Completely side-stepping the whole ah/nta thing to point out how everyone telling op to value family more than material possessions is ignoring how that's exactly what the sister is doing. jfc
This is what I was thinking too. Make out a list or snap a picture of all the dollar store gifts and send it in a mass text, saying why should I give a cheapskate a $2k handbag when this is what I have received from her over the years?
How can the parents really expect OP to just give their precious a $2k bag to keep the peace? If they care so much, maybe they should buy her the bag. When they see the price tag, then they can see how it’s unreasonable to expect what they are demanding. OMG, the excuse the sister tried using about how it was a symbol of all her failures…um, someone giving you the handbag is not going to erase your failures, because you didn’t work to buy it yourself! You didn’t achieve anything by having someone give you what you wanted.
It's kinda stupid the parents telling the OP to give the bag up to keep the peace like the OP earnt it But in a way the OP shouldn't have done was tag the sister in the picture like she'll see it was meant for her
@@abbasturd Yep, if sister had been more thoughtful and generous with her gifts, she might have been surprised with a gift of her dream bag. You can’t slight people, who give you gifts you want, by giving them dollar store gifts and expect them to give you a gift that expensive. If anything, something that expensive is a groups gift, not a gift from one person.
Just like my stepson and daughter in law, every gift they give me always worth less than £10. I used to give them nice gifts but since then i treat them the same by buying cheap stuff of aliexpress 😂. Even on Christmas i gave them back a dollar pen he gave for his father's (my hubby) birthday 😅
I never believe these stories because they're beyond absurd. How ridiculous are people that they get involved with such a pathetic situation sending vicious messages to a near random stranger and weeks of messages? I dont know ANYONE who's family and friends would do this.
Scary but there's always a grain of truth. I used to think jerry springer was just weird untruestories- l mean no one could be like those stories? Right? Um wrong. I actually ran across people that were just like them in kind. Was a real eye opener that, yes they really do exist😮
OP is frustratingly passive. She handed the narrative to her nasty entitled sister on a silver platter. Keeping quiet and "taking the high road" never works. Ever. It only makes you look guilty.
Nope, it’s more of a “your sister has dreamed of owning this purse, so you need to give it to the spoiled brat because you bought it!” Continuing to give her whatever she wants will make her never appreciate what she has because she doesn’t have a dime invested in it!!
I agree that the sister is just an entitle brat, but it's also true that the OP bought that bag to spite her, not because she liked it and that was stupid. She should have stopped the thoughtful gifts a long time ago instead.
Why why why didn’t you send pictures of the gifts she gave you. Tell parents to pony up themselves. Tell relatives to give her the bag. Cut contact and enjoy your life.
Are those people nuts? Its a bag you can buy, not a once in a lifetime handcrafted item where it takes years to gather the materials and convince a retired master to craft it personally for you.
Yep, this was definitely about spiting her sister and not her splurging. She could've bought any other bag but she chose that one. She knew it was going to create conflict. I'm raised in a family that didn't have a lot of money when I was little and relatives usually bought presents together and put in the amount of money they could spare, no one flaunting anything, and where the ones in the family who were making more money would sometimes spend extra to treat their family members but it was never a requirement and handmade gifts were often more precious to us, like my great grandmother's knitted socks and fun things like puzzles, or pocket books that were then read and passed around the family to whoever wanted to read them. Spending lots of money on gifts should never be required of anyone as long as there's thought behind the gifts and the sister seems to be buying gifts that reminds her of OP regardless of the price and that's more valuable to most people. The family does however seem to have some toxic opinions on gifts but that has probably never stopped OP from buying cheaper things for her sister, she just kept trying to outshine everyone else anyway and expecting pricey presents back and that's more selfish than anything imo.
Just be grateful you got something from her. I would’ve been happy with the mixed matched socks and the mug. And I think both you and your sister are spoiled
Yes I do agree with you but you knew that your sister would want that bag and it’s hard to pick your side and your sisters because you knew she wanted the bad and your side i agree with you because yes you worked hard for it and you earned it
Who are these people that confront others over stupid posts? I have never confronted anybody over gossip and a stupid post and nobody has ever confronted me. In fact, my X husband was posting a lot of crap about be trying to ruin my reputation. I didn't see a single post. NOBODY confronted me. Only my mom called to tell me what was happening and nearly crying on the phone by how angry she was at him. That was it. All these people must be trashy as hell to go up in arms over a post about a purse.
How can owning a luxury handbag be considered a life-long dream? What kind of superfluous, vacuous mindset is that? Even if OP was being petty by buying the coveted handbag and tagging her sister on a post where she boasted of her purchase to trigger a reaction, it's still sad that anyone falls for such materialistic life traps. Owning an expensive handbag isn't true proof of success or a considerable achievement in any way, shape, or form. Real success is a deeper feeling of self-realization that doesn't materialize into the physical plane if what you've achieved is spiritually positive and meaningful, and doesn't come from a place of ego. Some advice for OP: you shouldn't be glad or proud of what you did. You caused unnecessary drama by flaunting your purchase of that handbag on social media with the clear intent of provoking your sister's jealousy and anger. You opened that Pandora's Box hoping for something, and whatever that was, hope your takeaway lesson from all the drama that unfolded held a deeper understanding of your true psychological (non-materialistic) needs. In case what I'm saying isn't clear enough: everyone's the ass***e here.
I mostly agree with you. OP let herself be a doormat for too long, and let herself stay in the family’s definitions of success. She’d be happier if she decided for herself what the definition of success is, and also went no contact with her manipulative family. The sister it looks like is the golden child.
12:37 I hope you're happy I hope you're happy now I hope you're happy how you've hurt your cause forever I hope you think you're clever I hope you're happy I hope you're happy too I hope you're proud how you would grovel in submission To feed your own ambition So though I can't imagine how I hope you're happy right now
I am artistic, I make people gifts all the time; things I know they will actually like. I take into account their favourite books, movies, and video games and something they will find beautiful or useful and make them something from it. The fact that she’s claiming being an artist as a reason to give you trash is disgusting.
Is it that hard to say ‘if family comes before materials then why am I required to give her my material possession? And if family is so important then why is she bickering over a material possession?’
So just make a list of all her unthoughtful things she gave you, and not because she did not have the funds but because she did not want to spend any time or thought into your gifts from her.
OP can buy whatever she wants if she can afford to pay for it! Could of been anything car, shoes, vacation jewellery house or handbag entitled sister would of still cried for the possession
The sister went about the whole situation in a stupid manner. If she had just ignored the fact that OP had bought the bag, OP would have been stuck with an expensive bag that she didn't really want, and she probably would have given it to the sister just to prove how benevolent she was.
Opie is a wimp. If it didn't bother her then this story would have ended on the note that she purchased the purse and left it at that, that was it. But if you're doing all this extra stuff, why not take up for yourself and put the truth out there? you know how people are.
I mean... OP was definitely the Ahh when posting the picture of herself with the bag and tagging her sister in the post. The mere fact of tagging the sister shows OP wanted to rub it on her sister's face. Also, it being the same bag is pretty bad. That just shows the stupidity of OP.
She literally let her sister spread lies about them and didn't even bother to defend herself publicly. Much of the hate her relatives gave her was her fault.
..... I like quirky gag gifts but i do a thoughtful one with it. (For Christmas) Honestly why didnt she get a few items, with a theme like a self care basket. Doesn't even have to be big. Or a quirky thing with a gift card to a place you like.
![[FULL STORY] My Mom Always Bragged About My Sister, So I Showed Up With a Bigger Surprise.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/jMBNGY-hvUk/mqdefault.jpg)
![[FULL STORY] My Mom Always Bragged About My Sister, So I Showed Up With a Bigger Surprise.](/img/tr.png)
![[FULL STORY] I Got Back at My Overbearing Aunt By Giving Her Exactly What She Wanted.](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/ctrkNQng-2g/mqdefault.jpg)
Next time buy her a dollar store gift
Why Not preloved "slightely used" stuff from a Yard Sale?
@@juliawacker would be a truly memorial momment, seriously
Just regift her the cheap crap she gave to OP!
I thought that too !
I was thinking that too XD
And why didn't the parents buy the bag for their golden girl.
That's for Cinderella to take care of
Yeah and not depend on their daughter who already have a life and own time to theirselfs
What an entitled family!!
They should buy it for her!
Exactly 😅
“That”s just how she is” well that’s just how OP is, they bought the bag for themself.
Completely side-stepping the whole ah/nta thing to point out how everyone telling op to value family more than material possessions is ignoring how that's exactly what the sister is doing. jfc
But I think op should have gifted her smaller things. And stop putting efforts. That would make her entitlement visible 😅
Man I wanna see what that bag would look like.
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Well sis made the bag soo irresistible, I knew I needed it!!
The so called friends and parents should all pitch in to get her the purse since they want her to be happy the nerve
To all, write a list of all gifts from both sides by year and occasion. Send, then block all
This is what I was thinking too. Make out a list or snap a picture of all the dollar store gifts and send it in a mass text, saying why should I give a cheapskate a $2k handbag when this is what I have received from her over the years?
0:59 for shorts
Tysm!!!
Tysm
Ty
How can the parents really expect OP to just give their precious a $2k bag to keep the peace? If they care so much, maybe they should buy her the bag. When they see the price tag, then they can see how it’s unreasonable to expect what they are demanding.
OMG, the excuse the sister tried using about how it was a symbol of all her failures…um, someone giving you the handbag is not going to erase your failures, because you didn’t work to buy it yourself! You didn’t achieve anything by having someone give you what you wanted.
It's kinda stupid the parents telling the OP to give the bag up to keep the peace like the OP earnt it
But in a way the OP shouldn't have done was tag the sister in the picture like she'll see it was meant for her
Plus, it’s $2,000. You don’t just give that away for nothing.
@@abbasturd Yep, if sister had been more thoughtful and generous with her gifts, she might have been surprised with a gift of her dream bag. You can’t slight people, who give you gifts you want, by giving them dollar store gifts and expect them to give you a gift that expensive. If anything, something that expensive is a groups gift, not a gift from one person.
dude ops sister is so entitled.. NTA for op.
I cant imagine a family fighting over a stupid handbag. Almost as absurd as paying $2,000.00 for said handbag. Sounds like a first world problem.
Her money her business
@@Yaya2214CJ true
Yea, I hate paying $20 for a purse, so there’s no way in hell I’m paying $2k!
Post the broken key chain online tag and thank her for going above on your birthday.
Definitely post all the cheap presents from her every year that's what I would have done
Why are the parents refusing to acknowledge the sisters' behavior, while they inspect every wrongdoing Op has done like it's nothing?
That is the way of the Golden Child enablers
What a child. Let the parents buy it.
Exactly
It's not like this Is the only bag in the market ☠️
Just like my stepson and daughter in law, every gift they give me always worth less than £10. I used to give them nice gifts but since then i treat them the same by buying cheap stuff of aliexpress 😂. Even on Christmas i gave them back a dollar pen he gave for his father's (my hubby) birthday 😅
If I were them, I wouldn’t have blocked my sister. I would’ve told everyone my side of the story
Over a bag is wild
fr its not that feep
'I didnt buy it to spite her' stop deluding yourself OP xD
'I tagged her, just subtle enough'. Just be openly petty OP, its more fun that way.
You are right she being childish
Match her gift giving, but don't go deep into revenge as it's never worth it.
Ask the parents to hand over their house to maintain the "family peace"
See if they value "family peace" as much when it is their bull being gored.
I never believe these stories because they're beyond absurd. How ridiculous are people that they get involved with such a pathetic situation sending vicious messages to a near random stranger and weeks of messages? I dont know ANYONE who's family and friends would do this.
It doesn’t matter they’re interesting to watch and if you have a problem with it why are you here?
Scary but there's always a grain of truth. I used to think jerry springer was just weird untruestories- l mean no one could be like those stories? Right? Um wrong. I actually ran across people that were just like them in kind. Was a real eye opener that, yes they really do exist😮
OP is frustratingly passive. She handed the narrative to her nasty entitled sister on a silver platter. Keeping quiet and "taking the high road" never works. Ever. It only makes you look guilty.
Why does everything have to be broadcasted on social media like a bunch of teenagers?.😅...
Tell them if they want your sister to have a expense bag they can buy it for her your parents will force you to give your sister your hole life
Soooo, there's only one of this bag in existence?????
Nope, it’s more of a “your sister has dreamed of owning this purse, so you need to give it to the spoiled brat because you bought it!” Continuing to give her whatever she wants will make her never appreciate what she has because she doesn’t have a dime invested in it!!
All this Drama for a Bag! Omg 😂 some people cause problems for no reason. Don't spoil certain People, otherwise things like this will happen.
Family comes first so give her the bag me: family comes first and she gave dollar tree things
she should’ve sold the bag for 2000 dollars on facebook marketplace 😂
Isn't there more bags like wtf smh
Erica Huang as a tiger: I understand what OP is going through, but if she hadn't tagged her sister, this wouldn't happen.
I agree that the sister is just an entitle brat, but it's also true that the OP bought that bag to spite her, not because she liked it and that was stupid.
She should have stopped the thoughtful gifts a long time ago instead.
OP is stupid, she should have given cheap gifts too. 😮
WORKING &. BUYING YOURSELF. NICE THINGS ! IS JUST HOW YOU ARE ! SISTER SHOULD TRY THIS SOMETIME. WORKING HARD. MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD
Impulse buy, yes. Not in retaliation, no.
I want to see what that bag looks like, how beautiful does it have to be for everyone to compliment it and for some people to obsess over it
“Im just qUrIkY” 👉👈🥺
OP should have asked for all the expensive gifts she gave her sister back, then she would hand over the bag.
15:02 bro chill it’s just a bag sis could buy ten if she hadn’t wasted all her money😂😂😂
I think it’s kind of sad that a girl’s years long dream is an upscale handbag. I do not understand.
Why why why didn’t you send pictures of the gifts she gave you. Tell parents to pony up themselves. Tell relatives to give her the bag. Cut contact and enjoy your life.
Are those people nuts? Its a bag you can buy, not a once in a lifetime handcrafted item where it takes years to gather the materials and convince a retired master to craft it personally for you.
Imagine the sister sees this
My petty self would send it to her 😂😂😂😂😂
@ lol
They DEFINITELY bought that bag to make her jealous
Are you being sarcastic or literal?
@@beckybaby200probably sarcastic
@@Lai_45 thanks
Funny how family is more important than material things only when the bag is in question.
Yep, this was definitely about spiting her sister and not her splurging. She could've bought any other bag but she chose that one. She knew it was going to create conflict.
I'm raised in a family that didn't have a lot of money when I was little and relatives usually bought presents together and put in the amount of money they could spare, no one flaunting anything, and where the ones in the family who were making more money would sometimes spend extra to treat their family members but it was never a requirement and handmade gifts were often more precious to us, like my great grandmother's knitted socks and fun things like puzzles, or pocket books that were then read and passed around the family to whoever wanted to read them. Spending lots of money on gifts should never be required of anyone as long as there's thought behind the gifts and the sister seems to be buying gifts that reminds her of OP regardless of the price and that's more valuable to most people. The family does however seem to have some toxic opinions on gifts but that has probably never stopped OP from buying cheaper things for her sister, she just kept trying to outshine everyone else anyway and expecting pricey presents back and that's more selfish than anything imo.
Update 1 AYE 2:45
Telling OP’s sister to grow up sounds like a lost cause.
Don’t give her the bag go no contact with friends and family!
That is so dumb
Just be grateful you got something from her. I would’ve been happy with the mixed matched socks and the mug.
Sis played stupid games for years, now, she's finally getting her stupid prize! 😂
Some people don't know how to be a decent sibling.
Yeah, your sister!
I mean, the sister could just buy the bag also. Then they’d both have the bag.
She does eventually.
@ oh, I didn’t watch the entire thing.
All of that over a bag??? Your sister is crazy
I would have gotten her a pin cushion. 😂😂😂
Just be grateful you got something from her. I would’ve been happy with the mixed matched socks and the mug. And I think both you and your sister are spoiled
Yes I do agree with you but you knew that your sister would want that bag and it’s hard to pick your side and your sisters because you knew she wanted the bad and your side i agree with you because yes you worked hard for it and you earned it
Who are these people that confront others over stupid posts? I have never confronted anybody over gossip and a stupid post and nobody has ever confronted me. In fact, my X husband was posting a lot of crap about be trying to ruin my reputation. I didn't see a single post. NOBODY confronted me. Only my mom called to tell me what was happening and nearly crying on the phone by how angry she was at him. That was it. All these people must be trashy as hell to go up in arms over a post about a purse.
I’m sorry, is ops sister 25? OR 5! coz she’s rlly acting like it
How can owning a luxury handbag be considered a life-long dream? What kind of superfluous, vacuous mindset is that? Even if OP was being petty by buying the coveted handbag and tagging her sister on a post where she boasted of her purchase to trigger a reaction, it's still sad that anyone falls for such materialistic life traps. Owning an expensive handbag isn't true proof of success or a considerable achievement in any way, shape, or form. Real success is a deeper feeling of self-realization that doesn't materialize into the physical plane if what you've achieved is spiritually positive and meaningful, and doesn't come from a place of ego. Some advice for OP: you shouldn't be glad or proud of what you did. You caused unnecessary drama by flaunting your purchase of that handbag on social media with the clear intent of provoking your sister's jealousy and anger. You opened that Pandora's Box hoping for something, and whatever that was, hope your takeaway lesson from all the drama that unfolded held a deeper understanding of your true psychological (non-materialistic) needs. In case what I'm saying isn't clear enough: everyone's the ass***e here.
I mostly agree with you. OP let herself be a doormat for too long, and let herself stay in the family’s definitions of success. She’d be happier if she decided for herself what the definition of success is, and also went no contact with her manipulative family. The sister it looks like is the golden child.
BRO JUST TELL YOUR SIDE OF THE STORY
Just for a bag💀💀💀☠️☠️
12:37 I hope you're happy
I hope you're happy now
I hope you're happy how you've hurt your cause forever
I hope you think you're clever
I hope you're happy
I hope you're happy too
I hope you're proud how you would grovel in submission
To feed your own ambition
So though I can't imagine how
I hope you're happy right now
I love wicked!
I am artistic, I make people gifts all the time; things I know they will actually like.
I take into account their favourite books, movies, and video games and something they will find beautiful or useful and make them something from it.
The fact that she’s claiming being an artist as a reason to give you trash is disgusting.
Is it that hard to say ‘if family comes before materials then why am I required to give her my material possession? And if family is so important then why is she bickering over a material possession?’
How exactly does OP having the bag take away the sisters dream of having the same bag?
She needs to show her sister what an entitled cheapskate she's been
Op owes her sister nothing and she needs to go low contact with her family
Ngl i have no issues with cheap gifts im grateful for whatever i get because my family is poor...
So just make a list of all her unthoughtful things she gave you, and not because she did not have the funds but because she did not want to spend any time or thought into your gifts from her.
My intrusive thoughts say to bring the bag to the dinner table
BRUH IT'S A STUPID BAG BRO EVERYONE HAS THAT 🙄🙄🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
everyone has an expensive bag?
I really don’t like when people refuse to defend themselves. OP is truly annoying & playing victim herself by not defending herself AT ALL!
Since when do you owe your family an explanation for buying things with your own.
Everyone is being a child. OP definitely bought the bag out of spite. But everyone else should have just let it go.
OP can buy whatever she wants if she can afford to pay for it! Could of been anything car, shoes, vacation jewellery house or handbag entitled sister would of still cried for the possession
Honestly op brought this on herself
All this happened over a stupid over-priced bag 😑
Weird that a high end store would keep a bag for years. Don’t they change their bags out every season?
The sister went about the whole situation in a stupid manner. If she had just ignored the fact that OP had bought the bag, OP would have been stuck with an expensive bag that she didn't really want, and she probably would have given it to the sister just to prove how benevolent she was.
Opie is a wimp. If it didn't bother her then this story would have ended on the note that she purchased the purse and left it at that, that was it.
But if you're doing all this extra stuff, why not take up for yourself and put the truth out there? you know how people are.
I mean... OP was definitely the Ahh when posting the picture of herself with the bag and tagging her sister in the post. The mere fact of tagging the sister shows OP wanted to rub it on her sister's face. Also, it being the same bag is pretty bad. That just shows the stupidity of OP.
Who cares about handbags? What a waste of money 💰
She literally let her sister spread lies about them and didn't even bother to defend herself publicly. Much of the hate her relatives gave her was her fault.
She ended up not needing to, the truth came out on its own
Over a bag💀💀
Glob glab
I am the globglogabgalab
2:45 "EHHhhhh"
She needs to chill it's not the only bag in the world😒
Bad parenting, bad result! 😮
Why is she so dramatic, jeez 😂
For short 0:57
..... I like quirky gag gifts but i do a thoughtful one with it. (For Christmas) Honestly why didnt she get a few items, with a theme like a self care basket. Doesn't even have to be big. Or a quirky thing with a gift card to a place you like.
JUST GIVE HER A PEN
Her sister has a kid brain
Did the sis forget about tax?
Imagine ruining someone’s life over a bag of
Imagine calling owning an overpriced bag a "dream" lol 😂
This chick is so pathetic.
Both sucks. Just b yourself, buy yourself the things that make u happy
This cannot be a true story
i wouldve just asked her to khs cry n cope lol
She should have saved up for it or get some thing good for you