The Key to Using the Golden Rule in Arguments

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  • @paulkick7870
    @paulkick7870 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies" and then do research with your critics.

  • @rayfowler9765
    @rayfowler9765 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Once again, a great lesson. Rumination puts our focus on ourselves instead of others. As a result, we're not able to see others the way Jesus sees them. I don't have to wait for an argument or dispute to cross my path... there is one already waiting for me from yesterday. Making this a Golden Rule Day means resolving the argument with the Golden Rule. Hit the pause button... the other person just walked into the room. I offered up a collaborative solution... looks like it's working. Unpause. Film at eleven...

    • @rayfowler9765
      @rayfowler9765 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Things are gonna work out.

  • @lvshope
    @lvshope 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow. Beware angry rumination > all kinds of consequences.

  • @kimreid5438
    @kimreid5438 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    John, thank you for sharing your heart on this today. I am flagging this page with today’s notes on angry rumination in my journal. How often I have found myself in that place and made the wrong choice. Seek first the Kingdom, from a place of humility, so that I might allow God to work things differently within me. ❤️ As always, I am grateful for my time today with the Fellowship. Have a Golden Rule Day! 😉

  • @jeribrock4847
    @jeribrock4847 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you John . This is just what the doctor ordered for me today 🙏🤸🏽🤸🏽🤸🏽🤸🏽

  • @terifactuar
    @terifactuar 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This message was meant for me. Felt like you were looking into my head and heart.
    Whoa 😮 (Loved this 🙏🏼❤️)

  • @beanfeld
    @beanfeld 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have seen this work in my life so many times. Befriending and working with people who are DIFFERENT than you leads to amazing things. Not bragging, just praising God for how He has done this without me even knowing, sometimes! He works in others’ hearts when we get off our high horse and stay IN it WITH THEM.

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing!! Bucky

  • @carriesherrill625
    @carriesherrill625 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This begins to cast peace and an answer to my prayer for last week’s lesson.
    My family has been battling through someone who subscribes to the 10 Easy Rules to the point of nearly landing one of our children in jail.
    Thank you for the reminder and actual action I can take to have a Godly argument.
    Many blessings.

  • @cindylms
    @cindylms 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you again for putting the golden rule in to my every day life. I confess, it will be harder to have a disagreement or argument with someone now after hearing this message.
    Lord - let me have ears to hear and a heart that follows Your truth.

  • @lindar.1223
    @lindar.1223 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Once again, thank you John. What a great teaching. It will be interesting to see how this plays out with people who have a confrontational personality.

  • @ginakey4296
    @ginakey4296 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am so grateful to have found “Become New” thank you for creating & cultivating this community🙏🏼🙏🏼💗

  • @maryleemattis1262
    @maryleemattis1262 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So on target for me today! Not only did I receive outcomes of angry rumination from others, I jumped in the deep end of my own! I have transcribed your thoughts into my journal. Practical helps to pause and pray, “I can’t but YOU can” Thank you❤

  • @SusanConway-c2z
    @SusanConway-c2z 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I should have listened before going to the grocery store. I received a coupon for $10, tried to use it and oh, no! You have to go online and fill in the info… So instead of being grateful for the coupon I was irritated I couldn’t use it right then, my will was thwarted. I am learning with your guidance! And I feel so much better, when I have a Golden Rule Day!

  • @sandysanderlin4565
    @sandysanderlin4565 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    John you are just killing me here!. It's like a little salt in the wound for good measure. This is just incredible and I appreciate it so much. I feel that there is hope for this one super dysfunctional relationship that I have in my life and I just really, really don't want to take responsibility for my part in the caios. I appreciate you so much 😊

  • @reubengitonga2055
    @reubengitonga2055 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In our bible study we started this as our study! It’s awesome 👏! God bless Become New!

  • @jhanmole8717
    @jhanmole8717 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Once again, WOW! A perspective I'm not sure I wanted to know 😊, but will be better for when I learn to internalize it. Thanks, John and team. As an aside, I didn't like the written words over John's face. I prefer John in the circle aside the words. ❤

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful! Bucky

  • @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le
    @JeanneCorrigan-ej4le 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you, thank you , thank you . Praying for my friend’s peace, I have found mine ❤️

  • @sarawood3325
    @sarawood3325 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so spot on for someone near and dear to me but I don’t know how to bring up this golden rule advice with them becoming angry or upset 🥴

  • @DebbieRidler
    @DebbieRidler 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this John!! Thank you 💗

  • @chrisroberts9041
    @chrisroberts9041 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Angry rumination. How easily I go there. Thank you so much, John for these insights which are so practical and within my reach today.

  • @lynngreen1138
    @lynngreen1138 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You hit the bullseye again today John. Ouch!

  • @doloresblaequez4741
    @doloresblaequez4741 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just, wow. Thank you John and the team.

  • @jakechacko3005
    @jakechacko3005 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Adversarial Collaboration.. good concept

  • @elainepepper7029
    @elainepepper7029 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Today I know that teaching can help me and my friends

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are grateful you are on the journey with us. Bucky

  • @tracismith9590
    @tracismith9590 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Well taught! Thank you!

  • @jlheidbreder
    @jlheidbreder 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, let me think, I've slept since yesterday, so I don't remember anything from then. It is early, and I haven't had but one conversation, so no arguments yet 😂😂😂 . Thank you for the great advice, though.💙🙏🏻🕊

  • @RobertaKC1
    @RobertaKC1 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ☺️Needed this today, thank you.

  • @lauraeiss8636
    @lauraeiss8636 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wonderful kind words - honest truth- of doing the thing! Thank you!

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing and being part of our ministry - Bucky

  • @Julie-gv9xe
    @Julie-gv9xe 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good stuff.

  • @samuelpaulsen5380
    @samuelpaulsen5380 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great stuff. May the algorithm keep you popular? no, um ('Er' for you Brits), may the algorithm be good to...no no. Geeze, what does one say to the Comment section so these videos keep showing up as often as I do? Well, I don't know BUT GOD...yes, 'But God' to you all, and thanks for changing my perspective just that little bit at a time TCJ (through Christ Jesus)

    • @BecomeNew
      @BecomeNew  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow, thank you! Bucky

  • @daisymama9579
    @daisymama9579 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @daniellemeadows8291
    @daniellemeadows8291 7 หลายเดือนก่อน