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@@sidneyrillaerts8397 wow! not somwthing i can do either atm and id need a female equivalent anyways i think ppl would benefit hugely with this person fitfaat's positive energy, can do approach, drive and, most important, good sound guidance mashAllah from a person who seems steadfast. i have seen people transform greatly with a good person behind them, if i was a young bloke i think I was 200% recommend this person based on the posts iv seen so far. i wonder if he found a female equivalent? (Maybe hed have to train up his wife) lol...female person needs to have zest for life anyways i think its about time he did a tour.... esp in a place like lesta
Drinking alcoholic beverages was Halal for the next ten years after Mohammad pbuh became a Prophet. Having premarital sex and Riba(interest banking and lending) was Halal for the next 22 years after Mohammad pbuh became a Prophet which means that the Prophet, Sahaba, and the Prophet's relatives were practicing those dirty good things. So, then why can't we practice those things with limits?
Salam Brother, I've been trying to follow you. I watched your channel and was getting advice about Muslim women who's looking for a marriage. Muslima is halal, but if it is how come when I talk to people, it says profile is switched off, and I can not see our past messages? Can you please explain that to me? Thank you for your response in advance.
@@FaiyadFitI’m still learning the religion BUT what is the issue with men and women mixing if it is done in a respectful manner….?? I’m sorry to ask but are men and women that deprived these days that they will pounce on each other…..??? Why can’t respectful, intellectual conversations take place???
As a revert and this being my first Ramadan, I am very thankful for your channel. Following the example of Muhammad SAW and converting to Islam, I realized that there is no truer example of being a man other than Muhammad SAW, especially during a time where masculinity has become a toxic word, it grounded me and it has definitely made me humble and my behavior has changed a lot as a result of Islam. I am currently working on my weight but thankfully, this channel has helped. May Allah SWT reward you for guiding the lost men of this day to follow the example of the Messenger SAW, as well as guiding us to the deen
@@FaiyadFit Alhamdulillah it could be better, but I’ve been dealing with a foot injury so my cardio has been understandably a little less, but I followed your advice on cardio before Iftar, and eating protein for breakfast, I have seen some slight change in weight so there’s a good thing Alhamdulillah. My body has gotten adjusted to fasting and spiritually I feel myself improving as well akhi. Thank you again for your content, it definitely helped redirect me and I feel that I now have a stronger purpose: everything to better myself for the sake of Allah Azzawajal
@@kevenlopez2782 My bro so happy to hear you improving, May Allah make Ramadan easy for you and help you improve in the best of ways as well as keep you steadfast
I appreciate the decision and effort you make to subtitle your videos. It really helps Muslims who are deaf or hard-of-hearing and still want to benefit. Jazakallahu khayran.
@@FaiyadFiti recommend you to make a video about how the ideal muslim shown online preferably couples isn’t real life. i know you made a video about muslim couples but you can stem from that
@@FaiyadFitI have a video request for you. It's quite lengthy (and personal) to explain on here, so I'll look for your email / contact details and hopefully you're interested in addressing this issue in a future video.
@@FaiyadFitplease talk about free mixing, and imitating the disbelievers and each other, it has became so common and normalized, for example, weddings, baby showers, bridal showers, gender reveals, following trends, making content, going to concerts, going to stadiums and all, birthdays, anniversary Etc…
I am not justifying this app...but my brother met his wife on muz match and got married 3 months in. We dont live in a muslim country...and there are cultural muslims who dont practice...this app has helped filtered that...but also my brother and his wife are muslims of good character. So...also, it boils down to the individual. Dont do haram. Keep your intentions pure
Incredible, but as the hadith says, holding on to our religion will be harder to hold on to than hot coal and it truly appears like weve reached these times.
The best argument so far. Allahume barik brother. What you said: "Allah has already ordained who you are going to marry etc. And understand that you will never have to put yourself in a haram situation to get to your spouse." Logically, because Allah SWT does not guide trough haram, since he forbade haram, and Allah SWT doesn't contradict himself ever. Shaitan is the one who guides insan trough haram. AMAZING POINT brother.
Our faith, Islam is so sacred, why are we following non believers tactics to find a wife, It's tainting Islam, apps only bring lust, and you miss the content of character. Even as a convert I know the right way is to follow Islamic tradition. Great Channel
@@FaiyadFit Yea sure as men I feel we need to be high value, have dik discipline, and know how to find a wife, creating wealth, but most importantly have a strong deen, I'm hoping to work with other Muslims to create wealth in Halal ways and contribute to building Mosques, and helping our brothers sisters and children that have lost lives Palestine and Syria and other conflicts.
1:50. So let me get this straight, only around 5% end up getting married? LOL😂 These haram apps are an absolute waste of time. Honestly, just stay away from them.
@@Noah-il6qnThis is the wrong mindset are you afraid that Allah the king of the heavens and earth the most generous and loving isn’t going to make marriage possible for you because you decided to avoid using an app filled with haram to please him? This is a sign of weak iman and a lack of knowledge in Allah. Put your trust in Allah and do your best in what’s halal and Allah will handle the rest. So don’t take the other approach either where you sit at home and magically think a spouse will come knocking on the door. You’ll have to ask around ask friends, family, your local imam or sheikh and recently there has been some seemingly halal dating apps haven’t looked into them but apparently they should be following the Quran and Sunnah so look into them if they are an actual good halal source and Allah will definitely find you spouse.
@@somerandomguy3037 what are you on about??? I am looking into apps with the intention of marriage, I’m not looking to have stupid dates. I asked friends, family and nothing happened. And the imams here aren’t match makers. So I’m using what I can and doing my best. I actually DONT have another choice as I’m not even allowed to leave the house. Personally you guys come off as too privileged and proud to understand what others are going through.
How you supposed to get married if the men and women don't mix. And in islam the man and women have to see eachother before agreeing to get married. The apps have done what they can to make it halal in certain situations such reporting bad haram language, but everyone who is muslim doing it in a haram way is their own fault
Looking into the abyss of "Muslim Dating apps", its better to remain single, but then again, it's better to visit the masjid and ask about marriage rather than remain single to see who's serious.... anyways, EID with rave music? what The H?
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatulahi Wa Barakatu. Maybe go to different masjid, be there in the front row, volunteer etc. What you described is very odd honestly, where I'm at an Imam might tease you, but if you're serious they'll look. Likewise for any students of knowledge etc. But you saying better to stay single is definetly not the way and against the Sunnah
What you've said would stand for something if we lived in an ideal world. However, we seriously can't say we do I'm afraid. Better to not be judging the circumstances of those we don't know. Only Allāh knows best.
That’s really shocking. My mum always told me to avoid Muslim ‘marital’ apps when I start looking for marriage because a lot of people on there have other intentions. It really is just western dating but for muslims.
This. Thing is, the good men/women who are marriage material aren’t on these apps to begin with. And then we can’t date because that’s haram. So, the only solution I would suggest is to go through in-person social connections with friends and family, but even that doesn’t work for everyone, and it may only work in large cities with a large Muslim population.
I have also concluded that these apps are hookup sites. The men are there are absolutely disgusting and I think some should even be behind bars for their “tastes.”
Yesss they def are witnessed that firsthand and really regret those apps. They lure you into haram its scary. May Allah protect us all from these evil apps allowing shaytan to make us commit sins that we fall trap to. I dont recommend these apps to anyone, its more used like a thirsttrap than halal dating with the pure intention to get married by keeping it halal. Instead these men are controlled by their lusts and try to seduce women into getting in a situationship and taking advantage of their innocence by even demanding for u to come over their place! The audacity really angers me, these men need to be hold accountable😡
This is totally disgraceful and completely unacceptable, I never knew there were such "halal" apps going around, this is a very serious matter as they are completely misrepresenting the deen of Allah(swt) and claiming its all "halal". Who does more wrong than those who fabricate lies against Allah or deny His revelations? Indeed, the wicked will never succeed. Quran 10:17
salam brother, i recently stumbled on your page. tbh i always felt uneasy about these apps myself (from a security aspect but more importantly from a deen standpoint). so on behalf of many of us that are awkwardly trying to navigate these waters and firmly held off in hopes to find our righteous spouse, thank you. thank you for creating this video and for continuously putting out halal and accurate content. may Allah SWT reward you for your efforts.
i wish to create a safe space/platform for modern conservative muslimahs like myself but don’t know where to start tbh. similar to yours. there is so much pollution and saturation on the internet so i’m open to collaborating or offering ideas; indirectly. there is a huge need for more accurate and halal content creators combatting the haram/misinformation that is spreading around in our communities.
@@dndkatalthough I don’t personally work with women and only work with men, I would be open to creating a platform or subset of my community for women and having them run it in sha Allah in the future.
Yes I've seen these "muslim" dating apps. But honestly I think that they are worst than tinder. Because they cause both fornications. But one of them tarnishes muslims reputation.
Someone I knew who had a wife and a kid was on the app posing as a polygamous Muslim man who was "separated." A lot of scammers, incels, and people who "don't know what they want" AKA they have impossible standards or want hookups.
My own experience with Muslim “matrimonial “ website was very negative and traumatic, the men expected more of a hookup then actual marriage and ask haram stuff and you get surprised the photos they sent me that I decided to close it and rely on allah and if things workout for marriage great if not may allah grant me in heaven. But no more lowering my self just to get men who think this is a hookup website and trying to filter the good from the bad is exhausting and make you lose faith. I am happier now not chasing marriage but living my life and asking allah for guidance. My life has already gotten better for just being on my deen instead of dinya. I say to women live your life and pray to allah and inshallah thru social life you never know who you will meet that might know a good man. May allah answer our prayers
I’m not sure who you’re talking about but it wasn’t Mufti Menk. He endorsed an actual halal platform that requires you to have a wali and there are no pictures on there either. So it’s Sharia compliant.
@@Jojo-dz3slYou’re talking about the “Simply Nikah” that Mufti Menk endorsed, right? (He didn’t endorse Salams.) I checked out Simply Nikah and they do have pictures but they’re blurred for women. It says it’s “this feature is designed to respect the privacy of our female users, allowing them to control when their images are revealed to potential matches.”
I KNEW SOMETHING WAS UP!!! jazakallah brother, I knew something was up but I couldn't put my finger on it! may Allah swt reward you for exposing these frauds creating these 'muslim dating apps'
as a 17 yr old girl that is born in africa where going to madrasa as young as 5 and being a hafidh and where people where hijabs upto our knees im glad im born here because i started realizing that i was never corrupted by the western media sure there stuff as trends but by being in a family where deen is first and a community where islam is high , may allah guide our sisters and brothers ameen
Then the girl is going to say here you have the phone number of my father call him. I have to speaking with each other and anonymous. It’s also about intention of the woman as well. The reality is much woman today. Just want to play especially when they’re young marriage to using it as a term. And where is Ummah should notice because the generation here for has problems with raising up her own daughters this is the results.
@@FaiyadFitMay Allah protect us🤲🏽, i think some of our sisters need to understand that the non-Muslim men will never care about them, they just want them to remove the hijab...there's a reason why enemies of islam target muslimahs.
I knew an extremely dirt bag kind of guy . Like the guy has SA allegations try to make account at work . I overheard him talking about it so I convinced him not too . Was scared what would happened to a sister that met him.
Brother, could you make a video about this topic: Muslim brothers empthasise how modesty and hijab are important and a must. But when they get married, it is often women who were not covered or not properly covered. They basically tell sisters to not lure a husband with her looks, but they got married to sisters who were displaying somewhat their beauty. That confuses sisters, because she will completly try to be the best version and cover before marriage, but brothers only really show attention to the ones who show a little here and there. Or who was very open in behavior. It confuses sisters because they seem to only want those strict islamic rules applied AFTER they get married. A video about it would be cool😅
So true sister, it has me stressing 😂 Especially because for some reason when people see a niqabi a lot assume we’re already married, so no one approaches us. It’s like brothers expect a covered sister but only notice sisters that are more open. I know people who only got married once they opened more and then once they got married they covered again. Not hating on them it’s just I don’t want to do that!
@@binttahmet Yes. I have seen men who are pretty religious and genuinly good muslims. But they won't look at the muslim hijabi/niquabi that conceals her shape, doesn't wear make up, doesn't act too boldly or loud around non mahrams. They are religious but when you hear how they met their wife...in a mixed gathering, uncovered at a cofee shop,...just unislamic. It makes you wonder, shouldn't a rightous muslim be attracted to a sister who already acts like the wife he wants ?
@@MuslimMessenger267 I am Muslim man obviously I will choose a person like that even to point she in hajj covers the face with extended cloth of course not touching face . I mean that would be great . Keep maintaining modesty and never get discouraged. I ran away from those and rejected them who are opposite to such qualities. 😂
1) what makes you think they are better Muslim men than the ones who don't go for these women? ppls inner worth isn't determined by their outward displays. 2) what makes you think they were practicing Muslim men when they got married? ppl can leave sin behind. 3) often ppl will "change" when they want to get married. whether that change is cosmetic or sincere Allah knows. Allah will reward ppl according to their intentions. Those who become practising to marry a good looking Muslim housewife will be rewarded accordingly. Ultimately the relationship you need to focus on is the one with Allah and stop worrying and comparing yourself to other ppl. Your spouse is not the key to your happiness, they are merely a companion to help you in this dhunya to become better Muslims. Do not invest your identity into the illusion of the romantic relationship. You are Abdullah, not Abdul-Romance.
I think it's just more important to become a baseline practising Muslim. Things to do that will help accomplish this: 1. Pray Salah 5 times a day on time. The one most biggest deficit of our Ummah imo. 2. Keep your gaze away from women, even in movies. That's why movies in general are considered haram, because so many normalise the showing a womens skin and mens skin, and other immoralities. Our Awrah as men is navel to knee, and it's better to be more modest. 3. Make your way to masjid more often. Have a habit of saying salam to scholars and of asking questions to scholars. The more knowledge we can absorb from the scholars and Qur'an and Hadeeth (scholars derive their knowledge from here) the more we have in our favour to slowly become a practising muslim. Once we pray 5 times a day on time, the rest of our lives in terms of Islam is automatically fixing itself. And thereby preparing you to be a good husband. And a good wife if your a women.
You know how there’s this trend where you shouldn’t be judgemental nowadays. Well judging in the first place helps to distinguish between RIGHT AND WRONG. You take the act of judging itself out of the picture, then the world is an open place especially for people committing sins, not just to continue, but also to freely spread it too and feel okay about doing it.
You shouldn't say "no muslims should speak this video" as if it is some written verses or hadeeth,just state how important it is to watch but don't say every muslim should watch this.
pls make a video about men who go on podcasts and discuss everything that a woman shouldnt do but never self improvement, financial or religious tips for men,
Brother is not so black or white what do you think? There’s a difference of opinion for texting for with a girl with intention to get married. I wish the best thing for you . I have found my refer sister with with an app. It really depends on the person on the app. It’s very simple. But of course, it depends on which app you’re using . For me, and some of my friends were married the app have worked great.
Ok, so this EID-UL-FITR, I am very proud to launch Halal pig restaurant, Halal Casino, Halal zina-hubs, Halal gay club, Halal music concert, Halal bikinis, Halal dating/hook-up apps and Halal interest on loans. I am honestly out of ideas, give me more ideas so that we all can shamelessly add new bidats in Islam and present them as Halal and surely our shameless acts will be rewarded on the day of Judgment.
The only one that I’ve heard good stuff about is sunnah match. It’s fully shariah compliant as far as I’m aware. My friend recently got married to a very good brother using that app. If both parties are interested, they contact the wali directly and no pictures etc are available on site, so u decide based on profiles and pictures are shared later through the wali’s permission. I Haven’t used it personally but it sounds reasonable, Allahu A’alam.
Brother make a video on these brothers who are making reels by joking on islam .. one of them i saw was a brother saying in reels 'are you ayat al kursi because I can't sleep without you' . These are just disgusting
There’s a guy on Tik Tok making fun of Ramadan he called his “Latina hookup partner” and told her I can’t see you for 30 days lol these Muslims are just 🤢
I have no idea why one of the apps talks about “dowry” in an article instead of Mahr. How does a MUSLIM marriage app not know the importance of differentiating between the two?? It’s confusing to Muslims and non-Muslims alike who‘ll end up thinking Muslimahs are obligated to pay dowry for marriage (they aren’t).
Assalamu alaikum it is not true that the voice of a women is awrah. Aisha the mother of believers reported hadith from behind a veil akhi to men and women who would ask questions. There were many sahabiyat who asked the prophets and the khulafa questions and complained to them about matters. It is haram for a women to make her voice soft and alluring to men as it says in the Quran but it is not proper to say the voice of a women itself is awrah. And Allah knows best.
I'm a woman, "these apps are haram = saying going outside is haram because xyz. No outtside you behave according to the deen. Same on apps. Plus I live in a country were I wasnt born & raised & were most muslim men drink alcohol don't perform salah , are not responsible & cheat on their wives. I can pray for a gem endlessly or pray & also take action in being on an app while having halal standards to meet someone from abroad.
Assalaamu alaykum brother, glad you have set up your own community. I saw on Hamza’s one a guy who seemed Muslim basically talking about how he’s now good at talking to girls after following Hamza’s advice. These young impressionable men need a halal alternative that is easily accessible, just as Hamza’s is…
I love that thier is finally a channel on TH-cam that actually is not afraid to say it simply about Islam 👍. And not twist Islam to what society wants it to be .
@@FaiyadFit I'm glad u asked, I dont know if you've talked about this in your channel . But I've seen a lot of Muslim brothers and sisters who very often expose their sins online. I dont think they understand how horrible that is for them on the day of judgement. May Allah be pleased with us all. 🦋
@@FaiyadFit Also the importance of hijab and the beauty of it, many people take it as were being closed minded. But in reality it is us obeying Allah. Its would be a good understanding for non-hijabis and non muslims as well.
this is very disturbing. and a few weeks ago ive been getting a bunch of inappropriate ads one of them showing a woman wearing hijab and abaya, shes m04ning, and saying inapropriate things, touching herself and making seggsual facial expressions. It was an app for hookups with muslim women and video calls etc., the ad wasn't skippable as well, it was so disgusting, there are many ads like this now astaghfirallah 💔 now all of that is just a description, imagine the trauma i have after watching/hearing it..
Assalamu alaikum brother, you are doing an exceptional work. Jazak-Allah khairan. I remember when I first stumbled upon your channel I was so proud of you . This is the kind of brothers that I wanna see out there. Keep it up
Brother, I only have a few complaints that I would like to address. 1 is that on the alternative you suggested, you are unable to view the profile of the individual you have matched with until the end. Physical attraction, though not a priority is important to have in a marriage. The other is that the app is specifically for sisters looking to be homemakers. Khadijah R.A herself was an entrepreneur & I'm sure many sisters would like to continue their careers. Can you please advise or clarify on this?
Your question wasn’t answered because you are right. These brothers went to university and worked with both genders and now is saying it’s haram for woman to be out and interacting with opposite genders.
Whilst I agree with your take on these apps, I think you have misunderstood the ayat from surah alahzab. Those ayat and the tafsir you mentioned are talking about the wives of the profits, not the the general muslim woman who have a different standard set upon them. Also I cannot quote the sources, but I read up that the male and female companions in medina often got married by interacting with each other in a public setting (whilst being respectful and quickly getting a wali involved), the same happened with Musa (A.S) as we see in the Quran. I am just saying this because it seems that you have an incorrect idea that men and women can never publicly and respectfully interact with each. FYI I am not defending these apps.
Its actually really wild my jaw dropped when i saw that one part in the video where the non muslim guy was going on the app and signing up and there was a 'non' practicing muslim option... there no such thing as non practicing muslim thats litterly a non muslim they know what there doing im so suprised that app has a thing where theres partys to go to there showjng there awrah not wearing hijabs and as a muslimah its wild no like really wild but i suppose i shouldnt be suprised cus the day of judgement is coming closer and stuff but i cant help it that ppl arent using there brains and are like 'hmmmm im just gonna go on this app to meet and hopefully marry someone that has a talking option and video calling! And other more shady stuff! Yea this is totally fine!' And Having a Wali is an option?! Oh my...
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته You are doing great work brother. If people like you don’t speak out, slowly after generations, these clear cut issues in our religion will be watered down. So it’s necessary for people to reclarify Islamic guidelines to the people جزاك الله خيرا
I do want to comment on the halal app alternative. Although I like the idea, not everyone is looking for a “traditional” marriage in the sense that is being discussed these days. I hope that isn’t the point of the app. There’s this misconception that “trad family“is the marriage ideal or that it is the Islamic version of a marriage dynamic when it’s not necessarily. Each couple will operate according to what fits them best. Men will have to provide and women will obey their husbands at the end of the day, but How that is done, Is not described in Islam. It’s up to them. And also, I want to preface that I see the most privilege who have families who help them with marriage/ get proposals/ are in counties and communities where there are options seem to be the loudest opposers to dating apps. People get desperate because they do not have choices like many of you.
Assalaamu 3alaikom Brother Faiyad, I've written plenty of video ideas I'd love for you to make videos on: 1. Mothers Starving Their Daughters for Unrealistic Body Standards (very common in Arab families) 2. Racism in the Ummah (problematic even among Arabs) 3. Muslims Not Fasting Ramadan (I think I knew guys in school that didn't fast so they could bulk) 4. Muslimas Not Making Up for Missed Fasts (ex: when they couldn't fast during their menses in part of Ramadan) 5. How to Exercise With The Right Niyyah/Intention 6. Practical Steps to Love Salah 7. Spiritual Steps to Love Salah 8. Practical Steps to Love Reading The Holy Qur'an 9. Spiritual Steps to Love Reading The Holy Qur'an 8. The Blessings of The Outdoors for Men 9. The Blessings of The House for Women 10. Practical Steps to Increase Wealth 11. Spiritual Steps to Increase Wealth 12. Sexism in the Ummah (whether it's feminism or red pill) 13. The Dangers of LGBT (gigantic issue nowadays) 14. How to Align Worship with Work/Studies During Ramadan (very needed for youths nowadays)
Salaam Alaykum Faiyad. Great content. No doubt that these events are not the best places to take part in. That being said; sometimes you gotta go through the dark in order to find the light. I'm sure couples have met through these events whilst being top of their mandatory salahs and avoiding the major sins. But we gotta be real, if we shouldn't attend these events due to what it COULD lead to. What's the alternative? (aside from Sunnah Match because not everybody likes that setup). For example I like to consider myself a practicing muslim who prays salah on time to the best of my ability. There was a previous trend I keep hearing of in 2022-2023 in which the brothers used to prey Fajr in the masjid consistently in the early 2000s in the GTA. The elders would notice them immediately and ask them to purpose to their daughters for potential marriage. That's definitely not the case right now, just looking at the body language of some masjid goers. If I even attempt to ask something like that they wouldn't even look at me the same again. They'd only look at whether my money and career or on point, and if I have a good car. Sometimes imams masjid hope a lot so it's also different to be in contact with them on marriage stuff because they may not see you as a priority and are dealing with more major cases. I get that we are in tough economic times, but what happened to the part in the Quran where Allah (swt) said that he would enrich the poor couple getting married. Some people have really lost that tawakkul Allah knows best. NOW I'm not saying that people will never get married through attending the masjid, inshallah I pray for the best outcomes for anyone looking to get married. But we gotta address the double standards and address ALL sides of this issue. Because the reality is the halal is really getting more and more difficult, and we shouldn't be surprised if brothers and sisters are using other alternatives to fulfill half of their deen because of the regular path that was supposed to take places being closed off. Feel free to agree or disagree everyone, Salaam.
Please follow the advise of the brother. A lot of Haram / zina have happened due to these sites. My advise is to quit making assumptions and ask at your local masjid, family, friends & their families. Regardless of how people look at you, just ask and be mature about it. What have you got to loose? Stay away from those sites because many sisters don’t have their walis there and it’s better to be safe than sorry! Also, sisters post filtered photos which will affect you in many ways that it might cloud your judgement. I went on muzz and was surprised with the sisters profiles.’majority don’t have hijab and wore full makeup and photos looked so fake SubhanAllah. I’m a sister and was flabbergasted as to how majority of those sisters look. I noticed the same brothers from years ago when I was on muzmatch and pure matrimony were still searching!!! Not sure whether they married and divorced but the same were still there. So this clearly highlights it’s not effective /worthit! Apparently some members have mental health / in mental health units ! The brothers I met there weren’t serious and it was full of married men! Tells you something about the app!
Please listen to the brother and be very very careful. Those sites are full of nothing but fitna, zina and those who don’t fear Allah! Moreover , unrealistic expectations that could result in zina or very short lived marriages. I was on there years ago and whenever I activate and deactivate I see the same brothers. It’s strange how they don’t remember when I remember them. Clearly these sites are not that effective. I’ve seen sisters profiles on Muzz full of makeup and filters! Filters SubhanAllah! That Even some brothers started using filters and now prefer non hijabis and want to justify it by saying as long as she’s willing to wear hijab or develop self etc. They look ridiculous but this is the beauty standard you don’t want to partake in. You are better off enquiring from varied masajids, friends, family, even if you look like a fool. Better be safe than sorry. Online is never safe for Muslims, shaithan will still be lurking. A friend attended one of these events, she’s not a hijabi but noticed even the so called practising brothers wanted the sisters without hijab and with revealing clothes
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Finally someone who actually knows and shows the reality of these apps , I am shocked that these apps gets promoted like it’s ok FOR US MUSLIMS to enter and act like it’s nothing, honestly what difference does it make from that other haram apps . I’m surprised and disappointed on how some people seem to accept casually that this is their only choice wallahi it’s not worth the time nor the sins to be committed for such ridiculous things . I never liked the idea of These apps and may Allah protects us and safeguard us from such fitnah.
Over a year ago i went to a marriage event which turned out to be in a bar and the next one was in a bar too, some sisters wore the Muslim dress which doesnt cover thier face into the bar. I told the organiser not to have these events in bars.
Clearly this guy is a radicalist. Men and women free mixed in all respect during the life of prophet PBUH. the prophet's wedding to Aisha RA was free mixed.
What would you recommend for reverts? I see your point, but at the same time, is there really an alternative for Muslim reverts living in western countries with less than 4% Muslim population? (And making hijra to a Muslim country is often not a financial possibility for everyone). To find a practicing partner is hard. These apps may have their dangers, but these apps offer an alternative to those who would otherwise have to marry a non-Muslim as an alternative.
As someone with no experience as im still only 15 i would advise to wait as allah always rewards alsabirin(الصابرين) and if the love is shared you can even convert her by being kind caring not forcing yourself onher truthfull••• and most importantly close to your religion Hope for you the best insha'Allah brother ❤
@FaiyadFit I feel like talking about the mindset of the sahabas and the prophet saw and explaining how to gain a mindset like them would be useful Jazakallahukhair
bro let the muslims meet and find their soulmates nothing wrong with that it's not like they are meeting in private rooms it's a public event i known it could be better and stuff but it's a way, i used those apps before i married my wife now Al7amduleleh and to be honest the muslim ladies i met were sincere in finding a husband it did not work for me as i did not find a compatible lady well technically i did but i was not the one for her all in all the ladies out there are serious and decent as for the tinder and smiliar apps they are mainly for attention seeking or casual meetings not serious relationships that lead to marriage
This is why those who haven’t fallen in to these traps must seek knowledge, learning the classical books of this religion, and becoming trained. And then using this knowledge to benefit your community
I'm just going to comment on the quotation of Surah el Ahzab on why men and women shouldn't talk to each other unless behind a veil. first of all, this was said for the Prophet's (ppbuh) wives, as many people entered his house, and it was not appropriate for his wives to have guys intrude on their private space, have them wear the hijab to serve them, or feel uncomfortable in their own house answering to strange men. So there was a physical curtain that separated the Prophet's wives from the people who popped up. So they don't feel the pressure to go out and feel uncomfortable around strange men. And women have been working in the prophet's age, anyone who is in need of money works. it's unfair to destroy women's prospects when they are young, only to leave them destitute at old age, having to work maid jobs. As for the parties or whatever this weird app is doing, It's tacky, and not going to bring good results. but yes people should meet at parents house to see if they are compatible before engagement.
im happy you talk about that, unfortunately when I used to tell ladies that those apps are haram theey attack me ,even I was surprised when there's even events in Ramadan and they advertise that as Ramdan date meet muslims single and do Iftar how that spouses that be Hlal while mixing with men non mahram and it's even worst in Ramdan may Allah Guide them and protect us from this
He's totally right... This is not a way of marriage.. No mixing with non mehram. And most probably ppl only use this app to have fun.. No one actual use this as for nikah
Dua is our most powerful weapon. keep praying especially in this holy month to get a righteous spouse! and is sunnahmatch really no different from apps like muzz? they don't have the things you mentioned...right?
I’m a revert muslimah who is very mannish (get mistaken for a man/sound Ike a man) I was kind of disappointed that these things aren’t halal. No wali, no mosque around me, very few Muslims in my city - ya Allah ﷻ make it easy on me
one thing that I think about is how some Muslims don't ever go to the mosques in their cities even though it's like ten minutes walk away from them. The nearest mosque to me is a 6 to 8 hour drive away. You have a way bigger platform than my little accounts - maybe encourage them to go to Islamic speeches and events near them at their local mosques, and speak to their imams? maybe show them the hadiths about how blessed people who meet and talk/listen about Allah swt are, and how the angels get so excited and bring the good news to Allah swt? I wish I could do such a thing, and I hate to see people waste valuable time and resources by not going to the masjids@@FaiyadFit
Do you think ppl choose apps as a first choice when looking for a spouse???? NO! That's the last option, of course no one's likes being on those apps, but when there's no other options that's what we have to resort too. It's easy for ppl who are married or found their partners on social media to then say the negatives of these apps. Like we know already it's not the ideal place to find someone, but when there's nothing else to do what can we do.
oh how far humanity has fallen, and only the Believers can hang on all be it barely so Inshaallah we come Closer to Allah and we dont get stuck to this dunya
As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatulah wa barakatuh, akhi. (Single)Muslim revert for over five years. I feel like I JUST learned what is true Islam. Masha Allah.
@@FaiyadFit I'm new to your channel brother. Subscribed and I can see you have already covered some great topics brother. Right now, nothing new in my mind brother, sorry 😅
What happen to approaching her father/older brother What was wrong with that Story time: Me and my mate went out to a restaurant to eat (before Ramadan btw) we saw single marriage event and it was not halal any shape of form, it was taking place upstairs so we went to read Salah (there’s a separate praying room upstairs). We saw no wali’s, sisters brought in their female relatives as their wali’s (so no male relatives on their side) and brothers brought hired expensive cars and some of the brothers came in with their MUMS as their wali’s 🤦🏽♂️ Bringing hired cars is giving false impression for the sisters Bringing your mum as the brothers wali doesn’t make any sense Plus free mixing No Proper modesty clothing etc From this point onwards I have no idea why this generation has intellect I don’t get it I’m starting to loose hope for the uk sisters No offence to anyone but what a bunch of snow flakes
Brothers don’t need wali and can attend alone. Wali is for sisters so brothers only involve mums to help With the vetting process. As for sisters, not all have walis and imams don’t have time to attend such events, regardless, those with wali should involve them cos no marriage is valid without a wali. A friend attended one of these events and said only sisters without hijab and revealing clothes get attention 😅 she’s not a hijabi but she was surprised how even brothers who act practising wanted non practising sisters
I've used Muslim dating sites before and some of them actually allow you to choose the same gender in your preference, eg. I'm a GIRL Looking for a GIRL. Also you have the option of choosing friendship instead of marriage.
But where do you find someone these days?? Everyone saying haram this haram that? But our own brothers/fathers don’t wanna look any more and the masjids are not really proactive with matching so what do we have to do as females? Especially if you are a serious person and who doesn’t go out often except for work and stuff… it’s so hard I don’t get it😢
Assalamu alaykum, I just wanted to say that I am really glad I came upon your page because you had the courage to stand up for what is right and address it while a lot of us are getting brainwashed in these fitna times. May Allah grant you good deeds for the actions that you are taking and your honesty. The way they make it seems looks like they are doing something good, but the amount of haram the app has is crazy. May Allah protect us all
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 -“It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. Same said in islam. So
Assalamualaikum brother, I just wanted to point out what you said during this timeline15:27 in the video... You said "traditional" women in this platform, if they want to work, can do so from home.. the way you said this will bring others thinking that working outside home for women is haram which is quite the opposite. How can a woman working from home be a doctor for other muslim women or be a teacher ? Allah commands us to educate ourselves. So please don't indicate that working from home is the halal way for a woman to work.
I really disagree with this..mostly. its true the whole halal ratio thing is insane and weird and doesmt make any sense. However i dont think mingling is a bad thing. Its in public and with the intention of meeting for the sake of marriage. Theres no touching and adults should know whats important to ask. Also you can bring a mahram. I tried the masjid. The imam also left us ina room alone with him nearby enough to hear us, but its the same thing. U meet the opposite sex for the sake of marriage. Its easy to fall into sin i agree. And i agree its scammy because it motivates u to keep scrolling through men/women whoch is very problematic. However its important if u are going in with the marriage mindset, you will know if a guy is being serious from his questions and if he respects you and if hes making steps to push this beyond texting and into bring it to your parents and proposing. We no longer live in a society where your mom knows people sadly. My mom i asked her, she knows about the app, she told me she doesnt know anyone her age with sons. My friends brothers are married. Some people are immigrants or have deceased parents. Theres nothing haram in meeting a woman PUBLICLY IN PROPER TIMES AND PLACES NOT ALONE! to meet a person for the sake of marriage. What am i gonna do...? Put up a sign on my door saying muslimah for marriage
MashaAllah, my brotha! Good on you for exposing the evils of these totally un-islamic platforms. I like many righteous brothers don't want find the mother of our children via some swiping bs, and of course we don't have to. Use your real social network, family, etc. Anything outside of social media is a million times better.
You know which is more sad. i want to get married and I do not want to date. I do not like free mixing. It makes me feel uncomfortable. When my parents tell our relatives or friends to find a groom for me. They are like oh…your daughter can find a groom by herself these days girls are smart enough to find groom for themselves. I do not know what to do.
A couple years ago , I had friends who were on 'muslim' dating apps just for sexual relations. They would promise the world to these women and then just sleep with them and leave. May Allah guide us.
Your point about "Why they put the function ´I only eat halal` or `I dont drink alcohol`? " is bad. Because it is a good function. Because there are muslims who eat haram food and drink haram stuff. And it would be horrible to know about this only when you marry the person. So this function helps to not waste your time with a person if he eats haram food or alcohol. Nevertheless I do not use these apps and I criticize these apps. But on the other side you cannot blame them when the imams and other muslims with high responsibility for the ummah did not create an alternative . The only thing they can is to call this and that "haram". Because it is easy to do that sitting on a soft sofa in home and speaking to camera or sitting in mosque. It is the laziness of the heads of our ummah who are responsible for that (partly). The only halal option these people have is to marry their cousine, so it is not a wonder that they go to these apps. I am for example a single muslim. And I have no idea how to find a wife. NO IDEA. BECAUSE everything around me is haram. And every alternative I have - is a haram option. I do not know what I should do. NO IDEA. Sometimes my mind tells me to go to these apps but then I stop. The reason because I do not know what to do is to blame the imams of our western communities. Because they are lazy to solve the problems our society. Non muslims have solutions. Muslims do not. Everage Non Muslims have unlimited options. But everage Muslims have EXTREEEEEMLY restricted options. They can only make dua.
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Drinking alcoholic beverages was Halal for the next ten years after Mohammad pbuh became a Prophet. Having premarital sex and Riba(interest banking and lending) was Halal for the next 22 years after Mohammad pbuh became a Prophet which means that the Prophet, Sahaba, and the Prophet's relatives were practicing those dirty good things. So, then why can't we practice those things with limits?
Salam Brother, I've been trying to follow you. I watched your channel and was getting advice about Muslim women who's looking for a marriage. Muslima is halal, but if it is how come when I talk to people, it says profile is switched off, and I can not see our past messages? Can you please explain that to me? Thank you for your response in advance.
Guiding brothers and sisters while fearing a lawsuit ❌
Guiding brothers and sisters while fearing Allah SWT ✅
“What’s your haram halal ratio like?” is a crazyyyy question to ask
Astagfirullah man
Bro wallah I've been asked this so many times on muzzmatch
@@moynulaminamin9106how do you even answer a question like that?!
@@Suyoen the minute I get asked this question I blank them. I don't care if they're an 11/10 looks wise they drop to a 1 if they ask that
@@FaiyadFitI’m still learning the religion BUT what is the issue with men and women mixing if it is done in a respectful manner….?? I’m sorry to ask but are men and women that deprived these days that they will pounce on each other…..??? Why can’t respectful, intellectual conversations take place???
As a revert and this being my first Ramadan, I am very thankful for your channel. Following the example of Muhammad SAW and converting to Islam, I realized that there is no truer example of being a man other than Muhammad SAW, especially during a time where masculinity has become a toxic word, it grounded me and it has definitely made me humble and my behavior has changed a lot as a result of Islam. I am currently working on my weight but thankfully, this channel has helped. May Allah SWT reward you for guiding the lost men of this day to follow the example of the Messenger SAW, as well as guiding us to the deen
Allahumma ameen may Allah keep us steadfast habibi. How’s your journey so far?
@@FaiyadFit Alhamdulillah it could be better, but I’ve been dealing with a foot injury so my cardio has been understandably a little less, but I followed your advice on cardio before Iftar, and eating protein for breakfast, I have seen some slight change in weight so there’s a good thing Alhamdulillah. My body has gotten adjusted to fasting and spiritually I feel myself improving as well akhi. Thank you again for your content, it definitely helped redirect me and I feel that I now have a stronger purpose: everything to better myself for the sake of Allah Azzawajal
@@kevenlopez2782 My bro so happy to hear you improving, May Allah make Ramadan easy for you and help you improve in the best of ways as well as keep you steadfast
@@ok_e3w ameen Jazakallah khair akhi, may Allah increase you!
We ask Allah to guide us all to his straight path.
Amen.
I appreciate the decision and effort you make to subtitle your videos. It really helps Muslims who are deaf or hard-of-hearing and still want to benefit. Jazakallahu khayran.
Jazakallahu khair. If you have video topics lmk!
@@FaiyadFiti recommend you to make a video about how the ideal muslim shown online preferably couples isn’t real life. i know you made a video about muslim couples but you can stem from that
@@razorr2243I agree also how people should not be looking up to any of them and these influencers at all
@@FaiyadFitI have a video request for you. It's quite lengthy (and personal) to explain on here, so I'll look for your email / contact details and hopefully you're interested in addressing this issue in a future video.
@@FaiyadFitplease talk about free mixing, and imitating the disbelievers and each other, it has became so common and normalized, for example, weddings, baby showers, bridal showers, gender reveals, following trends, making content, going to concerts, going to stadiums and all, birthdays, anniversary Etc…
the amount of Free mixing is wild Audubillah. And no mahram in sight. May Allah protect us from this fitnah
Allahumma ameen Astagfirullah!!
Refer to the comments from people of my previous post and you will understand the state of Muslims today. Sad world !
when you go shopping in the souk a public place full of people you go with a mahram ?
@@user-wx7sy8ux2l You should go with a mahram. Woman aren’t suppose to be in public mingling unless for emergency situations
@@user-ie5um8gq6o bro still lives in 50 BC
I am not justifying this app...but my brother met his wife on muz match and got married 3 months in. We dont live in a muslim country...and there are cultural muslims who dont practice...this app has helped filtered that...but also my brother and his wife are muslims of good character. So...also, it boils down to the individual. Dont do haram. Keep your intentions pure
Incredible, but as the hadith says, holding on to our religion will be harder to hold on to than hot coal and it truly appears like weve reached these times.
Yes also one of the Hadith about the hour will not come until haram will be made halal, Audhubillah indeed qiyamah is near.
The best argument so far. Allahume barik brother. What you said: "Allah has already ordained who you are going to marry etc. And understand that you will never have to put yourself in a haram situation to get to your spouse." Logically, because Allah SWT does not guide trough haram, since he forbade haram, and Allah SWT doesn't contradict himself ever. Shaitan is the one who guides insan trough haram. AMAZING POINT brother.
Jazakallahu khair. Any video topic ideas?
may Allah protect us all ameen
Allahumma ameen ameen ameen :)
Ameen
When people himself don’t take precaution then Allah will not help them
Aameen
Our faith, Islam is so sacred, why are we following non believers tactics to find a wife, It's tainting Islam, apps only bring lust, and you miss the content of character. Even as a convert I know the right way is to follow Islamic tradition. Great Channel
Absolutely thanks. Any video topic ideas?
@@FaiyadFit Yea sure as men I feel we need to be high value, have dik discipline, and know how to find a wife, creating wealth, but most importantly have a strong deen, I'm hoping to work with other Muslims to create wealth in Halal ways and contribute to building Mosques, and helping our brothers sisters and children that have lost lives Palestine and Syria and other conflicts.
1:50. So let me get this straight, only around 5% end up getting married? LOL😂
These haram apps are an absolute waste of time. Honestly, just stay away from them.
Absolutely bro may Allah protect us
A waste of time and a time in hell
Some people don’t have other options
@@Noah-il6qnThis is the wrong mindset are you afraid that Allah the king of the heavens and earth the most generous and loving isn’t going to make marriage possible for you because you decided to avoid using an app filled with haram to please him? This is a sign of weak iman and a lack of knowledge in Allah. Put your trust in Allah and do your best in what’s halal and Allah will handle the rest. So don’t take the other approach either where you sit at home and magically think a spouse will come knocking on the door. You’ll have to ask around ask friends, family, your local imam or sheikh and recently there has been some seemingly halal dating apps haven’t looked into them but apparently they should be following the Quran and Sunnah so look into them if they are an actual good halal source and Allah will definitely find you spouse.
@@somerandomguy3037 what are you on about??? I am looking into apps with the intention of marriage, I’m not looking to have stupid dates. I asked friends, family and nothing happened. And the imams here aren’t match makers. So I’m using what I can and doing my best. I actually DONT have another choice as I’m not even allowed to leave the house. Personally you guys come off as too privileged and proud to understand what others are going through.
How you supposed to get married if the men and women don't mix. And in islam the man and women have to see eachother before agreeing to get married. The apps have done what they can to make it halal in certain situations such reporting bad haram language, but everyone who is muslim doing it in a haram way is their own fault
Looking into the abyss of "Muslim Dating apps", its better to remain single, but then again, it's better to visit the masjid and ask about marriage rather than remain single to see who's serious....
anyways,
EID with rave music? what The H?
Astagfirullah bro!
The Masjids turn us down & laugh when we try asking. Dangerous times.
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatulahi Wa Barakatu. Maybe go to different masjid, be there in the front row, volunteer etc. What you described is very odd honestly, where I'm at an Imam might tease you, but if you're serious they'll look. Likewise for any students of knowledge etc.
But you saying better to stay single is definetly not the way and against the Sunnah
@@erolnisic2465 read my comment slowly 🤓
What you've said would stand for something if we lived in an ideal world.
However, we seriously can't say we do I'm afraid. Better to not be judging the circumstances of those we don't know. Only Allāh knows best.
That’s really shocking. My mum always told me to avoid Muslim ‘marital’ apps when I start looking for marriage because a lot of people on there have other intentions. It really is just western dating but for muslims.
This.
Thing is, the good men/women who are marriage material aren’t on these apps to begin with.
And then we can’t date because that’s haram.
So, the only solution I would suggest is to go through in-person social connections with friends and family, but even that doesn’t work for everyone, and it may only work in large cities with a large Muslim population.
I have also concluded that these apps are hookup sites. The men are there are absolutely disgusting and I think some should even be behind bars for their “tastes.”
Yesss they def are witnessed that firsthand and really regret those apps. They lure you into haram its scary. May Allah protect us all from these evil apps allowing shaytan to make us commit sins that we fall trap to. I dont recommend these apps to anyone, its more used like a thirsttrap than halal dating with the pure intention to get married by keeping it halal. Instead these men are controlled by their lusts and try to seduce women into getting in a situationship and taking advantage of their innocence by even demanding for u to come over their place! The audacity really angers me, these men need to be hold accountable😡
This is totally disgraceful and completely unacceptable, I never knew there were such "halal" apps going around, this is a very serious matter as they are completely misrepresenting the deen of Allah(swt) and claiming its all "halal".
Who does more wrong than those who fabricate lies against Allah or deny His revelations? Indeed, the wicked will never succeed.
Quran 10:17
salam brother, i recently stumbled on your page. tbh i always felt uneasy about these apps myself (from a security aspect but more importantly from a deen standpoint). so on behalf of many of us that are awkwardly trying to navigate these waters and firmly held off in hopes to find our righteous spouse, thank you. thank you for creating this video and for continuously putting out halal and accurate content. may Allah SWT reward you for your efforts.
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu sis ameen and you. Let me know any topic ideas!
i wish to create a safe space/platform for modern conservative muslimahs like myself but don’t know where to start tbh. similar to yours. there is so much pollution and saturation on the internet so i’m open to collaborating or offering ideas; indirectly. there is a huge need for more accurate and halal content creators combatting the haram/misinformation that is spreading around in our communities.
@@dndkatalthough I don’t personally work with women and only work with men, I would be open to creating a platform or subset of my community for women and having them run it in sha Allah in the future.
@@FaiyadFitcold answer
@@dndkat calls herself conservative Muslimah *puts awrah of herself in her profile for everyone to see*
Yes I've seen these "muslim" dating apps.
But honestly I think that they are worst than tinder.
Because they cause both fornications.
But one of them tarnishes muslims reputation.
Exactly. The improper Muslims do more harm than the improper non Muslims to our reputation.
Someone I knew who had a wife and a kid was on the app posing as a polygamous Muslim man who was "separated." A lot of scammers, incels, and people who "don't know what they want" AKA they have impossible standards or want hookups.
Omggg they r really scammers and sick
This is sooo trueee
My own experience with Muslim “matrimonial “ website was very negative and traumatic, the men expected more of a hookup then actual marriage and ask haram stuff and you get surprised the photos they sent me that I decided to close it and rely on allah and if things workout for marriage great if not may allah grant me in heaven. But no more lowering my self just to get men who think this is a hookup website and trying to filter the good from the bad is exhausting and make you lose faith. I am happier now not chasing marriage but living my life and asking allah for guidance. My life has already gotten better for just being on my deen instead of dinya. I say to women live your life and pray to allah and inshallah thru social life you never know who you will meet that might know a good man.
May allah answer our prayers
I cant believe a very famous Mufti openly endorsed “Salams”
Astagfirullah.
wait who
Which Mufti ???
I’m not sure who you’re talking about but it wasn’t Mufti Menk. He endorsed an actual halal platform that requires you to have a wali and there are no pictures on there either. So it’s Sharia compliant.
@@Jojo-dz3slYou’re talking about the “Simply Nikah” that Mufti Menk endorsed, right? (He didn’t endorse Salams.) I checked out Simply Nikah and they do have pictures but they’re blurred for women. It says it’s “this feature is designed to respect the privacy of our female users, allowing them to control when their images are revealed to potential matches.”
I KNEW SOMETHING WAS UP!!! jazakallah brother, I knew something was up but I couldn't put my finger on it! may Allah swt reward you for exposing these frauds creating these 'muslim dating apps'
as a 17 yr old girl that is born in africa where going to madrasa as young as 5 and being a hafidh and where people where hijabs upto our knees im glad im born here because i started realizing that i was never corrupted by the western media sure there stuff as trends but by being in a family where deen is first and a community where islam is high , may allah guide our sisters and brothers ameen
I'm not surprised that there's non-muslim men using these apps
Astagfirullah bro
Then the girl is going to say here you have the phone number of my father call him. I have to speaking with each other and anonymous. It’s also about intention of the woman as well. The reality is much woman today. Just want to play especially when they’re young marriage to using it as a term.
And where is Ummah should notice because the generation here for has problems with raising up her own daughters this is the results.
@@FaiyadFitMay Allah protect us🤲🏽, i think some of our sisters need to understand that the non-Muslim men will never care about them, they just want them to remove the hijab...there's a reason why enemies of islam target muslimahs.
I knew an extremely dirt bag kind of guy . Like the guy has SA allegations try to make account at work .
I overheard him talking about it so I convinced him not too . Was scared what would happened to a sister that met him.
My friend found a Hindu on that App lol 😂
Imagine the sins u get for making these dodgy apps damnnnnn
Brother, could you make a video about this topic:
Muslim brothers empthasise how modesty and hijab are important and a must.
But when they get married, it is often women who were not covered or not properly covered.
They basically tell sisters to not lure a husband with her looks, but they got married to sisters who were displaying somewhat their beauty.
That confuses sisters, because she will completly try to be the best version and cover before marriage, but brothers only really show attention to the ones who show a little here and there.
Or who was very open in behavior.
It confuses sisters because they seem to only want those strict islamic rules applied AFTER they get married.
A video about it would be cool😅
So true sister, it has me stressing 😂 Especially because for some reason when people see a niqabi a lot assume we’re already married, so no one approaches us. It’s like brothers expect a covered sister but only notice sisters that are more open.
I know people who only got married once they opened more and then once they got married they covered again. Not hating on them it’s just I don’t want to do that!
Follow Islam and forget men. Tomorrow men can wake up and straight up prefer other men so forget that. 😂
@@binttahmet Yes. I have seen men who are pretty religious and genuinly good muslims.
But they won't look at the muslim hijabi/niquabi that conceals her shape, doesn't wear make up, doesn't act too boldly or loud around non mahrams.
They are religious but when you hear how they met their wife...in a mixed gathering, uncovered at a cofee shop,...just unislamic.
It makes you wonder, shouldn't a rightous muslim be attracted to a sister who already acts like the wife he wants ?
@@MuslimMessenger267 I am Muslim man obviously I will choose a person like that even to point she in hajj covers the face with extended cloth of course not touching face . I mean that would be great . Keep maintaining modesty and never get discouraged. I ran away from those and rejected them who are opposite to such qualities. 😂
1) what makes you think they are better Muslim men than the ones who don't go for these women? ppls inner worth isn't determined by their outward displays.
2) what makes you think they were practicing Muslim men when they got married? ppl can leave sin behind.
3) often ppl will "change" when they want to get married. whether that change is cosmetic or sincere Allah knows. Allah will reward ppl according to their intentions. Those who become practising to marry a good looking Muslim housewife will be rewarded accordingly.
Ultimately the relationship you need to focus on is the one with Allah and stop worrying and comparing yourself to other ppl.
Your spouse is not the key to your happiness, they are merely a companion to help you in this dhunya to become better Muslims. Do not invest your identity into the illusion of the romantic relationship. You are Abdullah, not Abdul-Romance.
Ain't no way bro is charging $99 for a phone call and tips that are available for free. Fear Allah brother and quit scamming kids
@@Flex-cx7ujIt’s not about Apple
Harsh truth, but us guys need to hear this from time to time as a reminder to stay on the path
Allahumma barik. Any video topic ideas?
I think it's just more important to become a baseline practising Muslim.
Things to do that will help accomplish this:
1. Pray Salah 5 times a day on time. The one most biggest deficit of our Ummah imo.
2. Keep your gaze away from women, even in movies.
That's why movies in general are considered haram, because so many normalise the showing a womens skin and mens skin, and other immoralities.
Our Awrah as men is navel to knee, and it's better to be more modest.
3. Make your way to masjid more often. Have a habit of saying salam to scholars and of asking questions to scholars.
The more knowledge we can absorb from the scholars and Qur'an and Hadeeth (scholars derive their knowledge from here) the more we have in our favour to slowly become a practising muslim.
Once we pray 5 times a day on time, the rest of our lives in terms of Islam is automatically fixing itself.
And thereby preparing you to be a good husband.
And a good wife if your a women.
You know how there’s this trend where you shouldn’t be judgemental nowadays. Well judging in the first place helps to distinguish between RIGHT AND WRONG. You take the act of judging itself out of the picture, then the world is an open place especially for people committing sins, not just to continue, but also to freely spread it too and feel okay about doing it.
You shouldn't say "no muslims should speak this video" as if it is some written verses or hadeeth,just state how important it is to watch but don't say every muslim should watch this.
pls make a video about men who go on podcasts and discuss everything that a woman shouldnt do but never self improvement, financial or religious tips for men,
Brother is not so black or white what do you think? There’s a difference of opinion for texting for with a girl with intention to get married.
I wish the best thing for you . I have found my refer sister with with an app.
It really depends on the person on the app. It’s very simple.
But of course, it depends on which app you’re using . For me, and some of my friends were married the app have worked great.
Ok, so this EID-UL-FITR, I am very proud to launch Halal pig restaurant, Halal Casino, Halal zina-hubs, Halal gay club, Halal music concert, Halal bikinis, Halal dating/hook-up apps and Halal interest on loans.
I am honestly out of ideas, give me more ideas so that we all can shamelessly add new bidats in Islam and present them as Halal and surely our shameless acts will be rewarded on the day of Judgment.
Halal idol worship
May Allah reward the brother who made a Muslim matchmaker service
Allahumma ameen
The only one that I’ve heard good stuff about is sunnah match. It’s fully shariah compliant as far as I’m aware. My friend recently got married to a very good brother using that app. If both parties are interested, they contact the wali directly and no pictures etc are available on site, so u decide based on profiles and pictures are shared later through the wali’s permission. I Haven’t used it personally but it sounds reasonable, Allahu A’alam.
Brother make a video on these brothers who are making reels by joking on islam .. one of them i saw was a brother saying in reels 'are you ayat al kursi because I can't sleep without you' . These are just disgusting
There’s a guy on Tik Tok making fun of Ramadan he called his “Latina hookup partner” and told her I can’t see you for 30 days lol these Muslims are just 🤢
I have no idea why one of the apps talks about “dowry” in an article instead of Mahr. How does a MUSLIM marriage app not know the importance of differentiating between the two?? It’s confusing to Muslims and non-Muslims alike who‘ll end up thinking Muslimahs are obligated to pay dowry for marriage (they aren’t).
Assalamu alaikum it is not true that the voice of a women is awrah. Aisha the mother of believers reported hadith from behind a veil akhi to men and women who would ask questions. There were many sahabiyat who asked the prophets and the khulafa questions and complained to them about matters. It is haram for a women to make her voice soft and alluring to men as it says in the Quran but it is not proper to say the voice of a women itself is awrah. And Allah knows best.
Jazakallahu khair for the correction akhi
W iyyakum @@FaiyadFit
I'm a woman, "these apps are haram = saying going outside is haram because xyz. No outtside you behave according to the deen. Same on apps. Plus I live in a country were I wasnt born & raised & were most muslim men drink alcohol don't perform salah , are not responsible & cheat on their wives. I can pray for a gem endlessly or pray & also take action in being on an app while having halal standards to meet someone from abroad.
As a revert I thank you for this
Jazakallahu khair. Any video topic ideas?
Assalaamu alaykum brother, glad you have set up your own community. I saw on Hamza’s one a guy who seemed Muslim basically talking about how he’s now good at talking to girls after following Hamza’s advice. These young impressionable men need a halal alternative that is easily accessible, just as Hamza’s is…
Walaikum assalam Jazakallahu khair
I love that thier is finally a channel on TH-cam that actually is not afraid to say it simply about Islam 👍. And not twist Islam to what society wants it to be .
Alhumdulillah. Any video topic ideas?
@@FaiyadFit I'm glad u asked, I dont know if you've talked about this in your channel . But I've seen a lot of Muslim brothers and sisters who very often expose their sins online. I dont think they understand how horrible that is for them on the day of judgement. May Allah be pleased with us all. 🦋
@@FaiyadFit Also the importance of hijab and the beauty of it, many people take it as were being closed minded. But in reality it is us obeying Allah. Its would be a good understanding for non-hijabis and non muslims as well.
this is very disturbing. and a few weeks ago ive been getting a bunch of inappropriate ads one of them showing a woman wearing hijab and abaya, shes m04ning, and saying inapropriate things, touching herself and making seggsual facial expressions. It was an app for hookups with muslim women and video calls etc., the ad wasn't skippable as well, it was so disgusting, there are many ads like this now astaghfirallah 💔 now all of that is just a description, imagine the trauma i have after watching/hearing it..
I don’t trust the apps.
Same
Assalamu alaikum brother, you are doing an exceptional work. Jazak-Allah khairan. I remember when I first stumbled upon your channel I was so proud of you . This is the kind of brothers that I wanna see out there. Keep it up
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu Wa iyaakum! Any video topic ideas?
Gave up on the app today because of it’s integrity and now I’ve found you brother
Really appreciate
Brother, I only have a few complaints that I would like to address. 1 is that on the alternative you suggested, you are unable to view the profile of the individual you have matched with until the end. Physical attraction, though not a priority is important to have in a marriage. The other is that the app is specifically for sisters looking to be homemakers. Khadijah R.A herself was an entrepreneur & I'm sure many sisters would like to continue their careers. Can you please advise or clarify on this?
Your question wasn’t answered because you are right. These brothers went to university and worked with both genders and now is saying it’s haram for woman to be out and interacting with opposite genders.
Whilst I agree with your take on these apps, I think you have misunderstood the ayat from surah alahzab. Those ayat and the tafsir you mentioned are talking about the wives of the profits, not the the general muslim woman who have a different standard set upon them. Also I cannot quote the sources, but I read up that the male and female companions in medina often got married by interacting with each other in a public setting (whilst being respectful and quickly getting a wali involved), the same happened with Musa (A.S) as we see in the Quran. I am just saying this because it seems that you have an incorrect idea that men and women can never publicly and respectfully interact with each. FYI I am not defending these apps.
i agree with you. also, the main difference is that the prophet's wives were married to him at the time, not single...
Its actually really wild my jaw dropped when i saw that one part in the video where the non muslim guy was going on the app and signing up and there was a 'non' practicing muslim option... there no such thing as non practicing muslim thats litterly a non muslim they know what there doing im so suprised that app has a thing where theres partys to go to there showjng there awrah not wearing hijabs and as a muslimah its wild no like really wild but i suppose i shouldnt be suprised cus the day of judgement is coming closer and stuff but i cant help it that ppl arent using there brains and are like 'hmmmm im just gonna go on this app to meet and hopefully marry someone that has a talking option and video calling! And other more shady stuff! Yea this is totally fine!' And Having a Wali is an option?! Oh my...
May Allah protect us. Any video topic ideas?
This was also at the Reviving the Islamic Spirit, the same conference where Hamza Yusuf said that Palestinians should "suffer in silence".
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
You are doing great work brother. If people like you don’t speak out, slowly after generations, these clear cut issues in our religion will be watered down. So it’s necessary for people to reclarify Islamic guidelines to the people
جزاك الله خيرا
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu dear brother it means a lot
I do want to comment on the halal app alternative. Although I like the idea, not everyone is looking for a “traditional” marriage in the sense that is being discussed these days. I hope that isn’t the point of the app. There’s this misconception that “trad family“is the marriage ideal or that it is the Islamic version of a marriage dynamic when it’s not necessarily. Each couple will operate according to what fits them best. Men will have to provide and women will obey their husbands at the end of the day, but How that is done, Is not described in Islam. It’s up to them. And also, I want to preface that I see the most privilege who have families who help them with marriage/ get proposals/ are in counties and communities where there are options seem to be the loudest opposers to dating apps. People get desperate because they do not have choices like many of you.
Thank you for the last 2 sentences!! Honestly what are you supposed to do when there’s no options
@@zoe-mv6jiyeahh pff people really underestimate the struggles of single muslims out there of seeking a halal spouse in a halal way🙃
Thanks for this video! I’m a new revert so some of this is very new to me.
Welcome to Islam😊 May Allah bless you and make your journey easy. x
Assalaamu 3alaikom Brother Faiyad, I've written plenty of video ideas I'd love for you to make videos on:
1. Mothers Starving Their Daughters for Unrealistic Body Standards (very common in Arab families)
2. Racism in the Ummah (problematic even among Arabs)
3. Muslims Not Fasting Ramadan (I think I knew guys in school that didn't fast so they could bulk)
4. Muslimas Not Making Up for Missed Fasts (ex: when they couldn't fast during their menses in part of Ramadan)
5. How to Exercise With The Right Niyyah/Intention
6. Practical Steps to Love Salah
7. Spiritual Steps to Love Salah
8. Practical Steps to Love Reading The Holy Qur'an
9. Spiritual Steps to Love Reading The Holy Qur'an
8. The Blessings of The Outdoors for Men
9. The Blessings of The House for Women
10. Practical Steps to Increase Wealth
11. Spiritual Steps to Increase Wealth
12. Sexism in the Ummah (whether it's feminism or red pill)
13. The Dangers of LGBT (gigantic issue nowadays)
14. How to Align Worship with Work/Studies During Ramadan (very needed for youths nowadays)
Salaam Alaykum Faiyad. Great content. No doubt that these events are not the best places to take part in. That being said; sometimes you gotta go through the dark in order to find the light.
I'm sure couples have met through these events whilst being top of their mandatory salahs and avoiding the major sins.
But we gotta be real, if we shouldn't attend these events due to what it COULD lead to. What's the alternative? (aside from Sunnah Match because not everybody likes that setup).
For example I like to consider myself a practicing muslim who prays salah on time to the best of my ability. There was a previous trend I keep hearing of in 2022-2023 in which the brothers used to prey Fajr in the masjid consistently in the early 2000s in the GTA. The elders would notice them immediately and ask them to purpose to their daughters for potential marriage.
That's definitely not the case right now, just looking at the body language of some masjid goers. If I even attempt to ask something like that they wouldn't even look at me the same again. They'd only look at whether my money and career or on point, and if I have a good car. Sometimes imams masjid hope a lot so it's also different to be in contact with them on marriage stuff because they may not see you as a priority and are dealing with more major cases.
I get that we are in tough economic times, but what happened to the part in the Quran where Allah (swt) said that he would enrich the poor couple getting married. Some people have really lost that tawakkul Allah knows best.
NOW I'm not saying that people will never get married through attending the masjid, inshallah I pray for the best outcomes for anyone looking to get married. But we gotta address the double standards and address ALL sides of this issue. Because the reality is the halal is really getting more and more difficult, and we shouldn't be surprised if brothers and sisters are using other alternatives to fulfill half of their deen because of the regular path that was supposed to take places being closed off.
Feel free to agree or disagree everyone, Salaam.
Please follow the advise of the brother. A lot of Haram / zina have happened due to these sites.
My advise is to quit making assumptions and ask at your local masjid, family, friends & their families. Regardless of how people look at you, just ask and be mature about it. What have you got to loose?
Stay away from those sites because many sisters don’t have their walis there and it’s better to be safe than sorry! Also, sisters post filtered photos which will affect you in many ways that it might cloud your judgement. I went on muzz and was surprised with the sisters profiles.’majority don’t have hijab and wore full makeup and photos looked so fake SubhanAllah. I’m a sister and was flabbergasted as to how majority of those sisters look. I noticed the same brothers from years ago when I was on muzmatch and pure matrimony were still searching!!! Not sure whether they married and divorced but the same were still there. So this clearly highlights it’s not effective /worthit! Apparently some members have mental health / in mental health units ! The brothers I met there weren’t serious and it was full of married men! Tells you something about the app!
Please listen to the brother and be very very careful. Those sites are full of nothing but fitna, zina and those who don’t fear Allah!
Moreover , unrealistic expectations that could result in zina or very short lived marriages. I was on there years ago and whenever I activate and deactivate I see the same brothers. It’s strange how they don’t remember when I remember them. Clearly these sites are not that effective. I’ve seen sisters profiles on Muzz full of makeup and filters! Filters SubhanAllah! That Even some brothers started using filters and now prefer non hijabis and want to justify it by saying as long as she’s willing to wear hijab or develop self etc.
They look ridiculous but this is the beauty standard you don’t want to partake in. You are better off enquiring from varied masajids, friends, family, even if you look like a fool. Better be safe than sorry. Online is never safe for Muslims, shaithan will still be lurking.
A friend attended one of these events, she’s not a hijabi but noticed even the so called practising brothers wanted the sisters without hijab and with revealing clothes
Allahumma barik this was very enlightening. Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Finally someone who actually knows and shows the reality of these apps , I am shocked that these apps gets promoted like it’s ok FOR US MUSLIMS to enter and act like it’s nothing, honestly what difference does it make from that other haram apps . I’m surprised and disappointed on how some people seem to accept casually that this is their only choice wallahi it’s not worth the time nor the sins to be committed for such ridiculous things . I never liked the idea of These apps and may Allah protects us and safeguard us from such fitnah.
We are only getting closer to the ends of times subhanallah..may Allah STW guide us and this ummah ameen 🇵🇸🤲🏻
There is nothing called 'halal dating'.I really hate it when people try to justify zina with lame excuses.May Allah protect us from this fitnah
اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
Transliteration: Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul afwa fa’fu annee
May Allah reward you for educating people about this
Ameen and you too
Aameen
Over a year ago i went to a marriage event which turned out to be in a bar and the next one was in a bar too,
some sisters wore the Muslim dress which doesnt cover thier face into the bar. I told the organiser not to have these events in bars.
I think in today's world there is no solution to avoid free mixing and speak to opposite gender. We all have to adjust in some way.
Clearly this guy is a radicalist. Men and women free mixed in all respect during the life of prophet PBUH. the prophet's wedding to Aisha RA was free mixed.
What would you recommend for reverts? I see your point, but at the same time, is there really an alternative for Muslim reverts living in western countries with less than 4% Muslim population? (And making hijra to a Muslim country is often not a financial possibility for everyone). To find a practicing partner is hard. These apps may have their dangers, but these apps offer an alternative to those who would otherwise have to marry a non-Muslim as an alternative.
As someone with no experience as im still only 15 i would advise to wait as allah always rewards alsabirin(الصابرين) and if the love is shared you can even convert her by being kind caring not forcing yourself onher truthfull••• and most importantly close to your religion
Hope for you the best insha'Allah brother ❤
these dating apps is like saying "bismallah" before drinking alcohol" 💀
Aslamualaykum brother
Just in regards to the music instead of trying to deafen it you can use AI to fully cancel the music out
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu bro Jazakallahu khair. Let me know any topic ideas!
@FaiyadFit I feel like talking about the mindset of the sahabas and the prophet saw and explaining how to gain a mindset like them would be useful
Jazakallahukhair
alternative platform advice at the end was quite schocking honestly :)
bro let the muslims meet and find their soulmates nothing wrong with that it's not like they are meeting in private rooms it's a public event i known it could be better and stuff but it's a way, i used those apps before i married my wife now Al7amduleleh and to be honest the muslim ladies i met were sincere in finding a husband it did not work for me as i did not find a compatible lady well technically i did but i was not the one for her all in all the ladies out there are serious and decent as for the tinder and smiliar apps they are mainly for attention seeking or casual meetings not serious relationships that lead to marriage
Wallahi we are getting forther and further away from the meaning of Muslim. this is so scary to see unfold in real time. shaytan is laughing.
This is why those who haven’t fallen in to these traps must seek knowledge, learning the classical books of this religion, and becoming trained. And then using this knowledge to benefit your community
May Allah protect us
No Muslim with any common sense: "We have to change with the times." Me: "Has the Quran or Hadiths changed?"
I'm just going to comment on the quotation of Surah el Ahzab on why men and women shouldn't talk to each other unless behind a veil. first of all, this was said for the Prophet's (ppbuh) wives, as many people entered his house, and it was not appropriate for his wives to have guys intrude on their private space, have them wear the hijab to serve them, or feel uncomfortable in their own house answering to strange men. So there was a physical curtain that separated the Prophet's wives from the people who popped up. So they don't feel the pressure to go out and feel uncomfortable around strange men.
And women have been working in the prophet's age, anyone who is in need of money works. it's unfair to destroy women's prospects when they are young, only to leave them destitute at old age, having to work maid jobs.
As for the parties or whatever this weird app is doing, It's tacky, and not going to bring good results. but yes people should meet at parents house to see if they are compatible before engagement.
I never liked this app, even if it's "Halal" or not, I don't trust this sketchy app
im happy you talk about that, unfortunately when I used to tell ladies that those apps are haram theey attack me ,even I was surprised when there's even events in Ramadan and they advertise that as Ramdan date meet muslims single and do Iftar how that spouses that be Hlal while mixing with men non mahram and it's even worst in Ramdan may Allah Guide them and protect us from this
He's totally right... This is not a way of marriage.. No mixing with non mehram. And most probably ppl only use this app to have fun.. No one actual use this as for nikah
oh my god it looked more like a club than an event...
Dua is our most powerful weapon. keep praying especially in this holy month to get a righteous spouse!
and is sunnahmatch really no different from apps like muzz? they don't have the things you mentioned...right?
Wouldn’t know about sunnahmatch. Any video topic ideas?
@@FaiyadFit you mentioned them in the description, that's y :)
I’m a revert muslimah who is very mannish (get mistaken for a man/sound Ike a man) I was kind of disappointed that these things aren’t halal. No wali, no mosque around me, very few Muslims in my city - ya Allah ﷻ make it easy on me
Allahumma ameen. Any video topic ideas?
one thing that I think about is how some Muslims don't ever go to the mosques in their cities even though it's like ten minutes walk away from them. The nearest mosque to me is a 6 to 8 hour drive away. You have a way bigger platform than my little accounts - maybe encourage them to go to Islamic speeches and events near them at their local mosques, and speak to their imams? maybe show them the hadiths about how blessed people who meet and talk/listen about Allah swt are, and how the angels get so excited and bring the good news to Allah swt? I wish I could do such a thing, and I hate to see people waste valuable time and resources by not going to the masjids@@FaiyadFit
Do you think ppl choose apps as a first choice when looking for a spouse???? NO! That's the last option, of course no one's likes being on those apps, but when there's no other options that's what we have to resort too. It's easy for ppl who are married or found their partners on social media to then say the negatives of these apps. Like we know already it's not the ideal place to find someone, but when there's nothing else to do what can we do.
oh how far humanity has fallen, and only the Believers can hang on all be it barely
so Inshaallah we come Closer to Allah and we dont get stuck to this dunya
Allahumma ameen ameen ameen
I am 13 and will never use this
As salaamu alaikum wa rahmatulah wa barakatuh, akhi. (Single)Muslim revert for over five years. I feel like I JUST learned what is true Islam. Masha Allah.
Jazakallahu khair
Walaikum Assalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu
Jazakallahu khairan brother. Really appreciate you for exposing them.
Wa iyaakum! Any video topic ideas?
@@FaiyadFit I'm new to your channel brother. Subscribed and I can see you have already covered some great topics brother. Right now, nothing new in my mind brother, sorry 😅
Thanks bro finally someone speaks about this
Alhumdulillah
What happen to approaching her father/older brother
What was wrong with that
Story time:
Me and my mate went out to a restaurant to eat (before Ramadan btw) we saw single marriage event and it was not halal any shape of form, it was taking place upstairs so we went to read Salah (there’s a separate praying room upstairs).
We saw no wali’s, sisters brought in their female relatives as their wali’s (so no male relatives on their side) and brothers brought hired expensive cars and some of the brothers came in with their MUMS as their wali’s 🤦🏽♂️
Bringing hired cars is giving false impression for the sisters
Bringing your mum as the brothers wali doesn’t make any sense
Plus free mixing
No Proper modesty clothing etc
From this point onwards I have no idea why this generation has intellect I don’t get it
I’m starting to loose hope for the uk sisters
No offence to anyone but what a bunch of snow flakes
Where in the uk was this?
@@Ghost70082 Leeds
WOW,that bad?
@@salimyasini3100 they have lost the plot
Brothers don’t need wali and can attend alone. Wali is for sisters so brothers only involve mums to help
With the vetting process. As for sisters, not all have walis and imams don’t have time to attend such events, regardless, those with wali should involve them cos no marriage is valid without a wali.
A friend attended one of these events and said only sisters without hijab and revealing clothes get attention 😅 she’s not a hijabi but she was surprised how even brothers who act practising wanted non practising sisters
I'm glad someone made this video.
Alhumdulillah
I've used Muslim dating sites before and some of them actually allow you to choose the same gender in your preference, eg. I'm a GIRL Looking for a GIRL. Also you have the option of choosing friendship instead of marriage.
The music and free mixing actually baffled me
But where do you find someone these days?? Everyone saying haram this haram that? But our own brothers/fathers don’t wanna look any more and the masjids are not really proactive with matching so what do we have to do as females? Especially if you are a serious person and who doesn’t go out often except for work and stuff… it’s so hard I don’t get it😢
Assalamu alaykum, I just wanted to say that I am really glad I came upon your page because you had the courage to stand up for what is right and address it while a lot of us are getting brainwashed in these fitna times. May Allah grant you good deeds for the actions that you are taking and your honesty.
The way they make it seems looks like they are doing something good, but the amount of haram the app has is crazy. May Allah protect us all
1 Corinthians 7:1-40 -“It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
Same said in islam. So
Brother you shouldn't say "damn day" cursing time is forbidden and Allah knows best
I was thinking this too especially in ramadan aswell
Assalamualaikum brother, I just wanted to point out what you said during this timeline15:27 in the video... You said "traditional" women in this platform, if they want to work, can do so from home.. the way you said this will bring others thinking that working outside home for women is haram which is quite the opposite. How can a woman working from home be a doctor for other muslim women or be a teacher ? Allah commands us to educate ourselves. So please don't indicate that working from home is the halal way for a woman to work.
I really disagree with this..mostly. its true the whole halal ratio thing is insane and weird and doesmt make any sense. However i dont think mingling is a bad thing. Its in public and with the intention of meeting for the sake of marriage. Theres no touching and adults should know whats important to ask. Also you can bring a mahram. I tried the masjid. The imam also left us ina room alone with him nearby enough to hear us, but its the same thing. U meet the opposite sex for the sake of marriage. Its easy to fall into sin i agree. And i agree its scammy because it motivates u to keep scrolling through men/women whoch is very problematic. However its important if u are going in with the marriage mindset, you will know if a guy is being serious from his questions and if he respects you and if hes making steps to push this beyond texting and into bring it to your parents and proposing. We no longer live in a society where your mom knows people sadly. My mom i asked her, she knows about the app, she told me she doesnt know anyone her age with sons. My friends brothers are married. Some people are immigrants or have deceased parents. Theres nothing haram in meeting a woman PUBLICLY IN PROPER TIMES AND PLACES NOT ALONE! to meet a person for the sake of marriage. What am i gonna do...? Put up a sign on my door saying muslimah for marriage
You make some great points machallah.
MashaAllah, my brotha! Good on you for exposing the evils of these totally un-islamic platforms. I like many righteous brothers don't want find the mother of our children via some swiping bs, and of course we don't have to. Use your real social network, family, etc. Anything outside of social media is a million times better.
You know which is more sad. i want to get married and I do not want to date. I do not like free mixing. It makes me feel uncomfortable.
When my parents tell our relatives or friends to find a groom for me. They are like oh…your daughter can find a groom by herself these days girls are smart enough to find groom for themselves.
I do not know what to do.
May Allah keep us all away from filth
A couple years ago , I had friends who were on 'muslim' dating apps just for sexual relations. They would promise the world to these women and then just sleep with them and leave. May Allah guide us.
Astagfirullah. May Allah indeed guide. Any video topic ideas?
The apps were a no for me they wouldn’t even let me have pics with a niqab
Why would they even call it "Halal dating"??? Dating Is haram itself, so the name itself is a paradox
Your point about "Why they put the function ´I only eat halal` or `I dont drink alcohol`? " is bad. Because it is a good function. Because there are muslims who eat haram food and drink haram stuff. And it would be horrible to know about this only when you marry the person. So this function helps to not waste your time with a person if he eats haram food or alcohol. Nevertheless I do not use these apps and I criticize these apps. But on the other side you cannot blame them when the imams and other muslims with high responsibility for the ummah did not create an alternative . The only thing they can is to call this and that "haram". Because it is easy to do that sitting on a soft sofa in home and speaking to camera or sitting in mosque. It is the laziness of the heads of our ummah who are responsible for that (partly). The only halal option these people have is to marry their cousine, so it is not a wonder that they go to these apps. I am for example a single muslim. And I have no idea how to find a wife. NO IDEA. BECAUSE everything around me is haram. And every alternative I have - is a haram option. I do not know what I should do. NO IDEA. Sometimes my mind tells me to go to these apps but then I stop. The reason because I do not know what to do is to blame the imams of our western communities. Because they are lazy to solve the problems our society. Non muslims have solutions. Muslims do not. Everage Non Muslims have unlimited options. But everage Muslims have EXTREEEEEMLY restricted options. They can only make dua.