.5114 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I genuinely hate CPS and the worst part is people blame you as if you're a horrible parent when they keep your child from you and make lies. These folks keep drinking the Kool aid about CPS.

    • @vicki3671
      @vicki3671 ปีที่แล้ว

      Until one day they get slapped across the face with it themselves!!

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right

    • @LisaGWoods
      @LisaGWoods 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Otherwise known as Clinton's law. Passed a law to terminate parental rights sooner. Gives CPS, as of 2006, $4,000 a month per child placed in foster care, extra $2000 for special needs kids. Adoptive parents get up to $1200 /month per child. It's a racket and it's evil! Google it. Pops right up.

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, I have seen that before. People just assume that the parent must have been horrible. Until it happens to them 😅 Anyway, I hope this didn't happen to you. I am so, so sorry if it did. Parents rights are easily violated if there's an incompetent worker.

  • @yourmastanalahqueen
    @yourmastanalahqueen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Best thing to do is not talk to cps,trust no neighbor or family member,plus any kids in the school system,doctors or dentist will report you on any claus,keep your children as private as you can.Period!

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know. And, some people don't understand that mandatory reporting is only mandatory for certain people, and, that it's supposed to be for protecting children who actually do show signs of abuse. It's been misconstrued by people who don't understand the difference between actual abuse and normal stuff.

    • @kelliephilipoom6198
      @kelliephilipoom6198 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so correct 💯 my daughter has autism level 3 doctors keep reporting me and I'm doing everything possible to her but the school keep reporting me to but they can't get any evidence against me they threatened me to sign a parental agreement I said no so there still breathing down my back

    • @everythingbeautyboutique5002
      @everythingbeautyboutique5002 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree

    • @thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950
      @thatcreepyxmastreeinyourat8950 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      This

  • @erincarranza3886
    @erincarranza3886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    i wish everyone one knew this. I am a cps family reunification coach and motivational speak, i was also a victim. Thank you for sharing

    • @MegaBrandon3
      @MegaBrandon3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well guess I just lost my son then.I did not k ow this.

    • @tonygatto48
      @tonygatto48 ปีที่แล้ว

      How to get a hold or you?

    • @neekneekwooten8911
      @neekneekwooten8911 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm about to sue these ppl.

  • @airfishboy5386
    @airfishboy5386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    42 dislikes must have been social workers…….

    • @Godsgift139
      @Godsgift139 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Lmao they are creepy people

    • @rossdavidson6387
      @rossdavidson6387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cps child traffickers

    • @eduncdam
      @eduncdam 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A few are good, but most of them are lying pieces of sh*t

    • @kennywilliams4273
      @kennywilliams4273 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      More traffic boost algorithm lol they helping, thanks

    • @patrickzavas
      @patrickzavas 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They need to bring back the dislike counter

  • @SpiritArtLife
    @SpiritArtLife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I didn't know this and I let them in. I got lucky with one of the few kind workers who actually believed me about the situation. Plus my grandma was at my house when the worker showed up. The girl who called in and lied didn't win. My kids were left alone.
    I can say that I have never felt so powerless as when we were investigated. My children are my everything and we have never hurt our children.

  • @kentrobinson7479
    @kentrobinson7479 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    *CPS EMPLOYEES RARELY HAVE CHILDREN OF THEIR OWN*

    • @Jammbrrr
      @Jammbrrr ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg you're soooo RIGHT

  • @Timeshifter32
    @Timeshifter32 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Thank you so much Brian, there needs to be more guys like you out there educating people so good familys dont get torn apart.

  • @sunshinelawfan7693
    @sunshinelawfan7693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Ignore this excellent advice at your peril.
    Don't talk. Record everything. Get a lawyer no matter what the sacrifice.
    Your kids' are at stake. Also your reputation and, possibly your livelihood.
    Mum.

    • @suejohnson9645
      @suejohnson9645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      but wat happens wen u dont have money for a lawyer some ppl just dont have that kind of money i live in a hud home and just got a apt for the 1st time in a long time. i just had a baby and i am not even working st the moment

    • @sunshinelawfan7693
      @sunshinelawfan7693 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@suejohnson9645 - contact Legal Aid and/or your local bar association regarding pro bono help (free.)
      Get real - these people can walk out the door with your kid(s) before a judge has even heard a word.
      CPS has plenty of lawyers. Face them alone and kiss your family bye-bye.

    • @MisterMikeTexas
      @MisterMikeTexas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Or withdraw cash, take vacay or PTO, and get yourself and the kids on the road! Flee your state, and get as far away as you can, and avoid using a credit card! Turn off GPS on your car and phone!

    • @frankieciscotrevino6531
      @frankieciscotrevino6531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      CPS says it is illegal to record them?

    • @vvskiitlesvv
      @vvskiitlesvv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@frankieciscotrevino6531 look up the laws. In pa on your property all you have to do is notify the person (hang a sign) that they are being recorded. It’s to bad if they don’t want to be, they are on your property

  • @caterosf
    @caterosf 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    This is crazy. Even until the moment he started giving examples about how the information can be manipulated I was still thinking "I would let them in, I have nothing they can hold against me". And then he blew my mind!

    • @JessicaJasinski
      @JessicaJasinski 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      It doesn't matter how perfect your home looks, how well groomed the kids are, doesn't matter at all. I have noticed the younger your kids are, the harder CPS will come after you. CPS is known to lie and falsify reports. My friend is going through it. She was about to get them back, they started sleep over visits and was working on the reunification process. As soon as my friend argued with that worker, she took visits away and won't give them back. Now her mother has guardianship and is getting paid to take care of her kids. Its a really fucked up situation. You can mouth off to the worker and she can literly write whatever she wants and take your kids forever. These pricks will take your kid if u don't have milk in the fridge. I seen it happen. Its awful. And that family was lactose intolerant. The kids that need to be removed aren't

    • @niyablake
      @niyablake 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Treat them like the cops. They don't come in without a warrant. Get a lawyer

    • @ScopeNothing
      @ScopeNothing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JessicaJasinski my father is in the same boat, my brother was just given away to a women who birthed my brother while she was on drugs, the cps even gave my brother away behind my dad's back.
      Edit: my father broke up with the woman when she was pregnant, then after my father broke up with the woman, thats when the woman started to do drugs.

    • @keondixon1885
      @keondixon1885 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JessicaJasinski she will pay for that karma will eat her alive

    • @susanholland8880
      @susanholland8880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Make sure they have identification could be anyone trying to take your kid.

  • @ag-dn1vl
    @ag-dn1vl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    perspective from a child, i went to the doctor 1 month ago for leg pain, keep in mind i talk with a stutter when i meet new people. my doctor thought i was being too timid and pulled me out of the room, saying he was going to get an xray. the conversation follows
    D.O: “Has anyone been hurting you?”
    Me: “N-No?”
    D.O: “Is talking with a stutter normal for you?”
    Me: “Y-Yes, I’ve been doing this since I started school for the first time.”
    D.O: “Is he your dad?”
    Me: “No?”
    D.O: “He isn’t your dad?”
    Me: “Sorry, sorry, I misheard you. He is.”
    next thing i know he’s talking with my mom, asking her basic questions, then all of a sudden asks “Is your child special needs?” my mom says no, he asks what grades i get, my mom said all a’s and b’s, like the average child. then he mentioned that im 4 pounds underweight. i literally get no exercise, if i eat 3 meals every day i’m going to get obese. so i eat 1 meal with lots of protein so i dont get hungry.
    to cut to the point, doctor was being a jerk the whole appointment. i’m told to be on crutches to stop any potential damage, then he fucking asks me “do you know what a crutch is?” no, doctor, i don’t know what a crutch is despite being 14. of course i know what a fucking crutch is.
    so i’m in the car going home, i learn that my doctor called cps. i feel my heart drop in my chest. i immediately think “i’m never going to see my cat or dogs ever again. i’m going to have to meet new parents and adapt to a new house”
    i get home, go in my room and immediately start petting my dogs.
    pretty much all the important info that has happened so far. i am extremely nervous and have no idea when they’ll show up.
    also, please note that sometimes cps intervention is better for the child. not all the time, in my case it definitely isn’t needed and the doctor was being a huge jerk. if you’re smashing your beer bottles on your child’s arm, you should get your child taken away.

  • @klnisha
    @klnisha 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    This is such an important work that you are doing. I am personally aware of children that will "play the role" of an abused child to get back at their parents. I am starting a legal practice myself, and I plan to work in this area of law. Parents are under attack in America, and their children know it, and some kids are using that to their advantage (to get their way). If you ever need a good assistant, hmu! Best regards to you! Maybe we can partner up on this work in the future!

    • @Indigazure
      @Indigazure 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would like to have your advice

    • @patrickhouser6530
      @patrickhouser6530 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi klnisha Clark so my ex mother in law had an allegation placed against her,the CPS worker went to investigate her as well as my son and she wants to come see my home and interview my son again,what should I do

    • @klnisha
      @klnisha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@patrickhouser6530 sorry to hear. contact the attorney's office that created this video.

    • @CFaith23
      @CFaith23 ปีที่แล้ว

      What state ? Good for you because that legal help is so needed!

  • @kaylagibas4031
    @kaylagibas4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    He is absolutely correct. Especially for infants who cannot speak for themselves, they will twist things you say and make up lies on reports. Even if you are innocent, they will make you look guilty. Even the physical abuse doctors who work for them will use wording that makes a parents look abusive and negative and including making up things in a medical report. Any bruises, scratches, etc they will say it was done to the child by the parent or someone else which the parent didn’t keep child safe.

  • @JustMe-pl1tz
    @JustMe-pl1tz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    CPS ruins lives. They are trained to do things in a way that benefits their department and their job security.

  • @pablomarionette6160
    @pablomarionette6160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I just want to say that I'm currently going through the system because of my own past ignorant mistakes, and I have been forbidden from living in the same house as my 4 month old son since he was born.
    I wish my wife and I would have had some of this excellent advice beforehand. Thanks for your hard work!

    • @donnahood8803
      @donnahood8803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She was taken at 4 months and will be 4 years old in January

    • @ccpoundher5268
      @ccpoundher5268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@donnahood8803 I’m sorry

    • @peggypiercefield5188
      @peggypiercefield5188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I pray Jesus gives you comfort strength and that you get your son back in Jesus name!

    • @SpicyTakisss
      @SpicyTakisss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peggypiercefield5188 Amen! ❤

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@donnahood8803 I am confused. Are we talking about the same 4 month old?

  • @selfcare.1004
    @selfcare.1004 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Should I have been more educated and aware of this, I wouldn't be suffering right now,

    • @violah
      @violah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same:(

    • @izjones4152
      @izjones4152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same

    • @bobbi8743
      @bobbi8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too!! I will be praying for you guys I am so sorry your suffering!!! I have not gotten my kids taken away they did once but give to my mom, besides that we have been fighting for our lives for years they are so scary my kids and I are all traumatized by them if anything was abuse it was that it’s just crazy that they come in and say they’re trying to save your kids but they’re the ones that are causing all that trauma who knows what kind of effects it can have on them when they’re older plus 90 some percent of children are raped abused and even murdered in the care of CPS and foster parents there in more danger than they were at any home they took them from... i’ve done parenting classes I mean just so much like I was a kid and they were my parents that’s how it felt doing everything they said cause I didn’t want them to take my kids,, GOD BLESS you guys

    • @theyluv_dea
      @theyluv_dea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ahhh I’m so sorry..... I read this comment and my heart dropped :(

    • @theyluv_dea
      @theyluv_dea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bobbi8743 my sixteen month old baby got Bad separation anxiety, that eleven years later she carries to this day...... because CPS was “so called protecting her”. Lol what a freaking joke.....protecting her..... smh.... praying for you guys too.....

  • @kaylagibas4031
    @kaylagibas4031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I fell for this exact thing. I wish. I saw this before this happened to my family. It certainly put me into a world of heartbreak.

    • @peggypiercefield5188
      @peggypiercefield5188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I pray Jesus intervenes

    • @petrahenry9145
      @petrahenry9145 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did too I met them in b4 I new it I had court papers an yes my child is gone for good it's devastating wot they can do to ur life wen ur child is 18 can u make contact no they won.t allow that u won't c them again I no that from experience I hav asked they neva got bac to me

  • @leew159
    @leew159 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You've done humanity a service by putting this video out.

  • @GhettoRanger01
    @GhettoRanger01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This man is giving very good advice, if CPS comes a' knockin' just say "no thanks, I gave at the office" and shut the door in their face!

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Never open the door in the first place.

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dragonf1092 If you do open the door thinking it is a neighbor borrowing sugar, invoke your rights by saying telling them your lawyer will call them. If you just shut the door and fail to invoke your rights, they can use your lack of cooperation against you. The courts have ruled that the state has no way to know why you are being silent so you must invoke your rights. So either say you are invoking your right to remain silent or say you will have your attorney contact them.

  • @nadineperez2155
    @nadineperez2155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I wish I was aware of you...and if the whole DCFC corrupt system before they entered my and my girls lives in 2016. Three years later I got them back. Only because after closing my case, a new one was opened on the abusive father who THEY granted custody to. He lost them and I got them back. I went to school to obtain an AA in Paralegal studies. I hope to work for someone like yourself...or Vincent Davis....You are an angel doing work to help families in this broken system 🙏

  • @cityslickerchickens5835
    @cityslickerchickens5835 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    You are a hero, thank you for crusading for american rights. They are not our friends, they have grown into a corrupt entity. Never let them in your home, andnalqays record every encounter with them. Know your rights beforr dealing with them, they can take your kids over 3 dirty dishes in your sink. Don't talk to them.

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      trillzzz of skillzzz thank you so much. I’ll be posting other videos, so please help get the message out by “liking” this video and subscribing to the channel.

    • @gregloeber2289
      @gregloeber2289 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianmayer28 My wife and I are in it now, and for absolutely no legit reason. God bless you sir, I may end up selling 10-20 acres just for a good attorney, I wish I could hire you, Trillzzz is spot on, u r a hero, do u have other videos with advice on this matter

    • @Carmen-us1ew
      @Carmen-us1ew 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianmayer28 My sister had to call cps, to protect her grandaughter from her daughter (the child's mom). The child's mom is on meth. And no one could legally keep the child in a safe place otherwise.

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Carmen-us1ew I appreciate that information, but our rights are designed to protect the innocent. If the government can’t prove an accused’s guilt without their cooperation, the persuasiveness of the government’s evidence should be in question.

    • @Vrilliance
      @Vrilliance 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianmayer28 Hello. I rec a letter from CPS saying I have 30 days to respond to them otherwise they are threatening to take away my son. They've knocked on my courtyard door and cannot get to my front door. They sent a detective yesterday I spoke to the det. He said he's closing the case. Do I need to reply to this letter? It's been sitting in my mailbox for a week, I just got it today.
      Thank you for your time

  • @robandjesshackney8546
    @robandjesshackney8546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Never talk to them. Simply allow the children to parade on the porch while they remain on the road bc they aren't allowed on your property without a warrant. If they have a warrant Remain Silent!

  • @admirador3239
    @admirador3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Yes! Please listen to him. I suffered severe depression because they took my kids and mentally abused me and my kids. The Lawyer I got didn't help me at all and I had to do it all on my own.

    • @theyluv_dea
      @theyluv_dea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      If you’r lawyer was court appointed..... news alert..... nine times out of ten their probably working for them...... look who’s paying them.....the state..... I know FOR SURE, without a doubt mine was totally working side by side with the CPS.... Ray Charles could of see that, was so obvious.... smh

    • @admirador3239
      @admirador3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theyluv_dea No he wasn't court appointed.

    • @theyluv_dea
      @theyluv_dea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@admirador3239 dang, that’s totally not right... he/she should have been fighting for you. Court appointed one should too but I lost all faith in that never again will I let them force me to take one that’s court appointed

    • @admirador3239
      @admirador3239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@theyluv_dea He asked for more money to continue representing me. I didn't pay him. I was pissed. He never helped me get my kids back. I did that all on my own.

    • @nw66990
      @nw66990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@theyluv_dea Lol mines fav line is " I don't know" I'm sacking her ass tomorrow and getting a real lawyer.

  • @erinm9568
    @erinm9568 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Another really sad part it that the lawyer who represents the parent/parents accused usually do nothing for them. They just roll over and go along with everything CPS says.

    • @counselormatty
      @counselormatty ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s a general statement. I have fought for my clients and been the only thing between them and the government agency looking to take their children, and I have been victorious. There are attorneys out there that put theirs client’s protection above all else.

    • @erinm9568
      @erinm9568 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@counselormatty Thank you very much for that. There are very few of you out there (as far as counsel for indigent parties are concerned) that really work hard for their clients. In my state they are getting ready to pass new legislation that will hopefully take some of the wind of out CPS sails. The head of CPS resigned, amidst multiple allegations against this agency. Again, thank you....the fact you replied tells me a lot about your dedication.

    • @brownfarah1326
      @brownfarah1326 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YES YOU ARE 100% CORRECT! SAD TO SAY I FEEL LIKE SHE WORKS FOR THEM AND MY ADVOCATE SPOKE UP IN A ZOOM MEETING WITH THE SUPPOSED LAWYER THERE AS WELL THAT NEVER ONCE SPOKE ON MY BEHALF AT ALL....LIKE A FLY ON THE WALL IS HOW I FELT! THIS IS FRUSTRATING BECAUSE HAD SJE NEEN A TRUE LAWYER OF MINE MY ALMOST 17 YRS OLD (AT TIME OF THIS Z.M.) SHOULD HAVE BEEN HOME ALREADY! WE WERE UNFOUNDED AND THIS CPS WORKER & HEAD OF THE SHITSHOW TOLD ME IN PERSON SHE WAS SHUTTING THIS FALSE ACCUSATIONS & ALLEGATIONS WERE UNFOUNDED! BUT BECAUSE OF THE AGENCY SHE REFERRED TO HELP IN ORGANIZATION AND PREPPING FOR A HUD HOUSING INSPECTION GOT CAUGHT! SHE WAS STEALING OVER $1,000 IN BRAND NEW PRODUCTS FROM BATH & BODY WORKS AND I BUSTED HER! I MADE THE MISTAKE OF NOT TELLING ON HER AND GETTING HER FIRED (& FOR NOT BEATING HER ASS, JK)! SHE JAD ASSUMED I WAS AND SO SHE QUICKLY TURNED FOCUS ONTO ME REPORTING THE OPPOSITE OF THE TRUTH! TEXTING ME HOW STRONG AND GREAT OF A MOTHER I AM...THEN REPORTING TO THE CPS I AM NON COMPLIANT, A TON MORE F-ed UP LIES NEGATIVELY AND BLAH BLAH BLAH! FROM THAT DAY ON THEY DID THEIR BEST TO TORTURE MY DISABLED SON AND I AS WELL! THEY VIOLATED MY RIGHTS AND AMENDMENTS I SAY THEY KIDNAPPED ME BECAUSE YHEY PRACTICALLY FORCED ME INTO SN AMBULANCE STRAPPED ME ON THE GURNEY AND ILLEGALLY ENTERED MY APARTMENT WHEN I SPECIFICALLY TOLD THEM I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM! SO THIS WORKER BEHIND THESE LIES AND FALSE ALLEGATIONS IS WHO OPENED THE DOOR GOONG TO MY TEEN SONS ROOM JUST WALKED IN WITH THE COWARD CPS WORKER BEHIND HER WHILE SHE DID THE DIRTY ILLEGAL WORK OF THREATENING MY SON REPEATEDLY UNTIL HE WAS FORCED TO GO WITH THEM! THEY FORCED HOM YO SIGN PAPERS AGAINST HIS WILL AND THREW HIM INTO A HOTEL FOR A NIGHT THEN INTO A FOSTER HOME! ALSO WHILE THEY ILLEGALLY OPENED MY DOOR THEY LET MY SON'S SERVICE DOG RUN AWAY WITHOUT A CARE BY ANY OF THEM! THEY HAD PUT A 5 DAY HOLD AGAINST MY WILL ILLEGALLY SO THEY COULD FOLLOW OUT YHIS ILLEGAL ACT AND ABUSE TO MY SON WITH ADHD, PTSD, ANXIETY, MUTISM & ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM! I HAVE NEVER BEEN SO ILL AND HELPLESS HOPELESS AND WEAK AS THEY HELD ME HOSTAGE NOT KNOWING HOW MU SON WAS SINCE WE HAVE NEVER BEEN APART I HAVE BEEN HIS PERSONAL TRANSFORMER HIS ENTIRE LIFE SINCE I FINALLY LEFT HOS VERY ABUSIVE DAD WHEN HE WAS 2 1/2 YRS. OLD! THEY TOOK HIM AWAY FROM ME BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY HOS DOG HE'S HAD SINCE THEY STARTED HIM ON MEDS AT AGE 5! GOT A PRESCRIPTION FOR HIS DOG AGE 6 THAT WAS A TRUE BLESSING FOR US! HE IS MORE DEPPRESSED ANXIETY IS OFF THE CHARTS AND HE WON'T EVEN TALK TO ME NOW! I HAVE TO GUESS, LIKE WE'RE PLAYING PICTIONARY & I HATE THE ONES RESPONSIBLE FOR MAKING FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND MY SON GETTING THE WORST OF IT IS SO UNFAIR! I'VE REACHED OUT FOR A REAL LAWYER WITHOUT LUCK! THEY DON'T DO THESE KIND OF CASES OR IT'S A CONFLICT OF INTEREST! BUT I AM WILLING TO DO ANYTHING FOR MY SON AND TO GET JUSTICE!

  • @coreyanderson1457
    @coreyanderson1457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Boy, being a parent these days is no fun anymore. You gotta watch every little thing, for fear of being accused of something. Crazy. In the meantime, the few parents who really are physically, or emotionally abusing or neglecting their kids seem to go unpunished. Wierd. Btw, I think that "Mother in Law " should be sued.

    • @mrsglitter8373
      @mrsglitter8373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LITERALLY!!!.... You can't punish your children or properly discipline them without being fearful and that's why you have so many people in this generation acting a damn fool cuz they know they can get away with it. You have to make sure that they know to watch what they say and do around others. And trust me from experience that they will claim so quickly that you were an unfit parent but the people that they're going to stick your children with are going to ruin that child!

    • @thomasknouff7544
      @thomasknouff7544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      True!! It isn't designed to help children. Its made to go after parents who love their children and would do absolutely anything to show them. Thats away for pure devils to destroy the good people who are left. Praying for everyone to reach justice and no other families to be split apart bc devils are scraping the hearts off the streats. Parents can not live without their hearts and be sane especially!! Hell is where a ev will return

    • @Corina-dq2my
      @Corina-dq2my 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mrsglitter8373 I agree.

  • @heroesandzeros7802
    @heroesandzeros7802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Turn the table on CPS. Investigate the CPS worker and call in a complaint about them personally for not being able to protect their own children. If they are out investigating you then they are not at home protecting their own children.

    • @nonenone9338
      @nonenone9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Funny. I found out that the case worker who came to my home has a DUI. Luckily for her she closed the case and I never had to use what I found.

    • @addictionrecoverylife
      @addictionrecoverylife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      most cps workers are not allowed to have children do to attachments and changes their perspective

    • @trezur8693
      @trezur8693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao I'm crying thank you I needed this laugh

    • @teresaterezia7982
      @teresaterezia7982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@addictionrecoverylife really?

    • @addictionrecoverylife
      @addictionrecoverylife 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@teresaterezia7982 Where is live it is policy! parent are more sympathetic/empathic to other parent , not loyal to the department and state.

  • @Sionnach1601
    @Sionnach1601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    BEST ADVICE I would say that I could have heard starting off.
    The stakes could not be higher.
    Thank you SO much for your service to HUMANITY.
    God bless you.

  • @natmad2968
    @natmad2968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I wish I saw this video years ago! cps tore my life apart and it took them 2yrs to get those scumbags out of my life. you are AMAZING to make a video about this to educate the public. LISTEN TO HIM IF YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH CPS!!! God bless you!!

    • @tracyconnors5284
      @tracyconnors5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen good tips from a broken hearted mom and child in Pennsylvania

    • @jeanper7817
      @jeanper7817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Pray to GOD that COVID 19 to take them 😂 out from your way

    • @violah
      @violah 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm one year these people

  • @nelsonartemio4218
    @nelsonartemio4218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Thank you for this video. The system is incredibly flawed and disproportionate in the communities it impacts. I have met social workers who have approached their work with callousness, giving little thought to how their decisions emotionally impact child and family.

    • @EMILY4DAYS
      @EMILY4DAYS ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You'd have to be emotionally disconnected to stay in this line of work for long. The turnover rate is high for good reason.

  • @asellers62
    @asellers62 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I want Brian on my permanent retainer. He is my spirit animal. God bless you.

  • @Moneymojo6272
    @Moneymojo6272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He is absolutely right, even if your the parent who has done nothing wrong they use everything against you and make up lies.

    • @findtheothers_
      @findtheothers_ ปีที่แล้ว

      Happening to me right now

    • @clearlynebulous6805
      @clearlynebulous6805 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup! Protective parent who had it all flipped, they were investigating me instead of ever investigating him.

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Moneymojo6227 right sad but true

  • @user-hi3mo1bf9p
    @user-hi3mo1bf9p 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for understanding this systematic trap. It seems illegal and many of us who are already poor and uneducated with the law (and many of us are just focused on working and doing jobs to survive and live from day to day) are at the hands of begging the county to have ethics when they do not.

  • @Ascendant618
    @Ascendant618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Knowledge is power, especially in these kinds of situations. I have a similar situation going on right now, and will be using all your info to my advantage. Thank you! I expect to hear from CPS very soon.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Use title 18 U.S.C sections 241 and 242 against them when you sue them and if they took your children have your children sue them too personally and officially when they reach the age of majority for their illegal abduction.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      42 1983 and 1985 nullifies all state immunity from being sued for federal civil rights violations.

    • @teresaterezia7982
      @teresaterezia7982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dragonf1092 what do you mean nullifies who?

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teresaterezia7982 nullifies CPS and law enforcement immunity, they have no legal immunity from being sued, the judge or state cannot give them immunity from being sued.

  • @jaredhiggins9297
    @jaredhiggins9297 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My wife and I were foster parents for washington state and we got an intake call on us for pushing our religion on the child we were caring for. She came from the same faith and her parents knew we talked to her about it. They took both kids from us and we became friends with the boys mom and still get to see him but the older girl from a different family we're not allowed to have contact with. The cps investigator couldn't find anything on us so she said because we believe in demons we're high risk. She violated every right we had in foster care. I talked to a lawyer on the issue and he wanted to pursue a lawsuit. I wish we had lawyered up before talking to them at all. We were apart of a so called Christian adoption agency in spokane wa. They were the ones that caused the whole issue. They bagged us not to close our license and for us to talk to them about the case. We couldn't trust it anymore cause cps threatened us if we continued my daughter was at risk. We had people at our house and put the investigator on speaker phone for everyone to hear it.
    These people are snakes!!!

  • @dragonf1092
    @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Parents have the constitutional right to exercise their children's and their 4th and 5th amendment protections especially when they coerce or threaten to call the police so they can conduct their investigation. The reasonable expectation of privacy of individuals in their homes includes the interest of both parents and children in not having government officials coerce entry in violation of the 4th amendment and humiliate the parent in front of the children. An essential aspect of the privacy of the home is the parents and the child's interest in the privacy of the relationship with each other.

  • @helenferullo5706
    @helenferullo5706 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I worked in social services for 30years and it took some time before I saw the inadequacy of this agency. I never realized how devastating it is for families involved with this agency. You are absolutely correct in your advice to families. Persons who had money to hire a lawyer or are connected with important people fare so much better during a crisis, and their cases are handled much differently than families without these resources. Please listen to this important advice.

  • @ladydaymay7256
    @ladydaymay7256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Great video. My husband and I are expecting our first child and fully plan on home schooling. I'm a nurse and he works in Tech. We already assume this is going to be an issue later and are already saving for a lawyer now as well as stating how to act. Thank you so much for this video. It confirmed all of our research. : D

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      LADY DAY May homeschoolers are a favorite target of CPS - they don’t understand it and don’t like that they don’t have the same access that they have to publicly schooled kids. Glad you enjoyed the video - there will be more, so please share and consider subscribing!

    • @Jane-qw5rr
      @Jane-qw5rr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@brianmayer28 Now I understand more, because a lawyer (for low income) that I hired in my divorce, put me on the condition that "she would not represent me IF I INSISTED TO DO SCHOOL AT HOME", for this and for other things, I told them, that I didn't want her to represent me. They all work together the schools, the judges, the mental health, which they supervise in the schools, I can include the clinics and hospitals, and other institutions. I'm really in shock !!! because this is deeper ... good video, greetings

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lesson never open your door, talk to them through the door don't answer questions, ask for a search warrant signed by a judge if they don't have one infom them they are illegally trespassing on your property and tell them to leave, ask for their names,if law enforcement is with them call your FBI field office file a complaint give them their names and inform the FBI they are in violation of title 18 U.S.C. sections 241 conspiracy against rights and 242 deprivation of rights under color of law and they are illegally trespassing, terrorizing you and your family and attempting to kidnap your children.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is what I did when they were harassing and terrorizing me and my familiy, haven't seen them since.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@brianmayer28 that's because they are not getting the state brainwashing that they want them to have.

  • @vjs4539
    @vjs4539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    First of all, if a family member reports you to cps, they are a complete monster.

    • @williamallen7836
      @williamallen7836 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes the monster is the family member that had the report made against them. I have had to file 1 complaint against a family member for abuse that occurred right in front of me. I was severely abused as a child, that has left me with life long physical pain & disability. While this person would make threats of abuse to thier child, I always made it 100% clear that if saw it happened or learned of it, I would report it. Yet was shocked & pissed off that I stood up for the chikd. Unlike everyone in my life as a child that failed to take action, including supposed "mandatory reporters" There is a time & place to file a report. Those making false reports are just as monstrous as those who abuse thier children.

  • @marquisemcdowell1312
    @marquisemcdowell1312 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    They take the kids who don’t need to be removed from their home, but leave the children being abused in the abusive home. Social workers don’t gaf. Speaking from experience.

  • @jamieadkins3020
    @jamieadkins3020 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Excellent video and advice! I wish I'd known this five years ago but hopefully somebody else sees it BEFORE they need it. Thank you for making this!

  • @PhienixxStJames
    @PhienixxStJames 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    They came to my home yesterday and wanted me to sign something giving them access to my medical record as proof that I was in the Emergency Room even though that had nothing to do with why they got called. Of course I didn’t, but he was pushing it

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Good that was illegal and wrong. That's invading your privacy.

    • @vvskiitlesvv
      @vvskiitlesvv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Don’t sign anything

    • @reggjohns8828
      @reggjohns8828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WHAAAAATT!!?? Are you SERIOUS!!??

    • @PhienixxStJames
      @PhienixxStJames 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I never got back to him, and I never heard form him again. I wasn’t going to give him anything anyways.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Never sign anything, by signing you are contracting with them.

  • @sj49770
    @sj49770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    It's difficult for people who've never experienced the devastation that CPS causes, or at least seen it happen to a family member, to believe how hideous these people actually are. The magnitude of their dishonesty is its own protection. "Surely", most normal people think, "they can't be THAT bad!" Once you discover that they are, it's usually too late.

    • @arethasmith7951
      @arethasmith7951 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true I have tried everyone 😢😢

  • @veronicapalodichuk7324
    @veronicapalodichuk7324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I had a disagreement with my brother and he called cps on me. I cooperated and they wanted me to take a drug screen. I did the ua and she said that it came out positive for thc I had not used thc since I was a teenager and I was about 31 years old at the time. I agreed to take another one and she said that it was even higher than the last one. I told her I wanted a hospital laboratory to do the test and I wanted to see the results I have a laboratory background. Then she says that it was so low as not to constitute a positive. Cps was created by the wealthy to kidnapp kids from the poor

    • @mikebe41
      @mikebe41 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And so what happened then

    • @MegaBrandon3
      @MegaBrandon3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good advice but I did not know this in advance.I am sure I have lost my son now.I warned my son about things like this I am a great father.I guess it is my fault.

  • @fasia8250
    @fasia8250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are protecting so many innocent parents. Please keep sharing. I wish I had seen this sooner. Everything is 100% true. CPS will lie and will manipulate you. Everything they have accused me of has been unsubstantiated but it has been 3 years of agony. All I had to do to avoid all of it was not answer the door. I grama requested my records and they had made notes about even stupid things like my laundry not being done just like you said here.

  • @darkstar7721
    @darkstar7721 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Great video about cps all they do is lie and lie

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Without exaggeration, it's a competency crisis. Glad you liked it - and feel free to subscribe.

    • @jeanper7817
      @jeanper7817 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s how they get paid lie to sell your children to the real business of government to make money out of your children

    • @violah
      @violah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Darkstar7721 right

  • @stevedd9725
    @stevedd9725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    If they come to your door don't talk. Be nice, only open your mouth to make them kindly leave. Once they leave you have 24 hours to move out of state. It's the criminal governments kidnapping ring.

    • @Adam5576
      @Adam5576 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why?

    • @ingridsol8432
      @ingridsol8432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯%Agree! They NEVER EVER STOP! Leave the state, even if temporary.

    • @martinez1701a
      @martinez1701a 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cps came to my door today when I was out and my mother in-law let them in the doorway but not our rooms what should I do?

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But can’t you get arrested for moving??

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@magicallyme96 Not unless they had enough evidence to arrest you in the first place or you were under investigation and told not to leave the state.

  • @RinniqYT
    @RinniqYT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    When I heard those things in the home were evidence for CPS to take a kid away, I was in complete, utter shock. My mom had CPS called on her when I was like 1-2 years old under false allegations that a neighbor made. Luckily, the CPS worker was nice and I wasn't taken away. But what the hell? My mom does laundry every day, but because the washing machine broke we need to wait 2-3 days to go to the laundry mat. The knife being dangerous? Funny, anything can be dangerous. Being a clumsy kid led to a lot of bruises. Heck, I still get bruises when I just walk into the doorframe by accident. Uncovered outlets? Those things are so hard to take off. I bought some for myself and I had to have help taking one off. I get plastic, paper, and cardboard cuts all the time. I banged my head multiple times on my desk because it's so weird. Hell, when I was little, I climbed up on the bed myself and fell down. CPS workers make me sick to my stomach. If I ever HAVE to DEAL with one, I'm pretty sure I'd have a complete breakdown.

  • @barbaraedmondson1524
    @barbaraedmondson1524 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so.....true.more than anything very sad.God bless you.

  • @malindamorrison7507
    @malindamorrison7507 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I keep praying everyday for God to help me and my son to be together again some day soon I pray

  • @Ugh83
    @Ugh83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Describes them to a T. Wish this had of come out sooner. Thank you for all you do.

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, Megan. I'm glad that you found this to be accurate. Please consider subscribing to my channel so that you can access new videos when they come out.

    • @Bdh-er3mr
      @Bdh-er3mr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Megan Clark , Over 300,000 children go “missing” in America every year! Child trafficking is a bigger $$$$ maker than illegal drug sales! CPS is responsible for missing children, kidnappings, rapes of children. At the first sign of CPS either call your attorney or find one ASAP. Full disclosure: No contact with the law in ANY form. Wife of Steve. Registered Republican. Incredulously dumbfounded as to why this agency isn’t investigated & why our missing children are not more of a concern to our countrymen & women. 🇺🇸🇺🇸

  • @madelinedaigle7598
    @madelinedaigle7598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Never answer the door. No warrant, no entry. No conversation. Period.

    • @laurapfp
      @laurapfp 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Will doing that make matters worse?

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@laurapfp right

  • @empressspace8110
    @empressspace8110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Finely someone who understands the curruptness of CPS . It very broken

    • @webofspiders917
      @webofspiders917 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most cps are peados
      They want go take people's kids
      For there corrupt peado ring
      Swansea has underground trafficking
      You tube Alan tait Ammanford

  • @BuySellTrade-g7i
    @BuySellTrade-g7i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cps came to my house when I wasn’t home the other day and my step mom let them in . I was told they talked to my son and asked him questions about school and what I had in my refrigerator. I’m pretty sure the school called them on me claiming school neglect . Now I’m suppose to meet with him tomorrow and talk about what’s going on but after seeing this I may not .

    • @ashleysteelmanpeterson7995
      @ashleysteelmanpeterson7995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      CPS was called on my family this past wknd. A lady that has a problem with me. Long story short. I am supposed to meet with them also next week. One lady has already visited on Saturday. Thought it was over got a call yesterday and now they want to come out to visit. I’m not going to allow it now. I’m scared bec. I know how they can be. I wanted to comply bec. I have nothing to hide. But I’m in Mississippi. ?? What shld I do?

    • @BuySellTrade-g7i
      @BuySellTrade-g7i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ashleysteelmanpeterson7995 let them in make sure your house is super clean and plenty of food in the refrigerator. And most importantly.... video tape everything said and done . Don’t be nasty don’t be disrespectful and you will come out on top trust me I just went through the same thing and came out successful .

    • @BuySellTrade-g7i
      @BuySellTrade-g7i 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve listened to hours and hours on the best way to get them off your back , and came to the conclusion that I have nothing to hide and just be honest and respectful.

    • @dragonf1092
      @dragonf1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ashleysteelmanpeterson7995 do not talk to them, do not open your door and let them in unless they have a legal lawful search warrant even if they bring law enforcement ask for a search warrant.

    • @nonenone9338
      @nonenone9338 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@BuySellTrade-g7i 🤦

  • @winniew7809
    @winniew7809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Correction. I wish I saw your video early. Also. I let the Social Worker come to my home. And now. I lost my son who is 10 years old. Brian. Thank you and it is very helpful.

  • @alexvega5756
    @alexvega5756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    My brothers school did this to my parents 5 years ago after we kept emailing them for persistent scratches, bruises, and random marks on his arms, face, legs, and torso. As a defense they called cps on us and they did an interview on my whole family. Keep in mind he has autism which is why the problem was so severe. We should’ve known better. God damnit.

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wondered how to handle it when you believe or know someone else is abusing your child. They can easily turn the tables and accuse you. I guess the answer it to keep quiet find a new sitter, teacher, school- whatever. But how to fire the sitter without making her angry? I got it-move. I guess you need to write nice references for her too. Distrust is terrible. We shouldn't have to live this way but we do.

  • @kiridenise4124
    @kiridenise4124 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I forwarded this to so many people.

  • @Techthatpic
    @Techthatpic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you so much for consultation
    You are one of the GOOD guys !
    Super down to earth and very informative 👍🙏💯

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dashgone glad I could help. Thanks for subscribing!

  • @briant8475
    @briant8475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Absolutely great advice ! Thank you so much for getting this crucial info out there . Your 100% rite and the advice couldn't be better . Thanks so much .

  • @MsTammi125
    @MsTammi125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great thing you made this video
    There's always human error and this agency uses fear to get what they need.do not cooperate.👏

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      As I think I explained in the video, they're actually TRAINED to threaten and lie to further their investigations. Glad you liked it -please consider subscribing to my channel so these videos can get wider circulation.

    • @MsTammi125
      @MsTammi125 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brianmayer28 Done 👍

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsTammi125 awesome i will do the same. I'll not let them in.

    • @vcka5672
      @vcka5672 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 how'd it go?

    • @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690
      @phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vcka5672 well they closed case right away. For me . My oldest daughter has type 1 which dr did back us up too.

  • @stacywallen5245
    @stacywallen5245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I had them come over false accusations, cooperated & found out years later that them telling me they will prosecute false allegations was a lie. They also told me if I reported my ex for anything at all I would be arrested & have custody of my daughter taken away & given to her dad. Luckily I never dealt with losing my kid but I have a new mindset & will do what I need to to keep my kids safe.

  • @j.d.4055
    @j.d.4055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "Neither I nor anyone in or a part of this household will answer questions without a lawyer present".
    "Neither I nor anyone in or a part of this household consent to any searches on my or their person or the home without a warrant or court order".
    "I and all household members of this home reserve the right to audio and video record any and all interactions on or inside the private property".
    "From this point forward I and all household members will exercise our first amendment right to remain silent".

    • @williamallen7836
      @williamallen7836 ปีที่แล้ว

      Go back & read the constition. It's your 5th amendment right. Plus you don't have to be so wordy about. Just clearly state you will only communicate via legal counsel, and that you do not consent to any searches. That is all that is required to invoke both your 4th & 5th amendment rights.

  • @franny5295
    @franny5295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is absolutely scary. And I'm so glad I came across this. Hopefully, I'll never need to know but now I know...

  • @eduncdam
    @eduncdam 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He Is not exaggerating even a little bit, if anything they do a lot worse. Never talk to these people ever. All they wanna do is take your child to give to the highest bidder. This is real in San Bernardino CA.

  • @WillieJWells
    @WillieJWells 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are right about that- not talking to CPS is the best thing to do ALWAYS and do not let them into your home or your family is destroyed.

  • @mehranmossaddad1656
    @mehranmossaddad1656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    They came to my home, made my wife leave home. Left the child with me based on a dv report. Talked to me my child and my wife. Have left us hanging for 2 months. Yes we did have an arguement but nothing for her to deserve this. They have given her a letter indicating substantiated abuse which we have appealed. Now a counselor is calling us. They have no evidence my wife or my daughter was not harmed in any way.

    • @applejellypucci
      @applejellypucci ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm in this situation now.

    • @mehranmossaddad1656
      @mehranmossaddad1656 ปีที่แล้ว

      @April P. I was wrong the wife was abusing the child we had to take legal action. Talk to your child, don't lie to yourself because of your situation, make sure you know what's going on behind your back. She manipulated us into thinking there was nothing going on. She turned out to be a true monster. TALK TO YOUR CHILD make sure you know what's going on behind your back

  • @sherribell7639
    @sherribell7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow I wish I knew this 5 years ago. We went through hell with DHS 5 years ago it cost us everything, we even went through bankruptcy. It took 3 years of our lives to prove that we did nothing wrong. The more lies they told the madder I got. On the day our case was closed our case worker looked me in the eye and said "you are really a good parent, all the things I was made to believe were not true. " then she left. I was speechless. I didn't know where to laugh or cry. I just stood there hugging my kids. The hell they went through is unbelievable.

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I probably would have lost it right then and there and strangled her to death on the spot.

    • @sherribell7639
      @sherribell7639 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @VengeanceistheLord's i totally understand your pain. I don't understand how they can keep getting away with all this.
      Hang in there. It does get easier. I still fight the anger and depression but it does get easier. The pain is real. The grief and anger can be unbearable. Some things that have a me is finding someone to talk to and writing.

  • @BlckCloud73
    @BlckCloud73 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If your kid is being bullied at school and you go and talk to the school district supervisor because the principal won't do anything about it, you can count on the principal calling CPS on you.

    • @jeanper7817
      @jeanper7817 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s true that’s the reason many teachers are caught being pedophiles and pedophiles are the big business of America

    • @sheilawebb9746
      @sheilawebb9746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yep!

    • @Stebon6480
      @Stebon6480 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jeanper7817 My daughter's Mom got lippy on the phone while talking with one of our 5yr Olds school staff members. She used curse words and hung up on her. Literally within the hour CPS officials knocked on our front door. We never could figure out what was said, if any accusations were made, and never had context regarding why they were there. But the conversation between CPS and us was like an interrogation. I literally looked at my SO and saud"we need to talk ALONE" We kindly excused ourselves and went to our master bedroom where I made it pretty clear that no matter how nice/friendly they seemed we were going to go back out there and tell them to leave. I had previously heard the stories and watched YT videos on how corrupt CPS is and felt they were out to take children away, and they lie and don't have any real concern about helping you with your kids. They are monsters. They said"we got a call" when I asked about what? They refused and danced around the topic. So we went back out to the table and I said Unless you tell us first the nature of that call, where it came from, and what info you are in need of, then we'll have to ask you to leave and we will contact our attorney. We were bluffing bc we couldn't afford an attorney even if we wanted.But they nvr returned and it worked like a charm. Point is... Don't tell them shit.. No warrant no come inside. Talk to your kids and teach them how to remain quiet and not talk to CPS even if they seem scary or if you want to answer their questions... DON'T! It's one of those times where it's OK.. No matter what! They are Devils and once inside your home, it's to late to stop the bulldish avalanche.

  • @katlynstreet4227
    @katlynstreet4227 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for creating this video.

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Katlyn Street glad you felt it was helpful. Please feel free to subscribe so that you can have access to other videos when they become available 🙂

  • @muffychao2373
    @muffychao2373 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Thank you so much for this informative information I wish that I had seen this before I let the devil in my house. She wanted to check my fridge and do a walk through of my house and I told her no and that has nothing to do with what the report was made and told her that we can do that at another time. She’s been calling me everyday telling me that she needs to do a walk through in order to close her case since the 45 days is almost up for her to close the case. The incident was reported by the mental hospital that my 19yr old son said that in his mental rage he had hit his 10yr old sister. I want to know why she wants to look in my fridge and do a walk through of my home when the report was made about something different? Do I have a right to not let her come in after she’s already been in my house?

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Muffy Chao Hi Muffy. Please talk to an attorney in person if you’re currently being investigated. The government generally can’t enter a person’s home without their permission or a warrant even if they’ve already been in the home, but you need your specific situation to be discussed in person. A small attorney consultation fee today can save you thousands of dollars and heartbreak later.

    • @fredericksaturnine4167
      @fredericksaturnine4167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Whatever you do dont waive your rights to a hearing. Get a lawyer. Dont talk to cps unless advised by lawyer. They are not your friends. Also. Never sign anything from cps.

    • @shontasiachandler1975
      @shontasiachandler1975 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey going through same now what happen did they close it

    • @Slayy_TeaTok
      @Slayy_TeaTok 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did they close your case?

    • @brownsuga487
      @brownsuga487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Listen hun just change your number and cut it off that way she harrasing you and wants to steal your daughter ignore her simple your not obliged to speak to a satanic child kidnapper simple as ..

  • @TheWeirdThingsOfGroveCity
    @TheWeirdThingsOfGroveCity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have CPS coming out to my house at least 3 times a month and it is really getting old, reason for this is my wife and I have friends that we cut out of our lives and don't speak with them anymore, so with that being said we didn't know about our constitution and we just had another CPS Case closed after them being in our family lives for a year, we did everything they asked us to do and it was just ridiculous what they ask from you but we thought we had to do everything they asked, since watching these videos I have educated myself about what to do when they make contact and how to get them to leave, thank you for the advice and knowledge, but I have a question? What's the law about them coming out that many times a month at what point is it harassment to My family and myself and what do I do to get it to stop any knowledge of how to get this to stop would really be appreciated thank you for your time and help. And always, love, peace and happiness

  • @fredericksaturnine4167
    @fredericksaturnine4167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This is truly how cps is. Good video.

    • @brianmayer28
      @brianmayer28  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Derick Chafton indeed!

  • @yadiraromero3000
    @yadiraromero3000 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my God I feel so much better about everything just listening to you I appreciate you so much

  • @Aggiedltube
    @Aggiedltube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When CPS called me I was on my way to work.. they wanted me to come back home... I told them no... I if you care about my children you wouldn't ask me to lose a days pay just to talk to them while they are on the clock. I offered to go over to her home after I got out of work.. I asked her for her home address so my boys and I could come over to talk. She refused saying that we couldn't come over to her private home . I told her that she couldn't either... I told her to leave me and my kids alone and she said that if I continued to no cooperate that I would have and open case against me... I told her that I was ok with that.. my kids are perfectly fine and that when she got a performance review it would show her ineptitude.. I wished her good luck and gave her a verbal a trespassing notice to stay off of the property I lived at ... Her manager tried calling and I blocked her number after leaving her a voicemail trespassing her as well.

  • @jaygrist165
    @jaygrist165 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, again thankyou for putting together a realistic approach for keeping my family together, remain a Legend, thanks again, J, H&Beau Xx

  • @Lisal3e
    @Lisal3e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My daughters father who is a complete heartless narcissist called cps falsely accusing me and my family (mom-dad-brothers-) of being drugs addicts and abuse. The lady did a drug test (swab) on me rite then and there . 😡 when of course it’s always the narcissist who are quick to mirror their own criminal image and wrong doings on you before any type of thoughts or suspicious attention lands on him

  • @davidgriffin6724
    @davidgriffin6724 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its a system designed to feed into the human trafficing system PERIOD.

  • @peep8049
    @peep8049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My advice is to save your screenshots and convos with anyone you talk to through CPS.

  • @christophererato2354
    @christophererato2354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the truth

  • @ShaniceMichelle9454
    @ShaniceMichelle9454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video they really just want to push people around, they took advantage of me as a single mom . I have my kids but still a very stressful situation

    • @pamelamoore8042
      @pamelamoore8042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, it's very stressful dealing with them. I just had an encounter with them. I never let them in my house. I gave them very minimal answers. I let them know his meds last time to doctor. They wanted to see medical records wanted me to sign papers so they can get it. I said no. They wanted to see court records because i have my grandson. I said no. They wanted him to be examined by there nurse I said no. Then they said we can get a warrant. I said go ahead. They came back with the sheriff. The sheriff was trying to intimidated me by the tone of his voice and the paper work he had. I asked for all of their business cards. One worker was in training and then her supervisor and the sheriff. None gave business cards. I told them how can you want to interview my minor grandson without identifying yourself. I said he just came home from the hospital from his eczema and he have open wounds and you think I'm going to let you interview him when we are faced with a pandemic. I said I don't know what you guys have and your not going to infect him. All of a sudden I say the sheriff leaving from the door and then the in training cps person walked away. Later the supervisor was leaving the door. I received a phone call by the supervisor she wanted me to come to the office i simply said nope I'm done with this. All this happened before Christmas hit. So, far I haven't heard are seen them.
      The crazy part while I'm trying to cooperate what ever i was saying she wanted to speak to the person. For instance, my grandson parents. Well they had already sign there rights over to me long time ago when he was 3 months old. What could his parents say about this situation. 2. My daughter live in the home with her 6 year old son. Cps lady wanted to talk to my daughter which she did. Then later she wanted to talk to my daughter son alone. That didn't happen. Then she said another case had open. By then I was done.
      These were the allegations that got this started. I took my grandson to the dermatologist because he had a bad break out with the eczema. The call came from the doctor office and could be the doctor. First my grandson was hit by me. Then they said my daughter who was waiting in the car for me. Cps contacted me I told them to pull the cameras in the office and parking lot. Next it was i neglected his skin. Then it was I verbally abused him. When the verbal abuse came in I was at the hospital with my grandson and had been there for 3 days. By then I'm stressed out . I put everything in gods hands and stop dealing with them. They had my whole family stressed out. Not knowing what to do. Once I told them off at the front door that was the end.

  • @pamrichardson0491
    @pamrichardson0491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done, sir!

  • @ronnieansley7201
    @ronnieansley7201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So how do you keep them from talking to your kids at school because that's what we're dealing with now

  • @TheWeirdThingsOfGroveCity
    @TheWeirdThingsOfGroveCity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What I never could understand is they take kids out of home's with next to no evidence that the kids are being neglected or being abused but will still take the children and then they end up in a house of horror and now that child is going through things that's unimaginable cause of an accusation that wasn't true and these CPS workers are doing this to children all over the us. I know I was one of them kids my parents never hurt me or neglected me, that stuff didn't happen to me till I was placed in a foster home, and nothing happened to the people that were hurting me and other children that were there. Just saying cps is a really bad place to be as a child or adult they are just bad news. Ty for your advice.

  • @pjdurkin8582
    @pjdurkin8582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    CPS aka cops. One sentence when they come Knocking " my attorney will be in touch'

    • @pjdurkin8582
      @pjdurkin8582 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @C D Delbert True. Good Points. Guess it helps to at least study CPS employee handbook so you can nail them on something. And remain calm and dont say a word

    • @danabarfield6902
      @danabarfield6902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They're not cops, they're wannabe cops. A corrupt organization full of m'fkrs that legally kidnap innocent children for their own job security. It's a human trafficking system, and the whole entire system needs to be brought down and built again for the right reasons. It's so broken and it makes me sick!

    • @pjdurkin8582
      @pjdurkin8582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @SAMUEL JESSEcorrect. They have more power than cops

    • @pjdurkin8582
      @pjdurkin8582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @SAMUEL JESSE Your house is a mess can cops take the kids no. Can CPS yes. Nuff said

    • @staffordvenema5862
      @staffordvenema5862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wrong at least cops have enough guts to go out there and at least sometimes do something right and protect people. There's a lot of bad cops but I don't think that all cops are evil however I do think that all CPS workers are evil the only good CPS workers are the brand new ones and as soon as they realize what it's about if they are good people they get out of it. I don't hate the police but I do hate CPS. they don't protect children they put children in abusive foster homes they are disgusting horrible people and I just hope they all burn in hell.

  • @zyzzyz7035
    @zyzzyz7035 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Never talk to cops.
    Never talk to CPS.
    Got it.

    • @meahdahlgren6537
      @meahdahlgren6537 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right

    • @da1nextdoor2every1
      @da1nextdoor2every1 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Correct. Treat cps like the police, if for no other reason than evidence cps gathers can be used against you in a criminal trial as well.

  • @TimothyMcGaffinII
    @TimothyMcGaffinII ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Abolish CPS!!!

  • @jennkreger2916
    @jennkreger2916 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This happened to me an my child falling turned into losing all of my kids, I spoke to them thinking well I’m innocent I didn’t hurt my child & ended up losing everything in this world I cared about over 1 time of speaking with these God awful people, one accident turned into many different issues

  • @etainepona4206
    @etainepona4206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They are an agency and under an administrative hearing, not a court of law. Common law supercedes them. Never go under a administrative law only respond with affidavits and notice of intent.

  • @chrisquintero2170
    @chrisquintero2170 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was interviewed for an investigation and I thought cooperating would help and now I am getting the courage to not take this lying down and now I am getting a lawyer to help but I am hoping it’s not to late

  • @BigSmashKing
    @BigSmashKing 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They are taking kids without a warrant or reason!

  • @pamelaclary3801
    @pamelaclary3801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I knew a cps worker who admitted that she got so aggravated or mad at her 4 year old son, that she threw an object at him.

    • @pippadawg7037
      @pippadawg7037 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I knew one CPS worker from Texas who admitted that she got a child removed from her home in part because she was female, pretty, white with blue eyes and blond hair and she knew she could get her adopted out. I kid you not. She didn't say the parents were innocent but she did make it clear if the child had been a brunette, boy or black she wouldn't have asked for a termination of parental rights. I was stunned. My children were pretty girls but with brown hair and brown eyes but I have a granddaughter who is blue eyed and blond and I still think about what she said. So hide your blond haired blue eyed girls.

    • @sandrataylor7892
      @sandrataylor7892 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@pippadawg7037did you complain or call up or just stay silent?

  • @Herecomes_arias20
    @Herecomes_arias20 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wish this information came to me before I ever talked to CPS... because I have before had to talk to CPS and now again they came to my door. I always thought okay let them come in and talk to me, look at my children. Now I am so sick of seeing them. My children are scared of them more then anything. They are causing more distress in our life then another situation that arise in a normal household. But I will tell them as long as I walk on this earth no one will take better care of my children then me. They are worst then Flys

  • @cassandracalamia2501
    @cassandracalamia2501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome resource and knowledge .

  • @toniemcfadden296
    @toniemcfadden296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They lie so much they cant remember what they accused you of?pure evil

  • @keisycorrea7614
    @keisycorrea7614 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    god bless you for this information 🙏🏼

  • @brendaleeirizarry1724
    @brendaleeirizarry1724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I would've seen this last month. The hospital that treated my son called cps on me for Medical Neglect because I refused to go to an appointment in April to Philly because my son just beat brain cancer and is extremely high risk to Covid infection due to his compromised immune system. I tried to get the testing done locally to not go their hotspot of infections and they never answered. Well to my surprise cps showed up in late June early July for a medical neglect complaint. Even though I did take him for his July visit and another local visit last week they called to say the allegations were founded. I'm stunned.

    • @comeup0902
      @comeup0902 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So what happened?

  • @3HeartLink
    @3HeartLink 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been fighting these people for years.... I completed their action plan a year ago I did everything on the list and they purposefully pushed court dates back and back mixed up my schedule changed the judge and my lawyer at a crucial time in my case...they did everything in their power not to reunify me with my kids..