Why do people always pick other people over their own children? Your children always be your #1 priority over anything. As a father or mother your job is to protect your children because they are young and still vulnerable. That is the ultimate sacrifice a parent can make for their children 😊
@ Tell me why a parent should even have to think about choosing their own children over someone else? I can see if your children are over 18 and can take care of defend themselves. But in this story, it’s a baby. This is the most crucial time when they need their parents love the most.. If your new spouse can’t even love your children what does that say about that person?
@@Nobodyxxx651 because we are not in his shoe so we will never know how hard it is. Besides he already have kids with her, should he leave those kids? I'm not saying it's right what he did but just saying that its not easy. It's the same thing with cheating and abusive relationship, why do ppl always forgive. Yes we on the outside will always say I will never tolerate that but when it happens to you, you will be blind as well.
Stop making excuses for yourself. As parents, it is your ultimate job to protect your children at all costs. No matter what the situation is. You failed your kids as a father. A wife or a husband can be replace but not your children. My heart aches and cry for your daughter.
Faj lus rau tu me sister os.. kev tu siab mob siab kuv xav tia nej saws daws nyiaj yeej mobmob nyias txauv lawm 😢😢😢vim nyias muaj nyias kes nyuaj kuv nkag siab kj txiv kv kuj nkag siab nej cov me nyuam thiab .. txhob cia lig tshaj nos naws mog.😢😢😢
It’s okay uncle. You did your best by giving her away.. don’t know why your son are mad at you. As a daughter if my step mother was torturing me and you had to give me away for a better life I wouldn’t even be mad but be happy for the decision… everything always happens for a reason..ya chill down, your not in the fathers shoes, you should never blame the father, all he did was give her a better life, a life he knew he would not be able to give her..
I agree! I don’t blame the father too much. He did what he can at that time but he has to carry that weight on his shoulder for the rest of his life because that was the route he chose for him and his daughter. It sounds selfish but she has a better life than living with him and evil step mother.
Such a sad and bittersweet story 😭 My advice for the kids and the daughter is forgive your dad...he did what he could...we all can be upset at him for not choosing his kids but we don't wear his shoes and live his hardship..no one is perfect and we all make mistakes..but it doesn't mean he didn't love his kids. Not everyone make the smartest decision when living a life under pressure. But at least he apologized and owned up to his mistakes. Take the chance when you guys still have the time...and don't wait til it's too late. May you all find peace in yourselves 😢
Agreed. He did what he thought was best at the time for his family. He needed a wife but he loved his daughter so much that he felt giving her to his ex-SIL was the best option too. He didn’t want her to suffer under his wife either.
Tus txiv ua tsi yog li os tug poj niam phem li phem twb tsi hlub yus tus me nyuam es tseem xum muab yus tu me nyuam tshem tawm xwb tus txiv dev no lim hiam
You made the right choice as a father when you married someone who loves only you and not your children. This decision doesn't mean you don't love your daughter or that you are giving her away; instead, it's to protect her from potential mistreatment by a stepmother. Choosing to marry someone like that is a difficult decision. If you prioritize your kids, your marriage may suffer. Conversely, if you favor your wife, your children might feel you have chosen the stepmother over them. In time, your daughter will understand your decision and will forgive you. May God bless you all, and have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Doesn’t matter what generation you’re in, I don’t understand how any parents could discard their children, especially at the request of someone else. You can’t compare your daughter’s love for her children to your love for her. What you did to your kids, you can’t expect or pressure them to let by gone be by gone. The lifetime trauma and damages you did to those kids are horrible.
Awd ca tu siab ua lj kv mloog ce kv quaj nrog kj cov me nyuam zoo lm os qhov lawv cov nu muag sib hlub vim kj ua g tau txiv tiag yg lawv niam nyb ntshe lawv twb g raug sib cai
Sim me neej no ua cas txiv tuag niam hlub tau niam tuag txiv hlub tsis tau siab kawg koj ua ib leeg koj tsis tiv thaiv tej me nyuam 1 tug tsis cuag 4 tug koj cov me nyuam ua ncaj ncees kawg lawv niam tuag lawv twb tsis xav ua neej es tseem raug tsim txom kuv pab koj tu siab
No matter how many excuses, bottom line, you chose the wicked stepmother over your daughter. And, you knew stepmother was wicked too, thats even more heartbreaking for your daughter.
Cov txiv neej hmoob tsi hais tiam twg, los yog tam sim no, lawv yeej ua tsi tau txiv tsev tiag qhov lawv ua tau ces yog txiv dev hmo ntuj xwb, kuv pom coob 2 tus li lawv yeej coj tib tug cwj pwm xwb, tu siab kawg li os.
Your sons and daughters don’t have to come to your aid because you were never been there for them when they really needed you and your protection from the evil stepmother…they owed you and your second wife…no heart feeling…I don’t think you deserve their love for what and your second wife did and tortured them when they were little, especially the baby daughter…sad…your wife can be replaced, but your kids can’t never be replaced…😩!
At the end, no one love you like your blood brother and sisters 😢. Thankful for the sister in law and brother in law for loving your daughter. For your kids that never forgot their baby sister.
Different time, situations n place. Making choices are hard. Your dad was making choices for himself. It's ok to either love or not love him..lub ntuj won't judge u. He already made his own bed. Plus he got his other kids from his 2nd wife..he just wanted people to feel sorry n sad for him.. LoL
Wow totally understand this story. Best advice for widowers men, don't married a single girl while u already have 3 to 4 kids. Of course the new wife not gonna love ur children. That is exactly the outcome for ur marriage. U can't blame ur wife bc she has her reason for herself.
Nej cov txiv neej ces tsuas ntshaw poj niam ob ceg xwb yeej hlub tsis tau me nyuam kiag li niam twb tuag lawm na es vim li cas koj twb yog txiv es tsis tiv thaiv cov me nyuam tseem via Luag tsim txom tej me nyuam twb yog yuav los hlub cov me nyuam ntag es tseem tsis hlub thiab ces tso mus mam yuav dua xwb!
Vim koj ntshai tsam hmo ntuj koj tsis tau niam koj thiaj tsis tiv thaiv koj tus txhais. Koj cov me nyuam zam txim tsis tau rau koj los koj tsis muaj cai tu siab rau lawv
She doesn't forgive you because you chose your new wife over her. What you should have done was divorce your new wife and keep your daughter with you....that's what a real father does!
Easier said now that we live in this modern world and not back then. How many hmong men back then would divorce their new wives and keep their kids? It's not the norm back then. It's easy to use our current circumstances and mentality now to judge decisions back then.
Only serve you right because you DID NOT protect your kids from koj tus poj niam dev! You allowed her to tortured your kids without defending them because you were afraid of loosing her more than loosing your kids! I understand you in a way but should have talk to your older kids before giving her away. It was a blessing that you gave her to her aunt.
Txiv tuag ces muaj niam hlub niam tu, Yog niam tuag ces me nyuam tau lub kua muag..nim qhuav ntxim xwb mas ntuj os teb aw..kuv yog koj pab me nyuam los kuv yeej tsis k thiab ntuj mas txawj ua ntuj tshaj hehe😅ua ntuj tsaug tshaj os..
Txiv neej CES yuav kiag Tau ib tug Niam tshiab Lawm CES ua tsis Taus txiv li ko ntag os Niam Twb tuag lawm es THIAJ mus yuav ib tug los hlub no tab sis mi nyuam tseem raug tsim txom npaum li ko CES Tsis tas mus yuav los Txiv nyob ib leeg tsis Tau li aw
Your dad did what he thought was right at that time. He did what he can and I'm sure it was hard for him to. Both parties will never for get what's done but both parties has to for give eachother . don't let one of you closed your eyes because by then it's already to late to say or hear eacother . May the good Lord be by your side and heal all of you. Forgiveness is a act of courage and kindness ! Happy Thanksgiving from my family to everyone !
I blame the sisternlaw for not letting the kids see each other too. I can see you were trying to protect your baby girl by giving her to them. But should never split siblings at all. Should of let that mean lady of yours go.
Kuv tsis nkaj siab tias yog vim li cas es nej cov txiv neej ho xaiv tus pojniam tximtom nej tus me es ho tsis xaiv tus me nas kuv mas xav kom nej zoo22 nawb yeej tsim nyog koj cov menyuam tu siab rau koj thiab thaum koj pom koj tus pojniam ua phem rau koj pab menyuam lawv yog 4 leeg koj tus pojniam yog ib leeg xwb ua cas ho tsis tso nws mus zoo dua no mas txiv neej lub siab ces yeej xaiv tus pojniam xwb menyuam yuav txomnyem siab ntsws npaum cas los xij peem ces tsam no zoo li no mas txiv neej hmoob aw!!!
It's another story of "uv os, tsam koj txiv tsis muaj pojniam nawb". What a piece of shit you are as a father. The right thing to do was kick that wicked step-mother out the door and be a father to your children. Every decision you made has consequences so you need to accept their choices just like the choice you chose when you gave away your daughter.
Your older kids resent you because you couldn’t protect them and their little sister from the evil woman. They lost their mother and you brought an evil woman home to torture them. You are right, you failed them as a father.
Txiv ces yeej xum nyoo poj niam ob ceg es cia tej me nyuam tu siab. Koj yeej ua tsi taus txiv koj hais tsi tau koj niag poj niam siab phem. Nws txawm phem npaum cas los koj pheej nyoo cia nws tsim koj cov me nyuam ces txhob tu siab. Kuv mas yog tsim kuv me nyuam mas kuv muab nws ncaws xwb yog tseem tsis nyoo ces muab tso mus xwb.
Pojniam phem li ko muab nrauj xwb moj kj ces pluag pojnm dhaus lm ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb tej mes nyuam xwb kj yg txiv kj twb tiv thaiv g yau tej mes nyuam g tsim nyog hlub kj lm os
me ntxhais aw koj kav tsij mu hlub hlub koj txiv rau źoo dua koj txiv tuag lawm mam khuav xim nawb pem thiab zoo lo yog koj txiv nawb koj ua zoo xav tia yog g muaj g koj txiv ces yeej g muag os mog es kav tsij mus hlub koj txiv nawb lo peb ua neeg nyob ces g hai leej twg li thaum kawg kev lawm ces yeej tau ua li koj txiv ua thiab os nawb es kav tsij hlub koj txiv thaum nw nyob nrog koj no nawb zoo dua nw tuag es koj mam mu quaj quaj lo nw twb g paub lawm me ntxhais aw
Heart breaking for both of them and their reasons are both right. There will always be the why but thru it all find forgiveness for urself and move past it. Theres worse endings. U cant change the past but u can change the present and future. Prayers to everyone in the family.
He saved his daughter from being tortured. Just like husband killing their wife to prevent her from being raped over 100 times by Japanese soldiers during the rape or Nanking. Does that make him an evil husband? Think about it dude
Yeej yog tim koj tus ua txiv 75% lawm thiab txawm koj cov mi nyuam tu siab rau koj los tsim nyog kawg lawm tsam no cia koj cov mi nyuam uas yug ntawm niam yau hlub koj xwb mas yawm txiv
Cov me nyuam tsim nyog yuav zam txim rau nej txiv nawb ho tus niam hluas txiv hluas es tu tus me nyuam ntawv los tsis tsim nyog yuav txwv tus ntxhais vim neb twb yog tus niam hluas txiv hluas kiag
Tus letting no ua Yog lawm. Yog nws Tao nws pojniam los nws tseem tshuav ib qhov txhaum rau tus minyuam nrog tus niamyau thiab. Koj yog tus ntxhais koj yuav tau zam txim rau koj txiv lawm xwb. Nej muab nej txiv rau txim tsis tau. Life is never fair, your dad made a good choice giving you to someone know will love you than to keep you ina miserable life with his wife. Wipe your tears and forgive your dad.
Divorce as many times as you can until you find a partner who can love your children, otherwise stay single to care for your children until they are 18 and older!
Why do people always pick other people over their own children? Your children always be your #1 priority over anything. As a father or mother your job is to protect your children because they are young and still vulnerable. That is the ultimate sacrifice a parent can make for their children 😊
Easier said then done. Just saying
@ Tell me why a parent should even have to think about choosing their own children over someone else? I can see if your children are over 18 and can take care of defend themselves. But in this story, it’s a baby. This is the most crucial time when they need their parents love the most.. If your new spouse can’t even love your children what does that say about that person?
He let her go so she wouldnt have to suffer abuse from the stepmom.
@@Nobodyxxx651 because we are not in his shoe so we will never know how hard it is. Besides he already have kids with her, should he leave those kids? I'm not saying it's right what he did but just saying that its not easy. It's the same thing with cheating and abusive relationship, why do ppl always forgive. Yes we on the outside will always say I will never tolerate that but when it happens to you, you will be blind as well.
Because he saved his daughter from being tortured. Easy for you to say cause you don’t know ship
Your kids did the right thing. You chose your wife over your kids, and now they chose each other over you. To each their own.
Agree.
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100%
Stop making excuses for yourself. As parents, it is your ultimate job to protect your children at all costs. No matter what the situation is. You failed your kids as a father. A wife or a husband can be replace but not your children. My heart aches and cry for your daughter.
I totally agree with you.
Faj lus rau tu me sister os.. kev tu siab mob siab kuv xav tia nej saws daws nyiaj yeej mobmob nyias txauv lawm 😢😢😢vim nyias muaj nyias kes nyuaj kuv nkag siab kj txiv kv kuj nkag siab nej cov me nyuam thiab .. txhob cia lig tshaj nos naws mog.😢😢😢
Those who agree with this OG are no different than him. Neeg ruam tsis muaj siab ntsws.
It’s okay uncle. You did your best by giving her away.. don’t know why your son are mad at you. As a daughter if my step mother was torturing me and you had to give me away for a better life I wouldn’t even be mad but be happy for the decision… everything always happens for a reason..ya chill down, your not in the fathers shoes, you should never blame the father, all he did was give her a better life, a life he knew he would not be able to give her..
I blame the sister n law for not letting the siblings see each other and cutting ties too.
@@dohcvtecboywhy? She has every right to not let them see baby sister again.
I agree! I don’t blame the father too much. He did what he can at that time but he has to carry that weight on his shoulder for the rest of his life because that was the route he chose for him and his daughter. It sounds selfish but she has a better life than living with him and evil step mother.
Remember he said he kept the older ones because lawv txawj2 ua teb lawm. That’s mean the kids probably suffered alot
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Such a sad and bittersweet story 😭
My advice for the kids and the daughter is forgive your dad...he did what he could...we all can be upset at him for not choosing his kids but we don't wear his shoes and live his hardship..no one is perfect and we all make mistakes..but it doesn't mean he didn't love his kids. Not everyone make the smartest decision when living a life under pressure. But at least he apologized and owned up to his mistakes. Take the chance when you guys still have the time...and don't wait til it's too late. May you all find peace in yourselves 😢
Agreed. He did what he thought was best at the time for his family. He needed a wife but he loved his daughter so much that he felt giving her to his ex-SIL was the best option too. He didn’t want her to suffer under his wife either.
Txij hnub kv hnov kv txiv qhia kv txiv lub siab txoj kev tusiab rau kv tas ces kv npaj siab hlub kv txiv kom txaus xwb os. Txhua zaj neej neeg me nyuam ntsuag ces yeej quaj tas li xwb os. 😭😭😭 Txoj kev ua ntsuag tsi muaj leej twg xav tau. 😭😭😭
Koj tus me nyuam los yeej ua yog lawm hos koj tus ua txiv los yeej ua yog lawm thiab os mog ❤😢
Tus txiv ua tsi yog li os tug poj niam phem li phem twb tsi hlub yus tus me nyuam es tseem xum muab yus tu me nyuam tshem tawm xwb tus txiv dev no lim hiam
Oh yo txiv neej ces kawg xaiv tus niam xwb yeej tsis yuav tus ntxhais ib zaug li os nej cov txiv neej nas
Yog kawg
zam txim rau koj txiv thiab mog viv ncaus aw. koj txiv los tej zaum yeej txom nyem txaus lawm thiab os
Txoj dab neeg no tu siab tshaj li hos lawv ❤❤❤
You made the right choice as a father when you married someone who loves only you and not your children. This decision doesn't mean you don't love your daughter or that you are giving her away; instead, it's to protect her from potential mistreatment by a stepmother. Choosing to marry someone like that is a difficult decision. If you prioritize your kids, your marriage may suffer. Conversely, if you favor your wife, your children might feel you have chosen the stepmother over them. In time, your daughter will understand your decision and will forgive you. May God bless you all, and have a Happy Thanksgiving!
Thaub laus aws, koj tsis txhob keb2 os. Koj nim ua cuag li nws ib leeg thiaj li muaj khoom pojniam thiab yog pojniam nyob hauv ntiaj no xwb. Koj yog txiv koj twb tsis tiv thaiv koj cov menyuam es leejtwg thiaj li yuav tivthaiv lawv na? Koj cov menyuam yeej tsim nyog tu siab rau koj lawm os. Hais ntau los yeej tsis muaj leejtwg qhuas koj li.
😢😢😢😢cas tus siab ua li o
Peb yug lawm ces yeej hlub kawg. Koj txhob tu siab rau txoj kev koj txiav txim. Koj yuav tsum zoo siab vim tias koj muab tus me nyuam tshem tawm ntawm txoj kev tsim txom . Zoo kawg li os.
Tu siab kawg nim ke noog ke poob kua muag li o 😢😢😢😂😂
Txiv neej ces kawg ntshai tsi dhau hmo li koj xwb os ib tus mi nyuam xwb xum yuav tus rshiab 😢😢😢😢
tus txiv tsev no ce tuag zoo dua vim nw xav txg nw txoj kev zoo nyob xb
Doesn’t matter what generation you’re in, I don’t understand how any parents could discard their children, especially at the request of someone else. You can’t compare your daughter’s love for her children to your love for her. What you did to your kids, you can’t expect or pressure them to let by gone be by gone. The lifetime trauma and damages you did to those kids are horrible.
Awd ca tu siab ua lj kv mloog ce kv quaj nrog kj cov me nyuam zoo lm os qhov lawv cov nu muag sib hlub vim kj ua g tau txiv tiag yg lawv niam nyb ntshe lawv twb g raug sib cai
Thaub txhob dag li ko ma, nws tsis yog qhov ua koj muab koj tus ntxhais tso mus lawm, nws yog tias cov ua nrog koj nyob koj yeej tsis pab es cia niam tshiab tsim lawv es lawv thiaj tu2 siab tsis xav hlub neb, tamsi koj tsis piav txog tej ntawv koj tsuas tias lawv tsis hlub koj vim lawv chim txog lawv tus muam xwb.
Koj hais yog tshaj plaw
Sim me neej no ua cas txiv tuag niam hlub tau niam tuag txiv hlub tsis tau siab kawg koj ua ib leeg koj tsis tiv thaiv tej me nyuam 1 tug tsis cuag 4 tug koj cov me nyuam ua ncaj ncees kawg lawv niam tuag lawv twb tsis xav ua neej es tseem raug tsim txom kuv pab koj tu siab
Ntuj os lawv kv tseem mloog ncaj thaum kv noj mov thiab mas kv yuav luag daig caj pas os cas yuav mob siab tu siab ua luaj
Từ siab heev peb cov tsis muaj niam xav muaj niam uas yug seb niam ho hlub li cas pom luaj tej muaj niam yug e mus ua neej.muaj niam noos moo 😢
Txiv neej tsis muaj noob res ces yog tus no
No matter how many excuses, bottom line, you chose the wicked stepmother over your daughter. And, you knew stepmother was wicked too, thats even more heartbreaking for your daughter.
He chose the mushroom he licked
Cov txiv neej hmoob tsi hais tiam twg, los yog tam sim no, lawv yeej ua tsi tau txiv tsev tiag qhov lawv ua tau ces yog txiv dev hmo ntuj xwb, kuv pom coob 2 tus li lawv yeej coj tib tug cwj pwm xwb, tu siab kawg li os.
Yog kawg kuv tus txiv kiag twb coj tau qia neeg li no thiab mas xyov peb cov txiv neej hmoob yeej zoo li nolo
The truth is, you can't be a good father in my eyes...😂😂😂
Stop making excuses. Blame yourself
Your sons and daughters don’t have to come to your aid because you were never been there for them when they really needed you and your protection from the evil stepmother…they owed you and your second wife…no heart feeling…I don’t think you deserve their love for what and your second wife did and tortured them when they were little, especially the baby daughter…sad…your wife can be replaced, but your kids can’t never be replaced…😩!
Txiv neej ce tsi muaj tu niam lawm ce yeej zoo li no twb ntsib lawm tu2siab li o
At the end, no one love you like your blood brother and sisters 😢. Thankful for the sister in law and brother in law for loving your daughter. For your kids that never forgot their baby sister.
Koj yeej tsim nyog tau txais txoj kev no lawm.
Kuv tau taub koj cov me nyuam txoj kev tus siab. Koj yeej tsis tiv thaiv koj cov me nyuam😢😢. Txhob muab2 txim rau me nyuam ev, vim koj twb tsis tiv thaiv koj tus ntxhais thaum nws pab tsis taunws tus kheej.
Different time, situations n place. Making choices are hard. Your dad was making choices for himself. It's ok to either love or not love him..lub ntuj won't judge u. He already made his own bed. Plus he got his other kids from his 2nd wife..he just wanted people to feel sorry n sad for him.. LoL
Wow totally understand this story. Best advice for widowers men, don't married a single girl while u already have 3 to 4 kids. Of course the new wife not gonna love ur children. That is exactly the outcome for ur marriage. U can't blame ur wife bc she has her reason for herself.
Tu siab kawg li os tab siv mus saib koj txiv thiab nawb ua ntej thaum tseem muaj txhua yam os mog tus viv ncaus.
Nej cov txiv neej ces tsuas ntshaw poj niam ob ceg xwb yeej hlub tsis tau me nyuam kiag li niam twb tuag lawm na es vim li cas koj twb yog txiv es tsis tiv thaiv cov me nyuam tseem via Luag tsim txom tej me nyuam twb yog yuav los hlub cov me nyuam ntag es tseem tsis hlub thiab ces tso mus mam yuav dua xwb!
Cas yuav tau 1 niag poj dab los ua koj tus niam tsev os Brother aw...Tu siab tshaj mog
Yawg dab ces tau poj dab mos
Tsis paub tias uas cas txiv neej es pojniam nyuam qhuav tuag tau ib, ob hlis xwb txiv neej twb mus yuav duas lwm tus pojniam los tsim txom tej me nyuam lawm. Koj xav tias tus niam hluas thiaj hlub tau koj tus ntxhais, es cas koj tsis xav tias twb tsis yog tus txiv hluas yug nws puas yuav hlub mas? Koj yug kiag koj twb hlub tsis tau. Koj twb tiv thaiv tsis tau ces txhob tus siab. Dhuav cov txiv neej tsis muaj peev xwb, ntshais tib qhov tsam poj niam tshiab tsis pub nrog pw uas kes ces thiaj cias tej menyuam raug tsim txom xwb.
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Koj cov menyuam ua yog lawm, nej cov txiv neej yeej xum xaiv neej cov poj me cab xwb haum nkau xwb.
Tu siab tshaj li os 😢😢😢
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So sad, both ways😢 I hope she comes to terms and find forgiveness for her father before it’s too late
😢lost of words. So sad glad your sons are 5x a better man than their father.
Vim koj ntshai tsam hmo ntuj koj tsis tau niam koj thiaj tsis tiv thaiv koj tus txhais. Koj cov me nyuam zam txim tsis tau rau koj los koj tsis muaj cai tu siab rau lawv
She doesn't forgive you because you chose your new wife over her. What you should have done was divorce your new wife and keep your daughter with you....that's what a real father does!
Easier said now that we live in this modern world and not back then. How many hmong men back then would divorce their new wives and keep their kids? It's not the norm back then. It's easy to use our current circumstances and mentality now to judge decisions back then.
Zam txim rau koj txiv mog txhob tu siab koj rau txiv es hlub koj txiv mog koj txhob ua li kuv vim tu siab rau txiv heev kuv tsis zam txim nws es hnub kuv txiv tuag kuv mam pom nws txoj hlub twb lig rau kuv lawm
What a sad story
Zoo kawg uas cov me nyuam txawj tu siab koj tus niam tshiab neb ces nyuam qhuav haum xwb
eb mloog tag tu siab ua luaj os
Tsis muaj leej twg paub yog tsis yog nws lub neej. Tu siab tshaj li. Vajtswv thiaj paub xwb.
Parents are not perfect. Sometimes we need to forgive in order to heal.
The power of mushrooms will cloud your mind😊
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Only serve you right because you DID NOT protect your kids from koj tus poj niam dev! You allowed her to tortured your kids without defending them because you were afraid of loosing her more than loosing your kids! I understand you in a way but should have talk to your older kids before giving her away. It was a blessing that you gave her to her aunt.
Niag txiv dev ntawm ko cov me nyuam tsis tsim nyog ua txiv hnub rau li os
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Yog koj hlub ces koj yeej tso tus pojniam phem ntawm mus. Vim koj yeej hlub tus poj niam ntawm tshaj koj cov menyaum. Rau qhov tus poj niam ntawd muaj lub pov haum rau koj hmo ntuj ces yeej muab tus ntxhais mus kom koj txhob pom tus me ntxhais raug tsim txom ntawm koj ib qhov muag xwb
Txiv tuag ces muaj niam hlub niam tu,
Yog niam tuag ces me nyuam tau lub kua muag..nim qhuav ntxim xwb mas ntuj os teb aw..kuv yog koj pab me nyuam los kuv yeej tsis k thiab ntuj mas txawj ua ntuj tshaj hehe😅ua ntuj tsaug tshaj os..
Ua tsis taus txiv, ntshai yus hmo ntev es tsis muaj peevxwm tiv thaiv yus tej menyuam. Koj yug kiag koj twb tsis yuav koj tseem xum muab rau koj tus niam hluas txiv hluas tu, hnub no koj txhob tu siab txawm lawv tsis hlub koj los koj txhob tu siab
Kj ces tuag tau lm os
Niag tsov tom laus no yeej yuav tiag tsis qi muag ntag. Nws twb lees zoo zoo tias nws tsuas ntshai tib qhov uas pw tsis dhau hmo xwb. Tsis tag li, thaum twb tuaj laus tag rau tebchaws no lawm los nws twb yeej tsis nrhiav tsis nug tus menyuam hmoo vim nws tsis xav koj nws lus niag nceb laus chim xwb.
Txiv neej CES yuav kiag Tau ib tug Niam tshiab Lawm CES ua tsis Taus txiv li ko ntag os Niam Twb tuag lawm es THIAJ mus yuav ib tug los hlub no tab sis mi nyuam tseem raug tsim txom npaum li ko CES Tsis tas mus yuav los Txiv nyob ib leeg tsis Tau li aw
Niag ntsejmuag laus no tsuas ua tau txiv thaum nws caij nrees nws niag pojniam tshiab saum plab xwb.
Most men always pick new women over their own kids 😢😢
Your dad did what he thought was right at that time. He did what he can and I'm sure it was hard for him to. Both parties will never for get what's done but both parties has to for give eachother . don't let one of you closed your eyes because by then it's already to late to say or hear eacother . May the good Lord be by your side and heal all of you. Forgiveness is a act of courage and kindness ! Happy Thanksgiving from my family to everyone !
I agreed! 😢🥺🥺🥺
She was inconvenient for his new life. Typical man.
You pick your wife over your kids bc you just worry you won't get through the night. NYUAM QHUAV NTXIM!!!
I blame the sisternlaw for not letting the kids see each other too. I can see you were trying to protect your baby girl by giving her to them. But should never split siblings at all. Should of let that mean lady of yours go.
Ho yau mob hlwb dhau lawm hlub neb ob txiv tub ib yam nkaus
Koj twb tsis hlub lawv yeej tsim nyog lawv tsis hlub koj lawm mog
Koj tus txiv tsev ua tau txiv rau cov menyuam koj cia menyuam txom nyem siab heev koj twb tsis hlub lawv koj yuav koj tus poniam xwb koj twb tsis hlub cov menyuam paub hais tias lawv tuag lawm koj tsis hlub koj cov menyuam koj tsis tiv thaiv koj cov menyuam cia muaj kev zoo kev Kaj koj yeej tsis hlub lawv hlo li koj hlub koj tus pojniam xwb os
This man is telling this story like it was the daughter's fault. Smh.
Ib leej txiv ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws kuv zoo siab kuv txiv tsi coj li koj os kuv niam tshiab ua phem rau peb kuv txiv muab peb niam tshiab ntaus kiag xwb hov
If you made a decision to protect your children from your wicked evil wife, you would not have to give your baby girl away.
Kuv tsis nkaj siab tias yog vim li cas es nej cov txiv neej ho xaiv tus pojniam tximtom nej tus me es ho tsis xaiv tus me nas kuv mas xav kom nej zoo22 nawb yeej tsim nyog koj cov menyuam tu siab rau koj thiab thaum koj pom koj tus pojniam ua phem rau koj pab menyuam lawv yog 4 leeg koj tus pojniam yog ib leeg xwb ua cas ho tsis tso nws mus zoo dua no mas txiv neej lub siab ces yeej xaiv tus pojniam xwb menyuam yuav txomnyem siab ntsws npaum cas los xij peem ces tsam no zoo li no mas txiv neej hmoob aw!!!
It's another story of "uv os, tsam koj txiv tsis muaj pojniam nawb". What a piece of shit you are as a father. The right thing to do was kick that wicked step-mother out the door and be a father to your children. Every decision you made has consequences so you need to accept their choices just like the choice you chose when you gave away your daughter.
Koj Yog ib niag txiv dev laus. Kuv xum cia koj lub nceb lim hiam tsim txom koj cov menyuam koj tsis xum tiv thaiv lawv. Qhov kev tusiab ntawd cov menyuam tsis Yog vim koj xaiv koj lub nceb ho Yog vim koj xib tim rua muag plias ntsia ntsoov koj pojniam tsim txom lawv.
Your older kids resent you because you couldn’t protect them and their little sister from the evil woman. They lost their mother and you brought an evil woman home to torture them. You are right, you failed them as a father.
Txiv ces yeej xum nyoo poj niam ob ceg es cia tej me nyuam tu siab. Koj yeej ua tsi taus txiv koj hais tsi tau koj niag poj niam siab phem. Nws txawm phem npaum cas los koj pheej nyoo cia nws tsim koj cov me nyuam ces txhob tu siab. Kuv mas yog tsim kuv me nyuam mas kuv muab nws ncaws xwb yog tseem tsis nyoo ces muab tso mus xwb.
Tu siab kawg li os .
You can always find a wife, but a child you never will again.
Cas es yuav tu siab kawg os lawv aw hlub koj tus ntxhais os lawv aw
Cov niag txivneej uas cia nws niag pojniam tshiab tsim txom nws cov menyuam ces khib nyeob dhau lawm. Cov niam tshiab uas tsim txom lwm tus menyuam ces muab coj mus hlob kav hlau kiag xwb.
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npaum li no los hmoob twb tsis txawj sib hlub kom hmoob muaj teb chaws los mas
Pojniam phem li ko muab nrauj xwb moj kj ces pluag pojnm dhaus lm ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb tej mes nyuam xwb kj yg txiv kj twb tiv thaiv g yau tej mes nyuam g tsim nyog hlub kj lm os
me ntxhais aw koj kav tsij mu hlub hlub koj txiv rau źoo dua koj txiv tuag lawm mam khuav xim nawb pem thiab zoo lo yog koj txiv nawb koj ua zoo xav tia yog g muaj g koj txiv ces yeej g muag os mog es kav tsij mus hlub koj txiv nawb lo peb ua neeg nyob ces g hai leej twg li thaum kawg kev lawm ces yeej tau ua li koj txiv ua thiab os nawb es kav tsij hlub koj txiv thaum nw nyob nrog koj no nawb zoo dua nw tuag es koj mam mu quaj quaj lo nw twb g paub lawm me ntxhais aw
Heart breaking for both of them and their reasons are both right. There will always be the why but thru it all find forgiveness for urself and move past it. Theres worse endings. U cant change the past but u can change the present and future. Prayers to everyone in the family.
You failed as a father. How can you live with yourself? Nobody can love your kids more than you.
He saved his daughter from being tortured. Just like husband killing their wife to prevent her from being raped over 100 times by Japanese soldiers during the rape or Nanking. Does that make him an evil husband? Think about it dude
Yes! Don’t have kids if you can’t protect and provide for them.
He's a dead beat dad...
Cas poj niam muaj coob os cas yuav hlub tsis tau koj tej menyuam os cas kuv yuav pab hlub ua luaj os
Yeej yog tim koj tus ua txiv 75% lawm thiab txawm koj cov mi nyuam tu siab rau koj los tsim nyog kawg lawm tsam no cia koj cov mi nyuam uas yug ntawm niam yau hlub koj xwb mas yawm txiv
Tsej muaj txiv neej dev. Koj tob pojniam qab tiab xwb.
Tu2 Sian mloog ces kuv kua muag los2
Luag tias ua tsis taus txiv ces zoo li ko tiag.
Cov me nyuam tsim nyog yuav zam txim rau nej txiv nawb ho tus niam hluas txiv hluas es tu tus me nyuam ntawv los tsis tsim nyog yuav txwv tus ntxhais vim neb twb yog tus niam hluas txiv hluas kiag
Tus letting no ua Yog lawm. Yog nws Tao nws pojniam los nws tseem tshuav ib qhov txhaum rau tus minyuam nrog tus niamyau thiab. Koj yog tus ntxhais koj yuav tau zam txim rau koj txiv lawm xwb. Nej muab nej txiv rau txim tsis tau. Life is never fair, your dad made a good choice giving you to someone know will love you than to keep you ina miserable life with his wife. Wipe your tears and forgive your dad.
It's very hard decision to let ur child go. U made the right choice at that time. Hopefully ur children can forgive u someday
me viv ncaus aw txhob tu siab thiab o tej zaum kj txiv yeej tag txoj hau kev lawm thiab o
Divorce as many times as you can until you find a partner who can love your children, otherwise stay single to care for your children until they are 18 and older!