Today we are going to break down 5 Ways Super Empaths Confuse Narcissists. 00:00 5 Ways Super Empaths Confuse Narcissists 00:42 1. SUPER EMPATHS ALWAYS SAY NO TO THE NARCISSIST 01:22 2. THE SUPER EMPATH IGNORES THE NARCISSIST 02:22 3. THE SUPER EMPATH IS NOT PREDICTABLE 02:46 4. THE SUPER EMPATH DOES NOT GIVE THE NARCISSIST NEGATIVE ATTENTION. 03:29 5. SUPER EMPATHS DON'T GIVE THE NARCISSIST ANY SOLID EMOTIONAL REACTIONS. 05:20 BONUS 6: THE SUPER EMPATH AGREES TO EVERYTHING THE NARCISSIST SAYS TO THE POINT OF BEING RIDICULOUS Thanks for Watching! How did you find this video? Feel free to share and like our content and invite others to subscribe to your channel. We're branching out to other compelling topics, so stay tuned. 🔔🔔🔔SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE VIDEOS: ▸ th-cam.com/channels/kopSR5Cyy7h7rTUK6Wz9Dg.html Here are videos that we recommend for you : ▸❤️10 Ways only Super Empath Can Destroy A Narcissist th-cam.com/video/FePve0epS6o/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️Why are Empaths the Narcissists Worst Nightmare? th-cam.com/video/PSgd5G755_o/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️How Sigma Empaths Stop Narcissists in their Tracks? th-cam.com/video/Hl3fQuGZnAI/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️7 Signs you are a Sigma Empath th-cam.com/video/rNgvGCSW0sQ/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️How Empaths Protect Themselves from Narcissist th-cam.com/video/dXhupRztQxI/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️Why is Sigma Empath Super Rare? th-cam.com/video/PSi_UPSAK4o/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️7 Signs You are the Most Powerful Empath, A HEYOKA th-cam.com/video/4RV_G_ksWVs/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️ Signs of A Sigma Male Empath | Rarest Male in the World th-cam.com/video/5-z3QaLUTHE/w-d-xo.html ▸❤️Signs of A Sigma Female Empath | Rarest Female in the World th-cam.com/video/Q-Z1wS-qYvE/w-d-xo.html ❤️❤️❤️Playlists You Might Like❤️❤️❤️ 📢📢📢EMPATH PLAYLIST WATCH HERE: ▸▸▸ th-cam.com/play/PLG7U45Vrij0NtlvAGBMggoCPOqODWWxYV.html 📢📢📢Sigma Empath Playlist Here ▸▸▸th-cam.com/play/PLG7U45Vrij0PDwy-_5iPvnKOrB7Go7oxL.html 📢📢📢Super Empaths vs Narcissist Playlist here ▸▸▸th-cam.com/play/PLG7U45Vrij0MeMHoyMjYOU29aClLZyATq.html 📢📢📢Heyoka Empath Playlist Here ▸▸▸ th-cam.com/play/PLG7U45Vrij0MHuXlqB0IfITeWwtHAm3gG.html #empaths #narcissists #discoverempaths #empathnarcissist DISCLAIMER: The information in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for clinical or professional care. This content is our own opinion and the result of our research. Please consult your health care specialist for guidance on your specific case.
The first time my Narc boyfriend's mask dropped we were on a raid trip and he started yelling at me over where I wanted to eat. Instead of reacting I went silent. After a minute or two of his rage (which he never showed me before in our 7 months of dating) he started to get confused as to why I wasn't yelling back and then he started to get scared (he was wondering if I was gonna leave him for this). He eventually stopped and I acted like everything was perfectly normal I even ate where he wanted to eat but when we got home that evening I took all my stuff and left. I knew it was over the minute he showed me that side. It was confirmation he was a Narcissist and I was not gonna end up with someone like my mother.
Salute! That was such a boss move and you handled that perfectly... definitely my motto too --- I will not end up with a man like my father--- walking away from toxic is easy but staying with toxic for me is difficult
@@thevindictive6145 Honestly as a woman it doesn't matter the difference. When he was yelling like that I thought he was going to hit me. He would have if I didn't have a brother who would have strangled him with one hand when he found out.
@@Jennifer-di4nl well my mom is an NPD as well. And I had a narc mom, boss and friends at a certain point in my lufe. Always trying to please them, never good enough.. So I was literally surrounded by them. And I had rage as well, but I did not know why. Now many years later I realized what was going on. I got rid of all of them and my rage has subsided dramatically. It's the kinda rage that even a narcissist would run away from. It's like a wound that been open and the pain just pours out as rage. And the narcissists in my life have been tearing my wounds open for years. Now I have set up boundaries and closed myself off as I attract them. But that's my story. I did screw up with a girl at that time. But I was surrounded by narcissists and it was a miracle that I survived. I did yell at her with rage. I hate myself for it, but now I know why. I have never done that to anybody before. But at that moment in time of my life I was in a bad place.
Out of curiosity what were you feeling? When my ex told me he loved me I looked at him and said you say that yet I FEEL NOTHING even close to love from you. It was like he gave off no emotion. Was strange.
@@PsychBuzzy hi👋🔊: what do you think could be wrong, when an empath continues to leave the door open to a narcissist? Once i block, i go right back when i start to miss him and unblock??!!😢🤔🤔
My ex narc became extremely disturbed when I chose not to react, or show emotion, even going into rage. He would call me cold and demand to know my thoughts. Then... the pity party. In all reality, I don't feel I'm a super empath. I just feel at some point the human instinc to "survive" kicks in. You just shut down from the negativity as you come to realise this person has the potential to kill you and you need to RUN!!!
This is so interesting. When my husband yells at me, I completely freeze and say nothing. This drives him nuts and he constantly tells me that I’m being abusive because I’m giving him the silent treatment and it’s abuse. When I do speak up and I’m upset then he gets in my face and yells at me more. Lord help me. I tried to leave last year and he freaked out on me with threats later said how he would divorce me if he could and take our girls away from me.
@@ashmarie617 Ash marie you should say "please don't talk to me like that I don't like it" and walk away when he tries to yell at you to intimidate you. Men don't listen to words only actions so you need to follow up by walking away.
just please remember that some people like borderline, like autistic, like with abadonment ptsd, or not too immoral covert narc might actually need conversation like oxygen and they might be toxic only because they need to speak thru it. All i am saying that there are many people around who are suffering who might behave badly or even horribly, yet are not bad or even horrible people and they just need a bit of understanding. Just sharing my point of view, and my experiences both about myself and about many other wounded people.
I did all these things from the start and 3 years ahead and let me tell you from my experience: Sure they run right back when you dont run after them bc they panic over you not caring and yes, one time he'd yell "Dont you care at all?!" but it means they step up the abuse. When they see their tactics doesnt work, they crank it up and becomes even meaner so PLEASE...Walk. They are unreparable. I almost died bc of the abuse and you dont want to be in that position, these are monstrous peope who should be dealt with only by professionals if even that.
It just sucks seeing how likeable they are to strangers artificially, around them I seemed like the elephant in the room and they’ll even invest in that narrative and say something to you that’s meant to sound supportive to the uneducated listener and degrading to you, the truth observer. Double meaning. If you play your cards right it’s easy to get them to tell on themselves. I was at a friends house that was planning to kill me. The guys an ex coworker of mine but he’s also a gang member and a genius. United Nations level genius. I knew he was smarter than me in most aspects but I had the advantage because I kept my ears open, I knew he was wearing a mask, he didn’t know I was wearing one, I have the ability to be sneaky. Thank fuck because he was real close to checkmating me I left at the perfect time I was 3 mins away from a bullet to the head. 👁
I'm a super empath and a compassionate person but totally aware of narcissistic manipulation and mind games I have critiqued it to the point to where I'm honest and if they can't handle the honesty then they shouldn't talk to me call me and allow them to know that it is not my job to stroke your ego when you're belittling somebody else to make yourself look better
Actually All Empaths slowly become this Super ones eventually 🙂 Continuous getting hurt by the Narcs or dealing with their cunning exploitations.. slowly but surely make them AWAKE about every move of them 🙂🙂🙂‼️ All Empaths are highly sensitive ones...but... take time to become Super Empaths 🙂🙂🙂... But when they ultimately BECOME...then THAT'S TRULY A NIGHTMARE for any Narcissist... 💯💯💯
@@MrNikhilgherwar ; Not true. Narcissist are cruel and evil, knowingly setting out to destroy and hurt other’s. Some may NOT know they are Narcissist, but they ALWAYS know, they are intentionally hurting people, AND that it is wrong! Empath’s would NEVER intentionally set out to hurt another fellow human being. In fact, we live to bring healing ❤️🩹 to others. It’s almost as if ….. it is our “mission” in life. We can even SEE, the intended Purpose of a person’s life, and the Good that reside’s within them. NEVER would we want to squash, or dim that light. We might however, “if so pushed” teach you a highly valuable lesson. Meaning; Reveal to you ….. or Mirror YOUR true Nature. But do NOT think 🤔 that YOUR reflection that you are seeing …… is us, or “our” tendencies! Lol 😂 I believe they call this; Going “Super Nova.” I don’t get caught up, in all the mumbo jumbo ….. I just know how it all goes down. *I personally don’t advise it, because I feel it’s useless. Not the person …. But rather the process. I do not believe that outside of God, there is any hope for a narcissist. Period. And MOST people have “trait’s” of narcissism, but that definitely does NOT make them narcissist. Not by a LONG shot!
@@One1Luv I agree with you but in these channels there are always narcissists trolling and trying to blame the victims; he/she doesn't care about all you said, which is true by the way, but they cannot learn lessons; they lack humbleness and that is needed in any learning process. We all know they believe they know it all.
@@One1Luv new rule, you can generally tell when a narc comments. Scroll past it, they do not deserve your supply. If you can't tell, it's the person defending narcs or blaming ppl that are not narcs for narc behavior. Anyone in their right mind, wouldn't do that. They are a narc or an enabler. Either way, they get no love, no explanations. Let them die in their misery.
I'm an empath that became the silent one. Not from the beginning tho. I had no idea what a narcissist was. Not until I started to do my homework did I know that these people exist. Empaths will try to give people the benefit of the divine lol. They see light and try not to take this energy on but sometimes it's impossible. I know now but I had to learn.
In my experience, a super empath will use these tactics as LAST resorts. It is literally the opposite of how any empath wants to live. A super empath is not likely to choose this path if there are easier, healthier, and safer options available... like walking away. If feeling trapped, then will a super empath use up the immense energy and focus needed to "destroy" a narcissist. And the process can take months or years. AND let's not forget the process ALSO DESTROYS the super empath sense of wholeness, although temporarily. This is NOT as lovely as some people are making it out to be. I'm concerned people are trying to make this archetype a superhero. A super empath is not a super-hero. Often, they are also deeply wounded and just trying to go about their business and have gotten caught into the endless traps of a narcissist. It is a no-win situation. Unless someone enjoys fighting to a type of soul death, the best option is to get away. Far away.
This was fun! This malignant narc said to me He doesn’t like the fact I laugh that much cause he can’t read me!!! I was always getting a narcissistic rage out of him cause I always speak my mind so he couldn’t stand me. For me seeing n dealing with narcs is hilarious n funny! Such idiots they are’s stay away from them
I have done all of them. I'm a super empath :) Guess what, my narc coworker has turned my closest friends into her flying monkeys. They all againts me, downgrading me, disagree with me, avoiding me, etc. I just keep on silent and stay quiet, because I know the narc wants my attention.
I'm an extreme empath, confirmed by psychiatrists. This didn't make my life easier, rather harder because I tend to excuse behaviour for every possible reason. Now Im working on becoming a super empath that protects oneself. Even though I knew my ex was a narc I stayed. I tried to ignore the signs. Blamed his childhood, just like he did . At the beginning of our relationship I didn't react to his stupid arguments, at some point I started reacting to my narc ex. Fast forward 4 years I stopped reacting again. Started seeing a therapist etc and learned to have inner peace again despite being challenged or provoked. One night nothing happened we spent a great evening out with friends, but he became extremely angry with me suddenly as soon as we were alone outside. I stayed calm and offered to talk at home. At that point he didn't even hear me. He was too furious. Fast forward an hour and 30 min ... he almost killed me hadn't people noticed what was going on. *Be careful, don't ignore the traits narcs are displaying. It can cost you many years of your life or worse ... your life as a whole.*
Ok I have seen quite a few videos over the past few years here on TH-cam and this one right here has been the only one in which I fully agreed upon on what the gentleman was saying about all the situations between empaths and narcissistic ppl. Great job dear brother. 🙏🙏🙏
As I started learning about super empaths, one person came to mind. He is a pastor who walked me through some difficult moments in my life. Everyone who was counseled by him knows how amazing he is. Now, watching that video, I am 100% sure he is one. He has sermons about how to deal with narcisists and knows the topic a lot. He dealt with many narcisist who wanted tryed to stab him on the back. And when we started our counseling, he acted exactly this way towards me. I would talk, he would observe, nod his had and tell me what I needed to hear. Within time, he noticed I was not only taking his exortations, but I also loved being in his office, even though he was harsh to me on ocasions. I ended up becoming close to his daughter and he is still one of my favorite pastors to talk to.
@@ahmeddiiriye4624 that is a good thing, it means you are connected to the Universe and your Creator and mother consciousness. If you are from Somalia, I suggest using the herb Miraa to stabilize your brain enzymes, Miraa has Cathinone which balances L DOPA, the last enzyme in the brain that connects you to the universe.
@@eastafrika728 Jesus Christ is Lord of the universe, every knee will bow and all will confess Jesus is Lord😊no such thing as mother ....... whatever 😉
@@ahmeddiiriye4624 ok, we can skip buying L DOPA as a supplement. We live in a world led by people with cortex inhibition of L DOPA human conscience. The only other method is, 1. Self confidence and positive affirmations of "I am". 2. Journaling and recoding all your experiences with your environment and writing down how you can make everything that exists positive to your physical existence and positive to the existence of others. With these 2 practices you will achieve human conscience even in laboratory work and factory production of values that are relevant to you and your people.
Agreeing to everything has truly made the narc head spin. 😂 It works and you have to do it without ANY emotion behind it. They get sooooooo confused! I love it! ❤ Sorry but I got to my wits end, found my spine and now thoroughly enjoy watching them squirm with confusion! 😏😁
It's so true! Just before going no contact I was becoming indifferent to all the shenanigans. This chick would literally get in my face to read my emotions. I found that odd. Then I felt her staring at me in car rides in my peripheral vision. Honestly, it creeped me out, bc I could feel her panic. About 2 weeks after I ended a 14 yr illusion of a friendship. Covid, really brought out another side of her, she was really fearful, but wouldn't admit it. Her behavior helped me piece everything together. She's done a lot of crazy things when I really think back, but this time I couldn't ignore her anger rising, that was also new to me.
I remember when me, my best friend (him) and a mutual friend with narcissistic tendencies (her) sat in a room - he was just sitting on the computer while me and her started discussing religion and we disagreed. Suddenly she got up and said "if you don't stop talking, I leave right now!". Then we all went to the entrance door and she began dressing, turned her back directly pointing away from me, addressing my best friend: "So (name), shall WE TWO go out for breakfast tomorrow?" A very obvious attempt at excluding me as punishment for challenging her, to which my reaction was to laugh because it was just so childish and obvious. My best friend didn't take the bait of course, and she was mad at me for months afterwards. We became friends again for a while until last summer - then she got mad because I said no to eat ice cream with her on her way to a meeting that I was not going to attend. She still ignores me after 7 months. It's fairly entertaining once you look at it from an analytical perspective and already know not to trust them.
@@redshift8302 She asked me about my belief (I was Christian at the time) and started casually explaining how I thought the physical existence needs an explanation, so I felt there needed to be an intelligence or anotther realm behind it all - and that was enough to get her going! I simply explained my beliefs in a very neutral way, didn't challenge her view at all, I just stated my answer for her question - she then started to become aggressive and say that it was way too anti-scientific for her - and I simply said "well, I disagree". It wasn't a fight or anything
@@toxendon I'm more like her in religious matters and I even became rude to a friend and colleague who is a believer, in the same situation, I regretted it afterwards. As for your friend she seems quite harmless, maybe you could have accepted her offer for Ice Cream? It's only when people start by asking you a simple thing and then as you accept puts more and more demands on you that are dangerous.
@@redshift8302 It's an example of a pattern - she punishes dissent with exclusion for minor details, is my point. The reason it hasn't developed further with more demands is because I see the red flags and keep her at an arm's length. But still is friendly enough to avoid becoming a target of a smear campaign. I've known this person for over 10 years, so I can confirm she is not harmless. She struggles hard to keep friends or partners over long periods of time. The reason for my longevity is because I know who I'm dealing with.
@@redshift8302 Getting the silence treatment for over half a year because I said no (there was an explanation of course) to eat ice cream that day is not a normal reaction, and it's kinda weird to imply that me saying no is the problem.
I just figured out at 63 years old and 32 years of marriage as a stay at home mom who raised 4 children who belittled me like their dad, that I'm an empath. I'm trying to figure out what to do now. No career, no money, just someone who tells me to quit spending money while I must create art to keep myself sane. He keeps badgering me to stop spending money. I buy stuff from thrift stores for clothing and watch where I spend money while he drives a $90,000 BMW, his second one, I drive a 8 year old Nissan which I love. He has a boat and a dock and we live in an expensive house which we could have gotten a much cheaper one. He has to have all the best but I have to watch what I buy. He says he loves me but looks at me like I'm stupid if I talk. He insists he doesn't do that, but has made me feel dumb here and there to keep me in my place. He recently told me to stop blaming him for everything. I told him ok, he was right. I am the one who is at fault. I see it now but I don't know how to get out with no means and I am pretty crippled up from many back surgeries from all the physical labor I've done bearing and raising 4 kids while he traveled all over the world and I took care of things at home. I am beginning to get the picture that he really doesn't care about me down deep.
I love the last very last point when I was in my relationship with my ex that's what I did I had to laugh out loud when I heard the very last one Thank you so much for these videos. I would just agree with no emotions. Knowing it was BS. Thank you❤️❤️❤️💯💯
You are only susceptible to a narcissist if you don't have boundaries. So my advice is to keep your guard up and their energy will find its balance in yours. Sounds easy but it's not. Trust me.
@@PsychBuzzy well at least Bryan McKinney offered some other solution other than, "RUN", why all these millions of videos and comments; yet they all tackle the problem with run🏃♂️🏃♀️
I share a flat, with one of these people. He wanted to control every part of my life. I bluntly refused and after a few months I moved out. He continued to rage and threaten me. I eventually told him do your outright worst. Then he said he was going to "slap" me. I laughed to his face and said to him "I am stronger than you, watch what happens if you do this". The coward rans away!!
Thanks, we’re not so not knowing, thanks for acknowledgment .yeah, I had to do distance..they can shut you down. So shut them down -you’ll find happiness. You, are not a disappointment of others, even if you felt disappointment.. Have a boundary btw others disappointment and the feeling you may have of this..let them experience their own disappointment…After all they create this!
All perceptions lead to the truth. A simple twist of fête can disable their focus on themselves and inadvertently lead them back to the truth. The truth is their worst nightmare. I worship the truth as a reflection of the Almighty. And my goal is to lead them to that I worship: #Truth 💝
IM an empath and he's not the only abuse ive faced in life. I thought it was just because of everything ive been through that I became stronger. I now know IM not just an empath, but a super empath. IM in the process of leaving my narcissist.. I pray for a happy, healthy new life without him in it.
🙏 for me Rachael& I'll pray for you. I'm in the same process.MOF I've already left him, just struggling with the No Contact thing right now. But i know if it's Gods will, we will find closure and move on in the light and peace that Christ has already given us. God bless!
You say this as it is a good thing, while not warning people that the narcissist can emphasize their attacks. If this is in a relationship or workplace where the narc is the boss or supervisor, you will be drained of energy if you stay too long.
Points 1-5 are Great! Thankyou for them. The bonus point is actually not so good as that in itself, is a narc tactic. And not a healthy behavior at all. So a real healthy Godly person would refrain from that passive toxic behavior. I do think tho that a super empath does not engage in any fight anymore with the narc once he/she has definitely recognized the other as a narc. If that is what you mean by fully agreeing then that is a different matter. I like to think of it as “Sure, you do you. I have no issues with that.” kind of an agreement. You do You, but I will do, Me. So there…..
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My former boss is a narc…he pushes buttons to get a reaction, so no matter how ridiculous I would just be like “Ok”….he also likes to throw money at everything to get what he wants….so the last time he increased my pay I told him I didn’t want it 😂
i got manipulated n toyed by a high school narc, she spied my phone for 18 months. As I awakened to heyoka empath, n my intuition rising high >> i found out all her lies, her true intentions trying to be my close 'client/ student'. After that I cut her off, but until yesterday she keep trying to get back, looking for my attention.. But sorry, i'm not that stupid to believe again n being toyed. I feel sorry towards her, to waste her time (day n night, 24/7 for 18 months) watching my phone activities.. Thanks for make me realized that I'm too awesome, till deserved to be spied.. Lol ^^
That's kind of flattering in a way, if something like that happened to me, I would definitely get a very small ego boost knowing people find me so interesting, when I think I'm boring as fuck.
OMG.lol I'm a super Empath. My ex divorced me quick cause I said no & much said here naturally to him. He couldn't stand it. Some can get dangerous tho. He stalked me after for years 😢😡 but he has finally cooled it. That poor him thing , yup
My CN ex-wife always complained she "couldn't read me". Most of this seems to apply, but I'm deficient in cognitive empathy (the only one narcs have), or in other words, I have to learn to read people, instead of intuiting their feelings, so I don't consider myself an empath. I have a lot of emotional empathy, and compassion though.
I totally disagree. There's no way you can be empathetic, empowered, and emotionally mature when you go about purposely ignoring other people seeking your attention because you think that they are the narcissist. Everyone is narcissistic. Narcissism is on a spectrum- mild, moderate, or severe. Normal people are mildly narcissistic. Emotional immature people are moderately narcissistic. And NPD is severe; and can only be diagnosed by a professional therapist. A super empath is a mindful individual who remains open minded when engaging with others- as opposed to giving them the resting bitch face (like everyone in your video).
@@rlee2838 Okay, I just wanted a little clarity. Dumb it down a little so I can understand- What is the pattern of behavior that doesn't need diagnosis that you are referring to? And will you be a little more concise and answer- What are you referring to as once you know one of them? And please explain how narcissists/ narcissism/ Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are diagnosed in the real world? And if you like, please share your own personal experience with identifying a narcissist.
What are the sources of this information? To my knowledge, having studied psychology for about a decade, now, there is no clinical/peer reviewed literature that supports the existence of "super empaths", much less the idea that empathetic people are somehow the "worst nightmare" of people who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Empaths don’t engage in manipulation. That goes against the core of who they are. We empathize-we don’t play games with emotions. A super empath is an empath that has finally realized that the creatures she’s been dealing with her entire existence. Draining her energy is a species. It’s a narcissist.
I had a friend who was empath. I stopped being her friend because I couldn't trust her. I found her to be manipulative and a covert operator. She twisted and lied about thing's. At least with a Narcissist you know what you are getting. They are obvious and blatant. Between the two I will take a Narcissist over empath. I choose neither. I found counciling and life improvements for myself. Helping others helped me live better. I believe we all have flaws and no one is perfect. In the end we all have to change what we can, ourselves, as for everyone else be kind to one another . Our opinions are just that, our own to have and keep to ourselves. Choose wisely who you allow into your life. Bad company corrupts good morals.
@@PsychBuzzy nope she knows she is messed up. Even went to school for mental health to get a better prospective on it. She is a total drama queen. She may have learned N traits.
I respectfully disagree with avoiding. I do agree with not reacting. And eventually going no contact once you fully know that is what is going on. But we are not phycologists or drs. We are not qualified to diagnose a personality disorder. I also agree with poker face. But I don’t agree with avoiding. Often folks avoid resolving an issue the first time in order to not rock the boat. When in fact being passive and keeping things under the rug. Makes it worse in my experience. Especially if you’ve never tried to bring it up to them. A lot of these videos fail to Mention. That if they are a narc we will see repeated patterns of this behavior. I didn’t hear that here either. Especially if you’ve been in relationships for a long time and they do something that’s a red flag but have never shown it before. I would give them some slack and try and resolve it or let it go and see if they do it again. You could be assuming this about them and their character over a simple misunderstanding or two people just not getting along. This is why I disagree with taking such a drastic measure of avoidance. I would make sure first by paying attention to patterns before labeling them this way
Sometimes i laugh at the stuff my step kids father says. He is terrified of me. I'm really nice to him. Im just not pretending his fake world is true. Ignore him most of the time
This is called "grey rocking" and anyone can figure it out. I'm not an empath, I had no choice but to avoid my narc in this way. Ever wonder why we have narcs running around calling themselves empaths, spiritual teachers etc? They see videos like this and run with it.
my narcissist is this 100 lbs chick from work , she talked to a guy around me and then discarded him when i wouldnt even care now i see her at my job shes just stares and idk tries to get my attention whatever she can get its like shes sick in the brain
I have lived with these kind of people my whole life my mother my sister my ex-husband my son even close friends and I have to ask a question is this all it is in this world for us to look at it does not matter what you do being perfect it's one of the hardest things that they can accept they will never find acceptance for someone that is willing I feel so sorry for these people and I feel sorry for the people that have to live with them I pray one day before I died that I will be able to live free of this time situation there is just no need in this stuff and I can understand why but all you really are is a spoiled brat and a bully you will never talk to respect yourself and the way that you think God willing not with the help of Someone Like You guys it is Hell getting helped if you know no one they don't even know what being a friend is anymore sad very sad I mean think about it what good are you?
Studying patterns yes leave phone in car don't want to here broken record yep the day discard I could feel it and I was sick of him. Bla bla baby narc go run to new momie
@@PsychBuzzy Been an Empath since 12 years old where I can confidently recall but not quite on the this boat just yet. I'll check back again and we'll see the natural path once we cross it.
Today we are going to break down 5 Ways Super Empaths Confuse Narcissists.
00:00 5 Ways Super Empaths Confuse Narcissists
00:42 1. SUPER EMPATHS ALWAYS SAY NO TO THE NARCISSIST
01:22 2. THE SUPER EMPATH IGNORES THE NARCISSIST
02:22 3. THE SUPER EMPATH IS NOT PREDICTABLE
02:46 4. THE SUPER EMPATH DOES NOT GIVE THE NARCISSIST NEGATIVE ATTENTION.
03:29 5. SUPER EMPATHS DON'T GIVE THE NARCISSIST ANY SOLID EMOTIONAL REACTIONS.
05:20 BONUS 6: THE SUPER EMPATH AGREES TO EVERYTHING THE NARCISSIST SAYS TO THE POINT OF BEING RIDICULOUS
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The first time my Narc boyfriend's mask dropped we were on a raid trip and he started yelling at me over where I wanted to eat. Instead of reacting I went silent. After a minute or two of his rage (which he never showed me before in our 7 months of dating) he started to get confused as to why I wasn't yelling back and then he started to get scared (he was wondering if I was gonna leave him for this). He eventually stopped and I acted like everything was perfectly normal I even ate where he wanted to eat but when we got home that evening I took all my stuff and left. I knew it was over the minute he showed me that side. It was confirmation he was a Narcissist and I was not gonna end up with someone like my mother.
Salute! That was such a boss move and you handled that perfectly... definitely my motto too --- I will not end up with a man like my father--- walking away from toxic is easy but staying with toxic for me is difficult
Well you may be right, but you need to distinguish between PTSD and narc rage. One is a victim and the other is the abuser.
@@thevindictive6145 My mother has NPD..it was definitely Narc Rage 200%
@@thevindictive6145 Honestly as a woman it doesn't matter the difference. When he was yelling like that I thought he was going to hit me. He would have if I didn't have a brother who would have strangled him with one hand when he found out.
@@Jennifer-di4nl well my mom is an NPD as well. And I had a narc mom, boss and friends at a certain point in my lufe. Always trying to please them, never good enough.. So I was literally surrounded by them. And I had rage as well, but I did not know why. Now many years later I realized what was going on. I got rid of all of them and my rage has subsided dramatically. It's the kinda rage that even a narcissist would run away from. It's like a wound that been open and the pain just pours out as rage. And the narcissists in my life have been tearing my wounds open for years. Now I have set up boundaries and closed myself off as I attract them. But that's my story. I did screw up with a girl at that time. But I was surrounded by narcissists and it was a miracle that I survived. I did yell at her with rage. I hate myself for it, but now I know why. I have never done that to anybody before. But at that moment in time of my life I was in a bad place.
I've been mind blown by this. I saw his mask fall off and realized I should have trusted what I was feeling all along.
Thank you❤️
Out of curiosity what were you feeling? When my ex told me he loved me I looked at him and said you say that yet I FEEL NOTHING even close to love from you. It was like he gave off no emotion. Was strange.
@@PsychBuzzy hi👋🔊: what do you think could be wrong, when an empath continues to leave the door open to a narcissist? Once i block, i go right back when i start to miss him and unblock??!!😢🤔🤔
@@beneiseoleinmheart5614it’s a trauma bond..you need to save yourself and run for the hills
My ex narc became extremely disturbed when I chose not to react, or show emotion, even going into rage. He would call me cold and demand to know my thoughts. Then... the pity party. In all reality, I don't feel I'm a super empath. I just feel at some point the human instinc to "survive" kicks in. You just shut down from the negativity as you come to realise this person has the potential to kill you and you need to RUN!!!
This is so interesting. When my husband yells at me, I completely freeze and say nothing. This drives him nuts and he constantly tells me that I’m being abusive because I’m giving him the silent treatment and it’s abuse. When I do speak up and I’m upset then he gets in my face and yells at me more. Lord help me. I tried to leave last year and he freaked out on me with threats later said how he would divorce me if he could and take our girls away from me.
@@ashmarie617 Ash marie you should say "please don't talk to me like that I don't like it" and walk away when he tries to yell at you to intimidate you. Men don't listen to words only actions so you need to follow up by walking away.
Fosthedoll💋 thank you so much for this! I will work on this for sure.
@@ashmarie617 absolutely 💕 .
just please remember that some people like borderline, like autistic, like with abadonment ptsd, or not too immoral covert narc
might actually need conversation like oxygen
and they might be toxic only because they need to speak thru it.
All i am saying that there are many people around who are suffering
who might behave badly or even horribly, yet are not bad or even horrible people
and they just need a bit of understanding.
Just sharing my point of view, and my experiences both about myself and about many other wounded people.
Empaths learn manipulation from the narc and then they get confused when we use THEIR OWN blue print ON THEM .
Exactly! If you give someone a taste of their own medicine, n they spit it out, then you know what you dealing with.
@@patrickfyall3536 💯🎯
EXACTLY...LOL
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Ehmmmm hmmmm! Preach! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
If learned how to confuse the narcissist, it’s because they
TAUGHT us this effective method of manipulation.
Special thanks to the narcs for giving us this corrupting knowledge, may we use it wisely and for the good of mankind.
I really enjoy how this video is set up. A super empath is an empath + boundaries, impervious to the narcissist
Glad you like our video
We duck then
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Well put
@AA Kostic yessir bless up
I did all these things from the start and 3 years ahead and let me tell you from my experience: Sure they run right back when you dont run after them bc they panic over you not caring and yes, one time he'd yell "Dont you care at all?!" but it means they step up the abuse. When they see their tactics doesnt work, they crank it up and becomes even meaner so PLEASE...Walk. They are unreparable. I almost died bc of the abuse and you dont want to be in that position, these are monstrous peope who should be dealt with only by professionals if even that.
It just sucks seeing how likeable they are to strangers artificially, around them I seemed like the elephant in the room and they’ll even invest in that narrative and say something to you that’s meant to sound supportive to the uneducated listener and degrading to you, the truth observer. Double meaning. If you play your cards right it’s easy to get them to tell on themselves. I was at a friends house that was planning to kill me. The guys an ex coworker of mine but he’s also a gang member and a genius. United Nations level genius. I knew he was smarter than me in most aspects but I had the advantage because I kept my ears open, I knew he was wearing a mask, he didn’t know I was wearing one, I have the ability to be sneaky. Thank fuck because he was real close to checkmating me I left at the perfect time I was 3 mins away from a bullet to the head. 👁
I'm a super empath and a compassionate person but totally aware of narcissistic manipulation and mind games I have critiqued it to the point to where I'm honest and if they can't handle the honesty then they shouldn't talk to me call me and allow them to know that it is not my job to stroke your ego when you're belittling somebody else to make yourself look better
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Just stay away and don't give any reaction but my advice is NOT engage at all.
Narcisstic family members are the worst most saddest thing for the empath . It hurts the worst but discard necessary .
Yes you are correct
Actually All Empaths slowly become this Super ones eventually 🙂
Continuous getting hurt by the Narcs or dealing with their cunning exploitations.. slowly but surely make them AWAKE about every move of them 🙂🙂🙂‼️ All Empaths are highly sensitive ones...but... take time to become Super Empaths 🙂🙂🙂... But when they ultimately BECOME...then THAT'S TRULY A NIGHTMARE for any Narcissist... 💯💯💯
Great insight❤️ thanks! Glad you love this video
Super empaths..knows how to be empathetic narcessist...mostly
@@MrNikhilgherwar ;
Not true.
Narcissist are cruel and evil, knowingly setting out to destroy and hurt other’s. Some may NOT know they are Narcissist, but they ALWAYS know, they are intentionally hurting people, AND that it is wrong!
Empath’s would NEVER intentionally set out to hurt another fellow human being. In fact, we live to bring healing ❤️🩹 to others. It’s almost as if ….. it is our “mission” in life. We can even SEE, the intended Purpose of a person’s life, and the Good that reside’s within them. NEVER would we want to squash, or dim that light. We might however, “if so pushed” teach you a highly valuable lesson. Meaning; Reveal to you ….. or Mirror YOUR true Nature. But do NOT think 🤔 that YOUR reflection that you are seeing …… is us, or “our” tendencies! Lol 😂
I believe they call this; Going “Super Nova.” I don’t get caught up, in all the mumbo jumbo ….. I just know how it all goes down. *I personally don’t advise it, because I feel it’s useless. Not the person …. But rather the process. I do not believe that outside of God, there is any hope for a narcissist. Period.
And MOST people have “trait’s” of narcissism, but that definitely does NOT make them narcissist. Not by a LONG shot!
@@One1Luv
I agree with you but in these channels there are always narcissists trolling and trying to blame the victims; he/she doesn't care about all you said, which is true by the way, but they cannot learn lessons; they lack humbleness and that is needed in any learning process. We all know they believe they know it all.
@@One1Luv new rule, you can generally tell when a narc comments. Scroll past it, they do not deserve your supply. If you can't tell, it's the person defending narcs or blaming ppl that are not narcs for narc behavior. Anyone in their right mind, wouldn't do that. They are a narc or an enabler. Either way, they get no love, no explanations. Let them die in their misery.
Basically an empath who has worked on themselves and secure in their identity.
An 'empath' will typically only ignore once they are fed up. Which takes a while usually (or unfortunately)
I'm an empath that became the silent one. Not from the beginning tho. I had no idea what a narcissist was. Not until I started to do my homework did I know that these people exist. Empaths will try to give people the benefit of the divine lol. They see light and try not to take this energy on but sometimes it's impossible. I know now but I had to learn.
In my experience, a super empath will use these tactics as LAST resorts. It is literally the opposite of how any empath wants to live. A super empath is not likely to choose this path if there are easier, healthier, and safer options available... like walking away. If feeling trapped, then will a super empath use up the immense energy and focus needed to "destroy" a narcissist. And the process can take months or years. AND let's not forget the process ALSO DESTROYS the super empath sense of wholeness, although temporarily. This is NOT as lovely as some people are making it out to be. I'm concerned people are trying to make this archetype a superhero. A super empath is not a super-hero. Often, they are also deeply wounded and just trying to go about their business and have gotten caught into the endless traps of a narcissist. It is a no-win situation. Unless someone enjoys fighting to a type of soul death, the best option is to get away. Far away.
Thank you for sharing this 😊
yea we cant always be super power empath....narcs are exhausting to the point you lose who you are
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@@serenity8295 ONLY **SINGAPORE 🇸🇬 🌎 PAPA **LEE KUAN YEW 👴🇸🇬 And **RUSSIA 🇷🇺 🌎 VLADIMIR **PUTIN 👴🇷🇺 Are **HARD-CORED ... **Buddha, **Nirvana, **Super Nova, **Super Empath, **Psycho-Dynamic, 🚩🪷😇👼🌈🙏💋❤️ **Realist, **Pragmatist, **Authentic, **Dystopian, **Dystopia, **Genuine, **Honest, **Sincere, **Transparent, **Phoenix 🦜🐦 🚩🪷😇👼🌈🙏💋❤️🍾🍷🥂🎊🎇🥳🎆🎉🎁🎈🤩.
Oh my God! I did all these obliviously both in the workplace and in personal encounters. Always by God's grace and protection🙏🏾
This was fun! This malignant narc said to me He doesn’t like the fact I laugh that much cause he can’t read me!!! I was always getting a narcissistic rage out of him cause I always speak my mind so he couldn’t stand me. For me seeing n dealing with narcs is hilarious n funny! Such idiots they are’s stay away from them
I have done all of them. I'm a super empath :) Guess what, my narc coworker has turned my closest friends into her flying monkeys. They all againts me, downgrading me, disagree with me, avoiding me, etc. I just keep on silent and stay quiet, because I know the narc wants my attention.
100% TRUTH!!! WE ARE FREE NOW...
I'm an extreme empath, confirmed by psychiatrists. This didn't make my life easier, rather harder because I tend to excuse behaviour for every possible reason. Now Im working on becoming a super empath that protects oneself.
Even though I knew my ex was a narc I stayed. I tried to ignore the signs. Blamed his childhood, just like he did .
At the beginning of our relationship I didn't react to his stupid arguments, at some point I started reacting to my narc ex. Fast forward 4 years I stopped reacting again. Started seeing a therapist etc and learned to have inner peace again despite being challenged or provoked.
One night nothing happened we spent a great evening out with friends, but he became extremely angry with me suddenly as soon as we were alone outside. I stayed calm and offered to talk at home. At that point he didn't even hear me. He was too furious. Fast forward an hour and 30 min ... he almost killed me hadn't people noticed what was going on.
*Be careful, don't ignore the traits narcs are displaying. It can cost you many years of your life or worse ... your life as a whole.*
Thank you for sharing your experience with us❤️
@@PsychBuzzy Thanks for all your videos! They are very helpful ❤
Do you think you provoked his reaction in any way? Are you still with him?
Ok I have seen quite a few videos over the past few years here on TH-cam and this one right here has been the only one in which I fully agreed upon on what the gentleman was saying about all the situations between empaths and narcissistic ppl. Great job dear brother. 🙏🙏🙏
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As I started learning about super empaths, one person came to mind. He is a pastor who walked me through some difficult moments in my life. Everyone who was counseled by him knows how amazing he is. Now, watching that video, I am 100% sure he is one. He has sermons about how to deal with narcisists and knows the topic a lot. He dealt with many narcisist who wanted tryed to stab him on the back. And when we started our counseling, he acted exactly this way towards me. I would talk, he would observe, nod his had and tell me what I needed to hear. Within time, he noticed I was not only taking his exortations, but I also loved being in his office, even though he was harsh to me on ocasions. I ended up becoming close to his daughter and he is still one of my favorite pastors to talk to.
I've been a super empath all my life, I see so many body languages in people.
Iam from Somalia East Africa iam super empath and a highly sensitive man
@@ahmeddiiriye4624 that is a good thing, it means you are connected to the Universe and your Creator and mother consciousness. If you are from Somalia, I suggest using the herb Miraa to stabilize your brain enzymes, Miraa has Cathinone which balances L DOPA, the last enzyme in the brain that connects you to the universe.
@@eastafrika728 Jesus Christ is Lord of the universe, every knee will bow and all will confess Jesus is Lord😊no such thing as mother ....... whatever 😉
@@eastafrika728
I don't chew miraa or any other drugs any other logic suggestions
@@ahmeddiiriye4624 ok, we can skip buying L DOPA as a supplement. We live in a world led by people with cortex inhibition of L DOPA human conscience. The only other method is, 1. Self confidence and positive affirmations of "I am". 2. Journaling and recoding all your experiences with your environment and writing down how you can make everything that exists positive to your physical existence and positive to the existence of others. With these 2 practices you will achieve human conscience even in laboratory work and factory production of values that are relevant to you and your people.
Agreeing to everything has truly made the narc head spin. 😂 It works and you have to do it without ANY emotion behind it. They get sooooooo confused! I love it! ❤ Sorry but I got to my wits end, found my spine and now thoroughly enjoy watching them squirm with confusion! 😏😁
So True
It's so true! Just before going no contact I was becoming indifferent to all the shenanigans. This chick would literally get in my face to read my emotions. I found that odd. Then I felt her staring at me in car rides in my peripheral vision. Honestly, it creeped me out, bc I could feel her panic. About 2 weeks after I ended a 14 yr illusion of a friendship.
Covid, really brought out another side of her, she was really fearful, but wouldn't admit it. Her behavior helped me piece everything together. She's done a lot of crazy things when I really think back, but this time I couldn't ignore her anger rising, that was also new to me.
I remember when me, my best friend (him) and a mutual friend with narcissistic tendencies (her) sat in a room - he was just sitting on the computer while me and her started discussing religion and we disagreed. Suddenly she got up and said "if you don't stop talking, I leave right now!". Then we all went to the entrance door and she began dressing, turned her back directly pointing away from me, addressing my best friend: "So (name), shall WE TWO go out for breakfast tomorrow?"
A very obvious attempt at excluding me as punishment for challenging her, to which my reaction was to laugh because it was just so childish and obvious. My best friend didn't take the bait of course, and she was mad at me for months afterwards. We became friends again for a while until last summer - then she got mad because I said no to eat ice cream with her on her way to a meeting that I was not going to attend. She still ignores me after 7 months. It's fairly entertaining once you look at it from an analytical perspective and already know not to trust them.
What was the disagreement about?
@@redshift8302 She asked me about my belief (I was Christian at the time) and started casually explaining how I thought the physical existence needs an explanation, so I felt there needed to be an intelligence or anotther realm behind it all - and that was enough to get her going!
I simply explained my beliefs in a very neutral way, didn't challenge her view at all, I just stated my answer for her question - she then started to become aggressive and say that it was way too anti-scientific for her - and I simply said "well, I disagree". It wasn't a fight or anything
@@toxendon I'm more like her in religious matters and I even became rude to a friend and colleague who is a believer, in the same situation, I regretted it afterwards. As for your friend she seems quite harmless, maybe you could have accepted her offer for Ice Cream? It's only when people start by asking you a simple thing and then as you accept puts more and more demands on you that are dangerous.
@@redshift8302 It's an example of a pattern - she punishes dissent with exclusion for minor details, is my point. The reason it hasn't developed further with more demands is because I see the red flags and keep her at an arm's length. But still is friendly enough to avoid becoming a target of a smear campaign. I've known this person for over 10 years, so I can confirm she is not harmless. She struggles hard to keep friends or partners over long periods of time. The reason for my longevity is because I know who I'm dealing with.
@@redshift8302 Getting the silence treatment for over half a year because I said no (there was an explanation of course) to eat ice cream that day is not a normal reaction, and it's kinda weird to imply that me saying no is the problem.
❤ BEST ADVICE EVER.....WALK AWAY and GO NO CONTACT ❤
I just figured out at 63 years old and 32 years of marriage as a stay at home mom who raised 4 children who belittled me like their dad, that I'm an empath. I'm trying to figure out what to do now. No career, no money, just someone who tells me to quit spending money while I must create art to keep myself sane. He keeps badgering me to stop spending money. I buy stuff from thrift stores for clothing and watch where I spend money while he drives a $90,000 BMW, his second one, I drive a 8 year old Nissan which I love. He has a boat and a dock and we live in an expensive house which we could have gotten a much cheaper one. He has to have all the best but I have to watch what I buy. He says he loves me but looks at me like I'm stupid if I talk. He insists he doesn't do that, but has made me feel dumb here and there to keep me in my place. He recently told me to stop blaming him for everything. I told him ok, he was right. I am the one who is at fault.
I see it now but I don't know how to get out with no means and I am pretty crippled up from many back surgeries from all the physical labor I've done bearing and raising 4 kids while he traveled all over the world and I took care of things at home. I am beginning to get the picture that he really doesn't care about me down deep.
Good vid, thanks. Empaths understand and care how others feel. Narcissists do not care about anything and anyone but themselves, it is their downfall.
No reaction no emotion, my favourite word NO, I went through hell with a narc but now I'm wide awake I have a lot of fun with narcs now
Maybe you have awakened?
@@PsychBuzzy million percent my friend
I love the last very last point when I was in my relationship with my ex that's what I did I had to laugh out loud when I heard the very last one Thank you so much for these videos. I would just agree with no emotions. Knowing it was BS. Thank you❤️❤️❤️💯💯
Super empaths are empaths who had a narcissistic experience and survived.
You are only susceptible to a narcissist if you don't have boundaries. So my advice is to keep your guard up and their energy will find its balance in yours. Sounds easy but it's not. Trust me.
Trueee❤️❤️❤️
Amen!
@@PsychBuzzy well at least Bryan McKinney offered some other solution other than, "RUN", why all these millions of videos and comments; yet they all tackle the problem with run🏃♂️🏃♀️
@@beneiseoleinmheart5614 because it is an effective solution Rane
I give the response they expect so I can keep watching
I share a flat, with one of these people. He wanted to control every part of my life. I bluntly refused and after a few months I moved out. He continued to rage and threaten me. I eventually told him do your outright worst. Then he said he was going to "slap" me. I laughed to his face and said to him "I am stronger than you, watch what happens if you do this". The coward rans away!!
Thanks, we’re not so not knowing, thanks for acknowledgment .yeah, I had to do distance..they can shut you down. So shut them down -you’ll find happiness. You, are not a disappointment of others, even if you felt disappointment.. Have a boundary btw others disappointment and the feeling you may have of this..let them experience their own disappointment…After all they create this!
You're an empath until you realize you're the narcissist, and then you can be smart enough to be neither.
Its confusing af.
Huh?
My life right now!! Excellent comment
This is a genius comment. Took me a second to understand lol
Everyone has narcissistic traits, but also having strong empathic traits can make sure you don't walk around putting your BS on others
Tell the narcissist the truth and drives them crazy!
Thank you, I knew that is how I am handling things, but did not know if that was good. Glad to know it is.
Glad it was helpful!
Lol I always said to my ex narc I don't reward bad behavior
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT ON ALL LEVELS!!!! I naturally found this out in time its just me.
thank you
Fascinating I hate control freaks and liars thankyou 💕❤️😊
All perceptions lead to the truth. A simple twist of fête can disable their focus on themselves and inadvertently lead them back to the truth. The truth is their worst nightmare. I worship the truth as a reflection of the Almighty. And my goal is to lead them to that I worship: #Truth 💝
TRUTH IS THE WAY...
those that don't know it are the problem...
my nex literally said she would try to see what she can do next while in a family counseling session about our child.
Great video, thank you.😁
IM an empath and he's not the only abuse ive faced in life. I thought it was just because of everything ive been through that I became stronger. I now know IM not just an empath, but a super empath. IM in the process of leaving my narcissist.. I pray for a happy, healthy new life without him in it.
🙏 for me Rachael& I'll pray for you. I'm in the same process.MOF I've already left him, just struggling with the No Contact thing right now. But i know if it's Gods will, we will find closure and move on in the light and peace that Christ has already given us. God bless!
You can do it. Be strong
Very Interesting Thank You So Much. Wonderful Day. MCP
Thank you too
I confuse narcissist all the time. Thanks for these tips.
Thank you for watching the video❤️
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Give them nothing just a poker face love it 👍🏽 😂😂♥️ ♦️ ♣️
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Yes! Am around narcissist can't wait to leave.
Distance yourself
Last yr I did that to some ppl who tried to make me upset! I had to hold back my laughter!!!
Do not laugh at them☺️
Thanks 👍 great educational video for empaths
Perfect explanation! Give them nothing!
You say this as it is a good thing, while not warning people that the narcissist can emphasize their attacks. If this is in a relationship or workplace where the narc is the boss or supervisor, you will be drained of energy if you stay too long.
Remember that one time I got arrested & the rented cops referred to me as dangerous
We used to play cops and robbers, or cowboys and indians, but now the kids play narcissists and super-empaths.
Why is that?
@@PsychBuzzy Because of TH-cam, I suppose. I am only joking, of course.
Points 1-5 are Great! Thankyou for them.
The bonus point is actually not so good as that in itself, is a narc tactic. And not a healthy behavior at all. So a real healthy Godly person would refrain from that passive toxic behavior.
I do think tho that a super empath does not engage in any fight anymore with the narc once he/she has definitely recognized the other as a narc. If that is what you mean by fully agreeing then that is a different matter.
I like to think of it as “Sure, you do you. I have no issues with that.” kind of an agreement.
You do You, but
I will do, Me.
So there…..
It is draining
Contradictory and generalized info...
So accurate, especially the 1st reason (Last mention)
Thank you❤️glad you like our video
@@PsychBuzzy you’re welcome. Thank you ❤️
I never say NO and basically have no boundaries
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣you just described me when am done with a narci
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this just sounds like a person with boundaries and doesn't sound like it has anything to do with empathy
My narcissistic ex unleashed my super empath powers lol
Narcissistic Ex are the worst
My former boss is a narc…he pushes buttons to get a reaction, so no matter how ridiculous I would just be like “Ok”….he also likes to throw money at everything to get what he wants….so the last time he increased my pay I told him I didn’t want it 😂
Now I see that's why he said I'm giving him a dead face...
I love saying NO :)
Good weapon for narcs
i got manipulated n toyed by a high school narc, she spied my phone for 18 months. As I awakened to heyoka empath, n my intuition rising high >> i found out all her lies, her true intentions trying to be my close 'client/ student'.
After that I cut her off, but until yesterday she keep trying to get back, looking for my attention.. But sorry, i'm not that stupid to believe again n being toyed.
I feel sorry towards her, to waste her time (day n night, 24/7 for 18 months) watching my phone activities.. Thanks for make me realized that I'm too awesome, till deserved to be spied.. Lol ^^
That's kind of flattering in a way, if something like that happened to me, I would definitely get a very small ego boost knowing people find me so interesting, when I think I'm boring as fuck.
It’s called boundaries
Self mastery
Great!
Use to do that , now I’m pissed😡agree when they don’t stop running their evil lying mouth
OMG.lol I'm a super Empath. My ex divorced me quick cause I said no & much said here naturally to him. He couldn't stand it. Some can get dangerous tho. He stalked me after for years 😢😡 but he has finally cooled it. That poor him thing , yup
This sounds like a normal person with boundaries not a “super empath”
My CN ex-wife always complained she "couldn't read me". Most of this seems to apply, but I'm deficient in cognitive empathy (the only one narcs have), or in other words, I have to learn to read people, instead of intuiting their feelings, so I don't consider myself an empath. I have a lot of emotional empathy, and compassion though.
I totally disagree. There's no way you can be empathetic, empowered, and emotionally mature when you go about purposely ignoring other people seeking your attention because you think that they are the narcissist.
Everyone is narcissistic.
Narcissism is on a spectrum- mild, moderate, or severe.
Normal people are mildly narcissistic.
Emotional immature people are moderately narcissistic.
And NPD is severe; and can only be diagnosed by a professional therapist.
A super empath is a mindful individual who remains open minded when engaging with others- as opposed to giving them the resting bitch face (like everyone in your video).
Narcissist all have a pattern of behavior that doesn't need a diagnosis to identify them. Once you know one you know them all 😏
@@rlee2838 What?
@@nodozhit what? Who mentioned diagnosis..
@@rlee2838 Okay, I just wanted a little clarity. Dumb it down a little so I can understand-
What is the pattern of behavior that doesn't need diagnosis that you are referring to?
And will you be a little more concise and answer-
What are you referring to as once you know one of them?
And please explain how narcissists/ narcissism/ Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) are diagnosed in the real world?
And if you like, please share your own personal experience with identifying a narcissist.
I don’t think the super empath does these things on purpose. We intuitively know how to act in different situations without always knowing why.
What are the sources of this information?
To my knowledge, having studied psychology for about a decade, now, there is no clinical/peer reviewed literature that supports the existence of "super empaths", much less the idea that empathetic people are somehow the "worst nightmare" of people who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
Empaths don’t engage in manipulation. That goes against the core of who they are. We empathize-we don’t play games with emotions. A super empath is an empath that has finally realized that the creatures she’s been dealing with her entire existence. Draining her energy is a species. It’s a narcissist.
Yea, yeah
I had a friend who was empath. I stopped being her friend because I couldn't trust her. I found her to be manipulative and a covert operator. She twisted and lied about thing's. At least with a Narcissist you know what you are getting. They are obvious and blatant.
Between the two I will take a Narcissist over empath. I choose neither. I found counciling and life improvements for myself. Helping others helped me live better.
I believe we all have flaws and no one is perfect. In the end we all have to change what we can, ourselves, as for everyone else be kind to one another . Our opinions are just that, our own to have and keep to ourselves. Choose wisely who you allow into your life. Bad company corrupts good morals.
She might be a Narcissist not an Empath Gail
@@PsychBuzzy nope she knows she is messed up. Even went to school for mental health to get a better prospective on it. She is a total drama queen. She may have learned N traits.
U can't be Serious about A NARC BEING BETTER THAN EMPATH IJS
She is a covert narcissist
I respectfully disagree with avoiding. I do agree with not reacting. And eventually going no contact once you fully know that is what is going on. But we are not phycologists or drs. We are not qualified to diagnose a personality disorder. I also agree with poker face. But I don’t agree with avoiding. Often folks avoid resolving an issue the first time in order to not rock the boat. When in fact being passive and keeping things under the rug. Makes it worse in my experience. Especially if you’ve never tried to bring it up to them. A lot of these videos fail to Mention. That if they are a narc we will see repeated patterns of this behavior. I didn’t hear that here either. Especially if you’ve been in relationships for a long time and they do something that’s a red flag but have never shown it before. I would give them some slack and try and resolve it or let it go and see if they do it again. You could be assuming this about them and their character over a simple misunderstanding or two people just not getting along. This is why I disagree with taking such a drastic measure of avoidance. I would make sure first by paying attention to patterns before labeling them this way
Thank you for sharing what you think❤️
Great 🙌🏻
Yesssssss that’s ME haaaaa 😅
I know I'm already confusing her but I need more skills lol
Sometimes i laugh at the stuff my step kids father says. He is terrified of me. I'm really nice to him. Im just not pretending his fake world is true. Ignore him most of the time
This is called "grey rocking" and anyone can figure it out. I'm not an empath, I had no choice but to avoid my narc in this way. Ever wonder why we have narcs running around calling themselves empaths, spiritual teachers etc? They see videos like this and run with it.
Don’t worry the fake empathy the narcissist can only mimic (not feel) will give them away
Oh my!🤣
my narcissist is this 100 lbs chick from work , she talked to a guy around me and then discarded him when i wouldnt even care now i see her at my job shes just stares and idk tries to get my attention whatever she can get its like shes sick in the brain
Expose the slander for what it is , but accept it for Christ
Good point
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LOL, yeah when you have a family member like that, you have to just do the number 6 90% of the time.
Interesting idea 😊
I have lived with these kind of people my whole life my mother my sister my ex-husband my son even close friends and I have to ask a question is this all it is in this world for us to look at it does not matter what you do being perfect it's one of the hardest things that they can accept they will never find acceptance for someone that is willing I feel so sorry for these people and I feel sorry for the people that have to live with them I pray one day before I died that I will be able to live free of this time situation there is just no need in this stuff and I can understand why but all you really are is a spoiled brat and a bully you will never talk to respect yourself and the way that you think God willing not with the help of Someone Like You guys it is Hell getting helped if you know no one they don't even know what being a friend is anymore sad very sad I mean think about it what good are you?
Damn I’m a super empath n didn’t know it
Hello Corey❤️ good to know
Studying patterns yes leave phone in car don't want to here broken record yep the day discard I could feel it and I was sick of him. Bla bla baby narc go run to new momie
Love the *thumbnail* 🏆
Thank you❤️
Please tell me Eric Werheim was credited for the thumbnail.
Narcissist fear me
If you are a super empath, then narcs should be
@@PsychBuzzy not if but am
@@LOTStreets great! Welcome on board
@@PsychBuzzy Been an Empath since 12 years old where I can confidently recall but not quite on the this boat just yet. I'll check back again and we'll see the natural path once we cross it.
Not a great reason to feel fear. Ignore them
Ha it was the obvious thing to do .. enjoyed the confusion poker face 😀
Thanks 😊