A serious talk about peer pressure and self acceptance with Shinri【Holostars EN | Josuiji Shinri】
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2023
- I´m not even old, but Shinri speaks to my core
-Source:
【Holostars EN Rust - S2】3 - Just... 3000(?)... more... scrap....
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-Members:
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- Twitter accounts:
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- Outro music:
MY ROAR (マイロア) ／Covered by Banzoin Hakka【歌ってみた】
• MY ROAR (マイロア) ／Covere...
- Original outro song:
マイロア
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The bgm coming in at the perfect time lol. Shinri is speaking some on timeless experiences, doesn't matter what era you're born in.
This is so true he’s right it doesn’t get better you just get used to it
He’s truly so real
That part about not knowing anymore how to „let loose“ really reminded me of the process of unmasking autism. As in, if you’ve been masking your true self for years and years and it’s basically become a second skin in public, at some point - even though you might realize that’s whats happening - you just don’t remember how to NOT do that. You don’t know how to be without the mask because it’s become a routine for you. And that leaves you with the question of „Who even am I?“ and you might not know how to find an answer to that.
that whole thing where you talk extremely formally with everyone you meet... hit kinda close to home for me. i actually did that very thing, i saw myself go from "lol XD thats so funy" to writing everything as if it were a work or school email... at the age of 11 or 12. it hit the point where, at age 12, i knew how to use a semicolon properly, which a lot of adults didn't even know, just for the sake of coming across as more mature, more normal, more proper, and less weird. some of it stuck with me, as you can see from how i'm writing this comment, but it's no longer a conscious effort, it's just how i write. this is the least personal instance of me changing myself at my very core to try and seem more appealing to others, but it conveys its point properly.
peer pressure sucks, live how you want to live. remember: you are cringe, but you are free. even if it feels like the whole world hates ya for doing that, just know i'm rooting for you! please don't fall into the same pit i and many others did, it's not a fun trip down.
Rooting for you!💜💚
And this is why Shinri is my 2nd Oshi. Times were different back then. Being yourself caused you to get hurt but now it's hard to break a habit.
agreeeedddd. This hits hard honestly
who’s first
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@@phya9324 good choice
maaaan he goes so real for this
Shinri its one of the hidden gems in holopro
I have never resonated with a clip more than this. I feel the same way Shinri. Thanks for the clip Shark.
“You have bills to pay”
*Ominous music plays*
Real talk Shinri... I can relate to that
Self acceptance is really hard when you never find people that accept you for what you are, all because you're different
We end up not knowing how to act and being afraid of any type of interaction
"What are they thinking? Am I sounding weird? Am I sounding unnatural? Who the hell am I?" You just don't know how to act after trying to be "normal"
I want validation
That's how desperate i became after being a ignored nobody for my whole life
But how people can accept someone who doesn't have a personality because all he does is being afraid of being himself and even something else?
They don't accept me for who I'm and they can't if I'm trying to be someone else, because I also don't know how to be "better"
I just wish people liked me
I hate being alone, and I'm probably the one in fault for that
Maybe I'm just not good enough
Sorry if my English sucks
yes I just got used to things, jaded with life, comfortable with my routine, and I'm sorry but I really don't want to change them, new experiences in bite size if fine but... I know it's not good that way with no growth, but truthfully I just can't
This really resonates with me. It's hard to break years of conditioning done by school systems and your peers and just learn that it's okay to be who you are. Not only that but also there are people out there that like you for who you are and people you've never met yet who would like you. The internet has matured so much over the years. It wasn't always easy to find caring and loving communities of people who share your interests. As much damage as the internet has done to our psyche, at least we have a place to find people who GET IT (whatever that "it" might be for you). I am glad Hololive/Holostars is that for many of us.
thank you for taking the time to make more serious clips like these. i feel so many ppl focus on big reactions, funny moments, and such, so quieter but still incredibly meaningful moments like these can get lost in the mix. i can only hope that we all learn to let go of the kinds of worries shinri mentioned here, and learn to heal from those past pains that stopped us from growing.
I'm prerty young, but I still relate to this a lot... Thanks for the real talk, Shinri.
I reached that conclusion with my therapist last week. It’s fucking scary how this all works but it’s true, you just get used to it instead of changing it. And you don’t really get it until you really reflect on that.
He pretty much summed up a lot of my thoughts I've been having recently and I'm a similar. Time moves quickly.
I was watching his stream at this time, his message really resonated with me. It can be hard to express yourself when you grew up in a time that doesn't really encourage that, at least not sincerely. It was a really good talk.
I think... i'll start watching more Shinri. I wanna see his unhinged arc unfold!
I don't why this hit me and made me cry, I didn't expect what he said to resonate with me.
Some of it really hit home for me but i basically never had a life of my own, and all the little things i do alone and for myself are too few and far between, but what he said was, the very least, in the right direction, from my experience i learned that everything always changes no matter what so you will change maybe not for the better nor for the worse but change nonetheless
Dang, never get hit so close to heart before. Guess that's adulting.
word of wisdom...
For someone his age, makes sense.
Some of that still exists. There's still a lot of the internet that just refuses to let people like what they like.
Man, that cut deep. Shinri keeping it real
He just like me fr
“I just don’t know how.” Me in a nutshell.
😢😭
😭😭😭
See I grew up in the same time frame only difference is that I never gave a damn about people's opinions so I never fell for peer pressure.
I forgot how deep shinri's voice was. the start scared me😅
It's easy to not care about peer pressure if no one ever liked you anyways 😎👍
Its unfortunately the internet has yet to be truly accepting. Far from it sadly.
NGL, I don't like Shinri for how dry he and his content comes off to me. But, it's sad to hear that he struggles to "let loose", that he's self-conscious. I'm sure he'll open up more the longer he's a HoloStar
getting buffs from the other 2 that fucked off
he stays in his lane and does his job well but attracts a californian crowd
once bettel and flayon fold, it will just be 4 of them and we'll see how they feel
It's pretty messed up to be talking about other humans like they're commodities, don't you think? Also Bettel was the largest earner in all of Holostars last I had seen, so even if you want to treat them like meat in a market I don't know why you would choose him.
… what are you even talking about? 🤨
yeah cause omega wanted the twitch crowd to be brought in. now it's obvious they're taking their crowd + new fans solo holo just shot themselves in the foot.
if it was someone who actually wanted to be a holo they wouldn't be having this problem. they hired a bunch of trojan horses lol. who cares how much they bring in.
@@NecromancyForKids
Let it out bud, its ok to feel
holy shit a rrat in the wild, go back to /vt/ dumbass