YOU GUYS!!! I've spent HOURS going through your comments and I wish i could respond to them all! I love hearing your stories and seeing that you guys can relate to this makes my heart full. I want you all to know that you are not alone! You are perfect in your own and i thank you all so much for listening to my poem(s) and commenting. It means so much to me to know that I'm helping people. You are all amazing. Stay positive!!!
Can I just say I love that this was about your ex best friend and not a significant other, I related to this a lot and it was sooo amazing!! You could tell how much heart was in it and the voice was calming but full of emotion it was really just all around well done 👍
it hurts because its someone else place now and you just sit and wish it was yours and that you could still be the one to make them happy and take care of them
I am definitely not 56; I don’t know who wrote that. Scared me a little. But to whoever wrote that.. hope you find yourself a man before valentines day
Haha!!! I experienced a heartbreak just last year...i was 14...i miss him every single day...he doesnt remember me, or reply, or show any sign of ever knowing me...gotta love that!
"But that's not my place anymore so I can't ask....." "After a month and a half i found myself calling you memory and i never wanted that cause I wanted us to last you know?" This hits so fuckin' hardd!!
"I am still full of questions" even after 15 years... Yes, you read that right... I haven't healed in the last 15 years. I don't know what I go through whenever I watch this video... But I cry so badly no matter how many times I watch this. I come from a place where the words love and break-up can't even be uttered in a family. Now to see someone express this is so healing. Thank you for this 🙏🏼
I have bin there and needed a spiritual helper to Release me from a Crush. Before That I met him When I was 19 hé was 18 and a Player. Didn,t know That. Love at the First side. Two years working together. Went to another Job. On my request we saw eachother Back After 3 years. Same feelings came Back Even stronger. Didn,t work out. We had a telepatic Connection. Very strong. After I went ill. Afther 2 years slowly recovering. Met somewhere else. Married. After 35 years my husband die,s. Dreaming of him .again. I had a friend, She was a spiritual healer. She sad you gone meet him again. Oh No shit. I had booked for a Cruise from Venedig to Turkey and Back. 1 mounth later I went an saw him Back again with his wife And daugther plus son in law. I was furieus That misfotune to See him again. Hé recognice me but didn,t make anny contact. I left him by akting Not recognicing him. Only thing to do. Back Home cryed my Eyes out every day could Not stop. Going on for mounths. ASK the help from my friend again. She could take the pressure from me. And now finaly I ask myself what ever I saw in him.
Do you know Where I stood by Missy Higgins? In the chorus she says " I don't know who I am without you, all I know is that I should. I can't stand another hand upon you, all I know is that I should, 'cos she will love you more than I could, she who dares to stand where I stood." I changed the cos she will love you more than I could to she won't love you more than I could. We were in the final stages of our wedding planning when it went belly up. He met someone else and out of the blue asks me if I still had the wedding plans for our wedding. I did, and I actually ended up helping him plan his wedding to another woman who even wore my wedding dress, which I designed. I loved him enough to make his wedding to another woman the best day of his life. But I also knew him a lot better and his face at the altar screamed panic, mistake. 3 months after they were married, he phoned me saying it was all a mistake and if he divorces his wife, am I willing to try again. Hence, she won't love you more than I could. I said no. You broke not only my heart but my soul. I have nothing left to give you because I gave you everything I had and everything I was the day you married someone else
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My ex brokeup with me without any reason. Later I realised that I'm not as beautiful as his new girlfriend..I asked him more than 50 times he seen those messages and never reply.. I know those lines hurts.. but it's okay i know I'm fool and they proof that
We accept the love we think we deserve. That’s why we stay in crappy relationships. Weather it be mental physical or emotional abuse. We stay because we think that’s what we deserve
@@winnergeniusfind yourself. learn that you deserve a partner who appreciates you for who you are, someone who listens to you rant. never settle for less nor lower your expectations for no one.
that was me back in 2017-18 with a guy I really liked... at some point he stopped calling me and cut off all sense of social contact.. we called because he was 4 hours away from me and I still wonder that if he never cut off his socials.. if he never ignored me for months on end, would we have been together? I can only relate to a certain extent.. we spoke after around a year.. nothing has changed but I'm moving on slowly and painfully.. support eachother🤘💜
i just got out of a toxic relationship, and just seeing the picture “because i meant literally nothing to you” made me click to anyone going thru a toxic breakup/relationship or just heartbreak, i definitely know how it feels and i am so very sorry that you are going/went thru this/that. i wish the best for u all
It sure did, especially after a person you knew and were best friend with for 7 years, and then the women you loved most of all and still love, it hurt real hard
I can understand you I had a bestie we spent 10 years together and last month she Passed away because she was suffering from a disease I miss her alot 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Well when you leave a friend who has been there to help you threw everything to make them better because you keep hurtting them and then they call you crying and explain that they are fine and they dont wanna lose you makes you think do you actually hurt them or it just your anxiety.
@Vrinda Chopra I can hugely relate to that like I always cared about friends more then myself but the saddest part Is that they will never understand how much I actually cared for them
The worst experience someone can have. To feel something for some one at a level that He or She doesn't even understand each other then something can happen in your say they really didn't understand how the other one felt
Hey everyone, I can't even begin to express how much this voicemail spoken word poetry resonates with me as a guy. It's incredible how it captures so many emotions and thoughts that are close to my heart, and I've always wondered if others experience the same feelings. The outpouring of support and shared stories in this comment section is overwhelming and inspiring. We're all in this together, and it's amazing to see how we can all connect through our shared experiences. The part of the poem where it says "because something like what we had doesn't just crash and burn after somebody's mistake. You're supposed to grow," really hit home for me too. It reminds me of my own experiences with love and loss, how relationships can be so fragile, and how we are left with so many unanswered questions when they end. I've been in a similar situation where I gave my all to someone and ended up with major trust issues, wondering if I'll ever get over them. This poem is a reminder that we're not alone in our struggles. Reading through your stories, I can't help but feel a deep connection with so many of you. The pain of losing friends and loved ones, the heartache that comes with it, and the uncertainty of whether we'll ever truly move on are all feelings that I can relate to. Your vulnerability and courage in sharing your experiences are truly inspiring. It's heartwarming to see how this poem has inspired so many of you to share your own poems and creative expressions. From autumn memories to the agonizing pain of lost friendships, each one of you has shared a piece of your heart, and I am grateful for that. Keep writing, sharing, and supporting one another, because together we can heal and grow. Lastly, I want to thank you all for creating such a supportive and understanding community. Your words have made a difference in my life, and I'm sure they have touched countless others as well. Stay strong, keep moving forward, and know that you are not alone. Sending love and positive vibes to each and every one of you. 💙✨🌟 #Grateful #Community #HealingTogether #StrongerTogether #SpokenWordPoetry #Voicemail #NotAlone #StayPositive #TrustIssues #Heartache #UnansweredQuestions #LostFriendships #BrokenHearts #SelfLove #HighschoolSweetheart #Growth #Connection #SharedStories
This!! Thank you so much. You have taken the words directly out of my mouth. ❤😮 Everyone’s feelings are VALID! & I’m so glad I’m not the only one who truly wants everyone to know they are not ever alone.
@@SkyeLoveGlad you like it. So much has happened in my life-so many toxic relationships and so much pain. Sometimes, I wonder what makes me get out of bed in the morning. My dad died last year, which broke me, but at the same time, it gave me a reason to change my life completely, and that's what I've done. No matter how hard life hits, I always get up. I keep fighting, even on those days when I just want to lie down and never wake up. I don't know why, but I just can't stop. I need to face my demons every day, take one step at a time, no matter how much I hate myself, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how mentally tired I am, no matter how much I want to give up. Just one more step, and then another. That's how I ended up here, where I am today: a single male, with a full-time job, and my own home. It's not the perfect life, but it's one I can call my own. I hate to point out how deep in the darkness I was because I don't care for sympathy. I didn't get where I am today because of sympathy; I got here by willpower alone, and that's how I will keep going to the end of my days. As a lone Alpha Ice Wolf with invisible scars from life's battles, I've fought more wars than many can imagine, and I still live to tell the tale. At 37, with the wisdom of someone who has fought their own demons daily and stood on the edge many times, I keep moving forward. To everyone out there struggling, know that you are not alone. We are here in pain just like you, and we are still going. This is what it's all about: showing support by letting you know you're not alone, no matter how much it feels that way. We are here for the people who feel the same, and together, we can keep moving forward.
Amen my dad says I shouldn't care about my ex even though he dumped me I got out of a really great relationship he even asked me to be his wife and he dumped me 2 days before supposedly wedding day :( sadly I'll always care about him but my parents don't think I should but I got a big heart
It wasn’t welcome and you shouldn’t even given it a second thought especially that you probably sent it from a place of nowhere ANYWAYS you can’t hope for something that was NEVER there......
Ya, but some people just suppress it. Hiding it inside. Not crying and not telling. It is better not to show or tell... Some people just don't care and find that annoying and ask u to go die. When we tell someone, instead of feeling better, we might end up getting more hurt... Like me, the only person in the world(not my family or bff, idk why I told him) that I told asked me to go die.
This is so much that I’ve wanted to say to my “friend” for so long now after they betrayed me, lied about me and turned all my other friends against me. Even after all they did to me tho I can never find it in me to hate them like I should. It sounds bad to call yourself a thing like kind cuz it sounds like you’re pushing it to make everyone else think you’re kind when actually you’re not, but deep down I believe I’m actually a kind person or at least I try to be. So I won’t, I won’t say anything to them, I’ll let them live out their perfect world without me. That’s the kindest thing to do
“i wonder if you’re alright. cause the last time we spoke, you didn’t seem alright. but that’s not my place anymore so, i can’t ask.” *i miss my best friend so much.*
three year skate i know but just last year this is the exact voicemail i would have sent to a whole friend group. Thank you for this, it's given some peace of mind.
Yup. I was thinking 'bout my boyfriend throughout the whole video. He didn't dumped me or anything but I'm afraid that what if one day he won't be there for me. I love him alot and I don't wanna lose him
its always that one person who moved on but whenever they ask something for u, u have to say yes. theres nothing u can do about it u feel like u need them ur dependent on them to literally function in life. everyday u tell urself that they have moved on but the minture they come back u forget about all the past things they have done just for them to go away again.
I know exactly how you feel and what you mean....it took me years to realize that the person I couldn't say no to, the one Id do anything for....wasn't even real. She was all in my head. I was led to believe, through lies and deceit, that she was what I wanted, but no, it was the facade I wanted. She never truly existed. She was never who I thought she was, so how can one miss what never existed? And that's what finally allowed me to heal. Remember, if you fight for your limitations you get to keep them.
thanks for this, it somehow perfectly encapsulates my feelings at the moment whilst it's not good for anyone to go through this, it's good to know that it's not just you suffering, and that it's just a part of being human that everyone goes through
And that's exactly why I posted it. I didn't want to feel alone, and I surely didn't want any others to feel alone. So I thought, i'll post this and maybe I can find some people who can relate to me!
I hit me so hard too.. I totally felt this so so much.. I..I totally feel her pain and oh god I wish this person would care and wonder about me like I DO
Me too... I'm wondering if this guy still cares about me like how I still care about him... I mean, we used to be BEST friend's, then he just... Stopped. Stopped caring, stopped hanging out with me, stopped looking at me with the adoration that was always in his eyes whenever he would look at me... It broke me...
I feel this so bad I started crying, there's this guy and we've gone to the same church for like ever, and I started going to his highschool. And we started dating and 3 months after dating I went through hell in my personal life and I couldn't talk to him about it because I felt like the times I did he wasn't really there for me. Instead of talking it out I said I just wanted to be friends. Its been almost 3 months since we would have been together 6 months. I think about him constantly and I wonder did he ever care did he really love me. Hes with my best friend now, well shes cheating on her of and on boyfriend of 3 years with him. But I have, will, and always will drop everything to support him. The first two weeks after the break up he would text me things like I still love you. I tried to kill myself yesterday. And he even cut. It made me feel worthless. I've thought so much about it all ive tried moving on. What should I do.
my heart is literally breaking into pieces slowly. it’s crazy how you can spend months and years together in love and it all falls apart in a blink of an eye 💔
That's my exact quote to my ex before I left... always the covert saboteur, and always the visible victim... ex: her help was to make every situation worse so I'd get more frustrated and eventually I'd have to ask her to stop helping me. Then she would give me the fine or I only trying to help or it's the thought that counts... unfortunately, as I'm preoccupied with problem solving she begins to start an argument with me to the effect of being mean or the way I spoke to her or I'm not appreciative of her help... you get the jist of her chastising me for not wanting her to sabatoge the project any longer... lol. It was she was exhausting and I left with just a shred of self worth left that is to say 3% on a 1 to 100 scale... but I managed to leave before her narcissistic behavior killed me or I killed myself... thank you god 🙏
It felt so heart warming after hearing this. this almost happens to everyone right! You can loose your bestfriend or lover or anyone as a matter of fact and it just hits right at the spot.
Heartbreak is something that no one ever....considers. People break hearts just as fast as people die. But the hardship we have to go through is what hurts.
Wowza. So true. For someone to leave and act like you never happened, like you should just be over it immediately is another level of pain. I felt seen by this 😭
Who else is thinking about these memories when you used to be like really happy with that one special person and didn’t had to fake a smile... This honestly hits hard
I can relate. And yes. It was my fault for dumping him as I was selfish.. I wasn't feeling happy that day and felt like he didn't need me.. He tried to get me to feel better but nothing worked. I in the end brought him to tears and then told him we needed to end it as it wasn't working. We weren't working. But he said no and there was nothing wrong with us. I.. Couldn't deal with it and told him that I never loved him in the first place.. Those words were lies. I loved him more than anyone. I still haven't gotten over him but we are friends and I'm okay with that. I mean I love him but I also know it's best for him to not date me again as I'm selfish and horrible and treat everyone like a piece of jewellery
Me too! It’s been 40 years. But, I been writing in my notes on my phone since 2013 and went through them and they are great and want to write poems or a book!
Let him. Don't chase him. He doesnt deserve tears from you live your best life and show him what he is missing out on. Some people enter your life just to leave the right one will come eventually and you wouldn't even feel a thing for him then.
I can relate to you cause it's not even a week with me and I'm falling down, he literally saved me from suicide and then left wishing me to do it again. Idk I don't have any one to talk to
This really reminds of that one relationship that completely broke me i developed so many issues. At some point i was so weak and trauma bonded to that person but now that I'm learning more about psychology and myself, im healing and growing and i absolutely love myself❤️
“Do you even think about what happened and wonder where we’d be when it didn’t” I wonder how my life would be if I hadn’t met the best friends in the world... and of half of them hadn’t left
Scarlett Anderson sometimes we must lose the ones we think we need, in order to find the ones we do. a best friend is out there , who is meant for you and only you. and you will find them someday, that i can promise.
XxVillianZxX KrillZ that’s a lot to deal with i’m sorry. just think of who is more important to you. if u can see a future with this girl that doesn’t involve ur best friend then maybe that’s the way u should go. but if it’s not healthy for u to leave ur best friend and it’s negatively affecting u then maybe u need to let this girl go. u could try resin with this girl and say that ur best friend is a high priority in ur life and u feel like it’s unfair to have to let her go. also, if u can’t talk about serious stuff with this girl then maybe u shouldn’t be w her. i hope it all works out for u💗
This is how you sound after a narcissistic abuse. You have no clue how the one who said “love you so much” one day, the next day can throw you away with cold heart. 😔Heal soon!🙏🏼
Warning long (ish) paragraph of some drama: All my “best friends” this year all 6 of them left me.. one is super popular and turned them all against me.. I dated one of them and she was why we broke up.. I’m so heartbroken and I feel so betrayed and backstabbed by all of them just because of some dumb lies. Fake friends 💯🤷♀️.. I miss them.. the old them. That “cared about me” sure. In reality they were never on my side. They were never there for me like I was for them. They’re gone forever.
Equine Natalie thanks🖤 they continue to trash talk me behind my back and I literally didn’t even do anything. Yes we fought through texts sometimes but that’s where they just hide behind a screen. It’s not one sided. They all tried to make me look like the bad guy, but it was NOT, just me..
i think about them first thing in the morning, during the day, before going to bed, this feeling of longing, this feeling of not being loved back by a person u love, this undying feeling of being wanted won't leave me, i never wanted anything like i wanted you i hope u realise it one day good luck in life i really meant it when i said I love you and i only said it bc i knew it was probably our last time talking to eachother, i knew it was the last time i will ever hear your voice
this is exactly how i feel now. he's already moved on, touching other girls legs, smiling and laughing, but he convinced me so much that he would never leave me. its my fault not his. i listened to my toxic friends and destroyed my relationship with him.. i hope you guys are doing, fine.
Because of that never let 3rd person to play a part in ur relationship, follow ur heart.. If they try.. Every time ask urself is that right what they say.. Think before act.
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I know I am because my ex left me for another girl and I'm sure this has happened to everyone but this hurts like hell to know that the boy I loved and the boy I cared about just breaks my heart because of another girl after he told me on the day we met that age didn't matter and we went from texting and calling everyday now were barely speaking which hurts even more he didn't even post not one picture of me but I just saw a picture he posted of her on his snap story and that hurt 😔💔😥🥺and hit me hard 😔💔😥😪🥺💔
Yes I know it hits, they needed a reason to push us away and make themselves seem like a victim or affected person but it's okay, keep looking forward better things are ahead
This is exactly how I feel. When I heard her say this, I couldn't believe that someone else felt the same way. I always thought it was just me. She was looking for a reason to hate me so she could shut me out.
yo I thought this was gonna be stupid but damn 😭 this is what I feel wow love this!! “This isn’t coming out the way I wanted it to” nothing can describe the pain.
I feel u my ex started dating my bff and then he said he cheated on me 40time and I lost it and I started screaming at him and I slapped him and tbh daamm I cryed😭😭😩😩and I’m still so young
I felt this because that's what I'm going through rn but in everything I've taught myself one thing people will be there for you only when it's beneficial to them. Thou it's okay I believe and know that I'll be okay. I'm healing mentally, physically and emotionally. Sending love to everyone going through the same thing and to those who haven't healed from things they don't speak about ❤
he was my best friend he was the closest friend I ever had. I helped him with every problem he had, with every aspect in his life. I even stopped him from committing suicide. I stood up for him when there was trouble at school. I fought for him. I did so much for him, I would have done anything for him. But it's funny how when his life started getting better, he started getting less and less close to me. He didn't need me anymore. oh wow! i didn't realize it until now but this got so many likes! thank you so much! its crazy that so many people are in the same situation. im still stuck in this situation sadly.. i hope you guys are doing okay though!
Shinitai Chan hey, this is exactly what is going on with me right now, even the suicide thing. we both saved each other from suicide. we started drifting and i told him how i felt about how he treated me and we got into an argument and haven’t spoke in almost two weeks. i miss him a lot. i wish the best for you 💓.
I hope things get better and even tho I don’t know you I’m sure your an amazing person ,I’m in the same position I gave everything to him but he dosenr want me back ... I hope you find your purpose and I hope that you find your way through this
I’ll always remember him as my highschool sweetheart I never thought it was possible to love someone this deeply I’m so grateful I’ve gotten to meet and experienced the love I felt with him. It made me love myself so much, it built this big wall between me and any other guy that isn’t him. I’m so okay with being alone. I love this listen to it all the time. All my tears could make a river. We could’ve been so perfect. I felt like I’ve found my soulmate in him my twin my reason to keep going when life gets so hard. My motivation. It sucks that all of the best of me I have to him it wasn’t enough . I’ll never love another man like I loved him. Everything hurts so bad. Everything he does and tells me. I’m so heartbroken 😔 no drug or therapy will never fix this pain I feel inside
To the people who didnt have to fake a smile yet, i hope u never have to, cherish the moments when its real, u dont even know how badly you'll want those moments if u ever do fake it. And to those who did already. I hope everything gets better, and even tho it might be hard to believe it and i sometimes dont either, itll get worse before it gets better. Dont let people drag u like ur nothing, find the ones that will always want to be with u. I found out that I'm not a introvert but i like my peace, and im really extroverted around people who have that peace. Find the ones that ur comfortable with. I hope everything gets better for the people who are going through a hard time. Sorry for a long paragraph. 🥺❤
@@JoyfulWolfEyes im sorry to hear that, you have a very pretty name there tho i rlly like it i wish i had the name Joy, and its okay everyones gonna be sad at one point, and lets be sad together, im not gonna tell u not to be sad cause it doesnt work like that, i wish, but we can at least help each other through it 😊
I've been watching this for years now, it makes me cry almost every time I listen to it I do this for my ex all the time. I still love her with all my heart and I have so many questions, I wonder if she ever thinks about me the way I think about her. I know I should let her go, I know she shouldn't mean as much to me as she does. I made so many mistakes I know I'm not perfect but I tried so damn hard with her because if you love someone your supposed to push yourself to be the best for them right? I did and it all ended..it changed me so much but it changed her to I'm a sensitive subject to her we talked sometimes but I never got to tell her those three simple words...I love you...
i got ghosted and we had a really good friendship so after a couple months i had the confidence to ask him why don’t we talk and he said it was because of my friends and i’m not friends w those people bc they are bad people and i wonder if he would take me back
Hey. It's um, it's me. I just wanted to say that I miss you I got to thinking yesterday and I ran across one of our old pictures. and I almost tried to call... obviously I didn't, so now I'm just leaving this voicemail... I'm still full of questions, and I'm not really quite sure if I'll have enough time to ask them. Do you ever wonder about me? The way I wonder about you? I wonder if you're alright... cause the last time we spoke, you didn't seem alright but that's not my place anymore I can't ask. Do you even think about what happened? Where we would be if it didn't? But that probably makes me sound really crazy because I should let you go, right? I should just drop everything I knew about you, we never even happened? Pretend I didn't approach you? and try to build a bond? That I know I messed up? I saw so much going for you, you know? even though you never failed to push me back down... I'm not blaming you though This isn't coming out the way I wanted it to But I just wanna know, Did you actually care about me? or was it really just a game? like you befriended me and then it actually became legit and things both went wrong in our own lives and then you just decided you didn't need me anymore and you needed a reason You needed a reason to hate me so you could shut me out. Then I wouldn't be trying to call you, right? That's what it was, right? Because I meant literally nothing to you And if that's not true, Then show me how it's not true. Because something like what we had... doesn't just crash and burn You're supposed to grow... and you never let me grow. And you're afraid to let show, aren't you? You're afraid for everyone to know that you were the bad one. It wasn't just me. But it's okay because one day, They'll all know, we'll just have to wait and see, won't we? and after a month and a half, I found myself calling you memory. And I never wanted that, cause I wanted us to last, you know? I wanted our future. But you just didn't want that anymore. But I guess I understand. And you can call me back if you want, The number should pop up in your missed call log. Bye.
"My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I Got out of bed at all The morning rain clouds up my window And I can't see at all And even if I could it'll all be gray Put your picture on my wall It reminds me, that it's not so bad It's not so bad" -Dido
this gives me motivation to focus more on myself, i mean i’ll still have my friends but like it motivates me to actually start trying to love and care for myself. thank you so much for this little push, it really means a lot to me
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YOU GUYS!!! I've spent HOURS going through your comments and I wish i could respond to them all! I love hearing your stories and seeing that you guys can relate to this makes my heart full. I want you all to know that you are not alone! You are perfect in your own and i thank you all so much for listening to my poem(s) and commenting. It means so much to me to know that I'm helping people. You are all amazing. Stay positive!!!
Thanks for the heart ❤️
Of course ! ❤️ i try to heart the ones i can see !
@@SkyeLove glad you saw my one 😞
Thanks your poetry is amazing
Can I just say I love that this was about your ex best friend and not a significant other, I related to this a lot and it was sooo amazing!! You could tell how much heart was in it and the voice was calming but full of emotion it was really just all around well done 👍
"That's not my place anymore, so i can't ask"
That hit me hard.
Tiara Putri same girl
True that!!!!
Frr
Same
it hurts because its someone else place now and you just sit and wish it was yours and that you could still be the one to make them happy and take care of them
“maybe you weren’t the one for me
But deep down I wanted you to be.”
Deep word.
Love hurts
I still see you in my dreams...#coaster
Lia Moore PREACHHHH
I feel this
Ugh that was too relatable
it’s sad how people experience heartbreak at such a young age
Happened to me and I'm 56. A broken heart hurts at any age.
I am definitely not 56; I don’t know who wrote that. Scared me a little. But to whoever wrote that.. hope you find yourself a man before valentines day
Haha!!! I experienced a heartbreak just last year...i was 14...i miss him every single day...he doesnt remember me, or reply, or show any sign of ever knowing me...gotta love that!
Me
i’m 12 and it hurts. but only my heart hurts. my wrists that i slit, or the scars that i have don’t
"But that's not my place anymore so I can't ask....."
"After a month and a half i found myself calling you memory and i never wanted that cause I wanted us to last you know?"
This hits so fuckin' hardd!!
Yesssss 💔😔
“I should just let you go, right?”
“I meant literally nothing to you”
😭😭😭
Mood
It hurts
Because I've felt it before and still feeling it.
i felt that, when i listen to this the memories hit my in heart like a knife and this audio just twisted the knife in my heart
Sleat Snow as it should
When she said “you needed a reason to hate me so you could shut me out” I felt that
I felt either like in my veins
Same happened with me after 6 year of relationship
yes that hit home
@Mia & Diego Same!!! he really had no reason but I gave him one🤷♀️
Same it happen to me and my best friend we were the bestest friends in 4th grade ever
When you're happy, you listen.
When you're sad, You relate.
Or
When you’re happy you hear the words
When you’re sad you understand
XxWolfieReactsxX 67 I can relate so much
I can relate to this so much cause it’s happening to me right now
When ur going through having toxic friends, n how ur gonna cut them off before break, n u know this will be u in a couple years
This is the best thing I have ever heard, and it's true
"I am still full of questions" even after 15 years... Yes, you read that right... I haven't healed in the last 15 years. I don't know what I go through whenever I watch this video... But I cry so badly no matter how many times I watch this. I come from a place where the words love and break-up can't even be uttered in a family. Now to see someone express this is so healing. Thank you for this 🙏🏼
I'm exactly where you are. I know exactly how you feel.
@@natashaalicia8105 I am sorry that you are going through the same...
I have bin there and needed a spiritual helper to Release me from a Crush. Before That I met him When I was 19 hé was 18 and a Player. Didn,t know That. Love at the First side. Two years working together. Went to another Job. On my request we saw eachother Back After 3 years. Same feelings came Back Even stronger. Didn,t work out. We had a telepatic Connection. Very strong. After I went ill. Afther 2 years slowly recovering. Met somewhere else. Married. After 35 years my husband die,s. Dreaming of him .again. I had a friend, She was a spiritual healer. She sad you gone meet him again. Oh No shit. I had booked for a Cruise from Venedig to Turkey and Back. 1 mounth later I went an saw him Back again with his wife And daugther plus son in law. I was furieus That misfotune to See him again. Hé recognice me but didn,t make anny contact. I left him by akting Not recognicing him. Only thing to do.
Back Home cryed my Eyes out every day could Not stop. Going on for mounths. ASK the help from my friend again. She could take the pressure from me. And now finaly I ask myself what ever I saw in him.
Yes U cry so hardly
Do you know Where I stood by Missy Higgins? In the chorus she says " I don't know who I am without you, all I know is that I should. I can't stand another hand upon you, all I know is that I should, 'cos she will love you more than I could, she who dares to stand where I stood." I changed the cos she will love you more than I could to she won't love you more than I could. We were in the final stages of our wedding planning when it went belly up. He met someone else and out of the blue asks me if I still had the wedding plans for our wedding. I did, and I actually ended up helping him plan his wedding to another woman who even wore my wedding dress, which I designed. I loved him enough to make his wedding to another woman the best day of his life. But I also knew him a lot better and his face at the altar screamed panic, mistake. 3 months after they were married, he phoned me saying it was all a mistake and if he divorces his wife, am I willing to try again. Hence, she won't love you more than I could. I said no. You broke not only my heart but my soul. I have nothing left to give you because I gave you everything I had and everything I was the day you married someone else
"You needed a reason to hate me, so you can shut me out" that hit hard
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My ex brokeup with me without any reason. Later I realised that I'm not as beautiful as his new girlfriend..I asked him more than 50 times he seen those messages and never reply.. I know those lines hurts.. but it's okay i know I'm fool and they proof that
I gave him the love I couldn’t give to myself and he threw it.
I feel that real hard
Oof
Same frfr
I know how u feel. It's the worst
*said all the 9 yr olds
Judging by the comments, sounds we're all living this with different people
la verdad 💯
Fuck
yea
Pedro Lopez I was
True
We accept the love we think we deserve. That’s why we stay in crappy relationships. Weather it be mental physical or emotional abuse. We stay because we think that’s what we deserve
So what do we do?
@@winnergeniusfind yourself. learn that you deserve a partner who appreciates you for who you are, someone who listens to you rant. never settle for less nor lower your expectations for no one.
it’s crazy how we all have that one person we’d say this to.
true
@Abbey Frailing are you doubting me
@Abbey Frailing text me on whatsap
Om gosh yes I was thinking of one person I almost started crying because Its true
That's right 💔
“Did you actually care about me or was it just a game?” I felt that🥺😢
Yitzelle Gonzalez same
🥺
same!!
Same🥺
Me to
Being on a call with someone everyday for hours is destructive
Because one day it will just stop and you’ll be looking at your phone waiting...
RaginPlayer still waiting🥺
😅 oh it's fine, abandonment is something i'm used to. I understand that they're pretending, i can't be angry while i want to leave myself
that was me back in 2017-18 with a guy I really liked... at some point he stopped calling me and cut off all sense of social contact.. we called because he was 4 hours away from me and I still wonder that if he never cut off his socials.. if he never ignored me for months on end, would we have been together? I can only relate to a certain extent.. we spoke after around a year.. nothing has changed but I'm moving on slowly and painfully..
support eachother🤘💜
ive been waiting..
RaginPlayer this happened for months
i just got out of a toxic relationship, and just seeing the picture “because i meant literally nothing to you” made me click
to anyone going thru a toxic breakup/relationship or just heartbreak, i definitely know how it feels and i am so very sorry that you are going/went thru this/that.
i wish the best for u all
“After a month and a half, I started calling you a memory” That shit hurt in the heart area.
yeah..
It sure did, especially after a person you knew and were best friend with for 7 years, and then the women you loved most of all and still love, it hurt real hard
Its literally going in 4 months and i can't say a memory yet.....
Sorry and good bye dreahh....I really cared 100..0
I can understand you I had a bestie we spent 10 years together and last month she Passed away because she was suffering from a disease I miss her alot 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Some people think that heartbreak is only with couples but it can also be with family and friends...
And with pets or just someone you trusted bro it hurts baaad
Without forgiveness you lose friends and family and love.
I agree with that😏
C’est vrai malheureusement 😔
Well when you leave a friend who has been there to help you threw everything to make them better because you keep hurtting them and then they call you crying and explain that they are fine and they dont wanna lose you makes you think do you actually hurt them or it just your anxiety.
"Do you ever wonder about me, like.. The way I wonder about you?"
We all relate to this way too much.
Yea 😔
😔
Yep 😭
@Vrinda Chopra I can hugely relate to that like I always cared about friends more then myself but the saddest part Is that they will never understand how much I actually cared for them
I THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME & MISS US!!!😘💯❤
The worst experience someone can have.
To feel something for some one at a level that He or She doesn't even understand each other then something can happen in your say they really didn't understand how the other one felt
the saddest part about this is that TH-cam is reccommending me it
That’s random tho they just put random popular vids
@@talia2203 I think she means that if u watch a particular types of videos they are recommended to u a lot
TH-cam just knows what you need to hear, and when you need to hear it 🥺
Same
Same
" They say you don't know what you've got until it's gone
Truth is you knew exactly what you had, you just never thought you'd lose it "
This.....
Once it's gone it's gone..
this is the definition of "hits different"
Fken hell this hits hard
Yes you knew what you had yo just didn't care..now that you have list it ..your lies and secrets are more important..to you
“Because I meant literally nothing to you” felt that.
Same
Cuts deep huh! Picking up my hearts pieces today. How could i have let myself have hope...never again.
Darin Lee same, smh, same....
Hey everyone, I can't even begin to express how much this voicemail spoken word poetry resonates with me as a guy. It's incredible how it captures so many emotions and thoughts that are close to my heart, and I've always wondered if others experience the same feelings. The outpouring of support and shared stories in this comment section is overwhelming and inspiring. We're all in this together, and it's amazing to see how we can all connect through our shared experiences.
The part of the poem where it says "because something like what we had doesn't just crash and burn after somebody's mistake. You're supposed to grow," really hit home for me too. It reminds me of my own experiences with love and loss, how relationships can be so fragile, and how we are left with so many unanswered questions when they end. I've been in a similar situation where I gave my all to someone and ended up with major trust issues, wondering if I'll ever get over them. This poem is a reminder that we're not alone in our struggles.
Reading through your stories, I can't help but feel a deep connection with so many of you. The pain of losing friends and loved ones, the heartache that comes with it, and the uncertainty of whether we'll ever truly move on are all feelings that I can relate to. Your vulnerability and courage in sharing your experiences are truly inspiring.
It's heartwarming to see how this poem has inspired so many of you to share your own poems and creative expressions. From autumn memories to the agonizing pain of lost friendships, each one of you has shared a piece of your heart, and I am grateful for that. Keep writing, sharing, and supporting one another, because together we can heal and grow.
Lastly, I want to thank you all for creating such a supportive and understanding community. Your words have made a difference in my life, and I'm sure they have touched countless others as well. Stay strong, keep moving forward, and know that you are not alone. Sending love and positive vibes to each and every one of you. 💙✨🌟 #Grateful #Community #HealingTogether #StrongerTogether #SpokenWordPoetry #Voicemail #NotAlone #StayPositive #TrustIssues #Heartache #UnansweredQuestions #LostFriendships #BrokenHearts #SelfLove #HighschoolSweetheart #Growth #Connection #SharedStories
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This!! Thank you so much. You have taken the words directly out of my mouth. ❤😮
Everyone’s feelings are VALID! & I’m so glad I’m not the only one who truly wants everyone to know they are not ever alone.
@@SkyeLoveGlad you like it. So much has happened in my life-so many toxic relationships and so much pain. Sometimes, I wonder what makes me get out of bed in the morning. My dad died last year, which broke me, but at the same time, it gave me a reason to change my life completely, and that's what I've done. No matter how hard life hits, I always get up. I keep fighting, even on those days when I just want to lie down and never wake up. I don't know why, but I just can't stop. I need to face my demons every day, take one step at a time, no matter how much I hate myself, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how mentally tired I am, no matter how much I want to give up. Just one more step, and then another. That's how I ended up here, where I am today: a single male, with a full-time job, and my own home. It's not the perfect life, but it's one I can call my own.
I hate to point out how deep in the darkness I was because I don't care for sympathy. I didn't get where I am today because of sympathy; I got here by willpower alone, and that's how I will keep going to the end of my days. As a lone Alpha Ice Wolf with invisible scars from life's battles, I've fought more wars than many can imagine, and I still live to tell the tale. At 37, with the wisdom of someone who has fought their own demons daily and stood on the edge many times, I keep moving forward.
To everyone out there struggling, know that you are not alone. We are here in pain just like you, and we are still going. This is what it's all about: showing support by letting you know you're not alone, no matter how much it feels that way. We are here for the people who feel the same, and together, we can keep moving forward.
just because you aren't in a romantic relationship with someone anymore doesn't mean you can't still care about their feelings
Amen my dad keeps saying I shouldn't even care I just got out of a great relationship he asked me to become his wife and dumped me
Amen my dad says I shouldn't care about my ex even though he dumped me I got out of a really great relationship he even asked me to be his wife and he dumped me 2 days before supposedly wedding day :( sadly I'll always care about him but my parents don't think I should but I got a big heart
@Joel Feleppa thanks I just wanna help people even if that person did me wrong idk maybe I'm wired differently 😕
I know that feeling.
please tell this to my ex.
it’s sad when you’ve sent a voicemail like this and they never replied
yeah
I don't have a number for you
It wasn’t welcome and you shouldn’t even given it a second thought especially that you probably sent it from a place of nowhere ANYWAYS you can’t hope for something that was NEVER there......
Crying is how your heart speaks, when your lips can't explain the pain you feel
Damn this caught me off guard😢😢😭
Well my heart speaks alot
@@chloefrancis6689 don't worry everything will be alrighty😊😊😄
Ya, but some people just suppress it. Hiding it inside. Not crying and not telling. It is better not to show or tell... Some people just don't care and find that annoying and ask u to go die. When we tell someone, instead of feeling better, we might end up getting more hurt... Like me, the only person in the world(not my family or bff, idk why I told him) that I told asked me to go die.
@@simrangobin4602 thank you, but sometimes, we can't be alright... No matter how hard we try
This is so much that I’ve wanted to say to my “friend” for so long now after they betrayed me, lied about me and turned all my other friends against me. Even after all they did to me tho I can never find it in me to hate them like I should. It sounds bad to call yourself a thing like kind cuz it sounds like you’re pushing it to make everyone else think you’re kind when actually you’re not, but deep down I believe I’m actually a kind person or at least I try to be. So I won’t, I won’t say anything to them, I’ll let them live out their perfect world without me. That’s the kindest thing to do
I'm in tears honestly. I'm stunned by how this hit.
I'm not I've been through it
me too :(
me too
I want you only.
Are you real? Ghost?
I am the fool.
I jump in ocean to cool down from my memories.
“i wonder if you’re alright. cause the last time we spoke, you didn’t seem alright. but that’s not my place anymore so, i can’t ask.”
*i miss my best friend so much.*
Jamie McCallion I miss my best friend too
i miss mine too
I missed her too 😭😭 That's why Im here , watching this vids.
That's exactly why am here
Awww
Feed a dog for 3 days he'll remember you for 3 years .Feed a human for 3 years he'll forget you in 3 days...thats the difference
😭😭😭😭😭😭
Sooooooooooooo true
@Hillary Thai I think you are not mature enough to understand
🤧💔
@@educationentertainment4819 🤣🤣🤣
three year skate i know but just last year this is the exact voicemail i would have sent to a whole friend group. Thank you for this, it's given some peace of mind.
*Do you ever wonder about me?*
*like..*
*I wonder about you?*
I always think like that when I see him
Same😂
Same
Jel- yes yeah but I know he doesn't
i see him in the corridors so often :(
I wondered that earlier about my ex..I fucked everything up. I regret it so much. I love him and always will. But it’s my fault
We all have a person in our mind listening to this
yup 💔
Yes
Sara 306 😞
Yup. I was thinking 'bout my boyfriend throughout the whole video. He didn't dumped me or anything but I'm afraid that what if one day he won't be there for me. I love him alot and I don't wanna lose him
Yep😣😢
It's been almost 4 years, I keep coming back to this.
It's crazy how we all have that one person that we cannot say no to.
its always that one person who moved on but whenever they ask something for u, u have to say yes. theres nothing u can do about it u feel like u need them ur dependent on them to literally function in life. everyday u tell urself that they have moved on but the minture they come back u forget about all the past things they have done just for them to go away again.
@@sillyaads1546 for reals that's how it is..
I know exactly how you feel and what you mean....it took me years to realize that the person I couldn't say no to, the one Id do anything for....wasn't even real. She was all in my head. I was led to believe, through lies and deceit, that she was what I wanted, but no, it was the facade I wanted. She never truly existed. She was never who I thought she was, so how can one miss what never existed? And that's what finally allowed me to heal. Remember, if you fight for your limitations you get to keep them.
And sometimes its literally killing me ..
i cant say no to anyone bcuz i dont wanna be rude 😭😭😭😭😭
thanks for this, it somehow perfectly encapsulates my feelings at the moment
whilst it's not good for anyone to go through this, it's good to know that it's not just you suffering, and that it's just a part of being human that everyone goes through
And that's exactly why I posted it. I didn't want to feel alone, and I surely didn't want any others to feel alone. So I thought, i'll post this and maybe I can find some people who can relate to me!
rly hits different when you think about your ex bestfriend
I know the feeling of losing a best friend is beyond explanation and it hurts terribly
im thinking of my ex bestfriend if she does really considered me as her bestfriend
Don’t even get me started this shit is worse than heart brake 😢
Yess 💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
Ugh yes
"You needed a reason to hate me so you could shut me out..."
Damn that's deep never even thought of that. So true
💯
"Because I literally meant nothing to you" I felt that
It does 😔💔
🥺
I felt this so hard.
I hit me so hard too.. I totally felt this so so much..
I..I totally feel her pain and oh god I wish this person would care and wonder about me like I DO
Me too... I'm wondering if this guy still cares about me like how I still care about him... I mean, we used to be BEST friend's, then he just... Stopped. Stopped caring, stopped hanging out with me, stopped looking at me with the adoration that was always in his eyes whenever he would look at me... It broke me...
I feel this so bad I started crying, there's this guy and we've gone to the same church for like ever, and I started going to his highschool. And we started dating and 3 months after dating I went through hell in my personal life and I couldn't talk to him about it because I felt like the times I did he wasn't really there for me. Instead of talking it out I said I just wanted to be friends. Its been almost 3 months since we would have been together 6 months. I think about him constantly and I wonder did he ever care did he really love me. Hes with my best friend now, well shes cheating on her of and on boyfriend of 3 years with him. But I have, will, and always will drop everything to support him. The first two weeks after the break up he would text me things like I still love you. I tried to kill myself yesterday. And he even cut. It made me feel worthless. I've thought so much about it all ive tried moving on. What should I do.
@@shelbyhood9319 your a dig app digs do not you to heaven
Ong😭
who else cried during this because they related so much?💔
me
Jãšêłíñ Grãčë shit hurts
I cried hard...Could relate
Me 💔
Me :(((
“You grew up so fast”
I didn’t want to,
But it just hurts so much..
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well, with the trauma, we have no choice but to grow up to try and forget about it
I started crying at school because I realized how much I love my school and my classmates. And it just hurts to think about leaving.
``did you even care about me``this part is so real
the part she said, “you were afraid to let everyone know you were the bad one it wasn’t just me” i felt that.... :/
Arianne Mcdaniel same
Arianne Mcdaniel omg yes she would tell her new friends bad stuff abt me that wasn't true and when someone told me that i started balling
same.
Same girl ;(
Same
*Do you ever wonder about me?*
*Like the way i wonder about you?*
*Did you actually care about me?*
*Or was it really just a game?*
💔
My ex, most likely not but I do all the time
💔💔💔💔💔🤧🤧😭😢😞 I miss my sister
it hurts
my heart is literally breaking into pieces slowly. it’s crazy how you can spend months and years together in love and it all falls apart in a blink of an eye 💔
True.. It will last SO long.. and then fall apart before you know it.
Yeah it could be going so well and then one day it all just goes to shit
I've been there. Almost 10 years and just like that. He left me.
@@excuseeeeeMeBEACH I'm sorry to hear that
Maria Farnazo my wife left after 20 years recently and now she acts like I never existed. 😢😢 I
"but that's not my place anymore, so i cant ask." That hit me so hard..
“you’re afraid to let everyone know your the bad one”
Yo
That's my exact quote to my ex before I left... always the covert saboteur, and always the visible victim...
ex: her help was to make every situation worse so I'd get more frustrated and eventually I'd have to ask her to stop helping me. Then she would give me the fine or I only trying to help or it's the thought that counts... unfortunately, as I'm preoccupied with problem solving she begins to start an argument with me to the effect of being mean or the way I spoke to her or I'm not appreciative of her help... you get the jist of her chastising me for not wanting her to sabatoge the project any longer... lol. It was she was exhausting and I left with just a shred of self worth left that is to say 3% on a 1 to 100 scale... but I managed to leave before her narcissistic behavior killed me or I killed myself... thank you god 🙏
I’m reading the comments while listening to this and all the quotes line up at the same time as the video 😂
I felt this too
"did you actually care about me " i felt that 💔
It was so sad... I have bad story like this and i used that word either so i felt like even in my veins
Same I found myself asking my ex girlfriend this
It felt so heart warming after hearing this. this almost happens to everyone right! You can loose your bestfriend or lover or anyone as a matter of fact and it just hits right at the spot.
Its 1:12 am and I'm crying so hard.
oh me to :/
Sameee
Almost same time...
Samee😓
Annie C I’m watching this at 1:12am. Spooky
"The number should come up in your missed call log"
I felt that... I felt the whole thing but I felt that
DigitalFire5000 sicker than that? he left a “missing you” message and before he hung up I COULD HEAR HIM DELETING THE CALL ON HIS HOME PHONE!
Never in 8 years on TH-cam have I ever found something that is so perfectly relatable. Thank you.
I 2nd that
Same here o/
Heartbreak is something that no one ever....considers. People break hearts just as fast as people die. But the hardship we have to go through is what hurts.
@ Musical Moments
Yeah I learned that the hard way and sometimes I do blame myself but it wasn’t my fault
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"You're supposed to grow, and you never let me grow"
😩😞
This hit me too.
Emmanuelle Elisse that hit my right in my toes lol
💔
“I wanted our future”, that line broke me 😭
it so did to me too
DÉLIA Same 💔
Same
Same
Same here.
“But it’s okay... because one day... they’ll all know”
That hit home
Wowza. So true. For someone to leave and act like you never happened, like you should just be over it immediately is another level of pain. I felt seen by this 😭
Turns out it was the wrong number....
kerra good one
Lol....Needed that laughter after the intense heart broken memory lane ...
kogiembal moodley mood 🤦🏽♀️💔💔
Bruuuh
kerra after that i needed a good laugh hahaha thanks 😂
It's kind of ironically bitter is at the people who give us the best memories become a memory...
Stop. You are going to make me cry
😭
Jordan Hezekiah 100th like
Jordan Hezekiah Thats so true I’m almost crying...
Mm T truee
Who else is thinking about these memories when you used to be like really happy with that one special person and didn’t had to fake a smile... This honestly hits hard
I was..
I can relate. And yes. It was my fault for dumping him as I was selfish.. I wasn't feeling happy that day and felt like he didn't need me.. He tried to get me to feel better but nothing worked. I in the end brought him to tears and then told him we needed to end it as it wasn't working. We weren't working. But he said no and there was nothing wrong with us. I.. Couldn't deal with it and told him that I never loved him in the first place.. Those words were lies. I loved him more than anyone. I still haven't gotten over him but we are friends and I'm okay with that. I mean I love him but I also know it's best for him to not date me again as I'm selfish and horrible and treat everyone like a piece of jewellery
Sometimes I feel the same way around my friends, they say they care but I usually have doubts who else can relate here,
Me😔😔😔😔😔
This inspired me to write poetry again and to let out all my feelings! Thank you 💛
YAY!!! That's why I do it !! So happy for you!! Much love !!!
Me too! It’s been 40 years. But, I been writing in my notes on my phone since 2013 and went through them and they are great and want to write poems or a book!
Same here the pain i turned them into poetry
I'm sitting here crying 2 months after while he's probably loving someone else
Same, sadly.
Let him. Don't chase him. He doesnt deserve tears from you live your best life and show him what he is missing out on. Some people enter your life just to leave the right one will come eventually and you wouldn't even feel a thing for him then.
@@austeensreborns2043 talk to me about it.
I can relate to you cause it's not even a week with me and I'm falling down, he literally saved me from suicide and then left wishing me to do it again. Idk I don't have any one to talk to
@@sharand3016 talk to me. Please. Ive been through the same thing. I dont want you to hurt yourself or anything like that over someone like that.
I look through the comments and I’m like wow we’re all hurting I hope whoever is reading this is going to be ok
Seligman Twins i hope so too.
I’m never ok, I have so many issues..
This made me smile thank you
Mo Mo no problem have an amazing week
kira d. It's ok you'll get through them
The fact that it ended makes me question every single thing in the relationship.
it's a natural thing jocelyn.... i'm there now... sad part i know it was real... i just wonder if it was really fake :(
Jocelyn Nevarez same. i feel like it was all just a lie..
This really reminds of that one relationship that completely broke me i developed so many issues. At some point i was so weak and trauma bonded to that person but now that I'm learning more about psychology and myself, im healing and growing and i absolutely love myself❤️
“Do you even think about what happened and wonder where we’d be when it didn’t”
I wonder how my life would be if I hadn’t met the best friends in the world... and of half of them hadn’t left
Scarlett Anderson sometimes we must lose the ones we think we need, in order to find the ones we do. a best friend is out there , who is meant for you and only you. and you will find them someday, that i can promise.
XxVillianZxX KrillZ that’s a lot to deal with i’m sorry. just think of who is more important to you. if u can see a future with this girl that doesn’t involve ur best friend then maybe that’s the way u should go. but if it’s not healthy for u to leave ur best friend and it’s negatively affecting u then maybe u need to let this girl go. u could try resin with this girl and say that ur best friend is a high priority in ur life and u feel like it’s unfair to have to let her go. also, if u can’t talk about serious stuff with this girl then maybe u shouldn’t be w her. i hope it all works out for u💗
“this is for rachel...”
Slurp omg noooo💀
Slurp 😭😂😂😂😂
Do you mean rachel amber?
@@nikkik1635 what the? You good bro
why you took me off the mother fuckin schedule
Its ok. This is how i feel about my ex-best friend too
That's who I was aiming for. Ex-Best friends.
This hurts
I felt this😢
Mann 😢
This happened to me with my ex bestfriend as well
This is how you sound after a narcissistic abuse. You have no clue how the one who said “love you so much” one day, the next day can throw you away with cold heart. 😔Heal soon!🙏🏼
When you're fine: *Finds it sad*
When you're sad: *Understands the words*
I understand the words either way bro when your fine it doesn't mean you don't understand and you will always relate to it not matter what
that is so true
I wanted our future, but you just didn’t want that anymore... I’m in tears
i know how it feels 😭😭
That’s what made me want to send this to someone.
This is written for me. Like for real. This spoke straight to me.
Equine Natalie 😭am cryinggg
Me too :(
Warning long (ish) paragraph of some drama:
All my “best friends” this year all 6 of them left me.. one is super popular and turned them all against me.. I dated one of them and she was why we broke up.. I’m so heartbroken and I feel so betrayed and backstabbed by all of them just because of some dumb lies. Fake friends 💯🤷♀️.. I miss them.. the old them. That “cared about me” sure. In reality they were never on my side. They were never there for me like I was for them. They’re gone forever.
@@a.2345 omfg I'm so sorry. I know the feeling. If you ever wanna vent I'm a good person to vent too. ❤
Equine Natalie thanks🖤 they continue to trash talk me behind my back and I literally didn’t even do anything. Yes we fought through texts sometimes but that’s where they just hide behind a screen. It’s not one sided. They all tried to make me look like the bad guy, but it was NOT, just me..
i think about them first thing in the morning, during the day, before going to bed, this feeling of longing, this feeling of not being loved back by a person u love, this undying feeling of being wanted won't leave me, i never wanted anything like i wanted you i hope u realise it one day good luck in life i really meant it when i said I love you and i only said it bc i knew it was probably our last time talking to eachother, i knew it was the last time i will ever hear your voice
this is exactly how i feel now. he's already moved on, touching other girls legs, smiling and laughing, but he convinced me so much that he would never leave me. its my fault not his. i listened to my toxic friends and destroyed my relationship with him.. i hope you guys are doing, fine.
Love is the greatest sacrifice and it's the most horrible when you trust and love the wrong one
Because of that never let 3rd person to play a part in ur relationship, follow ur heart.. If they try.. Every time ask urself is that right what they say.. Think before act.
Because u know, many people pretend to be our friends.. But are they??
this is exactly what happened to me, i’m so so sorry💔
Same 😭😭💔💔
everyone is listening to the same audio but thinking of a different person
if you’re feeling bad just think that rain falls but it also stops❤️
Hello febe 👋
How to kill someone..?
Fill them with love and then leave.
i like you this is so true :)
or you can just see that someone wronged you and then see that they sent this video after that's what happend to me
it happens to the best of us
How do u leave urself?
That hits...
That really hits...
Thank you so much for this. It hurts loving someone who doesn’t love you back or even remember you
"do you ever wonder about me? the way i wonder about you?" THAT SHIT HITS DIFFERENT
It hits different for me too
It’s crazy how where listening to the same thing but thinking of someone else 😭🥺
Avery Aubrey not my ex my ex bff I miss him he ignores me now
This Poetry/ short-film video took me along time to put together the scenes and allow them to match up to my words.....please check it out th-cam.com/video/_VvT6sPQezU/w-d-xo.html
@oof you can go through a heartbreak even if you never had a girlfriend
I know I am because my ex left me for another girl and I'm sure this has happened to everyone but this hurts like hell to know that the boy I loved and the boy I cared about just breaks my heart because of another girl after he told me on the day we met that age didn't matter and we went from texting and calling everyday now were barely speaking which hurts even more he didn't even post not one picture of me but I just saw a picture he posted of her on his snap story and that hurt 😔💔😥🥺and hit me hard 😔💔😥😪🥺💔
"You needed a reason to hate me so you could shut me out."
I legit started crying.
You relate only when you're sad.
Yes I know it hits, they needed a reason to push us away and make themselves seem like a victim or affected person but it's okay, keep looking forward better things are ahead
@@ravensin970 ikr 🥺✨
@@aanshithakrar8427 how are you feeling now?
@@ravensin970 better ig
Wby you okay?
This is exactly how I feel. When I heard her say this, I couldn't believe that someone else felt the same way. I always thought it was just me. She was looking for a reason to hate me so she could shut me out.
This is therapy for so many wishing they had the courage to make that move
Or for the ones wishing they'd receive this
I always come and listen to this when I get hurt or are sad. “Did you actually care about me” hits me so hard.
please watch and subscribe
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That hit me oml
I felt like that was me talking...
felt like I was listening.
felt like i was talking too
It seemed like she was talking about me uno😭 I push everyone away, but not even on purpose. I just end up doin it
Same here
Same feeling
yo I thought this was gonna be stupid but damn 😭 this is what I feel wow love this!! “This isn’t coming out the way I wanted it to” nothing can describe the pain.
This is how I feel as a guy...💔
I feel u my ex started dating my bff and then he said he cheated on me 40time and I lost it and I started screaming at him and I slapped him and tbh daamm I cryed😭😭😩😩and I’m still so young
I felt this because that's what I'm going through rn but in everything I've taught myself one thing people will be there for you only when it's beneficial to them. Thou it's okay I believe and know that I'll be okay. I'm healing mentally, physically and emotionally. Sending love to everyone going through the same thing and to those who haven't healed from things they don't speak about ❤
I'm... crying. Dude. This is everything I ever wanted to say to my "best friend"
Came out of romantic relationship of 4 years and it didn't hurt half as bad as when my friend of 3 months ended it with me.
yeah me too
Yep. It got worse when they ended it with a 13 page letter of everything that I did wrong. Still read it sometimes and cry.
I know I understand your pain I would to
Exactly
Roses are dead
Violets are dying
Outside I am smiling
Inside I am crying
I'll listen if you need to get anything off your chest.
It's not worth crying over spill milk,make up your mind n light up!! Cheer up, girls.🙏
Same
@@maychin3351 i hate coming acrossed people saying this. We CANT
That hit hard 🥀
he was my best friend he was the closest friend I ever had. I helped him with every problem he had, with every aspect in his life. I even stopped him from committing suicide. I stood up for him when there was trouble at school. I fought for him. I did so much for him, I would have done anything for him. But it's funny how when his life started getting better, he started getting less and less close to me. He didn't need me anymore.
oh wow! i didn't realize it until now but this got so many likes!
thank you so much! its crazy that so many people are in the same situation. im still stuck in this situation sadly.. i hope you guys are doing okay though!
Shinitai Chan hey, this is exactly what is going on with me right now, even the suicide thing. we both saved each other from suicide. we started drifting and i told him how i felt about how he treated me and we got into an argument and haven’t spoke in almost two weeks. i miss him a lot. i wish the best for you 💓.
_Kyky_ I'm sorry that you're going through a similar situation. at least I know that I'm not alone :) I also wish you the best💕
I hope things get better and even tho I don’t know you I’m sure your an amazing person ,I’m in the same position I gave everything to him but he dosenr want me back ... I hope you find your purpose and I hope that you find your way through this
i’m in the same position as well :( it sucks being ignored by someone you showed all your soft spots to, who you helped as well
We should talk.. I did this to my crush.... we need to talk more.. not kidding ..
I’ll always remember him as my highschool sweetheart I never thought it was possible to love someone this deeply I’m so grateful I’ve gotten to meet and experienced the love I felt with him. It made me love myself so much, it built this big wall between me and any other guy that isn’t him. I’m so okay with being alone. I love this listen to it all the time. All my tears could make a river. We could’ve been so perfect. I felt like I’ve found my soulmate in him my twin my reason to keep going when life gets so hard. My motivation. It sucks that all of the best of me I have to him it wasn’t enough . I’ll never love another man like I loved him. Everything hurts so bad. Everything he does and tells me. I’m so heartbroken 😔 no drug or therapy will never fix this pain I feel inside
Why does it always have to be a lady
I need a male version of this!
Guys break too yk.
this is a male version.......
Skye Love they mean they want the person speaking on the voicemail to be a male
Yeah..break hearts-
Sorry no offense
Look up a male version then LMAO.
Here here
To the people who didnt have to fake a smile yet, i hope u never have to, cherish the moments when its real, u dont even know how badly you'll want those moments if u ever do fake it. And to those who did already. I hope everything gets better, and even tho it might be hard to believe it and i sometimes dont either, itll get worse before it gets better. Dont let people drag u like ur nothing, find the ones that will always want to be with u. I found out that I'm not a introvert but i like my peace, and im really extroverted around people who have that peace. Find the ones that ur comfortable with. I hope everything gets better for the people who are going through a hard time. Sorry for a long paragraph. 🥺❤
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@@ayshanageeb9195 💖
😭😭😭
I’ve faked smiled my whole life , just because my mother decided to name me Joy.
@@JoyfulWolfEyes im sorry to hear that, you have a very pretty name there tho i rlly like it i wish i had the name Joy, and its okay everyones gonna be sad at one point, and lets be sad together, im not gonna tell u not to be sad cause it doesnt work like that, i wish, but we can at least help each other through it 😊
“i know I messed up, but i can’t pretend it didn’t happen“
that hit.
I was toxic don't even if I should apologize or leave things as they are😭
I love a women named kelcy.. I wish I could be in her presence again, but my spirit doesn't love her like my heart loves her soul
I've been watching this for years now, it makes me cry almost every time I listen to it
I do this for my ex all the time. I still love her with all my heart and I have so many questions, I wonder if she ever thinks about me the way I think about her. I know I should let her go, I know she shouldn't mean as much to me as she does. I made so many mistakes I know I'm not perfect but I tried so damn hard with her because if you love someone your supposed to push yourself to be the best for them right? I did and it all ended..it changed me so much but it changed her to
I'm a sensitive subject to her we talked sometimes but I never got to tell her those three simple words...I love you...
Recently I got ghosted on and this part made me cry
“ because something like what we had doesn’t just crash and burn”
Najla * me to 💔
Same 😔
i got ghosted and we had a really good friendship so after a couple months i had the confidence to ask him why don’t we talk and he said it was because of my friends and i’m not friends w those people bc they are bad people and i wonder if he would take me back
💔
Me too. It's been almost two years and I miss him every day. To be dumped with no explanation is torture.
Hey.
It's um, it's me.
I just wanted to say that I miss you
I got to thinking yesterday and I ran across one of our old pictures.
and I almost tried to call... obviously I didn't,
so now I'm just leaving this voicemail...
I'm still full of questions,
and I'm not really quite sure
if I'll have enough time to ask them.
Do you ever wonder about me? The way I wonder about you?
I wonder if you're alright...
cause the last time we spoke, you didn't seem alright
but that's not my place anymore
I can't ask.
Do you even think about what happened?
Where we would be if it didn't?
But that probably makes me sound really crazy
because I should let you go, right?
I should just drop everything I knew about you, we never even happened?
Pretend I didn't approach you? and try to build a bond? That I know I messed up?
I saw so much going for you, you know?
even though you never failed to push me back down...
I'm not blaming you though
This isn't coming out the way I wanted it to
But I just wanna know,
Did you actually care about me?
or was it really just a game?
like you befriended me and then
it actually became legit
and things both went wrong in our own lives
and then you just decided you didn't need me anymore and you needed a reason
You needed a reason to hate me so you could shut me out.
Then I wouldn't be trying to call you, right?
That's what it was, right?
Because I meant literally nothing to you
And if that's not true,
Then show me how it's not true.
Because something like what we had... doesn't just crash and burn
You're supposed to grow... and you never let me grow.
And you're afraid to let show, aren't you?
You're afraid for everyone to know that you were the bad one.
It wasn't just me.
But it's okay because one day,
They'll all know,
we'll just have to wait and see, won't we?
and after a month and a half,
I found myself calling you memory.
And I never wanted that,
cause I wanted us to last, you know?
I wanted our future.
But you just didn't want that anymore.
But I guess I understand.
And you can call me back if you want,
The number should pop up in your missed call log.
Bye.
I don’t want to be rude but it says the words on the video
@@parkerstewart8841 some people prefer to find the lyrics or words in the comment section
It's so sweet you took the time out to right it dont listen to the haters good job
The words are on the screen..
Wtf.......(Tnx btw)
“We realize we were making memories ,all we knew is that we were having fun”
- winny the poo
"My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
Got out of bed at all
The morning rain clouds up my window
And I can't see at all
And even if I could it'll all be gray
Put your picture on my wall
It reminds me, that it's not so bad
It's not so bad"
-Dido
@@RealmRabbit i fucking love that verse
That quote is so wrong
this gives me motivation to focus more on myself, i mean i’ll still have my friends but like it motivates me to actually start trying to love and care for myself. thank you so much for this little push, it really means a lot to me
This hit deep . I’m literally crying as I’m listening to this
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This Poetry/ short-film video took me along time to put together the scenes and allow them to match up to my words.....please check it out th-cam.com/video/_VvT6sPQezU/w-d-xo.html
“This hits deep” that’s what she said