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Me as a Muslim girl was thinking alot about WHO AM I GONNA MARRY alot these days...but Ma sha Allah Alhamdulillah I realized that it's already written and when we please Allah then In sha Allah ,Allah will give us the right person at the right time.
May Allah help me and all reading this stay away from haram relationships and zina Ameen
Allahumma ameen
Ameen
Aameen 🤲
Me too 😂, amin 🤲
Allahuma amiin
For anyone who is stuck in a cycle of a particular sin. I heard Omar Sulaiman once say that if you want leave a sin. Make a firm decision that everytime you commit that sin, you'll donate some money and if do it again, You'll double the money, then you'll triple the amount for the next time. By the time you know... you'll be running out of money and that'll motivate you to quit that sin.
( Edit: i didn't mean that you continue doing the sin and giving money...I meant that you make tawba. Make a firm decision to never do that sin again and in case you slip, you ask for forgiveness and donate. Then you try your best to give up the sin and if you slip again, ask forgiveness and double the amount. Here you can use the love of dunya to better your Aakhira)
And if u died in that sin ,how will be your condition on the day of judgement??
Qur'an 6:120 read don't open your mouth if u don't know anything about deen
Qur'an 3:102 read ,Qur'an 12:101 read and after that talk to me
@@Yusuf_017 jazakallah khair for making me realise that I haven't been clear enough in my comment but I do think that Islam teaches to correct people POLITELY. You can correct me if I am wrong about that too
You shouldn’t be listening to Omar Sulaiman. Hes just one of the Western Ikhwani-minded celebrity like many others. His knowledge of deen is tinier than his beard.
Bro Wallahi you are telling facts
Just by following the deen you will become a high value man
In sha Allah akhi
Faiya My brother Congratulations 🎉on getting a wife I'm happy for you 😎and this was a good video Even though Ima Christian I enjoy learning about Islam and being Muslim. For me Growing up in the United States I met people that were Muslim they were discipline and peaceful. I definitely need to book an consultation with you in the future. Keep up the great work. Allah continue to bless you my bro
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Brother, I think we should be careful sexualizing muslim women with such thumbnails. It just doesn't seem to be in accordance with hayaa. The hijab is barrier which protects the women, but if we aren't careful we will tear this barrier down and people are going to view women who wear the hijab just as any other woman, and maybe they'll start flirting with them and so on. May Allah guide us.
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Faiyad bro u have to emphasize on the importance of increasing one’s knowledge about islam like learning hadith and studying the quran and the tafasir page by page and this is more important than money and fitness, i started with aqeeda of the salaf and their athar then both came easy
After that in a short time the gains came in like crazy and people think i’m on steroids + i gained a free scholarship, now a medical student alhamdulilah
Absolutely in sha Allah
@@X_0MMreally does Talib ul ilm do all of that?
Some shaykh told me that you can't be a real talib ul ilm unless u dedicate 10 hours a day to it because he knows some muslims like this
@@X_0MM for now I just do what I can, InShaAllah one day I can be a proper Talib ul ilm
Allahumma barik bro, things didn't work out for me with this one sister because her parents were in the way, but I know I just gotta stay on my grind feesabeelillah and the wife will come soon iA
May Allah grant us success when He deems it perfect in sha Allah
MashaAllah, you seem to have transformed a lot into an even better you brother Faiyad. Keep going!
Husbands looking just for a submissive wife need to remember that Islam isn’t a patriarchy it’s a god given religion. Dr Mona wrote an excellent booked called the narcissistic Muslim man.
Good Muslim wives do exist. Just stop trying to break them
Well the islamic marriage is patriarchal. „Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allāh has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allāh would have them guard“ (4:34)
Its actually irrelevant what a random Dr Mona said. We get religion from our scholars
Good one fayiad may allah bless u
Ameen and you also
In my area, it’s the opposite. There are many gorgeous, good, and deen following women in my area. They’re beautiful and follow Allah, fulfill all 5 of their daily prayers, and they’ve got many hobbies and skills. But they have difficulty finding husbands because many of men (Muslims) decided to get non-Muslim girlfriends instead. They do it without letting their families know.
Where is this area?
@@snowecaddel9454 What country are you from sister? Care to reveal where you live?
Because as someone who lives in the US, there is a strong inverse correlation between a woman’s physical beauty and her fear of Allah.
The more good looking they are, the less pious they tend to be (and vice versa).
Don’t know how or why, but it is what it is.
Good Muslim women are the ones he “doesn’t find attractive”
His pickiness is why he is single
Exactly 💯
Why aren't there any attractive good Muslim women??
@@CamelJockey562 There are but he is saying he doesn't find good Muslim women attractive because he is picky
He’s too picky if he’s tripping on proper hijab. What a clown 😂😂😂😂
@@CamelJockey562 There are plenty of them in the world. I know them and have seen them.
If you can’t find them in your country, search abroad to expand your options. There is no shame in doing so.
Beautiful practicing Muslim women can be found in countries with much larger Muslim populations than America, thanks to the greater variety of potentials to choose from.
I learned from your profile history that you live in the US. I’m in the same boat as you as an American Muslim.
You could look back home, or even the UK/Europe if you have connections there (I heard that the Muslim community there is not as liberalized as US Muslims are, so that’s nice to hear).
I need a video on how to find a Muslim husband in 2024...
Jazakallah Khair for this Akhi. This was needed.
Can you also do a vid on how a woman can find a good husband?
I feel like this is most appropiately made by a woman
@Babycake. yes well the original commenter was asking a male for it?? You mentally ok or what?
In sha Allah
@@FaiyadFit Jazakalakhair
I think as a woman that video literally answers it as well!
جزاك اللهُ خيرا
May Allah reward you with Jannat Al Firdaus
Nice video akhi, but that thumbnail is really weird
Allah humah bariq akhi
assamamualaikum brother, great video. It's actually a pressing issue nowadays. nonetheless, from your caption and description (the hashtags) I can clearly see that you know a fair deal about copywriting and digital marketing. however, I would suggest you write only one word in all caps and choose the word that is most important. for example: "6 best ways to find a GOOD muslim wife in 2024." Keep posting these videos. fiamanillah.
Hello, i actually found your account just today. Brother tbh your account feels truthful and directed completely honest to all muslim men and women. As i was watching your Videos i got an Idea. I actually have been trying to improve myself in every possible way. I see improvement but i actually struggle with wealth. I would like to discuss with you personally an idea i got while watching your Videos, if you would like to. Besides all, my dear brother keep it up, you are doing amazing. I hope you continue to make fruitful Videos like these for the sake of Allah, and we are all there to support you on your journey as you support us in our personal journeys.
If you didn't find good wife just try explain your situation imams and near friends. Don't put big limits to them , everyone are not perfect. Just you will learn from each other.
I’m confused . Is the wife supposed to obey the husband? Sh Omar Suleiman was asked this question but danced around it and didn’t provide an answer
yes, to the reasonable extent
Not obey as in follow orders, but as in being reasonable and cooperative/loving. But that goes for the husband as well anyways.
Incorrect, as long as he does not give any order against the shariah, you have to obey his order, he is an authority over you.
Very cool 👍
bro how can i work on getting money and fitness when all on my mind is sex, like i wake up and theres no one to fight for
Do everything for Allah it's not about people do it's for Allah
Everything you do do for seek of Allah
It's hard to find a pure wife after a certain age without compromising on her looks.
It's sad but at least in the West, this is true.
ALL women who are attractive tend to be in haraam relationships, or at least have an "experience" of some kind.
They almost never wear hijaab, and aren't very religious.
The few good women left, unfortunately, tend to be the least attractive.
There's a good reason for this. In a non-Muslim Western society, there is a tremendous temptation to commit zina. And it's no surprise that the more attractive you are, the easier it is to do it.
So it's not like chaste Muslim women (in Western countries) are virgins by choice. Rather, they simply cannot commit zina, even if they wanted to. Their bad looks is what "protects" them from zina, so to speak.
So basically, I'd say there are absolutely zero good Muslim women in the West. Even the few women left who are pious are not truly desirable because they're almost never physically attractive.
The solution would simply be to marry a woman from your home country, depending on how conservative the people are. Avoid all major cities, because the women there are liberalized like Western women (or even worse). Go into smaller towns and villages. I guarantee you, insha Allah, you will find nice religious Muslim women who are also decent looking.
@Fahima9241 As a man, I can totally relate. I don't blame him entirely for it.
Most men are fine with a decent-looking woman. It's not like we're expecting a 9/10 model lol.
If anything, a super beautiful wife is a potential liability because of all the unwanted attention she'll get.
In my opinion, as long as a woman isn't overweight and takes relatively good care of her skin, she should be beautiful enough. That's all we're asking for when it comes to looks.
So if a woman can't maintain her health and appearance, then complains why no man wants her, she only has herself to blame.
@Fahima9241 And that's where we disagree, sister.
I live in the US, and we have an obesity epidemic in America. The average woman is in fact overweight (same goes for men too). In Gulf countries, the obesity rate is even higher (a Westernized way of life is to blame).
In fact, the whole world is suffering from rising obesity rates. So what is considered an average waistline now was probably seen as unattractive 30 years ago.
In Bangladesh (where my roots are), most women are not obese or overweight (some are actually underweight but that's besides the main point).
I myself used to carry a lot of abdominal fat, but Alhamdulillah, over the past year, I lost a lot of fat while building muscle too.
Studies show that people who are physically fit tend to be mentally stronger as well, and are generally disciplined in other aspects of life.
So, as a guy who takes my health and fitness seriously, it is perfectly fair to expect the same from my wife.
Nothing wrong with overweight women, women without good skin. Pickiness again is why you’re single.
Average and overweight is where normal women are
@Kepler10b women also need to compromise on looks. i dont know where men get the idea that women don't care about looks. maybe because it isn't explicitly mentioned in the Qur'an, but men need to be attractive to women too and that's not always gonna be the older man with the potbelly... not even for a high income (although of course there's compromises if he has good Deen, is kind and has a good personality, is attractive in other ways -- just like women can be attractive in other ways through their skills in the home and goodness of heart, etc.).
Faiyad mentions this implicitly too when he tells men to work on their bodies. men and women, if they take care of their bodies fitness wise and maintain good hygiene, they should be fine.
Now make a video how to find a muslim partner in countries where there aren't ANY muslims, most of european countries struggle at having practicing or any kind of muslims.
Then go to different countries since u are marrying for the sake of Allah
@@fridawsbamba1641 Language barrier and lack of money.
@@kowal.r3935 Yes, and here in Central Europe it's even worse than in Western Europe :(
@@mspacey6230 Better*
@@kowal.r3935 Wdym better? Have u been here? Do you know that each central European country has like only few thousand Muslims, which is like less 0.1% of the population. Whereas in Western European countries the amount of Muslims vary from hundreds of thousands to millions, which is still small minority of the whole population, but it's still more in terms of the overall amount and percentage. Yet, I have to admit that many leave religion and it's extremely hard to find a properly practising Muslim on top of that in Western Europe.
I'm just working on myself, and think I'm doing a pretty good job as far as I know, I've tied my camel, now we wait I guess haha
May Allah make it easy for you
Vallahi before I watched this video, i was crying in my prayer because I felt so lonely and didn’t know what I am doing wrong and why I am not able to find a wife. I’m 24 years old, working on my own business, working on my body, working on my deen, but after this video I thought like, what if this is not enough for allah and he let me wait, because he knows that I am able to do more. Subhanallah, maybe I didn’t have enough sabr. I will concentrate more on improving myself. Thank you habibi for this advice. 🤍 barakallahu feek.
All good is from Allah habibi
I am so sad brother hamza become an atheist he left Islam 😞
“Indeed, Allāh is not timid to present an example - that of a mosquito or what is smaller than it. And those who have believed know that it is the truth from their Lord. But as for those who disbelieve, they say, "What did Allāh intend by this as an example?" He misleads many thereby and guides many thereby. And He misleads not except the defiantly disobedient.” Quran 2:26
May Allah guide him
did he really left?
@m_naa yes he did no 😞
@@FaiyadFit ameen
She said her Baba is the problem. he will never except any non gcc/ gulf guy whether arab or non arab
Move. On.
Allahumma Barik
Wa barak feek
Akhi what you said is true but no offense I heard this before. I'm not trying to demean these steps because they are definitely unavoidable to not work on them but everyone is going through their journey.
I'd have liked a video on practical steps as for where to look and how to vet and investigate whether she is the right one or not.
jzk
SubhanAllah
Are you even married yourself and have kids? Just curious 😊
Yessir
@@FaiyadFit Oh mashallah 🤩❤
Assalamualaikum Please write A in capital Ma sha Allah SubhanAllah In sha Allah JazakAllah Barak Allah and Allah knows best Assalamualaikum Please write A in capital Ma sha Allah SubhanAllah In sha Allah JazakAllah Barak Allah and Allah knows best
Assalamu Alaikum, brother I emailed you on the email you provided but I’ve not received a reply, I don’t know if it went through?
Allah bless you
Bro where are you for?
I prefer to stay single. 😅
May I ask why so?
@@jammy3912 because, I need to get mentally healthy and grow. I need to be a better communicator and listener. I also want to actually make sure I can complete my duties.
@@shimmer4771 Good point, all those things are very important.
@@shimmer4771 dont listen to this guy ignore, a real muslim dont care your money your looking she only cares on how you treat her,one time it was like that
@@alexasmr3047 I'm a woman. Let's just say after all I have been through so young, I'm traumatized. I am now 26.
0:19 🤣🤣😭
Absolutely useless advice. I am 26 working a good job, got $300K saved and it’s impossible to find a good Muslim wife. Along with the divorce laws, I don’t think I will ever get married. I think I’ll just casually date. I have no choice, I’ve got biological urges.
Don’t casually date! It’s haram. Have you thought of making Hijra and find a Muslim wife in a Muslim majority country?
casually date???? astaghfirullah, this must be a troll post tbf
@@onemillionpercent for sure troll as woman I read all this I was wow good good than I read the ending i was not good
I doubt you are a muslim
Ohhh. My brother why you Don't use your logic. If you existed by US marriage divorce low. Then Go a muslim county or asia or earop there flexible marriage and divorce low. Just marry there and comeback us with your wife. Enjoy your halal life.. 🎉
you have problem with women there's no more good men also by
there are but extremly low to find them
😂😂😂 Are you sure. Because we all know many women are just attracted to bad boys as they say and not really the good guy’s
Ahhh... The classical blame shifting of fembints. Granting internet access to such people is the biggest mistake the Muslim community made. Use it for something better maybe?
@@zainzoala1083 those many woman are also bad girls
I’m a practicing muslim man. I pray 5x a day and I know my rules as a husband. But still some women wants certain things I don’t have and it hurts :/
Try not to use bad language
monotone
Hm