BKCHAT LDN: EPISODE 5 - "When last did you go Dubai?"
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SEASON 4 continues as we re-upload the latest season of the show till date! Episode 6 talks about last names in marriages.
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marc is proof that personality matters more than looks 💀
yes
He aint cute
Not everyone finds his appearance attractive.
@@Cezeji1 i wanted to ask where are the looks?😂
@@ete7943 Muscles
All these men that grew up in England are here forming “African Traditional men”. 🤣🤣😭😭😭
Init 😭
Lol, wait for the next generation.
Traditional better than social degeneracy and eventual lead suicide of the left.
Lmao.... Finally the comment i have been lookin for.. so fake
LOL
Marc is such a waste of protein shakes. They going straight to his head. Just vibes.
Lol true
“Waste of protein shakes” 🤣😭😭
Waste of steroids*
Not protein shakes
Son 🤣🤣🤣
Why doesn’t Marc understand that equality is a thing.. we are not in the village and your wife is not your house slave🤦🏾♀️
How does that make you a slave for not taking your TRADITIONAL mans surname if you don’t want it then don’t get a traditional man he’s only talking truth
No wonder he dated Esther , She really likes men like these. I hope she get's a good man
@@juggajay the way he's referring to his wife is not appropriate at all
Not everyone has to accept this new trend of 'progression'..
If any of these heffers got with a guy who doesn't support everything she wants... she will be quick to diss him, at the same time, she will preach independence!
but nah marc is right. any woman who wants to be married but keep her name can stay unmarried. shes not wife material at all
Does Mark’s mum know he goes around saying that ??? He’s unbelievable 😂
I guess they change the title on the description.
🤦🏽♂️ What's wrong with what Marc is saying... He's right
Mark is making sense, if you want to keep ur dad's name get married to him
Hes right
Not these boys in the comments saying .big up man some of u Man need to get some braincells it's idiotic at this point
Shay is all of us watching this foolishness
With his arms folded and that face 😂😭
100
I thought this thing was about Dubai. 20 mins in they’re still talking surnames
Same. Was looking to it too.
Trust mee
I don’t get the Dubai reference, what happened?
@@ashleycrystal9719 people get paid for to go to Dubai and things happen there - sex things. We wanted details on what these things are. But it looks like what happens in Dubai, stays there.
Exactly
"I identify as a trans man"
Mark: surprised pikachu face
😂🤣he looked so confused
That reminds me of when joe budden found out one of his cast mates was a trans woman
@@troytaylor5746 he was way more respectful tho cause hes comfortable in his sexuality
😂😂😂😂
Marc's brain has been clapped by steroids or some shit... chatting so much breeze.
lol
💯
Lol you guys are not getting this shit... Marc is right... He's marrying you... A man marries a woman not the other way.
@@alonzoball6266 you're just like him, plus they're marrying each other, it doesn't just go one way
Lool
I’m convinced Mr Cuban doesn’t even know that a subject called biology even exists 😂😂😂 I’m a whole decade younger yet this man lack of basic general knowledge never cease to amaze me ,to say he’s ignorant would be an understatement
He didn’t know that it’s the man’s chromosomes that determines the sex of the gender. 😅
Legit if all brawn and no brains was a person it would him
Bruh Gogo is too intellectual for these lots
Fr!
That shows the standard
they all dumb af fr and the black girls are so shallow always caring about superficial things lmao
Surnames are a European tradition, in Africa we have nuanced naming systems and women don't necessarily take their husbands name after marriage. This is the case for us in Uganda 🇺🇬 & I have read similar for igbos in Nigeria 🇳🇬
Gogo and Lucas and the singer guy. Top Iq
😂😂I feel sorry for any female involved with that mark guy
👏🏾 and now look what’s come out !!
This comment aged well 🤣
The backwardsness of it all: Lani don’t shout, yet everyone else is shouting
They’re always picking on her🥲
When they all shout it’s everyone . The thing W lani is she’s ALWAYS shouting . Regardless.
There’s a difference between shouting and screaming
Tee M. Cause she lacks sense
Because her voice is the most jarring so high pitch it's pierces your ear drums
Mark is kinda sexist he was basically saying women have no value kmt
*Did he tell a lie though?*
Devil's Advocate yes he did lie, before this modern world in past history women have always been the prize. Have been gifted gold, gems etc. Look at Cleopatra, did she not have two powerful men fight over her?!😂
@@haza123b4 he is chatttinnggg shit he's basically saying women have no value babe babies come out off our pum pum we r the onss having the painnnn
@@bbybxnmi women aren't and were never the prize Cleopatra was an anomaly in which she inherited power in unordinary circumstances it wasnt the norm to have a female ruler she served more so as a regent than anything else. men have always been the prize with the strongest rulers and leaders all having been male women are illogical and completely led by emotion which is why they don't make good rulers it is natural for a woman to be submissive amd feminine not aggressive and masculine. Marriage is proposed and or initiated by the man because HE is claiming the woman as his own which is why SHE loses her last name for his.
SDot Gwala I read the first sentence and am respectfully airing this. Sorry, go and read your history. There is a reason why many cultures GIVE WOMEN THE WORLD on their wedding day, such as gold, precious gems, land, cows etc. This is all based on history, the erasure of women’s value was and still continues to be very mad. There is a reason powerful and respected men continue to seek high value women, it is their natural mindset to give the world to a woman.
It is only classless and non-virtuous men, men with nothing to offer, that do NOT recognise this paradigm.
Shay literally said ‘I feel like maybe too much protein shake’ 😂😂😂
He killed Marc😅
Marc loves to argue for the fun of it
Mark has a lot of maturing and growth to do..... bless him lord
Marc needs to understand that not everyone cares about power dynamics in a relationship
When Lani opens her mouth I have to genuinely fight to keep my brain cells. Marc is ridiculous but very entertaining and Wale is messy... man said “there was shouting, I can’t remember anymore” 😩😂😭
Exactly, some people just reinforce the idea of social determinism(puppets that accepts socio-cultural norms and values, without any question).
Lani is intelligent until she speaks.
Mark treats women like pets he doesn’t see them as equal human beings wouldn’t be surprised if he beats his spouse in the future 🤦🏾♂️
He has the right to his values, it doesn’t make him a potential wife beater he’s just a typical man and is proud of it. Don’t waffle about him being a potential wife beater cos he likes to be the leader when in a relationship.
@@oliverwall7964 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@CP This is a disgusting comment and should be deleted. Not funny
@@oliverwall7964 marriage is a partnership between two people not a employer / employee relationship .... what is he leading ? 🤦🏾♂️
@@CP-dr7qy Well, there is three things in a relationship.
Equality, Patriarch [The man of the family] or Matriarch [the woman of the family.
Basically, Marc just wants to be the one who get to make a important decision in the family or relationship. He’s a typical guy in that he doesn’t liked chances or being leaded on. You know the difference between submissive and dominant. He wants to be the dominant one in both relationship and sex.
Equality in relationship are rare. In old times, equality was bullshit.
Nowadays in modern century, equality are not rare but still. Both Patriarch or Matriarch are the most common in relationship.
It doesn’t mean he’s a potential wife-beater. It just means he’s too strict and stubborn in his thinking. If you get what I’m saying.
Some of the statements are so insensitive. Saying things like it’s not your fault her daddy didn’t do his job. Do you know what issues her father and/or mother went through to have kids.
Some of you alls masculinity is mad fragile. Being a man is not by gym and big muscles. 🙄🙄🙄
High school mentality
Ladies if you see Wale or Marc come near you pleaseeeeeeeeee walk the other way 🙏🏾
More like ruuuuuun
Especially marc he is disgusting
Don’t run from the truth go towards it, Marc gave ya’ll a double dose of the truth.
Lolss it's not up to you mehnn his going have a lovely lady who much better than you.
@@CptXack whoever ends up with him will defo be bcuz of looks & not personality. he chats uselessness
Guys: “let’s all wear hats 🧢 and not tell Marc”
Pretty sure his head wouldn’t fit...
Na Na wasn’t needed but good try 👏🏾
Lol they were just all cappin except from Marc
Loool yeh cause he eats bottom loool.😂😂😂👏
Marc is too manly for hats. Lol!
Mark Cuban is tryna be Old Lucas sooo bad ! Urghhhh toxic masculinity stinks 😷
Just a question
Would it be sexist to say “toxic femininity”
@@ceo1hunna no, why would it be?
Ce Nonya calm, just making sure that I won’t get hate when I address toxic femininity
Don’t screech toxic masculinity when he gets piles of women, clearly he got smt women like.
@@oliverwall7964 the women he gets don't respect themselves obviously
Yes my Caribbean king. Look at him with his positive vibes
It’s so crazy how some of the guys are so immature and lacking of meaningful life experiences, and I’m saying this being nearly a decade younger than them.
Yh some of them are kinda dumb.
Marc is the only one that fits this description
There’s more female than male cast members that fit this description
Shay is the only one with common sense and inteligence in this man's group!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Man no Castillo? Whatttt
It’s a old episode
It doesn’t feel the same without Castillo 😞
Silvia def has some animosity towards Lani😭. She really needs to chill out lol everything Lani does seems to irritate her!
Cause she's irritating
@@imanee9673 aw ok
Lani is delusional, naive, stubborn & majority of her statements throughout the whole series contradicts her morals. I honestly would be irritated by her on the show, cause she just doesn’t understand how to have a rational conversation/debate
@@imanee9673 chill, it’s rocket science…
FRRRR. She throw shades in multiple episodes.
I’m an only child as well. After hearing this I’m so grateful that my fiancé has no issue with my double barreling, it wasn’t even a big discussion. His respect for my father and confidence in who he is plays a huge part. Also, the last name I write will still be his so... that’s how he thinks of it.. and he consider himself for the most part a traditional man, his respect for my family makes him feel like this isnt big enough to have an issue with.
where's castillo at
Big man ting
He has a TH-cam page now and it’s pretty entertaining.
Word
Probably at your baby mums
Lani sets women back a century
Making hella noise for no reason 😂😂
They literally need to cut Lani out! She wants to talk sooo bad and says nothing.
Big man tingz yeah instead of making Dubai that go to destination. Make it be one of the many African and Caribbean countries. Help boost up their economies. It's our people that make a place popular. We make any and everything popular. We have a lot of power...true or truth?
Exactly!!
❌🧢
'We make any and everything popular' Hmm.
Exactly!
This doesn’t make sense Dubai didn’t get rich because of us we go there because Dubai is rich and we want to experience it Telling people to go to Africa instead is ridiculous who wants to have a vacation in poverty ?
mister marc was not raised correctly, he thinks women are some sort of pets made for his pleasure. I wish his future wife luck
thats if he pulls with that ass personality
the way they kept misgendering Terrell was pissing me off
Lmao she's a he right? He wants to be a toxic man and side with those men who are coming after those women then he can deal with those misgenderings since he don't want to stick up for the women who put those men in their place when they tried to come after his gender
@@hungrychat7304 pls use punctuation omd
Sally Harrison lmao i had to stop
She/he should of stayed in her lane.
@@newempire158 this is BKchat. They’re meant to talk and say their opinions for our entertainment… furthermore if no one has conflicting ideas then the video is dead, how do ppl not understand this kmt
Feel like if Yasmin wasn't good friends with Lani she would be roasting tf out of her
But she cant because they are literally the same in terms of mentality and have similar looks so if she violates Lani she's violating herself😂😂
😭 I love Shay , 'u lot are screaming legacy, but are you doing ' 🤣🤣🤣🤣
These London boys talking about being Traditional African Men 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If my man can't handle me wanting to keep my surname or that my name is important to me then we will have to go our separate ways.
Preachhhh
Simple
Be then prepared to marry an below-average beta man or die alone
@@newempire158 no. she will find a man who values her as a woman and a human being enough to keep her name. unlike u beta males who dont even respect or value women. because he will love her. so he will be alpha male. grow up
@@newempire158 you actually say beta male? giving big virgin energyyyyy
I acc love shay 🥺👉🏾👈🏾
He and Gogo have the most sense 😭
I FIND MARC SO ANNOYING
"Let me land, let me land"...is he an airplane 😂😂
Marc be like "I dont want peace, i want problems only"
If I become a doctor there is no way I’m letting my husband’s family to take credit for the sacrifice my family and I made.
Don’t get married then innit
I think she was saying she wants to keep her name irregardless of being the only child. The fact that she is one just strengthened her argument.
Mark and Lani should just be together since she laps up everythint he says!
This comment aged well 🤣
@@christophermallett8166 theyre not even together?
@@onikapinkk I can only assume you don't know what happened between the two of them.
Im an only child and fully plan to keep my last name. I'll consider hyphenating too...but im keeping a piece of me & my heritage. Period. A man being bothered by that is insecure & i wouldn't want to marry him anyway 🤷♀️
His preference doesn’t make him insecure, it’s fair enough you keep ur name but a man has the right to keep his too without being called insecure.
@@oliverwall7964 He's definitely insecure. Thank God for ✨Islam✨
He not insecure there nothing insecure about it
The shaming tactics of the modern woman - you gay
- you insecure
-you not a real man
@@Sunshine-gh3lr how does wanting to be traditional make a man insecure?
Lani. I know deep down she would like to get married, have 2.5 kids and live in a house with the white picket fence. She’s only says she doesn’t because she’s been hurt by some guys or a guy who she truly loved. Now her mantra is “men/ niggas shit.” Lani, you need to heal. You deserve to give yourself that. ❤️
I agree with Gogo! that's the reason why talking stages are important! you need to talk about things that are important to you during this stage so that when you enter a different stage in your life, i.e. engagement, there's an understanding!!! Normalize talking about marriage, kids, beliefs/morals, goals etc during talking stages and not just flirting!!
Let me save you time "When last did you go Dubai?" - 36:00
that shit was hilarious. she set herself up for that scrutiny tho and the fact that she got triggered only drove his point home
Mark and Lani both need to heal.
There are a lots of underlying issues here
Agreed
39:48 You can tell Marc was really shook by Yasmin's "reaction". Had to take a swig from his empty water bottle and a moment to recover. Real Cele man indeed. Lmao!!!
Empty water bottle 😂😂😂
" I am carrying on my tradition " says Marc but do african people realize that in the majority of African country and culture the woman does not change her name even after marriage right? This tradition is part of the Occidental culture
Marc was failed growing up. Failed smh
Shay plus riva are the only people that make sense here
Gogo is the smartest cast member
Ok
Lani is like a child at a table with adults. Shouldn’t be on this platform until she’s learnt enough. What’s interesting though is to see how people like her interpret everything compared to “normal people”.
I bet you after this episode Marc must have had bare hate from the LGBT community🤣
Shay had a point. Some people don’t really want to have 2 separate weddings to fit with tradition especially because of the cost but they do it. Some people don’t want to have double-barrelled surnames but they do it.
Lani always has props to emphasize her point lmaaoo😂😂
I’m Ghanaian and so I understand the traditional sense. The other side is that the whole thing of women carrying their husbands last name had another origin. Back in the day women were property and our last name would say who our “owner” was sadly. So that’s why they would take their husbands last name. Obv there are other reasons but that was one. Things are not like that today. That’s why it’s easy to question that tradition.
Children though in Ashanti tribes are named after people and traditionally the last names would be different. I think of late people have the same only because of the way the western world work.
Wale really killed me in the beginning, he was talking bare nonsense 😭😭
I couldn't stop laughing at his waffle🤣🤣he was bare into it aswell😭
I have a double barrelled name. It’s flows so nicely too. Marc needs to take several seats 💀
It’s works for you but he has the right to want only his name. Why can’t he ?
@@oliverwall7964 no ones saying he can’t and you’re just defending him in every comment🤣
@@Kimbrly_xo frrrr
@@oliverwall7964 I'm convinced this is marc on a secret account 😂😂😂
@@maribivenus457 secret account 😭
In my culture the woman keeps her last name as it identifies where she comes from. However her children will take her husband’s last name.
Yea same
How can my man call Lani “Rikishi”? 🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭
Nothing new, nothing changed
Yeah... old episode. Lol!
Personally in a South African context -the marriage isn’t about yall only ...it’s about the whole neighbourhood and your families and uniting as one ...it’s an understanding and a thank you for your input in the journey for the couple to meet and God hopefully stay together .It is about these two families with the same or different cultures coming together to give thanks and acknowledgement of bringing their children on this earth to grow the household (the woman coming into the mans family to grow their legacy) as well as thanking the females parents for bringing up their child well and allowing us as the male family to accept her as a daughter in the family...it’s a long story but in summary
POV: your´e going through the comments liking all the mark slander. 😂😂
'yeah but your mindset is a bit to the other side' LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL I WILL SCREAM
I don’t know how I got here but I was hooked. I couldn’t click off because I was thoroughly entertained.
Real niggas know Muslim girls don’t change der surnames big respect👊🏾👊🏾
mark is an air head. stopped watching at 1.45 mins
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did y’all hear him say cheap meat 🥩🤣🤣🤣🤣
“I give life “
Marc you’re not God relax
potential topics:
1) my man didnt make me tea in the morning
2) my gyal toothbrush went missing
3) my man might not want me to keep my second name
🤩🤩🤩🤣🤣🤣
Lani and mark made for each other bruv
“See your lifeeeee”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
why are we dressed like this ladies?
they were probably going to a festival, like the guys with the hats and bags-but yea WHY ARE THEY DRESSED LIKE THAT????
You know. They look awful.
For attention. Being on a show is like promotion for them. Gang bangers will see them and follow on insta.
@Cork H94 dont think they care abt your opinion icl
@Cork H94 some people dont wanna get married mate. mind your business karen.
16:08 pre Marc’s face 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Men forget that their wives are not their children. Men pls worry about your children having your surnames
My last name is my late Ghanaian father’s name so it’s not going anywhere. I will have to find a man who’s happy for me to take his surname along with mine ( double-barrelled). Gogo is right, you have to discuss these things before marriage and you have to be compatible. Marc sometimes just talks for the sake of saying things but I don’t even believe HE believes what he’s saying.
We’re Castillo at tho?
Can't relate, in my religion women keep their surname after marriage 🥴 by taking a man's surname you are erasing your own lineage. But obviously the choice is up to each individual woman as to what she want's to do.
What's your religion?
@@jody-annwilson5164 islam
@@sassytela I've never heard of that in islam
@@ilovemsminutes5833 it’s true
Marc said man is the head and lady is the neck 😂 wtf that made no sense 😂😂😂
this title already has me dead
A great example of 'Age ain't nothing but a number.'
When it's all said and done last names as good as they are some African or Caribbean peoples have lost their REAL family name. So when you put it into perspective it really don't matter. Just create a legacy you can pass down to your children to be proud to carry on and so and so forth...facts or facts?
Stop forcing it now.
Okay I’m disgusted with mark thoughts 🤮🤮🤮 I feel for his mrs
Wale is acc so unproblematic idc🤣🤣. His little commentary is sooo funny
As if Wale said “I don’t know why this rakishi is coming @ me “ -37:15
😂😂😂🤧
To answer the question tho. It's simple all she has to do is have a conversation with her fiance and express her feelings and he will make his decision she can easily do a double barrel ting.
if they love eachother hes gonna understand that she doesnt want her family name to die out and he will compromise wid her
I’m so glad Islam doesn’t allow for women to take the last name of their husbands in order to protect their lineage.
Fax we ain’t no body’s property but allahs 🙏🏾
when a Muslim gets married the woman keeps her last name ? Not judging or anything just never ever knew that 😊💖💖💖
Majority of the people in the room were just listening to respond they weren’t actually listening to understand each others viewpoint the whole time they were just thinking about what they were going to say so when they get the window of opportunity they just jumped through it head first ,that’s when the talking over each other starts to happen
Everyone's too focused on what Mark said or the fact that Castillo ain't here that they completely missed the Dubai burn, chick deffo did a mazza over there...bare emotional reactions 😅😅😅😅😅😅
rivas litterally my fav
some man give up their second name cuz of family trauma and want to try forget about what they been through
Brav this Lara girl just has these dumb facial expressions forever shaking her head brav hella jarring
where’s my fave castiilloooooooo😔😂
Guy with Jamaican parents 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲 respect fam 🤞🏽🤞🏽
Desiree Powell with your name naffi ask if yah jamaican 😅💖💖💖🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
@@jodiiperez9591 lol 😂 facts!!!!!!!!!
Some of these girls are dressed like ladies of the night.
Lmao for real
😂😂😂🤣