What To Do When Family Behaves Badly | July 1, 2024

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  • @3roachkidsdhe
    @3roachkidsdhe วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Babies don’t need much space and people in general don’t need space unless they are brought up to think they do . My kids are hardly in their room only get clothes. My oldest son is the only one who even sleeps in his room.

    • @Hillcountry_Homemaker
      @Hillcountry_Homemaker วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Same! We live in a two bedroom rental with two children. We are in the kid bedroom for bedtime. That’s it and the oldest one is the only one that sleeps in there 😂

  • @GrandCanyonRVResort
    @GrandCanyonRVResort วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    The lady that had household income of $230k, didn’t own a car, and was concerned about buying a $9k car. Please tell me she was trolling. What a joke.

    • @jjkatz
      @jjkatz วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Agree some of these people are ridiculous 🙄

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Those are the people that I fast-forward through. And those who say I only have $3 million can I retire with dignity. Give me a break!

  • @mjretrogamer4819
    @mjretrogamer4819 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    As a dad it disgusts me to hear stories like Matt's. His dad knew exactly what he was doing. He felt that money was his, and manipulated his son to get it. And then not to pay it back after all these years is further proof he just wanted the money because he felt it was his and he probably has no intent of paying it back. There is a special place in you know where for this embarrassment of a father. And you can say maybe he was the greatest dad ever till this happened, its no excuse. This was not an accident, or a misspoken word in the the heat of an argument. This was intentional and he took advantage of his own son when his mother just passed. There were months when I wasn't sure how I would make the mortgage and it did not cross my mind for a second to take money from my kids, regardless of where the money came from.

  • @jgamboa4858
    @jgamboa4858 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Dave and John are my favorite duo

  • @eyebrow1
    @eyebrow1 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    That lady was pissed that her husband got a used old car he could easily afford instead of catching the bus or renting a car for the rest of their lives like they agreed they’d do.

  • @yodaddy4944
    @yodaddy4944 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    -1:07:14 I bet John was biting at the bit to tell that lady she has a marriage issue/to get counseling/tell her husband she can’t breathe. Lol and Dave just cuts through her crap and tells her she’s being emotional lol loved it

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think it might be the revese. They live in DC, chose an expensive area close to work with metro access and they do the occasional Zip Car rental on the weekend. The recent car was a piece of crap and that pissed off hubs. So he got a car, against their plan.

  • @kristencampbell5533
    @kristencampbell5533 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I lived overseas for a couple of years, and it was life changing. If you can do it, I would recommend it. If you have the money saved to cash flow a 1 year MBA abroad, it will likely be unforgettable. You may not be free to do so in future, once a spouse or kids come along. Another option is to do an MBA in the US and then work abroad.

  • @shoujobarton7692
    @shoujobarton7692 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😂😂😂😅why am I watching this episode and in your comments section on IG at the same time😂😂

  • @pce12345
    @pce12345 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Lol I love how Dave brought up uncle Rico. I ❤ Napoleon Dynamite

  • @LordBass
    @LordBass วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    It all starts with "I'll try to keep a long story short"...

  • @LittleMopeHead
    @LittleMopeHead วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    The Ramsey Show should keep reiterating about the presidential election and how it won't fix what's happening at home. People don't get it.

  • @naomiemoore5725
    @naomiemoore5725 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    The lady on the call breaks my heart. I can't even imagine what she and her husband have been going through. Money is always a grub fest.
    As to real estate in California, the median home price (the entire state), is between $800K - $904K.
    I am in Santa Clarita and in a typical housing tract built in the mid 80's. House next door is a 2 story 3 bed, 2 bath, powder room, with attached 2 car garage and a nice back yard. Guess . . . $748K, and nothing special.
    There are no "cheaper areas." So the lady is correct, coming back isn't an option unless they want to do that. And they don't as they are debt free.
    I just wish them the best and smooth sailing from here on out. Glad they have a good neighbour, too.

  • @wandajuul5150
    @wandajuul5150 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I live in Seattle. Skagit County, while more rural, is still expensive. No cheap condos there. All of western Washington is pricey.

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm your neighbor (in Sedro Woolley). ❤

    • @mandypdx
      @mandypdx วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Agree. West coast in general. I recently sold my 1 bedroom condo for $400k in Oregon

  • @HappyAbi16
    @HappyAbi16 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    If "Rice & Beans, Beans & Rice" is not a band name, it should be.... 😂

  • @super1234567891011
    @super1234567891011 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Dave is back!! Thank you Jesus!!

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      He was on all last week, where were you? 😂

    • @super1234567891011
      @super1234567891011 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@flashthecorgi2053 not Friday. I missed him so much Tami.

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@super1234567891011 My name is not Tami sweetheart but nice try! That’s a family member close to me but not mine. Also, he hasn’t worked on Fridays for awhile that’s not new!

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@flashthecorgi2053 It is a pleasant surprise that Dave hasn't decided to take the whole week of the 4th of July off though.

    • @isidorolopez265
      @isidorolopez265 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I wouldn’t go that far

  • @christinehopping5040
    @christinehopping5040 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dave gave that lady a wonderful blessing on her wedding day -- Financial Peace. I love listening to happy people on radio.

  • @seanjean9677
    @seanjean9677 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    Sis should’ve split the down payment. You didn’t give your dad his portion of the down payment because you were punishing him for cheating on your mom.

    • @roxannestaton6258
      @roxannestaton6258 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      That’s my thought too

    • @itsadrie7461
      @itsadrie7461 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Agreed! She was really being fair and unbiased then she would’ve split the downpayment between both.

    • @cloutm_anager8262
      @cloutm_anager8262 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      💯 💯 I find it strange they didn’t mention this on air.

    • @richardgreene9220
      @richardgreene9220 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      The homestead was protected by investment of different people. Today the ownership should be divided by the percentage invested when purchased back from the bank.

    • @aishatidwell3389
      @aishatidwell3389 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I agree

  • @chicabodes9817
    @chicabodes9817 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Get a construction management MBA here in the USA. Make it your mission to get employed by a Multi-national engineering firm after you complete your MBA. Make your way to EUROPE. ORRRRRR Eliminate all your debt, and buy a house in a European country. Houses are cheap. You can get a condo/house for less than 100K

    • @daLoerdchen
      @daLoerdchen 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I guess it depends on where in "Europe" we are talking about. Where I live in western Germany, you pay about 500-850k Euros (540k-918k USD) for an average 80m² appartment.

  • @SueHoppe-fb9fn
    @SueHoppe-fb9fn วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Dave, sure wish your show had CC for us hearing impaired.

    • @marysaltlife1427
      @marysaltlife1427 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Hi, Sue, you can use the closed caption option on TH-cam. Touch the screen then touch the cc in a box icon in the upper right of the screen. Hope this helps.

    • @emakoo01
      @emakoo01 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ⁠@@marysaltlife1427nope not available on this video 🤷‍♀️ good thing to point out 👍 I hope they add captions 😘

    • @mandypdx
      @mandypdx วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@emakoo01it’s available for me and I am writing this comment 7 minutes after you :)

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@emakoo01It’s avaliable for me as well as the transcript down below. If you click the date and scroll down to the description PAST the explore podcast picture. There is a transcript as well that will give you the words. The close captioning is also available right by the settings, air play, and auto play buttons.

    • @PageTurnerr__
      @PageTurnerr__ วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      CC is available in TH-cam settings 👍

  • @tinaharding9044
    @tinaharding9044 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    I kinda followed your financial plans. After 30+ years my student loan is paid off. We were stupid with our money over the years and after my husband passed in late 2017 I took a job in TX and thought I would get it paid off then but it didn't happen. I left that job to take care of my mom when her nursing home closed but before I could get back to her, she passed in 2020 and then COVID hit. I took survivor benefits from my husband and did not work for all of 2020. I did start working minimum wage jobs in 2021-2023.
    Then I lucked out getting a job back in TX in August 2023.
    At that time I had enough of everything.
    I paid off $7k in credit card debt.
    I just paid off $18k in student loan debt in May 2024 after 30+ years.
    My truck will be paid off in two years
    I did buy a house this year since it is half the cost of renting here. I bought down the interest rate to 6% and I'm fixing it up so in two years I can sell it at a greater profit.
    Some times people just have to hit rock bottom like I did to finally do something about it.
    I'm 65 this year and can't retire. I make after taxes, health insurance, etc about $2,200 every other week. I use one full pay check paying my mortgage, utilities, truck payment and car insurance. The other check I will now start putting into the bank for retirement. I don't eat out but once every other week. If I want something I make sure it is absolutely necessary and I get it second-hand. I'm doing the rice and tuna fish diet - don't like beans.
    And my goal is not to retire until I have $100k and debt free totally before I retire.. I will get about $3k from social security so even if they cut it back by 30% I'll be okay.
    If I can do it, any body can do it.

    • @naomiemoore5725
      @naomiemoore5725 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Be proud of yourself. You have a great plan. Sending love and strength. ❤

    • @tinaharding9044
      @tinaharding9044 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@naomiemoore5725 thank you.

    • @striperkid
      @striperkid วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      My Pops is retired and living in Fl on $2600 a month. He lives like a King. Yes, it can be done.

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I did not listen early enough to become a millionaire but I saved 100,000 in good mutual funds before I retired. My income is 2500 a month on Social Security, no pension and I am fine. Debt-free for a long time with a paid for house. You will be OK!

  • @nodsib
    @nodsib 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    If I worked at Ramsey, I’d definitely try starting up a band called Left-handed Puppetry

  • @leablackburn9660
    @leablackburn9660 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I appreciate the family money values in place
    One can't exist peaceful without the other❤

  • @user-ni2fi6qz1y
    @user-ni2fi6qz1y วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The Bennie’s is a good band name lol😅 Bennie’s for benefits 😂

  • @lenisteingen3036
    @lenisteingen3036 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Daniel from New York. You worked so hard you deserve a gap year. You’re not too old. Always yes to living abroad for a while. And an MBA within only one year sounds super intense, not a vacation at all. You’ll gain invaluable experience that someone who never went to live abroad can’t comprehend. Just do it.

    • @antoinepowell649
      @antoinepowell649 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He’s clearly not happy money not everything he feel empty inside NEW York a cold city it’s hard to find real love

    • @souschef4489
      @souschef4489 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I was thinking the same thing. If you have a clear financial picture just take the year. May even find a love interest or new relationships that can’t be found stateside

    • @jjkatz
      @jjkatz วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Agree he definitely should go. Money isn’t everything, experiences are just as important. He’s obviously a responsible guy not just going to goof off. He will regret it if he doesn’t go. Dave acts like everyone should just grind away until they’re past retirement age. Of course Deloney agrees because he’s a yes man. Daniel GO!!!

    • @lawandahilaire5057
      @lawandahilaire5057 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      American expat here living in London. I do find that people living in the middle of America usually aren’t the adventurous one to take travel advice from …absolutely move for a year…that’s nothing! I’ve been over here for 13 years -best decision ever!

  • @SouvenirKidneyStone
    @SouvenirKidneyStone วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "...car accident or Mother's Day."
    😂

  • @JamesTheHumbleSupplanter
    @JamesTheHumbleSupplanter วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great stuff

  • @Traveler20231
    @Traveler20231 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    To the guy that wants to go to Europe you should do it. Whether the school route or get a job there. There is nothing wrong with taking a year off if you can afford it.

    • @kathystaursky4063
      @kathystaursky4063 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I agree. He can see if he really likes it.

    • @hm8489
      @hm8489 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Totally agree. He’s young, that’s his dream. Let him do it if he doesn’t need to take loans.

    • @shannonfritch8313
      @shannonfritch8313 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      This is one thing I disagree with Dave on. If he is debt free and can fund his year, he should take a year and go before he has a family. I spent a year volunteering for Habitat for Humanity and lived on $2500 for the year. All of us volunteers had nothing financially or materially but we had a very rich life.

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      I live in Europe. I love it. ❤

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Travel and living abroad changes your perspective for the rest of your life.

  • @kellibuzzard9431
    @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Skagit Valley is not inexpensive anymore. Huge housing shortage here, thanks to the Sesttle market. Wish Dave was listening better when Linda kept saying that.

    • @elissapoh7782
      @elissapoh7782 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly. There’s no place within driving distance that is “cheap”. I’m just over the border in Canada - very similar prices to Bellingham WA - and am a Canadian millionaire only because I bought a very basic older starter house in my 20s that is today worth over a million. (30 yrs later)

  • @brookebales2931
    @brookebales2931 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Love how James Child will put in funny little clips pertaining to something funny y’all said 😆 (football coach one this time 🏈)

  • @jessicamariethorpe
    @jessicamariethorpe 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I would love a follow up on some of these stories, like the son who's father borrowed $40k. I want to know if this father is going to be a decent person and own up to the loan & pay him back or if he's a coward and tried to use excuses...

  • @rhodoralopez7710
    @rhodoralopez7710 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Daniel, pls. take your gap year abroad & get your masters degree! You've worked diligently, will still have income from your rentals, & deserve a wonderful life experience at a young age. Youll come out w/ a very marketable advanced degree when alls said & done, whether you return stateside or not. As long as you dont go into debt, go for it!😊

  • @ninachunca3675
    @ninachunca3675 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thx

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Matthew call - you know Dave's mad when he says honey. 😁

  • @ErikkaCherry
    @ErikkaCherry วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    What did the first caller call for omh

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      😂

    • @LordBass
      @LordBass วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Word salad. Little said.

    • @mellowbirddreamer77
      @mellowbirddreamer77 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Called to gossip and complain. I regret listening to it. I can't stand those type of people. Either do something or stfu

  • @lauvasquez7198
    @lauvasquez7198 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    First call. The lady moved there in the 90s and still complaining of what happened in 90s? Im confused

  • @MsValiG
    @MsValiG วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I would tell the kids that Grandpa is getting old and his brain doesn't work right anymore he's sick and that would be the end of it

  • @yankos_
    @yankos_ 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    2:00:00 No Dave... (I sound like "HAL 9000" from "2001: A Space Odyssey") BRK shares (later called BRK.A) were getting to expensive (now about $610,668) for anyone to buy. So another lot of shares (BRK.B) were created at a faction of the price (now about $407.10) to allow more people/entities to invest more affordably. I believe these were crated from the float of an existing company and renamed.

  • @brookebales2931
    @brookebales2931 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Don’t rub the cruise in 😭 haha jk 😜 we can go in 26’ but not next year! Please keep doing it y’all! Wanna hang out with good folks like y’all. And I’m biased but y’all would love our little fam aboard 😊❤

  • @reneeantwi-boasiako3974
    @reneeantwi-boasiako3974 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    @03:45 "Good! Praise God!" Papa Dave 😂😂😂

  • @syrleneclarke1299
    @syrleneclarke1299 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yea Dave my people got hit a little in Barbados. They will restore.

  • @TheGrantrepreneur
    @TheGrantrepreneur 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I disagree with Dave that creating a competing agency and then inheriting clients from your previous employer is thievery. I shouldn’t be villainized if part of a fee market likes me better than it likes you. I wouldn’t do it to family, but I’d absolutely poach clients from previous employers if I can do a better job.

  • @cynthiawaldorf9353
    @cynthiawaldorf9353 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I'm glad Dave called that lady out on picking on her husband for buying a $9000 car when they make a huge income. Dave was right. She's being emotional instead of addressing the real issue. I bet shes the saver in the family or she doesn't like the car or both..😊

  • @jamiejohnson5748
    @jamiejohnson5748 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Is there a Canadian Every Dollar app?

    • @cookieforawookie
      @cookieforawookie วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      You mean Eh?Very Dollar?

    • @derekcox6531
      @derekcox6531 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@cookieforawookieoh snap…that’s witty

  • @user-tm5fy7hv7z
    @user-tm5fy7hv7z 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    45:20 your dad put half the down payment. You returned it ALL to your mother. You took her side. Deal with it.

  • @kristinsewell2949
    @kristinsewell2949 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The caller from Skagit County needs to look at eastern Washington to afford what she needs.

  • @Trustbutverify2651
    @Trustbutverify2651 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Linda - you might need to move to another state. There are still states where you can purchase a decent house for less than $150,000. If you have a low income and few assets, in many cities like the one where my Mom lives, you do not have to pay real estate taxes. That could be a savings of $300 a month - and you would not have that advantage if renting. Also, you can continue to work from home part-time for several more years or you could rent out one room if you found the right kind of house and the right person. Taking care of your financial future is the most important step for you right now. Even if you have to move away from family, they can come and visit you. Take a 30 year mortgage if that's all you can qualify for and make extra principal payments. You sound motivated enough to pay it off as soon as you can. YOU are responsible for YOU.

  • @rhettbutler7886
    @rhettbutler7886 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Is amazon a good investment?

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Not as a single stock but if it's part of a mutual fund group of 200 companies or more I would feel comfortable.

  • @isidorolopez265
    @isidorolopez265 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I got an interject one very important thing here. Second call I believe maybe first Carla I’m not sure 25 years old. He has put in enough time in the system to have a mess all the money he has and everything else he’s talked about. He’s not old enough by any means flat out face face lie

  • @MrJeff007rey
    @MrJeff007rey วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Dave is awesome.
    Great financial advice.
    But I only like Rachel as a co-host because she actually thinks for herself rather than just echoing Dave like others.
    Delony is insufferable.

    • @BeeDee-qs9so
      @BeeDee-qs9so วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      To be fair, it’s unlikely his daughter has the same pressures or potential to be fired, as the others have. No wonder she doesn’t need to “echo” Dave.

    • @edwardhale2412
      @edwardhale2412 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      (BS7) cannot stand to listen to Rachel. Whenever she is on, I pass.

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I only listen when it's Rachel and I only listen to Ken's replies when he's giving advice about jobs. George is a snob and makes comments that I find offensive, like only going garage sales in good neighborhoods because those are the people who have good stuff. Jade gives great advice but I can't stand her interjections like she's saying "amen" at a church.
      The thing that bothers me about all the cohosts is that they forget to say things that Dave would have. They all need cheat sheets. So fortunately now I can tell if Dave's going be on because I only listen my car. Yelling when one of them says something stupid, unfortunately, doesn't activate the off button lol.

  • @3roachkidsdhe
    @3roachkidsdhe วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Uncle Rico

  • @RaeLoverOfBeauty
    @RaeLoverOfBeauty 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ummm she gave her mother the down payment back and told her she could choose to split it with her father. She should have just split it! Dad’s not wrong here I’m sorry!

  • @Joce123
    @Joce123 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I just could not get to the crux of the matter with the woman who was worried about the trust fund... If they have a great life right now and they lose out on any benefit from the trust oh well..

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It is a legal question for an attorney and, once again, the RS people answer questions they are not qualified to answer - and this team seems totally unable to say, "I don't know. You will need to check with an attorney on this one." The lady was calling in about an irrevocable trust which is different from a revocable trust. In general, a revocable trust can be changed at will, but an irrevocable trust cannot be changed without securing the permission of the beneficiaries as well. So she should be fine, unless there is some forgery going on with the original documents. I don't know if she has a copy of those or not. If she does not, the cost to hire an attorney to actually claim the money might cost her all the money that she is concerned about. What she could do for less money is simply to hire an attorney to see if the irrevocable trust is still in force or if it has been changed and then decide how to proceed from there. However, attorney's fees generally are upward of $500 and hour and that adds up fast.

    • @brookelondon8029
      @brookelondon8029 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She moved to be near them and they thought life would be one way and it wasn't. It sounds to me that those parents might be in the beginning stages of dementia because physical violence sometimes does occur when people get that confused. A lot of people aren't good at figuring out what to do. I think they got great advice. Move and just let it go. And I like when he said about keeping it in your head. It's difficult to stop your brain from doing that if but they could both agree on letting go, both see a therapist to get some advice on how to do that It would be a big help. I wish them luck.

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Anna call - how much money could you possibly have lost by her becoming their maid? Let it go.

  • @veebliss1266
    @veebliss1266 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Europe man , just go ! Don’t listen to these people saying you need to work . If you have savings and can afford to focus only on your masters and have a break in Europe then DO IT! Be realistic with yourself about the good and the bad abroad !! Stay focused on your education and take the break you need! If you feel like you don’t have enough savings get a part time job out there 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ I don’t believe someone can’t have a year break . Of course they can! We are human and he is NOT guarantee tomorrow’! So take that vacation and get your masters in peace not everyone can work and do school at the same time! And that’s OK!!! You’re not too old go do it!!! ❤❤

  • @snackman2005
    @snackman2005 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I wish it would revert back to the Dave Ramsey show. Or the Dave and Rachel show.

    • @johnparker4484
      @johnparker4484 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That would be dumb. He’s intentionally building the company around other personalities as he ages so that it can continue and do well even when he retires/ passes

    • @snackman2005
      @snackman2005 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@johnparker4484 so you are saying his daughter couldn’t carry on?

    • @edwardhale2412
      @edwardhale2412 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@snackman2005 (BS7) cannot stand to listen to Rachel. Whenever she is on, I pass.

    • @snackman2005
      @snackman2005 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@edwardhale2412 she can be annoying at times. Not as annoying as the other co hosts. Sometimes she even challenges Dave.

  • @mwhe3111
    @mwhe3111 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    The lady whose hubs bought a cheap car they could afford needs to chill.

  • @Fog_of_War123
    @Fog_of_War123 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I work fulltime, and taken care of a family during which even through baby years, I got my MBA and working on my 2nd masters. That dude can go to school and work. Man up!

  • @vicmedina1176
    @vicmedina1176 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Matthew get your money your mom left it to you, shame on your dad

  • @hugosantesteban2681
    @hugosantesteban2681 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    they are not married yet and the guy must put his savings to solve the debt of the future wife? is she putting half of the property at his name? with all the problems nowadays specially in the west, its a big risk. A single problem, he will get no money and no house whatsoever . . .

  • @Notnow78
    @Notnow78 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wait, did i miss something on the call about the daughter giving all 35k to the mom and then blaming the dad for being upset ? I dont think they asked about it. I feel whoever didn't get anything would be right to feel upset about it since it seems like you prefer the other parent. Why leave it up to the mother? You are the one who whats a relationship with your dad, your mom no longer have one.

  • @BigWolf_87
    @BigWolf_87 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Anything financial I agree. But, doctrine wise, there is no where in the Bible that says you have to "tithe" . I think people do it as a formality.

    • @TheGiggles1989
      @TheGiggles1989 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Leviticus 27:30 “A tenth of the produce of the land, whether grain or fruit, is the Lord’s, and is holy.” Proverbs 3:9 “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops.” There are a few more of those but that’s where the idea comes from, not a formality.

    • @johnparker4484
      @johnparker4484 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Dumb dingbat

    • @BigWolf_87
      @BigWolf_87 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@TheGiggles1989 What I mean is in a church setting. I do not agree with that. Not giving my money to a church and not know where it is going.

    • @TheGiggles1989
      @TheGiggles1989 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@BigWolf_87 Oooh. Yeah it doesn’t say that it’s limited to church. Personally, I give a monthly donation to local charities that helped me in the past

    • @BigWolf_87
      @BigWolf_87 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@TheGiggles1989 yeah, now stuff like that makes sense because you know where it is going directly given you know the organization. I am for giving when it is necessary and all but for a church in particular, for all I know my money can be funding their life style. Like you I would donate money to organizations that serve a purpose. Or, even something like tipping a server at a restaurant for doing such a stellar job- something i do when i do receive good service. I think some people take it literally and limited to a church setting sometimes.

  • @flashthecorgi2053
    @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    FANTASTIC show today! It’s always a good day when the GREAT and WONDERFUL Delony is on! 🥰

  • @josephbanks9897
    @josephbanks9897 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    They are fast to tell someone to sell their house. Like, they don't know what's going on in the real estate world today.

  • @jjkatz
    @jjkatz วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m 66 ( like Linda) it’s highly unlikely I’m going to live 30 more years until 96. ( or would I want to unless I was in really good health) Dave is so unrealistic.

    • @regina4538
      @regina4538 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I wouldn’t buy a home she’s better off renting w a roommate

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Still got to plan for having a long life and having living arrangements in your 90s.

  • @monicadhenderson8670
    @monicadhenderson8670 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr John, Why are you talking about breaking relationship with family members (sisters) thats not possible! Family is for life!!!

  • @kratostomatoes8587
    @kratostomatoes8587 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    46:30 Maybe you should have given your dad his half instead of playing morality police/feminazi/divorce judge with THEIR money(not your mother's).

    • @seanjean9677
      @seanjean9677 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad I’m not the only who thought this. She was wrong for that.

    • @razorex251
      @razorex251 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Well he may have taken half of what wasn’t his in a divorce and left them mom with nothing… never know the whole story in 5 min??!!!

  • @zkc16youtub
    @zkc16youtub วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Embarrassing that a fellow TTU grad, at any level, particularly one who claims to posses a PhD, uses terms like "me and him." Please stop, Delony.

    • @kellibuzzard9431
      @kellibuzzard9431 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      What's TTU? Texas Tech?

    • @notgivingmyemail3381
      @notgivingmyemail3381 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I think he claims to posses two PhDs.

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@kellibuzzard9431 Yes, Texas Tech. He got his first degree from Lubbock Christian, and then a Masters in Education and a PhD in educational administration from Texas Tech. He is not a clinician.

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@notgivingmyemail3381He doesn’t “claim” to posses two PhD’s lol. He point blank HAS 2 PhD’s. One in counseling, and one in higher ed along with a masters in education AND a bachelors in psychology!

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Trustbutverify2651 ⁠Dr. John holds a Bachelors in psychology/ humanities, Masters in Education, PhD in higher Ed, PhD in counseling. That was a clinical counseling practicum (Matter of fact, John’s had his counselor practicum supervisor Dr. Michael Gomez on his show to advise him before.) John taught counselors how to be clinically licensed counselors and was an LPC in the state of TX before choosing NOT to get relicensed in the state of TN. So you are correct he is currently not a practicing mental health professional BUT he was one in the past and has the knowledge, credentials, and experience to speak on it. He’s also a former crisis responder with the police department and has extensive experience in how to counsel people in grief and traumatic situations! So NOT only does he just write about mental health, he’s also counseled people in practicum, and in real life messy situations and continues to this day behind closed doors, on stages, and on the phone.

  • @regina4538
    @regina4538 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Crystal you should have split it between ur parents! He may of sent that letter for closure and u were petty by sending one back! Bye Felicia 👋

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      May have sent.
      "Of" is never a verb.

    • @regina4538
      @regina4538 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@myoldvhstapesTy crystal

  • @kellymartincallard6118
    @kellymartincallard6118 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    from ontario canada, I love both dave and john, they are the only 2 i will continue to watch and take advice from👏🏼

    • @gourabsarker9552
      @gourabsarker9552 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sir how much do you earn a year? Plz reply. Thanks a lot.

  • @isidorolopez265
    @isidorolopez265 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He basically hasn’t even been on the planet long enough! Out

    • @motoryzen
      @motoryzen วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Who are you talking about? Timestamps, they help. This is a 2-hour long show after all

    • @isidorolopez265
      @isidorolopez265 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sorry about that. The young 20-year-old 20 something.

  • @grannythebuilder395
    @grannythebuilder395 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Oh for goodness sake! Europe is a continent of over 40 countries from Russal to the Holy See. it's ridiculous to talk about Europe as if it is all the same. Would you speak as if everywhere on the continent of America is the same? Of course not.

    • @bsacagawea
      @bsacagawea วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe he doesn’t know where exactly in Europe he wants to go? Maybe he’d be living in multiple countries? I know a couple on holiday in America right now and they have gone to multiple states, so rather than list out each state (some with very long names!) they simply say they’re in “America.” I think you’ll live 😂

    • @grannythebuilder395
      @grannythebuilder395 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@bsacagawea Surely you don't think sovereign nations and American states are equivalent? My point was in reply to ridiculous comments along the lines, "housing in Europe is cheap"

    • @bsacagawea
      @bsacagawea วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@grannythebuilder395 American states are not quite as distinct from one another as European nations, but they are different enough. I think regions of America might be just as distinct as nations, however. Your experience living in the Midwest will be very different than living in the Southwest for example.

    • @bsacagawea
      @bsacagawea วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@grannythebuilder395 I’m just saying, using “Europe” as a shorthand in casual conversation and in this context isn’t a big deal. It’s not like Dave’s advice will be any different if the man had said Germany (or wherever) instead.

  • @Joce123
    @Joce123 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    We are going with both term life insurance and universal life insurance so that we can be participants in infinite banking and velocity banking.

  • @jeremy_logan
    @jeremy_logan 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +81

    Clicked for Dave, can't stand the rest of them anymore 😂

    • @super1234567891011
      @super1234567891011 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

      I completely agree. Nobody does it like Dave. I would prefer that they do the show less than keep going with the other personality’s.

    • @cookieforawookie
      @cookieforawookie วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      Same - I don't watch any other shows. I'm sure they see the numbers. I will occasionally watch a Rachel/Jade/George combo show, but Ken Koleman- no thanks.

    • @Davefitz04
      @Davefitz04 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      @@cookieforawookieKen Coleman is my second favorite!!

    • @joshwalden2368
      @joshwalden2368 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Some people are just one of a kind…Dave Ramsey, Paul Harvey, Rush Limbaugh

    • @shanehanooman9132
      @shanehanooman9132 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      @@cookieforawookienumbers are up without Dave

  • @frederickruderman2997
    @frederickruderman2997 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I bought the academic dr. John firsy book for $10 bucks & threw it out after reading chapter 1, 2 & 3. I listen to The Ramsey Show so I know the PhD knows nothing about finances. I thought he knew something or could write something interesting I wouldn’t even donate his book, I threw it away.

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Dr. John’s books are AMAZING!!! Literally life changing. They wouldn’t be #1 bestsellers if they weren’t so you just are terrible at comprehension or you just didn’t pay attention at all!

    • @paulashealthyliving
      @paulashealthyliving วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Just throwing around a negative opinion is useless. Why don't you give the reasons behind this opinion. You say it's trash. WhY? What's wrong with it. Where are the faults. You basically sound like a disgruntled loser

    • @thirdintegra
      @thirdintegra วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Well you're just something special, aren't ya?

    • @flashthecorgi2053
      @flashthecorgi2053 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@paulashealthylivingHe’s nothing more than a loser. The books are AMAZING, and life changing. Probably just jealous John has 2 PhD’s and is successful!

    • @Trustbutverify2651
      @Trustbutverify2651 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      The reason all of the RS books sell so well is that they are constantly marketed on their program to all the faithful. I wonder how they sell to the general public who have no connection with RS.

  • @RadiantRevolutionRipple
    @RadiantRevolutionRipple 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

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