I'll be glad when yall just go on ahead and marry a white dude or whatever yall want..I never talked this much about mfs I dont li like. It be the same good for nothings picking the wrong dudes and the get on the internet crying.
If you have to ask yourself this question then you already know the answer. The collective of Blk men do not love Blk women, they may love the women in their family however that love doesn't seem to extend beyond their inner circle.
@@crystalmason829 My daddy ain't ish both my grandaddies ain't ish. My uncles, cousins, and 1 brother aint ish. None of them treat women right. All the men in my family use women for money and a place to stay. They always pull beautiful, intelligent, feminine women. And they just dog them out. They have that mentality where they are prizes. And most of them refuse to marry they baby moms. They are very disloyal. They cheat and cause problems so they can move on the next victim. Both my dad and my brother made baby moms out of 2 Mexican women. I refuse to let me treat me like that and that's why I can't be around them.
The fact that this is actually a topic is pitiful. It means the answer is NO! We know other races and ethnicities of non-black men love their women because they provide, protect, provide stability & family and not on public platforms trying to ruin the image of "their" women. Majority of BM perpetuate colourism, dont provide and definitely dont protect (BM to BW DV cases are the highest) and also support men who are "relationship coaches" who say the most egregious things about BW. So no, they DONT. BW stop looking for validation from BM, expand your options and vet these men. Go where you are celebrated.
What? Its BW like you that divest. And get with the Brad/Jose/Chen Nguyen/Abullah, that dont wash, smell like wet dogs, and abuse you, and u submit, like a slave. Some of of you end up dead. Where Brad has killed you. It doesn't bother a strong educated BM like me. BW and BM like you, are sad, and have self hatred.
Why is that non-celebrity black women (so normal black women) can see the truth but these women on the panel are lying 🤦🏾♀️ your comment is the truth yet these celebrities are gaslighting us 🤦🏾♀️
Why do we blk women talk about if blk men like them or not? Who cares about them & their likes or dislikes when they hate themselves. How about we put ourselves first as blk women?! As a whole, I’m indifferent to blk men who are not in my family and my friend group. Just like blk men don’t see their moms or sisters in every blk woman, I don’t see my dad or brother in the collective of blk man. I treat blk men on a case by case basis and will move forward based on those interactions. I give more care and grace to blk women because I know we carry the burden of the world on our backs and its not easy.
@Lovely Day they’re only now seeing it because 2-3 of them on the panel were blk male preferences for a while but not so much anymore since the blk males are going straight for wyt women 🤣. They’re getting their Nakker wake up!
@@truthteller48 Lol, Well in what ways do the collective of Black men show Black women that they love, desire and support Blk women? I await your response. 💅🏽💆🏽🙆🏽😴😳
@@NamasteInYourLane yep, this is why I have decided not to birth a black male. I realized that blk women don't benefit from birthing them, collectively. We're basically birthing our enemies.
When black men show us that they don’t love us. It shows. Let’s stop making excuses for these grown black men. Let them go where they want. Black women, go where your loved and appreciated.
Hell No! Claudia is telling the truth. As for Selena, she is also right, but I do think that "you always hurt the ones you love" just gives bad behavior a pass. There seems to be a desire to exercise control in relationships that they can not exercise out in the "world."
What do Black men really be doing? Cause I be seeing yall talk about this but I dont really see it anywhere, and I didn't see it when I was growing up...of course we all know of people who suffered domestic violence but it isnt and was never just commonplace..like, most dudes ain't on that..and it's not exclusive to BM.
@@2good2leaveunow I didnt say anything about the white female vs white male dynamic...🤷🏾♂️....I was talking about people...I asked what Black men be doin...you didnt answer that tho....you just wanna talk bout white folks🤦🏽♂️
This is part of the problem. BM have been out here trashing BW since the 70’s. This pick me , mammy , he hurt, he oppressed , he this and that is the BW’s mantra. When will you all stop mulling, capping and coddling???? Here you have four successful BW with relationship challenges - I won’t go further on them. Stop saying you are strong - stop jumping to BM aids. BW you are not their preference PERIOD!!!! Stop letting other BW keep you chained to oppression . Stop being in denial.
💯 Vivica a Black woman needs love just like all other woman, if the man is from East, West, North or South and from another race so be it, just come with the love and respect.
@@roberthicks5550 Hun I been married for over 20 yrs I am speaking to the younger girls. My young generation didn't spew hate like this silly generation. The black men and women were more united and even if we weren't dating we were good friends with one another. I don't know what y'all doing. I married a black man from a different culture but none the less he is black and he doesn't bash women of his culture either which is to be respected.
Some of the people in the comments are generalizing Black men and it needs to stop. I am not guilty of not loving Black women just because some random dude I don’t even know on the internet decided to talk shit. 😐
@@truthteller48 you're right! Not taking anything away from our fine Black men...however, these days half of our Black brothers like other races, men or are in jail. Black women can't catch a break, sorry! We catch it from Everybody.
You had it right the first time sis. Don't let narc gaslighting change what you can clearly see. The whole world can see it, go where you are loved and respected.
Claudia Luv u sis and the truth is the truth! I think there are many nuances within this conversation. Regarding women...disliking each other. It's happening in all cultures. It's highlighted in ours bc we are what's in the media. Our culture is on display! There are many loving sistas. I see it!❤
I hear u Kaliha, I was taught by my amazing Mom, to be kind, & that it takes nothing away from me. To compliment, encourage, support, my girlfriends. Unfortunately, I'm seldom treated nicely by my sisters. We can be so much better!.❤
I think we, as black men and black women, have a ton of mental/emotional flaws in our blueprint for relationships that affect how we look at ourselves and those that look like us. As much as you can say it about black men, there are many black women following these female rappers saying they don't date a man if he aint rich, built like this or look like that. We have forgotten black love for ourselves. But hey, I could be wrong, just my opinion.
There will NEVER be a greater ally to Black men than Black women. So many Black men provide, protect and love Black women & demand that our sons to follow suit. Another great segment, ladies. 👍🏾
“They don’t hate us, they hate themselves!” Well said Syleena! 👏🏾 The issue is instead of working on learning to love ❤️ themselves, they project their anger, frustrations, they have on us.
But then she turns around and says she doesn't believe they don't love black women. She makes no damn sense. You can't hate yourself and love anybody. Sheesh.1
Majority may desire us, but not enough of them actually LOVE us.. because love is an action. It is something that you must do. What are collective of BM doing to show that they love us? How do black women show that we love them? You see the difference?
So who is raising these black men??? Are parents spending time teaching and training their sons to love themselves and see value in themselves enough to want to continue a legacy that looks like them and to love deserving black women. We can’t have this conversation without discussing the role and affects the first person who have total access of black men and that’s their black mother from birth. Stop ignoring your sons and start raising them to be kings you want them to be!
You can't raise kids if you have to work full time because the "kang" left that bastard. Don't demand motherhood when yall are failing fatherhood. It's the MEN that should raise their son's right.
We didn’t come over on NO boat! We were already here Pre-Columbus as well as before the arrival of the Mongolian people. Please do your research Black women!
Thanks my people for your great show.well I am a black man I love my black women that doesn't mean I hate white women I might have a preference like everyone else .i like the subject you are discussing . The media doesn't speak so much on black females talents .keep it like this .much love and support for your .peace and be smart.
I can’t speak for all black men, but I grew up with BM that married BW. As child of the 1970’s I thought every love song was about a BW. Then pop culture changed, the music became more misogynistic, and BW really didn’t push back. Imagine being 15 year old boy watching Destiny’s Child sing about how they want a soldier...”If your status ain’t hood I ain’t checking for you” Ladies, young boys, even the ones with fathers at home tend to emulate what’s popular. If our BW didn’t accept the under achiever, and demanded something more from BM the optics might’ve been different. And if BM pulled their drawers up and start leading in the right direction, maybe our women would follow. Ms Fox, do you know how many BM didn’t wanna see you with a Fiddy Cents:) Listen, BM don’t hate themselves, and the younger generation of BM know that anywhere on this planet, some non blk female is curious...I’m talking about male hormones, and sexual conquest, not preference. The plan to destroy the blk family is working, we got men flying to Thailand looking for wife’s..wtf! I thought that’s what old white dudes did.
Ladies, to be dishonest, is to set the next generation up for failure. Sometimes, truth hurts. These men are certainly loud and clear, so why is Selena behaving so oblivious and ignorant. If you can't even properly discuss what's true, how can you possibly expect to break any cycles.
As a collective you do not see them in the media/ social media talking down & against their women. They marry them and provide for them and their offspring.
@@Yae391 no. They down women in general, they won't say white women. Just like when white girls are fed up with white men, it's just men they fed up with. And don't black women down black men in social media as well?!
From my observations white men protect their women. I have seen white women that were strangers and weren't sh*t, and plain wrong in their dealings but the white man saw the value in her.
I never dated bm so I was never subjected to the terror of dating them, but I watched my horrible father and all the males around me while growing up treat Black ladies like trash. My horrible father sent my black male worshipping mother to an early grave. My husband of 15 years is White and we have a wonderful life together because he comes from a culture where men are leaders, protectors and providers. I encourage Black ladies to STOP the black male worship and do what is best for you. Expand your options, travel and explore the world. Black males abandon their communities years ago and they are never coming back. Go where you are loved and cherished Black ladies. Blessings!
No alot of them don't they are coddle to much and praised for nothing all they have to be is handsome that's why they have the biggest egos 😒 and think they look better than us ...I'm glad they are speaking how they really feel about us on SM so now it's no mystery to why they decide not to love us but to use us and do the bare minimum while cheating 🙄
Lmaoooooo🤣 If this is a question then you have your answer. "You hurt the ones you love the most"????? Now that's dangerous rhetoric that will have victims running back to thier abusers and mistaking abuse for love. Why not be honest ladies. Stop pacifying bm. Syleena's talking points are very dangerous. We are being terminated every 5 HOURS. My generation don't care about these ninjas. The older generation had the chance to get thier ish together and now my generation of bw r not mulling. Also, Claudia cut the crap. Why is it that when we speak of bm not protecting bw do yall deflect and tell bw they dont love themselves or other bw. Why us a biracial women speaking for bw? Ain't nothing real about this show. I'd like them to debate Cynthia to actually get real.
I'm gonna choose who loves me, period. I LOVE black women. What I don't love is the disrespect I've gotten from the black women that I have loved. And as I've aged, I still can't seem to find one who won't blatantly disrespect me when I tell her no too many times, then claim I'm weak because I won't deal with her holding me accountable and her "strength as a black woman" when indeed I find blatant disrespect due to disagreement, weak. I don't respect it. And, that isn't me claiming perfection, I know I suck sometimes too. "Passion is mistaken for aggression" Only when that passion is accompanied by mental and emotional abuse. No one talks about the way some black women choose to blatantly disrespect their husbands, no one talks about how some black women choose bad men that give them the narrative outlined in this video. Everyone has choices. Listening to this video, and reading the comments beneath the video, I find a serious lack of personal responsibility, and a lot of finger pointing, and even a couple cop-outs. The title of the video even suggests a divide, when there should be no competition in the union. There are some damn fools out there biased about our beautiful women, and that's crazy, but ok for them. I LOVE my black women, but I love my self, and my peace even more.
THATS THE PROBLEM YOU TOOK ON SOCIETY'S TITLE AND WENT WITH IT...THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE IN A MAN EXCEPT HIS SMELL, HOW HE IS RAISED AND DOES HE HAS A FORESKIN...YOU ALL STILL PERPETRATE A PROBLEM...TO YAHWEH WE ARE NEGATIVE/POSITIVE..
@Ndeye Delgado no, I mean the image that showcases who the majority of Black men date and marry because that’s indeed the standard of who Black men are choosing. nIcE tRY. 🤣
@Ndeye Delgado you’re the only one denying the factual evidence so clearly the only person who wants to broadcast the delusions here is you 🤷🏿♂️😂. And this ain’t bout what I choose shawty and your supposed lack of concern for that, it’s about you refusing to accept reality.
I think we need to stop lying for black men. Their action speaks for itself.
Are black women lying for them or lying to themselves?
Like marrying yall at an 80% rate? Lol black women I tell you.
I'll be glad when yall just go on ahead and marry a white dude or whatever yall want..I never talked this much about mfs I dont li like. It be the same good for nothings picking the wrong dudes and the get on the internet crying.
The actions of us (Black men) loving Black women definitely speaks for itself, you’re right.
@@CharlieXFBA only 30% of black men are married. Of that 30%, it’s 80% that’s married to black women. Nothing to proud of
If you have to ask yourself this question then you already know the answer. The collective of Blk men do not love Blk women, they may love the women in their family however that love doesn't seem to extend beyond their inner circle.
They don't love their biological sisters they don't love their cousins they don't love their mothers
....most of them always say fuck family
Facts
@@crystalmason829 My daddy ain't ish both my grandaddies ain't ish. My uncles, cousins, and 1 brother aint ish. None of them treat women right. All the men in my family use women for money and a place to stay. They always pull beautiful, intelligent, feminine women. And they just dog them out. They have that mentality where they are prizes. And most of them refuse to marry they baby moms. They are very disloyal. They cheat and cause problems so they can move on the next victim. Both my dad and my brother made baby moms out of 2 Mexican women. I refuse to let me treat me like that and that's why I can't be around them.
I can’t even say black men love the women in their family. I’ve had cousins who have dogged out their own mothers and sisters over WW they date
@@scottrogue946 True indeed, good point.. 💌
Syleena is so so wise & emotionally intelligent. She said "black men don't hate us, they hate themselves," That was a word!
SELEENA is a mammie
But there's no loving anyone else if you don't love yourself though.
Oh just like yall hate yallselves huh? Just like Darkskinned women hate Lightskinned women? Delusion is real with yall 😂
Wise and intelligent until she called "Hatian" a race!
But they project that to black women instead of dealing with it.
Black women, go where you’re appreciated.
Oh you think other races of men appreciate you more than black men? LOL
@@CharlieXFBA 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@CharlieXFBA YES!
@@honeyc Now that's just delusional. Compared to other women, black women are the LEAST desirable outside their own race. The statistics prove this.
Nobody wants y’all tho
Black women, if we have to ask we already know the answer. Please go where you are loved and appreciated.
The answer to the question is yes.
The fact that this is actually a topic is pitiful. It means the answer is NO! We know other races and ethnicities of non-black men love their women because they provide, protect, provide stability & family and not on public platforms trying to ruin the image of "their" women. Majority of BM perpetuate colourism, dont provide and definitely dont protect (BM to BW DV cases are the highest) and also support men who are "relationship coaches" who say the most egregious things about BW. So no, they DONT. BW stop looking for validation from BM, expand your options and vet these men. Go where you are celebrated.
What? Its BW like you that divest. And get with the Brad/Jose/Chen Nguyen/Abullah, that dont wash, smell like wet dogs, and abuse you, and u submit, like a slave. Some of of you end up dead. Where Brad has killed you. It doesn't bother a strong educated BM like me. BW and BM like you, are sad, and have self hatred.
🎯💯💯💯
Cap 🧢
Why is that non-celebrity black women (so normal black women) can see the truth but these women on the panel are lying 🤦🏾♀️ your comment is the truth yet these celebrities are gaslighting us 🤦🏾♀️
They love their women because their women act like women and look like women.
Why do we blk women talk about if blk men like them or not? Who cares about them & their likes or dislikes when they hate themselves. How about we put ourselves first as blk women?! As a whole, I’m indifferent to blk men who are not in my family and my friend group. Just like blk men don’t see their moms or sisters in every blk woman, I don’t see my dad or brother in the collective of blk man. I treat blk men on a case by case basis and will move forward based on those interactions. I give more care and grace to blk women because I know we carry the burden of the world on our backs and its not easy.
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Exactly
@Lovely Day they’re only now seeing it because 2-3 of them on the panel were blk male preferences for a while but not so much anymore since the blk males are going straight for wyt women 🤣. They’re getting their Nakker wake up!
BLACK WOMEN CARE BECAUSE WE ARE A REFLECTION OF BLACK WOMEN
Based on what I've heard in the media from Blk men and who I see Blk men with in public, the answer is no.
Your anecdote doesn’t determine whether an entire racial group of men love their race of women. Sorry to bust your bubble. (Not really)
@@truthteller48 Lol, Well in what ways do the collective of Black men show Black women that they love, desire and support Blk women? I await your response. 💅🏽💆🏽🙆🏽😴😳
@@fefe6964 by being in relationships with Black women more than any other race of men on this planet.
@@truthteller48 So being in a one-sided relationship that isn't reciprocal is how Blk men show their love for Blk women?
@@fefe6964 not every Black relationship is like that so no.
I have irreconcilable differences with black men, collectively. I will never forget/forgive them for abandoning black women and perpetuating colorism.
The problem is YOU!
@@penelopepitstop401 No the problem is you bih!
Thank you they are treasonous to black women and I will never forgive black men either
Or forgive them for standing by and allowing and watching and even participating in the harm of black women for YEARS.
@@NamasteInYourLane yep, this is why I have decided not to birth a black male. I realized that blk women don't benefit from birthing them, collectively. We're basically birthing our enemies.
When black men show us that they don’t love us. It shows. Let’s stop making excuses for these grown black men. Let them go where they want. Black women, go where your loved and appreciated.
Hell No! Claudia is telling the truth. As for Selena, she is also right, but I do think that "you always hurt the ones you love" just gives bad behavior a pass. There seems to be a desire to exercise control in relationships that they can not exercise out in the "world."
What do Black men really be doing? Cause I be seeing yall talk about this but I dont really see it anywhere, and I didn't see it when I was growing up...of course we all know of people who suffered domestic violence but it isnt and was never just commonplace..like, most dudes ain't on that..and it's not exclusive to BM.
@@King_Verb_ What do you mean what are BM doing? The Black femicide rate is every 5.5hrs. Is that not enough!?
@Abioye Chidike Adebowale Black men are being discussed because I don't know that this audience gives a damn about the White male - female dynamic.
@@2good2leaveunow I didnt say anything about the white female vs white male dynamic...🤷🏾♂️....I was talking about people...I asked what Black men be doin...you didnt answer that tho....you just wanna talk bout white folks🤦🏽♂️
@@King_Verb_ they be killing black women… go read the statics.
This is part of the problem. BM have been out here trashing BW since the 70’s. This pick me , mammy , he hurt, he oppressed , he this and that is the BW’s mantra. When will you all stop mulling, capping and coddling???? Here you have four successful BW with relationship challenges - I won’t go further on them. Stop saying you are strong - stop jumping to BM aids. BW you are not their preference PERIOD!!!! Stop letting other BW keep you chained to oppression . Stop being in denial.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Exactly im tired of these mammies
Black woman we need to put our action to work. Love one another. No more colors comments or body shaming. No more negativity more positive vibes. Ijs
💯 Vivica a Black woman needs love just like all other woman, if the man is from East, West, North or South and from another race so be it, just come with the love and respect.
I like how they are answering questions about how a black man feel and not one of them is a black man.
Facts. They need black men on there and not them two gay a$$ niggas they have on there
actions speak louder than words..black men display the words and the actions, that they don't give a damn about black women.
@@angeebb3080 You’re right! So, when are you idiots gonna leave us alone & date/marry out? SMH
EXACTLY
@@roberthicks5550 Hun I been married for over 20 yrs I am speaking to the younger girls. My young generation didn't spew hate like this silly generation. The black men and women were more united and even if we weren't dating we were good friends with one another. I don't know what y'all doing. I married a black man from a different culture but none the less he is black and he doesn't bash women of his culture either which is to be respected.
Can we talk colorism though? So many BM love anything that is not black/dark/African features. What is that about???
Self hatred.
I don't understand what Syleena is saying. The men would need to love themselves first before they can love the women.
Year they go to other races 😒
Black Women ... start widening your dating options. I love black men bit am longer confining myself to only date black. Plenty of fish in the sea
What do you love about them as a collective? I never understood loving strangers because of skin color.
Some of the people in the comments are generalizing Black men and it needs to stop. I am not guilty of not loving Black women just because some random dude I don’t even know on the internet decided to talk shit. 😐
No! They love everybody but us😪
False.
@@truthteller48 yeah not all, but most!
@@TeeTee-dt2di that’s false too. Most Black men have Black women who are family members so most Black men actually do love Black women.
@@truthteller48 you're right! Not taking anything away from our fine Black men...however, these days half of our Black brothers like other races, men or are in jail. Black women can't catch a break, sorry! We catch it from Everybody.
You had it right the first time sis. Don't let narc gaslighting change what you can clearly see. The whole world can see it, go where you are loved and respected.
I love what Syleena Johnson said "we must first love ourselves." I grew 💯 on that.
Exactly cuz if your foundation tracks in it; that's what you have later on, and I use the little pigs story 2 dialogue with my daughter & grands!! Ijs
Claudia
Luv u sis and the truth is the truth! I think there are many nuances within this conversation. Regarding women...disliking each other. It's happening in all cultures. It's highlighted in ours bc we are what's in the media. Our culture is on display! There are many loving sistas. I see it!❤
I hear u Kaliha, I was taught by my amazing Mom, to be kind, & that it takes nothing away from me. To compliment, encourage, support, my girlfriends. Unfortunately, I'm seldom treated nicely by my sisters. We can be so much better!.❤
Omg Salina is gorgeous no matter how she wears her hair she is simply gorgeous
I knew Claudia was not a mammy. Love her. ❤️❤️
Thank you Claudia!! But love is love to me,I don’t care what color you are..love you ladies
Let’s completely ignore the colourism, texturism, featurism and black femicide 👍🏾
I think we, as black men and black women, have a ton of mental/emotional flaws in our blueprint for relationships that affect how we look at ourselves and those that look like us. As much as you can say it about black men, there are many black women following these female rappers saying they don't date a man if he aint rich, built like this or look like that. We have forgotten black love for ourselves. But hey, I could be wrong, just my opinion.
If you are a black man please gtfoh
There will NEVER be a greater ally to Black men than Black women. So many Black men provide, protect and love Black women & demand that our sons to follow suit. Another great segment, ladies. 👍🏾
“They don’t hate us, they hate themselves!” Well said Syleena! 👏🏾
The issue is instead of working on learning to love ❤️ themselves, they project their anger, frustrations, they have on us.
But then she turns around and says she doesn't believe they don't love black women. She makes no damn sense. You can't hate yourself and love anybody. Sheesh.1
Majority may desire us, but not enough of them actually LOVE us.. because love is an action. It is something that you must do. What are collective of BM doing to show that they love us?
How do black women show that we love them? You see the difference?
So who is raising these black men??? Are parents spending time teaching and training their sons to love themselves and see value in themselves enough to want to continue a legacy that looks like them and to love deserving black women. We can’t have this conversation without discussing the role and affects the first person who have total access of black men and that’s their black mother from birth. Stop ignoring your sons and start raising them to be kings you want them to be!
Kings? 😂😂😂
You can't raise kids if you have to work full time because the "kang" left that bastard. Don't demand motherhood when yall are failing fatherhood. It's the MEN that should raise their son's right.
No they don't😢
Not true.
NOPE!!!!!
Wrong.
Nope
Wrong.
I can tell Vivica is over this conversation
For the first time I don’t agree with syleena in the entirety. Show love to who shows you love simple 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️
We didn’t come over on NO boat! We were already here Pre-Columbus as well as before the arrival of the Mongolian people. Please do your research Black women!
BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WOMEN ALL I SEE IS BLACK MEN WITH BLACK WOMEN THATS A FACT.
cursing out ice cube was for his protection ....according to them
I didn't agree with the way they came at him, it wasn't necessary....but I respect the way Cube handled himself during the conversation.
Thanks my people for your great show.well I am a black man I love my black women that doesn't mean I hate white women I might have a preference like everyone else .i like the subject you are discussing .
The media doesn't speak so much on black females talents .keep it like this .much love and support for your .peace and be smart.
I can’t speak for all black men, but I grew up with BM that married BW. As child of the 1970’s I thought every love song was about a BW.
Then pop culture changed, the music became more misogynistic, and BW really didn’t push back. Imagine being 15 year old boy watching Destiny’s Child sing about how they want a soldier...”If your status ain’t hood I ain’t checking for you” Ladies, young boys, even the ones with fathers at home tend to emulate what’s popular. If our BW didn’t accept the under achiever, and demanded something more from BM the optics might’ve been different. And if BM pulled their drawers up and start leading in the right direction, maybe our women would follow.
Ms Fox, do you know how many BM didn’t wanna see you with a Fiddy Cents:) Listen, BM don’t hate themselves, and the younger generation of BM know that anywhere on this planet, some non blk female is curious...I’m talking about male hormones, and sexual conquest, not preference. The plan to destroy the blk family is working, we got men flying to Thailand looking for wife’s..wtf! I thought that’s what old white dudes did.
I just came here to say NO they absolutely don’t !
Not true.
@@truthteller48 I’m not here to argue
@@soulquarius5892 that’s fantastic. What you said is still not true. 🤷🏿♂️
It’s the ones that y’all are choosing but y’all ain’t ready for that conversation 😂
They not
Noooo. They do not have true love for us 😏
That’s cap
Syleena Johnson, is right with her comments on we have a long way to go in regards to this issue. That is so true "We must first love ourselves."
Ladies, to be dishonest, is to set the next generation up for failure. Sometimes, truth hurts. These men are certainly loud and clear, so why is Selena behaving so oblivious and ignorant. If you can't even properly discuss what's true, how can you possibly expect to break any cycles.
Nikki and James talking about straight relationships is a little odd
Do white men love white women as much as white women love them?
As a collective you do not see them in the media/ social media talking down & against their women. They marry them and provide for them and their offspring.
@@Yae391 no. They down women in general, they won't say white women. Just like when white girls are fed up with white men, it's just men they fed up with.
And don't black women down black men in social media as well?!
@@tommyisrael6038 black men are literally running a smear campaign against Black women.
@@Yae391 obviously you haven't seen the white manosphere.
From my observations white men protect their women. I have seen white women that were strangers and weren't sh*t, and plain wrong in their dealings but the white man saw the value in her.
I never dated bm so I was never subjected to the terror of dating them, but I watched my horrible father and all the males around me while growing up treat Black ladies like trash. My horrible father sent my black male worshipping mother to an early grave. My husband of 15 years is White and we have a wonderful life together because he comes from a culture where men are leaders, protectors and providers. I encourage Black ladies to STOP the black male worship and do what is best for you. Expand your options, travel and explore the world. Black males abandon their communities years ago and they are never coming back. Go where you are loved and cherished Black ladies. Blessings!
Stop it your either a white man or some kind of Neanderthal troll 💯
Umm ok
Disagree with seleena
LMAO!!!😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣Claudia!!!
If you love someone who only hurts you you don’t love yourself. Syleena is a fool blown mammy.
Nope not all only when it's beneficial to them!! Too many king Solomon these days with no wisdom!!
Portorican is NOt a race. You can be black and portorican or white portorican . Hispanics is NOT a race but a culture
Yes it's a nationality
@@gin40 exact nationality. For example I'm Haitian which is my nationality but my race is Black.
@@tretiajb5734 Yes!
No alot of them don't they are coddle to much and praised for nothing all they have to be is handsome that's why they have the biggest egos 😒 and think they look better than us ...I'm glad they are speaking how they really feel about us on SM so now it's no mystery to why they decide not to love us but to use us and do the bare minimum while cheating 🙄
Lmaoooooo🤣 If this is a question then you have your answer.
"You hurt the ones you love the most"?????
Now that's dangerous rhetoric that will have victims running back to thier abusers and mistaking abuse for love. Why not be honest ladies. Stop pacifying bm. Syleena's talking points are very dangerous. We are being terminated every 5 HOURS. My generation don't care about these ninjas. The older generation had the chance to get thier ish together and now my generation of bw r not mulling. Also, Claudia cut the crap. Why is it that when we speak of bm not protecting bw do yall deflect and tell bw they dont love themselves or other bw. Why us a biracial women speaking for bw? Ain't nothing real about this show. I'd like them to debate Cynthia to actually get real.
Wow, so Claudia is gonna be the only one who keeps it real?
I'm gonna choose who loves me, period. I LOVE black women. What I don't love is the disrespect I've gotten from the black women that I have loved. And as I've aged, I still can't seem to find one who won't blatantly disrespect me when I tell her no too many times, then claim I'm weak because I won't deal with her holding me accountable and her "strength as a black woman" when indeed I find blatant disrespect due to disagreement, weak. I don't respect it. And, that isn't me claiming perfection, I know I suck sometimes too.
"Passion is mistaken for aggression"
Only when that passion is accompanied by mental and emotional abuse. No one talks about the way some black women choose to blatantly disrespect their husbands, no one talks about how some black women choose bad men that give them the narrative outlined in this video.
Everyone has choices. Listening to this video, and reading the comments beneath the video, I find a serious lack of personal responsibility, and a lot of finger pointing, and even a couple cop-outs. The title of the video even suggests a divide, when there should be no competition in the union. There are some damn fools out there biased about our beautiful women, and that's crazy, but ok for them. I LOVE my black women, but I love my self, and my peace even more.
They’re making excuses! Ms. Viv you heard 50 talking about exotic… smh it’s sad…
They don't.
False.
I luv women period... it don't matter the skin color
This topic is nuanced but I have to say that Claudia and Syleena were both on point. I tend to agree a bit more with Claudia.
Hell naw! 🤦💔😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭
No!
I hope this isn't a caping session. Ugh...
BW, expand your options and leave STRUGGLE LOVE in the dust. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
No
Nope!
Inner peace ✌️ is the new weapon of WAR…..KEEP POSTING
These women are delusional.
Yea I saw the y'all showed to Ice Cube... oh wait...
I love all you black women more and more everyday all flavors of melanin are beautiful and sexy and so intelligent I love you.
I love Syleena Johnson perspective on every episode! (In SJ voice …so u know that’s a fool)🤣🤣🤣🤣
THATS THE PROBLEM YOU TOOK ON SOCIETY'S TITLE AND WENT WITH IT...THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE IN A MAN EXCEPT HIS SMELL, HOW HE IS RAISED AND DOES HE HAS A FORESKIN...YOU ALL STILL PERPETRATE A PROBLEM...TO YAHWEH WE ARE NEGATIVE/POSITIVE..
These mammies (except Claudia)
There should have been some men in this discussion
@Mr Research TV but they need another perspective
they ain't trying to hear the truth or any type of disagreement. they just want to play the victim and act like feminism never happened
I can Def agree with that
CJ💜💜💜 LR💜💜💜 VAF💜💜💜 SJ💜💜💜
Nope. Bye 👋
Lawwdddd
My husband shows his love to me 25/8
Ya'll have got to stop. Of course BM love BW
Exactly.
@Ndeye Delgado search “Black couples” into any internet search engine. You’ll see plenty of Black men loving on Black women. There’s your evidence.
@Ndeye Delgado no, I mean the image that showcases who the majority of Black men date and marry because that’s indeed the standard of who Black men are choosing. nIcE tRY. 🤣
@Ndeye Delgado you’re the only one denying the factual evidence so clearly the only person who wants to broadcast the delusions here is you 🤷🏿♂️😂. And this ain’t bout what I choose shawty and your supposed lack of concern for that, it’s about you refusing to accept reality.
You hurt the ones you love. "Dumb Classic." 🙄🙄🙄