Danni i have followed your channel for many years and i really didnt know you were in such pain. I have seen you be kind to everyone and help others learn how to thrift. I have seen you buy things for others because you know they like the items. You trained a lot of resellers and I cannot believe how they treated you back. I felt very sad to see that. You are a wonderful mother and animal lover and really take on a lot of responsibilities as a strong woman who i admire. No matter what anyone says I still care about you and i know how the world has become. I dont even leave my home anymore because i get so upset and crying over what others do to me because im a shy and humble quiet person. I get pushed around and so frightened of being hit or hurt by abusive people. Please stay who you are because i love you and your smile. So many things have happened to you and you still carry on. I am proud of you!!!!
This evening, I went grocery shopping, and had a cart full. A couple behind me had only 6-8 things. I let them go ahead of me. They appreciated it, and even the young man checking me out was surprised, and actually thanked me! I have always been taught to treat people that way.
I let someone ahead of me who has one item and I had a cart full. she was amazed and thanked me several times. I can't think of them standing there behind me, but she seemed azrd
I’m blown away by the earrings! Great score!! Where I live it is getting more crowded, so all the stores are packed. I think that stresses everyone out and contributes to the rudeness. I also think young people are not taught manners, or respect for elders, or basic social skills. Many people have a sense of entitlement, and many play the victim. Most people have had bad things happen. That’s life! When you become thankful for what you’ve been blessed with instead of focusing on your trials, it changes your entire outlook!
Rudeness is everywhere! It's a ME generation sadly. I was taught manners but wonder how many are today? A year ago I was in a certain store when this woman barged right into me and she had a little boy with her. She didn't say "I'm sorry" or anything. That's unacceptable behavior but becoming the norm.🤥
Yes, I have had the same experiences with rude people. It's so bad sometimes that if I meet someone in an aisle at the store/sale I will back up and go to a different aisle and come up behind them. It's easier than getting upset and ruining my day. 😁
You’re right…. I too am that person. People park their carts in the middle of the aisle completely oblivious to others trying to get by, people in my space etc… so annoying.
I've gotten to where I don't even like backing out of parking space. I've been halfway out of a spot and someone comes zooming behind me, making me having to suddenly stop, or I would have hit them! Rude and in a hurry! That little tiled tray you got reminded me of projects my brothers made in shop class in the 60s!
I live in San Simeon. We moved into the Pineview Park in February and our back porch overlooks the Hearst Castle hills and I love seeing the cows and zebras graze together when they venture over to our side of the hill😊My brother in law worked as a guide at Hearst Castle for 9 years and once a year he was allowed to invite family for an employee bbq pool party. We got to swim in the Neptune pool. The water was absolutely freezing but I did get in and immediately out🥶hahaha. My 3 daughters enjoyed swimming and I have some amazing photos and memories. It was one of those “once in a lifetime “ moments that I feel absolutely blessed to have experienced with my family😃
The pin bird with wings is from Harry Potter. Ravenclaws Diadem worth around £4-8 (I would have bought it for me) The vase with the holes reminded me of Seattle space needle! And yeah rude people everywhere, it can be very intimidating especially when I’m alone. I’m not always steady on my feet and am frightened they will push me over.
Wow, best find in my opinion Danni was the 2 Disney glass flutes, they are stunning. I totally agree with you about people that are just downright rude & obnoxious. It seems like it's all over the world, I'm in the UK. I'm so glad that I can't drive anymore because driving is horrendous these days as there's no manners out there. Stay safe Danni.x 🐕🦜🐢🐠
Yes do! I watch another utuber at a yard sale, and some guy went up to another guy who was looking in a box, he started trying to get in the box, and the box guy said loudly back off a couple of times and said when I'm done you can look. Yes we really got to see a show!
I agree. People are so stressed out They are getting obnoxious. I smile and remind my self it's OK as long as I m not being rude. Keep smiling and be who you are. Enjoy your shopping so get shop done.
I walk with a 4 legged cane. Bad back and my knees go out suddenly. Anyway, people will literally kick my cane as they walk past me. Then give me a dirty look. As I'm fumbling to keep from falling on the floor. You can miss my cane and I don't walk with it far from my body. People have said some foul things to me also. I understand what you mean!
Pick up the designer eye glasses, even if prescription!! People will buy them just for the frames. They remove the lenses and just wear the frames with no glass. It's a common fashion accessory now.😊😊
Danni, sadly it seems to be everywhere these days. And I am so sorry you had to deal with it. We need to get you a special shirt for these estate sales, and thrift stores, etc. Printed on the front and back..." PLEASE BE KIND" .
Yes! Completely agree. It seems that is what we have come to. I was just telling a lady this at the thrift store the other day how nobody says excuse me or had any manners anymore.
Danni, I had given up going to estate sales a number of years ago because of how rude people are! Especially the first day, when the line is forming. But the funny thing is, is that yesterday, on Sunday, my son asked me to go to the last day of an estate sale to see if a yard item he had seen in the photos online was still there. Since it was the last day, everything was 60% off and omg! This person who owned this home collected everything! From native American and southwestern pottery and figurines, to precious moments, to teddy bears, to ceramic cows, and cuckoo clocks! There was soooo much stuff to still choose from, I was mainly interested in the native American pottery and I got a ton of items! I was worried I wasn't going to have enough cash and would have to break out the credit card, but my total came out to 32.00! There was hardly anyone in the home which was very small to begin with, I couldn't even imagine what it was like on the first day, but I think I have found my new niche! Going to estate sales on the last day! I know not every one is going to have that much stuff left, but a 60% discount comes in handy and no crabby crowds either! Since I spent so much time stocking up at this sale, I missed going to another last day sale where all items were 75% off! So that's going to be my jam this estate sale season I think! Playing clean up on last days! Thanks for all the helpful tips you give in your videos! I've been a part time reseller since I was in my teens! It's the love of having a side hustle I think, but now that I can't fend off rude people like I once could, I'm sticking to last day sales from now on! 😉
I resell part-time as a hobby. It's not my sole source of income. I can be totally "whatever" about it. So, I let the people who depend on reselling take the first day of the sale. I don't need to be around the agression. By the way, it was that way 20 years ago when I first started, and that's when I made the decision to go on the last day of a sale.
Yes I agree with you, was at an estate sale no one around picked up an oil lamp had a lady come up later and tell me it was hers....ok whatever you can have it but really she was no where around when I picked it up. Yes people are rude!
I would have said, “No, you did not possess it - sorry.” I would then quietly tell the home owner the situation. I am not letting anyone step all over me anymore.
You reminded me of my trip to Hearst Castle in the 70s. What an opulent estate. So many pretty pieces at the sale; love all things glass! I’d love to have a float in that pool and soak up the sun and birdie sounds💗
I agree with you! Yes, people are feeling so entitled that they can be extremely rude. I can’t tolerate this behavior either. It makes me very nervous and apprehensive. I have a size 12 shoe size. If someone gets in my space, I “accidentally “ step on their toes and then profusely apologize.
I was at a church free will offering rummage sale on Saturday and 2 women started fighting over a huge pile of clothes. I heard the police may have to be called. Luckily I was in line and got out of there. I'm not sure what's happening but people are incredibly rude!
Your going to the Hearst Castle and being affected got me that way when I went to Biltmore! When I got home, out went some country things and in came sculptures.😂 LOVE the leopard purse!
I love your videos. I told my son I live vicariously through them. I used to go to flea markets almost every weekend and had accumulated so many things that were sitting in a storage unit for years. At $400+ per month I finally got up the energy to go through and close my unit. I ended up donating almost everything to Goodwill. I had a lot of depression glass, things like that…I knew my children have no interest in keeping it. I wanted to free them from having to go through everything also. The only thing I will buy now is costume jewelry. I think of them as little pieces of art. I see things in your videos that I like and would have bought. I have had experiences where people have acted rude. I was getting off an elevator and there was a teenager standing in front of me with her mother beside her. The teenager didn’t move so I could get off and I said excuse me. Her mother said she didn’t see you. I said it’s because she’s looking at her iPad. The mother seemed offended. How can a person get off an elevator if someone who is trying to get on won’t move? It’s only common sense to let them off first. It’s aggravating. I try not to let it get to me. Sometimes it’s in your face rude and hard to ignore. Off my soapbox now. 😊
👋 Danni! You are NOT alone. In my 50's and common courtesy is no such thing anymore. Driving, shopping, mailing a pkg, etc...Rudeness and disrespect seems more prevalent in the younger age brackets. 😠
Danni, I firmly believe that you get whatever is a match to your current energy level (auras match auras). It’s not exactly that you get what h you give because you can be a very kind and considerate person, but if you have an imbalance somewhere in your energy field, you open yourself up to others who are at that same energy level. This, if you have fear about money (my classic), yours or a family member’s health, a friend with whom you’re distancing, or whatever, then it’s like you’ve got an open and uncovered would that hurts whenever anything even brushes up against it. Maybe learn to meditate before you go thrifting, or do a short meditation in the car after each sale. I’ than most in life, and I’ve learned this all the extremely hard way. One last bit of advice… maybe you’re thrifting the wrong things for you. Maybe you’ll find more joy if you hit your minimum sale price by l making sets of things (entire vignettes) or lots of things. Just a thought.
Completely agree! I think maybe she would feel better saying something to the person when it happens. I was once a people pleaser, but no more. We all have a right to speak our minds and stand up for ourselves!
I don't have issues with young people. They say excuse me, please and thank you. Maybe its where I live. I find if i have a smile people are more likely to be kind, i say this because i tried not having a smile and people weren't as nice or kind. Im far from being perfect by no means , this is just how it works for me. People are ruder since Covid, cost of living etc etc a viewer from Canada 🇨🇦
I really enjoy your videos! You find interesting decorative pieces but you are also always respectful and fair. I’ve recently been watching a few yard sale videos, by mostly youngish men or young couples, looking for video games, vintage toys, golf clubs, that sort of thing. I’ve ended up feeling a bit uneasy, especially when the householder, often elderly, is selling clearly quite valuable/collectible items for mere pennies, yet the reseller still asks for a reduction, which is readily accepted. The reseller then rather gleefully shows what the item is worth, which ultimately makes me feel a bit sad. In comparison your content is fun, informative, respectful and much more enjoyable to watch. I’m English by the way, living in Poland - you’d love our flea markets over here! Sue 😊
It's a shame people are forgetting the joy of picking by pushing and shoving, and stressful snatching and grabbing. I often tell myself "there's enough stuff for everyone" before I go into some places, just to calm my anxiety (and I love every time you say that in your videos Danni!). Look at our world, it is full of stuff!! More than enough for everyone. Shame the adventure of discovery is getting forgotten!
The Navajo Turquoise earrings was a great score, Danni! My favorites of your finds: Limoges vase, abalone shell & starfish, blue pottery vase and the pewter farm animal napkin rings. The wooden pitcher at the estate sale was beautiful; I love rustic. Great video, Danni!
The jewelry piece you asked about is from Harry Potter, it is Rowena Ravenclaw's diadem. I don't know the value of the pieces, as I'm not one of those collectors, but I've seen the movies.
Dani your not the only one experiencing this. Saturday 5-18-2024 I had a thrift shop employee treat me so rudely I will be talking to her manager today. Mind you this is a church run shop and they receive all there items by donation. About 7 or so years ago they started a daily special of $10.00 per bag. Over the years it has changed what you can put a bag and now it's clothes and shoes. Since this is such a reasonable offer I buy bags of clothes to give to people that have a need plus I also resell name brand items if I am able to find them in good condition. Every employee from Mon to Friday will hand you a bag when requested for you to fill, but not her. I requested a bag on Saturday and she stated to bring the items up front and it's policy that we fill the bag. Now it's important to say I have encountered this christian church going volunteer lady before and do avoid Saturdays but my grandson needed bigger clothes. My comeback to her was that she is the only one that has this policy. She turned, grabbed a bag and threw it at me like a Frisbee saying "well don't let me get in your way"! I was stunned to say the least so I added the clothes I had in my hands to the bag and left it sit on the floor by the front counter while I continued to shop. Every time I added to the bag she had comments or questions for me. To sum up this long story this church lady ended up by telling me that 1)she doesn't understand why I need to purchase so many things,(not her business) 2) they shouldn't even have this bag special because they don't make any money (not sure how she would know this as she only works saturdays.3) she never has problems with any other customers except me (she was telling the one other customer in the store that checked out ahead of me how she never has any customers and was probably going to give up her Saturday and that would close the shop!!! Only me, I think not) 4)All staff was trained 7 years ago to fill the bags for the customer and obviously there all wrong now and/not trained right 5)when I tried to make a comment to her she told me to "keep my mouth shut" (nice church lady) It ended with one more bag being Frisbee tossed to me. I spent $36.00 and my $4.00 change was tossed at me. I will continue to shop here to benefit myself and family plus the people I give items too. I will support this church run store and have for the last 23 years. BUT I WILL NEVER SHOP ON A SATURDAY THERE AGAIN. I hope this church lady goes to confession!!!
Girl.. that started in California a few years ago. I actually stopped trying to take my grandkids shopping because I had people grabbing toys out of my grandkids hands.
Danni ~ I agree with you wholeheartedly. sigh People are so egocentric these days. When going out into the world with this current state of affairs it so important to put on your Armor of God and not participate nor react to this negative behavior. You are doing such a great job in your business and I for one am an ardent admirer. So focus on what you can do to make a difference and ignore the rest. ❤
Early in his career my dad was a studio photographer and filmed the wedding of Marion Davies at Hearst Castle. He was amazed at all the secret rooms and passages that were hidden there. Every day he ate his lunch at the gorilla enclosure and the gorilla would pass a rope end out to him and when he (my dad ) tried to grab it the gorilla snatched it back in and ran around the cage beating his chest and seemingly laughed at my dad!😂😂
My daughter drempt of being a veterinarian all her life. She made that dream come true and worked hard for 12 years, but sadly, sold her clinic and left the practice. Not because of the workload, but because of the people. They were rude before the pandemic but unbearable afterward. She misses the animals but will never work with people again.
I call this attitude "Me, my, mine". It's all about them, all about their needs, their urges. People don't think that what they're doing may inconvenience another because they are more important than you. This attitude starts young so the parents have explaining to do, lol!! Oh, doesn't matter if eyeglasses are prescription, people still want designer frames. It's easy to pop out the lenses if you want to before selling but it doesn't matter to a buyer. As long as frames are in good condition just grab them.
Oh you make me so jealous by the beautiful things you find. I always look forward to seeing the jewelry you find. Because it’s so different. Wished I could get some of it. Thank You for sharing your fun adventures. I have so much fun watching you. Thank You for sharing your knowledge too. You’re so wonderful ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think sometimes we get caught up in the moment and don't pay enough attention to the people around us. I am guilty of probably reaching over someone to look at something and not thought anything of it till now. But I have also said, "Excuse me, can I look at (that)?"
The champaign flutes were a score. I had a set of 12 of every piece of that Avon red glassware. Couldn't give that stuff away. Finally, I got my granddaughter to take it.
Yes!!! Everyone is rude! I swear I get more anxiety before going to estate sales and even yard sales because of how rude people are. They stand infront of everything like they are guarding it while looking stuff up on eBay!
There was a cactus bowl minus the dip thingy in one of your recent Goodwill offerings - might still be there if/when you return to that particular shop.
Sadly it does seem to be a sign of the times 😢 no one says excuse me anymore or thank you. Its so bad I stay home unless i absolutely have to go out. It is depressing 😢and its all age groups. I am 68 and retired and its stopping me from leaving home on my own unless i absolutely have to. 😢
People are rude everywhere. Not everyone, but a lot of them. I loved the video, though. You did find some nice things. And that wood vase was so beautiful! I couldn't afford it, but just saying. Love you all. Stay safe, healthy, and strong. ❤️😘💞💞💞💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✌️
Not new, I have watched Danni for a long time. I love it when she and Dawn get together. I laugh so hard 😂. I would like to see more of those two.What do you think???
Danni, I had a career of over 30 years traveling around the nation What I can tell you from my own experience is that when times are tough and people have decreased freedom ( money to do things they like) they are angry and frustrated and tend to act out and forget their manners. Oddly this seems to trend on each coast and work its way in. Something for social studies I suspect?
Hi Danni, the selfishness and nastiness are so happening here in England, too .I wasn't brought up to be intentionally rude either,my parents were great role models for normal human decency .You are the loveliest person, Danni, so you will have noticed that the world has changed so much, very quickly. Blue 🐦 🐦 🐦 ❤️ 💙 💙 💙
Yes sweetie I myself am having the same experiences as you are!!😮 I did think it was the fact that I let my hair go naturally white.😂 people are not like they used to be. Opening doors for each other, saying thank you to each other, saying something pleasant. Well, they will look at you like you have 2 heads.😢😢😢 it's really 😔 sad.❤❤❤❤you and your family! You make my day.😂😂😂😂😂
Wow !!!! The scores !!!! ( Turquiose ear-rings , Disney glasses …… oh my !!!! ☺️🥰) Yes !!!!! People are more rude . Some days I am NOT a fan of people ……. just sayin’ …….. 🤪🤣
Danni i have followed your channel for many years and i really didnt know you were in such pain. I have seen you be kind to everyone and help others learn how to thrift. I have seen you buy things for others because you know they like the items. You trained a lot of resellers and I cannot believe how they treated you back. I felt very sad to see that. You are a wonderful mother and animal lover and really take on a lot of responsibilities as a strong woman who i admire. No matter what anyone says I still care about you and i know how the world has become. I dont even leave my home anymore because i get so upset and crying over what others do to me because im a shy and humble quiet person. I get pushed around and so frightened of being hit or hurt by abusive people. Please stay who you are because i love you and your smile. So many things have happened to you and you still carry on. I am proud of you!!!!
Yes, sadly people are extremely rude now. It's everywhere. Some are intentionally rude, and others are oblivious.
Sadly rudeness has been made the the norm along with other unpleasant behavior.
Are you kidding Danni, I can't get enough of your videos 🤗 I never want them to end. It's like curling up with a cozy book💜✝️🤗👍🏼
Oh thank you!
This evening, I went grocery shopping, and had a cart full. A couple behind me had only 6-8 things. I let them go ahead of me. They appreciated it, and even the young man checking me out was surprised, and actually thanked me! I have always been taught to treat people that way.
I will always do that! People are quite surprised!
I do that too! What I really HATE is when you let a car in, cross or merge & they DON'T get you a Wave in Thanks...I hate that. Lol
I let someone ahead of me who has one item and I had a cart full. she was amazed and thanked me several times. I can't think of them standing there behind me, but she seemed azrd
I do that too, and appreciate when others do that for me.
I do that as well. Surprisingly, people are really gracious and say thank you.
Oh my gosh that wood pitcher was EVERYTHING !!!
I’m blown away by the earrings! Great score!! Where I live it is getting more crowded, so all the stores are packed. I think that stresses everyone out and contributes to the rudeness. I also think young people are not taught manners, or respect for elders, or basic social skills. Many people have a sense of entitlement, and many play the victim. Most people have had bad things happen. That’s life! When you become thankful for what you’ve been blessed with instead of focusing on your trials, it changes your entire outlook!
Rudeness is everywhere! It's a ME generation sadly. I was taught manners but wonder how many are today? A year ago I was in a certain store when this woman barged right into me and she had a little boy with her. She didn't say "I'm sorry" or anything. That's unacceptable behavior but becoming the norm.🤥
With the Capimonte flowers… stufff cotton balls in between the petals before wrapping with bubble wrap
That was a really unique lucite wine rack! People seem to be less aware of other peoples humanity these days
20:36 vase is built in flower frog for arrangements
I thought so too. Maybe wild flowers with the tiny holes. Definitely not tulips. 😅
I thought so too.
Thank you I was thinking that’s the use.
Yes, I have had the same experiences with rude people. It's so bad sometimes that if I meet someone in an aisle at the store/sale I will back up and go to a different aisle and come up behind them. It's easier than getting upset and ruining my day. 😁
You’re right…. I too am that person. People park their carts in the middle of the aisle completely oblivious to others trying to get by, people in my space etc… so annoying.
Ive noticed this aggression every since the pandemic. It makes me even nicer.
I've gotten to where I don't even like backing out of parking space. I've been halfway out of a spot and someone comes zooming behind me, making me having to suddenly stop, or I would have hit them! Rude and in a hurry! That little tiled tray you got reminded me of projects my brothers made in shop class in the 60s!
That has happened to me so much lately!
I’m fortunate enough to have a car with technology that stops my car when when a car comes up behind me
@@KatMayeux-fd5itThat would be nice to have. I have a backup camera, though.
First time i’ve ever seen a wooden pitcher ✅ thank you
The Limoges vase with the holes on the top, is a built in flower frog, for flower stems.
I live in San Simeon. We moved into the Pineview Park in February and our back porch overlooks the Hearst Castle hills and I love seeing the cows and zebras graze together when they venture over to our side of the hill😊My brother in law worked as a guide at Hearst Castle for 9 years and once a year he was allowed to invite family for an employee bbq pool party. We got to swim in the Neptune pool. The water was absolutely freezing but I did get in and immediately out🥶hahaha. My 3 daughters enjoyed swimming and I have some amazing photos and memories. It was one of those “once in a lifetime “ moments that I feel absolutely blessed to have experienced with my family😃
Oh wow! I'm so envious! What a great memory!
Oma is the Dutch and German word for Grandma.
People are like that everywhere. Some worse than others. It’s a test to see if we pass….❤
The pin bird with wings is from Harry Potter. Ravenclaws Diadem worth around £4-8 (I would have bought it for me)
The vase with the holes reminded me of Seattle space needle!
And yeah rude people everywhere, it can be very intimidating especially when I’m alone. I’m not always steady on my feet and am frightened they will push me over.
I came here to see if anyone else caught that! I would have grabbed it. As a huffleclaw it intrigued me
@@bobbiejoc1 a Ravenclaw here. 🥰
I feel you girl! People are so self centered and narcissistic! I am like you and always try to be kind and consider others around me.
Yes, people are getting ruder! That's why I now live in rural Vermont. LOL!!!
People like that everywhere. Parents aren't teachering their kids respect. Loved everything you picked. Love it all.❤❤
Wow, best find in my opinion Danni was the 2 Disney glass flutes, they are stunning. I totally agree with you about people that are just downright rude & obnoxious. It seems like it's all over the world, I'm in the UK. I'm so glad that I can't drive anymore because driving is horrendous these days as there's no manners out there. Stay safe Danni.x 🐕🦜🐢🐠
Really do wish it wasn’t. I try to focus on the people who are polite and then say to myself that there is hope afterall.😊
Yes do! I watch another utuber at a yard sale, and some guy went up to another guy who was looking in a box, he started trying to get in the box, and the box guy said loudly back off a couple of times and said when I'm done you can look. Yes we really got to see a show!
I agree. People are so stressed out
They are getting obnoxious. I smile and remind my self it's OK as long as I m not being rude. Keep smiling and be who you are. Enjoy your shopping so get shop done.
I walk with a 4 legged cane. Bad back and my knees go out suddenly. Anyway, people will literally kick my cane as they walk past me. Then give me a dirty look. As I'm fumbling to keep from falling on the floor. You can miss my cane and I don't walk with it far from my body. People have said some foul things to me also.
I understand what you mean!
My son gave me his older Eco-tank while he bought a newer one. You can see the level of ink in the separate tanks and fill whatever you need.
Pick up the designer eye glasses, even if prescription!! People will buy them just for the frames. They remove the lenses and just wear the frames with no glass. It's a common fashion accessory now.😊😊
I watch all of your videos. You are great and I truly enjoy them😊
Danni, sadly it seems to be everywhere these days. And I am so sorry you had to deal with it. We need to get you a special shirt for these estate sales, and thrift stores, etc. Printed on the front and back..." PLEASE BE KIND" .
Those napkin rings are Wilton Armetale. Made in PA. Very popular in the 70’s. My mom had a huge set.
Yes! Completely agree. It seems that is what we have come to. I was just telling a lady this at the thrift store the other day how nobody says excuse me or had any manners anymore.
Could that limoge vase with the holes on top be a built in floral frog?
Danni, I had given up going to estate sales a number of years ago because of how rude people are! Especially the first day, when the line is forming.
But the funny thing is, is that yesterday, on Sunday, my son asked me to go to the last day of an estate sale to see if a yard item he had seen in the photos online was still there. Since it was the last day, everything was 60% off and omg! This person who owned this home collected everything! From native American and southwestern pottery and figurines, to precious moments, to teddy bears, to ceramic cows, and cuckoo clocks! There was soooo much stuff to still choose from, I was mainly interested in the native American pottery and I got a ton of items! I was worried I wasn't going to have enough cash and would have to break out the credit card, but my total came out to 32.00!
There was hardly anyone in the home which was very small to begin with, I couldn't even imagine what it was like on the first day, but I think I have found my new niche! Going to estate sales on the last day! I know not every one is going to have that much stuff left, but a 60% discount comes in handy and no crabby crowds either! Since I spent so much time stocking up at this sale, I missed going to another last day sale where all items were 75% off!
So that's going to be my jam this estate sale season I think! Playing clean up on last days! Thanks for all the helpful tips you give in your videos! I've been a part time reseller since I was in my teens! It's the love of having a side hustle I think, but now that I can't fend off rude people like I once could, I'm sticking to last day sales from now on! 😉
I resell part-time as a hobby. It's not my sole source of income. I can be totally "whatever" about it. So, I let the people who depend on reselling take the first day of the sale. I don't need to be around the agression. By the way, it was that way 20 years ago when I first started, and that's when I made the decision to go on the last day of a sale.
I would love to have had that beautiful wooden pitcher.
I also loved the wood pitcher.
I live in a small town in Texas. I find most people are very nice. Larger cities not so much.
Yes I agree with you, was at an estate sale no one around picked up an oil lamp had a lady come up later and tell me it was hers....ok whatever you can have it but really she was no where around when I picked it up. Yes people are rude!
I would have said, “No, you did not possess it - sorry.” I would then quietly tell the home owner the situation. I am not letting anyone step all over me anymore.
You reminded me of my trip to Hearst Castle in the 70s. What an opulent estate. So many pretty pieces at the sale; love all things glass! I’d love to have a float in that pool and soak up the sun and birdie sounds💗
I agree with you! Yes, people are feeling so entitled that they can be extremely rude. I can’t tolerate this behavior either. It makes me very nervous and apprehensive. I have a size 12 shoe size. If someone gets in my space, I “accidentally “ step on their toes and then profusely apologize.
I was at a church free will offering rummage sale on Saturday and 2 women started fighting over a huge pile of clothes. I heard the police may have to be called. Luckily I was in line and got out of there. I'm not sure what's happening but people are incredibly rude!
Your going to the Hearst Castle and being affected got me that way when I went to Biltmore! When I got home, out went some country things and in came sculptures.😂 LOVE the leopard purse!
I love your videos. I told my son I live vicariously through them. I used to go to flea markets almost every weekend and had accumulated so many things that were sitting in a storage unit for years. At $400+ per month I finally got up the energy to go through and close my unit. I ended up donating almost everything to Goodwill. I had a lot of depression glass, things like that…I knew my children have no interest in keeping it. I wanted to free them from having to go through everything also. The only thing I will buy now is costume jewelry. I think of them as little pieces of art. I see things in your videos that I like and would have bought.
I have had experiences where people have acted rude. I was getting off an elevator and there was a teenager standing in front of me with her mother beside her. The teenager didn’t move so I could get off and I said excuse me. Her mother said she didn’t see you. I said it’s because she’s looking at her iPad. The mother seemed offended. How can a person get off an elevator if someone who is trying to get on won’t move? It’s only common sense to let them off first. It’s aggravating. I try not to let it get to me. Sometimes it’s in your face rude and hard to ignore. Off my soapbox now. 😊
👋 Danni! You are NOT alone. In my 50's and common courtesy is no such thing anymore. Driving, shopping, mailing a pkg, etc...Rudeness and disrespect seems more prevalent in the younger age brackets. 😠
I live in Florida and hate to go out. Drivers, shoppers just stress me out😢
“A kind word turneth away wrath.” I have changed the most vile attitudes by using that.
I love watching you shop and hearing your thoughts about everything you look at.
Danni, I firmly believe that you get whatever is a match to your current energy level (auras match auras). It’s not exactly that you get what h you give because you can be a very kind and considerate person, but if you have an imbalance somewhere in your energy field, you open yourself up to others who are at that same energy level. This, if you have fear about money (my classic), yours or a family member’s health, a friend with whom you’re distancing, or whatever, then it’s like you’ve got an open and uncovered would that hurts whenever anything even brushes up against it. Maybe learn to meditate before you go thrifting, or do a short meditation in the car after each sale. I’ than most in life, and I’ve learned this all the extremely hard way. One last bit of advice… maybe you’re thrifting the wrong things for you. Maybe you’ll find more joy if you hit your minimum sale price by l making sets of things (entire vignettes) or lots of things. Just a thought.
Completely agree! I think maybe she would feel better saying something to the person when it happens. I was once a people pleaser, but no more. We all have a right to speak our minds and stand up for ourselves!
Yes you can set boundaries without being disrespectful.
I don't have issues with young people. They say excuse me, please and thank you. Maybe its where I live. I find if i have a smile people are more likely to be kind, i say this because i tried not having a smile and people weren't as nice or kind. Im far from being perfect by no means , this is just how it works for me. People are ruder since Covid, cost of living etc etc a viewer from Canada 🇨🇦
It is said in The Word, “People will become lovers of themselves,” this to me, meaning, disregarding everyone else.
I really enjoy your videos! You find interesting decorative pieces but you are also always respectful and fair. I’ve recently been watching a few yard sale videos, by mostly youngish men or young couples, looking for video games, vintage toys, golf clubs, that sort of thing. I’ve ended up feeling a bit uneasy, especially when the householder, often elderly, is selling clearly quite valuable/collectible items for mere pennies, yet the reseller still asks for a reduction, which is readily accepted. The reseller then rather gleefully shows what the item is worth, which ultimately makes me feel a bit sad.
In comparison your content is fun, informative, respectful and much more enjoyable to watch.
I’m English by the way, living in Poland - you’d love our flea markets over here! Sue 😊
I purchased a Mickey watch Christmas ornament exactly like yours, new in the 80’s
It's a shame people are forgetting the joy of picking by pushing and shoving, and stressful snatching and grabbing. I often tell myself "there's enough stuff for everyone" before I go into some places, just to calm my anxiety (and I love every time you say that in your videos Danni!). Look at our world, it is full of stuff!! More than enough for everyone. Shame the adventure of discovery is getting forgotten!
The Navajo Turquoise earrings was a great score, Danni!
My favorites of your finds:
Limoges vase, abalone shell & starfish, blue pottery vase and the pewter farm animal napkin rings.
The wooden pitcher at the estate sale was beautiful; I love rustic.
Great video, Danni!
People are rude everywhere, they just don’t care! Thanks for sharing with us this video and all the info you share too about each item! ❤
Someday, can you go over how you do your listing with eBay? Do you do it or do you give it out to somebody to list for you and Cell and pack??
The jewelry piece you asked about is from Harry Potter, it is Rowena Ravenclaw's diadem. I don't know the value of the pieces, as I'm not one of those collectors, but I've seen the movies.
Your right people are very rude nowadays I don't like to go anywhere there's a crowd anymore 😮
Dani your not the only one experiencing this. Saturday 5-18-2024 I had a thrift shop employee treat me so rudely I will be talking to her manager today. Mind you this is a church run shop and they receive all there items by donation. About 7 or so years ago they started a daily special of $10.00 per bag. Over the years it has changed what you can put a bag and now it's clothes and shoes. Since this is such a reasonable offer I buy bags of clothes to give to people that have a need plus I also resell name brand items if I am able to find them in good condition. Every employee from Mon to Friday will hand you a bag when requested for you to fill, but not her.
I requested a bag on Saturday and she stated to bring the items up front and it's policy that we fill the bag. Now it's important to say I have encountered this christian church going volunteer lady before and do avoid Saturdays but my grandson needed bigger clothes. My comeback to her was that she is the only one that has this policy. She turned, grabbed a bag and threw it at me like a Frisbee saying "well don't let me get in your way"!
I was stunned to say the least so I added the clothes I had in my hands to the bag and left it sit on the floor by the front counter while I continued to shop. Every time I added to the bag she had comments or questions for me. To sum up this long story this church lady ended up by telling me that 1)she doesn't understand why I need to purchase so many things,(not her business) 2) they shouldn't even have this bag special because they don't make any money (not sure how she would know this as she only works saturdays.3) she never has problems with any other customers except me (she was telling the one other customer in the store that checked out ahead of me how she never has any customers and was probably going to give up her Saturday and that would close the shop!!! Only me, I think not) 4)All staff was trained 7 years ago to fill the bags for the customer and obviously there all wrong now and/not trained right 5)when I tried to make a comment to her she told me to "keep my mouth shut" (nice church lady)
It ended with one more bag being Frisbee tossed to me. I spent $36.00 and my $4.00 change was tossed at me. I will continue to shop here to benefit myself and family plus the people I give items too. I will support this church run store and have for the last 23 years. BUT I WILL NEVER SHOP ON A SATURDAY THERE AGAIN. I hope this church lady goes to confession!!!
28:00 Same here in the UK - 30:00 I never leave the house without cash, it never breaks down!!!
Girl.. that started in California a few years ago. I actually stopped trying to take my grandkids shopping because I had people grabbing toys out of my grandkids hands.
The glass cameo pin is beautiful, I love it so much
I ALWAYS watch the whole video . Thank you for your time Danni,!!😊
I would bet the napkin holders are Arthur Court. Looks like the quality of his work.
Danni ~ I agree with you wholeheartedly. sigh People are so egocentric these days. When going out into the world with this current state of affairs it so important to put on your Armor of God and not participate nor react to this negative behavior. You are doing such a great job in your business and I for one am an ardent admirer. So focus on what you can do to make a difference and ignore the rest. ❤
Yes! Rudeness is the norm these days! I believe it will continue to get worse unfortunately. I work in a pharmacy see it regularly
Limiting people to enter works well, depending on the size of the house. Having enough people to help is a big must.
It's happening everywhere.
Early in his career my dad was a studio photographer and filmed the wedding of Marion Davies at Hearst Castle. He was amazed at all the secret rooms and passages that were hidden there. Every day he ate his lunch at the gorilla enclosure and the gorilla would pass a rope end out to him and when he (my dad ) tried to grab it the gorilla snatched it back in and ran around the cage beating his chest and seemingly laughed at my dad!😂😂
My daughter drempt of being a veterinarian all her life. She made that dream come true and worked hard for 12 years, but sadly, sold her clinic and left the practice. Not because of the workload, but because of the people. They were rude before the pandemic but unbearable afterward. She misses the animals but will never work with people again.
Love Hearst Castle, we volunteered there when we lived in that area.
I call this attitude "Me, my, mine". It's all about them, all about their needs, their urges. People don't think that what they're doing may inconvenience another because they are more important than you. This attitude starts young so the parents have explaining to do, lol!! Oh, doesn't matter if eyeglasses are prescription, people still want designer frames. It's easy to pop out the lenses if you want to before selling but it doesn't matter to a buyer. As long as frames are in good condition just grab them.
Oh you make me so jealous by the beautiful things you find. I always look forward to seeing the jewelry you find. Because it’s so different. Wished I could get some of it. Thank You for sharing your fun adventures. I have so much fun watching you. Thank You for sharing your knowledge too. You’re so wonderful ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think sometimes we get caught up in the moment and don't pay enough attention to the people around us. I am guilty of probably reaching over someone to look at something and not thought anything of it till now. But I have also said, "Excuse me, can I look at (that)?"
Yes I agree people are getting worse so very sad. Sad world we live in. 😢😢😢xxx
We are in a me me me world Lotz of rudeness
That I believe us a hat pin holder
Love watching you
The champaign flutes were a score. I had a set of 12 of every piece of that Avon red glassware. Couldn't give that stuff away. Finally, I got my granddaughter to take it.
You found some really great items for selling again. Always enjoy your videos.
Love your channel and your spirit! Please tell us about that shallow bowl with polka dots at the estate sale.
Yes!!! Everyone is rude! I swear I get more anxiety before going to estate sales and even yard sales because of how rude people are. They stand infront of everything like they are guarding it while looking stuff up on eBay!
There was a cactus bowl minus the dip thingy in one of your recent Goodwill offerings - might still be there if/when you return to that particular shop.
Oh yes! I remember that!
Great haul! So many nice things I can't remember all there was! Really nice jewelry, the intaglio pin was beautiful!
I suffer with PTSD and anxiety and could never go into that situation 😮
Sadly it does seem to be a sign of the times 😢 no one says excuse me anymore or thank you. Its so bad I stay home unless i absolutely have to go out. It is depressing 😢and its all age groups. I am 68 and retired and its stopping me from leaving home on my own unless i absolutely have to. 😢
You are correct. It is a self-centered world today.
You did good ,and yes people do get rude and nasty at the drop of a hat these days! Beautiful finds !❤
People are rude everywhere. Not everyone, but a lot of them. I loved the video, though. You did find some nice things. And that wood vase was so beautiful! I couldn't afford it, but just saying. Love you all. Stay safe, healthy, and strong. ❤️😘💞💞💞💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻✌️
Buy prescription glasses! People will buy them for the frames and get their own prescription lenses for the frame.
I loved Hearst Castle too!
Yes, seems like more and more people are living in their own bubble.
Not new, I have watched Danni for a long time. I love it when she and Dawn get together. I laugh so hard 😂. I would like to see more of those two.What do you think???
I just LOVE you! Your shows are always so entertaining, I truly enjoy watching them. I want you for my neighbor!
Danni, I had a career of over 30 years traveling around the nation
What I can tell you from my own experience is that when times are tough and people have decreased freedom ( money to do things they like) they are angry and frustrated and tend to act out and forget their manners.
Oddly this seems to trend on each coast and work its way in.
Something for social studies I suspect?
Oh I love the glass cameo!!!
The State Sale they had so much😮the yard was beautiful 🤩
Hi Danni, the selfishness and nastiness are so happening here in England, too .I wasn't brought up to be intentionally rude either,my parents were great role models for normal human decency .You are the loveliest person, Danni, so you will have noticed that the world has changed so much, very quickly. Blue 🐦 🐦 🐦 ❤️ 💙 💙 💙
Definitely yes, people are so rude! They are also very aggressive drivers! I think it will only get worse with the time! It's so sad!!!
Yes sweetie I myself am having the same experiences as you are!!😮 I did think it was the fact that I let my hair go naturally white.😂 people are not like they used to be. Opening doors for each other, saying thank you to each other, saying something pleasant. Well, they will look at you like you have 2 heads.😢😢😢 it's really 😔 sad.❤❤❤❤you and your family! You make my day.😂😂😂😂😂
Wow !!!! The scores !!!! ( Turquiose ear-rings , Disney glasses …… oh my !!!! ☺️🥰) Yes !!!!! People are more rude . Some days I am NOT a fan of people ……. just sayin’ …….. 🤪🤣