I live in America and I have noticed that if I wear colors people don’t look at me half as much as if I was to wear all black. To avoid stares it’s better to wear colors in certain areas. Go with the norm of that area as to not stand out.
Assalamu aleykum In my country (Uzbekistan) wearing dark colors is extravagant and everybody starts looking at such hijabis. So my parents tell me to wear light colored ones such as green, mint, white, light blue. It's common and normal, in this way people don't stare like when I'm wearing black abaya. I hope this is permissible
yes because usually, the point of wearing a black abaya is that it is usually what people wear and won't attract attention to you, but if you live in a place where light colors are the norm then wear these light colors as they wont attract attenttion
I don’t fully like the inclination that the hijabs purpose is to not draw attention to oneself - because that is negated when you live in a non-Muslim country, where most women do not wear the hijab and by consequence, every hijabi automatically draws attention to herself. By that logic, we would have to take the hijab off, which obviously is not the case. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying the Shaykh is wrong, I just think that NOT drawing attention to yourself is not or at least not the main purpose of the hijab.
The purpose IS to de attract and remove attention from urself. Even in an nisa 34 Allah forbids women from stomping loudly when walking, why? Cause it draws attention and its for the same reason that high heels and even loud jewelry is not allowed to have even under your clothes, since it makes sound and draws attention. Allah ta’la even commands women to stay at home in al ahzab 33 unless she has a need or necessity to go out, because the less a women is seen, the better. Even in al ahzab 53 Allah swt tells the wives of the prophet ﷺ to be completely behind a barrier when his companions visit, and this ruling is for all women, the asl of the hijab is to be hidden. Fatima bint Muhammed RA said: the best of women do not see men and is not seen by men Prophet ﷺ said in a hadith: Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688. Even if u live in a non muslim country, u couldnt possibly tell me that wearing a hijab draws more attention than if u were half naked. Even so, the stares are because of hijab being strange to them, its not a stare of lust and attraction, which would have happened if you were half naked
@@KJ-iz3eq, there's nothing in shariah which "prohibits" wearing colours other than black. And the sheikh said the same. You need to improve your English grammar / comprehension, perhaps. The only thing sheikh emphasizes is that it's better in some places and at some times to wear darker colors which don't draw attention.
@@StrongMajor1178 Why are you here then? Are you yourself a Shaykh or a Scholar or something that you are behaving in this manner? Who are you to disapprove? Do not mislead people along with you.
@@sobanbabbar2451 im telling the truth., its the truth you are being brainwashed by extremist muslims who make up random and non existant rules about islam
@@coloringformsI’m from Egypt, and I wear a black abaya and hijab. Alhamduliah, but whenever I go everyone stares. And has even made fun of it even, saying things like “where’s the funeral?”
In Africa, we are people of bright colours and if you were anything black people are gonna stare at you until you're out of sight, wearing colour means you're gonna blend in with everyone.
I used to wear only black but with time I realised that wearing floral abaya is more concealing than plan one so now I use the colour blocking technique to hide the shape of my body.
Hear the Sheikh properly people, wearing the colourful abayas that are stand out will attract attention and Allah has forbid that. So, wear colours that are not stand-out and attracts attention. Don't make it so hard.
What I have understand by this video is The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect women ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching and it is modest in color. For example any nude or pastel or even white colored abayas. The shaikh said it is culture in arab to wear black abayas, but Allah and the Quran didn't give any restrictions in colored abayas as long as it is modest and not eye catching. In western countries if any women wear black abaya, it is also eye catching isn't it and it contradict this topic!! So wear abayas in the same as the society and environment you live in and that's how it will not be eye catching. But like red, pink, bright yellow if you can avoid those colors then you are fine😊😊. Correct me if I am wrong!!
But in today's generation there is no colour that can stop men to look at woman , infact black attracts 10 times more men than the normal colours . What should we women do now ? What should we wear ?
You should wear what makes you feel you are being modest. Allah has given you the gift of free will, knowledge, and guidance. This is what separates us from animals. Use your gift and decide for yourself, what makes you feel you are being modest? Modest means: you are not flaunting what you have. The only rule for clothing is to cover your genitals and your breasts (unless you are an elderly woman, in which case you're exempt) and except in certain company. You have a lot of freedom for what to wear. Don't let people mislead you and take away your freedoms, that is an oppression on you against your human rights.
Assalamualaikum everyone here❤ I read most comments on colors... There's one thing i understood from this video and also telling all of you so that no one will make false incorrect rules by themselves! . . . If you live in a country where people don't get attract towards black then wear it...! And if you're living in a country where if you wear black and people might stare at you then wear normal colors But not so vibrant... People who are saying colors don't attract attention also knew that they are wrong!! COLORS ATTRACT...and people who are saying when we wear black people see us but not with other colors....so they need to know that THERE'S A CLEAR DIFFERENCE IN STARING AND GETTING ATTRACT.❤ And people who are demanding to provide hadith and ayat on colors, need to know that there are some matters Allah didn't mentioned in Quran but set his beloved Prophet and his wives example Infront of us to learn from them....❤ So please everyone watch your words and don't make your own rules...!
The Kur'an sent one specific line instructing the wives of the prophet about certain clothing. Are you the wife of the prophet? Estafurla, no you are not. Therefore, that rule does not apply to you. Stop peddling your oppression onto other women and acting as if it is normal or desired by Allah. It is not normal and it is not desired by Allah. İslam is a religion against oppression and Allah desires it to be easy for us and to have no compulsion. Allah states in the Kur'an that it is the highest shirk to forbid what is not forbidden and to enjoin what is forbidden. You are actively helping spread lies about the religion, which is forbidden, and you are placing limits that are not in the Kur'an, which is also forbidden. You are transgressing and oppressing and misleading. Regarding Hadith: most Hadith is not credible. And good luck on judgment day when Allah questions you and says, why didn't you follow my guidance? And your answer is, oh, I saw some man write a Hadith and other people were following it, so I thought I should, too. Allah will ask you what you did with your knowledge.
one of the intentions of hijab it should not draw attention of others, so in some country, wearing black may stand out if the people in the country are wearing clothes with various colours, instead, wearing colours may get less attention
This makes me feel like everything will be my fault. Men staring, talking, and whatever it might be. Is it really that difficult to be happy muslim women? I wear long dresses (I love it) but my dresses are sparkly and colorful. I’m extremely picky about what I wear and not wear. I want to feel like a queen inside the house and outside. I don’t have the intention of attracting or wanting people to look at me. After hearing this, it makes me question my own worth. Maybe I may end up in Jahanam because I chose to wear clothes which attracted men.
Subhaanah Allah sister. Why would you say you may end up in Jahannama or you question your worth because of what this sheikh is saying? Islam is simple and Allah doesn't intend to make anything difficult for us. Be modest, humble and purify your intentions for Allah alone. Don't condemn yourself because some sheikh choose to tell you, even if you're modest, a certain color is problematic. Men are also commanded by Allah to lower their gaze. So if they choose to stare at a woman who is modestly dressed that's on them. Allah instructed us how to dress and not what color to wear or not to wear. I didn't see color mentioned in the quran. Islam is not meant to imprisoned women but some men want to make everything extremely difficult. Islam is not a person or a place and it is perfect.
Sister don't say like this!! It's okay of whatever color Abaya you wear. The is actually trying to say that don't wear anything which looks extremely attractive just like if you will wear neon color things its obviously going to make everybody look at you even girls will stare. So obviously wear whatever Abaya you want. And second Allah will first question to men's that why they haven't lowered their gaze🤷♀️ so don't think that if somebody is staring at you even if you are covered and modest it's your problem NO its their problem, they should worry about their jannat😊
Thank you very much brothers and sisters! May Allah be pleased with you and love you. This kind of messages put ease into my heart. When I listen to knowledgable speakers, I get discouraged because it makes me feel like maybe I am doing something wrong or I am listening to Shaytan more than Allah. At the end of the day, I hope I am on the right path and pleasing the Almighty. May you all be safe! And May Allah reward you for all you do!
A small piece of advice is that not to attract men's attention that's it which color which style U know that's best.Allah is aware of everything so keep on mind and wear those simple abayas ❤
There's a hadeeth that says that when the order for wearing hijab was sent down to the Prophet Muhammad may Allah be pleased with him, and was mentioned to the women companions, they immediately cover themselves with garments that made them look like a crow, black. This is why Arab women mostly choose black for their outer garments. On occasions one though, Aisha was seen wearing red. But black was still predominantly the color of outer garments at that time.
there's a purpose to the abaya. just don't go against that purpose and stuff is permissible. anything that would gain attention of the opposite gender would go against its purpose.
The only reason woman around the prophet tried to go unnoticed was to be safe from the enemy! Also, in Islam, men should refrain from looking at things with a sexual intent. Basically, what is being said here is that women are responsible for the men committing sin or not. If your faith and your self control id so that by seeing red, pink or purple you have inappropriate thought, you have to work on it. No one else is going to be bow to make me do or not do anything but my faith and my heart!
@@sayem1337 there are so many other important issues regarding our Iman. His daughter/ wife/ sister can ask for herself. Why would the color of an abaya be an issue anyway?
@@sayem1337 this is not a critical thinking issue but seems to permeate social media that men are so concerned about how women dress, it’s not just this question. Men are commenting on women’s videos to criticize dress and that is my issue since you seem to care. That is why I commented . I do not see this the other way around. My question would be as an ummah can we focus on bigger issues, other than clothes.
really depends is it attracting male gaze because if it is a norm, every woman has it but try to avoid it and keep it simple i am not a scholar and not giving a fatwa that is something i would do to stay on the safe side
I myself wear black abbaya, so one time i was outside shopping i saw a sister wearing red 🍒 cherry red colour Abaya, which actually drew my attention instantly, it tempted me as a woman, i thought that's a beautiful colour I'll definitely add it to my collection of abayas, but then all of my abayas are black then this kind of thought can erupt in our mind i as a woman is feeling this then a man can too get attracted and keep glancing over you for the colour of Abaya, so it's not wrong but try to adopt to black it really doesn't attract attention at all.
Lower your gaze An-Nur 30-31 No one should be held responsible for another person’s behavior, thoughts or actions! We are all held accountable for our own actions, and “his” or “here” behavior made me do things does not fly with god!!! God and his words are enough for me! Our relationship with god is designed to be uniq to each one of us! I don’t have to follow the interpretation of one person or another of how the female around Prophet Mohammad behaved 1400 years ago!!! This kind of talk are what I have to constantly explain to none Muslims, as how none of this mamba Jamba is actually is what god or Prophet Mohammad preached!!!
I was wondering as this Shiekh said that the main goal of the abaya is to avoid attention of other men then how the non-mahram boy would fell in love with her to marry her or is the non-mahram allowed to look at hijabi girl face because men are ordered to lower their gaze within the presence of non-mahrams
@@Precious-n4i does the Quran state that we shouldn’t watch pornhub? No. But it’s a logical extension of the things we know By the same principle… let’s look at the purpose of hijab. What is its purpose really? To draw attention away from you. So if you wear really vibrant colors it can catch people’s eye
@ that has nothing to do with wearing black , stop treating trivial matters as if they were that serious. You can not say a particular color should be worn if you do then you are an innovator
@ that has a lot of stuff to do with wearing black. Why are you denying it I don’t get it. Are you claiming the wearing vibrant colors don’t attract more attention??
@@Abdur-Rahman862who’s wearing the hijab? A woman or a man? A woman ofc. Why tf do men think they can discuss things about what a woman can wear. Men will never understand the responsibility of wearing a hijab.
I understand your perspective. There are plenty of woman scholars who say the same thing about women dress code. Feel free to look them up. The reason this man is answering this question (among THOUSANDS of questions on thousands of topics) is because he is an exceptional man with accredited Islamic education.
so it depends on where you go. For example in Saudi culture, the best colour for an abaya is black as everyone is wearing black abayas so of course a coloured abaya would stand out more. And I lived in Saudi before and differently, I feel like I fit in more wearing black. However, if everyone is wearing coloured abayas for example in countries like Emarat or Egypt, a coloured abaya would not draw attention. It would blend in with everyone and therefore draw no attention due to colour. unless the colour is bright red, tiger print, neon green, magenta or similar. Islam did not specify a colour but it told us we should not draw attention to ourselves when dressing modestly, which means the colour depends on the culture and what the norms are on what draws attention. This could be a personal experience only but I live in Canada and I feel wearing a colourful outfit (soft neutral colours) makes me fit in more versus if I wore all black I visually stand out more and I can feel the stares. I feel like black in this case makes you look more elegant thus eyes would turn.
«It’s permissible to wear colorful abaya as long as it’s the norm of the country (not like 🇸🇦 ) and it doesn’t goes against the purpose of hijab » wearing the color he mentioned won’t make anyone “stand out” nobody call out emo people why would they call us out for dark-green and grey abaya😂? Allah 3lem✨
Salam alaikum brother. Thank you for enlightening us abt colour but I have watched several of your video and learned a lot abt different subjects. But some of your videos you said unlike hanafee unlike mathab . For example shape of prayer 5x a day isn’t what you said abt hanafee mathab. As a hanafee mathab member we pray exactly same. Abt abayah hanafee mathab is the most says must be in black for not get attention from outsider brothers other than your mahrem so pls correct your statement. It might be different in your country but hanafees in most of the Muslim countries isn’t different . I am Turkish and wear abayah not even show the face . I suggest you to go Istanbul -fatih-carsamba province. You will see women how they wear . Our mathab not different then other mathab. Because Alhamdollilah we also learn Islam and fiqh from our holy prophet saw Hadith. May Allah guide us all . Amin
Sister, who forbid you to not show your face? I will pray for you, inşallah you will come into the light. Allah does not expect this from you. You are misled.
if ur smart, you'd know that what colours catch the eye would be different depending on where u live, so culture is important to consider, if I were to wear all black abaya in a country where black is not worn as a norm, then I'd likely catch the attention of people, which then would be a bad thing.
Dont wear brighter colour so you look spotted in crowded. Otherwise can wear colours. I have read hadith sahabiya used to wear colour abaya but its shouldn't be bling bling
I live in a multicultural,multi religious country. So In my country the black is the more eye catching colour. If I wear black habaya to public places; I noticed more people stare at me, so if I wear colour habaya it's normally unnoticeable.... So I stuck up with colour habayas 😊
I’m sorry, but speaking a word to two about Palestine won’t do anything to actually help them. So many people do.. Does it do anything?. Not really. Everyone knows what is happening there. So it’s no use really discussing it here.
Ulema have to say that wear black wear Abaya as people use to take some points from ulema and they now start wearing colorful Abaya due to some comfort zone
It is important that the clothing does not emphasize her body. It should be as inconspicuous as possible (by the way, it is not allowed for men to present their bodies either!!! see sunnah of the Prophet sav), the color is secondary, preferably muted colors. I have also heard from a sheik that the Prophet sav does not like the black clothes. Christians often wear black, especially at funerals and other important events. Many countries are multicultural, so the black abaya is much more noticeable!
i have a questio n if your in a place where women where lots of colors like pink red and other vibrant ones and you know that if you wear black you will gain attention is it permissible to wear vibrant colors in these situations
Yes, the main purpose of wearing hijab is to not stand out or attract men, therefore logically if you live in an area where wearing black clothes isn't common or normal (and thus it attracts people's attention) then you should wear what the range of colors that are normal there in order to not stand out
@@maryamsalah135Please be careful with your words. Hijab does not mean abaya. Hijab is not in the Kur'an in reference to women (read your Kur'an) - hijab refers to a metaphysical barrier, such as between Solomon and his horses, or between the people on their way to heaven and those on their way to hell, as in the Heights. The abaya is a construct out of oppressive Arab culture, and it is not İslam. Women are under suggestion (not an order) in the Kur'an to wear a jilbab (and outer coat) to identify themselves as Muslim to trigger protection in areas that may be unsafe. Separately, the wives of the prophet were instructed to wear specific clothing, which does not apply to any woman alive today because none of us are wives of the prophet.
The point of your clothing is not about attracting or hiding from attention. The Kur'an says it is for purposes of modesty. That is all. You are not supposed to act in a manner that is too sexual, which encourages zina. That is all. Putting the two together, your clothing should not in itself be an act of zina. That is all. Colors themselves are not sexual and to a normal, rational, healthy person, are not going to tempt or lure a man into sexual thoughts. There is no reason why a healthy person will see a cherry red bedsheet and think, oh yes, sex, let me think of sex. That makes no sense. You are oppressing yourself and allowing men to oppress you by putting burdens on you that do not belong on your shoulders. If you are already taking the step to wear an abaya, that is more than what is required of you for fulfilling the rule of modesty. I caution you that if you go too far with this, you are training and encouraging men to not control their own nefs, and worse, you are encouraging a social norm that puts all women at risk of danger, because men believe that a woman who is not dressed in this all-black sheet are somehow complicit in their rape. This is wrong. Wear what makes you feel modest, and put your faith in Allah. Remember Al Fatiha: we turn only to Allah for guidance.
@@DullahNoor so you're telling me that I, as a Muslim hijabi, am being oppressed? I'm actually not. I wore it out of my free will without getting forced to wear it. Men need to lower their gaze in all cases, whether the women are covered up or not.
All colors are okay. You should cover your breasts (elderly women are exempt) and your genital region. There is absolutely no basis in the Kur'an for anything else that this man is saying. He is making a false God of himself and oppressing women.
According to a study, the least attractive colors to men for women to wear are neutral yellow and yellowish olive green. Could these be the best colors for hijab? And there's such a thing as Universal Camouflage Pattern
@@davidskolik5303 Who made the study of pyschology? Humans Why should I care what a bunch of humans say about the beautiful relationship between God and man. God is the supreme, I am not following a bunch of sheep. I am following the creator himself.
@@davidskolik5303 The Quran made prophecies that came true and are confirmed by non-Islamic history The Romans have been defeated in a nearby land.1 Yet following their defeat, they will triumph within three to nine years.1 The ˹whole˺ matter rests with God before and after ˹victory˺. And on that day the believers will rejoice at the victory willed by God. He gives victory to whoever He wills. For He is the Almighty, Most Merciful ˹This is˺ the promise of God. ˹And˺ God never fails in His promise. But most people do not know. Quran: Surah Arrum
Predicted the outcome of a battle, Predicted a very unlikely outcome since the Byzantine Romans were just destroyed so them winning after such a short period was very unlikely, Even better predicted when it will happen, and the best part is calling this prophecy "The Promise of God" who has this much confidence to call a very specific random guess the Promise of God, especially if he were a false Prophet why would he risk his authority by making a random guess like that? en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Byzantine%E2%80%93Sasanian_War_of_602%E2%80%93628
Here in subcontinent region, even if you are wearing a full black burqa men stare at you like deer in headlights. They have no concept of 'lowering the gaze' and they keep looking as if they have x-ray vision. Those who want to stare will always stare and those who know about true islamic values don't. avoiding going outside is not possible as sometimes you need to go out. Like for example when you need to go to the doctor. But thank you for clarifying this.
Yeah, it depends on the region. I am from Indonesia. If i wear full black in a big city like Jakarta, it's okay and will not draw attention (jakarta is more diverse, you can find people with colorfull outfit also people with monochrom outfit). However, if i go to village, if i wear full black, i would definitely be the talk of the town 😅
Sister, you are being misled. This person is telling lies about the religion - please read your Kur'an. There are only three verses dealing with women's clothes. There are much more dealing with men's behavior and there are also verses about the beauty of diversity, of colors, and of nature. Allah means beauty. You are allowed to wear colors and you can choose for yourself what "modesty" means to you. Allah will ask you, you individually, what you did with your mind and knowledge and the revelations he gave you. That means you, specifically you, must go and read the Kur'an and think for yourself about what it means to you. Do not take the easy way of following some person online simply because he has followers. The Pharaoh also had followers. The corrupt kings of Ad, Thamud, and Lot also had followers. Allah says the worst shirk is to be a false God and to forbid what is not forbidden, which is what this man is doing. Please read the Kur'an, wake up, and think for yourself.
The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching. For example any nude or pastel colored abayas. But like red, pink, bright yellow you can avoid those colors then you are fine.
Hiii everyone I have a question if u don’t mind. So if any of u guys know is it ok for a women to wear like a black abaya that has glitter or rhinestones??
The colour of the Abaya that we should wear should be the least we should worry about! Try perfecting your deen by loving one another for the sake of ALLAH and give your brother what you want for your self. Don’t oppress! Protect and be kind to the poor and the weak. Don’t steal,hurt, kill or even badmouth anyone and do what Allah commanded you to do worshipping only him alone. If you do this ALLAH ❤ will protect you and forgive your shortcomings! Salam😁. Ooh 🙄how can I forget? Keep smiling 😃 that is sadaqa.
So, men's r always in temptation.what a shame.in countries where it's extremely hot and humidity factors, black is terrible to wear,it absorbs more heat, better wear white,why it's always about what other's think and not about us.sometimes change is needed, this is issue,it not about culture,it comes down to science and comfort.
Exaggeration is also a subject 🤣 Not that long ago I heard one woman tell another that if you wear nikab and tie around your head instead of inside and the shape of your head shows is wrong! 🤔 I want to know who doesn’t know that everyone’s heads man or woman is round? So my answer to what colour of Abaya one should wear is whatever will be pleasing to Allah and you next. Who cares what one wears around the continent? I fallow the scripture not the people. ALLAH ❤️ knows best and may ALLAH forgive our shortcomings. Ameen.
I wear dark blue abbaya as I like that colour and in my country women wears black or coloured both abbaya........what I thought in black definitely I am not looking attractive and no one. Notice me ...but since I like dark blue so I bought that. ....ohhh what to do ???
Assalam-o-Alaikum Please don't stop praying for Palestine🇵🇸 Pray in your 5 daily prayers in tahajjud , fast, donate What ever you can do, do it Ppl of Gaza need us, our prayers, help Remember on the day of judgement you will not only be questioned for your salah and fasting we have to ans ppl of Palestine as well. And don't forget Dr. Afiya Siddiqui what's happening with her today is unimaginable and beyond tolerance they are literally harassing her sexually as a punishment like what... how can they do such things??where is humanity don't forget her in your dua #justiceforDrAfiyaSiddiqui They will ask us that what we did for them What will we answer ? Are we preparing ourselves for that so that we will be able to ans them? Prepare your self brother and sisters You have to answer one day in front of Allah Jazakh Allahu Khairan ❤
@@ThamizhiAaseevagaractually, white reflects the radiant heat from the ground and the thermal energy a human body produces. Flowy black is the way to go🤓
it's fine to wear any color. it's an abaya, and you're fully covered so no man would lust for a color cuz that's ridiculous. the attention you'll get is, as he said, is because of the cultural difference.
How exactly do you differentiate people's stare out of lust or stare out of interest or admiration, anger, fear etc etc? Not always you have other cues like facial expressions, what you have is their own outfit for you to better judge their mentality and based on that you guess their perspective on you. People are going to stare eventually for whatever reason. It's about statistics, I think us trying to decrease the chances of stares out of lust is what actually God wants. I am already hiding all my provocative parts, It's unfair for me to be responsible for people's interest, curiosity, hate ... too. And my God is fair. I'd say he would expect the other party to look away. I've done my part.
Sheikh Ji AOA, Wear an abaya which does not draw attention, so jewel colors like Red, Emerald, Royal Blue all bright colors attract attention . These days Black is adorned with net, silk, ribbons, laces, cutwork, crystal and embroidery and what not designs and embellishments ! So even Black is not serving the purpose any more . ALAS!! the less simple and over decorated and panels, cuts makes it more expensive and higher class!! Pls ladies...wear simple Abayas in sober colors with simple design or fine trimming. Not as a show piece.
A civilized society is where a person can do, think and dress in their own fashion as long as no laws are broken and does not harm or infringe on the rights of others. Quite simple, actually.
@@davidskolik5303 Okay so you gave a definition based on your opinion, I don't agree with your definition. A civilised society is a one that follows God's commands. Which definition is right? Yours or mine? if you say yours is the right definition then that's just an opinion. keyword: stop using subjective criteria to judge others
Nope, in civilised societies, your women are sexualised. Look at women’s clothing, it is revealing, and it is revealing to attract the attention of males. If that is civilised.. keep it to yourself-
It is the men problem. They should control and hold themselves. Allah has made this world colourful and beautiful. In any way, they want to limit women. Lovely ladies wear whatever colour you like.
What if you are not yet MARRİED and as a young lady you'd like to not only attract a husband but wish to save your black abaya and white eşarp for when you are married
Nowday women are not too modest event those that are covered..a lot of them wear dresses that outline their body or they wear belts and necks are showing, their hair is sometimes showing, they wear tons of makeup
This man playing God. He is creating rules and expect us to follow his feeling and personal rules. People like this guy push other people away from Islam. The goal is to dress modestly and cover the bodies in order to respect oneself and others. Islam means peace, and submission to God.
nope thats not something he made up it is said by Allah that it should not be something that draws attention before coming to comment on someone go get some information
And how Islamic is it to bash each other disrespectfully even if you have difference of opinion. Your opinion may differ from sheikh because you may be more knowledgeable but he is still spreading the word of Islam so how is it right to disrespect him
Agree. We may all have different interpretation and understanding but we all have one mission and that is to obey ALLAH s.w.t to best of our capacity and WE as muslims, we should respect one another and spread kindness and peace. Salam to all.
I live in America and I have noticed that if I wear colors people don’t look at me half as much as if I was to wear all black. To avoid stares it’s better to wear colors in certain areas. Go with the norm of that area as to not stand out.
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I feel like a pink abaya is going to draw a lot more female gazes then male.
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@@masdi727cuz pink, goes with everything
exactly!! But i dress for myself and i like color.
@@masdi727cause pink slays💅🏼
I think the goal is to not stand out, so wearing something that's the norm in your country should be fine.
You must cover up properly
If Quran and hadith has said something your ifs and buts opinions doesn't matter
@@hassanwaheed9026 it is mandatory for a women to cover up properly and … and a man must cover its awra too
The question is not the hijab but the color you asshole
Assalamu aleykum
In my country (Uzbekistan) wearing dark colors is extravagant and everybody starts looking at such hijabis. So my parents tell me to wear light colored ones such as green, mint, white, light blue. It's common and normal, in this way people don't stare like when I'm wearing black abaya. I hope this is permissible
Im my country (South Africa) the women are now wearing very colourful and bright clothes. You can even buy Hijabs with glitter!
yes because usually, the point of wearing a black abaya is that it is usually what people wear and won't attract attention to you, but if you live in a place where light colors are the norm then wear these light colors as they wont attract attenttion
@@maryooma-7745 Yeah
You are from Uzbekistan?
im a non hijabi and 😭 i look at black abayas of women and it caughts attention mann
So basically, anything you feel would draw the attention of others to you is not appreciated.
Yes
Yeah that's what I understood too
Yes and isn't he also wearing red?
I don’t fully like the inclination that the hijabs purpose is to not draw attention to oneself - because that is negated when you live in a non-Muslim country, where most women do not wear the hijab and by consequence, every hijabi automatically draws attention to herself. By that logic, we would have to take the hijab off, which obviously is not the case. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying the Shaykh is wrong, I just think that NOT drawing attention to yourself is not or at least not the main purpose of the hijab.
The clothing is to blend as best as we can, if we cant, then we are settong the example
The lesson was for muslim societies not non-Muslim.
The purpose of hijab is to be identified as a Muslim and protected from harm
The purpose IS to de attract and remove attention from urself. Even in an nisa 34 Allah forbids women from stomping loudly when walking, why? Cause it draws attention and its for the same reason that high heels and even loud jewelry is not allowed to have even under your clothes, since it makes sound and draws attention. Allah ta’la even commands women to stay at home in al ahzab 33 unless she has a need or necessity to go out, because the less a women is seen, the better. Even in al ahzab 53 Allah swt tells the wives of the prophet ﷺ to be completely behind a barrier when his companions visit, and this ruling is for all women, the asl of the hijab is to be hidden.
Fatima bint Muhammed RA said: the best of women do not see men and is not seen by men
Prophet ﷺ said in a hadith: Woman is ‘awrah, and if she goes out, the shaytaan raises his hopes (of misguiding her). She is never closer to Allaah than when she stays in her house.” Narrated by Ibn Hibbaan and Ibn Khuzaymah; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Shaheehah, no. 2688.
Even if u live in a non muslim country, u couldnt possibly tell me that wearing a hijab draws more attention than if u were half naked. Even so, the stares are because of hijab being strange to them, its not a stare of lust and attraction, which would have happened if you were half naked
I understand what you mean 100% people will look but not in a lustful way which is why we cover and protect ourselves.
Yes they are permissble. Women can wear whatever color they want along as its modest
@zain1132 didn't you just hear the sheikh or were you watching muted ?
@@KJ-iz3eq I don't care what the sheikh says. Women can wear any color they want
@@KJ-iz3eq, there's nothing in shariah which "prohibits" wearing colours other than black. And the sheikh said the same. You need to improve your English grammar / comprehension, perhaps.
The only thing sheikh emphasizes is that it's better in some places and at some times to wear darker colors which don't draw attention.
@@StrongMajor1178 Why are you here then? Are you yourself a Shaykh or a Scholar or something that you are behaving in this manner? Who are you to disapprove? Do not mislead people along with you.
@@sobanbabbar2451 im telling the truth., its the truth you are being brainwashed by extremist muslims who make up random and non existant rules about islam
In egypt black was kind of eye-catching more than bright colours, but this changed a bit now
What Egypt are you living in sister ? 😂
In Cairo, we all wearing black. It's NOT eye-catching at all.
@@coloringforms You don’t know how to read. Key word, this has changed a bit now.
@@lanilaura90 "a bit now" is he talking about egypt in 1975? Cause between 1999-2024 all i've seen there is BLACK. so what does "before" refering to?
@@coloringformsI’m from Egypt, and I wear a black abaya and hijab. Alhamduliah, but whenever I go everyone stares. And has even made fun of it even, saying things like “where’s the funeral?”
Yeah, in my country, if you wear all black abaya and niqab, you’ll attract more attention since it’s so different from how people dress here.
In Africa, we are people of bright colours and if you were anything black people are gonna stare at you until you're out of sight, wearing colour means you're gonna blend in with everyone.
I used to wear only black but with time I realised that wearing floral abaya is more concealing than plan one so now I use the colour blocking technique to hide the shape of my body.
Hear the Sheikh properly people, wearing the colourful abayas that are stand out will attract attention and Allah has forbid that. So, wear colours that are not stand-out and attracts attention. Don't make it so hard.
What I have understand by this video is The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect women ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching and it is modest in color. For example any nude or pastel or even white colored abayas. The shaikh said it is culture in arab to wear black abayas, but Allah and the Quran didn't give any restrictions in colored abayas as long as it is modest and not eye catching. In western countries if any women wear black abaya, it is also eye catching isn't it and it contradict this topic!! So wear abayas in the same as the society and environment you live in and that's how it will not be eye catching. But like red, pink, bright yellow if you can avoid those colors then you are fine😊😊. Correct me if I am wrong!!
But in today's generation there is no colour that can stop men to look at woman , infact black attracts 10 times more men than the normal colours . What should we women do now ? What should we wear ?
Any color is fine
You should wear what makes you feel you are being modest. Allah has given you the gift of free will, knowledge, and guidance. This is what separates us from animals. Use your gift and decide for yourself, what makes you feel you are being modest? Modest means: you are not flaunting what you have. The only rule for clothing is to cover your genitals and your breasts (unless you are an elderly woman, in which case you're exempt) and except in certain company. You have a lot of freedom for what to wear. Don't let people mislead you and take away your freedoms, that is an oppression on you against your human rights.
Stay home. That's what you should have been doing in the first place.
@@theemirofjaffa2266 wtf no women do not have to be imprisoned at home
@@theemirofjaffa2266yea right so our husbands can watch women who do be outside and not at home… very clever
Assalamualaikum everyone here❤
I read most comments on colors...
There's one thing i understood from this video and also telling all of you so that no one will make false incorrect rules by themselves!
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If you live in a country where people don't get attract towards black then wear it...!
And if you're living in a country where if you wear black and people might stare at you then wear normal colors But not so vibrant...
People who are saying colors don't attract attention also knew that they are wrong!!
COLORS ATTRACT...and people who are saying when we wear black people see us but not with other colors....so they need to know that
THERE'S A CLEAR DIFFERENCE IN STARING AND GETTING ATTRACT.❤
And people who are demanding to provide hadith and ayat on colors, need to know that there are some matters Allah didn't mentioned in Quran but set his beloved Prophet and his wives example Infront of us to learn from them....❤
So please everyone watch your words and don't make your own rules...!
The Kur'an sent one specific line instructing the wives of the prophet about certain clothing. Are you the wife of the prophet? Estafurla, no you are not. Therefore, that rule does not apply to you. Stop peddling your oppression onto other women and acting as if it is normal or desired by Allah. It is not normal and it is not desired by Allah. İslam is a religion against oppression and Allah desires it to be easy for us and to have no compulsion. Allah states in the Kur'an that it is the highest shirk to forbid what is not forbidden and to enjoin what is forbidden. You are actively helping spread lies about the religion, which is forbidden, and you are placing limits that are not in the Kur'an, which is also forbidden. You are transgressing and oppressing and misleading. Regarding Hadith: most Hadith is not credible. And good luck on judgment day when Allah questions you and says, why didn't you follow my guidance? And your answer is, oh, I saw some man write a Hadith and other people were following it, so I thought I should, too. Allah will ask you what you did with your knowledge.
What about staying in those countries where that is the rule? Civilized countries are not to everyone.
Allahuma Barik ❤
May Allah guide us and help us to put this in practice
Aameen ❤️
one of the intentions of hijab it should not draw attention of others, so in some country, wearing black may stand out if the people in the country are wearing clothes with various colours, instead, wearing colours may get less attention
Yes depends on where you live
This makes me feel like everything will be my fault. Men staring, talking, and whatever it might be. Is it really that difficult to be happy muslim women? I wear long dresses (I love it) but my dresses are sparkly and colorful. I’m extremely picky about what I wear and not wear. I want to feel like a queen inside the house and outside. I don’t have the intention of attracting or wanting people to look at me.
After hearing this, it makes me question my own worth. Maybe I may end up in Jahanam because I chose to wear clothes which attracted men.
Subhaanah Allah sister. Why would you say you may end up in Jahannama or you question your worth because of what this sheikh is saying? Islam is simple and Allah doesn't intend to make anything difficult for us. Be modest, humble and purify your intentions for Allah alone. Don't condemn yourself because some sheikh choose to tell you, even if you're modest, a certain color is problematic. Men are also commanded by Allah to lower their gaze. So if they choose to stare at a woman who is modestly dressed that's on them. Allah instructed us how to dress and not what color to wear or not to wear. I didn't see color mentioned in the quran. Islam is not meant to imprisoned women but some men want to make everything extremely difficult. Islam is not a person or a place and it is perfect.
Sister don't say like this!! It's okay of whatever color Abaya you wear. The is actually trying to say that don't wear anything which looks extremely attractive just like if you will wear neon color things its obviously going to make everybody look at you even girls will stare. So obviously wear whatever Abaya you want. And second Allah will first question to men's that why they haven't lowered their gaze🤷♀️ so don't think that if somebody is staring at you even if you are covered and modest it's your problem NO its their problem, they should worry about their jannat😊
@@zeenatkhan9337 just thank you for this message
These sheikhs speak for hours and hours about women's clothing but always forget the party about men lowering their gaze.
Thank you very much brothers and sisters! May Allah be pleased with you and love you. This kind of messages put ease into my heart. When I listen to knowledgable speakers, I get discouraged because it makes me feel like maybe I am doing something wrong or I am listening to Shaytan more than Allah. At the end of the day, I hope I am on the right path and pleasing the Almighty. May you all be safe! And May Allah reward you for all you do!
Oh God so also colours can provoke men? 😅💀 please
Maybe men should control themselfs more and not put the responsibility on women
Never found coloured abaya in any way attractive nor the black ones I don't know what sheikh is taking about
@@Andro-qt6hjsome men don’t get sexually attracted to hair, but women still need to wear hijab
THERE IS NO WHERE MENTION ABOUT COLOR IN OUR RELIGION WE ARE ORDERED TO COVER OUR SELF THAT'S IT
Thank you and thank you for the all caps. I hope he gets the message. This is sad....
A small piece of advice is that not to attract men's attention that's it which color which style U know that's best.Allah is aware of everything so keep on mind and wear those simple abayas ❤
@@NikhatFirdose-i7y that is men's problem not women's. Men should control their desires.
There's a hadeeth that says that when the order for wearing hijab was sent down to the Prophet Muhammad may Allah be pleased with him, and was mentioned to the women companions, they immediately cover themselves with garments that made them look like a crow, black. This is why Arab women mostly choose black for their outer garments. On occasions one though, Aisha was seen wearing red. But black was still predominantly the color of outer garments at that time.
there's a purpose to the abaya. just don't go against that purpose and stuff is permissible. anything that would gain attention of the opposite gender would go against its purpose.
I disagree red is just a colour and men will find any reason to give women attention, no mater what they wear.
i totally agree
I disagree, red is a colour proven to be more appeasing to the opposite gender.
Similarly, many women prefer black on the opposite gender.
Wearing dark abya is permissible
It's so good having a sheikh. I don't have to even think anymore.
The only reason woman around the prophet tried to go unnoticed was to be safe from the enemy! Also, in Islam, men should refrain from looking at things with a sexual intent. Basically, what is being said here is that women are responsible for the men committing sin or not. If your faith and your self control id so that by seeing red, pink or purple you have inappropriate thought, you have to work on it. No one else is going to be bow to make me do or not do anything but my faith and my heart!
That's not what he said at all. Both men and women are equally responsible and have to do their parts
Jazakallah Khayr Sheikh
2:40 video starts
Why is this a question? And always asked by men?
Because they can’t help themselves they need treatment
@@Coding5591 sounds like you need help sir stop worrying about women so much
@@sayem1337 there are so many other important issues regarding our Iman. His daughter/ wife/ sister can ask for herself. Why would the color of an abaya be an issue anyway?
@@sayem1337 this is not a critical thinking issue but seems to permeate social media that men are so concerned about how women dress, it’s not just this question. Men are commenting on women’s videos to criticize dress and that is my issue since you seem to care. That is why I commented . I do not see this the other way around.
My question would be as an ummah can we focus on bigger issues, other than clothes.
@@Precious-n4iyou twit I am a woman 😂😂😂😂
What about abaya with some stone details not fully covered in stones but some
No! totally haram cause that's gonna catch more attention.
Thats tabarruj ukhti, it defeats the whole purpose of hijab/modesty/niqab
really depends is it attracting male gaze because if it is a norm, every woman has it but try to avoid it and keep it simple i am not a scholar and not giving a fatwa that is something i would do to stay on the safe side
@@wardahbinteammarany beautiful woman is gonna attract the male gaze
@@bintqamarHaram? do you know how big this word is, at least say makruh, the word Haram is absolutely big not made to use for small things like this
I myself wear black abbaya, so one time i was outside shopping i saw a sister wearing red 🍒 cherry red colour Abaya, which actually drew my attention instantly, it tempted me as a woman, i thought that's a beautiful colour I'll definitely add it to my collection of abayas, but then all of my abayas are black then this kind of thought can erupt in our mind i as a woman is feeling this then a man can too get attracted and keep glancing over you for the colour of Abaya, so it's not wrong but try to adopt to black it really doesn't attract attention at all.
You're a woman, of course you would be tempted to buy it as you also can wear it, it's different for men
Lower your gaze An-Nur 30-31
No one should be held responsible for another person’s behavior, thoughts or actions! We are all held accountable for our own actions, and “his” or “here” behavior made me do things does not fly with god!!! God and his words are enough for me! Our relationship with god is designed to be uniq to each one of us! I don’t have to follow the interpretation of one person or another of how the female around Prophet Mohammad behaved 1400 years ago!!! This kind of talk are what I have to constantly explain to none Muslims, as how none of this mamba Jamba is actually is what god or Prophet Mohammad preached!!!
Jazakumullahu khairan
I was wondering as this Shiekh said that the main goal of the abaya is to avoid attention of other men then how the non-mahram boy would fell in love with her to marry her or is the non-mahram allowed to look at hijabi girl face because men are ordered to lower their gaze within the presence of non-mahrams
Dont worry 😂 ..our soulmates are already decided they will their way to you .and our soulmate will love us for our personality not for looks.❤
Assalamualaikum
you can't say that directly to her
instead talk to her mahrams about it inshaAllah
Mai bhi pakistan say hun or shadi ki fikr na kro ,parents issi kaam k liyay hain
Black draws attention too
Not as much
@ really that makes no Sense sounds like innovation to me . Stop trying to add to this religion. Does the Quran state a women must wear black?
@@Precious-n4i does the Quran state that we shouldn’t watch pornhub? No. But it’s a logical extension of the things we know
By the same principle… let’s look at the purpose of hijab. What is its purpose really? To draw attention away from you. So if you wear really vibrant colors it can catch people’s eye
@ that has nothing to do with wearing black , stop treating trivial matters as if they were that serious. You can not say a particular color should be worn if you do then you are an innovator
@ that has a lot of stuff to do with wearing black. Why are you denying it I don’t get it. Are you claiming the wearing vibrant colors don’t attract more attention??
I can not believe men are debating this !
Did a woman come with the Quran?
@@Abdur-Rahman862 who cares who came with the Quran.
Women in seniority / leadership positions should be debating this. Not men.
@@Cristina6537 he is a sheikh. Womens too can talk about abays , its not haram of course
@@Abdur-Rahman862who’s wearing the hijab? A woman or a man? A woman ofc. Why tf do men think they can discuss things about what a woman can wear. Men will never understand the responsibility of wearing a hijab.
I understand your perspective. There are plenty of woman scholars who say the same thing about women dress code. Feel free to look them up. The reason this man is answering this question (among THOUSANDS of questions on thousands of topics) is because he is an exceptional man with accredited Islamic education.
so it depends on where you go. For example in Saudi culture, the best colour for an abaya is black as everyone is wearing black abayas so of course a coloured abaya would stand out more. And I lived in Saudi before and differently, I feel like I fit in more wearing black. However, if everyone is wearing coloured abayas for example in countries like Emarat or Egypt, a coloured abaya would not draw attention. It would blend in with everyone and therefore draw no attention due to colour. unless the colour is bright red, tiger print, neon green, magenta or similar.
Islam did not specify a colour but it told us we should not draw attention to ourselves when dressing modestly, which means the colour depends on the culture and what the norms are on what draws attention.
This could be a personal experience only but I live in Canada and I feel wearing a colourful outfit (soft neutral colours) makes me fit in more versus if I wore all black I visually stand out more and I can feel the stares. I feel like black in this case makes you look more elegant thus eyes would turn.
WHY ARE ALL OF YOU ARGUING ABOUT THE WORD FROM AISHA RA. WHEN SHE SAYS SHE WEARS BLACK ABAYAS THEN SO DO WE. END OF DISCUSSION!
Jazakallahu khayran
«It’s permissible to wear colorful abaya as long as it’s the norm of the country (not like 🇸🇦 ) and it doesn’t goes against the purpose of hijab » wearing the color he mentioned won’t make anyone “stand out” nobody call out emo people why would they call us out for dark-green and grey abaya😂? Allah 3lem✨
Abaya is Halal, but tight is Haram. I will wear Abaya even in Dubai and all the countries.
Stop preaching what should women wear and mind your own fashion style
This sheikh should be respected for the accredited knowledge he has. May Allah guide us all to the straight path
Salam alaikum brother. Thank you for enlightening us abt colour but I have watched several of your video and learned a lot abt different subjects. But some of your videos you said unlike hanafee unlike mathab . For example shape of prayer 5x a day isn’t what you said abt hanafee mathab. As a hanafee mathab member we pray exactly same. Abt abayah hanafee mathab is the most says must be in black for not get attention from outsider brothers other than your mahrem so pls correct your statement. It might be different in your country but hanafees in most of the Muslim countries isn’t different . I am Turkish and wear abayah not even show the face . I suggest you to go Istanbul -fatih-carsamba province. You will see women how they wear . Our mathab not different then other mathab. Because Alhamdollilah we also learn Islam and fiqh from our holy prophet saw Hadith. May Allah guide us all . Amin
Sister, who forbid you to not show your face? I will pray for you, inşallah you will come into the light. Allah does not expect this from you. You are misled.
"it may or may not be culturally accepted" no one asked about your "culture" the person asked about religion not your personal opinion
if ur smart, you'd know that what colours catch the eye would be different depending on where u live, so culture is important to consider, if I were to wear all black abaya in a country where black is not worn as a norm, then I'd likely catch the attention of people, which then would be a bad thing.
@@ateji1738 I agree with you, some *cough cough* many Muslims need to be open-minded
Dont wear brighter colour so you look spotted in crowded. Otherwise can wear colours. I have read hadith sahabiya used to wear colour abaya but its shouldn't be bling bling
I live in a multicultural,multi religious country. So In my country the black is the more eye catching colour. If I wear black habaya to public places; I noticed more people stare at me, so if I wear colour habaya it's normally unnoticeable.... So I stuck up with colour habayas 😊
Instead of supporting palestine we worry about colors unbelievable
I’m sorry, but speaking a word to two about Palestine won’t do anything to actually help them. So many people do.. Does it do anything?. Not really. Everyone knows what is happening there. So it’s no use really discussing it here.
Ulema have to say that wear black wear Abaya as people use to take some points from ulema and they now start wearing colorful Abaya due to some comfort zone
The clothes worn by Aisha and Ali are on display in Istanbul. Aisha’s abaya was white. Does it even mention a colour in the Koran?
It is important that the clothing does not emphasize her body. It should be as inconspicuous as possible (by the way, it is not allowed for men to present their bodies either!!! see sunnah of the Prophet sav), the color is secondary, preferably muted colors. I have also heard from a sheik that the Prophet sav does not like the black clothes. Christians often wear black, especially at funerals and other important events. Many countries are multicultural, so the black abaya is much more noticeable!
Men need to learn self control!
i have a questio n if your in a place where women where lots of colors like pink red and other vibrant ones and you know that if you wear black you will gain attention is it permissible to wear vibrant colors in these situations
Yes, the main purpose of wearing hijab is to not stand out or attract men, therefore logically if you live in an area where wearing black clothes isn't common or normal (and thus it attracts people's attention) then you should wear what the range of colors that are normal there in order to not stand out
@@maryamsalah135Please be careful with your words. Hijab does not mean abaya. Hijab is not in the Kur'an in reference to women (read your Kur'an) - hijab refers to a metaphysical barrier, such as between Solomon and his horses, or between the people on their way to heaven and those on their way to hell, as in the Heights. The abaya is a construct out of oppressive Arab culture, and it is not İslam. Women are under suggestion (not an order) in the Kur'an to wear a jilbab (and outer coat) to identify themselves as Muslim to trigger protection in areas that may be unsafe. Separately, the wives of the prophet were instructed to wear specific clothing, which does not apply to any woman alive today because none of us are wives of the prophet.
The point of your clothing is not about attracting or hiding from attention. The Kur'an says it is for purposes of modesty. That is all. You are not supposed to act in a manner that is too sexual, which encourages zina. That is all. Putting the two together, your clothing should not in itself be an act of zina. That is all. Colors themselves are not sexual and to a normal, rational, healthy person, are not going to tempt or lure a man into sexual thoughts. There is no reason why a healthy person will see a cherry red bedsheet and think, oh yes, sex, let me think of sex. That makes no sense. You are oppressing yourself and allowing men to oppress you by putting burdens on you that do not belong on your shoulders. If you are already taking the step to wear an abaya, that is more than what is required of you for fulfilling the rule of modesty. I caution you that if you go too far with this, you are training and encouraging men to not control their own nefs, and worse, you are encouraging a social norm that puts all women at risk of danger, because men believe that a woman who is not dressed in this all-black sheet are somehow complicit in their rape. This is wrong. Wear what makes you feel modest, and put your faith in Allah. Remember Al Fatiha: we turn only to Allah for guidance.
i think you are the one who should read better your Qur'an @@DullahNoor
@@DullahNoor so you're telling me that I, as a Muslim hijabi, am being oppressed? I'm actually not. I wore it out of my free will without getting forced to wear it.
Men need to lower their gaze in all cases, whether the women are covered up or not.
Asalaam Alaykum waromatullah wabaroqatuh sir.
Is white color jalibab acceptable as well?
All colors are okay. You should cover your breasts (elderly women are exempt) and your genital region. There is absolutely no basis in the Kur'an for anything else that this man is saying. He is making a false God of himself and oppressing women.
Plz answer this woman can wear jalabi and cover their head and go to Haram for namaz
According to a study, the least attractive colors to men for women to wear are neutral yellow and yellowish olive green. Could these be the best colors for hijab? And there's such a thing as Universal Camouflage Pattern
In free societies, you can wear what you like.
To be a Muslim is to submit to Allah’s commands. That simple.
In psychology, that is referred to as a sado masochistic relationship.
@@davidskolik5303
Who made the study of pyschology? Humans
Why should I care what a bunch of humans say about the beautiful relationship between God and man. God is the supreme, I am not following a bunch of sheep. I am following the creator himself.
@@yossefgamerr3813You obviously care about what other people say. Your “holy” book was written by men.
@@davidskolik5303
The Quran made prophecies that came true and are confirmed by non-Islamic history
The Romans have been defeated in a nearby land.1 Yet following their defeat, they will triumph within three to nine years.1 The ˹whole˺ matter rests with God before and after ˹victory˺. And on that day the believers will rejoice at the victory willed by God. He gives victory to whoever He wills. For He is the Almighty, Most Merciful ˹This is˺ the promise of God. ˹And˺ God never fails in His promise. But most people do not know.
Quran: Surah Arrum
Predicted the outcome of a battle, Predicted a very unlikely outcome since the Byzantine Romans were just destroyed so them winning after such a short period was very unlikely, Even better predicted when it will happen, and the best part is calling this prophecy "The Promise of God" who has this much confidence to call a very specific random guess the Promise of God, especially if he were a false Prophet why would he risk his authority by making a random guess like that?
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Byzantine%E2%80%93Sasanian_War_of_602%E2%80%93628
Not Gonna Lie Wearing Hijab where I’m from causes more attention period
Here in subcontinent region, even if you are wearing a full black burqa men stare at you like deer in headlights. They have no concept of 'lowering the gaze' and they keep looking as if they have x-ray vision. Those who want to stare will always stare and those who know about true islamic values don't. avoiding going outside is not possible as sometimes you need to go out. Like for example when you need to go to the doctor.
But thank you for clarifying this.
But aren't you just supposed to wear dark clothes while mourning.
And I only heard about men not being allowed to wear bright colours
Colored abaya attract people. In my point of view I think black is the best and in our country Pakistan mostly girls wear black which is normal🖤
Yeah, it depends on the region. I am from Indonesia. If i wear full black in a big city like Jakarta, it's okay and will not draw attention (jakarta is more diverse, you can find people with colorfull outfit also people with monochrom outfit). However, if i go to village, if i wear full black, i would definitely be the talk of the town 😅
Jazakallah kheran
I'm wearing black rn,but also wear other colours sometimes
Makes a lot of sense. Definitely food for thought when it comes to my future wardrobe choices
Thank you Sheikh. I shall not buy abaya of bright colour. I was abt to buy online, for eid. Alhamdulillah. Black or any dull colours is for me. 😊
Sister you can wear any color you want, don't listen to these extremists who make up rules about islam
Same I support you@@StrongMajor1178
Sister, you are being misled. This person is telling lies about the religion - please read your Kur'an. There are only three verses dealing with women's clothes. There are much more dealing with men's behavior and there are also verses about the beauty of diversity, of colors, and of nature. Allah means beauty. You are allowed to wear colors and you can choose for yourself what "modesty" means to you. Allah will ask you, you individually, what you did with your mind and knowledge and the revelations he gave you. That means you, specifically you, must go and read the Kur'an and think for yourself about what it means to you. Do not take the easy way of following some person online simply because he has followers. The Pharaoh also had followers. The corrupt kings of Ad, Thamud, and Lot also had followers. Allah says the worst shirk is to be a false God and to forbid what is not forbidden, which is what this man is doing. Please read the Kur'an, wake up, and think for yourself.
The main motive behind wearing abaya is to protect ourselves from catching attention from non marham. You can wear any colored abaya as long as it is not eye catching. For example any nude or pastel colored abayas. But like red, pink, bright yellow you can avoid those colors then you are fine.
May Allah azawajal reward your intention, be careful of those trying to misguide you.
What about white and green abaya ..
Hiii everyone I have a question if u don’t mind. So if any of u guys know is it ok for a women to wear like a black abaya that has glitter or rhinestones??
Can wear such abayas as long as its not too extravagant , with mild glitter and rhinestones here & there (at the abayas) can wear it
Yes you can
Shukran shaik
The colour of the Abaya that we should wear should be the least we should worry about!
Try perfecting your deen by loving one another for the sake of ALLAH and give your brother what you want for your self.
Don’t oppress!
Protect and be kind to the poor and the weak.
Don’t steal,hurt, kill or even badmouth anyone and do what Allah commanded you to do worshipping only him alone.
If you do this ALLAH ❤ will protect you and forgive your shortcomings!
Salam😁.
Ooh 🙄how can I forget? Keep smiling 😃 that is sadaqa.
I am from the Caribbean countries and here if a woman wears a black abaya she is seen more than if she wears a pastel pink abaya.
So, men's r always in temptation.what a shame.in countries where it's extremely hot and humidity factors, black is terrible to wear,it absorbs more heat, better wear white,why it's always about what other's think and not about us.sometimes change is needed, this is issue,it not about culture,it comes down to science and comfort.
Exaggeration is also a subject 🤣 Not that long ago I heard one woman tell another that if you wear nikab and tie around your head instead of inside and the shape of your head shows is wrong!
🤔 I want to know who doesn’t know that everyone’s heads man or woman is round?
So my answer to what colour of Abaya one should wear is whatever will be pleasing to Allah and you next. Who cares what one wears around the continent? I fallow the scripture not the people.
ALLAH ❤️ knows best and may ALLAH forgive our shortcomings. Ameen.
What about the Hadith about a woman wearing green , and speaking to Aisha Rad , about a matter ?
I am using peachy pink and mustard color hijjab and abaya is it ok?
No
Yes
@@CatsAreCute.7 no
@@thething1733 yes
@ no
Allah is beautiful, and he wants us to be beautiful
Be careful, the Shaytan is our enemy. Don’t let one piece of literature outweighs others. May Allah guide us all to the straight path
What about white abaya.???
I wear dark blue abbaya as I like that colour and in my country women wears black or coloured both abbaya........what I thought in black definitely I am not looking attractive and no one. Notice me ...but since I like dark blue so I bought that. ....ohhh what to do ???
Assalam-o-Alaikum
Please don't stop praying for Palestine🇵🇸
Pray in your 5 daily prayers in tahajjud , fast, donate
What ever you can do, do it
Ppl of Gaza need us, our prayers, help
Remember on the day of judgement you will not only be questioned for your salah and fasting we have to ans ppl of Palestine as well.
And don't forget Dr. Afiya Siddiqui what's happening with her today is unimaginable and beyond tolerance they are literally harassing her sexually as a punishment like what... how can they do such things??where is humanity don't forget her in your dua
#justiceforDrAfiyaSiddiqui
They will ask us that what we did for them
What will we answer ?
Are we preparing ourselves for that so that we will be able to ans them?
Prepare your self brother and sisters
You have to answer one day in front of Allah
Jazakh Allahu Khairan ❤
What if it is to prevent the heat?
Black terrible choice to prevent heat, white would be best.
@@ThamizhiAaseevagaractually, white reflects the radiant heat from the ground and the thermal energy a human body produces. Flowy black is the way to go🤓
Better yet, just sit at home and
and in that way you don't have to worry about what to wear
it's fine to wear any color. it's an abaya, and you're fully covered so no man would lust for a color cuz that's ridiculous. the attention you'll get is, as he said, is because of the cultural difference.
How exactly do you differentiate people's stare out of lust or stare out of interest or admiration, anger, fear etc etc?
Not always you have other cues like facial expressions, what you have is their own outfit for you to better judge their mentality and based on that you guess their perspective on you.
People are going to stare eventually for whatever reason. It's about statistics, I think us trying to decrease the chances of stares out of lust is what actually God wants. I am already hiding all my provocative parts, It's unfair for me to be responsible for people's interest, curiosity, hate ... too. And my God is fair. I'd say he would expect the other party to look away. I've done my part.
What if you live in a country where its absolytely not normal to wear abaya and it will only make people stare at you??
Why men all like this
Can woman wear only jalabi and perform thier namaz in haram
Dark colored abayas is acceptable, avoid wearing light colored abayas.
Can Muslim woman wear an Afro?
Sheikh Ji AOA, Wear an abaya which does not draw attention, so jewel colors like Red, Emerald, Royal Blue all bright colors attract attention . These days Black is adorned with net, silk, ribbons, laces, cutwork, crystal and embroidery and what not designs and embellishments ! So even Black is not serving the purpose any more . ALAS!! the less simple and over decorated and panels, cuts makes it more expensive and higher class!! Pls ladies...wear simple Abayas in sober colors with simple design or fine trimming. Not as a show piece.
Elegance is in staying discrete
The Sheikh is right
No color have also attraction must wear black .
Yellow ,red,blue all these colors are attracting
I want to wear white abaya I see my heart wi9
We Malaysian women were colourful abaya n others colours.
In a civilized society, a woman can wear whatever she chooses.
is that an objective statement?
Who gets define what is a "civilisied society"?
Who gets to make the rules here?
God.
A civilized society is where a person can do, think and dress in their own fashion as long as no laws are broken and does not harm or infringe on the rights of others. Quite simple, actually.
@@davidskolik5303
Okay so you gave a definition based on your opinion, I don't agree with your definition.
A civilised society is a one that follows God's commands.
Which definition is right? Yours or mine?
if you say yours is the right definition then that's just an opinion.
keyword: stop using subjective criteria to judge others
Nope, in civilised societies, your women are sexualised. Look at women’s clothing, it is revealing, and it is revealing to attract the attention of males. If that is civilised.. keep it to yourself-
It is the men problem. They should control and hold themselves.
Allah has made this world colourful and beautiful.
In any way, they want to limit women.
Lovely ladies wear whatever colour you like.
Alhamdhullilah, those women's got to go to fajr Salah. Which husband is taking wife to fajr salah?
A dark coloured Abaya would be acceptable because you will not be recognised
I wanna buy from the abayas in the video image 😂
Wear white and you'll be rewarded. Inshallah!
We want freedom from iblees ya allah 🤲🏻 protect us, 😢 protect my daughter, n my son😢
The only time I stared at a muslin woman using clothes like hiyab or burka. was to thanks that I born in South America.
What if you are not yet MARRİED and as a young lady you'd like to not only attract a husband but wish to save your black abaya and white eşarp for when you are married
Nowday women are not too modest event those that are covered..a lot of them wear dresses that outline their body or they wear belts and necks are showing, their hair is sometimes showing, they wear tons of makeup
Thanks😊😊 you
This man playing God. He is creating rules and expect us to follow his feeling and personal rules. People like this guy push other people away from Islam. The goal is to dress modestly and cover the bodies in order to respect oneself and others. Islam means peace, and submission to God.
nope thats not something he made up it is said by Allah that it should not be something that draws attention before coming to comment on someone go get some information
@@Roshany_._5get a brain may Allah guide people like u. Claiming stuff as haram which isn’t haram is a sin
speak for urself get some information about hijab or abaya then call me brainless @@DEe-v2f
And how Islamic is it to bash each other disrespectfully even if you have difference of opinion. Your opinion may differ from sheikh because you may be more knowledgeable but he is still spreading the word of Islam so how is it right to disrespect him
Agree. We may all have different interpretation and understanding but we all have one mission and that is to obey ALLAH s.w.t to best of our capacity and WE as muslims, we should respect one another and spread kindness and peace. Salam to all.