Woman! You got the best of both world! Forget your (ex) husband, dont know if you both are still together but your past will aways remain in back of their head and use that against you. You deserve better. There will be someone out there for you but you don't have to settle. You have your kids, money, job, independent, what else you want. Love will come when you least expect it in the mean while enjoy loving your single self.
Book smart but no street smart...that's why we need both! Sis, you're an educated person, be free from that cheater. If you don't see your worth, no one else.
Tus txiv uas pheej muab yav tag los coj los hais li niag ko tsis txhob yuav zoo dua, lub neej tsis puas hnub no los yeej yuav puas tag kis, ntxov tso ces ntxov zoo xwb nawb. Yav tag los yog yav tag los yog yus twb txaus siab yuav thaum pib lawm ces txhob muab yag tag los hais2 lub neej thiaj mus taus.
Tus neeg yuav hlub koj tiag yeej tsi muab yav tag los hais rau koj, koj niag txiv yog ib niag txiv dev xwb, yuav muab piv rau koj qhov passed tsi tau, nws lub siab yeej tsi zoo, nws lub siab yeej lim hiam heev, koj twb muaj 2 tug tub rau nws lawm that is the best, yog nws tsi muaj nqis rau koj niag txiv dev lawm ces tab txawm koj yuav muaj tub muaj ntxhais los yeej tsi muaj nqis dab tsi rau koj niag txiv dev. Ntxov mus Ntxov zoo, you made the wrong choice in the beginning already. But don't feel bad about yourself, you are a great mom to your kids and been greatfull for yourself,....he doesn't deserve ❤️ your love ❤️...
Geez lady!! It is not your bad luck. It’s your indecisiveness! You’re an educated person that earned your accomplishments. Why let the old folks with their 75 mindset and a jealous dog dictate your life. If you don’t move the trash out of your life, how are you going to be able to find a good guy. He married you for your status and you married him for your ego. Not a good match.
Tus viv ncaus Doctor, tus neeg tsis hlub yus lawm ces no matter what. Nws yeej yuav tsis hlub yus nawb. Tso mus zoo dua. Koj Txawm Yog doctor los Txhob yuav koj lub moom. Txiv neej tseem muaj tus yuav hlub yau koj. Mus yuav American los haj yam zoo mog. Koj Txhob yuav Hmoob ntxiv lawm vim koj yuav tau ev qhov Teeb meem ko mus ib txhis. Yuav tus hlub koj thiab respect koj mog.
That’s hmong men excuses if you have girls they divorce if have boys they want divorce. No kids they want divorce. Why suffered of his cheating. Let him go cheater is always cheater you are very smart lady dont need that man to continue hurting you. Let him go.
Can we normalize being single and happy. You have a life where you experience love, heartbreak, sadness and lucky enough parenthood. Also you seem to have a good career. You only live once so why live a fake life underneath your parents standards.
Aw…Dont be so hurt. Forgive urself and give urself a chance again. U deserve love and respect. Dont give up just because u had been hurt in the past. Be thankful ur ex cheated on u…u filtered someone who didnt deserve u out of ur life. Ur so-called husband, he needs to grow up and stop holding ur past against you. He dont deserve u if he is torturing u due to ur past. U are a wonderful and smart young lady..eduacted too..hold urself high. ❤
Sister, you shouldn't have to put up with anyone who holds your past against you like that. I'm not even a Doctor like you and I didn't even put up. Whoever is not walking in your shoes wouldn't know how toxic and annoyed this crap is. There's reason why it was the past but if the significant other kept bring it to live then no reason for you to be with anymore. I am an ordinary person who divorced twice which I don't think was my fault cuz they both cheated on me, met a divorced guy who always rubbed in that I'm a bad woman that's why I divorced twice. I dropped him like a hot potato. If that's all he kept thinking your private part then, you should just go fix it. Nowadays, I heard women get plastic surgery wherever the desired. But, he just toxic period. No one should have to put up with these toxic relationships.
She should’ve been free from the wedding. She is the villain in this story for ruining a good man’s life that deserves better. You wouldn’t want you don brother to be with a woman like that and you know it
Ntawm kuv tus kheej kub yeej tsis ntxub cov poj niam ua tham poj niam tab si kuv lees txai tsis tau 1 yam li thiab nawb txawm yog kuv tus me nyuam kiag los kuv yeej lee txai tsis tau txawm leej twg yuav tia yus ruam yus tsis nkag siab los kuv yeej lees txai tsis tau
Leave the bargain trash when you're still younger. Don't let you turn 55-60 years old, and he missed treating you like trash again. Always remember self-love
At this point of your life.....just stay single and love your children. You have a such a great job, you have money, and you can travel anywhere you want to. Just go to Laos for young grass and come back...hahah no strings attach and live life because life is short and precious.
Lady..u are very smart and beautiful. Love yourself. Your hubby is not worth your time n energy. He is not very smart when marriage comes into love making. Putting faces in public is hard to play. Take your time until your kids are done with their education. Your kids can handle it once they are mature.
My wife made it 15min to to story and told me to change to new story. Lol😅 im listening to the whole story now i need to bless my ears😂. Yall use horse things? 😅
Lol. Sounds like he couldn't accept the fact his little brother is small. Women, as long as we exercise our sisters, peb yeej tsis piam luaj twg. Does he deserve you if he doesn't want to help you repair yourself?
I don’t get it…. So did you guys divorce or did you stay together? If you’re still with him then I don’t feel bad for you. You keep complaining about how sad you are yet you choose to stay. Stop whining and just be happy if you’re gonna stay with him.
1 tug poj niam khib xuab li koj ces kawg li koj.koj puas kam qhia koj nyob lub hoo maum twg kom tej tug poj niam zoo txhob tuaj ntsib koj.vim koj xuaj dhau.txaus ntshai.
Just go get you another hmong husband and be the first hmong lady to have a txib yau. Let's see if he can truly love you. Don't it for the hmong ladies. It won't be long before hmong women have a txib yau and even the playing field.
Sister, The mistakes you’ve made was to become a lesbian when in your heart you were only broken by your ex-bf and friend’s cheating. Not only did you break up your roommate’s relationship with her long distance relation but you also deceived her when you decided to go straight again. Sorry you live a sad live with your husband. One day when you break free from him, may you find happiness and peace.❤
Ab ca nej es twb kawm ntawv siab Ua luaj es tseem Ua zaj niag poob fwj chim Ua luaj na yuav tsum xav hai tia lawv thiab yu zoo ib yam Xwb yeej ua Tsi tau neej ib no pob zaj no ce yu Ua rau yu Xwb os txawm yu Yog niam thiab lo yeej Tu siab chim siab thiab os ho Yog tu txiv lo yeej xu siab thiab os Yog cov tsi muaj degree ma kuj tsi chim vim kev kawm tsi muaj Thij tsi paub tab ne txhua yam ce yu Ua rau yu lwj siab Xwb os zaj no na
A man who loves you would not make “mistakes” over and over again. Your ex-husband will still cheat regardless if you have a daughter or not. It’s just an excuse. Your husband needs to go. You’re a doctor, why would you put up with him? He will never forgive your past.
My only question is. Why 90% of stories Niam Ntsuab Teev told are involving highly educated people only? I know she did not make all these stories up, but the individual who sent her the story. To me, it's kinda fishy 🐟 though.
I'm sorry that u kept going back. Please choose yourself frist. Your parents are old school. His parents and him can't let go because of your title. Screw that choose urself frist
Girl, leave him! He will regret it. Divorcee he ending up with right now at his age most prob have high body count compared to you. He can't accept you due to being with 1 woman so hopefully he can accept a divorcee with high body count. His excuses just to cheat.
You got your doctor degree and book smart but ruam tshaj tus ruam. Kawm siab ua luam los ua neeg nrog koom yas xwb. Kuv yog koj tus txiv los kuv yeej xus siab thiab. Qias neeg tshaj.
Sister move on with your life. Your husband didn’t want you from the beginning already. That’s already a red flag. Not just that, he has already cheated on you. He cannot have any excuses about your past since he knew about your past and still decided to marry you. Everyone has free will and a choice! Even now under those circumstances you have free will and a choice. If you have to question on leaving, that means that you already know the answer to that question. I’m praying that you have the strength and courage to leave. There are many good men out there, we just tend to have a cycle of choosing men with the same traits of the past men we had in our lives because we need healing. Sister I recommend going to therapy as well as your kids need therapy. You and your husband cannot keep living a fake and disingenuous life. I’m praying and hoping for the best for you and your kids! ❤
@@wi_guy0838yeah and that’s sickening bc that means men will keep going younger bc they wanna be the first which also means they’re cheaters and want many. They will never be satisfied.
Sister, you're a doctor, stop tolerating someone who doesn't love you. Love yourself and do what makes u happy ❤️
Tus neeg yuav hlub yus ces txawm yus zoo li cas los nw yeej less txia tau os 😢😢
Woman! You got the best of both world! Forget your (ex) husband, dont know if you both are still together but your past will aways remain in back of their head and use that against you. You deserve better. There will be someone out there for you but you don't have to settle. You have your kids, money, job, independent, what else you want. Love will come when you least expect it in the mean while enjoy loving your single self.
Book smart but no street smart...that's why we need both!
Sis, you're an educated person, be free from that cheater. If you don't see your worth, no one else.
Maybe he jealous cuz he cannot compete with your ex gf.
Only you can say enough is enough.
Ruam tiag2 txiv neej hmoob mekas
Why continue to be with someone who doesn't value you? Your kids will always be your kids.
Tus txiv uas pheej muab yav tag los coj los hais li niag ko tsis txhob yuav zoo dua, lub neej tsis puas hnub no los yeej yuav puas tag kis, ntxov tso ces ntxov zoo xwb nawb. Yav tag los yog yav tag los yog yus twb txaus siab yuav thaum pib lawm ces txhob muab yag tag los hais2 lub neej thiaj mus taus.
Zoo kawg os😊❤
Move on tus me muam you can find someone that respect you and love you. Txhob tusiab mog.
Just remember the 3 F's and your life will be wonderful
Tus neeg yuav hlub koj tiag yeej tsi muab yav tag los hais rau koj, koj niag txiv yog ib niag txiv dev xwb, yuav muab piv rau koj qhov passed tsi tau, nws lub siab yeej tsi zoo, nws lub siab yeej lim hiam heev, koj twb muaj 2 tug tub rau nws lawm that is the best, yog nws tsi muaj nqis rau koj niag txiv dev lawm ces tab txawm koj yuav muaj tub muaj ntxhais los yeej tsi muaj nqis dab tsi rau koj niag txiv dev. Ntxov mus Ntxov zoo, you made the wrong choice in the beginning already. But don't feel bad about yourself, you are a great mom to your kids and been greatfull for yourself,....he doesn't deserve ❤️ your love ❤️...
😢😢😢❤❤
Geez lady!! It is not your bad luck. It’s your indecisiveness! You’re an educated person that earned your accomplishments. Why let the old folks with their 75 mindset and a jealous dog dictate your life. If you don’t move the trash out of your life, how are you going to be able to find a good guy. He married you for your status and you married him for your ego. Not a good match.
No matter how modern it is now, as a single woman, we should never play a wife role before marriage.
Haub yau yau yau yau cas yuav mus liam ua luaj li os.
Tus viv ncaus Doctor, tus neeg tsis hlub yus lawm ces no matter what. Nws yeej yuav tsis hlub yus nawb. Tso mus zoo dua. Koj Txawm Yog doctor los Txhob yuav koj lub moom. Txiv neej tseem muaj tus yuav hlub yau koj. Mus yuav American los haj yam zoo mog. Koj Txhob yuav Hmoob ntxiv lawm vim koj yuav tau ev qhov Teeb meem ko mus ib txhis. Yuav tus hlub koj thiab respect koj mog.
Wow ntxim hlub tshaj 😢 Nyob zoo os tu muam. We still here for you 😘
❤❤❤❤
Txhob tus siab nyob ib Lee zoo dua
That’s hmong men excuses if you have girls they divorce if have boys they want divorce. No kids they want divorce. Why suffered of his cheating. Let him go cheater is always cheater you are very smart lady dont need that man to continue hurting you. Let him go.
I am single, no children.
❤😊
He can’t compete with the $3x toys 😂
Damn i need a girl like u
Liam tiag2 no wonder😮
I know that intimacy is important but I feel like Hmong people value it more than everything else. There’s more to life than just THAT...
Agree, but these Hmoob men be sleeping around all the time but demand they marry only a virgins..wth you're double standard
Ua cas kuv tsi tau ib tu poj niam li koj xwb koj yog kuv tu tshaj kuv yuav kawg siab xwb os nawb
Can we normalize being single and happy. You have a life where you experience love, heartbreak, sadness and lucky enough parenthood. Also you seem to have a good career. You only live once so why live a fake life underneath your parents standards.
First of all, why would you even let your husband know of your past? You should’ve just kept it to yourself.
It’s the Hmong community. Everyone talks lol
Hey bro you r the luck one why u did that u are done !!!!
Learn your self worth. Period!
Ca kuv twb nyob los tsua ca kuv niam thiab txiv lawv ho g tau kuv mu kj niam lawv siab phem heev 😢😅
Cas nej cov doctor cov neej neeg yuab haib tag npaum thiab
Aw…Dont be so hurt. Forgive urself and give urself a chance again. U deserve love and respect. Dont give up just because u had been hurt in the past. Be thankful ur ex cheated on u…u filtered someone who didnt deserve u out of ur life. Ur so-called husband, he needs to grow up and stop holding ur past against you. He dont deserve u if he is torturing u due to ur past. U are a wonderful and smart young lady..eduacted too..hold urself high. ❤
This woman sounds confused 😵💫
Whatever make you happy do it for yourself it’s healthyer .
Yog zamtxim tsis tau yav tag los ces tso tseg zoo dua.
Book smart but no common sense
niam laus pab kv hais zaj neeg os
Yus tsi hlub yus tus kheej lu. Cevces kawg puas tag xwb .mos txiv neej yuav ua li cas nyiam naws
Sister, you shouldn't have to put up with anyone who holds your past against you like that. I'm not even a Doctor like you and I didn't even put up. Whoever is not walking in your shoes wouldn't know how toxic and annoyed this crap is. There's reason why it was the past but if the significant other kept bring it to live then no reason for you to be with anymore. I am an ordinary person who divorced twice which I don't think was my fault cuz they both cheated on me, met a divorced guy who always rubbed in that I'm a bad woman that's why I divorced twice. I dropped him like a hot potato. If that's all he kept thinking your private part then, you should just go fix it. Nowadays, I heard women get plastic surgery wherever the desired. But, he just toxic period. No one should have to put up with these toxic relationships.
She should’ve been free from the wedding. She is the villain in this story for ruining a good man’s life that deserves better. You wouldn’t want you don brother to be with a woman like that and you know it
Tus neeg hlub koj tiag koj tseem yuav zoo li cas los nws yeej hlub koj nws tsis muaj chaw tib koj. Tabsis tus tsis hlub koj lawm tseev koj yuav yog Doctor, lawyer los nws yeej tsis hlub koj ok.
Ntawm kuv tus kheej kub yeej tsis ntxub cov poj niam ua tham poj niam tab si kuv lees txai tsis tau 1 yam li thiab nawb txawm yog kuv tus me nyuam kiag los kuv yeej lee txai tsis tau txawm leej twg yuav tia yus ruam yus tsis nkag siab los kuv yeej lees txai tsis tau
Sister aw if kuv yog koj i stay with the woman at the first time xwb os because txiv neej siab 22 phem os
Leave the bargain trash when you're still younger. Don't let you turn 55-60 years old, and he missed treating you like trash again. Always remember self-love
You are a young educated woman. Why stay with your husband???? Don’t complain when you can just leave.
Yep ...and then they blame it on hmong culture and family saying 'ua siab ntev'
Leave him better. Don’t let him play you. He is not compatible with you. Don’t listen to OGs. They don’t understand compatibility in a marriage.
When there’s no respect in a relationship, it’s time to part ways. I hate a spouse that live in the past!
At this point of your life.....just stay single and love your children. You have a such a great job, you have money, and you can travel anywhere you want to. Just go to Laos for young grass and come back...hahah no strings attach and live life because life is short and precious.
Wow just wow....hmmm so much for commom sense. This story is so bizarre 😂
Lady..u are very smart and beautiful. Love yourself. Your hubby is not worth your time n energy. He is not very smart when marriage comes into love making. Putting faces in public is hard to play. Take your time until your kids are done with their education. Your kids can handle it once they are mature.
Wow....😮😮😮..thauj zaug ntawm kuv tau hnov poj hmoob uas txawv tiag 2 li xu xu siab...poj niam nrog poj niam....es yuav zoo tog twg tuaj, koj twb khib vim yog qhov koj mob siab uad koj tus hluas nraug muaj dua lwm tus, es thaum koj mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab es tseem yog poj niam xwb, haj yam ua rau koj tus hluas nraug xav luag...😅😅😅😅...
My wife made it 15min to to story and told me to change to new story. Lol😅 im listening to the whole story now i need to bless my ears😂. Yall use horse things? 😅
Poj Niam caij poj Niam xwb twb tsis yog txiv neej caij es koj khib ua dab tsis na txiv neej hmoob
Love yourself only. He doesn’t love you.
Wow your a doctor and don't even know how to love yourself. Best luck to you sister
Having a wife that is a doctor and loves you and 2 kids...I would be so happy and 10x My family life...imo
What a messed up story...
Lol. Sounds like he couldn't accept the fact his little brother is small.
Women, as long as we exercise our sisters, peb yeej tsis piam luaj twg. Does he deserve you if he doesn't want to help you repair yourself?
I don’t get it…. So did you guys divorce or did you stay together? If you’re still with him then I don’t feel bad for you. You keep complaining about how sad you are yet you choose to stay. Stop whining and just be happy if you’re gonna stay with him.
Exactly
Why is she the hero in your eyes? She ruin a good man’s life. She is the villain in this story. Open your eyes
Tus niam tsev, koj yeej ntse tshaj lawm, tab sis, kub xav qhia rau peb tsoom poj niam Hmoob paub meej2 tias peb cov txiv neej Hmoob lawv lub siab xav txawv peb poj niam nawb mog.
Peb xav tias, peb muab peb qhov secret qhia rau lawv yam ncaj ncees kom lawv haj yam ntseeg peb no.
Tabsis tsis yog li ntawd nawb mog.
Kuv qhia kiag rau koj tias peb txawm tau uankaun ya nraug nrog leej twg dhau los lawm los, tsis txhob muab qhia rau txiv neej kiag li nawb mog. Npog kom txog hnub peb yuag tsis txhob qhia Li nawb mog.
Boring story you’re just bragging about your little sister Jesus
Koj twb muaj degree es koj yuav nyob uv txoj kev lwj siab ko na sister aws..yus nyob yus xwb mas kaj siab tshaj plaws li os..yus nyob yus kav tsij tseg nyiaj mus vacation xwb na es koj pheej yuav tiv kev lwj siab ntawm ib niag txiv dev twb tsis hlub koj tsim koj txhua hnub hmo ua ntau ntshe koj yuav mob stroke os nawb..
No doctor, no need to come back & update us. We know u cant leave him even though he repeatedly cheated on u.
Darn Hmong man…if you forgive a person, you’ve accepted her/him past…never to repeat them again…😩!
Wow nrog koj pw 4 zaug ces kawg koj lub neb mob kub lug xwb pob hahaha yog kuv ces neb yuav mob kub lug xwb lau hahaha
Idk but I'm not feeling this story...
1 tug poj niam khib xuab li koj ces kawg li koj.koj puas kam qhia koj nyob lub hoo maum twg kom tej tug poj niam zoo txhob tuaj ntsib koj.vim koj xuaj dhau.txaus ntshai.
For you ladies. If your find your BF been sleeping with a man for years would you just settle or leave?
Cas koj hos txeeb pog Meskas uas nws muaj tug hos tuaj yeem gay. Koj ces tseem qias tshaj.
Just go get you another hmong husband and be the first hmong lady to have a txib yau. Let's see if he can truly love you. Don't it for the hmong ladies. It won't be long before hmong women have a txib yau and even the playing field.
Sister, The mistakes you’ve made was to become a lesbian when in your heart you were only broken by your ex-bf and friend’s cheating. Not only did you break up your roommate’s relationship with her long distance relation but you also deceived her when you decided to go straight again.
Sorry you live a sad live with your husband. One day when you break free from him, may you find happiness and peace.❤
Koj twb yog ib tug Doctor es tsis muaj txiv lawm los koj twb ib twm siv khoom Yas lawm ces tsis thas yuav txiv Lawm los ma me viv ncaus aw
Ab ca nej es twb kawm ntawv siab Ua luaj es tseem Ua zaj niag poob fwj chim Ua luaj na yuav tsum xav hai tia lawv thiab yu zoo ib yam Xwb yeej ua Tsi tau neej ib no pob zaj no ce yu Ua rau yu Xwb os txawm yu Yog niam thiab lo yeej Tu siab chim siab thiab os ho Yog tu txiv lo yeej xu siab thiab os Yog cov tsi muaj degree ma kuj tsi chim vim kev kawm tsi muaj Thij tsi paub tab ne txhua yam ce yu Ua rau yu lwj siab Xwb os zaj no na
Cas koj cov neej neeg lawv xa tuaj tib Co tag Dr. Master, tus no tseem Dr. thiab gay lawm. thiab.
All I hear from this woman is I'm doctor, I'm doctor, and I'm doctor.
🤦🏻♀️🤦🏼
annoying doctor forsure!
Lolz
A man who loves you would not make “mistakes” over and over again. Your ex-husband will still cheat regardless if you have a daughter or not. It’s just an excuse.
Your husband needs to go. You’re a doctor, why would you put up with him? He will never forgive your past.
Vuag hmoob dogtawj coob ua luaj ntag, lawv?
Cas ho tib co npwb npwb xwb na 😂. Tseem npwb tshaj cov 1975 lawm sub as😅
My only question is. Why 90% of stories Niam Ntsuab Teev told are involving highly educated people only? I know she did not make all these stories up, but the individual who sent her the story. To me, it's kinda fishy 🐟 though.
You guys focus too much on desire instead of concentrate on reality. Etc, your children, family parents relative and goals
I'm sorry that u kept going back. Please choose yourself frist. Your parents are old school. His parents and him can't let go because of your title. Screw that choose urself frist
Girl, leave him! He will regret it. Divorcee he ending up with right now at his age most prob have high body count compared to you. He can't accept you due to being with 1 woman so hopefully he can accept a divorcee with high body count. His excuses just to cheat.
Nej cov kawm ntawv siab22 xwb nej tsi txawj tsi tshe... vim hai tia nej muab ntshe dhau qhov ntshe lawm ces Cia li ruam lawm na..
👎👎👎🤮🤮
What so u stay again?
Hmong txojkev ruam.
WTH kind of story was this? Another girl stole your man from you, then you turn around to steal someone else's gf too?
You complete your doctor degree 😂🫵🏼🤦🏻♂️
Yai pob yai qob quab
???????
Only book smart but lack of wisdom. No matter how book smart you are if you're lack of wisdom then you're nothing.
Piav tau tsis zoo mloog li.
This story made no sense. May, I’m gonna unsubscribe from your channel. You just don’t seem to be good at this anymore
Oyo..... txhob tu siab os me ntxhais aws..... vim koj twb tsis txuag koj lub meem mom ces chim no koj tus txiv thiaj li xu2 siab rau koj los mas.
You got your doctor degree and book smart but ruam tshaj tus ruam. Kawm siab ua luam los ua neeg nrog koom yas xwb. Kuv yog koj tus txiv los kuv yeej xus siab thiab. Qias neeg tshaj.
Yet another stupid doctor story. I would have left him long time ago.
You wasted your ex girlfriend’s time. She had a boyfriend in the beginning. You played her.
By the way, a master degree is not a doctor.
I’m trying to find out how that doctor pussay be like too. If he doesn’t love you. PM me.
Too fake!
Sister move on with your life. Your husband didn’t want you from the beginning already. That’s already a red flag. Not just that, he has already cheated on you. He cannot have any excuses about your past since he knew about your past and still decided to marry you. Everyone has free will and a choice! Even now under those circumstances you have free will and a choice. If you have to question on leaving, that means that you already know the answer to that question. I’m praying that you have the strength and courage to leave. There are many good men out there, we just tend to have a cycle of choosing men with the same traits of the past men we had in our lives because we need healing. Sister I recommend going to therapy as well as your kids need therapy. You and your husband cannot keep living a fake and disingenuous life. I’m praying and hoping for the best for you and your kids! ❤
@@wi_guy0838yeah and that’s sickening bc that means men will keep going younger bc they wanna be the first which also means they’re cheaters and want many. They will never be satisfied.