Cleaner DISGUSTED With Filthy Flat | Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners | Episode 18 | Filth

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  • This series follows people who, by their own admission, cannot stop cleaning and carefully matches them with someone whose home is in dire need of a spring clean. Together these people with such contrasting compulsions will explore how their different behaviour affects their lives.
    The first cleaning volunteer is mum of two Amanda from Essex. The 31-year-old not only works 60 hours a week as a business manager but also spends an additional 20 hours a week on housework.
    Even her two children Amelia, seven, and Liam, six, are expected to clean.
    When it comes to her children’s personal hygiene Amanda is equally obsessive, as she bathes them in Dettol once a week.
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  • @DeeDee-lx1ef
    @DeeDee-lx1ef 2 ปีที่แล้ว +585

    That was so sad to hear the little boy say they’re learning a lesson for being bad. Making a mess isn’t bad it’s what kids do :/

    • @JosieJo2000
      @JosieJo2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      That shocked me too. Horrible way to live.

    • @NB-lk7yd
      @NB-lk7yd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      I thought that was a very weird thing to say!

    • @colleenlewis3286
      @colleenlewis3286 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Poor kids. Mine are made to keep a clean room but I don’t scold them if it’s messy. It’s what children do

    • @lesley9989
      @lesley9989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It is really sad and it shows that he's making that connection in relation to being 'punished' because of his actions. Exactly what you've said. He's a child. I hope it doesn't have a lasting effect on his behaviour when he is older x

    • @jarrodbarkley9061
      @jarrodbarkley9061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She's not doing right by those kids, making them feel bad and throwing away their toys. They're going to hate her someday. And no one should be giving their kids a dettol bath. That's pathetic.

  • @pumpkinseeds768
    @pumpkinseeds768 2 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    If Amanda told me that she would be bleaching away after I'd visited her house I'd be so insulted. I'd rather have a cuppa and a chat with Jeanine anyday!

    • @PoppyUr
      @PoppyUr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Same, I would be asking her if she really thought I was that dirty! Seems rather arrogant and rude to be frank

    • @Megzsy98
      @Megzsy98 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Jeanine seems like a really lovely genuine person

    • @verenamartini8695
      @verenamartini8695 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I fully agree ! Jeanine is nice lovely person who need just a push

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think Amanda will feel happier bleaching everything after someone leaves isn’t a reflection that the person that visited was dirty just as her cleaning her house daily isn’t saying her family are dirty and they are not insulted
      I would be scared to have a cuppa with Janine in her kitchen there might be a fly in it lol 😂 and I would have to decontaminate after going in her house would defo feel icky

  • @mebutnotme.Khan78
    @mebutnotme.Khan78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    He called her lazy coz she is lazy 🤷‍♀️
    Her face when he said theres laziness 🤣🤣

  • @FelisTerras
    @FelisTerras 2 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Amanda is rude, abrasive, judgmental, controlling and absolutely lacks any sort of empathy. She was happier about getting her way than actually taking into consideration Janine's childhood trauma. She's just a control freak, period.

    • @annebos4634
      @annebos4634 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I quote: "My way is the way to be" 🤮

    • @LurkingCrassZero
      @LurkingCrassZero 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Low self esteem and other mental health issues are all made up in the eyes of folk like her. Obnoxious to the extreme.

    • @nikki7735
      @nikki7735 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She needs mental help

    • @MsFuckencia
      @MsFuckencia 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      poor kids...

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amanda was there to do a job and get on with not deal with her trauma janine would need to see a psychologist for that
      She needed someone like Amanda to come in and take control for the very reason that they are both opposite in many ways and if she was janine they wouldn’t have completed the clean

  • @bongiperez7565
    @bongiperez7565 2 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Jeanie is such a nice person. May God Bless her and help her overcome her childhood traumas.

  • @MagickIsPower
    @MagickIsPower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Amanda lacks any empathy. The emotional reasons people hoard or don't clean like these people are often found in childhood or grief. Jeanine was pouring her heart out to Amanda and telling her about her visceral reaction to dettol and why and it just went over Amanda's sub zero head. I thought Jeanine seemed a great mum and her kids adore her.

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Part if being a good mum is keeping your home reasonably clean tho 🤷‍♀️

    • @MagickIsPower
      @MagickIsPower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      @@alison2984 There's a balance though. If you're spending all day cleaning and scrubbing with dettol you're unlikely to be spending lots of time with your children.

    • @bintangdilangit3348
      @bintangdilangit3348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yeah jeanine regardless of the condition of the house, look more fun And had better interaction with her kid, in other hand Amanda nah my parents like her gonna end up my stuff in bin when it not in place really make me piss off even after i grow up still sometimes when i remember it i feel unhappy

    • @lucyw.7597
      @lucyw.7597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@alison2984 exactly, 'reasonably'.., but sterile environments are as unhealthy for children as excessively dirty ones..as well as inhaling all those chemicals all the time..she claims she works up to 60 hrs a week, (dont believe her), and cleans for over 20, never mentions playing with her kids..

    • @wezholly4629
      @wezholly4629 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      -trerer

  • @marianne1865
    @marianne1865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Giving her children a Dettol bath!!!! I'm shocked. When I was a kid we had a bath once a week and survived, never sick, no allergies or intolerances, no asthma. We also played outside all the time in the dirt but our mum focused on fruit and veg and no sugar diet, everything whole meal and always home cooked from scratch. Amanda has priorities all wrong, what about the constant chemicals from the cleaning products??? She's worried about germs, I'm actually concerned about cancer and Kidney/Liver issues for these kids.

    • @jan-marcusandersson7214
      @jan-marcusandersson7214 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. Diluted dethol bath is in my höst opinion childabuse

    • @Martina-Kosicanka
      @Martina-Kosicanka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree, it gave me creeps

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You get detol that can be put into baths for your skin if you have a cut or skin problems... its actually recommended by some doctors for certain skin conditions
      And she did say the hospital recommended soaking a cut in detol and that's why she bathed the kids in it x

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm concerned about their mental health being berated for acting like kids, having their stuff thrown away because their awful uptight micromanger mother doesn't like mess, and being treated like filth that needs to be washed in Dettol. Amanda belongs in a padded room, not on a TV show.

    • @nataliebutler
      @nataliebutler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@alison2984 Doctors also prescribe drugs that can have seriously harmful effects. Occasional use on a cut isn't the same as disinfecting your children every week. That's not healthy, even if the manufacturer claims it's okay.

  • @natahliak7691
    @natahliak7691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    I can't believe she actually sterilises her own kids. That's nuts.
    I bet these kids get sick often.

    • @effyshaun
      @effyshaun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Haha I thought that is common was detol bathed as a child 😂 is this not normal?

    • @op3488
      @op3488 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@effyshaun It is normal. It even states on the bottle that you can pop it into your bath water.

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It is not necessarily true that her kids get sick often. Many of us including me, bath in dettol as a child and I was a very healthy child with no illness as were the other children who also had dettol baths everyday or at least a couple time a week.

    • @victoriasmith2512
      @victoriasmith2512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I loved a dettle bath as a kid and still love the smell.there is a dettle that is for baths and cuts .Then there is a dettle you can use for cleaning .

    • @natahliak7691
      @natahliak7691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I understand why some parents do it but our skin has thousands of good bacteria that is getting killed off along with the bad.
      I grew up in the Australian outback and would ride my motorbike all day so you can imagine the state I would be in comming home lol.
      The only time my mother used detol is when I came off my bike with some nasty cuts and grazes. It had to be bad though not just a little nick on the skin.
      Our bodies are amazing can heal itself,
      Only now an then should things like this or antibiotics be used.

  • @samanthaabreu782
    @samanthaabreu782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    Messy and dirty are two different things my lady.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      These people who don't like cleaning always turn it around and say it's the compulsive cleaner's fault, and they are the ones with problems, not them.

    • @SergyMilitaryRankings
      @SergyMilitaryRankings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The cleaners who are rude and don't understand hoarding is s mental illness are clueless

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@SergyMilitaryRankings Yes they do, because they have OCD by being so compulsive, just as the ones who hoard, also have a mental illness.

    • @demixox7100
      @demixox7100 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree, I'm a mum to a two month old, my house does get messy sometimes but it's never dirty

  • @zy510
    @zy510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    I feel Jeanine should've been paired up with Mark. He would've been so much gentler (and probably more efficient) than Amanda was towards her.

  • @lindabakker3743
    @lindabakker3743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I wish my mum had been clean. I now have nightmares of filth and clutter and am constantly cleaning and tidying. It was embarrassing as a kid to bring friends home.

    • @chloeg.4640
      @chloeg.4640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I'm really sorry to hear that... My mum is a compulsive cleaner, OCD-diagnosed and all. I remember waking up at 3am as a child and hearing her cleaning the kitchen, or having to force her out of parties because she physically could not leave before tidying everything. She is a loving mother but we still have violent arguments and I am struggling to accept her as she is despite her diagnosis. My thoughts are with you, I hope you're doing well

    • @lindabakker3743
      @lindabakker3743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@chloeg.4640 sometimes it's hard to find that middle ground. I hope you can find that balance after living with your mothers OCD habits. I know I sometimes drive my husband crazy, but since starting meds and talking about it we have both learned how to live more harmoniously. I hope you and your mother can find some balance. My thoughts are with you. One persons behaviours affect so many others. Hugs to you.

    • @lindabakker3743
      @lindabakker3743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@chloeg.4640 and thank you for sharing 😘

    • @rebbeccapage1122
      @rebbeccapage1122 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I no the feeling my mums a hoarder so am a minimalist and clean 2 times q day

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rebbeccapage1122 same minimalist now and clean the whole house top to bottom at least once a day if not more
      Hated living in a messy, dirty house crammed with crap x

  • @crystalawen
    @crystalawen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    😱 Amanda has a lot more problems than the lady she’s ‘supposed’ to be helping..

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not really… everyone’s problems big or small are relative to them you can’t compare Apple and pears

    • @pocaluneksmierci
      @pocaluneksmierci หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@MissG8340okay Amanda

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@pocaluneksmierci it’s MIssG actually !

    • @lourdesmunoz4058
      @lourdesmunoz4058 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They are different problems. But both extremes can be tiring for others

  • @kst0nes266
    @kst0nes266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    New episode released on here of Obsessive Compulsive Cleaners.... that's my rock and roll Friday night sorted 🤣

  • @Stevie-steel
    @Stevie-steel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Amanda might be better at keeping her home clean but Janine is the nicer person. That dirty house doom music is gonna play in my head everytime i notice a cobweb or the oven needs a clean.

    • @Danileptic
      @Danileptic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think Amanda is not better. Her house makes the kids sick because it's too chemical. Amanda is completely mental and needs help too.

    • @jayjagatambe6097
      @jayjagatambe6097 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂Good reminder..

    • @tamarikimani5701
      @tamarikimani5701 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now you made me feel the same thing,ok,time to clean!!🏃‍♀️🇮🇱

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Janine is nicer… sorry in which way?
      How do
      You no Amanda isn’t nice? Lol 😂

  • @maryryall6829
    @maryryall6829 2 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    If she wants to display things her kids make or stuff that's sentimental to her then that's her right, she was there to help not to look down on her and be so damn right rude, she totally lacked empathy and was overly critical especially remarks about kids.

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think she was just trying to say that’s fine but have some order
      There was a mess hoard pile of stuff she claimed was sentimental it all looked like rubbish to me

    • @mirikira8632
      @mirikira8632 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There was way too much stuff to all be displayed.

  • @dolalleyweirdo7547
    @dolalleyweirdo7547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The first woman doesn't speak nice to her children its like she's got no emotions.

    • @Queen-of-Swords
      @Queen-of-Swords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's got OCD, its a mental illness. But I agree, its an illness that is not particularly good for the children.

    • @alamedadanceparty
      @alamedadanceparty ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree. She lacks empathy

  • @KG-gg8rl
    @KG-gg8rl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Amanda is being absolutely horrid. She's not very understanding of other people, she's harsh and critical.
    She's treating people like a business project.

    • @Danileptic
      @Danileptic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      And it's not healthy for the kids with zero germs but with chemicals. How could the kids survive outside?? That's mental.

    • @itszenbaby
      @itszenbaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      A part of me hated her when Janine was getting emotional and explaining how strict her mother was when she was a child about constantly making her clean and never letting them have a life, which is similar to what Amanda is doing with her kids now. She could have learned a very valuable lesson from Janine, but instead it went straight over her head because she thinks being sterile makes you a superior person.

    • @shirineblueyes846
      @shirineblueyes846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I completely agree👍

    • @littleblackpistol
      @littleblackpistol 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itszenbaby Yep. She's showing Amanda what will likely happen to her kids, who she basically takes her mental illness out on.

    • @emmacassidy8482
      @emmacassidy8482 ปีที่แล้ว

      She's projecting. By judging other people, she's really having a go at herself.

  • @annielark6650
    @annielark6650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    It's great to help someone clean their home but there's no need to berate them and act all high and mighty. It just makes you look nasty and hurts the other person.

  • @nikdozajimavy1277
    @nikdozajimavy1277 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Amanda seems very privileged to me. Good finances, immaculate health, lot of free time,… it's not hard to keep a clean house, when you have all this going for you.

  • @Neutronia1
    @Neutronia1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    That Amanda's kids are going to grow up with a lot of problems and really resenting her if she's not careful.

    • @Ohhhwehere
      @Ohhhwehere 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      they probably disowned her by now

  • @francescaoconnor2314
    @francescaoconnor2314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Amanda is horrible, great for working 60 hours a week and doing 20 hours of cleaning as well but those are not everyones life goals. Her kids look so sad and whats the point of it all? Where is the joy in her home? I would choose lovely, warm & kind Jeannine any day!

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It’s about balance
      Why would you choose Janine house dust, flies buzzing around, no order, chaotic and mould infest house
      Not exactly healthy

    • @playaccount589
      @playaccount589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@MissG8340 loool I'd definitely choose d cleaner house

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@playaccount589100000% agree 😂

  • @staceyleigh1994
    @staceyleigh1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Amanda was damn right rude, I could feel Jeanine's pain when Amanda told her to get rid of everything even if it's sentimental. I would get on with Jeanine better than Amanda. I'd think I tell Amanda where to shove it!

    • @mirikira8632
      @mirikira8632 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She didn't tell her to discard everything, she told her to put it away and have some order. Those precious memories were collecting dust and getting ruined by accumulating dirt. How's that for keeping those important sentimental things?

  • @PipPreeceArt
    @PipPreeceArt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Haha! The quote of the series is in this this episode... "who's gonna eat their dinner off a cat!?" 😂

  • @stephaniewalsh9685
    @stephaniewalsh9685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Love how grateful Avril was, had me howling when she said, "He must have the energy of a bloody rocket" 💀💀💀

  • @missjennystevens
    @missjennystevens 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    That lady Janine has such a wonderful smile ❤️ I really hope that she got something positive out of this experience. Although it was really hard to watch her be upset, I hope that she managed to exorcise some ghosts through the process 💫

  • @dolalleyweirdo7547
    @dolalleyweirdo7547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The first woman is so rude I have ocd and have to have things in order and clean, I dont think she should be telling someone she doesn't know to throw special things away and speak down to her ive had ocd all my life and never judged or disrespected people, and her 2 children look unhappy the other lady's children look so happy.

  • @bonitafraenkel725
    @bonitafraenkel725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Has anyone else noticed that most people from EXECUTIVEly clean parent/parents tend to not be arsed to clean?

  • @rohitrathi1787
    @rohitrathi1787 2 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    Mark is so hard working. Hats off!
    Also, I love this series. Please don't ever stop!

    • @Gula9999
      @Gula9999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They actually stopped years ago. Or is it just me that I can’t find new series anywhere? I keep watching these old ones over and over again..🥲

    • @howwouldtheyknow8972
      @howwouldtheyknow8972 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      They have ended the series, this are re-uploads. I wish they start again. This was a good series for TH-cam.

    • @evoluna3056
      @evoluna3056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@howwouldtheyknow8972 Was it also on TV? I am not from England/The UK. But I really like this series!

    • @Queen-of-Swords
      @Queen-of-Swords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@evoluna3056 Yes it was on telly.

    • @anitasyvalahti1730
      @anitasyvalahti1730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gula9999 Me too. Watching over and over....

  • @wendygillard2133
    @wendygillard2133 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Amanda is very rigid & controlling. I like her clean house & believe children should have discipline but she goes too far. Also going into someone else’s house & being so rude about it is very unkind. Janine is definitely too disorganised & her house is unhygienic. She needs to spend some time cleaning & teaching her children to be a bit tidier.

  • @clownbabi
    @clownbabi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    27:08 Just because a child hasn’t played with a toy in 6 months, doesn’t mean they don’t care about or want that toy anymore. The toys had probably been lost in the mess for so long that they were wondering where they went but didn’t know how to look. No need to throw away a CHILD’s toys unless they’ve said they don’t want them anymore. It’s a very sad childhood Amanda’s kids are living, in my opinion. I didn’t grow up that way so maybe it’s different but I can imagine it would be stressful when you see how other people live and you know you’ll never be able to relax in your own home.

    • @adrian_isolde
      @adrian_isolde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      janine did so well with the rudness and ignorance of amanda. i love that she treats the opinion and the stuff of her children with respect ♥

    • @amandabrittenden
      @amandabrittenden ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My parents also threw out heaps of my stuff including books I had purchased with birthday money. I was so upset about it. They didn't even have the decency to ask if I still wanted them or not. It's a really shitty thing to do to your kids!

    • @mirikira8632
      @mirikira8632 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My parents used to toss toys I left out on the floor. It wasn't their responsibility to clean after me and I learned that cleaning after myself is important.

  • @allykuit5384
    @allykuit5384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It's not just about cleaning. Those houses are so neglected and starting to fall apart. That can't go on forever.

  • @sissilia449
    @sissilia449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Avril is obviously depressed and puts on a front. Yes she's lazy but you can see a real lack of motivation too which is sad. Mark is a sweetheart and very patient.

  • @ER-lj3de
    @ER-lj3de 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Can I just say that these OCD people are absolutely amazing and are not daunted by all these cleaning challenges they face. Thanks for helping others ♥

    • @Little_Lady_GCT
      @Little_Lady_GCT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Except Amanda and her nasty, rude attitude.

    • @sprr1443
      @sprr1443 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are mentally ill not amazing

  • @elaineoh3984
    @elaineoh3984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Somehow I admire OCD cleaners who still manage to keep pets of the fur variety. Also shows how illogical OCD is, their pet will never be very hygienic, but they have no qualms cuddling them.

  • @missluna5
    @missluna5 2 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Amanda appears to be a control freak, she doesn’t strike me as having OCD….
    And Mark, what a sweetie. Him and April were a great team.

    • @ikram5011
      @ikram5011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think they said she is not OCD diagnosed with ocd, in 16:49

    • @debbiemohekey1509
      @debbiemohekey1509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@ikram5011 Amanda seems highly strung like she can't sit down for 2 minutes or give herself time to think. Always focused on what she''s doing and what she's going to do next.She's a very irritating person like a damn mosquito buzzing about ready to bite.

  • @Hannah-in9tz
    @Hannah-in9tz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    This show makes me so happy that my mum kept the house spotless, it means I enjoy cleaning I would get so stressed living in a messy house I couldn’t cope

  • @lovelunar6185
    @lovelunar6185 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Honestly, if someone who bathed her kids in detol weekly tried to have digs about priorities for children's welfare, I'd lose my shit :')

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's a capful of Dettol antiseptic (not cleaner) in a bathful of water, lol.

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And all she simply said was isn’t having a clean house a priority for your kids

  • @firemelon7296
    @firemelon7296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Avril is so lazy and resentful. She didn't care tp hwlp out. I'm sorry for Mark, he had to deal with it on his own. His work is highly underrated. Wish him the best!

  • @hearmeoutbro
    @hearmeoutbro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Amanda acts all high and mighty and spends all that time and money keeping her house clean and tidy yet she doesn’t put her toilet lid down 🤮🤮

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But I bet her toilet is 10000% germ free 😊

  • @pandragon6142
    @pandragon6142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I like the first messy family.
    They are happier than the first clean family.
    The mother's attitude for her children is very good too.
    They need to be a little more tidy and she was willing to do so.
    There is nth to blame.

  • @clairemacauliffecarroll263
    @clairemacauliffecarroll263 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Mark is a lovely man. He doesn't judge, he listens

    • @fairmaiden6472
      @fairmaiden6472 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought he judged just as much as Amanda actually. And I don't blame them

  • @albagubrath9073
    @albagubrath9073 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Can't wait for an update on this episode, with Amandas kids needing help to clear their homes, after the deep seated psychological trauma she is causing them !

  • @AA-dk9zz
    @AA-dk9zz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    “My front door doesn’t work” 🤣

  • @TaylorTiree
    @TaylorTiree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    If someone had come in and spoken to me the way Amanda did to that Mum I’d politely ask her to leave.

    • @rebeccalovell5072
      @rebeccalovell5072 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      i didn't think she was too bad... 😂

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Well if that's the case, she shouldn't have been on the programme; That mother needs a wakeup call, because her home isn't just messy, it's filthy and there's flies everywhere.

    • @JosieJo2000
      @JosieJo2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree. So horrible and rude.

    • @Little_Lady_GCT
      @Little_Lady_GCT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I wouldnt even politely ask her to leave, she'd be told straight

    • @lucyw.7597
      @lucyw.7597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Little_Lady_GCT i agree, she'd have been out after the first 5 minutes, and i wouldnt have been very polite..her poor kids are going to grow up either with no confidence, or as rude and bad mannered as she is!

  • @gwendolyn0515
    @gwendolyn0515 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Amanda is so cold, I feel so sorry for her kids.

  • @sugarmouse3555
    @sugarmouse3555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She washes her children in dettol and bins their toys because they were playing with them. Where are children’s services?

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She said if there left on the ground as in if they have finished playing and left it there and not tidy it up then she puts it in the bin

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She has not done anything wrong in my opinion. Teaching her children to put their toys away in the correct place after playing with them is good discipline and structure which children need. Dettol is used safely for bathing by many people around the world without harm coming to them, it is a mild disinfectant and it tends to keep away staph and other skin infections.

    • @Foofightersgirl666
      @Foofightersgirl666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Galas you don’t have children, you are a bit crazy aren’t you.

    • @carriedudley8593
      @carriedudley8593 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you for real? When children are getting sexually, physically or mentally abused, then you can call social services, not because a mum tells her children to tidy their toys away, and if they don't then she will put them in the bin!

  • @zoemurphy5880
    @zoemurphy5880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Bloody rude! How could they tell people they are lazy without knowing any of their history.

    • @Queen-of-Swords
      @Queen-of-Swords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One of the women is ill. I know how that feels. I used to have a cleaning lady though for the things I couldn't do. Now I live with my partner and we struggle along together. I do clean but tbh my efforts can easily put me in bed for a couple days recovering.

    • @annakrawczyk1174
      @annakrawczyk1174 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be hell lazy to have such a messy home !! Too ill to put cigarets to bin ? Really ? This is just disgusting. I would not touch their houses even for thousands

    • @MissG8340
      @MissG8340 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There’s always an element of laziness when it’s that bad
      Also she said it herself cleaning isn’t a priority therefore she doesn’t think it’s important

  • @annanieznanow1788
    @annanieznanow1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Ok, I understand teaching children to clean their mess, I wish I had that, but bathing the kids in bleach?!
    That is sick 😑

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She isn't bathing the kids in bleach, she's using one capful of an antiseptic safe for the skin in a bathful of water.

    • @alamedadanceparty
      @alamedadanceparty ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To me it sounds nuts.

  • @lesleyhubble2976
    @lesleyhubble2976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Amanda is very harsh,she needs to think that not everyone is like her. Jeanine seems visibly hurt by her comments

  • @annanieznanow1788
    @annanieznanow1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why does Amanda feel it's fine to call people lazy all the time?
    Would she be fine with me calling her crazy?
    I don't think so 🤨

  • @dollymondo
    @dollymondo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Neither of the first two ladies kids look very healthy...

  • @HannahAilsa
    @HannahAilsa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Hayley ”who's going to eat their dinner off a cat?" 😆😆😆😺

    • @baladar1353
      @baladar1353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'd love to eat my dinner off her, maybe her kittycat too. 🤣 I see this may sound a little pervert, but I'm not a bad guy.

  • @jenijanewilliams6033
    @jenijanewilliams6033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The worst part for me was the way the little girl manhandled the cat at the end 😔

  • @emmaafarr455
    @emmaafarr455 2 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Amanda is one vile woman and her kids look so miserable.. feel sorry for them ☹

    • @ajaycyriljose9419
      @ajaycyriljose9419 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who’d you rather live with ? A person with no sense of hygiene

    • @playaccount589
      @playaccount589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ajaycyriljose9419 lol these ppl r just idk what to say nasty defending someone for living in mess. But in my country a clean house and proper hygiene is what's required. If you don't bathe twice a day people consider you to not have good hygiene

  • @neeruthakur2011
    @neeruthakur2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Mark did such an incredible Job!

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I can understand him not wanting his girlfriend's dog inside his flat; I won't have animals in my house either.

  • @iamden5550
    @iamden5550 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mark has a long patience to Avril being sentimental to her things.

  • @mwbgaming28
    @mwbgaming28 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I legit spat my drink when they swabbed the cat XD

    • @DaniR450
      @DaniR450 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was shocked to see him alive after washing the cat so funny

  • @juliaholford7079
    @juliaholford7079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The two women at the end hugged , just lovely

  • @namara22
    @namara22 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Please tell me Amanda is just playing up to the camera, and isn’t really like this!! Horrible personality!

  • @gillianbrookwell1678
    @gillianbrookwell1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    With Janine's attitude, her two girls could end up like their mother and have a messy house. My mum used to make my brother and I keep our rooms clean and to this day, I have my home spotless.

    • @lesley9989
      @lesley9989 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The problem is that Janine's mum made her clean, so she has rebelled. My friend was like this because this happened to her. However, as soon as she had children, she then kept her house clean

    • @koraXro
      @koraXro 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have a friend who is messy and a hoarder. She's a lawyer, very well put together, you would never guess. I thought the state of her house was her way of coping with the stressful work life. Until I visited her mum. Same mess, her mum is a stay at home wife. Clutter everywhere, it made me claustrophobic.

    • @mikaela12979
      @mikaela12979 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I believe it's all about having a balance: my mum was a very messy person all her life so I'm trying to make my house a tidy place. Curiously enough, my husband who grew up in a very clean house is now the messy one. I don't know how my kid will turn out to be like.

    • @EllaDeanPendragon
      @EllaDeanPendragon 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not for sure - growing up the house was a bit of a mess, somewhat dirty and very messy but now I live alone my house is very tidy because I don't want to live like that anymore. Thankfully I am somewhere in the middle of the extreme of these messy people and the OCD cleaners.

    • @amandabrittenden
      @amandabrittenden ปีที่แล้ว

      My mother and father were both extremely clean and tidy and made us do a lot of the cleaning when we were young. Nothing at all wrong with that, it's teaching kids life skills but.... It didn't rub off on me at all. I don't live in filth by any means but I'm certainly not as obsessed as my parents were and tend to let things go every once in a while. I have severe depression and sometimes just can't give 2 shits about the state of my house.

  • @sophied4031
    @sophied4031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    There is something deeply off about that Amanda here. She gives off such negative cold vibes and it seems to me she has no concept of compassion or human welfare and receptivity. I fear for her poor children and the harsh and negative psychological affects she no doubt has on them. What a judgemental, aggressive and cold-hearted little snob she is. Even her cold eyes and general demeanour are grossly unwelcoming.

    • @aliya6158
      @aliya6158 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know it is very wrong, but I couldn't stop picturing her in the Nazi uniform in the concentration camp "cleaning"

    • @sophied4031
      @sophied4031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@aliya6158 Now you mention it.... 😬

    • @Foofightersgirl666
      @Foofightersgirl666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You people need to stop being radical, even Janines children are happy their home is now actually clean, making them feel more safe and secure. They appreciate Amanda’s help alone.

  • @aliyasucuk2543
    @aliyasucuk2543 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Can't imagine how it's smell at the dirty house. How can they live in such a mess and dirt

    • @firemelon7296
      @firemelon7296 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At some point they just don't care anymore and being in the house everyday they might not realize how bad it is.

  • @andreamack7867
    @andreamack7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Buggering up those kids immune systems. A bit of dirt never hurt anyone. Playing in the garden, getting dirty is good for them

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Actually kids build there immune systems outside not in the home .. and tou need a clean home so you don't end up sick and a dirty home can actually be deadly cos of the bacteria

    • @andreamack7867
      @andreamack7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alison2984 yes, kids need dirt. As i said, they get it from playing outside. Obviously your home has to be clean. Mine has always been that way

    • @andreamack7867
      @andreamack7867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@alison2984 yes, kids need dirt. As i said, they get it from playing outside. Obviously your home has to be clean. Mine has always been that way

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amanda said that her kids do play on the garden etc.

  • @patricioeltoro1985
    @patricioeltoro1985 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    14:00 I'm a messy cooker😁 Avril has about the same energy as a Sloth

  • @phill9958
    @phill9958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Your not supposed to bath your cat it’s not good for their fur or them!

    • @nataliebutler
      @nataliebutler 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought that, but apparently a bit of washing up liquid is a really effective flea treatment and probably much safer than the spot on treatments, which are pesticide and a neurotoxin! I'm not sure how I'm going to convince my cat to have a wash though...

  • @the_animal_ark
    @the_animal_ark 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I hate I hate, people saying this is laziness!
    No depression or other mental heath or physical disabilities are the cause! Not laziness! She wants to do it but her brain won’t let her or she physically can not do the task

    • @helentucker6407
      @helentucker6407 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh I agree so much! It rankles me to hear that too 👍

  • @sp-1973
    @sp-1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Imagine spending 80 hours of every week not having a life....God how dull!!

    • @rosieposie9564
      @rosieposie9564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Cleaning is part of life. Some people get lots of pleasure and relaxation from cleaning.

  • @fluffideer1066
    @fluffideer1066 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    lol those messy kids rooms are kinda nostalgic in a weird way 😂 i was such a messy kid and my room sadly looked like that until like 6th grade lmao. now im super tidy prob because my room would get so freaking nasty all the time and it was not fun

    • @anoniempersoon5969
      @anoniempersoon5969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same. My room didn't look that much better until I was 14/15 or something 😅

  • @ducklife5497
    @ducklife5497 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Marks reaction when he walked into her house LOL

  • @bhanukokkiripati4418
    @bhanukokkiripati4418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mark has done a great job..looking for more videos like this.

  • @Niamhmariephelan
    @Niamhmariephelan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pure and utter laziness, I'm a single mother, I have fibromyalgia and my child has additional needs, never in a million years would I allow myself or my child to live like that, but I def don't agree with the way Amanda is speaking to Jeanie, like she's Mrs know it all, and bathing your kids in Dettol, my god🤦🏼‍♀️
    The lady with the glasses was so grateful, I hope she sticks to her promise, her mental health will improve if she does x

  • @kaileen4043
    @kaileen4043 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    A messy house is a happy one? Ugh, I would never be happy surrounded by all this filth and grime. There's a big difference between a messy house and a pigpen.

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree 🤢
      Kids need a clean and tidy environment
      It's literally a basic care need along with food, clothing, personal hygiene and a clean safe environment x

  • @xo_fidget_acc_xobinger6795
    @xo_fidget_acc_xobinger6795 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She wasn't even wearing her seatbelt. Yes ... Very on top of it aren't you lool

  • @Kubulek17
    @Kubulek17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hayleys comments about the cat made me giggle

    • @DRIFT_CORE
      @DRIFT_CORE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "but whos eating dinner of the cat"

    • @battlesister1559
      @battlesister1559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hold on, lemme grab my cat and test something real quick

  • @battlesister1559
    @battlesister1559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "But who is eating dinner off a cat?"
    Is this a challenge? Hold on, lemme just grab my cat and test something real quick

  • @Sam-vf2ww
    @Sam-vf2ww 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I bet Amanda is divorced

  • @musji25022011
    @musji25022011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Just me or 20h cleaning per week sounds reasonable? That's llittle over 2.5h per day. Takes me an hour to do only dishes and sorting washing.. Think i might be watching too much if Filth 😂

    • @shawneetrail9538
      @shawneetrail9538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I know right 😂 I'm no where near an ocd cleaner and not specifically tidy but I clean minimum 4 hours a day 😂

    • @Ellie-ph9un
      @Ellie-ph9un 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It takes you an hour to do dishes and sort washing? You're slow asf

    • @deliraaline
      @deliraaline ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I spent two hours a day just with ordinary househoods and my housd is far from these ocd people

    • @janebrown7231
      @janebrown7231 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I keep thinking that... It really does take a couple of hours a day at LEAST to run a home. One hour just to clean up after cooking, including a dishwasher run. My house would benefit from 3-4 hours a day but I don't have the energy or time.

    • @mutoidliz2320
      @mutoidliz2320 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thinks it's just enough. I'm a SAHM and need to spend from 9AM to school run cleaning ,not that anyone in the house ever notices 🤣!

  • @goldappleberry
    @goldappleberry 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The thing is all of them are mental health in different ways

  • @schauschau2552
    @schauschau2552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    damn amanda take a chill pill

  • @samisaher6631
    @samisaher6631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Imagine if Amanda was suspected of murder.. bleach would be a massive red flag 🤣

  • @mrshadenoughofallthis911
    @mrshadenoughofallthis911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s remarkable that the people with OCD making them clean obsessively can’t see that some of the people with filthy homes are also mentally unwell.

  • @crystalawen
    @crystalawen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hats off to Mark !! Great guy

  • @unknown-ge6cm
    @unknown-ge6cm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mark's voice is sooo sweet

  • @dianabalvinova
    @dianabalvinova 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Children have rights to live in a clean place.Until children are not able to clean,mother must clean.If people had less staff,than was easier to clean.

    • @johannas.l.brushane2518
      @johannas.l.brushane2518 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Especially nowadays, we have electronics and fabrics in our homes that are treated flameretardant chemichals that gradually evaporates and attach to dust so if you have kids or pets who play in floorlevel it's wise to vacum quite frequently.

    • @alison2984
      @alison2984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree my house is regularly decluttered so it's easy to clean and I tidy the full house daily (only the toys are a mess but put away at the end of the day)
      And do a full clean every few days - all bedrooms surfaces cleaned, beds changed, bathroom cleaned, Kitchen full clean, living room surfaces cleaned, full house hover and mopping it only takes me 1 hr to do because I keep on top of it

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also the children should be learning to clean as well, it's such an important life skill.

  • @EIH4009
    @EIH4009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m glad I watched till the end it pays not to judge people to quickly

  • @brini2439
    @brini2439 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Amanda is the devil... to her children as well as to Jeanine! She definitely needs professional help

  • @laurieroth2094
    @laurieroth2094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    poisoning her kids with chemical cleaners is NOT good practice

  • @emmiejo68
    @emmiejo68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Amanda is like a cross between Stacy dooley and Catherine Tate

  • @onlyme1373
    @onlyme1373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "I've worked hard to get these things"
    Didn't they say she doesn't work because of "health reasons" she's on disability benefits, she doesn't work for that stuff

    • @CW1971
      @CW1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They said she hasn't worked for about 5 years, therefore presumably she worked before that paying into the system and contributed to the payments she's now receiving

    • @Queen-of-Swords
      @Queen-of-Swords 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Having chronic illness makes it very hard to do your cleaning, although I have employed cleaners for things I couldn't do. And guess what, some of them were complete c**ts, and because they could not see a disability (I have arthritis, chronic migraine, sleep disorders and psoriasis which is usually beneath clothes) they believed I was not really disabled. Let's just say, I got through a LOT of cleaners.

  • @mitalichinmulgund8679
    @mitalichinmulgund8679 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    True, there's no excuse for a dirty house unless you are struggling with an illness, but children need to be exposed to bacteria. Otherwise they will grow up to be sick frequently

  • @MegaJacko4
    @MegaJacko4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I mean its important to clean but allowing your house to get messy from time to time isn't gonna kill you. Spend your time on what's most important. Life is to short for that.

    • @djlivvy46
      @djlivvy46 ปีที่แล้ว

      But the people on these programmes literally haven't cleaned for years or even decades!

  • @jo7449
    @jo7449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mark is a true diamond

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    COULD NOT AGREE MORE, IT IS LAZYNESS.

  • @itszenbaby
    @itszenbaby 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It really doesn’t help having such openly rude and ignorant people to ‘help’ with cleaning/decluttering someones home. Especially that lady who was talking down to the other mum as if she was superior to her. I understand it is not their mess to clear and they are doing someone a favour, but you never know the situation or medical history concerning the messy person, and being rude because they just assume the root cause is laziness doesn’t make the experience helpful and just causes more stress. Having a messy home is embarrassing for anyone whether they like to admit it or not. And let’s face it, bleaching your house after you have a guest or wiping your countertops 10x a day is completely obsessive and excessive, not to mention a waste of time. Germs (good and bad) are everywhere and a little exposure strengthens your immune system. Both sides have a lot to learn and none of these people are perfect.

  • @doonewatts7155
    @doonewatts7155 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Every time Mark went into her bedroom Jeannie lay provocatively across her bed. He doesn't look like a babe magnet he must have strong pheremones. Seriously he was kind and did a cracking job

  • @sicooper4230
    @sicooper4230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    "I don't like Dettol"
    "Am I bovered?"

  • @yandereskitty
    @yandereskitty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would be DEVASTATED If my mum tossed out my sentimental items. Even if they don't get used. They have memories. Like, I have a toy dog that I had as an infant. I don't play with him anymore. But he's part of my memories. If mum had to toss him I would have been utterly upset.
    Amanda needs to relax. Stop being controlling and unwind.

  • @ConnorAdventure
    @ConnorAdventure 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Seeing them swab that cat, it makes me wonder how clean they are themselves. I would be very curious to know what the bacteria count is on their skin, or my own for that matter.

  • @sarahgibbs6860
    @sarahgibbs6860 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I needed this today xx

  • @daveogmiles6823
    @daveogmiles6823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This has made me start cleaning most of the day