A MOTHER TOO HORRIBLE TO FORGIVE? | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- For years, Tabitha refused to believe her daughters about the abuse they endured by her husband, Jose. Will Desiree, Ladana and Maria finally be able to prove themselves?
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She is 100% vindictive. Did anyone else hear the fact she called CPS on her own daughter?! When SHE HERSELF shouldn’t have been a mother?
How is it that this pathetic excuse of a mother served ZERO jail time for these crimes against her children? At the very least she should've been prosecuted for child cruelty, endangering the welfare of a child, CHILD TRAFFICKING etc.
THIS. This is the comment I was hoping to see. I utterly despise that "parents" like this continue to draw breath or have more kids.
I agree
I hope Desiree gets her kids back.
POS of a Mother! He got away with abusing these beautiful young girls! Mom knew and did no time either!
Side note these girls are absolutely gorgeous and I’m praying for their healing
Right ! That’s what I was saying but these poor girls were tortured by this nasty so called man
This!!! ❤❤❤❤ 💯 I pray healing and positive energy and love the rest of their lives and I pray that they stay strong together and be each other's support system.
This!!! ❤❤❤❤ 💯 I pray healing and positive energy and love the rest of their lives and I pray that they stay strong together and be each other's support system.
Chantellejordan, I agree with you.
No
"it takes two to tango." "It takes one to be a mother!" The youngest daughter was on point the entire show! These three ladies turned out beautifully and seen to be holding their own in their respective lives. They don't need their "mother"
My immediate response to her saying that was "not when it's rape." But the daughter's comeback was so eloquent and spot on.
10:59 Love how Steve is smiling in anger, you can tell he’s done with this ratchet ass mom after she had the nerve to say “It’s take two to tango” smh
Every one needs there mother but not a mother like her!!!
None of us actually ‘need’ our parents , after surviving childhood adolescence etc then reaching a point, after dealing w the wounds u find urself looking at the facts of ur childhood etc from fully conscious empathetic accepting understanding perspective ur completely honest with self u know u never needed ‘them’ u just want them and now most of us are capable of truly looking after ourselves on every level
Yeah that comment made me mad. In this case it takes one to tango not two
The mother is absolutely disgusting for allowing that monster to abuse her children.
Horrible mother
She's not a mother. She's nothing but an egg donor who uses her own children as unwilling sacrificial lambs.
Facts
I wholeheartedly agree with you, @yellowfeline6491, having survived sexual abuse myself! The monster will eventually get EVERYTHING she's got coming to her in this life and the next!
@@geraldstamour1312 You deserve the absolute best, here's to healing 🙏🏽💚
I cannot fathom how some mothers are JEALOUS of their own daughters and get mad at them when their pedo partners want them instead. 🤢
Well if they hadn't worn "short shorts" around him..... GTFOH. I AM LIVID.
Ikr it’s not only disgusting but stupid beyond belief
The reason why a lot of men deal with single mothers is because they get access to the children, especially the daughters.
I experienced this with my own mother also. My dad was the child predator, a pedophile that abused me severely as a small child, not only sexually but physically beat me so badly.
@@cebe2624 Nothing but a monster. I am truly, truly sorry for the endless pain you endured then and mentally endure now.
She needs jail as well. Especially when she sold her children out for drugs. 😢
Right cuz that's also illegal as fuck
Yes. She should be in jail.
@@KatrinkaGivens-yh1fhExactly
She absolutely does, @deborahkizer4664! She'll eventually get EVERYTHING she's got coming to her in this life and the next!
@@vodoumyersand evil
The way he was holding the two daughters in the picture instead of the mother is VERY telling.
This!!!!!!
This
He was there only for the girls.
He is smirking
I’m convinced , if she didn’t leave Jose after catching him in the bathroom with her own daughter with his pants down , she’s not going to leave him .
Loraina Bobbet would have become my spirit animal in that moment 😮
@@mamaraya8818
You just gotta make sure he doesn’t find lingering on the side of the road like John found his .
I think you’re right because she kinda didn’t. That incident happened a year before she broke up with him so clearly it didn’t bother her enough
@@l.a.fremaux9926 I'd be driving by a pig farm 😄
They eat everything and leave nothing lol.
But point being, anyone who would ever try to lay an ill intended hand on my child would be going on a permanent vacation. But I also am very careful with my kids. I chose to have them and they deserve to come first. If I have to be single until they're all grown I'm OK with that. Their need for love, safety, and stability will always come before any desire I have as a woman.
The mother is disgusting! Point blank!
Any woman who chooses to lay down next to a man over standing up for her children is no mother. 😢
FACTS!!!
My mother did this to me. She chose a pedophile over me, her own child. My dad was the pedophile who violently raped me as a small child. She still tries to be in a relationship with him. She gave him a home that he threw me out of and made me go homeless no where else to go.
@@cebe2624 oh sweetheart. I'm sending you a great big hug. You didn't deserve that. Someone else's depravity has nothing to do with you. You are worth so much more than what they treated you as. You will find yourself and your own family to support you in your own way. What both of them did was a reflection on them, not you. You did nothing wrong and deserved so much better. I hope that one day you are able to come to peace with yourself (that doesn't mean you excuse them in any way) because you deserve to bask in the hopes of the future and not the darkness of the past. I wish you all the best. I know you are a better person in spite of both of those people that brought you into the world, I won't give them the dignity of calling them parents.
Please take care of yourself.
@@mamaraya8818Thank you very much this comment is much needed, i needed some unconditional love especially when i wasn't raised in that setting.
My dad also sold me to several pedophiles for drugs and alcohol.
The mother is so disgusting picking her pedophile husband over her three daughters! And yes, she is too horrible to forgive! If CMs can’t be forgiven, then neither can’t the evil mothers be forgiven for their soulless things they put her daughters/sons through!
I 1000000000000000000000% agree with you! Those are TWO of the ultimate most unforgivable things that someone can do while alive on this Earth.
Jose isn't their real father right?
@@NipponKiwi yes, I know! Devil stepdad!
@@NipponKiwino it's their step dad
story of my life.
This episode was absolutely horrifying. I am in complete and utter disbelief that the mother actually walked in while one daughter was being abused and basically did nothing more than throw a jealous fit. "If you want her you can have her"......
I literally can not.
She is just as guilty as the husband. She helped create a broken family.
Picking an abuser over her children is sickening!
Exactly. I left mine while pregnant, and got abandoned. While I ended up traumatized further, it was the right thing to do. Otherwise my son would have been taken away from me at birth. My life’s thriving, while my abuser’s is continuing to implode, and he’s barred from seeing my Jacob.
. Anyway that she could keep a man was fine with her.
There should be no statute of limitations on child sexual abuse.
I think it might depend on the state. Because I was raped at 12 and I'm almost 64 but about 20 years ago when I moved back home I found out my 1 rapist had his grandbabies living with him and heard he was still doing this stuff even to them and I called the state police to report him, they knew him well. But I was told I could come and still press charges against them.
@@donnayoung2150 great that you could still press charges!
@overcatter7647 I didn't go I could not face them. But I ask the officer to please go after them. And the one was the only one raping and they did arrest him on rape of his grandkids.
Gaslighting, trying to play victim, pretending to care, the fake tears & fake apologies, blaming her daughters ALL in the same breath…wow!!! “Mothers” like this don’t deserve respect, nor forgiveness.. they don’t even deserve to have their children in their lives… (even as adults). This is why I call bs when people say “that’s your mom no matter what” etc.. She’s horrible and put them through hell, she allowed that pos to do the same. The amount of abuse & irreparable damage done is heartbreaking.. Going back to Tuesday’s episode for a min… the cousin (in the process of blaming Gavin), rambled something about animosity/anger, hatred & disrespect towards the person that brought you in this world. This is why… because these so-called “parents” do things that cause their children to have hate, animosity/anger toward them, to be “disrespectful.” Years of pain, hurt & not being heard/not being taken seriously, believed.. And these “parents” continue to deny and/or downplay the situation. I find it extremely disturbing that mothers get jealous of their daughters, especially their YOUNG daughters. At the end of the day it is the child’s choice to have a relationship with their parent, even if it’s from a distance. But personally I would cut that toxicity out of my life for good.
Stories like these make me realize how blessed I am to have such a wonderful mother. She would of put any one who hurt us in the ground.
“it takes one to be a mother” the way i clapped so hard cause period if you gon lay down & create the kid take care of it 👏
And sadly, she couldn't do that for all 3 of em
These 3 young ladies has been sexually violated by their mother's husband and she chose him over her own daughters after everything they told her and didn't do anything to protect them
Any woman that allows their children to be abused should be prosecuted along with the abuser.. this is sick
Co-Signed! Bcuz that was sum real shit u just said
God, I’m only 26 but I wanna wrap my arms around these girls and just ugh 😖 beautiful, smart girls. They seem like they’re probably fun & vibrant & people around them are failing them. 💔my heart breaks.
Haha trust me.
You dont want women with these kind of history in your life
@@kwakuemma4357you’re crazy fr
The mother is very vile she has zero accountability and blaming her daughters
Zero accountability
My heart is literally breaking right now…Ive known Ladana since kindergarten and her baby sister since maybe 1st or 2nd maybe 3rd grade and let me just say I neverrrrrr would have expected to hear this…Ladana from the bottom of my heart I am truly sincerely sorry for you all…I pray you and your sisters find peace somehow or someway…You all for ever be in my prayer😭😭🙏🏽🙏🏽
Same here ❤❤❤
My heart breaks for these girls & what they endured. I applaud them for doing everything they can to break the vicious cycle. But to know that they became a product of their environment in other ways, is so devastating. I hope they get some help in healing.
Damn this is the craziest thing that a mother could ever do to a daughter 😢 I could only imagine the pain those kids went through and still go through 😭🤬
Absolutely AWFUL, disgusting excuse for a "mother". My heart goes out to the lovely girls.
That sick heifa ain't no mother. The woman who raised me is what you call a real mother. Women like Tabitha don't deserve that title at all.
My own mother believed me And blamed me. It truly is devastating.
Women like this aren't mothers... They are monsters.
Mine did too.
😢
@im so sorry 😞 KatrinkaGivens-yh1fh
My mother believes me but can’t in a way because of it being her first born doing it to me
If my future kids ever come to me and tell me, mamma, I've been touched by daddy, or any male relative. I'd be inclined to believe them instantly!! And walk away from the relationship and family. I feel so sorry and angry for these girls
Facts can't stand women that pick men over their kids hope she loses everything she's got absolutely no excuse for that and then wanna play victim
It should be anyone not just males too
Me too. I was a victim of this type of abuse.
@@cebe2624 I'm so sorry! I hope you're on the road to recovery now love!
When mom said it takes two to tangle, my mouth dropped. We are talking about children! Something is seriously wrong with this so-called mother. I couldn't forgive this evil woman. She's as bad as Jose.
Stay strong. Forget the woman you call Mother. She is no Mother. Will be praying for you girls.
That women is one real disgusting mother. She choose her husband over her daughters.. Sickos like that shouldn't have a kid if their gonna pick their lover over their kid!!
I'm glad my mom believed me when I came to her for protection against her husband and never second guessed me! Every mother should believe their child and if not I firmly believe they need to do the same amount of time as the predator gets
Victim blaming makes my blood boil!! The "mother" makes me sick to my stomach
My heart was broken when I was 28 after being told I couldn't have children. Now after watching this video seeing these beautiful sisters it breaks my heart. My life would be complete and I would be blessed if things were different. Young ladies hold your head high and live your life without that woman who calls herself a mother. Sending the 3 of you bunches of hugs and love 💗💗
I'm so sorry to intrude. I was told I couldn't have children, so my partner and I gave up after 15 years of trying. I'm 39 yrs now I got pregnant with my first child at 33, and now I'm a proud mother of a son and daughter. My miracle babies came when I least expected them. I'm praying for your miracle as well.
@@brenda7622 I'm smiling with some happy tears rolling down after reading your comment.
Definitely don’t let anyone tell u that u can’t have children. There are lots of specialists and experts who will tell u unless u are born without a womb u can have a child. Don’t give up, and if not adopt u can be a wonderful mum. ❤
Damn!! I felt so bad for those 3 ladies their mother is a disgrace choosing a predator over the wellbeing of her children.
I love the daughters and they accents they got some southern twang when they speak
Most definitely ❤the dark hair girl is so pretty her accent the thickest
This story is so heartbreaking... I hope these three sisters stick together and heal! Their mother on the other hand seems to be a lost cause among other things. Seriously, she's a C U Next Tuesday (IYKYK)
A mother who chooses a man over her children when it comes to shit like this , deserves an award for worst mother of the year . What a disgrace if you ask me . I just hope that Jose creep is behind bars .
I just wanted to point out and say once again that nobody is a parent when they choose their partners over their own kids and children
When she sells her three year old daughter, any choices she makes after that doesn’t matter. She is a PREDATOR and the daughters need to realize that first.
Exactly
@@thecaseclosedpikachufiles2446 facts
He is a pedophile and she is allowing it. Those poor girls the mom sold her daughters for drugs. She is sick and evil and so is he
Women that pick men over kids make me sick
‘The Breeder’ knowing & choosing to ignore that ALL of her daughters suffer abuse from her husband is incomprehensible to me. Selling your 3yo daughter, to be raped, for drugs is whole next level inconceivable evil. She’s no mother…mother is not just a noun it’s also a verb. This was a hard one to watch.😢🤬💔
This must have been the hardest story I’ve ever seen on Steve Wilco’s show. She is not a mother she is a monster.
This is Infuriating the mother failed to protect her children From monster who scarred these children forever. Those young women will never find love and passion. Heartbreaking no one should NEVER ever go through that.
That’s so not true they will find someone too love but it’s gonna take a lot of trust from them and I mean a lot I was molested at 6-11 years old and at 20 I got raped but I ended up finding the loml he’s a good man very protective very sweet and considerate to me and others
@@420bluntly_literally, like who says this stuff 😭?
If that was my mum, I would NEVER speak to her after this
I just want to hug these young ladies and offer them my help and my time. I’m so so so so sorry this happened to all of these beautiful women
Every kid deserves parents but not Every parent deserves kids
My heart breaks for these young women. The so called “mom” did nothing to get them out of that situation. I wouldn’t blame them if they didn’t want to have a relationship with her. I pray for better days for them, & that they’re getting the well deserved help they need
This broke my heart. My heart goes to these beautiful girls, no human being deserves to go through the things they endured. Selling your three your old child for drugs is absolutely vile. I hope they can heal from this😕❤️
Damn, that was a tough watch. Those girls are legit 100% brave for looking their monster's advocate in the face. Stay strong ladies, I hope the rest of your lives are peaceful because you certainly deserve that much.
I love the way the 3 daughters stood their ground to that sorry excuse for a mother.
The daughters are GORGEOUS TOO IN ADDITION!!! Wish them every health and happiness
To the 3 precious sisters: I am TRULY sorry for the abuse and torment you have experienced. As a loving mom myself, my heart goes out to all 3 of you. Thank you for standing up for yourselves and each other. Focus on your healing, and on bettering yourselves and your children. Keep loving each other as sisters.
Your "mother" cannot be helped, because she will continue to pick abusers over you. She can never be the mom you need her to be. Let her go. You all deserve much better in life!!! With counseling and with a healthy support system, you can all be MUCH BETTER mothers to your children than she ever was.
This was absoulety beauttiful!!
11:07 Desiree's lie detector test results
12:05 Ladana's lie detector test results
12:42 Tabitha's lie detector test results
Thank you😢
She doesn't deserve them. I pray they stick together. Don't ever let her evil or the evil of the world break them apart.
There's no way in Hell any child should have to beg their parent to choose them. This is sick. And don't even get me started on the "mom" who was screaming at these girls for telling the truth. As if *they* did anything wrong.
That is correct! My wife committed suicide over this
It's a shame that the youngest daughter is more of an adult and mom rather than her own mother 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢. Makes no sense.
She’s worse than my (step)daughter’s biological mom, and that’s AWFUL! I’ll never understand how a mother could treat her children like that!💔
My baby girl is now 28. I came into her life 8 days before her 14th birthday and she started calling me “Mom” within 2.5wks of her dad & I dating…and I’ll be her mom with my dying breath. She’s as much MINE as the 2 boys I gave birth to, but when she was growing up, I tried to foster a positive relationship between her & her biological mother, and would still be doing so if her mother hadn’t put her in terrible situations.
I love this so much!!! YOU'RE the mother we all want ❤❤
@@shitneyb5562 I’m not a perfect mom by any means… but I love my kids and will be there for them.
Honestly, now I don’t know if I did the right thing by trying to maintain a relationship between her and her biological mom. I thought I was doing the right thing. Knowing what I know NOW, I might’ve saved her a lot of heartache if I hadn’t stepped in.
When she was about 16, she came to me and said, “I hate her!” and I said, “No, you don’t! You hate the things she does, but you will NEVER hate HER. She’s your mom. You’ll always love her!”
I frequently did things like that when her mom would screw up. Now her mom destroyed her credit, ruined her name and made going to college difficult (to say the least).
There is no way in hell I would ever forgive this witch & want to have a relationship with her. To have 3 daughters abused in her house & to of been told by her daughters but still wouldn’t leave him or call the police is despicable. I cannot believe she now wants a relationship with her daughters & grandchildren its just crazy. He should of been locked up for a very long time with charges of rape & abuse & the mother should of been locked up for neglect & abuse, very very sad what happened to the girls.
Where is CPS, the authorities and family members?? He gets a pass why?? Statutes or culture?
I know she didn’t just say it takes two to tango to her daughter who was VIOLATED by that sicko! The victim blaming in this just… 😡
The fact that the mom took up for that man over her children is unforgivable! I believe the mom should be just as guilty as the man committing that horrid act!
She got THREE BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS and failed them 😢this is just so sad fr
She wanna be a victim so bad smh
She failed all 3 of her daughters and honestly she should not be allowed anywhere near her grandchildren either
Those daughters should run away from her as fast as they can
My mom never picked anyone over me or my brother.
The sad part is when the mother of these three sisters failed to protect them from her own husband.
Always choose your children.
Horrible thing of a mother. God love these girls, my heart breaks for what they’ve gone through.😥
As a mum I just want to take these girls and let them be safe 😮
When the daughter said thats your house it should he my safe place too broke me😢
Why Jose didn’t show his damn face because he knows he’s guilty.
I pray this is the beginning of these young ladies healing
MARRIED AT 15😮
Plus 2 kids! Her life was just beginning. This is so sad
They should have put Jose on the stage too .
THAT'S SO SAD I PRAY FOR HER DAUGHTERS HEALING IN LIFE 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
All of her daughters are beautiful I am sorry that they had to go through all of that😢
I hope you girls read this and know you girls are strong, courageous & survivors! I’m sorry you had that as a mother but thankfully you are nothing like her! I hope you don’t let her back in your lives but that is your call. 🙏🏽
Desiree, Ladana and Maria, I feel for all three of them they had such a vindictive and terrible mother, and really really really hope they are all doing better. I have absolutely no words for Tabitha other that "Utter Disgust" and "So Much Anger".
She is never going to leave him. She didn't leave him before so she isn't going to niw. She already knew the truth before the lie detector test.
I wish I had the opportunity to confront my mom about how she chose her man over me and my sisters. I hope these girls have very successful lives and don't think twice of her.
I was adopted out as a baby. I've since reunited with both my biological parents. Honestly... I dont recommend it. My bio mom especially was traumatic. She didn't seem to grow or mature the entire lifetime I was gone. Forever stuck in a "teenage mom" pity party (she's in her 40s now). I luckily got adopted out and lived a normal life. Meanwhile, all my siblings she kept are either addicted to drugs or have been in trouble with the law since middle school. All the warning flags were there, but I ignored them. I believed by default that she loved me and would protect me because she was my "mother." How very wrong I was. I cut contact after a specific incident and don't regret it. If you're also adopted and reading this, it's okay to want to seek out your biological family for the sake of answers. Just keep your expectations low, and DON'T feel obligated to keep them in your life afterward if they wrong you.
the mother has no place to go and she is trying to mend her fences with her daughters.
I HAVE 3 BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS MYSELF AND I COULD NEVERRRR😢😢!!! I DARE SOMEBODY TRY TO TOUCH EVEN A HAIR ON MY GIRLS
I'm sorry but I wouldn't want to repair a relationship with someone who chooses a man over their own children if she cared enough for her kids then why didn't she stop it before. 😡😤
The girls are beautiful 💗I’m glad everything is finally exposed
I love their accents, sound like Tennessee
😂they sound black 😂
I think it is oklahoma
@@kell-yh4ecthat's what I was gonna say it sounds like too
I absolutely have respect for anyone who gets off their butt and gets straight for their kiddos!! Thanks for staying on the right path!❤️ you are doing your kiddos proud 👏
Oh that monster shouldn't be called a mother
That woman doesn't deserve to be called momma.
She’s actually pure evil. They need to stay FAR away from that demon.
I cant even imagine what these poor women have had to endure. Imagine the worst thing happening to you and to be told it's your fault by the one person who is supposed to be your safe space! There is a very special place in hell for these wrongens. I hope those monsters get whats coming to them!
Not only did he did it to one, he did it to all three, and all she felt was jealousy?!
Mom&Jose belong in JAIL!!!
Beautiful strong girls
It generational trauma. Very tragic. I'm glad the daughters are bringing this to light and stopping all this.
such beautiful girls such a horrible mother
Off topic but the girls accents are beautiful 💕
I don't understand why they even want her in their lives. They need to stay far away from her for their own mental health. She is crazy and will never change.
They HELLLLA country 😂. I love it
By her saying if you want her you can have her that literally opened the door for him to think it was okay and her daughter to be scared to say anything or feel like she didn't care do why would she tell the police if her own mom doesn't care
Poor girls. What string wonderful young women they’ve grown up to be! May God bless them and heal them. May they truly know peace as a S.A survivor I’m praying for you all. Leave her alone!
that man would’ve been OUT of my life if my daughters told me that they even felt uncomfortable with him around them, this “mother” is EVIL
If u even have to ask your child if your man is touching her then u have your answer already! Get a video or voice recording of him molesting u?? This woman is crazy.
My heart breaks for how dark their childhoods were but thank God they look like strong women I hope the rest of their lives are happy they deserve it 😢