5 Embarrassing Ways Men Simp and How To Easily Stop Simping!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ต.ค. 2022
- 5 Embarrassing Ways Men Simp and How To Easily Stop Being A Simp!... In this dating advice video, I will talk about simping, give you the five embarrassing ways men simp, and explain how to stop being a simp effortlessly. A man can be a simp on first dates, online dating, or even in relationships. Pay attention to this advice for men and watch the entire video to avoid being a simp unknowingly.
I don't want you to get yourself in one of these embarrassing ways men simp. I want you to know what is simping, the different ways men simp, and learn how to stop simping. By the end of this video, I hope you will stop simping and know how to compliment a girl without being a simp or creepy.
To learn how to stop simping, you will need to know first how men simp and the different ways men simp. In this video, I will give you some examples of social media simping and real-life simping that will help if you want to stop being a simp. This video will help you learn more about simping and how to stop simping.
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What does that word originate from again is it short for simpleton?
Simple SIMP meaning: slang for a guy who feels unworthy trying too hard to impress a woman hoping for a crumb of reciprocation.
Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pu$$y
Lol, she didn't answer your question. If I had to make an educated guess, simpleton seems like a great guess from where the word was taken.
Sympathy -- but in this case -- way too much,..
Simp does stem from simpleton. Originally from a rap song where they refered to a simpleton as a simp
Here's one of the best things I ever did for my own development as someone very introverted. I approached the most attractive woman at my gym - absolutely stunning. Went on a couple dates. On our second date, she had a bit much to drink, started talking crap about how I was a "nice guy" and she was going to walk all over me and I wasn't going to do a damn thing about it. So I dropped her right then and there. Never felt so good in my life.
What I learned? NEVER let a beautiful woman disrespect you. Ever.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Glad you got away...The lure can be tricky to avoid for guys...
At least she had one good quality. She was honest. I think it can more likely be attributed to the alcohol tho. At least you found out sooner than later that she was no good.
Sounds like she was challenging you to be dominant and you ran away.
Unless you’re into that
As a former simp I can attest that Anna is spot on. She’s right when she says it has a lot to do with self respect or the the lack of. Looking back my foolishness was directly related to a zero self respect. Thankfully I reformed myself.
Love it! Good for you and thank you for sharing your experience! :)
Have you reformed?
I’m too a reformed low self-esteem person myself
I am still in the process of making that change really deep seated in my core
Outwardly it feels very much like I am not coming at this whole thing from a place of grovelling but a place with my head held high ( and that feels great)
As long as I can keep my composure but as soon as a snap situation kicks in and I revert to instinctual action a lot of my old behaviours surface again
And that is often heartbreaking to realise
The simp is not truly deeply deeply gone.
Sounds simple to me
It's not a reflection of your value, it's a reflection of your exposure and environment. It's just education and I agree, young guys need to hear this message and adopt it.
Its funny, I treat them good and respectful acting the simp part just to get the last laugh. They are just superficial and I know it'll hurt when Chad dumps their stupid ass and they come running back to the ghost of the simp I portrayed to them. My own mom is a sociopath, I see the signs. So, I enable that behavior to give them the false of confidence and keep getting used by Chad. Lol Chivalry is dead women killed it but "you don't realize what you've got til its gone". I guess its sinister of me to do this. It never fails. Suffering will only make you stronger in the long run.
If a woman says to a guy, let's just be friends, she is really saying, you don't meet my ridiculously high standards to be my boyfriend and never will. Best advice, turn your back, walk away, and never look back.
I don’t care for her in the first place lol so being her friend isn’t even a choice I am *neutral* lol 😆
yes, you're absolutely right in that she doesn't see the guy as sexually attractive
Drizzle drizzle is the answer to entitled bints like this one.
Let's be friends Bob.
@@DeadlyKiss000 Yeah stuff like that sounds to good to be true so don't give yourself up too easily lol
Especially in this current dating environment, it’s great to see women such as yourself helping men navigate through it while keeping our self worth intact.
YES!
👍
Another strategy I have when talking to women, is to change my mindset from "how can I get her to like me" to something along the lines of "why should I choose her over someone else?". Instant behavior change and confidence booster.
Sorry, I don't like this. You choose her over other others because you are attracted to her...always. Don't complicate it with mind jumping jacks. Your "why should I choose her over someone else?" sounds more like you talking yourself out of an approach than "confident".
"Confident" says in your mind you are blocking out all the this, that, and the other thing out because you are attracted to her and you don't think twice about making the approach in almost any environment. Your self esteem and ego are NOT dependent on a yes from her if you are confident.
On an approach, you are of course wanting to get her to like you. Your mission is to get her to like you without you dumping your dignity out all over the floor. It's doable.
Your choice to approach her is not the final stamp of approval on her anyway. The ultimate answer to why you 'choose her over others' reveals itself as you get to know her, not in the initial choosing.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@@x-man5056 Quit simping, all of us should. That's the only way we can collectively bring up the quality of the dating pool in this modern day.
@@ImperialArmour Sorry, you'll have to be more specific. Nothing I've said here could rationally be called simping except to a follower of the Beta cult known as MGTOW.
You are trying to win a contest by not contesting. Nothing rational about that. You are not going to change women's (at-large) minds about anything by "digging in" to a strident position against them. Women can be very strident too.
I'm not interested in a boycott on women. Everything I said here is spot on. Leave me out of your "us".
@@YourWingmam 👏
I simped once, 10 years ago, during my studies. She was a cool friend, but not really more than that. I proposed her to go to the movies, because we had common expectations. We had good chats online, we had fun, she accepted my number when we spoke after class... what could possibly go wrong ? I proposed her a date in the evening. She accepted. I was so excited. I made myself ready and went to the cinema (it was quite a distance, at that time, where I lived). And I waited. A long time. She never came. I came home, send her a message to have an explanation. She just replied "I didn't had your number". I deleted her profil from my social media right after.
Now, with 10 years of "experience" in my pocket, when I want to date a girl, I always propose her a place where I would be going to, anyway. If she is OK, I'm too. If she doesn't come, too bad for her, it's still a good night for me.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
I really needed this, as an older man who is capable of simping and thinking it is chivalry. Thank you!
Amen brutha! I have to be wary of this borderline issue as well. Glad to know that I am not alone in this case!
I couldn't help but drink to much booze, so I don't drink at all..thus
I'm probably not able to keep from SIMPING so I have no interactions with women..
But....life is good!
Thank You so much Anna, so very helpful!
If you're worried about whether or not she thinks you're a simp, then you're a simp.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Not always! Some guys don't even realize their power, and are able to attract women, but they just worry about it, like they have some social anxiety or doubts, but really, they have nothing to worry about.
Being angry at women really messes up a guy's chances to find a good relationship because that anger soils all their interactions.
My sisters led me wrong. When I was a kid they basically told me women want a "simp" that spoils them and gives them everything they want but what I saw was that they prefer to be with someone that doesn't care about them and treats them like shit. I didn't understand it at first but what I came to learn was that everyone wants what they can't have...
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Biological sisters are notorious for this, I don't know why.
A woman who has her shit together and respects herself doesn't want a man that treats her like shit. Change your mindset and then you can find women that want a healthy relationship.
Took me a long time, but I finally found a lady who is an adult and likes to be treated nicely. I have lost a lot of women, including my ex wife because I was too nice. I will stay single if I have to be hateful all the time.
@@jeffcastetter6122 yes I agree I learn that a believer does not need to be with a worldly woman yes I can seem worldly but I do want and try to be the best believer I can it can be hard sometimes
Thank you so much Anna, you are awesome! I needed to hear all of that, now it's time to put it into practice
This is great content!! Going forward, I've reaffirmed how I'm going handle things..
One thing it took too long for me to learn, if you're afraid to offend her because she may not like a (useful) critique, you've already started from a place of weakness. She needs to learn things from you if you want her to grow. Abundance Mindset, understand and/or act like you have options, even if you think you don't.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing ❤ 🙏
The average guy does not have options but I agree you naturally act different when you do you won’t have to watch different videos like this.
Women refuse to learn anything from any man. Women are at war with men. What is not offensive to a woman today, that you thought was good to do, is offensive to her tomorrow, without warning. Usually because she's talking about your private moments with her with her friends, and her friends decided for her that she should be offended.
The real problem with women today is WOMEN and their girlfriends who think they're all relationship experts when all they're really doing is gossipping and destroying their lives and the lives of their men, with it.
Once you start dating a woman, not only will she know your secrets, but so will all her friends, and eventually the streets know them.
This uploader is giving out all these dating advice to men as though she really believes women are worth dating and worth our time.
Funny thing, I'm always more content and happy when I don't have a nagging, petulant, catty, passive aggressive woman in my life.
Even platonic friendships with women can be an exhausting mental drain filled with never ending insults and indignities.
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@Linl A mountain beach person
Very true Andrew. I love it. Good observation and a good position to take. Come from the position of abundance mindset. we also need to contribute in form of helping each other grow. Helping our potential partner is one responsibility but also helping our male friends grow and become better men is also our responsibility as men by being a brother to them. We must trust eachother as an honorable brother who is there to be a source of strength and reliability. Qualities not only men admire in men but also women admire in men. Be a good person and a good brother. Be strong. Be safe. Be proud. Tell other men and women to watch Anna and Sarah D Moore for the advice they give to both women and men. I truly believe their information is good and valuable for a healthy man and woman relationship. There is no money in it and a true good deed should not have such agenda. So we should just do it as our responsibility to our community, our brothers and sisters. 08/10/2023 Mehran Gerami
There is a huge difference between putting someone’s need in front of my own and putting their needs “above” mine. Thanks for reminding me of intentionality! 🙌
My pleasure ❤️
It’s an amazing insight. Sadly I had to learn the hard way. But great content looking forward for more.
Before getting into life coaching, I simped because I had no clue as to how to socialize properly. So much of this came from a childhood of instability from frequently moving, and abuse. My biggest problem was being too much of a presence, or always being available for her. It is too much, and can be perceived as being creepy. I have learned to back off and to love being alone with myself. Not being anti-social, but realizing a proper time and place for people, not just the ladies. I have basically learned how to read the room with people. People notice, and compliment me on that often. I am 51, and doing this to improve myself as a person. If I find a special lady, then that's great. However, if I don't, I would be fine with that too.
You sound emotionally healthy and not hating women like so many of the guys on this thread are.
Respect to you, my brother!
That came from hard lessons growing up.@@frankG335
I frequently moved too as a kid and always remember being so uncomfortable everywhere I went. I've ALWAYS struggled in relationships and friendships. I'm not a bad looking guy just never really gotten to that second phase of my life. I always wondered if it was due to my childhood lol. Sorry you said frequently moving so I can relate.
You're a lovely man Howard!
Your videos have helped me a lot. I was sliding into simp mode and it is not easy sliding back out but if you pay attention to what you're doing and thinking, you can bring yourself around. It doesn't happen over night and it takes work. It's a lot like quitting smoking and/or drinking. The mind is a powerful tool. Thank you again 🙂
My pleasure ❤️
Thank you for being OUR Wingmam! Your content just keeps getting better and better. ❤️
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Brilliant, Anna - not simping just giving you praise where praise is due
Just because someone is beautiful, it doesn’t mean she is necessarily a good person. 😊
You're absolutely right!
Really well explained, thank you for that. I have been getting off simping habits gradually from girlfriend to girlfriend until I finally cracked and decided women need to be put in their place (I decided I was done with dating). Now that I understand exactly what simping is, and given your explanation, it is super important to evaluate the good and the bad if you have any intention of a relation to last years, but it doesn't stop there. You both have to focus on qualities and make the best of it and NOT put energy in the flaws and rather work around the problems that flaws cause. People just don't put any effort into getting along anymore and a big part of it is we don't know how to anymore. We need people like you to re-educate us all.
You said it exactly, no one teaches us this stuff along the way. Thank you for sharing your experience and appreciating my video!
This was a great video, thanks for the info.
My pleasure ❤️
As a "Recovering Simpaholic", I had to watch this video and I have to say that the information you stated is spot on. I'm glad I figured it out when I did (especially before social media). I used think that I could save women who left bad relationships to find that "good guy" which was ME. But I'm more at peace being a good guy but with the knowledge of not having to try so hard or at all. Thank you for this video. 👍
This was good to hear. I don't even try, because I do not want to make them uncomfortable 10 years later. Approaching women is not even a thought. But knowing these things help.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Just recently found the channel and using your advice to try to get back myself back out there a year after a nasty breakup. I was guilty of simping in my late teens and early 20s. Single for the first time in a decade and this was a great reminder not to let those bad habits creep back up! Although I hope pompous phrases like ''high/low value woman/man" die out someday, I really appreciate channels like these that are intended to help! ❤
Excellent non-simping comment! And yes, high/low value are both derogatory but easily understood. When you hear those terms mentally switch the phrase to "your ideal person." Breakups suck, try to learn from it so you make better choices in future. If you were "too nice" in the past, you may like this video: th-cam.com/video/luJZPwbW6Vc/w-d-xo.html 💞
@@YourWingmam This comment was so nice, she had to post it twice! LOL
Yes
@@YourWingmam People aren't neatly divided into being low & high value.
Thank you for your advice.
Appreciate the help!
Great video and great vibe and approach overall. I honestly thank you for this. I've laughed out loud so many times watching your videos. Great to have a woman on our side, giving helpfull insight in such a humorous manner.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Thank you for defining the term "simping" and providing concrete examples of simping and non-simping.
My pleasure ❤️
Urban dictionary is your friend…..
Thanks Anna for refocusing something fundamental.
My pleasure ❤️
As always, great advice. Thanks!
My pleasure ❤️
For a lady, I must say you have a force of being chivalrous in your own way, Anna. It is true, I am using this exact mindset when I'm dealing with ladies nowadays and have fewer headaches and heartbreaks. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
I was grossed out by what you described and I'm a guy. I'm an older guy (mid 50s) and I've thought about what worked and didn't work over my life. One thing is I talk to everyone, hit on nobody, and listen. It is amazing how people respond when you take a genuine interest in them. There is a bit of an art to striking up a conversation without being creepy. Sometimes it is an innocuous joke or a simple observation that might seem relevant to them without being about them. Could be just a question. It is about their perception of your intention. I'm married, I'm not even on the market, I just like talking to people. It is interesting how many times that has turned into longer conversations and how often I've been hit on as a result throughout my adult life. I've even had gay men hit on me.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Lol 😂 perception is reality. Whatever you believe in your mind
You should have had the definition of simp in the beginning of your video.
@@johnparish1432speak plainly
No one likes a boaster, Johnny.
Thanks Anna your advice is spot on!
My pleasure ❤️
Thanks for sharing this amazing video have a wonderful day ❤
it has always seemed to me that the essence of intellect is the ability to differentiate between two things that are similar, but not the same. In this episode we get the female perspective that helps us to draw a definitive line between being a simp and being a gentleman. Good stuff! Thanks!
This was nuanced, insightful and well presented while being interlaced with humor. I've only just discovered your channel and I like what I see so far. I shall have to explore more of your video's. Thanks for your work.
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Absolutely sensational video.
Thankyou for the insight 👍
My pleasure ❤️
Thanks for the info 😊
This post is on point. I had a lady who friend zone me for 5 years. I am in a new relationship and don't give her the time of day. When I reply, it's short and and I would reply days later instead of seconds later like in past. Now she is easy to reach
Wingmam motto: Always leave them wanting more.
This means giving them just enough *for* them to want something, of course. Glad you turned your ship around!
I absolutely love this subject! You were very entertaining and I was also captured by the aesthetics. You're fun to listen to, thank you
Great advice provided here!
Thank you for addressing this topic. it is sorely needed today! I can tell you that even from a man's point of view, the level of simping has reached a truly ridiculous point. On any forum or group a female member will post a photo, and the way that men fall over themselves to give her compliments or cute smileys with hearts or proclaim their love it is sickening. No respect for themselves and no basis on reality. They instantly fall in love with the outfit or the image but know nothing about the person other than she is somehow perfect.
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@@YourWingmam thank you for the great advice and insight
@@portnut7610 No kidding! It's the latest epidemic
Thank you for the distinction between simping and chivalry, that was useful.
My pleasure ❤️
Thanks for that! you sum up simping really good. I literally just clicked on the first result and bingo, therre you were, i'm just trying to educate my peers by make them look at what simping is
Glad I could help 🙏
really important and educational video! highly appreciated!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
as an avid simp I can attest that my simping goes completely unrecognized when I am motivated by curiosity and I’m not trying to gain anything or avoid losing anything.
cool story
muuchas gracias, Wingmam! I was raised to "give compiments" and generally be a gentleman. but i have built some bad habits along the way. thank you for providing this video- it helps me break the bad habits and strengthen the good ones.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
Very insightful.. fascinating to hear your perspective and kernel of truth it contains... A moment of reflection has been induced!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
Valuable Information. Thank you. Subscribed.
Awesome, thank you! And welcome! 🥰
Recently discovered this channel (not sure why it showed up in my suggested videos, but certainly glad it did). This is excellent information and advice and I appreciate your direct and honest approach in saying things that need to be said. Hopefully, this will move the needle in terms of breaking a lot of bad habits from us guys and lead to improved dating experiences for both men and women. As someone in my early 50's, this is the stuff that I needed to hear 20 or 30 years ago.
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Can u make a video next on 99 ways women should stop hoeing ?
Thank you..
Don't be insecure, focus on yourself, lead the relationship and she will follow and that means good or bad she will follow either. Don't put them on a pedestal, they aren't above you. Happy wife happy life is old school simp, being happy with yourself will make her happy with you. Feel ok with calling out behavior that bothers you in a calm and dominate way. This equals happiness for all.
There is a girl on her that does just that.. her name escapes me, but she is definitely an apologist ( in some respects) for men and points out the many ways that women display toxic behaviors towards genuinely good guys… I’ve only seen a handful of her videos but she’s amazing…I’ll post a link if you want it…?
This "edutainment" video will go straight into me mental library, Thanks Anna!
Yay! 👏🙌
Thank you I dint enjoy hearing this but I needed to hear it . Thank you for your honesty
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I must admit that I have been guilty on simping. I am working on that and thank you for so many wonderful tips. This video has been especially helpful for me.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
What a great video Anna, where have I been your whole life!
Glad you enjoyed it! And great comment!!! Cheeky cocky comments are never simpy lol
Where ever you have been make sure you stay there! LOL
@@inconnu4961 That works for me!
Thanks Anna. Helpful content
Glad I could help 🙏
Fantastic video!
I really, really hope the younger guys among your viewership listen carefully to what you are saying and understand the nuances of simping vs. being thoughtful and kind. I wasn't taught these things and missed a lot of great opportunities. Keep up the great work on educating young guys that are being taught the wrong message by society.
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Nobody likes a crawler. I put myself in a friendzone because I didn't know better. When I did know better, I put myself out of that friendzone- called her out on her treatment of me( humiliation mostly), told her for my mental health to recover I can't be around her anymore. I've never seen a woman backpedal so hard and fast - " oh, I'm so sorry I didn't know you had feelings for me" and passionately kissing me. That's after periodically reminding me: " we're just friends". What brought this to a head? I got a new year's handshake. From a woman I've known 20 years. Been changing a lot of things since and have started noticing positive looks from some women.
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
Interesting.
Thanks for the clarification. Some of your points I knew, othersI didn't.
Take care.
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Thanks for the video. Needed that confirmation from this to break my own excuses.
I've had this woman living rent free in my head for the past 2 months and have taken notice of these thoughts. I knew what simping was beforehand and thankfully never acted upon them and spent next to nothing on her but damn it hits you when you feel it.
Maintaining my self respect, staying grounded in reality, and checking myself helped out alot working on and setting goals for myself to be the best version of myself I can be in my physical, mental, spiritual, and financial aspects of life.
Also watching simp comments made me realize what dark path it would lead to. so that was entertaining nonetheless
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Now, I'm learning.
I was simping with her.
That's the biggest eye opener today.
Thank you.
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This was needed here. I hope all the simps on this channel and others will stop simping and grow up
Glad I could help 🙏
That was helpful. I'm hesitant to give it a thumbs up like I normally do for fear of it being considered Simping!!! You got one anyway because it was helpful content.
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Thanks unfortunately 😒 I needed this. Appreciate you. Keep up the good work
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I like your videos and your voice. I was married to a narcissistic woman for 18 years. I put her needs and values above mine. Learned the hard way that this doesn't work. But listening to people talk about the dating process now is exhausting. I badly want a relationship with an emotionally available woman, but it seems so elusive. Most women want to play games, and for me to earn their attention, and I just want to be authentic and for things to be balanced. Sometimes I think it would be better just to have friendships and family connections and not care about women.
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
I bet your mom was controlling, and always knocked you and you never got love and attention,praise from her ... same as you ex. get some help read ....You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay it is a good start
This is SIMPly good info, all men should know!!
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This is by far… my most favorite video that you’ve made! 😂😂😂
great points!
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
I learned a lot, thanks. Being a simple man, I think I did many simpings without thinking them through. I just assumed ladies don't like guys who play games, so I played straight, said what was in my mind, went out of my ways to please girls. I avoided even slight mention of their flaws, looked the other way, because I thought last thing they want is a guy noticing their flaws. 😁
Thank you for sharing your experience! I appreciate hearing from you 🙏
Actually girls like a guy that dares to tease them in a playful matter. Could be some humour comment about a flaw you noticed, or if she wares too much makeup etc.
Normally I would never ask a fish how to fish but your content usually resonates & makes sense to me ,thats why you're the only female dating coach I watch & that's why you're my wingmam .
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
You and me both. Luckily, over here in Europe, things aren't quite as crazy yet as they seem in northern America. Or maybe I just percevie it that way because I'm in my early 50s and in a long-term relationship. But then, my GF, despite being roughly my age and from the former German "democratic republic", displays all the stereotypical characteristics. Underneath the thin veneer of socialisation there are the universal principles of human nature, so the wisdom applies regardless of culture. 🍻
I liked your content its good you pointed out the similarities between chiveraly, kindness and plain simping . But on a real note I always liked your channel because you come across as genuine,kind ,and trully trying to be helpful.😊
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Wow been doing some of these things and not knowing about it. Thanks you for what you do
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This is good female brutal honesty.
Much of pop culture teaches men to be this way and then sets them up for failure. You're on point, men have to value themselves.
The right ones will react accordingly.
Simp: Anna Banana, I just built you a pedestal. I want to have you have it.
Healthy: So, do you like dogs?
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Exactly! U got that right!
Along with schools and churches.
Youll end alone @@YourWingmam
Guilty as charged.....I don't know what the heck I was thinking.....I am an otherwise good guy, smart, strong, good job, even tempered, etc. but looking back on things I was a simp....I let some really fantastic women slip through my fingers......thank you Anna....wow, the truth can hurt.
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
When I started to be interested in girls from the age of 13, I was such a nice guy. I thought that being nice was the key to a girl's heart. When I turned 16, I realized that all the bad boys are the ones getting all the attention from girls. From 16 years old on, I threw out that nice guy attitude and no regret whatsoever. My dating life completely changed after that. Now I live my life on my terms. Been with my wife for 30 years now. She is free to be a part of my life or not, up to her but it is on my terms, not hers. I also realized that you should never love someone so much that you cannot walk away from. I can walk away from anyone at any time, without a second's thought.
@@mikef2811 That last sentence makes you sound very cold hearted. I don't think that is the real you though.
@@DeadlyKiss000 I am. I am an AHOLE...It has work for me since I was 16, why change on something that works? It is true that I can walk away from anyone without a second thought...I have mastered the ability to be indifference. My wife needs to know that I can easily replace her.
@@DeadlyKiss000 All women say this then do the opposite in real life. It's so funny how much hope you give us for no reason and think it doesn't affect us. I haven't talked to girls since high school and I'm 28 now and rdy 2 go to the Lord
Thanks for a fascinating and informative video.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks Anna, i ran into your videos a few years ago. I think their great. I had all the tools to get women just had a hard time implementing them. Now if i could just find that one that fits my criteria.
Being on my own for over three years now, and have been out with three women just on a casual basis, i know I'm definitely never going to just 'settle' for any woman. I know my value and what i want in a mate. The 'lessons' provided in this video, resonate with me and how i conduct my life. I will never be desperate - for any woman. I see that as a huge mistake. I'm sure they see that right away. Value yourselves guys. Be a man 😊
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
Men. We are the prize!
I have used your information in my relationship! Thank you for this! I’ve always thought that one needs to start a relationship by being real friends.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.
Great information. #keepupthegoodwork
Good information 💪🏾
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
Good stuff. Also, don't be afraid to state your own beliefs and values if they are different from hers. Don't compromise who you are just to please her.
Most definitely!
Something that I have become more aware of lately is feelings. The way our words effect others to trigger feelings. So someone who can be fully aware of this, from both sides, of feeling and causing feelings, will really rule and reign as the ideal companion. People will always want to be around someone who makes them feel good and feel good about themselves. Someone that makes them have hope for the future that is genuine.
Only being made aware of this later in life, I can look back at how I have used this against me. First to put it forth in one sentence... "People remember how you made them feel, so when they remember you they remember feelings you caused." Or TRIGGERED that they blame you for! So always be kind, be genuine and be encouraging. Be amusing and entertaining too with confidence. Confidence is something that is attractive and encouraging to most as well. That is people in general are drawn to those who look like and feel like they know what they are doing.
Looking back, I can see where I have been nervous, and said things that were causing doubt instead of putting forth confidence. I can see where the way I have made or triggered feelings in others has resulted in distaste even when not meant to be. While people want truth, they don't want the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Just nudges of words here and there. Too many and it's felt as taking over. People like to be heard and have others listen with interest. To let them speak and be given time. And of course being genuine in your heart, smiling in your eyes, always being kind, polite and respectful.
Other things to note. Being critical and talking about putting things down is a turn off. Speak of things that make people feel good about things. Share experiences that make them wish they were there to feel it too in a positive way. Keep interactions short and sweet and they will be wanting more. So don't give much away, and keep a lot for later... bread crumbs that bring delight... as you busily pass bye... less is more... master feelings and knowing cause and effect of them and what feelings your words are causing... in your past, and present... using hindsight to learn how you messed up with them in the past and how you can do better. Words and feelings cause and effect. Master these and you truly are a master of human nature.
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Yes this is very true.. when someone tells u all their exs were crazy or angry. U know what feelings this person triggers! 😄
Words of great wisdom there brother!
@@garychaney5484 Thanks for the comment. Its easy to forget a great flow from the heart and source. I don't plan these things, but found if I am willing to type, in good will, all are encouraged. In fact a new thing I say now days is "I am on everyone's side" for it is not a competition, but a personal journey.
So in reading your comment I am once again encouraged by your words, and my words once again. For a trick key is that when you repeat these things, they stick better, and so a reminder is a good thing. In fact reptition with feeling is the most powerful. Feeling is even more powerful for energy, drive and focus to cause things to be. Take care friend.
@@MindTrip888 Thanks so much for sharing your wisdom. I took a screen shot of the conversation as a reminder and tutorial! Green lights and blue skies my friend.
Great stuff, I know I have simped.. Its refreshing to finally watch something thaat actually helps me. Your a classy woman
So glad!
You have officially become my wingmam. Well delivered useful edutainment and very much appreciated.
This video is one of Anna's finest moments. I stand by everything that she said and second this motion.
Anna, keep creating amazing content, keep going hard with your channel and being consistent. Keep up the good work!
-Team Anna Wingmam
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
Women fall for men who display toxic behavior and reject them.The more they feel ignored the more they try to chase that person.
Which proves the point that they're not capable of stable relationships where they give equally to build something of value, where both partners want to be with each other and enjoy each other's company. If me wanting to be with a woman in order to have a stable relationship and where we get to do things together turns them off, what's the point. Why would I want to be in a relationship with a woman I don't like and therefore reject?
But not if you are unattractive..
That's crap. Spoken by a couple of real simps.
Women can and do appreciate REAL men that have value. Even if you think you don't, you should at least try to act like it.
For instance, quit thinking like an incel.
Try to be a teacher, a mentor, and SHOW them what kind of man they SHOULD want.
@@jeffro. Oh how predictable you threw in 'incel'. Dearie me, have you already forgotten Tom Brady or was he not a real man who had insufficient value? How about Will Smith? Steve Harvey?
It really is true. I started dating a woman a few years ago that I really was not fond of in the beginning. She was just someone that grew on me and her persistence was wild. I really kinda treated her like "eh whatever" and it wasn't really intentional. Fast forward a few years later and she dumped me 🤣It was like when I actually treated her with respect, she despised me. It was really weird lol Lesson learned.
Thank you, Anna for your straight forward, no bull, honest way of 'simplifying ' what men should Not do with women. I am an older gentleman who thankfully grew up in a time when this 'simp' mindset was not the norm. I'm sure you are helping a generation of young men who may not have had that kind of 'manliness' mindset taught or shown to them. Thank you for being you - God Bless and take care.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well 🙏
I learned a lot from this video. Thank You.
Excellent video. It’s never too late to quit simping and start fresh .
Thank you for your insight. I don't consider myself a simp necessarily.
I probably do need to rein in my passion and excitement when it comes to other people.
I'm just an all in high pursuit kinda guy I dive deeply into anything and all things that peek my interests.
But I *can* say once/if someone goes a little cold I shut my attention off for them at least keep it to myself, but unfortunately it may be too late by then.
I guess it's just another discipline I need to master when it comes to my interest in people.
Here is a good example I could easily write pages of thoughts on this I have to practice restraint even now.
Any way thank you for the awesome content and perspective have an awesome day👍.
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much may you have a wonderful day as well 🙏
The problem of simping isn't so much the excitement.. its the idolization. Just be careful about that.. let her know u see her flaws and the effort she puts into being who she is. Simping feels awful sometimes when u feel that everyone takes your beauty and personality for granted.. as if u were born that way..
Most women put effort into being beautiful and developing a character that is pleasant.. at least good women do.
@@Yoginimassage Wow that's honestly incredibly helpful! Just sincerely appreciate that.
It's easy to not give any attention to the effort into the preceding effort of what women do.
The appreciation is there but you're right I've never considered framing my comments around that.
I do honestly struggle to bring up another's flaws. I see them but how in the world do you express that in a healthy way?
If you have any advice or examples I'd really appreciate the help, if not just know that you've already helped a bunch...
Really exciting concept definitely going to add that to the ol tool belt 👍
I'm also going to mention that as a video idea for her to make content on 😁👌
Is it too late? Did i simp her to death and now cant fix it??
Useful info, thanks…Us nice guys, need to constantly be on guard, to ensure that we’re being chivalrous, and NOT simping!
You're absolutely right!
Hey lady, that is really informative. Thanks for your efforts
Glad it was helpful!
Nice one, Subscribed. Please keep'em comin...
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@@YourWingmam are you single?
Anna, thanks again for some excellent content! And yes, I'm a recovering SIMP. 😷
Thanks to your content, I'm starting to have difficult conversations regarding qualites I do not like and over the past week the chemistry is really improving 👍. So is our communication, I'm excited to say!
My only challenge involves pet names. As a recovering SIMP, I need to address this 🙂. All kidding aside, I use an affectionate name for my girlfriend and she doesn't seem to be turned off by that. I don't think pet names are universally unacceptable.
Thanks again for the excellent content!
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
Most men have simped at one time or another.
Thank you for dedicating a video about simping, I hope this gets thousands of views because simps are to blame for today's degeneration of society and I'm sick of reading people cry about women having unreasonable standards after being put on a pedestal by simps.
Agreed! Please share it!!
Good adivce. Glad i found this video.
Liked, shared and subscribed! Keep up with the good work.
Much appreciated and welcome aboard! 🥰