Leaving It All For a 40 Year Younger Thai Bar Girl | Thailand Stories

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  • Imagine finding the love of your life at 65... in a Pattaya bar. That's exactly what happened to todays hero, a man who thought he had it all figured out after 20 years of marriage. But life had other plans, and now he's caught between two worlds, two loves, and a decision that could change everything.
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  • @Michael_Lak
    @Michael_Lak 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    Another 65 year old guy who thinks a 25 yo is attracted to him. He's a fool and she is acting.

  • @mjlane1705
    @mjlane1705 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    Shame on this idiot for abandoning his faithful wife.He will face karma sooner than later,

  • @frankandrewjames7805
    @frankandrewjames7805 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I've not even heard all of it. If its even real. But the only reason a Woman will be with a man 20+ years older is for money. Sorry guys, but its true. Fourty years older is taking the piss.

    • @kennethmcgurn3830
      @kennethmcgurn3830 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ah, but what if the price is a bargain? Supporting a lady in Thailand is much easier than dating an unappreciative, combative, entitled Western woman who gives nothing in return. Let her dig. It feels like getting his back scratched.

  • @Puterized
    @Puterized 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    If I hear "20 years" again I'll scream. Way too long, way to many repetitions.

    • @thailanddiscovery6832
      @thailanddiscovery6832 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      lol, On one hand he was thinking of his marriage of 20 years but on the other he could not shake the lust he felt for the 25 year old bar girl even though he'd had a faithful wife of 20 years during his affair with the bar girl. Did he really want to throw away a 20 year marriage for a 25 year old bar girl? He was indeed 65 you see? I hope you thoroughly understand the details of the story lol. Sorry..

    • @mattricks2050
      @mattricks2050 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Honestly I think Tom's options and problems were summarized at least 75 times

    • @darrenford3036
      @darrenford3036 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Like a broken record over n over

  • @paulbeckett579
    @paulbeckett579 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He's an idiot that poor wife loyal to him he should of stayed he didn't know how lucky he was

  • @franzditz4765
    @franzditz4765 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was 57, she was 27. a moment in life, a spark, just like this story. the only difference: I was married for 25 years and the marriage was a mistake from the beginning. and then comes Mo. I never worried about my decision to go with her. we are together now for 16 years. we built a house near Sakon Nakhon. her family is wonderful. and when I compare my life in the Western world, 73, most likely in a rest home until my time is over, or a life in a village, far from Western standards..... I go to Sakon Nakhon in 2 months and I'm confident it's the right step.

  • @davidraj4896
    @davidraj4896 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The best thing is better stick to your wife of 20yrs for safe and secure,is alot of trouble and for 65yrs life is over, just be simple we don't have the energy and money, disaster will happen forget about it! You still can go bar hanging out once a while, is better and relax👋

  • @Onceuponatime60
    @Onceuponatime60 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I walked in the man's shoes, therefore I felt his pain. I am married to a phillipine woman, unlike Tom my wife could care less about me and literally told me I was her ticket out of the phillipines. She is a cold bitch. But unlike Tom I chose to stay with a cold and heartless woman. To maintain my comfort zone and experience the loss of perhaps love. My heart will always be in thailand and I will always wonder. They say sometimes living life is like working in the rain, if theres nothing you can do about it, just learn to like it!...

  • @fredlucius1
    @fredlucius1 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    that what i love i ama 71 years old black american man look about 45 to 50 years old now, i take care of myself, i love a thai girl too, about 18 years of age to 23 years of ge, age is just a number, other peole in like other people like girls that like other girls, and guys that like other guys, so, i can love a younger girl, i love it, with a younger lady if i had one that will lovee me bck.

    • @Michael_Lak
      @Michael_Lak 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol she doesn't love you back. She is after your money.

    • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
      @mrdacusthenavigator4989 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      As long as you understand that they are with you because of the resources that come with dealing with a foreigners. And that's not necessarily a bad thing because we would not deal with them if they were not young and attractive.

    • @jimshelley8831
      @jimshelley8831 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People always say age is just a number to old guys.

    • @dessaint5341
      @dessaint5341 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm the same way. I work out and take care of myself and women often see me as 20 -25 years younger, but then they see my passport or driving license, and they get crazy.

    • @goverment457
      @goverment457 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So she was born when u where 53 😂 even for her dad a bit too old

  • @dalemyers-tn1dv
    @dalemyers-tn1dv 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for your story that was really good.
    Well myself I am 53. I am not married, but I'm looking for true love in Thailand.
    And a lot of the girls that i'm talking with Our bar girls are freelancers in Pattaya What is so appealing? Is the age gap Even the culture
    And the way people are so friendly compared to the west. As most people in the Western society, our judgmental. So if I ever get into same predicament as tom, I will send you my story.Thank you

  • @Chimchi1
    @Chimchi1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love can hit you when you least expect it? That's the excuse of every unfaithful man. You decide to go to a bar, you decide to hook up with a bar girl, you decide to cheat on your wife and have an affair with her and let it develop to the point of divorcing your wife. It is always your choice.

  • @tonystark8201
    @tonystark8201 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Go back to a job he essentially tried to rescue her from" ...
    Funny thing is that (most) bargirls not want to be rescued. It won't surprise me if she is still in touch with other customers.

  • @tilu3303
    @tilu3303 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We've been fed a lie over and over and over about what love is and believing that repeated lie makes one willing to trade a commitment for feelings.

  • @TAKEALONGLINE.
    @TAKEALONGLINE. 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a Legend. Don't Hate the Player. Hate the Game. 😅

  • @allanu6416
    @allanu6416 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Great video, thank you for sharing!

  • @BannerSound
    @BannerSound 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So if Tom and his wife are financially strapped, does she not even question where that "missing" $600+ goes each month??

  • @ericsimpson1176
    @ericsimpson1176 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am 62 never married one serious girlfriend 30 years ago,,,,I've had a Great life...

  • @groundcontrol2majorTom
    @groundcontrol2majorTom 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So annoying this voice

  • @juluma
    @juluma 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Wow you told the same story like 7 times in one video 🤣

    • @BannerSound
      @BannerSound 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Almost all of these videos are ridiculously repetitive...

  • @dessaint5341
    @dessaint5341 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    @Thailand Are you serious? Here's a guy that's already lived in Thailand and knows the culture. His wife of 20 years is Thai. Was she once a bar girl, too?
    The chance of the bar girl falling in love with him are 1000 to one. Plus, he gave everything up at the age of 65 and moved to a village, also leaving the comfort he was used to in Bangkok behind. This new relationship will last only a few years, until he has gone out of money, willed it to the new girlfriend or just plain got sick. It's an idiotic move. You want to feel younger, just have flings or get a younger mistress that you can afford. Are a few years of being with someone worth giving up everything that you built? Only if you are sick and know you are dying and want to go out with a bang.

  • @annalee9911
    @annalee9911 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You got it right!!

  • @darrenford3036
    @darrenford3036 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wouldn't have left a loyal wife and break her heart for a bar girl..once he gets bled dry the family will probably boot him out then he'll have nothing

  • @rolfkarneman6564
    @rolfkarneman6564 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Is there a way to change the final pitch fot this voicebot?

    • @joarvatnaland6904
      @joarvatnaland6904 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      The liverpool voicebot was on vacation

  • @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s
    @WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    When i hear stories like THIS...men who are married to good women but are CHEATING on these good women then men turn around crying about why women arent being faithful, dont show affection as much, im GLAD more women are waking up the nightmarish bullsh*t and living life on THEIR terms now. Women from the Uk or America are LAUGHING at men who claims women abroad are better..GO because women back home ARE TIRED of catering

    • @BannerSound
      @BannerSound 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      While it is indeed sad that Tom lacks any virtue or character, I don't think Western women are genuinely "laughing" at these men.
      No, they are envious of these foreign women abroad because they are still real "ladies" that most Western men desire and are attracted to (not clones of Hillary Clinton, and those who have bought into the feminist nonsense and that all women are victims)!
      Sure, there are scammers on all sides, but there are also MANY more cases of happy and successful international marriages...

  • @gordonmurdoch4433
    @gordonmurdoch4433 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Brilliant story cheers

  • @kennethmcgurn3830
    @kennethmcgurn3830 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's what every cheating woman says to justify her actions and the reaction is, "You go girl!"

  • @FrankL-i5u
    @FrankL-i5u 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry, this is totally unrealistic. No way. That guy will soon be approaching age 70 and the girl will have fun with younger men. I do not know how crazy some guys are. Go to a bar and have fun and that's it. He will be a walking ATM and will regret the day he left his loyal wife of 20 years. I had many sweet encounters in Thailand, but always knew my limits.

  • @robtsteiner
    @robtsteiner 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    not one word about the girlfriend, does she know he is married? How does this affect her?

  • @RichardSmith-pd9wm
    @RichardSmith-pd9wm 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This guy is dizzy with the smell of you know what. How crazy?

  • @midgek-hdahlke6378
    @midgek-hdahlke6378 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good story but this video must be much older than 1 YEAR .

    • @midgek-hdahlke6378
      @midgek-hdahlke6378 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As longer i look this vid may be it can be 3 YEARS old .

  • @fredlucius1
    @fredlucius1 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    maybe she do maybe she don,t it depands on the girl. can,t speak for every girl,

  • @dirkvanderven8452
    @dirkvanderven8452 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    25k bth and can't afford that as extra - poor guy

  • @anokhamalaysia5117
    @anokhamalaysia5117 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This story sounds like Mills and Boon.

  • @annalee9911
    @annalee9911 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dumb if he leaves

  • @muajin
    @muajin 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dude was stupid for cheating on his good wife with a bar girl.

    • @paulmcfarlane3250
      @paulmcfarlane3250 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      how do you know she was a good wife

    • @tilu3303
      @tilu3303 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@paulmcfarlane3250 She didn't initiate the divorce when she had to have known his commitment to her had become divided. That wandering eye can snuff out any chance of new sparks real fast.

  • @annalee9911
    @annalee9911 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂😂😂wake up old man!!

  • @Globaldave1970
    @Globaldave1970 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Phahahahahahahaha. FFS.