tbh no one has an issue with housewives, its just how she talks about having to be submissive and treating your husband like your boss and being the only one bettering yourself to earn him
@@EveTheRaviolo yeah we saw how insecure the females in that comment section was towards her, I mean the insecure feministt as a whole just try their best to degrade housewife these days without any reasons, so I do not really buy ur point.
How she lives her life would only be a problem if she said “being a housewife is how YOU should live YOUR life”. NGL I had a friend in college who was absolutely brilliant, seemed like she could do anything she wanted in life, career-wise. She told me all she really wanted was to be a mother and a wife. And years later when she found that man she iced her career. I was disappointed but then I realized, it’s her life and presumably she’s happy. Let people live.
I don't think that's what she said though? Sure, maybe that's what she implied, but even the implication isn't saying 'how you should live your life', it's more so, 'how to get a husband'. She is rather problematic whenever she implies that you have to be feminine and submissive to get a husband, but she does make sense of it when describing it as a job - You're technically being submissive to your job/boss, it's just that for her case, her boss is someone she loves. Of course, as Pegasus says, not every man will want a feminine woman and I personally think that's what her problem is, otherwise she's just speaking about her experience and how she got her husband.
@@imadoge5036 idk she just seems posh, and posh chicks always annoy me. It also kind of seems like, she's trying really hard to justify the choices she made like as if she isn't sure she did right by herself, or maybe that she's under attack. And fair play to that, she is under fire. I did take that part out of my comment because it's not relevant at all so yeah. Appreciate the comment, always good to check yourself
My mom is a housewife. I can say that she works nearly twice as much as my dad dealing with 5 kids (including me), cooking, cleaning, keeping us from doing stupid shit, and on top of all that, she also works her trucking business at home (mom is the owner, dad is the co-owner). Not to mention, she also has to take care of my dad. So yeah, housewives have if hard but not in the way the commenters think lol
yeah, my mom used to be a teacher, but when she had kids, she just stopped, because it really wasn't worth it anymore. people should be able to do what they want to.
I agree that being a housewife is often very difficult and requires a lot of hard work. But some housewives get off very easy and do very little work compared to their SO. My mom had some friends of that type.
I'd love to be a house husband and cook for my woman, raise the kiddos, clean etc. So I ain't gonna think less of a woman doing that. Doesn't make either of us any less of a man/woman. It's just a lifestyle.
My husband is a stay at home dad, he loves it, as does our son. My job paid more so after a long discussion we decided I would keep my job and he would stay home. Our son has medical issues that make public schooling difficult so we homeschool. I create the lesson plan for the upcoming week and my husband teaches it. My son was incredibly happy to get to spend time with his dad & I think it's a great opportunity for all involved. My husband is a motorcycle/atv mechanic so he does do side jobs. He spends about 2-4 hours 3 days a week on this. I highly advise keeping this mindset and not being too fearful to ever bring this up with your partner, as long as you both are in agreement. That's the biggest part.
Houseboyfriend here, it’s pretty fun considering I know how to cook and all that, and I have a small business that I can do from home and I get some okay money from it. It’s fun if you know what you’re doing and enjoy being at home.
Yea its really carefree, my mom is a stay at home mother and she has never been happier.She believes that a parent should be there for their children and a lot of jobs take that away from you
As a female, I couldn't care less what another women does with her life. If you want to work at a job or career, good on you. And if you are a housewife or stay at home mom, good on you as well. As long as you are happy, then do you. Also don't get mad at other people because they have different life styles or values because that's their choice. Edit: let me clarify. Don't get mad at other people having different life styles or values as long as what they are doing isn't harming other people or isn't illegal. Hopefully that makes sense. 😅
For me idc if someone's a housewife, it's just "high value male" kinda stuff reminds me of incel/femcel terminology. Seems like this girl has fell into the femcel trap, which are a group of women who think that they can't get a partner without being a traditional housewife
@@howard4558 yeah that high value male caption I think was put in by the person filming and was just to like emphasize that he’s successful But this does sound kinda like r/femaledatingstrategy
@@alwaysbored1700 even if it was by a friend, she clearly uploaded it knowing that caption was there. I mean idc if she is a femcel, she's got a man so good for her, but it's not exactly something I would applaud like Pegasus does because femaledatingstrategy basically just tells women to act feminine (even if they arent) be submissive to your man, and be a good housewife if you wanna get a man. Being a housewife is totally cool, my cousin is one and she's awesome, it's just incel/femcel stuff leaves a bad taste in my mouth
Being a housewife isn't easy, sure they don't do 9-5s but there are different things at home itself that needs to be taken care of. Telling an adult women that she should work and be independent instead of being a housewife , when she herself has no problem with it doesn't make sense.
You're completely right about how being a housewife isn't easy! My mom is a housewife and she works really hard - even when she's feeling poorly. She has to cook food, do the shopping, clean the house and more. A lot of housewives (and househusbands) do so much. It's a shame their efforts aren't recognised more.
@@hueyfreeman6262 Who cares about idiots who think having a way of living that works in your personal life and relationship and that you're okay and happy with is something to make fun of you for.
When I was around 15 I started getting into more “traditionally feminine hobbies” like cooking, knitting, sewing, etc. I was also spending more and more time on the internet and I was constantly ridiculed for being “so basic” and “conforming to gender stereotypes” it rlly messed me up because I felt I wasn’t allowed to be myself but I’ve grown since then. The issue of women who are “traditionally feminine” being called out as oppressive and even misogynistic is not uncommon even now, due to the sudden rise in “pick me girls” it’s a problem that’s not being addressed. Especially because nowadays there are people who will mock you for being “too feminine” or “too traditional” but there are still people who mock you for being “too independent” or “too masculine” There’s no winning
Me too I'd say. I grew up being the elder daughter, so I had to kinda be the "second man" in our family. so back when I was 15, I used to think I was a girl boss or whatever. now I'm 17 and quarantine really taught me well about myself. I found myself watching knitting videos a lot, painting, ball dancing, sewing, romcoms, etc, more so of the "traditionally feminine" stuff. but when I started expressing myself, I got called a "pick me". the definition of "pick me" is being poorly used these days, but I'm glad I did not take those to heart and worked on my hobbies. I can knit beanies now!
I got that from my mom. The way I dressed back then was basically the stereotype gacha spoiled brat but without makeup. I was influenced by the standard for little girls at the time. My mom manipulated me a lot, and eventually I just dressed like a boy cos she’s a radical feminist. Now that I don’t don’t live with her anymore, I dress like a stereotype gacha spoiled brat but I got the makeup this time
This is true, and it's hard when you're so young and you want to fit in. I had the reverse problem when I was young because I was a tomboy and all of my closest friends were guys. It's like you can't win. If you're too masculine, you're not good enough, and if you're too feminine, you're still not good enough. You you just have learn to make yourself happy and not give a sh*t what anybody thinks. The "right way" to be a woman doesn't exist, but you do.
I definitely think the word “submissive” is the reason why a majority of people are angry. I used to be a stay at home mom, but I’m not at all submissive. However, you do have to cater to your partner more if they’re the only one working, I’d expect the same if the roles were reversed and he stayed home. Ideally, it’s 50/50 in whatever way you divide it, taking care of the home, bills and childcare if that applies. Now that we both work outside the home we try to divide up chores, responsibilities, etc.“Submissive” and “high value man” are just cringe triggers for a lot of people.
I think people are mad is because they want the people who are living a good life to experience what they’ve had such as a shitty job and etc. they jealous
@@ryann9026 I was pretty annoyed by what she was saying, but I’m not jealous of her life. It’s more of just how she worded it, kinda came off like she bragging. And since I’m not a fan of people bragging, I found it irritating
I once heard a different opinion of the 50/50 thing. Rather that it should be each person doing whatever they are capable or available to do in the relationship. I.e. wife doesn't bring kids to school because she needs to clean up after breakfast, or husband doesn't do laundry because he has to clock in at work. Etc. Etc.
@@felipew101 That’s why I say ideally. It’s unreasonable to think one can do more than they’re capable of. I feel like it just leads to a healthier and happier relationship to try to give as much as you’re getting. Sometimes my husband is really tired from his day and I’ll take over some of his chores so he can make music or play video games, he does the same for me on my heavy days. That’s obviously just my opinion and experiences, I understand it isn’t the same for everyone.
I agree! Housewives and househusbands actually have a lot of work they have to do. And in my opinion as long as both people on the relationship are alright with the dynamic, then what’s the issue? Sure it’s an issue if the husband wants her to work but she refuses or vice versa, but if both parties consent then who cares
I never understand people saying, that being a housewife (or househusband) is an easy job - I think it's honestly very ungrateful, hard, all-time job (not to mention that some women must deal with men who are hungry and tired and want to make sure everyone in this house knows that). Especially for families with children - I don't know a single Universe in which being a housewife and a mother of three children is easy.
I'm a woman studying STEM and I love the idea of being a housewife, to use my knowledge to educate/homeschool my future children. The second you leave a job, everyone there forgets about you. You're "part of the family" until it's layoff season. What lasts forever is REAL family. Edit: it's also perfectly fine to get satisfaction out of a career. Just let women do either or both without freaking out, please.
I think you'd be the best mom ever! You seem like such an accepting and non-judgemental person and that your kids would be like your BFF's because of that and more trusting of you :)
Housewife here, I can relate to this woman because I've even been shit on by family for what I choose to do, but it doesn't bother me anymore. My husband is gone for work most of the year while I hold it down at home, so it's not easy, especially since we have a mini farm 😅
Girl, I'm trying to live that life! I understand that it will be hard but I'm willing to put in that work to get where I want to be! I have even tried to explain this to my family and all they did was shit on my dreams. It was very discouraging, but I'm still pedaling through and saving up a ton of money so I'm able to build my lil farm 💛
I mean it would be one thing if she sits down watching TV all day not doing a damn thing but she's cleaning the house. Like believe it or not that is a job and the husband pays her for it. Just with yk fun time
I live in india and my mom is a housewife and many of her friends are housewives and she is happy and they all are happy. In india being a housewife is a normal thing unless and until youre not happy doing it.
when my grandmother lived in india, she was a housewife. when she moved to america with my dad's immediate family, she had to work two jobs. the standard of living in america and the standard of living in india are completely different
Being honest I think no one should judge housewifes no matter the place, it's a working system, mostly the women are the ones who chose to be housewifes, everyone's happy and it's also stable. I really don't get why the place would affect that.
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 i think you misunderstood me, i was just saying, that if we want more people this confident in theirselves and be down to earth we should be them
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 @Doumy meant that if you see a good trait, don't put the blame on society for the lack of it, and don't give them the responsibility to adopt it. Instead, learn to adopt it yourself and be the leading example. A society where everyone wishes others will be better but does nothing will remain stagnant, but a society where people see something and say "I need to do it too" will flourish. In other words, don't tell people to be down to earth, be so yourself.
eh idk, some of the things she said sounded a bit off, like "you gotta submit to your husband" and "work for him, he0's like your boss" but aside from that yeah
I could care less about another woman choosing to be a house wife and depending on her husband financially, but the only part that sucks is that if her husband chooses to divorce her tomorrow, she'll be left with nothing. Or maybe not cause she'll most likely leave with almost half of his fortune. Ion really know how divorce works.
It depends, so you can get a paper and set the rules of how it will divide later or you can just half it, so in the beginning of marriage you two will sit down and pick whatever one is best.
If I could be a housewife, I totally would! If I can make the guy I love feel good come home to a clean house, then I'd be happy. The only thing that would set us back 50 years is having a one track mind. They don't think women should have a choice to have a job or be a housewife (its pretty much a job, but you get what I mean). They just think you HAVE to get a job.
@just i c e Is... Is it really here..? Is the package that I've been waiting for finally arrive? Have you finally come back with the milk dad? I needed it for my 20 year old cereal
I think if she's happy being a house wife then she should keep doing what she's doing. Personally I wouldn't want to be a House wife, but I wouldn't care if another woman doesn't want to be one
I'm happy as a housemate, and I get similar reactions that this woman gets. I'm viewed as less-than by my peers for being perfectly happy and content with washing and folding laundry, sweeping and mopping, cooking meals, tending to my garden and generally just taking care of the household while my boyfriend is at work. I've been called a freeloader, a leech, and other horrible things just because I don't work a conventional job, as if I'm not busting my ass keeping our house nice, our animals cared for, and even grow food for us on top of it
the response was ridiculous but at the same time when she said “you have to become feminine and submissive” like women who work cant be/are not submissive or feminine? That was odd. She could have worded it better but truthfully its her life and she can do whatever she wants, so can everyone else. My philosophy is to live your life but dont push your life style onto people who didnt ask or act like the way you live is how everyone should live and that its the only way to be happy.
She didnt say “you have to become” she said “I became”. Source: 1:34 . Femininity and submission is what (not all) most men want for a housewife, so those are the points that landed her a husband. It may be a requirement (for most), but she didn’t say it was exclusive. It’s like saying “I got a job in accounting because I learned math” but accounting isn’t the only job with math, architecture does as well.
I believe it was Jordan peterson that said, that in a work place women need to adopt a masculine attribute in the workplace, they need to be aggressive and diligent in their work ethic to climb the work ladder, women aiming to get to the top are competing with other women but more so, men, and as such need to put in the extra hours, have a competitive nature, pushy to have them compete with other men fighting for those same higher paying positions. No one is just gonna sit back and be like here, take this higher paying position, when ur less qualified simply for being a women.
@@msquared016 i guess it depends where you work because i never feel like i have to be masculine or aggressive at my job as a woman. i never feel the need to compete with my co workers. The way the economy treats women is a separate issue- an important one- but not the topic at hand right now, of course i work hard but i dont feel at all like i have to compete with my co workers
@@immunityvi6968 sorry i must have misheard but why do you have to be submissive to be feminine? A woman who doesn’t want to bend backwards over what every man or any other individual in general tell her makes her less feminine? I don’t really like that mentality personally edit: my bad i read that wrong but my point still stand since thats the energy that the videos carried
I wish this was a new phenomenon. I lost my woman card when I left paid work to raise our kids I love it and have never regretted it. I support the choices that women make like this. That is actually empowering. You hit the nail on the head, the haters are probably insecure in their own choices and have to tear other women down to make themselves feel better about their own choices. Do what makes you happy and f everyone who doesn't like it. It's not their place to say anything because it's not their life, it's yours
I’m a 44 yr old woman with 2 masters degrees. If this women chooses to not to work and instead focuses on being a full time wife and home keeper, and she sought a partner who agrees, then good on her. I agree with her, looking good and being a full time housewife is hard work - harder then I work.
"I'm pretty sure she didn't actually expect that every woman who's a housewife has to be submissive." Look up tradwives, that's literally it in a nutshell.
As a woman, being a house wife would legit be my dream. I love to garden, love cleaning/organizing, and going fishing. I would like to be in my children’s lives too, and be a reliable figure they can count on if they need a ride to their friend’s house or to school.
damn. my mum is a probelm now becuase shes a housewife. jokes aside, let people live how they want, as long as their happy. i really have to give kudos to my mum cuz she litterally gave up her career just to raise me when i was two or three, and im honeslty so grateful.
Im sure there are a few mature and sane ones there that didn't get offended by something that doesn't even involve them... I hope Who the fuck am I kidding its TikTok
Why can't this woman just live her life the way she wants to? She's an adult, no one is getting hurt, and she's happy. I think the problem is when women are _expected_ to be a housewife, not when they _want_ to be a housewife. As long as it's something that you want to do, I have no problems with it, what I have a problem with is if society or your significant other pushes this idea onto you that you have to be a housewife (or a mother or any other traditionally feminine role).
Bro I have so much more respect for you after watching this video, I am glad the younger generation acknowledges and recognizes the work that goes into creating and maintaining a household! Thank you for the video dude!
Actually this reminds me of something that happened in the comment section of Can vas' "Tarzan ultimate recap" video, a girl posted a comment saying about how she was gonna watch the video to revive his childhood while his husband was at work I kid you not, they instantly replied to her saying she should learn to do an actual work instead of being a fucking leech and relying on his husband for money. Most of the time it feels like they're just jealous that someone can actually relax a bit at their house without the need to worry about money, but even so housewife IS a job, and I doubt that 70% of the people who get mad at housewifes for being, well, housewfies, even know how hard doing housework can be.
I think a lot of the outrage came from her being condescending when it came to that first tiktok - And she is, at least in the first segment, I'm not going to lie about that. Although her friend did just set the questions up and she simply answered, so I won't blame her all too much. Not really worth the outbreak though, it's really obvious that she's simply benefitting from all of this lol
I don't know why all the other girls were upset, I myself am a woman and I'm proud of her for getting to this point. Thank you for saying all that you had it, it should be brought up.
They are jealous , she found that rich and good looking guy and became a wife now she literally has nothing to do worry about and the rest of them can't do that and are probably not happy with their 9 to 5 .
I’ve been married 9 years and I’m 30 now. I worked for many years till my accident 2 years ago where I got a TBI and recently was diagnosed with epilepsy. My memory is shot and instead of going from a nice job I studied for to KFC I decided to just go full time on the housewife thing which my husband supports. I wouldn’t have chosen this if life didn’t stand in my way but I still get judged, it sucks.
The problem isn't being a house wife, it's more so that thing of a 'traditional wife' which is just to keep the women in the kitchen and that stuff. People are mixing the two up. Being a house wife is as good as being a working wife as long as there are no financial problems, but this whole 'trad wife' thing is actually misogynistic and stuff. That's the problem. Edit: nice seeing misogysists here as well.
Great video Pegasus. I want to be a housewife one day with many children of my own, and I have often been shamed for it, back when I was in school and such. I appreciate this.
The only kinda weird part about this to me is that she refered to her husband as her boss, which makes for a somewhat concerning power dynamic. Still, she was probably just trying to explain her lifestyle using metaphors or whatever, she's free to be a housewife if she wants
The main problem here is that Feminism kinda warped into something disgusting after they won most of their battles. They then turned into that controlling force that says that all women must be a certain way or they will get shamed, which is a major thing they fought after they got equal or in many cases more rights than men.
My mom used to tell me in the future people will hate housewives so I should try to get a career. But seeing pegasus and other people in the comments made me have hope thats not gonna happen
I'll bet you dollars to doughnuts that they're just jealous they can't find a man who would be willing to let them stay home and be a housewife. Heck, I'd love to stay home and keep a nice house and make breakfasts and dinners for my husband and not have to slave away at a 9-5, but that's not going to be reality for 98% of us, ever
Creating a home, and especially raising children, is one of the most important jobs you could ever do in your entire lifetime. It's invaluable, and I wouldn't ever change it for the world.
i can definitely see why she's getting hate tho because of that first video, saying that she became a better human being, feminine and submissive. It can easily implicate that being feminine and submissive are part of being a "better human being", which definitely sounds like those conservative christian women who shit on other women for living how they wanna live (not saying that's what she meant or implied, but you gotta think of all the ways people may interpret your message when you post on the internet). Personally, I couldn't care less what you wanna be, you do you, booboo.
Nah twittards will make whatever they want into a problem, if even MrBeast got hate for making giveaways u think they won't flame a woman for wanting to be a housewife, so even if she worded it in a "better" way results will be the same
@@ox0ox0o no, its really like the op said. Its not "the twittards wanting to make everything into a problem", you just dont like thinking about what a person is saying XD Someone saying "you gotta be submissive to become a better human being" and "treat your husband like your boss" and "a woman has to work hard to earn her husband" (but not the opposite) Ofc most people are gonna find that phrasing to be a bit off. Plus it's literally the exact same thing that hyper conservative christian women always say to other women to shit on them. SHe even uses the term "high value male" which was literally created by the female reddit incel community lmao.
@@EveTheRaviolo why does someone need the word things better when it's the truth? Why should we be careful about the truth why should we sugar coat it? Problem with society we care about people's feelings more so than the truth. So when people say the truth in a certain way it affects alot people's fifes..... Good grief.
I can see the negative viewpoints for sure. One, she sorta makes it sound like every man needs to be raking it in like Bruce Wayne. That's a confidence raiser for men if there ever was one. Two, I can also see how these women are saying the "submissive" thing is concerning. Sometimes in a relationship like that, somebody may look happy in public, but we don't know what goes on behind the scenes. A good part of the time, guys that expect a submissive wife that just does what they're told without question are kinda dicks, and sometimes "kinda" is a huge understatement in this instance. So yeah, I gotta say, I'm kinda on team wtf for this one.
She even brought up that she still has her own autonomy. She can literally make a business of selling paper flowers on Etsy or something and just have extra disposable income while enjoying being a housewife.
My wife doesn't work. She knows she has to contribute, and that means either getting a job or taking care of everything at home like cooking and cleaning. She chooses not to work and there's nothing wrong with that. We do not have kids.
I've been a housewife for a while now and it's completely fine as long as you actually do your chores (which there are many and it takes time and effort so this IS work) however I do find it somewhat unwise for a woman to have no income in this economy and these times. Let's say husband dies or starts abusing you or some shit goes down and suddenly you struggle to even be hired at McDonalds. THAT is the biggest problem, that you need some sort of plan B in case terrible life shit happens. But when I give people this advice, I'm not mad that they are housewifes lol. I'll be looking for work again soon because I want to have my own money, even just a little bit.
I never understand why women hate the idea of being a housewife? I mean it's not a dead end job, the house needs to be cleaned anyway so having an entire day throughout the week instead of having a job and only having a little amount of time to clean the house.
*laughs in housewife* you will not believe how much crap I get for being a housewife. But I get to do what I want after the chores are done. My husband loves coming home to dinner ready and a clean house, and honestly it’s very satisfying to keep the house clean. Also we’re trying for a kid, so… soon I’ll be a stay at home mom :)
I get it that she’s happy about being a housewife and that’s great but when you start acting like you’re better than everyone else because of that you’re a narcissistic sad sack. My wife works, she loves what she does, she’s a Dentist, with a Doctorate. I’m in Electrical Engineering with a concentration in Biomech developing prosthetics. We both make good money, we bounce off of each other’s energy and talent. That’s a real relationship. We both take care of the house on our off time, I don’t need her to clean and cook and she doesn’t need me to make every penny or do everything for her. If the housewife/sole provider thing works for you, fine, but you are absolutely not better than anyone else
My mom had to quit her zoo job midway through her pregnancy with me and was a stay at home mom until her divorce in 2013. By 2016 she was fully employed since me and my sisters were all teenagers capable of getting ourselves to and from the bus stop every day. She's been at her job for six years, is planning to go back to school, has a boyfriend and owns the house that me, my sister, her fiance and our roommate live in. We all work to help with the bills. There isn't anything wrong with being a housewife, it just isn't for everyone and those people just like to make it everyone else's problem.
How have we come to a point where to some people, being an OnlyFans girl is more respectable than being a housewife? Being an OnlyFans girl is literally just selling nude photos & videos to simps, meanwhile a housewife has to take care of the house, the children, and the husband to some extent, all of which is a TON of work.
Housewives deserve respect just imagine cooking everyday for your husband and you, cleaning every single part of the house, help in literally everything, housewives do more work than working women (in my opinion), back in the 50s, there was only one option for women and when we have two, TikTok users complain about, someone ban this app.
Bro I would kill to be a house wife 😭 I don't have any time to clean my house and cook. Plus if you have kids you can spend time with them. Summer break coming? No problem. I don't have to hire a baby sitter. Kid needs to go home sick? I got it, no need to take a day to pick them up. It would be fire 🔥
My mum is the strongest person I know. She was valedictorian in both HS and collage. She was offered high ranking Jobs from both companies and the military; she turned them all down. Instead she chose to have a kid(me), stay home and raise me then become a teacher. Also being a housewife or stay to home mothers is a valid job. It takes handwork to run a home and or raise children.
That woman made her choice, and other women say choice your life and get mad at her for being a housewife. It like telling a man that being a stay at home dad or househusband is bad.😂 leave people lives alone.
@@mahatmagandhi2434 but why? I'm far from girly girl, but I also couldn't care less about people's choices in life.. I don't understand that mentality...
@@ProjektDarkSide because its feminist ideology that women should behave like men to be empowered and any women who wants to just live happily with their husbands are looked down by "modern whamen", they completely ignore the fact that womens brain has 9 times white matter than men while men have more grey matter hence their personality differs a lot , hormones are there too , lot of these only fans women are angry about their previous generation women being oppressed even though women from previous generation cringe at them , my sis in one of these "modern whamen" , she hates me if i dress in pink lol
@@mahatmagandhi2434 yeah, that makes perfect sense.. bugs me a lot that people can't accept that everyone is different and we should just let people live their lives, if you want to work 12 hours a day, go for it, but if someone stays home, that's frowned upon? I will never understand humans.. well yeah, those generational differences are always a huge problem, my grandma wanted me to change my whole wardrobe, she basically wanted me to be more conservative, even tho I dressed normal, nothing was showing 😂
As a person with a "I'm gonna make it on my own or die trying" attitude, I don't understand the hate she gets. Like, I would never do it, but it's her life not mine, so why should I care? She seems happy, so just let her do her own thing
Imagine if the roles were flipped. If the man stayed at home and the woman made all of the money for the house, people wouldn’t be ok with that. I agree it is fine to be a stay at home parent, but the reason people are mad is because people are trying to remove the gap between men and women to put them on equal footing and this situation is something that only a woman can do. I’m sure there would not be backlash if this was a normal thing to do for both men and women, but because it is a privilege of one gender and not the other (at least as of right now), people want to remove it.
As a mother who had no choice but to work, it seems like there’s always only 2 sides looked at…mom’s who stay home and mom’s who choose to work. Like it’s always a “choice”. Then there’s me 🙋♀️ A mom who has to work, unless we want to end up homeless. I don’t shame stay at home mom’s but I’m guilty of talking occasional “ish” BUT only because my ass is jealous 😂 I WISH I could have stayed home with my baby, I WISH I hadn’t missed all the class parties and field trips, I WISH I could have bypassed dropping off my son at daycare/preschool every morning while he pulled on the legs of my scrubs crying for me to not leave. That was f’ing heartbreaking and a huge reason I only had one child. I also have to keep the house clean, grocery shop, keep the laundry done and all the same stuff, I just don’t get to start on it until after 4 in the afternoon, once I’m done at my job. So I guess I’m saying I suspect some of these women are just jealous because they wish they didn’t have to work but I ALSO feel like everybody should remember there’s not just mom’s who get to stay home and mom’s who “choose” to pursue their career. There’s also a huge portion of us who WISH we even got the “choice” but don’t because well, bills, mortgage, food etc… My advice for mom’s who get to stay home is to remember some of us don’t necessarily work because we chose to work or because we chose to pursue our careers, we just didn’t get to choose. We can unintentionally get a lil bitchy (we know we shouldn’t), only because we wish we had gotten that choice, we wish we’d gotten to be at class parties, we’re gutted that the zoo trip was the only field trip we got to attend and some didn’t even get that, we wonder if missing all this stuff affected our kids in any way, we wonder if we’re doing enough and compensating enough for only get what sometimes feels like only evenings and weekends with our children who we love more than anything…. That’s all 🥰😘😉
Nice story person on pegasus video. Hope you know that the work you put in every day never goes unappreciated- even when it may seem like that sometimes. Take care of yourself fr
this!! i come from a lower income area ( i live below the poverty line, so big fat F for me, i am in a similar situation where it is work or be homeless ) and even though when my partner and i get married, i would like to be a house spouse, it isn't going to be an option for me, i don't see many people in the comments acknowledging this side of things because of course i respect people who can do it, often times it isn't a choice to go to work or not
@@draculaura_keyblade I don’t see “our” side being acknowledged much either when it comes to this discussion and it drives me crazy!!! I feel like it’s a very “privileged” way of looking at the subject to think that women who are mothers just automatically either choose to stay home or choose to work…. Having the choice in and of itself is a privilege. And if I had to guess, I could very well be wrong, but I bet there’s a higher percentage of mothers working outside the home because they have to, not because they’re just “so career driven” 🙄 This is just my opinion based on my circumstance, in my region and moms that I know. I bet it’s all skewed one way or another based on the region you live in. Women who live in “high income” areas of the country probably see more stay at home moms and the ones that work are probably in careers that are extremely lucrative. Thanks for commenting 💗
Well, I mean she's happy She's the one that's in control of her life, so it's not like it's sad if she wants that. Some people just like to judge other people's lives so much, it's like they don't have their own lives to judge Already. Honestly, if that person making those decisions are happy, then it shouldn't even be an issue to worry/think about whatsoever. People these days mostly just live out the same stereotypical things, that if someone Doesn't think the same or have a different opinion on how to live THEIR life, those people get irritated for no reason.
People quickly forget that what she describes is a relationship model, not a gender specific role assumption. It's about people giving effort in different ways. The providing person by working in order to cover expenses and the caregiving person to make sure that everything else is secured ike a clean home and food. It's supposed to be a symbiotic relationship. Those people completely disregard the work of a caregiver. If that woman wouldn't be cooking and cleaning, her husband would have a hard time keeping up with the chores as well with his work. In that case, she needs him to provide and he needs her to take care. It doesn't have to be like that but it's a system that has been proven to work. Also love Pega's opinon on empowerment because it hits exactly where I think it should: It's about having the choice and not to do the opposite out of spite, whether you want it or not.
Most women on social media will never understand that good rich quality men want good quality women, their preferences vary, but most of them want a submissive woman. It's your choice to decide if you want that or not, but if someone does choose that life then that's a consensually approved relationship. These same woman are sad in themselves. They'll never be able to have what the woman in the video has...so much for "empowerment." Thank you modern feminism for this backwards logic. -A woman.
sometimes i wonder if all this crazy feminist drama is killing submissive women. i don't agree with the woman in the video, you don't have to compulsorily be submissive to be a housewife, but that also doesn't mean she can't give out advice. it's not like the audience watching her (presumably older women) are all going to blatantly believe her. if you wanna be a housewife, dominant or submissive, you do you. there's nothing wrong with not being the dominant one, only these modern-day wOkE people think so. i mean, even if the new agenda is women being dominant and topping men, there's still going to be girls who want to cater to their loved ones, and i don't see anything wrong with it (as long as the other partner is loving too). let's not eradicate the thought of submissive women just bc more "girlboss" women exist. also, let's not call submissive women "pick mes" either, just bc they want to cater to a man/loved one
If I understood you well you say that dominant women can be housewifes ? If is that , actually kinda hard dominant women and men can't really cooperate because both have the mindset of " I'm right " and the moment they have different opinions the relationship may colapse
In general I feel that she has the choice to not work is more empowering than “forcing” women to work because choice is equality having no choice is inequality, so basically in the end she is doing what she wants to do and we should celebrate that.
For me idc if someone's a housewife, it's just "high value male" kinda stuff reminds me of incel/femcel terminology. Seems like this girl has fell into the femcel trap, which are a group of women who think that they can't get a partner without being a traditional housewife
People need to remember one thing about being a housewife: it’s a privilege. Women aren’t entitled on staying at home, and men aren’t entitled on having a wife do all the house work for them. Goes other way around too. You need to make sure that your husband/wife both agree on it and both want it :)
a lot of poorer people who want this dynamic also can't afford it which is important to also point out!! i live below the poverty line so it isn't going to be an option for me for a long time sadly ( although i would like to be )
shout out the hard working house wives! 👏👏
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Shoutout to my mom
@w h a t . hey its that toilet seat guy who comments 2 times every vid
Dont forget the house husbands
"Women should be allowed to do what they want"
Women does what she wants
"This set women back by 50 years"
Let's be honest, Amber wanted to kill Jhonny Depps career. That is what set women back 50 years
A very logical answer
tbh no one has an issue with housewives, its just how she talks about having to be submissive and treating your husband like your boss and being the only one bettering yourself to earn him
@@EveTheRaviolo yeah we saw how insecure the females in that comment section was towards her, I mean the insecure feministt as a whole just try their best to degrade housewife these days without any reasons, so I do not really buy ur point.
@@EveTheRaviolo yeah it's obviously not going to be the same, she was giving advise through her own experience
How she lives her life would only be a problem if she said “being a housewife is how YOU should live YOUR life”. NGL I had a friend in college who was absolutely brilliant, seemed like she could do anything she wanted in life, career-wise. She told me all she really wanted was to be a mother and a wife. And years later when she found that man she iced her career. I was disappointed but then I realized, it’s her life and presumably she’s happy. Let people live.
I don't think that's what she said though? Sure, maybe that's what she implied, but even the implication isn't saying 'how you should live your life', it's more so, 'how to get a husband'. She is rather problematic whenever she implies that you have to be feminine and submissive to get a husband, but she does make sense of it when describing it as a job - You're technically being submissive to your job/boss, it's just that for her case, her boss is someone she loves. Of course, as Pegasus says, not every man will want a feminine woman and I personally think that's what her problem is, otherwise she's just speaking about her experience and how she got her husband.
How is she annoying? I've seen other people do more stupid stuff and they weren't called annoying. She's just existing there. But I do get your point
@@imadoge5036 idk she just seems posh, and posh chicks always annoy me. It also kind of seems like, she's trying really hard to justify the choices she made like as if she isn't sure she did right by herself, or maybe that she's under attack. And fair play to that, she is under fire. I did take that part out of my comment because it's not relevant at all so yeah. Appreciate the comment, always good to check yourself
@@sonsauvage She literally responded with the most careless things she could get out of her mind, I doubt she is unsure
I make content just like Pegasus mane
My mom is a housewife. I can say that she works nearly twice as much as my dad dealing with 5 kids (including me), cooking, cleaning, keeping us from doing stupid shit, and on top of all that, she also works her trucking business at home (mom is the owner, dad is the co-owner). Not to mention, she also has to take care of my dad. So yeah, housewives have if hard but not in the way the commenters think lol
yeah, my mom used to be a teacher, but when she had kids, she just stopped, because it really wasn't worth it anymore. people should be able to do what they want to.
why the hell is my life literally like yours(except only 2 kids not 5)
I agree that being a housewife is often very difficult and requires a lot of hard work. But some housewives get off very easy and do very little work compared to their SO. My mom had some friends of that type.
@@WattoXtreme my aunt is one of those self proclaimed housewife who doesnt actually do much.. She can't even cook an egg properly.. It is RAW.
Yet men say wish i was a woman and chill at home.
I'd love to be a house husband and cook for my woman, raise the kiddos, clean etc. So I ain't gonna think less of a woman doing that. Doesn't make either of us any less of a man/woman. It's just a lifestyle.
My husband is a stay at home dad, he loves it, as does our son. My job paid more so after a long discussion we decided I would keep my job and he would stay home. Our son has medical issues that make public schooling difficult so we homeschool. I create the lesson plan for the upcoming week and my husband teaches it.
My son was incredibly happy to get to spend time with his dad & I think it's a great opportunity for all involved. My husband is a motorcycle/atv mechanic so he does do side jobs. He spends about 2-4 hours 3 days a week on this.
I highly advise keeping this mindset and not being too fearful to ever bring this up with your partner, as long as you both are in agreement. That's the biggest part.
Houseboyfriend here, it’s pretty fun considering I know how to cook and all that, and I have a small business that I can do from home and I get some okay money from it. It’s fun if you know what you’re doing and enjoy being at home.
Yea its really carefree, my mom is a stay at home mother and she has never been happier.She believes that a parent should be there for their children and a lot of jobs take that away from you
Right on point my friend. Having more time to bond with your family and children doesn't make you less of a man or a woman. It just makes you happy.
Literally my dad and uncle do that. Its chores, not gender work
As a female, I couldn't care less what another women does with her life. If you want to work at a job or career, good on you. And if you are a housewife or stay at home mom, good on you as well. As long as you are happy, then do you. Also don't get mad at other people because they have different life styles or values because that's their choice.
Edit: let me clarify. Don't get mad at other people having different life styles or values as long as what they are doing isn't harming other people or isn't illegal. Hopefully that makes sense. 😅
I make content just like Pegasus
ah yes, "as a women"
@@flabworst3140 lol
Bieng a housewife means doing work around the house just letting you know.
@@flabworst3140 here's your medal for pointing out a typo 🏅
we love how people shame other people for a lifestyle
For me idc if someone's a housewife, it's just "high value male" kinda stuff reminds me of incel/femcel terminology. Seems like this girl has fell into the femcel trap, which are a group of women who think that they can't get a partner without being a traditional housewife
@@howard4558 clown
@@howard4558 yeah that high value male caption I think was put in by the person filming and was just to like emphasize that he’s successful
But this does sound kinda like r/femaledatingstrategy
@@anthmantastic well that's just my opinion, no need to be rude
@@alwaysbored1700 even if it was by a friend, she clearly uploaded it knowing that caption was there. I mean idc if she is a femcel, she's got a man so good for her, but it's not exactly something I would applaud like Pegasus does because femaledatingstrategy basically just tells women to act feminine (even if they arent) be submissive to your man, and be a good housewife if you wanna get a man.
Being a housewife is totally cool, my cousin is one and she's awesome, it's just incel/femcel stuff leaves a bad taste in my mouth
Being a housewife isn't easy, sure they don't do 9-5s but there are different things at home itself that needs to be taken care of. Telling an adult women that she should work and be independent instead of being a housewife , when she herself has no problem with it doesn't make sense.
Id say its 24/7.
Fr fr
seriously let the woman live her life
You're completely right about how being a housewife isn't easy! My mom is a housewife and she works really hard - even when she's feeling poorly. She has to cook food, do the shopping, clean the house and more. A lot of housewives (and househusbands) do so much. It's a shame their efforts aren't recognised more.
Unless you don’t have kids its easy
I think it is sad that we as a society think selling pictures of your naked body is a more respectable occupation than being a house wife
Now that's a valid point
I make content just like Pegasus mane
Good point fr tho
@@mylegghh glad you could agree 💯👍
Some people really think that selling nudes is more respectable than raising functional members of society for future generations
Dude if I had a wife that made a big salary, I’d have no shame in being a house husband
Big same
I make content just like Pegasus
oh but god forbid if the tables are turned people gonna lash him
People are gonna make fun of you tho
@@hueyfreeman6262 Who cares about idiots who think having a way of living that works in your personal life and relationship and that you're okay and happy with is something to make fun of you for.
When I was around 15 I started getting into more “traditionally feminine hobbies” like cooking, knitting, sewing, etc. I was also spending more and more time on the internet and I was constantly ridiculed for being “so basic” and “conforming to gender stereotypes” it rlly messed me up because I felt I wasn’t allowed to be myself but I’ve grown since then. The issue of women who are “traditionally feminine” being called out as oppressive and even misogynistic is not uncommon even now, due to the sudden rise in “pick me girls” it’s a problem that’s not being addressed. Especially because nowadays there are people who will mock you for being “too feminine” or “too traditional” but there are still people who mock you for being “too independent” or “too masculine” There’s no winning
Me too I'd say. I grew up being the elder daughter, so I had to kinda be the "second man" in our family. so back when I was 15, I used to think I was a girl boss or whatever. now I'm 17 and quarantine really taught me well about myself. I found myself watching knitting videos a lot, painting, ball dancing, sewing, romcoms, etc, more so of the "traditionally feminine" stuff. but when I started expressing myself, I got called a "pick me". the definition of "pick me" is being poorly used these days, but I'm glad I did not take those to heart and worked on my hobbies. I can knit beanies now!
thats cool BUT WHO ASKED
I got that from my mom. The way I dressed back then was basically the stereotype gacha spoiled brat but without makeup. I was influenced by the standard for little girls at the time. My mom manipulated me a lot, and eventually I just dressed like a boy cos she’s a radical feminist. Now that I don’t don’t live with her anymore, I dress like a stereotype gacha spoiled brat but I got the makeup this time
This is true, and it's hard when you're so young and you want to fit in. I had the reverse problem when I was young because I was a tomboy and all of my closest friends were guys. It's like you can't win. If you're too masculine, you're not good enough, and if you're too feminine, you're still not good enough. You you just have learn to make yourself happy and not give a sh*t what anybody thinks. The "right way" to be a woman doesn't exist, but you do.
Wow. Cooking and sewing are life skills that actually help. Like its better for yourself if you learn it.
I definitely think the word “submissive” is the reason why a majority of people are angry. I used to be a stay at home mom, but I’m not at all submissive. However, you do have to cater to your partner more if they’re the only one working, I’d expect the same if the roles were reversed and he stayed home. Ideally, it’s 50/50 in whatever way you divide it, taking care of the home, bills and childcare if that applies. Now that we both work outside the home we try to divide up chores, responsibilities, etc.“Submissive” and “high value man” are just cringe triggers for a lot of people.
Yeah it sounded so cringeworthy. Who says “high value male” off of Reddit?
I think people are mad is because they want the people who are living a good life to experience what they’ve had such as a shitty job and etc. they jealous
@@ryann9026 I was pretty annoyed by what she was saying, but I’m not jealous of her life. It’s more of just how she worded it, kinda came off like she bragging. And since I’m not a fan of people bragging, I found it irritating
I once heard a different opinion of the 50/50 thing. Rather that it should be each person doing whatever they are capable or available to do in the relationship. I.e. wife doesn't bring kids to school because she needs to clean up after breakfast, or husband doesn't do laundry because he has to clock in at work. Etc. Etc.
@@felipew101 That’s why I say ideally. It’s unreasonable to think one can do more than they’re capable of. I feel like it just leads to a healthier and happier relationship to try to give as much as you’re getting. Sometimes my husband is really tired from his day and I’ll take over some of his chores so he can make music or play video games, he does the same for me on my heavy days. That’s obviously just my opinion and experiences, I understand it isn’t the same for everyone.
I see this as a win for her since she is taking care of the household and enjoying it rather than being in harsh working conditions
exactly! she enjoys it! why would she *want* to work a 9-5 job if she can work at home and be perfectly happy with it?
She can use the toilet without being fired by amazon!
“This set women back 50 years”
They know she’s not the only housewife in the world right
her vids aren't worth the outrage at all. the girl just wants to liver her life and now people are shaming her for not "breaking stereotypes"
I make content just like Pegasus mane
People who break stereotypes are sometimes my favorites
Well she’s breaking stereotypes, just not in the way those comments want.
I agree! Housewives and househusbands actually have a lot of work they have to do. And in my opinion as long as both people on the relationship are alright with the dynamic, then what’s the issue?
Sure it’s an issue if the husband wants her to work but she refuses or vice versa, but if both parties consent then who cares
I never understand people saying, that being a housewife (or househusband) is an easy job - I think it's honestly very ungrateful, hard, all-time job (not to mention that some women must deal with men who are hungry and tired and want to make sure everyone in this house knows that). Especially for families with children - I don't know a single Universe in which being a housewife and a mother of three children is easy.
Ikr typically people with regular jobs like a 9-5 have set work hours, I've been at work for 4 years straight now 😅 hahahaha I'm very tired
I'm a woman studying STEM and I love the idea of being a housewife, to use my knowledge to educate/homeschool my future children. The second you leave a job, everyone there forgets about you. You're "part of the family" until it's layoff season. What lasts forever is REAL family.
Edit: it's also perfectly fine to get satisfaction out of a career. Just let women do either or both without freaking out, please.
If u become a mom u will be a really chill mom
@@kkranthi4414 Awe, thank you. :)
I think you'd be the best mom ever! You seem like such an accepting and non-judgemental person and that your kids would be like your BFF's because of that and more trusting of you :)
Housewife here, I can relate to this woman because I've even been shit on by family for what I choose to do, but it doesn't bother me anymore. My husband is gone for work most of the year while I hold it down at home, so it's not easy, especially since we have a mini farm 😅
Girl, I'm trying to live that life! I understand that it will be hard but I'm willing to put in that work to get where I want to be! I have even tried to explain this to my family and all they did was shit on my dreams. It was very discouraging, but I'm still pedaling through and saving up a ton of money so I'm able to build my lil farm 💛
(Already have the land, just need materials!)
@@gunderstank2000 It is a good life to live! I hope you have much success ❤️
"GRRR I HATE THAT I HAVE TO GO TO WORK TO EARN MONEY AND SHE GETS TO STAY AT HOME AND SPEND MONEY WITHOUT HAVING TO WORK A 9-5 FOR IT!!!"
I mean it would be one thing if she sits down watching TV all day not doing a damn thing but she's cleaning the house. Like believe it or not that is a job and the husband pays her for it. Just with yk fun time
I live in india and my mom is a housewife and many of her friends are housewives and she is happy and they all are happy. In india being a housewife is a normal thing unless and until youre not happy doing it.
when my grandmother lived in india, she was a housewife. when she moved to america with my dad's immediate family, she had to work two jobs. the standard of living in america and the standard of living in india are completely different
Being honest I think no one should judge housewifes no matter the place, it's a working system, mostly the women are the ones who chose to be housewifes, everyone's happy and it's also stable. I really don't get why the place would affect that.
She seems like a down to earth ass person lol we need more people like her these days
Agreed, but it would better if we say "we need to be like this" instead of "we need people like this"
@@doumy3734 I think that goes against the concept of freewill but you're right
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 i think you misunderstood me, i was just saying, that if we want more people this confident in theirselves and be down to earth we should be them
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 @Doumy meant that if you see a good trait, don't put the blame on society for the lack of it, and don't give them the responsibility to adopt it. Instead, learn to adopt it yourself and be the leading example. A society where everyone wishes others will be better but does nothing will remain stagnant, but a society where people see something and say "I need to do it too" will flourish. In other words, don't tell people to be down to earth, be so yourself.
eh idk, some of the things she said sounded a bit off, like "you gotta submit to your husband" and "work for him, he0's like your boss" but aside from that yeah
2nd year, day 44 of reminding pegasus that he exists for 10 minutes a day.
@YeaMan dont care. Wont care. Bye.
@YeaMan don't care didn't ask
That's some dedication right there
@YeaMan At least spell page correctly if you are going to use a bot to advertise your channel, you absolute bozo.
Bro has been subbed since his first video lul not sure if this is true or not tho
I could care less about another woman choosing to be a house wife and depending on her husband financially, but the only part that sucks is that if her husband chooses to divorce her tomorrow, she'll be left with nothing. Or maybe not cause she'll most likely leave with almost half of his fortune. Ion really know how divorce works.
It depends, so you can get a paper and set the rules of how it will divide later or you can just half it, so in the beginning of marriage you two will sit down and pick whatever one is best.
If I could be a housewife, I totally would!
If I can make the guy I love feel good come home to a clean house, then I'd be happy.
The only thing that would set us back 50 years is having a one track mind. They don't think women should have a choice to have a job or be a housewife (its pretty much a job, but you get what I mean). They just think you HAVE to get a job.
What do you expect from tiktok honestly
@just i c e lmao i dont wanna fall for it 🌚🌚🌚🌚🌚
dogshits
@just i c e Is... Is it really here..? Is the package that I've been waiting for finally arrive? Have you finally come back with the milk dad? I needed it for my 20 year old cereal
I think if she's happy being a house wife then she should keep doing what she's doing. Personally I wouldn't want to be a House wife, but I wouldn't care if another woman doesn't want to be one
Being a housewife is a non issue but the word “submissive” is where people are going to have a problem.
why?
I'm bothered about “high value man”
Me and my fiancé agreed that whoever ends up being the big bread winner the other will be a housewife/husband and I’m perfectly happy with that idea
I'm happy as a housemate, and I get similar reactions that this woman gets. I'm viewed as less-than by my peers for being perfectly happy and content with washing and folding laundry, sweeping and mopping, cooking meals, tending to my garden and generally just taking care of the household while my boyfriend is at work. I've been called a freeloader, a leech, and other horrible things just because I don't work a conventional job, as if I'm not busting my ass keeping our house nice, our animals cared for, and even grow food for us on top of it
the response was ridiculous but at the same time when she said “you have to become feminine and submissive” like women who work cant be/are not submissive or feminine? That was odd. She could have worded it better but truthfully its her life and she can do whatever she wants, so can everyone else. My philosophy is to live your life but dont push your life style onto people who didnt ask or act like the way you live is how everyone should live and that its the only way to be happy.
I make content just like Pegasus
She didnt say “you have to become” she said “I became”. Source: 1:34 . Femininity and submission is what (not all) most men want for a housewife, so those are the points that landed her a husband. It may be a requirement (for most), but she didn’t say it was exclusive. It’s like saying “I got a job in accounting because I learned math” but accounting isn’t the only job with math, architecture does as well.
I believe it was Jordan peterson that said, that in a work place women need to adopt a masculine attribute in the workplace, they need to be aggressive and diligent in their work ethic to climb the work ladder, women aiming to get to the top are competing with other women but more so, men, and as such need to put in the extra hours, have a competitive nature, pushy to have them compete with other men fighting for those same higher paying positions. No one is just gonna sit back and be like here, take this higher paying position, when ur less qualified simply for being a women.
@@msquared016 i guess it depends where you work because i never feel like i have to be masculine or aggressive at my job as a woman. i never feel the need to compete with my co workers. The way the economy treats women is a separate issue- an important one- but not the topic at hand right now, of course i work hard but i dont feel at all like i have to compete with my co workers
@@immunityvi6968 sorry i must have misheard but why do you have to be submissive to be feminine? A woman who doesn’t want to bend backwards over what every man or any other individual in general tell her makes her less feminine? I don’t really like that mentality personally
edit: my bad i read that wrong but my point still stand since thats the energy that the videos carried
“what do you do for a living”
i scam men with their feelings for money
@just i c e your dad came back with the milk?
I wish this was a new phenomenon. I lost my woman card when I left paid work to raise our kids
I love it and have never regretted it. I support the choices that women make like this. That is actually empowering. You hit the nail on the head, the haters are probably insecure in their own choices and have to tear other women down to make themselves feel better about their own choices. Do what makes you happy and f everyone who doesn't like it. It's not their place to say anything because it's not their life, it's yours
I’m a 44 yr old woman with 2 masters degrees. If this women chooses to not to work and instead focuses on being a full time wife and home keeper, and she sought a partner who agrees, then good on her. I agree with her, looking good and being a full time housewife is hard work - harder then I work.
"I'm pretty sure she didn't actually expect that every woman who's a housewife has to be submissive."
Look up tradwives, that's literally it in a nutshell.
As a woman, being a house wife would legit be my dream. I love to garden, love cleaning/organizing, and going fishing. I would like to be in my children’s lives too, and be a reliable figure they can count on if they need a ride to their friend’s house or to school.
I would love that life too. Except I am a man who's wife is the current breadwinner.
damn. my mum is a probelm now becuase shes a housewife.
jokes aside, let people live how they want, as long as their happy. i really have to give kudos to my mum cuz she litterally gave up her career just to raise me when i was two or three, and im honeslty so grateful.
Im sure there are a few mature and sane ones there that didn't get offended by something that doesn't even involve them... I hope
Who the fuck am I kidding its TikTok
I make content just like Pegasus
Why can't this woman just live her life the way she wants to? She's an adult, no one is getting hurt, and she's happy. I think the problem is when women are _expected_ to be a housewife, not when they _want_ to be a housewife. As long as it's something that you want to do, I have no problems with it, what I have a problem with is if society or your significant other pushes this idea onto you that you have to be a housewife (or a mother or any other traditionally feminine role).
Bro I have so much more respect for you after watching this video, I am glad the younger generation acknowledges and recognizes the work that goes into creating and maintaining a household! Thank you for the video dude!
2:57 woah pegasus is really out there living a double life
You can be a househusband too
both ways work honestly. the couple can do whatever makes them happy
@@manmeet4804 yeah as long as it works do whatever
Actually this reminds me of something that happened in the comment section of Can vas' "Tarzan ultimate recap" video, a girl posted a comment saying about how she was gonna watch the video to revive his childhood while his husband was at work
I kid you not, they instantly replied to her saying she should learn to do an actual work instead of being a fucking leech and relying on his husband for money.
Most of the time it feels like they're just jealous that someone can actually relax a bit at their house without the need to worry about money, but even so housewife IS a job, and I doubt that 70% of the people who get mad at housewifes for being, well, housewfies, even know how hard doing housework can be.
I think a lot of the outrage came from her being condescending when it came to that first tiktok - And she is, at least in the first segment, I'm not going to lie about that. Although her friend did just set the questions up and she simply answered, so I won't blame her all too much. Not really worth the outbreak though, it's really obvious that she's simply benefitting from all of this lol
Yeah I was gonna say I don't think it's her being a house wife that's the problem with people it's her attitude about it
@@Sad0220 Y E S
I don't know why all the other girls were upset, I myself am a woman and I'm proud of her for getting to this point. Thank you for saying all that you had it, it should be brought up.
@beyond your imagination Finally, im reporting you
They are jealous , she found that rich and good looking guy and became a wife now she literally has nothing to do worry about and the rest of them can't do that and are probably not happy with their 9 to 5 .
I’ve been married 9 years and I’m 30 now. I worked for many years till my accident 2 years ago where I got a TBI and recently was diagnosed with epilepsy. My memory is shot and instead of going from a nice job I studied for to KFC I decided to just go full time on the housewife thing which my husband supports.
I wouldn’t have chosen this if life didn’t stand in my way but I still get judged, it sucks.
The problem isn't being a house wife, it's more so that thing of a 'traditional wife' which is just to keep the women in the kitchen and that stuff. People are mixing the two up. Being a house wife is as good as being a working wife as long as there are no financial problems, but this whole 'trad wife' thing is actually misogynistic and stuff. That's the problem.
Edit: nice seeing misogysists here as well.
*CLAPS* truth
LITERALLY THIS
Would people care if a man chooses to be a "house husband"?
Nah its tictok they dont even get halfway there. Theyre just really stupid
Ah yes, I forgot that all traditional wives do is stay in the kitchen lol ur ridiculous
Great video Pegasus. I want to be a housewife one day with many children of my own, and I have often been shamed for it, back when I was in school and such. I appreciate this.
The only kinda weird part about this to me is that she refered to her husband as her boss, which makes for a somewhat concerning power dynamic. Still, she was probably just trying to explain her lifestyle using metaphors or whatever, she's free to be a housewife if she wants
I think she was just making an analogy here.
@@stefannydvorak7919 Or it's a roleplay thing 😏
@@HelpW4nted Could be. But in the context of what she was saying, it’s clear to me she was just making an analogy.
-"Women can be whatever they want."
-"I wanna be a housewife."
-"😡"
The main problem here is that Feminism kinda warped into something disgusting after they won most of their battles. They then turned into that controlling force that says that all women must be a certain way or they will get shamed, which is a major thing they fought after they got equal or in many cases more rights than men.
My mom used to tell me in the future people will hate housewives so I should try to get a career. But seeing pegasus and other people in the comments made me have hope thats not gonna happen
I'll bet you dollars to doughnuts that they're just jealous they can't find a man who would be willing to let them stay home and be a housewife. Heck, I'd love to stay home and keep a nice house and make breakfasts and dinners for my husband and not have to slave away at a 9-5, but that's not going to be reality for 98% of us, ever
I mean why else would they be. Criticizing someone's life style speaks volumes more about yours
Creating a home, and especially raising children, is one of the most important jobs you could ever do in your entire lifetime. It's invaluable, and I wouldn't ever change it for the world.
"No! You can't be happy and take care of your household! You have to be miserable working at Starbucks like me! 🤬"
i can definitely see why she's getting hate tho because of that first video, saying that she became a better human being, feminine and submissive. It can easily implicate that being feminine and submissive are part of being a "better human being", which definitely sounds like those conservative christian women who shit on other women for living how they wanna live (not saying that's what she meant or implied, but you gotta think of all the ways people may interpret your message when you post on the internet). Personally, I couldn't care less what you wanna be, you do you, booboo.
Nah twittards will make whatever they want into a problem, if even MrBeast got hate for making giveaways u think they won't flame a woman for wanting to be a housewife, so even if she worded it in a "better" way results will be the same
@@ox0ox0o no, its really like the op said. Its not "the twittards wanting to make everything into a problem", you just dont like thinking about what a person is saying XD Someone saying "you gotta be submissive to become a better human being" and "treat your husband like your boss" and "a woman has to work hard to earn her husband" (but not the opposite)
Ofc most people are gonna find that phrasing to be a bit off. Plus it's literally the exact same thing that hyper conservative christian women always say to other women to shit on them. SHe even uses the term "high value male" which was literally created by the female reddit incel community lmao.
@@ox0ox0o plenty of housewives are on tik tok and no one has an issue with them. Its really just her and how she did not word things better.
@@EveTheRaviolo why does someone need the word things better when it's the truth? Why should we be careful about the truth why should we sugar coat it? Problem with society we care about people's feelings more so than the truth. So when people say the truth in a certain way it affects alot people's fifes..... Good grief.
Being a housewife is honestly a ton of work assuming you actually take care of cleaning the house and cooking, and all the rest. Respect.
I can see the negative viewpoints for sure. One, she sorta makes it sound like every man needs to be raking it in like Bruce Wayne. That's a confidence raiser for men if there ever was one. Two, I can also see how these women are saying the "submissive" thing is concerning. Sometimes in a relationship like that, somebody may look happy in public, but we don't know what goes on behind the scenes. A good part of the time, guys that expect a submissive wife that just does what they're told without question are kinda dicks, and sometimes "kinda" is a huge understatement in this instance. So yeah, I gotta say, I'm kinda on team wtf for this one.
I don’t think women understand that every straight guy has wanted a housewife at some point in their life
Imagine hating someone for living
Imagine hating someone who would rather be a mother 24/7 than an accountant that can only be a mother after work which is when they are most tired
She even brought up that she still has her own autonomy. She can literally make a business of selling paper flowers on Etsy or something and just have extra disposable income while enjoying being a housewife.
a perfect way to describe the people dissing her is "success can be a choice but I choose to suffer"
My wife doesn't work. She knows she has to contribute, and that means either getting a job or taking care of everything at home like cooking and cleaning. She chooses not to work and there's nothing wrong with that. We do not have kids.
I've been a housewife for a while now and it's completely fine as long as you actually do your chores (which there are many and it takes time and effort so this IS work) however I do find it somewhat unwise for a woman to have no income in this economy and these times. Let's say husband dies or starts abusing you or some shit goes down and suddenly you struggle to even be hired at McDonalds. THAT is the biggest problem, that you need some sort of plan B in case terrible life shit happens. But when I give people this advice, I'm not mad that they are housewifes lol. I'll be looking for work again soon because I want to have my own money, even just a little bit.
I never understand why women hate the idea of being a housewife? I mean it's not a dead end job, the house needs to be cleaned anyway so having an entire day throughout the week instead of having a job and only having a little amount of time to clean the house.
I do wonder how people would react to men staying at home doing chores for their working wife.
“how dare you be happy being the person you want to be”
Question: why is it considered empowering to be a sex worker, but it’s sad to be a housewife?
*laughs in housewife* you will not believe how much crap I get for being a housewife. But I get to do what I want after the chores are done. My husband loves coming home to dinner ready and a clean house, and honestly it’s very satisfying to keep the house clean.
Also we’re trying for a kid, so… soon I’ll be a stay at home mom :)
I get it that she’s happy about being a housewife and that’s great but when you start acting like you’re better than everyone else because of that you’re a narcissistic sad sack. My wife works, she loves what she does, she’s a Dentist, with a Doctorate. I’m in Electrical Engineering with a concentration in Biomech developing prosthetics. We both make good money, we bounce off of each other’s energy and talent. That’s a real relationship. We both take care of the house on our off time, I don’t need her to clean and cook and she doesn’t need me to make every penny or do everything for her. If the housewife/sole provider thing works for you, fine, but you are absolutely not better than anyone else
My mom had to quit her zoo job midway through her pregnancy with me and was a stay at home mom until her divorce in 2013. By 2016 she was fully employed since me and my sisters were all teenagers capable of getting ourselves to and from the bus stop every day. She's been at her job for six years, is planning to go back to school, has a boyfriend and owns the house that me, my sister, her fiance and our roommate live in. We all work to help with the bills. There isn't anything wrong with being a housewife, it just isn't for everyone and those people just like to make it everyone else's problem.
Unrelated but I just got an ad telling me to file my teeth.
How have we come to a point where to some people, being an OnlyFans girl is more respectable than being a housewife? Being an OnlyFans girl is literally just selling nude photos & videos to simps, meanwhile a housewife has to take care of the house, the children, and the husband to some extent, all of which is a TON of work.
Housewives deserve respect just imagine cooking everyday for your husband and you, cleaning every single part of the house, help in literally everything, housewives do more work than working women (in my opinion), back in the 50s, there was only one option for women and when we have two, TikTok users complain about, someone ban this app.
my mom was a housewife and raised me 24/7 honestly i was such a difficult kid idk how she did it
how does her being a housewife set us back to the 70's?
Bro I would kill to be a house wife 😭
I don't have any time to clean my house and cook. Plus if you have kids you can spend time with them. Summer break coming? No problem. I don't have to hire a baby sitter. Kid needs to go home sick? I got it, no need to take a day to pick them up. It would be fire 🔥
My mum is the strongest person I know. She was valedictorian in both HS and collage. She was offered high ranking Jobs from both companies and the military; she turned them all down. Instead she chose to have a kid(me), stay home and raise me then become a teacher. Also being a housewife or stay to home mothers is a valid job. It takes handwork to run a home and or raise children.
That woman made her choice, and other women say choice your life and get mad at her for being a housewife. It like telling a man that being a stay at home dad or househusband is bad.😂 leave people lives alone.
What's the problem with being a housewife? If any of those women had a chance to live happy like she does, they'd do it too..
its pure jealousy , most "modern whamen" get really insecure when they see a girly girl .
@@mahatmagandhi2434 but why? I'm far from girly girl, but I also couldn't care less about people's choices in life.. I don't understand that mentality...
@@ProjektDarkSide because its feminist ideology that women should behave like men to be empowered and any women who wants to just live happily with their husbands are looked down by "modern whamen", they completely ignore the fact that womens brain has 9 times white matter than men while men have more grey matter hence their personality differs a lot , hormones are there too , lot of these only fans women are angry about their previous generation women being oppressed even though women from previous generation cringe at them , my sis in one of these "modern whamen" , she hates me if i dress in pink lol
@@mahatmagandhi2434 yeah, that makes perfect sense.. bugs me a lot that people can't accept that everyone is different and we should just let people live their lives, if you want to work 12 hours a day, go for it, but if someone stays home, that's frowned upon? I will never understand humans.. well yeah, those generational differences are always a huge problem, my grandma wanted me to change my whole wardrobe, she basically wanted me to be more conservative, even tho I dressed normal, nothing was showing 😂
As a person with a "I'm gonna make it on my own or die trying" attitude, I don't understand the hate she gets. Like, I would never do it, but it's her life not mine, so why should I care? She seems happy, so just let her do her own thing
Society: girls should be able to make their own choices
Girl: makes a choice
Society: *gasp* HOW DARE YOU😡
Imagine if the roles were flipped. If the man stayed at home and the woman made all of the money for the house, people wouldn’t be ok with that. I agree it is fine to be a stay at home parent, but the reason people are mad is because people are trying to remove the gap between men and women to put them on equal footing and this situation is something that only a woman can do. I’m sure there would not be backlash if this was a normal thing to do for both men and women, but because it is a privilege of one gender and not the other (at least as of right now), people want to remove it.
What privilege? And I haven't seen people mad over house husbands with exception for radfems that hate seeing men be happy doing anything.
“Why are you mad?”
That shut everyone up
As a mother who had no choice but to work, it seems like there’s always only 2 sides looked at…mom’s who stay home and mom’s who choose to work. Like it’s always a “choice”.
Then there’s me 🙋♀️ A mom who has to work, unless we want to end up homeless. I don’t shame stay at home mom’s but I’m guilty of talking occasional “ish” BUT only because my ass is jealous 😂 I WISH I could have stayed home with my baby, I WISH I hadn’t missed all the class parties and field trips, I WISH I could have bypassed dropping off my son at daycare/preschool every morning while he pulled on the legs of my scrubs crying for me to not leave.
That was f’ing heartbreaking and a huge reason I only had one child.
I also have to keep the house clean, grocery shop, keep the laundry done and all the same stuff, I just don’t get to start on it until after 4 in the afternoon, once I’m done at my job.
So I guess I’m saying I suspect some of these women are just jealous because they wish they didn’t have to work but I ALSO feel like everybody should remember there’s not just mom’s who get to stay home and mom’s who “choose” to pursue their career.
There’s also a huge portion of us who WISH we even got the “choice” but don’t because well, bills, mortgage, food etc…
My advice for mom’s who get to stay home is to remember some of us don’t necessarily work because we chose to work or because we chose to pursue our careers, we just didn’t get to choose. We can unintentionally get a lil bitchy (we know we shouldn’t), only because we wish we had gotten that choice, we wish we’d gotten to be at class parties, we’re gutted that the zoo trip was the only field trip we got to attend and some didn’t even get that, we wonder if missing all this stuff affected our kids in any way, we wonder if we’re doing enough and compensating enough for only get what sometimes feels like only evenings and weekends with our children who we love more than anything…. That’s all 🥰😘😉
Nice story person on pegasus video. Hope you know that the work you put in every day never goes unappreciated- even when it may seem like that sometimes. Take care of yourself fr
@@Saibishii You just made my day…that was so sweet and THANK YOU! ❤️
this!! i come from a lower income area ( i live below the poverty line, so big fat F for me, i am in a similar situation where it is work or be homeless ) and even though when my partner and i get married, i would like to be a house spouse, it isn't going to be an option for me, i don't see many people in the comments acknowledging this side of things because of course i respect people who can do it, often times it isn't a choice to go to work or not
@@draculaura_keyblade I don’t see “our” side being acknowledged much either when it comes to this discussion and it drives me crazy!!! I feel like it’s a very “privileged” way of looking at the subject to think that women who are mothers just automatically either choose to stay home or choose to work…. Having the choice in and of itself is a privilege.
And if I had to guess, I could very well be wrong, but I bet there’s a higher percentage of mothers working outside the home because they have to, not because they’re just “so career driven” 🙄 This is just my opinion based on my circumstance, in my region and moms that I know. I bet it’s all skewed one way or another based on the region you live in. Women who live in “high income” areas of the country probably see more stay at home moms and the ones that work are probably in careers that are extremely lucrative. Thanks for commenting 💗
That kind of open my eyes.
the whole "high value man" feels weird. like a deja vu. where have i heard it before?
Well, I mean she's happy
She's the one that's in control of her life, so it's not like it's sad if she wants that.
Some people just like to judge other people's lives so much, it's like they don't have their own lives to judge
Already. Honestly, if that person making those decisions are happy, then it shouldn't even be an issue to
worry/think about whatsoever. People these days mostly just live out the same stereotypical things, that if someone
Doesn't think the same or have a different opinion on how to live THEIR life, those people get irritated for no reason.
People quickly forget that what she describes is a relationship model, not a gender specific role assumption. It's about people giving effort in different ways. The providing person by working in order to cover expenses and the caregiving person to make sure that everything else is secured ike a clean home and food. It's supposed to be a symbiotic relationship. Those people completely disregard the work of a caregiver. If that woman wouldn't be cooking and cleaning, her husband would have a hard time keeping up with the chores as well with his work. In that case, she needs him to provide and he needs her to take care. It doesn't have to be like that but it's a system that has been proven to work.
Also love Pega's opinon on empowerment because it hits exactly where I think it should: It's about having the choice and not to do the opposite out of spite, whether you want it or not.
honestly her life is her life🤷♂️
Most women on social media will never understand that good rich quality men want good quality women, their preferences vary, but most of them want a submissive woman. It's your choice to decide if you want that or not, but if someone does choose that life then that's a consensually approved relationship. These same woman are sad in themselves. They'll never be able to have what the woman in the video has...so much for "empowerment." Thank you modern feminism for this backwards logic.
-A woman.
sometimes i wonder if all this crazy feminist drama is killing submissive women. i don't agree with the woman in the video, you don't have to compulsorily be submissive to be a housewife, but that also doesn't mean she can't give out advice. it's not like the audience watching her (presumably older women) are all going to blatantly believe her. if you wanna be a housewife, dominant or submissive, you do you. there's nothing wrong with not being the dominant one, only these modern-day wOkE people think so. i mean, even if the new agenda is women being dominant and topping men, there's still going to be girls who want to cater to their loved ones, and i don't see anything wrong with it (as long as the other partner is loving too). let's not eradicate the thought of submissive women just bc more "girlboss" women exist. also, let's not call submissive women "pick mes" either, just bc they want to cater to a man/loved one
If I understood you well you say that dominant women can be housewifes ? If is that , actually kinda hard dominant women and men can't really cooperate because both have the mindset of " I'm right " and the moment they have different opinions the relationship may colapse
So being a house wife is a shameful thing....
its the culture these days that makes it to where if you want anything resembling a traditional life its disempowering and bad
People be shaming house wifes but supporting sugar babies
Man if i can become a houseman i ll fucking do it with 0 hesitation
Fr bro life on easy mode
In general I feel that she has the choice to not work is more empowering than “forcing” women to work because choice is equality having no choice is inequality, so basically in the end she is doing what she wants to do and we should celebrate that.
Modern girls will get angry at anything.
For me idc if someone's a housewife, it's just "high value male" kinda stuff reminds me of incel/femcel terminology. Seems like this girl has fell into the femcel trap, which are a group of women who think that they can't get a partner without being a traditional housewife
I mean she’s bragging on the first place and is asking for attention and fame. Idc if someone is a housewife or not, their choice
People need to remember one thing about being a housewife: it’s a privilege. Women aren’t entitled on staying at home, and men aren’t entitled on having a wife do all the house work for them. Goes other way around too. You need to make sure that your husband/wife both agree on it and both want it :)
a lot of poorer people who want this dynamic also can't afford it which is important to also point out!! i live below the poverty line so it isn't going to be an option for me for a long time sadly ( although i would like to be )
I never looked at this thing that way, this video was refreshing to me. Thank you for this video!
we live in a time where pegasus needs to explain the viewers what housewife means
Happy humble housewife triggers "independent" demons