How much money must he make to date you? (Street interviews) Girls in the Philippines answer

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  • @sdickinson5234
    @sdickinson5234 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    About the girl that said 20k a month is enough for a guy to date her, that's around $400. So many guys freak out about being asked to help support a girls parents. On another interview a girl said she would expect a guy to support her parents. They asked her how much money should he send her parents per month. She said $20.

    • @timhnc75
      @timhnc75 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yeah $20 is nothing

    • @sdickinson5234
      @sdickinson5234 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@timhnc75 Exactly. $20 is really low for an example but most guys send too much and the family suddenly becomes rich (in their eyes). Another example, a woman I met in Davao City 4 years ago said she wanted to save money and buy a new house for her parents. I asked her how much a new house costs. She said $1200.

    • @shakeblue5573
      @shakeblue5573 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@timhnc75 hey bro it is something. i work hard for my money. i never devalue it ever...👍🏽

    • @mviking39
      @mviking39 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sdickinson5234wow.

    • @joeboyd5349
      @joeboyd5349 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shes a keeper

  • @Lisaaaaaaq
    @Lisaaaaaaq ปีที่แล้ว +43

    First girl was super pretty and her vibe was amazing 😊

  • @jackson7922
    @jackson7922 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    That first womans responses really blew me away. Couldn't imagine her ending up on a dating site, but wow. So kind and straightforward.

    • @pete531
      @pete531 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      she doesnt look that innocent if you pay attention, she made some sus gestures and face muscles activation

    • @ilyrics2775
      @ilyrics2775 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@pete531 well that doesn't prove she's not innocent. You're just used to seeing your girls gestures but it's a very far different gesture to other countries. The nuance you just noticed is typical of Filipinas when they feel "kilig" especially when asked about recalling the journey.

    • @SaiquanCanty
      @SaiquanCanty ปีที่แล้ว +17

      ​@pete531 Turn off the Red Pill videos, go outside, and touch some grass.

    • @SaiquanCanty
      @SaiquanCanty ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm willing to bet she's on a dating site because many of the guys that approach her only want one thing. She doesn't come across as that kind of girl. Hence, she ends up on a dating site.

    • @JD-vh5hj
      @JD-vh5hj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@SaiquanCantywell said.

  • @phillipscott1881
    @phillipscott1881 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    These young women truly warmed my heart. I don't think here in the U.S. you would have gotten a response similar

    • @johnl9977
      @johnl9977 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Believe me, they really are very wholesome and sweet ladies over there. Quite traditional, especially in the provinces. The Philippine people are just very decent people. They really don't have the greed like most of the people over here have for the most part. They are a happy friendly people, even those who do not have so much. Very, very different from over here.

    • @brwils3378
      @brwils3378 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      No you wouldn’t. In the USA if you ain’t 7 foot ripped with a 8 pack, drive a V-alpha and make 1 billion a year don’t even try to talk to her. Your dirt.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @brwils3378 haaha amen bro

    • @alals6794
      @alals6794 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@brwils3378 haha.....Actually, I am 6 foot 1 inch, always have been fit and in my 20's, I did pretty good in metro Los Angeles. And at 35yo, I ended up with a 19yo California girl in 2003. Ok, that was 20 years ago, certainly.

    • @brwils3378
      @brwils3378 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alals6794 like you said 20 years ago! Fast forward to 2023. I was pulling girls 10 years ago in 2013 but in the last decade times have changed. From my early 20’s we’re easier even though I was not as fit and only made 30,000 a year, now I’m in my 30’s and make six figures and at top of my physique it’s not enough! They want a fairytale now.

  • @estheranneabrenica3958
    @estheranneabrenica3958 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    To me money is just the icing of the cake but being a man in taking responsibilities, and with me being treated like a woman are both a must have.

  • @aiannarae5181
    @aiannarae5181 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    I'm a Filipina and yes as a Filipina I don't care about money.As long as the man is respectful,responsible,caring ,loving,honest and loyal.Thats all that matters.

    • @joeboyd5349
      @joeboyd5349 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Until there is an emergency which is daily occurrence in Philippines

    • @maelestepa9252
      @maelestepa9252 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In short you’re looking for a perfect man. You’ll take forever to find him nowadays. It’s like you said give me the moon. Also, without no money or I would say, without enough money marriage will not last, that’s guaranteed. I won’t lie.

    • @kenswallow5388
      @kenswallow5388 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah the filipina might not care but her family do and pressure her everyday for money and things when they find out she is dating a westerner

    • @kingstylegaming8791
      @kingstylegaming8791 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@maelestepa9252no it's not hard to find a guy like that maybe you are not one of those description that's why you are bitter

    • @bernie4366
      @bernie4366 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@maelestepa9252 How is that different from any other women anywhere else in the world?

  • @paulk8444
    @paulk8444 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I;m moving to the Philippines and a bonus would be to find a sweet Filipina from a Good family as that is so important as their family is as important as a husband. No Western woman can come close to these Ladies and even though they are not perfect and you have to deal with cultural differences for Any man wanting a relationship these Ladies are miles ahead. Grab your passports Bros and follow us.

    • @jasonsandoval3823
      @jasonsandoval3823 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just an advise, do not look in the Cities

    • @Mr44rr
      @Mr44rr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jasonsandoval3823 Why?

    • @JD-vh5hj
      @JD-vh5hj ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Mr44rrthe internet makes em most westernised too so stick to the country side and villages

    • @Mr44rr
      @Mr44rr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@JD-vh5hj Good idea.

    • @prestonismyrealtor
      @prestonismyrealtor ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Love my Filipina, we’ve been together for three years and are getting married next year. She’s from a village

  • @liannebarolo
    @liannebarolo ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Filipinas are used to having a simple life that's why they don't care about money too much. Thank you for sharing this video :)

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea, it definitely seems like that. I was surprised

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      True that!

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      so true. I only strictly go for filipinas only and no more modern western women anymore. I sent money through western union to my still current filipina girlfriend of 3 years and in the beginning, right off the bat, she say no to me when she didnt ask for help or money at all and it's something I did to surprise her. So yeah.. she said no and tell me to get a refund. I try to convince but she still say no.. and yeah.. after 1-2 weeks I was forced to get a refund because she wouldnt take it. Now imagine the difference compared to * most * western modern women. In this generation, not many will do what filipinas do. And they are so kind. God bless Philippines

    • @brerrabbit4265
      @brerrabbit4265 ปีที่แล้ว

      You sir, are dumb.

    • @davetibon
      @davetibon ปีที่แล้ว

      Weh

  • @OliverDoma-h5r
    @OliverDoma-h5r ปีที่แล้ว +52

    the girl who said 5 millions is actually joking..That is part of filipino sense of humor thats why they laughed..they will date you if they like you even eating kwekkwek only

    • @Ima1stHuemanHi
      @Ima1stHuemanHi ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nah she mean that s h i t

    • @glenncrane1651
      @glenncrane1651 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wala pera Wala panties

    • @irish66
      @irish66 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Ima1stHuemanHi No she didn't.

    • @panchopachangas4450
      @panchopachangas4450 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ima1stHuemanHishe meant Filipino pesos which is about 85k USD. Plus I don’t think she really meant it.

    • @proverbs3133
      @proverbs3133 ปีที่แล้ว

      The laugh is actually a dead giveaway. Most Filipina's aren't Golddiggers but that one is an exception. I think she meant every bit of 5M. At least she was being honest in her gold-digging intentions. @@Ima1stHuemanHi

  • @joan5996
    @joan5996 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    The truth is Filipinas in general don't mind if guys are earning less than they are. As long as the guys genuinely perform their roles as their partners. I know this for sure because I have three sisters who are earning way more than their husbands and they're good with that. And Alex you're on your way to 100k. I remember your channel had just 2k subs when I found it. More success to you.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'd have to agree. Although I don't have much experience in being a relationship with a Filipina. After talking to so many of them I'd have to agree that they mostly just want a responsible man. They don't seem materialistic.
      Thank you for being here from the start!! I appreciate the continuous support 🇨🇦🤝🇵🇭🥳

  • @glenarnett7589
    @glenarnett7589 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I really loved this. What a difference in women at the states and women of the Philippines.

  • @davidowens1424
    @davidowens1424 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It's amazing and refreshing to see ladies focused on the quality of a relationship vs how much the man makes (like here in the states).

    • @pete531
      @pete531 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      meanwhile in USA: 6 to 7 figures lol

    • @norml.hugh-mann
      @norml.hugh-mann ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Naw...these women are interviewing to find $upport.

  • @paschaluzoma1429
    @paschaluzoma1429 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first girl you interviewed is awesome,honest and beautiful.

  • @angelicaacebuche8586
    @angelicaacebuche8586 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Filipinas dont really demand money from BF or Husband unless they are married and have a child to support. We prefer Guys with stable Jobs but in reality many Filipino dates because we just like the person and the Guy is Good and Take care of us well.
    Did you know we Filipina have an Ego that we want to work for ourselves we hate to rely to any man or anyone.we wont use a man financing Us because we dont really need to. We are not Rich but we work hard to finance Ourselves and support our Family.
    Money doesn't matter if the person is not a Good man or Cant take care of us not in terms of providing money but giving assurance, Give love we deserve and peace of mind that's all that matter.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah.. thats happening to me.. she always say she want to work and have her own money. Instead of me sending to her and rejecting me. lol

    • @hardythingh4510
      @hardythingh4510 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately my online experience kinda showed 80% asked for money. Obviously most are scams. But what I found is they won’t ask from guys they like, if they think he’s old n ugly they will ask. So I guess I am old n ugly.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@hardythingh4510 nah bro. If it's a gold digger they will ask anyone. Every country got them. There are some really good and honest filipina and it's no different as there are some really good and also horrible men out there as well. Sometimes it's just the luck of the draw and no one knows if they are good or not unless you try with them.
      And also, there's a reason why many are recommending not to online date because online date seems to have a lot of bad experiences where even other girls learn from it. You can meet some at the mall or even say hello to some on the streets. Innocent filipino who didnt get toxic experience from online dating is what we all need. Once a filipina gets influenced by western or online dating and get used to it, thats when it gets bad. Innocent filipina will be innocent and not do those harmful things to you. Best of luck to you bro

    • @johnv5156
      @johnv5156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peterhuang1431 They are all gold diggers, some hide the shovel better than others.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnv5156 I'd say most are but not 100%. Thats like saying all men wants 100% attractive and pretty girls only but you'd be surprised how many men will choose ugly girl with great personality to start a relationship.

  • @NahBra_EUC
    @NahBra_EUC ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I know that part of the Philippines well. Nice to see women who are open minded.

  • @turwalswor
    @turwalswor ปีที่แล้ว +13

    the upload consistency is A1 bro, even with the livestreams 👌

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for noticing my man 💪

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeah the live streams are great. Alex answers our questions and we feel involved too and fun to watch compared to some live where they talk like a teacher's lecture and boring sometimes

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peterhuang1431 thanks guys. I do my best 🫡

  • @bellzeppelin6913
    @bellzeppelin6913 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m from the Philippines and when a Filipina said she like tall guys she means 5’7 to 5’10 max because most filipina women are cute and short lol and also the girl that said she wants a guy that earns 5 million a month is just joking because there is this thing called filipino humour, because filipino in general likes to lighten up the mood and foreigners seem to misinterpret it

  • @reneflores3711
    @reneflores3711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    NOTE: @4:45 she stated as long as he makes more than what I make, short pause, “FOR MY SELF”. I will assume she wants him to share his wealth but she will not.

  • @mikeytimes6897
    @mikeytimes6897 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So Different From Canadian Standards,, in Montreal you need great job , a nice house ,a nice car ....ahhh I'm much better here in Asia compared to western girls, to materialistic...
    Filipinas are so beautiful, nice and sweet and they don't care your age or what you look like...THATS WHY IM IN PHILIPPINES!!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea fir sure!

    • @havenpersonalcare7968
      @havenpersonalcare7968 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Life is short brother; enjoy it! Been in the U.S for over 30 years; and yes, you are right, not all. I know of individuals who makes over $200K = P10M/ a month and compared their happiness level to those in P.I; zero to none. No longer human being, but human doing. 😞😔😟

    • @zeethedrummer
      @zeethedrummer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same in China my bro, a man must have an apartment to get married!

  • @Spy-hp8ki
    @Spy-hp8ki ปีที่แล้ว +54

    That guy behind the two girls, though. Creepy.

  • @sheilailagan2369
    @sheilailagan2369 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When I was younger I used to date those with good family background with family businesses and with car but now that I am older, (32 years old), my preferences change a lot. As long as he is a hard working guy, doesn’t smoke, doesn’t drink alcohol I am happy. 😅

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea I hear you. Our preferences and experiences change our wants, as we grow older

    • @sheilailagan2369
      @sheilailagan2369 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Livingabroadalex yeah. Money can’t buy peace of mind 😌😅😂🤣

    • @dodji582
      @dodji582 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why you didn't marry those guys you dated when you were younger?
      Bcoz now, when a woman is older those attractive guys probably don't want you anymore. Generally men prefer young women

    • @sheilailagan2369
      @sheilailagan2369 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@dodji582 mainly bcoz they were all cheaters 😅,
      Why would I marry? I am not financially stable, I don’t have my own house, I just finished my MA degree last semester. I want to enjoy life first. I still want to have another program to take. In short, marriage is not my priority, besides I believe if its meant to be yours then you will get it.

    • @sveborgrof9354
      @sveborgrof9354 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice, greetings from Ireland ☘️

  • @stormbytes
    @stormbytes 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really terrific video! Super job with the interviewing. Just enough questions and guidance but you don't get in the way of the person responding. Straight and to the point. Just well done!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! Glad ypu enjoyed it 😁

  • @MushagasheNative
    @MushagasheNative ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That famous line, "I haven't been in a relationship before"

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😅

    • @eQuariuz
      @eQuariuz ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's kind of amazing that more men didn't catch on to her with that line, and the neck and breast tattoos. Enter a "relationship" with her at your own risk.

  • @gabubot
    @gabubot ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow it's really refreshing to see these ladies attitudes, , in regards to dating and relationships... Very different than the west

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes definitely!

    • @LanTran-oh2yv
      @LanTran-oh2yv ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it’s called naive and not experienced

    • @johnv5156
      @johnv5156 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LanTran-oh2yv Let me correct that for you. It's traditional values and not libtard nonsense in the west.

    • @allanhougaard7207
      @allanhougaard7207 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are reading from a script.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @allanhougaard7207 🤣

  • @Leonard369C
    @Leonard369C ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Filipinas are afraid of the Golddigger stereotype so rarely well they give an honest answer about money. I am quite sure all women have a certain standard of living that they would like to achieve or maintain.

    • @DaveO-n8m
      @DaveO-n8m 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      as does every woman anywhere since the dawn of time

    • @Leonard369C
      @Leonard369C 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@DaveO-n8m your statement is very true, however, there is one distinction that applies to Filipino women that does not apply to western women. It is a rare occurrence in western Society that women have access to men making five times their salary. Whereas in the Philippines, a typical Social Security check is five times more than the average Filipina makes, and the majority of the Filipinas dating foreigners. Don’t even make the average. So while it is true that the nature of women is similar, there is a vast difference in circumstances.

    • @Leonard369C
      @Leonard369C 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DaveO-n8m

  • @okbilly1
    @okbilly1 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I like how the Filipinas like the simple life not motivated by $

  • @havenpersonalcare7968
    @havenpersonalcare7968 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Another well done Alex! Keep the videos coming; you've inspired me so much that I've booked my ticket Vegas to P.I this 29AUG; too bad I'm married; but we're after the cost of living and priceless smiles.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much. Luckily, the Philippines has a lot more to offer than suitable women
      I hope you have the time of your life with your family during your trip!

  • @elainelim2569
    @elainelim2569 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    For me when it comes to dating,I don't care about the money But if it's about having a family it's a different story. I want my husband to have a stable income, he should know how to support his family. I don't want to repeat the same mistake I made before. I'm tired of being a provider.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree. No one wants to be together with a homeless person. Still gotta be mature and have a bit of something at least

    • @brerrabbit4265
      @brerrabbit4265 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So are we. get a job.

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@brerrabbit4265 Im sure she have a job and Im sure shes not looking to free loading and it's misinterpreted. Shes saying she dont want to be a provider as in a single mom or a masculine women like the west who always say they are " strong and independent ". She wants a strong man to lead and provide which all girls want and I see nothing wrong in that. At least thats how I see it.
      Either that or she dont want to date a bum who dont work, drink all day and useless. No one wishes to be with a bum in the eyes of females. lets me honest.
      She could also mean that shes tired of being a provider and want to be able to take care of kids and cook for the man and do house chores too. but she didnt say that but these are how I see it

    • @elainelim2569
      @elainelim2569 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@brerrabbit4265 of course I do have a job,I'm a quality assurance in my company and I have restaurant and salon, Ive been 14 years separated without any support. I raised my child on my own.

    • @elainelim2569
      @elainelim2569 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peterhuang1431 your right with your assessment, my ex husband before is not working for almost 4years we been together, that's why I'm the one who provide for our family, I just want him to take care of our child but instead he always want to drunk and to be with his friends all-day. I'm always dreaming to become a fulltime housewife. I wish someday 🤞

  • @Lawrencerice
    @Lawrencerice ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her "love language" are the 4 M's: Old, rich, soon to die...

  • @BaDik_Jacob
    @BaDik_Jacob ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Filipinas are gorgeous holy cow. That first girl was super cute

  • @joeboyd5349
    @joeboyd5349 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your back in Philippines Alex. Glad to see. Your interviews are fun and entertaining

  • @davidfitzgerald8065
    @davidfitzgerald8065 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm surprised that one girl said 20k a month. That is what I send to my fiance each month. If I was to retire there I would be living like a king.

    • @EsauistheCaucasian
      @EsauistheCaucasian ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lmao

    • @EsauistheCaucasian
      @EsauistheCaucasian ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samanthajones4 Simping will never die. What a loser. Some with mismatched socks that has chicken dung stains on them is rearranging her guts right as we speak

    • @brerrabbit4265
      @brerrabbit4265 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your fiance is more than likely cheating on you. That brother you met in the village, that's her husband. Her younger siblings, those are her children.

    • @davidfitzgerald8065
      @davidfitzgerald8065 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @brerrabbit4265 not likely.
      We have a 10 year history. I don't need to justify my situation on this site. It a long complicated story. She will be in the US most likely by the end of this year on the I129F visa application, which has already been approved. With that said, if anyone needs advice on this process I'm all ears. I have a major amount of experience in the visa process.

    • @EsauistheCaucasian
      @EsauistheCaucasian ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@brerrabbit4265 Did you see his response to you?!?!?!?!?!?! This dude is going to be in a WORLD OF HURT very soon.

  • @edwinkirkland8856
    @edwinkirkland8856 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    There's ABSOLUTELY nothing like a philipina woman period ❤

    • @thatonegamer2709
      @thatonegamer2709 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lmfao clearly you havent traveled the world if you seriously think so

    • @Miichellea
      @Miichellea 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yah, they are perfect.... actresses!!!

    • @allanhougaard7207
      @allanhougaard7207 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      haha you clearly met a woma that want you for you and not your wallet.

  • @jon6309
    @jon6309 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Hey Alex very interesting and bold topic to cover but I am glad that you were able to find participants who could provide answers. Hmm I am actually surprised that generally women of the younger generation still cling to the traditional idea of the man earning more than the woman. I've met many here in Hawaii where couples were the opposite from the tradition and the woman is the breadwinner and the man earns less.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Jon. Yes, that was surprising to me too!

  • @happyheart10103
    @happyheart10103 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Generally Filipina will not demand how much money a guy can make for us to go on date or to be in a relationship but as a man atleast you have something to bring in the table and if you don’t want to be a sole provider of the family in the future so don’t go on someone who is dependent on you.Its a matter of choice. Relationship nowadays should be give and take.Being a sole provider for the whole family is not mandatory but being a responsible is a must.😊

  • @chuloyo650
    @chuloyo650 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s crazy how much the difference is. Im the type of guy that shows affection and is caring. Yet many women in the U.S don’t like that. They think it’s clingy or soft. I dated this girl that wouldn’t like me being to affectionate and didn’t like to hold hands in public. We dated for 2 years but it didn’t work out because she wanted me to make a huge amount in salary.

  • @robertvermeer5951
    @robertvermeer5951 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The question "How much money needs a guy to make to date you?" is just so typically American. There seems to be no room for genuine feelings and different values other than that of money. Glad to see it's different in other cultures.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree!

    • @allanhougaard7207
      @allanhougaard7207 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      USA is all about money. I went there with a friend. Everybody i talked to ended up asking my income and what house and car i qwn. Its a terrible selfish people.

  • @mitchbarredo3990
    @mitchbarredo3990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They only act modest and low key for now. When you reach the altar and the second after you say I do and the marriage contract is signed in front of the priest prepare for a massive, immediate personality change and not for the better.

  • @stephanventer3708
    @stephanventer3708 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Stopped dating western woman 15 years ago. I'm still single working on my business but will definitely go retire in the Philippines

  • @tdscasanova7428
    @tdscasanova7428 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In case you guys don't know this.....majority of the filipinas are players and will have multiple relationships at the same time. I say this so that if you think having money solidifies the relationship....think again.

    • @johnv5156
      @johnv5156 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell us you attract low quality women without telling us.

  • @ronfindley2874
    @ronfindley2874 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Interesting video. Very interesting topic. Most answers were exactly what i expected. Most Filipina only Expect enough to maintain life. They Wish they had more.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Not expected for me
      But definitely music to my ears

  • @JunemarBuclolgulitiw-ef2dt
    @JunemarBuclolgulitiw-ef2dt ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hahaha..I'm loughing about different opinion in about lovers or dating..but it's true we are in different feelings,or the specific way, kinds of loves..✌️✌️✌️❤️❤️❤️🇨🇿🇨🇿🇨🇿..good job bro..

  • @Leonard369C
    @Leonard369C ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Western women, wanting men that make six-figure is an untruthful Internet fad. The vast majority of women in America have never met a man that makes six figures, the median income in the US is about 44K a year, and only 18% of Americans make six figures.

  • @BLUE-k1r
    @BLUE-k1r ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro you’re awesome 👏 I just enjoyed watching your video

  • @trainrecked
    @trainrecked ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The guy in the background is thinking..soo, this is a good way to meet girls..lol

  • @paschaluzoma1429
    @paschaluzoma1429 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To be honest most Philippines women are honest even when it is hard to be.

    • @markedwards8327
      @markedwards8327 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol😂 ok . They will lie and rewrite history if necessary to get what they want and need hotta survive not all but don't let these sweet things fool ya been there for 20 years off and on I seen a lot of guys get hit with that sneaky left hook lol 😅you won't see it coming

  • @daebak3240
    @daebak3240 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Based on the content you have made so far in your channel, your target audience is the Passport Bros.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I guess you haven't seen much of my content 😆

    • @LouStien-c2o
      @LouStien-c2o ปีที่แล้ว

      So called passport bros underachieve in the Philippines.

  • @Dyils
    @Dyils 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Should have asked the first girl what dating site? Do they use classic dating sites from the days before the swiping apps? Or is it just swiping apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, etc.
    Would have been interesting to know if there's a difference in what they use there.

  • @OriginalTeddy
    @OriginalTeddy ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Putting girlfriends and dating aside by talking about money in general...
    I've been researching and planning a Philippines "test run" for either 2024 or 2025 since I might stick around for family during the Christmas holidays. I'd have more than enough to sustain myself for a few years (at least the three year visa run without even a question) out there if the culture get's a tight enough grasp on me.
    My main concern is if I were to stay, is there anything for entry level foreigners out there as I'm not near old nor rich enough to retire. I mean even flipping burgers to start would suffice to start. I know a lot of advice on this points towards remote jobs. Is that our only option as foreigners for entry level jobs or would an employer even look at a 9(g) if it wasn't for a specialized/professional role?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very difficult to find jobs here as I. Certain you don't want to work for around 10 dollars a day. You could make that I less than an hour online. I do 1 on 1 consultation for 100 bucks if you want specific platforms, sites, and schools, and my own affiliate to join.
      Send me an email to talknowcanada@gmail.com If you're interested.
      If not then I wish you a happy adventure my friend 😊

    • @Anonymoose66G
      @Anonymoose66G ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get a remote job from an international employer or do your own thing.
      As far as doing your own thing, the easiest most accessible things which would give you a good income-expenditure ratio in developing countries would be copywriting, tutoring (languages, mathematics etc) video editing, graphic design, digital marketing, photography, real estate marketing, product marketing etc.

  • @themediterraneanguy
    @themediterraneanguy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have to say the best WORDS and IMPRESSIONS for Filipina Women, they are sweet, caring and lovely, just be yourself and be honest to them and in return you will get ENDLESS LOVE. God Bless, Salamat Po

  • @abhnergallegos5264
    @abhnergallegos5264 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dude please make more with this topic, these are f°cking entertaining as F#ck lmfao

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hahaha thanks bro. Check out the rest of the street interviews 💪👌

  • @joeoak7090
    @joeoak7090 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm getting a passport next month really wanna visit Cebu

  • @richardhowe3951
    @richardhowe3951 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Alex. Good vid. Like to see more like this with older ladies say 25 to 40. Some of us like maturer women. Doing good man!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea, I'd like to have a variety of ages, too. But most people over 30 say no to being on camera.

    • @sal78sal
      @sal78sal 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      this guy does not go to nursing homes.

  • @solidpain9098
    @solidpain9098 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5 mill PHP a month are $90.000/month or over a 1.000.000/year. Nobody earns that much besides some very few CEOs. What a gold digger.

    • @jimmyellys5990
      @jimmyellys5990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      5 million pesos a month? I'd rather spend it in a massage parlor and be worshiped like a god there

  • @cbomik1
    @cbomik1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    if the foreigner was 70 years old it would cost him a lot more to date these ladies then if the guy was 25 and handsome.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Naturally

    • @panan7777
      @panan7777 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex BUT still WAY better looking and STILL cheaper on nerves and wallet than having to put with a 50 years or older, wrinkled hag, begging for every sex.
      Remember "Sex was NEVER free for men".

    • @johnv5156
      @johnv5156 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ya think? ha

  • @TrenGenius
    @TrenGenius ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this what women attitude supposed to be like. these ladies are feminine and not tainted and driven my money and status or attention

  • @aydinsha
    @aydinsha ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So basically even there with relatively short girls height seems to be one of the most important factors. Considering most Filipinos are even shorter than Americans, it also shows they have unrealistic expectations. Also what they say politely on camera is different than what they might think, obviously a lot of these girls aren't going to want to portray themselves or their people as gold diggers.

    • @brerrabbit4265
      @brerrabbit4265 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Finally, someone on here with a brain.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true

    • @josephinetalaver7064
      @josephinetalaver7064 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Generally Filipinas are not Goldiggers,maybe there are some of course, who dont want money?,lets be real ,but for us its not a priority ,as long as you can feed your wife and kids well and act as the Head of the Family, treat your wife with respect, its all that matters. Most Filipina have a medium height if not short , like for me i also want a Husband that is taller than me , at least we can have children that has a better height than myself .

    • @Greg-qw7xl
      @Greg-qw7xl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Learn more by observation, then listening to music to our ears. 🙉

    • @royalgem6379
      @royalgem6379 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When Filipinas say tall, they mean 5 foot 6 inc, 7 inc or 8. Basically, taller than them. Your definition of tall is not like ours. You obviously know little.

  • @jeffsharpton1421
    @jeffsharpton1421 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ha! Not true! They say they’re simple, but as soon as they hook a foreigner, they think they won the lottery! And you’ll be supporting a huge family.

  • @loothak
    @loothak ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first girl is my dream

    • @dalexfilms
      @dalexfilms ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's cute, smart, and well spoken... I can relate.

  • @guambroker
    @guambroker ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your on to something brotha.. good to contrast Western/Eastern women.

  • @E-Ryders
    @E-Ryders ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Isalyn is pretty Awesome!

  • @jdsim9173
    @jdsim9173 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    00:24 She is the best, down to earth and humble.

  • @DavidSheridan-kt7hv
    @DavidSheridan-kt7hv ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Bonus points for you to actually have a thumbnail pic of women that are in the video!!!👍👍

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, but I always do 😊

    • @DavidSheridan-kt7hv
      @DavidSheridan-kt7hv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Livingabroadalex Unfortunately many don't

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ph haha, that's stupid. To fool your audience and not respect their time.
      Hey but what do I Know 😅

  • @intisarshah8773
    @intisarshah8773 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love your work

  • @JohnKgeo
    @JohnKgeo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She started with "I'm in a relationship with Filipino " and after conversation goes miraculously, she started to adjust with gifts 2:10 😅 I like that kind of inconsistencies. 100% trusted. I bet they can date in same time local and foreigner$. I think once you show the $ most of them switching to sweethearts and ❤️

  • @ROXELL
    @ROXELL ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think it’s okay to be attracted to guys who make 5 million, but I think most of the Filipinas are okay if they don’t,especially if the guys at least tried to make some sort of money, no matter how much that is

    • @Movingforward2000
      @Movingforward2000 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don`t think so. It seems very hard to date filipinas @ least to contact them if not there in the Philippines. Is it possible to date these ignorant people?

    • @SsgChrisWells
      @SsgChrisWells ปีที่แล้ว

      who makes 5mil peso a month. surgeons have a yearly average salary of 3mil a year.

  • @grumpyolddude439
    @grumpyolddude439 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lucky, Mary and JN I was in each case like..WOW. 3 beautiful ladies, with their heads on straight; Personally I am WAY outside their age range, but if they were being their genuine selves with you, they're all 3 keepers.

  • @michaelfifield7940
    @michaelfifield7940 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Western women in general could learn a lot about humility from women like this!

  • @pcolamojoe8840
    @pcolamojoe8840 ปีที่แล้ว

    What city are you filming this in? Thanks.

  • @mmchannel8056
    @mmchannel8056 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good content

  • @jacoreysmith2426
    @jacoreysmith2426 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just come back from the Philippines/boots on the ground my girl doesn’t care about money either it’s crazy but I’m blessed in that regard

  • @ldemsenl1050
    @ldemsenl1050 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mission: get passport
    Reword: Beautiful, respectful, lovable woman

  • @caink9142
    @caink9142 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just remember half the woman don’t know what they want the other half won’t tell you. Never pay attention to what they say only pay attention to what they do.

  • @MrWackydoodles
    @MrWackydoodles ปีที่แล้ว +9

    If i were making 5M a month i'd be dating a different model every week!

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🤣

    • @sweetcess4501
      @sweetcess4501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @bellzeppelin6913
      @bellzeppelin6913 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I live in the Philippines for years f that girl is just joking filipino in general are always like to joke around to lighten up the mood, there is a filipino humour that foreigners don’t get

  • @tmangeles7575
    @tmangeles7575 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's an accountant--"attitude is their number one *asset*!"

  • @napoleonmdusa8877
    @napoleonmdusa8877 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That one woman wanted 5 million pesos per month--that's about $91k USD/month--that's nuts. This woman has no clue what money actually is.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Haha I think maybe she was trying to be funny

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea but even so. Minimum wage is around 4000 bucks a year here

    • @havenpersonalcare7968
      @havenpersonalcare7968 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Definitely she that with with a humor; a doctor in P.I makes about $2,000 starting pay; $24K yearly = P1.2 million/annually.

    • @The-Cat
      @The-Cat ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She was just making a silly joke 🤪😁

    • @johnconstantinelegaspi2790
      @johnconstantinelegaspi2790 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You must be the fun guy in parties

  • @Simplepinoy703
    @Simplepinoy703 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best decision I ever made was going home to the Philippines and finding a wife. I’m 40 and she is 32. She never knew how much I made til I filed for her petition. Even when she found out I made high 6 fig. She never asked me for anything extra. It was always me that gifted her things. Now that she’s working in the US. Her attitude has never changed. She makes over 7k USD a month but never shows off. I’ve gifted her Gucci, LV, Prada purses but she only uses her 150 pesos bag. Doesn’t want expensive car and was fine with the town home. You can’t find a better best friend, lover and wife in your life time. It’s never about the money. All a Filipina wants is to be loved. You give them that and they will give you what they can..

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's aw awesome! Thank you for sharing 🥳

    • @eQuariuz
      @eQuariuz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is she a nurse?

  • @joshuarizalforeman816
    @joshuarizalforeman816 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have bought 30 million pesos in property, our family has an income of 80,000 pp per month and savings of 30 million pesos....and my wife is still not happy, even though when I met her she was an OFW, living like a slave out of a suitcase.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Time to get a new wife

    • @Siegfried0227
      @Siegfried0227 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cocky. Show off🤣🤣🤣 wait till Filipinos cut your balls. Never insult filipina women.

  • @danielroydrawe
    @danielroydrawe ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Are you the guy that interviewed Maria, 22 who has a boyfriend in the US and had traveled to Thailand?

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @danielroydrawe
      @danielroydrawe ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Livingabroadalex I fell in love with her during the short interview you had with her. How I wish I had met her first. I hope her fiance appreciates her. She was so special. Do you keep in touch with her?

  • @angelicaacebuche8586
    @angelicaacebuche8586 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The girl who said 5M she was just joking 😆 She knows it was impossible tho. We love to joke around especially with her personality thats a joker in a Group i must say xD
    As long as a man have ambition and have stable job that can support his own Family thats fine. We will never demand money unless you get a child

    • @peterhuang1431
      @peterhuang1431 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And thats the 1 thing filipinas are great. they harmless joke on this but western women will be serious 😂 of course, not all western women are bad. I met some good 1's but saying the general average

    • @jahiralam5405
      @jahiralam5405 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello

  • @preciouswear8845
    @preciouswear8845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A Filipino girl deceived me. We stayed together for 4 years and married for 2 years. We bought a house. Now she is gone just like that. She had a boy friend outside my life. She just left leaving me alone. I am alone in this world now.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Learn from it and find someone better

    • @PurpleDoritos666
      @PurpleDoritos666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmao too funny 😂😂😂😂

  • @MyLifeThai371
    @MyLifeThai371 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My GF in Manila back in 2016 was making $11/day working 5 days a week in the Verizon call center. As long as you make more than $11/day I think a woman will take you. "Backpacking with Banger" youtube channel's filipina GF does not have 4 year degree like my GF and only makes like $5/day as a babysitter/caretaker here in 2023.

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing 😊

    • @zackwetzel2158
      @zackwetzel2158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love how friendly they are on the phone, for gig companies like ubereats

  • @qegvW3H
    @qegvW3H 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    we filipino's we value more family and character of a person than money, its in our embedded culture

  • @thekilla2885
    @thekilla2885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    At 10:15 guy behind the girl's either want's to say they are lying or he want's to beat your ass🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @arrjay2662
    @arrjay2662 ปีที่แล้ว

    These women are so in touch with their femininity. Very attractive

  • @ScoreGuru123
    @ScoreGuru123 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Who was the serial killer behind the last two girls at the end?

  • @locker1325
    @locker1325 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fun video. You found some good subjects. JN, the pretty one with the creeper behind her was very nice. She's the kind that really gets alot of attention.l

  • @presicion25
    @presicion25 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video Alex. Some beautiful women there. Interesting to hear their thoughts 👍

  • @lottorabbit
    @lottorabbit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very very different than women in the USA. Good video brother. Very enlightening.

  • @monito24ful
    @monito24ful ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Come on Alex at least get their TikToks info man help us out here man

  • @FreddyKurganNimmo
    @FreddyKurganNimmo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think I'm in love with J.N.😍 So well-spoken, beautiful, realistic🤔👍

  • @justverysavage
    @justverysavage ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You didn't get a good number, because like many women anywhere, they don't know what they want.

  • @miketurpin4959
    @miketurpin4959 ปีที่แล้ว

    My step daughter is a second year college student and we raised her to not be materialistic. She's a papa's girl and the boys in Marikina city know to leave her alone for their own safety. I ha e no problem going to prison to save my babygirl from a lifetime of regret and being poor. She wants to have her own career like mama and papa. Thank God she's not into guys yet. We wouldn't let her hangout with girls like the 2 girls after the first one. The first one was more together and not trying to find a man to use

  • @Hicks-g1m
    @Hicks-g1m ปีที่แล้ว +3

    These Filipina's have some good answers Alex I can afford 5 million LoL 😆🤣

    • @Livingabroadalex
      @Livingabroadalex  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha I'll be your best friend If you can!🤣

    • @Hicks-g1m
      @Hicks-g1m ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Livingabroadalex 🆒😎😆👍

  • @donaldsimmons7410
    @donaldsimmons7410 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    all these woman are pure gold, a western woman would have mentioned a dollar amount right off the bat.

  • @epicriosonlinemoney3654
    @epicriosonlinemoney3654 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    NO MONEY💰, NO HONEY🍯

  • @HoeGaatHett
    @HoeGaatHett ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice i enjoy this video, if i can retire early as rich man maybe i wil move to the Philippines❤

  • @shadwashington3403
    @shadwashington3403 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Is it just me or is homeboy in the background creepy and a weirdo. Blur him out

  • @kennethedwards1677
    @kennethedwards1677 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hypergamy is real, women almost never marry down the economic ladder. The minimum foreigner income formula is: foreigners age - (filipina's age +10)/10 x 50,000 pesos/month. Thus, for a 20 yo provincial princess and a 50 yo guy (50- (20 + 10))/10) = 2 x 50,000 = 100000 pesos/month. This is only a standardized formula, so your mileage may vary. 😂😂

  • @pitbullkngz7236
    @pitbullkngz7236 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Man isalyn is cute