‘I’m in a Dark Spot’ Son Shares of His Depression
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- Tai emotionally breaks down and tells us his mom is his best friend. Levenia and Tai discuss his alcohol usage, and whether or not he’s an alcoholic. Does Tai have a drinking problem? The Truth Team brings out his bar bill from the hotel that the show put him up in.
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and this here is exactly why kids/teens don’t talk to their parents about stuff. a prime example.
coming from someone that suffers from major anxiety/depression/panic attacks daily. each day is harder then the next for people like us and when ppl like this talk show put you down or dont get you, u start to resent the world only turning it in on yourself. Alot of people take their life because people dont seem to see/get their pain. So they have no one to talk to. THey dont see the signs . How stupid are these people to not understand his drinking habbits and isolation. Pisses me off
U mean black kids
YesItsPaige it’s hard fake friends can hurt... they saying the all that is part of his little game but they don’t understand where he is at right now it’s hard to explain depression
Exactly like this really disgusted me 🤢😭
YesItsPaige THANK YOU BITCH !!??
THIS IS WHY PPL DONT TALK.
Ronnie Bryant exactly, its like what's the point because nobody listens.
Exactly
This is why men don’t talk women always make it their fault in the end
You can say that again
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"If you have depression, speak out". He did. They never let him finish his sentences. They didn't listen, nor care. All they did was criticize him. And they wonder why depressed kids are this way.
exactly
Thank you
Thank you all these people they don't listen to there kids till they drive there kids crazy and kids commit suicide this is just wrong always listen to them not criticize them
They need to get off his ass fr.
EXACTLY
The fact that he said “you put me on” speaks volumes. Women are ignoring the emotional damage he’s had to suffer for having to grow up soo fast..without a father and then having to step up and play the father role for his siblings. Who was taking care of him emotionally? Did his mom ever think maybe he drinks because he’s missing that fatherly love? She thought just buying him stuff was gonna make up for him not having emotional support as a boy? And do these women think they are helping him to stop? They are only making it worse. 😢
The fact that he said "You put me on" and they ignored it, is the real problem.
Parentification is when a child is forced to take on the role of an adult. When caregivers aren’t able to fully show up for themselves, children get put into developmentally inappropriate situations. As an adult, they may find it hard to trust others, manage their own emotions, and form healthy intimate relationships. They face a greater risk of anxiety, depression, substance use disorders, and eating disorders.
@@deathflame3849 💯💯💯
I can share something valuable to this almost nobody knows anything about. My father was abcent as well, but not as much as with this guy. (If this is real btw all of this seems like acting and weird body language if you ask me). Something people don't realize is that if a boy grows up with his mother and the father is abcent, this can cause the boy to resent the mother. Because the father is not present enough, the mother becomes TOO present for a boy. This causes damage to his male identity that every boy is looking for and this guy misses strongly. And then yes him saying ''you are my best friend ma''... your mother is not supposed to be your best friend... she is supposed to be your mother first, anything else second. So his father was not there for him. Even his mother was not there for him at times. And then the mother probably sees him as her ''best friend'' that she loves so much. His mother is the only source of love, and the only source of hurt at the same time. His mother is clearly emotionally fucked in the head (Reminds me of my own hurting mother). She is immature as shit.
@@jameswayton2340 damn! That’s DEEP. I didn’t think of her being “too present” or the resentment it causes some men to have towards their moms if the dad leaves.
He’s crying out for help, and they criticize him. Smh
Welcome to society. This is why ima let the illuminati kill us. We dont even need to live no more this shit cant be fixed.
people always wanna put the blame on the victim
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straight facts bro bro 🤧
theEzraGrate EXACTLY what i’m saying like wtf 🥺
They're so mean and cold to him, i wanna give him a hug.
Me 2😓
o m I know! I wish they would just listen to him!
o m , maybe they’re feminists
Me 3
There not even listening to him at all shit sometimes adults are pieces of shit
I don’t like how they treated him... he clearly just wants help and they are tearing him down more.
(I’m glad I’m not the only person who feels this way.. thanks for the likes)
Queen KeiKei ikr
Those people need to realize you can’t just go tearing someone down like that cause they think they are better than him 😔 Depression is no joke it’s not just a feeling it’s an illness, I deal with it myself. Depression is a chemical imbalance of the brain 🧠, it’s such a struggle ‼️ He shouldn’t have been bashed the way he was, he’s crying out for help and it breaks my heart they didn’t treat him better. 🥺😞
Yes I agree. And from “professionals”. 🙄
Fr , they worried about him drinking more than his feelings. This is reality.
His mother treated him like a substitute husband, “man of the house” spoiled him and probably never had talks about goals, having ambitions and now is mad how he turned out. These women are disgusting for how they treated him
You absolutely nailed this and described it perfectly. This is what i was sensing as well. When he said ''she's my best friend'' i knew what he meant. Your child is not supposed to be your best friend. The mother is immature. Perhaps borderline like my own mother. And yes because she spoiled him and showered him with motherly love this only makes him reject his mother in the end. Of the father is not present and only your mother is, she automatically becomes to present. This guy is looking for his MALE IDENTITY.... Wich is the problem so many boys are struggling with. How are you going to develop that without a dad that is present? You can't. Boys not growing up with a dad that is mentally and emotionally present grow up with a male identity that is based on symbolism. This is what creates ''alpha douchebags''. Ohhh eat meat and muscle and have a big car and money and be like a super hero is male idenitty!... is what they think. And al these women don't UNDERSTAND that. This mother is fucked up, i bet she is only sad because her oldest child is not able to play that substitute husband/friend of hers. Thats not what real love is. She is like a copy of my own mother wich i am dealing with so this is a eyeopener for me as well.
This video is not about depression alone, its about him being traumatized and emotionally neglected. And instead of a experienced psychologist specialized in trauma he gets to talk to these Goblin freaks who pretend to have his interests at heart and pretend to know what is good for him, as if they have knowledge on this topic... fucking retards. Serously this video really upsets me because i'm dealing with trauma right now similar to this. Its such a invisible wound you carry with you and people have NO IDEA about these things. Its as if so many people are fucked up themselves they don't even know how to seperate healthy/unhealthy anymore. Everyone becoming narcissistic and borderline and immature as shit.
I got cussed out the other day because a woman said “having no man gives her extra time to spend with her kids”. I responded saying “please make sure you maintain a healthy balance and not burden those kids with your emotional burden.” She and others start telling me I have issues and I’m projecting 😂😂. I just repeat and left them alone because I really been seeing this since I was a kid. Never happen to me tbh caz I was the wild one who couldn’t be tamed.
@jameswayton2340 idk once your child is matured I why not be friends with your parents? Someone you can trust and talk to about things.
I'm doing with a similar situation with my own mom.
This is exactly why people don’t open up because they get judged
Exactly its the resson why people feel depressed they dont have anyone to turn to so then they take their depression out on thing like alcahol or cutting and those people are making it worse because this is why i disliked. They dont know what hes going through because they havent been throught it but when they end up like him they try to get people to understand them and they dont they critize them and make them feel unworthy and de graded in front of a buch of people that only agrre with the people citizing them because they are followers and that can make you feel like the whole world has turned on you and thats why so many people have taken their lives
Nahara Love facts
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@@kylarenae2180 thanks! 💓
Thank you!! This is why I don't want to talk about my felling I know ill get judge
Kyla Life
Thank You 🙏🏾You Said It Best
And this is exactly why we as young people don’t talk about our problems
Facts
Yazaria Rouse so true
Yazaria Rouse ong broo that’s straight up facts because no one understands what we go through 💔😴
Faxx
Men*
Listen to him! It's a lot deeper than the tears. He was trying his best to express in this moment but y'all couldn't see that because some of y'all lack sympathy! God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.
designed naturally you’re so right about that.
Bruh I hate how they didn’t listen to him... because he’s young
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This is very true... I totally understand what he's saying
No he’s a alcoholic. Alcoholics always make excuses and blame others and the past for their actions.
They asked the mom about him and she spoke about HERSELF.
THIS IS WHY PEOPLE WITH DEPRESSION DONT SPEAK OUT OML
I do the same thing I dont talk to anyone except 2 ppl thats mt best friend and my dad I told him that want to hurt my self and he let me tal to some ppl and got scared and I told him was not thinking straight but was I tried 2
ahh ikkk
I'm not even gonna give my parents a hint
EXACTLY
Frrr
They aren't listening to this young man.. SMH
Your right this pisses me off
aurelia Johnson exactly... listen to him. He’s sad! HELP HIM!
They always do that
They never listen to the man SMH I hate it
This is why people end up killing themselves no one is there for them even when they cry for help😢
I know right thats how I feel
Fr tho when people are depressed they cry when they saying it N people will be like that's your fault like damn at least be there for them, just the thought of someone leaving you when you down makes you evil bro 💔💯
They wrong for that why they do him like that
Alexa Arias true just true
Torron Brown ik Im late buh i swearrr
"What was Tai like as a child?"
"I'm a single parent, I had to work"
These people criticizing him disgust me🤢
Roger Jackson right 🙄🙅🏾♀️
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They are smart because that is whats gonna trigger him to go actually change. If u are soft with ppl like this ur not helping them TRUST ME
Yea I don’t like how that lady yells at him he’s young and she doesn’t understand what he’s going through
El Marocano how exactly will it help? I'm not trying to be rude BTW I'm actually curious
Omg leave him alone. He tryna cry for help and they push him back down.
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Koby Brass this is what happens with most parents, mainly in the black community. When we try to tell how we feel and what we’re going through, we’re pushed away and told we’re wrong and that we don’t know what we’re talking about yet we can talk to our parents about “anything”
Thousandth like ❤️
Yoo how did i get so many likes
@@smitty8181 ❤
this poor man .. he just wanted some help and they gon criticize him ? smh .
Amazing, isnt it? He's the result of another, young, black, single baby momma. He emotes like a girl. She's all he knows, and now, she takes him to a bunch of cacklin ass hens, to help her bad decision makin ass. Yes, let's blame the victim. All because, she CHOSE to be a baby momma, instead of a WIFE & MOTHER.
This was horrible. My heart hurts for him. There was true pain behind what he was trying to say. The host were horrible and so was his mother. The best description his mother could of gave of how he “used to be” was to describe how he handled responsibility she put in him as a child smh! They wouldn’t even let him speak and when he was able to get a word out they invalidated his feelings. How terrible! I pray he was able to get help and healing from REAL professionals and not paid to play idiots on tv.
That the mother will pay for, and has probably already sent him to... this is a simple case, she throws him out of the house, stops paying for him, and maybe he builds some character
The conviction in that white ladies voice when she read his bar tab was so irritating. His face said it all. Then she had the nerve to say “on our tab”. I also struggle with alcoholism. I would say I am a functioning alcoholic but I’d lie if I say I go a day without a drink. I’ve had my own life problems & I don’t find it as an excuse but I get my peace when I get a drink & listen to music & podcast. Smoking used to be my thing but I need to stay clean for my career so that led to drinking.
I say all that to say that I understand when you’re depressed it may lead to you finding things to take your mind off of it. I actually lost a friend of 20 years, two years ago to suicide. & we are only 28. From the outside looking in, it looks like life is going great. I live in a wealthy city, make good money, I take the gym very seriously but it’s what’s inside my mind that makes me feel like no one will understand.
I totally empathize with this guy trying to talk to ppl who can’t even show sympathy
@@dorenjackson1166 The white lady is a big self important idiot.
“I don’t feel anything” he’s telling y’all he’s depressed and they think it’s a game wowww
Neek Killuminati right like wtf
They’re treating him like shit this is messed up
& it’s honestly the saddest shit ever
They're ego
The judge makes me sick! No one drinks just to drink! He’s depressed and he’s self medicating!
That's my issue right now nobody listens to understand they listen to respond so they never get the point that's why I remain bottle up an do just the same drink an smoke an cry it off .😢
Jacqui TheGreat people do drink just to drink
China Berry I’m really sorry you feel that way. I hope you are alright 💕
I know this year I have to be better formyself.
If you think there arnt alcoholics that just drink for the affect you need to go out and actually talk to people and stop listening to a dickhead psychiatrists and all sorts
"What was Tai like as a child?"
"I'M A siNglE pAreNT"
MTS Clan right?
That's the immediate defense mechanism if a narcassistic emotional abuser, smh
The way they dismiss him is disgusting. How can he be spoiled if he’s stepping in to be a father to your other kids because of his mothers decisions? How can he really have friends if he is taking care of his siblings and there is no family structure or guidance? Also there are NO MAN on this panel let alone BLACK MEN…he needs therapy with a black therapist preferably male. This is what happens when young men don’t have male role models in the home and present mothers. Disgusting
Facts ‼️‼️i really hope he finds the men that can relate to him and not these delusional women that could never because This situation might scar him even more now and then it will be these same women that will turn around and be surprised why all of our strongest men murder themselves.
Dudes making a point and they are denying him and shooting everything he says down and turning things on him
Cup no buy ho hoga mike
Eyo
YT.Camila exactly like they wild’n
@@gabbymariieee5166 💯💯💯
He might end up shooting up the whole family soon...😆😂😅
Fr
He doesn’t need a wake up call he needs help
Grace McAuliffe exactly
+Grace McAuliffe, "I agree!"
Isnt a wake up call help tho
Berkley Square Piru 420 no a wake up call is making him get his shit together by himself but he can’t do that he needs help from other people, real help not this from those women that don’t understand so all they can do is criticize him. They’re saying that he’s an alcaholic which he is but if he got the mental help he needed from day one then he wouldn’t have needed to turn to alcahol as his only option. He’s depressed and a wake up call isn’t gonna help him. A wake up call is a warning to take action concerning something that is overlooked or neglected. Help would be him going to the right place with the right people getting the right help he needs
Thanks nigga fr was confused 😂💯
they just judging him...they not even talking to him..
After a few years this clip is still popular to this day. The fact that Vivica Fox even laughed when she made a post responding to the people about her reaction to this young man. She's evil bro
where exactly is this video at
She's a celebrity. She can't feel certain emotions
Imagine these women’s children, they can never come to their mom and talk about things.
Hes talking about his depression and they’re Criticise him its hard to explain depression
Maleka Begum this show stupid
I hate those women on the show, his depression was probs increased they dont understand the struggle of depression on young adults and teens, we take hits alot harder, we are emotional and a room full of ADULT women critising u when u finally speak out about it makes u feel worthless. I can go on and on about this but I just hope that young boy is doing better now
Right
Maleka Begum and problem with depression it turns in anger and hatred
This is exactly why I don’t open up about my feelings to anyone. Like he is crying out for help and all they keep doing is pushing him back down
Find some good male friends and show your emotion to them
And go be alone to cry and work out get ot all out than go kick it with the fellas.
Probably because women don't think men don't go through shit in life, without realizing men's suicide rates are higher than that of women. If they step into our shoes they'll know how we live and struggle. There was one women that changed her gender to prove men have it easy in life. Only to commit suicide after 7 months of depression for being a man because she discovered that men have it harder than women and that women are very very evil in nature. Her name is Norah Vincent.
Yeah this is my biggest fear, that is why I am a conservative loser on TH-cam.
Facts!!! When I do get emotional it's solo, but I turned my emotions a long time ago into cold bloodedness....I feel nothing for nobody except my 8 year old daughter
I wanna jump through the phone and slap those judges with a freaking board and give the man a hug... DEADASS NOT PLAYIN’😕
Facts bro I feel bad
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Fr bro
What he is saying is that he is tired of pretending to be his mother's husband. This usually happens to the first born of a single mother. The mother is basically making the kid become an adult before he finishes being a kid. When you have that kind of pressure on you, it definitely puts you in a dark place.
You are basically being asked to be the father (a parent) to your siblings, while no one is there is being a parent for you.
It's like asking a kid to fly a plane thru a storm and they were never taught how to fly a plane. However the mother is working hard to afford a nicer plane to fly. Hopefully that makes sense.
In this video, he is asking how to land the plane but all these women are judging him that his flying skills are shit. Meanwhile other kids that grow up in 2 parents house holds are still at the flight academy, learning how to fly before they become adults.
When he mentions the fake friends, he is basically saying his friends were jealous that he is already flying while they have to finish the academy before flying.
I just hope he gets the help to land the plane and can continue with life rather than crashing that nice ass plane his mother guilted him into flying too early in life.
Bruh that’s such an awesome analogy.
This is what happens when your child turns in to a parent taking care of his siblings . I understand ppl are single but he didn't have those kids
You better tell that!!!
yes
nastasha nastasha right
@@tabithathomas9073 you know everybody is different when they deal with their problems
nastasha nastasha There are plenty of families of all nationalities that have the older siblings taking care of the younger siblings. It’s normal. What’s not normal is how these women are attacking this young man yet none of them have lived s day in his shoes. His mother is not a good mother so that doesn’t help at all.
This is disgusting to watch so rude to him ts hurts to see him get criticized and they don't understand but depression can do to you. They think they know everything but it's just making them look stupif
I totally agree
see, this is why people don't express themselves. they asked, hes answering but it's not what they (want) to hear. that's HIS truth !
JaJa Monroee what u said...yesss👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
No they did a good job. Alcoholics are the biggest excuse makers. Everyone and everything is the problem except them. Man had the nerve to say his mother gave him too much. Nigga please. What a spoiled brat.
@@Wars7498 STFU
@@Wars7498 dude aclohlics become this way because of problems he does need help what he did was fucked up he needs to change bashing him doesnt help the mother encouraged him to be this way
Yesss bruh that's all the time.
This man had the courage to get help and everybody puttin dirt on his name 🤦♂️😷
Yall are terrible people 🙅 shaming him hes there and you guys are supposed to help him not put him down.🤦
Geneva Ragins I don’t think you read any comments 🤦♂️ everyone was supporting him
@@9salvia Shes taking about the judge's in the video..smh.
What are your personal problems?
Li-
STOP YELLING AT US AND TELL US ABOUT THEM
@Jayshaun Walker having a problem doesnt define you this isnt to be offencive i promise but let some hate go it feels good after a while
I just want to slap the them so bad, I’m fuming 😤
ME AND YOU FUCKING BOTH
Tiana Murphy and me
I have depress-
IM A SINGLE MOTHER
Nottypicalcomedy
R/entitledparents
This is literally me
Single father im 19 got cheated on still hurting fuck that
@@bigboyclips9854 what do you ever mean?
@@grimscyther9948 i meant that my mom always says shes a single mother as an excuse
His mom, and all those fake @ss therapists absolutely disgust me. They completely ignored the fact that she’s forcing her little boy to be a father figure to his sisters when he was literally a kid himself, she’s the one who STARTED his alcohol addiction at 13 F*****G YEARS OLD, and instead point all the blame on him.
these people must not understand depression. it doesn’t matter how well somebody treats you or how much you love them, you can’t control your emotions. they say “tell us how you feel” and then say “you got it twisted”
this is the worst way to approach depression. he probably has issues from not having a father and having to help raise his sisters, it’s not easy. not to mention her saying “where’s that kid?” after he says he’s depressed is so gross. i’ve been through depression and when my family forced me to do things and told me constantly i changed for the worse, it made me feel so much more shittier.
all of these women aren’t understanding him. he’s blaming his mom, yes, but that’s because he’s feelings things he doesn’t understand. as a man, to openly talk about depression is hard already because you’re expected to be manly and not cry.
these women genuinely frustrate me. he’s admitting he’s depressed, listen and get him help before it’s too late.
I love this comment so much ❤️ i was watching this like “let him speak and don’t interrupt him you dumb bitches”
cassidy’s edits I understand depression cause I’m pregnant and I’m be depresse
Agreed💔
Yassssss girl preach the word❤
They treating him horribly thank you for this comment ❤️
When your pain is so deep, it’s hard to put words into it, i feel him so bad
exactly 😭
Kay Nova same
Kay Nova me to
It’s damn near impossible
And no one gives a fuck and treats you like they treated this kid until you’re dead and it’s all “I can’t believe he did this” so and so.
so if you're trying to help someone, all you do is focus on their negatives and leave them feeling so guilty and worse than before?
@Liaahhhs yea
I found this on Twitter, 4 years later and I am sick to the stomach.
Me too, one or two years ago. Longbeachgriffy reminded me of this very video. It still makes me sickly angry to this day forward!
*Why is this even a show if you’re not even gon listen🙄😒 beyond me*
I know right
I thought he was here to get help, not get criticized. Everybody In there has made mistakes and they wanna act like they just soo perfect , c’mon now. Disgusting bro
Ikr!! They are literally just guilting and criticizing him. Besides all the mom has to do is get a therapist and not put him on a fricken talk Show.
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They are not helping him at all. Only attacking him
these women are pathetic . they won’t listen to him , they only listen to the drinking problem thing . nothing about depression🤦🏽♀️ people are doing to much nowadays.
They talk too much 🤣🤣🤣
They dont know what depression is
Because only him can change himself
TemiGaming , truuuuuuuuu 🗣🗣
amanda lunuh they’re old heads they never listen
Cause they’re just worried about the drama mostly smh
The way they gaslighted him, I see why people are unaliving themselves from left to right. Who wants to be around in an environment where you're never heard but only judged.
this made me mad asf they don’t ever listen...smfh
Tyra Nicole. Right
D.a
Foreal
They wouldn't understand cuz they rich
Tyra Nicole they talk way too much they’re not qualified to sit there
The mother has no sympathy for her son. Her love is just about giving him stuff.
River Moon Just like my mom ^~^
Its not sympathy he needs, its empathy. Not having friends can put you in a very dark ans lonely place for sure. The mom overcompensated because she felt bad that she was a single parent who put a lot of responsibility on him. She gave him STUFF instead of finding him a Father Figure.
my parents
That was me
Reginald Evans i definitely agree. My first years of college was depressing & I was crying all the time not eating & drinking & stuff & a lot of it was because the people I called my friends were fake & liars & were just using me to get stuff that my mom provides
Depressed Kid: I’m in a dark place!!
Everyone On the Show:He’s Lying.
This is why NO ONE Can talk about this stuff!!!!Everyone says he’s lying!!! I’m in a dark spot too man!! But when I tell people why I have a knife in my room,They laugh...People need to understand how much pain and suffering we go through..
Depression isn’t real
Haizel Chapman YES!!!!
@@Icanjizzya that's like saying feelings aren't real
Harriet tummy Sadness is real, depression isn’t. Ppl who say they have depression want to be depressed. They’ll say stuff like “Imagine the feeling of ur mom dying, that’s how I feel everyday”. Why would I want to feel that? How bout try feeling the feeling u had when u did something great? Something happy...
Also, if ppl seriously think they have depression, then they’ll partake in the Carnivore diet to cure it. If they don’t, then they are choosing to commit daily spiritual suicide
The more you stay isolated and think bad thought, the more reason you’ll make up an excuse to be “depressed”
Kamahao don’t know until you feel it
By kicking him while he was down, by gaslighting him, adding further pressure, and blaming him for something outside of his control, they actually proved to be failures, wasted intellects.
Honestly, I would be as ruthless to those entitled individuals as they are to him if they did that to me. Show a person the same amount of understanding and mercy said person gives to you. If they give none (as they did), give them none.
They aren’t even listening to him 🤦🏽♀️
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this makes me sick, he couldnt even express his feelings without them interrupting him, you could have gave him a chance to open up about his depression, so could have his mom, she could have at least sat him down and talked to him, he kept trying to tell them that he was in a dark spot, but all they wanted to talk about was his drinking problem 😭🙄! He had to yell because his mom kept talking over him, but as soon as he started talking, they wouldnt even let him finish, I could see why he was very emotional . The judges cant even feel his pain, i feel so bad for him, a lot! 💔🤬‼️ .
Get the fucking kid a therapist, who gave these asses the permission to talk shit about him. This exactly why we youngs dont speak out. The things that come out of our mouth isnt has bad as the thing on our minds. And when we do, we get criticized and judged. Whats the fucking point. I completely agree with the points you brought up.
LAYY._. LAY my point bc the only reason why he drinking is to forget the point that he’s so depressed
The judges are making me so sick😤😤😤😤 😡😡😡😡😡😡🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤮🤮🤮🤮 and I think there mean ASF
They shouldn’t have judges anyway💯
Me to...
@Kyah Dominguez right
Michelle Naeata yessss🤦🏻♀️
same
The mom also forced him to grow up fast and gave him unneeded stress as a child and wondered why he grew up so fast and drove him to drink. If this is how the mother is no wonder there is no man in the picture.
Bruh I don’t think they know what depression is 😑
I don't think most elder people or people in general understand what depression is. Me, myself have only felt depressed at time but i have no idea what depressions like.
Yes they're stupid as hell.
Black parents are useless
Joshua XOXO U shouldn’t say that. Not all black parents are useless.
Joshua XOXO um no not all are they work hard for there kids and want them to be successful etc 🙄
His mom, those judges...just it hurts, because even tho he didn't say much I understood him. I understood what he meant. And when they dismiss it as " a game" I wanna scream"NO ITS NOT THAT".
💯💯💯💯
You can hear the pain in his voice its heartbreaking I hope he gets the help he needs and starts healing. I hope he finds the right support he needs.
She explained it actually! He put his child in the position where he had to behave like an adult taking care of his siblings when he was STILL A CHILD and now that he is a young man that trauma has built up and is really hurting him. I cannot stand narcs like these...
Just cancel this show.😡
safiya sa IKR
Excactly
getting cancelled this month or next i’m pretty sure
This made me mad 😡 because they don’t care at all
Well the older lady in the blue was real. She spoke from experience. She's been wear he's at so she can sniff the bs so I respect her for being real. The other lady's were annoying doing all that crying feeling their feelings with him.
Right they need to understand
All About that gang life They really don’t care at all the only thing that the care about is his alcohol problem
i’m your 400th like
They’re full of shit
The Judges🚮
Bruh Depression is Real and They don't believe Him..Like TF💔
They never mentioned father figure and not facing the fact that this guy needs a figure who looks like him and understands him.
this is why people don’t talk about their feelings. sad... 😥
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I feel sorry for him...he is clearly hurt and struggling to express whats wrong and he's getting yelled at...smh
*NEXT YOU'LL HEAR ABOUT THIS YOUNG MAN BLOWING HIS BRAINS OUT OR HIS MOM FINDS HIM SWINGING SOME WHERE IN HIS APARTMENT..... SAD!!!!*
@@facgce wtf
this is so sad because i see his pain through a screen
and that there isnt a single grown human there to support him and help with his struggels is frustrating
How can grown woman still be so immature?
I’m so disgusted of how these women treated this guy, poor guy man. This is why people are afraid to talk about their Mental Health. Oh, just hearing them yell at this man when he’s crying for help just makes my blood boil 😡
Yep this man needs help to cope with deppresion
Women bro
Expecting empathy from a gaggle of snakes on a morning show is insane. His mom a real villain
@@darnellwarren9310 “women bro”? these are talk show hosts. how are you gonna prescribe the behavior of a handful of sociopaths to a whole gender? im a girl and when my friend told me about his depression i held him and we sobbed together. grow up
@@hrisafenio you’re the exception not the rule
I Wanna Give Him A Hug 🥺. They’re horrible!
Angel H yeaaa
they are so so horrible >:{
These judges have no heart they don’t understand his problems💔🖤
And no brain also
3:51 is the prime example why teens/kids don’t tell adults they problems
Mary Chrzanowski a horrible self serving woman who never had any business judging anybody else.
3:45 Just because someone was raised well doesn’t mean they can’t get depressed
True
exactly. sometimes it's a chemical imbalance, doesnt got shit to do with how they were raised
Agreed these women are dumb ass hell
He needs help not a wake up call.
Lil ݪɱȴȴʐܮ exactly 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Words can’t describe how mad these judges make me 😤😤
Face ikrr
Ikr they make you want to punch them
I promise !
Fr
FR 😅😪🤤😠😡😁😐
"I don't feel anything towards him" she's giving me "If I don't understand I don't care not my problem" vibes
Nice job belittling him and telling him to “get over it” really helped him 👍🏻
stupid judges
Are you fucking kidding me? Hes depressed, and they are making him even more depressed!
Ye Im sure they were really fricking helpful. Society definitely needs them.
Hope he doesn’t kill himself... this is what happens.. HE IS A SAD/MAD BLACK MAN!!!
Enim'saj Samoht that’s because in today’s society men aren’t aloud to have emotions and anytime we show them we get criticized and people wonder why men commit suicide at such a higher rate then women
Listen to him dang you guys are talking over him
Amen..
True dawg . when u have a fucked up mind u cant just say anything u want straight. its hard to be on the dark place specially when u never have a chance to talk about it
fr..-
They don't get his pain, they wish to hear what they want to hear. That is what is messed up about today's society
@@iamzetto7281 ya
Okay let’s just say this. She is his mother. She is responsible. He’s right that his mother spoiled him and now she expects something different. It also sounds like she put a lot of responsibility on him. He’s still human. She raised him.
If he kills himself I'm gonna blame the women for not helping him and yelling at him
White old lady in blue makes me mad smh
I want to slap tf outta her
@@KevinOfOne same omg
Karma will get her back she’ll soon lose something precious of hers or maybe herself
@@ameliekouma ight bro chill out
XStoner GamesX ok stfu
Obviously He's drinking because of depression✌🏻🤝🏻
Right, lol? How are they so stupid that they can't even piece that together?
I think so
I cant resist to give this guy a hug and tell him, "its all gonna be alright king"
I hate this show, they never listen and always throws your flaws in ur face repeatedly🤦🏽♀️
Meemah Benny ikr
Right
Meemah Benny only if you're a male.
This tv show should be CANCELED. I’m disgusted 🤦🏾♀️
It’s actually getting cancelled by next month lol
Amari ikr
Amari yess this shit makes me sad I relate to him a lot I wish I would see him in person one day so I can give him a hug and b his friend but he should never had been judge them people were wrong 😔❤️
AGREEEE
@@ba5092 l don't think it's getting cancelled
this is why kids of color who face depression don't speak out
It's an issue bc nobody really realizes the high rates of mental health issues with the black community... especially because many ppl of the community grow in unstable households and environments making ppl more susceptible to develop issues and not reach out and possibly use substance to cope
Facts
Us* my dad's black and I think he doesn't think mental issues exist w black people 😣
@@aiemiiyo4244 it does, it's just ignorance..my dads the same way
@@ssjdon :( its sucky lol
I can relate 100% with him. No one, was waiting to hear what that does to the mind. Its not him being ungrateful…it’s him noticing that people just wanted to be around him for the materialistic things he provided. Not truly knowing or feeling what an unconditional, loving friend is. That will be by your side to hear the stuff you don’t wanna speak to your parents about..the feeling of feeling completely alone struggling for attention. To tell him “man up, stop blaming others?” They really don’t understand how hard things can be. 😔
Alcoholic or not the young man is CRYING FOR HELP.... as long as he was taking care of his sisters and mom drinking with him.... the whole family most likely need counseling
If he goin through depression then why you yellin at him, this is why I don’t talk bout my depression only person who understand me is myself, how is his depression a game. These judges disgust me. Like let him fucking speak at least. Disappointed in the crowd for doing nothing.
Edit: If you need someone to talk to im here for you. My discord is rt#1848.
Thats why i dont tell ppl shit
exactly i hate when people try to tell me how i feel
Onna deadloccs
Facts lol trust me NO one wants to be fucking depressed..
It's just a bunch of dumb women clinging to the ideal that men should toughen up and do what they have to do...
MarNevaLackin Facts Facts
“How was his child life?”
“IM A SinGle MoThEr
EMP CBD130 selfish mother. This's sad
This is what evil is, not a malicious person out to hurt. Someone that hurts but doesn’t care about its affects
The judge doesn't understand depression!! He's a depressed alcoholic, he needs therapy not these ladies judging him. Look at the role he played from a young age? His mother drinks with him? What do you expect from him? This boy has a lot more going on, believe me, he just doesn't want to expose the entire truth. He mentions fake friends, this clearly means he cannot trust people and only God knows what the fake friends did to him. Ignorance is bliss!
Mo london no I think the last lady was right. He simply needs to recognize he is a alcoholic and take responsibility for his actions. Alcoholics just make excuses for there destructive behaviour . He probably simply developed a drinking habit which negatively effected his life and depression followed. Now he is just blaming others and his last experiences for his current problems. It’s better for him to take responsibility and work towards getting sober.
@@Wars7498I can understand where you are saying in regards to taking responsibility for ones action but when mental health is involved it is an entirely different ball game. He needs intervention, certainly not by their methods, simply because it is not suitable for his condition.
He recognises he has a problem but he blames his mom for giving him the opportunity/ access to alcohol in the first place. Can you drinking from the age of 13yrs? His brains his developing into at teenage, hormones, (fake friends) responsible for younger siblings? Not to mention his mom appears to be a heavy drinker but under control( just an opinion, I may be wrong)
I believe understanding and recognising his mental state, show empathy will be the road to his recovery. If not,you will push him further away. It may sound strange but depression and substance misuse is sensitive situation and in order to get a positive outcome, you have to jump into their world unfortunately to understand things from their point of view. Their way of thinking isn't always rational.
@@londonlife4244 so true!
Nah therapy aint it Jesus is the answer
@@gadielsuriel5923 amen
THIS IS A SIMPLE EXAMPLE WHY DEPRESSED PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT THERE DEPRESSION 😢 That’s why I don’t talk bout it 😭😭
I feel you it's taken me almost 5 years to get the help I need because I couldn't talk about my problems because everyone called me a lier or judge me for what I went through
I know what you mean, a few weeks back I told my mom what I was feeling and along the conversation it ended up being my fault so I said I'm sorry for causing her pain, and now I'm always acting like I'm fine for her sake but I'm slowly dying 😥
@@gissellerocha1575 yeah I know what you mean 😥... Seeing other people hurt like me but I can't say anything to make them feel better hurts me
More
U will make it through. And u will live. U r beautiful, and u have a beautiful soul. Ur an amazing person, even if they dont see it, you cant hold it in forever, u must let it out. And if nobody is listening just believe that u made it years without being dead. U can make it another day, u just have to try. Believe in urself. And i know its hard but its only gonna get harder. But u have to have good energy even if the good energy in the room is dead. U must live the way u dream to live. U will make a difference by looking at the good and not the bad in the world. Remember that cause, u must live because u have too. For the world. UR LOVED
Noemi Milian TELL GOD YOUR LORD AND SAVIOR. He will take it all away cry out to him read his words and believe it. Come back and tell your testimony💃💃💃💃
dam, why the crowd ain’t throw nothing at the judges?
playbboi guwopsterr it's a stage setup it's no crowd and their fake
Exactly
Even if there was a crowd it would just be a bunch of 45 year old white bitches named Karen that don't understand depression and blindly agree with the judges
Lil breonna Quan
It’s you not “u”
“Dumbass”
That poor man, he deserves so much better❤
He handled it really well because honestly I can’t even lie and say I would just let them sit and yell/talk over me without getting pissed off and flippin. So sad that the judges are so close minded and simple .
I would've snapped, on my future kids.
That dude really is in a dark place. "It's a dark place when something bad happens that your just numb to it."
Y'all want black men to "feel" more and to express themselves better and more openly but when they do, they still get ridiculed. Man I'm 1 minute in and I'm already crying. Somebody give this boy a hug
Fr he don’t want to speak on television I don’t blame him I just really want to give home a *couple* of hugs. And these bitches all they see is a colored man with a drinking problem smh 🤦♀️
These people are not listening to him!!!! 😠😠😠😠
Piss off if you're not going to listen to him! They all literally ganged up against a hurting person.
Welcome To Earth
It is absurd that the mother was not called out for drinking alcohol with her underage son! Also his mother has no business being his best friend. These "professional" women have zero credibility. I am so totally disgusted that this young man had to go through this travesty on national television.
Tai had to be the father to his sisters that he never had...so sad. He wants a father.
Exactly, the unspoken issues in the black community. He definitely is missing a father or father figure
Right!!!! My black people lets start saving these damn kids!!! These new generation of kids are really going through some mess! And when we dont pay attention we lose them... And then wanna act like parents!