You did the right thing by leaving him once you found out that he was married, BUT you made the biggest mistake when you got back with him after he got divorced. You put yourself in this situation, so now you have to live with it! Karma! Ruam tiag tiag!
From my 28 yrs. of experience, I was 1 out of 5 nyab that my mnl doesn’t like but could only lived with till her last breath, my advice to anyone who is going through this journey, your only way of healing from this hurt is to except that they dislike you. How they feel about you is not in your control. Be true to who you are and never let people change you or make you bitter because at the end of the day, it’s you, your husband and your kids that matters most. You don’t need to proof anything to anyone. Live life to the fullest and don’t let that drag you down.
You sound bitter from all the hate you received from your inlaws. But you should understand you were a home wrecker. Your inlaws are bitter towards you because of that. Happy that you turn their hatred into a positive thing chasing your dreams. At the end of day, learn to forgive.
LMFAO, how is she a homewrecker? She didn't know he was married....when she found out she declined and broke it off and even had an abortion. Even after his wife and they got divorced. It was way after his divorce that she finally agreed to marry him. After that, the whole in-laws tortured and bullied and mistreated her. They hated her, yet they wanted to force her to force her to bare financial responsibility towards them. The audacity of them wanting her to fork money to buried the horrible in laws. Fuk that she's not obligated to do a damn thing.
@@myprecious6751 cas ho tsis yog home wrecker naj ib tus txiv neej laus txawj txhais lus ces yeej muaj pojniam lawm xwb mas. Ntuj os teb aw! Koj tus txiv hlub koj lawm ces yeej yuav nyob tau ho koj niam pog txiv yawg nyiam koj xwb ces nyob tsis tau nrog lawv li maj.
Lady, u should’ve gotten a restraining order instead of re-dating ur cheating spouse. People will always hate the home wrecker more than the actual person who cheated in the marriage.
This lady is the villain in her own story. She refused to understand and acknowledged her wrong doings. No accountability! No doctor degree can change an evil hearted person.
I don’t get why so much hating on this lady?! It’s just not her fault it’s his fault as well!! I don’t get these women! I’m glad you got your doctor degree and show them. I’m glad you stand your ground. You go!
Is not hate! She found out he was married and stop but married him at the end so who knows if they were just lying but still continue the relationship. She becomes a doctor but still act like a little kid and very unprofessional herself.
Gosh, this lady sounds too desperate and too passionate. Why spend so much energy and effort on a family who hates you? I guess there are no more men on earth to settle on a cheater. If he's cheating on his wife with you, what did you expect people to do/say? Plus your story doesn't make you sound like an angel either. For a women with a Dr degree, it puzzles me on why you're living a vengeful life when you have plenty of choices.
Treat others the way you wanted to be treated. This lady did the right thing, it’s a lesson for everyone to learn. Marriage and divorce and affairs are just apart of life. The family should have treated this lady better if they wanted her help later.
Another Doctor story? 😂😂😂 I didn't even break a marriage, or was a mistress. I am a nkauj xwb and my mil hates me just as much as this story. But after her youngest son passed away 8 years ago she has no where to go. She lives with me only because she is still the mother of my husband. I forgive her , but i don't let her talk down to me anymore. I only do what I can and only on days I want to. Other than that she knows I don't take her bullshit like I used to. I know my mil regrets treating me like crap in the past. She knows i will only jump puddles on my good days for her.
As a son, your husband bear responsibility to bury his father and mother. Did his mom and dad pay for your $10k bride price even though they did not like you? If yes, then the least you should help them with $5k each. You prevented him from doing his responsibility for his parents, for his siblings, and his kwv tij. Seems like you could support your parents side of the family, but could never support your husband's side of the family. That 10k price that your family made them pay probably fuel the hatred too. You showed your small heart towards your husband's family to the very end. Since your husband likes you so much, your husband probably under your control. If your husband's entire side hates you, then you need to reflect on yourself.
When you're the second wife or it's your husband's second marriage, niam thiab txiv yeej tsis tsa yim tom ob os. He's on his own the second time around.
Supposedly she's a doctor..😅😅 everyone hmong is a doctor these days 😂😂😂😂..if you are so unhappy y stay Supposedly you are doctor u can leave...instead of complaining 😅😅
Wow, I understand the in-law did you wrong but it doesn’t mean you can act that why to them too. Maybe you aren’t that good after all that’s why you never win their family heart. You should be thankful that is they don’t act and dislike you, would you push yourself that hard to chase your dreams. If she apologized and you didn’t even think about forgiven her, sorry lady they know you are such cold heart woman that’s why they didn’t like you. Sorry I’m a daughter as well and understand they’re not the best but keep in mind that no one is perfect but after all, she’s the person who gave birth to the person you love.
I went through similar hate and unacceptance from my in-law side of the family. I help my husband lay both of them to rest. And it’s how their disrespect for you husband that rolls onto you too. For example, if they respect their son, and truly love him, no matter what you are, they should try from the beginning to keep things neutral. All us ladies want is to build a good home with our husband, but when he fails to represent, stand up and keep the peace by loving and protecting - then he has to make a choice his toxic family or you. It was time for you to cut ties a long time ago. And pretty soon all Hmong will be split up like the other race or people that live here, we all become too educated, too rich and too stubborn to continue the old ways. Good luck to you sister!
Everyone is so quick to blame this lady, but love is love. She did the right thing in the beginning and he got divorced on his own. Parents need to understand that their child’s marriage is not their marriage. So the way they valued their first daughter-in-law was dumb because she’s not gonna be the one who is burying you. They spent so much time hating this lady yet in the end they needed her. I would’ve done the same thing as her. You don’t get to use me if you have no love or respect for me. That’s not the way things work.
Screw that. I'm in favor of her. :) you do you lady. They hate on you, that's on them. You don't want any part of that negativity, that's on you. Self love.
You had become bitter and selfish like your bitterness so you are exactly like those whom you hated. 😂 u didn't see that by harsh bitter words of your own story. A good person always finds forgiveness even if they can't forget.
Why do they hate and mistreated u badly? Well first off, you were the other woman that their son cheated on their dil with, whether u known or not that he was married. Secondly, you and ur fam demand them to pay 10k for u which they shouldnt bc u went back into the relationship willingly. Its already bad blood to start out with thats why. However, u mention being the bigger person no matter how bad they are but yet, youre not doing what u said. U dont even try to understand why they hate u. U focus only on what they did to u. Smh. All of yall are dumb being petty and hating each other over 10k. Even after they died, your hatred still linger. Im pretty sure even in death, theirs still linger too. Your sil and them tries to understand your pain and even try to get close to u but u shut them out so i guess u were never the bigger person to start out with. And where the hell is ur husband in all of this. Seem as if you wear the pants...pathetic, no wonder. Anywho, these doctor stories are the most depressed and most dramatic. Stick to your HSD people!!
I believe there is another side to this story. If this story is true; remember you are a home wrecker. If the whole family is bitter against you, then you must have done something very wrong. If you are truly an MD, you are not very intelligent and not very considerate. From your story, you are not an angel either. When your in-laws passed on, you may not be financially responsible, but your husband is. For you to say you are only giving a cow is absurd and inhuman. I am a doctor myself, when my FIL passed, I told my husband to do what he needs to as a son. If you need to record your husband’s conversation, makes me wonder.🤔
Tus me niam hluas kuv twb rau koj nkawm khau thiab raug koj tus kab mob siab uas yus tus txiv tsev neeg tsim yus tab kuv li mas haj yam tu siab vim kuv tus txiv kawd tsev neeg nim claim tias lawd yog Christian thiab wb tus jwv yau wb yog pastor nyob twin city tab sus kawd mas evil tsaj koj tseem ntse ws tsis tau faus cov niag evil IL hos kuv ces rseem haj poob nyiaj ntau tshaj faus los cov kwv nrog cov muam sawd daws tseem ntxub kuv txog niaj hnub nim no Not just you and me but so many of us walking on your shoes fill your pains I applause for you cause you stronger than I do👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Tus nyab no mas yog tus nyab poj dab tiag tiag li nawb. Yog koj ntshaw lawv tus tub npaum li koj mas koj niam pog lawv muaj meeting ces pab kiag 2 phuv kom lawv pom koj qhov zoo mas koj thiaj li yog neeg zoo os. Yog koj coj li koj xwb ces koj yog tus poj dab phem tshaj plaws li os.
Wow! So many haters hating on this lady. He lied to her and she broke off the relationship. Some of you don’t even know what a home wrecker is but yet accusing someone of it. Home wrecker is knowingly intended to pursue a relationship with a married man. She gave them so many chances but all those hateful names they gave her are just awful. The way they treated her was awful as they didn’t even try to get to know her or give her a chance. A Doctor is human and has feelings like the rest of you. Being educated does not mean you should let your education roll you down like a red carpet for those people to trample on you.
Peb ua neej ua neeg nyob no ces nyias yeej huas nyias cai xwb koj yuav hais koj sab niam pog los nws yuav hais nws sab thiab xwb tos li peb tsis muaj qhov sib haum li yog yus zoo zoo tiag ces lawv ua rau yus xwb twb txaus lawm tab sis yus tias yus zoo zoo tab sis yus hos tseem ua phem tshaj lawv lawm thiab no ces seb tus phem hos yog leej twg lawm xwb lau txhua txhua txoj dab neeg es tsuas hais tias niam doctor txiv doctor tab sis real life no twb tsis Pom muaj that many Hmong doctors Tu’s niam doctor no yeej phem txaus thiab
Ib tug student hais tias tsis paub tus teacher aid tsis muaj poj niam no mas dag loj dhau lawm. Koj yeej xav2 yuav tus txiv no thiab. Koj yeej txhaum nrog rau koj tus txiv thiab. Niam pog txiv yawg los phim koj thiab mas.
Why is every story here is a nyab doctor but these nyab doctor are heartless and have no shame. I don’t feel bad for you because you also did the same to them. At least your husband is on your side no matter how bad his family treated you but remember that without your parents in law, you don’t have that husband.
She did good. They hated her and never excepted her so they deserve everything that's coming to them. You as parents are suppose to love and support your son and whoever he chooses to have a union with. I think his parents f%# up on this. Way da lady, you done good.
You're an MD! If I were you, I would agreed to pay for the entire funeral. My husband's family treated me similarly but under different circumstances, but I paid for my Mother-in-law's and my husband's 3X divorced older brother's funeral completely. I did not let money issues be a burden to outside relatives. I didn't do for anyone but for my duties. Of course, his remaining siblings continued to be distant from us. Just know, if the seed of hatred was planted long ago, it will remained. They will never love or accept you, but it is you who will have to accept and be fine with it, for their love and acceptance is of no importance to you.
Cov nyab xab maim niam no yog niam pog txiv yawg tsis hlub tsis support there is nothing to do with niam pog and txiv yawg. Let it be their karma. Also relatives have nothing to do with it because they never understand tus nyab emotional wounds. They don’t have the right to tell her and force her to do what is wrong to make it right for cov niam pog and txiv yawg that they never loved, kind, and respect tu nyab. She deserved to be love as a human being. If people criticize her actions is wrong how about niam pog txiv yawg actions toward her? Are they treated her right ? I totally agree with her decision. Even though people think that she is a bad nyab and not being fair for her in-law.
Kuv yog ib tus tsis tau txais kev hlub los ntawm niam pog thiab os....kuv tus niam pog nyuam qhuav xiam tau 3 lub hli no xwb cas kuv cia li tsis nco qab tawv li koj na....kuv ib leeg yog nws tus nyab xwb kuv Cia li mag take care NWS LUB NTEES OS SISTER aw.....
11:22 I knew it... for the past two years all your characters are master degree and doctor degree... May, its either you like to make up these characters or they just uneducated to come and tell fantasies
At a school i worked at has MA programs and i have noticed many of the MA students were not of MA qualities. Some looked like they were off the streets. I've seen their writings and omg, i had higher expectations. I even know someone who has Masters degree just bc she did the work and passed the classes, but she is no way smart at the level one would expect a Masters graduate would be, but what do i know. I don't have a Masters degree. Lol. Just bc someone has a degree doesn't mean they're smart. Their brain just able to retain a lot of information. And many times it's just doing the assignments and passing the classes to get the degree only. I would have pursued for my doctorate too if my brain could retain a lot of information, but i ruined it thinking about boys in my younger days.
Always two sides of the story. Tim koj lawv tus tub lub neej thiaj puas, lawv tej xeeb ntxwv thiaj ua ntsuag ciaj, yeej tsim nyog lawv ntxub koj lawm mas. Koj twb tsis pom koj kev txhaum li thiab as.
No matter what happens or how life started, we should have forgiveness to the people wrong us. And I don’t understand why everyone in your husband’s family hates you. Something is not right.
I don't believe in these highly educated stories. I'm not saying that I don't have any degrees either, I do have a few. And why are these highly educated people's parents' funerals cost so much? I have been doing Thawj Xyom Cuab, Cuab Tsav, Kav Xwm, and Txiv qeej. I've not seen a funeral cost over 50k over 30 years. However, as a Mej Koob, which I've been doing it over 20 years, I did see one wedding that cost over 50k, though. Nqi mis nqi hno still 5k, but the cost of the wedding itself. To all the audiences believes what you see and not what you hear. But you do have the right to believe in everything if that is your nature.
Before anyone criticized someone you have to put yourself in her shoes first I'm sure you won't be any different from her so people don't be haters that's why we hmong go no where
You did wrong too. Your husband family disliked you but you married your husband and you could have done something for them too for your husband sake because he stood by your side anyways. Your family disliked you but they were able to come up with $10k to marry you as you wish too.
Sorry you went through a lot but Koj yog tus kawm ntawv siab koj yuav tsum xav dav duab koj li in law's and be the bigger person to forgive. You give them a reason to dislike you because of your bitter and harden heart.
Peb ua neeg nyob yog leejtwg tsi tau raug ces tsi paub nawb.luag tsev neeg ntxub yus cuag dab kev hlub kev pab tsi pom thaum tuag kom yus nrg cov lawv hlub2 equal mas chim siab tshaj tsi xav yuav lawv nim tub kiag li ntag nawb.
Koj lam kawm tiav koj qhov haujlwm xwb koj kawm tsi ntse kiag li. Ib tus neeg muaj kev kawm thiab ntse tsi coj li koj coj. Tus neeg zoo yuav tsum muaj kev zam txim thaum lawv tsev neeg twb Los lees kev txhaum lawm. You may not forget what they’ve done to you but you can forgive them. Ua cuag koj yuav tsi txawj tuag li.
Txhob tusiab lawv qhia kom yu txawj ua neej thiab txawj ua ib tug niam pog zoo xwb os. Kuv los yeej tsis noj thiab vim there's no trust of relationships between the two people.
Tsis yog niam pog txiv yawg ntxub koj xwb, txhua leej neeg yeej ntxub cov poj dab li koj uas rham luag tej cov txiv. Koj yeej yog dag tiag, koj daim doctor degree yog dab muab xwb. Doctor degree hloov tsis tau lub siab dab.
Mloog koj cov lus mas yog tag niam pog txiv yawg, tej muam, tej tij laug niam, kwv, niam ntxawm nrog rau tsoom kwv tij es koj tiav koj daim doctor degree es tsis kam muaj txog ib tug tuaj koom koj lub rooj mov txhawb siab uas koj niam koj txiv ua rau koj mas ntshe koj yeej phem2 ti txha nkaus thiab. Xav mas koj los yeej tsis clean 100% thiab. Twb tag doctor degree es yuav tsum paub txog kev zam txim thiab es tsis txhob coj nqaim 2 li koj ko. You to work on your part too.
You did the right thing by leaving him once you found out that he was married, BUT you made the biggest mistake when you got back with him after he got divorced. You put yourself in this situation, so now you have to live with it! Karma! Ruam tiag tiag!
From my 28 yrs. of experience, I was 1 out of 5 nyab that my mnl doesn’t like but could only lived with till her last breath, my advice to anyone who is going through this journey, your only way of healing from this hurt is to except that they dislike you. How they feel about you is not in your control. Be true to who you are and never let people change you or make you bitter because at the end of the day, it’s you, your husband and your kids that matters most. You don’t need to proof anything to anyone. Live life to the fullest and don’t let that drag you down.
Niam hluas aw!!!! Kuv niam pog txiv yawg twb tsi nyiam kuv hlub kuv thiab o tab sis yus yuav tau ua zoo yus thiaj tau zoo mog yus lim hiam ces yus phem nkaus niam pog thiab o nawb nco ntsoov tias lawv yog niam yog txiv nawb
You sound bitter from all the hate you received from your inlaws. But you should understand you were a home wrecker. Your inlaws are bitter towards you because of that. Happy that you turn their hatred into a positive thing chasing your dreams. At the end of day, learn to forgive.
I agree, both sides were at fault. Everyone needs to learn to forgive and move on.
LMFAO, how is she a homewrecker? She didn't know he was married....when she found out she declined and broke it off and even had an abortion. Even after his wife and they got divorced. It was way after his divorce that she finally agreed to marry him.
After that, the whole in-laws tortured and bullied and mistreated her. They hated her, yet they wanted to force her to force her to bare financial responsibility towards them. The audacity of them wanting her to fork money to buried the horrible in laws.
Fuk that she's not obligated to do a damn thing.
Totally agreed @@myprecious6751
@@myprecious6751agreed. Homewreckers open their eyes wide to ruin lives.
@@myprecious6751 cas ho tsis yog home wrecker naj ib tus txiv neej laus txawj txhais lus ces yeej muaj pojniam lawm xwb mas. Ntuj os teb aw! Koj tus txiv hlub koj lawm ces yeej yuav nyob tau ho koj niam pog txiv yawg nyiam koj xwb ces nyob tsis tau nrog lawv li maj.
Lady, u should’ve gotten a restraining order instead of re-dating ur cheating spouse. People will always hate the home wrecker more than the actual person who cheated in the marriage.
This lady is the villain in her own story. She refused to understand and acknowledged her wrong doings. No accountability! No doctor degree can change an evil hearted person.
So true, I agreed. If she’s a good person than she wouldn’t hold grudges to her in law. They do not have any knowledge but what they learn.
So easy for ya do judge her. I'm sure if you were in her shoe you act the same.
I applaud her!! 👏
I don’t get why so much hating on this lady?! It’s just not her fault it’s his fault as well!! I don’t get these women! I’m glad you got your doctor degree and show them. I’m glad you stand your ground. You go!
Is not hate! She found out he was married and stop but married him at the end so who knows if they were just lying but still continue the relationship. She becomes a doctor but still act like a little kid and very unprofessional herself.
Koj ua yog thiab ho tsis yog thiab. Ua ib tug neeg yuav tsum txawj zam txim rau tus ua phem rau yus thiaj yog neeg zoo.
Thiab nws twb kawm tag Doctor na. Cas nws lub siab tsis zoo lis as
Yog tsaj tus nyab no tsis dhuas li nawb
Gosh, this lady sounds too desperate and too passionate. Why spend so much energy and effort on a family who hates you? I guess there are no more men on earth to settle on a cheater. If he's cheating on his wife with you, what did you expect people to do/say? Plus your story doesn't make you sound like an angel either. For a women with a Dr degree, it puzzles me on why you're living a vengeful life when you have plenty of choices.
I like this lady! Stand your ground. Show then all your bitterness!
Treat others the way you wanted to be treated. This lady did the right thing, it’s a lesson for everyone to learn. Marriage and divorce and affairs are just apart of life. The family should have treated this lady better if they wanted her help later.
@@nouslee1638 yog ib tus neeg nws ua li lub siab phem xwb ces tsis need pab ib tsam tseem yuav mag nws muab koj thas lais thiab os…
Wow! So proud of you, niamluas!! 👏 I know how you feel! I was in your shoe, so i know the pain you went through! Hugs, sis! ❤❤
Another Doctor story? 😂😂😂
I didn't even break a marriage, or was a mistress. I am a nkauj xwb and my mil hates me just as much as this story. But after her youngest son passed away 8 years ago she has no where to go. She lives with me only because she is still the mother of my husband. I forgive her , but i don't let her talk down to me anymore. I only do what I can and only on days I want to. Other than that she knows I don't take her bullshit like I used to. I know my mil regrets treating me like crap in the past. She knows i will only jump puddles on my good days for her.
As a son, your husband bear responsibility to bury his father and mother. Did his mom and dad pay for your $10k bride price even though they did not like you? If yes, then the least you should help them with $5k each. You prevented him from doing his responsibility for his parents, for his siblings, and his kwv tij. Seems like you could support your parents side of the family, but could never support your husband's side of the family. That 10k price that your family made them pay probably fuel the hatred too. You showed your small heart towards your husband's family to the very end. Since your husband likes you so much, your husband probably under your control. If your husband's entire side hates you, then you need to reflect on yourself.
she does not owe them anything. she loves them the way they loved her. you're not in her shoes, you don't know.
When you're the second wife or it's your husband's second marriage, niam thiab txiv yeej tsis tsa yim tom ob os. He's on his own the second time around.
You are a Dr.
But you act like a uneducated person
Remember revenge is not an answer
It's just May, all her stories are doctor degree and master degree
It's seemingly not quite sure, unknown, and looks like easy getting highly educated.
😂 doctor degree only for showoff.
This is a make up story only.
The dead are dead. Let it go. You hold yourself too high.
Supposedly she's a doctor..😅😅 everyone hmong is a doctor these days 😂😂😂😂..if you are so unhappy y stay Supposedly you are doctor u can leave...instead of complaining 😅😅
Wow, I understand the in-law did you wrong but it doesn’t mean you can act that why to them too. Maybe you aren’t that good after all that’s why you never win their family heart. You should be thankful that is they don’t act and dislike you, would you push yourself that hard to chase your dreams. If she apologized and you didn’t even think about forgiven her, sorry lady they know you are such cold heart woman that’s why they didn’t like you. Sorry I’m a daughter as well and understand they’re not the best but keep in mind that no one is perfect but after all, she’s the person who gave birth to the person you love.
You do the right thing sister, I'm been through like you too, I know how hurt when they treat you like you not human.
Great job! I'm proud for you!
Dang. What a sad story. But ok to your decision. May you learn how to heal
I went through similar hate and unacceptance from my in-law side of the family. I help my husband lay both of them to rest. And it’s how their disrespect for you husband that rolls onto you too. For example, if they respect their son, and truly love him, no matter what you are, they should try from the beginning to keep things neutral. All us ladies want is to build a good home with our husband, but when he fails to represent, stand up and keep the peace by loving and protecting - then he has to make a choice his toxic family or you. It was time for you to cut ties a long time ago.
And pretty soon all Hmong will be split up like the other race or people that live here, we all become too educated, too rich and too stubborn to continue the old ways. Good luck to you sister!
Everyone is so quick to blame this lady, but love is love. She did the right thing in the beginning and he got divorced on his own. Parents need to understand that their child’s marriage is not their marriage. So the way they valued their first daughter-in-law was dumb because she’s not gonna be the one who is burying you. They spent so much time hating this lady yet in the end they needed her. I would’ve done the same thing as her. You don’t get to use me if you have no love or respect for me. That’s not the way things work.
Screw that. I'm in favor of her. :) you do you lady. They hate on you, that's on them. You don't want any part of that negativity, that's on you. Self love.
You had become bitter and selfish like your bitterness so you are exactly like those whom you hated. 😂 u didn't see that by harsh bitter words of your own story.
A good person always finds forgiveness even if they can't forget.
Kuv mloog mas sister koj yeej phem txaus nkaus thiab neeg ntse yeej phem niam txiv thov hlub cov ruam thiab nawv thiaj Muaj neeg tha yus nawv👎👎
Agree
You're not innocent. You have an affair with a married man. You ask to pay 10g, no punie worth that much, and it's free ...
Why do they hate and mistreated u badly? Well first off, you were the other woman that their son cheated on their dil with, whether u known or not that he was married. Secondly, you and ur fam demand them to pay 10k for u which they shouldnt bc u went back into the relationship willingly. Its already bad blood to start out with thats why. However, u mention being the bigger person no matter how bad they are but yet, youre not doing what u said. U dont even try to understand why they hate u. U focus only on what they did to u. Smh. All of yall are dumb being petty and hating each other over 10k.
Even after they died, your hatred still linger. Im pretty sure even in death, theirs still linger too. Your sil and them tries to understand your pain and even try to get close to u but u shut them out so i guess u were never the bigger person to start out with. And where the hell is ur husband in all of this. Seem as if you wear the pants...pathetic, no wonder.
Anywho, these doctor stories are the most depressed and most dramatic. Stick to your HSD people!!
I believe there is another side to this story. If this story is true; remember you are a home wrecker. If the whole family is bitter against you, then you must
have done something very wrong. If you are truly an MD, you are not very intelligent and not very considerate.
From your story, you are not an angel either. When your in-laws passed on, you may not be financially responsible, but your husband is. For you to say you are only giving a cow is absurd and inhuman.
I am a doctor myself, when my FIL passed, I told my husband to do what he needs to as a son. If you need to record your husband’s conversation, makes me wonder.🤔
AMEN to misspotatohead!!! You are 1000% correct!!
Tus me niam hluas kuv twb rau koj nkawm khau thiab raug koj tus kab mob siab uas yus tus txiv tsev neeg tsim yus tab kuv li mas haj yam tu siab vim kuv tus txiv kawd tsev neeg nim claim tias lawd yog Christian thiab wb tus jwv yau wb yog pastor nyob twin city tab sus kawd mas evil tsaj koj tseem ntse ws tsis tau faus cov niag evil IL hos kuv ces rseem haj poob nyiaj ntau tshaj faus los cov kwv nrog cov muam sawd daws tseem ntxub kuv txog niaj hnub nim no
Not just you and me but so many of us walking on your shoes fill your pains
I applause for you cause you stronger than I do👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Tsis yog lawv phem xwb nawb kuv xav os koj los phem phim lawv thiab nej phem sib xws ntag nawb
Lawv phem lm ces yg ua tau kav tsij ua li ntawv ntag thiaj sib phim lawv
Koj phem kawg li os kuv mloog na yog kuv muaj ib tug nyab phem li koj ntse kuv yuav tu siab heev li lau
Tus nyab no mas yog tus nyab poj dab tiag tiag li nawb. Yog koj ntshaw lawv tus tub npaum li koj mas koj niam pog lawv muaj meeting ces pab kiag 2 phuv kom lawv pom koj qhov zoo mas koj thiaj li yog neeg zoo os. Yog koj coj li koj xwb ces koj yog tus poj dab phem tshaj plaws li os.
Wow! So many haters hating on this lady. He lied to her and she broke off the relationship. Some of you don’t even know what a home wrecker is but yet accusing someone of it. Home wrecker is knowingly intended to pursue a relationship with a married man. She gave them so many chances but all those hateful names they gave her are just awful. The way they treated her was awful as they didn’t even try to get to know her or give her a chance. A Doctor is human and has feelings like the rest of you. Being educated does not mean you should let your education roll you down like a red carpet for those people to trample on you.
Another Maumdev story
You go girl!
This lady is so dramatic. No wonder her in laws dislike her. SMH
Forgiveness is so difficult. I hope someday you can heal and forgive his family for your own sake.
Wow.. good for you, lady Dr. We are only human. We deserve to be loved.
Kawm tas Dr los ntawm txoj kev rhuav tshem lwm tus lub neej xwb ces quav dev xwb os nawb. Tsis feel bad qhov lawv ntxub koj li os.
Peb ua neej ua neeg nyob no ces nyias yeej huas nyias cai xwb koj yuav hais koj sab niam pog los nws yuav hais nws sab thiab xwb tos li peb tsis muaj qhov sib haum li yog yus zoo zoo tiag ces lawv ua rau yus xwb twb txaus lawm tab sis yus tias yus zoo zoo tab sis yus hos tseem ua phem tshaj lawv lawm thiab no ces seb tus phem hos yog leej twg lawm xwb lau txhua txhua txoj dab neeg es tsuas hais tias niam doctor txiv doctor tab sis real life no twb tsis Pom muaj that many Hmong doctors Tu’s niam doctor no yeej phem txaus thiab
@@maixiong3062 ua li ntawd es puas tsim nyog muab daim doctor degree los lo rau ntawm hauj pliaj ned.
Don’t matter the title, it’s how you carry your true self. You can be an MD but not all MDs are good. Revenge can interminable a cycle of suffering.
คนเรียนสูงใจต้องสูงตามด้วยครับ คนดีจริงต้องรู้จักการให้อภัย ทำดีใจเราถึงจะมีความสูขแท้จริง การเอาชนะด้วยการแก้แค้นมันทำให้คุณมีความทุกข์ไปตลอดชีวิต
Ib tug student hais tias tsis paub tus teacher aid tsis muaj poj niam no mas dag loj dhau lawm. Koj yeej xav2 yuav tus txiv no thiab. Koj yeej txhaum nrog rau koj tus txiv thiab. Niam pog txiv yawg los phim koj thiab mas.
Txoj kev no mas leej twg taug thiaj nkag siab txoj kev tu siab thiab txoj kev mob os. Kuv los kuj yog ib tug taug txoj kev no ib yam nkaus yus txom txom nyem thiab yus tsis kawm ntawv siab li luag ces luag muab yus tsuj nthi hauv kaw taw thiab lawv tsis vam txog yus lawv tsuas tau qhov coj yus mus cem mus thuam rau kwv tij xwb. Tab sis thaum muaj tus tuag lawm mas mam li pom yus ho txawj vam yus tab sis thaum ntawv txawm kuv los kuv tsis nrog leej twg tuaj dab tsi li nawb. Txoj kev mob tseem mob tshaj tus tuag lawm thiab niag tuag mas xam tias tuag kiag lawm yus ces yuav ciaj los ciaj tsis taus yuav tuag los tuag tsis taus nawb mog.
Good for you. You’ve stood your ground and don’t let anyone push you around.
Tu tu siab kaws li o
Why is every story here is a nyab doctor but these nyab doctor are heartless and have no shame. I don’t feel bad for you because you also did the same to them. At least your husband is on your side no matter how bad his family treated you but remember that without your parents in law, you don’t have that husband.
Koj kuj yog ib tug nyab heev txau thiab laiv
2005 just come to USA and was only 16, hard to believe you have achieve a Dr. Degree by 2018 but if it's true congratulation.
Everyone in Hmong stories are beautiful, handsome AND have doctor degrees of some sort and are always the victims.
If you continue to hold grudge it will only make your life miserable.
You did right
Tus mi nyab no lawv tsim nws uas nws pauj tau txoj kev tsim txom thiab ntag laiv , kuv thov tuaj tus nyab tog nawj haj haj
Cas hmoob doctors in stories yuav coob ua luaj cas thaum peb mus hospital es tsis pom doctors hmoob kiag li ne😆
Nej twb mu tsi ncaj lawv ne
When they see us… they turn away!😂😂😂
Nyia qhua nyia zoo xwb os.pog no yeej phem txau thiab
You claimed to be a doctor and this is how you act, really? Didn’t your in-laws paid $10K for you even if they dislike you. Wow……unbelievable.
She did good. They hated her and never excepted her so they deserve everything that's coming to them. You as parents are suppose to love and support your son and whoever he chooses to have a union with. I think his parents f%# up on this. Way da lady, you done good.
Yog kawg os..qhov koj ua li ntawd los twb yog lawm qhia koj ua xwb..
You're an MD! If I were you, I would agreed to pay for the entire funeral. My husband's family treated me similarly but under different circumstances, but I paid for my Mother-in-law's and my husband's 3X divorced older brother's funeral completely. I did not let money issues be a burden to outside relatives. I didn't do for anyone but for my duties. Of course, his remaining siblings continued to be distant from us. Just know, if the seed of hatred was planted long ago, it will remained. They will never love or accept you, but it is you who will have to accept and be fine with it, for their love and acceptance is of no importance to you.
Ua tau yog
Cov nyab xab maim niam no yog niam pog txiv yawg tsis hlub tsis support there is nothing to do with niam pog and txiv yawg. Let it be their karma. Also relatives have nothing to do with it because they never understand tus nyab emotional wounds. They don’t have the right to tell her and force her to do what is wrong to make it right for cov niam pog and txiv yawg that they never loved, kind, and respect tu nyab. She deserved to be love as a human being. If people criticize her actions is wrong how about niam pog txiv yawg actions toward her? Are they treated her right ? I totally agree with her decision. Even though people think that she is a bad nyab and not being fair for her in-law.
Kuv yog ib tus tsis tau txais kev hlub los ntawm niam pog thiab os....kuv tus niam pog nyuam qhuav xiam tau 3 lub hli no xwb cas kuv cia li tsis nco qab tawv li koj na....kuv ib leeg yog nws tus nyab xwb kuv Cia li mag take care NWS LUB NTEES OS SISTER aw.....
Pieace of paper doesn't mean anything. Home-wrecker ces yeej tsis vammeej no matter what your social status.
Why is there sooo many stories with doctors?
11:22 I knew it... for the past two years all your characters are master degree and doctor degree... May, its either you like to make up these characters or they just uneducated to come and tell fantasies
At a school i worked at has MA programs and i have noticed many of the MA students were not of MA qualities. Some looked like they were off the streets. I've seen their writings and omg, i had higher expectations. I even know someone who has Masters degree just bc she did the work and passed the classes, but she is no way smart at the level one would expect a Masters graduate would be, but what do i know. I don't have a Masters degree. Lol. Just bc someone has a degree doesn't mean they're smart. Their brain just able to retain a lot of information. And many times it's just doing the assignments and passing the classes to get the degree only. I would have pursued for my doctorate too if my brain could retain a lot of information, but i ruined it thinking about boys in my younger days.
e cas kV lub neej zoo li nej cov neej neeg no heev li tiag ❤
Omg… the more you kept the hate and pains… the more pains in your heart.. just forgive and move on so you can be free….
The mistress victimized herself 😂
Your grudge is ridiculous. Get over it. They’re all dead already.
Kuv hwj koj txoj kev txawm ntse
Tiam sis koj los yeej tsis pauv tsis Ntxiv cov neeg tsis muaj kev kawm
Koj yuav ua lub neeg twj cuab tsis muaj kwv muaj tij .
Yog yus yog tus neeg zoo thiab muaj kev kawm yus yuav tau muaj kev zam txim
Tim lawv ua ntej rau nw lm ne kv g qhuav cov niam pog li no
yeej tim yus ua txhaum thaum pib lawm
Always two sides of the story. Tim koj lawv tus tub lub neej thiaj puas, lawv tej xeeb ntxwv thiaj ua ntsuag ciaj, yeej tsim nyog lawv ntxub koj lawm mas. Koj twb tsis pom koj kev txhaum li thiab as.
I’m proud of you lady. You stood your ground. We all deserve love and respect
Damn, alot of bitterness and hatred. At the end, she just straight up said her mil and fil went down to hell. 😬
yog koj paub kev zam txim ces ntshe koj twb muaj kev kaj siab lawm o
Yog kawg. Thiab ua cas hos rov mus yuav ib tus cheater nawb? Tus poj niam no yeej tsis zoo thiab os.
You do you sis, only u understand ur pain.
muab mloog los yeej tu siab tab sis koj ho muab tawv dhau tsis muaj kev zam txim
Sometime becoming a righteousness person is to forgive regardless of your status.
Phem sib xws nyab los yeej tsis zoo Niam Pog los yeej Ib yam
yos hias li ces yos kuv los kuv yeej ntxub koj thiab a
Ua ib tus nyab lawm yeej tutu siab qhov lawv g hlub os tab si yuav Tsum muaj txoj kev zam txim yog thaum lawv twb paub lawv kev txhaum lawm
No matter what happens or how life started, we should have forgiveness to the people wrong us. And I don’t understand why everyone in your husband’s family hates you. Something is not right.
You should forgive..people make mistakes.
What goes up must come down what you toss will bounce back so forgive forget because you all are family. Good luck to you all.
I don't believe in these highly educated stories. I'm not saying that I don't have any degrees either, I do have a few. And why are these highly educated people's parents' funerals cost so much? I have been doing Thawj Xyom Cuab, Cuab Tsav, Kav Xwm, and Txiv qeej. I've not seen a funeral cost over 50k over 30 years. However, as a Mej Koob, which I've been doing it over 20 years, I did see one wedding that cost over 50k, though. Nqi mis nqi hno still 5k, but the cost of the wedding itself. To all the audiences believes what you see and not what you hear. But you do have the right to believe in everything if that is your nature.
Before anyone criticized someone you have to put yourself in her shoes first I'm sure you won't be any different from her so people don't be haters that's why we hmong go no where
Txiv yawg niam pog phem li no koj ua yog lawm kuv pom zoo heev nawj tus muam koj tsis khaum tsis npam hlo li
Ua npaum no lawm ces kawg npam tus nyab no pheem tiag2 yog kv ces nrauj lawm
Tub viv ncaus koj cov lus tsi muaj tseeb yog koj zoo npaum ko lawv phem xwb cais tsi muaj teeb meem li.
Love them as they love you. They don't love you, you don't love them. We are all human. As in-laws, they are not always right
You did wrong too.
Your husband family disliked you but you married your husband and you could have done something for them too for your husband sake because he stood by your side anyways.
Your family disliked you but they were able to come up with $10k to marry you as you wish too.
Sorry you went through a lot but Koj yog tus kawm ntawv siab koj yuav tsum xav dav duab koj li in law's and be the bigger person to forgive. You give them a reason to dislike you because of your bitter and harden heart.
Ntuj aw hmoob meskas nim muaj2 kev kawm no ne cas ho phem ua luaj thiab os txim ntxub tshaj plaws li os
Peb ua neeg nyob yog leejtwg tsi tau raug ces tsi paub nawb.luag tsev neeg ntxub yus cuag dab kev hlub kev pab tsi pom thaum tuag kom yus nrg cov lawv hlub2 equal mas chim siab tshaj tsi xav yuav lawv nim tub kiag li ntag nawb.
Koj lam kawm tiav koj qhov haujlwm xwb koj kawm tsi ntse kiag li. Ib tus neeg muaj kev kawm thiab ntse tsi coj li koj coj. Tus neeg zoo yuav tsum muaj kev zam txim thaum lawv tsev neeg twb Los lees kev txhaum lawm. You may not forget what they’ve done to you but you can forgive them. Ua cuag koj yuav tsi txawj tuag li.
Phem ib yam!
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Txhob tusiab lawv qhia kom yu txawj ua neej thiab txawj ua ib tug niam pog zoo xwb os.
Kuv los yeej tsis noj thiab vim there's no trust of relationships between the two people.
Tsis yog niam pog txiv yawg ntxub koj xwb, txhua leej neeg yeej ntxub cov poj dab li koj uas rham luag tej cov txiv. Koj yeej yog dag tiag, koj daim doctor degree yog dab muab xwb. Doctor degree hloov tsis tau lub siab dab.
Mloog koj cov lus mas yog tag niam pog txiv yawg, tej muam, tej tij laug niam, kwv, niam ntxawm nrog rau tsoom kwv tij es koj tiav koj daim doctor degree es tsis kam muaj txog ib tug tuaj koom koj lub rooj mov txhawb siab uas koj niam koj txiv ua rau koj mas ntshe koj yeej phem2 ti txha nkaus thiab. Xav mas koj los yeej tsis clean 100% thiab. Twb tag doctor degree es yuav tsum paub txog kev zam txim thiab es tsis txhob coj nqaim 2 li koj ko. You to work on your part too.
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