So basically what they were telling you was that you love yourself, maybe a little too much for them to handle. I was in the same shoes too. A lot of people out there are used to having people as a placeholder in their lives. They want to move in with you, they expect you to do wifely duties at girlfriend living rate prices, ect.... The list just goes on and on. You keep doing what you doing. You make sure you keep your high standards high. 😊😊😊😊
I started getting called names and indirectly insulted because of my growth oriented and mindset even when I was a teenager. Now I feel like I'm leaving my husband behind because I got tired of carrying him.
I got told that I'm being selfish for not allowing myself to be put down and disrespected in front of our children. So when he told me to leave I left with our children.
I have always been a strong woman, as my mother was. I've been told I'm prideful, and that's the only thing I'll have if I don't tone it down. And be alone because of my pride. I'd rather be alone then change who I am. My pride has gotten me where I am.
So true, communication and growth is mandatory. I'm so tired of having to explain myself. I need some life experience from him, his goals, his passion. Inquiring minds want to know. I'm not really interested in the dating scene now. Social media is too fake and my energy can't tolerate drama and lies.😮
I use to try to support what ever my relationships wanted to do. I wouldn't reach my potentials until i felt like they were then i turned the focus on me.
So true. If you have standards expect quantity to decrease but quality will increase. And don’t let you be baddie on top of your standards!😮 they won’t like that
Like Drake said "Nice for What" 💯😄... Mr. Jaxn you be having ya girl PUMPED UP on not taking no more crap for the sake of being lonely. You teach me who to love and how to love myself more everytime I come across one of your videos. Thank you! Powerful message as always 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Yes many called me stuck up or that I think I'm better than other. But I truly don't feel or act that way ever. I'm just choosier who I have in my energy and whom I will allow around me . And I won't apologize for that period. I'm working towards growth and these people are not aligned with me.
THIS IS VERY TRUE ALSO DERRICK! I'VE HEARD THIS & BEEN THEIR. I'VE ALWAYS KNOWN WHO I AM, MY SELF WORTH, WHAT I WANTED, WHAT I WILL/WONT DO & JUST STOOD MY GROUND.
Unfortunately me too my sister. Took me a while but I finally had to face the fact that my marriage is a joke. Been together from 2000 and married since 2006. Has become a nightmare. Have enabled him far too long. Now I move on. Need to be stronger than ever even though I must admit, I feel a little scared.
Improove your self-concept. Your ex was simply mirroring your thoughts about yourself. His words were simply your thoughts. It's a blessing when you realize that everybody is mirroring you and showing exactly where you should grow.
Thank you!!! This is gold!!! I had to tap for my emotional freedom from weak men as I watched this ... Powerful and liberating truths shared that I really needed to be aware of going forward and as I release my old timeline 🙏🙌 Yah Bless You!!!!
These KIND are Men after GOD'S own Heart who Stand on TRUTH and His PRINCIPALS! Who build Families to Strong Tribes to Great Nations as GOD Intended them to be... GOD'S PURPOSE WILL NEVER BE STOPPED! GET IN OR GET LEFT! "I" Shared on fb. See y'all in the Master Class at 12 noon❤ Much Love❤ and honor and respect to you Derick Jaxn💜👑 Thank you!
I ... that would be me !! Absolute Truth ❤. He blames me for all the wrong he's done, but i can't make him do right ... WTH 🤔!!! Your faults are your own 😏
I think that us women who become mothers receive a kick in the a** from life and we don't really have a choice but to grow even if it's conscious or not. I personally got 4 kicks in the a** from life and I'm sooo gratefull for all 4 miracles. Men don't get this chance, they have to consciously get in that growth mindset since they don't biologically change that much.
@candygirl1990 thank you! Now please allow me to rephrase that for you, try this instead: "men like me so much that they are scared of me and how strong I am. But they really like this about me, it just scares them at the same time." What we think and say to ourselves is very important and that is what others reflect back to us.
Makes sense to me. It explains quite a bit. I experienced a lot of this in many ways. On several occasions what I present he git sarcastic. Once he made small changes, he never once acknowledged what I presented. Instead, it was all about what he recognized.
I was called self righteous, arrogant, judgemental and told id be alone the rest of my life .
Sounds like you follow Jesus Christ.
Because you respected yourself and you don't want to break your boundaries for them, count down and wait their statement will manifest their mistakes
So basically what they were telling you was that you love yourself, maybe a little too much for them to handle. I was in the same shoes too. A lot of people out there are used to having people as a placeholder in their lives. They want to move in with you, they expect you to do wifely duties at girlfriend living rate prices, ect.... The list just goes on and on.
You keep doing what you doing. You make sure you keep your high standards high. 😊😊😊😊
People who react that strongly to a woman who wants to stay single sure have a problem with themselves. Nunya biznaz...
Me too. And I don't regret it.
I started getting called names and indirectly insulted because of my growth oriented and mindset even when I was a teenager. Now I feel like I'm leaving my husband behind because I got tired of carrying him.
I went through the same thing…. That why I am getting a divorce
@nolisaharris900 sorry to read this. Hugs!
Read a book from Kristian Neff about self compassion. It will open your eyes❤️ Strenght to y'all😊
I got told that I'm being selfish for not allowing myself to be put down and disrespected in front of our children. So when he told me to leave I left with our children.
Good girl I myself just choose to stay single fit 42 and on a spiritual level with God
💯
So in other words you had a fight with your boyfriend and you took it out on your kids…..
Good job
@@jpeoplesAll me can not be like you. How y’all get like this? Serious question
I was called everything from stuck up to "perfect".
Ive been told I'm being selfish for having boundaries and sticking to them. Has resulted in being alone but im ok with it.
This session needs to be RE-VIEWED. Commit to memory ladies. TRUTH ❣️
Absolutely
Exactly my thoughts!!!!
Fragile egos are frustrating.
I have always been a strong woman, as my mother was. I've been told I'm prideful, and that's the only thing I'll have if I don't tone it down. And be alone because of my pride. I'd rather be alone then change who I am. My pride has gotten me where I am.
Men who just won't take no for a answer
So true, communication and growth is mandatory. I'm so tired of having to explain myself. I need some life experience from him, his goals, his passion. Inquiring minds want to know. I'm not really interested in the dating scene now. Social media is too fake and my energy can't tolerate drama and lies.😮
God Almighty defines and refined me and my heart too be set apart from jealous and envious people 💖💖💖
This video is definitely speaking to my soul. My life all day every day 💯🎯✨
I use to try to support what ever my relationships wanted to do. I wouldn't reach my potentials until i felt like they were then i turned the focus on me.
So true. If you have standards expect quantity to decrease but quality will increase. And don’t let you be baddie on top of your standards!😮 they won’t like that
Yes, yes, yes. You are on point my brother, God bless you 🙏
This message is priceless all true praying 🙏 blessed by this message ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
You preaching for all the Queens out there. 🎉
It’s that prevailing crabs in a bucket mentality.
People quick to say you trying to be something that you are not because you want better for your life.
Definitely talking to me. Thank you.
Every time I listen to you, you make such good sense.
Amen this is so right on so many levels. Wow!
Like Drake said "Nice for What" 💯😄... Mr. Jaxn you be having ya girl PUMPED UP on not taking no more crap for the sake of being lonely. You teach me who to love and how to love myself more everytime I come across one of your videos. Thank you! Powerful message as always 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️
Yes many called me stuck up or that I think I'm better than other. But I truly don't feel or act that way ever. I'm just choosier who I have in my energy and whom I will allow around me . And I won't apologize for that period. I'm working towards growth and these people are not aligned with me.
Thank you... ❤🎉 Good men need to hear strong women are available...
I needed to hear this. Noticed this happening but this explanation is golden.
🎉Well said Derek...thanks for sharing your insight
I was told I don’t know how to submit literally for no reason. But after watching this video I think I understand why now.
THIS IS VERY TRUE ALSO DERRICK! I'VE HEARD THIS & BEEN THEIR. I'VE ALWAYS KNOWN WHO I AM, MY SELF WORTH, WHAT I WANTED, WHAT I WILL/WONT DO & JUST STOOD MY GROUND.
Yes that's me ! Thank You 😊 so much for speaking TRUTH ❤
Unfortunately me too my sister. Took me a while but I finally had to face the fact that my marriage is a joke. Been together from 2000 and married since 2006. Has become a nightmare. Have enabled him far too long. Now I move on. Need to be stronger than ever even though I must admit, I feel a little scared.
Yep, I have been called stuck up and other names. I value me, I have my boundaries, I am very vocal and if no one likes it...Tough.
been called demanding, weak, completely crazy and on and on. OK, OK where you hiding all the grown ups, please Jacquelyn
Self control and acting correctly with regard to immediate reward, (delaying gratification) two qualities men must have
Thank You🙏🏽I've been called every name in the book.
I was told I was snoody and stuck up, and acting better than him! My ex said that a lot😒😒😒😒😒
Improove your self-concept. Your ex was simply mirroring your thoughts about yourself. His words were simply your thoughts. It's a blessing when you realize that everybody is mirroring you and showing exactly where you should grow.
This has been happening to me i need to leave
Me too. I will pray for you,
Thank you!!! This is gold!!! I had to tap for my emotional freedom from weak men as I watched this ... Powerful and liberating truths shared that I really needed to be aware of going forward and as I release my old timeline 🙏🙌 Yah Bless You!!!!
You always break it down just right. Thanks for spreading your knowledge.
You are so right! I needed to hear this. Thank you
Spot ON!!! 💯👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Great reminder. Thank you.
Amen 🙏🏽 amen 🙏🏽 I that is me for sure ...
I just need to say this...
Derrick... GOD BLESS YOU!!! A Million times..
This message was directly for me.
WORTHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH,
MEANS EVERYTHING TOOOOO ME...AMEN ❤
This was very helpful. Thank you 🙏
PRICELESS MESSAGE!!. . . GOD BLESS
❤🎉love it!! Everything is totally True!! Just share it to my friends!! 🙏🏼👌🏼
Yes, I was told that I think that I'm better than everyone else! Ha ha!
Thank you Sir!!!! I appreciate your teaching.
These KIND are Men after GOD'S own Heart who Stand on TRUTH and His PRINCIPALS! Who build Families to Strong Tribes to Great Nations as GOD Intended them to be... GOD'S PURPOSE WILL NEVER BE STOPPED! GET IN OR GET LEFT!
"I" Shared on fb. See y'all in the Master Class at 12 noon❤
Much Love❤ and honor and respect to you Derick Jaxn💜👑 Thank you!
Thank u so very much for this Mr Jaxn. U have no idea how much u have opened my eyes on this
Amen This helped me and brought clarity
This is very true...✨✨💛✨✨.
I ... that would be me !! Absolute Truth ❤. He blames me for all the wrong he's done, but i can't make him do right ... WTH 🤔!!! Your faults are your own 😏
So enlightening! Thank you
SPEAK BRO!!!!💯💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You hit this right on the nose . Exactly what I went through for a long time 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You transformed my mindset. Thank you Derrick. 🙏
Yess speak the facts .. Dee ❤ 😊good 👍 message
thanks so much for this video.
Your Always on Point!! Ty🤴🏽🙏🏾
You are helping me so much
I'm a good woman and I know it. Not perfect. Still learning, but a damn good woman.
Thank you!😊
I needed this information
Spittin facts. Damn.💪🏽
This is a great video I felt the spirit on this! Thanks Derrick!
🎉🎉 Yep, I Upgraded my past 3 relationships.
One reason is the men cant stop wearing the women's 9-year-old SON T SHIRTS
I’ve got told that I’m a b**ch a lot because I was blunt and straight forward with my boundaries. Sent a lot of guys packing
SPEAK'IT..........💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
This message applies to all the men in our families. Thank you My Brother!
I love your videos! Thank you ☺️
Yes, heard it so many times.
Since I have been 13 to 62 years they even went way to far to try and HUMBLE ME!
Hi Derrick
Wow powerful
Thanks
Thank-you
Checked all boxes.
I got called Nasty more times than I can count
On point!!!!!
Love it ❤
Thats me Frankie!
Damn. Need to listen to you more than a few times
*People assume I'm getting impatient with my "stagnancy" period, but don't innerstand the training days of a Super Saiyan Queen 👑 in her training pod
Many thanks.❤
Thats me he use to insult me all the time when i stand up for my rights and set boundaries
I'm listening
Yessss
Thank you👏
Good one🙂! All #faith #longterm and #tryingagain ✨.
Yep
Exactly 💯❤!
I think that us women who become mothers receive a kick in the a** from life and we don't really have a choice but to grow even if it's conscious or not. I personally got 4 kicks in the a** from life and I'm sooo gratefull for all 4 miracles. Men don't get this chance, they have to consciously get in that growth mindset since they don't biologically change that much.
So true, you sound like an amazing woman. I'm a mum too, and most men don't like me because I'm strong ❤❤
OH YOU ARE SO RIGHT!! 👊
@candygirl1990 thank you!
Now please allow me to rephrase that for you, try this instead: "men like me so much that they are scared of me and how strong I am. But they really like this about me, it just scares them at the same time."
What we think and say to ourselves is very important and that is what others reflect back to us.
I was called selfish because I want things and that I'm strong.
Makes sense to me. It explains quite a bit. I experienced a lot of this in many ways. On several occasions what I present he git sarcastic. Once he made small changes, he never once acknowledged what I presented. Instead, it was all about what he recognized.
Your telling the truth
Brilliant..
I hear you 👏👏👏👏
Definitely been called alot of things
Like took the fking message right outta my conciousness :O