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Looks are everything. That's why attractive women get all the opportunities in life.
No looks are not everything. Of course they matter but looks are more important for women(to have men attracted to them) than it is men who want to be attractive to women. Women have many different attraction switches that guys can work on. Blows my mind you guys don’t know this basic fact .. instead you sit and hyper focus on looks and let it take you out of the game
For women in many instances, yes. But men are not evaluated by the same standards. Men are judged far more for competence and resourcefulness, than looks.
@@brianmeen2158yeah you can always get rich and have women use you for your money, what a great idea
@@brianmeen2158 so your point is that man only looks for beauty in a woman,and woman does not care whether her man is pretty or not? Sorry,but that is not truth.Both genders are searching for beauty.I know many men who are not rich but are so handsome and they can seduce many more woman than those who are rich but ugly.
@@brianmeen2158And that's why your dusty behind is still single and dreamin'.
Men actually do judge other men on their looks. If you're a good looking in shape dude, a lot of the times other men will hate on you
true
There will be men that are intimidated, but most men will be submissive.
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They will hate and insult more so the ugly dude that's starting to show signs of progression.
@@kingdingaling9756 yep
I’m ugly and undesirable. I’ve come to terms with it. Gave up on dating and just focusing on hobbies.
If your minature is real you you definitely should work more on your self-cofidence since you do look... normal to me. Looks like you have a nice smile, maybe not best suited most flattering glasses and this can be easily changed, maybe someone could help you with more flattering haircut but in general you don't look like a man with zero dating or succesful social life chances. I can see your smile and your smiling eyes and I now many women like such things and find them attractive in their partners or in guys they first meet and date. And well, in real life and ina long run.... looks matter the least. And this is why for example we have very few relationshionships formed between attractive people from tv shows like "The Naked Truth" or "The Paradise Island" and such in which people overfocus on looks. Yes, good looks at times help but at times they do not help much. For example both sexes avoid marrying hot persons out of fear of being cheated on. we have some good scientific data on such tendency. And many people are agressive in a workplace towards physically attractive people and avoid promoting them for example. So maybe a young sexy female waitress can be successful at work but being too handsome may prevent a man from getting promoted and having a good career.
@BrianWaller-qe7gr
Same here mate, and I feel for you.
I’ve never had any luck with the ladies, and in September 2012, I made the wise decision to give up on dating (too many rejections).
As for my bedroom fun, I just pay a mature age lady of the night (s€x work is legal here in Australia).
Be blessed, my fellow undateable.
@@masteryoda498 Why do they have to be mature age, if you don't mind me asking?
@@andyisdead
Because older vvomen are better in bed.
You are totally right about this. I am 3 in the looks department to expect a 7 or 8 is delusional. I am humble about my looks I will work on myself and if I don't find a woman in my life so be it. Not everyman gets what he wants, at least I gave my best .
Unless your in great shape you didn’t give it your best
@@evernew23 I am working on body and my career .it will be hard but I am doing it for me and not for attention of a woman. I want to life a long life even if I end up single .I am humble about my situation and I hold no resentment or hate against women .
That's really wise advice. Thank you.
@@adamchilds9132 you’re welcome
Are you actually a solid 3 though? if you put a profile pic on I am sure you are higher than that. there are actual ways to improve your looks. especially if you money maxx and get a few surgeries etc. theres still hope
Genetics have ruled the world since day one, in all animal species and humans. Idk why people think this magically isn’t the case now.
Because religion wich helps governments push bullshit
He's right. Ever since I've been hitting the gym people have been respecting me more.
Presence is very important and the bigger you are the more presence you will have .. I can only imagine how much differently short skinny guys are treated in general compared to taller more muscular men…? I bet there’s a big difference hence why napoleon syndrome is real
Presencce has nothing to do with size.
You got 7 ft pussies invisible on the street and 5 ft destroyers carrying the street.
Its about the confidence. All the greatest leaders are not the biggest ones physically neither.
Big men are actually like kids, they follow easily the confident guys.
In fact, most big folks couldnt handle life nor survive of they didnt recieve big bodies.
Life gives us exactly the tools we need to survive.
If you are big and dumb then its the same as small and smart. Both are gonna survive with their tools. But take away some - they gonna struggle.
Dick size is as important as confidence.
Luckily dick size has nothing to do with body size. Thats a misconception.
@@brianmeen2158 nope, it’s all in their heads, I know tons of taller bigger dudes intimidated by the regular guy that walks in not trying to suck up anyone’s energy but carries his own, people hate that shit, we aren’t in high school anymore where we gotta be fuckin competing.
Remember this, big things come in small packages. Whahaha
It's in your head
It's a combination of looks and height & weight proportionality. About 20yrs ago I was mad because I wasn't getting attention from the ladies like I used to in college. Then it dawned on me that while I lifted weights I was also 25 pounds heavier. So I lost that 25 pounds and started getting attention from the ladies again. Most women seem to prefer slimmer men or men that aren't too large or stocky.
This is complete cope tbh. Think Chris Hemsworth, Anthony Joshua, Jack reacher actor etc. All big muscular guys and the ladies love them.
@@MrAlio101 They are muscular and lean, not stocky. While I was muscular I also had some fat, a little too much fat in the midsection and my face was getting pudgy. Losing 25-30 pounds of fat on Atkins fixed all that.
Yea women like variations of lean. This is why drug looking weirdos get girls but many guys who lift hundreds of pounds get nothing. However at the end of the day if your face isn't symmetrical or you have exaggerated features in any number of skull areas you're basically screwed. Women want moody anime princes.
@@MrAlio101 you juist named actors with wealth and status ladies were going to be on them regardless.
@@MrAlio101 those are muscular men who are lean, which means not too stocky or large
Truth! Facts brother
As an average man I will continue to be a good person and value myself. To all the men work on yourself, fimd a passion, read, travel the world, build a business, work on your career, have and accomplish goals. Be the best version of yourself, whether you are extremely handsome or not genetically applicable to women you will not be easily manipulated, used as a simp, etc. Whether or not you attract women, you have built and done something for yourself.
These are universal traits that apply to everyone but unattractive people need to maximize them
Always wear clothes that make you feel confident and fit properly
Always be in shape. Never let yourself become too fat or too skinny.
Always be confident and comfortable in your own skin.
Treat other people with dignity and respect
Be assertive and be prepared to walk away from people who push your boundaries consistently, disrespect you and make you feel bad.
Learn to say no. Don't be a people pleaser and push over if it's at a huge cost to your own well being.
One of the most rational men I ve seen pn internet, glad I came in touch with your channel. Keep sharing your thoughts.
One of your best LFA
Dude keeps it real
LFAs been keeping it real for a couple years now
I feel dumb for not using my looks or really not having the opportunities. However, it feels powerful turning down sex and not giving into passions.
you can always change that
Use Maria, your left hand, never disappoints.......
I can relate to this. I'm either too dumb or too nonchalant to take a hint and make something happen
@@KwstasMakariouhahahaha you named your left hand maria
@@KwstasMakariou or it always does, depending on your perspective haha
Being handsome can bring other problems, like being used by your looks, bringing out insecurities in people, people judging you and thinking that you're arrogant, just play your cards and you'll be fine.
Of course, but the advantages to being good looking outweigh the disadvantages by a huge margin.
im a handsome autistic man and the social games can be so exhausting.
And what is the meaning of your sentence "being used by your looks",how,you mean sexually or? Imagine how many ugly woman is used because of their "look",guys only use them for one night and never call back,rarelly this will happen to an attractive girl.
How would you know ?
@@shaolinotter That's a good point. Men need much more than good looks to succeed in life.. Unlike women, we are judged by many other things as well.
The pause at the end cracked me tf up 🤣
Great video as always LFA
Well said. It's just important to note that there's a difference between "looks matter" and "looks are everything". Problem is, guys who have little to no experience with women often won't know the difference. Looks absolutely make it easier for you to get in the door, however they do not seal the deal. If she doesn't like your vibe/energy, you're not getting any. Period.
If I had a dime for every time when I said to myself "this person seemed attractive until they opened their mouth" it would make a zillion now. So no, looks are soemthing since humans have a sense of aesthetic and some idea of proportions that may somehow carry some information about health and maybe about someone's genetic make up what may matter for human offspring. But we humans have culture, values, verbal communication, abstract thinking and all other complex systems of connecting with each other, so no, looks as a single factor in human interactions, especially in interactions that tend to last over longer time do not play such an important role and we do have a lot of good, hard since that supports such claims. As for this guy in this video- his looks suggest to me that maybe someone, me included, could hire him to carry a heavy piece of furniture upstairs. But aside from it just looks alone is way too little of information to anyone to determine whether or not it makes sense to try to get to know him in private. What matters to me in his looks more than his muscle? For example the colour of his T-shirt. Since I like this color a lot. Not something he would think about but what would make me like him more than let's say a guy in a brown T-shirt that is mundane and not favourite color to me. And this is how human looks work like in practice. So looks can be "aesthetically pleasing for us" but this is not why we choose to interact with other people more often than with others or why we do decide to have sex with someone. As for this in males actually how they smell, so how fresh their clothes are and how they smell like they are not too closely genetically related to a female matters more. So if a woman likes one guy over another guy she can literally "sniff it" on a guy that he and not his friend is a better match for her. No bullshit approach? Stats on how often guys change and wash their underwear and jeans. Or their bedsheets. Those are scary. And this is in fact on what dating success depends more than on gym attendence. Other factors would be... dental hygene and clean hands and fingernails. It does really matter.
@dante340
What difference does it make?, as a man if you don’t pass the looks test with said vvoman, it doesn’t matter how good your personality is, you’re done, game over.
@@Shoegazebasedgenre0. the automated cycle of comments saying "tHe CopE nEVEr eNDS" or saying "ItS NoT tHAt dEeP bRo 💀💀" in response to a comment with more than 50 letters never ends
Looks matter a lot. But there's no point in fixating on genetics you didn't inherit.
Tell that to everyone else in life who obsessed over it
What's up, brotha! Congratulations on 100k keep going 👏
Yeah, we have no control on our looks, it is what it is. You have no control on how you look, just do the best you can do, be positive and by happy with yourself. End of the day, you do have a choice on what you want to do and the kind of person you want to be. People will feed off of it if you have a positive attitude. We are all different.
"Looks don't matter, just be yourself"- Reddit I try to help people on Reddit as someone who has experience with woman and tell guys the truth and they get mad at me but will listen to a guy that hasn't gotten laid in the last year telling guys "just tell her she's beautiful and make her laugh" and they want comfort in a lie. They always say I've done everything then I ask them how attractive are you? and they tell me average bellow average. I tell them we live in a cold, vain society. Looks get you in and personality determines how long you stay.
There are a lot of average guys dating/f*cking hotties all the time. Just walk down the street and look around. Looks matter, but aint crucial.
Thanks for no bullshit approach
Well, this is not " no bullshit approach" since we have this invention called "science" and science proves that social media fixation with overfocus on looks is ... merely a fixation. Neither for romantic life nor for other spheres of human life for people who do not make a living on modelling or acting or porn looks do not matter so much. And given the rise of generative AI models in near future looks may matter even less since we already have AI models and actors much cheaper than human ones. So I would say soon gym going will be more about health and endurance for guys than it will be about looks. And this is "no bullshit approach". As for dating, social skills matter much more than looks if we have in mind hetero males looking for hetero females. If we mean homosexual males looking for homosexual males, yes, there is certain age bracket when looks seems to matter more but passed certain age the importance of this factor also drops significantly.
Great talk bro. This didn't exactly apply to me, but I did find it useful and wise.
Thank you
Thank you for the video LFA! 🙏🏿
Appreciate the honesty! 😉
Sex is never free, it always costs something.
It never costs something when both people are really into it the same way.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica Ewwww. It does cost something when you give it away for free. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I doubt LFA is charging his ladies
@@monk4ever Choosing to only meet or get involved with Women where both the Man and Women have mutual physical sexual attraction and sexual fantasies, and I promise you there will be nothing associated as a "cost". This is the only instance where the sex is good and where it's worth it. Most people will never get to experience it, hence sex is mechanical and transactional for most.
True. Vast majority of guys have to put in a lot of work to have regular sex. I don’t think they realize just how much energy/time/stress they put into getting laid .. from my vantage point the ratio of effort/reward is so lopsided for them in favor of effort . Not even close
Facially NOT GIFTED?? I believe that means "Ugly AF?"
The ending was epic bro! 💪
he is 100% right and explained it well.
But imagine, when the look is gone. You had super power, and with time, you lost it. This must be also hard to deal with.
At least u enjoyed unlike someone who didn't
Looks don’t fade totally - a good looking person should still be good looking into old age if they look after themselves.
This channel is the best. Just a 44 year old gay dude who is not welcome here, but loves it anyway. Not an inkwell but this dude give me chest goals.
Bruhhh
@@stylewithaltitude lol. It’s a vibe and I love this dude. Brothers.
@@upontheventura what's an inkwell
@@stylewithaltitude an inkwell is kinda ugly and not worthy of putting his pen- in the company ink! He’s just a little ugly. He may grow out of it or he may not.
@@stylewithaltitude Watch the video, dummy.
everything is everything nowadays 😂
“The only thing that matters is that your happy with yourself because at the end of the day if your happy with yourself who gives a damn what the rest of the world thinks of you anyways” LFA 2024
World could literally end tomorrow and we’re sitting here trying to “be better” than others like we’re still in High School and playing “pick me”… acting as if we will live forever… reality is gonna fuckin hurt for everyone here in the USA pretty soon, we ain’t changing but the universe is making everywhere else change quickly so we best be ready for harsh realities, this one of “looks are everything” AINT IT.
We are social beings,of course we care how other people look at us.I dont know so many people who are ugly,alone,and still happy with themselves.Looks are important because society is cruel for those who are unattractive.
@@nurarondic3686True, but society is also cruel to those who are poor and unsuccessful.
@@dreadedsun69 yes i agree,society is cruel also to poor once.But i just cant agree when people say,i dont care what other people say about me or how they treat me,because thats a lie,everybody cares.Its like you jump in the sea and pretending not to care how fishes treat you,but they are everywhere around,you cant escape their impact.
Yes everyone wants to belong, it's just human nature. People who say that try to appear cool and confident. But they are usually very insecure.
Thanks for your empathy bro
You're right. Just recently, me & my sister joined a gym. I was shocked that like 70%+ of the men there were attractive. However, it's safe to assume 2/3 are somewhere in-between arrogant & insecure. Which also leads to depression. They haven't worked on themselves mentally, & are compensating with material goods/looks. But like you said, at the end of the day you have to live with yourself. The second issue is they go after women who do not want them.
The females on the other hand were underwhelming. I remember telling my sister, "This Is what males are intimidated by. Let that sink in. Basic chicks with the personality of dry wall....who won't crack a smile or a joke." 😂So the problem most guys have is not looks, but not being content. They're inside their own heads & constantly comparing themselves to other guys. Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Stop trying to achieve something logistically impossible. It's killing you on the inside.
Going to the gym with your sister is very wholesome. I think you are right about that last thing, women would probably be higher quality overall if men had better self esteem and didnt simp XD
Most women are average without makeup on. You'd be surprised how many of these buff men have GF's that are average. I see it all the time.
Agree. Just look on these comment sections - many of these guys worst enemy is their own mind. They binge content like this and obsess over their looks and this gets them down and they carry this mindset into society and around women - women being as intuitive as they are are repelled by them due to their negative mindset . The guy doesn’t even have to say much and the girl will still feel the negative energy around him
You assume 2/3 of male gym goers are depressed? Maybe you are part of the problem?
Most men at the gym aren't depressed. Nor are they intimidated by some basic poon.
*Men do judge other men by looks. What do you mean by saying it doesn't work that way LFA? It inevitably does!
No question at all.
I’ve been called ugly by men at least 5 times in my life.
@@Emee5324 it isn’t even them overtly calling you anything. Like women, they decide how to treat you based on how you look. It’s you’re good looking, they want to be your friend. If you’re ugly, they’ll bully you and talk down to you.
Of course. Everyone judges people based on how they look.
@@The.Harsh.Truthstrue and if you are ugly you better work on other attributes(physical strength, intelligence, charisma) to make up for it.
Great video LFA, and thank you for showing empathy (not necessarily sympathy) to those unfortunate men (like me for example), who are just so physically unattractive that no vvoman wants (irrespective of what self work said ugly man does/or how good his personality may be).
Looks do matter, in fact they are critically important to a mans dating success or failure, if you're a very physically unattractive man, dating is often going to be a very self esteem crushing experience.
If you are one of those physically unattractive men that no vvoman wants (regardless of what self work you have done), own it, don't blame yourself, do NOT hate vvomen, humble yourself, and try and find happiness and meaning in your life, outside of your rotten luck with the ladies. And if you need some "bedroom fun" with the ladies, just pay a lady of the night (that's what I have been doing for the last 36 years).
You're actually really helping men by telling them the cold truth than fantastic lies.
Trying really hard to keep that laugh in at the end got me pretty good haha.
I wish I were easy to just no care what others think, but, when it comes to dating, it kinda matters; nonethless I like the message!
The more we learn to self-validate and determine our own worth or value as opposed to relying on external validation, the more integrity we will have and the more peace of mind we will accrue. We all have gifts for this world; for some intellectual, for others creativity, physical features, etc. But we are all given weaknesses and strengths, and it is just how we leverage them that matters.
Don’t give up, looks maxxing is real, and if you can’t change your looks - income/wealth, humor/personality, hobbies, philosophy/knowledge/experiences can all make you attractive to women.
I didn’t really date in HS, college and a few years after graduating. I wasn’t really trying, was focused on my career, chilling with friends/family and partying. Couple of hookups here and there but nothing regular. I generally considered myself average looking or even unattractive even though it was the best physical shape I’d ever been. Really average women would act turned off or reject me and I wasn’t making good money at the time to offset it.
I started to travel in my mid 20s both weekend trips and longer backpacking trips abroad, and something started to click. Might have just been hostel culture and backpacking culture, but started getting lucky with very beautiful women both locals and fellow travelers. And whatever happened the boost in my confidence stuck.
Back home started to looksmax in terms of how I dressed, groomed, hygiene, diet, posture and my career was on the upswing. But it was more about confidence and how I carry myself. Wasn’t even working out or jacked and I’m kinda short/average height but I stayed slim and athletic naturally.
Now I’m in my early 30s and I’m a ladykiller. Even after getting laid off and being broke for a period, I could more or less attract any woman I want. Even married women and women in relationships were willing to risk it all. I realized I was attractive all long not just in terms of looks but my vibe, it was just my lack confidence that was hurting me. Attitude truly determines your latitude when it comes to women, career and life in general. No one who hates themselves is gonna succeed in anything unfortunately.
This shirt needs to be on an island:) ☀️🌴🪸
4:40 is crazy 😂
Yup. They are simps.
80085
Keep up the good work. I've watched a few of your videos and i think you are doing a good job at describing some of the things we see in life every day but never analize in depth.
It's true. I recently realized I get a dopamine hit dating attractive tall men and the feeling is highly addictive. Nothing wrong with enjoying the feeling but you have to be careful not to become intoxicated with someone who is wasting your time. Good video.
What more important looks or height
@@JuanAlonzo-j1rlooks
women want to hook up with rare guys, market competition dictates it, if your looks are near average, you're in the top 50% of guys, you need more traits to narrow that down to a top 5-1% guy, fit guys are maybe 20-30%, so now you're in the top 15% at least, add in money/game to portray you have money, or some local fame for something, or being a specific type of guy that appeals to a specific type of girl and that helps further, make sure the traits you are aiming for are randomly distributed, otherwise the clustering will not work in your favor, also, sometimes random hookups just occur because you're the only guy around, go to vacation spots and try there, there are not enough highly attractive men to match with the demand from all women, yes looks is a disadvantage, but not as much as you would think if you approach it intelligently, also most of looks is based on clear skin, good teeth, nose shape, and hair, all of which can easily and cheaply be fixed if they are your issue, hell you can even get a jaw implant now days, the only major thing that is hard to fix is your eyes, which can also be accentuated by increasing the hair grown on your eyebrows with red light or minoxidil, there are zero excuses now days to not get results
Looks are not everything. Looks are fleeting. It's your personality that will outshine your looks by a mile and will outlast them by the years.
@@Shoegazebasedgenre0. Red pill still stuck through your head.
@@Shoegazebasedgenre0. where does beauty lie?
@@MoAdan28he has a point. Looks are the most important factor in terms of dating. It's been proven that it also heavily affecting your professional life.
@@HCforLife1 well if so everyone can be good looking and can have the same achievement but unforutantely not all people around the world are good looking and have great genetics they are just lucky and not having to work hard which we shouldn't normalise luck cos it's just is.
@@HCforLife1 Well looks can vary not just six pack and a good face sometimes you can't change your face but you can change your weight to be healthy and dress better (not a suit but something that adapts well and can mesh well with you). That's what I mean when Looks matter but it doesn't always have to be six pack and big muscles. It can be other things too with your face and shape up your beard.
I smashed the like button before the play button.
Truth. Always play to your strengths. Jobs, hobbies, women, etc. If you try to be something you are not, at best, you’ll be mediocre and get beat out by the real deal eventually unless you accept a raw deal (e.g. lower wages, paying more for a relationship).
But what makes the problem even worse, is that modern women consider average men unattractive since they are only hooking up with the top 20 percent.
I always hear that but all the average men I know are doing just fine.
@@LFA Yea maybe, I guess it depends on what you consider average.
This statement makes no sense because the top 20% of men are hooking up with the top 20% women so that means 80% of women are not hooking up with men with that logic lol
My friend back in the day was 40 years old and was very small maybe around 5"3 and had a hilarious squeeky voice and everyone loved him for it. Never got bullied, he was a peoples person. But he was still a virgin.
Definition of it never began
Beauty may be only skin deep but ugly is to the bone. If the "only" reason your interested in her is how she looks then don't be surprised when your judged the same way. Find a woman who is attracted to you and see if their is some chemistry and similar values. Then emotionally mature adults can have a rewarding long term relationship if that is what you desire.
Looks are all females have to offer
If you can't self improve somewhat then your ultimately doomed. Gym helps martial arts helps, style helps. It all enhances.
The problem with dating and self-improvement is.... it's focused on a "self". And partly most social life, so romantic life and sex life issues stem from a fact that fitness movement, social media and all kinds of self-improvement trainings are focused on a self, not on others. And sex is a social activity , it's done with other people so it requires a focus on other, not on a self. So sports can partly help but much more if there are "team sports" and not "individual sports". And a lot of sports popular with single males are in fact individual sports, so they help the physique but not so much their sex life or romantic life.
I appreciate the comedy of the character you play. I know the subject matter is serious but i also know your character portrayal and delivery are meant to be entertaining. I almost fell out of my chair when you went you mentioned jestermaxxing.
I am lucky i have had beautiful dream women . I was blessed with hair, eyes, height etc. Now older it is all character and behavior. I am successful hotelier dude , Italian vibe style. But #1 tool in box is humbleness and kindness.
The ladies in their 20's are my biggest connection , i tip well and never validate them i use patience they melt. Works spot on video!!! Brother...
How old are you approximately? And what do you mean by patience ? How long do you cultivate an interaction before you make it clear that you would like to hang out in a non-platonic way ?
@@drmahidhar1876 I never make anything clear with women other than no other dudes if we are having sexxx! I am 61 , I am like a Tom Cruise, Johnny Depp, Robert Downey JR. Fit a 7 out of 10, aesthetic metro sexual . La Fa has the right tools ⚒️ 100% . Spin plates always have options, ladies see when you are independent and cool vibe chill but serious ! Take care brother!!!!!
Love the “and lookin like a damn clown” line! 😎
LFA is the kind of guy who used to end every sentence with” oh yeahhh”
One of the few times my below average looks didn't matter was when i got a sales job at a store. My then boss actually told me that they chose between me and a guy who looked like Brad Pitt, but they needed someone with a brain and that gave me the advantage, weird form of flattery but i took it and ran with it lol. Looks DO matter, for everything in life, but even if you lack in that department there are times when you can get that thing you want, you just have to fight harder than the Brad Pitt look alike to get it.
Indeed, looks are important but we need other qualities as well to succeed.
Looks are important in initial attraction. Personality keeps that attraction
Dude is spitting facts
Genetics goes beyond dating we have to mention.
Apart from that back on the dating most real research and empirical evidence proves that looks is the King 👑 yes.
Indeed.
I disagree with the being humble because the world will treat you even worse.
Be extremely egocentric and stop being polite.
I’m learning alot 😢😊
LFA & 100K...Sounds OK!!
I just stumbled on your channel and and II like your videos. You are a great teacher. Everytime I look at you you remind me of ben affleck. I am sure you hear that alot?? Subscribed!!
Holy shit! Dude there was a movie out in the 90s called The Inkwell. At the end ol' boy did get some! Thanks for explaining!
I follow u since 2018 man you grow old but look good :D keep up the good work
In my experience, looks are indeed absolutely crucial. I have a funny face - funny in the sense that I can look very good and very bad. Very bad, because unfortunately I tend to have very big dark circles under my eyes, which can practically cover my whole face. I haven't yet found out why this is. Most people treat me like a leper in this case and women look at me in disgust.
But sometimes these dark circles have almost disappeared and my face looks clear. In these cases, I often get compliments and appreciative looks. So I'm a bit of a two-face, which is why I can definitely say that looks are pretty much all-important.
Best video from you ever, imo😮.
That long pause at the end. Love it. Lolol
Day 1. Chest/Shoulders Day 2. Back Day 3. Biceps/Triceps Day 4. Legs Day 5. Cardio it can be anything. You do that consistently and I guarantee if you're a 3 or 4 in the looks category you go up to an 8 or 9 and WILL 100% noticed and chances with beautiful women.
This last part is the best
I genuinely feel like my looks definitely play into my confidence because for so many years I’ve been wanting to fix these issue since I was a kid such as my teeth /broken nose and gyncomstia breast.
Plenty of good looking people still seeking online validation happiness always comes from within not externally if you can be happy in yourself you won’t care what the world thinks of you .
Easier said than done.
W long pause towards the end of the video.
7.21 is gold and the most important part
Elvis's face gives me a dopamine hit
This is very powerful content
this is just my opinion, but I've been attracted to women who were not physically attractive in the face, but they had something about themselves that made up for it. Great personality, a nice body, or just a certain feature that they possessed which I found hot. Being facially challenged can definitely be overcome. Alot people just fail to realize where their strengths are.
I'm 30 y.o. 160cm living where avg height it's 175cm. I have a 9/10 face.
People I met are just instantly nice and happy, then put me in their friendzone, woman too. I had my adventures, but I can tell you that woman just don't threat you as it should. As a masculine man.
Like you said, I'm in their life because I bring them positive emotions.
Brudda if you were a 9/10 facially women wouldnt friendzone you
looks are everything Im considered very attractive cute handsome I'm also big on looks I'm not a physically unattrative person women call me handsome all the time I make sure my look are up to par everyday I try my absolute best to my become as handsome as possible everyday
That you in your pic?
Tonight, it's very clear
'Cause we're both lying here
There's so many things I wanna say
I will always love you
I would never leave you alone
Sometimes, I just forget
Say things I might regret
It breaks my heart to see you crying
I don't wanna lose you
I could never make it alone
I am a man who will fight for your honor
I'll be the hero you're dreaming of
We'll live forever
Knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love
You keep me standing tall
You help me through it all
I'm always strong when you're beside me
I have always needed you
I could never make it alone
I am the man who will fight for your honor
I'll be the hero you've been dreaming of
We'll live forever
Knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love
It's like a knight in shining armor
From a long time ago
Just in time, I will save the day
Take you to my castle far away
I am the man who will fight for your honor
I'll be the hero that your dreaming of
We're gonna live forever
Knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love
We'll live forever
Knowing together
That we did it all for the glory of love
We did it all for love
We did it all for love
We did it all for love
We did it all for love
-Peter Cetera
Sometimes you are too good to be true, Im 6ft 4, jacked to the bone, good looking and have my own buisness at 21 years old.
Sometimes they get really insecure in my presence or cant stand it, that there is someone more good looking than them, also if you want a serious relationship no one trusts you, they all think you are a player and they just getting used for sex :/
Seems like i have exactly the same problems like you do. Just got recently rejected because she thought i was too good looking for her. I don't know, its hard for me to find a girl that is prettier than me and they all want to be the prettier one in the relationship.
It hurts their ego if you look better, but I don't give a fuck, I dont want to date seriously before 25 noe I have to get the money up first 📈
If you died right now are you a 100% sure you’d go to Heaven?
all people have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
What is sin? Sin is essentially any bad thing we've ever done.
Because of sin the punishment is a burning hell.
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.”
Revelation 21:8 KJV
Do u know why you have to be saved?
Do u know the story of Jesus? (If yes skip next step) if not do next step. God came down to earth as a man. Lived for 33 and a half years. He never sinned his whole life. Eventually some people got jealous of him and got him convicted of phony charges. He got crucified on the cross. Died. Was buried for 3 days then he was resurrected by his own power.
Do you know why Jesus went through all this bloody mess for us?
It’s because remember your sin is the problem why you can’t go to Heaven right?
The only thing that can wash away your sin is the blood of Jesus Christ
“But God shows his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”
Romans 5:8 KJV
God did all that to save us from hell
"Much more than, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him.”
Romans 5:9 KJV
Ephesians 2:8-9
“We’re saved by Grace through faith which is not of ourselves it is the gift of God not by works for fear any man should boast”
Salvation is not by good works like “water baptism, attending church, any good thing you do”
“For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.”
2 Corinthians 7:10 KJV
Feeling godly sorrow leads to salvation
To be saved you have to feel guilty for being a sinner do you feel guilty for being a sinner?
“that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”
Romans 10:9 KJV
If you agree with all that. All you have to do be saved is this. You have to mean it.
Dear God I repent as a sinner I believe Jesus is God who died buried and resurrected so his blood can wash away my sins. So I only trust in the blood alone to save me. Not my good works. To save me from hell in Jesus name. I pray amen
Just saying it wont save you you have to mean it
@@Erik_Walter using wealth as a tool to get women is a foolish mistake. 28 year old nuclear pharmacist here.
They're just projecting their own insecurities on to you. If she thinks your a player then that means she's been riding the c0ck carousel and if she thinks your too good looking then it means she wants all the attention from other men and leverage in the relationship to be able to dictate it with the option to leave if she gets bored. She doesn't want to be in a relationship where men have the power and she is a subordinate to you.
Looks AND age are everything. You can be really good looking and still get screwed over by age prejudiced women. 😎
The truth is….. just don’t feel entitled to someone who looks better than you. If your unattractive than stick with unattractive and so on.
Been red/black pilled for years now but just now realizing this fact even more! Also realized I’m not as attractive as I once thought. As I’ve aged, something about my face just looks off and goofy haha. I’ve been with plenty of baddies, but lately I’ve been monk mode anyways but I feel like women are repulsed by me 😂. Idc tho, I’m MGTOW and enjoying life doing whatever I want. Might just visit the local rub and tugs every now and then.
What I've noticed if you look good stay focused on you're space and you're known to keep secrets be 80% player and 20% lover boy you in the game with life in general be well rounded and centered at the same time be in the world but don't be of the world that's what gives you a advantage and the edge that makes you Stand out.
Nobody can make you happy you are the one who can take charge of your own life .be happy always give thanks to God for bringing you in this world
Keep telling yourself that
Blackpill is so real when I was a chadlite people respected me more females threw themselves at me and shit. Now I glowed down and all of them started to slowly fade away some of them changed immediantely now they dont notice me or they'll look at me and look of quick.
The power of love is a curious thing
Make a one man weep, make another man sing
Change a hawk to a little white dove
More than a feeling, that's the power of love
Tougher than diamonds, rich like cream
Stronger and harder than a bad girl's dream
Make a bad one good, mm, make a wrong one right
Power of love that keep you home at night
You don't need money, don't take fame
Don't need no credit card to ride this train
It's strong and it's sudden, and it's cruel sometimes
But it might just save your life
That's the power of love
That's the power of love
First time you feel it, it might make you sad
Next time you feel it, it might make you mad
But you'll be glad, baby, when you've found
That's the power makes the world go 'round
And it don't take money, don't take fame
Don't need no credit card to ride this train
It's strong and it's sudden, it can be cruel sometimes
But it might just save your life
They say that all in love is fair
Yeah, but you don't care (ooh)
But you know what to do (what to do)
When it gets hold of you
And with a little help from above
You feel the power of love
You feel the power of love
Can you feel it?
Hm-hm
It don't take money, and it don't take fame
Don't need no credit card to ride this train
Tougher than diamonds and stronger than steel
But you won't feel nothin' 'til you feel
You feel the power, just feel the power of love
That's the power, mm, that's the power of love
You feel the power of love
You feel the power of love
Feel the power of love
-Huey Lewis & The News
Giggle 🙊 thank you for the explanations with a laugh, ha inkwell same as incel? Plus we don’t choose our looks our parents do, some are blessed some are not in this area. But you’re right they can influence in other ways example JZ.
yepp, the end holds the truth.
7:30 greatest quality one can have is to be humble
“ confidence is a lie” - LFA
Really cool how you turned to stone in the last minute like you saw Medusa.
Dr. Steve Brule would say, “just another hunk who thinks he knows everything .. for your health” lol😂
the tedies after the "looking at her smile" comment is funny man
Looks matter in ever relationship.
20 year age gap story here: I am 43, 5'4", a former figure skater, and 60 pounds overweight with a thin head of hair and a bald spot for Christ sake, and a 23 year old objectively hot, athletic waitress who I am a regular for, voluntarily (without me asking for it) slipped me her number a couple days ago when no one was looking. This chick lights up when I walk in and she spends the entire time talking to me when I am there. She risked her job to connect with me. She has a bf (former football player in shape better looking) that works there as well as he is 19 and acts like a huge pussy. This girl by the standards of "leagues" is "out of my league" by looks alone by most peoples standards. The difference is I have things going on in my life and I carry myself with complete confidence and a set of balls. Looks matter but they are not the only thing that matters. How you carry yourself is most of the equation. And no this is not a chick with a high body count feminist. This is a more conservative full package girl. It should be, by BlackPill standards, "over for me", but it certainly is not! Don't sell yourself short, guys. And I only tip 20% by the way, so money is not part of the equation either. I make 60k a year and am not rich by any means. I have confidence and a set of balls.
@@ChrisPatrick8199 outlier
And then you woke up
@@zankom417 no dummy
@@zankom417 wrong
Total truth.
That ending 😂
My man looking good in that shirt. ❤
You forgot to say no homo
relax, hes only human, some of y'all get too into "influencers" for nothing.
@GabeDrumBeats calm down.
@@GabrielXDrums they sure do. It blows my mind how many folks just completely buy into whatever the creator/influencer says
@@mediumchungus9662 other guy below would disagree, y’all live on the internet too much, taking personalities that hopefully don’t translate to your interactions IRL.
Just a thought buddy.
I was blessed not having to be the friend zone guy. I’ve tried to help guys who are not. Usually the women fuckin hate me for introducing them as a good guy. Sad