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Best channel I found lately. No content makers BS/drama, authentic setup, and it is more like a conversation or big brother tips rather than egotistical maniacs looking down on us.
yeah he got nothing to sell...lol
Been watching him since 2018. His content is damn inspiring
The brick wall is always a good place
Yup...
LFA is such a decent , honest Christian man who's interested in spreading the truth...
I totally agree with all these comments praising him and his excellent advise for us "lost"men/women.
His intelligence and understanding of human nature is mind boggling...
Being able to find your passion for a particular field of work during your youth is a huge privilege.
Single parenthood is the biggest destroyer of human potential. One parent doesn't have the time or resources to help a child self-actualize
Never found that growing up and even now into our 20s. Ironically, we found that outside of work and outside of our education by just experiencing life. Definitely a good point.
Thank you doge
@@sp123B. S. I was divorced and raised my daughter by myself..she has a Masters Degree in Social Work..married a doctor and lives in the best part of town..never have to worry about my two grandsons either..it's all about instilling values..which alot of people don't have anymore..teaching your kids to be decent and productive..it's all a choice..so stop the bashing of single moms.
I'm 36 and it feels that way. I recently had gallbladder surgery which kind of gave me a scare with how quickly things can change. Life consists of moments and we have to cherish each moment we have. God bless everyone.
Wow, I literally talked to a co worker today about her gallbladder surgery and her kidney stone removal at 34.
well, a year ago, spoke to my mum on camera as i usually do, she was fine, next day was dying in hospital, her gallbladder burst, 4 days in comma and 50 days in hospital, survived somehow and she appreciattes life a lot more now, and seems much happier, enjoy life while you can
@@CharlieBravo887 Thank you! It did. I have definitely learned to cherish the moments we are given and am thankful to God for everything he's blessed me with.
@@paulofurtado4925 I'm sorry to hear what your mum went through! I am glad she survived and is happier. Those type of things can definitely be scary though and pray your mum continues to have good health!
@@gabrielpacana8596 That's crazy! I pray your coworker is able to recover fully. That's alot with gallbladder surgery and a kidney stone removal.
I miss the old days in the 90's when i was coming up, life was simple, affordable, home value and no social media. Those were the days and will truly be missed!!!
Same late 80's through the 90's were a good time.
80s 90s and early 2000s simpler times!!!
Wish I was in d 90s as a kid forever screw this cyberpunk dystopian future
Yeap 80s 90s early to 2010 were the days anything past 2010 is yeah pretty average tbh 2024 times are not like they used to be its kinda miserable tbh if you lived in the great times before hand you will understand
Best advice I can give. Yiur in the good ole days, when your 30 you want to be 30, when your 40 you’ll want to be 30. Just relax and enjoy your one life. Even on a sucky day you’re still probably pretty ok. It does not matter how much fun you have, or what you do you will always feel like life is passing you by.
This video described my high school experience so accurately it's crazy. I went to college and got a degree because my guidance counselor told everyone you need a degree to be successful. Fast forward 5 years, and now I'm driving a truck for a living. I realized that I'd be 35 before I could even afford to live on my own if I pursued a career in my degree field. I'm only 24 and easily make 3 times what I would be with an "educated" job. Problem with living on the east coast is, most young women my age also went to college and see me as beneath them because my job doesn't require a degree. I'd love to have a family with a traditional gal, but I would be single any day of the week before wifing up a modern college brainwashed 304. It's a shame how so many people are deceived by media programming and public school indoctrination into a life of misery.
Same here dude. Got a degree in finance from a top university . Tried the corporate life for a few years and said eff that. Now driving a truck and doing just fine. I’m east coast too, small town. Unsuccessful in “dating” as well. Especially when they find out what I do for a living , which is always the first question.
I have done so much... now Im 63... deputy sheriff.... left went to become Army Ranger...off to Iraq came home worked on my buddies cattle ranch cowboying in Montana Married and divorced 2x no kids...Went back to school became RN alone but making money and still healthy and date a lot of girls 20 yrs younger then me...The Good Lord will always help you I remember that from Iraq.
Exactly, Same here
Hey! You just described my life. 26 y/o with BS in Criminology working in a completely different field that pays almost if not just as good
Go to another country. I found a wife ASAP!@@phillipblount5541
As a 46 year old network engineer in grad school, I approve this message. I don't have a family or support system of my own, but I do have a well above average salary in the top 20% and overall stability and investments with very few worries/problems in life beyond the day to day. It's literally a line-in-the-sand choice have you have to make: getting ahead in life at the cost of being alone
vs going down the family/kids road and potentially struggling forever. Nobody REEEEALLY wins in the end...
I would much rather have the good paying career
I have neither. No family, no friends, I have a horrible job. I am 52 years old with failing health. I have only dated narcissists. I have accepted that I will be alone and die alone.
Being 33, I realize its best to detach yourself from outcomes. A lot of people today are deluding themselves into thinking they are too good for everyone and everything.
1k away from the big 100k milestone. Congrats on the future silver play button chief.
I appreciate that. Keep up the good work.
Oh im well aware. Im 35 and it feels like i was just 25 a few years ago. Its insane. But i got a good job and family close by. Thats all i can really rely on at this point.
same, practicing gratitude 🙏
42 now! I felt like I was in high school not that long ago!
Just turned 28, any advice?
@@Insight-music take a chance or two.
Trust Nobody.
love you lfa! I as a 51 year old man have learned so much from you.fantastic work.thank you!
51 and single?
yes sir@@mahdman3
Have you found life has changed dramatically with your goals over time? I find I am questioning everything the more I head into my 30s.
Why not@@mahdman3
why would that matter?@@mahdman3
Not only Americans are going through this, also in Europe
only caucasians.
At 63 now life was different and girls were way different....there wasn't even vcr's not much porn except playboy with the blurred va JJ's Now girls watch porn as much as guys....I hope they build that time machine so I can go back to 1978 and my chevelle SS
Watch porn? All the girls today make porn. It’s called onlyfans. They all have one.
You only get one life, and there's a whole lot more to life than marriage and kids. I'm so glad I didn't take that road.
Why?
@@our.secret1130 Because for me I think it would have been the wrong choice. I don't think I would be able to live my life the way I feel I need to live it in order to be my authentic self if I had chosen marriage and kids.
Nothing to laugh about, Its not for everyone. Some people enjoy freedom more than anything else. Does not make you a bad person and something to laugh at.@@jay-cl2cp
Bro go get your wife and kids don’t give up
It's a choice, and one that I made years ago. There's too much personal sacrifice and compromise in marriage, and the government can also stay out of my life. Research has shown that the single most important factor to being happy is autonomy, and that single people grow happier as they grow older. I value my independence, freedom, and autonomy more than anything else.
Hey man I appreciate the message and you are spot-on with a lot of your points made. I myself am 43 years old a single guy prior military that chose the path of trying to build wealth use my skill and background in aviation but my path led me down the road of being single and no family no woman and not many friends but there was a trade-off because now I've done pretty good for myself and don't have to struggle through life financially like most people. So I would tell younger men choose your path wisely because most people aren't thinking 20 years down the road when they are in their twenties
Skied Flagstaff yesterday and drove down the mountain through Sedona on way home. This Forever Bachelor enjoys life. Men: make money and save money, enjoy life and your freedom!!! Timmy C Arizona
Excellent my friend! Live YOUR life. My Grandad is in Sedona, He loves it! He has 3 dogs, skies every other day (when there's snow), grows is own food and is happier than ever.
@@jadizm I think I met your grandfather last winter, he was parked next to me....a real character!!
The Forever Bachelor. Respect.
I was in Flagstaff for New Years like 6 years ago because we were heading to the Grand Canyon. Also, Sedona was fantastic, too.
In Flagstaff, instead of a ball drop on NYE, there was a lit acorn drop instead. 😂This put a smile on my face at the time. Plus, it was cold as hell there!
Yes enjoy life till you can.
I don’t know 🤷♂️ how at this stage in the game LFA isn’t 500K + subs. Just always str8 up facts and an engaging view.
That's the problem. He tells the truth and everyone else wants a fantasy.
You were right on with the narcissism its now rampant and accepted great insight as per usual sir
The vast majority of those who are left behind made poor choices early in life. Cigarette smoking, drugs, alcohol abuse, skipping school, etc. are those poor choices. It's all downhill from there. Life's decisions make all the difference.
You have a great voice. Very easy to listen to.
Really enjoyed this. Also guys, being a plumber is great. Money just falls from the sky if you're not lazy. I fix everything and home and for the folks. No student debt.
Yep my life is passing by I do nothing I see no way out. I’m always thinking how to improve escape to better. I’m 36 this year got nothing so depressing yet I see people around me doing well
Eckhart Tolle
So true. The workplace sucks. Most of these "desirable" jobs are fickle, soft, and still leave your soul impoverished. I was lucky to realize this quickly. I value time over money, always have. Women have a different struggle. I've never put priority in building a family and finding a mate. I've been impoverished as far as love life, but I'm mostly happy with the little I get and maintaining a free life. Also, the happiest family I know is an electrician and elementary school teacher. Would love to crack a beer 🍻 with you bud
My girlfriend is pregnant and iam a welder she works in a nursing home.. we life in a 2 bedroom apartment and we don't have a child's room for our baby..its stressing me out a little but I hope we can start a normal healthy family and be appreciated for life and out first child!
Thanks for the video
ironically, usually the people with the least education and resources are the people having the most children.
😂 Right almost like they don’t care about the kids
For 1000s of years such people have drowned out the intelligent races who didn't reproduce despite conquering the land. Their numbers were too small to sustain their civilizaiton: Egypt, Greece, Rome all fell because of using slaves.
They have less of those things cause when you have kids you don’t really have much time for anything else. The biggest mistake is people having kids when they know damn well they aren’t financially stable to take care of any.
Reminds me of the movie Idiocracy 😂
Ironically the people with the least common sense are the highly educated. Go figure!
Nothing better than seeing that new video notification. LFA strikes a chord with me as well as other young men in my social circle. God bless him.
Wintertime in the driveway with LFA
Life is hard. We shouldn't expect a good ending.
So true. Great video!!! .. I miss how it used to be (I’m only 26 lol) .. I can’t wait to have a family one day ❤
There's not much good out there so I'm not missing much. I think so many just jump into things such as getting a family and kids but nowadays I think the better alternative if you had to choose would be to not get involved much in society or its ways. What we're truly missing is a better world and culture.
Exactly its a brutal world , the best thing u can do is let,it pass you by ,
Yeah I’m so torn on this issue. I started isolating in my early 30s because I find most people to simply be too needy, emotional or self absorbed. They don’t respect social boundaries and they want and expect a lot. Oh and there is always drama when you are with people. I have talked to a few locals and they always want to bring you into their bs too and I just don’t have the patience or desire to deal with that anymore.. I like solitude and peace - I feel much better diving into a book, working out or taking my dog out into nature. Is this solitary life the most healthy for me? Ehh probably not but I don’t mesh well with society
We were all lied to since the invention of the TV.
Yep, see "Blackpilled" otherwise known as "The Insomnia Stream" and "Zachary Custom Guitars" and you will see much more than muh-TV
Lied how?
you need some reeding dude@@AnssiEriksson
@AnssiEriksson you haven't figured it out yet ?
LFA is pinche AWESOME!!
Damn, i'm 56 from sweden and a welder..every word you say is on the spot..you are the kind of guy i buy a beer anyday 👍
Thoughtful, vulnerably honest, and encouraging. Thank you.
I’ve never followed the herd so I don’t care where they go. I’d rather be “left behind” than in the stampede that goes off the cliff.
A lot like that myself. The only person who has commented with any sense
Herd
@@ColtMotor I heard that! Lol! An oversight!
I made the same mistake on an article about zombies. Something about running from the zombie heard. It happens. Just watching out for you :)@@KRAZEEIZATION
Your vids have been instrumental in shaping my life the last 12-18 months. Your journey to enlightenment and becoming a righteous man has been inspiring for me and i'm sure many others.
Your clear-headed, non-judgemental take on topics have been a solid foundation during several of my own difficult times as I try to navigate my life.
Recently I have felt pain coming from you.
I hope for your own sake that you are able to overcome these demons.
I am not religious in the typical sense, however god bless nonetheless ❤
Life is passing us by but even more so society is wasting the potential of people
Yeah society is garbage. And when you don’t partake in society you’re left to rot. Time is a circle no matter how you look at it.
"F" the Democrats!
Trump 2024 🇺🇸
@@seanthegod4585 No. Hit l er 2024
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Thanks for sharing brother, this video makes me feel like breathing fresh air
On if the biggest cheat codes a man can learn early in life is make a lot of real life friends. You will be given much more opportunities as well as having people look out for you when you need help .
Lmao "a lot of real life friends"
That's a good one.
They will also take advantage of you.
I bet you took the vaccine lmao
"Life passes most people by when they're making grand plans for it" George Jung
Resonating every word that you said. Appreciate all the sharing. I hope I can do so too in person around people in my own life.
Life is scrolling by for everyone.
Or not! Happy Friday!
This is great advice. I have one thing to add. Don’t do a trade that is going to be expensive to go self employed. Ie if you need a big workshop and expensive equipment it will be hard for you to set up your own business. Remember property and workshops are expensive nowadays. I’m a car bodyworker and the wage is crap in the uk and there is no premises to rent. No one is being a plumber or electrician nowadays and in the near future these trades will be well paid and all you need is a van and basic tools and you can be self employed. And that’s where the money is !
This is exactly the situation I find myself in at this stage.
How old are you bro?
@@cuauhtemocbolanos6100 I'm in my early 30s.
Rate you highly dude, youre one of my favourite youtubers.
He deserves way more views... hopefully he will get the recognition he deserves in the near future
This one hit me at the right time. Thanks man
I am loving the TH-cam algorithm recently! This video is interesting because we're currently answering this existential question at the same time. We're not satisfied with the regular 9-5 that we have and believe that there is another way to life.
Recently, we found our passion in international embassy and cultural events in the DC area. However, at the same time, we still face a lot of existential questions that we are trying to answer. That's why we decided to start with our own TH-cam channel sort of acting as a video journal of sorts.
Great video mate, this is going to impact a lot of folks out there.
Looks cold out there LFA, stay warm there dude. Bless
I got certified to do an entry level job, did it for a couple of years and realized I couldn't make decent wage doing it. I then went to trade school for 2 years and completed my program. It was one of the best paid jobs in the trades. Was really optimistic because it would lead to me being able to start my own business. I tried for a year to get a job. No one would, hire me tried Union and non union nothing. They all wanted someone with "experiencing" not "school". Finally gave up and decided to do what I was doing before I went back to trade school. My advice to young guys going into the trades, Don't go to trade school. Just get a job somewhere as at a non union place as an apprentice. Unions are very political you have to be someone's grandson,son, or nephew to get in. Work at a non union place for 5 years and then start your own buisness.
I'm an over the road trucker and single 46 and love it. I see the country.
Hey
I used to move horses over the beartooth highway....I'm sure you been there that is a amazing view.
This is my goal
Had to joina nd pay my little monthly 3$ ur a cool dude know exactly what is up and I feel u are maybe wiser than AMS or at least cooler to me.
Thanks homie
Just let it pass you by. Don't hold onto it. Life is transient
Congrats on the 100k Subscribes man! Well earned brother!
Nice intelligent talk..
Only passes you by if you’re not doing the things you love👌
I don't know if you or anyone will read this, but I'm actually shocked. Over 8500 km distance between our countries, Serbia and USA. Me, still in University (here it's different) 23 years old unhappy with my success so far, without friends and girlfriend (and money😂) listening to a guy talking about things that also passed my mind by deep introspection. I ended up applying some stoic ways combined with thinking that no matter what, I'll still keep trying in this society that's slowly falling apart. Your video just popped up while I was listening to quotes of Seneca and some other philosophers. Thanks man, thanks for sharing your experience and wisdom, that's really rare these days! Words and sentences you use show you really have connected mind and speech, can express his own mind in world full of quick empty chat, getting drunk for fun every day and cheap laughter. In my country we say that ones wisdom is seen in their eyes and I saw that in you. Thanks again man! Same as you've made my day better because I realized I am not alone I hope you are glad your mission actually worked and guy thousands kilometers away across the pond listens and thinks about your message. Sorry for long comment!
Thank you for the video LFA. You're awesome sir. 🔥
This don's like the cool af uncle i never had. Uncle LFA is the man.
Life already flew by and I got left behind.
I'm too ugly and short to attract women and never will be able to date women in their 20s.
Its beyond over for me. The only thing left for me is work and a mortgage.
What do you do in spare time?
@Big_talks. Well I work the typical 8-4:30 as a software engineer during the week. After that, I drive to my gym to work out. Then come home and play video games or watch a show or movie.
Rinse and repeat.
During the weekend I play in a Sunday league football (soccer) league and Saturdays I go watch my younger siblings play as well.
On some occasions I'll go to the movies during the weekends.
how old are you?@@UserRobot215
@@blockaderunner 26
Yeah these "motivational" stories never account for people who can't will their way into their goals. Some guys will never attract a woman naturally the same way some men will never make their high school or college sports team.
After I turned 40 had done everything regarding relationships I learned the idea of the ideal relationships will always be there But my willingness to participate is long gone two facts of my life nice and easy to get my head around. Life is good.
Things were simpler. I was married and had 2 kids by 20 yrs old. I graduated in 92. It was "normal" for that time. I'm 50 now and very thankful the internet and smart phones hadn't shown up yet.
I'm 37 years old and I have to say the internet, smart phones and social media has ruined everything 🤷🏾♀️
Nearly 100K bro finally ⏳
Time for my daily internet induced existential crisis
Very grounded, based analysis and suggestions! Preciate it!
Great vid man
Just found you, subbed and second video. You seem to be a guy that too, would be a tobacco pipe smoker as you speak well educated with life and have a screen presents. Nice! Looking forward to exploring your channel.
I just found your channel and started watching your videos this week. I really like your take on things. Great content.
Thanks for being real LFA, much appreciated content as always. As someone who went thru school and is now in Tech, I've realized I will be spending a majority of my adult life learning about old and new tech to stay relevant with a constantly changing field. Hopefully I can settle somewhere in that to make more time for finding a wife and having a family. But if not, it is what it is.
Thank you sir.As a young man I have all the time in the world to create value
yes I am one of these people that feel I am more observing life instead of living it.
every hairdresser i ever knew was crazy just saying
Me too.. most are promiscuous
Lfa kept the tags on the jacket for the refund 😂😂
Thats a mic
I’m in culinary school I hope it pays off well.
Very profound. Especially the point made around 6:20
Spoke nothing but the truth!
Spot on brother!
I chose wealth and no family but I wish I did the opposite. Money gives me nothing but a little comfort, but a fulfilling life needs far more than just that
But how can you stay lonely and isolated when you have that what can be defined as Wealth? I mean isn't that the common denominator ofwhat everyone is truly after nowadays? It seems to me like you have it all. You have made it.
@@donatasbeksa9097I guess grass ain’t always greener lol
Yea but when you have big wealth No one really loves you for you .they where not there to see your sacrifice from the bottom to see where you have gotten... so now they hope and expect a shortcut through your sacrifice to get what you earned and be a leach to your finance ... its a cold world
Perhaps the family life may have left you completely wrecked and without even the money you have now …. You imagine it would be better because you do not know
Love these random video's
Great insight when i travel abroad things are more traditional like 50 years in the past
The paradox of human society and civility is that he could never be really happy and satisfied until he doesn't realize that he's a beast, with sexual needs and desire of power. The reality is that just few are really happy and can fulfilled that. Kubrick in Eyes wide shut have exposed the truth in the most easely possible way. But we don't accept that, we still tries to project our minds in things like morality, friendships, relations, spirituality etc we just jokes ourselves and we now that from our inside.
in America bottom line is 90% of the people either don’t have the time or don’t have the money. It’s very few people that actually have time to do what they want and the money to finance it.
Great video. Women fail to 😊realize that starting to consider family- life at 30, is too late.
Facts....Greetings from Romania.
100k subscribers ASAP.
educatoarea de care zice face tik tok zilnic, chiar cunosc.
Yes every second I listen to you life is passing by
You summed it up well. The bad behavior of women combined with their lack of accountability has created the level of uncertainty and frustration. There is no cheat code. Good and bad character exists in all professions . Hairstylists are some of the biggest 304s out there
As a man I have to partially disagree. Also men have often lack of accountability. The fatherless generation is confused, angry and alone. Therefore the dopamine hits via gaming, binging on prn, fastfood, and generally entertainment creates many irresponsible men. Both sexes are at war and blaming each other will continue until we as a society are tired of that.
Yeah my guy lfa forgot girls with low iq or education can uickly become boring and nothing to talk about, sometimes you hear husbands complaining their wives are so oblivious or dumb .
Ofcourse im sure there are simple girls yet amazing characters
How wise 💛
I’m an apprentice electrician and I hate to say it, but to get real respect in the trade you’ll have to grind for at least 7 to 10 years. Aside from that your on point 👍
True player back at it!
What's the point of wealth if you can't share it with someone? Seems like a very lonely life to me.
Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a Father you are to your kids.
Hypergamy doesn’t care how you rearranged your college majors and career choice in life to better accommodate her.
Hypergamy doesn’t care how inspired or fulfilled you feel as a stay-at-home Dad.
Hypergamy doesn’t care that you moved across 4 states to be closer to your LDR.
Hypergamy doesn’t care how ‘supportive’ you’ve always been of her decisions or if you identify as a ‘male feminist’.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about the sincerity of your religious convictions or aspirations of high purpose.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about those words you said at your wedding.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about how you funded her going back to college to find a more rewarding career.
Hypergamy doesn’t care how great a guy you are for adopting the children she had with other men.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about your divine and forgiving nature in excusing her “youthful indiscretions.”
Hypergamy doesn’t care about your magnanimity in assuming responsibility for her student loans, and credit card debt after you’re married.
Hypergamy doesn’t care if “he was your best friend.”
Hypergamy doesn’t care about the coffee in bed you bring her or how great a cook you are.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about all those chick flicks you sat through with her and claimed to like.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about how well you do your part of the household chores.
Hypergamy doesn’t care about how much her family or friends like you.
Hypergamy doesn’t care if you think you’re a “Good” guy or about how convincing your argument is for your sense of honor.
Hypergamy doesn’t care whether the children are biologically yours or not.
Hypergamy doesn’t care if “she was drunk, he was cute, and one thing led to another,..”
Hypergamy doesn’t care how sweet, funny or intellectual you are.
Hypergamy doesn’t care if you “never saw it coming.”
Add your own, I’m sure there’s more,..
Damn!
But emotions don’t care about hypergamy. That’s why it’s not a straight jacket.
I appreciate you!👍The time value paradigm you opened with is brilliant! Succinct
All man should watch this video ! And save their time and their life !
Really great stuff Mr. LFA
Totally feel this right now. 31, semi-successful career (that I have no real interest in). Just starting to be more selfish in life and it feels good.
Good discussion, thank you
Well said brother!!
Thank you for the advice as an 18-year-old young man starting my second semester of community college, I appreciate that someone understands how things have changed and I appreciate the advice, It's either going to the STEM field or going into finance, accounting, MIS, Supply chain, or something like that since all the other majors have low value today and in the pursuit of these you end up losing parts of life I guess. Or go into trades and perhaps make less money but be more happy. Its hard to decide since my parents and family want me to pursue an education because they didn't have the oppurtinity to at my age they had to work and couldn't afford to study my dad went into trades and my mom into hair and cleaning hotels. But anyways Thanks, man 💯 Also thanks for the girl's advice I already have a few in mind 😂 Cheers 👍
Idea for next video. Now what? What’s your plan LFA?
Saying this because you’re a genuinely likeable person and not only are you helping this community, but it’s clear you’re speaking to yourself as well.
In a similar boat, similar age, decent looking, a few failed relationships behind me, and I find your videos intriguing. If YT weren’t shadowbanning you, you’d have 500k by now. Probably my favorite content right now.
Totally agree. Dude is at the crossroads many of us faced in our mid 30s. None of the solutions create any excitement . He knows it too
@@TheRedDevil_NC Exactly. I like that he's putting ideas out there, it's better than just sitting on your hands and calling it a day, but hairdressers and pre-school teachers are still operating on western-installed software and a hostile family courts system. Furthermore, because of social media and dating apps, they're likely not looking for the pipe fitters of the world. Not trying to be a hater, as I said before I'm a fan of the content, but I'd like to hear more about his actual plan. Personally, I think the Jonathan Noble technique may be the best of both worlds, check him out if you haven't.
@@ITR1329Not a single result on google. You’re gona have to be more specific.
Good video man. As an Indian American, I tried to warn people in my community about this. Everyone wanted to be a doctor, programmer, etc. And now they are in their late 30s or even 40s and still single.
There’s always a yin and Yang to everything it seems. It’s not the end of the world being single though as it’s better than being in a very bad relationship with kids that don’t like you
@@brianmeen2158 I agree. I mean we have freedom to do some cool things now, but as LFA points out, we are now much older and in a dating world that looks very different than the late 2000s